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Jim Scudder, Jr.: InGrace | Jim Scudder Jr. - God's Priceless Treasures (Part 2) | January 11, 2025
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- Jim scudder: ow!
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- Found the crab.
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- It got me good.
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- Ow!
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- Ah yeah, ah yeah.
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- Ow, how do they have such strong pincers?
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- Jim: i've always dreamed of finding treasure, and the place
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- That you would most likely find treasure is in florida.
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- But the older i get, the more i realize that god has already
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- Given us priceless treasure.
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- Welcome to this "ingrace" series as we take four families on
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- Adventures to four places in florida to search out the riches
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- From the bible about raising kids, "god's
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- Priceless treasures."
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- Jim: welcome to another exciting "ingrace" adventure in florida.
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- Last time we went on a quest of discovery with the brown family,
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- Exploring the beautiful forgotten coast of the
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- Florida panhandle.
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- We learned biblical parenting advice about kids and phones and
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- The balance of giving them freedom while still protecting
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- Them and teaching them along the way.
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- Today, we're going further down the gulf coast of florida at
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- Crystal river, one of my favorite places.
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- We're here with the ford family: adrian, julian, and alex and
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- Their grandpa, dr. randy ford.
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- Pastor ford was my late father's pastor and is helping raise
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- His grandsons.
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- A few months ago i went to dinner with this family, and i
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- Saw an impressive fish mounted on the wall, and thinking the
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- Boys would not know what this fish was, i told them that if
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- They could tell me what the fish was, i would take them fishing
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- For this fish.
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- Little did i know that right below the fish was a small sign
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- With its name clearly printed on it.
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- So come along with us as we try to catch some of these
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- Elusive tarpon.
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- Learn more about raising kids and explore god's
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- Incredible world.
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- Jim: are you excited about this? alex ford: yes.
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- Jim: you guys ready? let me see your tarpon muscles.
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- Oh boy, we're in trouble.
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- Adrian ford: i can't, i don't wanna show off.
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- Jim: yeah, hey, listen, god doesn't want you to show up.
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- Here's one principle, though.
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- You guys ready?
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- We're gonna be teaching you some bible principles today.
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- The bible talks about hard work and part of hard work is getting
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- Up early in the morning, okay?
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- So one day you guys are gonna have a job, you're gonna wake up
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- Early, you're gonna get there on time or early, and you're gonna
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- Work hard and then god-- you're gonna please god by doing that.
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- And you're gonna please your boss by doing that, and you're
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- Gonna please your future wives because you're gonna support
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- Them, right?
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- Protect them, support them?
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- Okay, so, and if you don't, i'm gonna come back and push you in
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- The water.
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- Jim: last week's guest family, the browns, featured on the
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- Youtube channel, "fishers with faith," rented our pontoon boat
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- For the day.
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- Hopefully, we can catch one of these mighty tarpon.
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- ♪♪♪
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- Jim: let's see what we got here.
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- He's swimming up to us.
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- It's a catfish.
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- Nice.
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- Okay, stop reeling, just lift him up out of the water.
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- Lift him up.
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- That's exactly what i thought we were gonna have.
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- Good job, dude.
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- Here, come here.
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- I want you to-- i want you to stand next to it and i don't
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- Want you to let it get you, okay?
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- Let's just get a picture.
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- Hey, okay, so it's not a tarpon, but we caught a fish.
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- Come on, man.
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- Alex: can we keep it? jim: come here, jj.
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- Adrian: he wants to eat it.
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- Jim: okay, tarpon number two, this is the catfish variety
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- Of tarpon.
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- Okay, ready?
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- Let's turn him around so-- there we go.
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- Okay, say "meow" on three.
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- One, two, three.
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- Jim and alex: meow.
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- Jim: all right, cool.
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- Alex: there's a catfish on its feet.
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- Jim: so here's a little update.
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- We are having activity.
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- Right now, it's just catfish, which are kind of considered,
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- You know, we don't really talk about it.
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- We caught catfish, but you can actually eat these.
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- These are topsail saltwater catfish.
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- They're pretty decent.
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- We're obviously out here for a tarpon, so we haven't found the
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- Tarpon yet, but they're-- tarpon are in the water, so we just
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- Gotta be patient.
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- That's part of the christian life, just patience, waiting.
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- So we're learning-- we're learning how to be good
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- Christians, right, guys?
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- Jim: like fishing, parenting requires a lot of patience.
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- We should always remember that our children aren't perfect.
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- They need our love and patience as we teach them new skills and
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- Lessons in life.
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- Jim: watch out.
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- He got you.
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- Male: yeah, here he comes.
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- Devil crab for dinner.
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- Jim: this is a blue crab.
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- Do you know why they call them blue crabs?
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- Julian ford: 'cause he has blue.
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- Jim: yeah, you see the blue right there?
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- And the only thing on here that can pinch you is his pincers.
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- So there's a certain way to hold him.
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- I just don't know how it is.
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- Julian: i'm not gonna hold him.
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- Jim: you know what i'm trying to say?
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- These are really, really good to eat.
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- You wanna keep him? julian: yeah.
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- Jim: okay, so we're gonna put him in the live well, okay?
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- ♪♪♪
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- Male: three, two, one, fight.
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- Jim: all right, so we caught that blue crab and we're gonna
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- Use him for bait if i can get him out, 'cause this thing's
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- Full of catfish.
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- Ow!
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- Found the crab.
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- It got me good.
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- Ow!
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- Ah yeah, ah yeah.
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- Ow, how do they have such strong pincers?
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- Oh, wow.
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- Male: oh my goodness.
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- Jim: this guy's nasty.
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- I guess he knows what we're about to do.
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- Male: knock out.
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- You win.
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- ♪♪♪
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- ♪♪♪
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- Jim: kids need a lot of encouragement.
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- Jim: after barely surviving the nasty crab and claiming the win
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- Because one of them ended up on my hook, we spoke again to
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- Michael and nicole brown about who we should let educate
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- Our kids.
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- Jim: how important is it that we make sure those that are
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- Educating our children are not teaching them perverse or
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- Ungodly humanistic things?
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- Michael brown: yeah, that's the thing.
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- They're trying to take god out of school, so i mean, it's a
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- Little by little, inch by inch, and there's just so far, and
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- Soon enough we won't even be saying a pledge, we won't even
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- Be-- the prayer.
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- I mean, i remember in school we had a minute of prayer every
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- Morning, quiet time, and you could do whatever, you know.
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- They did that at our school.
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- We said the pledge and then they said, "all right, moment
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- Of silence."
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- We did that every day.
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- That's unheard of today.
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- So i prayed and i said, "lord, where do you want 'em to go
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- To school?
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- Do you want 'em to go to public school, homeschool?
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- What do you want?"
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- And a few days later somebody approached us and said, "hey, we
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- Can get your kids into the christian school."
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- And we can't, we can't afford that, but it was just, just like
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- That, and that's a blessing.
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- And now they're in there.
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- Yeah, and i-- when i prayed about it, i was-- left it with
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- Him and that was-- that was it.
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- Jim: while not everyone can send their kids to a good christian
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- School, i do believe that it is vitally important to talk with
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- Your children and teach them the truths about the bible.
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- Alex reminded me that even the youngest of children can learn
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- The greatest biblical lessons.
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- Jim: tell me your name.
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- Alex: alex.
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- Jim: alex, how old are you?
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- Alex: ten.
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- Jim: all right, ten.
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- Is this your first time saltwater fishing?
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- Alex: yes.
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- Jim: okay, do you have any bible verses memorized?
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- Alex: john 3:16, that's it.
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- Jim: can you say that one?
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- Alex: "for god so loved the world, that he gave his only
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- Begotten son, whosoever believing in him should not
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- Perish, but have everlasting life."
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- Jim: that was awesome.
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- Now, can you explain what that verse means?
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- Alex: like, he gave his only begotten son to die on the cross
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- To save our sins, to get rid of our sins.
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- Jim: that's right.
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- And the bible verse says that if you believe, then you will
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- Not perish.
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- You will not go to hell, and have everlasting life.
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- So, have you done that?
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- Have you believed that jesus died for your sins?
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- Alex: yes.
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- Jim: yeah, isn't that wonderful?
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- Do you think everyone should believe that?
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- Alex: yes. jim: yeah, i do too.
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- Jim: another family that will feature in a later episode of
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- The series are the reyes.
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- Adam and lauren talked about putting their children in a
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- Godly environment where they can learn about their creator.
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- Adam reyes: we kind of made a decision not to have them in
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- Public school no matter what, no matter where we go in life,
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- Wherever we end up.
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- I know a lot of people have done homeschool and i know that's,
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- You know, a tough choice and-- but i would do anything i would
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- Need to do in order to keep them out of public school system.
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- I know there's a lot of great public school teachers, a lot of
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- Even christians that are doing that, but the way that the
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- School system is, the way that our environment and our
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- Political system too, and all the things that kind of play
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- Into that, there's just so many risks that are-- that are just
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- Unavoidable when you have a child in public school.
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- And some families can't avoid it and, of course, god shows mercy
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- There in those situations but, as for us, you know, we've
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- Decided not to have them in the public school system for
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- Those reasons.
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- Jim: what's your name?
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- Julian: my name is julian.
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- Jim: julian james... julian: ford.
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- Jim: i want to know what is, like, your favorite subject
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- In school?
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- Julian: it's bible, mainly.
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- Jim: for real, bible?
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- Tell me why.
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- Julian: because you can learn about god's-- well, as god
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- Has done for you and everything.
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- Jim: so without jesus, we would have no hope.
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- Julian: no hope.
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- We would go to hell.
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- Jim: yeah, and so, people that don't know jesus, they do stuff
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- Like what we're doing today, which is fun.
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- We enjoy it, you know, people are out kayaking and fishing
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- And, you know, all the stuff.
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- They go through all these activities, but that's all
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- They have.
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- So that means when they're done fishing for the day, they go
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- Back into, like, "why am i here?
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- What's the purpose of my life?"
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- But you have an advantage.
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- You have a family, you have a papa that taught you
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- About jesus.
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- And that makes all the difference, right?
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- Yeah.
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- Jim: adrian, what's your middle name?
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- Adrian: guadalupe.
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- Jim: guadalupe, that's awesome.
- 00:12:11.309 --> 00:12:12.877
- So we've been out here fishing.
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- Have you enjoyed the day so far?
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- Adrian: yeah.
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- Jim: yeah?
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- What do you like about this?
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- Adrian: catching the big ones.
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- Jim: yeah?
- 00:12:22.654 --> 00:12:23.988
- You're really into catching the big fish, right?
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- Do you also like just kind of being out on the water and the
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- Sunshine and the breeze?
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- Adrian: yeah.
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- Jim: it's a beautiful day.
- 00:12:31.162 --> 00:12:32.530
- Okay, so, how many fish have you caught today?
- 00:12:32.530 --> 00:12:35.533
- So many more than you can count, right?
- 00:12:35.533 --> 00:12:37.135
- Because we've been catching a lot of fish.
- 00:12:37.135 --> 00:12:39.404
- You have a papa who is a pastor, okay?
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- So what do you think about that?
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- How many kids in the world have a papa that's a pastor?
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- Not too many.
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- Adrian: yeah.
- 00:12:50.882 --> 00:12:52.216
- Jim: yeah?
- 00:12:52.216 --> 00:12:53.551
- I mean there's some, but not too many.
- 00:12:53.551 --> 00:12:54.919
- But i think that gives you an advantage.
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- Adrian: yeah.
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- Jim: because, first of all, he loves you and he's being a great
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- Example for you guys and then also he's teaching you guys
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- Stuff which is really, really good.
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- Jim: oh, you have a fish.
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- We have a fish. we have a fish.
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- Stop reeling. stop reeling.
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- Oh, it's a ray. cool.
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- Okay, you guys, check this out. it's a stingray.
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- Okay, lift it up, lift it up, lift it up.
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- You got it?
- 00:13:25.116 --> 00:13:26.617
- Check this out, guys.
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- We got a little ray.
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- Do you wanna hold on to it?
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- Hold on to the string.
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- It's okay, he's not gonna hurt you.
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- That is so cool, dude.
- 00:13:35.994 --> 00:13:37.595
- Now look at their mouth.
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- Adrian: they say it looks like a smiley face or a person.
- 00:13:39.030 --> 00:13:41.099
- Jim: yeah, so they'll just swim down on the bottom.
- 00:13:41.099 --> 00:13:45.403
- See the, what you just said, the smiley face?
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- Jim: pastor randy ford, it is awesome to be with you today.
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- Randy ford: thank you.
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- Jim: having a good time.
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- Randy: we are.
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- Jim: you got-- you got your grandboys.
- 00:14:02.987 --> 00:14:04.355
- These are some of the funniest--
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- Randy: they are.
- 00:14:05.690 --> 00:14:07.425
- Jim: i'm trying to think of other kind words to say about
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- These three very interesting boys.
- 00:14:09.694 --> 00:14:12.764
- Now, they're a lot of fun and we've had a fun day.
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- Randy: yes, so they're boys, aren't they?
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- Jim: they're boys.
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- And i miss that, you know?
- 00:14:19.670 --> 00:14:21.039
- We-- our kids are grown now and we're into grandkids, as these
- 00:14:21.039 --> 00:14:24.809
- Are your grandkids, but--
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- Randy: yes sir.
- 00:14:26.144 --> 00:14:27.512
- They teach us new things.
- 00:14:27.512 --> 00:14:28.846
- We think we know it all, but they teach us
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- A lot of new things.
- 00:14:30.181 --> 00:14:31.549
- Jim: well, you know, what kids do in your life, your grandkids
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- Or your own kids, is they keep you young.
- 00:14:33.718 --> 00:14:36.354
- They keep you laughing, you know?
- 00:14:36.354 --> 00:14:38.456
- I mean, like, how did-- how did they come up with that?
- 00:14:38.456 --> 00:14:41.292
- Even while we're trying to do this tv interview, you got these
- 00:14:41.292 --> 00:14:43.795
- Kids over here making a bunch of noise.
- 00:14:43.795 --> 00:14:45.930
- You just have to laugh.
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- Randy: yes, sir.
- 00:14:47.265 --> 00:14:48.633
- Because we don't wanna have to fish them out of the the river
- 00:14:48.633 --> 00:14:51.235
- Here so.
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- Jim: yes, really.
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- Jim: while time was up in trying to catch a tarpon, we still
- 00:14:54.872 --> 00:14:58.409
- Wanted to swim with the manatees, and crystal river is
- 00:14:58.409 --> 00:15:02.980
- A premier location to swim right up to them.
- 00:15:02.980 --> 00:15:06.717
- The boys all got in and were so excited to see these sea cows up
- 00:15:06.717 --> 00:15:12.957
- Close and personal.
- 00:15:12.957 --> 00:15:15.593
- Jim: what do you think, adrian?
- 00:15:15.593 --> 00:15:17.662
- Isn't that amazing?
- 00:15:17.662 --> 00:15:19.197
- So here's a manatee right here, and here in crystal springs,
- 00:15:19.197 --> 00:15:23.734
- The manatee are all in this-- in these bays and these river areas
- 00:15:23.734 --> 00:15:27.405
- And just beautiful.
- 00:15:27.405 --> 00:15:28.773
- It's incredible.
- 00:15:28.773 --> 00:15:30.108
- These huge, right, just huge creatures.
- 00:15:30.108 --> 00:15:32.643
- Were you a little scared when you first saw how big that
- 00:15:32.643 --> 00:15:35.012
- Thing was?
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- Adrian: yeah.
- 00:15:36.347 --> 00:15:37.715
- Jim: but you did good, man.
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- Well done. well done.
- 00:15:39.250 --> 00:15:41.018
- So cool. amazing, truly amazing.
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- Jim: while we didn't have any luck catching tarpon, we did
- 00:15:46.657 --> 00:15:50.094
- Catch a lot of saltwater topsail catfish, and i was shocked that
- 00:15:50.094 --> 00:15:55.133
- The boys wanted to eat the fish that they had caught, as i know
- 00:15:55.133 --> 00:15:58.970
- That children can sometimes be picky eaters.
- 00:15:58.970 --> 00:16:02.440
- The family in our next episode, mark and nina laskus, gave some
- 00:16:02.440 --> 00:16:07.211
- Great parenting advice about helping your kids try more
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- Than mcnuggets.
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- Jim: how did you guys get them to be, like, you know, "i don't
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- Want that"?
- 00:16:16.921 --> 00:16:18.289
- I mean, what did-- how can parents get their kids to--
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- Karen scudder: enjoy life.
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- Jim: enjoy life and expand their palate a little bit, not be
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- Little babies when they're 16.
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- Nina laskus: we would set timers.
- 00:16:26.230 --> 00:16:27.865
- They were, more than anything, if it was something that they
- 00:16:27.865 --> 00:16:30.334
- Didn't like, they already knew that they had to eat it, because
- 00:16:30.334 --> 00:16:34.372
- I wasn't going to do another meal and maybe that comes from
- 00:16:34.372 --> 00:16:36.841
- Disciplining at other times so that they know, like, when i
- 00:16:36.841 --> 00:16:39.177
- Mean you have to eat this, when dad says you have to eat it--
- 00:16:39.177 --> 00:16:41.579
- Jim: kids gotta know you mean what you say.
- 00:16:41.579 --> 00:16:43.247
- Nina: right.
- 00:16:43.247 --> 00:16:44.582
- So they didn't fight us on actually eating it, but
- 00:16:44.582 --> 00:16:46.817
- Sometimes it's the length of time that it would take, and
- 00:16:46.817 --> 00:16:49.687
- They would let us know that they weren't a fan of it in
- 00:16:49.687 --> 00:16:52.356
- Various ways.
- 00:16:52.356 --> 00:16:53.824
- We did timers.
- 00:16:53.824 --> 00:16:55.159
- Jim: so what do you do, like, about mushrooms?
- 00:16:55.159 --> 00:16:57.094
- Because mushrooms, no human should be eating those, they're
- 00:16:57.094 --> 00:17:00.264
- Just-- don't force your kids.
- 00:17:00.264 --> 00:17:02.099
- You force your kids to eat everything else,
- 00:17:02.099 --> 00:17:03.668
- But not mushrooms.
- 00:17:03.668 --> 00:17:05.036
- Karen: it's okay for them to have likes and dislikes, but
- 00:17:05.036 --> 00:17:06.871
- When they go to somebody's home and the food is on the table,
- 00:17:06.871 --> 00:17:10.041
- You have to learn to just--
- 00:17:10.041 --> 00:17:11.609
- Jim: when you're cutting the crust off the bread of the
- 00:17:11.609 --> 00:17:13.477
- Sandwiches, i think, like, that is--
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- Mark laskus: well, it's a respect thing too.
- 00:17:14.979 --> 00:17:16.747
- Jim: it's that and it's also, like, toughen them up
- 00:17:16.747 --> 00:17:19.050
- A little bit, right?
- 00:17:19.050 --> 00:17:20.585
- Come on. you know, we can do this.
- 00:17:20.585 --> 00:17:22.420
- It's not a big deal.
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- ♪♪♪
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- Alex: i really don't like fish, but this one tastes good.
- 00:17:34.565 --> 00:17:38.436
- Jim: you wanna go give your grandpa and captain mike
- 00:17:38.436 --> 00:17:42.340
- A taste?
- 00:17:42.340 --> 00:17:43.674
- Why don't you bring the plate over to them?
- 00:17:43.674 --> 00:17:45.042
- Julian: no, let's just keep it for ourselves.
- 00:17:45.042 --> 00:17:46.377
- Taste good.
- 00:17:46.377 --> 00:17:51.749
- Randy: all right, let's see how this is.
- 00:17:51.749 --> 00:17:53.818
- Looks good.
- 00:17:53.818 --> 00:18:00.424
- That tastes like it came out of crystal river, you know?
- 00:18:00.424 --> 00:18:03.928
- Delicious.
- 00:18:03.928 --> 00:18:06.097
- For all of those on "ingrace," you're really missing a treat.
- 00:18:06.097 --> 00:18:10.301
- Jim: what an amazing adventure we've had today to be able to
- 00:18:14.538 --> 00:18:17.308
- See these kids enjoying fishing and the potential of catching
- 00:18:17.308 --> 00:18:20.444
- A tarpon.
- 00:18:20.444 --> 00:18:21.779
- Of course, we didn't catch one, but, you know, god knows.
- 00:18:21.779 --> 00:18:24.282
- And, we had fun though, to see the manatee and swim with them,
- 00:18:24.282 --> 00:18:27.485
- And just to see the beauty around here.
- 00:18:27.485 --> 00:18:29.754
- It's just-- it's just gorgeous here in florida.
- 00:18:29.754 --> 00:18:32.556
- And to me, life could be just that for you, but then you have
- 00:18:32.556 --> 00:18:37.795
- No hope, you have no purpose.
- 00:18:37.795 --> 00:18:39.130
- There's nothing really to live for other than these
- 00:18:39.130 --> 00:18:41.532
- Beautiful moments.
- 00:18:41.532 --> 00:18:42.900
- But there is more.
- 00:18:42.900 --> 00:18:44.735
- There's much more to life than just enjoying a day out on the
- 00:18:44.735 --> 00:18:47.238
- Water, and that is to know your creator, to be bought back.
- 00:18:47.238 --> 00:18:52.643
- Now, the price has already been paid by your creator, and you
- 00:18:52.643 --> 00:18:55.646
- Say, "well, i don't believe in creation.
- 00:18:55.646 --> 00:18:57.214
- I believe we all came about by accident."
- 00:18:57.214 --> 00:18:59.050
- Well, my friend, that's impossible.
- 00:18:59.050 --> 00:19:01.619
- You know, everything around us we know was designed, we know
- 00:19:01.619 --> 00:19:05.623
- Had a designer.
- 00:19:05.623 --> 00:19:07.391
- And when you look at the incredible complexity of life
- 00:19:07.391 --> 00:19:09.927
- And the beauty and symmetry of life, you have to say we're here
- 00:19:09.927 --> 00:19:13.097
- By purpose and by design.
- 00:19:13.097 --> 00:19:15.366
- So we are created.
- 00:19:15.366 --> 00:19:17.168
- And then the next question is, can i know the creator?
- 00:19:17.168 --> 00:19:19.804
- Well, absolutely you can.
- 00:19:19.804 --> 00:19:21.772
- See, the bible tells us that god created the world.
- 00:19:21.772 --> 00:19:23.808
- We sinned, we messed up.
- 00:19:23.808 --> 00:19:25.443
- Death and sin and pain and cancer and all of those things
- 00:19:25.443 --> 00:19:28.612
- Came with that.
- 00:19:28.612 --> 00:19:29.980
- And we're born with sin and we sin and that's the problem.
- 00:19:29.980 --> 00:19:33.584
- Well, there's a solution to the problem.
- 00:19:33.584 --> 00:19:35.019
- That's, again, god loves you so much that he paid with his own
- 00:19:35.019 --> 00:19:39.957
- Son's life your sin debt.
- 00:19:39.957 --> 00:19:42.560
- And the bible's clear.
- 00:19:42.560 --> 00:19:43.994
- The bible says if you will
- 00:19:43.994 --> 00:19:45.363
- Believe in him, if you will
- 00:19:45.363 --> 00:19:46.697
- Trust in him, you will not
- 00:19:46.697 --> 00:19:48.032
- Perish, which is hell,
- 00:19:48.032 --> 00:19:49.433
- But have everlasting life,
- 00:19:49.433 --> 00:19:50.968
- Which is heaven--let me
- 00:19:50.968 --> 00:19:52.603
- Show you this illustration.
- 00:19:52.603 --> 00:19:54.004
- This is something that my dad,
- 00:19:54.004 --> 00:19:55.706
- Who was a real fisherman,
- 00:19:55.706 --> 00:19:57.274
- He loved fishing, he loved this part of florida.
- 00:19:57.274 --> 00:20:00.644
- He loved pastor ford, as you met him today, as his preacher, but
- 00:20:00.644 --> 00:20:04.749
- He would always do this.
- 00:20:04.749 --> 00:20:06.083
- He would say-- he would use his wallet.
- 00:20:06.083 --> 00:20:07.451
- He would say, "let this represent sin and let this
- 00:20:07.451 --> 00:20:09.253
- Represent you and me, and we all have sin.
- 00:20:09.253 --> 00:20:12.890
- We've all sinned, we've all fallen short of the glory
- 00:20:12.890 --> 00:20:14.892
- Of god.
- 00:20:14.892 --> 00:20:16.260
- But jesus," he would use his other hand, say, "jesus had
- 00:20:16.260 --> 00:20:18.562
- No sin.
- 00:20:18.562 --> 00:20:19.930
- And he came and he was made sin for us on the cross.
- 00:20:19.930 --> 00:20:24.168
- He died on the cross, and our sin was put upon him.
- 00:20:24.168 --> 00:20:27.872
- And if you will believe in jesus, to put your trust in him,
- 00:20:27.872 --> 00:20:31.375
- Not a religion, not a priest, not a pastor, but in jesus, you
- 00:20:31.375 --> 00:20:35.012
- Will not perish, but have everlasting life."
- 00:20:35.012 --> 00:20:38.115
- And some people say, "okay, what if i do that, but then i
- 00:20:38.115 --> 00:20:40.351
- Mess up?"
- 00:20:40.351 --> 00:20:41.685
- Well, look.
- 00:20:41.685 --> 00:20:43.053
- You might let go, you might mess up, and you will-- you will mess
- 00:20:43.053 --> 00:20:45.256
- Up, but he has you in his hand.
- 00:20:45.256 --> 00:20:47.625
- You are safe and secure in the hand of almighty god.
- 00:20:47.625 --> 00:20:50.895
- That is the greatest news in the world.
- 00:20:50.895 --> 00:20:52.863
- That'll give you great purpose and joy for your entire life is
- 00:20:52.863 --> 00:20:56.333
- To know for sure you're on your way to heaven, that you've been
- 00:20:56.333 --> 00:20:58.536
- Bought back, that you've been redeemed by god.
- 00:20:58.536 --> 00:21:00.905
- And it's simple: childlike faith, believe in the lord jesus
- 00:21:00.905 --> 00:21:03.974
- Christ, and you will be saved.
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- ♪♪♪
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- Female: look, duggie, look, look down.
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- Jim: one, underneath.
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- Underneath the left side.
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- Male: starboard side, right here.
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- Right there.
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- Wow, wow.
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