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March 25, 2025

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The following program is
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The following program is sponsored by cbn today a groom
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Sponsored by cbn today a groom gets cold feet as soon as the
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Gets cold feet as soon as the ceremony ends i said out loud i
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Ceremony ends i said out loud i just made the biggest mistake
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Just made the biggest mistake of my life and the honeymoon is
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Of my life and the honeymoon is over before it begins.
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Over before it begins. >> the constant thought in my
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>> the constant thought in my head was how do i end this?
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Head was how do i end this? why his wife refused to give
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Why his wife refused to give up.
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Up. this faith grows up in fight
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This faith grows up in fight and how his confession saved
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And how his confession saved their marriage.
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Their marriage. >> i just blurted it out.
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>> i just blurted it out. i said i've been addicted to
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I said i've been addicted to porn for 23 years and today's
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Porn for 23 years and today's 7:00 o'clock well welcome to
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7:00 o'clock well welcome to the 700 club and thanks so much
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The 700 club and thanks so much for joining with us.
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For joining with us. every once in a while a
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Every once in a while a news story goes across and i
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News story goes across and i look at it and go you've got to
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Look at it and go you've got to be kidding me.
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Be kidding me. the uproar over a major
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The uproar over a major security breach is rocking.
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Security breach is rocking. top administration officials
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Top administration officials discussed a military operation
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Discussed a military operation on an unsecured group chat that
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On an unsecured group chat that included a reporter while the
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Included a reporter while the chat revealed details the
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Chat revealed details the bombing operation against the
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Bombing operation against the houthis in yemen days before it
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Houthis in yemen days before it took place.
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Took place. senior washington correspondent
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Senior washington correspondent terror emerging there has more.
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Terror emerging there has more. >> white house said vice
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>> white house said vice president j.d. vance and key
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President j.d. vance and key members of president trump's
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Members of president trump's national security team
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National security team discussed those highly
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Discussed those highly sensitive military plans
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Sensitive military plans through the messaging app
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Through the messaging app signal.
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Signal. >> also on that thread a
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>> also on that thread a jeffrey goldberg, an editor at
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Jeffrey goldberg, an editor at the atlantic wrote monday that
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The atlantic wrote monday that he was mistakenly added to the
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He was mistakenly added to the text on the commercial
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Text on the commercial messaging app by michael waltz
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Messaging app by michael waltz the national security adviser
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The national security adviser allowing him to follow the
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Allowing him to follow the conversation in the two days
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Conversation in the two days leading up to the strikes in
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Leading up to the strikes in yemen at 11:44 a.m. i receive a
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Yemen at 11:44 a.m. i receive a text in this chain from someone
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Text in this chain from someone who claims to be pete hegseth
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Who claims to be pete hegseth who provides what i would only
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Who provides what i would only call it i can only call a war
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Call it i can only call a war plan.
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Plan. >>.
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>>. i sort of just sort of wait
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I sort of just sort of wait with my phone to see if this is
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With my phone to see if this is a real thing.
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A real thing. >> sure enough, at around 150
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>> sure enough, at around 150 eastern time i see that yemen
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Eastern time i see that yemen is under attack.
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Is under attack. >> a spokesman for the white
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>> a spokesman for the white house security council said the
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House security council said the threat appears to be authentic
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Threat appears to be authentic .
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. >> officials are reviewing the
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>> officials are reviewing the matter.
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Matter. nobody was war plans and that's
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Nobody was war plans and that's all i have to say about that.
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All i have to say about that. >> the text chain included vp
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>> the text chain included vp vance, defense secretary pete
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Vance, defense secretary pete hegseth, secretary of state
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Hegseth, secretary of state marco rubio, cia director john
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Marco rubio, cia director john and director of national
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And director of national intelligence tulsi gabbard.
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Intelligence tulsi gabbard. the text included an exchange
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The text included an exchange between vice president vance
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Between vice president vance and said vance criticizing the
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And said vance criticizing the attacks because he felt it it
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Attacks because he felt it it sent the wrong signal to europe
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Sent the wrong signal to europe who he believes should be
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Who he believes should be picking up up more of the
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Picking up up more of the military burden.
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Military burden. haig said backed the plan but
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Haig said backed the plan but disgust over what he called
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Disgust over what he called european freeloading.
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European freeloading. goldberg withheld some
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Goldberg withheld some screenshots in his reporting
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Screenshots in his reporting saying they could further risk
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Saying they could further risk national security and that
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National security and that hegseth shared details of
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Hegseth shared details of forthcoming strikes, weapons
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Forthcoming strikes, weapons deployments and attack
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Deployments and attack sequencing.
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Sequencing. >> i'm not going to
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>> i'm not going to characterize what happened
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Characterize what happened clearly.
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Clearly. i think the administration has
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I think the administration has acknowledged it was a mistake
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Acknowledged it was a mistake and they'll tighten up up and
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And they'll tighten up up and make sure it doesn't happen
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Make sure it doesn't happen again.
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Again. >> while some lawmakers are
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>> while some lawmakers are calling for a full investigate
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Calling for a full investigate option, others questioned the
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Option, others questioned the significance of the breach.
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Significance of the breach. >> this gross negligence on
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>> this gross negligence on steroids.
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Steroids. do they realize that russia and
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Do they realize that russia and china have targeted signal to
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China have targeted signal to try to break in.
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Try to break in. >> somebody made and that
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>> somebody made and that happens.
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Happens. >> president trump denied any
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>> president trump denied any knowledge of the incident
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Knowledge of the incident suggesting the attack was still
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Suggesting the attack was still successful.
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Successful. >> well, couldn't have been
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>> well, couldn't have been very effective because the
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Very effective because the attack was very effective.
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Attack was very effective. i can tell you you that i don't
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I can tell you you that i don't know anything about it yet.
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Know anything about it yet. you're telling me about it for
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You're telling me about it for the first time this morning
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The first time this morning calls reportedly are growing
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Calls reportedly are growing for mike waltz to be forced out
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For mike waltz to be forced out later today national
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Later today national intelligence director tulsi
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Intelligence director tulsi gabbard and cia director john
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Gabbard and cia director john ratcliffe can expect tough
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Ratcliffe can expect tough questions in a hearing before
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Questions in a hearing before the senate committee in
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The senate committee in washington.
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Washington. terror merger.
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Terror merger. cbn news.
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Cbn news. >> well, it is.
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>> well, it is. you've got to be kidding me.
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You've got to be kidding me. why would national security
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Why would national security officials of the defense
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Officials of the defense department be using a
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Department be using a commercial room to to do this?
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Commercial room to to do this? they have to recognize that
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They have to recognize that every government has targeted
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Every government has targeted whether it's whatsapp or, you
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Whether it's whatsapp or, you know, all the other secure
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Know, all the other secure messaging systems they've all
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Messaging systems they've all tried to crack down so that
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Tried to crack down so that they can track what their own
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They can track what their own citizens on the internet and to
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Citizens on the internet and to somehow these kinds of
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Somehow these kinds of conversations.
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Conversations. it just is mind boggling.
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It just is mind boggling. why in the world doesn't our
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Why in the world doesn't our own pentagon have its own
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Own pentagon have its own secure messaging app and keep
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Secure messaging app and keep it keep that off the grid and
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It keep that off the grid and have and end encryption just
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Have and end encryption just just wonder what in the world
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Just wonder what in the world are we doing?
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Are we doing? >> well, in other news, the
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>> well, in other news, the trump administration is taking
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Trump administration is taking a new direction battle with a
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A new direction battle with a federal judge over the
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Federal judge over the deportation of venezuelan
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Deportation of venezuelan nationals.
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Nationals. john jessup has more on that
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John jessup has more on that story from our cbn barrow in
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Story from our cbn barrow in washington.
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Washington. >> john that's right.
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>> john that's right. >> gordon president trump is
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>> gordon president trump is invoking a state secret
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Invoking a state secret privilege and refusing to
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Privilege and refusing to provide any additional
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Provide any additional information to the d.c.
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Information to the d.c. district court judge.
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District court judge. meanwhile a three member
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Meanwhile a three member appeals court heard arguments
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Appeals court heard arguments monday in in a high profile
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Monday in in a high profile case.
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Case. national security correspondent
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National security correspondent caitlin burke has the latest.
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Caitlin burke has the latest. >> citing the alien enemies act
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>> citing the alien enemies act an 18th century wartime law the
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An 18th century wartime law the trump administration recently
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Trump administration recently deported hundreds of alleged
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Deported hundreds of alleged venezuelan gang members to el
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Venezuelan gang members to el salvador as the planes made the
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Salvador as the planes made the trip a federal judge ruled
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Trip a federal judge ruled against the move.
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Against the move. still the administration
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Still the administration continued on with deportations
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Continued on with deportations up this latest showdown.
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Up this latest showdown. >> what we did what was by the
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>> what we did what was by the trump administration was it was
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Trump administration was it was exactly in accordance with
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Exactly in accordance with federal law again enacted by
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Federal law again enacted by and signed by president.
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And signed by president. we're not making this up.
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We're not making this up. we're enforcing the laws are on
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We're enforcing the laws are on the books.
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The books. >> judge james boasberg ruled
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>> judge james boasberg ruled the venezuelans deserved a
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The venezuelans deserved a court hearing their
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Court hearing their deportations to determine
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Deportations to determine whether they belong to the
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Whether they belong to the violent trendier rogue wave
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Violent trendier rogue wave gang.
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Gang. he's warned the trump
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He's warned the trump administration of consequences
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Administration of consequences if evidence shows officials
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If evidence shows officials deliberately disobeyed his
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Deliberately disobeyed his order.
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Order. trump and certain cabinet
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Trump and certain cabinet members now ramping up attacks
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Members now ramping up attacks calling for judge boasberg to
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Calling for judge boasberg to be impeached or disbarred.
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Be impeached or disbarred. this an out of control judge a
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This an out of control judge a federal judge trying to control
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Federal judge trying to control our entire foreign and he
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Our entire foreign and he cannot do it.
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Cannot do it. >> the trump administration
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>> the trump administration wants boasberg order reversed.
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Wants boasberg order reversed. the three appellate judges
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The three appellate judges seemed divided after monday's
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Seemed divided after monday's hearing with one appearing open
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Hearing with one appearing open to the administration's.
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To the administration's. another remaining silent and a
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Another remaining silent and a third says alleged nazis in the
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Third says alleged nazis in the u.s. during world war two were
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U.s. during world war two were treated better than the
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Treated better than the venezuelan immigrants.
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Venezuelan immigrants. >> people weren't given notice.
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>> people weren't given notice. they weren't told where they
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They weren't told where they were going.
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Were going. those people on those planes
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Those people on those planes that saturday had no
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That saturday had no opportunity to file habeas or
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Opportunity to file habeas or any type of action to challenge
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Any type of action to challenge the removal they a judgment
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The removal they a judgment will be issued in the coming
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Will be issued in the coming days.
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Days. but bondy believes supreme
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But bondy believes supreme court will likely get the case
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Court will likely get the case the alien enemies act applies
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The alien enemies act applies today.
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Today. really more than ever you know
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Really more than ever you know all is often the best law if
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All is often the best law if you think about the laws that
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You think about the laws that have been on the books for a
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Have been on the books for a very long time.
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Very long time. we are in modern day warfare.
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We are in modern day warfare. they have invaded our country
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They have invaded our country today de agua.
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Today de agua. they are organized.
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They are organized. they have a command structure.
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They have a command structure. they are sending money to each
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They are sending money to each other through out the country
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Other through out the country and out of the country back
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And out of the country back support their terrorist
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Support their terrorist actions.
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Actions. the trump administration plans
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The trump administration plans to continue people as this
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To continue people as this plays out in court and dhs
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Plays out in court and dhs secretary kristi noem is
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Secretary kristi noem is scheduled to visit central
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Scheduled to visit central america this week including el
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America this week including el salvador prison housing those
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Salvador prison housing those venezuelan migrants.
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Venezuelan migrants. >> we're going to to keep
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>> we're going to to keep targeting the worst for the
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Targeting the worst for the worse which we've been doing
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Worse which we've been doing since one and deported from
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Since one and deported from united states to the various
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United states to the various laws on the books.
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Laws on the books. >> trump also announced a 25%
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>> trump also announced a 25% tariff on any country that
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Tariff on any country that purchases oil and or gas from
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Purchases oil and or gas from venezuela and then pursues
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Venezuela and then pursues trade with the united states.
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Trade with the united states. writing on truth social the
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Writing on truth social the president says this is in
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President says this is in response to purposefully
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Response to purposefully sending trendy arugula gang
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Sending trendy arugula gang members to us.
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Members to us. >> caitlin burke, cbn news,
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>> caitlin burke, cbn news, washington.
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Washington. thank you caitlin.
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Thank you caitlin. the supreme court heard
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The supreme court heard arguments yesterday over a
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Arguments yesterday over a louisiana voting rights case
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Louisiana voting rights case that could national
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That could national implications.
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Implications. it deals with how states use
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It deals with how states use race to determine congressional
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Race to determine congressional maps after the 2020 census.
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Maps after the 2020 census. state left louisiana with just
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State left louisiana with just one majority african-american
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One majority african-american district even though about a
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District even though about a third of the state's population
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Third of the state's population is black.
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Is black. civil rights groups sued and
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Civil rights groups sued and gained a second majority black
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Gained a second majority black district that a counter lawsuit
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District that a counter lawsuit claiming race was a main
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Claiming race was a main determination in how districts
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Determination in how districts were drawn.
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Were drawn. an appeals court agreed leaving
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An appeals court agreed leaving for the state to seek the
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For the state to seek the supreme court for its opinion.
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Supreme court for its opinion. >> we'd rather not be caught
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>> we'd rather not be caught between two parties with
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Between two parties with diametrically opposed visions
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Diametrically opposed visions of what our map should look
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Of what our map should look like.
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Like. but this has become life as
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But this has become life as usual for the states under this
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Usual for the states under this court's voting cases and our
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Court's voting cases and our question today is how do we get
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Question today is how do we get out of this predicament?
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Out of this predicament? >> well, waiting for the
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>> well, waiting for the justices to hear the case the
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Justices to hear the case the newly drawn map with two blank
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Newly drawn map with two blank districts remained in place for
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Districts remained in place for the 2024 election sending two
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The 2024 election sending two african-american louisiana
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African-american louisiana representatives to washington
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Representatives to washington for the first time in nearly
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For the first time in nearly three decades.
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Three decades. well, now to the war.
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Well, now to the war. houthi rebels in yemen fired
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Houthi rebels in yemen fired another missile yesterday.
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Another missile yesterday. while in gaza, hamas released
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While in gaza, hamas released another hostage video all as
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Another hostage video all as the idf continues to hunt down
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The idf continues to hunt down the the terror group's leaders.
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The the terror group's leaders. cbn's chris mitchell reports
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Cbn's chris mitchell reports from jerusalem.
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From jerusalem. >> sirens wail throughout south
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>> sirens wail throughout south and central israel as another
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And central israel as another houthi missile sent people into
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Houthi missile sent people into bomb shelters.
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Bomb shelters. >> israel successfully
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>> israel successfully intercepted the missile to stop
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Intercepted the missile to stop those missiles.
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Those missiles. >> the u.s. is continuing its
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>> the u.s. is continuing its campaign to eliminate the
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Campaign to eliminate the threat by the houthis against.
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Threat by the houthis against. and global shipping in the red
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And global shipping in the red sea.
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Sea. the u.s. says houthi leader has
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The u.s. says houthi leader has been eliminated in gaza
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Been eliminated in gaza israel's ground operation is
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Israel's ground operation is widening.
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Widening. the idf also eliminated a major
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The idf also eliminated a major hamas leader.
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Hamas leader. israel also destroyed more than
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Israel also destroyed more than 100 white pickup trucks
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100 white pickup trucks throughout gaza.
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Throughout gaza. terrorists used those trucks
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Terrorists used those trucks and their massacre on october
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And their massacre on october seventh.
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Seventh. in the uk a joint commission of
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In the uk a joint commission of british parliamentarians
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British parliamentarians released a landmark report
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Released a landmark report about october 7th.
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About october 7th. it concluded the atrocities by
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It concluded the atrocities by hamas and allied groups on
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Hamas and allied groups on seven october marked a day of
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Seven october marked a day of unprecedented violence.
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Unprecedented violence. there are numerous accounts of
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There are numerous accounts of deliberate killings, hostage
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Deliberate killings, hostage abuse, sexual violence and
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Abuse, sexual violence and desecration of both the living
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Desecration of both the living and the dead.
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And the dead. the goal behind that report to
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The goal behind that report to combat denial of what happened
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Combat denial of what happened on october 7th just like some
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On october 7th just like some people deny the holocaust.
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People deny the holocaust. during a stalemate in hostage
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During a stalemate in hostage negotiations hamas released
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Negotiations hamas released another propaganda video.
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Another propaganda video. it shows two israelis pleading
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It shows two israelis pleading with another hostage who was
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With another hostage who was freed to to speak out about how
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Freed to to speak out about how hard the conditions are in
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Hard the conditions are in captivity.
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Captivity. u.s. envoy steve whitcomb says
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U.s. envoy steve whitcomb says he blames hamas for the
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He blames hamas for the collapse of the hostage talks.
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Collapse of the hostage talks. israeli foreign ansari says
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Israeli foreign ansari says there is a way the war can and
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There is a way the war can and immediately the war can end.
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Immediately the war can end. >> tomorrow with releasing the
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>> tomorrow with releasing the hostages demilitarization of
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Hostages demilitarization of gaza and the withdrawal of the
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Gaza and the withdrawal of the armed and islamic forces from
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Armed and islamic forces from there.
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There. >> war is not an ideology.
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>> war is not an ideology. we would happy and we will be
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We would happy and we will be happy to achieve aims by
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Happy to achieve aims by diplomatic means.
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Diplomatic means. but if that is possible we have
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But if that is possible we have no choice.
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No choice. but continuing our military
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But continuing our military efforts.
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Efforts. >> israeli media is reporting.
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>> israeli media is reporting. strategic affairs minister ron
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Strategic affairs minister ron dermer will lead a delegation
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Dermer will lead a delegation washington in the coming days.
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Washington in the coming days. he will urge the trump
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He will urge the trump administration to set a
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Administration to set a timetable on president trump's
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Timetable on president trump's maximum economic pressure
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Maximum economic pressure campaign on iran to end its
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Campaign on iran to end its nuclear weapons program.
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Nuclear weapons program. israel expects once an agreed
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Israel expects once an agreed time period expires alternative
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Time period expires alternative decisions would be made.
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Decisions would be made. a military strike on iran's
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A military strike on iran's nuclear facilities.
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Nuclear facilities. chris mitchell, cbn news,
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Chris mitchell, cbn news, jerusalem.
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Jerusalem. >> all right, thank you, chris
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>> all right, thank you, chris gordon.
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Gordon. back over to you.
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Back over to you. well, these are certainly
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Well, these are certainly interesting days and that sort
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Interesting days and that sort of know chinese proverb some
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Of know chinese proverb some call it a curse, some it
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Call it a curse, some it something wonderful.
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Something wonderful. you know, may you live in
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You know, may you live in interesting times.
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Interesting times. we certainly are.
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We certainly are. and whether you look at ukraine
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And whether you look at ukraine and the reframing of that war
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And the reframing of that war and the escalation russia at
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And the escalation russia at the same time they're telling
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The same time they're telling our administration our were
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Our administration our were ready for peace.
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Ready for peace. we want to sit down for peace
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We want to sit down for peace talks but then go and attack
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Talks but then go and attack the capital of ukraine.
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The capital of ukraine. it just you know, you what in
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It just you know, you what in the world is going on here you
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The world is going on here you have the hutus there firing
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Have the hutus there firing missiles at our ally israel.
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Missiles at our ally israel. they're also firing against our
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They're also firing against our own naval ships.
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Own naval ships. but then you hear and if this
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But then you hear and if this chat gate messages accurate
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Chat gate messages accurate you're hearing our own vice
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You're hearing our own vice president say we shouldn't do
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President say we shouldn't do it because we're bailing out
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It because we're bailing out europe and europe depends more
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Europe and europe depends more on the suez canal than we do.
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On the suez canal than we do. if they want to keep that open
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If they want to keep that open need to, you know, pay their
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Need to, you know, pay their fair share of the military
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Fair share of the military burden.
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Burden. but in both cases the real
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But in both cases the real things that are happening on
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Things that are happening on the ground and you literally
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The ground and you literally can't as citizens are being
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Can't as citizens are being killed in ukraine you can't try
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Killed in ukraine you can't try to justify the russian invasion
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To justify the russian invasion the same time as the hoodies
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The same time as the hoodies are firing against our own
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Are firing against our own vessels.
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Vessels. it is high time for us to
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It is high time for us to respond.
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Respond. i do applaud the president for
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I do applaud the president for taking a tough stand here.
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Taking a tough stand here. he definitely has overruled his
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He definitely has overruled his vice president.
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Vice president. no, we're we're going the
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No, we're we're going the hoodies.
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Hoodies. we're going after all the
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We're going after all the proxies of iran and.
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Proxies of iran and. we're also going after iran.
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We're also going after iran. let's name the the reality on
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Let's name the the reality on the ground for what it is.
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The ground for what it is. iran is the sponsor of
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Iran is the sponsor of terrorism state sponsor of
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Terrorism state sponsor of terrorism in the world and
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Terrorism in the world and let's hold them for these
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Let's hold them for these horrible attacks against israel
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Horrible attacks against israel .
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. the threats they have against
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The threats they have against us, against europe and let's
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Us, against europe and let's say no and the world today you
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Say no and the world today you don't get to have a nuclear
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Don't get to have a nuclear weapon.
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Weapon. you don't get to be sponsor of
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You don't get to be sponsor of terrorism and get away with it.
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Terrorism and get away with it. you don't to shut down
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You don't to shut down shipping.
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Shipping. you don't get to do these
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You don't get to do these things and you don't get to
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Things and you don't get to hold israel hostage by
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Hold israel hostage by threatening them with nuclear
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Threatening them with nuclear war.
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War. this won't on our watch and we
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This won't on our watch and we need to make sure that everyone
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Need to make sure that everyone the administration and everyone
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The administration and everyone in congress, our resolve that
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In congress, our resolve that we stand with israel, we stand
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We stand with israel, we stand against iran, we stand against
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Against iran, we stand against qatar and its funding of hamas.
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Qatar and its funding of hamas. these things should not happen
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These things should not happen under our watch.
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Under our watch. >> all right.
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>> all right. well coming up the border that
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Well coming up the border that became a ghost town.
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Became a ghost town. israelis there fled from a
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Israelis there fled from a daily barrage of rocket
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Daily barrage of rocket attacks.
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Attacks. see why they are now returning
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See why they are now returning home and how they're
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Home and how they're rebuilding.
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Rebuilding. and then also ahead after the
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And then also ahead after the wedding this groom said out
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Wedding this groom said out i've made the biggest mistake
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I've made the biggest mistake of my life.
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Of my life. find he said that and what
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Find he said that and what happened next?
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Happened next? that's later on today's 700
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That's later on today's 700 club.
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Call 552634826 to schedule a visit and why we are the only
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Visit and why we are the only primary care provider to carry
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Primary care provider to carry the aarp name tomorrow.
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The aarp name tomorrow. >> an insider's look at the
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>> an insider's look at the season five it'll be the most
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Season five it'll be the most beautiful most complex, most
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Beautiful most complex, most intense season we've ever done
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Intense season we've ever done from.
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From. >> jesus.
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>> jesus. you don't have to play jesus on
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You don't have to play jesus on tv to beg jesus, to the world,
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Tv to beg jesus, to the world, to judas.
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To judas. the cast and crew set.
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The cast and crew set. >> the table for the last
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>> the table for the last supper.
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Supper. steamroller bulldozer a melee
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Steamroller bulldozer a melee of emotions and conflicts
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Of emotions and conflicts tomorrow.
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Tomorrow. >> stay connected with cbn all
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Day across our platforms. for more than a year hezbollah
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For more than a year hezbollah rocket attacks on northern
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Rocket attacks on northern israel forced tens of thousands
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Israel forced tens of thousands of people to flee their homes.
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Of people to flee their homes. today is allowing them to begin
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Today is allowing them to begin returning to their communities
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Returning to their communities .
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. many families are eager to
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Many families are eager to return and rebuild.
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Return and rebuild. others obviously cautious.
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Others obviously cautious. cbn's chuck holden takes us to
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Cbn's chuck holden takes us to one city to see how the
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One city to see how the recovery is unfolding.
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Recovery is unfolding. >> the last time our cbn
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>> the last time our cbn news crew visited kiryat
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News crew visited kiryat shemona in israel's north it
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Shemona in israel's north it was a virtual town and rocket
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Was a virtual town and rocket attacks from hezbollah were an
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Attacks from hezbollah were an everyday reality.
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Everyday reality. >> fine line between brave and
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>> fine line between brave and stupid.
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Stupid. here we go again and again.
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Here we go again and again. >> get down, get down now with
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>> get down, get down now with !
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! two months of relative peace.
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Two months of relative peace. more than 60,000 israelis
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More than 60,000 israelis displaced homes are able to
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Displaced homes are able to return.
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Return. life though is far from normal
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Life though is far from normal as businesses struggle to
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As businesses struggle to reopen with only a fraction
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Reopen with only a fraction residents back home.
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Residents back home. >> we had to evacuate from may
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>> we had to evacuate from may but while we couldn't stay here
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But while we couldn't stay here the army asked us to leave.
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The army asked us to leave. but hillel a because they they
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But hillel a because they they afraid from the bombs.
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Afraid from the bombs. >> hope is budding along with
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>> hope is budding along with spring although there are still
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Spring although there are still concerns things may never be
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Concerns things may never be the same.
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The same. >> first week i couldn't stop
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>> first week i couldn't stop crying the time until the
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Crying the time until the hostages come home.
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Hostages come home. >> our joy was not complete.
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>> our joy was not complete. this farm outside kiryat
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This farm outside kiryat shemona, just a few miles from
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Shemona, just a few miles from the lebanese border is known
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The lebanese border is known beautiful oranges and the
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Beautiful oranges and the pecans that they grow here.
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Pecans that they grow here. but right now they're having a
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But right now they're having a hard time finding anybody to
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Hard time finding anybody to come and help them harvest
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Come and help them harvest things.
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Things. these trees are full of fruit
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These trees are full of fruit right now.
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Right now. but the foreign born workers
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But the foreign born workers that usually come from thailand
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That usually come from thailand and elsewhere to help them.
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And elsewhere to help them. many of those guys have already
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Many of those guys have already moved on to other jobs and so
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Moved on to other jobs and so they are hoping that they can
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They are hoping that they can get people to come back and
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Get people to come back and help them get their fruit to
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Help them get their fruit to market.
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Market. now the family working to
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Now the family working to rebuild welcome guests again.
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Rebuild welcome guests again. >> we cleaned everything and
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>> we cleaned everything and start to plant everything we
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Start to plant everything we knew everything then now people
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Knew everything then now people start to come back.
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Start to come back. >> for those who have returned
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>> for those who have returned ,hope remains their region can
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,hope remains their region can be rebuilt and return to normal
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Be rebuilt and return to normal .
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. >> to see people come here is
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>> to see people come here is amazing back you know see
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Amazing back you know see everything come to life again
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Everything come to life again it's it's.
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It's it's. sometimes i just stay stare and
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Sometimes i just stay stare and speechless of what happening
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Speechless of what happening here.
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Here. >> i'm at the extreme northern
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>> i'm at the extreme northern border of israel just north of
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Border of israel just north of the town of metula which has
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The town of metula which has been a town for the last 15
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Been a town for the last 15 months.
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Months. but now people are starting to
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But now people are starting to come back because.
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Come back because. if you see that fence right
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If you see that fence right there, that's the border just
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There, that's the border just the other of that is a village
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The other of that is a village inside lebanon where hezbollah
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Inside lebanon where hezbollah was firing rockets on a daily
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Was firing rockets on a daily basis in here.
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Basis in here. but that village is nothing but
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But that village is nothing but rubble now and that reason the
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Rubble now and that reason the people feel safer coming back
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People feel safer coming back home.
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Home. while the wall we were open
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While the wall we were open meanwhile the kibbutz when i
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Meanwhile the kibbutz when i evacuated we are basically was
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Evacuated we are basically was the one business that working
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The one business that working we give serve to the police,
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We give serve to the police, the military, the soldiers.
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The military, the soldiers. >> this shawarma shop in the
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>> this shawarma shop in the center of town was the only
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Center of town was the only restaurant stay open for the
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Restaurant stay open for the entire war.
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Entire war. >> maybe 30% of the community
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>> maybe 30% of the community has come back because the
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Has come back because the evacuation has been longer.
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Evacuation has been longer. so some people as stayed in the
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So some people as stayed in the hotels and i hope everyone come
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Hotels and i hope everyone come back soon.
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Back soon. even those who have realized
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Even those who have realized the war is not.
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The war is not. >> i cannot tell you the
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>> i cannot tell you the feeling now talking with you.
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Feeling now talking with you. they started to cry because
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They started to cry because they think about the people
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They think about the people they don't they cannot come
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They don't they cannot come back and about the families and
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Back and about the families and the babies that murder their.
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The babies that murder their. >> and i love israel very, very
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>> and i love israel very, very much.
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Much. i don't want to leave israel
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I don't want to leave israel from northern israel.
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From northern israel. i'm chuck holton for cbs news.
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I'm chuck holton for cbs news. just imagine living under that
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Just imagine living under that kind of attack where your
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Kind of attack where your children aren't safe.
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Children aren't safe. your children are killed.
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Your children are killed. and whether it's in northern
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And whether it's in northern israel or the gaza envelope in
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Israel or the gaza envelope in the south, can they go back and
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The south, can they go back and they rebuild and in going back
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They rebuild and in going back are going to revisit the trauma
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Are going to revisit the trauma of the war.
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Of the war. these are ongoing questions for
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These are ongoing questions for israel and there is ongoing
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Israel and there is ongoing need there.
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Need there. both places are known their
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Both places are known their agriculture.
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Agriculture. the the gaza envelope famous
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The the gaza envelope famous for providing 60% of the fresh
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For providing 60% of the fresh fruit, fruit and vegetables for
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Fruit, fruit and vegetables for the entire nation so on a just
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The entire nation so on a just a strategic level just to
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A strategic level just to survive as a nation and be able
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Survive as a nation and be able to produce your own food it's
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To produce your own food it's necessary for all of those
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Necessary for all of those farms to be rebuilt and
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Farms to be rebuilt and regenerated.
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Regenerated. >> but the ongoing trauma is is
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>> but the ongoing trauma is is and issue for the entire
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And issue for the entire nation.
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Nation. >> cbn israel is putting a
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>> cbn israel is putting a trauma center we call it a
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Trauma center we call it a resilience.
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Resilience. we're working with the israeli
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We're working with the israeli trauma coalition to do that.
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Trauma coalition to do that. it's right outside of jerusalem
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It's right outside of jerusalem and the goal is to train first
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And the goal is to train first responders also train
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Responders also train clinicians how to deal with
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Clinicians how to deal with post-traumatic stress, how to
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Post-traumatic stress, how to deal people who are traumatized
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Deal people who are traumatized by the war and by the attacks
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By the war and by the attacks and that trauma can take a
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And that trauma can take a variety of forms.
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Variety of forms. and where do you go with that
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And where do you go with that and how do you with that?
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And how do you with that? so we're there we're also
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So we're there we're also helping rebuild in the gaza
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Helping rebuild in the gaza envelope.
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Envelope. adil raymer came here and and
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Adil raymer came here and and asked on behalf of her kibbutz
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Asked on behalf of her kibbutz kibbutz noreen.
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Kibbutz noreen. and so we're helping rebuild
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And so we're helping rebuild and hopefully repopulate and
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And hopefully repopulate and let's say bloom yet again.
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Let's say bloom yet again. i love the resilience and there
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I love the resilience and there is resilience of the jewish
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Is resilience of the jewish people no matter how hard it
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People no matter how hard it has been.
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Has been. they've always come back and
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They've always come back and their famous phrase the jew
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Their famous phrase the jew lives.
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Lives. let's let's help that let's
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Let's let's help that let's help that dream.
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Help that dream. let's be a part of saying yes,
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Let's be a part of saying yes, we want to stand with you in
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We want to stand with you in your hour of need.
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Your hour of need. >> well, still ahead newlyweds
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>> well, still ahead newlyweds with a debt $50,000 to make
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With a debt $50,000 to make more money.
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More money. >> this husband was stock
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>> this husband was stock trading on the side.
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Trading on the side. that pressure put him in the
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That pressure put him in the hospital with an anxiety.
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Hospital with an anxiety. watch what happened next.
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Watch what happened next. that's coming up.
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That's coming up. and then also ahead, one man's
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And then also ahead, one man's secret addiction to online.
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Secret addiction to online. >> his shame drove him to serve
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>> his shame drove him to serve his wife divorce.
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His wife divorce. see how a youtube video helped
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See how a youtube video helped save their marriage.
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Save their marriage. that's later on today's show.
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Call 888 five 1717. 885 1717.
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885 1717. call now right out of the gate.
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Call now right out of the gate. >> casey and jan started their
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>> casey and jan started their marriage with $50,000 of credit
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Marriage with $50,000 of credit card debt in an effort ends
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Card debt in an effort ends meet.
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Meet. >> casey was secretly stock
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>> casey was secretly stock trading on the side while their
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Trading on the side while their debt snowballed and soon the
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Debt snowballed and soon the pressure put casey in the
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Pressure put casey in the hospital.
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Hospital. >> when he got out a trip to
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>> when he got out a trip to church transformed from this
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Church transformed from this couple's life, casey and jenn
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Couple's life, casey and jenn washington struggled to make
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Washington struggled to make ends meet.
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Ends meet. shortly after they got married
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Shortly after they got married in 2011.
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In 2011. thousand 14 they accrued a
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Thousand 14 they accrued a mounting credit card debt
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Mounting credit card debt 15,000 dollars.
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15,000 dollars. >> we were roughly from the
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>> we were roughly from the wedding and the honeymoon and
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Wedding and the honeymoon and just putting all living
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Just putting all living expenses on cards and just
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Expenses on cards and just right off the bat.
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Right off the bat. >> we started off our marriage
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>> we started off our marriage and it was very slow at the
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And it was very slow at the beginning but then after that
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Beginning but then after that is when it really snowballed.
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Is when it really snowballed. >> casey kept most of the debt
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>> casey kept most of the debt from jet and started stock
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From jet and started stock trading on the side.
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Trading on the side. >> however, it only pulled him
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>> however, it only pulled him into a deeper hole financially
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Into a deeper hole financially and mentally.
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And mentally. i was consumed with waking up
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I was consumed with waking up and 3 a.m. stock trading and i
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And 3 a.m. stock trading and i was concerned but getting
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Was concerned but getting myself out of this mess that i
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Myself out of this mess that i created and it was taking
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Created and it was taking attention away from my family.
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Attention away from my family. casey developed severe anxiety
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Casey developed severe anxiety and suffered from a serious
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And suffered from a serious panic attack that put him in
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Panic attack that put him in the hospital but jen and his
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The hospital but jen and his dad at his side he disclosed
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Dad at his side he disclosed the debt lay in all of this out
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The debt lay in all of this out there that i've been with
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There that i've been with myself.
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Myself. >> i knew we couldn't keep
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>> i knew we couldn't keep going down the same path we
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Going down the same path we were going i knew we couldn't
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Were going i knew we couldn't be as careless when it came to
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Be as careless when it came to spending on the little things.
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Spending on the little things. we actually had to be more
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We actually had to be more intentional on what.
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Intentional on what. >> we spent money on on what we
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>> we spent money on on what we needed versus wanted.
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Needed versus wanted. the following sunday they went
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The following sunday they went to church.
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To church. the pastor asked those to stand
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The pastor asked those to stand needed healing.
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Needed healing. casey stood up and made the
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Casey stood up and made the decision that he was to start
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Decision that he was to start seeking god for answers and
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Seeking god for answers and direction for his financial
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Direction for his financial mental situation.
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Mental situation. >> my wife she puts her hand on
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>> my wife she puts her hand on me and i'm like, you know,
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Me and i'm like, you know, crying, you know, thinking
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Crying, you know, thinking okay, god, please this for me.
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Okay, god, please this for me. just take this for me.
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Just take this for me. and i felt relief, anxiety
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And i felt relief, anxiety leave my body felt things were
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Leave my body felt things were changing.
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Changing. i just felt a sense of change
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I just felt a sense of change coming over me.
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Coming over me. >> casey and jen participate in
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>> casey and jen participate in a church wide 21 day fast that
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A church wide 21 day fast that encouraged them to start
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Encouraged them to start tithing.
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Tithing. though we talk together about
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Though we talk together about it about we really need to we
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It about we really need to we were tithing here and there
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Were tithing here and there with our church but that's when
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With our church but that's when we the decision to to type the
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We the decision to to type the full 10% no matter what.
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Full 10% no matter what. >> know how it how it all
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>> know how it how it all really worked but we never
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Really worked but we never missed a payment on our bills.
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Missed a payment on our bills. we were never behind and we
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We were never behind and we continue to make our ties and i
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Continue to make our ties and i can't really tell you how that
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Can't really tell you how that .
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. >> it was a miracle since the
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>> it was a miracle since the lord was telling him to to sell
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Lord was telling him to to sell their home to pay off their
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Their home to pay off their debts.
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Debts. they put their house on the
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They put their house on the market and an offer came in
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Market and an offer came in $53,000 over the asking price.
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$53,000 over the asking price. it was the exact number they
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It was the exact number they needed to pay off all their
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Needed to pay off all their debts.
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Debts. >> i can't explain i mean other
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>> i can't explain i mean other than he he had all the details
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Than he he had all the details worked out ahead of time today
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Worked out ahead of time today the couple is debt free.
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The couple is debt free. >> casey has received a
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>> casey has received a promotion and a 20% raise.
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Promotion and a 20% raise. casey and jane are still
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Casey and jane are still faithfully and trusting god
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Faithfully and trusting god every step of the way.
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Every step of the way. tithing was the solution to
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Tithing was the solution to turning over the to my finances
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Turning over the to my finances and the keys to my life.
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And the keys to my life. he knows to do with your
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He knows to do with your finances.
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Finances. >> he knows what to do with
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>> he knows what to do with your heart.
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Your heart. he doesn't want our wants us he
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He doesn't want our wants us he wants our tithing to come from
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Wants our tithing to come from our heart.
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Our heart. >> and when it does come from
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>> and when it does come from your heart when it comes
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Your heart when it comes cheerfully and generously then
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Cheerfully and generously then you walk into the wonderful
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You walk into the wonderful promises that god a cheerful
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Promises that god a cheerful giver and you also walk into
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Giver and you also walk into the wonderful promise of jesus
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The wonderful promise of jesus give and it will be given unto
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Give and it will be given unto you.
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You. >> he press down running over
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>> he press down running over will be poured into your lap
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Will be poured into your lap for with the measure you use it
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For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.
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Will be measured back to you. now now casey had the wrong
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Now now casey had the wrong idea he well i can talk in
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Idea he well i can talk in stock trade my way out of this
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Stock trade my way out of this and i'm going to get these
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And i'm going to get these brilliant stock tips and i'm
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Brilliant stock tips and i'm going going to make a lot of
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Going going to make a lot of money and then that's just
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Money and then that's just going to disappear.
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Going to disappear. there's no get rich quick here
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There's no get rich quick here it is when you are obedient to
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It is when you are obedient to the lord you're actively
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The lord you're actively seeking his favor his wisdom,
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Seeking his favor his wisdom, his anointing, his provision
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His anointing, his provision and for your life and you're
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And for your life and you're being obedient to what the word
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Being obedient to what the word of god says.
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Of god says. a lot of people want to
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A lot of people want to disagree that you know okay,
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Disagree that you know okay, well tithing is an old
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Well tithing is an old testament law.
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Testament law. it doesn't apply in the new
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It doesn't apply in the new testament.
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Testament. well luke chapter six is in the
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Well luke chapter six is in the new testament and that's
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New testament and that's specific give and it will be
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Specific give and it will be given unto you when you see the
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Given unto you when you see the early church and what they did
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Early church and what they did with the apostle paul
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With the apostle paul generously like they gave and
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Generously like they gave and paul commending the macedonian
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Paul commending the macedonian church you gave out of your
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Church you gave out of your poverty to help the saints in
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Poverty to help the saints in jerusalem when you realize it's
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Jerusalem when you realize it's fundamental for god so loved
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Fundamental for god so loved the world that he gave when you
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The world that he gave when you have that and you have that
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Have that and you have that identity to your becoming like
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Identity to your becoming like him which is what whole goal of
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Him which is what whole goal of christianity is that we become
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Christianity is that we become like jesus that we're willing
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Like jesus that we're willing to give and what we're willing
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To give and what we're willing to give out of love.
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To give out of love. when you do that things will
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When you do that things will absolutely turn around for you
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Absolutely turn around for you and what you saw with casey and
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And what you saw with casey and jane can happen to you.
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Jane can happen to you. why?
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Why? because god watches over his
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Because god watches over his word to perform it.
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Word to perform it. >> so if this is for you if
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>> so if this is for you if you're wondering about your
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You're wondering about your finances of uncertainties in
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Finances of uncertainties in the markets today in job
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The markets today in job markets and the economy and
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Markets and the economy and inflation and all of these
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Inflation and all of these things and you want to have the
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Things and you want to have the security that god has your
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Security that god has your future start giving and start
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Future start giving and start doing it cheerfully and
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Doing it cheerfully and generously and then you'll see
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Generously and then you'll see the results.
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The results. you want to start a lifestyle
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You want to start a lifestyle of this again.
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Of this again. it's not a get quick thing but
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It's not a get quick thing but if you want to start a
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If you want to start a lifestyle where you can be
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Lifestyle where you can be secure and knowing god is
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Secure and knowing god is watching out for you give and
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Watching out for you give and you can call us and say yeah
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You can call us and say yeah i'll join the 700 club.
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I'll join the 700 club. now is that.
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Now is that. it's just $20 a month $0.65 a
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It's just $20 a month $0.65 a day.
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Day. some of you can join in at
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Some of you can join in at higher levels we have them 700
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Higher levels we have them 700 club gold at $40 a month
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Club gold at $40 a month thousand club is $1,000 a that
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Thousand club is $1,000 a that works out to $84 a month.
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Works out to $84 a month. we also have 2500 club 2500 a
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We also have 2500 club 2500 a year founder founders 5000 or
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Year founder founders 5000 or more a year at whatever level
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More a year at whatever level when you call in join i want
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When you call in join i want you have this transform your
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You have this transform your life through god's word it's a
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>> well, coming. >> he wanted a divorce almost
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>> he wanted a divorce almost from the moment they married
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From the moment they married for five years.
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For five years. she kept praying for a miracle.
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She kept praying for a miracle. watch how he's supernaturally
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Watch how he's supernaturally transformed overnight.
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Transformed overnight. see why they both burned their
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See why they both burned their divorce papers.
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Divorce papers. >> and then later the secret to
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>> and then later the secret to a healthy marriage it takes to
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A healthy marriage it takes to love for life.
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Love for life. >> that's ahead on today's.
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>> that's ahead on today's. >> despite uncertainty and
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>> despite uncertainty and social distractions wisdom and
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Social distractions wisdom and guidance are within your reach.
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That's hundred 6708457. welcome back to washington for
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Welcome back to washington for the cbs news break.
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The cbs news break. us delegation's plans to visit
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Us delegation's plans to visit greenland this week is raising
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Greenland this week is raising temperatures on the arctic
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Temperatures on the arctic island.
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Island. the group is to include
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The group is to include president j.d. vance, his wife
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President j.d. vance, his wife lucia as well as national
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Lucia as well as national advisor mike walsh who plans to
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Advisor mike walsh who plans to visit a u.s. military base.
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Visit a u.s. military base. the prime minister of greenland
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The prime minister of greenland feeling less than hospitable
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Feeling less than hospitable calling the visit highly
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Calling the visit highly aggressive and claiming walz's
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Aggressive and claiming walz's presence is a power.
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Presence is a power. while president trump maintains
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While president trump maintains the group is invited.
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The group is invited. the pm that and says his
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The pm that and says his government will not meet with
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Government will not meet with any of the delegations members.
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Any of the delegations members. the president has spoken openly
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The president has spoken openly of taking over over the
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Of taking over over the territory which is a part of
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Territory which is a part of denmark.
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Denmark. well a special day for an
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Well a special day for an exclusive of america's war
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Exclusive of america's war heroes a tribute to those
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Heroes a tribute to those who've been awarded the of
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Who've been awarded the of honor.
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Honor. in arlington, texas, the museum
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In arlington, texas, the museum opens to tell the of service
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Opens to tell the of service members who have received
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Members who have received america's highest military
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America's highest military award for valor.
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Award for valor. more than 40 million people
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More than 40 million people have served in the military but
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Have served in the military but fewer than 4000 have won the
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Fewer than 4000 have won the medal of honor.
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Medal of honor. 61 of them are still living.
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61 of them are still living. the medal was first given in
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The medal was first given in 1863 during the civil war.
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The chosen. >> season five it'll be the
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>> season five it'll be the most beautiful most complex
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Most beautiful most complex most intense season we've ever
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Most intense season we've ever done.
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Done. >> from jesus.
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>> from jesus. you don't have to play jesus on
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You don't have to play jesus on to be jesus to the world.
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To be jesus to the world. to judas the cast and crew.
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To judas the cast and crew. set the table for the last
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Set the table for the last supper.
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Supper. .
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. steamroller bulldozer.
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Steamroller bulldozer. a melee of.
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A melee of. >> emotions and conflicts.
00:34:20.316 --> 00:34:20.850
>> emotions and conflicts. tomorrow for tatum, her wedding
00:34:20.984 --> 00:34:24.621
Tomorrow for tatum, her wedding day was a dream come true for
00:34:24.754 --> 00:34:28.491
Day was a dream come true for her husband jason.
00:34:28.625 --> 00:34:29.025
Her husband jason. it was a nightmare this started
00:34:29.158 --> 00:34:31.461
It was a nightmare this started soon after the ceremony.
00:34:31.594 --> 00:34:32.061
Soon after the ceremony. jason immediately wanted out of
00:34:32.195 --> 00:34:35.665
Jason immediately wanted out of the marriage because he had a
00:34:35.798 --> 00:34:38.234
The marriage because he had a addiction.
00:34:38.368 --> 00:34:38.601
Addiction. >> tatum the other room getting
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>> tatum the other room getting changed out of her wedding
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Changed out of her wedding dress.
00:34:43.673 --> 00:34:43.840
Dress. i said out loud made the
00:34:43.973 --> 00:34:46.543
I said out loud made the biggest mistake of my life.
00:34:46.676 --> 00:34:47.243
Biggest mistake of my life. >> by the look wedding photos
00:34:47.377 --> 00:34:49.879
>> by the look wedding photos jason and tatum bill morrow
00:34:50.013 --> 00:34:50.580
Jason and tatum bill morrow should have a picture perfect
00:34:50.713 --> 00:34:53.383
Should have a picture perfect marriage.
00:34:53.516 --> 00:34:53.750
Marriage. he was a career navy officer
00:34:53.883 --> 00:34:54.450
He was a career navy officer who grew up a strong christian
00:34:54.584 --> 00:34:57.754
Who grew up a strong christian family.
00:34:57.887 --> 00:34:58.087
Family. tatum, who was a new christian
00:34:58.221 --> 00:35:01.291
Tatum, who was a new christian had recently gone through a
00:35:01.424 --> 00:35:01.991
Had recently gone through a painful divorce and thought she
00:35:02.125 --> 00:35:02.725
Painful divorce and thought she found the spiritual partner she
00:35:02.859 --> 00:35:05.929
Found the spiritual partner she longed for.
00:35:06.062 --> 00:35:06.329
Longed for. >> i knew i wanted to marry.
00:35:06.462 --> 00:35:08.731
>> i knew i wanted to marry. he knew all the right things to
00:35:08.865 --> 00:35:09.599
He knew all the right things to say and he knew about the
00:35:09.732 --> 00:35:12.669
Say and he knew about the bible.
00:35:12.802 --> 00:35:12.969
Bible. i was just head over heels in
00:35:13.102 --> 00:35:13.736
I was just head over heels in love with him quickly.
00:35:13.870 --> 00:35:15.872
Love with him quickly. jason wasn't the spiritual man
00:35:16.005 --> 00:35:16.639
Jason wasn't the spiritual man he projected he had a secret
00:35:16.773 --> 00:35:20.043
He projected he had a secret life he wasn't about to share
00:35:20.176 --> 00:35:20.777
Life he wasn't about to share with tatum.
00:35:20.910 --> 00:35:23.613
With tatum. and right away he told her he
00:35:23.746 --> 00:35:24.480
And right away he told her he wanted out of the marriage.
00:35:24.614 --> 00:35:27.750
Wanted out of the marriage. being a preacher's kid i knew
00:35:27.884 --> 00:35:28.484
Being a preacher's kid i knew all the stories and i could
00:35:28.618 --> 00:35:29.152
All the stories and i could talk the talk and so i was
00:35:29.285 --> 00:35:32.088
Talk the talk and so i was really i guess in some ways a
00:35:32.221 --> 00:35:32.855
Really i guess in some ways a wolf in sheep's and i begin to
00:35:32.989 --> 00:35:35.525
Wolf in sheep's and i begin to talk about divorce like routine
00:35:35.658 --> 00:35:36.259
Talk about divorce like routine like regularly like it was it
00:35:36.392 --> 00:35:39.128
Like regularly like it was it was my answer.
00:35:39.262 --> 00:35:39.596
Was my answer. >> the constant thought in my
00:35:39.729 --> 00:35:42.732
>> the constant thought in my was how do i end this so i can
00:35:42.865 --> 00:35:43.800
Was how do i end this so i can just go back to doing what?
00:35:43.933 --> 00:35:46.769
Just go back to doing what? really like.
00:35:46.903 --> 00:35:47.170
Really like. in like i really lived in the
00:35:47.303 --> 00:35:50.707
In like i really lived in the darkness and i and i didn't
00:35:50.840 --> 00:35:51.541
Darkness and i and i didn't like that she represented.
00:35:51.674 --> 00:35:54.110
Like that she represented. >> tatum wasn't convinced
00:35:54.243 --> 00:35:54.744
>> tatum wasn't convinced divorce was the answer.
00:35:54.877 --> 00:35:58.014
Divorce was the answer. >> i felt like the enemy had
00:35:58.147 --> 00:36:00.583
>> i felt like the enemy had taken my first marriage and so
00:36:00.717 --> 00:36:01.351
Taken my first marriage and so i didn't want him to take my
00:36:01.484 --> 00:36:04.087
I didn't want him to take my second marriage.
00:36:04.220 --> 00:36:04.554
Second marriage. and so this faith rose up in me
00:36:04.687 --> 00:36:05.388
And so this faith rose up in me to fight.
00:36:05.521 --> 00:36:05.755
To fight. i'm do everything i can.
00:36:05.888 --> 00:36:07.457
I'm do everything i can. i'm going to stand before the
00:36:07.590 --> 00:36:08.224
I'm going to stand before the lord and know i what i could
00:36:08.358 --> 00:36:11.194
Lord and know i what i could and if i get divorced then i'm
00:36:11.327 --> 00:36:11.961
And if i get divorced then i'm divorced.
00:36:12.095 --> 00:36:12.328
Divorced. but it's not because i didn't
00:36:12.462 --> 00:36:15.365
But it's not because i didn't do my part.
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Do my part. >> it's not because i didn't
00:36:15.898 --> 00:36:16.633
>> it's not because i didn't try.
00:36:16.766 --> 00:36:18.067
Try. they eventually separated and
00:36:18.201 --> 00:36:18.768
They eventually separated and jason served tatum divorce
00:36:18.901 --> 00:36:21.771
Jason served tatum divorce papers.
00:36:21.904 --> 00:36:22.105
Papers. during that time tatum found
00:36:22.238 --> 00:36:25.642
During that time tatum found peace as she pressed into her
00:36:25.775 --> 00:36:26.376
Peace as she pressed into her relationship with christ still
00:36:26.509 --> 00:36:37.053
Relationship with christ still for a miracle.
00:36:37.186 --> 00:36:37.553
For a miracle. okay god but your word says
00:36:37.687 --> 00:36:38.421
Okay god but your word says that impossible with you.
00:36:38.554 --> 00:36:39.088
That impossible with you. like you can do this and i
00:36:39.222 --> 00:36:39.756
Like you can do this and i would read the bible and say
00:36:39.889 --> 00:36:40.456
Would read the bible and say this is who you say you are.
00:36:40.590 --> 00:36:41.157
This is who you say you are. my prayer life really shifted
00:36:41.290 --> 00:36:41.891
My prayer life really shifted from god will you save my
00:36:42.025 --> 00:36:42.558
From god will you save my marriage to praying that?
00:36:42.692 --> 00:36:45.228
Marriage to praying that? jason would have what i had.
00:36:45.361 --> 00:36:45.962
Jason would have what i had. i wanted him to have the
00:36:46.095 --> 00:36:46.929
I wanted him to have the freedom that i had the peace
00:36:47.063 --> 00:36:49.599
Freedom that i had the peace that i had the joy that i had.
00:36:49.732 --> 00:36:50.400
That i had the joy that i had. i knew that he tormented and i
00:36:50.533 --> 00:36:52.435
I knew that he tormented and i really just wanted him to have
00:36:52.568 --> 00:36:53.302
Really just wanted him to have peace.
00:36:53.436 --> 00:36:56.339
Peace. i would still have liked god to
00:36:56.472 --> 00:36:57.306
I would still have liked god to save my marriage but it was as
00:36:57.440 --> 00:37:00.076
Save my marriage but it was as important to me as him knowing
00:37:00.209 --> 00:37:00.843
Important to me as him knowing jesus like i did.
00:37:00.977 --> 00:37:03.279
Jesus like i did. jason lived in constant tension
00:37:03.413 --> 00:37:04.047
Jason lived in constant tension and internal conflict due to
00:37:04.180 --> 00:37:07.383
And internal conflict due to his secret addiction to online
00:37:07.517 --> 00:37:08.151
His secret addiction to online pornography.
00:37:08.284 --> 00:37:12.188
Pornography. what i desire the core of my
00:37:12.321 --> 00:37:15.758
What i desire the core of my being was connection.
00:37:15.892 --> 00:37:16.325
Being was connection. >> i wanted to be connected
00:37:16.459 --> 00:37:17.026
>> i wanted to be connected with tatum but couldn't be
00:37:17.160 --> 00:37:19.362
With tatum but couldn't be connected with her because of
00:37:19.495 --> 00:37:20.096
Connected with her because of my shame because of what i was
00:37:20.229 --> 00:37:20.830
My shame because of what i was doing, because that into the
00:37:20.963 --> 00:37:23.533
Doing, because that into the light would be too painful and
00:37:23.666 --> 00:37:24.267
Light would be too painful and so the lie that i believed was
00:37:24.400 --> 00:37:26.869
So the lie that i believed was that if i confess i was
00:37:27.003 --> 00:37:27.670
That if i confess i was vulnerable her that she she can
00:37:27.804 --> 00:37:30.973
Vulnerable her that she she can never love me right?
00:37:31.107 --> 00:37:31.574
Never love me right? that's the shame.
00:37:31.708 --> 00:37:34.644
That's the shame. like if you knew if you really
00:37:34.777 --> 00:37:35.712
Like if you knew if you really knew what was beneath here what
00:37:35.845 --> 00:37:39.082
Knew what was beneath here what was going on in here, what i
00:37:39.215 --> 00:37:39.849
Was going on in here, what i was doing behind doors when you
00:37:39.982 --> 00:37:42.919
Was doing behind doors when you when you were at home you
00:37:43.052 --> 00:37:43.753
When you were at home you couldn't love me right?
00:37:43.886 --> 00:37:46.856
Couldn't love me right? >> that's the that's the lie.
00:37:46.989 --> 00:37:49.692
>> that's the that's the lie. i didn't realize that, but that
00:37:49.826 --> 00:37:50.560
I didn't realize that, but that was the lie that i with for for
00:37:50.693 --> 00:37:54.030
Was the lie that i with for for the entirety of our marriage.
00:37:54.163 --> 00:37:57.867
The entirety of our marriage. then one night he watched a
00:37:58.000 --> 00:37:58.668
Then one night he watched a youtube video about pornography
00:37:58.801 --> 00:38:01.804
Youtube video about pornography destructive effects on the
00:38:01.938 --> 00:38:02.472
Destructive effects on the human brain and intimacy.
00:38:02.605 --> 00:38:05.508
Human brain and intimacy. jason stopped viewing porn and
00:38:05.641 --> 00:38:06.342
Jason stopped viewing porn and decided to tell tatum his
00:38:06.476 --> 00:38:09.946
Decided to tell tatum his secret even though he still
00:38:10.079 --> 00:38:10.680
Secret even though he still wanted a divorce.
00:38:10.813 --> 00:38:13.683
Wanted a divorce. what do you say to the person
00:38:13.816 --> 00:38:14.517
What do you say to the person that you've made worst enemy
00:38:14.650 --> 00:38:17.653
That you've made worst enemy that you've disparaged that
00:38:17.787 --> 00:38:18.354
That you've disparaged that you've you know tried to get
00:38:18.488 --> 00:38:21.224
You've you know tried to get away from for years and so i
00:38:21.357 --> 00:38:28.164
Away from for years and so i just blurted it out.
00:38:28.297 --> 00:38:28.731
Just blurted it out. >> i said i've been addicted to
00:38:28.865 --> 00:38:29.532
>> i said i've been addicted to porn for 23 years.
00:38:29.665 --> 00:38:32.802
Porn for 23 years. >> i'm going, oh, this fits
00:38:32.935 --> 00:38:33.536
>> i'm going, oh, this fits like it felt like a puzzle
00:38:33.669 --> 00:38:37.039
Like it felt like a puzzle piece that had been missing the
00:38:37.173 --> 00:38:37.807
Piece that had been missing the whole time that i didn't know
00:38:37.940 --> 00:38:40.743
Whole time that i didn't know was missing.
00:38:40.877 --> 00:38:41.177
Was missing. and i started all the pieces
00:38:41.310 --> 00:38:42.011
And i started all the pieces started together for me.
00:38:42.145 --> 00:38:45.081
Started together for me. >> jason believes the marriage
00:38:45.214 --> 00:38:45.815
>> jason believes the marriage was at its end but then
00:38:45.948 --> 00:38:48.084
Was at its end but then one night alone in his
00:38:48.217 --> 00:38:48.684
One night alone in his apartment he prayed and i said
00:38:48.818 --> 00:38:52.388
Apartment he prayed and i said god, i don't know you're out
00:38:52.522 --> 00:38:56.159
God, i don't know you're out there if you're listening.
00:38:56.292 --> 00:38:56.859
There if you're listening. i said, but if it's your desire
00:38:56.993 --> 00:38:59.762
I said, but if it's your desire for me to learn to love my wife
00:38:59.896 --> 00:39:00.730
For me to learn to love my wife then i want to learn to love
00:39:00.863 --> 00:39:03.633
Then i want to learn to love her like you love her and see
00:39:03.766 --> 00:39:04.467
Her like you love her and see her like you see her.
00:39:04.600 --> 00:39:06.936
Her like you see her. and i said amen.
00:39:07.069 --> 00:39:07.570
And i said amen. the next morning when i woke up
00:39:07.703 --> 00:39:10.840
The next morning when i woke up everything had changed
00:39:10.973 --> 00:39:11.407
Everything had changed everything.
00:39:11.541 --> 00:39:15.211
Everything. i'd never quite found the words
00:39:15.344 --> 00:39:15.945
I'd never quite found the words to explain what it's like to be
00:39:16.078 --> 00:39:16.746
To explain what it's like to be born again.
00:39:16.879 --> 00:39:17.146
Born again. it's kind of like waking up in
00:39:18.681 --> 00:39:19.582
It's kind of like waking up in someone else's body.
00:39:19.715 --> 00:39:20.149
Someone else's body. >> for the next month he want
00:39:20.283 --> 00:39:22.919
>> for the next month he want to leave tatum's side sleeping
00:39:23.052 --> 00:39:23.653
To leave tatum's side sleeping on her couch and winning back
00:39:23.786 --> 00:39:26.222
On her couch and winning back her trust.
00:39:26.355 --> 00:39:26.622
Her trust. >> i cannot express to you and
00:39:26.756 --> 00:39:30.326
>> i cannot express to you and words how overjoyed i just to
00:39:30.459 --> 00:39:34.430
Words how overjoyed i just to go and be in her presence.
00:39:34.564 --> 00:39:38.301
Go and be in her presence. he was like gushing like he was
00:39:38.434 --> 00:39:41.871
He was like gushing like he was so in love with me he just
00:39:42.004 --> 00:39:42.738
So in love with me he just wanted to be near me.
00:39:42.872 --> 00:39:45.208
Wanted to be near me. it was a very foreign but you
00:39:45.341 --> 00:39:49.278
It was a very foreign but you couldn't deny that it was
00:39:49.412 --> 00:39:49.946
Couldn't deny that it was something was very different.
00:39:50.079 --> 00:39:53.382
Something was very different. jason was actually being honest
00:39:53.516 --> 00:39:56.252
Jason was actually being honest like with himself and with god
00:39:56.385 --> 00:39:57.019
Like with himself and with god for like the first time in his
00:39:57.153 --> 00:39:59.455
For like the first time in his life and that that was actually
00:39:59.589 --> 00:40:03.025
Life and that that was actually to build on.
00:40:03.159 --> 00:40:03.459
To build on. they burned their divorce and
00:40:03.593 --> 00:40:07.230
They burned their divorce and rebuilt their relationship with
00:40:07.363 --> 00:40:07.997
Rebuilt their relationship with christ as the foundation
00:40:08.130 --> 00:40:11.033
Christ as the foundation thankful for the miracle of a
00:40:11.167 --> 00:40:11.767
Thankful for the miracle of a restored life and.
00:40:11.901 --> 00:40:14.403
Restored life and. >> she fought for me when i was
00:40:14.537 --> 00:40:15.404
>> she fought for me when i was at my worst you know, at my
00:40:15.538 --> 00:40:18.875
At my worst you know, at my most unredeemable.
00:40:19.008 --> 00:40:19.375
Most unredeemable. through her faith, through her
00:40:19.508 --> 00:40:22.245
Through her faith, through her persistence, through her trust
00:40:22.378 --> 00:40:22.945
Persistence, through her trust in god she got to see the
00:40:23.079 --> 00:40:23.746
In god she got to see the miracle that she believed that
00:40:23.880 --> 00:40:26.749
Miracle that she believed that he was capable of.
00:40:26.883 --> 00:40:27.250
He was capable of. >> i would do it all again
00:40:27.383 --> 00:40:30.119
>> i would do it all again because going through that i
00:40:30.253 --> 00:40:30.853
Because going through that i wouldn't know the way that i
00:40:30.987 --> 00:40:34.857
Wouldn't know the way that i know him.
00:40:34.991 --> 00:40:35.224
Know him. >> had i not gone through the
00:40:35.358 --> 00:40:36.025
>> had i not gone through the hard things so it was
00:40:36.158 --> 00:40:37.894
Hard things so it was absolutely worth it.
00:40:38.027 --> 00:40:38.427
Absolutely worth it. >> i'm very thankful.
00:40:38.561 --> 00:40:43.499
>> i'm very thankful. >> you know in life we like to
00:40:43.633 --> 00:40:44.767
>> you know in life we like to avoid the hard things but the
00:40:44.901 --> 00:40:47.937
Avoid the hard things but the truth of the matter is the hard
00:40:48.070 --> 00:40:48.738
Truth of the matter is the hard things that are what drive us
00:40:48.871 --> 00:40:51.574
Things that are what drive us the foot of the cross what
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The foot of the cross what drive us to an understanding
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Drive us to an understanding that we are sinners in need of
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That we are sinners in need of a savior.
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A savior. as watch this story and i see
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As watch this story and i see jason's scenario i see someone
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Jason's scenario i see someone who was trapped by his own sin
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Who was trapped by his own sin boy isn't that a perfect
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Boy isn't that a perfect picture of what the enemy wants
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Picture of what the enemy wants to do to us?
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To do to us? trap us in our own sin and then
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Trap us in our own sin and then trap us with such a shame that
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Trap us with such a shame that we don't know how to get out of
00:41:15.731 --> 00:41:17.967
We don't know how to get out of it that we no longer can say
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It that we no longer can say yes to the goodness of of god
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Yes to the goodness of of god because we are all wrapped up
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Because we are all wrapped up in the shame the choices we've
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In the shame the choices we've made and that lie that he
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Made and that lie that he talked about that there's no
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Talked about that there's no way out of this there's no
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Way out of this there's no there is no way for you to get
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There is no way for you to get out of it for anyone to but
00:41:33.716 --> 00:41:36.953
Out of it for anyone to but there is nothing you can do to
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There is nothing you can do to separate you from the love of
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Separate you from the love of god from the redemption that
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God from the redemption that christ came to pay.
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Christ came to pay. unless you choose not to accept
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Unless you choose not to accept it.
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It. it's really that simple.
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It's really that simple. of course there's shame
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Of course there's shame involved when we come clean on
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Involved when we come clean on who we we are and the choices
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Who we we are and the choices that we've made.
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That we've made. of course sometimes we've hurt
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Of course sometimes we've hurt people along the way we've lost
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People along the way we've lost things.
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Things. but with jesus you get a new
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But with jesus you get a new beginning.
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Beginning. if any man or woman is in
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If any man or woman is in christ they a brand new
00:42:05.448 --> 00:42:07.149
Christ they a brand new creation all things pass and
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Creation all things pass and all things become brand new not
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All things become brand new not fixed up, not kind of repaired
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Fixed up, not kind of repaired but brand new a whole new over.
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But brand new a whole new over. i don't know what your
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I don't know what your situation is but i know that
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Situation is but i know that marriage is a tough thing and
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Marriage is a tough thing and many, many of us are wanting
00:42:26.669 --> 00:42:30.339
Many, many of us are wanting our marriage to be better but
00:42:30.473 --> 00:42:31.107
Our marriage to be better but just don't how to get there
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Just don't how to get there from here.
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From here. start with coming home home to
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Start with coming home home to the father heart of god like
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The father heart of god like jason did just saying god, i'm
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Jason did just saying god, i'm here.
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Here. i'm talking to you.
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I'm talking to you. i hope you're hearing me.
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I hope you're hearing me. i'm giving you this and i'm
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I'm giving you this and i'm coming clean on the things that
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Coming clean on the things that i need forgiveness for.
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I need forgiveness for. invite him into your life in
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Invite him into your life in vitamin d your heart.
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Vitamin d your heart. tell him you want to change and
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Tell him you want to change and then let him change you.
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Then let him change you. you can't do it yourself.
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You can't do it yourself. but he is waiting to do that
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But he is waiting to do that for you.
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For you. if you're struggling in your
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If you're struggling in your marriage we have a wonderful
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Marriage we have a wonderful resource for you.
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Resource for you. it's called love and marriage
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It's called love and marriage and it's free for the.
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And it's free for the. you can call our toll free
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Ask for it that way it's also available if you go online but
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Available if you go online but call today there's a friend on
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Call today there's a friend on the other end of the line.
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The other end of the line. i would also love to pray with
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I would also love to pray with you when you call.
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You when you call. well up next more on marriage
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Well up next more on marriage how to love and even like your
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How to love and even like your spouse.
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Spouse. the host of the happy home
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The host of the happy home podcast shares how couples
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Podcast shares how couples couples can make marriage
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Couples can make marriage easier after this.
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Easier after this. we'll be right back.
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We'll be right back. >> i got out of my patrol car.
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>> i got out of my patrol car. i slipped away from having a
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I slipped away from having a promising career a
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Promising career a neuroscientist to having a
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Neuroscientist to having a medical desk science.
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Medical desk science. >> are miracles real?
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>> are miracles real? >> do they happen today?
00:43:52.888 --> 00:43:53.456
>> do they happen today? let's investigate.
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Let's investigate. >> this movie is life changing
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>> this movie is life changing .
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. it's encouraging thought
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It's encouraging thought provoking stories are people
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Provoking stories are people would pray for me and sometimes
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Would pray for me and sometimes i've felt like this power that
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I've felt like this power that just zapped me and it's about
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Just zapped me and it's about faith.
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Faith. god really does hear us when we
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God really does hear us when we pray.
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Pray. we started asking at that point
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We started asking at that point are there healings in the
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Are there healings in the present day that go beyond what
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Present day that go beyond what modern medicine can accomplish?
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Modern medicine can accomplish? i brought my 13 year old
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I brought my 13 year old daughter and she loved it.
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Daughter and she loved it. i would also love to my friends
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I would also love to my friends from school watch this and just
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From school watch this and just be inspired.
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Be inspired. well i think everyone should
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Well i think everyone should see this movie investigate the
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See this movie investigate the supernatural miracles.
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Supernatural miracles. yours for a for a gift of any
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Yours for a for a gift of any dollar amount.
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Dollar amount. go to cbn tor.com slash.
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Go to cbn tor.com slash. >> well research shows that the
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>> well research shows that the happiest people on the planet
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Happiest people on the planet are those in healthy marriages
00:44:44.712 --> 00:44:47.648
Are those in healthy marriages .
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. having that healthy marriage is
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Having that healthy marriage is easier said than done as author
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Easier said than done as author and podcast host arlene pelican
00:44:52.253 --> 00:44:52.887
And podcast host arlene pelican says.
00:44:53.020 --> 00:44:53.187
Says. you don't stumble on that kind
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You don't stumble on that kind of life.
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Of life. >> you have to build one.
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>> you have to build one. >> author and speaker arlene
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>> author and speaker arlene pelican has written a number of
00:44:59.894 --> 00:45:03.531
Pelican has written a number of books on the subject of
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Books on the subject of marriage and family now
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Marriage and family now marriage 25 years herself.
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Marriage 25 years herself. arlene many helpful tools to
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Arlene many helpful tools to share with couples married for
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Share with couples married for any of time in her latest book
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Any of time in her latest book making marriage easier, arlene
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Making marriage easier, arlene delves into four key decisions
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Delves into four key decisions that can strengthen anyone's
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That can strengthen anyone's marriage.
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Marriage. >> well, we are delighted to
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>> well, we are delighted to have arlene pelican back with
00:45:27.188 --> 00:45:27.788
Have arlene pelican back with us on the program.
00:45:27.922 --> 00:45:28.322
Us on the program. welcome so good to see you
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Welcome so good to see you again.
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Again. >> your book is it's such
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>> your book is it's such interesting read full of wisdom
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Interesting read full of wisdom but also lots of fun.
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But also lots of fun. >> well.
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>> well. yeah, lots of laughter.
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Yeah, lots of laughter. well, upfront you say that you
00:45:38.766 --> 00:45:41.735
Well, upfront you say that you can't make marriage easy but
00:45:41.869 --> 00:45:42.469
Can't make marriage easy but you can it easier.
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You can it easier. what do you mean?
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What do you mean? we want to have truth in
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We want to have truth in advertising.
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Advertising. i couldn't make it making
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I couldn't make it making marriage easy.
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Marriage easy. it's not easy.
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It's not easy. >> yeah.
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>> yeah. but why does it have to be so
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But why does it have to be so hard?
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Hard? you know, many of us up with
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You know, many of us up with this thought it's so hard.
00:45:56.584 --> 00:45:57.117
This thought it's so hard. my spouse is so difficult if we
00:45:57.251 --> 00:46:00.487
My spouse is so difficult if we instead said lord, how could i
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Instead said lord, how could i make this easier today?
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Make this easier today? just in the same way you have
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Just in the same way you have to exercise.
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To exercise. if i say oh, i'm i'm just going
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If i say oh, i'm i'm just going to exercise but if i'm not
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To exercise but if i'm not specific about it, if i don't a
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Specific about it, if i don't a gym class have accountability
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Gym class have accountability put out my clothes the next
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Put out my clothes the next day.
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Day. >> that makes it easier.
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>> that makes it easier. right.
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Right. to actually go.
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To actually go. so in marriage what are the
00:46:16.537 --> 00:46:18.772
So in marriage what are the things we can do to make this
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Things we can do to make this easier if we're in for the long
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Easier if we're in for the long haul?
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Haul? >> why do we have to trudge
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>> why do we have to trudge through it?
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Through it? why couldn't we make it easier?
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Why couldn't we make it easier? well, you and your husband
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Well, you and your husband james said that you've come up
00:46:26.914 --> 00:46:27.615
James said that you've come up with four rules that have kind
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With four rules that have kind of worked for you.
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Of worked for you. >> so talk the first one and
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>> so talk the first one and what the why rules who gets to
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What the why rules who gets to set them and how do you decide
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Set them and how do you decide that?
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That? that's right.
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That's right. so my husband james and i have
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So my husband james and i have been married for 26 years.
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Been married for 26 years. we met right here at regent as
00:46:43.163 --> 00:46:45.599
We met right here at regent as students.
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Students. can you imagine?
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Can you imagine? and we just looking back it was
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And we just looking back it was like this has been good.
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Like this has been good. this relationship.
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This relationship. so we're not superhuman.
00:46:54.108 --> 00:46:54.575
So we're not superhuman. we're not superheroes.
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We're not superheroes. what has made these 26 years
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What has made these 26 years good?
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Good? we came up with these four
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We came up with these four decisions and the first one, as
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Decisions and the first one, as you said, play by the rules.
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You said, play by the rules. it's like if you're playing a
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It's like if you're playing a game, if the boundaries keep
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Game, if the boundaries keep moving, if the goals keep
00:47:08.389 --> 00:47:08.922
Moving, if the goals keep moving, you're frustrated.
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Moving, you're frustrated. but if you know clearly this is
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But if you know clearly this is how the game is played and in
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How the game is played and in marriage you're not against
00:47:15.062 --> 00:47:15.596
Marriage you're not against each other.
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Each other. the point is to play as long as
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The point is to play as long as you can infinitely to keep
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You can infinitely to keep playing this game called life
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Playing this game called life and marriage.
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And marriage. so playing by the rules is what
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So playing by the rules is what does god command?
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Does god command? what does the word of god say?
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What does the word of god say? how does the home work and
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How does the home work and really study that that.
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Really study that that. >> be diligent about that.
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>> be diligent about that. so that's marriage for life.
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So that's marriage for life. right and so that's you made a
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Right and so that's you made a vow.
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Vow. a promise not one with your
00:47:34.415 --> 00:47:36.250
A promise not one with your children.
00:47:36.383 --> 00:47:36.617
Children. you are one with your spouse.
00:47:36.750 --> 00:47:37.351
You are one with your spouse. and you're starting out on the
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And you're starting out on the same ground.
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Same ground. everybody's the same
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Everybody's the same understanding and agreed to it.
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Understanding and agreed to it. yes.
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Yes. and you i have to say you share
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And you i have to say you share a story you and james when you
00:47:48.162 --> 00:47:51.632
A story you and james when you first started your relationship
00:47:51.765 --> 00:47:52.399
First started your relationship at first and when i read this i
00:47:52.533 --> 00:47:54.735
At first and when i read this i went he did not say that and
00:47:54.868 --> 00:47:55.602
Went he did not say that and then i all by myself in my
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Then i all by myself in my living room for about 2
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Living room for about 2 minutes.
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Minutes. i thought wow, this was the
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I thought wow, this was the moment.
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Moment. >> talk about that.
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>> talk about that. one of the rules of playing by
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One of the rules of playing by the rules is you can say
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The rules is you can say anything to me.
00:48:05.679 --> 00:48:06.013
Anything to me. you know how like when you're
00:48:06.146 --> 00:48:08.816
You know how like when you're dating and you can say anything
00:48:08.949 --> 00:48:09.550
Dating and you can say anything to me?
00:48:09.683 --> 00:48:09.850
To me? well, we're dating.
00:48:09.983 --> 00:48:10.384
Well, we're dating. we're in love phase.
00:48:10.517 --> 00:48:12.252
We're in love phase. we're just looking at each
00:48:12.386 --> 00:48:12.986
We're just looking at each other just soaking it in.
00:48:13.120 --> 00:48:13.654
Other just soaking it in. day he says to me i've been
00:48:14.988 --> 00:48:15.923
Day he says to me i've been wanting to ask you something
00:48:16.056 --> 00:48:16.623
Wanting to ask you something but i don't how to say it.
00:48:16.757 --> 00:48:19.426
But i don't how to say it. >> and i'm like, oh good lord,
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>> and i'm like, oh good lord, i hope this is not the proposal
00:48:20.394 --> 00:48:23.130
I hope this is not the proposal .
00:48:23.263 --> 00:48:23.364
. >> but i say baby, you just
00:48:23.497 --> 00:48:24.098
>> but i say baby, you just tell me anything you want.
00:48:24.231 --> 00:48:24.765
Tell me anything you want. and he terry says you have
00:48:24.898 --> 00:48:26.567
And he terry says you have these hairs on your upper lip.
00:48:26.700 --> 00:48:30.571
These hairs on your upper lip. >> have you ever thought of
00:48:30.704 --> 00:48:31.305
>> have you ever thought of electrolysis?
00:48:31.438 --> 00:48:31.739
Electrolysis? and we're on that that stage
00:48:31.872 --> 00:48:34.808
And we're on that that stage and i'm like, oh my god.
00:48:34.942 --> 00:48:35.476
And i'm like, oh my god. and i say, well i haven't
00:48:35.609 --> 00:48:38.145
And i say, well i haven't really thought of that but wow,
00:48:38.278 --> 00:48:38.979
Really thought of that but wow, look at the time i have to go.
00:48:39.113 --> 00:48:39.847
Look at the time i have to go. and i went back into my house
00:48:39.980 --> 00:48:41.815
And i went back into my house and i looked and all these
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And i looked and all these little hairs that i paid
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Little hairs that i paid attention to.
00:48:45.552 --> 00:48:45.853
Attention to. all of a sudden i felt like
00:48:45.986 --> 00:48:46.620
All of a sudden i felt like like like groucho marx or
00:48:46.754 --> 00:48:47.321
Like like groucho marx or something and i went and i
00:48:47.454 --> 00:48:50.023
Something and i went and i looked there was a phone book
00:48:50.157 --> 00:48:50.724
Looked there was a phone book that electronics electrical
00:48:50.858 --> 00:48:51.392
That electronics electrical laser laser laser laser got
00:48:51.525 --> 00:48:53.761
Laser laser laser laser got those things zapped off and
00:48:53.894 --> 00:48:54.461
Those things zapped off and what it did was we didn't
00:48:54.595 --> 00:48:57.598
What it did was we didn't fight.
00:48:57.731 --> 00:48:57.898
Fight. people go crazy.
00:48:58.031 --> 00:48:58.399
People go crazy. they're like how did you he
00:48:58.532 --> 00:49:00.868
They're like how did you he said that to you like i can't
00:49:01.001 --> 00:49:01.602
Said that to you like i can't believe it.
00:49:01.735 --> 00:49:02.002
Believe it. that was so rude.
00:49:02.136 --> 00:49:02.503
That was so rude. but the truth i did have hair
00:49:02.636 --> 00:49:05.305
But the truth i did have hair on my lip so it was like omegas
00:49:05.439 --> 00:49:06.273
On my lip so it was like omegas and for james, he kind of
00:49:06.407 --> 00:49:08.942
And for james, he kind of defended himself afterwards
00:49:09.076 --> 00:49:09.610
Defended himself afterwards right.
00:49:09.743 --> 00:49:11.879
Right. >> was very nervous when he
00:49:12.012 --> 00:49:12.746
>> was very nervous when he said that he wasn't like you
00:49:12.880 --> 00:49:13.480
Said that he wasn't like you got some hair you should fix
00:49:13.614 --> 00:49:16.049
Got some hair you should fix it.
00:49:16.183 --> 00:49:16.316
It. >> he was like very humble.
00:49:16.450 --> 00:49:17.017
>> he was like very humble. so the way you present the top
00:49:17.151 --> 00:49:19.887
So the way you present the top thing matters.
00:49:20.020 --> 00:49:20.354
Thing matters. >> and he thought going to
00:49:20.487 --> 00:49:23.690
>> and he thought going to marry this girl if i can't even
00:49:23.824 --> 00:49:24.491
Marry this girl if i can't even talk to her about the hair on
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Talk to her about the hair on lip because she's so sensitive
00:49:26.860 --> 00:49:27.461
Lip because she's so sensitive she can't handle that.
00:49:27.594 --> 00:49:28.061
She can't handle that. >> how are we going to decide
00:49:28.195 --> 00:49:30.798
>> how are we going to decide the big questions of life?
00:49:30.931 --> 00:49:31.465
The big questions of life? >> so he thought i'm going to
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>> so he thought i'm going to give it a go.
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Give it a go. >> i mean seriously, you opened
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>> i mean seriously, you opened the door to wonderful
00:49:35.702 --> 00:49:36.170
The door to wonderful communication, did it so
00:49:36.303 --> 00:49:38.272
Communication, did it so graciously but i still laugh
00:49:38.405 --> 00:49:38.939
Graciously but i still laugh just thinking my husband he's
00:49:39.072 --> 00:49:41.975
Just thinking my husband he's got quite a sense of humor.
00:49:42.109 --> 00:49:42.676
Got quite a sense of humor. >> so years later he made a
00:49:42.810 --> 00:49:45.913
>> so years later he made a little picture of what i looked
00:49:46.046 --> 00:49:46.680
Little picture of what i looked like before we had this talk.
00:49:46.814 --> 00:49:49.116
Like before we had this talk. >> think we have it?
00:49:49.249 --> 00:49:49.883
>> think we have it? yeah, that's what he says i
00:49:50.017 --> 00:49:50.651
Yeah, that's what he says i looked like so was like i saved
00:49:50.784 --> 00:49:53.387
Looked like so was like i saved you.
00:49:53.520 --> 00:49:53.654
You. exaggeration.
00:49:53.787 --> 00:49:54.087
Exaggeration. yeah, that's right.
00:49:54.221 --> 00:49:57.090
Yeah, that's right. >> well, so the second decision
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>> well, so the second decision is to give gratitude day.
00:49:58.058 --> 00:50:00.093
Is to give gratitude day. boy, that that just makes a
00:50:00.227 --> 00:50:00.861
Boy, that that just makes a difference in life in general
00:50:00.994 --> 00:50:01.595
Difference in life in general much less marriage but talk
00:50:01.728 --> 00:50:04.665
Much less marriage but talk about it and yeah because when
00:50:04.798 --> 00:50:05.432
About it and yeah because when you got married you're like
00:50:05.566 --> 00:50:06.133
You got married you're like thank you god, i found this
00:50:06.266 --> 00:50:08.535
Thank you god, i found this person.
00:50:08.669 --> 00:50:08.869
Person. >> thank you for bringing this
00:50:09.002 --> 00:50:09.603
>> thank you for bringing this person to my dream as the years
00:50:09.736 --> 00:50:12.172
Person to my dream as the years go on you're like oh this
00:50:12.306 --> 00:50:12.873
Go on you're like oh this person doesn't do this.
00:50:13.006 --> 00:50:13.474
Person doesn't do this. you're complaining you're
00:50:13.607 --> 00:50:16.109
You're complaining you're grumbling if you you know you
00:50:16.243 --> 00:50:16.844
Grumbling if you you know you lose that and so the same thing
00:50:16.977 --> 00:50:19.847
Lose that and so the same thing in our christianity like think
00:50:19.980 --> 00:50:20.581
In our christianity like think of the children of israel their
00:50:20.714 --> 00:50:21.348
Of the children of israel their big sin not adultery and
00:50:21.482 --> 00:50:24.318
Big sin not adultery and idolatry it was you you are
00:50:24.451 --> 00:50:28.589
Idolatry it was you you are grumbling you're grumbling
00:50:28.722 --> 00:50:29.256
Grumbling you're grumbling about the man you're grumbling
00:50:29.389 --> 00:50:29.990
About the man you're grumbling about quail you're grumbling
00:50:30.123 --> 00:50:32.259
About quail you're grumbling about this.
00:50:32.392 --> 00:50:32.659
About this. so in marriage if we're
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So in marriage if we're grumbling about everything you
00:50:33.427 --> 00:50:35.329
Grumbling about everything you know so that's a wonderful way
00:50:35.462 --> 00:50:36.063
Know so that's a wonderful way to make your marriage easier is
00:50:36.196 --> 00:50:39.233
To make your marriage easier is just ask the lord how can i be
00:50:39.366 --> 00:50:40.100
Just ask the lord how can i be more grateful?
00:50:40.234 --> 00:50:40.534
More grateful? i remember thanksgiving
00:50:40.667 --> 00:50:43.170
I remember thanksgiving one year james gave me a piece
00:50:43.303 --> 00:50:43.904
One year james gave me a piece of paper and he he had written
00:50:44.037 --> 00:50:47.307
Of paper and he he had written monday he i am thankful that
00:50:47.441 --> 00:50:48.041
Monday he i am thankful that you take lucy to school with
00:50:48.175 --> 00:50:50.611
You take lucy to school with such a smile tuesday i'm
00:50:50.744 --> 00:50:51.211
Such a smile tuesday i'm thankful you make dinner for us
00:50:51.345 --> 00:50:54.314
Thankful you make dinner for us and he gave me this list
00:50:54.448 --> 00:50:55.015
And he gave me this list because he was looking for ways
00:50:55.148 --> 00:50:57.918
Because he was looking for ways thankful and of course that
00:50:58.051 --> 00:50:58.619
Thankful and of course that made me so happy.
00:50:58.752 --> 00:50:59.152
Made me so happy. but guess what it makes happy
00:50:59.286 --> 00:51:01.355
But guess what it makes happy too when you're thankful.
00:51:01.488 --> 00:51:02.022
Too when you're thankful. >> it's things you talk about
00:51:02.155 --> 00:51:04.558
>> it's things you talk about in the book and i alluded to it
00:51:04.691 --> 00:51:05.459
In the book and i alluded to it in the introduction is that
00:51:05.592 --> 00:51:08.195
In the introduction is that this doesn't just happen
00:51:08.328 --> 00:51:08.829
This doesn't just happen because you have a desire in
00:51:08.962 --> 00:51:09.563
Because you have a desire in your heart for your to work out
00:51:09.696 --> 00:51:12.366
Your heart for your to work out wonderfully.
00:51:12.499 --> 00:51:12.766
Wonderfully. i mean you have to live very
00:51:12.900 --> 00:51:13.534
I mean you have to live very intentionally with each other
00:51:13.667 --> 00:51:16.570
Intentionally with each other and so you know, it's good to
00:51:16.703 --> 00:51:17.538
And so you know, it's good to find whether the person you're
00:51:17.671 --> 00:51:20.541
Find whether the person you're going to marry is willing to do
00:51:20.674 --> 00:51:21.341
Going to marry is willing to do that or not but it takes
00:51:21.475 --> 00:51:23.610
That or not but it takes communication and so repeatedly
00:51:23.744 --> 00:51:27.281
Communication and so repeatedly throughout your book you share
00:51:27.414 --> 00:51:28.015
Throughout your book you share how you and james did that in
00:51:28.148 --> 00:51:31.485
How you and james did that in obviously difficult challenging
00:51:31.618 --> 00:51:32.219
Obviously difficult challenging ways but in ways that made a
00:51:32.352 --> 00:51:34.988
Ways but in ways that made a difference and you also say fun
00:51:35.122 --> 00:51:38.158
Difference and you also say fun is so important in a marriage
00:51:38.292 --> 00:51:38.959
Is so important in a marriage somehow with having children
00:51:39.092 --> 00:51:39.693
Somehow with having children and the responsibilities of
00:51:39.826 --> 00:51:43.196
And the responsibilities of life we cannot lose that along
00:51:43.330 --> 00:51:43.964
Life we cannot lose that along the way.
00:51:44.097 --> 00:51:44.331
The way. >> have to work for it.
00:51:44.464 --> 00:51:44.965
>> have to work for it. that's right.
00:51:45.098 --> 00:51:45.399
That's right. that's why i put it as decision
00:51:45.532 --> 00:51:47.367
That's why i put it as decision number four take fun seriously
00:51:47.501 --> 00:51:50.170
Number four take fun seriously when you were dating it was all
00:51:50.304 --> 00:51:51.138
When you were dating it was all fun going to the grocery was
00:51:51.271 --> 00:51:53.574
Fun going to the grocery was fun.
00:51:53.707 --> 00:51:53.840
Fun. >> let's watch the car.
00:51:53.974 --> 00:51:54.441
>> let's watch the car. that's fun.
00:51:54.575 --> 00:51:54.841
That's fun. i remember james like made made
00:51:54.975 --> 00:51:57.744
I remember james like made made me like being together was fun.
00:51:57.878 --> 00:51:58.512
Me like being together was fun. >> he made me like fix a table.
00:51:58.645 --> 00:51:59.313
>> he made me like fix a table. it was like oh is fun but all
00:51:59.446 --> 00:52:02.015
It was like oh is fun but all of a sudden you get married,
00:52:02.149 --> 00:52:02.716
Of a sudden you get married, you have bills.
00:52:02.849 --> 00:52:03.216
You have bills. >> you say if fun is too
00:52:03.350 --> 00:52:06.386
>> you say if fun is too expensive you we've got these
00:52:06.520 --> 00:52:07.087
Expensive you we've got these kids who's got time for fun?
00:52:07.220 --> 00:52:09.823
Kids who's got time for fun? we'll have fun on that vacation
00:52:09.957 --> 00:52:10.624
We'll have fun on that vacation in hawaii a year from now.
00:52:10.757 --> 00:52:11.325
In hawaii a year from now. but do that because then all of
00:52:11.458 --> 00:52:13.560
But do that because then all of a sudden everything is a drag.
00:52:13.694 --> 00:52:14.328
A sudden everything is a drag. everything's a business
00:52:14.461 --> 00:52:17.030
Everything's a business meeting, everything is, you
00:52:17.164 --> 00:52:17.698
Meeting, everything is, you know, a problem and so it
00:52:17.831 --> 00:52:18.365
Know, a problem and so it doesn't money you can have fun
00:52:18.498 --> 00:52:21.335
Doesn't money you can have fun without money, you know, and
00:52:21.468 --> 00:52:24.504
Without money, you know, and being really intentional to
00:52:24.638 --> 00:52:25.205
Being really intentional to plan it.
00:52:25.339 --> 00:52:25.539
Plan it. >> a good friend of mine god is
00:52:25.672 --> 00:52:28.008
>> a good friend of mine god is the god of romance and it was
00:52:28.141 --> 00:52:28.775
The god of romance and it was such a novel thought to me and
00:52:28.909 --> 00:52:32.045
Such a novel thought to me and i want to say that he is and in
00:52:32.179 --> 00:52:35.549
I want to say that he is and in your book you really talk about
00:52:35.682 --> 00:52:36.316
Your book you really talk about how to get there from here.
00:52:36.450 --> 00:52:37.017
How to get there from here. it's a road map for being able
00:52:37.150 --> 00:52:39.186
It's a road map for being able to walk that out in your own
00:52:39.319 --> 00:52:39.920
To walk that out in your own marriage.
00:52:40.053 --> 00:52:40.287
Marriage. i highly recommend arlene's
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I highly recommend arlene's book.
00:52:43.190 --> 00:52:43.357
Book. it's called making marriage
00:52:43.490 --> 00:52:44.057
It's called making marriage easier.
00:52:44.191 --> 00:52:46.893
Easier. it is available nationwide.
00:52:47.027 --> 00:52:47.661
It is available nationwide. so great to have you here
00:52:47.794 --> 00:52:48.328
So great to have you here again.
00:52:48.462 --> 00:52:48.629
Again. you always bring just wonderful
00:52:48.762 --> 00:52:51.298
You always bring just wonderful information.
00:52:51.431 --> 00:52:51.698
Information. we leave you today with these
00:52:51.832 --> 00:52:52.399
We leave you today with these words from from first peter
00:52:52.532 --> 00:52:54.267
Words from from first peter most important of all continue
00:52:54.401 --> 00:52:55.002
Most important of all continue to show deep love each other.
00:52:55.135 --> 00:52:58.105
To show deep love each other. love covers a multitude of sins
00:52:58.238 --> 00:52:59.039
Love covers a multitude of sins god you.
00:52:59.172 --> 00:53:02.075
God you. >> when a powerful ef3 tornado
00:53:02.209 --> 00:53:02.943
>> when a powerful ef3 tornado blew through through
00:53:03.076 --> 00:53:04.978
Blew through through neighborhoods in arkansas,
00:53:05.112 --> 00:53:05.646
Neighborhoods in arkansas, pastor marvin norman knew his
00:53:05.779 --> 00:53:08.982
Pastor marvin norman knew his congregants and many other
00:53:09.116 --> 00:53:09.650
Congregants and many other people needed help.
00:53:09.783 --> 00:53:10.183
People needed help. >> the need is great.
00:53:10.317 --> 00:53:13.086
>> the need is great. there's no power.
00:53:13.220 --> 00:53:13.620
There's no power. people have lost everything
00:53:13.754 --> 00:53:14.321
People have lost everything that in their refrigerators,
00:53:14.454 --> 00:53:16.890
That in their refrigerators, their deep freezers and right
00:53:17.024 --> 00:53:17.624
Their deep freezers and right now just living off of whatever
00:53:17.758 --> 00:53:20.694
Now just living off of whatever they can get.
00:53:20.827 --> 00:53:21.128
They can get. >> operation blessing deployed
00:53:21.261 --> 00:53:23.930
>> operation blessing deployed disaster relief teams to offer
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Disaster relief teams to offer critical aid those in need
00:53:24.798 --> 00:53:28.335
Critical aid those in need thanks to the support of our
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Thanks to the support of our partners.
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Partners. hot meals it into the hands of
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Hot meals it into the hands of many struggling families
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Many struggling families
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March 25, 2025

March 25, 2025 | S25:E60

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