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Better Together LIVE | Episode 38

May 20, 2020

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Better Together LIVE | Episode 38

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- Laurie: A HEALTHY MIND
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- Laurie: A HEALTHY MINDMATTERS.
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MATTERS.THE BIBLE TELLS US TO TAKE
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THE BIBLE TELLS US TO TAKECAPTIVE EVERY THOUGHT TO MAKE IT
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CAPTIVE EVERY THOUGHT TO MAKE ITOBEDIENT TO CHRIST.
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OBEDIENT TO CHRIST.IS THAT POSSIBLE?
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IS THAT POSSIBLE?YES, IT SURE IS.
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YES, IT SURE IS.CHANGING OUR PERSPECTIVE CAN
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CHANGING OUR PERSPECTIVE CANHELP US MANAGE STRESS AND FIND
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HELP US MANAGE STRESS AND FINDJOY.
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JOY.COME ON, LET'S TALK ABOUT IT.
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- Chrystal: LISTEN, IT HAS BEEN
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- Chrystal: LISTEN, IT HAS BEENSUCH A LONG JOURNEY FOR ME IN
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SUCH A LONG JOURNEY FOR ME INLEARNING HOW TO PAY ATTENTION TO
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LEARNING HOW TO PAY ATTENTION TOWHAT'S HAPPENING IN MY HEAD.
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WHAT'S HAPPENING IN MY HEAD.I'VE ALWAYS BEEN A JOURNALER BUT
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I'VE ALWAYS BEEN A JOURNALER BUTI USED TO JOURNAL JUST BECAUSE
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I USED TO JOURNAL JUST BECAUSETHERE WERE PROBABLY THINGS I
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THERE WERE PROBABLY THINGS IWANTED TO SAY TO MY PARENTS AS A
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WANTED TO SAY TO MY PARENTS AS AHORMONAL TEENAGER THAT WERE
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HORMONAL TEENAGER THAT WERETOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL AND MY
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TOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL AND MYJOURNAL WAS THE PLACE TO PUT IT
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JOURNAL WAS THE PLACE TO PUT ITALL.
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ALL.BUT THE REALITY IS, THE JOURNAL
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BUT THE REALITY IS, THE JOURNALWAS ALSO A PLACE FOR ME TO GET
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WAS ALSO A PLACE FOR ME TO GETTHINGS OUT OF MY HEAD.
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THINGS OUT OF MY HEAD.IT'S SO FUNNY, THAT AT TIMES I
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IT'S SO FUNNY, THAT AT TIMES IWOULD GO BACK AND READ WHAT I
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WOULD GO BACK AND READ WHAT IHAD WRITTEN DOWN IN MY JOURNAL
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HAD WRITTEN DOWN IN MY JOURNALAND SEE IN A NONTOXIC,
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AND SEE IN A NONTOXIC,NONEMOTIONAL MOMENT WHAT WAS
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NONEMOTIONAL MOMENT WHAT WASHAPPENING IN MY HEAD IN A VERY
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HAPPENING IN MY HEAD IN A VERYTOXIC, VERY EMOTIONAL MOMENT AND
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TOXIC, VERY EMOTIONAL MOMENT ANDTHAT OBJECTIVE PERSPECTIVE THAT
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THAT OBJECTIVE PERSPECTIVE THATDISTANCE HELPED ME TO SEE, OH,
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DISTANCE HELPED ME TO SEE, OH,THIS IS WHAT YOU WERE THINKING.
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THIS IS WHAT YOU WERE THINKING.THAT THINKING WASN'T EVEN
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THAT THINKING WASN'T EVENCORRECT.
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CORRECT.OR THIS IS WHAT YOU WERE SAYING
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OR THIS IS WHAT YOU WERE SAYINGTHAT YOU WERE FEELING.
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THAT YOU WERE FEELING.BUT THAT FEELING WAS TOTALLY
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BUT THAT FEELING WAS TOTALLYBLOWN OUT OF PROPORTION.
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BLOWN OUT OF PROPORTION.OR THIS IS ACTUALLY A PATTERN.
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OR THIS IS ACTUALLY A PATTERN.YOU KEEP THINKING THIS IN THIS
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YOU KEEP THINKING THIS IN THISSITUATION, SO LET'S ADDRESS THE
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SITUATION, SO LET'S ADDRESS THEPATTERN.
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PATTERN.OF COURSE WITH TIME AND AGE I
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OF COURSE WITH TIME AND AGE ICOULD DO A BETTER TIME OF THAT.
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COULD DO A BETTER TIME OF THAT.I'M REALIZING, IN ORDER TO TAKE
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I'M REALIZING, IN ORDER TO TAKEYOUR THOUGHTS CAPTIVE, YOU HAVE
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YOUR THOUGHTS CAPTIVE, YOU HAVETO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE.
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TO KNOW WHAT THEY ARE.YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHERE THEY ARE.
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YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHERE THEY ARE.IT'S KIND OF LIKE GOING FISHING.
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IT'S KIND OF LIKE GOING FISHING.YOU CAN GO FISHING ALL DAY LONG,
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YOU CAN GO FISHING ALL DAY LONG,BUT AN EXPERIENCED FISHERMAN
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BUT AN EXPERIENCED FISHERMANWILL GO FISHING WHERE THEY KNOW
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WILL GO FISHING WHERE THEY KNOWFISH ARE.
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FISH ARE.RENEWING YOUR MIND STARTS WITH
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RENEWING YOUR MIND STARTS WITHTHE ACKNOWLEDGMENT.
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THE ACKNOWLEDGMENT.ROMANS 12:2 TALKS ABOUT THAT,
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ROMANS 12:2 TALKS ABOUT THAT,STARTS WITH THE ACKNOWLEDGMENT
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STARTS WITH THE ACKNOWLEDGMENTTHAT YOU ARE AWARE THAT YOU WANT
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THAT YOU ARE AWARE THAT YOU WANTTO RENEW THOUGHTS THAT MAY NOT
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TO RENEW THOUGHTS THAT MAY NOTBE CORRECT.
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BE CORRECT.HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT?
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HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT?YOU'RE LOOKING AT THEM.
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YOU'RE LOOKING AT THEM.WHETHER IT'S JOURNALING OR
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WHETHER IT'S JOURNALING ORTALKING WITH A FRIEND OR TALKING
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TALKING WITH A FRIEND OR TALKINGWITH A COUNSELOR, WHETHER IT'S
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WITH A COUNSELOR, WHETHER IT'SREADING TRUTH BY READING THE
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READING TRUTH BY READING THEBIBLE, BUT ALSO BY READING OTHER
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BIBLE, BUT ALSO BY READING OTHERBOOKS BY CHRISTIAN AUTHORS THAT
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BOOKS BY CHRISTIAN AUTHORS THATARE DESIGNED TO HELP SHOW YOU
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ARE DESIGNED TO HELP SHOW YOUTHE TRUTH AND THEN COMPARING
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THE TRUTH AND THEN COMPARINGWHAT YOU'RE ACTUALLY THINKING
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WHAT YOU'RE ACTUALLY THINKINGWITH WHAT GOD'S WORD SAYS, A
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WITH WHAT GOD'S WORD SAYS, AHEALTHY MIND STARTS WITH PAYING
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HEALTHY MIND STARTS WITH PAYINGATTENTION TO WHAT YOU'RE ALREADY
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ATTENTION TO WHAT YOU'RE ALREADYTHINKING AND DOING THE WORK TO
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THINKING AND DOING THE WORK TORENEW YOUR MIND WITH CORRECT
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RENEW YOUR MIND WITH CORRECTTHOUGHTS AND CORRECT TRUTH.
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THOUGHTS AND CORRECT TRUTH.ONE OF THE THINGS I WAS TALKING
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ONE OF THE THINGS I WAS TALKINGTO MY HUSBAND ABOUT JUST THE
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TO MY HUSBAND ABOUT JUST THEOTHER DAY IS THE REALITY WE WERE
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OTHER DAY IS THE REALITY WE WERETALKING AND HE SAID SOME THINGS
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TALKING AND HE SAID SOME THINGSTO ME AND I WAS LIKE, I KIND OF
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TO ME AND I WAS LIKE, I KIND OFALREADY THOUGHT THAT, BUT YOU'VE
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ALREADY THOUGHT THAT, BUT YOU'VENEVER ACTUALLY SAID THAT TO ME.
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NEVER ACTUALLY SAID THAT TO ME.HIS POINT WAS, I DON'T TALK TO
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HIS POINT WAS, I DON'T TALK TOFRIENDS LIKE YOU TALK TO
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FRIENDS LIKE YOU TALK TOFRIENDS.
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FRIENDS.I'M A GUY AND WE DON'T
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I'M A GUY AND WE DON'TNECESSARILY DO THAT.
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NECESSARILY DO THAT.I SAID, HERE'S THE THING FOR ME,
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I SAID, HERE'S THE THING FOR ME,I TALK TO MY FRIENDS, YES,
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I TALK TO MY FRIENDS, YES,BECAUSE I'M A GIRL AND YES,
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BECAUSE I'M A GIRL AND YES,BECAUSE WE CAN TALK.
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BECAUSE WE CAN TALK.BUT ALSO BECAUSE I WANT THEM TO
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BUT ALSO BECAUSE I WANT THEM TOHEAR WHAT I'M THINKING AND TO
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HEAR WHAT I'M THINKING AND TOTELL ME IF I'M OFF BASE.
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TELL ME IF I'M OFF BASE.I WANT MY FRIENDS WHO LOVE JESUS
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I WANT MY FRIENDS WHO LOVE JESUSTO HEAR WHAT I'M THINKING AND TO
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TO HEAR WHAT I'M THINKING AND TOTELL ME IF I NEED TO RECALIBRATE
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TELL ME IF I NEED TO RECALIBRATEOR REORIENT MY THINKING
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OR REORIENT MY THINKINGCORRECTLY TO THE WORD OF GOD,
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CORRECTLY TO THE WORD OF GOD,CORRECTLY TO MY SCENARIO OR
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CORRECTLY TO MY SCENARIO ORCORRECTLY IN HONOR OF WHAT GOD'S
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CORRECTLY IN HONOR OF WHAT GOD'SDOING IN MY LIFE.
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DOING IN MY LIFE.SO I GET THINGS OUT OF MY HEAD,
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SO I GET THINGS OUT OF MY HEAD,NOT JUST BECAUSE I'M A GIRL AND
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NOT JUST BECAUSE I'M A GIRL ANDWANT TO TALK, BUT I ACTUALLY
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WANT TO TALK, BUT I ACTUALLYWANT PEOPLE WHO LOVE JESUS AND
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WANT PEOPLE WHO LOVE JESUS ANDWHO LOVE ME TO HEAR MY THOUGHTS
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WHO LOVE ME TO HEAR MY THOUGHTSAND GIVE ME FEEDBACK.
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AND GIVE ME FEEDBACK.A JOURNALIST'S FEEDBACK.
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A JOURNALIST'S FEEDBACK.TALKING OUT LOUD TO GOD IS
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TALKING OUT LOUD TO GOD ISFEEDBACK.
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FEEDBACK.TALKING OUT LOUD TO YOURSELF IS
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TALKING OUT LOUD TO YOURSELF ISFEEDBACK.
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FEEDBACK.MY GRANDMOTHER USED TO DO THAT.
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MY GRANDMOTHER USED TO DO THAT.I WOULD CATCH HER IN THE KITCHEN
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I WOULD CATCH HER IN THE KITCHENTALKING OUT LOUD.
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TALKING OUT LOUD.SHE'D BE LIKE, OH, MY GOODNESS,
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SHE'D BE LIKE, OH, MY GOODNESS,TODAY IS SO DIFFICULT, GOD,
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TODAY IS SO DIFFICULT, GOD,YOU'RE GONNA HAVE TO HELP ME GET
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YOU'RE GONNA HAVE TO HELP ME GETTHROUGH THIS DAY.
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THROUGH THIS DAY.BUT YOU KNOW WHAT, THESE KIDS
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BUT YOU KNOW WHAT, THESE KIDSARE DRIVING ME CRAZY.
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ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY.SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT US,
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SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT US,HER GRANDKIDS.
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HER GRANDKIDS.THESE KIDS ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY
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THESE KIDS ARE DRIVING ME CRAZYBUT FOR THE LORD'S NAMESAKE--
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BUT FOR THE LORD'S NAMESAKE--SHE WOULD SAY THESE THINGS AND
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SHE WOULD SAY THESE THINGS ANDI'M THINKING, NOW THAT I THINK
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I'M THINKING, NOW THAT I THINKBACK, I CAN REMEMBER HER
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BACK, I CAN REMEMBER HERSPEAKING TRUTH AND CORRECTING
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SPEAKING TRUTH AND CORRECTINGTHE THOUGHT THAT WAS IN HER HEAD
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THE THOUGHT THAT WAS IN HER HEADBASED ON WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS.
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BASED ON WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS.GETTING THE THOUGHTS OUT OF YOUR
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GETTING THE THOUGHTS OUT OF YOURHEAD IS THE BEGINNING OF SEEING
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HEAD IS THE BEGINNING OF SEEINGWHAT YOU'RE THINKING AND THEN
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WHAT YOU'RE THINKING AND THENRECOGNIZING WHAT'S UNHEALTHY,
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RECOGNIZING WHAT'S UNHEALTHY,WHETHER YOU RECOGNIZE IT, A
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WHETHER YOU RECOGNIZE IT, AFRIEND OR A COUNSELOR OR PASTOR
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FRIEND OR A COUNSELOR OR PASTORSO THAT YOU CAN BEGIN THE WORK
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SO THAT YOU CAN BEGIN THE WORKOF CORRECTING.
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OF CORRECTING.AND SO MUCH OF WHAT WE
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AND SO MUCH OF WHAT WEEXPERIENCE EMOTIONALLY, WHETHER
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EXPERIENCE EMOTIONALLY, WHETHERTHAT IS DEPRESSION, OVERWHELM,
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THAT IS DEPRESSION, OVERWHELM,ANXIETY, IT HAS TO DO WITH
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ANXIETY, IT HAS TO DO WITHTHOUGHTS THAT ARE STAYING PUT IN
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THOUGHTS THAT ARE STAYING PUT INOUR MIND, REVERBERATING IN OUR
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OUR MIND, REVERBERATING IN OURHEAD AND THERE'S NO OUTLET FOR
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HEAD AND THERE'S NO OUTLET FORTHEM.
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THEM.AND WE'VE TALKED ABOUT THIS WEEK
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AND WE'VE TALKED ABOUT THIS WEEKWHERE THERE IS A PLACE FOR
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WHERE THERE IS A PLACE FORMEDICATION AND THERE IS A PLACE
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MEDICATION AND THERE IS A PLACEFOR COUNSELORS.
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FOR COUNSELORS.AND, YES, THERE IS A PLACE FOR
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AND, YES, THERE IS A PLACE FORTHE WORD OF GOD.
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THE WORD OF GOD.BUT BEGINNING THE PROCESS TO
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BUT BEGINNING THE PROCESS TOBUILDING A HEALTHY MIND STARTS
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BUILDING A HEALTHY MIND STARTSWITH TRUTH, ABSOLUTELY, BUT IT'S
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WITH TRUTH, ABSOLUTELY, BUT IT'SNOT A COMPLETE CYCLE.
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NOT A COMPLETE CYCLE.IT'S NOT A COMPLETE FEEDBACK
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IT'S NOT A COMPLETE FEEDBACKMECHANISM IF YOU DON'T KNOW
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MECHANISM IF YOU DON'T KNOWWHAT'S GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD AND
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WHAT'S GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD ANDGETTING THOSE THINGS OUT OF YOUR
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GETTING THOSE THINGS OUT OF YOURHEAD IN A SAFE PLACE OR WITH A
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HEAD IN A SAFE PLACE OR WITH ASAFE PERSON,
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SAFE PERSON,IS ONE OF THE WAYS I THINK IS
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IS ONE OF THE WAYS I THINK ISIMPORTANT TO BUILD AND
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IMPORTANT TO BUILD ANDPROACTIVELY ENCOURAGE A HEALTHY
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PROACTIVELY ENCOURAGE A HEALTHYMIND FOR YOURSELF.
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MIND FOR YOURSELF.- Sheila: THAT'S SO GOOD,
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- Sheila: THAT'S SO GOOD,CHRYSTAL.
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CHRYSTAL.AND ONE OF THE OTHER THINGS I'VE
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AND ONE OF THE OTHER THINGS I'VELEARNED AS WELL AS BEING HONEST
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LEARNED AS WELL AS BEING HONESTAND FINDING OUT WHAT'S ACTUALLY
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AND FINDING OUT WHAT'S ACTUALLYGOING ON INSIDE MY HEAD IS TO BE
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GOING ON INSIDE MY HEAD IS TO BEVERY INTENTIONAL ABOUT WHAT I
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VERY INTENTIONAL ABOUT WHAT IALLOW IN FROM THE OUTSIDE.
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ALLOW IN FROM THE OUTSIDE.I FOUND IT WAS VERY EASY JUST
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I FOUND IT WAS VERY EASY JUSTTO-- I LOOKED ONE DAY AND IT
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TO-- I LOOKED ONE DAY AND ITSAID ON MY SCREEN TIME, YOU'VE
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SAID ON MY SCREEN TIME, YOU'VEBEEN ON SCREEN-- I'M EXPECTING
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BEEN ON SCREEN-- I'M EXPECTING22 MINUTES.
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22 MINUTES.IT SAID YOU'VE BEEN ONLINE FOR
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IT SAID YOU'VE BEEN ONLINE FORSEVEN HOURS.
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SEVEN HOURS.I'M LIKE, SEVEN HOURS?
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I'M LIKE, SEVEN HOURS?I REALIZED THERE IS SUCH A
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I REALIZED THERE IS SUCH ADANGER IN THIS TIME IN
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DANGER IN THIS TIME INPARTICULAR IN JUST VEGGING OUT
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PARTICULAR IN JUST VEGGING OUTIN A WAY, AND, ALSO, BUT NOT
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IN A WAY, AND, ALSO, BUT NOTREALIZING THE MESSAGES THAT ARE
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REALIZING THE MESSAGES THAT AREGOING INTO OUR MIND.
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GOING INTO OUR MIND.IT IS EASY TO WATCH TOO MUCH TV.
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IT IS EASY TO WATCH TOO MUCH TV.TO LISTEN TO TOO MUCH BAD NEWS.
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TO LISTEN TO TOO MUCH BAD NEWS.OR EVEN ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
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OR EVEN ON SOCIAL MEDIA.LISTENING TO THE WAY THAT EVEN
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LISTENING TO THE WAY THAT EVENBELIEVERS ARE GOING AT ONE
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BELIEVERS ARE GOING AT ONEANOTHER.
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ANOTHER.AND THAT'S SOMETHING I'VE HAD TO
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AND THAT'S SOMETHING I'VE HAD TOBE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT PAYING
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BE VERY CAREFUL ABOUT PAYINGATTENTION TO.
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ATTENTION TO.BECAUSE WHEN I BACK TO THE VERY
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BECAUSE WHEN I BACK TO THE VERYLAST FEW INSTRUCTIONS THAT JESUS
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LAST FEW INSTRUCTIONS THAT JESUSGAVE TO HIS CLOSEST FRIENDS, HE
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GAVE TO HIS CLOSEST FRIENDS, HESAID TO THEM, THE WORLD WILL
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SAID TO THEM, THE WORLD WILLKNOW YOU'RE MINE BECAUSE OF THE
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KNOW YOU'RE MINE BECAUSE OF THEWAY YOU LOVE ONE ANOTHER.
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WAY YOU LOVE ONE ANOTHER.AND I THINK IT'S VERY EASY IN
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AND I THINK IT'S VERY EASY INTHESE DAYS OF SOCIAL MEDIA AND
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THESE DAYS OF SOCIAL MEDIA ANDSOCIAL DISTANCING TO JUST THROW
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SOCIAL DISTANCING TO JUST THROWOUR OPINIONS OUT THERE ONLINE
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OUR OPINIONS OUT THERE ONLINEAND IT CAN BE SO DAMAGING TO
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AND IT CAN BE SO DAMAGING TOPEOPLE.
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PEOPLE.IT USED TO BE THAT BEFORE WE HAD
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IT USED TO BE THAT BEFORE WE HADALL THIS TECHNOLOGY WE SAT
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ALL THIS TECHNOLOGY WE SATAROUND THE DINNER TABLE AND
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AROUND THE DINNER TABLE ANDSOMEONE WOULD SAY SOMETHING AND
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SOMEONE WOULD SAY SOMETHING ANDTWO OR THREE OTHER PEOPLE WOULD
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TWO OR THREE OTHER PEOPLE WOULDSAY, WELL, HANG ON A MINUTE.
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SAY, WELL, HANG ON A MINUTE.HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT THIS?
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HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT THIS?BUT NOW IT'S VERY EASY JUST TO
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BUT NOW IT'S VERY EASY JUST TOSIT, LOOKING AT A COMPUTER
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SIT, LOOKING AT A COMPUTERSCREEN AND THROW ALL SORTS OF
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SCREEN AND THROW ALL SORTS OFTHINGS OUT THERE, NOT REALIZING
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THINGS OUT THERE, NOT REALIZINGOUR WORDS HAVE WEIGHT.
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OUR WORDS HAVE WEIGHT.SO I'M BEING VERY INTENTIONAL
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SO I'M BEING VERY INTENTIONALABOUT WHAT I WATCH, ABOUT WHAT I
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ABOUT WHAT I WATCH, ABOUT WHAT IENGAGE IN AND TRY TO USE SOCIAL
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ENGAGE IN AND TRY TO USE SOCIALMEDIA AS A WAY TO ENCOURAGE
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MEDIA AS A WAY TO ENCOURAGEOTHER PEOPLE RATHER THAN GIVING
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OTHER PEOPLE RATHER THAN GIVINGMY OPINION ON EVERYTHING THAT'S
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MY OPINION ON EVERYTHING THAT'SHAPPENING IN THE WORLD, WHETHER
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HAPPENING IN THE WORLD, WHETHERWHAT WE SHOULD BE DOING AND WHAT
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WHAT WE SHOULD BE DOING AND WHATWE SHOULDN'T BE DOING.
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WE SHOULDN'T BE DOING.I JUST DON'T THINK THAT'S ALWAYS
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I JUST DON'T THINK THAT'S ALWAYSTHE PLACE FOR THE KIND OF
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THE PLACE FOR THE KIND OFDISCUSSION THAT TAKES PART
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DISCUSSION THAT TAKES PARTWITHIN FAMILY AND WITHIN THE
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WITHIN FAMILY AND WITHIN THECOMMUNITY.
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COMMUNITY.MY HUSBAND AND SON AND I HAVE
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MY HUSBAND AND SON AND I HAVEALL TALKED ABOUT THAT.
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ALL TALKED ABOUT THAT.LET'S BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT WE
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LET'S BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT WEPUT OUT THERE AND LET'S BE
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PUT OUT THERE AND LET'S BECAREFUL ABOUT WHAT WE ALLOW IN
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CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT WE ALLOW INHERE.
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HERE.- Laurie: BOY, THAT'S SO TRUE.
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- Laurie: BOY, THAT'S SO TRUE.I THINK AT THE BEGINNING OF ANY
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I THINK AT THE BEGINNING OF ANYCRISIS AND IT'S ON TELEVISION,
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CRISIS AND IT'S ON TELEVISION,IF YOU HAVE AN EARTHQUAKE OR IF
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IF YOU HAVE AN EARTHQUAKE OR IFYOU HAVE ANY KIND OF TERROR
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YOU HAVE ANY KIND OF TERRORATTACK OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT YOU
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ATTACK OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT YOUWANT TO TURN ON THE TV AND START
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WANT TO TURN ON THE TV AND STARTLISTENING TO ALL THE
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LISTENING TO ALL THEINFORMATION.
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INFORMATION.AND I THINK DAYS AND DAYS TURN
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AND I THINK DAYS AND DAYS TURNINTO WEEKS AND WEEKS OF THIS
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INTO WEEKS AND WEEKS OF THISWHOLE PANDEMIC TYPE, MAN, IT WAS
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WHOLE PANDEMIC TYPE, MAN, IT WASTIME TO TURN THE TELEVISION OFF.
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TIME TO TURN THE TELEVISION OFF.AND EVEN WITH THE SOCIAL MEDIA,
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AND EVEN WITH THE SOCIAL MEDIA,LIKE YOU WERE SAYING, SHEILA,
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LIKE YOU WERE SAYING, SHEILA,EVEN THE GOOD STUFF WAS A LITTLE
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EVEN THE GOOD STUFF WAS A LITTLEOVERWHELMING AND NEEDING SOME
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OVERWHELMING AND NEEDING SOMEPROCESS.
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PROCESS.BUT THAT AFFECTS OUR MOOD.
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BUT THAT AFFECTS OUR MOOD.IF YOU DON'T FEEL BETTER AFTER
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IF YOU DON'T FEEL BETTER AFTERSCROLLING, PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN.
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SCROLLING, PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN.IF YOU DON'T FEEL BETTER ABOUT
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IF YOU DON'T FEEL BETTER ABOUTYOURSELF, IF YOU DON'T FEEL
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YOURSELF, IF YOU DON'T FEELBETTER ABOUT THE WORLD AND THE
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BETTER ABOUT THE WORLD AND THEWAY YOU KNOW AS A CHRISTIAN YOU
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WAY YOU KNOW AS A CHRISTIAN YOUARE SUPPOSED TO BE THINKING AND
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ARE SUPPOSED TO BE THINKING ANDFEELING, THEN YOU NEED TO STEP
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FEELING, THEN YOU NEED TO STEPAWAY FROM ALL THAT.
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AWAY FROM ALL THAT.LESLIE, I KNOW YOU GUYS HAVE
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LESLIE, I KNOW YOU GUYS HAVEHANDLED SO MANY DIFFERENT CRISES
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HANDLED SO MANY DIFFERENT CRISESDURING THIS TIME WITH OTHER
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DURING THIS TIME WITH OTHERPEOPLE.
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PEOPLE.AND MARRIAGES AND ALL KINDS OF
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AND MARRIAGES AND ALL KINDS OFSTUFF, CHILDREN.
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STUFF, CHILDREN.AND THE ANXIETY, THE STUFF IN
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AND THE ANXIETY, THE STUFF INTHE HOME, THE ABUSE WE'VE BEEN
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THE HOME, THE ABUSE WE'VE BEENSEEING ACROSS THE BOARD IN
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SEEING ACROSS THE BOARD INPLACES.
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PLACES.I KNOW YOU AND LES HAVE BEEN
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I KNOW YOU AND LES HAVE BEENTAKING CARE OF A LOT OF PEOPLE
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TAKING CARE OF A LOT OF PEOPLETHAT WAY.
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THAT WAY.TELL US ABOUT THAT.
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TELL US ABOUT THAT.- Leslie: LAURIE, THANK YOU.
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- Leslie: LAURIE, THANK YOU.FIRST OF ALL, I'M LOVING WHAT
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FIRST OF ALL, I'M LOVING WHATI'M HEARING ABOUT THE POWER OF
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I'M HEARING ABOUT THE POWER OFAWARENESS.
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AWARENESS.BECAUSE BELIEVE ME, WHETHER IT'S
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BECAUSE BELIEVE ME, WHETHER IT'STHROUGH JOURNALING, WHETHER IT'S
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THROUGH JOURNALING, WHETHER IT'STHROUGH THAT SELF-AWARENESS THAT
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THROUGH THAT SELF-AWARENESS THATCOMES WHEN WE CHECK OUR ACTUAL
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COMES WHEN WE CHECK OUR ACTUALREPORT OF OUR SCREEN TIME.
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REPORT OF OUR SCREEN TIME.IN MY SMALL GROUP, I HAVE TO
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IN MY SMALL GROUP, I HAVE TOTELL ONE STORY MAYBE YOU'LL
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TELL ONE STORY MAYBE YOU'LLRELATE TO.
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RELATE TO.ALL OF US ARE IN OUR DECADES OF
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ALL OF US ARE IN OUR DECADES OFOUR 50'S OR 60'S ARE MANAGING
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OUR 50'S OR 60'S ARE MANAGINGOUR WEIGHT.
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OUR WEIGHT.AND WE'VE ALL THE HAD DIFFERENT
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AND WE'VE ALL THE HAD DIFFERENTHEALTH CRISES.
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HEALTH CRISES.ONE OF MY GIRLFRIENDS SAID, THIS
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ONE OF MY GIRLFRIENDS SAID, THISIS HOW I KNEW I WAS ANXIOUS.
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IS HOW I KNEW I WAS ANXIOUS.I GOT ON THE SCALE TODAY AND
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I GOT ON THE SCALE TODAY ANDI'VE GAINED NINE POUNDS IN
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I'VE GAINED NINE POUNDS INQUARANTINE.
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QUARANTINE.SO SHE HELD UP HER ARM AND SHE
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SO SHE HELD UP HER ARM AND SHEHAD LITERALLY WRITTEN IN MARKER
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HAD LITERALLY WRITTEN IN MARKERON HER ARM, ENOUGH.
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ON HER ARM, ENOUGH.SO EVERY TIME SHE REACHES FOR
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SO EVERY TIME SHE REACHES FORTHE FRIDGE, SHE SEES THE WORD.
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THE FRIDGE, SHE SEES THE WORD.AND WE ALL GOT A TICKLE.
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AND WE ALL GOT A TICKLE.BECAUSE IT'S AWARENESS.
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BECAUSE IT'S AWARENESS.OH, BOY, I GUESS I'M ANXIOUS.
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OH, BOY, I GUESS I'M ANXIOUS.I'VE BEEN OVEREATING AND I DON'T
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I'VE BEEN OVEREATING AND I DON'TWANT TO DO THAT.
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WANT TO DO THAT.BECAUSE THAT'S NOT CREATING
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BECAUSE THAT'S NOT CREATINGMENTAL HEALTH.
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MENTAL HEALTH.AND WE ALL JUST LOVED THAT.
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AND WE ALL JUST LOVED THAT.- LAURIE: HELPING.
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- LAURIE: HELPING.- LESLIE: EXACTLY.
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- LESLIE: EXACTLY.BUT, WE'RE TRYING TO COPE AND
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BUT, WE'RE TRYING TO COPE ANDPART OF COPING IS ESCAPING
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PART OF COPING IS ESCAPINGRATHER THAN ADDRESSING IT.
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RATHER THAN ADDRESSING IT.YOU ARE RIGHT.
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YOU ARE RIGHT.WE HAVE DEALT WITH COUPLES.
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WE HAVE DEALT WITH COUPLES.WE ACTUALLY KNOW THAT HOPE IS
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WE ACTUALLY KNOW THAT HOPE ISCONTAGIOUS.
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CONTAGIOUS.THAT IS ONE OF THE MENTAL HEALTH
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THAT IS ONE OF THE MENTAL HEALTHTHINGS I WISH PEOPLE UNDERSTOOD.
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THINGS I WISH PEOPLE UNDERSTOOD.WE'VE BEEN HAVING THESE MOMENTS
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WE'VE BEEN HAVING THESE MOMENTSFOR COUPLES IN OUR CARE CALLED
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FOR COUPLES IN OUR CARE CALLEDHUDDLES FOR HOPE.
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HUDDLES FOR HOPE.BECAUSE EVERYONE'S DEALING WITH
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BECAUSE EVERYONE'S DEALING WITHQUARANTINE, QUARRELS AND HIGHER
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QUARANTINE, QUARRELS AND HIGHERCONFLICT.
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CONFLICT.WE ARE ALL STRESSED.
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WE ARE ALL STRESSED.NO ONE IS THEIR BEST SELF DURING
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NO ONE IS THEIR BEST SELF DURINGTHESE DAYS.
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THESE DAYS.IT IS REALLY TOUGH.
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IT IS REALLY TOUGH.SO, ONE OF THE THINGS I WISH
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SO, ONE OF THE THINGS I WISHPEOPLE UNDERSTOOD IS, JUST LIKE
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PEOPLE UNDERSTOOD IS, JUST LIKETHIS VIRUS THAT IS SO UNSEEN IS
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THIS VIRUS THAT IS SO UNSEEN ISCONTAGIOUS, EMOTIONS ARE
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CONTAGIOUS, EMOTIONS ARECONTAGIOUS.
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CONTAGIOUS.HOPE IS CONTAGIOUS.
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HOPE IS CONTAGIOUS.SO WHENEVER WE EXPERIENCE HOPE,
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SO WHENEVER WE EXPERIENCE HOPE,THE PEOPLE AROUND US CAN'T HELP
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THE PEOPLE AROUND US CAN'T HELPBUT CATCH IT TOO.
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BUT CATCH IT TOO.JUST LIKE WHEN I FLASH A SMILE,
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JUST LIKE WHEN I FLASH A SMILE,YOU SMILE BACK AT ME.
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YOU SMILE BACK AT ME.OR WHEN YOU LAUGH OUT LOUD, I
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OR WHEN YOU LAUGH OUT LOUD, IEXPERIENCE THE JOY IN MY HEART,
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EXPERIENCE THE JOY IN MY HEART,OR EVEN WHEN MY DOG WIGGLES HIS
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OR EVEN WHEN MY DOG WIGGLES HISTAIL I DELIGHT.
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TAIL I DELIGHT.EMOTIONS ARE CONTAGIOUS.
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EMOTIONS ARE CONTAGIOUS.SO WHEN WE OFFER THAT TO EACH
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SO WHEN WE OFFER THAT TO EACHOTHER, BUT ONE OF THE THINGS IN
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OTHER, BUT ONE OF THE THINGS INMY MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THERAPY I
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MY MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THERAPY IHAVE PROBABLY SAID TO EVERY
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HAVE PROBABLY SAID TO EVERYCLIENT I'VE HAD THE HONOR OF
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CLIENT I'VE HAD THE HONOR OFWORKING WITH IS THIS.
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WORKING WITH IS THIS.AWARENESS IS CURED.
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AWARENESS IS CURED.ONCE YOU KNOW ABOUT SOMETHING,
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ONCE YOU KNOW ABOUT SOMETHING,YOU BECOME AWARE OF IT, THAT'S
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YOU BECOME AWARE OF IT, THAT'SWHEN YOU CAN BEGIN TO MAKE A
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WHEN YOU CAN BEGIN TO MAKE ACHANGE AND ALLOW GOD THE GRACE
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CHANGE AND ALLOW GOD THE GRACETO MOVE IN AND GIVE YOU.
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TO MOVE IN AND GIVE YOU.AND JOURNALING, CHRYSTAL, YOU
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AND JOURNALING, CHRYSTAL, YOUTALKED ABOUT THAT.
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TALKED ABOUT THAT.BOY IS THAT POWERFUL.
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BOY IS THAT POWERFUL.THERE IS A HARVARD PSYCHOLOGIST
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THERE IS A HARVARD PSYCHOLOGISTI REALLY LIKE, HER NAME IS
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I REALLY LIKE, HER NAME ISSUSAN DAVID.
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SUSAN DAVID.SHE'S FROM SOUTH AFRICA.
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SHE'S FROM SOUTH AFRICA.SHE GREW UP DURING THE APARTHEID
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SHE GREW UP DURING THE APARTHEIDSTRUGGLES.
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STRUGGLES.FACED SOME REAL TRAUMA.
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FACED SOME REAL TRAUMA.SHE LOST HER DAD TO DEATH.
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SHE LOST HER DAD TO DEATH.JOURNALING GOT HER THROUGH TO
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JOURNALING GOT HER THROUGH TOTHE POINT NOW SHE HAS DONE A
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THE POINT NOW SHE HAS DONE AWHOLE CAREER OF WORK IN RESEARCH
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WHOLE CAREER OF WORK IN RESEARCHON WHAT SHE CALLS EMOTIONAL
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ON WHAT SHE CALLS EMOTIONALAGILITY.
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AGILITY.DON'T YOU LOVE THAT?
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DON'T YOU LOVE THAT?BECAUSE PHYSICAL HEALTH IS
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BECAUSE PHYSICAL HEALTH ISAGILITY.
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AGILITY.WE KNOW THAT.
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WE KNOW THAT.I'M NOT AN ATHLETE OR A DANCER
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I'M NOT AN ATHLETE OR A DANCEROR ANYTHING.
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OR ANYTHING.I CAN'T EVEN DO A GOOD STRETCH.
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I CAN'T EVEN DO A GOOD STRETCH.I DID RUN A MARATHON ONCE,
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I DID RUN A MARATHON ONCE,THAT'S MY CLAIM TO FAME IN MY
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THAT'S MY CLAIM TO FAME IN MYTWENTIES.
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TWENTIES.BUT THAT WAS PURE GRIT.
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BUT THAT WAS PURE GRIT.THAT WAS NOTHING AGILE.
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THAT WAS NOTHING AGILE.WE KNOW BECAUSE MY 80 YEAR OLD
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WE KNOW BECAUSE MY 80 YEAR OLDMAMA FELL, NOT FELL, BUT SHE
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MAMA FELL, NOT FELL, BUT SHEJUST GOT DOWN TO GET A LOW THING
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JUST GOT DOWN TO GET A LOW THINGOUT OF HER CUPBOARD THIS WEEK
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OUT OF HER CUPBOARD THIS WEEKAND SHE COULDN'T GET BACK UP.
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AND SHE COULDN'T GET BACK UP.SHE DISCOVERED, I DON'T HAVE
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SHE DISCOVERED, I DON'T HAVEAGILITY IN MY 80'S.
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AGILITY IN MY 80'S.IT SCARED HER.
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IT SCARED HER.SHE HAD TO HIT ONE OF THOSE
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SHE HAD TO HIT ONE OF THOSEBUTTONS TO GET HELP.
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BUTTONS TO GET HELP.AND WE KNOW EMOTIONALLY
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AND WE KNOW EMOTIONALLYSOMETIMES WE GET DOWN AND WE
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SOMETIMES WE GET DOWN AND WEREALIZE ALL OF A SUDDEN I'M
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REALIZE ALL OF A SUDDEN I'MSTUCK.
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STUCK.I CAN'T GET BACK UP.
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I CAN'T GET BACK UP.SO WE ALL NEED AGILITY.
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SO WE ALL NEED AGILITY.WE NEED EMOTIONAL AGILITY.
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WE NEED EMOTIONAL AGILITY.THAT'S WHAT COMES THROUGH
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THAT'S WHAT COMES THROUGHAWARENESS.
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AWARENESS.THROUGH JOURNALING.
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THROUGH JOURNALING.THROUGH RECEIVING OTHER PEOPLE'S
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THROUGH RECEIVING OTHER PEOPLE'SFEEDBACK ON OUR THOUGHTS AND OUR
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FEEDBACK ON OUR THOUGHTS AND OURSPOUSE IS A PLACE TO START.
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SPOUSE IS A PLACE TO START.OUR SCREEN TIME, AND SOMETIMES A
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OUR SCREEN TIME, AND SOMETIMES ATATTOO ON OUR ARM THAT GIVES US
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TATTOO ON OUR ARM THAT GIVES USCLARITY WHERE WE'RE HEADED.
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CLARITY WHERE WE'RE HEADED.- Kayla: SO GOOD, LESLIE.
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- Kayla: SO GOOD, LESLIE.I LOVE THAT.
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I LOVE THAT.AND IT'S SO TRUE.
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AND IT'S SO TRUE.IT'S THINKING OUTSIDE THE BOX.
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IT'S THINKING OUTSIDE THE BOX.BEING KIND TO MY MIND IS
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BEING KIND TO MY MIND ISWATCHING WHAT I PUT IN MY BODY
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WATCHING WHAT I PUT IN MY BODYIN THE KITCHEN, ESPECIALLY
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IN THE KITCHEN, ESPECIALLYDURING QUARANTINE WHEN WE'RE IN
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DURING QUARANTINE WHEN WE'RE INAND OUT OF THE KITCHEN ALL DAY.
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AND OUT OF THE KITCHEN ALL DAY.AND IF YOU HAVE LITTLE KIDS, I
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AND IF YOU HAVE LITTLE KIDS, IFEEL LIKE THERE'S SNACKS AND
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FEEL LIKE THERE'S SNACKS ANDFOOD AND CANDY JUST STREWN ABOUT
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FOOD AND CANDY JUST STREWN ABOUTMY HOUSE ALL DAY LONG.
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MY HOUSE ALL DAY LONG.IT WOULD BE REALLY EASY TO GRAZE
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IT WOULD BE REALLY EASY TO GRAZEALL DAY ON CHEEZ-ITS AND FISHYS
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ALL DAY ON CHEEZ-ITS AND FISHYSAND CHIPS AND M&MS.
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AND CHIPS AND M&MS.SO BEING KIND TO OUR MIND IS
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SO BEING KIND TO OUR MIND ISWATCHING WHAT WE PUT IN OUR BODY
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WATCHING WHAT WE PUT IN OUR BODYAND MAKING TIME FOR SLEEP.
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AND MAKING TIME FOR SLEEP.PARENTING OURSELVES AND GIVING
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PARENTING OURSELVES AND GIVINGOURSELVES A BEDTIME, LIKE, OKAY,
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OURSELVES A BEDTIME, LIKE, OKAY,I'M GONNA BE IN BED WITH THE
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I'M GONNA BE IN BED WITH THELIGHTS OFF AND MY PHONE OFF AND
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LIGHTS OFF AND MY PHONE OFF ANDTHE TV OFF AT 10:00.
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THE TV OFF AT 10:00.AND ALLOWING OURSELVES TO HAVE
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AND ALLOWING OURSELVES TO HAVETHAT TIME TO REST AND PUT AWAY
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THAT TIME TO REST AND PUT AWAYOUR PHONES AND PLUG OUR PHONES
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OUR PHONES AND PLUG OUR PHONESIN.
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IN.I KNOW A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT PLUG
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I KNOW A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT PLUGTHEIR PHONES IN IN ANOTHER ROOM
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THEIR PHONES IN IN ANOTHER ROOMSO THEY DON'T HAVE THE URGE TO
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SO THEY DON'T HAVE THE URGE TOSCROLL THROUGH SOCIAL MEDIA OR
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SCROLL THROUGH SOCIAL MEDIA ORGO ON THE NEWS OR GOOGLE
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GO ON THE NEWS OR GOOGLEWHATEVER.
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WHATEVER.IT'S SO HELPFUL TO PUT IT EVEN
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IT'S SO HELPFUL TO PUT IT EVENIN ANOTHER ROOM FAR AWAY.
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IN ANOTHER ROOM FAR AWAY.AND THEN TO MAKE TIME FOR
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AND THEN TO MAKE TIME FOREXERCISE.
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EXERCISE.I NOTICE WHEN I JUST DO EVEN
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I NOTICE WHEN I JUST DO EVENGOING FOR A WALK, LIKE MAYBE
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GOING FOR A WALK, LIKE MAYBETHAT'S THE EXTEND WE CAN DO IN
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THAT'S THE EXTEND WE CAN DO INTHIS SEASON IS GOING FOR A WALK
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THIS SEASON IS GOING FOR A WALKAROUND THE BLOCK, BUT MAKING
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AROUND THE BLOCK, BUT MAKINGTHAT TIME FOR EXERCISE AND
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THAT TIME FOR EXERCISE ANDMOVING OUR BODY AND GETTING OUR
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MOVING OUR BODY AND GETTING OURFLOOD FLOWING IT HELPS SO MUCH
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FLOOD FLOWING IT HELPS SO MUCHFOR OUR MIND.
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FOR OUR MIND.AND I THINK OFTENTIMES IT'S
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AND I THINK OFTENTIMES IT'SSOMETHING WE DON'T THINK ABOUT.
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SOMETHING WE DON'T THINK ABOUT.I'M FEELING SAD TODAY.
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I'M FEELING SAD TODAY.SLEEPING AND LAYING ON COUCH
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SLEEPING AND LAYING ON COUCHSOUNDS GREAT.
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SOUNDS GREAT.I'D RATHER DO THAT.
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I'D RATHER DO THAT.I'D RATHER LAY ON THE COUCH AND
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I'D RATHER LAY ON THE COUCH ANDEAT A BAG OF POPCORN AND WATCH A
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EAT A BAG OF POPCORN AND WATCH AMOVIE.
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MOVIE.THAT SOUNDS GREAT.
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THAT SOUNDS GREAT.BUT, MAYBE, ACTUALLY, TURNING
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BUT, MAYBE, ACTUALLY, TURNINGTHE TV OFF AND GOING IN THE
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THE TV OFF AND GOING IN THEGARAGE AND DOING A QUICK WORKOUT
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GARAGE AND DOING A QUICK WORKOUTIS THE BEST THING I CAN DO FOR
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IS THE BEST THING I CAN DO FORMY MIND.
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MY MIND.SO I LOVE THAT AGILITY.
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SO I LOVE THAT AGILITY.I'M GONNA THINK ABOUT THAT WORD.
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I'M GONNA THINK ABOUT THAT WORD.SO, SO GOOD.
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SO, SO GOOD.- Chrystal: I LOVED HOW YOU
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- Chrystal: I LOVED HOW YOUTALKED ABOUT PARENTING YOURSELF.
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TALKED ABOUT PARENTING YOURSELF.THERE ARE THINGS THAT WE KNOW IF
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THERE ARE THINGS THAT WE KNOW IFWE HAVE CHILDREN, EVEN IF WE
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WE HAVE CHILDREN, EVEN IF WEDON'T THAT WE KNOW CHILDREN
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DON'T THAT WE KNOW CHILDRENNEED.
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NEED.I'M TELLING MY CHILDREN ALL THE
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I'M TELLING MY CHILDREN ALL THETIME, YOU HAVE TO DRINK WATER.
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TIME, YOU HAVE TO DRINK WATER.SO MUCH OF YOUR BRAIN IS WATER.
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SO MUCH OF YOUR BRAIN IS WATER.YOU CANNOT EXPECT TO THINK
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YOU CANNOT EXPECT TO THINKCLEARLY IF YOU'VE NOT BEEN
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CLEARLY IF YOU'VE NOT BEENDRINKING WATER.
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DRINKING WATER.I'M TELLING THEM THAT BECAUSE
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I'M TELLING THEM THAT BECAUSETHAT'S MY JOB AS A PARENT TO SAY
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THAT'S MY JOB AS A PARENT TO SAYHERE ARE THE THINGS YOU NEED.
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HERE ARE THE THINGS YOU NEED.HERE ARE THE THINGS I'M GONNA
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HERE ARE THE THINGS I'M GONNAREMIND YOU ABOUT THAT YOU NEED
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REMIND YOU ABOUT THAT YOU NEEDTO BE DOING SO THAT YOU CAN
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TO BE DOING SO THAT YOU CANACTIVELY TAKE CARE OF YOUR MIND.
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ACTIVELY TAKE CARE OF YOUR MIND.I TALK TO MY CHILDREN ALL THE
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I TALK TO MY CHILDREN ALL THETIME ABOUT SAYING, HEY, WATCH
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TIME ABOUT SAYING, HEY, WATCHWHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR MOUTH
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WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR MOUTHBECAUSE YOU'RE HEARING WHAT YOU
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BECAUSE YOU'RE HEARING WHAT YOUSAY.
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SAY.IF YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT YOUR
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IF YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT YOURSIBLING, YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT
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SIBLING, YOU'RE TALKING ABOUTONE OF MY OTHER CHILDREN.
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ONE OF MY OTHER CHILDREN.SO WATCH WHAT YOU'RE SAYING.
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SO WATCH WHAT YOU'RE SAYING.BUT I THINK THIS IDEA THAT WHAT
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BUT I THINK THIS IDEA THAT WHATWE WOULD DO FOR OTHERS, WHAT WE
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WE WOULD DO FOR OTHERS, WHAT WEWOULD DO FOR OUR CHILDREN, HOW
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WOULD DO FOR OUR CHILDREN, HOWWE WOULD ENCOURAGE A FRIEND.
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WE WOULD ENCOURAGE A FRIEND.TRUTH THAT WE WOULD SPEAK TO A
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TRUTH THAT WE WOULD SPEAK TO ABROTHER AND SISTER IN CHRIST, WE
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BROTHER AND SISTER IN CHRIST, WENEED TO KNOW THAT WE NEED TO DO
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NEED TO KNOW THAT WE NEED TO DOTHOSE SAME THINGS FOR OURSELVES.
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THOSE SAME THINGS FOR OURSELVES.SO YES TO GETTING OUTSIDE AND
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SO YES TO GETTING OUTSIDE ANDGETTING FRESH AIR AND GETTING
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GETTING FRESH AIR AND GETTINGEXERCISE.
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EXERCISE.YES TO THE WATER.
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YES TO THE WATER.YES TO READING GOD'S WORD.
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YES TO READING GOD'S WORD.YES TO JUST TO FILLING YOUR MIND
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YES TO JUST TO FILLING YOUR MINDWITH TRUTH AND EVEN WATCHING
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WITH TRUTH AND EVEN WATCHINGPROGRAMS LIKE THIS.
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PROGRAMS LIKE THIS.BUT TO SAY I CAN LOOK AT MYSELF
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BUT TO SAY I CAN LOOK AT MYSELFOBJECTIVELY AND SAY THIS IS WHAT
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OBJECTIVELY AND SAY THIS IS WHATI NEED.
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I NEED.THIS IS WHAT I NEED.
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THIS IS WHAT I NEED.I NEED SLEEP, I NEED HYDRATION.
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I NEED SLEEP, I NEED HYDRATION.I NEED FOOD.
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I NEED FOOD.I NEED FRIENDSHIP.
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I NEED FRIENDSHIP.I NEED WISE COUNSEL.
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I NEED WISE COUNSEL.AND THEN SETTING UP THOSE
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AND THEN SETTING UP THOSEBOUNDARIES FOR YOURSELF JUST
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BOUNDARIES FOR YOURSELF JUSTLIKE YOU WOULD FOR SOMEONE THAT
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LIKE YOU WOULD FOR SOMEONE THATYOU LOVE.
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YOU LOVE.OFTEN I THINK, IF WE HAD A
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OFTEN I THINK, IF WE HAD AFRIEND WHO WOULD SAY SOMETHING
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FRIEND WHO WOULD SAY SOMETHINGUNTRUE, WOULD SHARE AN UNHEALTHY
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UNTRUE, WOULD SHARE AN UNHEALTHYTHOUGHT, AND IF WE WERE A TRUE
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THOUGHT, AND IF WE WERE A TRUEFRIEND TO THAT PERSON, WE WOULD
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FRIEND TO THAT PERSON, WE WOULDSAY, I KNOW HOW YOU'RE FEELING,
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SAY, I KNOW HOW YOU'RE FEELING,BUT LOOK AT IT THIS WAY.
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BUT LOOK AT IT THIS WAY.OR, I UNDERSTAND THAT IT'S TOUGH
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OR, I UNDERSTAND THAT IT'S TOUGHBUT I WANT YOU TO SEE WHAT I
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BUT I WANT YOU TO SEE WHAT ISEE.
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SEE.WHAT WE HAVE TO LEARN IN
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WHAT WE HAVE TO LEARN INPARENTING OURSELF, HOW TO BE A
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PARENTING OURSELF, HOW TO BE AFRIEND TO OURSELF IS TO TALK TO
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FRIEND TO OURSELF IS TO TALK TOOURSELVES LIKE WE WOULD TALK TO
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OURSELVES LIKE WE WOULD TALK TOA FRIEND.
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A FRIEND.AND HAVING HONESTY AND KNOWING
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AND HAVING HONESTY AND KNOWINGWHAT'S GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD BUT
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WHAT'S GOING ON IN YOUR HEAD BUTALSO GIVING CORRECT FEEDBACK TO
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ALSO GIVING CORRECT FEEDBACK TOYOURSELF JUST LIKE YOU WOULD IF
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YOURSELF JUST LIKE YOU WOULD IFYOU WERE A PARENT OR A GOOD
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YOU WERE A PARENT OR A GOODFRIEND TO SAY, HERE'S WHAT'S
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FRIEND TO SAY, HERE'S WHAT'SRIGHT.
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RIGHT.LET ME REFRAME THIS.
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LET ME REFRAME THIS.LET ME REMIND YOU THIS.
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LET ME REMIND YOU THIS.THAT, TO ME, IS PART OF HAVING A
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THAT, TO ME, IS PART OF HAVING AHEALTHY MIND AS WELL.
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HEALTHY MIND AS WELL.DOING THOSE THINGS YOU KNOW YOU
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DOING THOSE THINGS YOU KNOW YOUNEED EVEN WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL
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NEED EVEN WHEN YOU DON'T FEELLIKE THEM.
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LIKE THEM.- Sheila: YEAH, THAT IS SO
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- Sheila: YEAH, THAT IS SOGOOD, CHRYSTAL.
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GOOD, CHRYSTAL.AND WE WERE TALKING ABOUT, CAN
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AND WE WERE TALKING ABOUT, CANYOU TALK YOURSELF INTO A GOOD
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YOU TALK YOURSELF INTO A GOODDAY?
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DAY?I THINK THERE'S CERTAIN THINGS
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I THINK THERE'S CERTAIN THINGSWE CAN DO THAT REALLY MAKE AN
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WE CAN DO THAT REALLY MAKE ANIMPACT.
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IMPACT.ONE OF THE THINGS I LOVE THAT MY
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ONE OF THE THINGS I LOVE THAT MYHUSBAND BARRY DOES, BESIDE HIS
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HUSBAND BARRY DOES, BESIDE HISBED HE HAS A JOURNAL.
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BED HE HAS A JOURNAL.BUT IT'S A GRATITUDE JOURNAL.
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BUT IT'S A GRATITUDE JOURNAL.HE WRITES DOWN EVERYDAY HE WILL
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HE WRITES DOWN EVERYDAY HE WILLWRITE THINGS DOWN HE IS GRATEFUL
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WRITE THINGS DOWN HE IS GRATEFULFOR.
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FOR.SO IT'S A HABIT I'VE STARTED AS
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SO IT'S A HABIT I'VE STARTED ASWELL.
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WELL.EVEN ON TOUGH DAYS.
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EVEN ON TOUGH DAYS.THERE WAS A DAY LAST WEEK WHEN
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THERE WAS A DAY LAST WEEK WHENJUST THE LOCAL NEWS WAS
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JUST THE LOCAL NEWS WASDEVASTATING TO ME.
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DEVASTATING TO ME.IT WAS A SWEET COUPLE.
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IT WAS A SWEET COUPLE.IT WAS THEIR ANNIVERSARY.
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IT WAS THEIR ANNIVERSARY.INSTEAD OF CELEBRATING, SHE WAS
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INSTEAD OF CELEBRATING, SHE WASTAKEN INTO HOSPITAL AND HE NEVER
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TAKEN INTO HOSPITAL AND HE NEVERSAW HER AGAIN.
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SAW HER AGAIN.SHE PASSED AWAY WHILE SHE WAS IN
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SHE PASSED AWAY WHILE SHE WAS INTHE HOSPITAL.
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THE HOSPITAL.I FOUND MYSELF LITERALLY ON THE
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I FOUND MYSELF LITERALLY ON THECARPET IN OUR DEN JUST SOBBING.
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CARPET IN OUR DEN JUST SOBBING.EVEN IN THOSE DARK DAYS, I WROTE
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EVEN IN THOSE DARK DAYS, I WROTEDOWN, LORD, THANK YOU THAT THEY
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DOWN, LORD, THANK YOU THAT THEYHAD 34 YEARS TOGETHER.
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HAD 34 YEARS TOGETHER.THERE'S WAYS, IT'S SO EASY TO BE
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THERE'S WAYS, IT'S SO EASY TO BESWAMPED BY THE BAD NEWS.
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SWAMPED BY THE BAD NEWS.I THINK IF EVERY SINGLE ONE OF
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I THINK IF EVERY SINGLE ONE OFUS, MAYBE THIS IS SOMETHING
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US, MAYBE THIS IS SOMETHINGYOU'VE NEVER DONE BEFORE, I
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YOU'VE NEVER DONE BEFORE, IDON'T HAVE TIME TO JOURNAL, I
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DON'T HAVE TIME TO JOURNAL, IHAVE 53 LOADS OF LAUNDRY AND I
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HAVE 53 LOADS OF LAUNDRY AND IHAVE TO THINK OF ONE MORE THING
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HAVE TO THINK OF ONE MORE THINGTO DO WITH CHICKEN.
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TO DO WITH CHICKEN.BUT SOMETHING ABOUT ACTUALLY
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BUT SOMETHING ABOUT ACTUALLYWRITING DOWN WHAT YOU'RE
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WRITING DOWN WHAT YOU'RETHANKFUL FOR, THAT IT'S LIKE
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THANKFUL FOR, THAT IT'S LIKEDAVID WHEN HE USED TO TALK TO
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DAVID WHEN HE USED TO TALK TOHIS SOUL.
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HIS SOUL.COME ON, BLESS THE LORD.
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COME ON, BLESS THE LORD.COME ON, LET'S REMEMBER GOD IS
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COME ON, LET'S REMEMBER GOD ISGOOD.
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GOOD.GOD IS FAITHFUL.
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GOD IS FAITHFUL.GOD IS ON THE THRONE.
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GOD IS ON THE THRONE.IT'S NOT JUST HAPPY THINKING.
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IT'S NOT JUST HAPPY THINKING.IT'S REMINDING OURSELF OF WHAT
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IT'S REMINDING OURSELF OF WHATIS TRUE AND WRITING DOWN WHAT
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IS TRUE AND WRITING DOWN WHATWE'RE GRATEFUL FOR THAT CAN
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WE'RE GRATEFUL FOR THAT CANSHIFT THINGS INSIDE OF US.
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SHIFT THINGS INSIDE OF US.- Laurie: I LOVE THAT.
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- Laurie: I LOVE THAT.JENTEZEN FRANKLIN WAS ON WITH US
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JENTEZEN FRANKLIN WAS ON WITH USTHE OTHER NIGHT.
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THE OTHER NIGHT.HE WAS TALKING ABOUT WHEN DAVID
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HE WAS TALKING ABOUT WHEN DAVIDAND ALL HIS MIGHTY MEN CAME BACK
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AND ALL HIS MIGHTY MEN CAME BACKTO CAMP, THEIR WIVES WERE GONE,
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TO CAMP, THEIR WIVES WERE GONE,EVERYTHING WAS GONE.
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EVERYTHING WAS GONE.AND THEY ALL CRIED.
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AND THEY ALL CRIED.THEY WERE JUST ABSOLUTELY
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THEY WERE JUST ABSOLUTELYDEVASTATED, ALL OF THEM.
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DEVASTATED, ALL OF THEM.ALL THE MEN.
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ALL THE MEN.CAN YOU IMAGINE A BUNCH OF MEN
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CAN YOU IMAGINE A BUNCH OF MENJUST CRYING OUT.
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JUST CRYING OUT.IT'S SAID, DAVID ENCOURAGED
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IT'S SAID, DAVID ENCOURAGEDHIMSELF IN THE LORD.
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HIMSELF IN THE LORD.AND SOMETIMES WHEN IT ALL JUST
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AND SOMETIMES WHEN IT ALL JUSTSEEMS LIKE IT'S GOING CRAZY,
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SEEMS LIKE IT'S GOING CRAZY,WE HAVE TO ENCOURAGE OURSELVES
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WE HAVE TO ENCOURAGE OURSELVESIN THE LORD.
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IN THE LORD.SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO PAT
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SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO PATOURSELVES ON OUR OWN BACK AND
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OURSELVES ON OUR OWN BACK ANDSAY, COME ON, SOUL.
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SAY, COME ON, SOUL.COME ON.
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COME ON.YOU'VE GOT TO BLESS THE LORD.
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YOU'VE GOT TO BLESS THE LORD.AND EVEN IN DAVID'S LAMENT.
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AND EVEN IN DAVID'S LAMENT.HE ALWAYS ENDS IT WITH TALKING
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HE ALWAYS ENDS IT WITH TALKINGABOUT THE FAITHFULNESS OF GOD
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ABOUT THE FAITHFULNESS OF GODAND HIS GOODNESS.
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AND HIS GOODNESS.BUT YOU, O GOD, ARE ALMIGHTY.
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BUT YOU, O GOD, ARE ALMIGHTY.YOU WILL NEVER FAIL.
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YOU WILL NEVER FAIL.YOU ARE ALWAYS THERE.
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YOU ARE ALWAYS THERE.YOU ARE ALWAYS WITH ME.
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YOU ARE ALWAYS WITH ME.AND I LOVE THAT.
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AND I LOVE THAT.AND SOMETIMES MEN IN OUR DEEPEST
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AND SOMETIMES MEN IN OUR DEEPESTDARKEST DESPAIR TAKING THOSE
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DARKEST DESPAIR TAKING THOSETHOUGHTS CAPTIVE.
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THOUGHTS CAPTIVE.THOUGHTS HAVE EMOTIONS.
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THOUGHTS HAVE EMOTIONS.THEY HAVE OUR REALITY IN THEM.
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THEY HAVE OUR REALITY IN THEM.THEY HAVE LIES IN THEM.
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THEY HAVE LIES IN THEM.A THOUGHT CAN JUST BE JUST
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A THOUGHT CAN JUST BE JUSTCRAZY, CRAZY THOUGHTS.
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CRAZY, CRAZY THOUGHTS.I'VE HAD THEM.
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I'VE HAD THEM.THE BIBLE SAYS WE'RE SUPPOSED TO
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THE BIBLE SAYS WE'RE SUPPOSED TOTAKE THOSE INTO CAPTIVITY, GRAB
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TAKE THOSE INTO CAPTIVITY, GRABAHOLD OF THOSE THOUGHTS AND
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AHOLD OF THOSE THOUGHTS ANDCHOOSE.
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CHOOSE.I WILL NOT THINK ABOUT THAT ANY
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I WILL NOT THINK ABOUT THAT ANYLONGER.
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LONGER.YOU HAVE A CHOICE TO MAKE.
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YOU HAVE A CHOICE TO MAKE.I WILL NOT.
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I WILL NOT.AND, AGAIN, I WILL SAY IT AGAIN
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AND, AGAIN, I WILL SAY IT AGAINI SAID IT THIS WEEK, BUT THOSE
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I SAID IT THIS WEEK, BUT THOSETIMES, LAYING IN BED OR WHEREVER
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TIMES, LAYING IN BED OR WHEREVERYOU MIGHT BE OF JUST CONSUMED
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YOU MIGHT BE OF JUST CONSUMEDWITH THE BAD NEWS, JUST STOP IT.
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WITH THE BAD NEWS, JUST STOP IT.AND JUST START QUOTING
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AND JUST START QUOTINGSCRIPTURE.
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SCRIPTURE.A LOT OF TIMES I'LL LAY IN BED
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A LOT OF TIMES I'LL LAY IN BEDAND I'LL START QUOTING
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AND I'LL START QUOTINGSCRIPTURE.
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SCRIPTURE.IT'S ALMOST A GIFT TO ME.
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IT'S ALMOST A GIFT TO ME.IF I CAN'T REMEMBER EXACTLY HOW
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IF I CAN'T REMEMBER EXACTLY HOWTHE VERSE GOES, BECAUSE IT MAKES
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THE VERSE GOES, BECAUSE IT MAKESME THINK.
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ME THINK.ALL RIGHT, YOU THINK ABOUT THAT
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ALL RIGHT, YOU THINK ABOUT THATVERSE.
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VERSE.THINK ABOUT WHAT IT SAYS, AND
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THINK ABOUT WHAT IT SAYS, ANDTHINK ABOUT IT AND GET IT RIGHT
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THINK ABOUT IT AND GET IT RIGHTTHIS TIME.
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THIS TIME.AND YOUR MIND CHANGES.
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AND YOUR MIND CHANGES.FEAR NOT FOR I'M WITH YOU.
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FEAR NOT FOR I'M WITH YOU.BE NOT BE DISMAYED FOR I AM YOUR
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BE NOT BE DISMAYED FOR I AM YOURGOD.
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GOD.I WILL STRENGTHEN THEE.
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I WILL STRENGTHEN THEE.AND START QUOTING SOME OF THOSE
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AND START QUOTING SOME OF THOSESCRIPTURES.
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SCRIPTURES.THOSE SCRIPTURES WERE TAUGHT TO
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THOSE SCRIPTURES WERE TAUGHT TOME WHEN I WAS A LITTLE TINY KID.
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ME WHEN I WAS A LITTLE TINY KID.I THINK THAT'S SO IMPORTANT,
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I THINK THAT'S SO IMPORTANT,LESLIE, IS TEACHING OUR CHILDREN
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LESLIE, IS TEACHING OUR CHILDRENHOW TO GET THROUGH THINGS LIKE
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HOW TO GET THROUGH THINGS LIKETHIS.
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THIS.THIS CRISIS HAS BEEN A GIFT IN
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THIS CRISIS HAS BEEN A GIFT INTHAT WAY OF HAVING OUR CHILDREN
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THAT WAY OF HAVING OUR CHILDRENIN OUR OWN HOME AND BEING ABLE
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IN OUR OWN HOME AND BEING ABLETO TEACH THEM HOW TO GET THROUGH
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TO TEACH THEM HOW TO GET THROUGHSOMETHING LIKE THIS.
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SOMETHING LIKE THIS.- Leslie: LAURIE, THAT'S SO
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- Leslie: LAURIE, THAT'S SOPOWERFUL.
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POWERFUL.I LOVE THAT THOSE SCRIPTURES
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I LOVE THAT THOSE SCRIPTURESPLANTED IN YOU LITERALLY SHAPE
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PLANTED IN YOU LITERALLY SHAPEYOUR THOUGHTS.
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YOUR THOUGHTS.AND, DIRECTLY CREATE FEELINGS IN
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AND, DIRECTLY CREATE FEELINGS INYOU.
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YOU.AND ONE OF THE THINGS WE KNOW
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AND ONE OF THE THINGS WE KNOWFROM SCIENCE IS, THAT GOD'S
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FROM SCIENCE IS, THAT GOD'SINSTRUCTIONS TO US ARE JUST GOOD
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INSTRUCTIONS TO US ARE JUST GOODSCIENCE.
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SCIENCE.THEY ARE NOT JUST COMMANDS.
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THEY ARE NOT JUST COMMANDS.AND HE TELLS US TO BE THANKFUL,
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AND HE TELLS US TO BE THANKFUL,TO THINK ON THESE THINGS THAT
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TO THINK ON THESE THINGS THATARE GOOD.
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ARE GOOD.ONE OF THE THINGS WE KNOW AS OUR
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ONE OF THE THINGS WE KNOW AS OURMINDS ARE LITERALLY LIKE VELCRO
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MINDS ARE LITERALLY LIKE VELCROFOR THE NEGATIVE, BUT, REALLY,
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FOR THE NEGATIVE, BUT, REALLY,JUST LIKE TEFLON FOR THE
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JUST LIKE TEFLON FOR THEPOSITIVE THINGS.
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POSITIVE THINGS.IF WE DON'T TAKE THE TIME TO
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IF WE DON'T TAKE THE TIME TORUMINATE AND REVEL IN THE GOOD
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RUMINATE AND REVEL IN THE GOODAND THE BEAUTIFUL GIFTS AND THE
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AND THE BEAUTIFUL GIFTS AND THEBLESSINGS OF OUR LIFE, WE DON'T
00:22:13.903 --> 00:22:15.305
BLESSINGS OF OUR LIFE, WE DON'TGET TO WARM OURSELVES BY THE
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GET TO WARM OURSELVES BY THEFIRE OF THAT GRATITUDE.
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FIRE OF THAT GRATITUDE.IT'S JUST SUCH A BEAUTIFUL THING
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IT'S JUST SUCH A BEAUTIFUL THINGWHENEVER GOD'S WORD AND SCIENCE
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WHENEVER GOD'S WORD AND SCIENCELINE UP.
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LINE UP.AND WE KNOW THIS IS SO TRUE FROM
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AND WE KNOW THIS IS SO TRUE FROMEVERY ANGLE.
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EVERY ANGLE.DAVID WAS THE BEST AT IT.
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DAVID WAS THE BEST AT IT.HE WOULD SAY THINGS LIKE, WHY
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HE WOULD SAY THINGS LIKE, WHYARE YOU DOWNCAST O MY SOUL?
00:22:31.454 --> 00:22:32.555
ARE YOU DOWNCAST O MY SOUL?YOU'RE THE ONE WHO'S USUALLY OUT
00:22:32.555 --> 00:22:34.157
YOU'RE THE ONE WHO'S USUALLY OUTLEADING THE PROCESSION FOR
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LEADING THE PROCESSION FORWORSHIP.
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WORSHIP.WHY ARE YOU HERE?
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WHY ARE YOU HERE?YET, HE LOVINGLY GUIDED HIMSELF
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YET, HE LOVINGLY GUIDED HIMSELFRIGHT BACK TO HIS CREATOR IN
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RIGHT BACK TO HIS CREATOR INHONEST CONVERSATION.
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HONEST CONVERSATION.WE CAN DO THAT TOGETHER.
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WE CAN DO THAT TOGETHER.WE CAN PRAY TOGETHER.
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WE CAN PRAY TOGETHER.I'D LOVE TO PRAY AND INVITE
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I'D LOVE TO PRAY AND INVITEGOD'S PRESENCE OVER US IN THIS
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GOD'S PRESENCE OVER US IN THISTIME.
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TIME.FATHER, THANK YOU SO MUCH THAT
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FATHER, THANK YOU SO MUCH THATYOU LOVE US AND YOU'RE PRESENT
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YOU LOVE US AND YOU'RE PRESENTTO US IN EVERY NUANCE OF EVERY
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TO US IN EVERY NUANCE OF EVERYTHOUGHT.
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THOUGHT.WE JUST SURRENDER TO YOU.
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WE JUST SURRENDER TO YOU.WE INVITE YOU IN EVERY NOOK AND
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WE INVITE YOU IN EVERY NOOK ANDCRANNY OF OUR SOUL AND DEEP DOWN
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CRANNY OF OUR SOUL AND DEEP DOWNINTO OUR BONES DO WE EXPERIENCE
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INTO OUR BONES DO WE EXPERIENCEAND KNOW YOUR HOLY SPIRIT
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AND KNOW YOUR HOLY SPIRITFILLING US WITH POSITIVE
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FILLING US WITH POSITIVETHOUGHTS, WITH GRATITUDE.
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THOUGHTS, WITH GRATITUDE.WITH YOUR BLESSING AND BRINGING
00:23:17.901 --> 00:23:19.702
WITH YOUR BLESSING AND BRINGINGHEALING DEEP INSIDE.
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HEALING DEEP INSIDE.THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR GRACE
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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR GRACEGIFT TO US THAT WE CAN FILL OUR
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GIFT TO US THAT WE CAN FILL OURMINDS WITH YOUR TRUTH.
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MINDS WITH YOUR TRUTH.YOU ARE TRUTH.
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YOU ARE TRUTH.AMEN.
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AMEN.- Sheila: I LOVE THAT, LESLIE.
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- Sheila: I LOVE THAT, LESLIE.WHAT A BEAUTIFUL PRAYER.
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WHAT A BEAUTIFUL PRAYER.FOR EVERY NEGATIVE THING YOU'RE
00:23:35.318 --> 00:23:37.387
FOR EVERY NEGATIVE THING YOU'REFEELING, WRITE IT ALL DOWN AND
00:23:37.387 --> 00:23:40.056
FEELING, WRITE IT ALL DOWN ANDWRITE BESIDE IT WRITE THE
00:23:40.056 --> 00:23:41.591
WRITE BESIDE IT WRITE THESCRIPTURES AND SPEAK TO THAT AND
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SCRIPTURES AND SPEAK TO THAT ANDSPEAK THEM OUT LOUD SO YOUR EARS
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SPEAK THEM OUT LOUD SO YOUR EARSCAN HEAR WHAT YOUR EYES CAN SEE.
00:23:44.727 --> 00:23:47.564
CAN HEAR WHAT YOUR EYES CAN SEE.PSALM 27.
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PSALM 27.THE LORD IS MY LIGHT AND MY
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THE LORD IS MY LIGHT AND MYSALVATION.
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SALVATION.WHOM SHALL I FEAR?
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WHOM SHALL I FEAR?THE LORD IS THE STRONGHOLD OF MY
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THE LORD IS THE STRONGHOLD OF MYLIFE.
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LIFE.OF WHOM SHALL I BE AFRAID?
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OF WHOM SHALL I BE AFRAID?EVERY MORNING WHEN YOU GET UP
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EVERY MORNING WHEN YOU GET UPPSALM 143 VERSE 8.
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PSALM 143 VERSE 8.LET THE MORNING BRING ME WORD OF
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LET THE MORNING BRING ME WORD OFYOUR UNFAILING LOVE.
00:24:02.412 --> 00:24:03.947
YOUR UNFAILING LOVE.FOR I HAVE PLACED MY TRUST IN
00:24:03.947 --> 00:24:05.348
FOR I HAVE PLACED MY TRUST INYOU.
00:24:05.348 --> 00:24:06.783
YOU.SHOW ME THE WAY I SHOULD GO.
00:24:06.783 --> 00:24:09.953
SHOW ME THE WAY I SHOULD GO.FOR TO YOU I TRUST MY LIFE.
00:24:09.953 --> 00:24:12.322
FOR TO YOU I TRUST MY LIFE.- Laurie: I LOVE THAT.
00:24:12.322 --> 00:24:14.524
- Laurie: I LOVE THAT.SO GOOD, SO GOOD.
00:24:14.524 --> 00:24:15.258
SO GOOD, SO GOOD.CHRYSTAL, DO YOU HAVE ANY FINAL
00:24:15.258 --> 00:24:16.926
CHRYSTAL, DO YOU HAVE ANY FINALWORDS?
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WORDS?- Chrystal: NONE OF US CAN
00:24:17.660 --> 00:24:19.896
- Chrystal: NONE OF US CANCONTROL COVID-19.
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CONTROL COVID-19.THE SEASON WE ARE IN.
00:24:21.764 --> 00:24:22.832
THE SEASON WE ARE IN.SOMETIMES IT MAKES US FEEL THE
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SOMETIMES IT MAKES US FEEL THEONLY THING WE CAN DO IS REACT.
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ONLY THING WE CAN DO IS REACT.BUT I WANT TO REMIND EVERYBODY
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BUT I WANT TO REMIND EVERYBODYWATCHING, THAT IF YOU BELIEVE IN
00:24:30.106 --> 00:24:31.407
WATCHING, THAT IF YOU BELIEVE INTHE LORD JESUS CHRIST THAT THE
00:24:31.407 --> 00:24:33.076
THE LORD JESUS CHRIST THAT THEHOLY SPIRIT IS AT WORK IN YOU
00:24:33.076 --> 00:24:35.111
HOLY SPIRIT IS AT WORK IN YOUAND YOU HAVE THE FULL THROTTLE
00:24:35.111 --> 00:24:37.714
AND YOU HAVE THE FULL THROTTLEOF POWER THAT GOT JESUS UP FROM
00:24:37.714 --> 00:24:39.115
OF POWER THAT GOT JESUS UP FROMTHE DEAD ON RESURRECTION DAY, TO
00:24:39.115 --> 00:24:40.316
THE DEAD ON RESURRECTION DAY, TONOT JUST REACT BUT TO ALSO BE
00:24:40.316 --> 00:24:42.852
NOT JUST REACT BUT TO ALSO BEPROACTIVE.
00:24:42.852 --> 00:24:43.720
PROACTIVE.YOU SIMPLY HAVE THE POWER OF THE
00:24:43.720 --> 00:24:45.455
YOU SIMPLY HAVE THE POWER OF THEHOLY SPIRIT TO REPLACE THOSE
00:24:45.455 --> 00:24:47.690
HOLY SPIRIT TO REPLACE THOSETHOUGHTS WITH TRUTH.
00:24:47.690 --> 00:24:48.424
THOUGHTS WITH TRUTH.YOU CAN REPLACE THEM WITH GOD'S
00:24:48.424 --> 00:24:49.192
YOU CAN REPLACE THEM WITH GOD'SWORD.
00:24:49.192 --> 00:24:49.926
WORD.YOU CAN REPLACE THEM WITH WISE
00:24:49.926 --> 00:24:51.561
YOU CAN REPLACE THEM WITH WISECOUNSEL.
00:24:51.561 --> 00:24:52.729
COUNSEL.YOU DON'T HAVE TO JUST SIMPLY BE
00:24:52.729 --> 00:24:54.564
YOU DON'T HAVE TO JUST SIMPLY BEA RECIPIENT OF WHAT'S HAPPENING
00:24:54.564 --> 00:24:55.698
A RECIPIENT OF WHAT'S HAPPENINGIN YOUR HEAD.
00:24:55.698 --> 00:24:56.966
IN YOUR HEAD.AND, YES, THERE IS A PLACE FOR
00:24:56.966 --> 00:24:58.067
AND, YES, THERE IS A PLACE FORMEDICATION.
00:24:58.067 --> 00:24:59.302
MEDICATION.YES, THERE IS A PLACE FOR
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YES, THERE IS A PLACE FORCOUNSELING.
00:25:00.937 --> 00:25:03.873
COUNSELING.BUT EVEN THOSE ARE NOT REACTIVE.
00:25:03.873 --> 00:25:07.710
BUT EVEN THOSE ARE NOT REACTIVE.YOU CAN TAKE THE PROACTIVE SEAT
00:25:07.710 --> 00:25:08.811
YOU CAN TAKE THE PROACTIVE SEATAND SAY, I CHOOSE NOT TO SIT
00:25:08.811 --> 00:25:09.846
AND SAY, I CHOOSE NOT TO SITHERE AND LITERALLY WHITTLE AWAY
00:25:09.846 --> 00:25:13.082
HERE AND LITERALLY WHITTLE AWAYMENTALLY AND ALLOW OUR FEARS AND
00:25:13.082 --> 00:25:15.285
MENTALLY AND ALLOW OUR FEARS ANDALLOW MY CONCERNS AND ALLOW THE
00:25:15.285 --> 00:25:17.153
ALLOW MY CONCERNS AND ALLOW THENEGATIVITY TO GET THE BEST OF
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NEGATIVITY TO GET THE BEST OFME.
00:25:18.187 --> 00:25:19.956
ME.I CHOOSE TO LIVE MY LIFE AND TO
00:25:19.956 --> 00:25:22.492
I CHOOSE TO LIVE MY LIFE AND TOHONOR THE LIFE GOD'S GIVEN ME BY
00:25:22.492 --> 00:25:24.294
HONOR THE LIFE GOD'S GIVEN ME BYPROACTIVELY SEEKING HELP.
00:25:24.294 --> 00:25:26.362
PROACTIVELY SEEKING HELP.BY PROACTIVELY SEEING A DOCTOR,
00:25:26.362 --> 00:25:28.565
BY PROACTIVELY SEEING A DOCTOR,BY PROACTIVELY TALKING TO
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BY PROACTIVELY TALKING TOFRIENDS BECAUSE I ALWAYS SAY
00:25:29.499 --> 00:25:31.200
FRIENDS BECAUSE I ALWAYS SAYTHIS.
00:25:31.200 --> 00:25:33.236
THIS.IF YOU ARE STILL HERE EVERY DAY
00:25:33.236 --> 00:25:35.271
IF YOU ARE STILL HERE EVERY DAYBREATHING BREATH INTO YOUR
00:25:35.271 --> 00:25:37.974
BREATHING BREATH INTO YOURLUNGS, YOU GET TO CHOOSE.
00:25:37.974 --> 00:25:38.741
LUNGS, YOU GET TO CHOOSE.- Laurie: I LOVE THAT.
00:25:38.741 --> 00:25:40.243
- Laurie: I LOVE THAT.I LOVE THAT.
00:25:40.243 --> 00:25:41.277
I LOVE THAT.GOOD PROGRAM.
00:25:41.277 --> 00:25:42.111
GOOD PROGRAM.OUR "BETTER TOGETHER" COMMUNITY
00:25:42.111 --> 00:25:43.746
OUR "BETTER TOGETHER" COMMUNITYIS ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU.
00:25:43.746 --> 00:25:45.014
IS ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU.YOU CAN CONNECT WITH US ON
00:25:45.014 --> 00:25:46.449
YOU CAN CONNECT WITH US ONSOCIAL MEDIA AND LET US KNOW HOW
00:25:46.449 --> 00:25:47.450
SOCIAL MEDIA AND LET US KNOW HOWWE CAN PRAY FOR YOU.
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WE CAN PRAY FOR YOU.THANKS FOR JOINING US TODAY.
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THANKS FOR JOINING US TODAY.ARE YOU COPING WITH AN
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ARE YOU COPING WITH ANUNSPEAKABLE LOSS OR DEALING WITH
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UNSPEAKABLE LOSS OR DEALING WITHA PERSONAL TRAUMA?
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A PERSONAL TRAUMA?TOMORROW WE WILL HAVE A POWERFUL
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TOMORROW WE WILL HAVE A POWERFULCONVERSATION ABOUT FINDING HOPE
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CONVERSATION ABOUT FINDING HOPEIN THE DARKNESS.
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IN THE DARKNESS.WE'LL SEE YOU THEN.
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WE'LL SEE YOU THEN.BYE BYE.
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Better Together LIVE | Episode 38

Better Together LIVE | Episode 38

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Better Together LIVE | Episode 38

Better Together LIVE | Episode 38

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