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Grace for Today with Lawson Perdue | Lawson Perdue - Jesus Influencers (Part 1) | May 26, 2025
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- - welcome friends of the broadcast.
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- I'm so glad that you've tuned in today.
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- We're beginning a brand new series today,
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- On being a influencer for the lord jesus christ.
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- And whether you realize it or not,
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- If you're a believer,
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- Your life is speaking to other people around you.
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- Some of them, you may understand that and know that.
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- Others you may not.
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- But stay tuned.
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- I believe you're gonna be blessed.
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- Friends, it's so good to have you with us today.
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- I'm so happy to have aaron, sharing the word of god.
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- We're actually gonna be sharing
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- One of his teachings this week,
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- And we're talking about being an influence
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- For jesus christ.
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- And aaron and his wife heather
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- Took over our youth department.
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- As we're speaking today, it was about a year ago.
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- It's doubled since they took it over,
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- But this is a teaching they did in the youth,
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- But i felt like it was really great teaching
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- For all believers,
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- And so i asked aaron if he would share it.
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- And so we're gonna jump into the word today.
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- - awesome, well, i just want to just encourage
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- Each and every one of you watching right now
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- That you do have an influence,
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- That jesus has strategically placed you
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- Around certain people,
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- Maybe in your neighborhood,
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- Maybe in your own family, at work,
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- Where you can really have an influence on them
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- And minister to them and point people to jesus.
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- You know, sometimes we think of people of influence,
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- We think of people that have, you know,
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- Maybe they have a big ministry on television
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- Or a big following.
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- But actually you have more of an influence
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- On a lotta people than even those people do-
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- - yeah. - you know,
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- Because they know you personally.
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- They get to see the gospel- - right.
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- - lived out in your life.
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- And so it's really important
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- To realize the influence that we have.
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- You know, i preach this, like you said, to the youth,
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- And you know, a lotta these students
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- Who are just teenagers,
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- They have a big influence over their own parents even-
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- - right. - you know, like where
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- We're gonna eat, what clothes, you know,
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- Are cool for your parents to wear or not to wear.
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- (lawson laughs)
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- So even, you know, god can give you influence
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- No matter who you are.
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- No matter how old or young you are,
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- No matter how wealthy or not wealthy you are,
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- You have influence and god wants you
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- To make a difference, so.
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- - you know, there's a scripture in 1 peter 4:10.
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- It says, "as every person has received the gift,
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- So let them minister one to another
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- As good stewards of the many-sided grace of god."
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- - [aaron] mm-hmm.
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- - and when you look at that,
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- It's talking about every believer has received the gift,
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- The gift of salvation.
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- And we need to be sharing jesus with the world around us,
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- Whether we're a school teacher, a doctor, attorney,
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- You know, a farmer, what, banker, whatever we are,
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- We need to share jesus with those around us.
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- And you know, there are people that will hear you
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- That might not ever come to a church
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- Or might not watch a christian broadcast.
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- - mm-hmm, that's true.
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- So i wanna dive into the word here.
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- And you know, god really wants us to be looked up to.
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- You know, his children, his sons, his daughters,
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- He wants you to be a person
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- That other people around you look up to,
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- Not look down on.
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- - [lawson] right.
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- - and, you know, we should have a good testimony.
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- There's a lotta scriptures that talk about that,
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- That our lives should be a testimony even to nonbelievers,
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- That they shouldn't be able to accuse you of anything.
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- - right. - because you're really
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- Living the gospel.
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- So i'm gonna read from 1 timothy 4:12-14.
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- And paul is writing to timothy
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- On how to be a good minister,
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- A good leader, a good pastor.
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- But this applies to anyone
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- In whatever you're called to do.
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- It might be to be a mother, a grandmother,
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- You know, working at a store.
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- Whatever you're called to do, you know,
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- We're called to be a leader
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- And have influence in that area.
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- So here, paul writes him, "let no one despise your youth."
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- So timothy was a younger person,
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- And paul's saying, "hey, timothy,
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- Don't let people look down on you because of your age."
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- - right. - and a lotta people
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- Like to make excuses why they're not stepping out
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- And making a difference.
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- You know, it might be, "well, i'm too young,"
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- Or it could be, "i'm too old,"
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- Or, you know, "i'm not wealthy enough,"
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- Or, "i'm not smart enough."
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- - [lawson] mm-hmm.
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- - but whatever that excuse is,
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- That's not god placing that excuse in your mind
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- For why you shouldn't step out and make a difference.
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- So don't let people despise
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- Whatever you think it is that's-
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- - right. - wrong about you.
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- - you know, it's not in someone else's opinion of you
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- That really makes a difference.
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- It's in god's opinion of you.
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- And i tell people often,
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- Don't take anyone's opinion of you
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- Except for god's or christ.
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- Yeah, it's okay to, you know,
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- I mean, people, we want to be loved.
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- We want to be accepted by other people,
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- But sometimes people have the wrong perceptive,
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- And many times, even really well-meaning people
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- And good people can have a perception
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- That may be incorrect.
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- - [aaron] mm-hmm.
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- - and so-
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- - don't let that stop you.
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- - right, lester sumrall said this years ago.
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- "your happiness, a bad place for you
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- To have your happiness, is in another person's head."
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- You don't, it doesn't matter what they say.
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- What matters is what god says,
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- So keep your eyes on god.
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- Keep your eyes on christ.
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- Keep your eyes on the word of god
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- And what god says about you, ultimately.
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- - he says, "don't let anyone despise you
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- Because of your youth, but be an example."
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- You know, that's a great word for all of us.
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- We need to be an example,
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- And he talks about how we're to be an example
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- To the believers "in word, in conduct, in love,
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- In spirit, in faith, in purity."
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- And those are really great things to really delve into
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- And just talk about how we're to live out the gospel,
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- How we're to have an influence in a, you know,
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- And paul has several things,
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- And in the next couple verses he talks about
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- How to really grow in those things.
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- - right. - so we'll talk about that
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- In verse 13,
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- But i wanna explain each of these, you know,
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- What it means to be an example in word.
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- You know, your words are powerful.
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- - right, you know, jesus said this in matthew 12:37.
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- He said, "by your words, you're justified,
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- And by your words, you're condemned."
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- And he also said prior to that, in matthew 12:34,
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- "out of the abundance of the heart,
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- The mouth speaks."
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- - so, mark says that, you know, it's not the things
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- That are going into the mouth that defile us,
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- But the things that are coming out of the mouth.
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- - mm-hmm. - because the things
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- That come out of our mouth
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- Really come out of our heart or where,
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- What we've been thinking or meditating on.
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- And so, you know, you need to, you know,
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- Meditate the word of god and speak.
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- There's actually power in life,
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- In speaking the word of god.
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- - yeah, proverbs 18:21 says,
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- "death and life are in the power of the tongue.
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- And those who love it will eat its fruit."
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- So that's talking about, you know,
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- The words that you have can build people up,
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- Can tear people down,
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- Can bring life, or bring death.
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- And even though you might be looking at a situation
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- Where there's a lotta death,
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- Where there's not a lotta hope,
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- You can actually speak life,
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- You can speak the word of god, you can speak faith.
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- You know, god spoke those things
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- "that be not as though they were."
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- - [lawson] right.
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- - it says that in romans about abraham,
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- And that's how god is.
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- You know, he would speak things.
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- - "he calls those such things
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- That be not as though they are."
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- - so you don't just have to look on the surface.
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- You know, we know that there's a natural realm,
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- But there's also a spiritual realm,
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- And you can see things beyond the natural.
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- - [lawson] right.
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- - you can see that there's truth
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- Beyond just what you're seeing with your natural eyes.
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- You know, some people actually can't even see
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- With their natural eyes.
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- - right. (laughs) - you know, recently,
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- You know, and even believers have a hard time
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- Just seeing with their natural eyes.
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- - [lawson] right.
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- - you know, a couple weeks ago, someone,
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- I heard someone mention like,
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- "oh, this church doesn't have hardly any young people."
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- Then just the following sunday, i looked up on stage,
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- And of the nine people on stage,
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- Eight of them were under 30 years old.
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- - yeah. (laughs) - it's like, this person
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- Doesn't even have eyes to see with,
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- In the natural.
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- - eight outta nine.
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- So, these are people- - actively involved-
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- - involved in leadership roles,
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- And, you know, doing awesome things.
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- So, you know, you have to,
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- You have to see, at least see the natural.
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- - you can't just listen to everybody around there.
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- You know, people will say things,
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- But a lotta times, a lotta things people say
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- Don't even really have any validity.
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- - and i have this to say too about that.
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- You know, god wants multi-generational churches.
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- He wants a multi-generational kingdom.
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- And maybe, you know, you're a young person
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- Watching this right now.
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- It might be good for you to be at a church
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- Where there's some people with gray hair.
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- You might learn something.
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- (lawson laughs)
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- The bible actually says, you know,
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- "the older men are to teach the younger men,
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- And the older women are teach the younger women."
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- So that, that means you need to have
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- Older people and younger people.
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- - right, aaron, when i first got baptized
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- In the holy spirit,
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- I was 14 years old.
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- It was andrew wommack's bible study in lamar, colorado.
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- And it was actually held for a period of time
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- In my aunt's apartment.
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- But, you know, a lotta people didn't know andrew then,
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- But it really changed my life.
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- But andrew left a couple years after we got started
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- In that bible study,
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- And moved up here to colorado springs,
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- And we ended up going to a, you know,
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- Word of faith full gospel, you know, church,
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- And had a great pastor.
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- But i got some friends in that church,
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- But my friends were about 10 years older than i was.
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- - [aaron] mm-hmm.
- 00:09:28.710 --> 00:09:30.012
- - and it was really good for me to connect
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- With some older people in that church that, you know,
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- Really had faith and were living out their faith.
- 00:09:34.116 --> 00:09:37.185
- And it helped me as i walked with the lord.
- 00:09:37.185 --> 00:09:39.755
- And i know you kinda had that happen, same thing,
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- When you went to pittsburgh, pennsylvania
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- To go to carnegie mellon university.
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- You got involved in a church.
- 00:09:46.194 --> 00:09:47.529
- It wasn't a big church, but it was the church
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- Where god had you get involved.
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- And there were older people in that church
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- That began to kinda take care of you.
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- And you built relationships.
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- - [aaron] mm-hmm.
- 00:09:57.205 --> 00:09:58.407
- - many of them you still have today.
- 00:09:58.407 --> 00:09:59.708
- - yeah, and i wouldn't be where i am today
- 00:09:59.708 --> 00:10:01.176
- Without having those relationships at that, you know,
- 00:10:01.176 --> 00:10:03.712
- Important time in my life.
- 00:10:03.712 --> 00:10:05.447
- - yeah, so it's so important.
- 00:10:05.447 --> 00:10:07.049
- But he says we need to be example of believers
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- And starting with the words we speak.
- 00:10:10.385 --> 00:10:12.721
- - [aaron] mm-hmm.
- 00:10:12.721 --> 00:10:14.122
- - you know, my mom had this saying when we lived
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- As a child in our trailer house, above the kitchen sink,
- 00:10:15.724 --> 00:10:18.360
- But it said, "be careful of the words you speak.
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- Keep them short and sweet.
- 00:10:20.896 --> 00:10:22.030
- You never know from day to day,
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- Which ones you'll have to eat."
- 00:10:23.965 --> 00:10:25.467
- - mm-hmm. - and we need
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- To guard our tongue.
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- The bible says, "set a watch over our mouth," you know,
- 00:10:27.836 --> 00:10:31.740
- And jesus, like we said before, he said,
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- "by our words we're justified.
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- By our words, we're condemned,"
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- So we need to be an example.
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- And one way we live out the gospel
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- Is through believing and speaking god's word,
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- And guarding the words.
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- Are the words we're speaking bringing life?
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- Are they bringing health?
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- Are they bringing blessing?
- 00:10:51.359 --> 00:10:53.028
- Are we speaking words of death, of disease, and cursing?
- 00:10:53.028 --> 00:10:57.466
- We need to guard our tongue.
- 00:10:57.466 --> 00:10:59.134
- - mm-hmm, and people notice you.
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- They'll know you by the words you speak.
- 00:11:01.903 --> 00:11:04.372
- - right.
- 00:11:04.372 --> 00:11:05.774
- - you know, that's how you'll have a reputation,
- 00:11:05.774 --> 00:11:07.609
- A positive reputation or a negative reputation.
- 00:11:07.609 --> 00:11:10.645
- - right. - you know, years back,
- 00:11:10.645 --> 00:11:12.247
- I went to school for classical music.
- 00:11:12.247 --> 00:11:14.082
- I have a doctorate in classical music.
- 00:11:14.082 --> 00:11:16.852
- And while i was getting my doctorate,
- 00:11:16.852 --> 00:11:19.287
- I played the flute,
- 00:11:19.755 --> 00:11:21.089
- And several of the flute students
- 00:11:21.089 --> 00:11:23.592
- Were complaining to our professor about a girl
- 00:11:23.592 --> 00:11:27.129
- That played violin in the orchestra,
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- Because this girl, you know, she was,
- 00:11:28.764 --> 00:11:31.066
- She had some problems.
- 00:11:31.066 --> 00:11:32.934
- The thing that bothered them
- 00:11:32.934 --> 00:11:34.202
- Was that she didn't dress appropriately.
- 00:11:34.202 --> 00:11:35.837
- She wasn't wearing very much clothes, and it bothered,
- 00:11:35.837 --> 00:11:37.739
- Especially the girls that played flute
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- And sat right, you know, next to her.
- 00:11:40.542 --> 00:11:42.644
- And my flute professor said, "you know what?
- 00:11:42.644 --> 00:11:44.579
- That violin player, she needs to talk to aaron."
- 00:11:44.579 --> 00:11:48.083
- And i thought that was really interesting that, you know,
- 00:11:48.083 --> 00:11:49.684
- And this professor wasn't a believer.
- 00:11:49.684 --> 00:11:52.154
- Some of these students weren't a believer,
- 00:11:52.154 --> 00:11:53.688
- But she knew me, that the words i speak could help people.
- 00:11:53.688 --> 00:11:58.093
- - [lawson] right.
- 00:11:58.093 --> 00:11:59.461
- - and, you know, years later when i told her
- 00:11:59.461 --> 00:12:00.862
- I was actually gonna have a career shift, you know,
- 00:12:00.862 --> 00:12:03.331
- And leave the classical music pursuit,
- 00:12:03.331 --> 00:12:06.301
- And go into ministry, she was actually very for it.
- 00:12:06.301 --> 00:12:08.603
- She said, "you know what?
- 00:12:08.603 --> 00:12:09.571
- You always help a lotta people
- 00:12:09.571 --> 00:12:10.872
- And you're gonna, you know, help"-
- 00:12:10.872 --> 00:12:12.474
- - right.
- 00:12:12.474 --> 00:12:13.642
- - "help a lotta people tremendously."
- 00:12:13.642 --> 00:12:14.810
- And but people can see the,
- 00:12:14.810 --> 00:12:17.145
- They know you by the words you speak.
- 00:12:17.145 --> 00:12:18.980
- And in a tough situation- - yeah.
- 00:12:18.980 --> 00:12:20.515
- - they're gonna have people that speak the right things
- 00:12:20.515 --> 00:12:22.684
- And can really help people, and not-
- 00:12:22.684 --> 00:12:24.085
- - amen. - tear people down
- 00:12:24.085 --> 00:12:25.187
- And make things worse.
- 00:12:25.187 --> 00:12:26.521
- - yeah, our words are powerful.
- 00:12:26.521 --> 00:12:27.923
- So, we're gonna take a short break in a few seconds,
- 00:12:27.923 --> 00:12:30.926
- And i want you to feel welcome to call in.
- 00:12:30.926 --> 00:12:32.894
- We have trained prayer ministers that are here today
- 00:12:32.894 --> 00:12:35.664
- That can take your calls and pray for you, minister to you.
- 00:12:35.664 --> 00:12:39.434
- Also, if you wanna become a partner, you could call in.
- 00:12:39.434 --> 00:12:42.838
- But we're gonna be back right after this short break
- 00:12:42.838 --> 00:12:45.273
- And we're gonna continue to share
- 00:12:45.273 --> 00:12:47.342
- On different aspects,
- 00:12:47.342 --> 00:12:48.777
- How we can be good examples to other believers.
- 00:12:48.777 --> 00:12:53.281
- So stay tuned.
- 00:12:53.281 --> 00:12:54.249
- We'll be right back after this.
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- (light uplifting music)
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- - the church is the best thing
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- That has ever happened to the world.
- 00:13:28.049 --> 00:13:30.018
- I'm so thankful for the church.
- 00:13:30.018 --> 00:13:31.620
- I am so thankful for the global body of believers.
- 00:13:31.620 --> 00:13:34.356
- I'm so thankful for local church bodies like this.
- 00:13:34.356 --> 00:13:37.592
- I love the local church
- 00:13:37.592 --> 00:13:39.494
- Because jesus loves the local church.
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- This is the thing that is holding our country together.
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- (light uplifting music)
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- (light uplifting music fades)
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- - friends, i'm so glad that you stayed with us
- 00:13:54.376 --> 00:13:55.911
- And we're talking about how we can be
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- An example of believers.
- 00:13:58.647 --> 00:14:01.016
- In the first half of the broadcast,
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- We're sharing from 1 timothy 4:12,
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- We talked about being an example of believers
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- In the words that we speak.
- 00:14:11.126 --> 00:14:13.061
- - [aaron] mm-hmm.
- 00:14:13.061 --> 00:14:13.895
- - now we wanna move on.
- 00:14:13.895 --> 00:14:15.497
- And it talks about not only being an example of believers
- 00:14:15.497 --> 00:14:19.000
- In 1 timothy 4:12, in word,
- 00:14:19.000 --> 00:14:21.736
- But also in your behavior, or in your lifestyle.
- 00:14:21.736 --> 00:14:26.441
- And the word used here in the king james is conversation.
- 00:14:26.441 --> 00:14:30.312
- And that word conversation is an old english word,
- 00:14:30.312 --> 00:14:33.315
- And it's talking about citizenship or lifestyle.
- 00:14:33.315 --> 00:14:36.318
- Citizens of a certain country behave in a certain way,
- 00:14:36.318 --> 00:14:39.988
- Because of the culture.
- 00:14:39.988 --> 00:14:41.389
- - mm-hmm. - well, we're citizens
- 00:14:41.389 --> 00:14:42.657
- Of heaven on loan to the earth from god.
- 00:14:42.657 --> 00:14:44.693
- And we ought to have,
- 00:14:44.693 --> 00:14:46.361
- Bring the culture of heaven to earth.
- 00:14:46.361 --> 00:14:48.863
- And we begin to think about it.
- 00:14:48.863 --> 00:14:50.966
- We need to begin to live differently
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- So people can see jesus really living through us.
- 00:14:53.134 --> 00:14:57.305
- You know, years ago they said,
- 00:14:57.305 --> 00:14:58.940
- The only jesus some people may see
- 00:14:58.940 --> 00:15:01.076
- Is the jesus that's living in you and living in me,
- 00:15:01.076 --> 00:15:04.579
- So we need to be examples.
- 00:15:04.579 --> 00:15:06.147
- - yeah, and your conduct has an impact on people.
- 00:15:06.147 --> 00:15:09.517
- Your behavior, the-
- 00:15:09.517 --> 00:15:10.618
- - right. - just how you do things.
- 00:15:10.618 --> 00:15:12.120
- You know, you have to put action to your faith.
- 00:15:12.120 --> 00:15:14.089
- - right. (laughs) - you know, there's a quote
- 00:15:14.089 --> 00:15:16.858
- That's really powerful, but it says,
- 00:15:16.858 --> 00:15:18.059
- "preach the gospel at all times,
- 00:15:18.059 --> 00:15:20.528
- And if necessary use words."
- 00:15:20.528 --> 00:15:22.430
- - yeah. (laughs) - so your actions
- 00:15:22.430 --> 00:15:24.099
- Really speak loudly.
- 00:15:24.099 --> 00:15:25.633
- And you know, i've taught people this principle before,
- 00:15:25.633 --> 00:15:29.137
- But you know, if you're leading people,
- 00:15:29.137 --> 00:15:31.639
- If you're influencing people, they're gonna, you know,
- 00:15:31.639 --> 00:15:34.042
- The people that are around you
- 00:15:34.042 --> 00:15:35.276
- Are gonna kinda copy what you're doing.
- 00:15:35.276 --> 00:15:37.312
- They're gonna do
- 00:15:37.312 --> 00:15:38.279
- What you're doing. - right.
- 00:15:38.279 --> 00:15:39.681
- - so i can tell if someone's being a good leader
- 00:15:39.681 --> 00:15:41.049
- By who's around them, who's following them.
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- And if those people following 'em
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- Are kinda detached and not going in the right direction,
- 00:15:45.120 --> 00:15:47.689
- I know that the leader.
- 00:15:47.689 --> 00:15:49.624
- You know, and if it's just a single person,
- 00:15:49.624 --> 00:15:51.426
- It might just be one in,
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- But if everyone around them is detaching,
- 00:15:52.927 --> 00:15:56.031
- Is going in the wrong direction,
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- I know that the leader is probably the captain of that ship.
- 00:15:57.999 --> 00:16:01.302
- - right. (laughs) - so it's pretty easy
- 00:16:01.302 --> 00:16:04.172
- To figure out.
- 00:16:04.172 --> 00:16:05.974
- And, you know, as ministers, as pastors especially,
- 00:16:05.974 --> 00:16:08.543
- You know, that we have a big impact
- 00:16:08.543 --> 00:16:10.245
- And, you know, people are gonna kinda do what you do.
- 00:16:10.245 --> 00:16:14.382
- You know, this church, i was actually talking
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- To someone who's interested in coming here,
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- A very, very talented person.
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- He is a talented musician.
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- That's why he reached out to the church.
- 00:16:23.525 --> 00:16:24.526
- He plays guitar, but he also,
- 00:16:24.526 --> 00:16:26.561
- He's a multimillionaire, a real estate-
- 00:16:26.561 --> 00:16:28.496
- - that's awesome. - lawyer, and i was
- 00:16:28.496 --> 00:16:31.466
- Just telling him about this church,
- 00:16:31.466 --> 00:16:33.068
- But i, you know, 'cause i've been a part of it
- 00:16:33.068 --> 00:16:35.470
- For a long time, since we started,
- 00:16:35.470 --> 00:16:36.771
- But i've been on staff for nine years now.
- 00:16:36.771 --> 00:16:37.739
- But i told him, you know,
- 00:16:37.739 --> 00:16:39.207
- "i think you'll actually really like it here," and-
- 00:16:39.207 --> 00:16:41.643
- - i think he will too. - and i think, yeah,
- 00:16:41.643 --> 00:16:43.311
- And you know why, but i told him, you know,
- 00:16:43.311 --> 00:16:44.646
- "the things that i've observed here,
- 00:16:44.646 --> 00:16:46.714
- That people really grow and people really flow,
- 00:16:46.714 --> 00:16:49.350
- And people, and it's coming from the top,"
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- You know- - right.
- 00:16:52.387 --> 00:16:53.488
- - from the leader in his conduct.
- 00:16:53.488 --> 00:16:54.456
- You know, people really flow.
- 00:16:54.456 --> 00:16:55.390
- There's a strong anointing
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- For entrepreneurship, for finances.
- 00:16:57.425 --> 00:16:59.527
- - right. - and also a strong anointing
- 00:16:59.527 --> 00:17:01.830
- And flow for strong families.
- 00:17:01.830 --> 00:17:04.666
- - yes.
- 00:17:04.666 --> 00:17:05.867
- - those things are very strong here.
- 00:17:05.867 --> 00:17:07.235
- And there's other areas where people can grow
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- And be ministered to as well.
- 00:17:09.704 --> 00:17:11.072
- But, you know, those things flow from the top.
- 00:17:11.072 --> 00:17:13.608
- - amen. - and you don't always
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- Just preach all the time about, you know, starting business
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- And preach all the time about how to parent.
- 00:17:18.680 --> 00:17:21.082
- But it's just your conduct.
- 00:17:21.082 --> 00:17:22.984
- - right, well you can- - and you live it out.
- 00:17:22.984 --> 00:17:24.686
- - you can see it in our life.
- 00:17:24.686 --> 00:17:26.387
- - [aaron] mm-hmm.
- 00:17:26.387 --> 00:17:27.689
- - you know, years ago when we moved here,
- 00:17:27.689 --> 00:17:29.924
- Brother bierman was one of my mentors.
- 00:17:29.924 --> 00:17:32.427
- And brother bierman had pioneered at least two churches
- 00:17:32.427 --> 00:17:35.563
- In the state of colorado.
- 00:17:35.563 --> 00:17:37.165
- And he had pioneered this church in burlington, colorado.
- 00:17:37.165 --> 00:17:39.834
- He had been there about close to 20 years
- 00:17:39.834 --> 00:17:42.470
- When we moved to kit carson.
- 00:17:42.470 --> 00:17:44.339
- And he really had some influence in my life.
- 00:17:44.339 --> 00:17:46.741
- But then he moved into full-time missionary work,
- 00:17:46.741 --> 00:17:50.645
- Traveled all around the world and ministered,
- 00:17:50.645 --> 00:17:52.981
- And actually sent forth a lot of young ministers,
- 00:17:52.981 --> 00:17:56.718
- In the gospel, and,
- 00:17:56.718 --> 00:17:58.920
- Brother bill bierman, his wife ginger,
- 00:17:58.920 --> 00:18:01.189
- And they had five children of their own.
- 00:18:01.189 --> 00:18:02.957
- All five of their children are in ministry.
- 00:18:02.957 --> 00:18:04.993
- All five of their children are great leaders
- 00:18:04.993 --> 00:18:06.728
- In the body of christ.
- 00:18:06.728 --> 00:18:08.630
- And you know, but she gave us a word
- 00:18:08.630 --> 00:18:11.099
- When we moved to colorado springs
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- That you three boys, you and your two brothers,
- 00:18:12.400 --> 00:18:15.136
- Were gonna be witnesses,
- 00:18:15.136 --> 00:18:16.404
- And your lives would speak to people.
- 00:18:16.404 --> 00:18:18.973
- - [aaron] mm-hmm.
- 00:18:18.973 --> 00:18:20.108
- - and that's proven out to be true.
- 00:18:20.108 --> 00:18:21.843
- And that was already happening prior to us coming here,
- 00:18:21.843 --> 00:18:24.913
- But it actually grew when we came here.
- 00:18:24.913 --> 00:18:27.582
- And i remember one time we moved here
- 00:18:27.582 --> 00:18:29.517
- And we were part of a school district
- 00:18:29.517 --> 00:18:31.419
- In the southwest part of the town,
- 00:18:31.419 --> 00:18:33.421
- One of the top school districts in the state at that time.
- 00:18:33.421 --> 00:18:36.157
- But some of the administrators were talking to me
- 00:18:36.157 --> 00:18:39.127
- Within a fairly short time
- 00:18:39.127 --> 00:18:41.496
- After we moved to colorado springs,
- 00:18:41.496 --> 00:18:42.997
- Within a year, a year-and-a-half.
- 00:18:42.997 --> 00:18:44.699
- And they were saying,
- 00:18:44.699 --> 00:18:46.134
- "well, we talked to the administrators at kit carson,
- 00:18:46.134 --> 00:18:47.802
- And they praised your kids."
- 00:18:47.802 --> 00:18:49.204
- And we see that happening.
- 00:18:49.204 --> 00:18:51.105
- And, you know, our life speaks to people.
- 00:18:51.105 --> 00:18:53.908
- You know, even the other day i was in the gym
- 00:18:53.908 --> 00:18:55.677
- And there's a guy, and he,
- 00:18:55.677 --> 00:18:56.945
- He's often different than me politically
- 00:18:56.945 --> 00:18:59.247
- Or what we think about the scripture.
- 00:18:59.247 --> 00:19:01.382
- And he may or may not be a believer,
- 00:19:01.382 --> 00:19:03.818
- But he was talking to me about some things
- 00:19:03.818 --> 00:19:05.920
- That he didn't believe, that i believe.
- 00:19:05.920 --> 00:19:08.056
- And so i gave him a couple of, you know,
- 00:19:08.056 --> 00:19:10.391
- Testimonies about some of these things
- 00:19:10.391 --> 00:19:12.727
- That have happened in our ministry, so on and so,
- 00:19:12.727 --> 00:19:14.529
- He said, "well, you know,
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- I don't really believe in this, but i believe in you.
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- I know you." - he knows your,
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- You have integrity.
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- - because my life speaks to him, right, every day,
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- And i'm respectful of him.
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- And even though he might have been
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- On a different page about these things, you know, he said,
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- "well, i believe you, i know you."
- 00:19:31.913 --> 00:19:34.349
- - and when people know your conduct,
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- When they know your conversation, just how you are,
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- How you behave, how you live your life,
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- They're gonna be more receptive to receive your word.
- 00:19:41.189 --> 00:19:43.858
- - [lawson] right.
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- - through, you know, this all flows together.
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- That's why paul puts 'em all together,
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- All these things of how we're to be an example to believers,
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- But even non-believers too.
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- - [lawson] right.
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- - and, you know, he talks about conduct,
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- And these things, you might feel like,
- 00:19:56.471 --> 00:19:57.772
- "well, i made a lotta mistakes."
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- And when people see the shift in your conduct,
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- When they see the shift in your life,
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- That speaks volumes to people as well.
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- You know, one of my favorite books of the bible is james,
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- 'cause it's very black and white, very pointed.
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- You know, james said, "faith without works
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- Or faith without action," without-
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- - corresponding action.
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- - that conduct is dead.
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- And he uses two examples
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- Of faith and action working together.
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- He uses abraham as an example, but also rahab.
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- - yeah, so abraham's this person
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- Of 50 years of faith in god,
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- Lives a tremendous, you know, lifestyle.
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- And sure, abraham makes some mistakes-
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- - mm-hmm. - right, because he's
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- A human person.
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- You know, all men of god,
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- All people of god have clay feet, right?
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- If you know someone well enough, you're gonna know
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- That we don't hit 100% all the time.
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- So those are very evident in scripture,
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- But then he uses rahab.
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- Well, rahab is a harlot.
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- And it says, by faith, the rahab harlot,
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- The harlot rahab, you know, you can find faith,
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- Anybody can believe god.
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- God doesn't care where you came from.
- 00:21:00.134 --> 00:21:01.569
- Where you're going is a lot more important
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- Than where you came from.
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- But if you'll believe him, your life can change.
- 00:21:05.873 --> 00:21:08.376
- - mm-hmm, and you know, the next thing he talks about
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- Of being an example too
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- Where people should look up to you is in love.
- 00:21:12.413 --> 00:21:14.882
- - yeah. - and this is
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- Really powerful too, and, and very-
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- - i think we should continue
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- To talk about our behavior
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- For a little bit. - oh yeah, yeah.
- 00:21:20.254 --> 00:21:21.656
- - but you know, our lifestyle really, you know,
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- When we went to kit carson,
- 00:21:24.158 --> 00:21:26.127
- Kit carson's a town of 300,
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- And we pastored there.
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- You were just a little boy,
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- And we raised you and your brothers there.
- 00:21:31.199 --> 00:21:33.167
- We pastored there for 13 years, pioneered a church.
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- And in that town,
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- There were three traditional churches, right,
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- And then we started a full gospel,
- 00:21:39.807 --> 00:21:42.377
- You know, charismatic church,
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- And people, mom said, when we went there,
- 00:21:45.146 --> 00:21:47.782
- They would almost walk
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- On the other side of the street, to get away from us.
- 00:21:49.217 --> 00:21:52.153
- But after a period of time, we had people
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- Who were from the other churches
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- Who really looked up to us.
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- And they would come to us
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- For counsel in different things.
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- And people began to love us and accept us.
- 00:22:01.462 --> 00:22:05.199
- And even though they went to different churches,
- 00:22:05.199 --> 00:22:06.834
- The mayor went to a different church.
- 00:22:06.834 --> 00:22:08.369
- But i remember when we made a decision
- 00:22:08.369 --> 00:22:10.304
- To move here to colorado springs,
- 00:22:10.304 --> 00:22:11.706
- And felt like god had called us to come here,
- 00:22:11.706 --> 00:22:13.975
- The mayor called us and said,
- 00:22:13.975 --> 00:22:14.942
- "well, what are we gonna do
- 00:22:14.942 --> 00:22:16.310
- Without your children in our school?
- 00:22:16.310 --> 00:22:17.812
- Your family is such a great family."
- 00:22:17.812 --> 00:22:19.981
- I know the head coach at the school,
- 00:22:19.981 --> 00:22:23.151
- And he coached football, he coached, you know,
- 00:22:23.151 --> 00:22:25.787
- In basketball, he worked with, you know,
- 00:22:25.787 --> 00:22:28.890
- All the sports really,
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- And he was a very strong leader in the community.
- 00:22:30.458 --> 00:22:32.627
- He called me and said, you know,
- 00:22:32.627 --> 00:22:34.295
- "why are you leaving?
- 00:22:34.295 --> 00:22:35.229
- We don't want you to leave."
- 00:22:35.229 --> 00:22:36.564
- And he went to a different church, you know,
- 00:22:36.564 --> 00:22:38.032
- But i'm like, well, you know, "jesus told us to go."
- 00:22:38.032 --> 00:22:41.302
- And he's like, "well, jesus is telling me
- 00:22:41.302 --> 00:22:43.438
- You're supposed to stay."
- 00:22:43.438 --> 00:22:44.872
- Well, our life should really
- 00:22:44.872 --> 00:22:46.741
- Speak to other people around us,
- 00:22:47.375 --> 00:22:50.711
- Of the faith that we have in god.
- 00:22:50.711 --> 00:22:52.847
- And people should be able to see that.
- 00:22:52.847 --> 00:22:55.249
- And you know, especially like in kit carson,
- 00:22:55.249 --> 00:22:58.319
- I know one thing about that community,
- 00:22:58.319 --> 00:23:00.655
- Everybody kinda kept each other, you know, in check.
- 00:23:00.655 --> 00:23:04.959
- Sometimes we live in a bigger city
- 00:23:04.959 --> 00:23:06.561
- And people think, "well, nobody sees, nobody cares,
- 00:23:06.561 --> 00:23:09.230
- Nobody's ever gonna know.
- 00:23:09.230 --> 00:23:10.498
- I'm never gonna see that person again."
- 00:23:10.498 --> 00:23:12.333
- I remember one time we were visiting a church here,
- 00:23:12.333 --> 00:23:16.137
- And i was, another minister was taking me somewhere
- 00:23:16.137 --> 00:23:18.506
- To get something for me.
- 00:23:18.506 --> 00:23:19.574
- And we were at this church
- 00:23:19.574 --> 00:23:21.275
- And he sped out of the parking lot
- 00:23:21.275 --> 00:23:23.177
- And i didn't know where he was going,
- 00:23:23.177 --> 00:23:24.312
- So i was kinda trying to keep up.
- 00:23:24.312 --> 00:23:25.880
- But he really made some people mad
- 00:23:25.880 --> 00:23:27.548
- At this church parking lot.
- 00:23:27.548 --> 00:23:29.083
- And i mentioned it to him when we got to his house.
- 00:23:29.083 --> 00:23:31.452
- And he said, "well, we'll never see him again."
- 00:23:31.452 --> 00:23:34.388
- And that's just not the way that we want
- 00:23:34.388 --> 00:23:37.558
- To conduct our lives. - and i have this
- 00:23:37.558 --> 00:23:38.526
- To say as well.
- 00:23:38.526 --> 00:23:39.760
- You know, paul is writing to timothy-
- 00:23:39.760 --> 00:23:41.095
- - right. - who's a pastor,
- 00:23:41.095 --> 00:23:42.396
- And he's telling him how to be a leader.
- 00:23:42.396 --> 00:23:43.764
- - right. - so this is something
- 00:23:43.764 --> 00:23:46.033
- You should look for in a pastor as well.
- 00:23:46.033 --> 00:23:47.602
- Is this person setting a good example-
- 00:23:47.602 --> 00:23:49.337
- - right. - in their word,
- 00:23:49.337 --> 00:23:51.405
- In their conduct?
- 00:23:51.405 --> 00:23:52.607
- - right. - and not everyone's perfect.
- 00:23:52.607 --> 00:23:55.209
- And that doesn't mean like your pastor has to be perfect.
- 00:23:55.209 --> 00:23:57.411
- Like you said, everyone has, you know, clay feet,
- 00:23:57.411 --> 00:24:00.281
- Everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time.
- 00:24:00.281 --> 00:24:02.483
- - right. - but overall, you know,
- 00:24:02.483 --> 00:24:03.885
- Is this person setting a good example?
- 00:24:03.885 --> 00:24:05.920
- You know, jesus said this about knowing prophets,
- 00:24:05.920 --> 00:24:08.556
- You know, "you'll know them by their fruit."
- 00:24:08.556 --> 00:24:10.424
- - right. - so sometimes it takes
- 00:24:10.424 --> 00:24:11.792
- A period of time to get to know people as well.
- 00:24:11.792 --> 00:24:13.594
- - right, sometimes you don't really know them.
- 00:24:13.594 --> 00:24:15.463
- They say one thing and do another.
- 00:24:15.463 --> 00:24:17.198
- Here's another area i think is so important.
- 00:24:17.198 --> 00:24:19.400
- And you were talking to this individual
- 00:24:19.400 --> 00:24:21.502
- That called you about possibly being on the worship team.
- 00:24:21.502 --> 00:24:24.438
- But our finances.
- 00:24:24.438 --> 00:24:26.574
- - [aaron] mm-hmm.
- 00:24:26.574 --> 00:24:27.842
- - you know, when we went to kit carson,
- 00:24:27.842 --> 00:24:30.645
- Ministers of the gospel,
- 00:24:31.145 --> 00:24:33.080
- At least they used to have a very bad reputation
- 00:24:33.080 --> 00:24:36.017
- In the area of finances.
- 00:24:36.017 --> 00:24:38.452
- And i know one of my mentors there,
- 00:24:38.452 --> 00:24:40.922
- That became my mentor, was friends with the banker
- 00:24:40.922 --> 00:24:43.424
- Of eastern colorado bank.
- 00:24:43.424 --> 00:24:45.126
- And that banker told him, he said,
- 00:24:45.126 --> 00:24:46.460
- "hey, you know, there's three types of people
- 00:24:46.460 --> 00:24:48.930
- I don't like to loan money to.
- 00:24:48.930 --> 00:24:50.498
- Number one on the list is preachers.
- 00:24:50.498 --> 00:24:52.833
- Number two is teachers, like school teachers.
- 00:24:52.833 --> 00:24:55.202
- Number three is police officers,"
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- 'cause they're lower paid, you know, professions.
- 00:24:57.171 --> 00:24:59.907
- And if they ever get behind,
- 00:24:59.907 --> 00:25:01.242
- It's hard for 'em to get ahead.
- 00:25:01.242 --> 00:25:03.144
- Well, i could borrow money and i can borrow millions
- 00:25:03.144 --> 00:25:05.580
- And millions of dollars,
- 00:25:05.580 --> 00:25:07.048
- And it's because i have a track record,
- 00:25:07.048 --> 00:25:09.216
- And we pay our bills.
- 00:25:09.216 --> 00:25:10.418
- But, you know, there's different ways
- 00:25:10.418 --> 00:25:12.453
- That our life can testify to people around us.
- 00:25:12.453 --> 00:25:16.290
- But our conduct in certain areas needs to testify of jesus.
- 00:25:16.290 --> 00:25:21.462
- And so we need to testify of jesus not only in our words,
- 00:25:22.597 --> 00:25:25.933
- But also in our actions,
- 00:25:25.933 --> 00:25:27.168
- Because just like you said, aaron,
- 00:25:27.168 --> 00:25:28.769
- Faith without works is dead being alone.
- 00:25:28.769 --> 00:25:31.973
- - mm-hmm, that's really good.
- 00:25:31.973 --> 00:25:33.874
- Yeah, i hope you're enjoying this message.
- 00:25:33.874 --> 00:25:35.876
- You know, we've been talking about jesus influencers,
- 00:25:35.876 --> 00:25:38.012
- How we're to have an impact, make a difference for jesus,
- 00:25:38.012 --> 00:25:41.415
- And really our life should be speaking to other people.
- 00:25:41.415 --> 00:25:43.684
- We're gonna continue this throughout the week,
- 00:25:43.684 --> 00:25:46.053
- Talking about how to be a jesus influencer.
- 00:25:46.053 --> 00:25:48.489
- You know, we're kinda sharing right now on specific things
- 00:25:48.489 --> 00:25:51.225
- We need to, you know, be a leader in.
- 00:25:51.225 --> 00:25:54.295
- But we're gonna talk more about how to grow in those things.
- 00:25:54.295 --> 00:25:57.531
- You know, these are pretty important things.
- 00:25:57.531 --> 00:25:58.666
- And, but right here in the scripture,
- 00:25:58.666 --> 00:26:00.635
- Paul actually tells you how you can keep growing,
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- How you can stay on track, how you can grow
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- In your influence of other people.
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