Better Together LIVE | Episode 77 | TBN

Better Together LIVE | Episode 77

Watch Better Together LIVE | Episode 77
July 21, 2020
25:50

A sincere apology is the first step in rebuilding broken bridges. How can we apologize—and mean it—even if it’s not deserved? | TBN Prayer Line: 1-888-731-1000

Closed captions

Better Together LIVE | Episode 77

Show timecode
Hide timecode
  • - Asking for forgiveness canheal our broken relationships.
  • 00:00:00.690 --> 00:00:04.227
  • It tears down walls,builds bridges,
  • 00:00:04.227 --> 00:00:06.963
  • and reminds us towalk in humility.
  • 00:00:06.963 --> 00:00:09.099
  • Today, we're talkingabout how God
  • 00:00:09.099 --> 00:00:11.134
  • will give us the strengthto say, I am sorry.
  • 00:00:11.134 --> 00:00:13.970
  • Come on, join us.
  • 00:00:13.970 --> 00:00:16.039
  • (upbeat music)
  • 00:00:16.039 --> 00:00:18.608
  • - Well, today we'reasking for forgiveness.
  • 00:00:42.065 --> 00:00:46.169
  • That's the topic.
  • 00:00:46.169 --> 00:00:47.937
  • And I gotta tell you,
  • 00:00:47.937 --> 00:00:49.005
  • that's
  • 00:00:49.005 --> 00:00:50.473
  • not
  • 00:00:50.473 --> 00:00:51.307
  • my favorite thing to do.
  • 00:00:51.307 --> 00:00:54.144
  • I think it's really hard.
  • 00:00:54.144 --> 00:00:57.614
  • I'm a grandma,
  • 00:00:57.614 --> 00:00:58.781
  • that's hard for me.
  • 00:00:59.749 --> 00:01:01.818
  • The Bible verse thatI was meditating on
  • 00:01:03.253 --> 00:01:06.789
  • before we came today,
  • 00:01:06.789 --> 00:01:08.224
  • I'll share it withyou Colossians 3:13.
  • 00:01:08.224 --> 00:01:11.594
  • "Bearing one another, andforgiving one another,
  • 00:01:11.594 --> 00:01:15.665
  • "if anyone has acomplaint against another,
  • 00:01:15.665 --> 00:01:19.469
  • " even as Christ forgave you,
  • 00:01:19.469 --> 00:01:22.071
  • "so you also must do."
  • 00:01:22.071 --> 00:01:25.441
  • Okay, that's whatthe Scripture teaches
  • 00:01:26.609 --> 00:01:28.945
  • and that's whatwe're supposed to do.
  • 00:01:28.945 --> 00:01:31.548
  • Okay, Laurie askedme to open today,
  • 00:01:34.517 --> 00:01:37.220
  • and I'm gonna tella transparent story.
  • 00:01:37.220 --> 00:01:40.223
  • I've been married 47 years,
  • 00:01:41.758 --> 00:01:44.060
  • so I've got lotsof marriage stories
  • 00:01:44.060 --> 00:01:45.995
  • about asking for forgiveness.
  • 00:01:45.995 --> 00:01:48.331
  • And I'm a grandmother,and I've got four sons,
  • 00:01:48.331 --> 00:01:51.134
  • I've got lots of mom'sstories I can tell.
  • 00:01:51.134 --> 00:01:53.770
  • I'm a daughter, I'm a sister,I've got lots of stories.
  • 00:01:53.770 --> 00:01:58.141
  • But I thought I wouldbe transparent today,
  • 00:01:58.141 --> 00:02:01.544
  • and I'm gonna tell astory from last year
  • 00:02:01.544 --> 00:02:04.781
  • when I got so angry.
  • 00:02:04.781 --> 00:02:06.849
  • And I really don't get angry,
  • 00:02:06.849 --> 00:02:09.285
  • but I got so mad.
  • 00:02:09.285 --> 00:02:12.322
  • I mean,
  • 00:02:12.322 --> 00:02:13.156
  • I
  • 00:02:13.156 --> 00:02:14.023
  • got
  • 00:02:14.023 --> 00:02:14.857
  • mad.
  • 00:02:14.857 --> 00:02:16.292
  • And here's what happened.
  • 00:02:16.292 --> 00:02:17.860
  • I was working on a project.
  • 00:02:17.860 --> 00:02:21.030
  • Laurie's cracking up already.
  • 00:02:21.030 --> 00:02:22.832
  • I was working on a project,
  • 00:02:22.832 --> 00:02:25.435
  • and we're working away,
  • 00:02:25.435 --> 00:02:27.770
  • and this project wasimportant and it was a hard,
  • 00:02:27.770 --> 00:02:32.675
  • and it was time consuming,
  • 00:02:33.543 --> 00:02:35.545
  • and it had a lotof people involved,
  • 00:02:35.545 --> 00:02:37.580
  • and it mattered toa lot of people.
  • 00:02:37.580 --> 00:02:40.350
  • And I thought I wasdoing my best work.
  • 00:02:40.350 --> 00:02:43.820
  • And I thought I wasputting my heart into it.
  • 00:02:43.820 --> 00:02:46.723
  • And as it was going, thingsweren't going so good.
  • 00:02:46.723 --> 00:02:50.960
  • And to tell you thetruth, it was failing.
  • 00:02:50.960 --> 00:02:54.597
  • And as this was happening,
  • 00:02:54.597 --> 00:02:56.833
  • I'm trying to cheer people onand trying to cheer on folks,
  • 00:02:58.301 --> 00:03:02.672
  • and I'm giving my excuses now,
  • 00:03:03.539 --> 00:03:05.375
  • those are all my disclaimers.
  • 00:03:05.375 --> 00:03:07.510
  • But I get to apoint in this story
  • 00:03:07.510 --> 00:03:11.014
  • where I'm
  • 00:03:11.014 --> 00:03:12.148
  • cheering on a team member,
  • 00:03:13.383 --> 00:03:15.618
  • and that team memberdidn't respond
  • 00:03:15.618 --> 00:03:19.055
  • the way I thoughtthat person might.
  • 00:03:19.055 --> 00:03:21.591
  • And I got mad.
  • 00:03:21.591 --> 00:03:24.627
  • I mean,
  • 00:03:24.627 --> 00:03:25.828
  • I got angry.
  • 00:03:25.828 --> 00:03:27.697
  • And I didn't just get angry,I started to raise my voice,
  • 00:03:27.697 --> 00:03:31.401
  • and I started to say,
  • 00:03:31.401 --> 00:03:33.036
  • "Listen, I think wecould do it differently."
  • 00:03:33.036 --> 00:03:36.506
  • And this and that.
  • 00:03:36.506 --> 00:03:38.641
  • Now, I'm not sayingI was cussing.
  • 00:03:38.641 --> 00:03:41.210
  • I don't want you to think that.
  • 00:03:41.210 --> 00:03:42.912
  • I did not loose control, okay?
  • 00:03:42.912 --> 00:03:45.915
  • I am a Christian,I did not do that.
  • 00:03:45.915 --> 00:03:49.552
  • But,
  • 00:03:49.552 --> 00:03:51.154
  • I
  • 00:03:51.154 --> 00:03:52.588
  • really was mad.
  • 00:03:52.588 --> 00:03:54.824
  • I mean, I was on the phone.
  • 00:03:56.392 --> 00:03:58.561
  • The thing about cell phones now,
  • 00:03:58.561 --> 00:04:00.763
  • remember when youused to be able
  • 00:04:00.763 --> 00:04:01.764
  • to like slam down the phone,
  • 00:04:01.764 --> 00:04:03.766
  • you can't even do that anymore.
  • 00:04:03.766 --> 00:04:06.069
  • You know, you're justhearing about the phone.
  • 00:04:06.069 --> 00:04:08.404
  • You're just so there so there.
  • 00:04:08.404 --> 00:04:10.873
  • But anyway, that was what I was
  • 00:04:10.873 --> 00:04:13.609
  • and so there
  • 00:04:13.609 --> 00:04:16.579
  • and then I wasburning up inside,
  • 00:04:16.579 --> 00:04:19.115
  • I was burning up inside.
  • 00:04:19.115 --> 00:04:21.417
  • And I mean, thiswent into my spirit
  • 00:04:21.417 --> 00:04:25.588
  • and days went byand weeks went by
  • 00:04:25.588 --> 00:04:29.258
  • and on was full
  • 00:04:29.258 --> 00:04:31.627
  • of real anger.
  • 00:04:31.627 --> 00:04:34.063
  • I mean, I was really madnow here's the thing.
  • 00:04:34.063 --> 00:04:37.900
  • I'm the pastor.
  • 00:04:40.036 --> 00:04:41.070
  • And I'm expecting of myself
  • 00:04:42.438 --> 00:04:45.508
  • a higher expectation.
  • 00:04:48.010 --> 00:04:50.113
  • Right?
  • 00:04:51.047 --> 00:04:52.482
  • I'm supposed to becalling the team
  • 00:04:52.482 --> 00:04:54.817
  • to some kind of inspiration.
  • 00:04:54.817 --> 00:04:57.153
  • But I have absolutely
  • 00:04:57.153 --> 00:04:59.756
  • lost it
  • 00:04:59.756 --> 00:05:01.691
  • in that particular moment.
  • 00:05:01.691 --> 00:05:04.026
  • But you know what,I didn't even care.
  • 00:05:05.695 --> 00:05:08.698
  • That was the really hardpart is I was so angry,
  • 00:05:08.698 --> 00:05:13.703
  • and so full of rage
  • 00:05:13.703 --> 00:05:16.472
  • over this situationthat I didn't even care.
  • 00:05:16.472 --> 00:05:20.576
  • Now,
  • 00:05:21.711 --> 00:05:22.979
  • the Holy Spiritstarted to talk to me
  • 00:05:22.979 --> 00:05:25.181
  • and that's what happensas we walk with the Lord.
  • 00:05:25.181 --> 00:05:30.119
  • And as I was pondering
  • 00:05:30.119 --> 00:05:32.789
  • how I was gonna startthis conversation today,
  • 00:05:32.789 --> 00:05:36.025
  • here is what I wanna say,
  • 00:05:36.025 --> 00:05:38.895
  • if you're human, you'regonna have conflict.
  • 00:05:38.895 --> 00:05:43.499
  • I started by saying I'vebeen married 47 years.
  • 00:05:43.499 --> 00:05:46.469
  • I've pastored the samechurch now for 22.
  • 00:05:47.637 --> 00:05:50.740
  • We have the samedeacons for 22 years,
  • 00:05:50.740 --> 00:05:54.410
  • we have the sameassociate pastors,
  • 00:05:54.410 --> 00:05:56.846
  • I've raised four sons.
  • 00:05:56.846 --> 00:05:58.347
  • They're all pastors.
  • 00:05:58.347 --> 00:06:00.249
  • I'm a mother in law.
  • 00:06:00.249 --> 00:06:01.751
  • I'm a sister.
  • 00:06:01.751 --> 00:06:03.019
  • I have the same cellnumber for 25 years.
  • 00:06:03.019 --> 00:06:05.855
  • I mean, I know about conflict.
  • 00:06:05.855 --> 00:06:08.257
  • I know about relationships.
  • 00:06:08.257 --> 00:06:09.992
  • But what I wannasay I've learned
  • 00:06:09.992 --> 00:06:12.395
  • is that the Bible teaches
  • 00:06:12.395 --> 00:06:14.964
  • that we can have alife that is enjoyable.
  • 00:06:14.964 --> 00:06:19.202
  • But the key is that we'vegot to resolve conflict.
  • 00:06:19.202 --> 00:06:22.705
  • And here's the verse
  • 00:06:22.705 --> 00:06:24.273
  • 1 Peter 3:10.
  • 00:06:24.273 --> 00:06:26.409
  • It says,
  • 00:06:26.409 --> 00:06:27.410
  • "For the one whowants enjoy life
  • 00:06:27.410 --> 00:06:30.646
  • I do, I wanna enjoy life.
  • 00:06:31.714 --> 00:06:34.550
  • "And see good days
  • 00:06:34.550 --> 00:06:37.653
  • "must keep her tongue
  • 00:06:37.653 --> 00:06:39.722
  • "and changed hertongue free from evil
  • 00:06:39.722 --> 00:06:42.625
  • "and her lips fromspeaking guile
  • 00:06:42.625 --> 00:06:45.862
  • "and turn away anddo what's right.
  • 00:06:45.862 --> 00:06:50.733
  • Now,
  • 00:06:50.733 --> 00:06:51.534
  • "She must search
  • 00:06:51.534 --> 00:06:53.669
  • for peace
  • 00:06:53.669 --> 00:06:54.670
  • with God in the Amplified
  • 00:06:56.772 --> 00:06:58.341
  • "with self and withothers and pursue it
  • 00:06:58.341 --> 00:07:03.346
  • "eagerly,
  • 00:07:03.946 --> 00:07:04.914
  • "actively not just desiring it."
  • 00:07:04.914 --> 00:07:07.850
  • is what Peter's telling us.
  • 00:07:07.850 --> 00:07:09.952
  • Now, here's what I had to do.
  • 00:07:09.952 --> 00:07:11.521
  • This is the action part
  • 00:07:12.855 --> 00:07:15.658
  • of forgiveness.
  • 00:07:15.658 --> 00:07:17.159
  • I had to go
  • 00:07:18.561 --> 00:07:19.762
  • and open my heart
  • 00:07:20.863 --> 00:07:23.299
  • and say, all right God.
  • 00:07:23.299 --> 00:07:25.067
  • What am I gonna do?
  • 00:07:27.970 --> 00:07:29.205
  • 'Cause the Holy Spirit wasletting me know, now Robin,
  • 00:07:31.140 --> 00:07:34.810
  • there's two sides toevery conversation.
  • 00:07:34.810 --> 00:07:37.847
  • And sure, you may be rightbecause I thought I was right.
  • 00:07:37.847 --> 00:07:42.451
  • I did, and by the way, Istill think I was right.
  • 00:07:42.451 --> 00:07:45.254
  • But that's not the point.
  • 00:07:46.322 --> 00:07:48.291
  • You know what the point is?
  • 00:07:48.291 --> 00:07:49.492
  • (Brittney laughs)
  • 00:07:49.492 --> 00:07:52.328
  • Being rights overrated.
  • 00:07:53.696 --> 00:07:55.798
  • I was about tolose a relationship
  • 00:07:56.899 --> 00:07:59.835
  • with a person who I've had arelationship with for decades.
  • 00:07:59.835 --> 00:08:04.340
  • And I was gonna be right.
  • 00:08:04.340 --> 00:08:07.243
  • But I was gonna losethis amazing relationship
  • 00:08:07.243 --> 00:08:11.647
  • that I had had.
  • 00:08:11.647 --> 00:08:13.649
  • So because I wanna enjoy life,
  • 00:08:13.649 --> 00:08:16.986
  • and because I wantedto have peace,
  • 00:08:16.986 --> 00:08:21.023
  • I had to go in tothat office, sit down,
  • 00:08:21.023 --> 00:08:25.728
  • Look in the face ofthis amazing human
  • 00:08:25.728 --> 00:08:28.998
  • who has perspective.
  • 00:08:28.998 --> 00:08:31.867
  • And I looked at herand I said, now.
  • 00:08:33.536 --> 00:08:36.172
  • I wanna start by saying thatno matter what happened,
  • 00:08:36.172 --> 00:08:41.177
  • I want you to knowthat I was wrong.
  • 00:08:42.645 --> 00:08:45.581
  • I'm wrong.
  • 00:08:47.383 --> 00:08:48.818
  • I should never havelost my temper.
  • 00:08:48.818 --> 00:08:55.691
  • I am wrong, will youforgive me, please?
  • 00:08:55.691 --> 00:08:59.595
  • I'm so sorry.
  • 00:08:59.595 --> 00:09:01.263
  • Now I'd like to tellyou that in that moment,
  • 00:09:02.398 --> 00:09:04.567
  • she jumped off, threw herarms around me and said,
  • 00:09:04.567 --> 00:09:08.738
  • Oh, you're wonderful didn'tquite happen that way.
  • 00:09:08.738 --> 00:09:12.341
  • What happened insteadwas she said, Well, okay,
  • 00:09:12.341 --> 00:09:15.311
  • and then went on to tellme how she was still right.
  • 00:09:15.311 --> 00:09:19.382
  • But that's not the point.
  • 00:09:19.382 --> 00:09:21.984
  • The point was,
  • 00:09:21.984 --> 00:09:23.019
  • I started to find peace
  • 00:09:23.919 --> 00:09:27.857
  • in the moment, by saying God,
  • 00:09:27.857 --> 00:09:30.660
  • Thank you for allowingme to start the journey.
  • 00:09:30.660 --> 00:09:35.197
  • Now I wanna tell you todaythat relationship continues
  • 00:09:35.197 --> 00:09:39.735
  • and we work together.
  • 00:09:39.735 --> 00:09:41.671
  • And God uses us
  • 00:09:41.671 --> 00:09:42.505
  • to be a help
  • 00:09:42.505 --> 00:09:45.274
  • to lots of people.
  • 00:09:45.274 --> 00:09:46.442
  • So how it works is that westart by saying I'm sorry,
  • 00:09:47.910 --> 00:09:52.448
  • and ask for forgiveness
  • 00:09:53.182 --> 00:09:54.684
  • we have humble ourselves
  • 00:09:54.684 --> 00:09:57.753
  • and that's how I stayed married.
  • 00:09:57.753 --> 00:10:01.490
  • It works in marriage too
  • 00:10:01.490 --> 00:10:03.693
  • what do you think Laurie?
  • 00:10:03.693 --> 00:10:04.960
  • - That's easier read than done.
  • 00:10:06.028 --> 00:10:08.264
  • All that colossiansstuff you just said,
  • 00:10:09.498 --> 00:10:12.468
  • Yeah, Rob, you know,
  • 00:10:12.468 --> 00:10:14.637
  • it is becausesaying you're sorry
  • 00:10:14.637 --> 00:10:17.039
  • is always the humbling part
  • 00:10:17.039 --> 00:10:19.341
  • and we say in our house,
  • 00:10:19.341 --> 00:10:20.609
  • whoever's the firstto Say am sorry wins.
  • 00:10:20.609 --> 00:10:23.479
  • And
  • 00:10:23.479 --> 00:10:26.148
  • it's true,
  • 00:10:26.148 --> 00:10:27.950
  • you know, I can dodevil all by myself.
  • 00:10:27.950 --> 00:10:30.319
  • All day long.
  • 00:10:30.319 --> 00:10:31.721
  • I've had to,
  • 00:10:31.721 --> 00:10:33.322
  • to say sorry many times
  • 00:10:33.322 --> 00:10:35.658
  • and I always try to keep
  • 00:10:35.658 --> 00:10:38.194
  • conscious that I'm probably
  • 00:10:39.628 --> 00:10:42.498
  • well not probably
  • 00:10:42.498 --> 00:10:43.733
  • I am responsible forhow I'm perceived.
  • 00:10:43.733 --> 00:10:46.402
  • And if I've raised my voice
  • 00:10:46.402 --> 00:10:48.838
  • or I have done something
  • 00:10:48.838 --> 00:10:50.306
  • I remember one day, andI'll tell the naughty on me.
  • 00:10:50.306 --> 00:10:53.909
  • I went to go pick upkaiylin from school,
  • 00:10:53.909 --> 00:10:56.645
  • and I was late
  • 00:10:56.645 --> 00:10:57.880
  • and we had a little tiny school.
  • 00:10:57.880 --> 00:11:00.750
  • And you had topull up to a little
  • 00:11:00.750 --> 00:11:03.652
  • orange net gate
  • 00:11:05.287 --> 00:11:07.790
  • and there wasn't anothersoul in the parking lot
  • 00:11:07.790 --> 00:11:10.292
  • except the pastor of the church
  • 00:11:11.260 --> 00:11:13.662
  • and his assistant and whichI didn't know at the time,
  • 00:11:16.132 --> 00:11:20.603
  • and I remember kaiylin wasreleased from his teacher,
  • 00:11:20.603 --> 00:11:24.073
  • he ran up to that gate
  • 00:11:24.073 --> 00:11:25.474
  • and the lady standing there
  • 00:11:25.474 --> 00:11:26.742
  • with nobody elsein the parking lot.
  • 00:11:26.742 --> 00:11:28.511
  • I just pulled that to justhave him get in my car
  • 00:11:30.045 --> 00:11:33.149
  • and he started to runand she grabbed my son.
  • 00:11:33.149 --> 00:11:37.419
  • And she said, Yougo park your car.
  • 00:11:38.621 --> 00:11:40.289
  • And I was like,
  • 00:11:41.223 --> 00:11:42.792
  • but there was nobodythere in the parking lot.
  • 00:11:42.792 --> 00:11:45.661
  • And
  • 00:11:45.661 --> 00:11:46.495
  • he started to come to me again,
  • 00:11:48.531 --> 00:11:50.466
  • she just held onto and nowI'm thinking okay lady.
  • 00:11:50.466 --> 00:11:53.702
  • So of course, I just cameback in my car and parked
  • 00:11:55.171 --> 00:11:57.706
  • and I get out of my carand I reach over that gate
  • 00:11:57.706 --> 00:12:01.043
  • and I said, Let goof my son, you know,
  • 00:12:01.043 --> 00:12:02.845
  • and I put him in the car.
  • 00:12:02.845 --> 00:12:04.647
  • And I can't tell you
  • 00:12:04.647 --> 00:12:06.048
  • I think you all know, becauseyou all have children,
  • 00:12:06.048 --> 00:12:08.083
  • you know that feeling.
  • 00:12:08.083 --> 00:12:09.518
  • Don't stop my child from obeyingme to come get in my car,
  • 00:12:09.518 --> 00:12:13.622
  • don't grab him, you know,
  • 00:12:13.622 --> 00:12:15.157
  • but I knew the rules andI put him in the car.
  • 00:12:15.157 --> 00:12:19.495
  • I had never seenthis woman before.
  • 00:12:19.495 --> 00:12:21.730
  • And I was livid
  • 00:12:21.730 --> 00:12:24.767
  • to say the least.
  • 00:12:24.767 --> 00:12:26.635
  • And put them in the car andI took off a little fast out
  • 00:12:26.635 --> 00:12:30.406
  • There's the pastor
  • 00:12:30.406 --> 00:12:32.007
  • and you know, hislittle congregants there
  • 00:12:33.642 --> 00:12:35.845
  • and I'm thinking, Oh my gosh,
  • 00:12:35.845 --> 00:12:37.746
  • what am I just doing?I know the rules,
  • 00:12:37.746 --> 00:12:40.382
  • I know the rules.
  • 00:12:40.382 --> 00:12:41.550
  • And the next day,
  • 00:12:41.550 --> 00:12:44.186
  • I would of coursego buy a big bouquet
  • 00:12:44.186 --> 00:12:46.188
  • and I take it to that lady
  • 00:12:46.188 --> 00:12:47.456
  • and I call the school right away
  • 00:12:47.456 --> 00:12:48.757
  • before I even got outof the parking lot.
  • 00:12:48.757 --> 00:12:50.459
  • I called the officeand I said, Miss Linda,
  • 00:12:50.459 --> 00:12:53.062
  • I said, Could youplease tell the lady
  • 00:12:53.062 --> 00:12:54.964
  • that was at the gate today
  • 00:12:54.964 --> 00:12:56.398
  • that I am so sorry,
  • 00:12:56.398 --> 00:12:58.267
  • I am so sorry, what I just did
  • 00:12:58.267 --> 00:13:00.102
  • and I brought herflowers the next day.
  • 00:13:00.102 --> 00:13:02.037
  • Now, don't evergrab my son again
  • 00:13:02.037 --> 00:13:05.007
  • But I had to gothrough and I walked up
  • 00:13:05.007 --> 00:13:07.309
  • and I said, I believethese belong to you
  • 00:13:07.309 --> 00:13:09.278
  • and I gave thisbouquet, you know.
  • 00:13:09.278 --> 00:13:11.146
  • and I felt horriblebecause I knew the rules
  • 00:13:11.146 --> 00:13:14.049
  • that you park your car
  • 00:13:14.049 --> 00:13:14.984
  • and you go get your kids.
  • 00:13:14.984 --> 00:13:16.385
  • So I have eatencrow a few times.
  • 00:13:16.385 --> 00:13:19.088
  • I've heard to makeyour words sweet,
  • 00:13:19.088 --> 00:13:21.857
  • because you might haveto eat them, Sheila.
  • 00:13:21.857 --> 00:13:24.260
  • Have you ever hadto eat your words?
  • 00:13:25.461 --> 00:13:27.730
  • - Oh boy. More than I've hadhot meals, absolutely, yes.
  • 00:13:29.398 --> 00:13:33.435
  • One of the things thatcan be challenging
  • 00:13:33.435 --> 00:13:36.405
  • is when the persondoesn't accept,
  • 00:13:36.405 --> 00:13:38.707
  • you know, are askingfor forgiveness
  • 00:13:38.707 --> 00:13:41.343
  • when I was on the road,
  • 00:13:41.343 --> 00:13:43.279
  • I don't know few years ago,
  • 00:13:43.279 --> 00:13:45.581
  • and Christian, ourson was was little,
  • 00:13:45.581 --> 00:13:48.384
  • and he was tiredwith the two flights
  • 00:13:48.384 --> 00:13:50.619
  • that, you know,were had canceled
  • 00:13:50.619 --> 00:13:53.155
  • and so we got into the hotel
  • 00:13:53.155 --> 00:13:54.990
  • really, really late.
  • 00:13:54.990 --> 00:13:57.092
  • And the guy at the front desk
  • 00:13:57.092 --> 00:13:58.961
  • he said, you know, we'dlet your reservation go.
  • 00:14:00.863 --> 00:14:03.465
  • And I said, but youhave a credit card down
  • 00:14:03.465 --> 00:14:05.434
  • and you're notsupposed to let it go.
  • 00:14:05.434 --> 00:14:07.603
  • And he was like, Well,sorry, we'll let it go.
  • 00:14:07.603 --> 00:14:09.271
  • And I'm like, you know,it's like midnight,
  • 00:14:09.271 --> 00:14:11.106
  • I'm speaking the next day.
  • 00:14:11.106 --> 00:14:12.708
  • I have a little boy
  • 00:14:12.708 --> 00:14:14.176
  • and my husband's trying towrangle all our luggage.
  • 00:14:15.611 --> 00:14:17.713
  • And so I said, you know,can I speak to your manager?
  • 00:14:17.713 --> 00:14:20.616
  • So the manager came out
  • 00:14:20.616 --> 00:14:21.884
  • and I said, you know,this is unacceptable,
  • 00:14:21.884 --> 00:14:24.320
  • and I didn't just it was like,
  • 00:14:24.320 --> 00:14:26.822
  • you know, when you kindof you've just had it,
  • 00:14:26.822 --> 00:14:28.557
  • you know, you've beenGood through 15 things
  • 00:14:28.557 --> 00:14:32.161
  • that have not worked.
  • 00:14:32.161 --> 00:14:33.662
  • But this is a 16th.
  • 00:14:33.662 --> 00:14:35.464
  • And even if it's less thanit's just all it took.
  • 00:14:35.464 --> 00:14:39.401
  • And a manager said,
  • 00:14:39.401 --> 00:14:40.903
  • you know, there's beena misunderstanding,
  • 00:14:40.903 --> 00:14:42.404
  • you're part of a groupbooking your room is here.
  • 00:14:42.404 --> 00:14:45.007
  • And I said, Well,
  • 00:14:45.007 --> 00:14:46.442
  • you might wanna tellthat fat head over there,
  • 00:14:46.442 --> 00:14:48.544
  • you know, which was theguy at the front desk,
  • 00:14:48.544 --> 00:14:51.847
  • and, you know, very selfrighteously, I got my kid
  • 00:14:51.847 --> 00:14:55.117
  • and I marched up to my bedroom.
  • 00:14:55.117 --> 00:14:57.286
  • And I Christian, settled,
  • 00:14:57.286 --> 00:14:58.954
  • and I'm having a bath
  • 00:14:58.954 --> 00:15:00.589
  • and the Holy Spiritjust talked to me.
  • 00:15:00.589 --> 00:15:03.959
  • And he said, so whatare we gonna do here?
  • 00:15:03.959 --> 00:15:06.628
  • And I was like, buthe was in the wrong
  • 00:15:06.628 --> 00:15:08.630
  • and I have a little boy
  • 00:15:08.630 --> 00:15:09.865
  • and we were tired and nervous.
  • 00:15:09.865 --> 00:15:11.600
  • And you know, I was atthe place in my life
  • 00:15:11.600 --> 00:15:14.069
  • where I know arguing with theHoly Spirit's really stupid.
  • 00:15:14.069 --> 00:15:17.272
  • So I said, What doyou want me to do?
  • 00:15:17.272 --> 00:15:19.441
  • And he said, get up, getdressed and go downstairs
  • 00:15:19.441 --> 00:15:23.178
  • and ask for forgiveness.
  • 00:15:23.178 --> 00:15:24.880
  • So I got out the bath and gotdressed and I went downstairs,
  • 00:15:24.880 --> 00:15:28.717
  • the manager was the front desk.
  • 00:15:28.717 --> 00:15:30.019
  • And the other gentleman wasn't.
  • 00:15:30.019 --> 00:15:30.953
  • And I said, Is he still here?
  • 00:15:30.953 --> 00:15:32.021
  • And he said, yeah.
  • 00:15:32.021 --> 00:15:33.255
  • So he called him andI said to him, listen,
  • 00:15:33.255 --> 00:15:34.923
  • I am so sorry, I was really rude
  • 00:15:34.923 --> 00:15:37.693
  • and, and I askedyou to forgive me.
  • 00:15:37.693 --> 00:15:40.429
  • And he kind of lookedat me and he said,
  • 00:15:40.429 --> 00:15:42.031
  • You know, I don'tthink I will do that.
  • 00:15:42.031 --> 00:15:43.699
  • And he walked away.
  • 00:15:43.699 --> 00:15:45.267
  • And I felt kind ofstymied, it's like,
  • 00:15:45.267 --> 00:15:47.636
  • you know, what doI, what do I do now?
  • 00:15:47.636 --> 00:15:50.139
  • And so I said, to theManager I'm genuinely Sorry,
  • 00:15:50.139 --> 00:15:53.342
  • that was my issue andI went back upstairs.
  • 00:15:53.342 --> 00:15:56.345
  • And I felt as if theLord said to me, Sheila,
  • 00:15:56.345 --> 00:15:58.480
  • you did what I asked you to do,
  • 00:15:58.480 --> 00:16:00.315
  • You know, you were wrongyou lost it with this guy
  • 00:16:00.315 --> 00:16:02.384
  • in ways you didn't need to.
  • 00:16:02.384 --> 00:16:03.886
  • Then you went downstairs andyou asked him to forgive you.
  • 00:16:03.886 --> 00:16:06.655
  • You're not responsiblefor his response.
  • 00:16:06.655 --> 00:16:10.726
  • You're responsible for takingthe action that I show you.
  • 00:16:10.726 --> 00:16:14.396
  • 'cause sometimes ifwe ask for forgiveness
  • 00:16:14.396 --> 00:16:15.931
  • and the person says, No,
  • 00:16:15.931 --> 00:16:17.433
  • then we think we're sosorry, we even asked for it.
  • 00:16:17.433 --> 00:16:20.369
  • But that's to me, it's like,
  • 00:16:20.369 --> 00:16:22.204
  • it's like doing what theHoly Spirit asks us to do.
  • 00:16:22.204 --> 00:16:25.674
  • No matter how theother person responds
  • 00:16:25.674 --> 00:16:27.910
  • 'cause they won't alwaysaccept or ask for forgiveness.
  • 00:16:27.910 --> 00:16:31.780
  • - I have been
  • 00:16:32.714 --> 00:16:33.649
  • probably having toask for forgiveness
  • 00:16:34.817 --> 00:16:37.553
  • in the season a lot.
  • 00:16:37.553 --> 00:16:39.354
  • For my three and ahalf year old Gabriel,
  • 00:16:39.354 --> 00:16:42.458
  • you know, COVID-19 season,
  • 00:16:42.458 --> 00:16:45.494
  • racial tensions.
  • 00:16:45.494 --> 00:16:46.895
  • I mean, 2020
  • 00:16:46.895 --> 00:16:48.430
  • has been already a handful.
  • 00:16:48.430 --> 00:16:51.600
  • And we're just a littlepast halfway through.
  • 00:16:51.600 --> 00:16:54.536
  • So you know, you canimagine being quarantined
  • 00:16:54.536 --> 00:16:57.539
  • with two little ones
  • 00:16:57.539 --> 00:16:59.241
  • and a husband who's working,
  • 00:16:59.241 --> 00:17:00.742
  • everybody's workingin the house.
  • 00:17:00.742 --> 00:17:02.478
  • And I mean, it's mayhem,Bedlam, everything everywhere.
  • 00:17:02.478 --> 00:17:06.949
  • And there have been times
  • 00:17:06.949 --> 00:17:08.517
  • when I've had to just look
  • 00:17:08.517 --> 00:17:10.052
  • in my three and ahalf year olds eyes,
  • 00:17:10.052 --> 00:17:12.721
  • which is oftentimesmore humbling for me
  • 00:17:12.721 --> 00:17:16.825
  • than to look atan adult and ask,
  • 00:17:16.825 --> 00:17:19.261
  • because I realise I have to,
  • 00:17:19.261 --> 00:17:22.798
  • if even if he behaves badly,
  • 00:17:22.798 --> 00:17:25.267
  • if I overreact with more anger,
  • 00:17:25.267 --> 00:17:28.337
  • I have to say,
  • 00:17:28.337 --> 00:17:29.738
  • hey, Buddy,
  • 00:17:29.738 --> 00:17:30.939
  • mommy's so sorrythat I overreacted.
  • 00:17:30.939 --> 00:17:33.308
  • I'm so sorry that Ilost my temper with you.
  • 00:17:33.308 --> 00:17:36.979
  • I don't agree with what you did,
  • 00:17:36.979 --> 00:17:39.047
  • but I don't getto lose my temper.
  • 00:17:39.047 --> 00:17:41.116
  • Will you forgive me?
  • 00:17:41.116 --> 00:17:42.551
  • And he always takes aminute to think about it
  • 00:17:42.551 --> 00:17:45.754
  • and I'm sitting there.
  • 00:17:45.754 --> 00:17:47.189
  • I hope he does.
  • 00:17:49.124 --> 00:17:50.325
  • And then he owes
  • 00:17:50.325 --> 00:17:51.226
  • - In shame.
  • 00:17:51.226 --> 00:17:52.127
  • - Yes
  • 00:17:52.127 --> 00:17:53.662
  • - And then he always says,Yes, Mommy, I forgive you.
  • 00:17:53.662 --> 00:17:56.431
  • And it's just some of the,
  • 00:17:56.431 --> 00:17:57.866
  • these are some of themost humbling times
  • 00:17:57.866 --> 00:18:00.335
  • because there's somethingabout being tied to people
  • 00:18:00.335 --> 00:18:04.973
  • where you know, there's notjust forgiveness at stake.
  • 00:18:04.973 --> 00:18:07.709
  • There's reconciliation,
  • 00:18:07.709 --> 00:18:09.878
  • where you're like, I prayyou forgive me, you know,
  • 00:18:09.878 --> 00:18:13.649
  • I have the type of personality
  • 00:18:13.649 --> 00:18:16.285
  • where I can genuinely walk away
  • 00:18:16.285 --> 00:18:18.220
  • from that guy at the front desk
  • 00:18:18.220 --> 00:18:19.621
  • and be like, okay, he didn't,
  • 00:18:19.621 --> 00:18:22.357
  • but I cannot look my husband,
  • 00:18:22.357 --> 00:18:24.426
  • or my kids or my friends,my loved ones in the face
  • 00:18:24.426 --> 00:18:29.198
  • and Risk sayingWill you forgive me?
  • 00:18:29.198 --> 00:18:32.234
  • And then say no.
  • 00:18:32.234 --> 00:18:34.369
  • And so you know, just askingfor forgiveness, I mean,
  • 00:18:34.369 --> 00:18:37.272
  • when they're high stakes,it's really scary.
  • 00:18:37.272 --> 00:18:40.275
  • And I have learnedin this season
  • 00:18:40.275 --> 00:18:42.477
  • that even when I am the one
  • 00:18:43.912 --> 00:18:46.415
  • was specially likeyou said, Dr. Robin,
  • 00:18:46.415 --> 00:18:48.650
  • when I am the one in authority,
  • 00:18:48.650 --> 00:18:50.919
  • it's so important to do,
  • 00:18:50.919 --> 00:18:52.888
  • because how elsewill my son learn
  • 00:18:52.888 --> 00:18:55.624
  • that there can bemore to a conversation
  • 00:18:55.624 --> 00:18:58.260
  • than either what he didwrong or how I reacted
  • 00:18:58.260 --> 00:19:01.697
  • that we can talkabout both of them
  • 00:19:01.697 --> 00:19:04.099
  • and that he's going to have toask for forgiveness someday,
  • 00:19:04.099 --> 00:19:07.169
  • you know, so I don't know MamaBrittany, what do you think?
  • 00:19:07.169 --> 00:19:11.540
  • - I have had to ask mykids for forgiveness
  • 00:19:13.342 --> 00:19:16.178
  • so many times during them.
  • 00:19:16.178 --> 00:19:17.613
  • You have two little ones.
  • 00:19:19.147 --> 00:19:20.816
  • I have five little ones
  • 00:19:20.816 --> 00:19:22.651
  • and everyone is workingand doing school
  • 00:19:22.651 --> 00:19:25.454
  • and it is absolutely crazy.
  • 00:19:25.454 --> 00:19:28.090
  • So I have had toask for forgiveness
  • 00:19:28.090 --> 00:19:32.060
  • a few times.
  • 00:19:32.060 --> 00:19:33.262
  • But anyway, I believe though,
  • 00:19:33.262 --> 00:19:36.665
  • asking for forgiveness
  • 00:19:36.665 --> 00:19:38.700
  • to other people
  • 00:19:38.700 --> 00:19:40.369
  • can kind of be tricky.
  • 00:19:40.369 --> 00:19:41.570
  • Like when Sheilawas talking earlier
  • 00:19:41.570 --> 00:19:43.972
  • about how is it when
  • 00:19:43.972 --> 00:19:46.408
  • people don't forgive you
  • 00:19:46.408 --> 00:19:48.243
  • or they you know, theydon't accept your apology.
  • 00:19:48.243 --> 00:19:51.480
  • I believe that theway is removed for me
  • 00:19:51.480 --> 00:19:55.350
  • when I feel like I'm notlooking for forgiveness,
  • 00:19:55.350 --> 00:19:58.320
  • I'm looking for
  • 00:19:58.320 --> 00:20:00.122
  • them to know my wrong
  • 00:20:01.256 --> 00:20:02.791
  • like I was so wrongwith what I did.
  • 00:20:02.791 --> 00:20:05.661
  • I want you to forgive me.
  • 00:20:05.661 --> 00:20:06.895
  • But however, my partis to admit my wrongs
  • 00:20:06.895 --> 00:20:10.365
  • and then apologize to God andreceive forgiveness from him.
  • 00:20:10.365 --> 00:20:15.037
  • And I think that peoplekind of mix up the two
  • 00:20:15.037 --> 00:20:19.308
  • because it's not that you'relooking for forgiveness
  • 00:20:19.308 --> 00:20:22.244
  • from others when you're asking
  • 00:20:22.244 --> 00:20:24.346
  • or that shouldn't bethe freedom for you
  • 00:20:24.346 --> 00:20:26.648
  • the freedom for you should be
  • 00:20:26.648 --> 00:20:28.817
  • admitting you're wrong,
  • 00:20:30.285 --> 00:20:31.520
  • like and saying,Hey, I messed up,
  • 00:20:31.520 --> 00:20:34.156
  • like the choice is yours,
  • 00:20:34.156 --> 00:20:36.058
  • but your response isyour responsibility.
  • 00:20:36.058 --> 00:20:38.694
  • I can't be responsible forthat person's response.
  • 00:20:38.694 --> 00:20:43.365
  • And I believe the weightfor me is a little lighter
  • 00:20:43.365 --> 00:20:46.068
  • because it's like,you know what,
  • 00:20:46.068 --> 00:20:47.269
  • whether they forgive me or not,
  • 00:20:47.269 --> 00:20:49.738
  • my part is to genuinelyadmit my wrongs
  • 00:20:49.738 --> 00:20:53.575
  • and to be sorry for what I did.
  • 00:20:53.575 --> 00:20:56.278
  • And then to fix it.
  • 00:20:56.278 --> 00:20:58.046
  • I tell my kids, donot apologize to me
  • 00:20:58.046 --> 00:21:01.717
  • if it's not in your heart
  • 00:21:01.717 --> 00:21:04.152
  • to do better,
  • 00:21:04.152 --> 00:21:06.054
  • like don't just holdit, just hold on to it.
  • 00:21:06.054 --> 00:21:08.523
  • Don't be so quickto say I'm sorry.
  • 00:21:08.523 --> 00:21:10.525
  • Because now repenting orasking for forgiveness
  • 00:21:10.525 --> 00:21:14.363
  • is turning like andchanging your mindset.
  • 00:21:14.363 --> 00:21:17.466
  • So I'm usually quickto tell them okay,
  • 00:21:17.466 --> 00:21:20.702
  • hold your apology untilyou feel in your heart
  • 00:21:20.702 --> 00:21:24.439
  • that you know you arereally going to change
  • 00:21:24.439 --> 00:21:27.476
  • and you really want to do better
  • 00:21:27.476 --> 00:21:29.010
  • and even if it's act offaith I could go with that
  • 00:21:29.010 --> 00:21:32.080
  • And that's the act of your faith
  • 00:21:32.080 --> 00:21:33.348
  • where you want tosay, Hey, I'm sorry.
  • 00:21:33.348 --> 00:21:36.485
  • I'll go with that,
  • 00:21:36.485 --> 00:21:37.953
  • but don't just come say I'msorry, just for the words of it.
  • 00:21:37.953 --> 00:21:40.655
  • Because when I ask forforgiveness, I mean,
  • 00:21:40.655 --> 00:21:44.192
  • you know, I mean that fromthe bottom of my heart
  • 00:21:44.192 --> 00:21:47.329
  • and I think thehardest part for me
  • 00:21:47.329 --> 00:21:49.164
  • is when I have to askforgiveness from God
  • 00:21:49.164 --> 00:21:52.167
  • to what I did to another person,
  • 00:21:52.167 --> 00:21:54.569
  • 'cause most of the time I canhear him saying, calm down,
  • 00:21:54.569 --> 00:21:58.073
  • don't do that, don't do this,but I'm so in that moment.
  • 00:21:58.073 --> 00:22:02.477
  • I'm just like, but I justasked you to clean your room.
  • 00:22:02.477 --> 00:22:05.247
  • Like, why can't you get that?
  • 00:22:07.082 --> 00:22:08.683
  • You know, but I have to say,
  • 00:22:08.683 --> 00:22:10.852
  • you know what, God, I apologizefirst for being disobedient
  • 00:22:10.852 --> 00:22:15.056
  • and then for evenacting out of my flesh
  • 00:22:15.056 --> 00:22:18.927
  • and out of my anger
  • 00:22:18.927 --> 00:22:20.295
  • and I asked forforgiveness from him first
  • 00:22:20.295 --> 00:22:22.597
  • and then I go in andadmit my wrongs to my kids
  • 00:22:22.597 --> 00:22:25.300
  • and I apologize
  • 00:22:25.300 --> 00:22:27.102
  • and they usually get agood chuckle out of it.
  • 00:22:27.102 --> 00:22:29.204
  • My son is like I told you
  • 00:22:29.204 --> 00:22:31.973
  • so that makes ita little harder,
  • 00:22:33.175 --> 00:22:35.377
  • you know, whenthey're old enough to,
  • 00:22:35.377 --> 00:22:37.579
  • you know, like soakin that moment.
  • 00:22:37.579 --> 00:22:39.981
  • It drives me nuts, but I mean,
  • 00:22:39.981 --> 00:22:42.751
  • I don't know how youfeel about that Dr. Robin
  • 00:22:42.751 --> 00:22:46.054
  • with as far as not asking theother person for forgiveness
  • 00:22:46.054 --> 00:22:50.192
  • more so justadmitting your wrong?
  • 00:22:50.192 --> 00:22:52.427
  • - Well, what I know is that
  • 00:22:52.427 --> 00:22:53.962
  • in my relationships in my home
  • 00:22:53.962 --> 00:22:56.398
  • and even in my workplace,
  • 00:22:56.398 --> 00:22:58.366
  • often it feels like
  • 00:22:58.366 --> 00:22:59.868
  • I'm the one that seems tohave to be the one to go
  • 00:22:59.868 --> 00:23:02.571
  • first all the time.
  • 00:23:02.571 --> 00:23:04.339
  • That's how it feels to me.
  • 00:23:04.339 --> 00:23:05.707
  • But you know what?
  • 00:23:06.708 --> 00:23:08.176
  • I've argued with the Lordabout that for years and years
  • 00:23:08.176 --> 00:23:11.480
  • God, why does it have to be me?
  • 00:23:11.480 --> 00:23:14.149
  • Why am I the onethat has to go first?
  • 00:23:14.149 --> 00:23:17.786
  • And here's what the HolySpirit will usually answer
  • 00:23:17.786 --> 00:23:21.823
  • because you can.
  • 00:23:21.823 --> 00:23:23.191
  • Often the personthat I'm dealing with
  • 00:23:26.127 --> 00:23:30.165
  • may not have theability spiritually,
  • 00:23:30.165 --> 00:23:33.969
  • they're not very mature
  • 00:23:33.969 --> 00:23:36.137
  • or maybe they have otherreasons that they're not able
  • 00:23:36.137 --> 00:23:40.509
  • I have a special needs son.
  • 00:23:40.509 --> 00:23:42.978
  • And that's another story,I could share another time,
  • 00:23:42.978 --> 00:23:45.680
  • but sometimes he's notable to express himself.
  • 00:23:45.680 --> 00:23:49.284
  • And I've learned thatif I'll just calmly sit.
  • 00:23:49.284 --> 00:23:52.921
  • You see, the Bible teaches
  • 00:23:52.921 --> 00:23:54.856
  • that we shouldn'tgo to bed in anger,
  • 00:23:54.856 --> 00:23:58.260
  • we shouldn't let the sun godown on a troubled relationship.
  • 00:23:58.260 --> 00:24:03.265
  • It's very clear thatevery day we go to sleep
  • 00:24:04.399 --> 00:24:07.602
  • and God puts us to sleep.
  • 00:24:07.602 --> 00:24:09.671
  • So that we'll put a periodon what happened that day.
  • 00:24:09.671 --> 00:24:14.576
  • And we'll start over fresh.
  • 00:24:14.576 --> 00:24:18.346
  • And so today right now,
  • 00:24:18.346 --> 00:24:20.315
  • no matter what'shappening in your life,
  • 00:24:20.315 --> 00:24:22.684
  • you can start over
  • 00:24:22.684 --> 00:24:24.252
  • the Holy Spirit Isready to meet you,
  • 00:24:24.252 --> 00:24:27.822
  • in your moment right now.
  • 00:24:27.822 --> 00:24:29.858
  • Its never too lateto start again.
  • 00:24:29.858 --> 00:24:32.761
  • Let me pray with you right now.
  • 00:24:32.761 --> 00:24:34.529
  • Will you let me do that?
  • 00:24:34.529 --> 00:24:36.431
  • Jesus, I lift up my friendwho's watching right now.
  • 00:24:36.431 --> 00:24:41.169
  • And no matter whatthe conflict is,
  • 00:24:41.169 --> 00:24:44.372
  • no matter what the hurt is,
  • 00:24:44.372 --> 00:24:46.508
  • no matter what the past has been
  • 00:24:46.508 --> 00:24:48.777
  • Father,
  • 00:24:48.777 --> 00:24:49.978
  • we ask that youwill give the energy
  • 00:24:49.978 --> 00:24:53.682
  • you'll give her the moment
  • 00:24:53.682 --> 00:24:55.984
  • that she will have theright action to take
  • 00:24:55.984 --> 00:25:00.488
  • that she'll be ableto ask forgiveness,
  • 00:25:00.488 --> 00:25:03.024
  • she'll be able to break through
  • 00:25:03.024 --> 00:25:05.293
  • and she'll be able to do
  • 00:25:05.293 --> 00:25:06.828
  • what you're calling herto do in this situation.
  • 00:25:06.828 --> 00:25:10.999
  • Thank you for leading her
  • 00:25:10.999 --> 00:25:13.201
  • and we know that youdo all things well,
  • 00:25:13.201 --> 00:25:16.771
  • we lift you up in Jesus name,
  • 00:25:16.771 --> 00:25:19.608
  • amen, amen, amen.
  • 00:25:19.608 --> 00:25:22.811
  • - Amen.
  • 00:25:23.845 --> 00:25:24.813
  • Amen, beautiful Robin.
  • 00:25:24.813 --> 00:25:26.881
  • You know, its bettertogether Community
  • 00:25:26.881 --> 00:25:28.617
  • is always here for you.
  • 00:25:28.617 --> 00:25:30.318
  • You can connect withus on social media
  • 00:25:30.318 --> 00:25:32.053
  • and let us know howwe can pray for you.
  • 00:25:32.053 --> 00:25:33.955
  • Thanks for joining us today.
  • 00:25:33.955 --> 00:25:35.824
  • If we are open to receivingGod's forgiveness,
  • 00:25:35.824 --> 00:25:38.893
  • guilt and shame haveno place in our life.
  • 00:25:38.893 --> 00:25:41.396
  • That's what we're gonnatalk about tomorrow.
  • 00:25:41.396 --> 00:25:42.964
  • So we will see you then
  • 00:25:42.964 --> 00:25:44.132
  • we love you all.
  • 00:25:44.132 --> 00:25:45.000
  • See you later.
  • 00:25:45.000 --> 00:25:45.867
  • Bye bye
  • 00:25:45.867 --> 00:25:46.701