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November 12, 2016
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  • - THOUGH FOR SINGLES,
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  • WHEN FRIENDS ALWAYS
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  • WANT TO PUSH YOU
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  • INTO WHAT'S TAKING SO LONG,
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  • WHEN ARE YOU
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  • GOING TO FIND SOMEBODY --
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  • YOU EVEN HAVE YOUR MOM AND DAD
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  • DOING THAT.
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  • WHEN ARE YOU
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  • GOING TO FIND SOMEBODY?
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  • YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEBODY.
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  • AND THEY WANT TO REMIND YOU
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  • OF YOUR SINGLENESS
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  • ALL THE TIME.
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  • LISTEN.
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  • MARRIAGE DOES NOT DEFINE
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  • YOUR EXISTENCE.
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  • MARRIAGE DOES NOT MAKE YOU
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  • SOMETHING BETTER.
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  • YOU UNDERSTAND?
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  • NEVER FEEL PRESSURED
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  • TO MARRY SOMEBODY
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  • AS IF MARRIAGE
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  • COMPLETES YOU
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  • AND NOW YOU CAN DO WHAT GOD
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  • HAS CALLED YOU TO DO
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  • NOW BECAUSE YOU'RE MARRIED.
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  • IF YOU'RE NOT HAPPY
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  • AND YOU'RE FULFILLED
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  • AS A SINGLE PERSON,
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  • FINDING ANOTHER IMPERFECT PERSON
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  • IS NOT GOING TO MAKE
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  • YOU BETTER.
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  • COME ON.
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  • SOMEBODY SAY AMEN.
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  • SO UNDERSTAND
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  • PEOPLE DON'T DECIDE
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  • WHO YOU'RE GOING TO SPEND
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  • THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH
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  • 'CAUSE USUALLY IF THEY TELL YOU
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  • AND THEY'RE NOT
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  • THE RIGHT PERSON,
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  • THEY'RE NOT IN YOUR HOUSE
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  • LIVING WITH THAT
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  • IMPERFECT PERSON
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  • AND GOING THROUGH HELL
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  • BECAUSE IF YOU WONDER --
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  • "I NEED TO GET MARRIED
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  • 'CAUSE I DON'T
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  • WANT TO BE ALONE".
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  • THERE'S A LOT OF MARRIED PEOPLE
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  • THAT ARE ALONE
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  • ALTHOUGH THEY'RE MARRIED.
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  • THAT'S NOT YOUR ANSWER.
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  • THAT'S NOT YOUR ANSWER.
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  • 'CAUSE MARRIAGE
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  • IS NOT TO BE ENDURED;
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  • IT'S TO BE ENJOYED.
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  • ALRIGHT?
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  • ALRIGHT.
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  • LET ME TELL YOU THIS
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  • ABOUT SINGLENESS.
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  • SINGLENESS THEN IS THIS,
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  • IT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT STATE
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  • OF HUMAN DEVELOPMENT.
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  • AND IT'S ALSO THE FOUNDATION
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  • OF GOD'S DESIGN
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  • FOR THE HUMAN FAMILY.
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  • THIS IS SINGLENESS.
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  • SINGLENESS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT
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  • STATE OF HUMAN DEVELOPMENT
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  • AND THE FOUNDATION
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  • OF GOD'S DESIGN --
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  • OKAY.
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  • SEE, SINGLENESS --
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  • WHAT HE'S SAYING
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  • IS JUST DON'T SIT BACK AND WAIT.
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  • "ONE DAY, WHEN I GET MARRIED,
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  • I'M GOING TO START MY LIFE."
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  • NO, NO, NO.
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  • YOU START YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW,
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  • WHEREVER YOU'RE AT, EVERYBODY.
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  • YOU START YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW.
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  • YOU DO IT IN YOUR SINGLENESS.
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  • YOU DO IT RIGHT THERE
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  • WHERE YOU'RE AT.
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  • SEE, SOME OF YOU
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  • YOUNG PEOPLE HERE,
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  • SOME OF YOU YOUNG ADULTS,
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  • "I CAN'T WAIT
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  • 'TIL I GET MARRIED."
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  • NO, NO, NO.
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  • YOU'RE NOT READY TO GET MARRIED.
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  • YOU NEED TO LOOK AT YOURSELF
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  • AND YOU NEED TO DO EVERYTHING
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  • YOU CAN TO MAKE YOURSELF
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  • THE BEST PERSON
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  • YOU CAN WHEN YOU GET IN.
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  • SINGLENESS AND UNDERSTANDING
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  • YOUR SINGLENESS
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  • IS THE BEST PART
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  • OF PREPARATION
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  • TO HAVE A HEALTHY MARRIAGE.
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  • SO, IF YOU'RE SINGLE,
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  • THEN GO AHEAD AND GO TO COLLEGE.
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  • YOU DIDN'T FINISH COLLEGE,
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  • YOU WANT TO GO TO COLLEGE,
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  • 'CAUSE WHEN YOU GET MARRIED
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  • AND HAVE KIDS,
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  • YOU'RE NOT GOING TO HAVE TIME.
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  • GO AHEAD AND START A BUSINESS
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  • IF YOU WANT TO DO THAT.
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  • IF YOU WANT TO DECORATE,
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  • YOU WANT TO TRAVEL SOMEPLACE,
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  • GO AND DO IT.
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  • DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN
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  • AND WORK ON YOURSELF
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  • BECAUSE THERE'S NEVER GOING
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  • TO BE A MR. AND MRS. PERFECT.
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  • THERE'S ONLY GOING TO BE
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  • A MR. AND MRS.
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  • DIVINELY CHOSEN BY GOD.
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  • THAT'S ALL YOU'RE GOING
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  • TO HAVE.
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  • ALRIGHT?
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  • MARRIAGE IS AN OMELET.
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  • YOU KNOW, I FLOWED
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  • RIGHT INTO THAT, DIDN'T I?
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  • MARRIAGE --
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  • I'VE GOT A GOOD EGG RIGHT HERE,
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  • AND I'VE GOT A ROTTEN EGG
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  • RIGHT HERE,
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  • AND THE TWO BECOME ONE.
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  • [SNIFFING]
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  • PFFT.
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  • WOW.
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  • IT STINKS.
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  • WHY DOES THAT STINK?
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  • BECAUSE OF THE ROTTEN EGG.
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  • SO, THAT'S WHY IN CORINTHIANS
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  • IN 2ND CORINTHIANS 6 IT SAYS,
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  • "DO NOT BE UNEQUALLY
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  • YOKED TOGETHER."
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  • 'CAUSE SEE,
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  • YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED
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  • TO A ROTTEN EGG.
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  • WELL, I'M GOING TO CHANGE
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  • THAT ROTTEN EGG.
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  • NO, YOU'RE NOT.
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  • YOU'RE GOING TO STINK
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  • JUST LIKE HIM.
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  • JUST LIKE HER.
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  • DON'T YOU GO AHEAD AND MARRY
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  • FOR THE WRONG REASON.
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  • LIGHT AND DARKNESS
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  • HAVE NO FELLOWSHIP TOGETHER.
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  • ALL RIGHT?
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  • ROTTEN AND GOOD EGGS
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  • HAVE NO FELLOWSHIP TOGETHER.
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  • YOU'RE NOT GOING TO BE ABLE
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  • TO UNSCRAMBLE THAT,
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  • AND THEN YOU'VE
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  • GOT A SITUATION
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  • THAT YOU'RE IN RIGHT NOW.
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  • DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
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  • YOU CAN'T DO THIS HERE.
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  • SO, SO YOU SAY, WELL,
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  • I'M GOING TO CHANGE THAT PERSON.
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  • NO, THAT PERSON IS GOING
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  • TO CHANGE YOU.
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  • YOU UNDERSTAND THAT?
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  • YOU UNDERSTAND THAT.
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  • BUT HE KISSES SO GOOD.
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  • KISSING IS NOT
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  • A DETERRENT FOR DIVORCE.
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  • YOU KNOW THAT.
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  • MOST PEOPLE THAT HAD A DIVORCE,
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  • THEY DID KISS.
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  • I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT.
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  • THE DID KISS.
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  • NOW, IF SOMEONE SAYS TO YOU
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  • I LOVE YOU, AND I NEED YOU, RUN
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  • BECAUSE THEY SHOULD BE SAYING
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  • I LOVE GOD, AND I NEED GOD.
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  • THAT'S WHAT
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  • THEY SHOULD BE SAYING.
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  • ALL RIGHT.
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  • THEY SHOULD BE SAYING THAT.
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  • AND SOME OF YOU ARE SAYING,
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  • WELL, I NEED SOMEBODY
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  • TO HELP ME.
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  • I NEED THIS, AND I --
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  • YOU KNOW WHAT?
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  • SOME OF YOU BELIEVE TOO MUCH
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  • WITH THESE SONGS,
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  • THE LYRICS OF SONGS.
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  • YOU BELIEVE THESE SONGS.
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  • THESE PEOPLE ARE NOT READING
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  • FROM THE BIBLE
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  • WHEN THEY WRITE THESE SONGS.
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  • YOU KNOW THAT.
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  • LET ME GIVE YOU SOME LYRICS.
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  • REAL LYRICS OF SONGS.
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  • "ALL I HAVE.
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  • ALL I NEED.
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  • HE'S THE AIR
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  • I WOULD KILL TO BREATHE.
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  • HOLDS MY LOVE IN HIS HANDS.
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  • STILL I'M SEARCHING.
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  • ALL I HAVE, ALL I NEED.
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  • HE'S THE AIR I WOULD KILL
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  • TO BREATHE.
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  • HOLDS MY LOVE IN HIS HANDS,
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  • AND STILL I'M SEARCHING
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  • FOR SOMETHING.
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  • OUT OF BREATH.
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  • I AM LEFT HOPING SOMEDAY
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  • I'LL BREATHE AGAIN.
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  • I'LL BREATHE AGAIN.
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  • I'LL BREATHE AGAIN.
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  • I'LL BREATHE AGAIN.
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  • I'LL BREATHE AGAIN.
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  • I'LL BREATHE AGAIN.
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  • I'LL BREATHE AGAIN."
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  • THANK YOU.
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  • TONI BRAXTON,
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  • "UNBREAK MY HEART.
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  • OH, BABY, COME BACK
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  • AND SAY YOU LOVE ME.
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  • UNBREAK MY HEART,
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  • SWEET DARLING.
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  • WITHOUT YOU
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  • I JUST CAN'T GO ON.
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  • SAY THAT YOU LOVE ME.
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  • SAY THAT YOU LOVE ME.
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  • TELL ME YOU LOVE ME.
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  • UNBREAK MY HEART.
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  • CAN'T GO ON.
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  • WHOA."
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  • [LAUGHING]
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  • TAYLOR SWIFT.
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  • "I KNEW YOU WERE TROUBLE
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  • WHEN YOU WALKED IN.
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  • I KNEW YOU WERE TROUBLE
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  • WHEN YOU WALKED IN.
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  • SO, SHAME ON ME NOW.
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  • FLEW ME TO PLACES
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  • I NEVER BEEN.
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  • NOW I'M LYING ON THE COLD,
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  • HARD GROUND.
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  • OH, OH.
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  • TROUBLE, TROUBLE, TROUBLE.
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  • OH, OH.
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  • TROUBLE, TROUBLE, TROUBLE.
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  • I KNEW YOU WERE TROUBLE
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  • WHEN YOU WALKED IN.
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  • TROUBLE, TROUBLE, TROUBLE.
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  • I KNEW YOU WERE TROUBLE
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  • WHEN YOU WALKED IN.
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  • TROUBLE, TROUBLE, TROUBLE."
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  • THANK YOU.
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  • THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
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  • THANK YOU.
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  • [APPLAUSE]
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  • FOR SOME OF YOU OLD PEOPLE
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  • THAT ARE HERE,
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  • I DON'T WANT TO FORGET YOU.
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  • A SONG THAT SAYS THIS,
  • 00:06:06.290 --> 00:06:09.010
  • "AIN'T NO SUNSHINE
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  • WHEN SHE'S GONE."
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  • [LAUGHING]
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  • "IT'S NOT WARM
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  • WHEN SHE'S AWAY.
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  • AIN'T NO SUNSHINE
  • 00:06:21.110 --> 00:06:22.090
  • WHEN SHE'S GONE,
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  • AND SHE'S ALWAYS
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  • GONE TOO LONG ANYTIME
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  • SHE GOES AWAY.
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  • WONDER THIS TIME
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  • WHERE SHE'S GONE.
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  • WONDER IF SHE'S GONE TO STAY.
  • 00:06:29.200 --> 00:06:31.170
  • AIN'T NO SUNSHINE
  • 00:06:31.170 --> 00:06:32.180
  • WHEN SHE'S GONE
  • 00:06:32.180 --> 00:06:33.210
  • AND THIS HOUSE
  • 00:06:33.210 --> 00:06:34.060
  • JUST AIN'T NO HOME
  • 00:06:34.060 --> 00:06:35.170
  • ANYTIME SHE GOES AWAY.
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  • AND I KNOW, I KNOW, I KNOW,
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  • I KNOW, I KNOW, I KNOW,
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  • I KNOW, I KNOW, I KNOW,
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  • I KNOW, I KNOW, I KNOW,
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  • I KNOW, I KNOW, I KNOW..."
  • 00:06:49.050 --> 00:06:52.050
  • HEY, DO PEOPLE HAVE
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  • THAT MUCH CONTROL OVER YOU?
  • 00:06:54.130 --> 00:06:57.130
  • ONLY GOD IS TO HAVE
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  • THAT KIND OF CONTROL OVER YOU;
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  • NOT A MAN, NOT A WOMAN,
  • 00:07:01.260 --> 00:07:03.290
  • ONLY GOD.
  • 00:07:07.220 --> 00:07:10.220
  • ONLY GOD.
  • 00:07:10.220 --> 00:07:11.170
  • ONLY GOD.
  • 00:07:11.170 --> 00:07:13.070
  • WELL, MY HEART IS BROKEN.
  • 00:07:13.070 --> 00:07:14.040
  • I CAN'T GET UP.
  • 00:07:14.040 --> 00:07:15.240
  • I WISH MY GIRL ACTED
  • 00:07:15.240 --> 00:07:17.080
  • LIKE MY DOG WHO'S THRILLED
  • 00:07:17.080 --> 00:07:18.120
  • WHEN I COME HOME.
  • 00:07:18.120 --> 00:07:19.240
  • I MEAN, WRITING
  • 00:07:19.240 --> 00:07:20.110
  • ALL THESE SONGS.
  • 00:07:20.110 --> 00:07:22.010
  • FOLKS, LISTEN.
  • 00:07:22.010 --> 00:07:22.170
  • YOUR LIFE IS MORE THAN THAT.
  • 00:07:22.170 --> 00:07:24.080
  • YOUR LIFE IS MORE THAN THAT.
  • 00:07:24.080 --> 00:07:25.020
  • YOU KNOW WHAT?
  • 00:07:25.020 --> 00:07:26.070
  • YOU HAVE LIGHT.
  • 00:07:26.070 --> 00:07:28.030
  • "AIN'T NO SUNSHINE..."
  • 00:07:28.030 --> 00:07:28.250
  • YOU KNOW WHAT?
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  • YEAH, THERE'S SUNSHINE.
  • 00:07:29.090 --> 00:07:30.030
  • IF YOU'VE GOT GOD,
  • 00:07:30.030 --> 00:07:30.270
  • THERE'S SUNSHINE.
  • 00:07:30.270 --> 00:07:31.260
  • IF YOU'RE MARRIED
  • 00:07:31.260 --> 00:07:32.090
  • OR NOT MARRIED,
  • 00:07:32.090 --> 00:07:33.020
  • YOU HAVE SUNSHINE.
  • 00:07:33.020 --> 00:07:34.030
  • IF YOU HAVE A HUSBAND
  • 00:07:34.030 --> 00:07:34.240
  • OR A WIFE,
  • 00:07:34.240 --> 00:07:35.070
  • YOU HAVE SUNSHINE.
  • 00:07:35.070 --> 00:07:36.130
  • IF YOU'RE SINGLE
  • 00:07:36.130 --> 00:07:37.000
  • AND DON'T HAVE ANYBODY WITH YOU,
  • 00:07:37.000 --> 00:07:38.120
  • YOU STILL HAVE SUNSHINE
  • 00:07:38.120 --> 00:07:39.180
  • IF YOU HAVE GOD.
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  • [APPLAUSE]
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  • YEAH.
  • 00:07:43.150 --> 00:07:44.280
  • ALRIGHT.
  • 00:07:44.280 --> 00:07:45.180
  • LET ME SHOW YOU THEN
  • 00:07:45.180 --> 00:07:46.160
  • SOME KEYS HERE,
  • 00:07:46.160 --> 00:07:47.170
  • AND SINGLENESS
  • 00:07:47.170 --> 00:07:48.010
  • IS PART OF MARRIAGE.
  • 00:07:48.010 --> 00:07:48.260
  • LOOK AT THIS HERE.
  • 00:07:48.260 --> 00:07:49.150
  • LET'S DO NUMBER ONE.
  • 00:07:49.150 --> 00:07:50.230
  • YOUR MARRIAGE
  • 00:07:50.230 --> 00:07:51.070
  • IS ONLY AS GOOD
  • 00:07:51.070 --> 00:07:52.060
  • AS YOUR SINGLENESS.
  • 00:07:52.060 --> 00:07:54.230
  • SO YOU THINK
  • 00:07:54.230 --> 00:07:55.060
  • YOU'LL GET MARRIED
  • 00:07:55.060 --> 00:07:55.180
  • AND ALL OF A SUDDEN CHANGE.
  • 00:07:55.180 --> 00:07:56.180
  • NO, NO, NO, NO.
  • 00:07:56.180 --> 00:07:57.100
  • HOW MUCH DO YOU KNOW
  • 00:07:57.100 --> 00:07:58.190
  • ABOUT YOURSELF
  • 00:07:58.190 --> 00:07:59.080
  • BEFORE YOU LEARN
  • 00:07:59.080 --> 00:08:00.090
  • ABOUT SOMEBODY ELSE?
  • 00:08:00.090 --> 00:08:01.200
  • YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT YOU,
  • 00:08:01.200 --> 00:08:03.030
  • 'CAUSE MARRIAGE
  • 00:08:03.030 --> 00:08:03.180
  • IS NOT A SOLUTION
  • 00:08:03.180 --> 00:08:05.130
  • OR THE ANSWER
  • 00:08:05.130 --> 00:08:06.260
  • TO NOT BEING ALONE.
  • 00:08:06.260 --> 00:08:08.030
  • IT'S NOT THAT.
  • 00:08:08.030 --> 00:08:08.270
  • YOU NEED TO DEAL
  • 00:08:08.270 --> 00:08:09.250
  • WITH YOURSELF AND BE HAPPY
  • 00:08:09.250 --> 00:08:11.170
  • BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED
  • 00:08:11.170 --> 00:08:13.020
  • AND THINK THAT PERSON'S
  • 00:08:13.020 --> 00:08:14.170
  • TO MAKE YOU HAPPY.
  • 00:08:14.170 --> 00:08:15.140
  • ALL THAT PERSON CAN DO
  • 00:08:15.140 --> 00:08:16.230
  • IS MAKE YOU HAPPIER.
  • 00:08:16.230 --> 00:08:18.190
  • NOT HAPPY.
  • 00:08:18.190 --> 00:08:20.000
  • GOD MAKES YOU HAPPY.
  • 00:08:20.000 --> 00:08:21.060
  • IT'S GOD'S JOY.
  • 00:08:21.060 --> 00:08:22.160
  • DEBBIE CAN'T GIVE ME JOY.
  • 00:08:22.160 --> 00:08:24.190
  • GOD GIVES ME
  • 00:08:24.190 --> 00:08:25.120
  • THAT KIND OF JOY.
  • 00:08:25.120 --> 00:08:26.150
  • YOU UNDERSTAND?
  • 00:08:26.150 --> 00:08:27.100
  • I CAN'T DEPEND ON HER,
  • 00:08:27.100 --> 00:08:28.250
  • SHE CAN'T DEPEND ON ME
  • 00:08:28.250 --> 00:08:30.040
  • TO FULFILL HER.
  • 00:08:30.040 --> 00:08:31.100
  • CAN'T DO THAT.
  • 00:08:31.100 --> 00:08:32.060
  • HERE'S NUMBER TWO.
  • 00:08:32.060 --> 00:08:33.140
  • YOU BRING TO THE MARRIAGE
  • 00:08:33.140 --> 00:08:35.060
  • WHAT YOU ARE AS A SINGLE.
  • 00:08:35.060 --> 00:08:37.100
  • SO WHAT I'M SAYING,
  • 00:08:37.100 --> 00:08:38.050
  • IF YOU CAN'T COOK SINGLE,
  • 00:08:38.200 --> 00:08:41.200
  • WELL --
  • 00:08:41.200 --> 00:08:44.170
  • IF YOU DON'T KNOW
  • 00:08:44.170 --> 00:08:45.070
  • HOW TO SPEND MONEY
  • 00:08:45.070 --> 00:08:46.070
  • OR SAVE MONEY SINGLE,
  • 00:08:46.070 --> 00:08:48.090
  • SAME THING'S
  • 00:08:48.090 --> 00:08:49.090
  • GOING TO HAPPEN MARRIED.
  • 00:08:49.090 --> 00:08:51.100
  • HERE'S WHAT MARRIAGE IS.
  • 00:08:51.100 --> 00:08:53.100
  • MARRIAGE IS THE COLLISION
  • 00:08:54.000 --> 00:08:57.000
  • OF TWO HISTORIES,
  • 00:08:57.170 --> 00:09:00.190
  • 'CAUSE WHEN YOU COME TOGETHER,
  • 00:09:00.190 --> 00:09:02.140
  • YOU HAVE TWO HISTORIES
  • 00:09:02.140 --> 00:09:03.230
  • COMING TOGETHER.
  • 00:09:03.230 --> 00:09:04.230
  • THAT'S WHY THE WHOLE BACHELOR
  • 00:09:04.230 --> 00:09:05.260
  • AND BACHELORETTE SHOW
  • 00:09:05.260 --> 00:09:06.190
  • NEVER MAKES IT.
  • 00:09:06.190 --> 00:09:07.120
  • THAT'S WHY THESE PEOPLE
  • 00:09:07.120 --> 00:09:08.060
  • ALWAYS BREAK UP,
  • 00:09:08.060 --> 00:09:09.040
  • BECAUSE THEY DON'T LEARN ABOUT
  • 00:09:09.040 --> 00:09:10.020
  • THE HISTORY OF EACH OTHER.
  • 00:09:10.020 --> 00:09:11.150
  • THEY'VE GOT TOO MANY THINGS
  • 00:09:11.150 --> 00:09:12.040
  • TALKING ABOUT,
  • 00:09:12.040 --> 00:09:12.200
  • TRYING TO KISS AND --
  • 00:09:12.200 --> 00:09:13.290
  • AND THEN THEY SPEND
  • 00:09:13.290 --> 00:09:14.160
  • ONE KIND OF HOME DATE HERE
  • 00:09:14.160 --> 00:09:15.260
  • FOR A COUPLE OF HOURS
  • 00:09:15.260 --> 00:09:16.280
  • AND THAT'S IT
  • 00:09:16.280 --> 00:09:17.120
  • AND NOW I KNOW YOU.
  • 00:09:17.120 --> 00:09:18.060
  • NO, NO.
  • 00:09:18.060 --> 00:09:18.230
  • YOU DON'T KNOW ME.
  • 00:09:18.230 --> 00:09:20.130
  • I DON'T KNOW YOU.
  • 00:09:20.130 --> 00:09:22.070
  • AND YOU KNOW WHAT?
  • 00:09:22.070 --> 00:09:23.060
  • YOU'RE COMING TOGETHER WITH --
  • 00:09:23.060 --> 00:09:24.240
  • THERE'S A LOT OF HISTORY HERE.
  • 00:09:24.240 --> 00:09:26.010
  • DO YOU KNOW THAT ABOUT
  • 00:09:26.010 --> 00:09:26.240
  • A PERSON?
  • 00:09:26.240 --> 00:09:27.180
  • IF YOU'RE 50 YEARS OLD
  • 00:09:27.180 --> 00:09:29.050
  • IN THIS CHURCH
  • 00:09:29.050 --> 00:09:30.130
  • AND YOU'RE SINGLE
  • 00:09:30.130 --> 00:09:31.030
  • AND YOU'RE 50 YEARS OLD
  • 00:09:31.030 --> 00:09:32.060
  • AND Y'ALL ARE GOING
  • 00:09:32.060 --> 00:09:33.000
  • TO GET MARRIED,
  • 00:09:33.000 --> 00:09:33.270
  • YOUR HONEYMOON NIGHT,
  • 00:09:33.270 --> 00:09:34.230
  • YOU HAVE 100 YEARS OF HISTORY.
  • 00:09:34.230 --> 00:09:36.110
  • HAVE Y'ALL TALKED ABOUT THAT?
  • 00:09:36.110 --> 00:09:37.250
  • A HUNDRED YEARS.
  • 00:09:37.250 --> 00:09:39.230
  • THAT'S A LOT OF STUFF
  • 00:09:39.230 --> 00:09:40.230
  • TO WANT TO KNOW.
  • 00:09:40.230 --> 00:09:41.230
  • YOU NEED TO TAKE THAT TIME
  • 00:09:41.230 --> 00:09:43.080
  • TO GET TO KNOW
  • 00:09:43.080 --> 00:09:43.260
  • THAT PERSON.
  • 00:09:43.260 --> 00:09:44.290
  • AMEN?
  • 00:09:44.290 --> 00:09:45.200
  • ALRIGHT, HERE'S NUMBER THREE.
  • 00:09:45.200 --> 00:09:47.020
  • WHEN GOD CREATED HUMAN BEINGS,
  • 00:09:47.020 --> 00:09:49.220
  • HE CREATED NOT A COUPLE
  • 00:09:49.220 --> 00:09:50.260
  • BUT A SINGLE MAN.
  • 00:09:50.260 --> 00:09:53.030
  • HE DIDN'T CREATE A COUPLE.
  • 00:09:53.030 --> 00:09:54.040
  • HE CREATED A MAN
  • 00:09:54.040 --> 00:09:55.050
  • AND TOLD THE MAN WHAT TO DO,
  • 00:09:55.050 --> 00:09:57.050
  • TOLD THE MAN HOW TO LIVE.
  • 00:09:57.050 --> 00:09:58.150
  • AND THAT ONE MAN,
  • 00:09:58.150 --> 00:09:59.190
  • HE WAS CREATED.
  • 00:09:59.190 --> 00:10:00.290
  • THE WOMAN WAS PULLED OUT OF MAN
  • 00:10:00.290 --> 00:10:02.150
  • SO SHE WAS NOT CREATED.
  • 00:10:02.150 --> 00:10:03.270
  • SHE WAS PULLED OUT OF MAN.
  • 00:10:03.270 --> 00:10:05.070
  • BUT THERE WAS ONE MAN CREATED
  • 00:10:05.070 --> 00:10:06.260
  • AND ONE MAN --
  • 00:10:06.260 --> 00:10:07.160
  • WATCH THIS,
  • 00:10:07.160 --> 00:10:08.050
  • WHERE I'M GOING WITH THIS.
  • 00:10:08.050 --> 00:10:09.050
  • THIS IS THE LAST POINT.
  • 00:10:09.050 --> 00:10:10.120
  • ONE MAN,
  • 00:10:10.120 --> 00:10:10.260
  • WE HAVE SIX BILLION PEOPLE
  • 00:10:10.260 --> 00:10:12.000
  • ON EARTH BECAUSE OF ONE MAN;
  • 00:10:12.000 --> 00:10:14.040
  • SIX BILLION ON EARTH, ONE MAN,
  • 00:10:14.040 --> 00:10:17.040
  • WHICH TELLS ME
  • 00:10:17.040 --> 00:10:18.040
  • MAN MUST BE THE FOUNDATION STONE
  • 00:10:18.040 --> 00:10:19.280
  • IN THIS WHOLE DEAL.
  • 00:10:19.280 --> 00:10:21.090
  • MAN MUST BE KIND
  • 00:10:21.090 --> 00:10:22.210
  • OF THE FOUNDATION
  • 00:10:22.210 --> 00:10:23.250
  • IN THIS THING.
  • 00:10:23.250 --> 00:10:24.140
  • MAN IS THAT SOLID FOUNDATION
  • 00:10:24.140 --> 00:10:26.120
  • WHERE YOU BUILD
  • 00:10:26.120 --> 00:10:27.170
  • ON THAT SITUATION,
  • 00:10:27.170 --> 00:10:29.030
  • WHERE YOU BUILD ON IT.
  • 00:10:29.030 --> 00:10:29.290
  • THAT'S WHAT MAN IS.
  • 00:10:29.290 --> 00:10:31.010
  • MAN IS,
  • 00:10:31.010 --> 00:10:31.180
  • MAN MUST BE THIS FOUNDATION
  • 00:10:31.180 --> 00:10:33.160
  • THAT CARRIES THE WEIGHT.
  • 00:10:33.160 --> 00:10:34.230
  • IT'S WHAT HE DOES.
  • 00:10:34.230 --> 00:10:35.160
  • SEE, A FOUNDATION --
  • 00:10:35.160 --> 00:10:37.060
  • THE FOUNDATION IN THIS CHURCH
  • 00:10:37.060 --> 00:10:39.060
  • BASICALLY HOLDS --
  • 00:10:39.060 --> 00:10:40.010
  • THIS IS ALL YOU SEE.
  • 00:10:40.010 --> 00:10:40.210
  • YOU DON'T SEE THE FOUNDATION.
  • 00:10:40.210 --> 00:10:42.090
  • THIS IS ALL YOU SEE
  • 00:10:42.090 --> 00:10:43.040
  • RIGHT HERE.
  • 00:10:43.040 --> 00:10:43.170
  • RIGHT?
  • 00:10:43.170 --> 00:10:44.060
  • YOU SEE THE LIGHTS.
  • 00:10:44.060 --> 00:10:44.230
  • YOU SEE THE PEWS.
  • 00:10:44.230 --> 00:10:45.110
  • YOU SEE THE SCREENS.
  • 00:10:45.110 --> 00:10:46.020
  • YOU SEE ALL THIS.
  • 00:10:46.020 --> 00:10:46.220
  • BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?
  • 00:10:46.220 --> 00:10:47.140
  • THIS WOULDN'T EXIST
  • 00:10:47.140 --> 00:10:47.280
  • WITHOUT A FOUNDATION.
  • 00:10:47.280 --> 00:10:49.120
  • WHAT WE DON'T KNOW
  • 00:10:49.120 --> 00:10:50.090
  • IS THE FOUNDATION
  • 00:10:50.090 --> 00:10:50.270
  • REALLY HOLDS EVERYTHING UP.
  • 00:10:50.270 --> 00:10:52.250
  • THE FOUNDATION COSTS MORE
  • 00:10:52.250 --> 00:10:54.110
  • THAN ALL THE REST OF THIS
  • 00:10:54.110 --> 00:10:55.090
  • THAT YOU SEE.
  • 00:10:55.090 --> 00:10:56.050
  • THE FOUNDATION IS THE MOST
  • 00:10:56.050 --> 00:10:57.070
  • IMPORTANT THING IN THIS.
  • 00:10:57.070 --> 00:10:58.120
  • MEN, YOU'RE THE MOST IMPORTANT
  • 00:10:58.120 --> 00:10:59.270
  • PERSON IN THAT MARRIAGE THERE.
  • 00:10:59.270 --> 00:11:01.130
  • YOU HOLD EVERYTHING UP.
  • 00:11:01.130 --> 00:11:02.240
  • YOU'RE THE WEIGHT.
  • 00:11:02.240 --> 00:11:04.000
  • EVERYBODY, BE QUIET.
  • 00:11:04.000 --> 00:11:04.230
  • LISTEN.
  • 00:11:04.230 --> 00:11:05.200
  • SEE IF YOU CAN HEAR SOMETHING.
  • 00:11:06.010 --> 00:11:09.010
  • THE FOUNDATION
  • 00:11:09.010 --> 00:11:09.130
  • DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING.
  • 00:11:09.130 --> 00:11:10.240
  • SO WHY DO SOME OF YOU MEN
  • 00:11:10.240 --> 00:11:11.200
  • HAVE TO SAY,
  • 00:11:11.200 --> 00:11:12.070
  • "I PAY THE BILLS"?
  • 00:11:12.070 --> 00:11:13.170
  • WHY DO YOU HAVE TO SAY,
  • 00:11:13.170 --> 00:11:14.090
  • "OH, LORD"?
  • 00:11:14.090 --> 00:11:17.010
  • WHY DO YOU HAVE TO SAY,
  • 00:11:17.010 --> 00:11:17.250
  • "I TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS,
  • 00:11:17.250 --> 00:11:18.210
  • I PAY FOR THE SCHOOL,
  • 00:11:18.210 --> 00:11:19.180
  • I BUY THEIR CLOTHES,
  • 00:11:19.180 --> 00:11:20.100
  • GOT TO DO ALL THIS"?
  • 00:11:20.100 --> 00:11:21.070
  • THE FOUNDATION DOESN'T TALK
  • 00:11:21.070 --> 00:11:22.050
  • AND BRAG ABOUT SOMETHING
  • 00:11:22.050 --> 00:11:23.050
  • YOU SHOULD ALREADY DO.
  • 00:11:24.230 --> 00:11:27.230
  • [APPLAUSE]
  • 00:11:27.230 --> 00:11:29.280
  • THE FOUNDATION IS NOT
  • 00:11:29.280 --> 00:11:31.000
  • BRAGGING ABOUT, "LOOK AT ME,
  • 00:11:31.000 --> 00:11:32.110
  • HOW STRONG I AM,
  • 00:11:32.110 --> 00:11:33.200
  • HOLDING THIS CHURCH UP.
  • 00:11:33.200 --> 00:11:35.110
  • LOOK AT ME."
  • 00:11:35.110 --> 00:11:36.240
  • THE FOUNDATION
  • 00:11:36.240 --> 00:11:37.090
  • DOESN'T SAY ANYTHING.
  • 00:11:37.090 --> 00:11:38.150
  • HE DOESN'T HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING
  • 00:11:38.150 --> 00:11:39.080
  • BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT
  • 00:11:39.080 --> 00:11:39.290
  • THE FOUNDATION
  • 00:11:39.290 --> 00:11:40.230
  • IS SUPPOSED TO DO.
  • 00:11:40.230 --> 00:11:42.100
  • THAT'S WHAT YOU DO
  • 00:11:42.100 --> 00:11:43.010
  • IN A FOUNDATION.
  • 00:11:43.010 --> 00:11:43.240
  • KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING?
  • 00:11:43.240 --> 00:11:44.290
  • SO HERE WE HAVE THIS FOUNDATION.
  • 00:11:44.290 --> 00:11:45.290
  • MEN, YOU ARE THE FOUNDATION.
  • 00:11:45.290 --> 00:11:47.260
  • NOW, AS I CLOSE HERE,
  • 00:11:47.260 --> 00:11:49.240
  • THIS WORD THAT PEOPLE
  • 00:11:49.240 --> 00:11:51.110
  • HAVE SAID FOR YEARS,
  • 00:11:51.110 --> 00:11:52.160
  • THE BEHIND EVERY GREAT MAN
  • 00:11:52.160 --> 00:11:53.260
  • IS A GREAT WOMAN, FALSE.
  • 00:11:53.260 --> 00:11:56.010
  • THAT'S NOT TRUE.
  • 00:11:56.010 --> 00:11:58.090
  • NOT TRUE.
  • 00:11:58.090 --> 00:11:59.030
  • HATE TO BREAK SOME EGOS.
  • 00:11:59.030 --> 00:12:00.180
  • IT'S NOT TRUE.
  • 00:12:00.180 --> 00:12:01.060
  • IT'S NOT BIBLICAL.
  • 00:12:01.060 --> 00:12:02.120
  • I'LL SHOW YOU.
  • 00:12:02.120 --> 00:12:03.100
  • COME HERE, DEB.
  • 00:12:03.100 --> 00:12:04.290
  • GOD MADE MAN.
  • 00:12:06.040 --> 00:12:09.040
  • - I AM SO EXCITED
  • 00:12:16.100 --> 00:12:17.200
  • TO OFFER YOU THIS SERIES,
  • 00:12:17.200 --> 00:12:19.290
  • "TWO BECOME ONE".
  • 00:12:19.290 --> 00:12:21.180
  • THIS IS A GREAT MYSTERY.
  • 00:12:21.180 --> 00:12:23.290
  • I BELIEVE THIS WILL BE ONE
  • 00:12:23.290 --> 00:12:26.200
  • OF THE GREATEST MESSAGES,
  • 00:12:26.200 --> 00:12:28.200
  • SERIES OF MESSAGES
  • 00:12:28.200 --> 00:12:29.250
  • THAT YOU WILL HEAR,
  • 00:12:29.250 --> 00:12:30.240
  • DEALING WITH THE RELATIONSHIP
  • 00:12:30.240 --> 00:12:32.150
  • AND WHAT GOD SAYS
  • 00:12:32.150 --> 00:12:33.100
  • THAT WILL BRING HARMONY
  • 00:12:33.100 --> 00:12:34.130
  • IN YOUR HOME.
  • 00:12:34.130 --> 00:12:35.250
  • IT IS REALLY A MYSTERY
  • 00:12:35.250 --> 00:12:37.060
  • HOW TWO PEOPLE
  • 00:12:37.060 --> 00:12:38.130
  • FROM TWO DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS
  • 00:12:38.130 --> 00:12:39.160
  • AND LIVES CAN BECOME ONE.
  • 00:12:39.160 --> 00:12:42.080
  • BOY, WHEN I EXPLAIN THIS TO YOU
  • 00:12:42.080 --> 00:12:43.180
  • AND SHARE THIS WITH YOU,
  • 00:12:43.180 --> 00:12:45.100
  • IT'S ALL GOING TO MAKE
  • 00:12:45.100 --> 00:12:46.130
  • SENSE TO YOU.
  • 00:12:46.130 --> 00:12:47.110
  • YOU'VE GOT TO GET THIS TODAY.
  • 00:12:47.110 --> 00:12:49.120
  • I'M SERIOUS.
  • 00:12:49.120 --> 00:12:50.080
  • AND YOU NEED TO WATCH IT.
  • 00:12:50.080 --> 00:12:51.090
  • WHEN YOU GET THIS SERIES,
  • 00:12:51.090 --> 00:12:52.280
  • "TWO BECOME ONE,"
  • 00:12:52.280 --> 00:12:53.280
  • I WANT TO SEND,
  • 00:12:53.280 --> 00:12:54.230
  • FREE OF CHARGE,
  • 00:12:54.230 --> 00:12:55.260
  • THIS BOOKLET.
  • 00:12:55.260 --> 00:12:56.240
  • AND I'LL TELL YOU WHAT,
  • 00:12:56.240 --> 00:12:57.190
  • THIS BOOKLET
  • 00:12:57.190 --> 00:12:58.110
  • IS GOING TO BLESS YOU,
  • 00:12:58.110 --> 00:12:59.100
  • "THE TEN COMMANDMENTS
  • 00:12:59.100 --> 00:13:00.060
  • OF MARRIAGE".
  • 00:13:00.060 --> 00:13:01.040
  • MY WIFE WROTE FIVE COMMANDMENTS
  • 00:13:01.040 --> 00:13:03.090
  • AND I WROTE
  • 00:13:03.090 --> 00:13:04.080
  • FIVE COMMANDMENTS.
  • 00:13:04.080 --> 00:13:05.180
  • DEBBIE WROTE FIVE COMMANDMENTS
  • 00:13:05.180 --> 00:13:07.210
  • TO THE WOMEN SUCH AS,
  • 00:13:07.210 --> 00:13:09.010
  • HERE'S NUMBER ONE, WOMEN,
  • 00:13:09.010 --> 00:13:10.040
  • "GIVE UP YOUR IDEA
  • 00:13:10.040 --> 00:13:11.290
  • OF A FAIRY TALE MARRIAGE".
  • 00:13:11.290 --> 00:13:14.080
  • HERE'S A COMMANDMENT
  • 00:13:14.080 --> 00:13:15.140
  • TO THE MEN THAT I WROTE,
  • 00:13:15.140 --> 00:13:16.230
  • "GOD DIDN'T CREATE EVE
  • 00:13:16.230 --> 00:13:17.200
  • TO PICK UP ADAM'S CLOTHES."
  • 00:13:17.200 --> 00:13:19.120
  • OH, YOU'RE GOING TO LOVE THIS.
  • 00:13:19.120 --> 00:13:21.050
  • THIS IS FREE
  • 00:13:21.050 --> 00:13:22.110
  • WHEN YOU GET THE SERIES
  • 00:13:22.110 --> 00:13:24.010
  • - HOW MANY ARE MARRIED
  • 00:13:27.060 --> 00:13:27.280
  • OUT THERE?
  • 00:13:27.280 --> 00:13:28.080
  • RAISE YOUR HAND
  • 00:13:28.080 --> 00:13:28.230
  • YOU KNOW
  • 00:13:30.240 --> 00:13:31.040
  • WHAT A PERFECT WIFE IS, HUH?
  • 00:13:31.040 --> 00:13:32.120
  • A PERFECT WIFE?
  • 00:13:32.120 --> 00:13:33.230
  • A PERFECT WIFE IS ONE
  • 00:13:33.230 --> 00:13:35.040
  • THAT HELPS HER HUSBAND
  • 00:13:35.040 --> 00:13:36.040
  • SO, YOU NEED TO CULTIVATE
  • 00:13:39.190 --> 00:13:41.040
  • SO WHEN GOD GIVES YOU A WOMAN,
  • 00:13:41.040 --> 00:13:42.230
  • YOU NEED TO CULTIVATE
  • 00:13:42.230 --> 00:13:44.020
  • THAT PERSON THERE.
  • 00:13:44.020 --> 00:13:45.070
  • YOU NEED TO MAKE
  • 00:13:45.070 --> 00:13:45.280
  • EVERYTHING FRUITFUL,
  • 00:13:45.280 --> 00:13:47.020
  • YOU NEED TO MAKE
  • 00:13:47.020 --> 00:13:47.210
  • EVERYTHING MULTIPLY.
  • 00:13:47.210 --> 00:13:49.050
  • HE ONLY SAID THAT TO THE MAN.
  • 00:13:49.050 --> 00:13:50.230
  • HE DIDN'T TELL THE WOMAN
  • 00:13:50.230 --> 00:13:51.200
  • TO CULTIVATE THE MAN,
  • 00:13:51.200 --> 00:13:53.000
  • HE TOLD THE MAN
  • 00:13:53.000 --> 00:13:53.200
  • HOW MANY SINGLES
  • 00:13:56.250 --> 00:13:57.100
  • DO WE HAVE HERE?
  • 00:13:57.100 --> 00:13:58.050
  • WE HAVE ANY SINGLES HERE?
  • 00:13:58.050 --> 00:14:00.050
  • IF A MAN CAN'T LIFT
  • 00:14:00.050 --> 00:14:01.000
  • HIS HANDS IN WORSHIP,
  • 00:14:01.000 --> 00:14:03.280
  • HE'S NOT READY
  • 00:14:03.280 --> 00:14:04.150
  • YOUR QUESTION TO A MAN,
  • 00:14:08.080 --> 00:14:09.200
  • YOUR FIRST QUESTION
  • 00:14:09.200 --> 00:14:10.170
  • IS WHERE ARE YOU?
  • 00:14:10.170 --> 00:14:12.070
  • ARE YOU IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD?
  • 00:14:12.070 --> 00:14:14.100
  • BECAUSE, IF THEY'RE NOT
  • 00:14:14.100 --> 00:14:15.020
  • IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD FIRST,
  • 00:14:15.020 --> 00:14:17.000
  • - GO STAND OVER HERE.
  • 00:14:27.010 --> 00:14:27.200
  • HE DIDN'T MAKE YOU.
  • 00:14:27.200 --> 00:14:28.280
  • HE MADE ME.
  • 00:14:28.280 --> 00:14:29.120
  • - YES, HE DID.
  • 00:14:29.120 --> 00:14:30.020
  • - NO, HE DIDN'T MAKE YOU YET.
  • 00:14:30.020 --> 00:14:30.290
  • - HE MADE ME OUT OF A RIB.
  • 00:14:30.290 --> 00:14:32.040
  • - I KNOW, HE MADE YOU
  • 00:14:32.040 --> 00:14:33.200
  • OUT OF A RIB.
  • 00:14:33.200 --> 00:14:34.110
  • THE REASON IS 'CAUSE ALL MEN
  • 00:14:34.110 --> 00:14:35.040
  • LOVE RIBS.
  • 00:14:35.040 --> 00:14:35.170
  • OKAY.
  • 00:14:35.170 --> 00:14:37.170
  • THAT'S THE REASON.
  • 00:14:37.170 --> 00:14:39.080
  • SO HE MADE MAN.
  • 00:14:39.080 --> 00:14:41.040
  • WE TALKED ABOUT IT.
  • 00:14:41.040 --> 00:14:41.220
  • HERE'S ADAM.
  • 00:14:41.220 --> 00:14:42.180
  • ADAM IS DOING WHAT?
  • 00:14:42.180 --> 00:14:43.290
  • HE'S IN THE PRESENCE
  • 00:14:43.290 --> 00:14:44.180
  • OF GOD.
  • 00:14:44.180 --> 00:14:45.190
  • ALRIGHT?
  • 00:14:45.190 --> 00:14:46.230
  • HE'S IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD.
  • 00:14:46.230 --> 00:14:47.150
  • SO MEN, LISTEN.
  • 00:14:47.150 --> 00:14:48.050
  • YOU NEED --
  • 00:14:48.050 --> 00:14:49.140
  • WHY DO THE WOMEN
  • 00:14:49.140 --> 00:14:50.090
  • HAVE TO BE THE ONES
  • 00:14:50.090 --> 00:14:51.010
  • TO WORSHIP HERE?
  • 00:14:51.010 --> 00:14:51.230
  • THANK GOD WE HAVE SOME MEN
  • 00:14:51.230 --> 00:14:52.180
  • THAT ARE NOT AFRAID TO WORSHIP
  • 00:14:52.180 --> 00:14:54.080
  • AND SHOW SOME EMOTION.
  • 00:14:54.080 --> 00:14:55.120
  • YOU'RE IN
  • 00:14:55.120 --> 00:14:56.010
  • THE PRESENCE OF GOD.
  • 00:14:56.010 --> 00:14:57.070
  • AMEN?
  • 00:14:57.070 --> 00:14:58.060
  • HEY, YOU'RE SUPPOSED
  • 00:14:58.060 --> 00:14:59.180
  • TO BE THAT FIRST PERSON
  • 00:14:59.180 --> 00:15:00.200
  • IN HIS PRESENCE.
  • 00:15:00.200 --> 00:15:01.210
  • YOU'RE SUPPOSED
  • 00:15:01.210 --> 00:15:02.100
  • TO LEAD THE FAMILY.
  • 00:15:02.100 --> 00:15:03.020
  • YOUR KIDS SHOULD BE TALKING
  • 00:15:03.020 --> 00:15:04.090
  • ABOUT HOW SPIRITUAL DAD IS
  • 00:15:04.090 --> 00:15:06.080
  • MORE THAN HOW SPIRITUAL MOM IS.
  • 00:15:07.030 --> 00:15:10.030
  • FOUNDATION.
  • 00:15:10.030 --> 00:15:11.020
  • "I'M GOING TO GIVE A FOUNDATION.
  • 00:15:11.020 --> 00:15:12.060
  • MAN, YOU'RE GOING TO BE
  • 00:15:12.060 --> 00:15:13.200
  • THE FOUNDATION
  • 00:15:13.200 --> 00:15:15.260
  • AND THEN I'M GOING TO GIVE
  • 00:15:15.260 --> 00:15:16.220
  • YOU WOMAN."
  • 00:15:16.220 --> 00:15:17.110
  • OKAY?
  • 00:15:17.110 --> 00:15:17.210
  • SO HERE IT IS.
  • 00:15:17.210 --> 00:15:18.060
  • IF WE DO IT THIS WAY,
  • 00:15:18.060 --> 00:15:19.000
  • HERE IT IS.
  • 00:15:19.000 --> 00:15:19.280
  • HERE IT IS.
  • 00:15:19.280 --> 00:15:20.140
  • GOD MADE MAN.
  • 00:15:20.140 --> 00:15:21.170
  • AND IF WE HAVE --
  • 00:15:21.170 --> 00:15:22.100
  • COME STAND BEHIND ME.
  • 00:15:22.100 --> 00:15:23.000
  • AND THEN HE GIVES WOMAN.
  • 00:15:23.000 --> 00:15:25.200
  • NOW, BEHIND EVERY GREAT MAN
  • 00:15:25.200 --> 00:15:26.280
  • IS A GREAT WOMAN.
  • 00:15:26.280 --> 00:15:28.120
  • NO, 'CAUSE YOU DON'T PUT
  • 00:15:28.120 --> 00:15:30.030
  • THE FOUNDATION ON TOP
  • 00:15:31.050 --> 00:15:34.050
  • OF THE BEAUTY,
  • 00:15:34.050 --> 00:15:36.200
  • 'CAUSE WHEN THE DEVIL PUSHES ME,
  • 00:15:37.090 --> 00:15:40.090
  • SHE'S NOT GOING TO BE
  • 00:15:40.090 --> 00:15:41.030
  • STRONG ENOUGH TO HOLD ME UP.
  • 00:15:41.030 --> 00:15:43.140
  • SHE WASN'T BUILT TO BE
  • 00:15:43.140 --> 00:15:45.000
  • THAT FOUNDATION TO HOLD UP.
  • 00:15:45.110 --> 00:15:48.110
  • SHE'S NOT STRONG ENOUGH
  • 00:15:48.110 --> 00:15:49.230
  • TO DO THAT.
  • 00:15:49.230 --> 00:15:51.050
  • SO WHAT GOD DID,
  • 00:15:51.050 --> 00:15:52.210
  • HE REVERSED IT AND SAID,
  • 00:15:52.210 --> 00:15:54.100
  • "NOW, YOU ARE THE FOUNDATION,
  • 00:15:55.160 --> 00:15:58.160
  • AND IF HE PUSHES ON YOUR WIFE,
  • 00:15:58.160 --> 00:16:00.170
  • THEN YOU CAN CATCH
  • 00:16:00.170 --> 00:16:01.160
  • YOUR WIFE AND,"
  • 00:16:01.160 --> 00:16:03.060
  • 'CAUSE YOU'RE THE FOUNDATION,
  • 00:16:03.060 --> 00:16:04.220
  • AND SHE WON'T FALL,
  • 00:16:04.220 --> 00:16:06.110
  • AND YOUR MARRIAGE DOESN'T FALL
  • 00:16:06.160 --> 00:16:09.160
  • BECAUSE SHE'S STRONG ENOUGH,
  • 00:16:09.160 --> 00:16:11.150
  • SHE'S STRONG ENOUGH,
  • 00:16:11.150 --> 00:16:12.120
  • I'M STRONG ENOUGH TO BE ABLE
  • 00:16:12.120 --> 00:16:13.160
  • TO CARRY HER
  • 00:16:13.160 --> 00:16:14.200
  • BECAUSE I AM THAT FOUNDATION."
  • 00:16:14.200 --> 00:16:16.130
  • MEN, YOU'VE GOT TO REALIZE
  • 00:16:16.130 --> 00:16:18.120
  • WHO YOU ARE IN THIS FAMILY.
  • 00:16:18.120 --> 00:16:20.170
  • IT ALL REALLY RESTS ON YOU.
  • 00:16:20.170 --> 00:16:22.170
  • NOW, MY WIFE, LIKE YOUR WIFE,
  • 00:16:22.170 --> 00:16:24.280
  • WOULD BE BOTHERED
  • 00:16:24.280 --> 00:16:26.030
  • BY IF I GO AHEAD
  • 00:16:26.030 --> 00:16:27.280
  • AND I DON'T DO ANYTHING.
  • 00:16:27.280 --> 00:16:29.160
  • WE GET MARRIED
  • 00:16:29.160 --> 00:16:30.110
  • AND NOW I'M LAZY.
  • 00:16:30.110 --> 00:16:31.230
  • NOW I'M SITTING
  • 00:16:31.230 --> 00:16:32.110
  • IN MY CHAIR AND SHE'S LIKE,
  • 00:16:32.110 --> 00:16:33.050
  • "WELL, WHAT ARE YOU
  • 00:16:33.050 --> 00:16:34.050
  • GOING TO DO, GLEN?
  • 00:16:34.050 --> 00:16:34.230
  • COME ON.
  • 00:16:34.230 --> 00:16:35.130
  • WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO?
  • 00:16:35.130 --> 00:16:36.070
  • WE'RE MARRIED NOW.
  • 00:16:36.070 --> 00:16:37.000
  • CAN WE TALK?
  • 00:16:37.000 --> 00:16:37.220
  • CAN WE TALK ABOUT..."
  • 00:16:37.220 --> 00:16:38.150
  • YOU EVER HAVE YOUR WIFE
  • 00:16:38.150 --> 00:16:39.050
  • DO THIS?
  • 00:16:39.050 --> 00:16:39.130
  • "WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO?
  • 00:16:39.130 --> 00:16:40.070
  • WHAT'S THE PLAN?
  • 00:16:40.070 --> 00:16:41.000
  • WHAT'S OUR DREAM?"
  • 00:16:41.000 --> 00:16:41.170
  • I DON'T KNOW.
  • 00:16:41.170 --> 00:16:42.030
  • WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO?
  • 00:16:42.030 --> 00:16:42.250
  • STOP DOING THAT BECAUSE,
  • 00:16:42.250 --> 00:16:45.120
  • SEE, GOD SAYS,
  • 00:16:45.120 --> 00:16:46.130
  • "I'M GIVING YOU A HELPER."
  • 00:16:46.130 --> 00:16:48.160
  • A HELPER TO DO WHAT?
  • 00:16:48.160 --> 00:16:49.100
  • SIT ON A COUCH?
  • 00:16:49.100 --> 00:16:51.090
  • NO.
  • 00:16:51.090 --> 00:16:51.240
  • NO.
  • 00:16:51.240 --> 00:16:52.190
  • SO GOD HAS FILLED UP THE WOMAN
  • 00:16:52.190 --> 00:16:54.190
  • WITH ALL OF THESE IDEAS
  • 00:16:54.190 --> 00:16:56.150
  • AND THESE GIFTING'S
  • 00:16:56.150 --> 00:16:57.150
  • AND THESE ABILITIES
  • 00:16:57.150 --> 00:16:58.220
  • THAT YOU AND I, MEN,
  • 00:16:58.220 --> 00:17:00.080
  • HAVE TO PULL OUT OF HER,
  • 00:17:00.080 --> 00:17:02.080
  • YOU SEE, 'CAUSE SHE WANTS
  • 00:17:02.080 --> 00:17:03.100
  • TO HELP ME ACCOMPLISH SOMETHING
  • 00:17:03.150 --> 00:17:06.150
  • AND HAVE A PURPOSE.
  • 00:17:06.150 --> 00:17:07.170
  • BUT IF I DON'T HAVE A DREAM
  • 00:17:07.170 --> 00:17:09.090
  • AND I DON'T HAVE A VISION,
  • 00:17:09.090 --> 00:17:10.120
  • I DON'T HAVE A PURPOSE,
  • 00:17:10.120 --> 00:17:11.140
  • THEN SHE'S FRUSTRATED.
  • 00:17:11.140 --> 00:17:12.230
  • AND THEN YOU COME TO ME
  • 00:17:12.230 --> 00:17:13.160
  • AND SAY, "SHE'S SO BOSSY."
  • 00:17:13.160 --> 00:17:15.080
  • IT'S BECAUSE
  • 00:17:15.080 --> 00:17:15.220
  • YOU'RE SO LAZY.
  • 00:17:15.220 --> 00:17:17.070
  • [APPLAUSE]
  • 00:17:18.060 --> 00:17:21.060
  • WOW.
  • 00:17:21.280 --> 00:17:24.280
  • SEE?
  • 00:17:24.280 --> 00:17:25.250
  • SO I HAVE TO --
  • 00:17:25.250 --> 00:17:26.250
  • I MEAN, YOU KNOW
  • 00:17:26.250 --> 00:17:27.250
  • HOW MUCH SHE --
  • 00:17:27.250 --> 00:17:28.120
  • I'VE GOT TO BE
  • 00:17:28.120 --> 00:17:29.000
  • A BIGGER DREAMER THAN HER.
  • 00:17:29.000 --> 00:17:30.230
  • BUT SEE, SHE WAS GIVEN TO ME
  • 00:17:30.230 --> 00:17:33.090
  • TO HELP WITH THE PURPOSE
  • 00:17:33.090 --> 00:17:35.110
  • THAT GOD HAS CALLED ME TO HAVE.
  • 00:17:35.110 --> 00:17:37.110
  • MEN GET A PURPOSE.
  • 00:17:37.110 --> 00:17:40.070
  • YOU'VE GOT TO HAVE THAT,
  • 00:17:40.070 --> 00:17:41.210
  • 'CAUSE GOD'S GIVEN YOU A HELPER
  • 00:17:41.210 --> 00:17:44.070
  • THAT WILL HELP YOU
  • 00:17:44.070 --> 00:17:45.090
  • IN EVERYTHING YOU DO.
  • 00:17:45.090 --> 00:17:46.170
  • SO WHAT IS THE PLAN
  • 00:17:46.170 --> 00:17:47.220
  • YOU'RE GOING TO GIVE THEM?
  • 00:17:47.220 --> 00:17:49.070
  • WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO TELL THEM
  • 00:17:49.070 --> 00:17:50.050
  • AS FAR AS THIS FAMILY,
  • 00:17:50.050 --> 00:17:51.110
  • WHAT YOU WANT THIS FAMILY
  • 00:17:51.110 --> 00:17:52.070
  • TO LOOK LIKE?
  • 00:17:52.070 --> 00:17:53.030
  • WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO HAVE
  • 00:17:53.030 --> 00:17:53.270
  • YOUR KIDS LOOK LIKE?
  • 00:17:53.270 --> 00:17:55.060
  • WHAT DO YOU NEED TO BE?
  • 00:17:55.060 --> 00:17:56.110
  • 'CAUSE SHE'S GOING TO HELP YOU
  • 00:17:56.110 --> 00:17:57.180
  • DO IT ALL.
  • 00:17:57.180 --> 00:17:58.170
  • BUT IF YOU DON'T FEED HER,
  • 00:17:58.170 --> 00:18:00.120
  • IF YOU DON'T CULTIVATE HER,
  • 00:18:00.120 --> 00:18:02.060
  • THEN DON'T GO AHEAD
  • 00:18:02.060 --> 00:18:02.290
  • AND BLAME ANYBODY ELSE.
  • 00:18:02.290 --> 00:18:05.010
  • IT'S MY FAULT.
  • 00:18:05.010 --> 00:18:06.250
  • IT'S MY FAULT.
  • 00:18:06.250 --> 00:18:07.090
  • STAND TO YOUR FEET.
  • 00:18:07.090 --> 00:18:07.270
  • STAND TO YOUR FEET.
  • 00:18:07.270 --> 00:18:08.130
  • STAND TO YOUR FEET.
  • 00:18:08.130 --> 00:18:08.280
  • I'VE GOT TO STOP.
  • 00:18:08.280 --> 00:18:09.150
  • STAND TO YOUR FEET.
  • 00:18:09.150 --> 00:18:10.010
  • HOW MANY LEARNED
  • 00:18:10.010 --> 00:18:10.130
  • SOMETHING TODAY?
  • 00:18:10.130 --> 00:18:11.020
  • I'M NOT THROUGH YET.
  • 00:18:11.020 --> 00:18:12.020
  • I'M NOT THROUGH YET.
  • 00:18:12.020 --> 00:18:12.210
  • HEY, I WANT ALL THE SINGLES --
  • 00:18:12.210 --> 00:18:14.270
  • WE ALWAYS DO IT
  • 00:18:14.270 --> 00:18:15.120
  • WITH THE MARRIED'S.
  • 00:18:15.120 --> 00:18:15.280
  • COME ON, SINGLES.
  • 00:18:15.280 --> 00:18:16.210
  • IT'S YOUR TURN.
  • 00:18:16.210 --> 00:18:17.080
  • COME DOWN TO THE ALTAR.
  • 00:18:17.080 --> 00:18:18.020
  • EVERYBODY SINGLE,
  • 00:18:18.020 --> 00:18:18.160
  • COME TO THE ALTAR.
  • 00:18:18.160 --> 00:18:19.030
  • COME ON.
  • 00:18:19.030 --> 00:18:19.210
  • ALL THE WAY DOWN.
  • 00:18:19.210 --> 00:18:20.070
  • COME ALL THE WAY DOWN.
  • 00:18:20.070 --> 00:18:20.270
  • SINGLES, FROM THE BALCONY.
  • 00:18:20.270 --> 00:18:22.020
  • COME ON DOWN.
  • 00:18:22.020 --> 00:18:22.200
  • COME ON DOWN.
  • 00:18:22.200 --> 00:18:23.060
  • THIS IS GOOD.
  • 00:18:23.060 --> 00:18:23.210
  • WE'VE GOT A LITTLE TIME LEFT.
  • 00:18:23.210 --> 00:18:25.070
  • ALL THE SINGLES.
  • 00:18:25.070 --> 00:18:25.250
  • ALL SINGLES.
  • 00:18:25.250 --> 00:18:26.130
  • ALL SINGLES.
  • 00:18:26.130 --> 00:18:28.140
  • SOMEBODY SAY,
  • 00:18:28.140 --> 00:18:28.250
  • "WELL, I DON'T WANT ANYBODY
  • 00:18:28.250 --> 00:18:29.170
  • TO KNOW I'M SINGLE."
  • 00:18:29.170 --> 00:18:30.030
  • THAT'S TOO BAD.
  • 00:18:30.030 --> 00:18:30.200
  • COME ON DOWN.
  • 00:18:30.200 --> 00:18:32.080
  • YOU'RE GOING TO SEE THAT HALF
  • 00:18:32.080 --> 00:18:33.120
  • OUR CHURCH IS SINGLE.
  • 00:18:33.120 --> 00:18:34.160
  • AMEN.
  • 00:18:34.160 --> 00:18:35.030
  • HALF OF OUR CHURCH
  • 00:18:35.030 --> 00:18:35.190
  • IS SINGLE.
  • 00:18:35.190 --> 00:18:37.140
  • LOOK AT THIS.
  • 00:18:37.140 --> 00:18:38.010
  • COME ON.
  • 00:18:38.010 --> 00:18:38.220
  • ALL THE WAY DOWN.
  • 00:18:38.220 --> 00:18:39.080
  • Y'ALL ARE SCARED.
  • 00:18:39.080 --> 00:18:39.290
  • COME ON DOWN.
  • 00:18:39.290 --> 00:18:40.100
  • COME ALL THE WAY DOWN.
  • 00:18:40.100 --> 00:18:41.230
  • COME ALL THE WAY DOWN.
  • 00:18:41.230 --> 00:18:42.120
  • ALL THE WAY DOWN
  • 00:18:42.120 --> 00:18:43.080
  • TO THE FRONT.
  • 00:18:43.080 --> 00:18:43.230
  • ALL THE WAY DOWN.
  • 00:18:43.230 --> 00:18:44.180
  • OKAY?
  • 00:18:44.180 --> 00:18:46.070
  • OKAY.
  • 00:18:46.070 --> 00:18:47.060
  • THIS IS WHAT
  • 00:18:47.060 --> 00:18:48.060
  • I WANT YOU TO DO.
  • 00:18:48.060 --> 00:18:49.040
  • THEY'RE STILL COMING.
  • 00:18:49.040 --> 00:18:50.030
  • I WANT EVERYBODY, EVERYBODY,
  • 00:18:50.030 --> 00:18:51.130
  • MARRIED COUPLES,
  • 00:18:51.130 --> 00:18:52.150
  • WHOEVER YOU ARE,
  • 00:18:52.150 --> 00:18:53.120
  • ALL SINGLES,
  • 00:18:53.120 --> 00:18:55.020
  • HUG YOURSELF.
  • 00:18:55.020 --> 00:18:55.290
  • RIGHT HERE.
  • 00:18:55.290 --> 00:18:56.140
  • HUG THIS, RIGHT HERE.
  • 00:18:56.140 --> 00:18:58.020
  • EVERYBODY, DO THIS.
  • 00:18:58.020 --> 00:18:58.270
  • OKAY?
  • 00:18:58.270 --> 00:19:00.030
  • NOW, WATCH.
  • 00:19:00.030 --> 00:19:00.210
  • THERE'S A POINT IN THIS.
  • 00:19:00.210 --> 00:19:02.060
  • SOME OF YOU ARE NOT HUGGING.
  • 00:19:02.060 --> 00:19:03.040
  • I DON'T SEE YOU.
  • 00:19:03.040 --> 00:19:03.210
  • I'M WATCHING.
  • 00:19:03.210 --> 00:19:04.120
  • YOU BETTER HUG YOURSELF.
  • 00:19:04.120 --> 00:19:06.000
  • OKAY, HERE'S THE POINT, GUYS.
  • 00:19:06.000 --> 00:19:07.210
  • HERE'S THE POINT.
  • 00:19:07.210 --> 00:19:09.280
  • THIS IS ALL I CAN DEAL WITH
  • 00:19:09.280 --> 00:19:11.010
  • RIGHT HERE.
  • 00:19:11.010 --> 00:19:12.110
  • I CAN'T DEAL WITH THIS.
  • 00:19:12.110 --> 00:19:13.240
  • I CAN ONLY DEAL WITH ME.
  • 00:19:13.240 --> 00:19:16.010
  • GUESS WHO IS GOING TO BE
  • 00:19:16.010 --> 00:19:16.270
  • STANDING BEFORE GOD
  • 00:19:16.270 --> 00:19:17.170
  • AND JUDGED.
  • 00:19:17.170 --> 00:19:18.110
  • YOU THINK ALL OF US
  • 00:19:18.110 --> 00:19:19.030
  • ARE GOING TO STAND
  • 00:19:19.030 --> 00:19:19.240
  • THERE TOGETHER?
  • 00:19:19.240 --> 00:19:21.010
  • BY OURSELVES.
  • 00:19:21.010 --> 00:19:22.160
  • JUST ME.
  • 00:19:22.160 --> 00:19:23.240
  • OKAY?
  • 00:19:23.240 --> 00:19:24.290
  • I CAN ONLY DEAL WITH ME.
  • 00:19:24.290 --> 00:19:27.030
  • WE ALWAYS WANT --
  • 00:19:27.030 --> 00:19:27.180
  • DEBBIE, IF YOU'D JUST DO THIS.
  • 00:19:27.180 --> 00:19:28.180
  • IF YOU'D JUST --
  • 00:19:28.180 --> 00:19:29.050
  • NO, NO, NO, NO, NO.
  • 00:19:29.050 --> 00:19:30.130
  • - DEAL WITH YOURSELF.
  • 00:19:30.130 --> 00:19:31.240
  • - I'VE GOT TO GO AHEAD
  • 00:19:31.240 --> 00:19:32.250
  • AND JUST DEAL WITH ME.
  • 00:19:32.250 --> 00:19:33.290
  • I'VE GOT TO DEAL WITH ME.
  • 00:19:33.290 --> 00:19:34.270
  • SO YOU'RE THE ONLY PERSON
  • 00:19:34.270 --> 00:19:36.110
  • RIGHT NOW THAT YOU'VE GOT
  • 00:19:36.110 --> 00:19:37.100
  • TO WORK ON,
  • 00:19:37.100 --> 00:19:39.000
  • NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE.
  • 00:19:39.000 --> 00:19:40.060
  • YOU'VE GOT TO WORK ON ME.
  • 00:19:40.060 --> 00:19:41.280
  • AND THERE ARE THINGS
  • 00:19:41.280 --> 00:19:42.210
  • THAT YOU CAN WORK ON,
  • 00:19:42.210 --> 00:19:43.200
  • INSTEAD OF CRITICIZING
  • 00:19:43.200 --> 00:19:44.240
  • AND LOOKING AT EVERYBODY ELSE,
  • 00:19:44.240 --> 00:19:45.210
  • HOW THEY NEED TO CHANGE,
  • 00:19:45.210 --> 00:19:46.230
  • START LOOKING AT YOURSELF,
  • 00:19:46.230 --> 00:19:48.160
  • 'CAUSE THE BIBLE
  • 00:19:48.160 --> 00:19:48.270
  • EVEN SAYS IN SCRIPTURE,
  • 00:19:48.270 --> 00:19:49.230
  • "EXAMINE YOURSELF."
  • 00:19:49.250 --> 00:19:52.250
  • DO A SELF-EXAMINATION.
  • 00:19:52.250 --> 00:19:54.110
  • QUIT BLAMING WHY EVERYBODY --
  • 00:19:54.110 --> 00:19:55.000
  • "I DON'T KNOW WHY
  • 00:19:55.000 --> 00:19:55.170
  • I DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS.
  • 00:19:55.170 --> 00:19:56.080
  • I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE
  • 00:19:56.080 --> 00:19:57.030
  • JUST DON'T CALL ME
  • 00:19:57.030 --> 00:19:57.280
  • ALL THE TIME."
  • 00:19:57.280 --> 00:19:58.110
  • YOU DON'T GET ANY PHONE CALLS,
  • 00:19:58.110 --> 00:19:59.060
  • YOU'RE NOT FRIENDLY THEN,
  • 00:19:59.060 --> 00:20:00.180
  • 'CAUSE FRIENDLY PEOPLE
  • 00:20:00.180 --> 00:20:01.080
  • WILL GET CALLS.
  • 00:20:01.080 --> 00:20:02.260
  • ENCOURAGING PEOPLE
  • 00:20:02.260 --> 00:20:03.210
  • WANT TO HEAR YOU
  • 00:20:03.210 --> 00:20:04.060
  • ENCOURAGE THEM
  • 00:20:04.060 --> 00:20:05.150
  • AND BLESS --
  • 00:20:05.150 --> 00:20:06.150
  • THEY LOVE THAT.
  • 00:20:06.150 --> 00:20:07.170
  • SO IF YOU'RE NOT
  • 00:20:07.170 --> 00:20:08.050
  • THAT KIND OF PERSON,
  • 00:20:08.050 --> 00:20:08.240
  • THEN MAYBE
  • 00:20:08.240 --> 00:20:09.120
  • I NEED TO EXAMINE MYSELF
  • 00:20:09.120 --> 00:20:10.090
  • AND CHANGE SOME THINGS.
  • 00:20:10.090 --> 00:20:11.170
  • YOU'VE GETTING FIRED
  • 00:20:11.170 --> 00:20:12.100
  • FROM EVERY JOB,
  • 00:20:12.100 --> 00:20:12.260
  • MAYBE THERE'S SOMETHING
  • 00:20:12.260 --> 00:20:14.010
  • WRONG WITH YOU
  • 00:20:14.010 --> 00:20:14.210
  • AND NOT EVERY BOSS
  • 00:20:14.210 --> 00:20:15.160
  • THAT YOU WORK FOR.
  • 00:20:15.160 --> 00:20:16.140
  • MAYBE I NEED TO LOOK AT ME.
  • 00:20:16.140 --> 00:20:17.210
  • SO I NEED TO LOOK AT MYSELF.
  • 00:20:17.210 --> 00:20:19.000
  • WHAT DO I NEED TO CHANGE?
  • 00:20:19.000 --> 00:20:20.050
  • MEN, YOU NEED
  • 00:20:20.050 --> 00:20:20.260
  • TO BE MEN OF GOD.
  • 00:20:20.260 --> 00:20:21.180
  • WE TALKED ABOUT THIS.
  • 00:20:21.180 --> 00:20:22.160
  • YOU NEED TO STEP UP IN THIS.
  • 00:20:22.160 --> 00:20:24.020
  • "WELL, I JUST WANT TO GET
  • 00:20:24.020 --> 00:20:24.280
  • MARRIED ONE DAY."
  • 00:20:24.280 --> 00:20:25.160
  • ARE YOU THE KIND OF MAN?
  • 00:20:25.160 --> 00:20:26.090
  • THAT MAN?
  • 00:20:26.090 --> 00:20:28.160
  • OR ARE YOU GOING TO STAY ALONE?
  • 00:20:28.160 --> 00:20:29.150
  • IT'S BETTER FOR YOU TO BE ALONE
  • 00:20:29.150 --> 00:20:30.140
  • BECAUSE YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE
  • 00:20:30.140 --> 00:20:31.040
  • A STATISTIC IN YOUR LIFE
  • 00:20:31.040 --> 00:20:32.210
  • TO BE DIVORCED.
  • 00:20:32.210 --> 00:20:33.250
  • - I THINK WE NEED TO REMEMBER
  • 00:20:33.250 --> 00:20:34.260
  • THAT WE DON'T MARRY SOMEBODY
  • 00:20:34.260 --> 00:20:36.270
  • FOR THEM TO MAKE US HAPPY
  • 00:20:37.070 --> 00:20:40.070
  • OR TO COMPLETE US.
  • 00:20:40.070 --> 00:20:42.070
  • WE ARE COMPLETE
  • 00:20:42.070 --> 00:20:42.280
  • WHEN WE HAVE
  • 00:20:42.280 --> 00:20:43.270
  • THE LORD JESUS CHRIST
  • 00:20:43.270 --> 00:20:44.230
  • IN OUR LIFE,
  • 00:20:44.230 --> 00:20:45.130
  • AND HE CHANGES US.
  • 00:20:45.130 --> 00:20:47.280
  • IF YOU'RE NOT BEING CHANGED
  • 00:20:47.280 --> 00:20:49.290
  • BY THE LORD,
  • 00:20:49.290 --> 00:20:52.050
  • IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE
  • 00:20:52.050 --> 00:20:53.200
  • RESISTING HIM.
  • 00:20:53.200 --> 00:20:55.040
  • YOU'RE NOT ALLOWING HIM
  • 00:20:55.040 --> 00:20:56.160
  • TO CHANGE YOU,
  • 00:20:56.160 --> 00:20:57.100
  • BECAUSE HE WANTS TO CHANGE YOU.
  • 00:20:57.100 --> 00:20:59.070
  • HE WANTS TO MOLD YOU
  • 00:20:59.070 --> 00:21:00.220
  • INTO JESUS' IMAGE
  • 00:21:00.220 --> 00:21:02.170
  • AND MAKE SOMETHING
  • 00:21:02.170 --> 00:21:03.040
  • REALLY INCREDIBLY BEAUTIFUL
  • 00:21:03.040 --> 00:21:04.230
  • OUT OF YOUR LIFE,
  • 00:21:04.230 --> 00:21:05.230
  • SOMETHING YOU COULDN'T DO ON
  • 00:21:05.230 --> 00:21:07.000
  • YOUR OWN.
  • 00:21:07.000 --> 00:21:08.090
  • AND WHEN WE ALLOW GOD
  • 00:21:08.090 --> 00:21:09.160
  • TO DO THAT,
  • 00:21:09.160 --> 00:21:10.140
  • THEN WE DO MAKE
  • 00:21:10.140 --> 00:21:11.190
  • OURSELVES MARRIAGE MATERIAL.
  • 00:21:11.190 --> 00:21:14.120
  • I'M LOOKING AT THE YOUNG
  • 00:21:14.120 --> 00:21:15.080
  • PEOPLE A LOT,
  • 00:21:15.080 --> 00:21:16.000
  • BECAUSE THEY ARE --
  • 00:21:16.000 --> 00:21:17.110
  • YOU GUYS ARE IDEALISTIC
  • 00:21:17.110 --> 00:21:19.090
  • AND YOU HAVE THIS FANTASY
  • 00:21:19.090 --> 00:21:20.270
  • OF WHAT MARRIAGE IS.
  • 00:21:20.270 --> 00:21:22.110
  • WORK ON YOURSELF.
  • 00:21:22.110 --> 00:21:24.000
  • BE THE BEST YOU
  • 00:21:24.000 --> 00:21:24.270
  • THAT YOU CAN BE
  • 00:21:24.270 --> 00:21:26.140
  • WITH A WORD OF GOD
  • 00:21:26.140 --> 00:21:27.110
  • AND THE POWER
  • 00:21:27.110 --> 00:21:28.040
  • OF THE HOLY SPIRIT,
  • 00:21:28.040 --> 00:21:30.160
  • AND THEN YOU'LL BE READY TO --
  • 00:21:30.160 --> 00:21:33.050
  • WHAT DO YOU CALL IT?
  • 00:21:33.050 --> 00:21:34.080
  • BECOME A PRINCESS
  • 00:21:34.080 --> 00:21:35.060
  • AND KISS A TOAD?
  • 00:21:35.060 --> 00:21:37.090
  • THAT'S WHAT I DID.
  • 00:21:37.190 --> 00:21:40.190
  • HE TELLS JOKES ALL THE TIME.
  • 00:21:40.190 --> 00:21:41.250
  • I THOUGHT I'D THROW ONE IN.
  • 00:21:42.030 --> 00:21:45.030
  • - GIVE ME THE MICROPHONE.
  • 00:21:45.030 --> 00:21:46.000
  • JUST GIVE ME THE MICROPHONE.
  • 00:21:46.000 --> 00:21:46.190
  • [LAUGHTER]
  • 00:21:48.020 --> 00:21:51.020
  • THE BIBLE SAYS
  • 00:21:51.020 --> 00:21:51.140
  • "PUT AWAY CHILDISH THINGS".
  • 00:21:51.140 --> 00:21:53.010
  • IT'S AMAZING HOW WE TAKE THINGS
  • 00:21:53.010 --> 00:21:54.010
  • IN OUR LIFE
  • 00:21:54.010 --> 00:21:54.280
  • AND WE STAY WITH IT
  • 00:21:54.280 --> 00:21:55.260
  • THE REST OF OUR LIFE.
  • 00:21:55.260 --> 00:21:56.280
  • AND THERE COMES A POINT
  • 00:21:56.280 --> 00:21:57.250
  • WHERE ALL OF US HERE NEED
  • 00:21:57.250 --> 00:21:58.260
  • TO JUST MAKE UP OUR MIND
  • 00:21:58.260 --> 00:22:00.030
  • IT'S NOT WORKING THE WAY
  • 00:22:00.030 --> 00:22:01.090
  • WE'RE DOING IT.
  • 00:22:01.090 --> 00:22:01.250
  • IT'S NOT WORKING,
  • 00:22:01.250 --> 00:22:02.100
  • THE WAY I REACT TO PEOPLE.
  • 00:22:02.100 --> 00:22:03.190
  • IT'S NOT WORKING,
  • 00:22:03.190 --> 00:22:04.180
  • THE WAY MY ANGER IS NOT --
  • 00:22:04.180 --> 00:22:06.040
  • BULLYING PEOPLE.
  • 00:22:06.040 --> 00:22:07.120
  • TRYING TO CONTROL PEOPLE.
  • 00:22:07.120 --> 00:22:08.170
  • TRYING TO MANIPULATE PEOPLE.
  • 00:22:08.170 --> 00:22:09.240
  • TRYING TO WORK DEALS.
  • 00:22:09.240 --> 00:22:10.230
  • TRYING TO, ANGLES.
  • 00:22:10.230 --> 00:22:11.290
  • LET'S STOP THAT.
  • 00:22:11.290 --> 00:22:13.070
  • LET'S JUST STOP IT
  • 00:22:13.070 --> 00:22:13.290
  • BECAUSE IT'S NOT
  • 00:22:13.290 --> 00:22:16.020
  • A CHARACTER TRAIT OF GOD ANYWAY.
  • 00:22:16.020 --> 00:22:18.070
  • AND IF IT'S NOT
  • 00:22:18.070 --> 00:22:19.080
  • A CHARACTER TRAIT OF HIM,
  • 00:22:19.080 --> 00:22:20.050
  • I DON'T WANT IT IN MY LIFE.
  • 00:22:20.050 --> 00:22:22.180
  • SO THE EARLIER THAT I REALIZED
  • 00:22:22.180 --> 00:22:23.150
  • IN MY LIFE
  • 00:22:23.150 --> 00:22:24.110
  • THAT WHAT I CAME THROUGH
  • 00:22:24.110 --> 00:22:25.250
  • AND EVERYTHING THAT'S IN MY LIFE
  • 00:22:25.250 --> 00:22:27.010
  • AND ALL THESE CRAZY THINGS HERE,
  • 00:22:27.010 --> 00:22:28.250
  • THAT WAS NOT CULTIVATING,
  • 00:22:28.250 --> 00:22:30.260
  • WAS NOT GOING AHEAD
  • 00:22:30.260 --> 00:22:32.100
  • AND CAUSING HER TO BLOSSOM,
  • 00:22:33.000 --> 00:22:36.000
  • I'M REALIZING I'M CAUSING THAT.
  • 00:22:36.000 --> 00:22:38.080
  • AS THE MAN, THAT WAS MY JOB.
  • 00:22:38.080 --> 00:22:40.120
  • AND THAT I NEEDED TO GO AHEAD
  • 00:22:40.120 --> 00:22:41.290
  • AND TO LOVE HER LIKE
  • 00:22:41.290 --> 00:22:43.030
  • GOD WANTED HER TO BE LOVED.
  • 00:22:43.030 --> 00:22:45.170
  • AND SAYS,
  • 00:22:45.170 --> 00:22:45.290
  • "YOU WANTED A HELPER.
  • 00:22:45.290 --> 00:22:47.050
  • YOU ASKED FOR A HELPER.
  • 00:22:47.050 --> 00:22:48.160
  • I SEND YOU SOMEBODY
  • 00:22:48.160 --> 00:22:49.190
  • AND WHAT ARE YOU DOING
  • 00:22:49.190 --> 00:22:50.170
  • TO YOUR HELPER?
  • 00:22:50.170 --> 00:22:52.010
  • YOU'RE NOT USING THE HELPER
  • 00:22:52.010 --> 00:22:53.040
  • LIKE I'VE ASKED YOU TO."
  • 00:22:53.040 --> 00:22:55.140
  • AND I REALIZED,
  • 00:22:55.140 --> 00:22:56.040
  • "OKAY, THEN I NEED TO JUST,
  • 00:22:56.040 --> 00:22:57.130
  • AS A MAN..."
  • 00:22:57.130 --> 00:22:58.010
  • LISTEN.
  • 00:22:58.010 --> 00:22:58.160
  • I NEEDED TO JUST OWN UP TO IT
  • 00:22:58.160 --> 00:23:00.110
  • AND JUST ADMIT IT.
  • 00:23:00.110 --> 00:23:02.030
  • SUCK UP YOUR PRIDE
  • 00:23:02.030 --> 00:23:03.010
  • OR WHATEVER AND JUST SAY,
  • 00:23:03.010 --> 00:23:04.110
  • "WHATEVER THERE IS IN MY LIFE
  • 00:23:04.110 --> 00:23:05.140
  • IS JUST NOT BRINGING UNITY.
  • 00:23:05.140 --> 00:23:07.010
  • IT'S BRING DISUNITY
  • 00:23:07.010 --> 00:23:07.240
  • AND DISCORD."
  • 00:23:07.240 --> 00:23:08.280
  • OKAY?
  • 00:23:08.280 --> 00:23:09.150
  • SO WE DO THAT.
  • 00:23:09.150 --> 00:23:10.090
  • ALL THE MARRIED PEOPLE HERE,
  • 00:23:10.090 --> 00:23:11.130
  • YOU GO AHEAD
  • 00:23:11.130 --> 00:23:11.280
  • AND HOLD YOUR WIFE'S HAND
  • 00:23:11.280 --> 00:23:12.280
  • OR YOU CAN HUG HER.
  • 00:23:12.280 --> 00:23:13.210
  • Y'ALL CAN DO THAT.
  • 00:23:13.210 --> 00:23:14.120
  • SINGLES, YOU STILL,
  • 00:23:14.120 --> 00:23:15.040
  • YOU'VE ONLY GOT YOU
  • 00:23:15.040 --> 00:23:15.220
  • SO JUST HUG YOU.
  • 00:23:15.220 --> 00:23:17.170
  • THAT'S ALL YOU'VE GOT.
  • 00:23:17.170 --> 00:23:18.120
  • THAT'S ALL YOU'VE GOT.
  • 00:23:18.120 --> 00:23:20.130
  • ONE DAY.
  • 00:23:20.130 --> 00:23:20.290
  • - THEY'VE GOT JESUS.
  • 00:23:20.290 --> 00:23:21.230
  • - AND YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE
  • 00:23:21.230 --> 00:23:22.160
  • THAT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE
  • 00:23:22.160 --> 00:23:23.140
  • AND BE ALONE
  • 00:23:23.140 --> 00:23:24.000
  • UNLESS YOU CHANGE.
  • 00:23:24.000 --> 00:23:25.010
  • AMEN.
  • 00:23:25.010 --> 00:23:25.130
  • YOU'VE GOT TO CHANGE.
  • 00:23:25.130 --> 00:23:26.240
  • OKAY?
  • 00:23:26.240 --> 00:23:27.200
  • ALRIGHT.
  • 00:23:27.200 --> 00:23:28.210
  • DEBBIE, LET'S PRAY.
  • 00:23:28.210 --> 00:23:29.190
  • LET'S PRAY
  • 00:23:29.190 --> 00:23:29.290
  • FOR THESE RIGHT NOW.
  • 00:23:29.290 --> 00:23:30.240
  • LET'S JUST BELIEVE.
  • 00:23:30.240 --> 00:23:31.090
  • - I FIND THE BEST THING
  • 00:23:31.090 --> 00:23:32.130
  • TO DO IS TO REPENT.
  • 00:23:32.130 --> 00:23:35.060
  • I MEAN, WHEN WE REPENT,
  • 00:23:35.060 --> 00:23:36.070
  • WE ASK GOD TO FORGIVE US
  • 00:23:36.070 --> 00:23:38.100
  • AND WE CHOOSE TO TURN
  • 00:23:38.100 --> 00:23:40.140
  • AND WALK THE OTHER DIRECTION,
  • 00:23:40.140 --> 00:23:41.190
  • WHATEVER IT IS.
  • 00:23:41.190 --> 00:23:43.060
  • I MEAN, THIS GOSPEL IS POWERFUL.
  • 00:23:43.070 --> 00:23:46.070
  • THE WORD OF GOD IS POWERFUL.
  • 00:23:46.070 --> 00:23:47.240
  • AND IF YOU START PRACTICING IT
  • 00:23:47.240 --> 00:23:50.240
  • AND DOING
  • 00:23:50.240 --> 00:23:51.030
  • WHAT PASTOR SAID TODAY,
  • 00:23:51.030 --> 00:23:52.180
  • HUSBANDS AND SINGLES AND WIVES,
  • 00:23:52.220 --> 00:23:55.220
  • WHAT HE SAID
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  • THE LAST COUPLE OF WEEKS,
  • 00:23:56.070 --> 00:23:57.110
  • WE CAN RESPECT.
  • 00:23:57.110 --> 00:23:59.070
  • THEY LOVE --
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  • SINGLES, YOU WORK ON YOURSELF.
  • 00:23:59.270 --> 00:24:02.030
  • ALL OF US WORK ON OURSELVES.
  • 00:24:02.030 --> 00:24:03.240
  • BUT I THINK REPENTANCE
  • 00:24:03.240 --> 00:24:04.220
  • IS THE BEST WAY TO START.
  • 00:24:04.220 --> 00:24:05.250
  • WHAT DO YOU THINK?
  • 00:24:05.250 --> 00:24:07.060
  • - AMEN.
  • 00:24:07.060 --> 00:24:08.150
  • YOU WROTE SOMETHING,
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  • I THINK, YESTERDAY.
  • 00:24:09.010 --> 00:24:09.170
  • YOU ASKED ME
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  • WHAT I WAS GOING TO PREACH.
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  • DIDN'T YOU WRITE SOMETHING?
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  • YEAH.
  • 00:24:11.170 --> 00:24:11.280
  • YOU DID.
  • 00:24:11.280 --> 00:24:12.130
  • - I DID.
  • 00:24:12.130 --> 00:24:13.010
  • - OKAY.
  • 00:24:13.010 --> 00:24:13.190
  • GO AHEAD.
  • 00:24:13.190 --> 00:24:15.020
  • - TODAY, I HUMBLY COME
  • 00:24:15.020 --> 00:24:16.070
  • BEFORE YOU, FATHER.
  • 00:24:16.070 --> 00:24:17.180
  • SAY THAT.
  • 00:24:17.180 --> 00:24:18.060
  • - BOW YOUR HEADS.
  • 00:24:18.060 --> 00:24:18.220
  • YEAH.
  • 00:24:18.220 --> 00:24:19.170
  • GO AHEAD.
  • 00:24:19.170 --> 00:24:19.290
  • READ IT AGAIN.
  • 00:24:19.290 --> 00:24:21.050
  • - SAY, "TODAY,
  • 00:24:21.050 --> 00:24:22.050
  • I HUMBLY COME TO YOU, FATHER.
  • 00:24:22.050 --> 00:24:23.230
  • I WANT YOU TO CHANGE ME
  • 00:24:23.250 --> 00:24:26.250
  • SO I CHOOSE TO REPENT.
  • 00:24:26.250 --> 00:24:29.140
  • I REPENT FOR LOSING
  • 00:24:29.140 --> 00:24:30.120
  • MY FIRST LOVE.
  • 00:24:30.120 --> 00:24:33.050
  • I RENOUNCE ALL DEADNESS,
  • 00:24:33.050 --> 00:24:35.220
  • DRYNESS, AND APATHY.
  • 00:24:35.220 --> 00:24:38.080
  • I REPENT AND RENOUNCE
  • 00:24:38.080 --> 00:24:40.200
  • ALL BITTERNESS, UNFORGIVENESS,
  • 00:24:40.240 --> 00:24:43.240
  • AND RESENTMENT TOWARDS
  • 00:24:43.240 --> 00:24:45.270
  • MY MATE AND EVERYONE.
  • 00:24:46.010 --> 00:24:49.010
  • I RELEASE THEM TO YOU, GOD.
  • 00:24:49.020 --> 00:24:52.020
  • TODAY, I REPENT
  • 00:24:52.020 --> 00:24:52.280
  • FOR ALL IMPURITY,
  • 00:24:53.020 --> 00:24:56.020
  • UNCLEAN THOUGHTS,
  • 00:24:56.020 --> 00:24:57.230
  • ADULTERY, FORNICATION,
  • 00:24:57.230 --> 00:25:00.220
  • OR LOOKING AT PORNOGRAPHY.
  • 00:25:01.070 --> 00:25:04.070
  • I REPENT AND RENOUNCE
  • 00:25:04.070 --> 00:25:05.140
  • OF ALL WORD CURSES,
  • 00:25:05.220 --> 00:25:08.220
  • NEGATIVE, CRITICAL,
  • 00:25:08.220 --> 00:25:11.090
  • STRIFE-FILLED WORDS.
  • 00:25:11.090 --> 00:25:13.190
  • I REPENT FOR ALL PRIDE
  • 00:25:13.190 --> 00:25:16.030
  • AND HUMBLE MYSELF.
  • 00:25:17.060 --> 00:25:20.060
  • I REPENT FOR TRYING
  • 00:25:20.060 --> 00:25:21.100
  • TO RUN MY OWN LIFE.
  • 00:25:21.160 --> 00:25:24.160
  • TODAY, I CHOOSE YOU.
  • 00:25:25.120 --> 00:25:28.120
  • I CHOOSE TO FOLLOW YOU
  • 00:25:28.120 --> 00:25:30.110
  • WITH ALL MY HEART,
  • 00:25:30.110 --> 00:25:32.000
  • WITH ALL MY STRENGTH,
  • 00:25:32.000 --> 00:25:34.070
  • WITH ALL OF MY MIND,
  • 00:25:34.070 --> 00:25:36.040
  • WITH EVERYTHING THAT'S IN ME.
  • 00:25:36.040 --> 00:25:38.100
  • I SURRENDER.
  • 00:25:38.100 --> 00:25:41.100
  • I FORGIVE.
  • 00:25:41.100 --> 00:25:43.150
  • AND I GIVE YOU PERMISSION
  • 00:25:43.150 --> 00:25:44.200
  • TO CHANGE ME.
  • 00:25:44.200 --> 00:25:47.040
  • MAKE SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL
  • 00:25:47.250 --> 00:25:50.250
  • OUT OF MY LIFE."
  • 00:25:50.250 --> 00:25:52.290
  • - (BOTH) IN JESUS' NAME,
  • 00:25:52.290 --> 00:25:54.020
  • AMEN.
  • 00:25:54.020 --> 00:25:55.160
  • - I AM SO EXCITED TO OFFER YOU
  • 00:26:03.100 --> 00:26:05.270
  • THIS SERIES, "TWO BECOME ONE".
  • 00:26:05.270 --> 00:26:08.190
  • THIS IS A GREAT MYSTERY.
  • 00:26:08.190 --> 00:26:10.270
  • I BELIEVE THIS WILL BE ONE
  • 00:26:10.270 --> 00:26:13.120
  • OF THE GREATEST MESSAGES,
  • 00:26:13.120 --> 00:26:15.220
  • SERIES OF MESSAGES,
  • 00:26:15.220 --> 00:26:16.290
  • THAT YOU WILL HEAR
  • 00:26:16.290 --> 00:26:17.240
  • DEALING WITH RELATIONSHIP
  • 00:26:17.240 --> 00:26:19.090
  • AND WHAT GOD SAYS
  • 00:26:19.090 --> 00:26:20.060
  • THAT WILL BRING HARMONY
  • 00:26:20.060 --> 00:26:21.130
  • IN YOUR HOME.
  • 00:26:21.130 --> 00:26:22.220
  • IT IS REALLY A MYSTERY
  • 00:26:22.220 --> 00:26:24.010
  • THAT HOW TWO PEOPLE
  • 00:26:24.010 --> 00:26:25.130
  • FROM TWO DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS
  • 00:26:25.130 --> 00:26:26.160
  • AND LIVES CAN BECOME ONE.
  • 00:26:26.160 --> 00:26:29.070
  • BOY, WHEN I EXPLAIN THIS TO YOU
  • 00:26:29.070 --> 00:26:31.010
  • AND SHARE THIS WITH YOU,
  • 00:26:31.010 --> 00:26:32.090
  • IT'S ALL GOING TO MAKE
  • 00:26:32.090 --> 00:26:33.110
  • SENSE TO YOU.
  • 00:26:33.110 --> 00:26:34.060
  • YOU'VE GOT TO GET THIS TODAY.
  • 00:26:34.060 --> 00:26:36.110
  • I'M SERIOUS, AND YOU NEED
  • 00:26:36.110 --> 00:26:37.170
  • TO WATCH IT.
  • 00:26:37.170 --> 00:26:38.070
  • WHEN YOU GET THIS SERIES,
  • 00:26:38.070 --> 00:26:39.270
  • "TWO BECOME ONE",
  • 00:26:39.270 --> 00:26:40.260
  • I WANT TO SEND FREE OF CHARGE
  • 00:26:40.260 --> 00:26:42.240
  • THIS BOOKLET,
  • 00:26:42.240 --> 00:26:43.150
  • AND I'LL TELL YOU WHAT,
  • 00:26:43.150 --> 00:26:44.160
  • THIS BOOKLET
  • 00:26:44.160 --> 00:26:45.030
  • IS GOING TO BLESS YOU,
  • 00:26:45.030 --> 00:26:46.030
  • "THE TEN COMMANDMENTS
  • 00:26:46.030 --> 00:26:47.000
  • OF MARRIAGE".
  • 00:26:47.000 --> 00:26:48.020
  • MY WIFE WROTE FIVE COMMANDMENTS,
  • 00:26:48.020 --> 00:26:50.010
  • AND I WROTE FIVE COMMANDMENTS,
  • 00:26:50.010 --> 00:26:52.130
  • AND DEBBIE WROTE
  • 00:26:52.130 --> 00:26:53.210
  • FIVE COMMANDMENTS
  • 00:26:53.210 --> 00:26:54.170
  • TO THE WOMEN SUCH AS,
  • 00:26:54.170 --> 00:26:55.280
  • HERE'S NUMBER ONE, WOMEN,
  • 00:26:55.280 --> 00:26:57.020
  • "GIVE UP YOUR IDEA
  • 00:26:57.020 --> 00:26:58.240
  • OF A FAIRYTALE MARRIAGE".
  • 00:26:58.240 --> 00:27:01.090
  • NOW, HERE'S A COMMANDMENT
  • 00:27:01.090 --> 00:27:02.120
  • TO THE MEN THAT I WROTE,
  • 00:27:02.120 --> 00:27:03.170
  • "GOD DIDN'T CREATE EVE
  • 00:27:03.170 --> 00:27:04.200
  • TO PICK UP ADAM'S CLOTHES."
  • 00:27:04.200 --> 00:27:06.110
  • OH, YOU'RE GOING TO LOVE THIS.
  • 00:27:06.110 --> 00:27:08.050
  • THIS IS FREE
  • 00:27:08.050 --> 00:27:09.100
  • WHEN YOU GET THE SERIES,
  • 00:27:09.100 --> 00:27:10.290
  • - HOW MANY ARE MARRIED
  • 00:27:14.040 --> 00:27:14.260
  • OUT THERE?
  • 00:27:14.260 --> 00:27:15.060
  • RAISE YOUR HAND
  • 00:27:15.060 --> 00:27:15.210
  • YOU KNOW
  • 00:27:17.220 --> 00:27:18.020
  • WHAT A PERFECT WIFE IS, HUH?
  • 00:27:18.020 --> 00:27:19.100
  • A PERFECT WIFE?
  • 00:27:19.100 --> 00:27:20.210
  • A PERFECT WIFE IS ONE
  • 00:27:20.210 --> 00:27:22.020
  • THAT HELPS HER HUSBAND
  • 00:27:22.020 --> 00:27:23.020
  • SO, YOU NEED TO CULTIVATE
  • 00:27:26.170 --> 00:27:28.020
  • SO WHEN GOD GIVES YOU A WOMAN,
  • 00:27:28.020 --> 00:27:29.210
  • YOU NEED TO CULTIVATE
  • 00:27:29.210 --> 00:27:31.000
  • THAT PERSON THERE.
  • 00:27:31.000 --> 00:27:32.050
  • YOU NEED TO MAKE
  • 00:27:32.050 --> 00:27:32.260
  • EVERYTHING FRUITFUL,
  • 00:27:32.260 --> 00:27:34.000
  • YOU NEED TO MAKE
  • 00:27:34.000 --> 00:27:34.190
  • EVERYTHING MULTIPLY.
  • 00:27:34.190 --> 00:27:36.030
  • HE ONLY SAID THAT TO THE MAN.
  • 00:27:36.030 --> 00:27:37.210
  • HE DIDN'T TELL THE WOMAN
  • 00:27:37.210 --> 00:27:38.180
  • TO CULTIVATE THE MAN,
  • 00:27:38.180 --> 00:27:39.280
  • HE TOLD THE MAN
  • 00:27:39.280 --> 00:27:40.180
  • HOW MANY SINGLES
  • 00:27:43.230 --> 00:27:44.080
  • DO WE HAVE HERE?
  • 00:27:44.080 --> 00:27:45.030
  • WE HAVE ANY SINGLES HERE?
  • 00:27:45.030 --> 00:27:47.010
  • IF A MAN CAN'T LIFT
  • 00:27:47.010 --> 00:27:47.260
  • HIS HANDS IN WORSHIP,
  • 00:27:47.260 --> 00:27:50.240
  • HE'S NOT READY
  • 00:27:50.240 --> 00:27:51.110
  • YOUR QUESTION TO A MAN,
  • 00:27:55.040 --> 00:27:56.160
  • YOUR FIRST QUESTION
  • 00:27:56.160 --> 00:27:57.130
  • IS WHERE ARE YOU?
  • 00:27:57.130 --> 00:27:59.030
  • ARE YOU IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD?
  • 00:27:59.030 --> 00:28:01.080
  • BECAUSE, IF THEY'RE NOT
  • 00:28:01.080 --> 00:28:02.000
  • IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD FIRST,
  • 00:28:02.000 --> 00:28:03.280