How To Win Over Depression Part 2
August 16, 2020
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- Coming up next on"Changing Your World."
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- Creflo Dollar: Yougotta ask yourself, "How long am
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- tells you what to do when yougot feelings that are not lining
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- up with the Word of God.
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- Renew your mind, whatis renewing your mind?
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- It's exchanging your thoughtsand your ideas for God's
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- Creflo: If have your Bibles,
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- go with me, let'slook at Romans 8.
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- Let's start off there.
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- I know I left off with, I wassupposed to give you the four
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- symptoms of depression, andwe're gonna continue that
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- teaching tonight.
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- I think the thing I like abouttonight, I was telling somebody,
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- I said, "Tonight gives me an
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- opportunity to getreally in detail."
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- And somebody told me hesays, "I like Wednesday.
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- We get a lot moredetail than y'all do."
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- That's cause you're myWednesday night class, amen?
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- And good news, youall are passing.
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- Praise God.
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- Now, let's look at somethingin Romans chapter 8 where we're
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- continuing to talk about
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- overcoming theemotion of depression.
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- And in Romans chapter 8, verse6, it talks about to be
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- carnally minded isdeath, but to be
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- spiritually mindedis life and peace.
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- To be carnally minded is death,
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- to be spiritually mindedis life and peace.
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- Now, one of the things weunderstand, man is a spirit.
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- Say, "I'm a spirit."
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- He possesses a soul.
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- Say, "I have a soul."
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- He lives in a physical body.Say, "I live in a body."
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- Now, the soul iscomprised of what?
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- Your feeler, your thinker, yourchooser, your mind, your will,
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- your emotions.
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- So, what I would say is thatone of the things we have to
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- understand is that you're gonnalose it or win it in the arena
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- of your mind, especiallyin the area of emotions.
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- If you cannot control youremotions, they will control you.
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- Now, if the emotions are goodemotions, that's great, godly
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- emotions, that's great, but whenthey're negative emotions, and
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- you don't know how to harnessthem, take authority over them,
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- master them, or control them,then that's where it's gonna
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- start taking you away fromthe will of God for your life.
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- And one of the most prevalentemotions that has been so
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- successful in the livesof people is this area of
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- depression, and learning how toovercome depression through
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- the Word of God.
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- And so, the Bible says in
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- Romans 8 to be carnally minded,okay, is death.
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- A carnal mind means that you'regoing to be governed by--the
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- word "carnal" means of the fivesenses, and when you're carnally
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- minded, and it leads to death,that's because you're being
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- dominated by yoursensory mechanism.
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- You're being dominatedby what you see.
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- God wants you to have thesenses so you can enjoy life.
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- He don't want you to bedominated by what you see.
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- He don't want you to bedominated by what you hear to
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- enjoy them, but they'renever supposed to become the
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- government of your life, they're
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- never supposed togovern your life.
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- And so, what he says is if youallow your senses to govern your
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- life, it's gonna lead to death.
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- Because what's gonna happen?
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- Satan will operatein the sense realm.
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- You cannot depend on youremotions 'cause they change.
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- You might be--they might begreat when you go to bed, when
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- you wake up, they might change.
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- And so, what we're tryingto accomplish is emotional
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- stability so you can wake up inthe joy of the Lord and go to
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- bed the same way because you
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- know how to becomespiritually minded.
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- But to be carnally minded, alife that's being lived and
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- governed by your senses is gonna
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- lead to death because wewalk by faith, right?
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- But if you walk by what you seehere, it's gonna lead to death.
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- He said, but to be spirituallyminded is life and peace.
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- We're trying achieve life andpeace, and the way you achieve
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- that is to allow the Word ofGod to impact your thinking.
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- Allow the Word of God to
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- impact your mind, to impactyour thinking.
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- So, what happens when somethingspiritual like God's Word
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- impacts your thinking?
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- What happens when God's Wordbegins to impact your mind?
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- Well, the Scripture said it'sgonna lead to peace, and it's
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- gonna lead to life.
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- And I'm telling you rightthere, it just lets us know that
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- whatever happened in yourmind is gonna lead you.
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- This is where it is, it'sgonna lead you and your spirit's
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- trying to fight and stop youfrom going that way, but you've,
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- you're responsible for achievingspiritual mindedness, and the
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- way you do that John 63, John6:63 says, "The words I speak
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- unto you, they arespirit, and they are life."
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- So, you're not gonna achieve a
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- spiritual mind withoutthe Word of God.
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- You're not gonna achievespiritual mindedness by putting
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- on a T-shirt thatsays, "I'm a Christian."
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- You will achieve spiritualmindedness because you're
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- feeding on the Word of God andyou feeding on the Word of God.
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- And every time somethinghappens, you go to the Word.
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- Every time you needsomething, you go to the Word.
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- Every time somethinghurts, you go to the Word.
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- Every time there's an issuesomewhere, you go to the Word,
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- what happens?
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- You're now depending, relying,and leaning on something
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- spiritual, and your thinkingin mind has been shaped with
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- something spiritual, and itis gonna lead you to life and
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- peace, even in the middle oftrouble, even in the middle of a
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- hard time, it'lllead to life and peace.
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- So, now the question is, howdo we overcome depression?
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- I gave you three differentperspectives for depression, and
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- the one I think we like thebest was the third perspective.
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- We said that depression is aresult of external pressure
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- getting inside of yourheart and weighing it down.
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- We're talking about pressurethat comes from the outside or
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- pressure that comes from outsidecircumstances and situations.
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- The second perspective wasdepression is stress and
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- pressure that's internalized.
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- It's still external, it stillcomes on the inside, but it
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- begins to weigh you downbecause you internalize.
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- But the one that I thinkis workable is the third
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- perspective that says depressionis the feelings that come from
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- thinking thoughtsthat weigh you down.
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- It comes from thinkingthoughts that weigh you down.
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- Now, that's ultimately whereit's gonna come from, those
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- thoughts that you have.
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- So, you got to change the wayyou think if you want to change
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- the way you feel.
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- And we kept going over theanatomy of life, what you
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- expose yourself to willproduce the way you think, how
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- you think willdetermine how you feel.
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- So, if you want to change howyou feel, you gotta go back to
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- deal with how you think.
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- You want to change how youthink, you gotta go and check
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- out and change whatyou're being exposed to.
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- So, if you just look at justthose three steps, before it
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- gets to your emotions, youractions, your habits, your
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- character, and your destination,if you can deal with depression
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- just by understanding this, ifit is thoughts that are weighing
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- you down, you have to deal withhow you're thinking if you're
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- gonna deal with how you'refeeling because depression is
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- all about, "This is how I feel."
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- How you feel is all about the
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- thoughts that areweighing you down.
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- If you don't want to feel thatsame way, you're gonna have to
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- change how you're thinking.
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- So, a lot of times people aretrying to address how they feel
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- without addressing how theythink because they're not
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- understanding that it's how you
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- think that's determininghow you feel.
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- Imagine how big that is in yourmind to know that, "when I don't
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- feel good, it's probablybecause I'm not thinking good.
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- If I'm not thinking good,it's probably because I'm being
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- exposed to somethingthat's caused me to think that
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- particular way."
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- Just imagine the authority thatyou have in your life in all
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- you're getting to getunderstanding by understanding
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- that, "if I feelbad, I'm thinking bad.
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- If I want to change mydepression,
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- I change what I'm thinking."
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- So, you declare that, "thethoughts that are weighing me
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- down that are heavy on me, I amgoing to use the Word of God and
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- I'm gonna get ridof those thoughts."
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- Now, let me show you what theWord has to say about that.
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- So, if you're gonna deal withdepression, you're gonna have to
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- deal with the way you think.
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- You gotta dealwith your thinking.
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- Go to Romans chapter 12,Romans 12 and verse 1.
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- Let's look at verse 1 through 3.
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- You know, the Bible says severalthings, 1 Peter 5:7 says what?
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- "Cast all your cares on him'cause he cares for you."
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- You know, that sounds great, butyou still have to deal with the
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- way you think before youcan do your casting, okay?
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- The Bible also says, "As a manthinketh," comma,
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- "in his heart, so is he."
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- So, think about it, the way youthink, if it is internalized and
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- it gets in your heart and weighsyou down, you're still gonna
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- have to deal with theway you think, okay?
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- So, look what he says in Romanschapter 12, and I'm telling you
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- somebody says, "What do you calldealing with those thoughts that
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- weigh you down?"
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- You call it renewing your mind.
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- Renewing your mind is exchangingthe thoughts you have that weigh
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- you down with thoughts that comefrom the Word of God that will
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- lift you up, okay?
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- So, first one says, "I beseechyou therefore, brethren, by the
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- mercies of God, that you presentyour bodies a living sacrifice,
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- holy, acceptable unto God, whichis your reasonable service."
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- Now, I want you to payattention to verse 2.
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- "And be not conformed to thisworld; but be transformed by the
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- renewing of your mind."
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- That is so powerful to me.
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- See, we're wanting to changefrom depression to a better life
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- and he's telling us aboutthe transformation process.
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- He says, be conformed--don'tbe conformed to the world,
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- be transformed, how?
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- By renewing your mind and thenwhen you renew your mind, you
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- can prove the good, theacceptable,
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- and the perfect will of God.
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- Depression's notthe will of God.
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- You can't prove the perfect andacceptable will of God if you're
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- thinking doesn't line up with
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- the acceptable andperfect will of God?
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- Look at this in the Amplified.
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- Let's dissect itjust a little bit more.
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- In the Amplified Bible, he,of course you know that to be
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- transformed means to be changed.
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- And people go to doctorsand therapists, and they take
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- antidepressants becausethey're looking for, what?
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- Change, all right?
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- And here he says, "I appeal toyou therefore, brethren, and beg
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- of you in view of all themercies of God, to make a
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- decisive dedication of yourbodies, presenting all of your
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- members and facultiesas a living sacrifice."
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- I just want verse 2,guys, I apologize.
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- Verse 2 in the Amplified.
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- "Do not be conformed to thisworld, to this age, fashioned
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- after and adapted to itsexternal superficial customs."
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- Can you see that?
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- So, first of all, he warns us,don't conform to these external,
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- superficial customs.
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- Why?
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- Because it's those externalthings that if you don't know
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- how to handle, they're gonnaweigh you down and they're gonna
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- determine how you feel.
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- He says, "So don't conformto these external supervision
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- customs, but be transformedfrom them, be changed, how?
- 00:13:09.257 --> 00:13:15.463
- "By the entire renewal of yourmind, renewing it by its new
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- ideas and its new attitudeso that you may prove for
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- yourselves what is the good,acceptable, perfect will of God,
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- even the thing which is good,acceptable and perfect in His
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- sight for you."
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- Now, look atPhilippians 4 and 8.
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- So, you get--you want to dealwith how you feel, you gotta
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- deal with how you, what?
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- Think.
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- Man, the next time you go seeyour therapist, tell him that.
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- We've gotta deal with how you
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- think if we're gonna dealwith how you feel.
- 00:13:46.327 --> 00:13:49.030
- Somebody says, "Well, youknow--" it's not even enough to
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- deal with ultimately, that'snot gonna be a solution.
- 00:13:52.000 --> 00:13:55.036
- It's gonna be on the way tosolution but ultimately, and I'm
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- gonna ask you a question,ultimately, if I'm gonna deal
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- with how I feel by dealing withwhat I think, what else am I
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- gonna have to deal with?
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- What are you exposed to?
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- What are you exposed to?
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- Because if you fail to deal whatyou're exposed to, it's just
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- gonna continue to reintroducethose same kind of thoughts
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- that are weighing you down.
- 00:14:15.023 --> 00:14:16.925
- So eventually, you're gonnahave to ask yourself, "What am I
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- exposing myself to?"
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- In some cases, who are youexposing yourself to that
- 00:14:20.995 --> 00:14:23.498
- continues to produce thatsame mindset or way of thinking?
- 00:14:23.531 --> 00:14:27.769
- Now, here's thewarning here in this.
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- He says, "Finally, Brethren,whatsoever things are true,
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- whatsoever things are honest,whatsoever things are just,
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- whatsoever things are--" what?
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- "Pure.
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- Whatsoever things are--" what?Lovely.
- 00:14:38.379 --> 00:14:39.714
- "Whatsoever thingsare of good report.
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- If there be any virtue, if therebe any praise--" do what?
- 00:14:41.382 --> 00:14:45.119
- "Think of these things."
- 00:14:45.153 --> 00:14:47.188
- Next verse, verse 9, Thinkon these things, what things?
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- "Those things which you have
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- both learned, received, andheard, and seen in
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- me, do: and the God of peaceshall be with you."
- 00:14:54.295 --> 00:14:59.634
- So, you gotta ask yourself,"How long am I gonna continue to
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- disagree with the answer fromthe Creator who's responsible
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- for the manufactured person thatwe are and who's included with
- 00:15:08.576 --> 00:15:12.847
- it a manual of instruction, andhe tells you what to do when you
- 00:15:12.880 --> 00:15:16.517
- got feelings that are notlining up with the Word of God?"
- 00:15:16.551 --> 00:15:19.554
- Renew your mind.What is renewing the mind?
- 00:15:19.587 --> 00:15:22.123
- It's in exchanging your thoughtsand your ideas for God's
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- thoughts and God's ideas.
- 00:15:24.959 --> 00:15:26.761
- Renewing the mind is not aone-time event,
- 00:15:26.794 --> 00:15:28.730
- it is a lifetime process.
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- It is something you commityourself to every day,
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- all the time.
- 00:15:33.167 --> 00:15:34.502
- And anytime your feelings arebad, go and get your thinking
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- together, exposeyourself to the Word of God.
- 00:15:37.372 --> 00:15:39.774
- That's what we want to do,expose ourself to the Word of
- 00:15:39.807 --> 00:15:42.210
- God, let it determine ourthinking, then it determines our
- 00:15:42.243 --> 00:15:45.079
- feelings, then it will determineour decisions, it will determine
- 00:15:45.113 --> 00:15:47.949
- our actions, actions willdetermine our habits, our
- 00:15:47.982 --> 00:15:50.918
- character, and our destinationwill end up right because the
- 00:15:50.952 --> 00:15:54.489
- right seed that we were exposedto was planted and it now began
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- to plot our path for our life.
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- If you understand all ofthat, give a hearty amen.
- 00:16:02.697 --> 00:16:07.869
- Now, let's look atsome things here.
- 00:16:07.902 --> 00:16:12.006
- I began last week at the endto start talking to you about
- 00:16:12.040 --> 00:16:16.377
- several symptoms that I believeare responsible and that you can
- 00:16:16.411 --> 00:16:22.350
- kind of look at for depression.
- 00:16:22.383 --> 00:16:23.885
- If I can tonight, I'd like
- 00:16:23.918 --> 00:16:26.020
- to talk about thecause of depression.
- 00:16:26.054 --> 00:16:28.322
- I'd like to talk aboutthe symptoms of depression.
- 00:16:28.356 --> 00:16:31.025
- And if we have time, if nottonight or Sunday, how to how to
- 00:16:31.059 --> 00:16:34.362
- get out of it even more so.
- 00:16:34.395 --> 00:16:35.730
- I want to give lots of answers,but I want to give a lot of
- 00:16:35.763 --> 00:16:38.032
- things that can help you to seeit, see it, see it, see it, and
- 00:16:38.066 --> 00:16:41.436
- then nail it and not bea victim to it anymore.
- 00:16:41.469 --> 00:16:44.238
- So, there's somesymptoms of depressions.
- 00:16:44.272 --> 00:16:45.940
- I've identified four that Ithink that are pretty important.
- 00:16:45.973 --> 00:16:49.210
- We talked about the first one alittle bit before we left, and
- 00:16:49.243 --> 00:16:52.680
- the first one is something
- 00:16:52.713 --> 00:16:54.215
- that I call reclusiveness,reclusiveness.
- 00:16:54.248 --> 00:16:58.753
- It's exactly like it sounds.
- 00:16:58.786 --> 00:17:03.357
- It's withdrawingor not engaging.
- 00:17:03.391 --> 00:17:10.298
- In what I'm talking abouttonight, it can be a withdrawal
- 00:17:10.331 --> 00:17:13.501
- from reality and I'm not sayingso deep into something where
- 00:17:13.534 --> 00:17:19.006
- you're just spaced out, butsometimes, you know, we will
- 00:17:19.040 --> 00:17:24.045
- violate God's purpose forrelationships, and then we'll
- 00:17:24.078 --> 00:17:28.316
- withdraw because it feels likeit's a lot safer to just not
- 00:17:28.349 --> 00:17:33.087
- have to cultivate relationships.
- 00:17:33.121 --> 00:17:36.457
- And relationships, it's like abridge that will cause you to
- 00:17:36.491 --> 00:17:40.695
- benefit from certain things.
- 00:17:40.728 --> 00:17:43.064
- You just have to know howto choose the right ones.
- 00:17:43.097 --> 00:17:46.067
- Genesis chapter 2 and 18, let'slook at that, reclusiveness or
- 00:17:46.100 --> 00:17:49.604
- withdrawal from reality.
- 00:17:49.637 --> 00:17:51.772
- What does the Bible have to say?
- 00:17:51.806 --> 00:17:53.407
- Well, in Genesis chapter 2 andverse 18, he says that it's not
- 00:17:53.441 --> 00:17:57.211
- good for a man to be alone.
- 00:17:57.245 --> 00:18:00.915
- Please understand, he didn't
- 00:18:00.948 --> 00:18:02.583
- say it's not good forman to be single.
- 00:18:02.617 --> 00:18:04.952
- He said it's good forman not to be alone.
- 00:18:04.986 --> 00:18:08.122
- Somebody said,"What's the difference?"
- 00:18:08.156 --> 00:18:09.790
- Well, if I had a--yougot keys in your pocket?
- 00:18:09.824 --> 00:18:14.228
- If I--yeah, perfect.
- 00:18:14.262 --> 00:18:16.464
- If I had a key chain here, thesethings are not, you know, alone
- 00:18:16.497 --> 00:18:26.407
- because you have a lot of otherstuff here,
- 00:18:26.440 --> 00:18:30.411
- got a lot of stuff here.
- 00:18:30.444 --> 00:18:32.346
- And each one of these aresingle, which means they have a
- 00:18:32.380 --> 00:18:37.652
- specific functionand a specific design.
- 00:18:37.685 --> 00:18:43.291
- It's single, but not alone.
- 00:18:43.324 --> 00:18:47.161
- This key is special.
- 00:18:47.195 --> 00:18:50.731
- It's unique, and it has ajob to do but it's not alone.
- 00:18:50.765 --> 00:18:59.006
- Does that make sense?
- 00:18:59.040 --> 00:19:00.408
- So, what he said is it'snot good for man to be alone.
- 00:19:00.441 --> 00:19:07.081
- It's not good.
- 00:19:07.114 --> 00:19:08.849
- It's amazing because if youjust take this by itself, you
- 00:19:08.883 --> 00:19:12.019
- wouldn't even getthe wonderful sound.
- 00:19:12.053 --> 00:19:17.091
- But because it's not alone, itproduces other things that it
- 00:19:17.124 --> 00:19:21.195
- could not producebeing by itself.
- 00:19:21.229 --> 00:19:26.033
- And so, he says it's notgood for man to be alone.
- 00:19:26.067 --> 00:19:28.903
- He didn't say, don'tautomatically equate being alone
- 00:19:28.936 --> 00:19:34.609
- with being single because whenyou're single, this key, even
- 00:19:34.642 --> 00:19:39.313
- though it's single, it's whole,it's special, it's unique, it
- 00:19:39.347 --> 00:19:45.086
- has a purpose, it has a design,
- 00:19:45.119 --> 00:19:47.922
- and it can accomplish somethingbeing single.
- 00:19:47.955 --> 00:19:57.198
- Because some singlepeople, they misinterpret that.
- 00:19:57.231 --> 00:20:00.534
- You're single and you needto be whole, and special, and
- 00:20:00.568 --> 00:20:04.138
- equipped, and unique, and notgoing around talking about you
- 00:20:04.171 --> 00:20:07.608
- need another half.
- 00:20:07.642 --> 00:20:09.143
- What if I split this key up andtalk about, why you gotta have
- 00:20:09.176 --> 00:20:11.679
- the key on here?
- 00:20:11.712 --> 00:20:13.047
- 'Cause he's looking for--it'slooking for another half.
- 00:20:13.080 --> 00:20:15.916
- This key is no goodif it's not whole.
- 00:20:15.950 --> 00:20:18.486
- So, it's single and it's whole,and it's unique, and it has a
- 00:20:18.519 --> 00:20:22.857
- purpose, but it is not alone.
- 00:20:22.890 --> 00:20:28.129
- And God said, "It is notgood to be alone," why?
- 00:20:28.162 --> 00:20:34.302
- Because there's some things
- 00:20:34.335 --> 00:20:35.670
- that can happen whenyou're not alone.
- 00:20:35.703 --> 00:20:40.107
- And he says in verse 18, "Andthe Lord said, It is not good
- 00:20:40.141 --> 00:20:44.145
- that man should be alone.
- 00:20:44.178 --> 00:20:47.148
- I'll make him help that isproper, suitable for him."
- 00:20:47.181 --> 00:20:56.857
- I don't know whypeople say, "help meet."
- 00:20:56.891 --> 00:20:58.225
- It ain't in there.
- 00:20:58.259 --> 00:21:00.561
- "That's my help meet."
- 00:21:00.594 --> 00:21:02.563
- Oh, Jesus, it ain't in there.
- 00:21:02.596 --> 00:21:04.432
- Help, that's meet, orproper, or suitable for what?
- 00:21:04.465 --> 00:21:10.771
- And for him.
- 00:21:10.805 --> 00:21:12.973
- So, that's whathe's talking about.
- 00:21:13.007 --> 00:21:15.276
- Don't just be satisfied bybeing with a bunch of animals.
- 00:21:15.309 --> 00:21:22.750
- Understand that there's atremendous amount of growth and
- 00:21:22.783 --> 00:21:27.121
- things that can be pulled outof you, and there's a lot of
- 00:21:27.154 --> 00:21:31.325
- wonderful shaping that can takeplace with you when you're not
- 00:21:31.359 --> 00:21:36.297
- self-centered, and you're opento receive reproof, correction,
- 00:21:36.330 --> 00:21:45.639
- pressure, all that stuff.
- 00:21:45.673 --> 00:21:48.709
- I mean trouble.
- 00:21:48.743 --> 00:21:51.278
- You know, I'm not gonna goaround say, "Oh God, please
- 00:21:51.312 --> 00:21:53.147
- don't let me have trouble."
- 00:21:53.180 --> 00:21:54.515
- Without it, some of the thingsthat I had in me would not be
- 00:21:54.548 --> 00:22:00.221
- available today and the peoplethat are around me and how they
- 00:22:00.254 --> 00:22:06.360
- spoke into my life, or how theygot on my nerves still moved me
- 00:22:06.394 --> 00:22:11.799
- out of self-centeredness andproduce something in me that
- 00:22:11.832 --> 00:22:16.570
- helped to bring my designto its full potential.
- 00:22:16.604 --> 00:22:21.308
- It's not God's willfor you to do that.
- 00:22:21.342 --> 00:22:24.078
- And what happens is whensomebody recludes themselves in
- 00:22:24.111 --> 00:22:27.882
- a situation, you're also puttingyourself in a position where all
- 00:22:27.915 --> 00:22:32.920
- of those things that were in thedesign for your life going down
- 00:22:32.953 --> 00:22:37.024
- the path that he had already hadplanned for you, so when you got
- 00:22:37.057 --> 00:22:40.961
- to that point, all would be out,it would be developed, it would
- 00:22:40.995 --> 00:22:44.098
- be where it needed to be.
- 00:22:44.131 --> 00:22:46.567
- You avoid that, and in somecases delay the preparation
- 00:22:46.600 --> 00:22:51.405
- that's necessary for you to be
- 00:22:51.439 --> 00:22:53.307
- ready when you gotto a certain point.
- 00:22:53.340 --> 00:22:55.443
- Sometimes we were so in a hurryto try to get to that certain
- 00:22:55.476 --> 00:22:57.845
- point our way and by ourselves,and then when you got there, you
- 00:22:57.878 --> 00:23:03.684
- were weird because therewere certain things that were
- 00:23:03.717 --> 00:23:06.720
- designed to take the weird outof you, but you avoided them
- 00:23:06.754 --> 00:23:10.858
- because you thought it wasgood for you to be alone.
- 00:23:10.891 --> 00:23:13.794
- And in essence, he's saying thateven though you may not admit
- 00:23:13.828 --> 00:23:17.765
- it, that when you find yourselfwithdrawing away from certain
- 00:23:17.798 --> 00:23:23.404
- realities in your life,that's a symptom of depression.
- 00:23:23.437 --> 00:23:28.542
- And reclusiveness is
- 00:23:28.576 --> 00:23:30.478
- something that I think isworth mentioning.
- 00:23:30.511 --> 00:23:34.548
- So reclusiveness, Ibelieve, it's dangerous.
- 00:23:34.582 --> 00:23:39.119
- I believe you canbecome a antisocial.
- 00:23:39.153 --> 00:23:41.722
- You can become a hermit.
- 00:23:41.755 --> 00:23:44.258
- And it's easy to do,especially the older you get.
- 00:23:44.291 --> 00:23:46.460
- It's like, "Dude, I can just gohome, get in my pajamas, and sit
- 00:23:46.494 --> 00:23:49.964
- by myself andjust leave me alone.
- 00:23:49.997 --> 00:23:52.032
- Don't call me, don'ttalk to me, go away."
- 00:23:52.066 --> 00:23:54.668
- I remember my momreminded me of that.
- 00:23:54.702 --> 00:23:56.203
- She said, "You gotta be carefulabout that, you can get used to
- 00:23:56.237 --> 00:23:58.272
- that and boy, you'll become ahermit and you don't even want
- 00:23:58.305 --> 00:24:01.208
- to answer the phone.
- 00:24:01.242 --> 00:24:02.576
- You don't want to see nobody.I'll do it later.
- 00:24:02.610 --> 00:24:04.211
- I'll do it later.I'll do it later."
- 00:24:04.245 --> 00:24:05.713
- She said, you gotta bevery careful about that.
- 00:24:05.746 --> 00:24:07.348
- Some people enjoy their dogsand cats more than they do human
- 00:24:07.381 --> 00:24:10.251
- beings, and there's some issueswith that enjoying your dog and
- 00:24:10.284 --> 00:24:14.421
- your cat more thanyou do human beings.
- 00:24:14.455 --> 00:24:16.924
- No creature from the face ofthis planet can share so much
- 00:24:16.957 --> 00:24:21.061
- with you as a fellow human beingin the area of intellect, in the
- 00:24:21.095 --> 00:24:24.798
- area of love, andin the area of joy.
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