Joel Osteen - Time To Stop Running

June 2, 2025 | 27:29

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Time To Stop Running | June 2, 2025
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  • > joel: god bless you.
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  • > joel: god bless you. it's great to be with you
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  • It's great to be with you today. i hope you'll stay
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  • Today. i hope you'll stay connected with us during
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  • Connected with us during the week, through our
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  • The week, through our daily podcast, our youtube
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  • Daily podcast, our youtube channel, social media.
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  • Channel, social media. we'll keep you encouraged
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  • We'll keep you encouraged and inspired.
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  • And inspired. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny. i heard
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  • Something funny. i heard about this pastor. he was
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  • About this pastor. he was walking down the street,
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  • Walking down the street, when he came upon this
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  • When he came upon this group of young boys that
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  • Group of young boys that were surrounding a small
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  • Were surrounding a small dog. he asked what they
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  • Dog. he asked what they were doing. they explained
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  • Were doing. they explained that they were having a
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  • That they were having a contest. whoever could tell
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  • Contest. whoever could tell the biggest lie would get
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  • The biggest lie would get to keep the dog. the pastor
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  • To keep the dog. the pastor launched into a ten-minute
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  • Launched into a ten-minute sermon, starting with,
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  • Sermon, starting with, “don't you know lying is
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  • “don't you know lying is a sin?” and ending with,
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  • A sin?” and ending with, “when i was your age, i
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  • “when i was your age, i never told a lie.” there
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  • Never told a lie.” there was complete silence. just
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  • Was complete silence. just when he thought he'd gotten
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  • When he thought he'd gotten through to them, the
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  • Through to them, the youngest boy spoke up and
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  • Youngest boy spoke up and said, “all right, give him
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  • Said, “all right, give him the dog.”
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  • The dog.” say it like you mean it.
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  • Say it like you mean it. this is my bible. i am what
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  • This is my bible. i am what it says i am. i have what
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  • It says i am. i have what it says i have. i can do
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  • It says i have. i can do what it says i can do.
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  • What it says i can do. today, i will be taught
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  • Today, i will be taught the word of god. i boldly
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  • The word of god. i boldly confess: my mind is alert.
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  • Confess: my mind is alert. my heart is receptive. i
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  • My heart is receptive. i will never be the same in
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  • Will never be the same in jesus' name. god bless you.
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  • Jesus' name. god bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about time to stop running.
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  • About time to stop running. it's easy to avoid things
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  • It's easy to avoid things in life that we should be
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  • In life that we should be dealing with. we've been
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  • Dealing with. we've been though hurts, people did us
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  • Though hurts, people did us wrong, instead of forgiving
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  • Wrong, instead of forgiving and moving on, we push it
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  • And moving on, we push it down. or maybe we need to
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  • Down. or maybe we need to apologize, we need to make
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  • Apologize, we need to make things right, but that's
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  • Things right, but that's uncomfortable, so we keep
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  • Uncomfortable, so we keep putting it off. sometimes
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  • Putting it off. sometimes we run from our fears. a
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  • We run from our fears. a new door opens, we know
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  • New door opens, we know it's a god given
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  • It's a god given opportunity but we're
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  • Opportunity but we're afraid. we feel
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  • Afraid. we feel unqualified. instead of
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  • Unqualified. instead of confronting our fears, we
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  • Confronting our fears, we shrink back. some people
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  • Shrink back. some people spend their whole life
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  • Spend their whole life running; running from
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  • Running; running from dealing with their temper,
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  • Dealing with their temper, running from getting back
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  • Running from getting back in shape, running from the
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  • In shape, running from the call of god on their life.
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  • Call of god on their life. as long as you're running,
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  • As long as you're running, you're going to miss the
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  • You're going to miss the greatness god put in you.
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  • Greatness god put in you. you can't conquer what you
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  • You can't conquer what you don't confront. too often
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  • Don't confront. too often we're comforting what we
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  • We're comforting what we should be confronting.
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  • Should be confronting. we're making excuses. you
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  • We're making excuses. you can't run from everything
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  • Can't run from everything that's uncomfortable. you
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  • That's uncomfortable. you can't ignore issues, sweep
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  • Can't ignore issues, sweep them under the rug,
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  • Them under the rug, thinking they'll go away.
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  • Thinking they'll go away. when you get honest with
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  • When you get honest with yourself, when you confront
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  • Yourself, when you confront what you know you need to
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  • What you know you need to deal with, yes it may be
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  • Deal with, yes it may be uncomfortable, but god
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  • Uncomfortable, but god gives you the grace, the
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  • Gives you the grace, the strength, the power to do
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  • Strength, the power to do what you couldn't do on
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  • What you couldn't do on your own.
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  • Your own. when david saw goliath,
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  • When david saw goliath, everything in his mind
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  • Everything in his mind said, “he's too big, you
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  • Said, “he's too big, you better run the other way
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  • Better run the other way like everyone else in the
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  • Like everyone else in the army.” but the scripture
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  • Army.” but the scripture says, “david ran quickly
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  • Says, “david ran quickly toward goliath.” he knew if
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  • Toward goliath.” he knew if he didn't confront this
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  • He didn't confront this giant, if he didn't face
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  • Giant, if he didn't face his fears, he would miss
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  • His fears, he would miss his destiny. he was
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  • His destiny. he was uncomfortable, his emotions
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  • Uncomfortable, his emotions weren't supporting him, but
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  • Weren't supporting him, but as he ran to the giant, he
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  • As he ran to the giant, he began to feel strength that
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  • Began to feel strength that he'd never felt,
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  • He'd never felt, confidence, boldness,
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  • Confidence, boldness, skill, expertise. he slung
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  • Skill, expertise. he slung that rock and defeated
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  • That rock and defeated goliath. when you run to
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  • Goliath. when you run to your giants, god will make
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  • Your giants, god will make things happen that you
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  • Things happen that you couldn't make happen. you
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  • Couldn't make happen. you won't reach your destiny
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  • Won't reach your destiny running from things that
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  • Running from things that are hard, running because
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  • Are hard, running because it's uncomfortable. you
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  • It's uncomfortable. you don't feel like forgiving,
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  • Don't feel like forgiving, you don't feel like dealing
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  • You don't feel like dealing with a bad attitude. but
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  • With a bad attitude. but when you're running from
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  • When you're running from your giants, you're running
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  • Your giants, you're running from your destiny. when
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  • From your destiny. when you're running to your
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  • You're running to your giants, to what you know
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  • Giants, to what you know you need to confront, what
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  • You need to confront, what you need to deal with,
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  • You need to deal with, you're running to your
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  • You're running to your purpose.
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  • Purpose. don't take the easy way out
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  • Don't take the easy way out and spend your life
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  • And spend your life running, running from your
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  • Running, running from your past, running from your
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  • Past, running from your mistakes, running from
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  • Mistakes, running from people that did you wrong,
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  • People that did you wrong, running from fears,
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  • Running from fears, insecurity, pride. god is
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  • Insecurity, pride. god is saying, “it's time to stop
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  • Saying, “it's time to stop running.” face those
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  • Running.” face those giants. confront what
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  • Giants. confront what you've been ignoring. on
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  • You've been ignoring. on the other side of that
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  • The other side of that giant is a new level of
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  • Giant is a new level of your destiny. like with
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  • Your destiny. like with david, when god sees you
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  • David, when god sees you make a move to start
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  • Make a move to start running toward what's
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  • Running toward what's hindering you, to deal with
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  • Hindering you, to deal with what you've been ignoring,
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  • What you've been ignoring, god will breathe on your
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  • God will breathe on your life, and it won't be as
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  • Life, and it won't be as difficult as you think. he
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  • Difficult as you think. he will go before you and make
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  • Will go before you and make your crooked places
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  • Your crooked places straight.
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  • Straight. in 1993, mary johnson's
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  • In 1993, mary johnson's only son was at a party one
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  • Only son was at a party one night. things got out of
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  • Night. things got out of control, shots were fired,
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  • Control, shots were fired, her twenty-one-year old son
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  • Her twenty-one-year old son was killed. when she heard
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  • Was killed. when she heard the news, she was so
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  • The news, she was so devastated she passed out.
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  • Devastated she passed out. three days later, they
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  • Three days later, they charged a sixteen-year-old
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  • Charged a sixteen-year-old boy in his killing. that
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  • Boy in his killing. that day, she said, hate filled
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  • Day, she said, hate filled her heart. she was so
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  • Her heart. she was so angry; she couldn't sleep
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  • Angry; she couldn't sleep at night. at the trial, she
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  • At night. at the trial, she viewed her son's killer as
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  • Viewed her son's killer as an animal. she not only
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  • An animal. she not only hated him, but she hated
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  • Hated him, but she hated everyone. mary knew she
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  • Everyone. mary knew she needed to forgive, she knew
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  • Needed to forgive, she knew the anger was destroying
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  • The anger was destroying her, but she wouldn't do
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  • Her, but she wouldn't do it. she kept putting it
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  • It. she kept putting it off, year after year. “he
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  • Off, year after year. “he doesn't deserve it, it's
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  • Doesn't deserve it, it's not right, he hurt me too
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  • Not right, he hurt me too badly.” as long as you're
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  • Badly.” as long as you're making excuses, comforting
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  • Making excuses, comforting what you should be
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  • What you should be confronting, it's going to
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  • Confronting, it's going to limit your life. when you
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  • Limit your life. when you hold on to unforgiveness,
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  • Hold on to unforgiveness, it's not hurting the other
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  • It's not hurting the other person, it's hurting you.
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  • Person, it's hurting you. we've heard the saying;
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  • We've heard the saying; time heals all wounds. that
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  • Time heals all wounds. that may be true in one sense,
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  • May be true in one sense, but you can't bury hurts,
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  • But you can't bury hurts, guilt, insecurity, and
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  • Guilt, insecurity, and think they're going to just
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  • Think they're going to just go away. those are toxins
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  • Go away. those are toxins that will contaminate your
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  • That will contaminate your life.
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  • Life. mary kept running. she
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  • Mary kept running. she didn't want to deal with
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  • Didn't want to deal with it. she didn't want to put
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  • It. she didn't want to put herself through the pain,
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  • Herself through the pain, it was too hard to forgive.
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  • It was too hard to forgive. but to get free, to be
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  • But to get free, to be whole, you have to do the
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  • Whole, you have to do the hard things. you have to be
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  • Hard things. you have to be willing to be
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  • Willing to be uncomfortable. what i've
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  • Uncomfortable. what i've learned is it's not going
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  • Learned is it's not going to be as difficult as you
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  • To be as difficult as you think. when you stop
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  • Think. when you stop running, when you deal with
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  • Running, when you deal with what you know you need to
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  • What you know you need to deal with, there will be a
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  • Deal with, there will be a grace to do what you've
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  • Grace to do what you've never done. the reason you
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  • Never done. the reason you think it's going to be too
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  • Think it's going to be too hard is you haven't stepped
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  • Hard is you haven't stepped into that grace yet. it
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  • Into that grace yet. it will come when you make a
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  • Will come when you make a move.
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  • Move. one day mary made the
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  • One day mary made the decision that i'm asking us
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  • Decision that i'm asking us to make. she said in
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  • To make. she said in effect, “i'm going to stop
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  • Effect, “i'm going to stop running. i'm not going to
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  • Running. i'm not going to let this anger, this
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  • Let this anger, this hatred, ruin the rest of my
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  • Hatred, ruin the rest of my life.” she called the
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  • Life.” she called the prison and asked if she
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  • Prison and asked if she could visit the young man
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  • Could visit the young man that took her son's life.
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  • That took her son's life. they were surprised,
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  • They were surprised, reluctantly the young man
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  • Reluctantly the young man agreed. she walked in that
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  • Agreed. she walked in that day, uncomfortable, not
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  • Day, uncomfortable, not knowing what to expect.
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  • Knowing what to expect. they talked for two hours.
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  • They talked for two hours. the young man told how
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  • The young man told how sorry he was. as she was
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  • Sorry he was. as she was leaving, he asked if he
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  • Leaving, he asked if he could give her a hug. as
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  • Could give her a hug. as they embraced, mary said,
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  • They embraced, mary said, “i felt anger and hatred,
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  • “i felt anger and hatred, rising up from the soles of
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  • Rising up from the soles of my feet and leaving my
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  • My feet and leaving my body.” it was like a
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  • Body.” it was like a cleansing. she felt a heavy
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  • Cleansing. she felt a heavy weight lift off of her.
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  • Weight lift off of her. from that day forward,
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  • From that day forward, she's never had any
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  • She's never had any bitterness, anger,
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  • Bitterness, anger, hostility. when you stop
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  • Hostility. when you stop running and deal with what
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  • Running and deal with what you know is hindering you,
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  • You know is hindering you, it's not going to be as
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  • It's not going to be as hard as you think. god is
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  • Hard as you think. god is going to give you the
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  • Going to give you the grace, he's going to
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  • Grace, he's going to prepare people's hearts,
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  • Prepare people's hearts, he's going to help you to
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  • He's going to help you to forgive. don't spend your
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  • Forgive. don't spend your life running. what you run
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  • Life running. what you run from, you'll always have to
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  • From, you'll always have to go back and deal with
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  • Go back and deal with before you can move
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  • Before you can move forward. when we comfort
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  • Forward. when we comfort and don't confront, all
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  • And don't confront, all we're doing is putting off
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  • We're doing is putting off where god wants to take us.
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  • Where god wants to take us. we're delaying seeing new
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  • We're delaying seeing new levels of our destiny.
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  • Levels of our destiny. here's a key, god will
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  • Here's a key, god will never ask you to do a hard
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  • Never ask you to do a hard thing and not give you the
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  • Thing and not give you the ability to do it. when he's
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  • Ability to do it. when he's asking you to do something
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  • Asking you to do something difficult, the grace is
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  • Difficult, the grace is there, but you have to step
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  • There, but you have to step into it. your mind will
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  • Into it. your mind will say, “you can't forgive,
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  • Say, “you can't forgive, they hurt you too badly.
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  • They hurt you too badly. you can't break the
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  • You can't break the addiction, just learn to
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  • Addiction, just learn to live with it. you can't do
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  • Live with it. you can't do something great, you're
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  • Something great, you're insecure, you're
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  • Insecure, you're unqualified.” don't believe
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  • Unqualified.” don't believe those lies. there's nothing
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  • Those lies. there's nothing the enemy would love any
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  • The enemy would love any more than for you to spend
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  • More than for you to spend your life running. running
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  • Your life running. running from god's call on your
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  • From god's call on your life, running from your
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  • Life, running from your fears, running from your
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  • Fears, running from your hurts, running from your
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  • Hurts, running from your past. it's time to stop
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  • Past. it's time to stop running. the only way out
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  • Running. the only way out is through. you can't go
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  • Is through. you can't go around it. you can't ignore
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  • Around it. you can't ignore it and it will go away.
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  • It and it will go away. time won't cause it to
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  • Time won't cause it to disappear. but if you'll
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  • Disappear. but if you'll confront it, you can
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  • Confront it, you can conquer it. if you'll face
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  • Conquer it. if you'll face your giants, god will give
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  • Your giants, god will give you strength to defeat what
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  • You strength to defeat what should defeat you. when you
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  • Should defeat you. when you do what you can, god will
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  • Do what you can, god will do what you can't. when you
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  • Do what you can't. when you do the natural, god will do
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  • Do the natural, god will do the supernatural. in your
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  • The supernatural. in your own strength, you may not
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  • Own strength, you may not be able to forgive, to
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  • Be able to forgive, to break the habit, to lead
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  • Break the habit, to lead the company, but you're not
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  • The company, but you're not on your own. when you stop
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  • On your own. when you stop running, god steps in and
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  • Running, god steps in and gives you power, favor,
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  • Gives you power, favor, ability, that you've never
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  • Ability, that you've never had.
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  • Had. ephesians 6 talks about
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  • Ephesians 6 talks about putting on the armor of
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  • Putting on the armor of god. the helmet of
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  • God. the helmet of salvation, the breastplate
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  • Salvation, the breastplate of righteousness, belt of
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  • Of righteousness, belt of truth, shoes of peace,
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  • Truth, shoes of peace, shield of faith. all these
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  • Shield of faith. all these awesome things to protect
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  • Awesome things to protect us. what's interesting is
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  • Us. what's interesting is there is nothing for our
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  • There is nothing for our back side. there's no armor
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  • Back side. there's no armor to cover our rear. that's
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  • To cover our rear. that's because god never created
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  • Because god never created us to be running. he
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  • Us to be running. he created us to confront our
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  • Created us to confront our giants. to face our fears,
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  • Giants. to face our fears, to stand strong in faith.
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  • To stand strong in faith. don't be like the
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  • Don't be like the israelites and spend years
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  • Israelites and spend years of your life running from
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  • Of your life running from things god has already
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  • Things god has already given you victory over. all
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  • Given you victory over. all he needs is for you to stop
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  • He needs is for you to stop running. deal with it.
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  • Running. deal with it. he'll be right there to
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  • He'll be right there to help you.
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  • Help you. forty years later, the
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  • Forty years later, the children of these
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  • Children of these israelites were back at the
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  • Israelites were back at the promised land. what's
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  • Promised land. what's significant is the giants
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  • Significant is the giants weren't gone. god didn't
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  • Weren't gone. god didn't clear out the path and say,
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  • Clear out the path and say, “just walk into the land.”
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  • “just walk into the land.” they still had opposition.
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  • They still had opposition. what you don't confront,
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  • What you don't confront, your children will have to
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  • Your children will have to deal with. but when you
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  • Deal with. but when you stop running, when you face
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  • Stop running, when you face your fears, defeat bad
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  • Your fears, defeat bad habits, forgive the wrongs,
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  • Habits, forgive the wrongs, you are breaking
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  • You are breaking generational curses. you're
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  • Generational curses. you're putting an end to negative
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  • Putting an end to negative cycles that keep getting
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  • Cycles that keep getting passed down. i want to make
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  • Passed down. i want to make it easier on my children,
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  • It easier on my children, my grandchildren. i'm not
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  • My grandchildren. i'm not going to run from things
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  • Going to run from things that are hard. i'm not
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  • That are hard. i'm not going to take the easy way
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  • Going to take the easy way out, live afraid of the
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  • Out, live afraid of the giants, intimidated by the
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  • Giants, intimidated by the size of the dream, letting
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  • Size of the dream, letting my mistakes stop my
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  • My mistakes stop my destiny. no let's go into
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  • Destiny. no let's go into our promised land.
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  • Our promised land. the children of these
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  • The children of these israelites, this new
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  • Israelites, this new generation, they had a
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  • Generation, they had a different attitude. they
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  • Different attitude. they saw the same giants, same
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  • Saw the same giants, same intimidation, same thoughts
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  • Intimidation, same thoughts came saying, “you don't
  • 00:10:55.111 --> 00:10:56.445
  • Came saying, “you don't have a chance.” their
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  • Have a chance.” their response was, “no thanks,
  • 00:10:58.013 --> 00:10:59.849
  • Response was, “no thanks, we're not running. we're
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  • We're not running. we're not going to spend our life
  • 00:11:01.550 --> 00:11:02.952
  • Not going to spend our life wandering in the desert, we
  • 00:11:03.018 --> 00:11:04.887
  • Wandering in the desert, we know greater is he that's
  • 00:11:04.954 --> 00:11:06.355
  • Know greater is he that's in us than what's coming
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  • In us than what's coming against us.” they faced the
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  • Against us.” they faced the opposition and went into
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  • Opposition and went into the land their parents
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  • The land their parents could have had, forty years
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  • Could have had, forty years earlier. why don't you
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  • Earlier. why don't you confront things that your
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  • Confront things that your parents, and those that
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  • Parents, and those that went before you didn't
  • 00:11:21.470 --> 00:11:22.471
  • Went before you didn't confront? maybe they
  • 00:11:22.538 --> 00:11:24.373
  • Confront? maybe they learned to live with the
  • 00:11:24.440 --> 00:11:25.407
  • Learned to live with the addiction, you can face it
  • 00:11:25.474 --> 00:11:27.309
  • Addiction, you can face it and conquer it. no more
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  • And conquer it. no more running, no more accepting
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  • Running, no more accepting it. don't take another lap,
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  • It. don't take another lap, take a stand. you're the
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  • Take a stand. you're the one to go into the promised
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  • One to go into the promised land.
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  • Land. you have to be honest with
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  • You have to be honest with yourself. it's easy to
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  • Yourself. it's easy to ignore things, make
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  • Ignore things, make excuses. you may need to
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  • Excuses. you may need to confront pride, confront a
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  • Confront pride, confront a bad attitude, confront
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  • Bad attitude, confront compromise. maybe you need
  • 00:11:49.431 --> 00:11:51.367
  • Compromise. maybe you need to apologize to someone.
  • 00:11:51.433 --> 00:11:53.202
  • To apologize to someone. you need to make things
  • 00:11:53.269 --> 00:11:54.170
  • You need to make things right. the longer you put
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  • Right. the longer you put it off, the longer you're
  • 00:11:56.071 --> 00:11:57.606
  • It off, the longer you're wandering. to go into the
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  • Wandering. to go into the promised land you have to
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  • Promised land you have to be willing to deal with
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  • Be willing to deal with things that you know are
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  • Things that you know are limiting you. the psalmist
  • 00:12:04.113 --> 00:12:06.348
  • Limiting you. the psalmist said, “god keep me from
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  • Said, “god keep me from lying to myself.” that's a
  • 00:12:08.417 --> 00:12:10.753
  • Lying to myself.” that's a powerful prayer. sometimes
  • 00:12:10.820 --> 00:12:12.588
  • Powerful prayer. sometimes we don't want to pray that.
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  • We don't want to pray that. we want to keep things
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  • We want to keep things hidden. we don't want to
  • 00:12:14.590 --> 00:12:15.591
  • Hidden. we don't want to deal with things that are
  • 00:12:15.658 --> 00:12:16.592
  • Deal with things that are uncomfortable. but it's
  • 00:12:16.659 --> 00:12:18.594
  • Uncomfortable. but it's much better to be open and
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  • Much better to be open and honest. “god show me areas
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  • Honest. “god show me areas where i need to change. not
  • 00:12:24.033 --> 00:12:25.968
  • Where i need to change. not my spouse, i have a list of
  • 00:12:26.035 --> 00:12:27.970
  • My spouse, i have a list of thirty things they need to
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  • Thirty things they need to do. not my cousin, not my
  • 00:12:28.938 --> 00:12:31.240
  • Do. not my cousin, not my child, but where do i need
  • 00:12:31.307 --> 00:12:33.042
  • Child, but where do i need to come up higher.” when
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  • To come up higher.” when you live out of a place of
  • 00:12:35.110 --> 00:12:36.378
  • You live out of a place of humility, you're willing to
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  • Humility, you're willing to deal with things that god
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  • Deal with things that god brings to light, there's no
  • 00:12:39.548 --> 00:12:41.083
  • Brings to light, there's no limit to how high god will
  • 00:12:41.150 --> 00:12:42.918
  • Limit to how high god will take you. we all have areas
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  • Take you. we all have areas we need to grow, but it's
  • 00:12:45.254 --> 00:12:46.722
  • We need to grow, but it's tempting to make excuses,
  • 00:12:46.789 --> 00:12:48.057
  • Tempting to make excuses, “joel, i've always been hot
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  • “joel, i've always been hot tempered. i've always held
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  • Tempered. i've always held grudges; i've always been
  • 00:12:51.227 --> 00:12:52.561
  • Grudges; i've always been critical, negatice,
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  • Critical, negatice, arrogant, defensive. this
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  • Arrogant, defensive. this is just who i am.” no,
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  • Is just who i am.” no, you're running. you're
  • 00:12:57.266 --> 00:12:58.801
  • You're running. you're comforting what you should
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  • Comforting what you should be confronting. if you'll
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  • Be confronting. if you'll do like mary and face those
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  • Do like mary and face those giants, you'll step into a
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  • Giants, you'll step into a new level of your destiny.
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  • New level of your destiny. this is what jacob did. he
  • 00:13:08.444 --> 00:13:10.379
  • This is what jacob did. he lived compromising,
  • 00:13:10.446 --> 00:13:12.014
  • Lived compromising, cheating people. he tricked
  • 00:13:12.081 --> 00:13:13.816
  • Cheating people. he tricked his brother out of his
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  • His brother out of his birthright. esau had been
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  • Birthright. esau had been out hunting all day. he
  • 00:13:16.752 --> 00:13:18.320
  • Out hunting all day. he came home so hungry, he was
  • 00:13:18.387 --> 00:13:20.122
  • Came home so hungry, he was famished. he could smell
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  • Famished. he could smell the aroma from the pot of
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  • The aroma from the pot of stew that jacob had made.
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  • Stew that jacob had made. he wanted some so badly.
  • 00:13:24.960 --> 00:13:27.363
  • He wanted some so badly. jacob said, “i'll give it
  • 00:13:27.429 --> 00:13:28.497
  • Jacob said, “i'll give it to you, if you'll give me
  • 00:13:28.564 --> 00:13:29.999
  • To you, if you'll give me your birthright.” the
  • 00:13:30.065 --> 00:13:31.867
  • Your birthright.” the birthright in those days
  • 00:13:31.934 --> 00:13:33.736
  • Birthright in those days was very valuable. esau was
  • 00:13:33.802 --> 00:13:36.272
  • Was very valuable. esau was his twin, but he was the
  • 00:13:36.338 --> 00:13:37.673
  • His twin, but he was the first born son. they always
  • 00:13:37.740 --> 00:13:39.909
  • First born son. they always received double the
  • 00:13:39.975 --> 00:13:41.310
  • Received double the inheritance. jacob was so
  • 00:13:41.377 --> 00:13:43.412
  • Inheritance. jacob was so manipulative that he took
  • 00:13:43.479 --> 00:13:45.281
  • Manipulative that he took advantage of his brother
  • 00:13:45.347 --> 00:13:46.749
  • Advantage of his brother not thinking correctly.
  • 00:13:46.815 --> 00:13:48.484
  • Not thinking correctly. esau gave him his
  • 00:13:48.550 --> 00:13:49.518
  • Esau gave him his birthright for a pot of
  • 00:13:49.585 --> 00:13:50.986
  • Birthright for a pot of stew.
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  • Stew. years later, when their
  • 00:13:52.588 --> 00:13:53.923
  • Years later, when their father isaac was about to
  • 00:13:53.989 --> 00:13:55.858
  • Father isaac was about to pass, he called esau in to
  • 00:13:55.925 --> 00:13:58.761
  • Pass, he called esau in to give him the blessing that
  • 00:13:58.827 --> 00:14:00.095
  • Give him the blessing that belonged to the first-born
  • 00:14:00.162 --> 00:14:01.297
  • Belonged to the first-born son. isaac was nearly
  • 00:14:01.363 --> 00:14:03.132
  • Son. isaac was nearly blind, couldn't see. jacob
  • 00:14:03.198 --> 00:14:05.668
  • Blind, couldn't see. jacob dressed up like esau, put
  • 00:14:05.734 --> 00:14:07.836
  • Dressed up like esau, put on his clothes, his shoes,
  • 00:14:07.903 --> 00:14:09.271
  • On his clothes, his shoes, his cologne. walked in and
  • 00:14:09.338 --> 00:14:10.673
  • His cologne. walked in and said, “dad, here i am, i'm
  • 00:14:10.739 --> 00:14:12.608
  • Said, “dad, here i am, i'm ready for my blessing.”
  • 00:14:12.675 --> 00:14:14.610
  • Ready for my blessing.” isaac was a little
  • 00:14:14.677 --> 00:14:15.444
  • Isaac was a little skeptical. he said, “is
  • 00:14:15.511 --> 00:14:16.712
  • Skeptical. he said, “is this jacob or is this
  • 00:14:16.779 --> 00:14:17.880
  • This jacob or is this esau?” jacob said, “it's
  • 00:14:17.947 --> 00:14:19.815
  • Esau?” jacob said, “it's me, dad, it's esau.” isaac
  • 00:14:19.882 --> 00:14:22.318
  • Me, dad, it's esau.” isaac said, “come closer, i want
  • 00:14:22.384 --> 00:14:23.953
  • Said, “come closer, i want to feel your arms.” esau
  • 00:14:24.019 --> 00:14:25.721
  • To feel your arms.” esau was very hairy, like my
  • 00:14:25.788 --> 00:14:27.323
  • Was very hairy, like my brother paul. this way.
  • 00:14:27.389 --> 00:14:28.524
  • Brother paul. this way. jacob had on a coat of
  • 00:14:28.590 --> 00:14:31.760
  • Jacob had on a coat of animal fur. his dad felt
  • 00:14:31.827 --> 00:14:34.396
  • Animal fur. his dad felt it, said, “i guess it is
  • 00:14:34.463 --> 00:14:35.364
  • It, said, “i guess it is esau.” he gave jacob the
  • 00:14:35.431 --> 00:14:37.566
  • Esau.” he gave jacob the blessing that belonged to
  • 00:14:37.633 --> 00:14:39.168
  • Blessing that belonged to esau. when esau found out,
  • 00:14:39.234 --> 00:14:41.437
  • Esau. when esau found out, he was so angry that jacob
  • 00:14:41.503 --> 00:14:43.572
  • He was so angry that jacob had to flee for his life.
  • 00:14:43.639 --> 00:14:44.773
  • Had to flee for his life. he started running. he
  • 00:14:44.840 --> 00:14:47.009
  • He started running. he lived in exile, worked for
  • 00:14:47.076 --> 00:14:48.877
  • Lived in exile, worked for his uncle laban. what's
  • 00:14:48.944 --> 00:14:50.846
  • His uncle laban. what's interesting is laban was
  • 00:14:50.913 --> 00:14:53.082
  • Interesting is laban was dishonest with jacob. he
  • 00:14:53.148 --> 00:14:54.917
  • Dishonest with jacob. he promised him one daughter
  • 00:14:54.984 --> 00:14:56.251
  • Promised him one daughter in marriage, but when the
  • 00:14:56.318 --> 00:14:57.419
  • In marriage, but when the time came, he tricked him
  • 00:14:57.486 --> 00:14:59.388
  • Time came, he tricked him and gave him his other
  • 00:14:59.455 --> 00:15:00.389
  • And gave him his other daughter. be careful what
  • 00:15:00.456 --> 00:15:02.691
  • Daughter. be careful what you sow. because what you
  • 00:15:02.758 --> 00:15:04.560
  • You sow. because what you sow is going to come back
  • 00:15:04.626 --> 00:15:05.828
  • Sow is going to come back to you.
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  • To you. twenty years later, jacob
  • 00:15:07.029 --> 00:15:08.797
  • Twenty years later, jacob got tired of running. he
  • 00:15:08.864 --> 00:15:10.499
  • Got tired of running. he decided to go back home.
  • 00:15:10.566 --> 00:15:12.601
  • Decided to go back home. what's significant is the
  • 00:15:12.668 --> 00:15:13.936
  • What's significant is the only way he could get home,
  • 00:15:14.003 --> 00:15:15.971
  • Only way he could get home, was to go through the city
  • 00:15:16.038 --> 00:15:17.172
  • Was to go through the city of edom, where esau lived.
  • 00:15:17.239 --> 00:15:20.175
  • Of edom, where esau lived. what you run away from,
  • 00:15:20.242 --> 00:15:21.910
  • What you run away from, you'll always have to go
  • 00:15:21.977 --> 00:15:23.012
  • You'll always have to go back and deal with. home
  • 00:15:23.078 --> 00:15:25.247
  • Back and deal with. home for jacob could have been a
  • 00:15:25.314 --> 00:15:26.281
  • For jacob could have been a different direction, esau
  • 00:15:26.348 --> 00:15:28.083
  • Different direction, esau could have moved to another
  • 00:15:28.150 --> 00:15:29.084
  • Could have moved to another country, but right in
  • 00:15:29.151 --> 00:15:30.953
  • Country, but right in jacob's path was esau. when
  • 00:15:31.020 --> 00:15:33.756
  • Jacob's path was esau. when we ignore, push down, that
  • 00:15:33.822 --> 00:15:36.358
  • We ignore, push down, that doesn't mean it goes away.
  • 00:15:36.425 --> 00:15:38.193
  • Doesn't mean it goes away. that's still going to be
  • 00:15:38.260 --> 00:15:39.328
  • That's still going to be between you and your
  • 00:15:39.395 --> 00:15:40.429
  • Between you and your destiny. the good news is
  • 00:15:40.496 --> 00:15:42.798
  • Destiny. the good news is god will give you the grace
  • 00:15:42.865 --> 00:15:44.133
  • God will give you the grace to deal with it. jacob sent
  • 00:15:44.199 --> 00:15:46.535
  • To deal with it. jacob sent word to his brother, that
  • 00:15:46.602 --> 00:15:48.070
  • Word to his brother, that he wanted to make things
  • 00:15:48.137 --> 00:15:49.138
  • He wanted to make things right, they had been at
  • 00:15:49.204 --> 00:15:50.606
  • Right, they had been at odds long enough. esau
  • 00:15:50.672 --> 00:15:52.508
  • Odds long enough. esau agreed to meet him. as they
  • 00:15:52.574 --> 00:15:54.410
  • Agreed to meet him. as they were traveling down the
  • 00:15:54.476 --> 00:15:55.277
  • Were traveling down the road, jacob saw esau and
  • 00:15:55.344 --> 00:15:57.513
  • Road, jacob saw esau and all of his men coming
  • 00:15:57.579 --> 00:15:58.547
  • All of his men coming toward him. you can imagine
  • 00:15:58.614 --> 00:16:00.649
  • Toward him. you can imagine the apprehension, jacob not
  • 00:16:00.716 --> 00:16:02.684
  • The apprehension, jacob not knowing how his brother is
  • 00:16:02.751 --> 00:16:04.019
  • Knowing how his brother is going to respond. is he
  • 00:16:04.086 --> 00:16:05.487
  • Going to respond. is he going to be angry, try to
  • 00:16:05.554 --> 00:16:07.056
  • Going to be angry, try to get revenge, will this be a
  • 00:16:07.122 --> 00:16:08.490
  • Get revenge, will this be a big fight? esau got closer
  • 00:16:08.557 --> 00:16:11.160
  • Big fight? esau got closer and started running toward
  • 00:16:11.226 --> 00:16:12.594
  • And started running toward him. jacob was expecting
  • 00:16:12.661 --> 00:16:14.630
  • Him. jacob was expecting the worst, but esau grabbed
  • 00:16:14.696 --> 00:16:16.932
  • The worst, but esau grabbed jacob and hugged him,
  • 00:16:16.999 --> 00:16:18.634
  • Jacob and hugged him, wouldn't let him go. he
  • 00:16:18.700 --> 00:16:20.202
  • Wouldn't let him go. he went over to jacob's wife,
  • 00:16:20.269 --> 00:16:21.770
  • Went over to jacob's wife, his children, hugged them
  • 00:16:21.837 --> 00:16:23.072
  • His children, hugged them too.
  • 00:16:23.138 --> 00:16:24.373
  • Too. after all he'd done to
  • 00:16:24.440 --> 00:16:25.674
  • After all he'd done to esau, he never dreamed one
  • 00:16:25.741 --> 00:16:27.976
  • Esau, he never dreamed one day they would be hugging
  • 00:16:28.043 --> 00:16:29.645
  • Day they would be hugging affectionately. but when
  • 00:16:29.711 --> 00:16:31.647
  • Affectionately. but when you stop running, when you
  • 00:16:31.713 --> 00:16:33.515
  • You stop running, when you deal with things that
  • 00:16:33.582 --> 00:16:34.616
  • Deal with things that you've pushed down, when
  • 00:16:34.683 --> 00:16:36.085
  • You've pushed down, when you get honest with
  • 00:16:36.151 --> 00:16:37.019
  • You get honest with yourself and make things
  • 00:16:37.086 --> 00:16:38.554
  • Yourself and make things right, the grace of god
  • 00:16:38.620 --> 00:16:40.656
  • Right, the grace of god goes before you. god will
  • 00:16:40.722 --> 00:16:42.724
  • Goes before you. god will soften people's hearts.
  • 00:16:42.791 --> 00:16:44.526
  • Soften people's hearts. he'll make your crooked
  • 00:16:44.593 --> 00:16:45.427
  • He'll make your crooked places straight. like
  • 00:16:45.494 --> 00:16:47.429
  • Places straight. like jacob, you may have made
  • 00:16:47.496 --> 00:16:49.031
  • Jacob, you may have made mistakes, we all have, you
  • 00:16:49.098 --> 00:16:51.433
  • Mistakes, we all have, you may need to apologize, you
  • 00:16:51.500 --> 00:16:53.469
  • May need to apologize, you may need to ask for
  • 00:16:53.535 --> 00:16:54.403
  • May need to ask for forgiveness, you may need
  • 00:16:54.470 --> 00:16:55.838
  • Forgiveness, you may need to call that loved one you
  • 00:16:55.904 --> 00:16:57.206
  • To call that loved one you haven't spoken to and make
  • 00:16:57.272 --> 00:16:58.607
  • Haven't spoken to and make peace. don't wander twenty
  • 00:16:58.674 --> 00:17:01.110
  • Peace. don't wander twenty years like he did, running
  • 00:17:01.176 --> 00:17:03.078
  • Years like he did, running from your past, making
  • 00:17:03.145 --> 00:17:04.680
  • From your past, making excuses for your failures,
  • 00:17:04.746 --> 00:17:06.615
  • Excuses for your failures, thinking that's just who
  • 00:17:06.682 --> 00:17:07.616
  • Thinking that's just who you are. stop running. ask
  • 00:17:07.683 --> 00:17:10.085
  • You are. stop running. ask god to help you to change.
  • 00:17:10.152 --> 00:17:12.154
  • God to help you to change. when you make a move,
  • 00:17:12.221 --> 00:17:13.589
  • When you make a move, you'll see his hand of
  • 00:17:13.655 --> 00:17:14.756
  • You'll see his hand of favor, making things happen
  • 00:17:14.823 --> 00:17:16.992
  • Favor, making things happen that you couldn't make
  • 00:17:17.059 --> 00:17:17.826
  • That you couldn't make happen.
  • 00:17:17.893 --> 00:17:18.527
  • Happen. the night before this big
  • 00:17:18.594 --> 00:17:20.896
  • The night before this big encounter, jacob went to
  • 00:17:20.963 --> 00:17:22.965
  • Encounter, jacob went to the brook by himself to be
  • 00:17:23.031 --> 00:17:25.134
  • The brook by himself to be alone with god. he was
  • 00:17:25.200 --> 00:17:26.668
  • Alone with god. he was reflecting back on his
  • 00:17:26.735 --> 00:17:27.970
  • Reflecting back on his life; no doubt, thinking
  • 00:17:28.036 --> 00:17:29.805
  • Life; no doubt, thinking about how he had treated
  • 00:17:29.872 --> 00:17:30.973
  • About how he had treated esau. jacob didn't like who
  • 00:17:31.039 --> 00:17:33.275
  • Esau. jacob didn't like who he'd become. he knew he was
  • 00:17:33.342 --> 00:17:35.210
  • He'd become. he knew he was better than this. an angel
  • 00:17:35.277 --> 00:17:37.379
  • Better than this. an angel appeared that night, he
  • 00:17:37.446 --> 00:17:38.914
  • Appeared that night, he looked like a man, the
  • 00:17:38.981 --> 00:17:40.315
  • Looked like a man, the angel and jacob started
  • 00:17:40.382 --> 00:17:41.617
  • Angel and jacob started wrestling. jacob must have
  • 00:17:41.683 --> 00:17:43.652
  • Wrestling. jacob must have known there was something
  • 00:17:43.719 --> 00:17:44.753
  • Known there was something significant happening
  • 00:17:44.820 --> 00:17:46.655
  • Significant happening because he said to the
  • 00:17:46.722 --> 00:17:47.523
  • Because he said to the angel, “i'm not leaving
  • 00:17:47.589 --> 00:17:49.758
  • Angel, “i'm not leaving until you bless me.” the
  • 00:17:49.825 --> 00:17:51.894
  • Until you bless me.” the angel asked him, “what is
  • 00:17:51.960 --> 00:17:53.762
  • Angel asked him, “what is your name?” that seemed
  • 00:17:53.829 --> 00:17:55.497
  • Your name?” that seemed like an odd question. why
  • 00:17:55.564 --> 00:17:57.299
  • Like an odd question. why did he care what his name
  • 00:17:57.366 --> 00:17:58.433
  • Did he care what his name was? this was the same
  • 00:17:58.500 --> 00:18:00.335
  • Was? this was the same question that jacob's
  • 00:18:00.402 --> 00:18:02.037
  • Question that jacob's father asked him when he
  • 00:18:02.104 --> 00:18:03.872
  • Father asked him when he was there to get esau's
  • 00:18:03.939 --> 00:18:05.174
  • Was there to get esau's blessing. i can imagine a
  • 00:18:05.240 --> 00:18:07.876
  • Blessing. i can imagine a debate was going on in
  • 00:18:07.943 --> 00:18:09.444
  • Debate was going on in jacob's mind. thoughts
  • 00:18:09.511 --> 00:18:11.346
  • Jacob's mind. thoughts telling him, “just tell him
  • 00:18:11.413 --> 00:18:12.881
  • Telling him, “just tell him that you're esau, like you
  • 00:18:12.948 --> 00:18:14.616
  • That you're esau, like you did with your father, just
  • 00:18:14.683 --> 00:18:15.884
  • Did with your father, just keep pretending, keep being
  • 00:18:15.951 --> 00:18:17.452
  • Keep pretending, keep being dishonest. this is who you
  • 00:18:17.519 --> 00:18:19.188
  • Dishonest. this is who you are.” jacob thought about
  • 00:18:19.254 --> 00:18:21.156
  • Are.” jacob thought about it and said, “no i'm not
  • 00:18:21.223 --> 00:18:23.292
  • It and said, “no i'm not living like this anymore.
  • 00:18:23.358 --> 00:18:25.093
  • Living like this anymore. i'm not going to keep
  • 00:18:25.160 --> 00:18:25.894
  • I'm not going to keep compromising, making
  • 00:18:25.961 --> 00:18:27.596
  • Compromising, making decisions that i'm not
  • 00:18:27.663 --> 00:18:28.730
  • Decisions that i'm not proud of.” he said to the
  • 00:18:28.797 --> 00:18:30.566
  • Proud of.” he said to the angel, “i am jacob.” his
  • 00:18:30.632 --> 00:18:33.669
  • Angel, “i am jacob.” his name means trickster,
  • 00:18:33.735 --> 00:18:35.437
  • Name means trickster, conniver. he was admitting,
  • 00:18:35.504 --> 00:18:38.240
  • Conniver. he was admitting, “i don't have integrity. i
  • 00:18:38.307 --> 00:18:40.075
  • “i don't have integrity. i deceive people.” he got
  • 00:18:40.142 --> 00:18:42.077
  • Deceive people.” he got honest with himself. he
  • 00:18:42.144 --> 00:18:43.779
  • Honest with himself. he quit running.
  • 00:18:43.845 --> 00:18:45.280
  • Quit running. the angel didn't say, “it's
  • 00:18:45.347 --> 00:18:46.548
  • The angel didn't say, “it's about time, you need to get
  • 00:18:46.615 --> 00:18:48.417
  • About time, you need to get right, you're never going
  • 00:18:48.483 --> 00:18:49.484
  • Right, you're never going to be blessed.” when he
  • 00:18:49.551 --> 00:18:51.153
  • To be blessed.” when he admitted who he was, god
  • 00:18:51.220 --> 00:18:53.355
  • Admitted who he was, god changed his name to israel,
  • 00:18:53.422 --> 00:18:55.691
  • Changed his name to israel, which means prince with
  • 00:18:55.757 --> 00:18:56.758
  • Which means prince with god. the principle is, when
  • 00:18:56.825 --> 00:18:59.561
  • God. the principle is, when you get honest, you don't
  • 00:18:59.628 --> 00:19:01.697
  • You get honest, you don't make excuses, that's when
  • 00:19:01.763 --> 00:19:03.732
  • Make excuses, that's when god changes things. you
  • 00:19:03.799 --> 00:19:06.001
  • God changes things. you don't have to keep running,
  • 00:19:06.068 --> 00:19:07.869
  • Don't have to keep running, from your mistakes, from
  • 00:19:07.936 --> 00:19:09.471
  • From your mistakes, from your past, what you're not
  • 00:19:09.538 --> 00:19:11.006
  • Your past, what you're not proud of. when you go to
  • 00:19:11.073 --> 00:19:13.008
  • Proud of. when you go to god, he's not going to
  • 00:19:13.075 --> 00:19:14.409
  • God, he's not going to condemn you, he's going to
  • 00:19:14.476 --> 00:19:16.011
  • Condemn you, he's going to help you rise out of what's
  • 00:19:16.078 --> 00:19:17.512
  • Help you rise out of what's holding you down and thrust
  • 00:19:17.579 --> 00:19:19.281
  • Holding you down and thrust you into your destiny.
  • 00:19:19.348 --> 00:19:21.416
  • You into your destiny. jacob never dreamed he
  • 00:19:21.483 --> 00:19:23.085
  • Jacob never dreamed he would be called a prince
  • 00:19:23.151 --> 00:19:24.119
  • Would be called a prince with god. he never dreamed
  • 00:19:24.186 --> 00:19:26.655
  • With god. he never dreamed he would have a good
  • 00:19:26.722 --> 00:19:27.322
  • He would have a good relationship with his
  • 00:19:27.389 --> 00:19:29.091
  • Relationship with his brother. never dreamed he
  • 00:19:29.157 --> 00:19:30.525
  • Brother. never dreamed he would be able to live in
  • 00:19:30.592 --> 00:19:31.760
  • Would be able to live in his hometown without fear
  • 00:19:31.827 --> 00:19:33.895
  • His hometown without fear of all the negative things
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  • Of all the negative things in his past. but when you
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  • In his past. but when you quit running, when you live
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  • Quit running, when you live open and honest before god,
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  • Open and honest before god, when you deal with things
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  • When you deal with things he brings to light, he'll
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  • He brings to light, he'll not only restore you, but
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  • Not only restore you, but he'll make things better
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  • He'll make things better than you've ever imagined.
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  • Than you've ever imagined. later in my father's life,
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  • Later in my father's life, i arranged for all these
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  • I arranged for all these radio stations to carry his
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  • Radio stations to carry his messages. all i needed him
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  • Messages. all i needed him to do was to come down once
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  • To do was to come down once a month for half an hour,
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  • A month for half an hour, we'd make the openings and
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  • We'd make the openings and closings. it was very easy.
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  • Closings. it was very easy. i had worked on this for
  • 00:20:03.125 --> 00:20:04.326
  • I had worked on this for six months and everything
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  • Six months and everything fell into place. but when i
  • 00:20:05.827 --> 00:20:07.729
  • Fell into place. but when i asked my father, he said,
  • 00:20:07.796 --> 00:20:09.131
  • Asked my father, he said, “joel, i'm seventy-five
  • 00:20:09.197 --> 00:20:10.732
  • “joel, i'm seventy-five years old. i'm not looking
  • 00:20:10.799 --> 00:20:12.567
  • Years old. i'm not looking for any more work. i just
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  • For any more work. i just want to pastor the church
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  • Want to pastor the church and relax.” i was so
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  • And relax.” i was so disappointed. i said, “god
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  • Disappointed. i said, “god you've put a big vision in
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  • You've put a big vision in my heart. i'm young, i
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  • My heart. i'm young, i don't want to do less, i
  • 00:20:23.478 --> 00:20:24.446
  • Don't want to do less, i want to do more.” i thought
  • 00:20:24.513 --> 00:20:26.515
  • Want to do more.” i thought maybe this is the time to
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  • Maybe this is the time to go work somewhere else. i
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  • Go work somewhere else. i had an opportunity to work
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  • Had an opportunity to work for one of the most
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  • For one of the most prominent ministries at
  • 00:20:31.953 --> 00:20:33.121
  • Prominent ministries at that time. but when i got
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  • That time. but when i got quiet, i could hear a still
  • 00:20:35.324 --> 00:20:37.526
  • Quiet, i could hear a still small voice saying, “joel
  • 00:20:37.592 --> 00:20:39.494
  • Small voice saying, “joel this is your father's
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  • This is your father's vision. just because he's
  • 00:20:40.595 --> 00:20:42.531
  • Vision. just because he's not doing what you want,
  • 00:20:42.597 --> 00:20:44.166
  • Not doing what you want, doesn't mean you should
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  • Doesn't mean you should leave. stay here, honor
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  • Leave. stay here, honor what he wants to do.”
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  • What he wants to do.” sometimes when we're not
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  • Sometimes when we're not getting our way, we want to
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  • Getting our way, we want to run. we're not getting the
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  • Run. we're not getting the credit, “they don't see my
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  • Credit, “they don't see my talent, this supervisor is
  • 00:20:55.777 --> 00:20:57.679
  • Talent, this supervisor is not fair, i'm out of here.”
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  • Not fair, i'm out of here.” yes, there are times we
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  • Yes, there are times we need to move on, but you
  • 00:21:01.350 --> 00:21:02.951
  • Need to move on, but you can't run every time it's
  • 00:21:03.018 --> 00:21:04.753
  • Can't run every time it's uncomfortable, in your
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  • Uncomfortable, in your marriage, your job, your
  • 00:21:06.521 --> 00:21:08.457
  • Marriage, your job, your school. if i had not stayed
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  • School. if i had not stayed there and honored my
  • 00:21:10.959 --> 00:21:11.760
  • There and honored my father, i don't believe i
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  • Father, i don't believe i would be up here today.
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  • Would be up here today. some of the things we want
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  • Some of the things we want to run from, it's a test.
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  • To run from, it's a test. god is seeing how we'll
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  • God is seeing how we'll serve when we're not being
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  • Serve when we're not being treated right. what kind of
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  • Treated right. what kind of attitude will we have when
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  • Attitude will we have when it's not fair, we're
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  • It's not fair, we're uncomfortable, not getting
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  • Uncomfortable, not getting the credit. don't have a
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  • The credit. don't have a running mentality. every
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  • Running mentality. every time you don't get your
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  • Time you don't get your way, you change jobs,
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  • Way, you change jobs, change friends, change
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  • Change friends, change churches, change spouses.
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  • Churches, change spouses. stop running. grow in those
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  • Stop running. grow in those times. let your roots go
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  • Times. let your roots go down deep. don't be moved
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  • Down deep. don't be moved by what's not working out.
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  • By what's not working out. your character is being
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  • Your character is being developed. god is seeing
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  • Developed. god is seeing what he can trust you with.
  • 00:21:50.432 --> 00:21:51.566
  • What he can trust you with. in genesis 16, hagar was
  • 00:21:51.633 --> 00:21:54.770
  • In genesis 16, hagar was the maid that abraham had a
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  • The maid that abraham had a baby with out of wedlock.
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  • Baby with out of wedlock. it was abraham's wife sarah
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  • It was abraham's wife sarah that had the big idea, but
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  • That had the big idea, but sarah was so upset that she
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  • Sarah was so upset that she started making hagar's life
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  • Started making hagar's life miserable. verse 6 says,
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  • Miserable. verse 6 says, “sarah treated her harshly,
  • 00:22:08.150 --> 00:22:10.285
  • “sarah treated her harshly, so hagar ran away.” hagar
  • 00:22:10.352 --> 00:22:13.188
  • So hagar ran away.” hagar had had enough. she
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  • Had had enough. she thought, “i don't have to
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  • Thought, “i don't have to put up with this. i'm out
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  • Put up with this. i'm out of here.” she left, went
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  • Of here.” she left, went out into the wilderness. an
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  • Out into the wilderness. an angel showed up and said,
  • 00:22:20.228 --> 00:22:21.430
  • Angel showed up and said, “hagar, what are you doing
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  • “hagar, what are you doing out here?” she said, “i'm
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  • Out here?” she said, “i'm running away. these people
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  • Running away. these people aren't treating me right.”
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  • Aren't treating me right.” the angel didn't say, “oh
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  • The angel didn't say, “oh that makes sense, i don't
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  • That makes sense, i don't blame you.” he said, “go
  • 00:22:31.339 --> 00:22:33.175
  • Blame you.” he said, “go back to sarah and submit to
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  • Back to sarah and submit to her authority.” anything
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  • Her authority.” anything you run from, you're
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  • You run from, you're eventually going to have to
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  • Eventually going to have to go back and deal with. i'm
  • 00:22:40.615 --> 00:22:42.751
  • Go back and deal with. i'm not talking about staying
  • 00:22:42.818 --> 00:22:43.919
  • Not talking about staying in abuse, but i am saying
  • 00:22:43.985 --> 00:22:45.954
  • In abuse, but i am saying you can't run every time
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  • You can't run every time things get hard and reach
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  • Things get hard and reach your destiny. you can't
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  • Your destiny. you can't pack up because you're
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  • Pack up because you're uncomfortable. god won't
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  • Uncomfortable. god won't have you somewhere and not
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  • Have you somewhere and not give you the grace to be
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  • Give you the grace to be there. the angel went on to
  • 00:22:57.299 --> 00:22:59.234
  • There. the angel went on to say, “if you'll go back and
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  • Say, “if you'll go back and serve sarah, god will give
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  • Serve sarah, god will give you more descendants than
  • 00:23:03.338 --> 00:23:04.840
  • You more descendants than you can count.” when you
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  • You can count.” when you stop running, you do the
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  • Stop running, you do the right thing when it's hard,
  • 00:23:08.710 --> 00:23:10.378
  • Right thing when it's hard, there is a blessing that
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  • There is a blessing that follows. god will show out
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  • Follows. god will show out in your life, take you to
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  • In your life, take you to levels that you never
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  • Levels that you never dreamed.
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  • Dreamed. are you running from
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  • Are you running from something today? are you
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  • Something today? are you comforting what you should
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  • Comforting what you should be confronting? don't go
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  • Be confronting? don't go another year out in the
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  • Another year out in the wilderness, putting off
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  • Wilderness, putting off what you know you should
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  • What you know you should do. get honest with
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  • Do. get honest with yourself. deal with the
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  • Yourself. deal with the issues god is bringing to
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  • Issues god is bringing to light. it may be difficult,
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  • Light. it may be difficult, but when you take that
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  • But when you take that step, the grace of god is
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  • Step, the grace of god is going to make it easier
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  • Going to make it easier than you think. if you'll
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  • Than you think. if you'll stop running, i believe and
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  • Stop running, i believe and declare, like the children
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  • Declare, like the children of the israelites, you're
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  • Of the israelites, you're going to break negative
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  • Going to break negative cycles that have held your
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  • Cycles that have held your family down and go into
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  • Family down and go into your promised land. like
  • 00:23:50.785 --> 00:23:52.654
  • Your promised land. like mary, you're going to have
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  • Mary, you're going to have the power to deal with
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  • The power to deal with issues, heavy weights are
  • 00:23:54.990 --> 00:23:56.925
  • Issues, heavy weights are about to lift off of you.
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  • About to lift off of you. and like jacob, you're
  • 00:23:58.260 --> 00:23:59.961
  • And like jacob, you're going to rise out of
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  • Going to rise out of mediocrity and become all
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  • Mediocrity and become all you were created you to be,
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  • You were created you to be, in jesus' name. if you
  • 00:24:04.633 --> 00:24:06.268
  • In jesus' name. if you receive it, can you say
  • 00:24:06.334 --> 00:24:07.602
  • Receive it, can you say amen?
  • 00:24:07.669 --> 00:24:09.170
  • It's easy to let the
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  • It's easy to let the day get away from us
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  • Day get away from us before the day even starts.
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  • Before the day even starts. the first few
  • 00:24:13.608 --> 00:24:14.276
  • The first few minutes of your morning
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  • Minutes of your morning are more powerful
  • 00:24:15.477 --> 00:24:16.344
  • Are more powerful than you might think.
  • 00:24:16.411 --> 00:24:17.579
  • Than you might think. life moves
  • 00:24:17.646 --> 00:24:18.313
  • Life moves really fast sometimes,
  • 00:24:18.380 --> 00:24:19.714
  • Really fast sometimes, and it can be easy to begin
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  • And it can be easy to begin each day
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  • Each day by zeroing in on your problems.
  • 00:24:22.150 --> 00:24:24.219
  • By zeroing in on your problems. but here's the truth:
  • 00:24:24.286 --> 00:24:26.054
  • But here's the truth: how you start
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  • How you start the day can determine
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  • The day can determine what kind of day
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  • What kind of day it's going to be,
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  • It's going to be, and i'd love to send you
  • 00:24:29.491 --> 00:24:30.725
  • And i'd love to send you my devotional,
  • 00:24:30.792 --> 00:24:31.593
  • My devotional, 3 minute mornings:
  • 00:24:31.660 --> 00:24:32.861
  • 3 minute mornings: start your day the blessed way.
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  • Start your day the blessed way. three minutes
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  • Three minutes doesn't seem like
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  • Doesn't seem like a lot of time,
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  • A lot of time, but when you put god
  • 00:24:37.165 --> 00:24:38.033
  • But when you put god first place
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  • First place and get your mind
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  • And get your mind going in the right
  • 00:24:39.768 --> 00:24:40.402
  • Going in the right direction, it's
  • 00:24:40.468 --> 00:24:41.403
  • Direction, it's setting the tone for a blessed,
  • 00:24:41.469 --> 00:24:43.271
  • Setting the tone for a blessed, productive day.
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  • Productive day. it's filled with inspiration
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  • It's filled with inspiration and encouragement
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  • And encouragement to help you begin
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  • To help you begin each day with a fresh attitude,
  • 00:24:47.409 --> 00:24:49.344
  • Each day with a fresh attitude, grateful that you're alive.
  • 00:24:49.411 --> 00:24:51.079
  • Grateful that you're alive. it's amazing
  • 00:24:51.146 --> 00:24:51.613
  • It's amazing what happens
  • 00:24:51.680 --> 00:24:52.380
  • What happens when you take three minutes
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  • When you take three minutes and speak
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  • And speak blessings over your life,
  • 00:24:54.349 --> 00:24:55.784
  • Blessings over your life, declaring god's favor.
  • 00:24:55.850 --> 00:24:57.385
  • Declaring god's favor. 3 minute mornings
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  • 3 minute mornings is our gift to you.
  • 00:24:58.420 --> 00:25:00.155
  • Is our gift to you. as our way of saying thank you
  • 00:25:00.221 --> 00:25:01.856
  • As our way of saying thank you for your gift of any amount
  • 00:25:01.923 --> 00:25:03.358
  • For your gift of any amount this month,
  • 00:25:03.425 --> 00:25:04.025
  • This month, we would like to send you
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  • We would like to send you a copy of joel's
  • 00:25:05.260 --> 00:25:06.261
  • A copy of joel's new devotional,
  • 00:25:06.328 --> 00:25:07.329
  • New devotional, 3 minute mornings:
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  • 3 minute mornings: start your day in faith.
  • 00:25:08.797 --> 00:25:10.832
  • Start your day in faith. this powerful book
  • 00:25:10.899 --> 00:25:12.000
  • This powerful book will open the pathways
  • 00:25:12.067 --> 00:25:13.368
  • Will open the pathways to experience god's presence
  • 00:25:13.435 --> 00:25:15.103
  • To experience god's presence and peace in your life.
  • 00:25:15.170 --> 00:25:16.771
  • And peace in your life. and there
  • 00:25:16.838 --> 00:25:17.505
  • And there you will find renewed energy,
  • 00:25:17.572 --> 00:25:19.474
  • You will find renewed energy, assurance, and wisdom
  • 00:25:19.541 --> 00:25:21.042
  • Assurance, and wisdom to face your day.
  • 00:25:21.109 --> 00:25:22.377
  • To face your day. the bible promises
  • 00:25:22.444 --> 00:25:23.645
  • The bible promises that god is a rewarder
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  • That god is a rewarder of those
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  • Of those who diligently seek him.
  • 00:25:25.814 --> 00:25:27.449
  • Who diligently seek him. so as you pause
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  • So as you pause for only three minutes
  • 00:25:28.717 --> 00:25:30.218
  • For only three minutes and take
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  • And take in his wonderful promises
  • 00:25:30.885 --> 00:25:32.420
  • In his wonderful promises in this book,
  • 00:25:32.487 --> 00:25:33.388
  • In this book, you will be
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  • You will be positioning yourself
  • 00:25:33.922 --> 00:25:34.990
  • Positioning yourself to receive
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  • To receive all the amazing things
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  • All the amazing things that god has in store for you.
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