Lawson Perdue - Jesus Influencers (Part 1)

May 26, 2025 | S

Pastor Lawson Perdue from the Charis Christian Center outreach speaks to viewers across the globe about the practical message of Jesus Christ

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Grace for Today with Lawson Perdue | Lawson Perdue - Jesus Influencers (Part 1) | May 26, 2025
  • (light uplifting music)
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  • - welcome friends of the broadcast.
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  • I'm so glad that you've tuned in today.
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  • We're beginning a brand new series today,
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  • On being a influencer for the lord jesus christ.
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  • And whether you realize it or not,
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  • If you're a believer,
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  • Your life is speaking to other people around you.
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  • Some of them, you may understand that and know that.
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  • Others you may not.
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  • But stay tuned.
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  • I believe you're gonna be blessed.
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  • (light uplifting music)
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  • (light uplifting music fades)
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  • Friends, it's so good to have you with us today.
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  • I'm so happy to have aaron, sharing the word of god.
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  • We're actually gonna be sharing
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  • One of his teachings this week,
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  • And we're talking about being an influence
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  • For jesus christ.
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  • And aaron and his wife heather
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  • Took over our youth department.
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  • As we're speaking today, it was about a year ago.
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  • It's doubled since they took it over,
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  • But this is a teaching they did in the youth,
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  • But i felt like it was really great teaching
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  • For all believers,
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  • And so i asked aaron if he would share it.
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  • And so we're gonna jump into the word today.
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  • - awesome, well, i just want to just encourage
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  • Each and every one of you watching right now
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  • That you do have an influence,
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  • That jesus has strategically placed you
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  • Around certain people,
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  • Maybe in your neighborhood,
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  • Maybe in your own family, at work,
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  • Where you can really have an influence on them
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  • And minister to them and point people to jesus.
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  • You know, sometimes we think of people of influence,
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  • We think of people that have, you know,
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  • Maybe they have a big ministry on television
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  • Or a big following.
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  • But actually you have more of an influence
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  • On a lotta people than even those people do-
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  • - yeah. - you know,
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  • Because they know you personally.
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  • They get to see the gospel- - right.
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  • - lived out in your life.
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  • And so it's really important
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  • To realize the influence that we have.
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  • You know, i preach this, like you said, to the youth,
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  • And you know, a lotta these students
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  • Who are just teenagers,
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  • They have a big influence over their own parents even-
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  • - right. - you know, like where
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  • We're gonna eat, what clothes, you know,
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  • Are cool for your parents to wear or not to wear.
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  • (lawson laughs)
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  • So even, you know, god can give you influence
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  • No matter who you are.
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  • No matter how old or young you are,
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  • No matter how wealthy or not wealthy you are,
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  • You have influence and god wants you
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  • To make a difference, so.
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  • - you know, there's a scripture in 1 peter 4:10.
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  • It says, "as every person has received the gift,
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  • So let them minister one to another
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  • As good stewards of the many-sided grace of god."
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  • - [aaron] mm-hmm.
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  • - and when you look at that,
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  • It's talking about every believer has received the gift,
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  • The gift of salvation.
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  • And we need to be sharing jesus with the world around us,
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  • Whether we're a school teacher, a doctor, attorney,
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  • You know, a farmer, what, banker, whatever we are,
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  • We need to share jesus with those around us.
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  • And you know, there are people that will hear you
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  • That might not ever come to a church
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  • Or might not watch a christian broadcast.
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  • - mm-hmm, that's true.
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  • So i wanna dive into the word here.
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  • And you know, god really wants us to be looked up to.
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  • You know, his children, his sons, his daughters,
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  • He wants you to be a person
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  • That other people around you look up to,
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  • Not look down on.
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  • - [lawson] right.
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  • - and, you know, we should have a good testimony.
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  • There's a lotta scriptures that talk about that,
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  • That our lives should be a testimony even to nonbelievers,
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  • That they shouldn't be able to accuse you of anything.
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  • - right. - because you're really
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  • Living the gospel.
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  • So i'm gonna read from 1 timothy 4:12-14.
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  • And paul is writing to timothy
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  • On how to be a good minister,
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  • A good leader, a good pastor.
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  • But this applies to anyone
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  • In whatever you're called to do.
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  • It might be to be a mother, a grandmother,
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  • You know, working at a store.
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  • Whatever you're called to do, you know,
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  • We're called to be a leader
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  • And have influence in that area.
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  • So here, paul writes him, "let no one despise your youth."
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  • So timothy was a younger person,
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  • And paul's saying, "hey, timothy,
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  • Don't let people look down on you because of your age."
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  • - right. - and a lotta people
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  • Like to make excuses why they're not stepping out
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  • And making a difference.
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  • You know, it might be, "well, i'm too young,"
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  • Or it could be, "i'm too old,"
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  • Or, you know, "i'm not wealthy enough,"
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  • Or, "i'm not smart enough."
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  • - [lawson] mm-hmm.
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  • - but whatever that excuse is,
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  • That's not god placing that excuse in your mind
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  • For why you shouldn't step out and make a difference.
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  • So don't let people despise
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  • Whatever you think it is that's-
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  • - right. - wrong about you.
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  • - you know, it's not in someone else's opinion of you
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  • That really makes a difference.
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  • It's in god's opinion of you.
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  • And i tell people often,
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  • Don't take anyone's opinion of you
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  • Except for god's or christ.
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  • Yeah, it's okay to, you know,
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  • I mean, people, we want to be loved.
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  • We want to be accepted by other people,
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  • But sometimes people have the wrong perceptive,
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  • And many times, even really well-meaning people
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  • And good people can have a perception
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  • That may be incorrect.
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  • - [aaron] mm-hmm.
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  • - and so-
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  • - don't let that stop you.
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  • - right, lester sumrall said this years ago.
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  • "your happiness, a bad place for you
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  • To have your happiness, is in another person's head."
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  • You don't, it doesn't matter what they say.
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  • What matters is what god says,
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  • So keep your eyes on god.
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  • Keep your eyes on christ.
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  • Keep your eyes on the word of god
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  • And what god says about you, ultimately.
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  • - he says, "don't let anyone despise you
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  • Because of your youth, but be an example."
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  • You know, that's a great word for all of us.
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  • We need to be an example,
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  • And he talks about how we're to be an example
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  • To the believers "in word, in conduct, in love,
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  • In spirit, in faith, in purity."
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  • And those are really great things to really delve into
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  • And just talk about how we're to live out the gospel,
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  • How we're to have an influence in a, you know,
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  • And paul has several things,
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  • And in the next couple verses he talks about
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  • How to really grow in those things.
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  • - right. - so we'll talk about that
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  • In verse 13,
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  • But i wanna explain each of these, you know,
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  • What it means to be an example in word.
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  • You know, your words are powerful.
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  • - right, you know, jesus said this in matthew 12:37.
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  • He said, "by your words, you're justified,
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  • And by your words, you're condemned."
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  • And he also said prior to that, in matthew 12:34,
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  • "out of the abundance of the heart,
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  • The mouth speaks."
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  • - so, mark says that, you know, it's not the things
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  • That are going into the mouth that defile us,
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  • But the things that are coming out of the mouth.
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  • - mm-hmm. - because the things
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  • That come out of our mouth
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  • Really come out of our heart or where,
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  • What we've been thinking or meditating on.
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  • And so, you know, you need to, you know,
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  • Meditate the word of god and speak.
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  • There's actually power in life,
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  • In speaking the word of god.
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  • - yeah, proverbs 18:21 says,
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  • "death and life are in the power of the tongue.
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  • And those who love it will eat its fruit."
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  • So that's talking about, you know,
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  • The words that you have can build people up,
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  • Can tear people down,
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  • Can bring life, or bring death.
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  • And even though you might be looking at a situation
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  • Where there's a lotta death,
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  • Where there's not a lotta hope,
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  • You can actually speak life,
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  • You can speak the word of god, you can speak faith.
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  • You know, god spoke those things
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  • "that be not as though they were."
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  • - [lawson] right.
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  • - it says that in romans about abraham,
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  • And that's how god is.
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  • You know, he would speak things.
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  • - "he calls those such things
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  • That be not as though they are."
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  • - so you don't just have to look on the surface.
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  • You know, we know that there's a natural realm,
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  • But there's also a spiritual realm,
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  • And you can see things beyond the natural.
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  • - [lawson] right.
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  • - you can see that there's truth
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  • Beyond just what you're seeing with your natural eyes.
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  • You know, some people actually can't even see
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  • With their natural eyes.
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  • - right. (laughs) - you know, recently,
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  • You know, and even believers have a hard time
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  • Just seeing with their natural eyes.
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  • - [lawson] right.
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  • - you know, a couple weeks ago, someone,
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  • I heard someone mention like,
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  • "oh, this church doesn't have hardly any young people."
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  • Then just the following sunday, i looked up on stage,
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  • And of the nine people on stage,
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  • Eight of them were under 30 years old.
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  • - yeah. (laughs) - it's like, this person
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  • Doesn't even have eyes to see with,
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  • In the natural.
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  • - eight outta nine.
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  • So, these are people- - actively involved-
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  • - involved in leadership roles,
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  • And, you know, doing awesome things.
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  • So, you know, you have to,
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  • You have to see, at least see the natural.
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  • - you can't just listen to everybody around there.
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  • You know, people will say things,
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  • But a lotta times, a lotta things people say
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  • Don't even really have any validity.
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  • - and i have this to say too about that.
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  • You know, god wants multi-generational churches.
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  • He wants a multi-generational kingdom.
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  • And maybe, you know, you're a young person
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  • Watching this right now.
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  • It might be good for you to be at a church
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  • Where there's some people with gray hair.
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  • You might learn something.
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  • (lawson laughs)
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  • The bible actually says, you know,
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  • "the older men are to teach the younger men,
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  • And the older women are teach the younger women."
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  • So that, that means you need to have
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  • Older people and younger people.
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  • - right, aaron, when i first got baptized
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  • In the holy spirit,
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  • I was 14 years old.
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  • It was andrew wommack's bible study in lamar, colorado.
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  • And it was actually held for a period of time
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  • In my aunt's apartment.
  • 00:09:03.118 --> 00:09:04.586
  • But, you know, a lotta people didn't know andrew then,
  • 00:09:04.586 --> 00:09:06.955
  • But it really changed my life.
  • 00:09:06.955 --> 00:09:08.323
  • But andrew left a couple years after we got started
  • 00:09:08.323 --> 00:09:11.093
  • In that bible study,
  • 00:09:11.093 --> 00:09:12.361
  • And moved up here to colorado springs,
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  • And we ended up going to a, you know,
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  • Word of faith full gospel, you know, church,
  • 00:09:18.066 --> 00:09:21.336
  • And had a great pastor.
  • 00:09:21.336 --> 00:09:23.171
  • But i got some friends in that church,
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  • But my friends were about 10 years older than i was.
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  • - [aaron] mm-hmm.
  • 00:09:28.710 --> 00:09:30.012
  • - and it was really good for me to connect
  • 00:09:30.012 --> 00:09:31.513
  • With some older people in that church that, you know,
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  • Really had faith and were living out their faith.
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  • And it helped me as i walked with the lord.
  • 00:09:37.185 --> 00:09:39.755
  • And i know you kinda had that happen, same thing,
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  • When you went to pittsburgh, pennsylvania
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  • To go to carnegie mellon university.
  • 00:09:44.159 --> 00:09:46.194
  • You got involved in a church.
  • 00:09:46.194 --> 00:09:47.529
  • It wasn't a big church, but it was the church
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  • Where god had you get involved.
  • 00:09:49.331 --> 00:09:52.100
  • And there were older people in that church
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  • That began to kinda take care of you.
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  • And you built relationships.
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  • - [aaron] mm-hmm.
  • 00:09:57.205 --> 00:09:58.407
  • - many of them you still have today.
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  • - yeah, and i wouldn't be where i am today
  • 00:09:59.708 --> 00:10:01.176
  • Without having those relationships at that, you know,
  • 00:10:01.176 --> 00:10:03.712
  • Important time in my life.
  • 00:10:03.712 --> 00:10:05.447
  • - yeah, so it's so important.
  • 00:10:05.447 --> 00:10:07.049
  • But he says we need to be example of believers
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  • And starting with the words we speak.
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  • - [aaron] mm-hmm.
  • 00:10:12.721 --> 00:10:14.122
  • - you know, my mom had this saying when we lived
  • 00:10:14.122 --> 00:10:15.724
  • As a child in our trailer house, above the kitchen sink,
  • 00:10:15.724 --> 00:10:18.360
  • But it said, "be careful of the words you speak.
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  • Keep them short and sweet.
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  • You never know from day to day,
  • 00:10:22.030 --> 00:10:23.965
  • Which ones you'll have to eat."
  • 00:10:23.965 --> 00:10:25.467
  • - mm-hmm. - and we need
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  • To guard our tongue.
  • 00:10:26.334 --> 00:10:27.836
  • The bible says, "set a watch over our mouth," you know,
  • 00:10:27.836 --> 00:10:31.740
  • And jesus, like we said before, he said,
  • 00:10:31.740 --> 00:10:34.109
  • "by our words we're justified.
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  • By our words, we're condemned,"
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  • So we need to be an example.
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  • And one way we live out the gospel
  • 00:10:39.981 --> 00:10:43.085
  • Is through believing and speaking god's word,
  • 00:10:43.085 --> 00:10:45.353
  • And guarding the words.
  • 00:10:45.353 --> 00:10:47.022
  • Are the words we're speaking bringing life?
  • 00:10:47.022 --> 00:10:49.825
  • Are they bringing health?
  • 00:10:49.825 --> 00:10:51.359
  • Are they bringing blessing?
  • 00:10:51.359 --> 00:10:53.028
  • Are we speaking words of death, of disease, and cursing?
  • 00:10:53.028 --> 00:10:57.466
  • We need to guard our tongue.
  • 00:10:57.466 --> 00:10:59.134
  • - mm-hmm, and people notice you.
  • 00:10:59.134 --> 00:11:01.903
  • They'll know you by the words you speak.
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  • - right.
  • 00:11:04.372 --> 00:11:05.774
  • - you know, that's how you'll have a reputation,
  • 00:11:05.774 --> 00:11:07.609
  • A positive reputation or a negative reputation.
  • 00:11:07.609 --> 00:11:10.645
  • - right. - you know, years back,
  • 00:11:10.645 --> 00:11:12.247
  • I went to school for classical music.
  • 00:11:12.247 --> 00:11:14.082
  • I have a doctorate in classical music.
  • 00:11:14.082 --> 00:11:16.852
  • And while i was getting my doctorate,
  • 00:11:16.852 --> 00:11:19.287
  • I played the flute,
  • 00:11:19.755 --> 00:11:21.089
  • And several of the flute students
  • 00:11:21.089 --> 00:11:23.592
  • Were complaining to our professor about a girl
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  • That played violin in the orchestra,
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  • Because this girl, you know, she was,
  • 00:11:28.764 --> 00:11:31.066
  • She had some problems.
  • 00:11:31.066 --> 00:11:32.934
  • The thing that bothered them
  • 00:11:32.934 --> 00:11:34.202
  • Was that she didn't dress appropriately.
  • 00:11:34.202 --> 00:11:35.837
  • She wasn't wearing very much clothes, and it bothered,
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  • Especially the girls that played flute
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  • And sat right, you know, next to her.
  • 00:11:40.542 --> 00:11:42.644
  • And my flute professor said, "you know what?
  • 00:11:42.644 --> 00:11:44.579
  • That violin player, she needs to talk to aaron."
  • 00:11:44.579 --> 00:11:48.083
  • And i thought that was really interesting that, you know,
  • 00:11:48.083 --> 00:11:49.684
  • And this professor wasn't a believer.
  • 00:11:49.684 --> 00:11:52.154
  • Some of these students weren't a believer,
  • 00:11:52.154 --> 00:11:53.688
  • But she knew me, that the words i speak could help people.
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  • - [lawson] right.
  • 00:11:58.093 --> 00:11:59.461
  • - and, you know, years later when i told her
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  • I was actually gonna have a career shift, you know,
  • 00:12:00.862 --> 00:12:03.331
  • And leave the classical music pursuit,
  • 00:12:03.331 --> 00:12:06.301
  • And go into ministry, she was actually very for it.
  • 00:12:06.301 --> 00:12:08.603
  • She said, "you know what?
  • 00:12:08.603 --> 00:12:09.571
  • You always help a lotta people
  • 00:12:09.571 --> 00:12:10.872
  • And you're gonna, you know, help"-
  • 00:12:10.872 --> 00:12:12.474
  • - right.
  • 00:12:12.474 --> 00:12:13.642
  • - "help a lotta people tremendously."
  • 00:12:13.642 --> 00:12:14.810
  • And but people can see the,
  • 00:12:14.810 --> 00:12:17.145
  • They know you by the words you speak.
  • 00:12:17.145 --> 00:12:18.980
  • And in a tough situation- - yeah.
  • 00:12:18.980 --> 00:12:20.515
  • - they're gonna have people that speak the right things
  • 00:12:20.515 --> 00:12:22.684
  • And can really help people, and not-
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  • - amen. - tear people down
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  • And make things worse.
  • 00:12:25.187 --> 00:12:26.521
  • - yeah, our words are powerful.
  • 00:12:26.521 --> 00:12:27.923
  • So, we're gonna take a short break in a few seconds,
  • 00:12:27.923 --> 00:12:30.926
  • And i want you to feel welcome to call in.
  • 00:12:30.926 --> 00:12:32.894
  • We have trained prayer ministers that are here today
  • 00:12:32.894 --> 00:12:35.664
  • That can take your calls and pray for you, minister to you.
  • 00:12:35.664 --> 00:12:39.434
  • Also, if you wanna become a partner, you could call in.
  • 00:12:39.434 --> 00:12:42.838
  • But we're gonna be back right after this short break
  • 00:12:42.838 --> 00:12:45.273
  • And we're gonna continue to share
  • 00:12:45.273 --> 00:12:47.342
  • On different aspects,
  • 00:12:47.342 --> 00:12:48.777
  • How we can be good examples to other believers.
  • 00:12:48.777 --> 00:12:53.281
  • So stay tuned.
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  • We'll be right back after this.
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  • - the church is the best thing
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  • That has ever happened to the world.
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  • I'm so thankful for the church.
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  • I am so thankful for the global body of believers.
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  • I'm so thankful for local church bodies like this.
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  • I love the local church
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  • Because jesus loves the local church.
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  • This is the thing that is holding our country together.
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  • 00:13:50.438 --> 00:13:54.376
  • - friends, i'm so glad that you stayed with us
  • 00:13:54.376 --> 00:13:55.911
  • And we're talking about how we can be
  • 00:13:55.911 --> 00:13:58.647
  • An example of believers.
  • 00:13:58.647 --> 00:14:01.016
  • In the first half of the broadcast,
  • 00:14:01.016 --> 00:14:03.518
  • We're sharing from 1 timothy 4:12,
  • 00:14:03.518 --> 00:14:06.588
  • We talked about being an example of believers
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  • In the words that we speak.
  • 00:14:11.126 --> 00:14:13.061
  • - [aaron] mm-hmm.
  • 00:14:13.061 --> 00:14:13.895
  • - now we wanna move on.
  • 00:14:13.895 --> 00:14:15.497
  • And it talks about not only being an example of believers
  • 00:14:15.497 --> 00:14:19.000
  • In 1 timothy 4:12, in word,
  • 00:14:19.000 --> 00:14:21.736
  • But also in your behavior, or in your lifestyle.
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  • And the word used here in the king james is conversation.
  • 00:14:26.441 --> 00:14:30.312
  • And that word conversation is an old english word,
  • 00:14:30.312 --> 00:14:33.315
  • And it's talking about citizenship or lifestyle.
  • 00:14:33.315 --> 00:14:36.318
  • Citizens of a certain country behave in a certain way,
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  • Because of the culture.
  • 00:14:39.988 --> 00:14:41.389
  • - mm-hmm. - well, we're citizens
  • 00:14:41.389 --> 00:14:42.657
  • Of heaven on loan to the earth from god.
  • 00:14:42.657 --> 00:14:44.693
  • And we ought to have,
  • 00:14:44.693 --> 00:14:46.361
  • Bring the culture of heaven to earth.
  • 00:14:46.361 --> 00:14:48.863
  • And we begin to think about it.
  • 00:14:48.863 --> 00:14:50.966
  • We need to begin to live differently
  • 00:14:50.966 --> 00:14:53.134
  • So people can see jesus really living through us.
  • 00:14:53.134 --> 00:14:57.305
  • You know, years ago they said,
  • 00:14:57.305 --> 00:14:58.940
  • The only jesus some people may see
  • 00:14:58.940 --> 00:15:01.076
  • Is the jesus that's living in you and living in me,
  • 00:15:01.076 --> 00:15:04.579
  • So we need to be examples.
  • 00:15:04.579 --> 00:15:06.147
  • - yeah, and your conduct has an impact on people.
  • 00:15:06.147 --> 00:15:09.517
  • Your behavior, the-
  • 00:15:09.517 --> 00:15:10.618
  • - right. - just how you do things.
  • 00:15:10.618 --> 00:15:12.120
  • You know, you have to put action to your faith.
  • 00:15:12.120 --> 00:15:14.089
  • - right. (laughs) - you know, there's a quote
  • 00:15:14.089 --> 00:15:16.858
  • That's really powerful, but it says,
  • 00:15:16.858 --> 00:15:18.059
  • "preach the gospel at all times,
  • 00:15:18.059 --> 00:15:20.528
  • And if necessary use words."
  • 00:15:20.528 --> 00:15:22.430
  • - yeah. (laughs) - so your actions
  • 00:15:22.430 --> 00:15:24.099
  • Really speak loudly.
  • 00:15:24.099 --> 00:15:25.633
  • And you know, i've taught people this principle before,
  • 00:15:25.633 --> 00:15:29.137
  • But you know, if you're leading people,
  • 00:15:29.137 --> 00:15:31.639
  • If you're influencing people, they're gonna, you know,
  • 00:15:31.639 --> 00:15:34.042
  • The people that are around you
  • 00:15:34.042 --> 00:15:35.276
  • Are gonna kinda copy what you're doing.
  • 00:15:35.276 --> 00:15:37.312
  • They're gonna do
  • 00:15:37.312 --> 00:15:38.279
  • What you're doing. - right.
  • 00:15:38.279 --> 00:15:39.681
  • - so i can tell if someone's being a good leader
  • 00:15:39.681 --> 00:15:41.049
  • By who's around them, who's following them.
  • 00:15:41.049 --> 00:15:43.585
  • And if those people following 'em
  • 00:15:43.585 --> 00:15:45.120
  • Are kinda detached and not going in the right direction,
  • 00:15:45.120 --> 00:15:47.689
  • I know that the leader.
  • 00:15:47.689 --> 00:15:49.624
  • You know, and if it's just a single person,
  • 00:15:49.624 --> 00:15:51.426
  • It might just be one in,
  • 00:15:51.426 --> 00:15:52.927
  • But if everyone around them is detaching,
  • 00:15:52.927 --> 00:15:56.031
  • Is going in the wrong direction,
  • 00:15:56.031 --> 00:15:57.999
  • I know that the leader is probably the captain of that ship.
  • 00:15:57.999 --> 00:16:01.302
  • - right. (laughs) - so it's pretty easy
  • 00:16:01.302 --> 00:16:04.172
  • To figure out.
  • 00:16:04.172 --> 00:16:05.974
  • And, you know, as ministers, as pastors especially,
  • 00:16:05.974 --> 00:16:08.543
  • You know, that we have a big impact
  • 00:16:08.543 --> 00:16:10.245
  • And, you know, people are gonna kinda do what you do.
  • 00:16:10.245 --> 00:16:14.382
  • You know, this church, i was actually talking
  • 00:16:14.382 --> 00:16:16.317
  • To someone who's interested in coming here,
  • 00:16:16.317 --> 00:16:19.254
  • A very, very talented person.
  • 00:16:19.254 --> 00:16:22.257
  • He is a talented musician.
  • 00:16:22.257 --> 00:16:23.525
  • That's why he reached out to the church.
  • 00:16:23.525 --> 00:16:24.526
  • He plays guitar, but he also,
  • 00:16:24.526 --> 00:16:26.561
  • He's a multimillionaire, a real estate-
  • 00:16:26.561 --> 00:16:28.496
  • - that's awesome. - lawyer, and i was
  • 00:16:28.496 --> 00:16:31.466
  • Just telling him about this church,
  • 00:16:31.466 --> 00:16:33.068
  • But i, you know, 'cause i've been a part of it
  • 00:16:33.068 --> 00:16:35.470
  • For a long time, since we started,
  • 00:16:35.470 --> 00:16:36.771
  • But i've been on staff for nine years now.
  • 00:16:36.771 --> 00:16:37.739
  • But i told him, you know,
  • 00:16:37.739 --> 00:16:39.207
  • "i think you'll actually really like it here," and-
  • 00:16:39.207 --> 00:16:41.643
  • - i think he will too. - and i think, yeah,
  • 00:16:41.643 --> 00:16:43.311
  • And you know why, but i told him, you know,
  • 00:16:43.311 --> 00:16:44.646
  • "the things that i've observed here,
  • 00:16:44.646 --> 00:16:46.714
  • That people really grow and people really flow,
  • 00:16:46.714 --> 00:16:49.350
  • And people, and it's coming from the top,"
  • 00:16:49.350 --> 00:16:52.387
  • You know- - right.
  • 00:16:52.387 --> 00:16:53.488
  • - from the leader in his conduct.
  • 00:16:53.488 --> 00:16:54.456
  • You know, people really flow.
  • 00:16:54.456 --> 00:16:55.390
  • There's a strong anointing
  • 00:16:55.390 --> 00:16:57.425
  • For entrepreneurship, for finances.
  • 00:16:57.425 --> 00:16:59.527
  • - right. - and also a strong anointing
  • 00:16:59.527 --> 00:17:01.830
  • And flow for strong families.
  • 00:17:01.830 --> 00:17:04.666
  • - yes.
  • 00:17:04.666 --> 00:17:05.867
  • - those things are very strong here.
  • 00:17:05.867 --> 00:17:07.235
  • And there's other areas where people can grow
  • 00:17:07.235 --> 00:17:09.704
  • And be ministered to as well.
  • 00:17:09.704 --> 00:17:11.072
  • But, you know, those things flow from the top.
  • 00:17:11.072 --> 00:17:13.608
  • - amen. - and you don't always
  • 00:17:13.608 --> 00:17:15.143
  • Just preach all the time about, you know, starting business
  • 00:17:15.143 --> 00:17:18.680
  • And preach all the time about how to parent.
  • 00:17:18.680 --> 00:17:21.082
  • But it's just your conduct.
  • 00:17:21.082 --> 00:17:22.984
  • - right, well you can- - and you live it out.
  • 00:17:22.984 --> 00:17:24.686
  • - you can see it in our life.
  • 00:17:24.686 --> 00:17:26.387
  • - [aaron] mm-hmm.
  • 00:17:26.387 --> 00:17:27.689
  • - you know, years ago when we moved here,
  • 00:17:27.689 --> 00:17:29.924
  • Brother bierman was one of my mentors.
  • 00:17:29.924 --> 00:17:32.427
  • And brother bierman had pioneered at least two churches
  • 00:17:32.427 --> 00:17:35.563
  • In the state of colorado.
  • 00:17:35.563 --> 00:17:37.165
  • And he had pioneered this church in burlington, colorado.
  • 00:17:37.165 --> 00:17:39.834
  • He had been there about close to 20 years
  • 00:17:39.834 --> 00:17:42.470
  • When we moved to kit carson.
  • 00:17:42.470 --> 00:17:44.339
  • And he really had some influence in my life.
  • 00:17:44.339 --> 00:17:46.741
  • But then he moved into full-time missionary work,
  • 00:17:46.741 --> 00:17:50.645
  • Traveled all around the world and ministered,
  • 00:17:50.645 --> 00:17:52.981
  • And actually sent forth a lot of young ministers,
  • 00:17:52.981 --> 00:17:56.718
  • In the gospel, and,
  • 00:17:56.718 --> 00:17:58.920
  • Brother bill bierman, his wife ginger,
  • 00:17:58.920 --> 00:18:01.189
  • And they had five children of their own.
  • 00:18:01.189 --> 00:18:02.957
  • All five of their children are in ministry.
  • 00:18:02.957 --> 00:18:04.993
  • All five of their children are great leaders
  • 00:18:04.993 --> 00:18:06.728
  • In the body of christ.
  • 00:18:06.728 --> 00:18:08.630
  • And you know, but she gave us a word
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  • When we moved to colorado springs
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  • That you three boys, you and your two brothers,
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  • Were gonna be witnesses,
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  • And your lives would speak to people.
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  • - [aaron] mm-hmm.
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  • - and that's proven out to be true.
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  • And that was already happening prior to us coming here,
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  • But it actually grew when we came here.
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  • And i remember one time we moved here
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  • And we were part of a school district
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  • In the southwest part of the town,
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  • One of the top school districts in the state at that time.
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  • But some of the administrators were talking to me
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  • Within a fairly short time
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  • After we moved to colorado springs,
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  • Within a year, a year-and-a-half.
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  • And they were saying,
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  • "well, we talked to the administrators at kit carson,
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  • And they praised your kids."
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  • And we see that happening.
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  • And, you know, our life speaks to people.
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  • You know, even the other day i was in the gym
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  • And there's a guy, and he,
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  • He's often different than me politically
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  • Or what we think about the scripture.
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  • And he may or may not be a believer,
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  • But he was talking to me about some things
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  • That he didn't believe, that i believe.
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  • And so i gave him a couple of, you know,
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  • Testimonies about some of these things
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  • That have happened in our ministry, so on and so,
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  • He said, "well, you know,
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  • I don't really believe in this, but i believe in you.
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  • I know you." - he knows your,
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  • You have integrity.
  • 00:19:19.834 --> 00:19:21.202
  • - because my life speaks to him, right, every day,
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  • And i'm respectful of him.
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  • And even though he might have been
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  • On a different page about these things, you know, he said,
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  • "well, i believe you, i know you."
  • 00:19:31.913 --> 00:19:34.349
  • - and when people know your conduct,
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  • When they know your conversation, just how you are,
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  • How you behave, how you live your life,
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  • They're gonna be more receptive to receive your word.
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  • - [lawson] right.
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  • - through, you know, this all flows together.
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  • That's why paul puts 'em all together,
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  • All these things of how we're to be an example to believers,
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  • But even non-believers too.
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  • - [lawson] right.
  • 00:19:53.568 --> 00:19:54.836
  • - and, you know, he talks about conduct,
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  • And these things, you might feel like,
  • 00:19:56.471 --> 00:19:57.772
  • "well, i made a lotta mistakes."
  • 00:19:58.406 --> 00:20:00.541
  • And when people see the shift in your conduct,
  • 00:20:00.541 --> 00:20:02.877
  • When they see the shift in your life,
  • 00:20:02.877 --> 00:20:04.379
  • That speaks volumes to people as well.
  • 00:20:04.379 --> 00:20:07.048
  • You know, one of my favorite books of the bible is james,
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  • 'cause it's very black and white, very pointed.
  • 00:20:10.051 --> 00:20:11.919
  • You know, james said, "faith without works
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  • Or faith without action," without-
  • 00:20:13.521 --> 00:20:15.356
  • - corresponding action.
  • 00:20:15.356 --> 00:20:16.991
  • - that conduct is dead.
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  • And he uses two examples
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  • Of faith and action working together.
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  • He uses abraham as an example, but also rahab.
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  • - yeah, so abraham's this person
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  • Of 50 years of faith in god,
  • 00:20:26.901 --> 00:20:29.037
  • Lives a tremendous, you know, lifestyle.
  • 00:20:29.037 --> 00:20:31.172
  • And sure, abraham makes some mistakes-
  • 00:20:31.172 --> 00:20:32.840
  • - mm-hmm. - right, because he's
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  • A human person.
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  • You know, all men of god,
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  • All people of god have clay feet, right?
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  • If you know someone well enough, you're gonna know
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  • That we don't hit 100% all the time.
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  • So those are very evident in scripture,
  • 00:20:46.087 --> 00:20:48.656
  • But then he uses rahab.
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  • Well, rahab is a harlot.
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  • And it says, by faith, the rahab harlot,
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  • The harlot rahab, you know, you can find faith,
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  • Anybody can believe god.
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  • God doesn't care where you came from.
  • 00:21:00.134 --> 00:21:01.569
  • Where you're going is a lot more important
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  • Than where you came from.
  • 00:21:04.439 --> 00:21:05.873
  • But if you'll believe him, your life can change.
  • 00:21:05.873 --> 00:21:08.376
  • - mm-hmm, and you know, the next thing he talks about
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  • Of being an example too
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  • Where people should look up to you is in love.
  • 00:21:12.413 --> 00:21:14.882
  • - yeah. - and this is
  • 00:21:14.882 --> 00:21:16.084
  • Really powerful too, and, and very-
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  • - i think we should continue
  • 00:21:17.719 --> 00:21:18.920
  • To talk about our behavior
  • 00:21:18.920 --> 00:21:20.254
  • For a little bit. - oh yeah, yeah.
  • 00:21:20.254 --> 00:21:21.656
  • - but you know, our lifestyle really, you know,
  • 00:21:21.656 --> 00:21:24.158
  • When we went to kit carson,
  • 00:21:24.158 --> 00:21:26.127
  • Kit carson's a town of 300,
  • 00:21:26.127 --> 00:21:28.296
  • And we pastored there.
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  • You were just a little boy,
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  • And we raised you and your brothers there.
  • 00:21:31.199 --> 00:21:33.167
  • We pastored there for 13 years, pioneered a church.
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  • And in that town,
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  • There were three traditional churches, right,
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  • And then we started a full gospel,
  • 00:21:39.807 --> 00:21:42.377
  • You know, charismatic church,
  • 00:21:42.377 --> 00:21:45.146
  • And people, mom said, when we went there,
  • 00:21:45.146 --> 00:21:47.782
  • They would almost walk
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  • On the other side of the street, to get away from us.
  • 00:21:49.217 --> 00:21:52.153
  • But after a period of time, we had people
  • 00:21:52.153 --> 00:21:55.156
  • Who were from the other churches
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  • Who really looked up to us.
  • 00:21:57.125 --> 00:21:58.359
  • And they would come to us
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  • For counsel in different things.
  • 00:21:59.927 --> 00:22:01.462
  • And people began to love us and accept us.
  • 00:22:01.462 --> 00:22:05.199
  • And even though they went to different churches,
  • 00:22:05.199 --> 00:22:06.834
  • The mayor went to a different church.
  • 00:22:06.834 --> 00:22:08.369
  • But i remember when we made a decision
  • 00:22:08.369 --> 00:22:10.304
  • To move here to colorado springs,
  • 00:22:10.304 --> 00:22:11.706
  • And felt like god had called us to come here,
  • 00:22:11.706 --> 00:22:13.975
  • The mayor called us and said,
  • 00:22:13.975 --> 00:22:14.942
  • "well, what are we gonna do
  • 00:22:14.942 --> 00:22:16.310
  • Without your children in our school?
  • 00:22:16.310 --> 00:22:17.812
  • Your family is such a great family."
  • 00:22:17.812 --> 00:22:19.981
  • I know the head coach at the school,
  • 00:22:19.981 --> 00:22:23.151
  • And he coached football, he coached, you know,
  • 00:22:23.151 --> 00:22:25.787
  • In basketball, he worked with, you know,
  • 00:22:25.787 --> 00:22:28.890
  • All the sports really,
  • 00:22:28.890 --> 00:22:30.458
  • And he was a very strong leader in the community.
  • 00:22:30.458 --> 00:22:32.627
  • He called me and said, you know,
  • 00:22:32.627 --> 00:22:34.295
  • "why are you leaving?
  • 00:22:34.295 --> 00:22:35.229
  • We don't want you to leave."
  • 00:22:35.229 --> 00:22:36.564
  • And he went to a different church, you know,
  • 00:22:36.564 --> 00:22:38.032
  • But i'm like, well, you know, "jesus told us to go."
  • 00:22:38.032 --> 00:22:41.302
  • And he's like, "well, jesus is telling me
  • 00:22:41.302 --> 00:22:43.438
  • You're supposed to stay."
  • 00:22:43.438 --> 00:22:44.872
  • Well, our life should really
  • 00:22:44.872 --> 00:22:46.741
  • Speak to other people around us,
  • 00:22:47.375 --> 00:22:50.711
  • Of the faith that we have in god.
  • 00:22:50.711 --> 00:22:52.847
  • And people should be able to see that.
  • 00:22:52.847 --> 00:22:55.249
  • And you know, especially like in kit carson,
  • 00:22:55.249 --> 00:22:58.319
  • I know one thing about that community,
  • 00:22:58.319 --> 00:23:00.655
  • Everybody kinda kept each other, you know, in check.
  • 00:23:00.655 --> 00:23:04.959
  • Sometimes we live in a bigger city
  • 00:23:04.959 --> 00:23:06.561
  • And people think, "well, nobody sees, nobody cares,
  • 00:23:06.561 --> 00:23:09.230
  • Nobody's ever gonna know.
  • 00:23:09.230 --> 00:23:10.498
  • I'm never gonna see that person again."
  • 00:23:10.498 --> 00:23:12.333
  • I remember one time we were visiting a church here,
  • 00:23:12.333 --> 00:23:16.137
  • And i was, another minister was taking me somewhere
  • 00:23:16.137 --> 00:23:18.506
  • To get something for me.
  • 00:23:18.506 --> 00:23:19.574
  • And we were at this church
  • 00:23:19.574 --> 00:23:21.275
  • And he sped out of the parking lot
  • 00:23:21.275 --> 00:23:23.177
  • And i didn't know where he was going,
  • 00:23:23.177 --> 00:23:24.312
  • So i was kinda trying to keep up.
  • 00:23:24.312 --> 00:23:25.880
  • But he really made some people mad
  • 00:23:25.880 --> 00:23:27.548
  • At this church parking lot.
  • 00:23:27.548 --> 00:23:29.083
  • And i mentioned it to him when we got to his house.
  • 00:23:29.083 --> 00:23:31.452
  • And he said, "well, we'll never see him again."
  • 00:23:31.452 --> 00:23:34.388
  • And that's just not the way that we want
  • 00:23:34.388 --> 00:23:37.558
  • To conduct our lives. - and i have this
  • 00:23:37.558 --> 00:23:38.526
  • To say as well.
  • 00:23:38.526 --> 00:23:39.760
  • You know, paul is writing to timothy-
  • 00:23:39.760 --> 00:23:41.095
  • - right. - who's a pastor,
  • 00:23:41.095 --> 00:23:42.396
  • And he's telling him how to be a leader.
  • 00:23:42.396 --> 00:23:43.764
  • - right. - so this is something
  • 00:23:43.764 --> 00:23:46.033
  • You should look for in a pastor as well.
  • 00:23:46.033 --> 00:23:47.602
  • Is this person setting a good example-
  • 00:23:47.602 --> 00:23:49.337
  • - right. - in their word,
  • 00:23:49.337 --> 00:23:51.405
  • In their conduct?
  • 00:23:51.405 --> 00:23:52.607
  • - right. - and not everyone's perfect.
  • 00:23:52.607 --> 00:23:55.209
  • And that doesn't mean like your pastor has to be perfect.
  • 00:23:55.209 --> 00:23:57.411
  • Like you said, everyone has, you know, clay feet,
  • 00:23:57.411 --> 00:24:00.281
  • Everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time.
  • 00:24:00.281 --> 00:24:02.483
  • - right. - but overall, you know,
  • 00:24:02.483 --> 00:24:03.885
  • Is this person setting a good example?
  • 00:24:03.885 --> 00:24:05.920
  • You know, jesus said this about knowing prophets,
  • 00:24:05.920 --> 00:24:08.556
  • You know, "you'll know them by their fruit."
  • 00:24:08.556 --> 00:24:10.424
  • - right. - so sometimes it takes
  • 00:24:10.424 --> 00:24:11.792
  • A period of time to get to know people as well.
  • 00:24:11.792 --> 00:24:13.594
  • - right, sometimes you don't really know them.
  • 00:24:13.594 --> 00:24:15.463
  • They say one thing and do another.
  • 00:24:15.463 --> 00:24:17.198
  • Here's another area i think is so important.
  • 00:24:17.198 --> 00:24:19.400
  • And you were talking to this individual
  • 00:24:19.400 --> 00:24:21.502
  • That called you about possibly being on the worship team.
  • 00:24:21.502 --> 00:24:24.438
  • But our finances.
  • 00:24:24.438 --> 00:24:26.574
  • - [aaron] mm-hmm.
  • 00:24:26.574 --> 00:24:27.842
  • - you know, when we went to kit carson,
  • 00:24:27.842 --> 00:24:30.645
  • Ministers of the gospel,
  • 00:24:31.145 --> 00:24:33.080
  • At least they used to have a very bad reputation
  • 00:24:33.080 --> 00:24:36.017
  • In the area of finances.
  • 00:24:36.017 --> 00:24:38.452
  • And i know one of my mentors there,
  • 00:24:38.452 --> 00:24:40.922
  • That became my mentor, was friends with the banker
  • 00:24:40.922 --> 00:24:43.424
  • Of eastern colorado bank.
  • 00:24:43.424 --> 00:24:45.126
  • And that banker told him, he said,
  • 00:24:45.126 --> 00:24:46.460
  • "hey, you know, there's three types of people
  • 00:24:46.460 --> 00:24:48.930
  • I don't like to loan money to.
  • 00:24:48.930 --> 00:24:50.498
  • Number one on the list is preachers.
  • 00:24:50.498 --> 00:24:52.833
  • Number two is teachers, like school teachers.
  • 00:24:52.833 --> 00:24:55.202
  • Number three is police officers,"
  • 00:24:55.202 --> 00:24:57.171
  • 'cause they're lower paid, you know, professions.
  • 00:24:57.171 --> 00:24:59.907
  • And if they ever get behind,
  • 00:24:59.907 --> 00:25:01.242
  • It's hard for 'em to get ahead.
  • 00:25:01.242 --> 00:25:03.144
  • Well, i could borrow money and i can borrow millions
  • 00:25:03.144 --> 00:25:05.580
  • And millions of dollars,
  • 00:25:05.580 --> 00:25:07.048
  • And it's because i have a track record,
  • 00:25:07.048 --> 00:25:09.216
  • And we pay our bills.
  • 00:25:09.216 --> 00:25:10.418
  • But, you know, there's different ways
  • 00:25:10.418 --> 00:25:12.453
  • That our life can testify to people around us.
  • 00:25:12.453 --> 00:25:16.290
  • But our conduct in certain areas needs to testify of jesus.
  • 00:25:16.290 --> 00:25:21.462
  • And so we need to testify of jesus not only in our words,
  • 00:25:22.597 --> 00:25:25.933
  • But also in our actions,
  • 00:25:25.933 --> 00:25:27.168
  • Because just like you said, aaron,
  • 00:25:27.168 --> 00:25:28.769
  • Faith without works is dead being alone.
  • 00:25:28.769 --> 00:25:31.973
  • - mm-hmm, that's really good.
  • 00:25:31.973 --> 00:25:33.874
  • Yeah, i hope you're enjoying this message.
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  • You know, we've been talking about jesus influencers,
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  • How we're to have an impact, make a difference for jesus,
  • 00:25:38.012 --> 00:25:41.415
  • And really our life should be speaking to other people.
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  • We're gonna continue this throughout the week,
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  • Talking about how to be a jesus influencer.
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  • You know, we're kinda sharing right now on specific things
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  • We need to, you know, be a leader in.
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  • But we're gonna talk more about how to grow in those things.
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  • You know, these are pretty important things.
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  • And, but right here in the scripture,
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  • How you can stay on track, how you can grow
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  • Or have a question, please call us at 719-418-4000.
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  • Or to partner online,
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  • Go to charischristiancenter.com/give.
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  • You can write us at p.o. box 63733,
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  • Colorado springs, colorado, 80962.
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  • See you next time on "grace for today."
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