Lawson Perdue - Jesus Influencers (Part 2)

May 27, 2025 | S

Pastor Lawson Perdue from the Charis Christian Center outreach speaks to viewers across the globe about the practical message of Jesus Christ

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Grace for Today with Lawson Perdue | Lawson Perdue - Jesus Influencers (Part 2) | May 27, 2025
  • (cheerful music)
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  • - praise the lord, friend, and welcome to the broadcast.
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  • I'm so glad that you've tuned in.
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  • We're talking about being an influence
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  • For the lord jesus christ.
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  • And listen, we're gonna talk about two things
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  • In this broadcast that you don't want to miss.
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  • I believe both of these things
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  • Show your maturity as a believer,
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  • And they both lead to blessing in your life as a believer.
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  • We're gonna talk about the love walk,
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  • And we're gonna talk about keeping a godly attitude.
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  • Friend, it's so good to have you here today,
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  • And i'm glad to have aaron.
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  • We're talking about being an example of believers,
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  • Being an influence for jesus.
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  • - amen.
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  • And all of us as believers have an impact on people,
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  • Have a big influence on certain people.
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  • - right.
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  • - you know, sometimes you think,
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  • You know, i'm not making that big of a difference.
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  • I don't have that big of a, you know, influence, you know,
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  • Maybe compared to other people who might be on television
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  • Or have a large crowd.
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  • But you're impacting people
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  • Where god has placed you in a big way.
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  • You have more of an impact over people
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  • That personally know you than maybe someone with,
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  • You know, a larger type influence.
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  • But you're impacting people
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  • Because they know you personally.
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  • - [lawson] amen.
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  • - and, you know, paul writes to timothy
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  • On how to make an impact.
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  • You know, timothy was a young pastor,
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  • And paul wanted to set him up to make a difference
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  • Where he was called to be.
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  • - amen. - and, you know,
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  • Timothy's kind of a neat person in scripture.
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  • You know, he was a gentile, but paul really raised him up
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  • To make a big difference in the kingdom
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  • And to really actually shift what people thought
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  • In the church at the time,
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  • Whereas all leaders had to be jewish or of jewish descent.
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  • But paul said, no, these people, god's using them too.
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  • He's doing something here.
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  • And so he was teaching timothy how to do it.
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  • So here in 1 timothy 4:12, he says,
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  • "let no one despise your youth."
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  • So timothy, you know, that might've been his excuse
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  • For not making a big difference.
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  • Well, i'm a young person, you know,
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  • And you might have an excuse too,
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  • Sometimes the enemy wants to place certain thoughts
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  • In your mind.
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  • Well, i can't make a difference
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  • Because i'm not smart enough.
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  • I'm not wealthy enough.
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  • I'm, you know, not around enough people.
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  • But don't let that hold you back from doing
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  • What god's called you to be
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  • From really shining your light big for jesus.
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  • So he says, don't let anyone despise you
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  • Because of whatever you think might be holding you back.
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  • If you're too old or too young.
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  • But he says, be an example to the believers in word.
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  • We talked about that yesterday,
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  • How the words you speak are so powerful.
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  • There is death, there's life in the words you speak.
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  • So you need to be example in the words you speak.
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  • Also in your conduct, your conversation, your behavior.
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  • Just how you act overall.
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  • What's the-
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  • - your lifestyle.
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  • - your lifestyle, just you living your life.
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  • - you know, the bible says, faith without works is dead.
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  • Being alone.
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  • And paul said, you might say you have faith,
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  • But he said, you know, tell me your faith by your words
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  • But i'm gonna show you my faith by how i live.
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  • And, you know, our lives speak to other people,
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  • Our faith speaks,
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  • And many times our faith speaks through our actions.
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  • But he goes on and says,
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  • "not only in word or in lifestyle, in behavior,
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  • But also in charity,"
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  • Which is talking about the god kind of love.
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  • - yeah, and the original greek word there is agape.
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  • - amen. - so we are to live out agape.
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  • We're to have that flow through us.
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  • So that means it's not just your own emotion,
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  • Your own just feelings, but it's god's love flowing in you
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  • And through you, that's gonna speak to people.
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  • - you know, god's love really is a mark
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  • Of christian maturity.
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  • You know, you talk about being a disciple.
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  • One thing that a disciple did
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  • Was they had to be a doer of the word, but a disciple,
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  • Jesus said, by this will all men know
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  • That you're my disciples because you love one another.
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  • And in colossians 3:14, the bible says, "put on charity,"
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  • Or the god kind of love this same thing,
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  • Which is the bond of maturity or perfectness.
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  • You know, you can't tell how mature someone is
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  • By how well they operate in the gifts of the holy spirit.
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  • But you can tell how mature they are,
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  • By how well they walk in love
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  • And through the fruit of the spirit operating.
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  • And love is really the first fruit
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  • Of the holy spirit in galatians 5:22, when it says,
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  • "the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace,
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  • Long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
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  • Meekness and temperance."
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  • That's in galatians 5:22 and 23.
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  • There's nine fruit of the spirit,
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  • But all of the other eight fruit of the holy spirit
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  • Flow from the supernatural fruit of the love of god.
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  • Joy flows from love, peace flows from love,
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  • Faith flows from love.
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  • All these different things flow from the love of god.
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  • - and you really have to have a revelation
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  • Of how much god loves you, you know?
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  • A lot of people don't quite have that.
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  • They think god's upset at them,
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  • Or god causes these terrible things to happen.
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  • But that's a misrepresentation of god.
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  • You know, god is love,
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  • And a lot of people don't really understand what that means
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  • Or who god really is.
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  • - amen, you know, years ago i had a man come to me
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  • For prayer in a bible study.
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  • And this was in about 1988
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  • When we had just started the church in kit carson.
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  • And he said, "i want you to pray for me for healing."
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  • I said, "well, i'll pray with you if you'll believe
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  • That you're gonna be healed."
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  • And he said, "well, i just don't know
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  • Whether it's god's will, you know,
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  • And maybe god put this on me to teach me something."
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  • And i said, "listen, you're being crazy."
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  • And he had like three beautiful daughters at that time.
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  • And i said, "would you put sickness on your daughter
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  • To teach her something?
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  • Would you take a vial of aids and shoot it into her body?"
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  • "no, i'd never do that."
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  • And i said, "well then how can you accuse god
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  • Of putting sickness on you?"
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  • There's a lot of crazy stuff
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  • That's been passed off in the name of religion.
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  • And you know, this causes people really
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  • To turn away from god.
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  • - well, and this is a tactic of the enemy,
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  • Of the devil, really,
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  • And it's been a tactic since the garden of eden,
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  • Is to twist people's perception of who really god is,
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  • To twist their understanding, their knowledge of who god is.
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  • You know, adam and eve knew who god was.
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  • They walked with him, they talked with him.
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  • They lived in perfect abundance.
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  • Perfect, you know, just union with god.
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  • And yet the serpent came and deceived eve
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  • And then deceived adam, like, you know,
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  • Well, what do you lack?
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  • You know, the serpent like.
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  • And he said, well, we can have anything.
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  • We have all of this abundance,
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  • But this one thing we're not to touch,
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  • We're not to touch, you know, the tree of the knowledge,
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  • The tree with the fruit of the knowledge of good and evil.
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  • And the enemy said, well, god doesn't want you to do that
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  • Because then you'll be like him.
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  • And they were already like god.
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  • They were, you know, friends with god.
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  • They were close with god.
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  • They knew that they were created in his image.
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  • They didn't lack, but yet the enemy, you know,
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  • Said god's holding out.
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  • - right. that's what he still wants to do.
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  • - yeah, and he's still doing that today
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  • And he tries to twist, you know, who god really is.
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  • God really isn't love.
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  • - right. - you know, god is lack.
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  • But that's not who god is, god's not a god of lack.
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  • He's el shaddai, he's more than enough.
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  • - and he loves us and because he loves us,
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  • He wants the best for us.
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  • And, you know, but what does love look like?
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  • You know, i have that, what does the love of god look like?
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  • Because, you know, there are different greek words
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  • For love, right?
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  • There's this agape, the god kind of love,
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  • The highest kind of love.
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  • And then there's phileo friendship,
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  • Philadelphia, the city of brotherly love,
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  • You know, you're good to me, i'm good to you.
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  • And then there's storge, there's affection,
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  • Like for your family.
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  • They say blood's thicker and water.
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  • And then there's eros or physical love, sexual love,
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  • Like reserved for the marriage in a biblical sense.
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  • But, you know, what does the love of god look like?
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  • And we look at 1 corinthians 13,
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  • And it explains the love of god, and it says,
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  • Charity or the god kind of love, agape,
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  • Suffers long and is kind.
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  • In other words, you can be under, you know,
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  • Pressure from things, but still be kind.
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  • And it says, charity does not envy.
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  • You know, i know a lot of people in the body,
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  • People get jealous.
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  • And a lot of times we think that's only in the world,
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  • But i'd see it in the church a lot of times.
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  • And love does not puff itself up,
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  • It doesn't vaunt itself up.
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  • You know, it's not all about you.
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  • And he says, it's not puffed up, it does not behave rudely.
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  • Love is not rude. love doesn't seek its own way.
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  • Doesn't have to have, you know, my way or the highway.
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  • A lot of people kind of have that mentality.
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  • And it says, no love doesn't seek its own.
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  • It's not easily provoked.
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  • You know, if you're really operating the love of god,
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  • You know, you can provoke somebody
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  • That's operating in the love of god.
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  • There were a couple of times jesus got provoked.
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  • There were a couple times paul got provoked, you know,
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  • Like with this woman that was possessed by devils
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  • That was telling everybody, you know,
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  • Reading their palms, so on and so forth.
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  • And finally, after a period of time,
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  • After a long time, he cast the devil out of her.
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  • Then they got mad at him and threw him in jail
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  • Because the masters, you know, lost the hope of their game.
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  • But at the same point in time, jesus, i mean, took a whip
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  • And drove some money changers out of the temple
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  • Because their heart was wrong.
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  • But jesus as a whole didn't go around doing that.
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  • But anyway, he says, love is not easily provoked.
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  • It thinks no evil.
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  • Love always thinks the best of every person.
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  • This is what we call the love test.
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  • It says, it does not rejoice in iniquity
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  • Or sin or rebellion, but rejoices in the truth.
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  • I love the amplified of this in 1 corinthians 13,
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  • Love bears all things, believes all things,
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  • Hopes all things, endures all things.
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  • The love of god will hold up under anything.
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  • So get established in the love of god.
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  • Love always, you know, believes the best of every person.
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  • It hopes the best for every person.
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  • Love will endure everything. love never fails.
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  • Thank god, when you operate in the love of god,
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  • It's an enduring element.
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  • And so if you're a mature believer,
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  • You can tell how mature someone is,
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  • Not by how much they prophesy,
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  • Not by how much they operate in the gift of faith
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  • Or the working of miracles,
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  • But how well they walk the love life.
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  • - i have this to say about, you know, agape love
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  • And explaining it to people.
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  • You know, when my wife and i were explaining this
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  • To the youth, to the students there,
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  • There's a difference between god's kind of love
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  • And really the way the world operates.
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  • And god's love is very unconditional.
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  • You know, and the greatest ex expression of that
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  • Is that he sent jesus to die on the cross for us.
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  • He didn't deserve that, but he took our place and did that.
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  • And the bible talks a lot about how that same kind of love
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  • Is to to flow through us.
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  • You know, husbands are to love their wives
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  • Like jesus loved the church.
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  • That's unconditionally, that's sacrificially.
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  • And, you know, 1 corinthians 13 talks about love,
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  • You know, believing the best,
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  • Hoping the best in other people.
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  • And that's really the direct opposite
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  • Of looking for the worst in people.
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  • - yes. (chuckles) - for being critical.
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  • And something i've kind of realized in the church
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  • Is sometimes people in the church can be very critical
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  • Of other believers, you know, of people outside the church.
  • 00:11:49.651 --> 00:11:52.754
  • But even within the church,
  • 00:11:52.754 --> 00:11:53.789
  • They can be very critical people.
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  • - [lawson] right. i have to guard my own heart.
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  • - and we need to be looking for the best in other people
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  • And believing for the best in people.
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  • And, you know, not just giving people what they deserve,
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  • But going beyond that.
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  • You know, even people close to you,
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  • Even your spouse, even people in your family,
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  • Maybe your children, grandchildren,
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  • To really exemplify agape love,
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  • You're gonna have to go beyond what people deserve.
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  • - right.
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  • No, god didn't what give us what we deserve.
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  • If god gave us what we deserve,
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  • We'd all split hell wide open.
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  • You know, because there's no, we have all sinned.
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  • We have all come short of the glory of god.
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  • But god sent jesus to die for us while we were yet sinners.
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  • The scripture said christ died for us.
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  • And really, god and jesus are our greatest examples of love.
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  • And through the holy spirit in us we can walk in love.
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  • We're gonna be back in a short break,
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  • - you know what, when god tells you to do something,
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  • You need to do it.
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  • And you don't need to worry
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  • About every tom, dick and harry over here,
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  • And what they're gonna say,
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  • How they're gonna try to manipulate you or treat you.
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  • You just keep on plugging on
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  • And you keep doing what god told you to do,
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  • And he will work them out.
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  • You have to let god be god,
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  • And you have to do what he tells you to do.
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  • - friends, i'm so glad you stayed with us.
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  • We're gonna continue to share on being an example
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  • Of believers, being a jesus influencer.
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  • Praise god, we wanna be a good influence on people's life.
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  • We want our lives to reflect jesus to people.
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  • - and, you know, paul is writing to timothy,
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  • This is from 1 timothy 4:12,
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  • How to be an example to other people.
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  • And really, we want people to look up to us,
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  • Not look down on us and despise us.
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  • We should be people that, you know,
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  • People can look up to you.
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  • So we talked about how to be an example in word,
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  • In conduct, and love.
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  • We're gonna talk about in spirit now, that next thing.
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  • And to me, to be an example in spirit
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  • That's really talking about your overall attitude,
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  • - right.
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  • - your overall outlook on life.
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  • You know, just your general, are you consistent with that?
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  • You know, some people are just very negative people
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  • And, you know, they always think
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  • It's just whatever situation they're in,
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  • But it doesn't matter, you know,
  • 00:14:51.633 --> 00:14:53.601
  • Where they're at, what church they're in,
  • 00:14:53.601 --> 00:14:55.704
  • What job they're in, what relationships they're in.
  • 00:14:55.704 --> 00:14:59.541
  • Some people, they're not a very good example in spirit.
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  • And in spirit, that means like whatever situation,
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  • Whatever circumstance, whatever's around you,
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  • You're gonna shine in that area.
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  • - i'm a private pilot and i haven't flown for years,
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  • But when i was younger, i got my pilot's license.
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  • I had a plane for a while.
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  • But they say something in flying,
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  • And that's your attitude determines your altitude.
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  • So you put the nose up on a plane, right?
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  • It's gonna go up, you put the nose down, it's gonna go down.
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  • And it's kind of like that with believers.
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  • And if you wanna go up, if you wanna move forward,
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  • You need to keep a smile on your face
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  • And keep moving forward in life.
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  • Praise god, and this word spirit, like you said it,
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  • That's not talking about your, where christ lives,
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  • Your regenerated spirit,
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  • But that's talking about your attitude.
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  • And we need to keep the proper attitude.
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  • I love this verse, aaron,
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  • And this may be the wrong one to use.
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  • I don't know what all verses that you have,
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  • But ephesians 4:22,
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  • And this is talking about this thing called conduct.
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  • And right in the middle of it, in verse 24,
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  • Or verse 22 to 24,
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  • And what he's talking about is don't walk, don't live,
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  • Don't be like other gentiles in the futility
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  • And the emptiness of your mind.
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  • He says that in 17.
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  • But he goes on in verse 17, in ephesians 4:22, and says,
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  • Put off concerning the former lifestyle,
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  • This conversation, conduct that we were talking about.
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  • The old man, which is corrupt, according to deceitful lies.
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  • You know, you can't just trust your feelings or your body,
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  • You know, your five senses.
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  • He says this, "and be renewed in the spirit of your mind."
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  • That word spirit, again, is talking about the same thing
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  • That paul's talking about in 1 timothy 4.
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  • And he's like, you gotta, you know,
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  • Change your focus in life, in the spirit of your mind,
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  • In your general attitude about life.
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  • When you renew your mind in the word of god,
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  • And you begin to see who god really is
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  • And what god says about you
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  • And what god says about the world,
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  • You can't help but, you know, get a better attitude.
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  • And he says, be renewed in the spirit of your mind,
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  • And that you put on the new man.
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  • It's impossible for you to really put on jesus
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  • If you don't renew your mind with what the word of god says.
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  • And he says, "which is in the likeness of god,
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  • Created in righteousness and true holiness."
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  • And so we gotta guard our attitude.
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  • Or we're not gonna be demonstrating jesus to the world.
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  • And it's important that we demonstrate jesus,
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  • That we've lived that gospel.
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  • - this is something that you really
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  • Were very keen on with me and my brothers growing up,
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  • Was our attitude.
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  • And, you know, me and both my younger brothers
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  • Were all leaders, you know, leaders in what we're doing
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  • For a living, we're all leaders with our families,
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  • We're all leaders in our community.
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  • But i think one of the main things
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  • You really parented us on was our attitude, you know?
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  • And you have to have a good attitude
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  • No matter what you're doing.
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  • If you're doing chores or if you're going to church,
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  • Or if you're at school or whatever sport you're playing,
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  • Whatever, you have to have a good attitude across the board.
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  • It has to be consistent. - amen.
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  • My dad would tell me, you know, you better cheer up,
  • 00:18:10.365 --> 00:18:14.335
  • You better get happy,
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  • Or i'll give you something to get happy about.
  • 00:18:15.703 --> 00:18:17.605
  • - so that's something i'm fairly sensitive to as a father
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  • And as a, you know, youth pastor
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  • And, you know, pastor over the worship ministry,
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  • I'm pretty sensitive to attitudes.
  • 00:18:26.915 --> 00:18:29.250
  • Because a bad attitude is very contagious,
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  • And if it's isolated that's one thing,
  • 00:18:32.153 --> 00:18:34.722
  • But if it's spreading, it's another thing.
  • 00:18:34.722 --> 00:18:37.258
  • You know, and i was actually reading through leviticus
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  • About the laws of leprosy,
  • 00:18:39.394 --> 00:18:41.563
  • And god spoke to me about the laws of leprosy, you know?
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  • If there was someone with an open wound,
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  • They were to go to the priest,
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  • And the priest would examine it,
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  • And there would be a period of time
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  • Where that person went back home.
  • 00:18:52.807 --> 00:18:54.676
  • And then after a period of time they came back
  • 00:18:54.676 --> 00:18:56.778
  • And if it was getting worse,
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  • Then they'd be put outside the camp.
  • 00:18:58.646 --> 00:19:00.982
  • But if it didn't get worse,
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  • If it stayed the same or got better,
  • 00:19:02.617 --> 00:19:04.485
  • You know, they kept taking note of it.
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  • So, i take note of people's attitudes,
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  • And if it's getting worse
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  • And if it's spreading to other people,
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  • It's okay to put some distance between different people,
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  • And that's part of being a leader.
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  • You know, you can raise people up more
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  • That have the right attitudes,
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  • But if people consistently have a bad attitude
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  • And it's getting worse and worse and it's spreading,
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  • You know, you need to take note.
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  • Especially as a pastor, as a priest.
  • 00:19:29.944 --> 00:19:33.948
  • But there also, there is a grace period,
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  • 'cause people do go through things.
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  • They need to figure things out
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  • And sometimes that takes a period of time.
  • 00:19:38.853 --> 00:19:40.888
  • And some people, you know, they might have a bad attitude,
  • 00:19:40.888 --> 00:19:45.026
  • But they're able to repent of it,
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  • To turn around, to kind of figure things out.
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  • And you can kind of bring them, keep bringing them up,
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  • Keep giving them more influence.
  • 00:19:53.768 --> 00:19:56.537
  • But if things are getting worse,
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  • You have to take note.
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  • You can't just let that thing spread.
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  • - no, no, you can't.
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  • And, you know, we have a world that just wants to ignore
  • 00:20:02.977 --> 00:20:05.647
  • And leprosy's kind of sin, right, it's a type of sin.
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  • It's very contagious, it's deadly, so on and so forth.
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  • But you can't just let it run rampant or it'll destroy you.
  • 00:20:16.190 --> 00:20:19.027
  • And a bad attitude will destroy you.
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  • And, you know, you and your brothers
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  • Are all very blessed in life.
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  • You're all prosperous, you have good families,
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  • Healthy families, healthy children,
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  • You're all connected in a local church.
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  • But there's a few things that have led to that.
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  • You know, one is, you know,
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  • Y'all have a good attitude that we're talking about.
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  • Y'all have a good work ethic.
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  • You're all givers, right?
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  • All of these different things are leading to wellbeing.
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  • - and if you have a bad attitude,
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  • It's actually gonna impact those things too.
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  • If you have a bad attitude at work,
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  • You're gonna do less work.
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  • If you have a bad attitude at church,
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  • You're gonna stop giving.
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  • If you have a bad attitude in your marriage,
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  • You're gonna stop giving.
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  • You're gonna become more selfish.
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  • So really, that spirit of a person, that attitude,
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  • That overall outlook of a person, it's huge.
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  • - right. - it's monumental.
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  • And, you know, a teaching i've done recently
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  • On the parable of talents is really related to this,
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  • About the, you know, the master who went away
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  • And he left five talents with one servant,
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  • Two talents, and then one talent with the last.
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  • And the first two, you know,
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  • Doubled what they had been given.
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  • And the master said, well done,
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  • Good and faithful servant entering the joy of the lord.
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  • But the last ones, you know, he-
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  • - he went and buried his talent.
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  • - he went and buried it, you know,
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  • And god's showing that person
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  • Who just buried what had been given to him,
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  • It's like someone having a victim mentality.
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  • - [lawson] right?
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  • - that mentality, it's your spirit, your attitude,
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  • Your overall outlook on life,
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  • And this person kind of said why they did that.
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  • And they said, you know, they were very pessimistic,
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  • They were blaming the master,
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  • They had the wrong picture of the master,
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  • And they were afraid.
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  • And, man, we really have to check our attitude
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  • On a daily basis. - right.
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  • And you're talking about how, you know,
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  • This works in the family.
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  • I know how it works in the church.
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  • I know it worked, you know, you and your brothers.
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  • One reason i believe that you're all blessed
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  • And you're all doing well financially and in different areas
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  • Is because you have a good attitude.
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  • But, you know, we taught you that, right?
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  • As children, you gotta keep the right attitude
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  • If you want to go where god wants you to go
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  • And do what god wants you to do.
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  • In this 2 corinthians 6,
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  • Paul is talking about not being unequally yolked
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  • With unbelievers.
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  • Right?
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  • But you can be unequally yoked in different areas.
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  • And he says, "what fellowship has righteousness
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  • With unrighteousness," this is 2 corinthians 6:14,
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  • And what communion,
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  • What common union has light with darkness
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  • Or christ with the devil
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  • Or he that believes with the infidel?
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  • But he goes on and says,
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  • What agreement has the temple of god with idols,
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  • For you're the temple of the living god.
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  • As god said, i will live in you and dwell in you,
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  • Walk in you, i'll be your god, and you'll be my people.
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  • Wherefore, he says, come out from among them,
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  • We can't have the same attitude as the world
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  • And think that we're gonna get different results
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  • Than the world.
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  • And so he says, come out, be separate.
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  • Don't touch the unclean thing, i will receive you,
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  • Be a father unto you, and you'll be my sons and daughters,
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  • Says the lord almighty.
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  • And that's verse 18, the very last verse of chapter six.
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  • But in chapter seven, he says this,
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  • "having therefore these promises, dearly beloved,
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  • Let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness
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  • Of the flesh and spirit."
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  • That word spirit is not talking about
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  • Your recreated, born again spirit.
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  • It's talking about your attitude.
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  • You know, if you get a bad attitude,
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  • It's gonna lead to bad things happening in your flesh
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  • And in your life.
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  • He says, perfecting holiness in the fear of god,
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  • You know, in a right relationship with god.
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  • So this attitude is really important
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  • If we're gonna live out the christ life.
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  • This attitude is really important
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  • If we're gonna lead other people to christ.
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  • This attitude is really important
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  • If we're gonna move up in life
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  • And go where god wants us to go
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  • And do what god wants us to do.
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  • And so, guard your heart.
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  • - a lot of this, really, one thing that that has helped me
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  • And realize what helps other people,
  • 00:24:33.614 --> 00:24:35.082
  • Just keeping a good attitude, is just trusting god.
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  • - yeah. - even when things go wrong,
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  • Even when you're mistreated,
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  • Maybe in an important relationship at work.
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  • Whatever, when you just trust god,
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  • Hey, god's gonna make things right.
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  • He's gonna take care of me.
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  • - you know, have faith in god.
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  • And what's a spirit of faith, right?
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  • The bible talks about we then having the same
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  • Spirit of faith.
  • 00:24:57.071 --> 00:24:58.339
  • - it's an attitude. - it's an attitude.
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  • Faith is a major attitude.
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  • And if you're trusting god,
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  • It's gonna be evident in your words.
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  • It's gonna be evident in your conduct.
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  • It's gonna be evident in your life.
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  • If you really have faith.
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  • You can't just walk around being sad all the time
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  • And depressed and looking at things negatively.
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  • You gotta begin to look-
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  • - that's awesome. - praise god.
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  • - you know, this is just part of a bigger teaching.
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  • So i just really encourage you to stay tuned
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  • For the rest of this teaching, because,
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  • You know, we're reading from 1 timothy 4:12
  • 00:25:24.432 --> 00:25:27.501
  • But when we get to some of the next verses,
  • 00:25:27.501 --> 00:25:29.170
  • It's really important. 'cause god actually here in scripture
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  • Tells you how to grow in these things, you know?
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  • All of us from time to time need a correction
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  • In some of these areas.
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  • We need a correction in our love walk.
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  • We need a correction in our attitude.
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