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Steve Arterburn | Steps To Healing

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April 23, 2020
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The Christian counselor and author lays out a practical; proven path to healing from emotional and psychological trauma.

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  • NEXT! RADIO AND TV HOST,STEVE ARTERBURN OPENS UP
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  • ABOUT THE BROKENNESSIN HIS MARRIAGE.
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  • - YOU KNOW, I WAS INA MARRIAGE FOR 20 YEARS
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  • AND THERE WASUNFAITHFULNESS.
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  • AND WHEN I FOUND OUTABOUT IT
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  • AND CONFRONTED HERSHE DIVORCED ME.
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  • I DIDN'T FORGIVE INSTANTLY,I WANTED TO KILL HER.
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  • REALLY, I DIDN'T EVEN KNOWI HAD THAT IN ME.
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  • THEN AS I GRIEVED,I WAS HEALING
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  • AND THEN I DIDN'TWANT TO KILL HER,
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  • I JUST WANTED HER TO DIE, ANDTHOUGHT I WAS MAKING PROGRESS.
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  • Randy: WELCOME TO LIFE TODAY !
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  • Randy: WELCOME TO LIFE TODAY !I'M RANDY ROBISON.
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  • Randy: WELCOME TO LIFE TODAY !I'M RANDY ROBISON.SHEILA WALSH, AS ALWAYS.
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  • I'M RANDY ROBISON.SHEILA WALSH, AS ALWAYS.GOOD TO HAVE YOU.
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  • SHEILA WALSH, AS ALWAYS.GOOD TO HAVE YOU.Sheila: NICE TO BE HERE.
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  • TODAY BECAUSE WE'RE GOING
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  • TODAY BECAUSE WE'RE GOINGTO TALK ABOUT HEALING.
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  • TODAY BECAUSE WE'RE GOINGTO TALK ABOUT HEALING.AND SHEILA, WE ALL NEED
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  • TO TALK ABOUT HEALING.AND SHEILA, WE ALL NEEDA LITTLE HEALING AT
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  • AND SHEILA, WE ALL NEEDA LITTLE HEALING ATSOME POINT IN OUR LIVES
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  • A LITTLE HEALING ATSOME POINT IN OUR LIVESSOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE.
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  • SOME POINT IN OUR LIVESSOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE.Sheila: I THINK, PROBABLY
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  • SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE.Sheila: I THINK, PROBABLYAT MOST POINTS IN OUR LIFE.
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  • Sheila: I THINK, PROBABLYAT MOST POINTS IN OUR LIFE.I'M KIND OF GRATEFUL THAT
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  • AT MOST POINTS IN OUR LIFE.I'M KIND OF GRATEFUL THATTHE PERSON WHO HAS WRITTEN
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  • I'M KIND OF GRATEFUL THATTHE PERSON WHO HAS WRITTEN100 DAYS OF HEALING
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  • THE PERSON WHO HAS WRITTEN100 DAYS OF HEALINGAS A DAILY DEVOTIONAL
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  • 100 DAYS OF HEALINGAS A DAILY DEVOTIONALIS ACTUALLY A REALLY GOOD
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  • AS A DAILY DEVOTIONALIS ACTUALLY A REALLY GOODFRIEND OF MINE.
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  • IS ACTUALLY A REALLY GOODFRIEND OF MINE.WELCOME STEVE ARTERBURN!
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  • FRIEND OF MINE.WELCOME STEVE ARTERBURN!Randy: GOOD TO
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  • WELCOME STEVE ARTERBURN!Randy: GOOD TOHAVE YOU BACK!
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  • Randy: GOOD TOHAVE YOU BACK!Steve: GOOD TO BE HERE.
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  • HAVE YOU BACK!Steve: GOOD TO BE HERE.THANK YOU!
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  • Steve: GOOD TO BE HERE.THANK YOU!Randy: I CHEATED A BIT.
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  • THANK YOU!Randy: I CHEATED A BIT.I ACTUALLY TALKED TO STEVE
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  • Randy: I CHEATED A BIT.I ACTUALLY TALKED TO STEVEON THE LIVE CAST THAT
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  • I ACTUALLY TALKED TO STEVEON THE LIVE CAST THATWE DO, NOON MONDAY
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  • ON THE LIVE CAST THATWE DO, NOON MONDAYTHROUGH FRIDAY.
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  • WE DO, NOON MONDAYTHROUGH FRIDAY.AND SO WE JUST HAD
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  • THROUGH FRIDAY.AND SO WE JUST HADTHIS CONVERSATION.
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  • AND SO WE JUST HADTHIS CONVERSATION.SO I KNOW HOW GOOD
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  • THIS CONVERSATION.SO I KNOW HOW GOODTHIS CONVERSATION
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  • SO I KNOW HOW GOODTHIS CONVERSATIONIS GOING TO BE.
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  • THIS CONVERSATIONIS GOING TO BE.Sheila: WE HAD OUR
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  • IS GOING TO BE.Sheila: WE HAD OURPREPRODUCTION MEETING,
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  • Sheila: WE HAD OURPREPRODUCTION MEETING,WE ALWAYS SIT AND TALK ABOUT
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  • PREPRODUCTION MEETING,WE ALWAYS SIT AND TALK ABOUTOUR GUESTS, AND I'M GOING
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  • WE ALWAYS SIT AND TALK ABOUTOUR GUESTS, AND I'M GOINGTHROUGH THE BOOK AND
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  • OUR GUESTS, AND I'M GOINGTHROUGH THE BOOK ANDI'M SAYING, "WELL, THERE IS
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  • THROUGH THE BOOK ANDI'M SAYING, "WELL, THERE ISQUITE A LOT IN HERE
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  • I'M SAYING, "WELL, THERE ISQUITE A LOT IN HEREABOUT HEALING."
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  • QUITE A LOT IN HEREABOUT HEALING."THEY SAID, "READ THE COVER."
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  • ABOUT HEALING."THEY SAID, "READ THE COVER."[Laughter]
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  • THEY SAID, "READ THE COVER."[Laughter]OH! A 100 DAYS OF HEALING .
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  • [Laughter]OH! A 100 DAYS OF HEALING .[Laughter]
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  • OH! A 100 DAYS OF HEALING .[Laughter]YOU TELL A STORY THOUGH,
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  • [Laughter]YOU TELL A STORY THOUGH,AND I DON'T KNOW IF IT WAS
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  • YOU TELL A STORY THOUGH,AND I DON'T KNOW IF IT WASSOMETHING YOU TALKED
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  • AND I DON'T KNOW IF IT WASSOMETHING YOU TALKEDTO RANDY ABOUT BUT OF
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  • SOMETHING YOU TALKEDTO RANDY ABOUT BUT OFAN ATHEIST WHO GOT HEALED
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  • TO RANDY ABOUT BUT OFAN ATHEIST WHO GOT HEALEDWHO WASN'T
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  • AN ATHEIST WHO GOT HEALEDWHO WASN'TPARTICULARLY THRILLED.
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  • WHO WASN'TPARTICULARLY THRILLED.Steve: NO! IT'S ONE
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  • PARTICULARLY THRILLED.Steve: NO! IT'S ONEOF MY FAVORITE STORIES
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  • THINK THAT GOD DOESN'T
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  • THINK THAT GOD DOESN'TLOVE THEM BECAUSE
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  • LOVE THEM BECAUSETHEY HAVEN'T BEEN HEALED.
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  • THEY HAVEN'T BEEN HEALED.THEY HEAR, "HAVE MORE FAITH."
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  • THEY HEAR, "HAVE MORE FAITH."WELL, THIS ATHEIST THAT I MET
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  • BRAIN TUMORS, STAGE 4 CANCER.
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  • BRAIN TUMORS, STAGE 4 CANCER.THEY TOOK HIM FOR
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  • BRAIN TUMORS, STAGE 4 CANCER.THEY TOOK HIM FORONE FINAL M.R.I. OR CAT SCAN
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  • THEY TOOK HIM FORONE FINAL M.R.I. OR CAT SCANJUST TO SEE HOW THINGS WERE
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  • ONE FINAL M.R.I. OR CAT SCANJUST TO SEE HOW THINGS WEREAND THE DOCTOR COMES OUT
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  • JUST TO SEE HOW THINGS WEREAND THE DOCTOR COMES OUTAND SAYS, "I DON'T KNOW!
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  • AND THE DOCTOR COMES OUTAND SAYS, "I DON'T KNOW!YOU HAVE NO CANCER.
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  • AND SAYS, "I DON'T KNOW!YOU HAVE NO CANCER.YOU ARE HEALED."
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  • YOU HAVE NO CANCER.YOU ARE HEALED."THIS WAS AN ANGRY ATHEIST.
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  • YOU ARE HEALED."THIS WAS AN ANGRY ATHEIST.HE ONLY HAD ACCESS TO ANGER.
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  • THIS WAS AN ANGRY ATHEIST.HE ONLY HAD ACCESS TO ANGER.HE THREW ONE OF THESE
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  • HE ONLY HAD ACCESS TO ANGER.HE THREW ONE OF THESEEXPENSIVE PIECES OF EQUIPMENT
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  • HE THREW ONE OF THESEEXPENSIVE PIECES OF EQUIPMENTAROUND THE ROOM.
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  • EXPENSIVE PIECES OF EQUIPMENTAROUND THE ROOM.THEY SEDATED HIM.
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  • AROUND THE ROOM.THEY SEDATED HIM.THEY HAD TO RESTRAIN HIM.
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  • THEY SEDATED HIM.THEY HAD TO RESTRAIN HIM.AND A YEAR LATER
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  • THEY HAD TO RESTRAIN HIM.AND A YEAR LATERHE COMES TO JESUS.
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  • AND A YEAR LATERHE COMES TO JESUS.Sheila: OH MY GOSH!
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  • Steve: AND HE'S BEEN
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  • I GUESS 15 YEARS NOW,
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  • BUT I LOVE THAT STORY
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  • BUT I LOVE THAT STORYBECAUSE THAT WAS GOD'S PLAN
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  • BUT I LOVE THAT STORYBECAUSE THAT WAS GOD'S PLANFOR HIM.
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  • BECAUSE THAT WAS GOD'S PLANFOR HIM.NOW YOU TAKE SOMEONE
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  • FOR HIM.NOW YOU TAKE SOMEONELIKE JONI EARECKSON TADA,
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  • NOW YOU TAKE SOMEONELIKE JONI EARECKSON TADA,GREAT FAITH, NOT THE PLAN
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  • LIKE JONI EARECKSON TADA,GREAT FAITH, NOT THE PLANFOR PHYSICAL HEALING,
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  • GREAT FAITH, NOT THE PLANFOR PHYSICAL HEALING,AND CHRONIC PAIN AND ALL THAT.
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  • FOR PHYSICAL HEALING,AND CHRONIC PAIN AND ALL THAT.BUT WHAT I'VE TRIED TO DO HERE
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  • AND CHRONIC PAIN AND ALL THAT.BUT WHAT I'VE TRIED TO DO HEREIS TAKE YOU ON
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  • BUT WHAT I'VE TRIED TO DO HEREIS TAKE YOU ONA 100-DAY JOURNEY
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  • IS TAKE YOU ONA 100-DAY JOURNEYUSING BIBLE PROMISES
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  • A 100-DAY JOURNEYUSING BIBLE PROMISESFOR HEALING BECAUSE WE CAN'T
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  • USING BIBLE PROMISESFOR HEALING BECAUSE WE CAN'TNECESSARILY HAVE A PHYSICAL
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  • FOR HEALING BECAUSE WE CAN'TNECESSARILY HAVE A PHYSICALHEALING BUT MANY TIMES
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  • NECESSARILY HAVE A PHYSICALHEALING BUT MANY TIMESWHEN WE DO SOME OF THE THINGS
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  • HEALING BUT MANY TIMESWHEN WE DO SOME OF THE THINGSTHE BIBLE TELLS US TO DO
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  • WHEN WE DO SOME OF THE THINGSTHE BIBLE TELLS US TO DOTO HEAL, IT'S PRETTY POWERFUL.
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  • THE BIBLE TELLS US TO DOTO HEAL, IT'S PRETTY POWERFUL.FOR INSTANCE, JAMES 5:16 SAYS,
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  • TO HEAL, IT'S PRETTY POWERFUL.FOR INSTANCE, JAMES 5:16 SAYS,"CONFESS YOUR SINS
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  • FOR INSTANCE, JAMES 5:16 SAYS,"CONFESS YOUR SINSTO ONE ANOTHER AND PRAY
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  • "CONFESS YOUR SINSTO ONE ANOTHER AND PRAYFOR EACH OTHER THAT
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  • TO ONE ANOTHER AND PRAYFOR EACH OTHER THATYOU MIGHT BE HEALED."
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  • FOR EACH OTHER THATYOU MIGHT BE HEALED."WELL, HOW MANY PEOPLE
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  • YOU MIGHT BE HEALED."WELL, HOW MANY PEOPLEARE WAITING FOR GOD
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  • WELL, HOW MANY PEOPLEARE WAITING FOR GODTO HEAL THEM AND YET
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  • ARE WAITING FOR GODTO HEAL THEM AND YETTHEY ARE SO SECRETIVE?
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  • TO HEAL THEM AND YETTHEY ARE SO SECRETIVE?THEY'VE NEVER TOLD ANYBODY
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  • THEY ARE SO SECRETIVE?THEY'VE NEVER TOLD ANYBODYABOUT ANYTHING
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  • THEY'VE NEVER TOLD ANYBODYABOUT ANYTHINGTHEY'VE EVER DONE.
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  • ABOUT ANYTHINGTHEY'VE EVER DONE.SO IF WE WOULD JUST DO
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  • THEY'VE EVER DONE.SO IF WE WOULD JUST DOSOME OF THE THINGS THAT
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  • SO IF WE WOULD JUST DOSOME OF THE THINGS THATTHE BIBLE TELLS US TO DO.
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  • SOME OF THE THINGS THATTHE BIBLE TELLS US TO DO.YOU KNOW DEAN ORNISH
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  • THE BIBLE TELLS US TO DO.YOU KNOW DEAN ORNISHIS THIS HEALTH FOOD GUY
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  • YOU KNOW DEAN ORNISHIS THIS HEALTH FOOD GUYTHAT GOT PEOPLE EATING FOOD
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  • IS THIS HEALTH FOOD GUYTHAT GOT PEOPLE EATING FOODTHAT TASTES LIKE HAY.
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  • THAT GOT PEOPLE EATING FOODTHAT TASTES LIKE HAY.[Laughter]
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  • THAT TASTES LIKE HAY.[Laughter]AND HE SAYS THE MOST
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  • [Laughter]AND HE SAYS THE MOSTFORGIVING THING YOU COULD
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  • AND HE SAYS THE MOSTFORGIVING THING YOU COULDEVER DO IS TO FORGIVE
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  • FORGIVING THING YOU COULDEVER DO IS TO FORGIVESOMEBODY THAT
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  • EVER DO IS TO FORGIVESOMEBODY THATYOU'RE BITTER AGAINST.
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  • SOMEBODY THATYOU'RE BITTER AGAINST.HE SAID THAT'S FAR MORE
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  • YOU'RE BITTER AGAINST.HE SAID THAT'S FAR MOREHEALING OF YOUR BODY
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  • HE SAID THAT'S FAR MOREHEALING OF YOUR BODYTHAN ANY OF THE FOOD
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  • HEALING OF YOUR BODYTHAN ANY OF THE FOODTHAT I HAVE.
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  • THAN ANY OF THE FOODTHAT I HAVE.WE JUST KNOW THAT
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  • THAT I HAVE.WE JUST KNOW THATTO BE TRUE.
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  • WE JUST KNOW THATTO BE TRUE.SO I REALLY BELIEVE THAT
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  • TO BE TRUE.SO I REALLY BELIEVE THATIF WE STOP WAITING FOR GOD
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  • SO I REALLY BELIEVE THATIF WE STOP WAITING FOR GODTO DO WHAT MAYBE GOD
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  • IF WE STOP WAITING FOR GODTO DO WHAT MAYBE GODIS WAITING FOR US TO DO AND
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  • TO DO WHAT MAYBE GODIS WAITING FOR US TO DO ANDWE GET ON THIS 100-DAY JOURNEY
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  • IS WAITING FOR US TO DO ANDWE GET ON THIS 100-DAY JOURNEYYOU MIGHT BE PRETTY SURPRISED
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  • WE GET ON THIS 100-DAY JOURNEYYOU MIGHT BE PRETTY SURPRISEDAT HOW MUCH SPIRITUAL
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  • YOU MIGHT BE PRETTY SURPRISEDAT HOW MUCH SPIRITUALAND EMOTIONAL HEALING
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  • AT HOW MUCH SPIRITUALAND EMOTIONAL HEALINGTHAT SOMETIMES EVEN RESULTS
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  • AND EMOTIONAL HEALINGTHAT SOMETIMES EVEN RESULTSIN PHYSICAL HEALING.
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  • THAT I THOUGHT WAS
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  • THAT I THOUGHT WASVERY INTERESTING FROM
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  • VERY INTERESTING FROMOUR CONVERSATION WAS
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  • OUR CONVERSATION WASTHIS ISSUE OF CONFESSING
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  • WHAT IF THAT CONFESSION
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  • WHAT IF THAT CONFESSIONDOES DAMAGE TO ANOTHER
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  • WHAT IF THAT CONFESSIONDOES DAMAGE TO ANOTHERLOVED ONE, ANOTHER PERSON?
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  • DOES DAMAGE TO ANOTHERLOVED ONE, ANOTHER PERSON?IN OTHER WORDS, I'M GOING
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  • LOVED ONE, ANOTHER PERSON?IN OTHER WORDS, I'M GOINGTO CONFESS MY SINS
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  • IN OTHER WORDS, I'M GOINGTO CONFESS MY SINSAND IN THE PROCESS HURT
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  • TO CONFESS MY SINSAND IN THE PROCESS HURTSOMEONE ELSE, AND NOW
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  • AND IN THE PROCESS HURTSOMEONE ELSE, AND NOWTHEY NEED HEALING.
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  • SOMEONE ELSE, AND NOWTHEY NEED HEALING.HOW DO WE NAVIGATE
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  • THEY NEED HEALING.HOW DO WE NAVIGATETHOSE DIFFICULT WATERS?
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  • HOW DO WE NAVIGATETHOSE DIFFICULT WATERS?Steve: WELL, IT'S INTERESTING.
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  • THOSE DIFFICULT WATERS?Steve: WELL, IT'S INTERESTING.WE HAVE TO USE DISCRETION.
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  • Steve: WELL, IT'S INTERESTING.WE HAVE TO USE DISCRETION.IN RECOVERY PROGRAMS
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  • WE HAVE TO USE DISCRETION.IN RECOVERY PROGRAMSWE TALK ABOUT MAKING AMENDS
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  • IN RECOVERY PROGRAMSWE TALK ABOUT MAKING AMENDSUNLESS IT WOULD HURT
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  • WE TALK ABOUT MAKING AMENDSUNLESS IT WOULD HURTSOMEBODY ELSE.
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  • UNLESS IT WOULD HURTSOMEBODY ELSE.WE DON'T WANT TO USE
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  • SOMEBODY ELSE.WE DON'T WANT TO USETHAT AS AN EXCUSE.
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  • WE DON'T WANT TO USETHAT AS AN EXCUSE.BUT YOU KNOW IF YOU'VE BEEN
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  • THAT AS AN EXCUSE.BUT YOU KNOW IF YOU'VE BEENA SEXUAL PREDATOR OR
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  • BUT YOU KNOW IF YOU'VE BEENA SEXUAL PREDATOR ORHAD BEEN A PERSON USING
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  • A SEXUAL PREDATOR ORHAD BEEN A PERSON USINGPORNOGRAPHY OR UNFAITHFUL,
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  • HAD BEEN A PERSON USINGPORNOGRAPHY OR UNFAITHFUL,WHEN YOU CONFESS THAT
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  • PORNOGRAPHY OR UNFAITHFUL,WHEN YOU CONFESS THATTO YOUR SPOUSE THAT IS
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  • WHEN YOU CONFESS THATTO YOUR SPOUSE THAT ISGOING HURT THEM BUT
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  • TO YOUR SPOUSE THAT ISGOING HURT THEM BUTTHEY ARE ENTITLED TO KNOW THAT
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  • GOING HURT THEM BUTTHEY ARE ENTITLED TO KNOW THATTHAT'S THE TRUTH.
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  • THEY ARE ENTITLED TO KNOW THATTHAT'S THE TRUTH.AND SO WE ALWAYS ENCOURAGE
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  • THAT'S THE TRUTH.AND SO WE ALWAYS ENCOURAGEPEOPLE TO DO THAT
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  • AND SO WE ALWAYS ENCOURAGEPEOPLE TO DO THATWITH A THIRD PARTY.
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  • PEOPLE TO DO THATWITH A THIRD PARTY.BUT WE NEED TO CONFESS
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  • WITH A THIRD PARTY.BUT WE NEED TO CONFESSTO SOMEBODY ELSE FIRST
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  • BUT WE NEED TO CONFESSTO SOMEBODY ELSE FIRSTBEFORE WE GO CONFESS
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  • TO SOMEBODY ELSE FIRSTBEFORE WE GO CONFESSTO THE PERSON.
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  • BEFORE WE GO CONFESSTO THE PERSON.WE NEED TO BE OPEN
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  • TO THE PERSON.WE NEED TO BE OPENWITH SOMEBODY ELSE THAT CAN
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  • WE NEED TO BE OPENWITH SOMEBODY ELSE THAT CANHELP US THROUGH THAT AND THEN
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  • WITH SOMEBODY ELSE THAT CANHELP US THROUGH THAT AND THENWE CAN DO A LITTLE BIT
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  • HELP US THROUGH THAT AND THENWE CAN DO A LITTLE BITOF WORK AND MAYBE THAT
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  • WE CAN DO A LITTLE BITOF WORK AND MAYBE THATCONFESSION TO THE OTHER PERSON
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  • OF WORK AND MAYBE THATCONFESSION TO THE OTHER PERSONWILL BE A MORE HEALING,
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  • CONFESSION TO THE OTHER PERSONWILL BE A MORE HEALING,LESS DESTRUCTIVE EXPERIENCE.
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  • WILL BE A MORE HEALING,LESS DESTRUCTIVE EXPERIENCE.Sheila: ONE OF THE THINGS
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  • LESS DESTRUCTIVE EXPERIENCE.Sheila: ONE OF THE THINGSTHAT I THOUGHT WAS REALLY
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  • Sheila: ONE OF THE THINGSTHAT I THOUGHT WAS REALLYINTERESTING IS THE WAY
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  • THAT I THOUGHT WAS REALLYINTERESTING IS THE WAYTHAT YOU LINK GRIEVING TO
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  • INTERESTING IS THE WAYTHAT YOU LINK GRIEVING TOTHE WHOLE FORGIVENESS PROCESS.
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  • THAT YOU LINK GRIEVING TOTHE WHOLE FORGIVENESS PROCESS.BECAUSE SOMETIMES PEOPLE
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  • THE WHOLE FORGIVENESS PROCESS.BECAUSE SOMETIMES PEOPLEKIND OF WANT YOU
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  • BECAUSE SOMETIMES PEOPLEKIND OF WANT YOUTO RUSH TO HEALING
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  • KIND OF WANT YOUTO RUSH TO HEALINGAND RUSH TO FORGIVENESS.
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  • TO RUSH TO HEALINGAND RUSH TO FORGIVENESS.WHAT DO YOU SEE AS
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  • AND RUSH TO FORGIVENESS.WHAT DO YOU SEE ASTHE PART OF GRIEVING?
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  • WHAT DO YOU SEE ASTHE PART OF GRIEVING?Steve: WELL, A LOT OF PEOPLE
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  • THE PART OF GRIEVING?Steve: WELL, A LOT OF PEOPLEWANT TO INSTANTLY FORGIVE.
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  • Steve: WELL, A LOT OF PEOPLEWANT TO INSTANTLY FORGIVE.AND THERE IS A CONCEPT
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  • WANT TO INSTANTLY FORGIVE.AND THERE IS A CONCEPTOF SAYING, OKAY,
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  • AND THERE IS A CONCEPTOF SAYING, OKAY,I FORGIVE THEM BUT THERE IS
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  • I THINK IN THE CHRISTIAN
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  • I THINK IN THE CHRISTIANCOMMUNITY THERE IS
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  • COMMUNITY THERE ISSO MANY UNGRIEVED LOSSES.
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  • SO MANY UNGRIEVED LOSSES.LET'S DON'T JUST JUMP
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  • HAVE ANY GRIEVING TO DO
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  • HAVE ANY GRIEVING TO DOBECAUSE GOD WANTS ME
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  • HAVE ANY GRIEVING TO DOBECAUSE GOD WANTS METO FORGIVE.
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  • BECAUSE GOD WANTS METO FORGIVE.I'VE LOST SOMETHING,
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  • TO FORGIVE.I'VE LOST SOMETHING,I'M ANGRY, I'M SAD.
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  • I'VE LOST SOMETHING,I'M ANGRY, I'M SAD.I WAS IN A MARRIAGE
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  • I'M ANGRY, I'M SAD.I WAS IN A MARRIAGEFOR 20 YEARS AND
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  • I WAS IN A MARRIAGEFOR 20 YEARS ANDTHERE WAS UNFAITHFULNESS.
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  • FOR 20 YEARS ANDTHERE WAS UNFAITHFULNESS.WHEN I FOUND OUT ABOUT IT
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  • THERE WAS UNFAITHFULNESS.WHEN I FOUND OUT ABOUT ITAND CONFRONTED HER,
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  • WHEN I FOUND OUT ABOUT ITAND CONFRONTED HER,SHE DIVORCED ME.
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  • AND CONFRONTED HER,SHE DIVORCED ME.I DIDN'T FORGIVE INSTANTLY.
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  • SHE DIVORCED ME.I DIDN'T FORGIVE INSTANTLY.I WANTED TO KILL HER.
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  • I DIDN'T FORGIVE INSTANTLY.I WANTED TO KILL HER.REALLY, I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW
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  • I WANTED TO KILL HER.REALLY, I DIDN'T EVEN KNOWI HAD THAT IN ME.
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  • REALLY, I DIDN'T EVEN KNOWI HAD THAT IN ME.AND THEN AS I GRIEVED
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  • I HAD THAT IN ME.AND THEN AS I GRIEVEDI WAS HEALING, AND THEN
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  • AND THEN AS I GRIEVEDI WAS HEALING, AND THENI DIDN'T WANT TO KILL HER,
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  • I WAS HEALING, AND THENI DIDN'T WANT TO KILL HER,I JUST WANTED TO HER TO DIE.
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  • I DIDN'T WANT TO KILL HER,I JUST WANTED TO HER TO DIE.AND I THOUGHT I WAS
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  • I JUST WANTED TO HER TO DIE.AND I THOUGHT I WASMAKING PROGRESS HERE.
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  • AND I THOUGHT I WASMAKING PROGRESS HERE.Sheila: WHAT A BEAUTIFUL
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  • MAKING PROGRESS HERE.Sheila: WHAT A BEAUTIFULTESTIMONY!
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  • Sheila: WHAT A BEAUTIFULTESTIMONY![Laughter]
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  • TESTIMONY![Laughter]Steve: YEAH, AND THEN JUST
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  • [Laughter]Steve: YEAH, AND THEN JUSTSOME ILLNESS --
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  • Steve: YEAH, AND THEN JUSTSOME ILLNESS --THAT WOULD BE OKAY.
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  • SOME ILLNESS --THAT WOULD BE OKAY.BUT REALLY, EVENTUALLY,
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  • THAT WOULD BE OKAY.BUT REALLY, EVENTUALLY,BECAUSE I WAS HONEST ABOUT IT,
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  • BUT REALLY, EVENTUALLY,BECAUSE I WAS HONEST ABOUT IT,I FOUND MYSELF PRAYING
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  • BECAUSE I WAS HONEST ABOUT IT,I FOUND MYSELF PRAYINGFOR GOOD THINGS FOR HER
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  • I FOUND MYSELF PRAYINGFOR GOOD THINGS FOR HERBECAUSE SHE WAS THE MOTHER
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  • FOR GOOD THINGS FOR HERBECAUSE SHE WAS THE MOTHEROF MY DAUGHTER.
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  • BECAUSE SHE WAS THE MOTHEROF MY DAUGHTER.BUT I HAD PEOPLE
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  • OF MY DAUGHTER.BUT I HAD PEOPLETHAT HELPED ME.
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  • BUT I HAD PEOPLETHAT HELPED ME.LIKE ON SUNDAY, THESE COUPLES
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  • THAT HELPED ME.LIKE ON SUNDAY, THESE COUPLESTHAT I RAN AROUND WITH BEFORE,
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  • LIKE ON SUNDAY, THESE COUPLESTHAT I RAN AROUND WITH BEFORE,THEY HAD THIS MEETING CALLED
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  • THAT I RAN AROUND WITH BEFORE,THEY HAD THIS MEETING CALLED"COUPLES AND STEVE."
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  • THEY HAD THIS MEETING CALLED"COUPLES AND STEVE."AND IT WAS JUST SO I COULD
  • 00:07:06.148 --> 00:07:09.886
  • "COUPLES AND STEVE."AND IT WAS JUST SO I COULDHAVE A PLACE TO BE ME.
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  • AND IT WAS JUST SO I COULDHAVE A PLACE TO BE ME.THEY WOULD SAY, "ARE YOU GOING
  • 00:07:11.053 --> 00:07:12.221
  • HAVE A PLACE TO BE ME.THEY WOULD SAY, "ARE YOU GOINGTO 'COUPLES AND STEVE?'"
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  • THEY WOULD SAY, "ARE YOU GOINGTO 'COUPLES AND STEVE?'"[Laughter]
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  • TO 'COUPLES AND STEVE?'"[Laughter]BUT IT WAS SO GREAT TO HAVE
  • 00:07:14.724 --> 00:07:16.792
  • [Laughter]BUT IT WAS SO GREAT TO HAVEPEOPLE NOT ABANDON ME
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  • BUT IT WAS SO GREAT TO HAVEPEOPLE NOT ABANDON MEAND TO HELP ME TO HEAL.
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  • WHAT'S THE PROPER WAY
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  • WHAT'S THE PROPER WAYTO GRIEVE BEFORE WE FORGIVE
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  • WHAT'S THE PROPER WAYTO GRIEVE BEFORE WE FORGIVEAS OPPOSED TO WISHING
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  • Steve: WELL, I THINK,
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  • Steve: WELL, I THINK,TO BE HONEST HOW YOU FEEL
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  • Steve: WELL, I THINK,TO BE HONEST HOW YOU FEELFIRST OF ALL.
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  • TO BE HONEST HOW YOU FEELFIRST OF ALL.OKAY, THIS IS HOW I FEEL.
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  • FIRST OF ALL.OKAY, THIS IS HOW I FEEL.I AM ANGRY.
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  • OKAY, THIS IS HOW I FEEL.I AM ANGRY.I HAVE LOST SO MUCH,
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  • I AM ANGRY.I HAVE LOST SO MUCH,AND MY DREAMS.
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  • I HAVE LOST SO MUCH,AND MY DREAMS.AND ONE OF THE THINGS
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  • AND MY DREAMS.AND ONE OF THE THINGSI HAD TO DEAL WITH WAS JUST
  • 00:07:39.615 --> 00:07:41.050
  • AND ONE OF THE THINGSI HAD TO DEAL WITH WAS JUSTHOW MUCH FEAR I HAD BECAUSE
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  • I HAD TO DEAL WITH WAS JUSTHOW MUCH FEAR I HAD BECAUSEI FELT LIKE I'LL NEVER
  • 00:07:42.518 --> 00:07:43.853
  • HOW MUCH FEAR I HAD BECAUSEI FELT LIKE I'LL NEVERHAVE A MINISTRY ANYMORE,
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  • I FELT LIKE I'LL NEVERHAVE A MINISTRY ANYMORE,AND ALL OF THIS.
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  • HAVE A MINISTRY ANYMORE,AND ALL OF THIS.SO IT IS JUST FIRST BEING
  • 00:07:46.322 --> 00:07:47.623
  • AND ALL OF THIS.SO IT IS JUST FIRST BEINGHONEST ABOUT IT,
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  • SO IT IS JUST FIRST BEINGHONEST ABOUT IT,AND THEN TO BE OPEN.
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  • HONEST ABOUT IT,AND THEN TO BE OPEN.SOME PEOPLE, IT IS EASIER
  • 00:07:50.459 --> 00:07:52.295
  • AND THEN TO BE OPEN.SOME PEOPLE, IT IS EASIERTO BE ANGRY THAN SAD.
  • 00:07:52.295 --> 00:07:53.429
  • SOME PEOPLE, IT IS EASIERTO BE ANGRY THAN SAD.AND OTHERS, IT IS EASIER
  • 00:07:53.429 --> 00:07:54.997
  • TO BE ANGRY THAN SAD.AND OTHERS, IT IS EASIERTO BE SAD THAN ANGRY.
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  • AND OTHERS, IT IS EASIERTO BE SAD THAN ANGRY.BUT THE GRIEF PROCESS,
  • 00:07:56.799 --> 00:07:58.501
  • TO BE SAD THAN ANGRY.BUT THE GRIEF PROCESS,WHEN WE DEAL WITH THAT
  • 00:07:58.501 --> 00:08:00.303
  • BUT THE GRIEF PROCESS,WHEN WE DEAL WITH THATAND EXPRESS THAT,
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  • WHEN WE DEAL WITH THATAND EXPRESS THAT,THEN I DON'T HAVE TO FEEL
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  • AND EXPRESS THAT,THEN I DON'T HAVE TO FEELFIVE YEARS LATER LIKE
  • 00:08:03.105 --> 00:08:04.740
  • THEN I DON'T HAVE TO FEELFIVE YEARS LATER LIKEIT JUST HAPPENED YESTERDAY.
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  • FIVE YEARS LATER LIKEIT JUST HAPPENED YESTERDAY.AND WE ALL KNOW PEOPLE
  • 00:08:05.942 --> 00:08:07.443
  • IT JUST HAPPENED YESTERDAY.AND WE ALL KNOW PEOPLETHAT HAVE HAD LOSSES AND
  • 00:08:07.443 --> 00:08:08.678
  • AND WE ALL KNOW PEOPLETHAT HAVE HAD LOSSES ANDYOU TALK TO THEM AND IT FEELS
  • 00:08:08.678 --> 00:08:10.913
  • THAT HAVE HAD LOSSES ANDYOU TALK TO THEM AND IT FEELSLIKE MAN, THAT IS SO FRESH
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  • YOU TALK TO THEM AND IT FEELSLIKE MAN, THAT IS SO FRESH-- 30 YEARS AGO.
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  • LIKE MAN, THAT IS SO FRESH-- 30 YEARS AGO.SO THEY'VE GOT
  • 00:08:13.416 --> 00:08:14.750
  • -- 30 YEARS AGO.SO THEY'VE GOTSOME GRIEVING TO DO.
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  • SO THEY'VE GOTSOME GRIEVING TO DO.BUT IF I JUST TELL YOU
  • 00:08:16.719 --> 00:08:18.120
  • SOME GRIEVING TO DO.BUT IF I JUST TELL YOUTHAT HERE ARE PROBLEMS,
  • 00:08:18.120 --> 00:08:19.255
  • BUT IF I JUST TELL YOUTHAT HERE ARE PROBLEMS,UNGRIEVED LOSSES OR LACK
  • 00:08:19.255 --> 00:08:20.756
  • THAT HERE ARE PROBLEMS,UNGRIEVED LOSSES OR LACKOF FORGIVENESS OR PEOPLE
  • 00:08:20.756 --> 00:08:22.158
  • UNGRIEVED LOSSES OR LACKOF FORGIVENESS OR PEOPLEDEALING WITH LUST,
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  • OF FORGIVENESS OR PEOPLEDEALING WITH LUST,IF I JUST TELL YOU ABOUT
  • 00:08:23.392 --> 00:08:24.594
  • DEALING WITH LUST,IF I JUST TELL YOU ABOUTTHE PROBLEM, ALL I DO
  • 00:08:24.594 --> 00:08:26.195
  • IF I JUST TELL YOU ABOUTTHE PROBLEM, ALL I DOIS ADD TO YOUR SHAME
  • 00:08:26.195 --> 00:08:27.897
  • THE PROBLEM, ALL I DOIS ADD TO YOUR SHAMEAND YOUR DISTANCE.
  • 00:08:27.897 --> 00:08:28.965
  • IS ADD TO YOUR SHAMEAND YOUR DISTANCE.BUT WHAT I'VE TRIED TO DO
  • 00:08:28.965 --> 00:08:30.032
  • AND YOUR DISTANCE.BUT WHAT I'VE TRIED TO DOHERE IS SAY, HEY,
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  • BUT WHAT I'VE TRIED TO DOHERE IS SAY, HEY,THERE IS A PATH.
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  • HERE IS SAY, HEY,THERE IS A PATH.AND ONE OF MY FAVORITE
  • 00:08:32.401 --> 00:08:34.403
  • THERE IS A PATH.AND ONE OF MY FAVORITESCRIPTURES IS JEREMIAH 6:16.
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  • AND ONE OF MY FAVORITESCRIPTURES IS JEREMIAH 6:16.AND JEREMIAH SAID,
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  • SCRIPTURES IS JEREMIAH 6:16.AND JEREMIAH SAID,"STOP AT THE CROSSROADS
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  • AND JEREMIAH SAID,"STOP AT THE CROSSROADSAND LOOK AROUND.
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  • "STOP AT THE CROSSROADSAND LOOK AROUND.FIND THE OLD GODLY PATH,
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  • AND LOOK AROUND.FIND THE OLD GODLY PATH,WALK IN THOSE STEPS
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  • FIND THE OLD GODLY PATH,WALK IN THOSE STEPSAND YOU'LL FIND PERFECT PEACE
  • 00:08:45.648 --> 00:08:47.049
  • WALK IN THOSE STEPSAND YOU'LL FIND PERFECT PEACEAND LASTING PEACE."
  • 00:08:47.049 --> 00:08:48.284
  • AND YOU'LL FIND PERFECT PEACEAND LASTING PEACE."WE NEED TO STOP
  • 00:08:48.284 --> 00:08:50.086
  • AND LASTING PEACE."WE NEED TO STOPAND LOOK AROUND.
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  • WE NEED TO STOPAND LOOK AROUND.THAT'S WHAT I'VE TRIED
  • 00:08:51.287 --> 00:08:52.655
  • AND LOOK AROUND.THAT'S WHAT I'VE TRIEDTO HELP SOMEBODY DO TO FIND
  • 00:08:52.655 --> 00:08:53.789
  • THAT'S WHAT I'VE TRIEDTO HELP SOMEBODY DO TO FINDTHE AREAS OF YOUR LIFE
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  • TO HELP SOMEBODY DO TO FINDTHE AREAS OF YOUR LIFETHAT NEED HEALING.
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  • THE AREAS OF YOUR LIFETHAT NEED HEALING.BECAUSE A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE
  • 00:08:56.492 --> 00:08:57.760
  • THAT NEED HEALING.BECAUSE A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVEA LOT OF STUFF FROM
  • 00:08:57.760 --> 00:08:58.828
  • BECAUSE A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVEA LOT OF STUFF FROMCHILDHOOD THEY'VE NEVER
  • 00:08:58.828 --> 00:09:00.096
  • A LOT OF STUFF FROMCHILDHOOD THEY'VE NEVERFULLY HEALED FROM.
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  • CHILDHOOD THEY'VE NEVERFULLY HEALED FROM.AND WE WANT TO SAY,
  • 00:09:01.097 --> 00:09:02.164
  • FULLY HEALED FROM.AND WE WANT TO SAY,"OH WELL, WE'RE CHRISTIANS.
  • 00:09:02.164 --> 00:09:03.332
  • AND WE WANT TO SAY,"OH WELL, WE'RE CHRISTIANS.WE JUST WANT TO MOVE ON."
  • 00:09:03.332 --> 00:09:04.700
  • "OH WELL, WE'RE CHRISTIANS.WE JUST WANT TO MOVE ON."WELL, OKAY, BUT AS YOU'RE
  • 00:09:04.700 --> 00:09:05.835
  • WE JUST WANT TO MOVE ON."WELL, OKAY, BUT AS YOU'REMOVING ON YOU'RE DRAGGING
  • 00:09:05.835 --> 00:09:07.336
  • WELL, OKAY, BUT AS YOU'REMOVING ON YOU'RE DRAGGINGTHAT WITH YOU
  • 00:09:07.336 --> 00:09:08.437
  • MOVING ON YOU'RE DRAGGINGTHAT WITH YOUTHEN YOU NEED TO DEAL
  • 00:09:08.437 --> 00:09:09.572
  • THAT WITH YOUTHEN YOU NEED TO DEALWITH THAT.
  • 00:09:09.572 --> 00:09:10.606
  • THEN YOU NEED TO DEALWITH THAT.Sheila: THE WAY IT'S LAID OUT
  • 00:09:10.606 --> 00:09:11.774
  • WITH THAT.Sheila: THE WAY IT'S LAID OUTHERE THOUGH, I LOVE THIS!
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  • Sheila: THE WAY IT'S LAID OUTHERE THOUGH, I LOVE THIS!I'M GOING TO START USING THIS
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  • HERE THOUGH, I LOVE THIS!I'M GOING TO START USING THISFOR THE NEXT 100 DAYS.
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  • I'M GOING TO START USING THISFOR THE NEXT 100 DAYS.I GUESS YOU THOUGHT
  • 00:09:14.977 --> 00:09:16.178
  • FOR THE NEXT 100 DAYS.I GUESS YOU THOUGHTIT WAS YOUR COPY. NO!
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  • I GUESS YOU THOUGHTIT WAS YOUR COPY. NO!Randy: I'VE GOT MY OWN,
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  • IT WAS YOUR COPY. NO!Randy: I'VE GOT MY OWN,ACTUALLY.
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  • Randy: I'VE GOT MY OWN,ACTUALLY.Sheila: BUT THERE IS
  • 00:09:19.548 --> 00:09:20.616
  • ACTUALLY.Sheila: BUT THERE ISA SCRIPTURE, THERE IS
  • 00:09:20.616 --> 00:09:21.651
  • Sheila: BUT THERE ISA SCRIPTURE, THERE ISA GREAT DEVOTION AND THEN
  • 00:09:21.651 --> 00:09:22.718
  • A SCRIPTURE, THERE ISA GREAT DEVOTION AND THENYOU'VE GOT GREAT QUOTES
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  • A GREAT DEVOTION AND THENYOU'VE GOT GREAT QUOTESFROM LIKE HENRI NOUWEN
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  • YOU'VE GOT GREAT QUOTESFROM LIKE HENRI NOUWENAND RICK WARREN,
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  • FROM LIKE HENRI NOUWENAND RICK WARREN,ALL SORTS OF PEOPLE.
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  • AND RICK WARREN,ALL SORTS OF PEOPLE.THEN FOR FURTHER REFLECTION,
  • 00:09:27.123 --> 00:09:28.224
  • ALL SORTS OF PEOPLE.THEN FOR FURTHER REFLECTION,THIS HAS GOT MEAT IN IT
  • 00:09:28.224 --> 00:09:29.291
  • THEN FOR FURTHER REFLECTION,THIS HAS GOT MEAT IN ITTO ME.
  • 00:09:29.291 --> 00:09:30.292
  • THIS HAS GOT MEAT IN ITTO ME.Steve: AND IT IS REALLY EASY
  • 00:09:30.292 --> 00:09:31.360
  • TO ME.Steve: AND IT IS REALLY EASYTO USE.
  • 00:09:31.360 --> 00:09:32.361
  • Steve: AND IT IS REALLY EASYTO USE.AND THERE IS SCRIPTURE
  • 00:09:32.361 --> 00:09:33.396
  • TO USE.AND THERE IS SCRIPTURETO GO DEEPER.
  • 00:09:33.396 --> 00:09:34.430
  • TO TELL PEOPLE IS
  • 00:09:35.531 --> 00:09:36.932
  • TO TELL PEOPLE ISTHERE IS WORK TO BE DONE.
  • 00:09:36.932 --> 00:09:38.267
  • THERE IS WORK TO BE DONE.AND MY WIFE AND I, AFTER
  • 00:09:38.267 --> 00:09:40.136
  • AND MY WIFE AND I, AFTERWE GOT MARRIED WE DISCOVERED
  • 00:09:40.136 --> 00:09:41.370
  • WE GOT MARRIED WE DISCOVEREDWE HAD A LITTLE DIFFERENCE
  • 00:09:41.370 --> 00:09:42.872
  • IT JUST DIDN'T SEEM TO COME UP
  • 00:09:44.106 --> 00:09:45.574
  • IT JUST DIDN'T SEEM TO COME UPWHILE WE WERE DATING.
  • 00:09:45.574 --> 00:09:47.410
  • IT JUST DIDN'T SEEM TO COME UPWHILE WE WERE DATING.[Laughter]
  • 00:09:47.410 --> 00:09:48.678
  • WHILE WE WERE DATING.[Laughter]IF I WAS A SUPER HERO
  • 00:09:48.678 --> 00:09:50.513
  • [Laughter]IF I WAS A SUPER HEROI WOULD BE BULLET POINT MAN.
  • 00:09:50.513 --> 00:09:52.882
  • IF I WAS A SUPER HEROI WOULD BE BULLET POINT MAN.JUST TELL ME THE FACTS.
  • 00:09:52.882 --> 00:09:54.050
  • I WOULD BE BULLET POINT MAN.JUST TELL ME THE FACTS.Sheila: WOMEN LOVE THAT!
  • 00:09:54.050 --> 00:09:55.251
  • JUST TELL ME THE FACTS.Sheila: WOMEN LOVE THAT!YEAH!
  • 00:09:55.251 --> 00:09:56.419
  • Sheila: WOMEN LOVE THAT!YEAH!Steve: SHE WOULD BE MORE
  • 00:09:56.419 --> 00:09:58.254
  • YEAH!Steve: SHE WOULD BE MOREWONDER WORD WOMAN.
  • 00:09:58.254 --> 00:09:59.388
  • Steve: SHE WOULD BE MOREWONDER WORD WOMAN.AND WHEN SHE COMMUNICATES,
  • 00:09:59.388 --> 00:10:00.456
  • WONDER WORD WOMAN.AND WHEN SHE COMMUNICATES,SHE KIND OF STARTS OVER HERE
  • 00:10:00.456 --> 00:10:01.590
  • AND WHEN SHE COMMUNICATES,SHE KIND OF STARTS OVER HEREWITH A PRELUDE AND IT KIND OF
  • 00:10:01.590 --> 00:10:02.692
  • SHE KIND OF STARTS OVER HEREWITH A PRELUDE AND IT KIND OFBUILDS UP AND THERE IS
  • 00:10:02.692 --> 00:10:03.826
  • WITH A PRELUDE AND IT KIND OFBUILDS UP AND THERE ISA CLIMACTIC MOMENT,
  • 00:10:03.826 --> 00:10:05.194
  • BUILDS UP AND THERE ISA CLIMACTIC MOMENT,AND THEN DIMINUENDO
  • 00:10:05.194 --> 00:10:06.262
  • A CLIMACTIC MOMENT,AND THEN DIMINUENDOAND POSTLUDE.
  • 00:10:06.262 --> 00:10:07.530
  • AND THEN DIMINUENDOAND POSTLUDE.I'M OVER HERE WITH
  • 00:10:07.530 --> 00:10:08.631
  • AND POSTLUDE.I'M OVER HERE WITHATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER
  • 00:10:08.631 --> 00:10:10.866
  • I'M OVER HERE WITHATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDERTRYING TO HOLD ON.
  • 00:10:10.866 --> 00:10:12.401
  • ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDERTRYING TO HOLD ON.[Laughter]
  • 00:10:12.401 --> 00:10:13.836
  • TRYING TO HOLD ON.[Laughter]Randy: I CAN'T RELATE AT ALL.
  • 00:10:13.836 --> 00:10:15.471
  • [Laughter]Randy: I CAN'T RELATE AT ALL.Sheila: NO, NO!
  • 00:10:15.471 --> 00:10:16.872
  • Randy: I CAN'T RELATE AT ALL.Sheila: NO, NO!Steve: SO ONE DAY I WANTED
  • 00:10:16.872 --> 00:10:18.107
  • Sheila: NO, NO!Steve: SO ONE DAY I WANTEDTO TALK TO HER ABOUT THAT.
  • 00:10:18.107 --> 00:10:19.175
  • Steve: SO ONE DAY I WANTEDTO TALK TO HER ABOUT THAT.AND I SAID, "IF THERE IS
  • 00:10:19.175 --> 00:10:20.242
  • TO TALK TO HER ABOUT THAT.AND I SAID, "IF THERE ISANYTHING YOU EVER WANT ME
  • 00:10:20.242 --> 00:10:21.877
  • AND I SAID, "IF THERE ISANYTHING YOU EVER WANT METO WORK ON I'D BE HAPPY TO.
  • 00:10:21.877 --> 00:10:23.045
  • ANYTHING YOU EVER WANT METO WORK ON I'D BE HAPPY TO.BUT THERE IS SOMETHING
  • 00:10:23.045 --> 00:10:24.146
  • TO WORK ON I'D BE HAPPY TO.BUT THERE IS SOMETHINGTHAT'S KIND OF BOTHERING ME."
  • 00:10:24.146 --> 00:10:25.214
  • BUT THERE IS SOMETHINGTHAT'S KIND OF BOTHERING ME."SHE SAID, "OKAY,
  • 00:10:25.214 --> 00:10:26.282
  • THAT'S KIND OF BOTHERING ME."SHE SAID, "OKAY,I'VE GOT SOMETHING."
  • 00:10:26.282 --> 00:10:27.316
  • SHE SAID, "OKAY,I'VE GOT SOMETHING."I SAID, "WHAT?"
  • 00:10:27.316 --> 00:10:28.350
  • I'VE GOT SOMETHING."I SAID, "WHAT?"SHE SAID, "SOMETHING
  • 00:10:28.350 --> 00:10:29.385
  • I SAID, "WHAT?"SHE SAID, "SOMETHINGYOU CAN WORK ON."
  • 00:10:29.385 --> 00:10:30.419
  • SHE SAID, "SOMETHINGYOU CAN WORK ON."I SAID, "WELL, WHAT?"
  • 00:10:30.419 --> 00:10:31.454
  • YOU CAN WORK ON."I SAID, "WELL, WHAT?"SHE SAID, "YOU'VE GOT
  • 00:10:31.454 --> 00:10:32.488
  • I SAID, "WELL, WHAT?"SHE SAID, "YOU'VE GOTTO WORK ON ME NOT NEEDING
  • 00:10:32.488 --> 00:10:33.522
  • SHE SAID, "YOU'VE GOTTO WORK ON ME NOT NEEDINGTO WORK ON ANYTHING."
  • 00:10:33.522 --> 00:10:34.557
  • TO WORK ON ME NOT NEEDINGTO WORK ON ANYTHING."AND SO I SAID, "OKAY.
  • 00:10:34.557 --> 00:10:35.725
  • TO WORK ON ANYTHING."AND SO I SAID, "OKAY.WELL, I'LL DO THAT RIGHT NOW."
  • 00:10:35.725 --> 00:10:36.826
  • AND SO I SAID, "OKAY.WELL, I'LL DO THAT RIGHT NOW."BUT WE STARTED WORKING ON
  • 00:10:36.826 --> 00:10:38.127
  • WELL, I'LL DO THAT RIGHT NOW."BUT WE STARTED WORKING ONOUR CONNECTION.
  • 00:10:38.127 --> 00:10:39.662
  • BUT WE STARTED WORKING ONOUR CONNECTION.I'M GOING TO TELL YOU.
  • 00:10:39.662 --> 00:10:40.696
  • OUR CONNECTION.I'M GOING TO TELL YOU.RATHER THAN JUST SAY,
  • 00:10:40.696 --> 00:10:41.831
  • I'M GOING TO TELL YOU.RATHER THAN JUST SAY,"THIS IS THE WAY I WAS
  • 00:10:41.831 --> 00:10:42.898
  • RATHER THAN JUST SAY,"THIS IS THE WAY I WASBROUGHT UP" OR "THIS IS
  • 00:10:42.898 --> 00:10:45.167
  • "THIS IS THE WAY I WASBROUGHT UP" OR "THIS ISTHE WAY WE ARE" HUMBLE DOWN,
  • 00:10:45.167 --> 00:10:47.369
  • BROUGHT UP" OR "THIS ISTHE WAY WE ARE" HUMBLE DOWN,THAT'S HER TERM, HUMBLE DOWN
  • 00:10:47.369 --> 00:10:49.672
  • THE WAY WE ARE" HUMBLE DOWN,THAT'S HER TERM, HUMBLE DOWNAND COME TOGETHER AS YOU ARE.
  • 00:10:49.672 --> 00:10:50.706
  • THAT'S HER TERM, HUMBLE DOWNAND COME TOGETHER AS YOU ARE.ALL I'VE GOT TO TELL YOU IS
  • 00:10:50.706 --> 00:10:52.475
  • AND COME TOGETHER AS YOU ARE.ALL I'VE GOT TO TELL YOU ISWE'RE HAVING THE BEST DAYS
  • 00:10:52.475 --> 00:10:53.809
  • ALL I'VE GOT TO TELL YOU ISWE'RE HAVING THE BEST DAYS-- THE BEST DAYS OF MY LIFE
  • 00:10:53.809 --> 00:10:55.377
  • WE'RE HAVING THE BEST DAYS-- THE BEST DAYS OF MY LIFEEVER TOGETHER
  • 00:10:55.377 --> 00:10:56.612
  • -- THE BEST DAYS OF MY LIFEEVER TOGETHERAND BEING IN TUNE.
  • 00:10:56.612 --> 00:10:57.913
  • EVER TOGETHERAND BEING IN TUNE.WE SAY IT IS LIKE
  • 00:10:57.913 --> 00:10:59.482
  • AND BEING IN TUNE.WE SAY IT IS LIKEBLUETOOTHING UP HERE;
  • 00:10:59.482 --> 00:11:00.649
  • WE SAY IT IS LIKEBLUETOOTHING UP HERE;THAT'S MY SON'S LITTLE PHRASE
  • 00:11:00.649 --> 00:11:01.984
  • BLUETOOTHING UP HERE;THAT'S MY SON'S LITTLE PHRASEFOR WHAT WE DO.
  • 00:11:01.984 --> 00:11:03.385
  • THAT'S MY SON'S LITTLE PHRASEFOR WHAT WE DO.WE CAN BE ATTUNED TO SOMEBODY,
  • 00:11:03.385 --> 00:11:04.920
  • FOR WHAT WE DO.WE CAN BE ATTUNED TO SOMEBODY,NOT JUST CONNECTED.
  • 00:11:04.920 --> 00:11:06.622
  • WE CAN BE ATTUNED TO SOMEBODY,NOT JUST CONNECTED.AND SO OFTEN WE HEAR ABOUT
  • 00:11:06.622 --> 00:11:08.290
  • NOT JUST CONNECTED.AND SO OFTEN WE HEAR ABOUTHORRIBLE DIVORCE RATES,
  • 00:11:08.290 --> 00:11:11.260
  • AND SO OFTEN WE HEAR ABOUTHORRIBLE DIVORCE RATES,AND I HATE THE FIGURE OF
  • 00:11:11.260 --> 00:11:12.728
  • HORRIBLE DIVORCE RATES,AND I HATE THE FIGURE OFHOW MANY CHRISTIANS ARE
  • 00:11:12.728 --> 00:11:14.463
  • AND I HATE THE FIGURE OFHOW MANY CHRISTIANS AREMARRIED AND MISERABLE.
  • 00:11:14.463 --> 00:11:16.031
  • HOW MANY CHRISTIANS AREMARRIED AND MISERABLE.YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE THAT.
  • 00:11:16.031 --> 00:11:17.533
  • MARRIED AND MISERABLE.YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE THAT.YOU CAN WORK THROUGH THAT.
  • 00:11:17.533 --> 00:11:18.734
  • YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE THAT.YOU CAN WORK THROUGH THAT.THAT'S PART OF
  • 00:11:18.734 --> 00:11:19.902
  • YOU CAN WORK THROUGH THAT.THAT'S PART OFTHE HEALING PROCESS TOO.
  • 00:11:19.902 --> 00:11:21.003
  • THAT'S PART OFTHE HEALING PROCESS TOO.Randy: YEAH, YOU AND
  • 00:11:21.003 --> 00:11:22.037
  • THE HEALING PROCESS TOO.Randy: YEAH, YOU ANDYOUR WIFE WEREN'T ALWAYS
  • 00:11:22.037 --> 00:11:23.038
  • Randy: YEAH, YOU ANDYOUR WIFE WEREN'T ALWAYSBLUETOOTHING IT.
  • 00:11:23.038 --> 00:11:24.106
  • YOUR WIFE WEREN'T ALWAYSBLUETOOTHING IT.YOU GUYS HAD
  • 00:11:24.106 --> 00:11:25.307
  • BLUETOOTHING IT.YOU GUYS HADSOME ROUGH PATCHES.
  • 00:11:25.307 --> 00:11:26.408
  • YOU GUYS HADSOME ROUGH PATCHES.Steve: WE DID!
  • 00:11:26.408 --> 00:11:27.476
  • SOME ROUGH PATCHES.Steve: WE DID!AND IN FACT, WE WERE WITH
  • 00:11:27.476 --> 00:11:28.444
  • Steve: WE DID!AND IN FACT, WE WERE WITHA MARRIAGE COUNSELOR.
  • 00:11:28.444 --> 00:11:29.411
  • AND IN FACT, WE WERE WITHA MARRIAGE COUNSELOR.AND "HOW DO YOU FEEL
  • 00:11:29.411 --> 00:11:30.412
  • A MARRIAGE COUNSELOR.AND "HOW DO YOU FEELABOUT STEVE?"
  • 00:11:30.412 --> 00:11:31.447
  • AND "HOW DO YOU FEELABOUT STEVE?"SHE SAID, "I DON'T FEEL
  • 00:11:31.447 --> 00:11:32.481
  • ABOUT STEVE?"SHE SAID, "I DON'T FEELANYTHING."
  • 00:11:32.481 --> 00:11:33.582
  • SHE SAID, "I DON'T FEELANYTHING."AND SHE SAID TO ME,
  • 00:11:33.582 --> 00:11:34.683
  • ANYTHING."AND SHE SAID TO ME,"HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT HER?"
  • 00:11:34.683 --> 00:11:35.718
  • AND SHE SAID TO ME,"HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT HER?"I SAID, "I DON'T FEEL
  • 00:11:35.718 --> 00:11:36.752
  • "HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT HER?"I SAID, "I DON'T FEELANYTHING EITHER."
  • 00:11:36.752 --> 00:11:37.753
  • I SAID, "I DON'T FEELANYTHING EITHER."AND THIS REALLY SMART
  • 00:11:37.753 --> 00:11:38.754
  • ANYTHING EITHER."AND THIS REALLY SMARTMARRIAGE COUNSELOR GOES,
  • 00:11:38.754 --> 00:11:39.822
  • AND THIS REALLY SMARTMARRIAGE COUNSELOR GOES,"OKAY, WELL, WE'VE GOT
  • 00:11:39.822 --> 00:11:40.823
  • MARRIAGE COUNSELOR GOES,"OKAY, WELL, WE'VE GOTSOMETHING IN COMMON THAT
  • 00:11:40.823 --> 00:11:41.991
  • "OKAY, WELL, WE'VE GOTSOMETHING IN COMMON THATWE CAN WORK ON."
  • 00:11:41.991 --> 00:11:44.426
  • SOMETHING IN COMMON THATWE CAN WORK ON."[Laughter]
  • 00:11:44.426 --> 00:11:45.494
  • WE CAN WORK ON."[Laughter]I MIGHT HAVE A FEW TOO MANY
  • 00:11:45.494 --> 00:11:46.762
  • [Laughter]I MIGHT HAVE A FEW TOO MANYSHOES IN MY CLOSET.
  • 00:11:46.762 --> 00:11:47.830
  • I MIGHT HAVE A FEW TOO MANYSHOES IN MY CLOSET.AND ONE DAY I CAME HOME
  • 00:11:47.830 --> 00:11:49.331
  • SHOES IN MY CLOSET.AND ONE DAY I CAME HOMEFROM A TRIP AND I TOLD HER,
  • 00:11:49.331 --> 00:11:50.533
  • AND ONE DAY I CAME HOMEFROM A TRIP AND I TOLD HER,"I DIDN'T BUY THESE SHOES,
  • 00:11:50.533 --> 00:11:51.867
  • FROM A TRIP AND I TOLD HER,"I DIDN'T BUY THESE SHOES,THEY WERE TOO MUCH MONEY."
  • 00:11:51.867 --> 00:11:53.435
  • "I DIDN'T BUY THESE SHOES,THEY WERE TOO MUCH MONEY."AND THEN THANKSGIVING I WAS
  • 00:11:53.435 --> 00:11:54.904
  • THEY WERE TOO MUCH MONEY."AND THEN THANKSGIVING I WASGOING TO PREACH AND I SAID,
  • 00:11:54.904 --> 00:11:55.938
  • AND THEN THANKSGIVING I WASGOING TO PREACH AND I SAID,"YOU KNOW, I CAN'T GET
  • 00:11:55.938 --> 00:11:57.173
  • GOING TO PREACH AND I SAID,"YOU KNOW, I CAN'T GETTHOSE SHOES OUT OF MY HEAD.
  • 00:11:57.173 --> 00:11:58.407
  • "YOU KNOW, I CAN'T GETTHOSE SHOES OUT OF MY HEAD.DO YOU THINK MAYBE THAT COULD
  • 00:11:58.407 --> 00:11:59.542
  • THOSE SHOES OUT OF MY HEAD.DO YOU THINK MAYBE THAT COULDBE AN EARLY
  • 00:11:59.542 --> 00:12:00.643
  • DO YOU THINK MAYBE THAT COULDBE AN EARLYCHRISTMAS PRESENT?"
  • 00:12:00.643 --> 00:12:01.677
  • BE AN EARLYCHRISTMAS PRESENT?"SHE WALKED OVER TO THE CLOSET,
  • 00:12:01.677 --> 00:12:02.878
  • CHRISTMAS PRESENT?"SHE WALKED OVER TO THE CLOSET,SHE HAD ALREADY ORDERED
  • 00:12:02.878 --> 00:12:03.879
  • SHE WALKED OVER TO THE CLOSET,SHE HAD ALREADY ORDEREDTHOSE SHOES.
  • 00:12:03.879 --> 00:12:05.748
  • SHE HAD ALREADY ORDEREDTHOSE SHOES.SHE HAD THEM THERE FOR ME.
  • 00:12:05.748 --> 00:12:06.949
  • THOSE SHOES.SHE HAD THEM THERE FOR ME.AND THAT'S THE KIND OF
  • 00:12:06.949 --> 00:12:09.118
  • SHE HAD THEM THERE FOR ME.AND THAT'S THE KIND OFPERSON SHE IS.
  • 00:12:09.118 --> 00:12:10.219
  • AND THAT'S THE KIND OFPERSON SHE IS.I'VE GOT TO TELL YOU,
  • 00:12:10.219 --> 00:12:11.453
  • PERSON SHE IS.I'VE GOT TO TELL YOU,THERE WERE TIMES SHE WOULD
  • 00:12:11.453 --> 00:12:12.421
  • I'VE GOT TO TELL YOU,THERE WERE TIMES SHE WOULDHAVE THROWN THE SHOES AT ME
  • 00:12:12.421 --> 00:12:13.422
  • THERE WERE TIMES SHE WOULDHAVE THROWN THE SHOES AT MEBUT SHE WOULD HAVE NEVER
  • 00:12:13.422 --> 00:12:14.523
  • HAVE THROWN THE SHOES AT MEBUT SHE WOULD HAVE NEVERORDERED THEM AND GIVEN THEM
  • 00:12:14.523 --> 00:12:15.825
  • BUT SHE WOULD HAVE NEVERORDERED THEM AND GIVEN THEMTO ME AS A GIFT.
  • 00:12:15.825 --> 00:12:18.761
  • ORDERED THEM AND GIVEN THEMTO ME AS A GIFT.SO I JUST SAY, MAYBE YOU DON'T
  • 00:12:18.761 --> 00:12:19.962
  • TO ME AS A GIFT.SO I JUST SAY, MAYBE YOU DON'THAVE A GOOD TIME
  • 00:12:19.962 --> 00:12:21.163
  • SO I JUST SAY, MAYBE YOU DON'THAVE A GOOD TIMEWITH YOUR SPOUSE.
  • 00:12:21.163 --> 00:12:22.298
  • HAVE A GOOD TIMEWITH YOUR SPOUSE.WE HATED EACH OTHER.
  • 00:12:22.298 --> 00:12:23.399
  • WITH YOUR SPOUSE.WE HATED EACH OTHER.THAT'S WHERE WE WERE
  • 00:12:23.399 --> 00:12:24.466
  • WE HATED EACH OTHER.THAT'S WHERE WE WEREAND WE ARE HAVING
  • 00:12:24.466 --> 00:12:25.534
  • THAT'S WHERE WE WEREAND WE ARE HAVINGTHE BEST DAYS EVER.
  • 00:12:25.534 --> 00:12:27.603
  • AND WE ARE HAVINGTHE BEST DAYS EVER.SO DON'T GIVE UP HOPE
  • 00:12:27.603 --> 00:12:28.671
  • THE BEST DAYS EVER.SO DON'T GIVE UP HOPEAND BE WILLING TO DO
  • 00:12:28.671 --> 00:12:29.805
  • SO DON'T GIVE UP HOPEAND BE WILLING TO DOSOME THINGS THAT MAYBE
  • 00:12:29.805 --> 00:12:30.906
  • AND BE WILLING TO DOSOME THINGS THAT MAYBEYOU NEVER THOUGHT
  • 00:12:30.906 --> 00:12:31.974
  • Sheila: I REALLY THINK
  • 00:12:33.042 --> 00:12:34.143
  • Sheila: I REALLY THINKTHIS BOOK WILL HELP YOU.
  • 00:12:34.143 --> 00:12:35.211
  • Sheila: I REALLY THINKTHIS BOOK WILL HELP YOU.WE'LL TELL YOU HOW TO GET IT
  • 00:12:35.211 --> 00:12:36.278
  • THIS BOOK WILL HELP YOU.WE'LL TELL YOU HOW TO GET ITIN A MINUTE, BUT I WANTED
  • 00:12:36.278 --> 00:12:37.346
  • WE'LL TELL YOU HOW TO GET ITIN A MINUTE, BUT I WANTEDTO ASK YOU, YOU ARE NOW
  • 00:12:37.346 --> 00:12:38.414
  • WHAT'S THE CHURCH?
  • 00:12:39.481 --> 00:12:40.549
  • WHAT'S THE CHURCH?Steve: IT'S CALLED
  • 00:12:40.549 --> 00:12:41.684
  • WHAT'S THE CHURCH?Steve: IT'S CALLEDNORTHVIEW CHURCH IN CARMEL,
  • 00:12:41.684 --> 00:12:44.019
  • Steve: IT'S CALLEDNORTHVIEW CHURCH IN CARMEL,INDIANA; THIRTEEN CAMPUSES,
  • 00:12:44.019 --> 00:12:45.487
  • NORTHVIEW CHURCH IN CARMEL,INDIANA; THIRTEEN CAMPUSES,THIRD FASTEST GROWING CHURCH
  • 00:12:45.487 --> 00:12:46.689
  • INDIANA; THIRTEEN CAMPUSES,THIRD FASTEST GROWING CHURCHIN AMERICA.
  • 00:12:46.689 --> 00:12:47.890
  • THIRD FASTEST GROWING CHURCHIN AMERICA.THREE OF OUR CAMPUSES
  • 00:12:47.890 --> 00:12:50.392
  • IN AMERICA.THREE OF OUR CAMPUSESARE IN INDIANA PRISONS.
  • 00:12:50.392 --> 00:12:54.096
  • THREE OF OUR CAMPUSESARE IN INDIANA PRISONS.I HAVE TO TELL YOU, I DID
  • 00:12:54.096 --> 00:12:55.397
  • YOUR LIFE BACK" AND EVERYBODY
  • 00:12:56.832 --> 00:12:58.300
  • YOUR LIFE BACK" AND EVERYBODYIN THE CHURCH, WE PASSED OUT
  • 00:12:58.300 --> 00:12:59.468
  • IN THE CHURCH, WE PASSED OUTOVER 3.000 COPIES OF
  • 00:12:59.468 --> 00:13:00.636
  • OVER 3.000 COPIES OF"TAKE YOUR LIFE BACK."
  • 00:13:00.636 --> 00:13:02.705
  • AND I SAID, "HOW DID YOU
  • 00:13:04.106 --> 00:13:05.307
  • AND I SAID, "HOW DID YOUEND UP HERE?"
  • 00:13:05.307 --> 00:13:06.508
  • AND I SAID, "HOW DID YOUEND UP HERE?"IT WAS A SEX OFFENDER PRISON.
  • 00:13:06.508 --> 00:13:08.544
  • END UP HERE?"IT WAS A SEX OFFENDER PRISON.HE SAID, HE WAS 26, "I BECAME
  • 00:13:08.544 --> 00:13:10.246
  • IT WAS A SEX OFFENDER PRISON.HE SAID, HE WAS 26, "I BECAMEA CHRISTIAN AND THE NEXT
  • 00:13:10.246 --> 00:13:11.413
  • HE SAID, HE WAS 26, "I BECAMEA CHRISTIAN AND THE NEXTMORNING I WALKED DOWN
  • 00:13:11.413 --> 00:13:12.548
  • A CHRISTIAN AND THE NEXTMORNING I WALKED DOWNTO THE POLICE STATION,
  • 00:13:12.548 --> 00:13:13.782
  • MORNING I WALKED DOWNTO THE POLICE STATION,I TURNED MYSELF IN.
  • 00:13:13.782 --> 00:13:14.884
  • TO THE POLICE STATION,I TURNED MYSELF IN.I HAD BEEN HAVING SEX
  • 00:13:14.884 --> 00:13:16.218
  • I TURNED MYSELF IN.I HAD BEEN HAVING SEXWITH A 12-YEAR OLD GIRL.
  • 00:13:16.218 --> 00:13:17.453
  • I HAD BEEN HAVING SEXWITH A 12-YEAR OLD GIRL.I WAS RAPING
  • 00:13:17.453 --> 00:13:18.621
  • WITH A 12-YEAR OLD GIRL.I WAS RAPINGA 12-YEAR OLD GIRL."
  • 00:13:18.621 --> 00:13:19.755
  • I WAS RAPINGA 12-YEAR OLD GIRL."I SAID, "I DO NOT KNOW
  • 00:13:19.755 --> 00:13:22.124
  • A 12-YEAR OLD GIRL."I SAID, "I DO NOT KNOWOF ANY OTHER CHRISTIAN MAN
  • 00:13:22.124 --> 00:13:23.292
  • I SAID, "I DO NOT KNOWOF ANY OTHER CHRISTIAN MANTHAT WOULD BE THAT BRAVE."
  • 00:13:23.292 --> 00:13:24.693
  • OF ANY OTHER CHRISTIAN MANTHAT WOULD BE THAT BRAVE."HE WAS SERVING AT LEAST
  • 00:13:24.693 --> 00:13:25.895
  • THAT WOULD BE THAT BRAVE."HE WAS SERVING AT LEAST15 YEARS OF
  • 00:13:25.895 --> 00:13:27.663
  • HE WAS SERVING AT LEAST15 YEARS OFA 30-YEAR SENTENCE.
  • 00:13:27.663 --> 00:13:28.931
  • 15 YEARS OFA 30-YEAR SENTENCE.WELL, EVERY MAN'S BATTLE
  • 00:13:28.931 --> 00:13:30.165
  • A 30-YEAR SENTENCE.WELL, EVERY MAN'S BATTLEJUST CAME OUT IN THE
  • 00:13:30.165 --> 00:13:31.567
  • WELL, EVERY MAN'S BATTLEJUST CAME OUT IN THE20th ANNIVERSARY EDITION.
  • 00:13:31.567 --> 00:13:32.935
  • JUST CAME OUT IN THE20th ANNIVERSARY EDITION.Sheila: FANTASTIC BOOK!
  • 00:13:32.935 --> 00:13:34.637
  • 20th ANNIVERSARY EDITION.Sheila: FANTASTIC BOOK!Steve: THAT YOUNG MAN,
  • 00:13:34.637 --> 00:13:35.771
  • Sheila: FANTASTIC BOOK!Steve: THAT YOUNG MAN,HE WANTED TO MAKE
  • 00:13:35.771 --> 00:13:36.906
  • Steve: THAT YOUNG MAN,HE WANTED TO MAKEA CONTRIBUTION.
  • 00:13:36.906 --> 00:13:38.240
  • HE WANTED TO MAKEA CONTRIBUTION.HE TOOK THIS BOOK AND
  • 00:13:38.240 --> 00:13:40.743
  • A CONTRIBUTION.HE TOOK THIS BOOK ANDHE TRANSLATED IT INTO BRAILLE
  • 00:13:40.743 --> 00:13:41.877
  • HE TOOK THIS BOOK ANDHE TRANSLATED IT INTO BRAILLEAND SENT IT TO
  • 00:13:41.877 --> 00:13:43.145
  • HE TRANSLATED IT INTO BRAILLEAND SENT IT TOTHE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS.
  • 00:13:43.145 --> 00:13:44.280
  • AND SENT IT TOTHE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS.AND HIS EDITION IS IN
  • 00:13:44.280 --> 00:13:45.414
  • THE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS.AND HIS EDITION IS INTHE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS,
  • 00:13:45.414 --> 00:13:46.548
  • AND HIS EDITION IS INTHE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS,THE BRAILLE EDITION
  • 00:13:46.548 --> 00:13:48.017
  • THE LIBRARY OF CONGRESS,THE BRAILLE EDITIONOF EVERY MAN'S BATTLE .
  • 00:13:48.017 --> 00:13:49.852
  • THE BRAILLE EDITIONOF EVERY MAN'S BATTLE .IT'S JUST STORIES
  • 00:13:49.852 --> 00:13:52.087
  • OF EVERY MAN'S BATTLE .IT'S JUST STORIESOF WHAT GOD CAN DO.
  • 00:13:52.087 --> 00:13:55.424
  • IT'S JUST STORIESOF WHAT GOD CAN DO.I PREACHED A FEW WEEKS AGO.
  • 00:13:55.424 --> 00:13:57.626
  • OF WHAT GOD CAN DO.I PREACHED A FEW WEEKS AGO.IN OUR CHURCH,
  • 00:13:57.626 --> 00:13:59.261
  • I PREACHED A FEW WEEKS AGO.IN OUR CHURCH,AFTER I PREACHED THAT SUNDAY,
  • 00:13:59.261 --> 00:14:01.597
  • IN OUR CHURCH,AFTER I PREACHED THAT SUNDAY,144 PEOPLE CAME TO CHRIST,
  • 00:14:01.597 --> 00:14:03.465
  • AFTER I PREACHED THAT SUNDAY,144 PEOPLE CAME TO CHRIST,20 OF THEM WERE IN THAT
  • 00:14:03.465 --> 00:14:05.668
  • 144 PEOPLE CAME TO CHRIST,20 OF THEM WERE IN THATSEX OFFENDER PRISON.
  • 00:14:05.668 --> 00:14:08.671
  • 20 OF THEM WERE IN THATSEX OFFENDER PRISON.[Applause]
  • 00:14:08.671 --> 00:14:09.838
  • SEX OFFENDER PRISON.[Applause]Sheila: THAT'S WHAT LIVING
  • 00:14:09.838 --> 00:14:10.839
  • [Applause]Sheila: THAT'S WHAT LIVINGIS ALL ABOUT.
  • 00:14:10.839 --> 00:14:12.107
  • Sheila: THAT'S WHAT LIVINGIS ALL ABOUT.Steve: IT'S THE GREATEST --
  • 00:14:12.107 --> 00:14:13.342
  • IS ALL ABOUT.Steve: IT'S THE GREATEST --YOU KNOW WOMEN OF FAITH,
  • 00:14:13.342 --> 00:14:14.643
  • Steve: IT'S THE GREATEST --YOU KNOW WOMEN OF FAITH,WE HAD 5 MILLION WOMEN COME.
  • 00:14:14.643 --> 00:14:15.811
  • YOU KNOW WOMEN OF FAITH,WE HAD 5 MILLION WOMEN COME.Sheila: STEVE IS THE FOUNDER
  • 00:14:15.811 --> 00:14:16.979
  • WE HAD 5 MILLION WOMEN COME.Sheila: STEVE IS THE FOUNDEROF WOMEN OF FAITH.
  • 00:14:16.979 --> 00:14:18.147
  • Sheila: STEVE IS THE FOUNDEROF WOMEN OF FAITH.THAT GOD WOULD USE YOU
  • 00:14:18.147 --> 00:14:19.248
  • OF WOMEN OF FAITH.THAT GOD WOULD USE YOUIS AMAZING TO TOUCH
  • 00:14:19.248 --> 00:14:20.416
  • THAT GOD WOULD USE YOUIS AMAZING TO TOUCHTHE LIVES...
  • 00:14:20.416 --> 00:14:21.617
  • IS AMAZING TO TOUCHTHE LIVES...Steve: AND HE PICKED YOU.
  • 00:14:21.617 --> 00:14:22.651
  • THE LIVES...Steve: AND HE PICKED YOU.[Laughter]
  • 00:14:22.651 --> 00:14:24.019
  • THE NUMBER THAT A LOT
  • 00:14:25.387 --> 00:14:26.722
  • THE NUMBER THAT A LOTOF PEOPLE... WE HAD
  • 00:14:26.722 --> 00:14:28.157
  • THE NUMBER THAT A LOTOF PEOPLE... WE HADOVER A HALF MILLION WOMEN
  • 00:14:28.157 --> 00:14:29.658
  • OF PEOPLE... WE HADOVER A HALF MILLION WOMENCOME TO CHRIST THROUGH
  • 00:14:29.658 --> 00:14:30.926
  • AND THAT'S REALLY GOOD.
  • 00:14:32.127 --> 00:14:33.829
  • AND THAT'S REALLY GOOD.Randy: NOW, I KNOW THAT WITH
  • 00:14:33.829 --> 00:14:35.764
  • AND THAT'S REALLY GOOD.Randy: NOW, I KNOW THAT WITHTHE REBOOT OF KEN HARRISON'S
  • 00:14:35.764 --> 00:14:37.166
  • Randy: NOW, I KNOW THAT WITHTHE REBOOT OF KEN HARRISON'SPROMISE KEEPERS,
  • 00:14:37.166 --> 00:14:38.334
  • THE REBOOT OF KEN HARRISON'SPROMISE KEEPERS,HE JUST CALLED YOU
  • 00:14:38.334 --> 00:14:39.401
  • PROMISE KEEPERS,HE JUST CALLED YOUAND ASKED YOU TO BE ONE
  • 00:14:39.401 --> 00:14:40.469
  • HE JUST CALLED YOUAND ASKED YOU TO BE ONEOF WHAT, SEVEN SPEAKERS?
  • 00:14:40.469 --> 00:14:41.537
  • AND ASKED YOU TO BE ONEOF WHAT, SEVEN SPEAKERS?Steve: SEVEN SPEAKERS
  • 00:14:41.537 --> 00:14:42.604
  • OF WHAT, SEVEN SPEAKERS?Steve: SEVEN SPEAKERSAND I'M GETTING TO DO
  • 00:14:42.604 --> 00:14:44.206
  • Steve: SEVEN SPEAKERSAND I'M GETTING TO DOTHE ONE ON INTEGRITY.
  • 00:14:44.206 --> 00:14:45.975
  • WE'RE GOING TO BE IN DALLAS
  • 00:14:47.343 --> 00:14:49.011
  • WE'RE GOING TO BE IN DALLASJULY 31st, AUGUST THE 1st,
  • 00:14:49.011 --> 00:14:50.913
  • JULY 31st, AUGUST THE 1st,THE BIG STADIUM HERE.
  • 00:14:50.913 --> 00:14:52.214
  • THE BIG STADIUM HERE.Sheila: COWBOY'S STADIUM.
  • 00:14:52.214 --> 00:14:53.449
  • Sheila: COWBOY'S STADIUM.WHOA!
  • 00:14:53.449 --> 00:14:54.550
  • WHOA!Randy: WHAT'S YOUR MESSAGE
  • 00:14:54.550 --> 00:14:55.651
  • Randy: WHAT'S YOUR MESSAGETHAT DAY?
  • 00:14:55.651 --> 00:14:56.685
  • THAT DAY?Steve: WELL, I'M GOING
  • 00:14:56.685 --> 00:14:57.886
  • Steve: WELL, I'M GOINGTO TALK ABOUT TWO THINGS:
  • 00:14:57.886 --> 00:14:59.254
  • TO TALK ABOUT TWO THINGS:ABORTION AND PORNOGRAPHY.
  • 00:14:59.254 --> 00:15:00.589
  • ABORTION AND PORNOGRAPHY.THEY REALLY GO TOGETHER.
  • 00:15:00.589 --> 00:15:02.191
  • THEY REALLY GO TOGETHER.BECAUSE I WAS EXPOSED
  • 00:15:02.191 --> 00:15:04.126
  • BECAUSE I WAS EXPOSEDTO PORNOGRAPHY AT FOUR
  • 00:15:04.126 --> 00:15:05.227
  • TO OBJECTIFY WOMEN.
  • 00:15:06.962 --> 00:15:08.831
  • TO OBJECTIFY WOMEN.AND WHEN YOU OBJECTIFY
  • 00:15:08.831 --> 00:15:10.466
  • TO OBJECTIFY WOMEN.AND WHEN YOU OBJECTIFYA WOMAN, WHEN SHE IS PREGNANT
  • 00:15:10.466 --> 00:15:12.267
  • AND WHEN YOU OBJECTIFYA WOMAN, WHEN SHE IS PREGNANTIT IS JUST ANOTHER OBJECT
  • 00:15:12.267 --> 00:15:13.635
  • A WOMAN, WHEN SHE IS PREGNANTIT IS JUST ANOTHER OBJECTTHERE.
  • 00:15:13.635 --> 00:15:15.371
  • IT IS JUST ANOTHER OBJECTTHERE.THEY'VE ASKED ME TO BRING MEN
  • 00:15:15.371 --> 00:15:16.805
  • THERE.THEY'VE ASKED ME TO BRING MENTO REPENTANCE OVER BEING
  • 00:15:16.805 --> 00:15:18.407
  • THEY'VE ASKED ME TO BRING MENTO REPENTANCE OVER BEINGPART OF AN ABORTION,
  • 00:15:18.407 --> 00:15:20.275
  • TO REPENTANCE OVER BEINGPART OF AN ABORTION,AND THEN SECONDLY, HELP THEM
  • 00:15:20.275 --> 00:15:22.111
  • PART OF AN ABORTION,AND THEN SECONDLY, HELP THEMTO MAKE GOD'S STANDARD,
  • 00:15:22.111 --> 00:15:23.379
  • AND THEN SECONDLY, HELP THEMTO MAKE GOD'S STANDARD,THE STANDARD OF PURITY
  • 00:15:23.379 --> 00:15:24.680
  • TO MAKE GOD'S STANDARD,THE STANDARD OF PURITYTHEIR STANDARD FOR
  • 00:15:24.680 --> 00:15:27.016
  • THE STANDARD OF PURITYTHEIR STANDARD FORTHEIR THOUGHT LIFE.
  • 00:15:27.016 --> 00:15:29.351
  • THEIR STANDARD FORTHEIR THOUGHT LIFE.AND REALLY, I'M SO LOOKING
  • 00:15:29.351 --> 00:15:31.754
  • THEIR THOUGHT LIFE.AND REALLY, I'M SO LOOKINGFORWARD TO THAT DAY BECAUSE
  • 00:15:31.754 --> 00:15:33.956
  • AND REALLY, I'M SO LOOKINGFORWARD TO THAT DAY BECAUSEEVERY TIME I GIVE MEN
  • 00:15:33.956 --> 00:15:35.657
  • FORWARD TO THAT DAY BECAUSEEVERY TIME I GIVE MENA CHANCE, NOT JUST TO FEEL
  • 00:15:35.657 --> 00:15:36.792
  • EVERY TIME I GIVE MENA CHANCE, NOT JUST TO FEELBAD ABOUT THEMSELVES,
  • 00:15:36.792 --> 00:15:38.127
  • A CHANCE, NOT JUST TO FEELBAD ABOUT THEMSELVES,BUT HERE'S THE PATH
  • 00:15:38.127 --> 00:15:39.862
  • BAD ABOUT THEMSELVES,BUT HERE'S THE PATHTO REDEMPTION, WE GET TO SEE
  • 00:15:39.862 --> 00:15:41.397
  • Randy: CAN I ASK YOU
  • 00:15:42.498 --> 00:15:43.799
  • Randy: CAN I ASK YOUABOUT THAT?
  • 00:15:43.799 --> 00:15:44.900
  • ABOUT THAT?BECAUSE WHEN WE DEAL WITH
  • 00:15:44.900 --> 00:15:46.001
  • BECAUSE WHEN WE DEAL WITHSOME OF THESE ISSUES,
  • 00:15:46.001 --> 00:15:47.803
  • SOME OF THESE ISSUES,ESPECIALLY LIKE PORNOGRAPHY,
  • 00:15:47.803 --> 00:15:49.038
  • ABOUT IT A LOT OF TIMES
  • 00:15:50.105 --> 00:15:53.575
  • ABOUT IT A LOT OF TIMESAND IT ALMOST, IN A WEIRD WAY
  • 00:15:53.575 --> 00:15:54.710
  • ABOUT IT A LOT OF TIMESAND IT ALMOST, IN A WEIRD WAYBECOMES MORE OF A PROBLEM
  • 00:15:54.710 --> 00:15:55.744
  • AND IT ALMOST, IN A WEIRD WAYBECOMES MORE OF A PROBLEMBECAUSE WE ARE FOCUSED
  • 00:15:55.744 --> 00:15:56.779
  • BECOMES MORE OF A PROBLEMBECAUSE WE ARE FOCUSEDON THE PROBLEM ALL THE TIME
  • 00:15:56.779 --> 00:15:57.813
  • BECAUSE WE ARE FOCUSEDON THE PROBLEM ALL THE TIMEAND DON'T DO THIS,
  • 00:15:57.813 --> 00:15:58.847
  • ON THE PROBLEM ALL THE TIMEAND DON'T DO THIS,DON'T DO THIS, DON'T DO THIS
  • 00:15:58.847 --> 00:15:59.882
  • AND DON'T DO THIS,DON'T DO THIS, DON'T DO THIS-- AND NOW THAT'S ALL
  • 00:15:59.882 --> 00:16:01.216
  • DON'T DO THIS, DON'T DO THIS-- AND NOW THAT'S ALLYOU'RE THINKING ABOUT.
  • 00:16:01.216 --> 00:16:02.584
  • -- AND NOW THAT'S ALLYOU'RE THINKING ABOUT.WHAT'S THE PATH TO HEALING
  • 00:16:02.584 --> 00:16:03.919
  • YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT.WHAT'S THE PATH TO HEALINGTO WHERE THAT IS NOT EVEN
  • 00:16:03.919 --> 00:16:05.988
  • WHAT'S THE PATH TO HEALINGTO WHERE THAT IS NOT EVENAN ISSUE ON YOUR MIND,
  • 00:16:05.988 --> 00:16:07.556
  • TO WHERE THAT IS NOT EVENAN ISSUE ON YOUR MIND,IN YOUR LIFE, AND YOU'RE
  • 00:16:07.556 --> 00:16:10.192
  • AN ISSUE ON YOUR MIND,IN YOUR LIFE, AND YOU'REREALLY HEALED FROM PORNOGRAPHY
  • 00:16:10.192 --> 00:16:12.861
  • IN YOUR LIFE, AND YOU'REREALLY HEALED FROM PORNOGRAPHYOR THE PAIN OF ABORTION?
  • 00:16:12.861 --> 00:16:14.530
  • REALLY HEALED FROM PORNOGRAPHYOR THE PAIN OF ABORTION?Steve: YOU GO FROM WANTING TO
  • 00:16:14.530 --> 00:16:16.865
  • AS IT SAYS IN 2 TIMOTHY 2:22
  • 00:16:19.868 --> 00:16:21.770
  • AS IT SAYS IN 2 TIMOTHY 2:22TO YOU WANT TO PROTECT
  • 00:16:21.770 --> 00:16:22.971
  • TO YOU WANT TO PROTECTYOURSELF, YOUR MARRIAGE,
  • 00:16:22.971 --> 00:16:26.208
  • AND SO YOU START TO ASK
  • 00:16:27.209 --> 00:16:29.878
  • AND SO YOU START TO ASKA QUESTION, IS IT PURE?
  • 00:16:29.878 --> 00:16:31.647
  • AND SO YOU START TO ASKA QUESTION, IS IT PURE?AND THE STANDARD THAT JOB
  • 00:16:31.647 --> 00:16:33.248
  • A QUESTION, IS IT PURE?AND THE STANDARD THAT JOBSET FOR US IS NOT TO HAVE
  • 00:16:33.248 --> 00:16:35.717
  • AND THE STANDARD THAT JOBSET FOR US IS NOT TO HAVEA HINT OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY
  • 00:16:35.717 --> 00:16:37.453
  • SET FOR US IS NOT TO HAVEA HINT OF SEXUAL IMMORALITYIN YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:16:37.453 --> 00:16:39.888
  • A HINT OF SEXUAL IMMORALITYIN YOUR LIFE.WHEN YOU FINALLY GET YOUR LIFE
  • 00:16:39.888 --> 00:16:41.023
  • IN YOUR LIFE.WHEN YOU FINALLY GET YOUR LIFECLEANED UP AND YOU'VE
  • 00:16:41.023 --> 00:16:42.257
  • WHEN YOU FINALLY GET YOUR LIFECLEANED UP AND YOU'VECONFESSED YOUR SINS AND
  • 00:16:42.257 --> 00:16:43.459
  • CLEANED UP AND YOU'VECONFESSED YOUR SINS ANDYOU'RE STARTING TO PUT
  • 00:16:43.459 --> 00:16:44.660
  • CONFESSED YOUR SINS ANDYOU'RE STARTING TO PUTGOOD THINGS IN YOUR MIND,
  • 00:16:44.660 --> 00:16:45.994
  • YOU'RE STARTING TO PUTGOOD THINGS IN YOUR MIND,NOT THE OTHER, THEN YOU'RE
  • 00:16:45.994 --> 00:16:48.430
  • GOOD THINGS IN YOUR MIND,NOT THE OTHER, THEN YOU'REIN A PRESERVATION PROCESS.
  • 00:16:48.430 --> 00:16:49.965
  • NOT THE OTHER, THEN YOU'REIN A PRESERVATION PROCESS.IT'S JUST THE OPPOSITE.
  • 00:16:49.965 --> 00:16:51.233
  • IN A PRESERVATION PROCESS.IT'S JUST THE OPPOSITE.YOU'RE SAYING, "NO!
  • 00:16:51.233 --> 00:16:52.434
  • IT'S JUST THE OPPOSITE.YOU'RE SAYING, "NO!I DON'T WANT TO LOOK AT THAT
  • 00:16:52.434 --> 00:16:53.669
  • YOU'RE SAYING, "NO!I DON'T WANT TO LOOK AT THATBECAUSE I DON'T WANT
  • 00:16:53.669 --> 00:16:54.837
  • I DON'T WANT TO LOOK AT THATBECAUSE I DON'T WANTTO MESS THIS UP.
  • 00:16:54.837 --> 00:16:55.971
  • BECAUSE I DON'T WANTTO MESS THIS UP.I WANT TO HONOR MY WIFE
  • 00:16:55.971 --> 00:16:57.206
  • TO MESS THIS UP.I WANT TO HONOR MY WIFEOR MY FUTURE WIFE OR JUST
  • 00:16:57.206 --> 00:16:59.174
  • I WANT TO HONOR MY WIFEOR MY FUTURE WIFE OR JUSTHONOR ME BEING A SINGLE."
  • 00:16:59.174 --> 00:17:00.409
  • OR MY FUTURE WIFE OR JUSTHONOR ME BEING A SINGLE."AND YOU KNOW MY WIFE
  • 00:17:00.409 --> 00:17:01.743
  • HONOR ME BEING A SINGLE."AND YOU KNOW MY WIFEFACILITATES A GROUP FOR WOMEN
  • 00:17:01.743 --> 00:17:03.045
  • AND YOU KNOW MY WIFEFACILITATES A GROUP FOR WOMENWHO STRUGGLE WITH PORNOGRAPHY
  • 00:17:03.045 --> 00:17:04.580
  • FACILITATES A GROUP FOR WOMENWHO STRUGGLE WITH PORNOGRAPHYAND LUST AND OTHER THINGS
  • 00:17:04.580 --> 00:17:05.881
  • WHO STRUGGLE WITH PORNOGRAPHYAND LUST AND OTHER THINGSAND IT IS THE SAME BATTLE.
  • 00:17:05.881 --> 00:17:07.082
  • AND LUST AND OTHER THINGSAND IT IS THE SAME BATTLE.IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT
  • 00:17:07.082 --> 00:17:08.884
  • AND IT IS THE SAME BATTLE.IT DOESN'T MATTER WHATYOUR SEX OR GENDER IS.
  • 00:17:08.884 --> 00:17:10.853
  • IT DOESN'T MATTER WHATYOUR SEX OR GENDER IS.BUT GOD HAS CALLED US
  • 00:17:10.853 --> 00:17:12.554
  • YOUR SEX OR GENDER IS.BUT GOD HAS CALLED USTO PUT A FOUNDATION OF TRUTH,
  • 00:17:12.554 --> 00:17:14.022
  • BUT GOD HAS CALLED USTO PUT A FOUNDATION OF TRUTH,NOT FEELINGS, AND THEN
  • 00:17:14.022 --> 00:17:16.391
  • TO PUT A FOUNDATION OF TRUTH,NOT FEELINGS, AND THENTHE STANDARD OF PURITY.
  • 00:17:16.391 --> 00:17:19.027
  • NOT FEELINGS, AND THENTHE STANDARD OF PURITY.IF IT'S PURE IT'S GOING
  • 00:17:19.027 --> 00:17:21.029
  • THE STANDARD OF PURITY.IF IT'S PURE IT'S GOINGTO INCREASE OUR RELATIONSHIP
  • 00:17:21.029 --> 00:17:22.531
  • IF IT'S PURE IT'S GOINGTO INCREASE OUR RELATIONSHIPIN DEPTH WITH EACH OTHER
  • 00:17:22.531 --> 00:17:23.599
  • TO INCREASE OUR RELATIONSHIPIN DEPTH WITH EACH OTHERAND WITH GOD.
  • 00:17:23.599 --> 00:17:24.700
  • IN DEPTH WITH EACH OTHERAND WITH GOD.IF IT'S NOT, IT'S GOING
  • 00:17:24.700 --> 00:17:26.235
  • AND WITH GOD.IF IT'S NOT, IT'S GOINGTO ERODE IT LITTLE BY LITTLE.
  • 00:17:26.235 --> 00:17:27.402
  • IT IS TIME TO SHINE
  • 00:17:28.470 --> 00:17:29.671
  • IT IS TIME TO SHINETHE BRIGHTEST LIGHT INTO
  • 00:17:29.671 --> 00:17:30.772
  • THE BRIGHTEST LIGHT INTOTHE DARKEST CORNERS
  • 00:17:30.772 --> 00:17:31.907
  • THE DARKEST CORNERSOF THE CHURCH.
  • 00:17:31.907 --> 00:17:32.941
  • OF THE CHURCH.WE SHOULD BE THE PEOPLE
  • 00:17:32.941 --> 00:17:33.942
  • ABOUT ANYTHING.
  • 00:17:35.010 --> 00:17:36.211
  • ABOUT ANYTHING.Steve: I WAS AT A PASTOR'S
  • 00:17:36.211 --> 00:17:37.346
  • ABOUT ANYTHING.Steve: I WAS AT A PASTOR'SAPPRECIATION CONFERENCE
  • 00:17:37.346 --> 00:17:38.514
  • Steve: I WAS AT A PASTOR'SAPPRECIATION CONFERENCEAND I WAS SPEAKING.
  • 00:17:38.514 --> 00:17:39.681
  • APPRECIATION CONFERENCEAND I WAS SPEAKING.AND I SAID TO THE GUY
  • 00:17:39.681 --> 00:17:40.716
  • AND I WAS SPEAKING.AND I SAID TO THE GUYTHAT STARTED IT,
  • 00:17:40.716 --> 00:17:41.750
  • AND I SAID TO THE GUYTHAT STARTED IT,"WHAT'S THE PROBLEM?"
  • 00:17:41.750 --> 00:17:42.784
  • THAT STARTED IT,"WHAT'S THE PROBLEM?""OH THEY DON'T WANT
  • 00:17:42.784 --> 00:17:43.819
  • "WHAT'S THE PROBLEM?""OH THEY DON'T WANTTO OFFEND ANYBODY,
  • 00:17:43.819 --> 00:17:44.853
  • "OH THEY DON'T WANTTO OFFEND ANYBODY,THEY'RE CHURCHES."
  • 00:17:44.853 --> 00:17:45.888
  • TO OFFEND ANYBODY,THEY'RE CHURCHES."I SAID, "WE'RE THE THIRD
  • 00:17:45.888 --> 00:17:46.922
  • THEY'RE CHURCHES."I SAID, "WE'RE THE THIRDFASTEST GROWING CHURCH
  • 00:17:46.922 --> 00:17:47.956
  • I SAID, "WE'RE THE THIRDFASTEST GROWING CHURCHAND BECAUSE OF OUR PASTOR
  • 00:17:47.956 --> 00:17:48.991
  • FASTEST GROWING CHURCHAND BECAUSE OF OUR PASTORSTEVE POE, WE ADDRESS
  • 00:17:48.991 --> 00:17:50.726
  • AND BECAUSE OF OUR PASTORSTEVE POE, WE ADDRESSTHE TOUGH ISSUES OF ABORTION,
  • 00:17:50.726 --> 00:17:52.094
  • STEVE POE, WE ADDRESSTHE TOUGH ISSUES OF ABORTION,DIVORCE HEAD ON.
  • 00:17:52.094 --> 00:17:55.564
  • THE TOUGH ISSUES OF ABORTION,DIVORCE HEAD ON.THAT'S HOW WE GROW SO MUCH.
  • 00:17:55.564 --> 00:17:56.865
  • DIVORCE HEAD ON.THAT'S HOW WE GROW SO MUCH.AND SO I JUST WANT
  • 00:17:56.865 --> 00:17:58.133
  • THAT'S HOW WE GROW SO MUCH.AND SO I JUST WANTTO ENCOURAGE PEOPLE TO
  • 00:17:58.133 --> 00:18:01.236
  • AND SO I JUST WANTTO ENCOURAGE PEOPLE TODON'T COVER UP, DON'T HIDE.
  • 00:18:01.236 --> 00:18:02.371
  • TO ENCOURAGE PEOPLE TODON'T COVER UP, DON'T HIDE.WELL, FIRST OF ALL,
  • 00:18:02.371 --> 00:18:03.472
  • DON'T COVER UP, DON'T HIDE.WELL, FIRST OF ALL,IF YOU'RE IN A CHURCH,
  • 00:18:03.472 --> 00:18:04.640
  • WELL, FIRST OF ALL,IF YOU'RE IN A CHURCH,MAKE IT A CHURCH WHERE PEOPLE
  • 00:18:04.640 --> 00:18:06.942
  • IF YOU'RE IN A CHURCH,MAKE IT A CHURCH WHERE PEOPLEFEEL GOD'S RICH IN MERCY.
  • 00:18:06.942 --> 00:18:08.177
  • MAKE IT A CHURCH WHERE PEOPLEFEEL GOD'S RICH IN MERCY.BE SURE YOUR CHURCH
  • 00:18:08.177 --> 00:18:09.978
  • FEEL GOD'S RICH IN MERCY.BE SURE YOUR CHURCHIS RICH IN MERCY AND
  • 00:18:09.978 --> 00:18:11.446
  • BE SURE YOUR CHURCHIS RICH IN MERCY ANDDO SOMETHING HEALING,
  • 00:18:11.446 --> 00:18:12.681
  • IS RICH IN MERCY ANDDO SOMETHING HEALING,LIKE TAKE SOME GUYS
  • 00:18:12.681 --> 00:18:14.049
  • DO SOMETHING HEALING,LIKE TAKE SOME GUYSTO PROMISE KEEPERS.
  • 00:18:14.049 --> 00:18:15.551
  • LIKE TAKE SOME GUYSTO PROMISE KEEPERS.OR WE DO EVERY MAN'S BATTLE
  • 00:18:15.551 --> 00:18:17.019
  • TO PROMISE KEEPERS.OR WE DO EVERY MAN'S BATTLEWORKSHOP.
  • 00:18:17.019 --> 00:18:19.755
  • OR WE DO EVERY MAN'S BATTLEWORKSHOP.COME, GET YOUR ACT TOGETHER.
  • 00:18:19.755 --> 00:18:21.123
  • WORKSHOP.COME, GET YOUR ACT TOGETHER.DON'T JUST SIT THERE
  • 00:18:21.123 --> 00:18:22.724
  • COME, GET YOUR ACT TOGETHER.DON'T JUST SIT THEREAND BE MEDIOCRE.
  • 00:18:22.724 --> 00:18:24.660
  • DON'T JUST SIT THEREAND BE MEDIOCRE.THEY'LL PUT ON YOUR TOMBSTONE,
  • 00:18:24.660 --> 00:18:26.161
  • AND BE MEDIOCRE.THEY'LL PUT ON YOUR TOMBSTONE,"ALMOST!"
  • 00:18:26.161 --> 00:18:27.362
  • THEY'LL PUT ON YOUR TOMBSTONE,"ALMOST!"OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
  • 00:18:27.362 --> 00:18:28.530
  • "ALMOST!"OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT.YOU DON'T WANT THAT.
  • 00:18:28.530 --> 00:18:29.665
  • OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT.YOU DON'T WANT THAT.YOU WANT TO LIVE THE LIFE
  • 00:18:29.665 --> 00:18:30.732
  • YOU DON'T WANT THAT.YOU WANT TO LIVE THE LIFETHAT GOD'S CALLED YOU.
  • 00:18:30.732 --> 00:18:31.800
  • YOU WANT TO LIVE THE LIFETHAT GOD'S CALLED YOU.Randy: I THINK THAT IS
  • 00:18:31.800 --> 00:18:32.868
  • THAT GOD'S CALLED YOU.Randy: I THINK THAT ISA STRONG POINT.
  • 00:18:32.868 --> 00:18:34.236
  • Randy: I THINK THAT ISA STRONG POINT.I WANT TO ASK YOU PERSONALLY,
  • 00:18:34.236 --> 00:18:35.637
  • A STRONG POINT.I WANT TO ASK YOU PERSONALLY,YOU HAVE HELPED OTHER MEN
  • 00:18:35.637 --> 00:18:36.872
  • I WANT TO ASK YOU PERSONALLY,YOU HAVE HELPED OTHER MENIN THEIR BATTLES,
  • 00:18:36.872 --> 00:18:37.973
  • YOU HAVE HELPED OTHER MENIN THEIR BATTLES,YOU HAVE HELPED PEOPLE
  • 00:18:37.973 --> 00:18:39.208
  • IN THEIR BATTLES,YOU HAVE HELPED PEOPLEFIND HEALING, HOW MUCH
  • 00:18:39.208 --> 00:18:40.676
  • YOU HAVE HELPED PEOPLEFIND HEALING, HOW MUCHIS HELPING OTHERS BEEN
  • 00:18:40.676 --> 00:18:42.244
  • FIND HEALING, HOW MUCHIS HELPING OTHERS BEENA PART OF YOUR HEALING?
  • 00:18:42.244 --> 00:18:45.314
  • IS HELPING OTHERS BEENA PART OF YOUR HEALING?Steve: OH MY GOODNESS.
  • 00:18:45.314 --> 00:18:47.449
  • A PART OF YOUR HEALING?Steve: OH MY GOODNESS.EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE BEEN
  • 00:18:47.449 --> 00:18:49.117
  • Steve: OH MY GOODNESS.EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE BEENTHROUGH, WHETHER IT WAS
  • 00:18:49.117 --> 00:18:51.253
  • EVERYTHING THAT I HAVE BEENTHROUGH, WHETHER IT WASPAYING FOR AN ABORTION
  • 00:18:51.253 --> 00:18:53.422
  • THROUGH, WHETHER IT WASPAYING FOR AN ABORTIONOR A DIVORCE OR SOMETHING,
  • 00:18:53.422 --> 00:18:54.690
  • PAYING FOR AN ABORTIONOR A DIVORCE OR SOMETHING,WHEN I WAS IN SEMINARY
  • 00:18:54.690 --> 00:18:56.091
  • OR A DIVORCE OR SOMETHING,WHEN I WAS IN SEMINARYIN FORT WORTH I FELT LIKE
  • 00:18:56.091 --> 00:18:57.426
  • WHEN I WAS IN SEMINARYIN FORT WORTH I FELT LIKEGOD WAS CALLING ME
  • 00:18:57.426 --> 00:18:58.727
  • IN FORT WORTH I FELT LIKEGOD WAS CALLING METO BE A REVEALER.
  • 00:18:58.727 --> 00:18:59.928
  • GOD WAS CALLING METO BE A REVEALER.I DIDN'T REALLY KNOW
  • 00:18:59.928 --> 00:19:01.597
  • TO BE A REVEALER.I DIDN'T REALLY KNOWWHAT THAT MEANT BUT I'VE
  • 00:19:01.597 --> 00:19:03.765
  • I DIDN'T REALLY KNOWWHAT THAT MEANT BUT I'VEALWAYS BEEN OPEN ABOUT IT.
  • 00:19:03.765 --> 00:19:05.167
  • WHAT THAT MEANT BUT I'VEALWAYS BEEN OPEN ABOUT IT.THEN WHEN SOMEONE ELSE
  • 00:19:05.167 --> 00:19:06.668
  • ALWAYS BEEN OPEN ABOUT IT.THEN WHEN SOMEONE ELSECAME TO ME AND SAID, "BECAUSE
  • 00:19:06.668 --> 00:19:09.471
  • THEN WHEN SOMEONE ELSECAME TO ME AND SAID, "BECAUSEYOU TALKED ABOUT THAT,
  • 00:19:09.471 --> 00:19:12.441
  • CAME TO ME AND SAID, "BECAUSEYOU TALKED ABOUT THAT,I WAS ABLE TO DEAL WITH IT"
  • 00:19:12.441 --> 00:19:14.876
  • YOU TALKED ABOUT THAT,I WAS ABLE TO DEAL WITH IT"MY HEALING CONTINUES.
  • 00:19:14.876 --> 00:19:17.346
  • I WAS ABLE TO DEAL WITH IT"MY HEALING CONTINUES.I WILL NEVER STOP BEING AMAZED
  • 00:19:17.346 --> 00:19:18.714
  • MY HEALING CONTINUES.I WILL NEVER STOP BEING AMAZEDAT WHAT GOD CAN DO
  • 00:19:18.714 --> 00:19:20.215
  • I WILL NEVER STOP BEING AMAZEDAT WHAT GOD CAN DOWITH BROKENNESS.
  • 00:19:20.215 --> 00:19:22.684
  • AT WHAT GOD CAN DOWITH BROKENNESS.I'M SO GRATEFUL THAT HE HAS.
  • 00:19:22.684 --> 00:19:24.353
  • WITH BROKENNESS.I'M SO GRATEFUL THAT HE HAS.HE'S A GREAT REDEEMER
  • 00:19:24.353 --> 00:19:25.554
  • I'M SO GRATEFUL THAT HE HAS.HE'S A GREAT REDEEMERAND A GREAT HEALER.
  • 00:19:25.554 --> 00:19:26.622
  • HE'S A GREAT REDEEMERAND A GREAT HEALER.Sheila: YES, HE IS!
  • 00:19:26.622 --> 00:19:27.689
  • AND A GREAT HEALER.Sheila: YES, HE IS!AND THIS BOOK, 100 DAYS
  • 00:19:27.689 --> 00:19:28.790
  • Sheila: YES, HE IS!AND THIS BOOK, 100 DAYSOF HEALING , I'M SERIOUS,
  • 00:19:28.790 --> 00:19:29.925
  • AND THIS BOOK, 100 DAYSOF HEALING , I'M SERIOUS,I LOVE THIS BOOK.
  • 00:19:29.925 --> 00:19:31.026
  • OF HEALING , I'M SERIOUS,I LOVE THIS BOOK.ITS REALLY GOING TO HELP YOU.
  • 00:19:31.026 --> 00:19:32.160
  • I LOVE THIS BOOK.ITS REALLY GOING TO HELP YOU.WE'LL TELL YOU HOW YOU CAN
  • 00:19:32.160 --> 00:19:33.462
  • BUT FIRST OF ALL, WE WANT
  • 00:19:34.896 --> 00:19:35.998
  • TO TAKE YOU TO A PLACE WHERE
  • 00:19:35.998 --> 00:19:37.165
  • RANDY AND I HAVE BOTH BEEN
  • 00:19:37.165 --> 00:19:38.233
  • AND SHOW YOU WHERE
  • 00:19:38.233 --> 00:19:39.301
  • THERE IS SOME REAL NEEDS
  • 00:19:39.301 --> 00:19:40.435
  • FOR SOME REAL HEALING
  • 00:19:40.435 --> 00:19:41.503
  • IN DIFFERENT WAYS.
  • 00:19:41.503 --> 00:19:42.738
  • WE HAVE MADE A COMMITMENT
  • 00:19:42.738 --> 00:19:44.006
  • HERE AT LIFE OUTREACH
  • 00:19:44.006 --> 00:19:45.407
  • TO CONTINUE TO FEED
  • 00:19:45.407 --> 00:19:49.111
  • 350.000 CHILDREN.
  • 00:19:49.111 --> 00:19:50.612
  • I REMEMBER BETTY'S PRAYER,
  • 00:19:50.612 --> 00:19:51.813
  • I'LL NEVER FORGET HER PRAYER:
  • 00:19:51.813 --> 00:19:53.181
  • NEVER LET THE LINE
  • 00:19:53.181 --> 00:19:54.583
  • OF CHILDREN WAITING
  • 00:19:54.583 --> 00:19:55.851
  • WITH THAT LITTLE RED BOWL
  • 00:19:55.851 --> 00:19:57.219
  • FOR A MEAL,
  • 00:19:57.219 --> 00:19:58.620
  • NEVER LET THE LINE BE LONGER
  • 00:19:58.620 --> 00:19:59.955
  • THAN THE FOOD
  • 00:19:59.955 --> 00:20:01.156
  • WE HAVE TO GIVE THEM.
  • 00:20:01.156 --> 00:20:02.324
  • THAT'S HER PRAYER --
  • 00:20:02.324 --> 00:20:03.625
  • AND THAT'S MY PRAYER!
  • 00:20:03.625 --> 00:20:04.793
  • AND WE CAN ONLY DO THAT
  • 00:20:04.793 --> 00:20:06.028
  • IF YOU WILL KEEP HELPING US.
  • 00:20:06.028 --> 00:20:07.229
  • THAT'S WHAT WE WANT TO DO
  • 00:20:07.229 --> 00:20:08.530
  • THIS YEAR,
  • 00:20:08.530 --> 00:20:09.898
  • FEED 350.000 CHILDREN.
  • 00:20:09.898 --> 00:20:11.199
  • AND RANDY,
  • 00:20:11.199 --> 00:20:12.634
  • IF WE ALL DO SOMETHING
  • 00:20:12.634 --> 00:20:13.935
  • WE CAN DO THIS!
  • 00:20:13.935 --> 00:20:15.137
  • Randy: ABSOLUTELY!
  • 00:20:15.137 --> 00:20:17.072
  • IT'S ACTUALLY VERY EASY.
  • 00:20:17.072 --> 00:20:18.707
  • YOU CAN FEED THREE CHILDREN
  • 00:20:18.707 --> 00:20:20.642
  • FOR THREE MONTHS FOR $30;
  • 00:20:20.642 --> 00:20:22.210
  • FIVE CHILDREN FOR $50;
  • 00:20:22.210 --> 00:20:23.912
  • TEN CHILDREN FOR $100.
  • 00:20:23.912 --> 00:20:25.247
  • SOME OF YOU
  • 00:20:25.247 --> 00:20:26.448
  • CAN FEET 100 CHILDREN,
  • 00:20:26.448 --> 00:20:27.683
  • MAYBE 200 OR 300 CHILDREN
  • 00:20:27.683 --> 00:20:29.251
  • FOR THE NEXT THREE MONTHS
  • 00:20:29.251 --> 00:20:31.520
  • BY MAKING A GIFT TODAY.
  • 00:20:31.520 --> 00:20:32.854
  • THAT'S WHAT
  • 00:20:32.854 --> 00:20:34.256
  • WE'RE ASKING YOU TO DO.
  • 00:20:34.256 --> 00:20:35.590
  • HERE'S WHY.
  • 00:20:35.590 --> 00:20:36.925
  • BECAUSE AS HEARTBREAKING
  • 00:20:36.925 --> 00:20:38.360
  • AS THOSE PHOTOS ARE,
  • 00:20:38.360 --> 00:20:39.695
  • THOSE VIDEO IMAGES ARE,
  • 00:20:39.695 --> 00:20:40.996
  • AS HEARTBREAKING
  • 00:20:40.996 --> 00:20:42.497
  • AS THOSE ARE TO WATCH,
  • 00:20:42.497 --> 00:20:44.032
  • IT'S HEARTWARMING
  • 00:20:44.032 --> 00:20:45.434
  • WHEN YOU SEE
  • 00:20:45.434 --> 00:20:46.935
  • WHAT MISSION FEEDING DOES.
  • 00:20:46.935 --> 00:20:48.503
  • AND I KNOW, SHEILA,
  • 00:20:48.503 --> 00:20:49.871
  • WE'VE BOTH BEEN THERE.
  • 00:20:49.871 --> 00:20:51.239
  • BUT WE HAVE TO HAVE
  • 00:20:51.239 --> 00:20:52.574
  • YOUR HELP.
  • 00:20:52.574 --> 00:20:53.942
  • SO PLEASE DO WHAT YOU CAN.
  • 00:20:53.942 --> 00:20:55.610
  • GO ONLINE, GO TO THE PHONES,
  • 00:20:55.610 --> 00:20:56.912
  • HOWEVER YOU PREFER TO GIVE,
  • 00:20:56.912 --> 00:20:58.347
  • AND MAKE THE BEST GIFT
  • 00:20:58.347 --> 00:20:59.748
  • THAT YOU CAN TODAY
  • 00:20:59.748 --> 00:21:01.383
  • AND KNOW THAT WHEN YOU JOIN
  • 00:21:01.383 --> 00:21:02.751
  • WITH US IN MISSION FEEDING,
  • 00:21:02.751 --> 00:21:05.821
  • MISSION FEEDING BEGANWITH A PROMISE TO BE THERE
  • 00:21:07.289 --> 00:21:10.292
  • IN TIMES OF CRISISFOR THOUSANDS OF HURTING
  • 00:21:10.392 --> 00:21:12.861
  • AND HUNGRY CHILDRENIN THEIR TIME OF NEED.
  • 00:21:12.961 --> 00:21:15.364
  • NOW MORE THAN EVERWE NEED YOUR HELP
  • 00:21:15.464 --> 00:21:17.432
  • TO SAVE LIVES BY FEEDINGAND CARING FOR CHILDREN
  • 00:21:17.532 --> 00:21:20.435
  • ACROSS THE CONTINENTOF AFRICA.
  • 00:21:20.535 --> 00:21:22.637
  • WITH FOOD RESERVES GONEAND MANY AREAS
  • 00:21:22.738 --> 00:21:25.040
  • EXPERIENCINGSEVERE FAMINE,
  • 00:21:25.140 --> 00:21:27.075
  • WE URGENTLY NEED TO REPLENISHOUR SUPPLIES TO REACH
  • 00:21:27.175 --> 00:21:30.145
  • THE 350.000 CHILDRENWHO ARE COUNTING ON US.
  • 00:21:30.245 --> 00:21:33.582
  • YOUR GIFT OF LOVE CANBE THE MIRACLE ANSWER
  • 00:21:33.682 --> 00:21:36.051
  • TO A DESPERATEMOTHER'S PRAYER.
  • 00:21:36.151 --> 00:21:38.487
  • CALL NOW WITH YOUR LIFESAVINGGIFT OF $30, $50, OR $100
  • 00:21:38.587 --> 00:21:42.324
  • THAT WILL HELPFEED AND CARE FOR
  • 00:21:42.424 --> 00:21:44.426
  • THREE, FIVE OR TEN CHILDRENFOR THREE FULL MONTHS.
  • 00:21:44.526 --> 00:21:48.530
  • WITH YOUR GIFTWE'LL SEND YOU
  • 00:21:48.630 --> 00:21:50.565
  • THE GLOBAL IMPACTOF LIFE JOURNAL.
  • 00:21:50.665 --> 00:21:52.634
  • THIS SOFTCOVER JOURNALINCLUDES PICTURES
  • 00:21:52.734 --> 00:21:54.703
  • FROM THE MISSION FIELDAND INSPIRING SCRIPTURES
  • 00:21:54.803 --> 00:21:56.938
  • AS A REMINDER OF YOUR IMPACTIN GIVING TO BLESS LIVES
  • 00:21:57.038 --> 00:21:59.941
  • AROUNDTHE WORLD.
  • 00:22:00.041 --> 00:22:02.110
  • WITH YOUR GIFTOF $100 OR MORE,
  • 00:22:02.210 --> 00:22:04.179
  • PLEASE REQUESTTHE GLOBAL IMPACT BIBLE.
  • 00:22:04.279 --> 00:22:06.248
  • THIS ENGLISHSTANDARD VERSION
  • 00:22:06.348 --> 00:22:08.316
  • PRESENTS A FASCINATINGGUIDE TO THE IMPACT
  • 00:22:08.417 --> 00:22:10.385
  • OF THE BESTSELLING BOOKOF ALL TIME
  • 00:22:10.485 --> 00:22:12.454
  • FILLED WITH QUOTESFROM WELL-KNOWN FIGURES,
  • 00:22:12.554 --> 00:22:14.756
  • PHOTOGRAPHS ANDREPRODUCTIONS OF FINE ART.
  • 00:22:14.856 --> 00:22:17.292
  • IT HIGHLIGHTS THE MANYSURPRISING WAYS
  • 00:22:17.392 --> 00:22:19.461
  • SCRIPTURE HASSHAPED CIVILIZATION.
  • 00:22:19.561 --> 00:22:21.763
  • FINALLY WITH YOUR GIFTOF $1.000 OR MORE
  • 00:22:21.863 --> 00:22:24.733
  • TO HELP FEED AND CAREFOR 100 CHILDREN
  • 00:22:24.833 --> 00:22:27.135
  • BE SURE TO REQUESTOUR COMMEMORATIVE
  • 00:22:27.235 --> 00:22:29.237
  • BRONZE SCULPTURE,"A MOTHER'S STRENGTH."
  • 00:22:29.337 --> 00:22:31.606
  • PLEASE CALL, WRITE, OR MAKEYOUR GIFT ONLINE TODAY.
  • 00:22:31.706 --> 00:22:35.644
  • Randy: YOU KNOW LIKE STEVE
  • 00:22:38.647 --> 00:22:39.915
  • Randy: YOU KNOW LIKE STEVESAID, I THINK A LOT OF TIMES
  • 00:22:39.915 --> 00:22:41.683
  • Randy: YOU KNOW LIKE STEVESAID, I THINK A LOT OF TIMESOUR HEALING BEGINS WHEN
  • 00:22:41.683 --> 00:22:44.219
  • SAID, I THINK A LOT OF TIMESOUR HEALING BEGINS WHENWE REACH OUT AND HELP OTHERS.
  • 00:22:44.219 --> 00:22:45.353
  • OUR HEALING BEGINS WHENWE REACH OUT AND HELP OTHERS.SHEILA, THAT'S WHAT WE'RE
  • 00:22:45.353 --> 00:22:46.354
  • WE REACH OUT AND HELP OTHERS.SHEILA, THAT'S WHAT WE'REDOING WITH MISSION FEEDING
  • 00:22:46.354 --> 00:22:47.389
  • SHEILA, THAT'S WHAT WE'REDOING WITH MISSION FEEDINGAND I THINK WE CAN HELP THEM
  • 00:22:47.389 --> 00:22:48.423
  • DOING WITH MISSION FEEDINGAND I THINK WE CAN HELP THEMWITH THIS BOOK.
  • 00:22:48.423 --> 00:22:49.524
  • AND I THINK WE CAN HELP THEMWITH THIS BOOK.Sheila: FOR ANY GIFT AT ALL,
  • 00:22:49.524 --> 00:22:50.625
  • OF HEALING DAILY DEVOTIONAL.
  • 00:22:51.793 --> 00:22:53.361
  • OF HEALING DAILY DEVOTIONAL.ALSO, 1-800 NEW LIFE,
  • 00:22:53.361 --> 00:22:54.896
  • OF HEALING DAILY DEVOTIONAL.ALSO, 1-800 NEW LIFE,YOU CAN GET IN TOUCH
  • 00:22:54.896 --> 00:22:56.064
  • ALSO, 1-800 NEW LIFE,YOU CAN GET IN TOUCHWITH STEVE OR NEWLIFE.COM.
  • 00:22:56.064 --> 00:22:57.132
  • YOU CAN GET IN TOUCHWITH STEVE OR NEWLIFE.COM.ANYBODY THAT I MEET ON
  • 00:22:57.132 --> 00:22:58.200
  • WITH STEVE OR NEWLIFE.COM.ANYBODY THAT I MEET ONTHE ROAD WHO IS STRUGGLING,
  • 00:22:58.200 --> 00:22:59.267
  • NEW LIFE.
  • 00:23:00.335 --> 00:23:01.403
  • NEW LIFE.WILL YOU HELP ME THANK
  • 00:23:01.403 --> 00:23:02.471
  • NEW LIFE.WILL YOU HELP ME THANKSTEVE ARTERBURN?
  • 00:23:02.471 --> 00:23:03.939
  • WILL YOU HELP ME THANKSTEVE ARTERBURN?Randy: THANKS STEVE!
  • 00:23:03.939 --> 00:23:05.273
  • STEVE ARTERBURN?Randy: THANKS STEVE!Steve: GREAT TO BE HERE.
  • 00:23:05.273 --> 00:23:06.675
  • Randy: THANKS STEVE!Steve: GREAT TO BE HERE.YOU GUYS KEEP IT UP.
  • 00:23:06.675 --> 00:23:07.709
  • Steve: GREAT TO BE HERE.YOU GUYS KEEP IT UP.Sheila: THANK YOU!
  • 00:23:07.709 --> 00:23:08.844
  • YOU GUYS KEEP IT UP.Sheila: THANK YOU!AWESOME! WE LOVE YOU.
  • 00:23:08.844 --> 00:23:11.413
  • ♪ THE MOON AND STARSTHEY WEPT ♪
  • 00:23:35.337 --> 00:23:38.840
  • ♪ THE MORNING SUNWAS DEAD ♪
  • 00:23:38.940 --> 00:23:42.177
  • ♪ THE SAVIOUR OF THE WORLDWAS FALLEN ♪
  • 00:23:42.277 --> 00:23:48.917
  • ♪ HIS BODYON THE CROSS ♪
  • 00:23:49.017 --> 00:23:52.320
  • ♪ HIS BLOOD POURED OUTFOR US ♪
  • 00:23:52.420 --> 00:23:55.590
  • ♪ THE WEIGHT OF EVERY CURSEUPON HIM ♪
  • 00:23:55.690 --> 00:24:01.730
  • ♪ ONE FINAL BREATHHE GAVE ♪
  • 00:24:15.644 --> 00:24:19.247
  • ♪ AS HEAVENLOOKED AWAY ♪
  • 00:24:19.347 --> 00:24:22.717
  • ♪ THE SON OF GODWAS LAID IN DARKNESS ♪
  • 00:24:22.817 --> 00:24:29.224
  • ♪ A BATTLEIN THE GRAVE ♪
  • 00:24:29.324 --> 00:24:32.627
  • ♪ THE WAR ON DEATHWAS WAGED ♪
  • 00:24:32.727 --> 00:24:36.031
  • ♪ THE POWER OF HELLFOREVER BROKEN ♪
  • 00:24:36.131 --> 00:24:40.869
  • ♪ THE GROUNDBEGAN TO SHAKE ♪
  • 00:24:42.604 --> 00:24:46.041
  • ♪ THE STONEWAS ROLLED AWAY ♪
  • 00:24:46.141 --> 00:24:49.344
  • ♪ HIS PERFECT LOVECOULD NOT BE OVERCOME ♪
  • 00:24:49.444 --> 00:24:55.617
  • ♪ NOW DEATHWHERE IS YOUR STING? ♪
  • 00:24:55.717 --> 00:24:59.287
  • ♪ OUR RESURRECTED KINGHAS RENDERED YOU DEFEATED ♪
  • 00:24:59.387 --> 00:25:07.362
  • ♪ FOREVERHE IS GLORIFIED ♪
  • 00:25:07.462 --> 00:25:14.069
  • ♪ FOREVERHE IS LIFTED HIGH ♪
  • 00:25:14.169 --> 00:25:20.742
  • ♪ FOREVERHE IS RISEN ♪
  • 00:25:20.842 --> 00:25:26.181
  • ♪ HE IS ALIVE,HE IS ALIVE! ♪
  • 00:25:26.281 --> 00:25:31.720
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:25:36.257 --> 00:25:39.327
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:25:39.427 --> 00:25:42.631
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:25:42.731 --> 00:25:45.867
  • ♪ THE LAMBHAS OVERCOME ♪
  • 00:25:45.967 --> 00:25:49.304
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:25:49.404 --> 00:25:52.540
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:25:52.641 --> 00:25:55.910
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:25:56.011 --> 00:25:59.114
  • ♪ THE LAMBHAS OVERCOME ♪
  • 00:25:59.214 --> 00:26:02.550
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:26:02.651 --> 00:26:05.854
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:26:05.954 --> 00:26:09.157
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:26:09.257 --> 00:26:12.560
  • ♪ THE LAMBHAS OVERCOME ♪
  • 00:26:12.661 --> 00:26:15.964
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:26:16.064 --> 00:26:19.100
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:26:19.200 --> 00:26:22.337
  • ♪ WE SINGHALLELUJAH ♪
  • 00:26:22.437 --> 00:26:25.740
  • ♪ THE LAMBHAS OVERCOME ♪
  • 00:26:25.840 --> 00:26:30.378
  • ♪ FOREVERHE IS GLORIFIED ♪
  • 00:26:30.478 --> 00:26:36.985
  • ♪ FOREVERHE IS LIFTED HIGH ♪
  • 00:26:37.085 --> 00:26:43.758
  • ♪ FOREVERHE IS RISEN ♪
  • 00:26:43.858 --> 00:26:49.130
  • ♪ HE IS ALIVE,HE IS ALIVE! ♪
  • 00:26:49.230 --> 00:26:55.437
  • REGARDLESSOF YOUR NET WORTH,
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