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October 15, 2020
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Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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  • (APPLAUSE)
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  • (APPLAUSE)WELL, GOD BLESS YOU.
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  • (APPLAUSE)WELL, GOD BLESS YOU.IT'S ALWAYS A JOY TO COME INTO
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  • WELL, GOD BLESS YOU.IT'S ALWAYS A JOY TO COME INTOYOUR HOMES.
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  • IT'S ALWAYS A JOY TO COME INTOYOUR HOMES.IF YOU'RE EVER IN OUR AREA
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  • YOUR HOMES.IF YOU'RE EVER IN OUR AREAPLEASE STOP BY AND BE A PART OF
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  • IF YOU'RE EVER IN OUR AREAPLEASE STOP BY AND BE A PART OFONE OF OUR SERVICES.
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  • PLEASE STOP BY AND BE A PART OFONE OF OUR SERVICES.I PROMISE YOU WE'LL MAKE YOU
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  • ONE OF OUR SERVICES.I PROMISE YOU WE'LL MAKE YOUFEEL RIGHT AT HOME. BUT THANKS
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  • I PROMISE YOU WE'LL MAKE YOUFEEL RIGHT AT HOME. BUT THANKSSO MUCH FOR TUNING IN.
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  • FEEL RIGHT AT HOME. BUT THANKSSO MUCH FOR TUNING IN.THANK YOU AGAIN FOR COMING OUT.
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  • SO MUCH FOR TUNING IN.THANK YOU AGAIN FOR COMING OUT.I LIKE TO START WITH SOMETHING
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  • THANK YOU AGAIN FOR COMING OUT.I LIKE TO START WITH SOMETHINGFUNNY.
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  • I LIKE TO START WITH SOMETHINGFUNNY.I HEARD ABOUT THIS MOM.
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  • FUNNY.I HEARD ABOUT THIS MOM.SHE HAD TWO YOUNG BOYS THAT WERE
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  • I HEARD ABOUT THIS MOM.SHE HAD TWO YOUNG BOYS THAT WEREKNOWN FOR THEIR MISCHIEVOUS
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  • SHE HAD TWO YOUNG BOYS THAT WEREKNOWN FOR THEIR MISCHIEVOUSBEHAVIOR. ANY TIME TROUBLE
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  • KNOWN FOR THEIR MISCHIEVOUSBEHAVIOR. ANY TIME TROUBLEOCCURRED THEY WERE CERTAIN TO
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  • BEHAVIOR. ANY TIME TROUBLEOCCURRED THEY WERE CERTAIN TOBE A PART OF IT. SHE DECIDED TO
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  • OCCURRED THEY WERE CERTAIN TOBE A PART OF IT. SHE DECIDED TOTAKE THEM ONE AT A TIME TO SEE
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  • BE A PART OF IT. SHE DECIDED TOTAKE THEM ONE AT A TIME TO SEEHER PASTOR. THE PASTOR SAID
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  • TAKE THEM ONE AT A TIME TO SEEHER PASTOR. THE PASTOR SAIDTO THE FIRST BOY, "SON, WHERE
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  • HER PASTOR. THE PASTOR SAIDTO THE FIRST BOY, "SON, WHEREIS GOD?"
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  • TO THE FIRST BOY, "SON, WHEREIS GOD?"HE SAT THERE SILENTLY.
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  • IS GOD?"HE SAT THERE SILENTLY.HE ASKED AGAIN, "WHERE IS GOD?"
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  • HE SAT THERE SILENTLY.HE ASKED AGAIN, "WHERE IS GOD?"STILL NO REPLY.
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  • HE ASKED AGAIN, "WHERE IS GOD?"STILL NO REPLY.THE THIRD TIME THE PASTOR ASKED
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  • STILL NO REPLY.THE THIRD TIME THE PASTOR ASKEDTHE YOUNG BOY BOLTED OUT THE
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  • THE THIRD TIME THE PASTOR ASKEDTHE YOUNG BOY BOLTED OUT THEDOOR, RAN HOME, SAID TO HIS
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  • THE YOUNG BOY BOLTED OUT THEDOOR, RAN HOME, SAID TO HISBROTHER, "GOD IS MISSING AND
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  • DOOR, RAN HOME, SAID TO HISBROTHER, "GOD IS MISSING ANDTHEY THINK WE DID IT."
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  • BROTHER, "GOD IS MISSING ANDTHEY THINK WE DID IT."(LAUGHTER/APPLAUSE)
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  • THEY THINK WE DID IT."(LAUGHTER/APPLAUSE)HOLD UP YOUR BIBLE AND SAY IT
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  • (LAUGHTER/APPLAUSE)HOLD UP YOUR BIBLE AND SAY ITLIKE YOU MEAN IT.
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  • HOLD UP YOUR BIBLE AND SAY ITLIKE YOU MEAN IT.THIS IS MY BIBLE.
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  • LIKE YOU MEAN IT.THIS IS MY BIBLE.I AM WHAT IT SAYS I AM.
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  • THIS IS MY BIBLE.I AM WHAT IT SAYS I AM.I HAVE WHAT IT SAYS I HAVE.
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  • I AM WHAT IT SAYS I AM.I HAVE WHAT IT SAYS I HAVE.I CAN DO WHAT IT SAYS I CAN DO.
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  • I HAVE WHAT IT SAYS I HAVE.I CAN DO WHAT IT SAYS I CAN DO.TODAY I WILL BE TAUGHT THE WORD
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  • I CAN DO WHAT IT SAYS I CAN DO.TODAY I WILL BE TAUGHT THE WORDOF GOD.
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  • TODAY I WILL BE TAUGHT THE WORDOF GOD.I BOLDLY CONFESS:
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  • OF GOD.I BOLDLY CONFESS:MY MIND IS ALERT.
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  • I BOLDLY CONFESS:MY MIND IS ALERT.MY HEART IS RECEPTIVE.
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  • MY MIND IS ALERT.MY HEART IS RECEPTIVE.I WILL NEVER BE THE SAME.
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  • MY HEART IS RECEPTIVE.I WILL NEVER BE THE SAME.IN JESUS' NAME.
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  • I WILL NEVER BE THE SAME.IN JESUS' NAME.GOD BLESS YOU.
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  • IN JESUS' NAME.GOD BLESS YOU.I WANT TO TALK TO YOU TODAY
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  • GOD BLESS YOU.I WANT TO TALK TO YOU TODAYABOUT HAVING A HEALTHY HOME.
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  • I WANT TO TALK TO YOU TODAYABOUT HAVING A HEALTHY HOME.THE PEOPLE GOD PUT IN YOUR LIFE
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  • ABOUT HAVING A HEALTHY HOME.THE PEOPLE GOD PUT IN YOUR LIFEARE NOT THERE BY ACCIDENT.
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  • THE PEOPLE GOD PUT IN YOUR LIFEARE NOT THERE BY ACCIDENT.IT'S NOT A COINCIDENCE THAT YOU
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  • ARE NOT THERE BY ACCIDENT.IT'S NOT A COINCIDENCE THAT YOUMET THAT WOMAN, FELL IN LOVE AND
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  • IT'S NOT A COINCIDENCE THAT YOUMET THAT WOMAN, FELL IN LOVE ANDGOT MARRIED.
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  • MET THAT WOMAN, FELL IN LOVE ANDGOT MARRIED.THE CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE
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  • GOT MARRIED.THE CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSEBROUGHT YOUR PATHS TOGETHER.
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  • THE CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSEBROUGHT YOUR PATHS TOGETHER.YOU DIDN'T JUST DECIDE TO HAVE
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  • BROUGHT YOUR PATHS TOGETHER.YOU DIDN'T JUST DECIDE TO HAVETHOSE CHILDREN. THEY DIDN'T
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  • YOU DIDN'T JUST DECIDE TO HAVETHOSE CHILDREN. THEY DIDN'TJUST SHOW UP BECAUSE YOU AND
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  • THOSE CHILDREN. THEY DIDN'TJUST SHOW UP BECAUSE YOU ANDYOUR SPOUSE GOT TOGETHER.
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  • JUST SHOW UP BECAUSE YOU ANDYOUR SPOUSE GOT TOGETHER.GOD KNEW YOUR CHILDREN BEFORE
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  • YOUR SPOUSE GOT TOGETHER.GOD KNEW YOUR CHILDREN BEFORETHEY WERE EVER BORN. THEY HAD
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  • GOD KNEW YOUR CHILDREN BEFORETHEY WERE EVER BORN. THEY HADYOUR NAME ON THEM BEFORE YOU
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  • THEY WERE EVER BORN. THEY HADYOUR NAME ON THEM BEFORE YOUEVEN THOUGHT ABOUT HAVING A
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  • YOUR NAME ON THEM BEFORE YOUEVEN THOUGHT ABOUT HAVING ACHILD.
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  • EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT HAVING ACHILD.YOUR PARENTS, THE PEOPLE THAT
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  • CHILD.YOUR PARENTS, THE PEOPLE THATRAISED YOU, YOU DIDN'T JUST
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  • YOUR PARENTS, THE PEOPLE THATRAISED YOU, YOU DIDN'T JUSTHAPPEN TO END UP IN THAT HOME.
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  • RAISED YOU, YOU DIDN'T JUSTHAPPEN TO END UP IN THAT HOME.GOD PUT YOU THERE ON PURPOSE.
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  • HAPPEN TO END UP IN THAT HOME.GOD PUT YOU THERE ON PURPOSE.HE HAS GIVEN YOU YOUR SPOUSE,
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  • GOD PUT YOU THERE ON PURPOSE.HE HAS GIVEN YOU YOUR SPOUSE,YOUR CHILDREN, THOSE PARENTS,
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  • HE HAS GIVEN YOU YOUR SPOUSE,YOUR CHILDREN, THOSE PARENTS,AS A GIFT. THEY'RE ON LOAN TO
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  • YOUR CHILDREN, THOSE PARENTS,AS A GIFT. THEY'RE ON LOAN TOYOU FOR A PERIOD OF TIME.
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  • AS A GIFT. THEY'RE ON LOAN TOYOU FOR A PERIOD OF TIME.THEY'RE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BE
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  • YOU FOR A PERIOD OF TIME.THEY'RE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BETHERE.
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  • THEY'RE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BETHERE.GOD IS COUNTING ON YOU TO TAKE
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  • THERE.GOD IS COUNTING ON YOU TO TAKECARE OF HIS MOST PRIZED
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  • GOD IS COUNTING ON YOU TO TAKECARE OF HIS MOST PRIZEDPOSSESSIONS.
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  • CARE OF HIS MOST PRIZEDPOSSESSIONS.THEY'RE NOT ORDINARY. THEY ARE
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  • POSSESSIONS.THEY'RE NOT ORDINARY. THEY AREEXTREMELY VALUABLE. DON'T TAKE
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  • THEY'RE NOT ORDINARY. THEY AREEXTREMELY VALUABLE. DON'T TAKETHEM FOR GRANTED.
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  • EXTREMELY VALUABLE. DON'T TAKETHEM FOR GRANTED.YOUR HUSBAND, YOUR WIFE, THEY
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  • THEM FOR GRANTED.YOUR HUSBAND, YOUR WIFE, THEYMAY HAVE SOME FAULTS. YOU MAY
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  • YOUR HUSBAND, YOUR WIFE, THEYMAY HAVE SOME FAULTS. YOU MAYNOT ALWAYS SEE EYE TO EYE BUT
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  • MAY HAVE SOME FAULTS. YOU MAYNOT ALWAYS SEE EYE TO EYE BUTTHEY ARE A TREASURE GIVEN TO
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  • NOT ALWAYS SEE EYE TO EYE BUTTHEY ARE A TREASURE GIVEN TOYOU BY ALMIGHTY GOD.
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  • THEY ARE A TREASURE GIVEN TOYOU BY ALMIGHTY GOD.THOSE CHILDREN MAY BE A LOT OF
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  • YOU BY ALMIGHTY GOD.THOSE CHILDREN MAY BE A LOT OFWORK. THEY DON'T ALWAYS DO
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  • THOSE CHILDREN MAY BE A LOT OFWORK. THEY DON'T ALWAYS DOWHAT'S RIGHT BUT THEY'RE A GIFT
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  • WORK. THEY DON'T ALWAYS DOWHAT'S RIGHT BUT THEY'RE A GIFTFROM GOD.
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  • WHAT'S RIGHT BUT THEY'RE A GIFTFROM GOD.YOU HAVE TO SEE YOUR SPOUSE,
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  • FROM GOD.YOU HAVE TO SEE YOUR SPOUSE,YOUR CHILDREN, YOUR FAMILY AS
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  • YOU HAVE TO SEE YOUR SPOUSE,YOUR CHILDREN, YOUR FAMILY ASBEING EXTREMELY VALUABLE, AS A
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  • YOUR CHILDREN, YOUR FAMILY ASBEING EXTREMELY VALUABLE, AS ASPECIAL TREASURE THAT GOD HAS
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  • BEING EXTREMELY VALUABLE, AS ASPECIAL TREASURE THAT GOD HASENTRUSTED YOU WITH.
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  • SPECIAL TREASURE THAT GOD HASENTRUSTED YOU WITH.EVERY DAY YOU NEED TO TELL THEM,
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  • ENTRUSTED YOU WITH.EVERY DAY YOU NEED TO TELL THEM,"I LOVE YOU. I'M PROUD OF YOU.
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  • EVERY DAY YOU NEED TO TELL THEM,"I LOVE YOU. I'M PROUD OF YOU.I'M SO GLAD THAT YOU'RE IN MY
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  • "I LOVE YOU. I'M PROUD OF YOU.I'M SO GLAD THAT YOU'RE IN MYLIFE."
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  • I'M SO GLAD THAT YOU'RE IN MYLIFE."THEY NEED TO HEAR THIS ON A
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  • LIFE."THEY NEED TO HEAR THIS ON AREGULAR BASIS, NOT JUST ON THEIR
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  • THEY NEED TO HEAR THIS ON AREGULAR BASIS, NOT JUST ON THEIRBIRTHDAY, THEIR ANNIVERSARY.
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  • REGULAR BASIS, NOT JUST ON THEIRBIRTHDAY, THEIR ANNIVERSARY."HONEY, IT'S VALENTINE'S DAY.
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  • BIRTHDAY, THEIR ANNIVERSARY."HONEY, IT'S VALENTINE'S DAY.I LOVE YOU."
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  • "HONEY, IT'S VALENTINE'S DAY.I LOVE YOU."NO, ONCE A YEAR IS NOT GOING TO
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  • I LOVE YOU."NO, ONCE A YEAR IS NOT GOING TOCUT IT. (LAUGHTER)
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  • NO, ONCE A YEAR IS NOT GOING TOCUT IT. (LAUGHTER)IF YOU DON'T TELL YOUR WIFE HOW
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  • CUT IT. (LAUGHTER)IF YOU DON'T TELL YOUR WIFE HOWMUCH YOU LOVE HER SOMEBODY ELSE
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  • IF YOU DON'T TELL YOUR WIFE HOWMUCH YOU LOVE HER SOMEBODY ELSEWILL. (LAUGHTER)
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  • MUCH YOU LOVE HER SOMEBODY ELSEWILL. (LAUGHTER)BE GENEROUS WHEN IT COMES TO
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  • WILL. (LAUGHTER)BE GENEROUS WHEN IT COMES TOEXPRESSING YOUR LOVE. BE FREE
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  • BE GENEROUS WHEN IT COMES TOEXPRESSING YOUR LOVE. BE FREEWITH YOUR COMPLIMENTS.
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  • EXPRESSING YOUR LOVE. BE FREEWITH YOUR COMPLIMENTS.MEN, YOU CAN NEVER TELL YOUR
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  • WITH YOUR COMPLIMENTS.MEN, YOU CAN NEVER TELL YOURWIFE TOO MANY TIMES HOW MUCH YOU
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  • MEN, YOU CAN NEVER TELL YOURWIFE TOO MANY TIMES HOW MUCH YOUTHINK SHE'S BEAUTIFUL AND HOW
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  • WIFE TOO MANY TIMES HOW MUCH YOUTHINK SHE'S BEAUTIFUL AND HOWGLAD YOU ARE TO HAVE HER IN YOUR
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  • THINK SHE'S BEAUTIFUL AND HOWGLAD YOU ARE TO HAVE HER IN YOURLIFE. TELL HER AGAIN AND AGAIN.
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  • GLAD YOU ARE TO HAVE HER IN YOURLIFE. TELL HER AGAIN AND AGAIN.THAT'S ONE OF THE BEST HABITS WE
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  • LIFE. TELL HER AGAIN AND AGAIN.THAT'S ONE OF THE BEST HABITS WECAN ALL DEVELOP - COMPLIMENTING
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  • THAT'S ONE OF THE BEST HABITS WECAN ALL DEVELOP - COMPLIMENTINGOUR SPOUSE.
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  • CAN ALL DEVELOP - COMPLIMENTINGOUR SPOUSE.VICTORIA, SHE KNOWS SHE'S
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  • OUR SPOUSE.VICTORIA, SHE KNOWS SHE'SBEAUTIFUL. SHE'S BEEN TOLD THAT
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  • VICTORIA, SHE KNOWS SHE'SBEAUTIFUL. SHE'S BEEN TOLD THATHER WHOLE LIFE. I COULD THINK,
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  • BEAUTIFUL. SHE'S BEEN TOLD THATHER WHOLE LIFE. I COULD THINK,"I DON'T NEED TO TELL HER
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  • HER WHOLE LIFE. I COULD THINK,"I DON'T NEED TO TELL HERAGAIN. I'VE TOLD HER A THOUSAND
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  • "I DON'T NEED TO TELL HERAGAIN. I'VE TOLD HER A THOUSANDTIMES."
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  • AGAIN. I'VE TOLD HER A THOUSANDTIMES."NO, I UNDERSTAND THIS PRINCIPLE.
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  • TIMES."NO, I UNDERSTAND THIS PRINCIPLE.PEOPLE NEVER GET TIRED OF
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  • NO, I UNDERSTAND THIS PRINCIPLE.PEOPLE NEVER GET TIRED OFHEARING HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM,
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  • PEOPLE NEVER GET TIRED OFHEARING HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM,HOW PROUD YOU ARE OF THEM.
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  • HEARING HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM,HOW PROUD YOU ARE OF THEM.I TELL HER AGAIN AND AGAIN,
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  • HOW PROUD YOU ARE OF THEM.I TELL HER AGAIN AND AGAIN,"VICTORIA, YOU ARE SO
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  • I TELL HER AGAIN AND AGAIN,"VICTORIA, YOU ARE SOBEAUTIFUL."
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  • "VICTORIA, YOU ARE SOBEAUTIFUL."DO YOU KNOW NOT ONCE HAS SHE
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  • BEAUTIFUL."DO YOU KNOW NOT ONCE HAS SHEEVER SAID, "JOEL, STOP SAYING
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  • DO YOU KNOW NOT ONCE HAS SHEEVER SAID, "JOEL, STOP SAYINGTHAT. I KNOW I'M BEAUTIFUL."
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  • EVER SAID, "JOEL, STOP SAYINGTHAT. I KNOW I'M BEAUTIFUL."(LAUGHTER)
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  • THAT. I KNOW I'M BEAUTIFUL."(LAUGHTER)YOU KNOW, IT'S FUNNY.
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  • (LAUGHTER)YOU KNOW, IT'S FUNNY.THE OTHER DAY WE WERE IN THE
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  • YOU KNOW, IT'S FUNNY.THE OTHER DAY WE WERE IN THEROOM BEHIND THE PLATFORM GETTING
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  • THE OTHER DAY WE WERE IN THEROOM BEHIND THE PLATFORM GETTINGREADY FOR THE EARLY SUNDAY
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  • ROOM BEHIND THE PLATFORM GETTINGREADY FOR THE EARLY SUNDAYMORNING SERVICE STANDING IN
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  • READY FOR THE EARLY SUNDAYMORNING SERVICE STANDING INFRONT OF THIS MIRROR. I WAS
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  • MORNING SERVICE STANDING INFRONT OF THIS MIRROR. I WASADJUSTING MY TIE. SHE WAS
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  • FRONT OF THIS MIRROR. I WASADJUSTING MY TIE. SHE WASPUTTING HER MICROPHONE ON.
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  • ADJUSTING MY TIE. SHE WASPUTTING HER MICROPHONE ON.I SAID, "WOW! VICTORIA, YOU
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  • PUTTING HER MICROPHONE ON.I SAID, "WOW! VICTORIA, YOULOOK GREAT. YOU LOOK SO
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  • I SAID, "WOW! VICTORIA, YOULOOK GREAT. YOU LOOK SOBEAUTIFUL TODAY."
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  • LOOK GREAT. YOU LOOK SOBEAUTIFUL TODAY."SHE THANKED ME.
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  • BEAUTIFUL TODAY."SHE THANKED ME.LATER THAT MORNING WE WERE IN
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  • SHE THANKED ME.LATER THAT MORNING WE WERE INTHE SAME ROOM GETTING PREPARED
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  • LATER THAT MORNING WE WERE INTHE SAME ROOM GETTING PREPAREDFOR THE SECOND SUNDAY MORNING
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  • THE SAME ROOM GETTING PREPAREDFOR THE SECOND SUNDAY MORNINGSERVICE. JUST AS WE WERE ABOUT
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  • FOR THE SECOND SUNDAY MORNINGSERVICE. JUST AS WE WERE ABOUTTO WALK OUT SHE NUDGED ME AND
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  • SERVICE. JUST AS WE WERE ABOUTTO WALK OUT SHE NUDGED ME ANDSAID, "YOU DIDN'T TELL ME I
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  • TO WALK OUT SHE NUDGED ME ANDSAID, "YOU DIDN'T TELL ME ILOOK BEAUTIFUL." (LAUGHTER)
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  • SAID, "YOU DIDN'T TELL ME ILOOK BEAUTIFUL." (LAUGHTER)I SAID, "OH, I THOUGHT YOU
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  • LOOK BEAUTIFUL." (LAUGHTER)I SAID, "OH, I THOUGHT YOUWOULD REMEMBER FROM TWO HOURS
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  • I SAID, "OH, I THOUGHT YOUWOULD REMEMBER FROM TWO HOURSAGO." (LAUGHTER)
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  • WOULD REMEMBER FROM TWO HOURSAGO." (LAUGHTER)EVERY TIME I WALK OFF THIS
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  • AGO." (LAUGHTER)EVERY TIME I WALK OFF THISPLATFORM VICTORIA SAYS, "JOEL,
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  • EVERY TIME I WALK OFF THISPLATFORM VICTORIA SAYS, "JOEL,THAT WAS A GREAT MESSAGE TODAY."
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  • PLATFORM VICTORIA SAYS, "JOEL,THAT WAS A GREAT MESSAGE TODAY."I KNOW SHE THINKS I'M GREAT.
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  • THAT WAS A GREAT MESSAGE TODAY."I KNOW SHE THINKS I'M GREAT.SHE'S TOLD ME A THOUSAND TIMES.
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  • I KNOW SHE THINKS I'M GREAT.SHE'S TOLD ME A THOUSAND TIMES.BUT MY ATTITUDE IS, "KEEP THE
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  • SHE'S TOLD ME A THOUSAND TIMES.BUT MY ATTITUDE IS, "KEEP THECARDS AND LETTERS COMING."
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  • BUT MY ATTITUDE IS, "KEEP THECARDS AND LETTERS COMING."(LAUGHTER)
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  • CARDS AND LETTERS COMING."(LAUGHTER)ONE TIME WHEN I FINISHED
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  • (LAUGHTER)ONE TIME WHEN I FINISHEDSPEAKING SHE SAID, "JOEL, THAT
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  • ONE TIME WHEN I FINISHEDSPEAKING SHE SAID, "JOEL, THATWAS MAGNIFICENT TODAY."
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  • SPEAKING SHE SAID, "JOEL, THATWAS MAGNIFICENT TODAY."I WALKED OUT ON CLOUD NINE.
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  • WAS MAGNIFICENT TODAY."I WALKED OUT ON CLOUD NINE.THE NEXT WEEK SHE WENT BACK TO,
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  • I WALKED OUT ON CLOUD NINE.THE NEXT WEEK SHE WENT BACK TO,"THAT WAS GREAT TODAY."
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  • THE NEXT WEEK SHE WENT BACK TO,"THAT WAS GREAT TODAY."I WAS OFFENDED. (LAUGHTER)
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  • "THAT WAS GREAT TODAY."I WAS OFFENDED. (LAUGHTER)BUT I WONDER HOW MANY
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  • I WAS OFFENDED. (LAUGHTER)BUT I WONDER HOW MANYRELATIONSHIPS WOULD GO TO A NEW
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  • BUT I WONDER HOW MANYRELATIONSHIPS WOULD GO TO A NEWLEVEL? HOW MANY MARRIAGES COULD
  • 00:04:40.970 --> 00:04:42.972
  • RELATIONSHIPS WOULD GO TO A NEWLEVEL? HOW MANY MARRIAGES COULDBE SAVED? HOW MUCH ARGUING AND
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  • LEVEL? HOW MANY MARRIAGES COULDBE SAVED? HOW MUCH ARGUING ANDPETTY STRIFE WOULD STOP IF WE
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  • BE SAVED? HOW MUCH ARGUING ANDPETTY STRIFE WOULD STOP IF WEWOULD SIMPLY START EXPRESSING
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  • PETTY STRIFE WOULD STOP IF WEWOULD SIMPLY START EXPRESSINGOUR LOVE ON A DAILY BASIS?
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  • WOULD SIMPLY START EXPRESSINGOUR LOVE ON A DAILY BASIS?I'VE LEARNED YESTERDAY'S "I LOVE
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  • OUR LOVE ON A DAILY BASIS?I'VE LEARNED YESTERDAY'S "I LOVEYOU, IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR
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  • I'VE LEARNED YESTERDAY'S "I LOVEYOU, IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FORTODAY. EVERY DAY YOU NEED TO
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  • YOU, IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FORTODAY. EVERY DAY YOU NEED TOEXPRESS IT.
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  • TODAY. EVERY DAY YOU NEED TOEXPRESS IT.AND ONE OF THE BEST WAYS IS WITH
  • 00:04:58.187 --> 00:05:00.189
  • EXPRESS IT.AND ONE OF THE BEST WAYS IS WITHOUR WORDS, WITH COMPLIMENTS.
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  • AND ONE OF THE BEST WAYS IS WITHOUR WORDS, WITH COMPLIMENTS.DO YOU KNOW PEOPLE DON'T KNOW
  • 00:05:02.058 --> 00:05:04.327
  • OUR WORDS, WITH COMPLIMENTS.DO YOU KNOW PEOPLE DON'T KNOWWHAT YOU'RE THINKING?
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  • DO YOU KNOW PEOPLE DON'T KNOWWHAT YOU'RE THINKING?VICTORIA COULD HAVE THOUGHT ALL
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  • WHAT YOU'RE THINKING?VICTORIA COULD HAVE THOUGHT ALLDAY LONG, "THAT SURE WAS A GOOD
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  • VICTORIA COULD HAVE THOUGHT ALLDAY LONG, "THAT SURE WAS A GOODMESSAGE" BUT HER THOUGHTS WERE
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  • DAY LONG, "THAT SURE WAS A GOODMESSAGE" BUT HER THOUGHTS WERENOT BLESSING ME.
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  • MESSAGE" BUT HER THOUGHTS WERENOT BLESSING ME.A BLESSING IS NOT A BLESSING
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  • NOT BLESSING ME.A BLESSING IS NOT A BLESSINGUNTIL IT'S SPOKEN. YOU HAVE TO
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  • A BLESSING IS NOT A BLESSINGUNTIL IT'S SPOKEN. YOU HAVE TOEXPRESS IT. TELL THEM WHAT
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  • UNTIL IT'S SPOKEN. YOU HAVE TOEXPRESS IT. TELL THEM WHATYOU'RE THINKING.
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  • EXPRESS IT. TELL THEM WHATYOU'RE THINKING.WORDS HAVE CREATIVE POWER.
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  • YOU'RE THINKING.WORDS HAVE CREATIVE POWER.WORDS CAN LIFT PEOPLE.
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  • WORDS HAVE CREATIVE POWER.WORDS CAN LIFT PEOPLE.THEY CAN BRING OUT CONFIDENCE,
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  • WORDS CAN LIFT PEOPLE.THEY CAN BRING OUT CONFIDENCE,SELF-WORTH.
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  • THEY CAN BRING OUT CONFIDENCE,SELF-WORTH.WHEN YOU TELL SOMEONE, "HEY, I'M
  • 00:05:25.915 --> 00:05:27.150
  • SELF-WORTH.WHEN YOU TELL SOMEONE, "HEY, I'MPROUD OF YOU. YOU'RE A GIFT IN
  • 00:05:27.150 --> 00:05:28.751
  • WHEN YOU TELL SOMEONE, "HEY, I'MPROUD OF YOU. YOU'RE A GIFT INMY LIFE."
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  • PROUD OF YOU. YOU'RE A GIFT INMY LIFE.""HONEY, IF I HAD TO DO IT ALL
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  • MY LIFE.""HONEY, IF I HAD TO DO IT ALLOVER I'D MARRY YOU AGAIN IN A
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  • "HONEY, IF I HAD TO DO IT ALLOVER I'D MARRY YOU AGAIN IN ASPLIT SECOND."
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  • OVER I'D MARRY YOU AGAIN IN ASPLIT SECOND."THOSE ARE NOT JUST NICE PHRASES.
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  • SPLIT SECOND."THOSE ARE NOT JUST NICE PHRASES.THOSE WORDS ARE LIKE GLUE. THEY
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  • THOSE ARE NOT JUST NICE PHRASES.THOSE WORDS ARE LIKE GLUE. THEYSTRENGTHEN THE RELATIONSHIP.
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  • THOSE WORDS ARE LIKE GLUE. THEYSTRENGTHEN THE RELATIONSHIP.THEY'RE DEEPENING THE ROOTS.
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  • STRENGTHEN THE RELATIONSHIP.THEY'RE DEEPENING THE ROOTS.THAT'S WHAT MAKES IT EASIER TO
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  • THEY'RE DEEPENING THE ROOTS.THAT'S WHAT MAKES IT EASIER TOGO THROUGH THE DIFFICULT TIMES
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  • THAT'S WHAT MAKES IT EASIER TOGO THROUGH THE DIFFICULT TIMESOF LIFE.
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  • GO THROUGH THE DIFFICULT TIMESOF LIFE.WHEN PEOPLE KNOW YOU BELIEVE IN
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  • OF LIFE.WHEN PEOPLE KNOW YOU BELIEVE INTHEM, YOU'RE PROUD OF THEM, WHEN
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  • WHEN PEOPLE KNOW YOU BELIEVE INTHEM, YOU'RE PROUD OF THEM, WHENYOU KEEP THE EMOTIONAL ACCOUNTS
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  • THEM, YOU'RE PROUD OF THEM, WHENYOU KEEP THE EMOTIONAL ACCOUNTSFULL, THEN WHEN YOU HIT A BUMP
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  • YOU KEEP THE EMOTIONAL ACCOUNTSFULL, THEN WHEN YOU HIT A BUMPIN THE ROAD, YOU HAVE THE
  • 00:05:53.676 --> 00:05:55.044
  • FULL, THEN WHEN YOU HIT A BUMPIN THE ROAD, YOU HAVE THESTRENGTH TO STICK TOGETHER AND
  • 00:05:55.044 --> 00:05:56.879
  • IN THE ROAD, YOU HAVE THESTRENGTH TO STICK TOGETHER ANDOVERCOME IT.
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  • STRENGTH TO STICK TOGETHER ANDOVERCOME IT.BUT THE REASON SOME PEOPLE,
  • 00:05:58.014 --> 00:05:59.782
  • OVERCOME IT.BUT THE REASON SOME PEOPLE,THEY SPLIT APART SO EASILY,
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  • BUT THE REASON SOME PEOPLE,THEY SPLIT APART SO EASILY,THEY CAN'T WITHSTAND THE
  • 00:06:00.917 --> 00:06:02.718
  • THEY SPLIT APART SO EASILY,THEY CAN'T WITHSTAND THESMALLEST ADVERSITY, IS BECAUSE
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  • THEY CAN'T WITHSTAND THESMALLEST ADVERSITY, IS BECAUSETHEY DON'T HAVE ANY GLUE.
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  • SMALLEST ADVERSITY, IS BECAUSETHEY DON'T HAVE ANY GLUE.THEY DON'T HAVE KIND WORDS.
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  • THEY DON'T HAVE ANY GLUE.THEY DON'T HAVE KIND WORDS.THEY'RE NOT EXPRESSING THEIR
  • 00:06:08.424 --> 00:06:10.026
  • THEY DON'T HAVE KIND WORDS.THEY'RE NOT EXPRESSING THEIRLOVE.
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  • THEY'RE NOT EXPRESSING THEIRLOVE.WHEN YOU TELL YOUR SPOUSE
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  • LOVE.WHEN YOU TELL YOUR SPOUSESOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS, "HONEY,
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  • WHEN YOU TELL YOUR SPOUSESOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS, "HONEY,I LOVE YOU," YOU ARE SPEAKING
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  • SOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS, "HONEY,I LOVE YOU," YOU ARE SPEAKINGTHE BLESSING OVER YOUR MARRIAGE.
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  • I LOVE YOU," YOU ARE SPEAKINGTHE BLESSING OVER YOUR MARRIAGE.YOU ARE ADDING MORE GLUE.
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  • THE BLESSING OVER YOUR MARRIAGE.YOU ARE ADDING MORE GLUE.LADIES, ONE OF YOUR HUSBAND'S
  • 00:06:20.136 --> 00:06:21.938
  • YOU ARE ADDING MORE GLUE.LADIES, ONE OF YOUR HUSBAND'SGREATEST NEEDS IS FOR YOU TO BE
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  • LADIES, ONE OF YOUR HUSBAND'SGREATEST NEEDS IS FOR YOU TO BEPROUD OF HIM. HE MAY SEEM BIG,
  • 00:06:24.607 --> 00:06:26.609
  • GREATEST NEEDS IS FOR YOU TO BEPROUD OF HIM. HE MAY SEEM BIG,STRONG, INVINCIBLE, LIKE HE
  • 00:06:26.609 --> 00:06:28.711
  • PROUD OF HIM. HE MAY SEEM BIG,STRONG, INVINCIBLE, LIKE HEDOESN'T NEED ANYTHING BUT
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  • STRONG, INVINCIBLE, LIKE HEDOESN'T NEED ANYTHING BUTUNDERNEATH THAT TOUGH OUTER
  • 00:06:30.079 --> 00:06:32.181
  • DOESN'T NEED ANYTHING BUTUNDERNEATH THAT TOUGH OUTERSHELL IS A LITTLE BOY LONGING
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  • UNDERNEATH THAT TOUGH OUTERSHELL IS A LITTLE BOY LONGINGFOR YOUR APPROVAL.
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  • SHELL IS A LITTLE BOY LONGINGFOR YOUR APPROVAL.ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL THINGS
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  • FOR YOUR APPROVAL.ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL THINGSYOU CAN TELL YOUR HUSBAND IS,
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  • ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL THINGSYOU CAN TELL YOUR HUSBAND IS,"I AM PROUD OF YOU."
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  • YOU CAN TELL YOUR HUSBAND IS,"I AM PROUD OF YOU."WHEN THAT MAN HEARS THAT YOU'RE
  • 00:06:40.189 --> 00:06:42.124
  • "I AM PROUD OF YOU."WHEN THAT MAN HEARS THAT YOU'REPROUD SOMETHING COMES ALIVE ON
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  • WHEN THAT MAN HEARS THAT YOU'REPROUD SOMETHING COMES ALIVE ONTHE INSIDE. THIS IS SOMETHING
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  • PROUD SOMETHING COMES ALIVE ONTHE INSIDE. THIS IS SOMETHINGONLY YOU CAN GIVE AS HIS WIFE.
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  • THE INSIDE. THIS IS SOMETHINGONLY YOU CAN GIVE AS HIS WIFE.HIS PARENTS CAN BE PROUD OF HIM
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  • ONLY YOU CAN GIVE AS HIS WIFE.HIS PARENTS CAN BE PROUD OF HIMAND THAT'S GOOD. THEY SHOULD
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  • HIS PARENTS CAN BE PROUD OF HIMAND THAT'S GOOD. THEY SHOULDBE.
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  • AND THAT'S GOOD. THEY SHOULDBE.HIS COLLEAGUES CAN GIVE HIM
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  • BE.HIS COLLEAGUES CAN GIVE HIMAWARDS. THAT'S NICE.
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  • HIS COLLEAGUES CAN GIVE HIMAWARDS. THAT'S NICE.HIS FRIENDS CAN TELL HOW AMAZING
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  • AWARDS. THAT'S NICE.HIS FRIENDS CAN TELL HOW AMAZINGHE IS. THAT'S FINE.
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  • HIS FRIENDS CAN TELL HOW AMAZINGHE IS. THAT'S FINE.BUT NOTHING COMPARES TO THE
  • 00:06:58.574 --> 00:07:00.476
  • HE IS. THAT'S FINE.BUT NOTHING COMPARES TO THEPOWER YOU HAVE AS HIS WIFE TO
  • 00:07:00.476 --> 00:07:02.478
  • BUT NOTHING COMPARES TO THEPOWER YOU HAVE AS HIS WIFE TOTELL HIM, "I'M PROUD OF YOU."
  • 00:07:02.478 --> 00:07:03.746
  • POWER YOU HAVE AS HIS WIFE TOTELL HIM, "I'M PROUD OF YOU."WHEN YOU DO THAT, THAT DOES MORE
  • 00:07:03.746 --> 00:07:06.749
  • TELL HIM, "I'M PROUD OF YOU."WHEN YOU DO THAT, THAT DOES MORETHAN ALL OF THE OTHERS COMBINED.
  • 00:07:06.749 --> 00:07:08.117
  • WHEN YOU DO THAT, THAT DOES MORETHAN ALL OF THE OTHERS COMBINED.STUDIES SHOW US HAVING A WIFE
  • 00:07:08.117 --> 00:07:09.652
  • THAN ALL OF THE OTHERS COMBINED.STUDIES SHOW US HAVING A WIFETHAT'S PROUD IS AT THE TOP OF
  • 00:07:09.652 --> 00:07:11.988
  • STUDIES SHOW US HAVING A WIFETHAT'S PROUD IS AT THE TOP OFTHE LIST OF WHAT EVERY MALE
  • 00:07:11.988 --> 00:07:13.389
  • THAT'S PROUD IS AT THE TOP OFTHE LIST OF WHAT EVERY MALELONGS FOR.
  • 00:07:13.389 --> 00:07:14.457
  • THE LIST OF WHAT EVERY MALELONGS FOR.WOMEN, DON'T WITHHOLD YOUR
  • 00:07:14.457 --> 00:07:17.093
  • LONGS FOR.WOMEN, DON'T WITHHOLD YOURBLESSING. JUST AS YOU LIKE TO
  • 00:07:17.093 --> 00:07:18.227
  • WOMEN, DON'T WITHHOLD YOURBLESSING. JUST AS YOU LIKE TOHEAR, "YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. I LOVE
  • 00:07:18.227 --> 00:07:19.695
  • BLESSING. JUST AS YOU LIKE TOHEAR, "YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. I LOVEYOU," YOUR HUSBAND NEEDS
  • 00:07:19.695 --> 00:07:22.398
  • "WELL, JOEL. I'D DO THIS IF HE
  • 00:07:23.432 --> 00:07:24.634
  • "WELL, JOEL. I'D DO THIS IF HEWAS MORE OF THIS AND LESS OF
  • 00:07:24.634 --> 00:07:26.035
  • "WELL, JOEL. I'D DO THIS IF HEWAS MORE OF THIS AND LESS OFTHAT."
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  • WAS MORE OF THIS AND LESS OFTHAT."NO, DON'T FOCUS ON ALL OF HIS
  • 00:07:26.969 --> 00:07:28.771
  • THAT."NO, DON'T FOCUS ON ALL OF HISFAULTS. FOCUS ON HIS GOOD
  • 00:07:28.771 --> 00:07:31.107
  • NO, DON'T FOCUS ON ALL OF HISFAULTS. FOCUS ON HIS GOODQUALITIES. THE MORE YOU PRAISE
  • 00:07:31.107 --> 00:07:33.576
  • FAULTS. FOCUS ON HIS GOODQUALITIES. THE MORE YOU PRAISEHIM THE BETTER HE WILL DO.
  • 00:07:33.576 --> 00:07:35.111
  • QUALITIES. THE MORE YOU PRAISEHIM THE BETTER HE WILL DO.YOUR HUSBAND IS LIKE A CORK
  • 00:07:35.111 --> 00:07:37.179
  • HIM THE BETTER HE WILL DO.YOUR HUSBAND IS LIKE A CORKFLOATING IN THE WATER.
  • 00:07:37.179 --> 00:07:39.048
  • YOUR HUSBAND IS LIKE A CORKFLOATING IN THE WATER.THE MORE HONOR YOU POUR IN, THE
  • 00:07:39.048 --> 00:07:40.216
  • FLOATING IN THE WATER.THE MORE HONOR YOU POUR IN, THEMORE YOU TELL HIM THAT YOU'RE
  • 00:07:40.216 --> 00:07:42.018
  • THE MORE HONOR YOU POUR IN, THEMORE YOU TELL HIM THAT YOU'REPROUD OF HIM, IT'S JUST LIKE
  • 00:07:42.018 --> 00:07:43.386
  • MORE YOU TELL HIM THAT YOU'REPROUD OF HIM, IT'S JUST LIKEYOU'RE POURING WATER INTO THAT
  • 00:07:43.386 --> 00:07:44.921
  • PROUD OF HIM, IT'S JUST LIKEYOU'RE POURING WATER INTO THATBUCKET. THAT CORK, YOUR
  • 00:07:44.921 --> 00:07:46.122
  • YOU'RE POURING WATER INTO THATBUCKET. THAT CORK, YOURHUSBAND, WILL KEEP RISING
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  • BUCKET. THAT CORK, YOURHUSBAND, WILL KEEP RISINGHIGHER AND HIGHER.
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  • HUSBAND, WILL KEEP RISINGHIGHER AND HIGHER.NOW, HE MAY BE DOWN RIGHT NOW
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  • HIGHER AND HIGHER.NOW, HE MAY BE DOWN RIGHT NOWBUT INSTEAD OF NAGGING,
  • 00:07:51.127 --> 00:07:53.129
  • NOW, HE MAY BE DOWN RIGHT NOWBUT INSTEAD OF NAGGING,COMPLAINING, TRY A DIFFERENT
  • 00:07:53.129 --> 00:07:55.698
  • BUT INSTEAD OF NAGGING,COMPLAINING, TRY A DIFFERENTAPPROACH. POUR SOME HONOR IN.
  • 00:07:55.698 --> 00:07:57.567
  • COMPLAINING, TRY A DIFFERENTAPPROACH. POUR SOME HONOR IN.FIND SOMETHING HE IS DOING RIGHT
  • 00:07:57.567 --> 00:07:59.035
  • APPROACH. POUR SOME HONOR IN.FIND SOMETHING HE IS DOING RIGHTAND SAY, "HEY, I'M PROUD OF YOU
  • 00:07:59.035 --> 00:08:01.137
  • FIND SOMETHING HE IS DOING RIGHTAND SAY, "HEY, I'M PROUD OF YOUFOR BEING AT THE JOB FOR 20
  • 00:08:01.137 --> 00:08:02.471
  • AND SAY, "HEY, I'M PROUD OF YOUFOR BEING AT THE JOB FOR 20YEARS. I'M PROUD OF YOU FOR
  • 00:08:02.471 --> 00:08:03.739
  • FOR BEING AT THE JOB FOR 20YEARS. I'M PROUD OF YOU FORCOACHING OUR CHILDREN THROUGH
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  • YEARS. I'M PROUD OF YOU FORCOACHING OUR CHILDREN THROUGHSCHOOL. I'M PROUD OF YOU FOR
  • 00:08:05.541 --> 00:08:06.709
  • COACHING OUR CHILDREN THROUGHSCHOOL. I'M PROUD OF YOU FORCOMING TO CHURCH WITH OUR
  • 00:08:06.709 --> 00:08:08.644
  • SCHOOL. I'M PROUD OF YOU FORCOMING TO CHURCH WITH OURFAMILY EACH SUNDAY."
  • 00:08:08.644 --> 00:08:10.279
  • COMING TO CHURCH WITH OURFAMILY EACH SUNDAY."HE MAY BE DOING A HUNDRED THINGS
  • 00:08:10.279 --> 00:08:11.614
  • FAMILY EACH SUNDAY."HE MAY BE DOING A HUNDRED THINGSYOU DON'T LIKE. FIND THREE
  • 00:08:11.614 --> 00:08:13.482
  • HE MAY BE DOING A HUNDRED THINGSYOU DON'T LIKE. FIND THREETHINGS YOU DO LIKE AND START
  • 00:08:13.482 --> 00:08:16.385
  • YOU DON'T LIKE. FIND THREETHINGS YOU DO LIKE AND STARTPOURING SOME HONOR IN.
  • 00:08:16.385 --> 00:08:17.987
  • THINGS YOU DO LIKE AND STARTPOURING SOME HONOR IN.LADIES, THINK ABOUT THIS. MAYBE
  • 00:08:17.987 --> 00:08:19.989
  • POURING SOME HONOR IN.LADIES, THINK ABOUT THIS. MAYBEYOUR HUSBAND IS NOT REACHING
  • 00:08:19.989 --> 00:08:22.425
  • LADIES, THINK ABOUT THIS. MAYBEYOUR HUSBAND IS NOT REACHINGHIS HIGHEST POTENTIAL BECAUSE
  • 00:08:22.425 --> 00:08:24.660
  • YOUR HUSBAND IS NOT REACHINGHIS HIGHEST POTENTIAL BECAUSETHE HONOR LEVEL IS LOW. YOU AS
  • 00:08:24.660 --> 00:08:27.530
  • HIS HIGHEST POTENTIAL BECAUSETHE HONOR LEVEL IS LOW. YOU ASHIS WIFE CONTROL THE HONOR
  • 00:08:27.530 --> 00:08:29.031
  • THE HONOR LEVEL IS LOW. YOU ASHIS WIFE CONTROL THE HONORFAUCET. YOU HAVE THE MOST POWER
  • 00:08:29.031 --> 00:08:30.600
  • HIS WIFE CONTROL THE HONORFAUCET. YOU HAVE THE MOST POWERTO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
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  • FAUCET. YOU HAVE THE MOST POWERTO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.DON'T COMPLAIN. POUR IN HONOR.
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  • TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.DON'T COMPLAIN. POUR IN HONOR."HONEY, I'M PROUD OF YOU. YOU
  • 00:08:36.072 --> 00:08:37.239
  • DON'T COMPLAIN. POUR IN HONOR."HONEY, I'M PROUD OF YOU. YOUMAY NOT HAVE BROKEN THE
  • 00:08:37.239 --> 00:08:38.274
  • "HONEY, I'M PROUD OF YOU. YOUMAY NOT HAVE BROKEN THEADDICTION ALTOGETHER BUT I'M
  • 00:08:38.274 --> 00:08:39.275
  • MAY NOT HAVE BROKEN THEADDICTION ALTOGETHER BUT I'MPROUD OF YOU FOR AT LEAST
  • 00:08:39.275 --> 00:08:40.843
  • ADDICTION ALTOGETHER BUT I'MPROUD OF YOU FOR AT LEASTTRYING. YOU DIDN'T GET THE
  • 00:08:40.843 --> 00:08:42.378
  • PROUD OF YOU FOR AT LEASTTRYING. YOU DIDN'T GET THEPROMOTION BUT THAT DOESN'T
  • 00:08:42.378 --> 00:08:44.447
  • TRYING. YOU DIDN'T GET THEPROMOTION BUT THAT DOESN'TCHANGE ONE THING IN MY MIND.
  • 00:08:44.447 --> 00:08:45.481
  • PROMOTION BUT THAT DOESN'TCHANGE ONE THING IN MY MIND.I'M STILL AS PROUD AS I CAN BE
  • 00:08:45.481 --> 00:08:47.316
  • CHANGE ONE THING IN MY MIND.I'M STILL AS PROUD AS I CAN BEOF YOU."
  • 00:08:47.316 --> 00:08:48.751
  • I'M STILL AS PROUD AS I CAN BEOF YOU."HERE'S A KEY LADIES. YOUR
  • 00:08:48.751 --> 00:08:50.219
  • OF YOU."HERE'S A KEY LADIES. YOURHUSBANDS CANNOT LIVE OFF OF
  • 00:08:50.219 --> 00:08:52.254
  • HERE'S A KEY LADIES. YOURHUSBANDS CANNOT LIVE OFF OFOLD HONOR. YOU WERE PROUD OF
  • 00:08:52.254 --> 00:08:54.023
  • HUSBANDS CANNOT LIVE OFF OFOLD HONOR. YOU WERE PROUD OFHIM WHEN HE GRADUATED FROM
  • 00:08:54.023 --> 00:08:55.458
  • OLD HONOR. YOU WERE PROUD OFHIM WHEN HE GRADUATED FROMCOLLEGE. THAT'S GOOD BUT THAT
  • 00:08:55.458 --> 00:08:57.393
  • HIM WHEN HE GRADUATED FROMCOLLEGE. THAT'S GOOD BUT THATWAS FIVE YEARS AGO.
  • 00:08:57.393 --> 00:08:58.494
  • COLLEGE. THAT'S GOOD BUT THATWAS FIVE YEARS AGO.YOU WERE PROUD WHEN HE STEPPED
  • 00:08:58.494 --> 00:09:00.129
  • WAS FIVE YEARS AGO.YOU WERE PROUD WHEN HE STEPPEDUP TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR PARENTS.
  • 00:09:00.129 --> 00:09:00.930
  • YOU WERE PROUD WHEN HE STEPPEDUP TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR PARENTS.THAT'S GREAT BUT THAT WAS IN THE
  • 00:09:00.930 --> 00:09:02.698
  • UP TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR PARENTS.THAT'S GREAT BUT THAT WAS IN THEPAST.
  • 00:09:02.698 --> 00:09:04.700
  • THAT'S GREAT BUT THAT WAS IN THEPAST.WHAT HAS HE DONE LATELY THAT YOU
  • 00:09:04.700 --> 00:09:07.269
  • PAST.WHAT HAS HE DONE LATELY THAT YOUCAN TELL HIM YOU'RE PROUD OF?
  • 00:09:07.269 --> 00:09:08.504
  • WHAT HAS HE DONE LATELY THAT YOUCAN TELL HIM YOU'RE PROUD OF?IF YOU WILL POUR IN SOME NEW
  • 00:09:08.504 --> 00:09:10.473
  • CAN TELL HIM YOU'RE PROUD OF?IF YOU WILL POUR IN SOME NEWHONOR, NOT ONLY WILL HE RISE
  • 00:09:10.473 --> 00:09:11.741
  • IF YOU WILL POUR IN SOME NEWHONOR, NOT ONLY WILL HE RISEHIGHER, BUT THE WHOLE FAMILY
  • 00:09:11.741 --> 00:09:13.843
  • HONOR, NOT ONLY WILL HE RISEHIGHER, BUT THE WHOLE FAMILYWILL RISE HIGHER.
  • 00:09:13.843 --> 00:09:15.077
  • HIGHER, BUT THE WHOLE FAMILYWILL RISE HIGHER.WHEN YOU GET UP TOMORROW MORNING
  • 00:09:15.077 --> 00:09:16.512
  • WILL RISE HIGHER.WHEN YOU GET UP TOMORROW MORNINGGIVE YOUR HUSBAND A BIG HUG AND
  • 00:09:16.512 --> 00:09:18.381
  • WHEN YOU GET UP TOMORROW MORNINGGIVE YOUR HUSBAND A BIG HUG ANDSAY, "I'M PROUD OF YOU, YOU GOOD
  • 00:09:18.381 --> 00:09:21.217
  • GIVE YOUR HUSBAND A BIG HUG ANDSAY, "I'M PROUD OF YOU, YOU GOODLOOKING THING." (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:09:21.217 --> 00:09:21.951
  • SAY, "I'M PROUD OF YOU, YOU GOODLOOKING THING." (LAUGHTER)WHEN YOU PICK HIM UP OFF THE
  • 00:09:21.951 --> 00:09:23.119
  • LOOKING THING." (LAUGHTER)WHEN YOU PICK HIM UP OFF THEGROUND HE WILL GO OUT WITH A
  • 00:09:23.119 --> 00:09:25.755
  • WHEN YOU PICK HIM UP OFF THEGROUND HE WILL GO OUT WITH ASPRING IN HIS STEP. (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:09:25.755 --> 00:09:26.689
  • GROUND HE WILL GO OUT WITH ASPRING IN HIS STEP. (LAUGHTER)BUT YOU'LL BE AMAZED AT HOW
  • 00:09:26.689 --> 00:09:28.457
  • SPRING IN HIS STEP. (LAUGHTER)BUT YOU'LL BE AMAZED AT HOWTHESE SIMPLE WORDS WILL LIFT HIS
  • 00:09:28.457 --> 00:09:30.092
  • BUT YOU'LL BE AMAZED AT HOWTHESE SIMPLE WORDS WILL LIFT HISSPIRIT. THEY'LL CAUSE HIM TO
  • 00:09:30.092 --> 00:09:31.460
  • THESE SIMPLE WORDS WILL LIFT HISSPIRIT. THEY'LL CAUSE HIM TOACCOMPLISH MORE. HE'LL HAVE A
  • 00:09:31.460 --> 00:09:33.896
  • SPIRIT. THEY'LL CAUSE HIM TOACCOMPLISH MORE. HE'LL HAVE ABETTER ATTITUDE. HE'LL NOT ONLY
  • 00:09:33.896 --> 00:09:35.398
  • ACCOMPLISH MORE. HE'LL HAVE ABETTER ATTITUDE. HE'LL NOT ONLYTREAT OTHER PEOPLE BETTER BUT
  • 00:09:35.398 --> 00:09:37.099
  • BETTER ATTITUDE. HE'LL NOT ONLYTREAT OTHER PEOPLE BETTER BUTHE'LL TREAT YOU BETTER.
  • 00:09:37.099 --> 00:09:38.267
  • TREAT OTHER PEOPLE BETTER BUTHE'LL TREAT YOU BETTER.HE'LL GO OUT OF HIS WAY TO DO
  • 00:09:38.267 --> 00:09:39.835
  • HE'LL TREAT YOU BETTER.HE'LL GO OUT OF HIS WAY TO DOKIND THINGS FOR YOU AND THE
  • 00:09:39.835 --> 00:09:41.937
  • HE'LL GO OUT OF HIS WAY TO DOKIND THINGS FOR YOU AND THECHILDREN ALL BECAUSE YOU MET ONE
  • 00:09:41.937 --> 00:09:44.073
  • KIND THINGS FOR YOU AND THECHILDREN ALL BECAUSE YOU MET ONEOF HIS GREATEST NEEDS,
  • 00:09:44.073 --> 00:09:45.241
  • CHILDREN ALL BECAUSE YOU MET ONEOF HIS GREATEST NEEDS,THAT LONGING FOR YOU TO BE
  • 00:09:45.241 --> 00:09:47.043
  • OF HIS GREATEST NEEDS,THAT LONGING FOR YOU TO BEPROUD OF HIM.
  • 00:09:47.043 --> 00:09:48.644
  • THAT LONGING FOR YOU TO BEPROUD OF HIM.IN THE SAME WAY, MEN, YOUR WIFE
  • 00:09:48.644 --> 00:09:50.913
  • PROUD OF HIM.IN THE SAME WAY, MEN, YOUR WIFENEEDS YOUR APPROVAL. SHE NEEDS
  • 00:09:50.913 --> 00:09:53.749
  • IN THE SAME WAY, MEN, YOUR WIFENEEDS YOUR APPROVAL. SHE NEEDSYOUR BLESSING. THIS IS VITAL TO
  • 00:09:53.749 --> 00:09:55.451
  • NEEDS YOUR APPROVAL. SHE NEEDSYOUR BLESSING. THIS IS VITAL TOHER BECOMING WHO GOD CREATED
  • 00:09:55.451 --> 00:09:57.486
  • YOUR BLESSING. THIS IS VITAL TOHER BECOMING WHO GOD CREATEDHER TO BE. AND GOD IS GOING TO
  • 00:09:57.486 --> 00:09:59.855
  • HER BECOMING WHO GOD CREATEDHER TO BE. AND GOD IS GOING TOHOLD THE MEN RESPONSIBLE AS THE
  • 00:09:59.855 --> 00:10:02.591
  • HER TO BE. AND GOD IS GOING TOHOLD THE MEN RESPONSIBLE AS THESPIRITUAL AUTHORITY IN THE HOME
  • 00:10:02.591 --> 00:10:05.561
  • HOLD THE MEN RESPONSIBLE AS THESPIRITUAL AUTHORITY IN THE HOMEFOR BLESSING OUR WIVES.
  • 00:10:05.561 --> 00:10:06.595
  • SPIRITUAL AUTHORITY IN THE HOMEFOR BLESSING OUR WIVES.THAT MEANS TO BUILD HER UP, TO
  • 00:10:06.595 --> 00:10:08.998
  • FOR BLESSING OUR WIVES.THAT MEANS TO BUILD HER UP, TOMAKE SURE SHE FEELS LOVED,
  • 00:10:08.998 --> 00:10:11.033
  • THAT MEANS TO BUILD HER UP, TOMAKE SURE SHE FEELS LOVED,VALUED AND RESPECTED.
  • 00:10:11.033 --> 00:10:12.401
  • MAKE SURE SHE FEELS LOVED,VALUED AND RESPECTED.I KNOW MEN, THEY NEVER GIVE
  • 00:10:12.401 --> 00:10:14.503
  • VALUED AND RESPECTED.I KNOW MEN, THEY NEVER GIVETHEIR WIFE THE BLESSING.
  • 00:10:14.503 --> 00:10:15.671
  • I KNOW MEN, THEY NEVER GIVETHEIR WIFE THE BLESSING.THESE WOMEN ONLY HEAR ABOUT WHAT
  • 00:10:15.671 --> 00:10:16.872
  • THEIR WIFE THE BLESSING.THESE WOMEN ONLY HEAR ABOUT WHATTHEY'RE DOING WRONG, HOW
  • 00:10:16.872 --> 00:10:18.374
  • THESE WOMEN ONLY HEAR ABOUT WHATTHEY'RE DOING WRONG, HOWTHE DINNER WAS LATE, THE KIDS
  • 00:10:18.374 --> 00:10:19.775
  • THEY'RE DOING WRONG, HOWTHE DINNER WAS LATE, THE KIDSARE TOO LOUD, HOW THEY'RE NOT
  • 00:10:19.775 --> 00:10:21.444
  • THE DINNER WAS LATE, THE KIDSARE TOO LOUD, HOW THEY'RE NOTTHAT ATTRACTIVE.
  • 00:10:21.444 --> 00:10:22.712
  • ARE TOO LOUD, HOW THEY'RE NOTTHAT ATTRACTIVE.MEN, YOU'RE NOT GOING TO BE
  • 00:10:22.712 --> 00:10:23.779
  • THAT ATTRACTIVE.MEN, YOU'RE NOT GOING TO BEBLESSED IF YOU'RE PUSHING YOUR
  • 00:10:23.779 --> 00:10:25.448
  • MEN, YOU'RE NOT GOING TO BEBLESSED IF YOU'RE PUSHING YOURWIFE DOWN. SHE'S CONNECTED TO
  • 00:10:25.448 --> 00:10:27.850
  • BLESSED IF YOU'RE PUSHING YOURWIFE DOWN. SHE'S CONNECTED TOYOU. IF YOU SAY DISRESPECTFUL,
  • 00:10:27.850 --> 00:10:29.752
  • WIFE DOWN. SHE'S CONNECTED TOYOU. IF YOU SAY DISRESPECTFUL,DEMEANING THINGS, YOU'RE NOT
  • 00:10:29.752 --> 00:10:31.187
  • YOU. IF YOU SAY DISRESPECTFUL,DEMEANING THINGS, YOU'RE NOTONLY PUSHING HER DOWN, YOU'RE
  • 00:10:31.187 --> 00:10:34.056
  • DEMEANING THINGS, YOU'RE NOTONLY PUSHING HER DOWN, YOU'REPUSHING YOURSELF DOWN.
  • 00:10:34.056 --> 00:10:34.990
  • ONLY PUSHING HER DOWN, YOU'REPUSHING YOURSELF DOWN.MANY WOMEN SUFFER FROM LOW
  • 00:10:34.990 --> 00:10:36.559
  • PUSHING YOURSELF DOWN.MANY WOMEN SUFFER FROM LOWSELF-ESTEEM, FROM DEPRESSION,
  • 00:10:36.559 --> 00:10:38.728
  • MANY WOMEN SUFFER FROM LOWSELF-ESTEEM, FROM DEPRESSION,BECAUSE THEY NEVER RECEIVE THE
  • 00:10:38.728 --> 00:10:40.663
  • SELF-ESTEEM, FROM DEPRESSION,BECAUSE THEY NEVER RECEIVE THEBLESSING FROM THEIR HUSBAND.
  • 00:10:40.663 --> 00:10:41.831
  • BECAUSE THEY NEVER RECEIVE THEBLESSING FROM THEIR HUSBAND.MEN, DON'T LET THAT BE YOUR
  • 00:10:41.831 --> 00:10:43.332
  • BLESSING FROM THEIR HUSBAND.MEN, DON'T LET THAT BE YOURWIFE.
  • 00:10:43.332 --> 00:10:44.867
  • MEN, DON'T LET THAT BE YOURWIFE.SOLOMON IS CONSIDERED ONE OF THE
  • 00:10:44.867 --> 00:10:46.869
  • WIFE.SOLOMON IS CONSIDERED ONE OF THEWISEST MEN THAT'S EVER LIVED.
  • 00:10:46.869 --> 00:10:48.037
  • SOLOMON IS CONSIDERED ONE OF THEWISEST MEN THAT'S EVER LIVED.YOU KNOW WHAT HE DID EVERY
  • 00:10:48.037 --> 00:10:49.438
  • WISEST MEN THAT'S EVER LIVED.YOU KNOW WHAT HE DID EVERYMORNING WHEN HE FIRST GOT UP?
  • 00:10:49.438 --> 00:10:51.507
  • YOU KNOW WHAT HE DID EVERYMORNING WHEN HE FIRST GOT UP?HE BLESSED HIS WIFE.
  • 00:10:51.507 --> 00:10:52.508
  • MORNING WHEN HE FIRST GOT UP?HE BLESSED HIS WIFE.HE LOOKED HER IN THE EYES AND
  • 00:10:52.508 --> 00:10:53.943
  • HE BLESSED HIS WIFE.HE LOOKED HER IN THE EYES ANDSAID, "THERE ARE MANY BEAUTIFUL
  • 00:10:53.943 --> 00:10:55.678
  • HE LOOKED HER IN THE EYES ANDSAID, "THERE ARE MANY BEAUTIFULWOMEN IN THE WORLD BUT YOU EXCEL
  • 00:10:55.678 --> 00:10:58.080
  • SAID, "THERE ARE MANY BEAUTIFULWOMEN IN THE WORLD BUT YOU EXCELTHEM ALL." HE STARTED HIS DAY
  • 00:10:58.080 --> 00:11:01.150
  • WOMEN IN THE WORLD BUT YOU EXCELTHEM ALL." HE STARTED HIS DAYCOMPLIMENTING HIS WIFE.
  • 00:11:01.150 --> 00:11:02.551
  • THEM ALL." HE STARTED HIS DAYCOMPLIMENTING HIS WIFE.WHAT WOULD HAPPEN, MEN, IF EVERY
  • 00:11:02.551 --> 00:11:04.820
  • COMPLIMENTING HIS WIFE.WHAT WOULD HAPPEN, MEN, IF EVERYDAY BEFORE WE WENT TO WORK,
  • 00:11:04.820 --> 00:11:06.822
  • WHAT WOULD HAPPEN, MEN, IF EVERYDAY BEFORE WE WENT TO WORK,BEFORE WE STARTED THE PROJECT
  • 00:11:06.822 --> 00:11:08.090
  • DAY BEFORE WE WENT TO WORK,BEFORE WE STARTED THE PROJECTWE TOLD OUR WIFE, "YOU'RE THE
  • 00:11:08.090 --> 00:11:09.492
  • BEFORE WE STARTED THE PROJECTWE TOLD OUR WIFE, "YOU'RE THEMOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL I'VE EVER
  • 00:11:09.492 --> 00:11:11.193
  • WE TOLD OUR WIFE, "YOU'RE THEMOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL I'VE EVERSEEN. THERE'S NOBODY LIKE YOU
  • 00:11:11.193 --> 00:11:13.062
  • MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL I'VE EVERSEEN. THERE'S NOBODY LIKE YOUIN ALL THE WORLD."
  • 00:11:13.062 --> 00:11:14.296
  • SEEN. THERE'S NOBODY LIKE YOUIN ALL THE WORLD."WELL, YOU SAY, "JOEL, IF I DID
  • 00:11:14.296 --> 00:11:16.098
  • IN ALL THE WORLD."WELL, YOU SAY, "JOEL, IF I DIDTHAT I WOULD BE LYING."
  • 00:11:16.098 --> 00:11:18.734
  • WELL, YOU SAY, "JOEL, IF I DIDTHAT I WOULD BE LYING."NO, YOUR WIFE...(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:18.734 --> 00:11:21.036
  • THAT I WOULD BE LYING."NO, YOUR WIFE...(LAUGHTER)I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE THINKING.
  • 00:11:21.036 --> 00:11:22.404
  • NO, YOUR WIFE...(LAUGHTER)I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE THINKING.(LAUGHTER) YOUR WIFE SHOULD BE
  • 00:11:22.404 --> 00:11:23.973
  • I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE THINKING.(LAUGHTER) YOUR WIFE SHOULD BETHE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THE
  • 00:11:23.973 --> 00:11:25.908
  • (LAUGHTER) YOUR WIFE SHOULD BETHE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THEWORLD TO YOU. DON'T COMPARE HER
  • 00:11:25.908 --> 00:11:27.543
  • THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN THEWORLD TO YOU. DON'T COMPARE HERWITH YOUR NEIGHBOR'S WIFE.
  • 00:11:27.543 --> 00:11:28.310
  • WORLD TO YOU. DON'T COMPARE HERWITH YOUR NEIGHBOR'S WIFE.(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:28.310 --> 00:11:31.213
  • WITH YOUR NEIGHBOR'S WIFE.(LAUGHTER)DON'T COMPARE HER...(APPLAUSE)
  • 00:11:31.213 --> 00:11:32.715
  • (LAUGHTER)DON'T COMPARE HER...(APPLAUSE)DON'T COMPARE HER...(APPLAUSE)
  • 00:11:32.715 --> 00:11:33.516
  • DON'T COMPARE HER...(APPLAUSE)DON'T COMPARE HER...(APPLAUSE)...WITH THE GIRL ON THE COVER OF
  • 00:11:33.516 --> 00:11:35.117
  • DON'T COMPARE HER...(APPLAUSE)...WITH THE GIRL ON THE COVER OFTHE MAGAZINE. (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:35.117 --> 00:11:36.318
  • ...WITH THE GIRL ON THE COVER OFTHE MAGAZINE. (LAUGHTER)OR THE ACTRESS ON TELEVISION.
  • 00:11:36.318 --> 00:11:37.553
  • THE MAGAZINE. (LAUGHTER)OR THE ACTRESS ON TELEVISION.THEY'VE HAD A LOT OF HELP.
  • 00:11:37.553 --> 00:11:39.588
  • OR THE ACTRESS ON TELEVISION.THEY'VE HAD A LOT OF HELP.(LAUGHTER) PERFECT LIGHTING.
  • 00:11:39.588 --> 00:11:41.223
  • THEY'VE HAD A LOT OF HELP.(LAUGHTER) PERFECT LIGHTING.PROFESSIONAL MAKEUP. SURGERY,
  • 00:11:41.223 --> 00:11:42.158
  • (LAUGHTER) PERFECT LIGHTING.PROFESSIONAL MAKEUP. SURGERY,MORE SURGERY, AND THEN MORE
  • 00:11:42.158 --> 00:11:44.193
  • PROFESSIONAL MAKEUP. SURGERY,MORE SURGERY, AND THEN MORESURGERY. (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:11:44.193 --> 00:11:46.028
  • MORE SURGERY, AND THEN MORESURGERY. (LAUGHTER)YOUR WIFE IS THE GIFT GOD GAVE
  • 00:11:46.028 --> 00:11:48.931
  • SURGERY. (LAUGHTER)YOUR WIFE IS THE GIFT GOD GAVEYOU. (CONGREGATION: "AMEN")
  • 00:11:48.931 --> 00:11:50.399
  • YOUR WIFE IS THE GIFT GOD GAVEYOU. (CONGREGATION: "AMEN")PHYSICAL BEAUTY CAN BE FLEETING
  • 00:11:50.399 --> 00:11:52.034
  • YOU. (CONGREGATION: "AMEN")PHYSICAL BEAUTY CAN BE FLEETINGBUT TRUE LASTING BEAUTY IS FOUND
  • 00:11:52.034 --> 00:11:54.470
  • PHYSICAL BEAUTY CAN BE FLEETINGBUT TRUE LASTING BEAUTY IS FOUNDON THE INSIDE. THAT WOMAN GOD
  • 00:11:54.470 --> 00:11:56.272
  • BUT TRUE LASTING BEAUTY IS FOUNDON THE INSIDE. THAT WOMAN GODHAS GIVEN YOU IS A GIFT.
  • 00:11:56.272 --> 00:11:58.207
  • ON THE INSIDE. THAT WOMAN GODHAS GIVEN YOU IS A GIFT.SHE IS A TREASURE. (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:11:58.207 --> 00:11:59.241
  • HAS GIVEN YOU IS A GIFT.SHE IS A TREASURE. (APPLAUSE)SHE IS ONE OF A KIND. NOBODY
  • 00:11:59.241 --> 00:12:00.709
  • SHE IS A TREASURE. (APPLAUSE)SHE IS ONE OF A KIND. NOBODYHAS HER FINGERPRINTS. WHEN YOU
  • 00:12:00.709 --> 00:12:02.111
  • SHE IS ONE OF A KIND. NOBODYHAS HER FINGERPRINTS. WHEN YOUREALIZE THIS YOU CAN GET UP
  • 00:12:02.111 --> 00:12:03.746
  • HAS HER FINGERPRINTS. WHEN YOUREALIZE THIS YOU CAN GET UPLIKE SOLOMON AND SAY, "HEY,
  • 00:12:03.746 --> 00:12:04.547
  • REALIZE THIS YOU CAN GET UPLIKE SOLOMON AND SAY, "HEY,BABY. YOU'RE LOOKING FINE
  • 00:12:04.547 --> 00:12:06.715
  • LIKE SOLOMON AND SAY, "HEY,BABY. YOU'RE LOOKING FINETODAY." (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:12:06.715 --> 00:12:08.150
  • BABY. YOU'RE LOOKING FINETODAY." (LAUGHTER)THAT'S EVEN IN THE SCRIPTURE.
  • 00:12:08.150 --> 00:12:09.752
  • TODAY." (LAUGHTER)THAT'S EVEN IN THE SCRIPTURE.(LAUGHTER) IT'S MY VERSION
  • 00:12:09.752 --> 00:12:11.620
  • THAT'S EVEN IN THE SCRIPTURE.(LAUGHTER) IT'S MY VERSIONTHOUGH. (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:12:11.620 --> 00:12:12.521
  • (LAUGHTER) IT'S MY VERSIONTHOUGH. (LAUGHTER)BUT I'LL ADMIT I AM NOT THE
  • 00:12:12.521 --> 00:12:14.290
  • THOUGH. (LAUGHTER)BUT I'LL ADMIT I AM NOT THEMOST ROMANTIC PERSON.
  • 00:12:14.290 --> 00:12:15.291
  • BUT I'LL ADMIT I AM NOT THEMOST ROMANTIC PERSON.I DON'T SIT AROUND AND WRITE
  • 00:12:15.291 --> 00:12:17.426
  • MOST ROMANTIC PERSON.I DON'T SIT AROUND AND WRITEPOETRY TO VICTORIA ALL DAY LONG
  • 00:12:17.426 --> 00:12:18.727
  • I DON'T SIT AROUND AND WRITEPOETRY TO VICTORIA ALL DAY LONGAND PLAN THESE CANDLELIGHT
  • 00:12:18.727 --> 00:12:20.429
  • POETRY TO VICTORIA ALL DAY LONGAND PLAN THESE CANDLELIGHTDINNERS. I TELL PEOPLE, "I'M
  • 00:12:20.429 --> 00:12:22.097
  • AND PLAN THESE CANDLELIGHTDINNERS. I TELL PEOPLE, "I'MNOT ROMEO. I'M JOELEO."
  • 00:12:22.097 --> 00:12:24.099
  • DINNERS. I TELL PEOPLE, "I'MNOT ROMEO. I'M JOELEO."(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:12:24.099 --> 00:12:25.334
  • NOT ROMEO. I'M JOELEO."(LAUGHTER)BUT I HAVE LEARNED THIS
  • 00:12:25.334 --> 00:12:27.536
  • (LAUGHTER)BUT I HAVE LEARNED THISPRINCIPLE OF BLESSING MY WIFE.
  • 00:12:27.536 --> 00:12:29.705
  • BUT I HAVE LEARNED THISPRINCIPLE OF BLESSING MY WIFE.I REALIZE I WILL NOT RISE ANY
  • 00:12:29.705 --> 00:12:31.240
  • PRINCIPLE OF BLESSING MY WIFE.I REALIZE I WILL NOT RISE ANYHIGHER. I CAN HAVE THE TALENT,
  • 00:12:31.240 --> 00:12:33.542
  • I REALIZE I WILL NOT RISE ANYHIGHER. I CAN HAVE THE TALENT,THE EDUCATION, THE OPPORTUNITY,
  • 00:12:33.542 --> 00:12:35.444
  • HIGHER. I CAN HAVE THE TALENT,THE EDUCATION, THE OPPORTUNITY,BUT OUR FAMILY WILL GET STUCK
  • 00:12:35.444 --> 00:12:38.147
  • THE EDUCATION, THE OPPORTUNITY,BUT OUR FAMILY WILL GET STUCKIF I WITHHOLD MY BLESSING.
  • 00:12:38.147 --> 00:12:39.582
  • BUT OUR FAMILY WILL GET STUCKIF I WITHHOLD MY BLESSING.MEN, DON'T EVER PUT YOUR WIFE
  • 00:12:39.582 --> 00:12:41.517
  • IF I WITHHOLD MY BLESSING.MEN, DON'T EVER PUT YOUR WIFEDOWN. GET OUT OF THE HABIT OF
  • 00:12:41.517 --> 00:12:43.953
  • MEN, DON'T EVER PUT YOUR WIFEDOWN. GET OUT OF THE HABIT OFSAYING SARCASTIC REMARKS.
  • 00:12:43.953 --> 00:12:45.154
  • DOWN. GET OUT OF THE HABIT OFSAYING SARCASTIC REMARKS.YOU DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO HAVE
  • 00:12:45.154 --> 00:12:47.590
  • SAYING SARCASTIC REMARKS.YOU DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO HAVETHE LAST WORD. LET IT GO.
  • 00:12:47.590 --> 00:12:48.657
  • YOU DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO HAVETHE LAST WORD. LET IT GO.(AUDIENCE MEMBER: "AMEN!")
  • 00:12:48.657 --> 00:12:50.192
  • THE LAST WORD. LET IT GO.(AUDIENCE MEMBER: "AMEN!")KEEP PEACE IN THE HOME.
  • 00:12:50.192 --> 00:12:50.993
  • (AUDIENCE MEMBER: "AMEN!")KEEP PEACE IN THE HOME.(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:12:50.993 --> 00:12:51.861
  • KEEP PEACE IN THE HOME.(LAUGHTER)SOMEBODY IS RECEIVING IT. SHE'S
  • 00:12:51.861 --> 00:12:52.862
  • (LAUGHTER)SOMEBODY IS RECEIVING IT. SHE'SGOING TO BUY IT FOR HER
  • 00:12:52.862 --> 00:12:55.331
  • SOMEBODY IS RECEIVING IT. SHE'SGOING TO BUY IT FOR HERHUSBAND! (LAUGHTER/APPLAUSE)
  • 00:12:55.331 --> 00:12:56.131
  • GOING TO BUY IT FOR HERHUSBAND! (LAUGHTER/APPLAUSE)IF YOU CAN'T SAY ANYTHING GOOD
  • 00:12:56.131 --> 00:12:58.000
  • HUSBAND! (LAUGHTER/APPLAUSE)IF YOU CAN'T SAY ANYTHING GOODDON'T SAY IT. WORDS CAN CUT
  • 00:12:58.000 --> 00:12:59.635
  • IF YOU CAN'T SAY ANYTHING GOODDON'T SAY IT. WORDS CAN CUTLIKE A KNIFE. YOU CAN SAY
  • 00:12:59.635 --> 00:13:01.503
  • DON'T SAY IT. WORDS CAN CUTLIKE A KNIFE. YOU CAN SAYSOMETHING HURTFUL THAT ONLY
  • 00:13:01.503 --> 00:13:03.272
  • LIKE A KNIFE. YOU CAN SAYSOMETHING HURTFUL THAT ONLYTAKES TEN SECONDS BUT TEN YEARS
  • 00:13:03.272 --> 00:13:04.807
  • SOMETHING HURTFUL THAT ONLYTAKES TEN SECONDS BUT TEN YEARSLATER THE PERSON STILL FEELS
  • 00:13:04.807 --> 00:13:06.575
  • TAKES TEN SECONDS BUT TEN YEARSLATER THE PERSON STILL FEELSTHE WOUNDS. BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU
  • 00:13:06.575 --> 00:13:09.078
  • LATER THE PERSON STILL FEELSTHE WOUNDS. BE CAREFUL WHAT YOUSAY, ESPECIALLY TO THOSE THAT
  • 00:13:09.078 --> 00:13:10.913
  • THE WOUNDS. BE CAREFUL WHAT YOUSAY, ESPECIALLY TO THOSE THATARE CLOSEST TO YOU.
  • 00:13:10.913 --> 00:13:11.647
  • SAY, ESPECIALLY TO THOSE THATARE CLOSEST TO YOU.ARE YOU TAKING CARE OF YOUR
  • 00:13:11.647 --> 00:13:13.282
  • STAY TUNED FOR MORE OF
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  • .
  • 00:13:16.886 --> 00:13:17.786
  • .> GERALD: WELL, I WAS WORKING
  • 00:13:17.786 --> 00:13:19.121
  • > GERALD: WELL, I WAS WORKINGAS A PROPERTY MANAGER AND
  • 00:13:19.121 --> 00:13:20.756
  • AS A PROPERTY MANAGER ANDTHINGS JUST STARTED HAPPENING
  • 00:13:20.756 --> 00:13:22.291
  • THINGS JUST STARTED HAPPENINGTHAT KIND OF GRABBED MY
  • 00:13:22.291 --> 00:13:24.260
  • THAT KIND OF GRABBED MYATTENTION. IT BECAME VERY
  • 00:13:24.260 --> 00:13:26.829
  • ATTENTION. IT BECAME VERYUNCOMFORTABLE. THERE WERE TIMES
  • 00:13:26.829 --> 00:13:28.464
  • UNCOMFORTABLE. THERE WERE TIMESWHERE I JUST WANTED TO GIVE UP.
  • 00:13:28.464 --> 00:13:29.832
  • WHERE I JUST WANTED TO GIVE UP.YOU KNOW, I WAS READY TO JUST
  • 00:13:29.832 --> 00:13:31.767
  • YOU KNOW, I WAS READY TO JUSTJUMP OFF A BRIDGE.
  • 00:13:31.767 --> 00:13:34.370
  • JUMP OFF A BRIDGE.SO THE PRESSURE BECAME SO MUCH
  • 00:13:34.370 --> 00:13:36.605
  • SO THE PRESSURE BECAME SO MUCHTHAT I ENDED UP RESIGNING MY
  • 00:13:36.605 --> 00:13:38.574
  • THAT I ENDED UP RESIGNING MYJOB. I KIND OF FELL INTO A
  • 00:13:38.574 --> 00:13:40.876
  • JOB. I KIND OF FELL INTO ASMALL DEPRESSION WHERE, YOU
  • 00:13:40.876 --> 00:13:41.877
  • SMALL DEPRESSION WHERE, YOUKNOW, I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT I WAS
  • 00:13:41.877 --> 00:13:42.878
  • KNOW, I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT I WASGOING TO DO. I DIDN'T KNOW HOW
  • 00:13:42.878 --> 00:13:44.680
  • GOING TO DO. I DIDN'T KNOW HOWI WAS GOING TO PAY MY BILLS.
  • 00:13:44.680 --> 00:13:46.181
  • I WAS GOING TO PAY MY BILLS.DURING ONE OF MY DOWN TIMES,
  • 00:13:46.181 --> 00:13:47.950
  • DURING ONE OF MY DOWN TIMES,I RECEIVED A TEXT FROM ONE OF
  • 00:13:47.950 --> 00:13:49.518
  • I RECEIVED A TEXT FROM ONE OFMY GOOD FRIENDS. AND THE TEXT
  • 00:13:49.518 --> 00:13:51.553
  • MY GOOD FRIENDS. AND THE TEXTWAS A SERMON OF PASTOR JOEL'S
  • 00:13:51.553 --> 00:13:52.855
  • WAS A SERMON OF PASTOR JOEL'SFROM LAKEWOOD. IT LIKE CAME AT
  • 00:13:52.855 --> 00:13:54.790
  • FROM LAKEWOOD. IT LIKE CAME ATTHE PERFECT TIME. AND I STARTED
  • 00:13:54.790 --> 00:13:55.991
  • THE PERFECT TIME. AND I STARTEDWATCHING. IT JUST QUICKLY
  • 00:13:55.991 --> 00:13:58.661
  • WATCHING. IT JUST QUICKLYMOTIVATED ME. I MEAN I WENT
  • 00:13:58.661 --> 00:14:00.763
  • MOTIVATED ME. I MEAN I WENTFROM FEELING SAD AND HOPELESS
  • 00:14:00.763 --> 00:14:02.865
  • FROM FEELING SAD AND HOPELESSTO FEELING MOTIVATED AND
  • 00:14:02.865 --> 00:14:06.535
  • TO FEELING MOTIVATED ANDEXCITED. IT TRANSFORMED MY LIFE.
  • 00:14:06.535 --> 00:14:08.904
  • EXCITED. IT TRANSFORMED MY LIFE.I STARTED EATING HEALTHIER.
  • 00:14:08.904 --> 00:14:11.006
  • I STARTED EATING HEALTHIER.I LOST WEIGHT. I LOST 55 POUNDS
  • 00:14:11.006 --> 00:14:13.142
  • I LOST WEIGHT. I LOST 55 POUNDSAS OF TODAY. AND JOEL SAYS GIVE
  • 00:14:13.142 --> 00:14:14.610
  • AS OF TODAY. AND JOEL SAYS GIVEHIM A YEAR OF YOUR TIME AND
  • 00:14:14.610 --> 00:14:15.611
  • HIM A YEAR OF YOUR TIME ANDYOU'RE GOING TO BE A COMPLETELY
  • 00:14:15.611 --> 00:14:16.812
  • YOU'RE GOING TO BE A COMPLETELYDIFFERENT PERSON. WELL, IT'S
  • 00:14:16.812 --> 00:14:17.980
  • DIFFERENT PERSON. WELL, IT'SONLY BEEN FIVE AND A HALF MONTHS
  • 00:14:17.980 --> 00:14:19.081
  • ONLY BEEN FIVE AND A HALF MONTHSFOR ME AND I'M A TOTALLY
  • 00:14:19.081 --> 00:14:21.250
  • I USED TO PLAY BASKETBALL WITH A
  • 00:14:23.319 --> 00:14:24.787
  • I USED TO PLAY BASKETBALL WITH AYOUNG MAN. EVERY TIME AFTER THE
  • 00:14:24.787 --> 00:14:26.121
  • I USED TO PLAY BASKETBALL WITH AYOUNG MAN. EVERY TIME AFTER THEGAME HE WOULD SAY, "WELL, I'VE
  • 00:14:26.121 --> 00:14:27.256
  • YOUNG MAN. EVERY TIME AFTER THEGAME HE WOULD SAY, "WELL, I'VEGOTTA GO HOME AND SEE MY OLD
  • 00:14:27.256 --> 00:14:28.357
  • GAME HE WOULD SAY, "WELL, I'VEGOTTA GO HOME AND SEE MY OLDLADY," TALKING ABOUT HIS WIFE.
  • 00:14:28.357 --> 00:14:32.194
  • GOTTA GO HOME AND SEE MY OLDLADY," TALKING ABOUT HIS WIFE.HE DIDN'T REALIZE PUTTING HIS
  • 00:14:32.194 --> 00:14:33.462
  • LADY," TALKING ABOUT HIS WIFE.HE DIDN'T REALIZE PUTTING HISWIFE DOWN DIDN'T MAKE HIM LOOK
  • 00:14:33.462 --> 00:14:35.164
  • HE DIDN'T REALIZE PUTTING HISWIFE DOWN DIDN'T MAKE HIM LOOKGOOD. IF SHE'S THE OLD LADY
  • 00:14:35.164 --> 00:14:37.099
  • WIFE DOWN DIDN'T MAKE HIM LOOKGOOD. IF SHE'S THE OLD LADYTHAT MEANS HE'S THE OLD MAN.
  • 00:14:37.099 --> 00:14:38.467
  • GOOD. IF SHE'S THE OLD LADYTHAT MEANS HE'S THE OLD MAN.(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:14:38.467 --> 00:14:39.301
  • THAT MEANS HE'S THE OLD MAN.(LAUGHTER)I USED TO TELL HIM I'M GOING TO
  • 00:14:39.301 --> 00:14:40.369
  • (LAUGHTER)I USED TO TELL HIM I'M GOING TOGO HOME AND SEE MY WIFE, QUEEN
  • 00:14:40.369 --> 00:14:42.004
  • I USED TO TELL HIM I'M GOING TOGO HOME AND SEE MY WIFE, QUEENVICTORIA." (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:14:42.004 --> 00:14:42.905
  • GO HOME AND SEE MY WIFE, QUEENVICTORIA." (LAUGHTER)IF SHE'S THE QUEEN THAT MAKES
  • 00:14:42.905 --> 00:14:44.873
  • VICTORIA." (LAUGHTER)IF SHE'S THE QUEEN THAT MAKESME THE KING AND I LIKE THAT.
  • 00:14:44.873 --> 00:14:46.475
  • IF SHE'S THE QUEEN THAT MAKESME THE KING AND I LIKE THAT.(LAUGHTER/APPLAUSE)
  • 00:14:46.475 --> 00:14:47.376
  • ME THE KING AND I LIKE THAT.(LAUGHTER/APPLAUSE)SOLOMON WROTE A BOOK IN THE
  • 00:14:47.376 --> 00:14:48.210
  • (LAUGHTER/APPLAUSE)SOLOMON WROTE A BOOK IN THEBIBLE. IT'S CALLED THE SONG OF
  • 00:14:48.210 --> 00:14:49.812
  • SOLOMON WROTE A BOOK IN THEBIBLE. IT'S CALLED THE SONG OFSOLOMON. IN THE EIGHT CHAPTERS
  • 00:14:49.812 --> 00:14:51.313
  • BIBLE. IT'S CALLED THE SONG OFSOLOMON. IN THE EIGHT CHAPTERSOF HIS BOOK HE PRAISED HIS WIFE
  • 00:14:51.313 --> 00:14:54.416
  • SOLOMON. IN THE EIGHT CHAPTERSOF HIS BOOK HE PRAISED HIS WIFEOVER 40 TIMES.
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  • OF HIS BOOK HE PRAISED HIS WIFEOVER 40 TIMES.HE WAS CONSTANTLY TALKING ABOUT
  • 00:14:55.784 --> 00:14:57.486
  • OVER 40 TIMES.HE WAS CONSTANTLY TALKING ABOUTHER STRENGTH, HER BEAUTY, HER
  • 00:14:57.486 --> 00:14:59.121
  • HE WAS CONSTANTLY TALKING ABOUTHER STRENGTH, HER BEAUTY, HERINTELLIGENCE ALL THROUGH THE
  • 00:14:59.121 --> 00:15:00.956
  • HER STRENGTH, HER BEAUTY, HERINTELLIGENCE ALL THROUGH THEDAY. THERE'S NO WOMAN LIKE HER.
  • 00:15:00.956 --> 00:15:03.125
  • INTELLIGENCE ALL THROUGH THEDAY. THERE'S NO WOMAN LIKE HER.WELL, YOU SAY, "JOEL, YOU DON'T
  • 00:15:03.125 --> 00:15:04.393
  • DAY. THERE'S NO WOMAN LIKE HER.WELL, YOU SAY, "JOEL, YOU DON'TKNOW MY PROBLEM. MY WIFE, SHE'S
  • 00:15:04.393 --> 00:15:05.661
  • WELL, YOU SAY, "JOEL, YOU DON'TKNOW MY PROBLEM. MY WIFE, SHE'SHARD TO GET ALONG WITH. SHE'S
  • 00:15:05.661 --> 00:15:06.929
  • KNOW MY PROBLEM. MY WIFE, SHE'SHARD TO GET ALONG WITH. SHE'SGOT A BAD ATTITUDE."
  • 00:15:06.929 --> 00:15:08.497
  • HARD TO GET ALONG WITH. SHE'SGOT A BAD ATTITUDE."NO, YOU START PRAISING HER. YOU
  • 00:15:08.497 --> 00:15:09.865
  • GOT A BAD ATTITUDE."NO, YOU START PRAISING HER. YOUSTART TELLING HER HOW BEAUTIFUL
  • 00:15:09.865 --> 00:15:11.967
  • NO, YOU START PRAISING HER. YOUSTART TELLING HER HOW BEAUTIFULSHE IS. WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT THE
  • 00:15:11.967 --> 00:15:14.236
  • START TELLING HER HOW BEAUTIFULSHE IS. WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT THEGOOD YOU'LL DRAW OUT THE GOOD.
  • 00:15:14.236 --> 00:15:15.504
  • SHE IS. WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT THEGOOD YOU'LL DRAW OUT THE GOOD.YOU TALK ABOUT THE NEGATIVE
  • 00:15:15.504 --> 00:15:17.072
  • GOOD YOU'LL DRAW OUT THE GOOD.YOU TALK ABOUT THE NEGATIVEYOU'LL DRAW OUT THE NEGATIVE.
  • 00:15:17.072 --> 00:15:18.640
  • YOU TALK ABOUT THE NEGATIVEYOU'LL DRAW OUT THE NEGATIVE.YOU NEED TO REMEMBER THE REASON
  • 00:15:18.640 --> 00:15:21.143
  • YOU'LL DRAW OUT THE NEGATIVE.YOU NEED TO REMEMBER THE REASONYOU FELL IN LOVE. WHEN YOU WERE
  • 00:15:21.143 --> 00:15:23.345
  • YOU NEED TO REMEMBER THE REASONYOU FELL IN LOVE. WHEN YOU WEREDATING THAT PERSON YOU ONLY
  • 00:15:23.345 --> 00:15:24.413
  • YOU FELL IN LOVE. WHEN YOU WEREDATING THAT PERSON YOU ONLYFOCUSED ON THEIR GOOD
  • 00:15:24.413 --> 00:15:25.547
  • DATING THAT PERSON YOU ONLYFOCUSED ON THEIR GOODQUALITIES.
  • 00:15:25.547 --> 00:15:27.383
  • FOCUSED ON THEIR GOODQUALITIES."SHE'S BEAUTIFUL. SHE'S FUN.
  • 00:15:27.383 --> 00:15:28.350
  • QUALITIES."SHE'S BEAUTIFUL. SHE'S FUN.SHE'S GOT A GREAT SENSE OF
  • 00:15:28.350 --> 00:15:29.651
  • "SHE'S BEAUTIFUL. SHE'S FUN.SHE'S GOT A GREAT SENSE OFSTYLE."
  • 00:15:29.651 --> 00:15:30.719
  • SHE'S GOT A GREAT SENSE OFSTYLE."OR, "HE'S SO SMART. HE'S SO
  • 00:15:30.719 --> 00:15:31.820
  • STYLE."OR, "HE'S SO SMART. HE'S SOTALENTED. I LOVE HIS SENSE OF
  • 00:15:31.820 --> 00:15:33.188
  • OR, "HE'S SO SMART. HE'S SOTALENTED. I LOVE HIS SENSE OFHUMOR."
  • 00:15:33.188 --> 00:15:34.656
  • TALENTED. I LOVE HIS SENSE OFHUMOR."THAT PERSON HAD THE SAME
  • 00:15:34.656 --> 00:15:37.526
  • HUMOR."THAT PERSON HAD THE SAMENEGATIVE QUALITIES BACK THEN AS
  • 00:15:37.526 --> 00:15:39.661
  • THAT PERSON HAD THE SAMENEGATIVE QUALITIES BACK THEN ASTHEY HAVE RIGHT NOW. YOU JUST
  • 00:15:39.661 --> 00:15:41.697
  • NEGATIVE QUALITIES BACK THEN ASTHEY HAVE RIGHT NOW. YOU JUSTDIDN'T FOCUS ON IT.
  • 00:15:41.697 --> 00:15:42.931
  • THEY HAVE RIGHT NOW. YOU JUSTDIDN'T FOCUS ON IT.LADIES, THINK ABOUT THIS. WHEN
  • 00:15:42.931 --> 00:15:43.999
  • DIDN'T FOCUS ON IT.LADIES, THINK ABOUT THIS. WHENYOU WERE DATING THAT MAN YOU
  • 00:15:43.999 --> 00:15:45.300
  • LADIES, THINK ABOUT THIS. WHENYOU WERE DATING THAT MAN YOUKNEW HE WATCHED THE BALLGAME
  • 00:15:45.300 --> 00:15:47.102
  • YOU WERE DATING THAT MAN YOUKNEW HE WATCHED THE BALLGAMEEVERY SUNDAY AFTERNOON.
  • 00:15:47.102 --> 00:15:48.237
  • KNEW HE WATCHED THE BALLGAMEEVERY SUNDAY AFTERNOON.(LAUGHTER) DRESSED UP LIKE THE
  • 00:15:48.237 --> 00:15:51.173
  • EVERY SUNDAY AFTERNOON.(LAUGHTER) DRESSED UP LIKE THETEAM MASCOT. (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:15:51.173 --> 00:15:51.907
  • (LAUGHTER) DRESSED UP LIKE THETEAM MASCOT. (LAUGHTER)HAD TWELVE OF HIS FRIENDS OVER
  • 00:15:51.907 --> 00:15:53.008
  • TEAM MASCOT. (LAUGHTER)HAD TWELVE OF HIS FRIENDS OVERAND DIDN'T ACKNOWLEDGE YOU
  • 00:15:53.008 --> 00:15:54.410
  • HAD TWELVE OF HIS FRIENDS OVERAND DIDN'T ACKNOWLEDGE YOUEXISTED FOR THREE AND A HALF
  • 00:15:54.410 --> 00:15:55.911
  • AND DIDN'T ACKNOWLEDGE YOUEXISTED FOR THREE AND A HALFHOURS. (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:15:55.911 --> 00:15:56.879
  • EXISTED FOR THREE AND A HALFHOURS. (LAUGHTER)YOU KNEW WHEN YOU WERE DATING
  • 00:15:56.879 --> 00:15:58.113
  • HOURS. (LAUGHTER)YOU KNEW WHEN YOU WERE DATINGHIM HE WORE THE SAME PAIR OF
  • 00:15:58.113 --> 00:15:59.448
  • YOU KNEW WHEN YOU WERE DATINGHIM HE WORE THE SAME PAIR OFSHORTS FOR SEVEN YEARS.
  • 00:15:59.448 --> 00:16:00.682
  • HIM HE WORE THE SAME PAIR OFSHORTS FOR SEVEN YEARS.(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:16:00.682 --> 00:16:01.550
  • SHORTS FOR SEVEN YEARS.(LAUGHTER)YOU KNEW WHEN YOU WERE DATING
  • 00:16:01.550 --> 00:16:02.684
  • (LAUGHTER)YOU KNEW WHEN YOU WERE DATINGHIS BREATH WAS A WEAPON OF MASS
  • 00:16:02.684 --> 00:16:06.088
  • YOU KNEW WHEN YOU WERE DATINGHIS BREATH WAS A WEAPON OF MASSDESTRUCTION. (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:16:06.088 --> 00:16:07.289
  • HIS BREATH WAS A WEAPON OF MASSDESTRUCTION. (LAUGHTER)YOU KNEW HIS 40-INCH WAISTLINE
  • 00:16:07.289 --> 00:16:08.457
  • DESTRUCTION. (LAUGHTER)YOU KNEW HIS 40-INCH WAISTLINEWAS BIGGER THAN HIS IQ.
  • 00:16:08.457 --> 00:16:10.426
  • YOU KNEW HIS 40-INCH WAISTLINEWAS BIGGER THAN HIS IQ.(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:16:10.426 --> 00:16:11.393
  • WAS BIGGER THAN HIS IQ.(LAUGHTER)BUT YOU WERE SO IN LOVE YOU
  • 00:16:11.393 --> 00:16:13.295
  • (LAUGHTER)BUT YOU WERE SO IN LOVE YOUOVERLOOKED THOSE QUALITIES.
  • 00:16:13.295 --> 00:16:14.663
  • BUT YOU WERE SO IN LOVE YOUOVERLOOKED THOSE QUALITIES.DIDN'T BOTHER YOU A BIT.
  • 00:16:14.663 --> 00:16:15.964
  • OVERLOOKED THOSE QUALITIES.DIDN'T BOTHER YOU A BIT.MEN, WHEN YOU WERE DATING HER
  • 00:16:15.964 --> 00:16:17.866
  • DIDN'T BOTHER YOU A BIT.MEN, WHEN YOU WERE DATING HERYOU KNEW THAT COOKING WASN'T HER
  • 00:16:17.866 --> 00:16:19.701
  • MEN, WHEN YOU WERE DATING HERYOU KNEW THAT COOKING WASN'T HERSPECIALTY. (LAUGHTER) SHE MADE
  • 00:16:19.701 --> 00:16:21.236
  • YOU KNEW THAT COOKING WASN'T HERSPECIALTY. (LAUGHTER) SHE MADEYOU DINNER ONCE AND YOU WERE
  • 00:16:21.236 --> 00:16:23.138
  • SPECIALTY. (LAUGHTER) SHE MADEYOU DINNER ONCE AND YOU WEREOUT SICK FOR THREE DAYS.
  • 00:16:23.138 --> 00:16:24.973
  • YOU DINNER ONCE AND YOU WEREOUT SICK FOR THREE DAYS.(LAUGHTER) YOU KNEW SHE HAD AN
  • 00:16:24.973 --> 00:16:26.408
  • OUT SICK FOR THREE DAYS.(LAUGHTER) YOU KNEW SHE HAD ANASSIGNED PARKING SPOT AT THE
  • 00:16:26.408 --> 00:16:28.043
  • (LAUGHTER) YOU KNEW SHE HAD ANASSIGNED PARKING SPOT AT THEMALL. (LAUGHTER) YOU KNEW SHE
  • 00:16:28.043 --> 00:16:29.144
  • ASSIGNED PARKING SPOT AT THEMALL. (LAUGHTER) YOU KNEW SHEWOULD BUY THE SHOES AND NOT PAY
  • 00:16:29.144 --> 00:16:31.747
  • MALL. (LAUGHTER) YOU KNEW SHEWOULD BUY THE SHOES AND NOT PAYTHE RENT. (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:16:31.747 --> 00:16:32.948
  • WOULD BUY THE SHOES AND NOT PAYTHE RENT. (LAUGHTER)YOU KNEW SHE HAD A DIRECT PHONE
  • 00:16:32.948 --> 00:16:34.850
  • THE RENT. (LAUGHTER)YOU KNEW SHE HAD A DIRECT PHONELINE WITH HER MOTHER.
  • 00:16:34.850 --> 00:16:35.717
  • YOU KNEW SHE HAD A DIRECT PHONELINE WITH HER MOTHER.(LAUGHTER) BUT YOU WERE SO IN
  • 00:16:35.717 --> 00:16:38.053
  • LINE WITH HER MOTHER.(LAUGHTER) BUT YOU WERE SO INLOVE IT DIDN'T BOTHER YOU.
  • 00:16:38.053 --> 00:16:39.721
  • (LAUGHTER) BUT YOU WERE SO INLOVE IT DIDN'T BOTHER YOU.TOO OFTEN WE FALL OUT OF LOVE
  • 00:16:39.721 --> 00:16:41.523
  • LOVE IT DIDN'T BOTHER YOU.TOO OFTEN WE FALL OUT OF LOVEAND START NOTICING. LITTLE
  • 00:16:41.523 --> 00:16:45.094
  • TOO OFTEN WE FALL OUT OF LOVEAND START NOTICING. LITTLEANNOYANCES BECOME MAGNIFIED.
  • 00:16:45.094 --> 00:16:46.628
  • AND START NOTICING. LITTLEANNOYANCES BECOME MAGNIFIED.WHAT'S THE SOLUTION? WE'VE GOT
  • 00:16:46.628 --> 00:16:48.363
  • ANNOYANCES BECOME MAGNIFIED.WHAT'S THE SOLUTION? WE'VE GOTTO FALL BACK IN LOVE. START
  • 00:16:48.363 --> 00:16:50.165
  • WHAT'S THE SOLUTION? WE'VE GOTTO FALL BACK IN LOVE. STARTREMEMBERING THE REASONS WHY YOU
  • 00:16:50.165 --> 00:16:51.467
  • TO FALL BACK IN LOVE. STARTREMEMBERING THE REASONS WHY YOUCOULDN'T LIVE WITHOUT THAT
  • 00:16:51.467 --> 00:16:53.068
  • REMEMBERING THE REASONS WHY YOUCOULDN'T LIVE WITHOUT THATPERSON. MAGNIFY THEIR GOOD
  • 00:16:53.068 --> 00:16:54.903
  • COULDN'T LIVE WITHOUT THATPERSON. MAGNIFY THEIR GOODQUALITIES. OVERLOOK THE THINGS
  • 00:16:54.903 --> 00:16:56.371
  • PERSON. MAGNIFY THEIR GOODQUALITIES. OVERLOOK THE THINGSTHAT ARE BOTHERING YOU.
  • 00:16:56.371 --> 00:16:57.539
  • QUALITIES. OVERLOOK THE THINGSTHAT ARE BOTHERING YOU.BRING SOME FRESHNESS INTO THE
  • 00:16:57.539 --> 00:16:59.708
  • THAT ARE BOTHERING YOU.BRING SOME FRESHNESS INTO THERELATIONSHIP. LAUGH MORE OFTEN.
  • 00:16:59.708 --> 00:17:01.510
  • BRING SOME FRESHNESS INTO THERELATIONSHIP. LAUGH MORE OFTEN.TAKE MORE WALKS. DO SOMETHING
  • 00:17:01.510 --> 00:17:03.145
  • RELATIONSHIP. LAUGH MORE OFTEN.TAKE MORE WALKS. DO SOMETHINGOUT OF THE ROUTINE. THAT PERSON
  • 00:17:03.145 --> 00:17:05.280
  • TAKE MORE WALKS. DO SOMETHINGOUT OF THE ROUTINE. THAT PERSONGOD HAS GIVEN YOU IS A GIFT.
  • 00:17:05.280 --> 00:17:08.383
  • OUT OF THE ROUTINE. THAT PERSONGOD HAS GIVEN YOU IS A GIFT.THEY HAVE APPROXIMATELY 80% OF
  • 00:17:08.383 --> 00:17:10.185
  • GOD HAS GIVEN YOU IS A GIFT.THEY HAVE APPROXIMATELY 80% OFWHAT YOU NEED. NO PERSON HAS
  • 00:17:10.185 --> 00:17:12.621
  • THEY HAVE APPROXIMATELY 80% OFWHAT YOU NEED. NO PERSON HAS100%.
  • 00:17:12.621 --> 00:17:13.689
  • WHAT YOU NEED. NO PERSON HAS100%.IF YOU'RE NOT CAREFUL YOU'LL
  • 00:17:13.689 --> 00:17:15.791
  • 100%.IF YOU'RE NOT CAREFUL YOU'LLFOCUS ON THE 20% THAT THEY DON'T
  • 00:17:15.791 --> 00:17:17.025
  • IF YOU'RE NOT CAREFUL YOU'LLFOCUS ON THE 20% THAT THEY DON'THAVE, WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE AND
  • 00:17:17.025 --> 00:17:19.328
  • FOCUS ON THE 20% THAT THEY DON'THAVE, WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE ANDYOU'LL END UP FRUSTRATED.
  • 00:17:19.328 --> 00:17:20.929
  • HAVE, WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE ANDYOU'LL END UP FRUSTRATED.SOME PEOPLE EVEN LEAVE THE 80 TO
  • 00:17:20.929 --> 00:17:23.198
  • YOU'LL END UP FRUSTRATED.SOME PEOPLE EVEN LEAVE THE 80 TOGO FIND THE 20 IN SOMEBODY ELSE.
  • 00:17:23.198 --> 00:17:25.033
  • SOME PEOPLE EVEN LEAVE THE 80 TOGO FIND THE 20 IN SOMEBODY ELSE.BUT THEY'LL SOON REALIZE THAT
  • 00:17:25.033 --> 00:17:28.237
  • GO FIND THE 20 IN SOMEBODY ELSE.BUT THEY'LL SOON REALIZE THATPERSON IS MISSING 20% AS WELL.
  • 00:17:28.237 --> 00:17:29.338
  • BUT THEY'LL SOON REALIZE THATPERSON IS MISSING 20% AS WELL.IT'S BETTER TO STICK WITH WHO
  • 00:17:29.338 --> 00:17:30.572
  • PERSON IS MISSING 20% AS WELL.IT'S BETTER TO STICK WITH WHOYOU'VE GOT, SEE THEIR GOOD
  • 00:17:30.572 --> 00:17:32.074
  • IT'S BETTER TO STICK WITH WHOYOU'VE GOT, SEE THEIR GOODQUALITIES, THE 80% OF WHAT THEY
  • 00:17:32.074 --> 00:17:33.609
  • YOU'VE GOT, SEE THEIR GOODQUALITIES, THE 80% OF WHAT THEYDO HAVE.
  • 00:17:33.609 --> 00:17:35.477
  • QUALITIES, THE 80% OF WHAT THEYDO HAVE.IN THE SCRIPTURE...(APPLAUSE)
  • 00:17:35.477 --> 00:17:36.612
  • DO HAVE.IN THE SCRIPTURE...(APPLAUSE)...IT SAYS THAT BECAUSE SOLOMON
  • 00:17:36.612 --> 00:17:38.647
  • IN THE SCRIPTURE...(APPLAUSE)...IT SAYS THAT BECAUSE SOLOMONPRAISED HIS WIFE THEIR CHILDREN
  • 00:17:38.647 --> 00:17:42.184
  • ...IT SAYS THAT BECAUSE SOLOMONPRAISED HIS WIFE THEIR CHILDRENROSE UP AND BLESSED HER AS WELL.
  • 00:17:42.184 --> 00:17:43.385
  • PRAISED HIS WIFE THEIR CHILDRENROSE UP AND BLESSED HER AS WELL.IN OTHER WORDS, WHEN THE HUSBAND
  • 00:17:43.385 --> 00:17:45.154
  • ROSE UP AND BLESSED HER AS WELL.IN OTHER WORDS, WHEN THE HUSBANDTAKES THE LEAD AND BLESSES THE
  • 00:17:45.154 --> 00:17:48.390
  • IN OTHER WORDS, WHEN THE HUSBANDTAKES THE LEAD AND BLESSES THEWIFE THE CHILDREN WILL AS WELL.
  • 00:17:48.390 --> 00:17:50.058
  • TAKES THE LEAD AND BLESSES THEWIFE THE CHILDREN WILL AS WELL.HUSBANDS, FATHER, WE'RE SETTING
  • 00:17:50.058 --> 00:17:51.760
  • WIFE THE CHILDREN WILL AS WELL.HUSBANDS, FATHER, WE'RE SETTINGTHE EXAMPLE IN THE HOME.
  • 00:17:51.760 --> 00:17:53.695
  • HUSBANDS, FATHER, WE'RE SETTINGTHE EXAMPLE IN THE HOME.HOW WE TREAT OUR WIFE IS GOING
  • 00:17:53.695 --> 00:17:55.697
  • THE EXAMPLE IN THE HOME.HOW WE TREAT OUR WIFE IS GOINGTO HAVE A GREAT IMPACT ON HOW
  • 00:17:55.697 --> 00:17:57.933
  • HOW WE TREAT OUR WIFE IS GOINGTO HAVE A GREAT IMPACT ON HOWOUR CHILDREN RESPECT AND HONOR
  • 00:17:57.933 --> 00:17:59.234
  • TO HAVE A GREAT IMPACT ON HOWOUR CHILDREN RESPECT AND HONORTHEIR MOTHER.
  • 00:17:59.234 --> 00:18:00.736
  • OUR CHILDREN RESPECT AND HONORTHEIR MOTHER.MEN, GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO SHOW
  • 00:18:00.736 --> 00:18:02.704
  • THEIR MOTHER.MEN, GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO SHOWRESPECT TO YOUR WIFE. TREAT HER
  • 00:18:02.704 --> 00:18:04.373
  • MEN, GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO SHOWRESPECT TO YOUR WIFE. TREAT HERLIKE YOU WANT SOMEBODY TO TREAT
  • 00:18:04.373 --> 00:18:05.774
  • RESPECT TO YOUR WIFE. TREAT HERLIKE YOU WANT SOMEBODY TO TREATYOUR DAUGHTER.
  • 00:18:05.774 --> 00:18:07.342
  • LIKE YOU WANT SOMEBODY TO TREATYOUR DAUGHTER.LADIES, TREAT YOUR HUSBANDS LIKE
  • 00:18:07.342 --> 00:18:08.777
  • YOUR DAUGHTER.LADIES, TREAT YOUR HUSBANDS LIKEYOU WANT SOMEBODY TO TREAT YOUR
  • 00:18:08.777 --> 00:18:10.512
  • LADIES, TREAT YOUR HUSBANDS LIKEYOU WANT SOMEBODY TO TREAT YOUROWN SON.
  • 00:18:10.512 --> 00:18:11.980
  • YOU WANT SOMEBODY TO TREAT YOUROWN SON.I'VE HEARD IT SAID, "IF YOU SEE
  • 00:18:11.980 --> 00:18:13.749
  • OWN SON.I'VE HEARD IT SAID, "IF YOU SEEA MAN OPENING THE CAR DOOR FOR
  • 00:18:13.749 --> 00:18:15.217
  • I'VE HEARD IT SAID, "IF YOU SEEA MAN OPENING THE CAR DOOR FORHIS WIFE THAT MEANS HE EITHER
  • 00:18:15.217 --> 00:18:17.819
  • A MAN OPENING THE CAR DOOR FORHIS WIFE THAT MEANS HE EITHERHAS A NEW CAR OR A NEW WIFE."
  • 00:18:17.819 --> 00:18:19.688
  • HIS WIFE THAT MEANS HE EITHERHAS A NEW CAR OR A NEW WIFE."(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:18:19.688 --> 00:18:21.023
  • HAS A NEW CAR OR A NEW WIFE."(LAUGHTER)BUT MEN, WE NEED TO GET BACK TO
  • 00:18:21.023 --> 00:18:23.458
  • (LAUGHTER)BUT MEN, WE NEED TO GET BACK TOTHE DAYS OF RESPECT AND HONOR.
  • 00:18:23.458 --> 00:18:24.826
  • BUT MEN, WE NEED TO GET BACK TOTHE DAYS OF RESPECT AND HONOR.IT TAKES A MAN TO OPEN THE DOOR
  • 00:18:24.826 --> 00:18:26.962
  • THE DAYS OF RESPECT AND HONOR.IT TAKES A MAN TO OPEN THE DOORFOR HIS WIFE. (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:18:26.962 --> 00:18:28.397
  • IT TAKES A MAN TO OPEN THE DOORFOR HIS WIFE. (APPLAUSE)IT TAKES A MAN TO SAY, "I LOVE
  • 00:18:28.397 --> 00:18:30.065
  • FOR HIS WIFE. (APPLAUSE)IT TAKES A MAN TO SAY, "I LOVEYOU. YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. I'M
  • 00:18:30.065 --> 00:18:32.367
  • IT TAKES A MAN TO SAY, "I LOVEYOU. YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. I'MPROUD OF YOU." (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:18:32.367 --> 00:18:33.435
  • YOU. YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL. I'MPROUD OF YOU." (APPLAUSE)YOU'RE NOT A MAN JUST BECAUSE
  • 00:18:33.435 --> 00:18:34.636
  • PROUD OF YOU." (APPLAUSE)YOU'RE NOT A MAN JUST BECAUSEYOU'RE MALE. TREATING YOUR WIFE
  • 00:18:34.636 --> 00:18:37.306
  • YOU'RE NOT A MAN JUST BECAUSEYOU'RE MALE. TREATING YOUR WIFEWITH RESPECT MAKES YOU A MAN.
  • 00:18:37.306 --> 00:18:38.740
  • YOU'RE MALE. TREATING YOUR WIFEWITH RESPECT MAKES YOU A MAN.TAKING CARE OF YOUR FAMILY MAKES
  • 00:18:38.740 --> 00:18:40.175
  • WITH RESPECT MAKES YOU A MAN.TAKING CARE OF YOUR FAMILY MAKESYOU A MAN.
  • 00:18:40.175 --> 00:18:41.276
  • TAKING CARE OF YOUR FAMILY MAKESYOU A MAN.WATCHING AFTER YOUR CHILDREN,
  • 00:18:41.276 --> 00:18:42.144
  • YOU A MAN.WATCHING AFTER YOUR CHILDREN,THAT'S WHAT REALLY MAKES YOU A
  • 00:18:42.144 --> 00:18:43.712
  • WATCHING AFTER YOUR CHILDREN,THAT'S WHAT REALLY MAKES YOU AMAN.
  • 00:18:43.712 --> 00:18:44.713
  • THAT'S WHAT REALLY MAKES YOU AMAN.IT'S INTERESTING.
  • 00:18:44.713 --> 00:18:46.315
  • MAN.IT'S INTERESTING.IN REPRODUCTION THE FATHER IS
  • 00:18:46.315 --> 00:18:47.616
  • IT'S INTERESTING.IN REPRODUCTION THE FATHER ISTHE ONE THAT GIVES THE CHILD
  • 00:18:47.616 --> 00:18:49.985
  • IN REPRODUCTION THE FATHER ISTHE ONE THAT GIVES THE CHILDIDENTITY. THE FEMALE HAS TWO
  • 00:18:49.985 --> 00:18:51.920
  • THE ONE THAT GIVES THE CHILDIDENTITY. THE FEMALE HAS TWOX CHROMOSOMES. THE MALE HAS AN
  • 00:18:51.920 --> 00:18:54.756
  • IDENTITY. THE FEMALE HAS TWOX CHROMOSOMES. THE MALE HAS ANX AND A Y CHROMOSOME.
  • 00:18:54.756 --> 00:18:55.991
  • X CHROMOSOMES. THE MALE HAS ANX AND A Y CHROMOSOME.IF THE MALE GIVES THE FEMALE
  • 00:18:55.991 --> 00:18:57.960
  • X AND A Y CHROMOSOME.IF THE MALE GIVES THE FEMALEANOTHER X THE BABY WILL BE A
  • 00:18:57.960 --> 00:18:59.861
  • IF THE MALE GIVES THE FEMALEANOTHER X THE BABY WILL BE AGIRL. IF HE GIVES HER A Y IT
  • 00:18:59.861 --> 00:19:01.430
  • ANOTHER X THE BABY WILL BE AGIRL. IF HE GIVES HER A Y ITWILL BE A BOY. BUT THE FEMALE
  • 00:19:01.430 --> 00:19:02.831
  • GIRL. IF HE GIVES HER A Y ITWILL BE A BOY. BUT THE FEMALEHAS NO POWER TO DETERMINE THE
  • 00:19:02.831 --> 00:19:05.467
  • WILL BE A BOY. BUT THE FEMALEHAS NO POWER TO DETERMINE THESEX OF THE CHILD. THE IDENTITY
  • 00:19:05.467 --> 00:19:08.904
  • HAS NO POWER TO DETERMINE THESEX OF THE CHILD. THE IDENTITYALWAYS COMES FROM THE FATHER.
  • 00:19:08.904 --> 00:19:10.872
  • SEX OF THE CHILD. THE IDENTITYALWAYS COMES FROM THE FATHER.I BELIEVE NOT ONLY PHYSICALLY
  • 00:19:10.872 --> 00:19:12.941
  • ALWAYS COMES FROM THE FATHER.I BELIEVE NOT ONLY PHYSICALLYBUT GOD HAS GIVEN US POWER AS
  • 00:19:12.941 --> 00:19:15.010
  • I BELIEVE NOT ONLY PHYSICALLYBUT GOD HAS GIVEN US POWER ASFATHERS TO HELP OUR CHILDREN
  • 00:19:15.010 --> 00:19:16.612
  • BUT GOD HAS GIVEN US POWER ASFATHERS TO HELP OUR CHILDRENKNOW WHO THEY ARE. WE HAVE
  • 00:19:16.612 --> 00:19:18.347
  • FATHERS TO HELP OUR CHILDRENKNOW WHO THEY ARE. WE HAVEINCREDIBLE INFLUENCE IN OUR
  • 00:19:18.347 --> 00:19:19.948
  • KNOW WHO THEY ARE. WE HAVEINCREDIBLE INFLUENCE IN OURCHILDREN'S LIVES. FATHERS, WE
  • 00:19:19.948 --> 00:19:21.783
  • INCREDIBLE INFLUENCE IN OURCHILDREN'S LIVES. FATHERS, WEHAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TO AFFIRM
  • 00:19:21.783 --> 00:19:23.752
  • CHILDREN'S LIVES. FATHERS, WEHAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TO AFFIRMOUR CHILDREN.
  • 00:19:23.752 --> 00:19:25.053
  • HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TO AFFIRMOUR CHILDREN.EVERY DAY, "I'M PROUD OF YOU.
  • 00:19:25.053 --> 00:19:26.188
  • OUR CHILDREN.EVERY DAY, "I'M PROUD OF YOU.YOU'RE GOING TO DO SOMETHING
  • 00:19:26.188 --> 00:19:27.089
  • EVERY DAY, "I'M PROUD OF YOU.YOU'RE GOING TO DO SOMETHINGGREAT. YOU'VE GOT AN AMAZING
  • 00:19:27.089 --> 00:19:28.557
  • YOU'RE GOING TO DO SOMETHINGGREAT. YOU'VE GOT AN AMAZINGFUTURE."
  • 00:19:28.557 --> 00:19:31.126
  • GREAT. YOU'VE GOT AN AMAZINGFUTURE."OUR CHILDREN NEED OUR APPROVAL.
  • 00:19:31.126 --> 00:19:32.494
  • FUTURE."OUR CHILDREN NEED OUR APPROVAL.WE'RE HELPING THEM TO FORM THEIR
  • 00:19:32.494 --> 00:19:34.563
  • OUR CHILDREN NEED OUR APPROVAL.WE'RE HELPING THEM TO FORM THEIRIDENTITY. BUT IF WE'RE TOO
  • 00:19:34.563 --> 00:19:35.764
  • WE'RE HELPING THEM TO FORM THEIRIDENTITY. BUT IF WE'RE TOOBUSY, WE'RE NEVER THERE, THAT
  • 00:19:35.764 --> 00:19:37.366
  • IDENTITY. BUT IF WE'RE TOOBUSY, WE'RE NEVER THERE, THATCHILD IS NOT GOING TO BE AS
  • 00:19:37.366 --> 00:19:38.734
  • BUSY, WE'RE NEVER THERE, THATCHILD IS NOT GOING TO BE ASCONFIDENT AND SECURE AS HE
  • 00:19:38.734 --> 00:19:40.168
  • CHILD IS NOT GOING TO BE ASCONFIDENT AND SECURE AS HESHOULD BE.
  • 00:19:40.168 --> 00:19:41.870
  • CONFIDENT AND SECURE AS HESHOULD BE.FATHERS, BE INVOLVED IN YOUR
  • 00:19:41.870 --> 00:19:43.505
  • SHOULD BE.FATHERS, BE INVOLVED IN YOURCHILDREN'S LIFE. BRING THEM TO
  • 00:19:43.505 --> 00:19:45.307
  • FATHERS, BE INVOLVED IN YOURCHILDREN'S LIFE. BRING THEM TOCHURCH. BE AT THEIR BALLGAMES.
  • 00:19:45.307 --> 00:19:48.143
  • CHILDREN'S LIFE. BRING THEM TOCHURCH. BE AT THEIR BALLGAMES.MEET THEIR TEACHERS. KNOW WHO
  • 00:19:48.143 --> 00:19:50.012
  • CHURCH. BE AT THEIR BALLGAMES.MEET THEIR TEACHERS. KNOW WHOTHEIR FRIENDS ARE. LISTEN TO
  • 00:19:50.012 --> 00:19:51.546
  • MEET THEIR TEACHERS. KNOW WHOTHEIR FRIENDS ARE. LISTEN TOWHAT THEY'RE LISTENING TO.
  • 00:19:51.546 --> 00:19:52.681
  • THEIR FRIENDS ARE. LISTEN TOWHAT THEY'RE LISTENING TO.PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY'RE
  • 00:19:52.681 --> 00:19:54.816
  • WHAT THEY'RE LISTENING TO.PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY'REWATCHING. THEY MAY NOT LIKE IT
  • 00:19:54.816 --> 00:19:56.318
  • PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY'REWATCHING. THEY MAY NOT LIKE ITBUT A CHILD THAT HAS
  • 00:19:56.318 --> 00:19:57.986
  • WATCHING. THEY MAY NOT LIKE ITBUT A CHILD THAT HASBOUNDARIES, DEEP DOWN, THAT
  • 00:19:57.986 --> 00:19:59.855
  • BUT A CHILD THAT HASBOUNDARIES, DEEP DOWN, THATCHILD KNOWS THAT HE'S LOVED.
  • 00:19:59.855 --> 00:20:01.723
  • BOUNDARIES, DEEP DOWN, THATCHILD KNOWS THAT HE'S LOVED.THAT'S WHAT GIVES HIM VALUE.
  • 00:20:01.723 --> 00:20:03.325
  • CHILD KNOWS THAT HE'S LOVED.THAT'S WHAT GIVES HIM VALUE.FATHERS, WHEN THAT YOUNG MAN
  • 00:20:03.325 --> 00:20:04.626
  • THAT'S WHAT GIVES HIM VALUE.FATHERS, WHEN THAT YOUNG MANCOMES OVER TO TAKE YOUR DAUGHTER
  • 00:20:04.626 --> 00:20:06.061
  • FATHERS, WHEN THAT YOUNG MANCOMES OVER TO TAKE YOUR DAUGHTERON A DATE BE THE FIRST ONE AT
  • 00:20:06.061 --> 00:20:08.196
  • COMES OVER TO TAKE YOUR DAUGHTERON A DATE BE THE FIRST ONE ATTHE DOOR. PUT THE SHOTGUN DOWN
  • 00:20:08.196 --> 00:20:10.666
  • ON A DATE BE THE FIRST ONE ATTHE DOOR. PUT THE SHOTGUN DOWNBUT BE THERE...(LAUGHER)
  • 00:20:10.666 --> 00:20:12.401
  • THE DOOR. PUT THE SHOTGUN DOWNBUT BE THERE...(LAUGHER)...TO LET HIM KNOW THERE'S A MAN
  • 00:20:12.401 --> 00:20:13.769
  • BUT BE THERE...(LAUGHER)...TO LET HIM KNOW THERE'S A MANIN THE HOUSE WATCHING AFTER THIS
  • 00:20:13.769 --> 00:20:15.470
  • ...TO LET HIM KNOW THERE'S A MANIN THE HOUSE WATCHING AFTER THISGIRL.
  • 00:20:15.470 --> 00:20:16.605
  • IN THE HOUSE WATCHING AFTER THISGIRL.A FRIEND OF MINE TOLD ME WHEN HE
  • 00:20:16.605 --> 00:20:17.873
  • GIRL.A FRIEND OF MINE TOLD ME WHEN HEWAS A TEENAGER THAT HE HAD A
  • 00:20:17.873 --> 00:20:19.574
  • A FRIEND OF MINE TOLD ME WHEN HEWAS A TEENAGER THAT HE HAD ADRUG PROBLEM. HE IS SO CLEAN
  • 00:20:19.574 --> 00:20:21.143
  • WAS A TEENAGER THAT HE HAD ADRUG PROBLEM. HE IS SO CLEANCUT I COULDN'T BELIEVE HE WAS
  • 00:20:21.143 --> 00:20:22.611
  • DRUG PROBLEM. HE IS SO CLEANCUT I COULDN'T BELIEVE HE WASON DRUGS. HE SAID, "YEAH, I WAS
  • 00:20:22.611 --> 00:20:24.179
  • CUT I COULDN'T BELIEVE HE WASON DRUGS. HE SAID, "YEAH, I WASDRUGGED TO CHURCH EVERY
  • 00:20:24.179 --> 00:20:25.814
  • ON DRUGS. HE SAID, "YEAH, I WASDRUGGED TO CHURCH EVERYWEEKEND." (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:20:25.814 --> 00:20:26.715
  • DRUGGED TO CHURCH EVERYWEEKEND." (LAUGHTER)"I WAS DRUGGED TO SUNDAY
  • 00:20:26.715 --> 00:20:27.849
  • WEEKEND." (LAUGHTER)"I WAS DRUGGED TO SUNDAYSCHOOL. I WAS DRUGGED TO YOUTH
  • 00:20:27.849 --> 00:20:29.284
  • "I WAS DRUGGED TO SUNDAYSCHOOL. I WAS DRUGGED TO YOUTHCLASS." HE SAID, "YOU KNOW,
  • 00:20:29.284 --> 00:20:31.019
  • SCHOOL. I WAS DRUGGED TO YOUTHCLASS." HE SAID, "YOU KNOW,JOEL? THOSE DRUGS ARE STILL IN
  • 00:20:31.019 --> 00:20:32.954
  • CLASS." HE SAID, "YOU KNOW,JOEL? THOSE DRUGS ARE STILL INMY VEINS. THEY STILL AFFECT
  • 00:20:32.954 --> 00:20:34.690
  • JOEL? THOSE DRUGS ARE STILL INMY VEINS. THEY STILL AFFECTEVERYTHING THAT I DO."
  • 00:20:34.690 --> 00:20:36.124
  • MY VEINS. THEY STILL AFFECTEVERYTHING THAT I DO."HE WAS SAYING, "MY PARENTS
  • 00:20:36.124 --> 00:20:37.492
  • EVERYTHING THAT I DO."HE WAS SAYING, "MY PARENTSPOURED INTO ME. THEY WATCHED
  • 00:20:37.492 --> 00:20:39.027
  • HE WAS SAYING, "MY PARENTSPOURED INTO ME. THEY WATCHEDOVER ME."
  • 00:20:39.027 --> 00:20:40.228
  • POURED INTO ME. THEY WATCHEDOVER ME."I HEARD THE STORY ABOUT A LADY
  • 00:20:40.228 --> 00:20:41.697
  • OVER ME."I HEARD THE STORY ABOUT A LADYTHAT HAD LIVED A VERY
  • 00:20:41.697 --> 00:20:43.131
  • I HEARD THE STORY ABOUT A LADYTHAT HAD LIVED A VERYPROMISCUOUS LIFE, ONE MAN AFTER
  • 00:20:43.131 --> 00:20:44.633
  • THAT HAD LIVED A VERYPROMISCUOUS LIFE, ONE MAN AFTERANOTHER, COULDN'T STAY IN A
  • 00:20:44.633 --> 00:20:46.568
  • PROMISCUOUS LIFE, ONE MAN AFTERANOTHER, COULDN'T STAY IN ASTABLE RELATIONSHIP. A FRIEND
  • 00:20:46.568 --> 00:20:48.670
  • ANOTHER, COULDN'T STAY IN ASTABLE RELATIONSHIP. A FRIENDOF MINE IS A MINISTER AND HE
  • 00:20:48.670 --> 00:20:49.304
  • STABLE RELATIONSHIP. A FRIENDOF MINE IS A MINISTER AND HEASKED HER, "WHAT WENT WRONG?
  • 00:20:49.304 --> 00:20:52.240
  • OF MINE IS A MINISTER AND HEASKED HER, "WHAT WENT WRONG?WHERE DID YOU LOSE YOUR WAY?"
  • 00:20:52.240 --> 00:20:53.608
  • ASKED HER, "WHAT WENT WRONG?WHERE DID YOU LOSE YOUR WAY?"SHE TOLD HOW WHEN SHE WAS
  • 00:20:53.608 --> 00:20:55.143
  • WHERE DID YOU LOSE YOUR WAY?"SHE TOLD HOW WHEN SHE WASSEVENTEEN YEARS OLD SHE WALKED
  • 00:20:55.143 --> 00:20:56.812
  • SHE TOLD HOW WHEN SHE WASSEVENTEEN YEARS OLD SHE WALKEDINTO HER FAMILY ROOM WEARING
  • 00:20:56.812 --> 00:20:59.014
  • SEVENTEEN YEARS OLD SHE WALKEDINTO HER FAMILY ROOM WEARINGHER BRAND NEW PROM DRESS,
  • 00:20:59.014 --> 00:21:01.083
  • INTO HER FAMILY ROOM WEARINGHER BRAND NEW PROM DRESS,FEELING SO SPECIAL. HER FATHER
  • 00:21:01.083 --> 00:21:02.651
  • HER BRAND NEW PROM DRESS,FEELING SO SPECIAL. HER FATHERWAS SITTING IN A CHAIR READING
  • 00:21:02.651 --> 00:21:03.885
  • FEELING SO SPECIAL. HER FATHERWAS SITTING IN A CHAIR READINGTHE NEWSPAPER. SHE SAID, "DAD,
  • 00:21:03.885 --> 00:21:05.220
  • WAS SITTING IN A CHAIR READINGTHE NEWSPAPER. SHE SAID, "DAD,WHAT DO YOU THINK?"
  • 00:21:05.220 --> 00:21:06.488
  • THE NEWSPAPER. SHE SAID, "DAD,WHAT DO YOU THINK?"SHE BEGAN TO SPIN AROUND AND
  • 00:21:06.488 --> 00:21:08.123
  • WHAT DO YOU THINK?"SHE BEGAN TO SPIN AROUND ANDAROUND DANCING, FEELING SO
  • 00:21:08.123 --> 00:21:11.293
  • SHE BEGAN TO SPIN AROUND ANDAROUND DANCING, FEELING SOSPECIAL, SO BEAUTIFUL, SO PROUD.
  • 00:21:11.293 --> 00:21:13.762
  • AROUND DANCING, FEELING SOSPECIAL, SO BEAUTIFUL, SO PROUD.BUT HER FATHER NEVER LOOKED UP
  • 00:21:13.762 --> 00:21:15.230
  • SPECIAL, SO BEAUTIFUL, SO PROUD.BUT HER FATHER NEVER LOOKED UPFROM READING THE NEWSPAPER.
  • 00:21:15.230 --> 00:21:16.365
  • BUT HER FATHER NEVER LOOKED UPFROM READING THE NEWSPAPER.HER DANCE SLOWED DOWN A LITTLE
  • 00:21:16.365 --> 00:21:17.632
  • FROM READING THE NEWSPAPER.HER DANCE SLOWED DOWN A LITTLEMORE, A LITTLE MORE, UNTIL SHE
  • 00:21:17.632 --> 00:21:19.234
  • HER DANCE SLOWED DOWN A LITTLEMORE, A LITTLE MORE, UNTIL SHEREALIZED HER DAD WASN'T
  • 00:21:19.234 --> 00:21:20.836
  • MORE, A LITTLE MORE, UNTIL SHEREALIZED HER DAD WASN'TINTERESTED, WALKED OUT OF THE
  • 00:21:20.836 --> 00:21:23.038
  • REALIZED HER DAD WASN'TINTERESTED, WALKED OUT OF THEROOM. BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T FEEL
  • 00:21:23.038 --> 00:21:25.107
  • INTERESTED, WALKED OUT OF THEROOM. BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T FEELVALUED AND APPROVED BY HER
  • 00:21:25.107 --> 00:21:26.975
  • ROOM. BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T FEELVALUED AND APPROVED BY HERFATHER SHE WENT THROUGH MAN
  • 00:21:26.975 --> 00:21:28.577
  • VALUED AND APPROVED BY HERFATHER SHE WENT THROUGH MANAFTER MAN TRYING TO GET THAT
  • 00:21:28.577 --> 00:21:30.345
  • FATHER SHE WENT THROUGH MANAFTER MAN TRYING TO GET THATAPPROVAL THAT ONLY HER FATHER
  • 00:21:30.345 --> 00:21:32.381
  • AFTER MAN TRYING TO GET THATAPPROVAL THAT ONLY HER FATHERCOULD GIVE.
  • 00:21:32.381 --> 00:21:33.682
  • APPROVAL THAT ONLY HER FATHERCOULD GIVE.FATHERS, WE HAVE SOMETHING
  • 00:21:33.682 --> 00:21:35.951
  • COULD GIVE.FATHERS, WE HAVE SOMETHINGEXTREMELY POWERFUL. YOUR
  • 00:21:35.951 --> 00:21:38.553
  • FATHERS, WE HAVE SOMETHINGEXTREMELY POWERFUL. YOURCHILDREN NEED YOUR BLESSING.
  • 00:21:38.553 --> 00:21:40.188
  • EXTREMELY POWERFUL. YOURCHILDREN NEED YOUR BLESSING.MAKE THEM A PRIORITY.
  • 00:21:40.188 --> 00:21:41.490
  • CHILDREN NEED YOUR BLESSING.MAKE THEM A PRIORITY.IT'S NOT AN OPTION.
  • 00:21:41.490 --> 00:21:43.625
  • MAKE THEM A PRIORITY.IT'S NOT AN OPTION.IT'S A RESPONSIBILITY.
  • 00:21:43.625 --> 00:21:44.960
  • IT'S NOT AN OPTION.IT'S A RESPONSIBILITY.YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO GIVE AS A
  • 00:21:44.960 --> 00:21:46.628
  • IT'S A RESPONSIBILITY.YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO GIVE AS AFATHER THAT NOBODY ELSE CAN
  • 00:21:46.628 --> 00:21:48.997
  • YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO GIVE AS AFATHER THAT NOBODY ELSE CANGIVE. A FRIEND OF MINE WAS
  • 00:21:48.997 --> 00:21:50.232
  • FATHER THAT NOBODY ELSE CANGIVE. A FRIEND OF MINE WASWATCHING THE FOOTBALL GAME ON
  • 00:21:50.232 --> 00:21:51.733
  • GIVE. A FRIEND OF MINE WASWATCHING THE FOOTBALL GAME ONTELEVISION. HIS LITTLE BOY CAME
  • 00:21:51.733 --> 00:21:52.868
  • WATCHING THE FOOTBALL GAME ONTELEVISION. HIS LITTLE BOY CAMEIN AND SAID, "DAD, I'VE GOT TO
  • 00:21:52.868 --> 00:21:54.469
  • TELEVISION. HIS LITTLE BOY CAMEIN AND SAID, "DAD, I'VE GOT TOASK YOU SOMETHING."MY FRIEND
  • 00:21:54.469 --> 00:21:55.470
  • IN AND SAID, "DAD, I'VE GOT TOASK YOU SOMETHING."MY FRIENDNEVER TOOK HIS EYES OFF THE
  • 00:21:55.470 --> 00:21:56.538
  • ASK YOU SOMETHING."MY FRIENDNEVER TOOK HIS EYES OFF THETELEVISION. HE SAID, "YEAH,
  • 00:21:56.538 --> 00:21:57.672
  • NEVER TOOK HIS EYES OFF THETELEVISION. HE SAID, "YEAH,SON. WHAT DO YOU NEED?"
  • 00:21:57.672 --> 00:21:58.807
  • TELEVISION. HE SAID, "YEAH,SON. WHAT DO YOU NEED?"THE LITTLE BOY SAID, "NO, DAD.
  • 00:21:58.807 --> 00:22:02.177
  • SON. WHAT DO YOU NEED?"THE LITTLE BOY SAID, "NO, DAD.LISTEN TO ME WITH YOUR EYES."
  • 00:22:02.177 --> 00:22:03.578
  • THE LITTLE BOY SAID, "NO, DAD.LISTEN TO ME WITH YOUR EYES."WHAT A GREAT PRINCIPLE.
  • 00:22:03.578 --> 00:22:04.846
  • LISTEN TO ME WITH YOUR EYES."WHAT A GREAT PRINCIPLE.GIVE YOUR CHILDREN YOUR
  • 00:22:04.846 --> 00:22:06.815
  • WHAT A GREAT PRINCIPLE.GIVE YOUR CHILDREN YOURUNDIVIDED ATTENTION.
  • 00:22:06.815 --> 00:22:08.417
  • GIVE YOUR CHILDREN YOURUNDIVIDED ATTENTION.MAKE SURE THEY KNOW THAT THEY'RE
  • 00:22:08.417 --> 00:22:10.919
  • UNDIVIDED ATTENTION.MAKE SURE THEY KNOW THAT THEY'REA PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:22:10.919 --> 00:22:12.053
  • MAKE SURE THEY KNOW THAT THEY'REA PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE.WHEN OUR DAUGHTER ALEXANDRA WAS
  • 00:22:12.053 --> 00:22:14.222
  • A PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE.WHEN OUR DAUGHTER ALEXANDRA WASA LITTLE GIRL, MAYBE THREE YEARS
  • 00:22:14.222 --> 00:22:16.191
  • WHEN OUR DAUGHTER ALEXANDRA WASA LITTLE GIRL, MAYBE THREE YEARSOLD, SHE USED TO COME INTO MY
  • 00:22:16.191 --> 00:22:17.859
  • A LITTLE GIRL, MAYBE THREE YEARSOLD, SHE USED TO COME INTO MYOFFICE AT HOME WHEN I WAS
  • 00:22:17.859 --> 00:22:19.494
  • OLD, SHE USED TO COME INTO MYOFFICE AT HOME WHEN I WASPREPARING MY MESSAGES FOR THE
  • 00:22:19.494 --> 00:22:21.062
  • OFFICE AT HOME WHEN I WASPREPARING MY MESSAGES FOR THEWEEKEND. THIS WAS RIGHT AFTER
  • 00:22:21.062 --> 00:22:22.397
  • PREPARING MY MESSAGES FOR THEWEEKEND. THIS WAS RIGHT AFTERMY FATHER WENT TO BE WITH THE
  • 00:22:22.397 --> 00:22:23.799
  • WEEKEND. THIS WAS RIGHT AFTERMY FATHER WENT TO BE WITH THELORD. I DIDN'T KNOW IF I COULD
  • 00:22:23.799 --> 00:22:25.434
  • MY FATHER WENT TO BE WITH THELORD. I DIDN'T KNOW IF I COULDDO THIS. I FELT VERY PRESSURED.
  • 00:22:25.434 --> 00:22:27.169
  • LORD. I DIDN'T KNOW IF I COULDDO THIS. I FELT VERY PRESSURED.EVEN THOUGH WE TRIED TO KEEP HER
  • 00:22:27.169 --> 00:22:28.537
  • DO THIS. I FELT VERY PRESSURED.EVEN THOUGH WE TRIED TO KEEP HERIN OTHER PARTS OF THE HOUSE, AT
  • 00:22:28.537 --> 00:22:29.771
  • EVEN THOUGH WE TRIED TO KEEP HERIN OTHER PARTS OF THE HOUSE, ATLEAST ONCE OR TWICE A DAY SHE
  • 00:22:29.771 --> 00:22:31.239
  • IN OTHER PARTS OF THE HOUSE, ATLEAST ONCE OR TWICE A DAY SHEWOULD COME IN AND SAY, "DADDY,
  • 00:22:31.239 --> 00:22:33.308
  • LEAST ONCE OR TWICE A DAY SHEWOULD COME IN AND SAY, "DADDY,CAN WE WRASSLE?"
  • 00:22:33.308 --> 00:22:34.276
  • WOULD COME IN AND SAY, "DADDY,CAN WE WRASSLE?"SHE DIDN'T WANT TO WRESTLE.
  • 00:22:34.276 --> 00:22:35.210
  • CAN WE WRASSLE?"SHE DIDN'T WANT TO WRESTLE.SHE WANTED TO "WRASSLE."
  • 00:22:35.210 --> 00:22:36.378
  • SHE DIDN'T WANT TO WRESTLE.SHE WANTED TO "WRASSLE."MOST OF THE TIME I WOULD TAKE A
  • 00:22:36.378 --> 00:22:37.412
  • SHE WANTED TO "WRASSLE."MOST OF THE TIME I WOULD TAKE AFIVE MINUTE BREAK AND WE WOULD
  • 00:22:37.412 --> 00:22:38.780
  • MOST OF THE TIME I WOULD TAKE AFIVE MINUTE BREAK AND WE WOULDGO PLAY.
  • 00:22:38.780 --> 00:22:39.848
  • FIVE MINUTE BREAK AND WE WOULDGO PLAY.BUT THIS PARTICULAR DAY IT WAS A
  • 00:22:39.848 --> 00:22:40.916
  • GO PLAY.BUT THIS PARTICULAR DAY IT WAS AFRIDAY EVENING AND I WAS RUNNING
  • 00:22:40.916 --> 00:22:42.918
  • BUT THIS PARTICULAR DAY IT WAS AFRIDAY EVENING AND I WAS RUNNINGBEHIND AND HERE COMES LITTLE
  • 00:22:42.918 --> 00:22:44.786
  • FRIDAY EVENING AND I WAS RUNNINGBEHIND AND HERE COMES LITTLEALEXANDRA, LITTLE BITTY TODDLER,
  • 00:22:44.786 --> 00:22:45.921
  • BEHIND AND HERE COMES LITTLEALEXANDRA, LITTLE BITTY TODDLER,LONG BLOND HAIR, BLUE EYES, CUTE
  • 00:22:45.921 --> 00:22:47.722
  • ALEXANDRA, LITTLE BITTY TODDLER,LONG BLOND HAIR, BLUE EYES, CUTEAS CAN BE, "DADDY, CAN WE GO
  • 00:22:47.722 --> 00:22:49.658
  • LONG BLOND HAIR, BLUE EYES, CUTEAS CAN BE, "DADDY, CAN WE GOPLAY?" I SAID, "HONEY, I WOULD
  • 00:22:49.658 --> 00:22:51.159
  • AS CAN BE, "DADDY, CAN WE GOPLAY?" I SAID, "HONEY, I WOULDLOVE TO BUT I CAN'T RIGHT NOW.
  • 00:22:51.159 --> 00:22:52.527
  • PLAY?" I SAID, "HONEY, I WOULDLOVE TO BUT I CAN'T RIGHT NOW.MAYBE A LITTLE LATER."
  • 00:22:52.527 --> 00:22:53.695
  • LOVE TO BUT I CAN'T RIGHT NOW.MAYBE A LITTLE LATER."SHE SAID, "OKAY."
  • 00:22:53.695 --> 00:22:54.996
  • MAYBE A LITTLE LATER."SHE SAID, "OKAY."SHE CAME BACK FIVE MINUTES
  • 00:22:54.996 --> 00:22:55.997
  • SHE SAID, "OKAY."SHE CAME BACK FIVE MINUTESLATER, "DADDY, ARE YOU READY
  • 00:22:55.997 --> 00:22:56.798
  • SHE CAME BACK FIVE MINUTESLATER, "DADDY, ARE YOU READYNOW?"
  • 00:22:56.798 --> 00:22:57.566
  • LATER, "DADDY, ARE YOU READYNOW?"I SAID, "NO, HONEY. I'LL COME
  • 00:22:57.566 --> 00:22:59.034
  • NOW?"I SAID, "NO, HONEY. I'LL COMEGET YOU. YOU DON'T HAVE TO COME
  • 00:22:59.034 --> 00:22:59.801
  • I SAID, "NO, HONEY. I'LL COMEGET YOU. YOU DON'T HAVE TO COMEGET ME."
  • 00:22:59.801 --> 00:23:01.336
  • GET YOU. YOU DON'T HAVE TO COMEGET ME.""OKAY." FIVE MINUTES LATER,
  • 00:23:01.336 --> 00:23:02.404
  • GET ME.""OKAY." FIVE MINUTES LATER,"DADDY, CAN WE GO NOW?"
  • 00:23:02.404 --> 00:23:03.438
  • "OKAY." FIVE MINUTES LATER,"DADDY, CAN WE GO NOW?"I WAS GETTING SO FRUSTRATED.
  • 00:23:03.438 --> 00:23:04.372
  • "DADDY, CAN WE GO NOW?"I WAS GETTING SO FRUSTRATED.I SAID, "LISTEN, BABY. I'M
  • 00:23:04.372 --> 00:23:05.941
  • I WAS GETTING SO FRUSTRATED.I SAID, "LISTEN, BABY. I'MGOING TO COME GET YOU. DON'T
  • 00:23:05.941 --> 00:23:07.309
  • I SAID, "LISTEN, BABY. I'MGOING TO COME GET YOU. DON'TCOME BACK ANYMORE. DADDY IS
  • 00:23:07.309 --> 00:23:10.345
  • GOING TO COME GET YOU. DON'TCOME BACK ANYMORE. DADDY ISTRYING TO CONCENTRATE."
  • 00:23:10.345 --> 00:23:11.179
  • COME BACK ANYMORE. DADDY ISTRYING TO CONCENTRATE."SHE LOOKED AT ME KIND OF
  • 00:23:11.179 --> 00:23:11.813
  • TRYING TO CONCENTRATE."SHE LOOKED AT ME KIND OFCONFUSED AND SAID, "OKAY" AND
  • 00:23:11.813 --> 00:23:13.048
  • SHE LOOKED AT ME KIND OFCONFUSED AND SAID, "OKAY" ANDWALKED OUT.
  • 00:23:13.048 --> 00:23:14.516
  • CONFUSED AND SAID, "OKAY" ANDWALKED OUT.FIVE MINUTES LATER, SHE CAME
  • 00:23:14.516 --> 00:23:15.884
  • WALKED OUT.FIVE MINUTES LATER, SHE CAMEBARELY OPENED THE DOOR, SAID
  • 00:23:15.884 --> 00:23:17.252
  • FIVE MINUTES LATER, SHE CAMEBARELY OPENED THE DOOR, SAIDVERY SERIOUSLY, "DADDY, ARE YOU
  • 00:23:17.252 --> 00:23:19.621
  • BARELY OPENED THE DOOR, SAIDVERY SERIOUSLY, "DADDY, ARE YOUSTILL TRYING TO CONSTIPATE?"
  • 00:23:19.621 --> 00:23:21.923
  • VERY SERIOUSLY, "DADDY, ARE YOUSTILL TRYING TO CONSTIPATE?"(LAUGHTER)
  • 00:23:21.923 --> 00:23:23.158
  • STILL TRYING TO CONSTIPATE?"(LAUGHTER)I SAID, "NO, ACTUALLY. I'M
  • 00:23:23.158 --> 00:23:26.027
  • (LAUGHTER)I SAID, "NO, ACTUALLY. I'MPRETTY REGULAR." (LAUGHTER)
  • 00:23:26.027 --> 00:23:27.028
  • I SAID, "NO, ACTUALLY. I'MPRETTY REGULAR." (LAUGHTER)MEN, TAKE TIME FOR YOUR
  • 00:23:27.028 --> 00:23:28.797
  • PRETTY REGULAR." (LAUGHTER)MEN, TAKE TIME FOR YOURCHILDREN. DON'T BECOME THE
  • 00:23:28.797 --> 00:23:30.098
  • MEN, TAKE TIME FOR YOURCHILDREN. DON'T BECOME THEGREATEST PASTOR, THE GREATEST
  • 00:23:30.098 --> 00:23:31.466
  • CHILDREN. DON'T BECOME THEGREATEST PASTOR, THE GREATESTATHLETE, THE GREATEST COACH,
  • 00:23:31.466 --> 00:23:33.401
  • GREATEST PASTOR, THE GREATESTATHLETE, THE GREATEST COACH,THE GREATEST BUSINESSPERSON AT
  • 00:23:33.401 --> 00:23:35.203
  • ATHLETE, THE GREATEST COACH,THE GREATEST BUSINESSPERSON ATTHE EXPENSE OF YOUR CHILDREN.
  • 00:23:35.203 --> 00:23:37.138
  • THE GREATEST BUSINESSPERSON ATTHE EXPENSE OF YOUR CHILDREN.YOUR FIRST MISSION FIELD IS YOUR
  • 00:23:37.138 --> 00:23:39.307
  • THE EXPENSE OF YOUR CHILDREN.YOUR FIRST MISSION FIELD IS YOUROWN FAMILY.
  • 00:23:39.307 --> 00:23:40.242
  • YOUR FIRST MISSION FIELD IS YOUROWN FAMILY.THE PROPHET JOEL SAID TO, "WAKE
  • 00:23:40.242 --> 00:23:42.677
  • OWN FAMILY.THE PROPHET JOEL SAID TO, "WAKEUP THE MIGHTY MEN." (APPLAUSE)
  • 00:23:42.677 --> 00:23:43.712
  • THE PROPHET JOEL SAID TO, "WAKEUP THE MIGHTY MEN." (APPLAUSE)I KNOW TODAY I AM SPEAKING TO
  • 00:23:43.712 --> 00:23:45.614
  • UP THE MIGHTY MEN." (APPLAUSE)I KNOW TODAY I AM SPEAKING TOMIGHTY MEN. I'M SPEAKING TO MEN
  • 00:23:45.614 --> 00:23:47.949
  • I KNOW TODAY I AM SPEAKING TOMIGHTY MEN. I'M SPEAKING TO MENOF VALOR, MEN OF HONOR, MEN
  • 00:23:47.949 --> 00:23:50.051
  • MIGHTY MEN. I'M SPEAKING TO MENOF VALOR, MEN OF HONOR, MENTHAT RISE UP LIKE SOLOMON AND
  • 00:23:50.051 --> 00:23:51.987
  • OF VALOR, MEN OF HONOR, MENTHAT RISE UP LIKE SOLOMON ANDBLESS THEIR WIFE, MEN THAT MAKE
  • 00:23:51.987 --> 00:23:53.855
  • THAT RISE UP LIKE SOLOMON ANDBLESS THEIR WIFE, MEN THAT MAKETHEIR CHILDREN A PRIORITY, MEN
  • 00:23:53.855 --> 00:23:55.257
  • BLESS THEIR WIFE, MEN THAT MAKETHEIR CHILDREN A PRIORITY, MENTHAT SPEAK THE BLESSING OVER
  • 00:23:55.257 --> 00:23:56.791
  • THEIR CHILDREN A PRIORITY, MENTHAT SPEAK THE BLESSING OVERTHEIR FAMILY.
  • 00:23:56.791 --> 00:23:58.426
  • THAT SPEAK THE BLESSING OVERTHEIR FAMILY.NOT ONLY THAT, I'M SPEAKING TO
  • 00:23:58.426 --> 00:24:00.795
  • THEIR FAMILY.NOT ONLY THAT, I'M SPEAKING TOWOMEN OF FAITH, WOMEN OF HONOR
  • 00:24:00.795 --> 00:24:02.430
  • NOT ONLY THAT, I'M SPEAKING TOWOMEN OF FAITH, WOMEN OF HONORTHAT RISE UP AND TELL THEIR
  • 00:24:02.430 --> 00:24:03.965
  • WOMEN OF FAITH, WOMEN OF HONORTHAT RISE UP AND TELL THEIRHUSBAND, "I'M PROUD OF YOU,"
  • 00:24:03.965 --> 00:24:05.033
  • THAT RISE UP AND TELL THEIRHUSBAND, "I'M PROUD OF YOU,"WOMEN THAT KEEP POURING THE
  • 00:24:05.033 --> 00:24:06.868
  • HUSBAND, "I'M PROUD OF YOU,"WOMEN THAT KEEP POURING THEHONOR IN. LISTEN, LADIES. I CAN
  • 00:24:06.868 --> 00:24:08.069
  • WOMEN THAT KEEP POURING THEHONOR IN. LISTEN, LADIES. I CANSAY LIKE SOLOMON, THERE ARE
  • 00:24:08.069 --> 00:24:09.604
  • HONOR IN. LISTEN, LADIES. I CANSAY LIKE SOLOMON, THERE AREMANY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN IN THE
  • 00:24:09.604 --> 00:24:11.907
  • SAY LIKE SOLOMON, THERE AREMANY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN IN THEWORLD BUY YOU EXCEL THEM ALL.
  • 00:24:11.907 --> 00:24:14.075
  • MANY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN IN THEWORLD BUY YOU EXCEL THEM ALL.YOU RADIATE STRENGTH, BEAUTY,
  • 00:24:14.075 --> 00:24:15.677
  • WORLD BUY YOU EXCEL THEM ALL.YOU RADIATE STRENGTH, BEAUTY,INTELLIGENCE, DIGNITY. YOU ARE
  • 00:24:15.677 --> 00:24:16.578
  • YOU RADIATE STRENGTH, BEAUTY,INTELLIGENCE, DIGNITY. YOU AREONE OF A KIND.
  • 00:24:16.578 --> 00:24:18.146
  • INTELLIGENCE, DIGNITY. YOU AREONE OF A KIND.NOW MY CHALLENGE TO US IS MAKE
  • 00:24:18.146 --> 00:24:20.415
  • ONE OF A KIND.NOW MY CHALLENGE TO US IS MAKESURE YOU'RE TAKING CARE OF THE
  • 00:24:20.415 --> 00:24:22.884
  • NOW MY CHALLENGE TO US IS MAKESURE YOU'RE TAKING CARE OF THEGIFTS GOD HAS GIVEN YOU.
  • 00:24:22.884 --> 00:24:23.919
  • SURE YOU'RE TAKING CARE OF THEGIFTS GOD HAS GIVEN YOU.THEY'RE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BE
  • 00:24:23.919 --> 00:24:25.320
  • GIFTS GOD HAS GIVEN YOU.THEY'RE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BEHERE. BE GENEROUS WITH YOUR
  • 00:24:25.320 --> 00:24:27.155
  • THEY'RE NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BEHERE. BE GENEROUS WITH YOURWORDS, "I LOVE YOU. I'M PROUD
  • 00:24:27.155 --> 00:24:28.356
  • HERE. BE GENEROUS WITH YOURWORDS, "I LOVE YOU. I'M PROUDOF YOU. I'M GLAD THAT YOU'RE IN
  • 00:24:28.356 --> 00:24:30.392
  • WORDS, "I LOVE YOU. I'M PROUDOF YOU. I'M GLAD THAT YOU'RE INMY LIFE."
  • 00:24:30.392 --> 00:24:32.661
  • OF YOU. I'M GLAD THAT YOU'RE INMY LIFE."EXPRESS LOVE ON A DAILY BASIS.
  • 00:24:32.661 --> 00:24:33.862
  • MY LIFE."EXPRESS LOVE ON A DAILY BASIS.MEN, GET UP EVERY MORNING. TELL
  • 00:24:33.862 --> 00:24:35.797
  • EXPRESS LOVE ON A DAILY BASIS.MEN, GET UP EVERY MORNING. TELLYOUR WIFE HOW BEAUTIFUL SHE IS.
  • 00:24:35.797 --> 00:24:37.532
  • MEN, GET UP EVERY MORNING. TELLYOUR WIFE HOW BEAUTIFUL SHE IS.MAKE SURE SHE FEELS SPECIAL.
  • 00:24:37.532 --> 00:24:39.801
  • YOUR WIFE HOW BEAUTIFUL SHE IS.MAKE SURE SHE FEELS SPECIAL.WOMEN, REMEMBER; YOU CONTROL THE
  • 00:24:39.801 --> 00:24:41.336
  • MAKE SURE SHE FEELS SPECIAL.WOMEN, REMEMBER; YOU CONTROL THEHONOR FAUCET. YOU KEEP POURING
  • 00:24:41.336 --> 00:24:42.938
  • WOMEN, REMEMBER; YOU CONTROL THEHONOR FAUCET. YOU KEEP POURINGHONOR INTO YOUR HUSBAND AND HE
  • 00:24:42.938 --> 00:24:44.739
  • HONOR FAUCET. YOU KEEP POURINGHONOR INTO YOUR HUSBAND AND HEIS GOING TO KEEP RISING HIGHER.
  • 00:24:44.739 --> 00:24:46.074
  • HONOR INTO YOUR HUSBAND AND HEIS GOING TO KEEP RISING HIGHER.IF YOU'LL DO THESE SIMPLE THINGS
  • 00:24:46.074 --> 00:24:47.609
  • IS GOING TO KEEP RISING HIGHER.IF YOU'LL DO THESE SIMPLE THINGSI BELIEVE AND DECLARE YOU WILL
  • 00:24:47.609 --> 00:24:50.211
  • IF YOU'LL DO THESE SIMPLE THINGSI BELIEVE AND DECLARE YOU WILLHAVE A STRONG, HEALTHY, FAITH
  • 00:24:50.211 --> 00:24:52.280
  • I BELIEVE AND DECLARE YOU WILLHAVE A STRONG, HEALTHY, FAITHFILLED FAMILY.
  • 00:24:52.280 --> 00:24:53.181
  • HAVE A STRONG, HEALTHY, FAITHFILLED FAMILY.EVERY FORCE THAT'S TRYING TO
  • 00:24:53.181 --> 00:24:55.216
  • FILLED FAMILY.EVERY FORCE THAT'S TRYING TOSTOP YOU, YOUR MARRIAGE, YOUR
  • 00:24:55.216 --> 00:24:57.052
  • EVERY FORCE THAT'S TRYING TOSTOP YOU, YOUR MARRIAGE, YOURCHILDREN, IS BEING BROKEN RIGHT
  • 00:24:57.052 --> 00:24:58.453
  • STOP YOU, YOUR MARRIAGE, YOURCHILDREN, IS BEING BROKEN RIGHTNOW.
  • 00:24:58.453 --> 00:24:59.854
  • CHILDREN, IS BEING BROKEN RIGHTNOW.GOD IS RELEASING STRENGTH,
  • 00:24:59.854 --> 00:25:02.257
  • NOW.GOD IS RELEASING STRENGTH,HEALING, DELIVERANCE, FAVOR, NEW
  • 00:25:02.257 --> 00:25:03.458
  • GOD IS RELEASING STRENGTH,HEALING, DELIVERANCE, FAVOR, NEWBEGINNINGS.
  • 00:25:03.458 --> 00:25:05.193
  • HEALING, DELIVERANCE, FAVOR, NEWBEGINNINGS.YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL RISE UP
  • 00:25:05.193 --> 00:25:06.861
  • BEGINNINGS.YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL RISE UPAND BECOME EVERYTHING GOD HAS
  • 00:25:06.861 --> 00:25:08.496
  • YOU AND YOUR FAMILY WILL RISE UPAND BECOME EVERYTHING GOD HASCREATED YOU TO BE. I SPEAK THE
  • 00:25:08.496 --> 00:25:11.600
  • AND BECOME EVERYTHING GOD HASCREATED YOU TO BE. I SPEAK THEBLESSING IN THE NAME OF JESUS.
  • 00:25:11.600 --> 00:25:12.801
  • CREATED YOU TO BE. I SPEAK THEBLESSING IN THE NAME OF JESUS.IF YOU RECEIVE IT CAN YOU SAY,
  • 00:25:12.801 --> 00:25:14.469
  • BLESSING IN THE NAME OF JESUS.IF YOU RECEIVE IT CAN YOU SAY,"AMEN" TODAY? ( "AMEN.")
  • 00:25:14.469 --> 00:25:15.971
  • IF YOU RECEIVE IT CAN YOU SAY,"AMEN" TODAY? ( "AMEN.")(APPLAUSE)
  • 00:25:15.971 --> 00:25:16.771
  • "AMEN" TODAY? ( "AMEN.")(APPLAUSE)WE NEVER LIKE TO CLOSE OUR
  • 00:25:16.771 --> 00:25:18.173
  • (APPLAUSE)WE NEVER LIKE TO CLOSE OURBROADCAST WITHOUT GIVING YOU AN
  • 00:25:18.173 --> 00:25:19.574
  • WE NEVER LIKE TO CLOSE OURBROADCAST WITHOUT GIVING YOU ANOPPORTUNITY TO MAKE JESUS THE
  • 00:25:19.574 --> 00:25:21.176
  • BROADCAST WITHOUT GIVING YOU ANOPPORTUNITY TO MAKE JESUS THELORD OF YOUR LIFE. WOULD YOU
  • 00:25:21.176 --> 00:25:22.477
  • OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE JESUS THELORD OF YOUR LIFE. WOULD YOUPRAY WITH ME? JUST SAY,
  • 00:25:22.477 --> 00:25:24.679
  • LORD OF YOUR LIFE. WOULD YOUPRAY WITH ME? JUST SAY,"LORD JESUS,
  • 00:25:24.679 --> 00:25:26.948
  • PRAY WITH ME? JUST SAY,"LORD JESUS,I REPENT OF MY SINS.
  • 00:25:26.948 --> 00:25:28.984
  • "LORD JESUS,I REPENT OF MY SINS.COME INTO MY HEART.
  • 00:25:28.984 --> 00:25:31.653
  • I REPENT OF MY SINS.COME INTO MY HEART.I MAKE YOU MY LORD AND SAVIOR."
  • 00:25:31.653 --> 00:25:32.454
  • COME INTO MY HEART.I MAKE YOU MY LORD AND SAVIOR."FRIENDS, IF YOU PRAYED THAT
  • 00:25:32.454 --> 00:25:33.788
  • I MAKE YOU MY LORD AND SAVIOR."FRIENDS, IF YOU PRAYED THATSIMPLE PRAYER WE BELIEVE YOU
  • 00:25:33.788 --> 00:25:35.323
  • FRIENDS, IF YOU PRAYED THATSIMPLE PRAYER WE BELIEVE YOUGOT BORN AGAIN.
  • 00:25:35.323 --> 00:25:36.391
  • SIMPLE PRAYER WE BELIEVE YOUGOT BORN AGAIN.GET IN A GOOD BIBLE-BASED
  • 00:25:36.391 --> 00:25:37.425
  • GOT BORN AGAIN.GET IN A GOOD BIBLE-BASEDCHURCH.
  • 00:25:37.425 --> 00:25:38.393
  • GET IN A GOOD BIBLE-BASEDCHURCH.KEEP GOD FIRST PLACE.
  • 00:25:38.393 --> 00:25:39.227
  • CHURCH.KEEP GOD FIRST PLACE.HE IS GOING TO TAKE YOU PLACES
  • 00:25:39.227 --> 00:25:40.595
  • > ANNCR: AS A THANK YOU FOR YOUR
  • 00:25:42.230 --> 00:25:43.365
  • > ANNCR: AS A THANK YOU FOR YOURSUPPORT OF OUR MINISTRY THIS
  • 00:25:43.365 --> 00:25:44.766
  • SUPPORT OF OUR MINISTRY THISOCTOBER, JOEL AND VICTORIA
  • 00:25:44.766 --> 00:25:46.301
  • OCTOBER, JOEL AND VICTORIAWOULD LIKE TO SEND YOU THE
  • 00:25:46.301 --> 00:25:48.770
  • WOULD LIKE TO SEND YOU THEINSPIRATION CUBE.
  • 00:25:48.770 --> 00:25:50.005
  • INSPIRATION CUBE.WAKE UP EVERY MORNING INSPIRED
  • 00:25:50.005 --> 00:25:51.873
  • WAKE UP EVERY MORNING INSPIREDWITH THIS EASY TO USE PORTABLE
  • 00:25:51.873 --> 00:25:53.108
  • WITH THIS EASY TO USE PORTABLEAUDIO SYSTEM FILLED WITH
  • 00:25:53.108 --> 00:25:54.776
  • AUDIO SYSTEM FILLED WITHOVER 400 LIFE-CHANGING
  • 00:25:54.776 --> 00:25:56.244
  • OVER 400 LIFE-CHANGINGMESSAGES OF HOPE, GUIDANCE,
  • 00:25:56.244 --> 00:25:58.546
  • MESSAGES OF HOPE, GUIDANCE,AND STRENGTH FROM JOEL.
  • 00:25:58.546 --> 00:25:59.481
  • AND STRENGTH FROM JOEL.WITH THE SIMPLE PUSH OF A
  • 00:25:59.481 --> 00:26:00.782
  • WITH THE SIMPLE PUSH OF ABUTTON, REMOVE ANY NEGATIVE
  • 00:26:00.782 --> 00:26:02.517
  • BUTTON, REMOVE ANY NEGATIVETHOUGHTS WITH A NEW MESSAGE
  • 00:26:02.517 --> 00:26:04.452
  • > JOEL: YOU MAY FEEL TODAY
  • 00:26:05.086 --> 00:26:06.454
  • > JOEL: YOU MAY FEEL TODAYLIKE YOU'RE TRAPPED...
  • 00:26:06.454 --> 00:26:07.155
  • LIKE YOU'RE TRAPPED...THAT IS NOT HOW YOUR STORY
  • 00:26:07.155 --> 00:26:08.056
  • THAT IS NOT HOW YOUR STORYENDS...
  • 00:26:08.056 --> 00:26:09.290
  • ENDS...SOME DREAMS ARE WAKING UP...
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  • SOME DREAMS ARE WAKING UP...HOPE IS WAKING UP...
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  • > IRVING C.: IT WAS ALMOST
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  • > IRVING C.: IT WAS ALMOSTLIKE A FRIEND WAS SPEAKING
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  • LIKE A FRIEND WAS SPEAKINGTO ME. I'M AT PEACE. MY VICTORY
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  • > VICTORIA: THERE'S ALOT OF
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  • > VICTORIA: THERE'S ALOT OFNEGATIVITY IN THE WORLD. SO,
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  • NEGATIVITY IN THE WORLD. SO,IT'S SO IMPORTANT WHAT WE'RE
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  • IT'S SO IMPORTANT WHAT WE'RETAKING IN ALL THROUGHOUT THE
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  • TAKING IN ALL THROUGHOUT THEDAY. THE INSPIRATION CUBE IS
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  • DAY. THE INSPIRATION CUBE ISA COLLECTION OF JOEL'S MOST
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  • A COLLECTION OF JOEL'S MOSTREQUESTED MESSAGES.
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  • REQUESTED MESSAGES.> JOEL: IT HAS 365 DEVOTIONS,
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  • > JOEL: IT HAS 365 DEVOTIONS,2-3 MINUTES WHERE I'LL HELP YOU
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  • 2-3 MINUTES WHERE I'LL HELP YOUSTART THE DAY ENCOURAGED
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  • START THE DAY ENCOURAGEDAND INSPIRED.
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  • AND INSPIRED.PLUS THERE ARE 31 POSITIVE
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  • PLUS THERE ARE 31 POSITIVEAFFIRMATIONS THAT YOU CAN
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  • AFFIRMATIONS THAT YOU CANDECLARE OVER YOUR LIFE.
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  • DECLARE OVER YOUR LIFE.I HOPE YOU'LL REQUEST THE
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  • I HOPE YOU'LL REQUEST THEINSPIRATION CUBE. IT WILL
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  • INSPIRATION CUBE. IT WILLHELP YOU STAY FULL OF FAITH
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  • HELP YOU STAY FULL OF FAITHSO YOU CAN LIVE THE VICTORIOUS
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  • > ANNCR: TO RECEIVE THE
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  • > ANNCR: TO RECEIVE THEINSPIRATION CUBE, THIS
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  • INSPIRATION CUBE, THISONE-OF-A-KIND AUDIO DEVICE,
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  • ONE-OF-A-KIND AUDIO DEVICE,VISIT US AT JOELOSTEEN.COM
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  • > JOEL: THANKS SO MUCH FOR
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  • > JOEL: THANKS SO MUCH FORYOUR SUPPORT AND YOUR
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  • YOUR SUPPORT AND YOURGENEROSITY. YOU ARE MAKING
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  • GENEROSITY. YOU ARE MAKINGA DIFFERENCE AROUND THE WORLD.
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  • A DIFFERENCE AROUND THE WORLD.AND A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO OUR
  • 00:27:00.842 --> 00:27:02.243
  • AND A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO OURCHAMPION OF HOPE PARTNERS FOR
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  • CHAMPION OF HOPE PARTNERS FORALL YOU DO TO KEEP THE MINISTRY
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  • ALL YOU DO TO KEEP THE MINISTRYGOING. KNOW THAT VICTORIA AND I
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  • GOING. KNOW THAT VICTORIA AND ILOVE YOU. WE PRAY FOR YOU EVERY
  • 00:27:06.848 --> 00:27:08.183
  • I'M EXCITED I'VE GOT A NEW BOOK
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  • I'M EXCITED I'VE GOT A NEW BOOKCOMING OUT IN NOVEMBER.
  • 00:27:10.885 --> 00:27:12.053
  • COMING OUT IN NOVEMBER.IT'S CALLED, "EMPTY OUT THE
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  • IT'S CALLED, "EMPTY OUT THENEGATIVE". I KNOW YOU'RE
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  • LET ME PRAY FOR YOU.
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  • LET ME PRAY FOR YOU.FATHER, I THANK YOU FOR OUR
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  • FATHER, I THANK YOU FOR OURFRIENDS THAT ARE WATCHING
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  • FRIENDS THAT ARE WATCHINGAND LISTENING. THAT RIGHT NOW
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  • AND LISTENING. THAT RIGHT NOWYOU'RE HEALING SICK BODIES,
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  • YOU'RE HEALING SICK BODIES,RESTORING RELATIONSHIPS,
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  • RESTORING RELATIONSHIPS,ENCOURAGING THOSE THAT ARE
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  • ENCOURAGING THOSE THAT AREDOWN. LORD, LET THEM SEE YOUR
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  • DOWN. LORD, LET THEM SEE YOURGOODNESS IN A NEW WAY.
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  • GOODNESS IN A NEW WAY.IN JESUS' NAME. GOD BLESS YOU.
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