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January 3, 2017
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The Ten Commandments: Live, Love and Lift Yourself and Others

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  • Bobby Schuller: I'm going to ask you to stand with me.
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    • Bobby Schuller: I'm going to ask you to stand with me.
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    • Hold your hands out like this as a sign of receiving.
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    • Hold your hands out like this as a sign of receiving.
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    • We'll say this together. I'm not what I do.
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    • We'll say this together. I'm not what I do.
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    • I'm not what I have. I'm not what people say
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    • I'm not what I have. I'm not what people say
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    • about me. I am the beloved of God.
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    • about me. I am the beloved of God.
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    • It's who I am. No one can take it from me.
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    • It's who I am. No one can take it from me.
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    • I don't have to worry. I don't have to hurry.
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    • I don't have to worry. I don't have to hurry.
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    • I can trust my friend Jesus, and share his love with the world.
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    • I can trust my friend Jesus, and share his love with the world.
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    • Thanks, you can be seated.
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    • Thanks, you can be seated.
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    • So, I want to begin this morning by reminding you who you are.
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    • So, I want to begin this morning by reminding you who you are.
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    • I think with all my heart you are a healer.
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    • I think with all my heart you are a healer.
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    • You are a healer.
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    • You are a healer.
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    • You have, within your very person,
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    • You have, within your very person,
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    • Jesus Christ, who in his grace and power and love overflows,
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    • Jesus Christ, who in his grace and power and love overflows,
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    • spills over from your life into the lives of people who are
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    • spills over from your life into the lives of people who are
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    • around you. You are an encourager.
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    • around you. You are an encourager.
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    • You lift people up.
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    • You lift people up.
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    • You do not allow bitterness or contempt to
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    • You do not allow bitterness or contempt to
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    • find a place in your heart.
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    • find a place in your heart.
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    • When you get angry, you address it,
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    • When you get angry, you address it,
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    • and you deal with it quickly because you recognize the value
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    • and you deal with it quickly because you recognize the value
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    • of being a healing presence in the lives of the people you do
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    • of being a healing presence in the lives of the people you do
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    • life with. This world will hit you hard.
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    • life with. This world will hit you hard.
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    • It will hit you with sickness, it will hit you with depression,
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    • It will hit you with sickness, it will hit you with depression,
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    • it will hit you with loss and unfinished symphonies.
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    • it will hit you with loss and unfinished symphonies.
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    • This world will beat up people, but when it does,
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    • This world will beat up people, but when it does,
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    • people like you will be there to be
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    • people like you will be there to be
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    • the healing presence that this world needs.
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    • the healing presence that this world needs.
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    • I believe that with all my heart that you are healers.
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    • I believe that with all my heart that you are healers.
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    • You are missionaries. This is not a church of members,
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    • You are missionaries. This is not a church of members,
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    • it's a church of people with--who are on a mission
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    • it's a church of people with--who are on a mission
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    • to be the real, active, healing overflowing, life-giving
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    • to be the real, active, healing overflowing, life-giving
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    • presence of Christ in the world around them,
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    • presence of Christ in the world around them,
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    • and that is who you are.
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    • and that is who you are.
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    • And I just want to affirm that in you.
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    • And I just want to affirm that in you.
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    • I believe that you know every minute that you spend angry is a
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    • I believe that you know every minute that you spend angry is a
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    • minute of happiness you will never get back.
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    • minute of happiness you will never get back.
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    • You are not the kind of person who has to set people straight.
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    • You are not the kind of person who has to set people straight.
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    • You're not the kind of person who has to tell it like it is.
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    • You're not the kind of person who has to tell it like it is.
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    • You're not the kind of person that has to disrespect or cuss
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    • You're not the kind of person that has to disrespect or cuss
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    • out people, or do the things that
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    • out people, or do the things that
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    • so many do that bring others down.
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    • so many do that bring others down.
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    • You are an encourager, you're a healer,
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    • You are an encourager, you're a healer,
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    • you're a life-giver, and I am proud of you.
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    • you're a life-giver, and I am proud of you.
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    • You're doing great.
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    • You're doing great.
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    • And today, we're going to talk about--we're on
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    • And today, we're going to talk about--we're on
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    • a series of the Ten Commandments.
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    • a series of the Ten Commandments.
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    • Today, we're going to talk about the sixth commandment.
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    • Today, we're going to talk about the sixth commandment.
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    • If you know it off the top of your head,
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    • If you know it off the top of your head,
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    • I'm proud of you too because that's impressive,
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    • I'm proud of you too because that's impressive,
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    • but don't put it up yet. I'm going to give you a hint.
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    • but don't put it up yet. I'm going to give you a hint.
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    • If you don't have your Bibles open,
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    • If you don't have your Bibles open,
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    • the sixth commandment, hopefully everyone
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    • the sixth commandment, hopefully everyone
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    • in this room is following it.
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    • in this room is following it.
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    • My guess is nobody here has broken it,
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    • My guess is nobody here has broken it,
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    • but if you have, I am terrified.
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    • but if you have, I am terrified.
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    • I was driving in Tulsa, I worked my last year of college as a
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    • I was driving in Tulsa, I worked my last year of college as a
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    • real estate appraiser, and I also worked for a real estate
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    • real estate appraiser, and I also worked for a real estate
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    • investment firm. And I was really good at my job.
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    • investment firm. And I was really good at my job.
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    • My job was to scout out properties, and basically to
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    • My job was to scout out properties, and basically to
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    • find cheap properties for this real estate firm.
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    • find cheap properties for this real estate firm.
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    • Where I found the luck, I was like basically a kid,
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    • Where I found the luck, I was like basically a kid,
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    • an 18-year-old, is to go to the roughest neighborhoods in Tulsa.
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    • an 18-year-old, is to go to the roughest neighborhoods in Tulsa.
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    • Now, Tulsa's one of the most dangerous cities in America.
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    • Now, Tulsa's one of the most dangerous cities in America.
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    • And the most dangerous part of Tulsa is North Tulsa.
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    • And the most dangerous part of Tulsa is North Tulsa.
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    • And that's where I would go find all my deals.
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    • And that's where I would go find all my deals.
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    • One time, I paid four grand for a
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    • One time, I paid four grand for a
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    • house, that was--that was terrific.
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    • house, that was--that was terrific.
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    • That was, like, the highlight of my life.
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    • That was, like, the highlight of my life.
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    • So, I'm driving through this one neighborhood,
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    • So, I'm driving through this one neighborhood,
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    • and man, there was this whole gang of guys.
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    • and man, there was this whole gang of guys.
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    • I'm driving like 5 miles an hour because I'm looking at houses,
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    • I'm driving like 5 miles an hour because I'm looking at houses,
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    • and I'm like not paying attention.
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    • And I'm driving in my 1979 Chevy Caprice Classic.
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    • And I'm driving in my 1979 Chevy Caprice Classic.
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    • I paid $600 for it.
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    • I paid $600 for it.
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    • The, like, cloth on the roof was draping down like a tent,
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    • The, like, cloth on the roof was draping down like a tent,
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    • so it always felt like I was camping.
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    • so it always felt like I was camping.
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    • And I'm driving along at a slow rate,
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    • and I look over, and there's a bunch of dudes looking at me.
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    • and I look over, and there's a bunch of dudes looking at me.
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    • And I'm like pretty sure they're in a gang.
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    • And I'm like pretty sure they're in a gang.
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    • And I'm like--kind of like reach over to lock my door,
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    • And I'm like--kind of like reach over to lock my door,
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    • but I don't want to like--but they're not all locking,
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    • but I don't want to like--but they're not all locking,
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    • "The sixth commandment, do not murder.
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    • If only we could all obey this simple command."
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    • And I started driving faster.
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    • And so, most people do not struggle with this commandment.
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    • If you did, I want to hear your testimony,
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    • but most people don't struggle with murder.
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    • And of course, murder happens in America,
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    • and it happens abroad, and there's lots of ways we can talk
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    • but my assumption is most of you
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    • don't struggle with murder, okay?
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    • If you do, don't murder, all right?
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    • Don't do it.
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    • But I want to teach on this in a way that Jesus did.
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    • But I want to teach on this in a way that Jesus did.
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    • Because in Jesus' day, you know, many people talked about the
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    • he wanted to talk about the murderous heart,
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    • the heart of contempt and bitterness.
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    • See, in Jesus' day, everybody was really
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    • And that's certainly important, but they weren't
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    • And for Jesus, God in the flesh, that wouldn't do.
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    • And for Jesus, God in the flesh, that wouldn't do.
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    • You see, Matthew, who's writing about Jesus in the Sermon on the
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    • Mount, Matthew really wants you to see Jesus as the new Moses,
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    • Mount, Matthew really wants you to see Jesus as the new Moses,
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    • the lens which you should view Torah.
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    • the lens which you should view Torah.
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    • The greatest rabbi who ever lived,
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    • this is the one who knows what Torah means.
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    • Jesus says it like this, "Do not murder.
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    • And anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.
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    • But I tell you anyone who is angry with his
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    • Again, anyone who says to his brother or sister,
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    • Again, anyone who says to his brother or sister,
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    • 'Raka.'" Everybody say this with me.
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    • So, okay, I'm going to pause here just for a minute.
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    • This is an Aramaic word, and it's in the guttural.
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    • This is an Aramaic word, and it's in the guttural.
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    • We're going to try this together,
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    • here you go, ready? Like this, raka.
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    • here you go, ready? Like this, raka.
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    • Yeah, it sounds like we're in, like, Slytherin house.
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    • Everybody here is just like raka.
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    • And I'll get there, raka.
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    • 'Raka,' will be answerable to the Sanhedrin, or to the court.
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    • 'You fool,' will be in danger of the fire of hell.
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    • you pay every last cent."
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    • And this is the danger.
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    • says every human being deserves dignity because everyone's loved
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    • You are not that way. That is not you.
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    • Deep down inside, you were born, your destiny is to encourage
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    • And I'm so proud of you because you know the value of every
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    • individual, and that's just exactly right.
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    • And that's exactly right.
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    • See, at the heart of that is the idea that people,
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    • You are not a bully. You do not have a violent heart.
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    • You are not a bully. You do not have a violent heart.
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    • You have the heart of a healer, and I'm proud of you,
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    • and I'm so glad you're a part of this church.
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    • So, the danger is that we get to this place where cold hard
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    • contempt freezes our hearts towards certain individuals.
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    • it begins to poison your whole life.
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    • Just do it as fast as you can. So, anger is natural.
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    • If you do, it begins to go into--sink into these places
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    • where it saps your life of energy and joy.
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    • So, what do we do?
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    • First, if you're a challenger, a jerk like me sometimes--I'm not
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    • I'm pretty cool. Thanks, Hannah.
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    • I'm pretty cool. Thanks, Hannah.
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    • Everything starts to get affected when you take big
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    • It's the church. But not here.
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    • with your anger, you're respecting yourself,
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    • And this is where we're going to get the second path, shame.
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    • Shame is anger turned inward, isn't that weird?
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    • That's not my definition.
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    • That's the most accepted version of psychology,
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    • the definition for shame is anger turned inward.
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    • robs you of so much of your life.
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    • So, never go down one road, which is contempt,
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    • and just blaming yourself for everything.
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    • Find that happy middle road, where you respectfully,
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    • with joy, guard your boundaries and recognize the people in your
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    • Those are good people.
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    • Look, everybody's going to make you angry.
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    • I saw everybody look at their spouse,
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    • that's completely normal.
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    • And I just want to--I just want to say it again.
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    • Don't blame yourself, and don't
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    • is my computer dying so fast?"
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    • are just draining all the energy from your computer.
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    • And the soul is just exactly like that.
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    • So, every Friday I go to pray, to spend time with God,
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    • and I think this is the most important thing
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    • I can do for my ministry.
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    • And the place I always go is Rancho Capistrano,
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    • and there's nobody ever there.
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    • And years ago, the Lord spoke to me about this,
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    • And years ago, the Lord spoke to me about this,
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    • and there's this fountain.
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    • So, I took this on my iPhone 7, by the way.
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    • Like, I'm squirting in the face, and on their jackets,
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    • And I was really doing this one time.
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    • And I was really doing this one time.
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    • And later that day, I was sitting and just praying,
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    • and I looked up at this fountain,
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    • and the Lord showed me this is the life,
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    • this is the vision.
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    • this is the vision.
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    • That not only the pastor, but the human life,
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    • the Christian, the believer, the dream is to be like that little
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    • the Christian, the believer, the dream is to be like that little
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    • thing at the top.
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    • That from the inside out, incredible overflow of God's joy
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    • That from the inside out, incredible overflow of God's joy
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    • and love.
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    • That you so tapped into the source of life that you can't
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    • help but just spill over naturally into the lives of
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    • help but just spill over naturally into the lives of
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    • people.
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    • people.
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    • And what I want to say is this, that one of the best ways--two
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    • things that you can do to really be a healing person.
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    • things that you can do to really be a healing person.
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    • One is encouragement, and one is empathy.
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    • And both are all about timing, timing,
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    • And both are all about timing, timing,
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    • when you do it.
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    • when you do it.
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    • Encouragement should always be done spontaneously and not
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    • reactively.
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    • So, encouragement means to give heart to someone.
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    • So, encouragement means to give heart to someone.
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    • Coeur is the French word for heart.
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    • Coeur is the French word for heart.
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    • To encourage someone is to give them heart.
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    • To encourage someone is to give them heart.
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    • And spontaneously means like you're hanging out with someone,
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    • you're having a good day, and you say something good
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    • about them, that's great.
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    • about them, that's great.
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    • The best thing to do when somebody is really suffering is
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    • The best thing to do when somebody is really suffering is
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    • to empathize, be vulnerable, and watch as the Holy Spirit uses
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    • to empathize, be vulnerable, and watch as the Holy Spirit uses
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    • those things to transform you into an energy filled,
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    • those things to transform you into an energy filled,
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    • vibrant disciple of Jesus. It's going to happen.
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    • vibrant disciple of Jesus. It's going to happen.
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    • And so, I'm going to just pray that over you.
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    • And so, I'm going to just pray that over you.
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    • And if you receive it, just hold your hands out like this.
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    • And if you receive it, just hold your hands out like this.
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    • You want energy, you want freedom, it's there.
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    • You want energy, you want freedom, it's there.
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    • It's available to you.
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    • And so, in Jesus' name, every chain is broken.
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    • And so, in Jesus' name, every chain is broken.
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    • Your battery is filled. You are now tapped in to the
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    • Your battery is filled. You are now tapped in to the
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    • source of all life, Jesus Christ.
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    • source of all life, Jesus Christ.
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    • Today, you Sabbath and just be joyful today.
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    • Today, you Sabbath and just be joyful today.
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    • Just be--just allow God's life, in the midst of all your
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    • Just be--just allow God's life, in the midst of all your
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    • challenges, even your suffering, allow his life and his joy to
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    • challenges, even your suffering, allow his life and his joy to
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    • just bubble up inside of you.
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    • just bubble up inside of you.
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    • God is building into you your destiny, and it's coming.
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    • God is building into you your destiny, and it's coming.
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    • I believe in you, God believes in you,
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    • I believe in you, God believes in you,
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    • and good things are happening in Jesus' name, amen.
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    • and good things are happening in Jesus' name, amen.
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    • male announcer: When you give to our ministry,
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    • male announcer: When you give to our ministry,
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    • we want to say a small thank you.
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    • we want to say a small thank you.
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    • So, when you give a gift of $20 or more,
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    • So, when you give a gift of $20 or more,
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    • we will send you this classic angel ornament.
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    • we will send you this classic angel ornament.
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    • Bobby: Every single week, we get literally thousands of
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    • Bobby: Every single week, we get literally thousands of
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    • letters from people all around the world who tell us that their
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    • letters from people all around the world who tell us that their
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    • lives were radically transformed.
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    • lives were radically transformed.
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    • Every single letter we get, we open and we read it.
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    • Every single letter we get, we open and we read it.
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    • Every prayer request we get, we pray for those people.
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    • Every prayer request we get, we pray for those people.
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    • And every time we do it, our team is so encouraged.
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    • And every time we do it, our team is so encouraged.
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    • And we're encouraged because lives are being changed.
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    • And we're encouraged because lives are being changed.
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    • We want you to know that that's not
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    • our doing, that's your doing.
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    • our doing, that's your doing.
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    • When you give to this ministry, you are making such a big impact
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    • When you give to this ministry, you are making such a big impact
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    • on people's lives. This is crazy.
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    • on people's lives. This is crazy.
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    • Like, every week, we have to raise lots and lots
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    • Like, every week, we have to raise lots and lots
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    • of money to pay for airtime.
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    • If one month goes by that we don't
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    • get money, we go off the air.
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    • get money, we go off the air.
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    • And we are so, so thankful for your generosity.
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    • And we are so, so thankful for your generosity.
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    • touched because of your generosity.
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    • touched because of your generosity.
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    • female: Dear Bobby, I am an inmate at a correctional
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    • I have been incarcerated since February 1998,
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    • I have been incarcerated since February 1998,
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    • but only recently discovered "Hour of Power."
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    • but only recently discovered "Hour of Power."
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    • I am a stronger, more seeking Christian because of the message
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    • I am a stronger, more seeking Christian because of the message
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    • Jesus gives through you.
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    • Jesus gives through you.
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    • And even I, a sinner who is locked away for a crime,
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    • And even I, a sinner who is locked away for a crime,
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    • still feel the love and forgiveness of Christ.
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    • still feel the love and forgiveness of Christ.
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    • You have helped me realize that, though many may look down upon
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    • You have helped me realize that, though many may look down upon
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    • me, God controls everything.
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    • I am forgiven, loved, and want to be a part of life again.
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    • I am forgiven, loved, and want to be a part of life again.
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    • I will be going home within the next few years.
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    • I will be going home within the next few years.
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    • It's scary to consider what that will be like,
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    • but you have given me hope and faith.
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    • but you have given me hope and faith.
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    • I thank you, and I send you this high five in praise and
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    • I thank you, and I send you this high five in praise and
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    • gratitude for what Christ does through you.
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    • gratitude for what Christ does through you.
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    • Bobby: Kassy, we want you to know you really are a part of
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    • Bobby: Kassy, we want you to know you really are a part of
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    • this church family. High five right back at you.
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    • this church family. High five right back at you.
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    • Seriously, you are not what you do,
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    • Seriously, you are not what you do,
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    • you're not what you have, you're not what people say about you.
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    • you're not what you have, you're not what people say about you.
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    • We believe that for you.
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    • We believe that for you.
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    • We love you, and we're rooting for you.
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    • We love you, and we're rooting for you.
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    • For everybody else that's watching on TV,
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    • For everybody else that's watching on TV,
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    • we just want you to know that this is one of thousands of
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    • we just want you to know that this is one of thousands of
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    • stories of people who are touched because of your giving.
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    • stories of people who are touched because of your giving.
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    • So, thank you, and please continue to support this
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    • So, thank you, and please continue to support this
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    • ministry as we reach people all around the world.
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    • ministry as we reach people all around the world.
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    • announcer: This week, when you give to our ministry,
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    • announcer: This week, when you give to our ministry,
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    • we want to say a small thank you.
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    • we want to say a small thank you.
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    • So, when you give a gift of $20 or more,
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    • So, when you give a gift of $20 or more,
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    • we will send you this classic angel ornament.
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    • we will send you this classic angel ornament.
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    • Let it be a reminder of Luke 2:11,
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    • Let it be a reminder of Luke 2:11,
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    • "And the angels said unto them, 'Today in the town of David,
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    • "And the angels said unto them, 'Today in the town of David,
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    • a Savior is born, Christ our Lord.'"
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    • a Savior is born, Christ our Lord.'"
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    • Your donations are what get this message out to people
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    • Your donations are what get this message out to people
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    • like Kassy, and with your help, millions more.
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    • like Kassy, and with your help, millions more.
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    • Call, write, or go online now.
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    • Call, write, or go online now.
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