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David & Tamela Mann's Story

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March 30, 2017
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David & Tamela Mann's Story

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  • It's like, kinda like, I just want to be in my pjs
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  • and in my room and in my bed, not in the living room
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  • and saying chit chit chit.
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  • You know talking to everybody.
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  • I mean I feel like when I need one on one with him,
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  • just like I tell my kids I going out to eat
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  • with my boyfriend.
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  • - [Mike] I know that's true.
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  • - So it's like I have to make that special and by me
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  • standing and asking for it makes him feel special
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  • that I just want him to myself.
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  • Today, on Living by Faith...
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  • If she's not, keep praying for her 'cause sometime
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  • some people are just, I ain't gonna say ignorant,
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  • but I'm gonna say ignorant.
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  • - They special.
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  • - Special and I'm not calling her special.
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  • - [White Shirt Man] She's super special.
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  • - Well I'm gonna let you call her special.
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  • - But you just keep showing love and keep, like he's saying,
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  • keep telling your wife how much you appreciate her,
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  • how much you love her for that that's she putting up
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  • and dealing with with you, with your family.
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  • Because her love for you makes her want to fight for you.
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  • - [Mike] Come on.
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  • - Because that's what it was for David, I loved him so much
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  • that I was willing to help carry the weight because
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  • I know it's a weight.
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  • I know it's a weight on you and we didn't go as far as that
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  • but I mean it's some blows did get a little low.
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  • - Yeah.
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  • - You know with the five year old mama when came with her,
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  • you know I had to kind of get a little crazy a little bit.
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  • I didn't cuss or nothin', I didn't cuss, I didn't,
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  • I didn't cuss her and she cussed me and I like, look here,
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  • I don't cuss you, I don't curse you so you don't curse me.
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  • I don't talk like that so we not gonna talk like that.
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  • 'Cause it's almost like you have to take charge
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  • 'cause some people feel like they can bully you
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  • and push you around, you know just 'cause we Christians
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  • they feel like, "Oh you supposed to take it 'cause you're
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  • "a Christian.", no ma'am, look here.
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  • - And stand firm.
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  • - I'm gonna treat your baby just like I would treat my own,
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  • I'm not gonna disrespect them, I'm gonna give for whoever
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  • needs it the most is gonna get it.
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  • Whoever needs some shoes, they'll get the shoes first,
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  • whether it's yours or mine, it doesn't matter.
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  • I'm gonna love them because I love the kid
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  • and we gotta make sure that this kid is being taken care of,
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  • I'm sorry it has nothing to do with you.
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  • And I had to tell, I don't know where your wife is,
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  • but I had to tell the mama that.
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  • I'm like, look please don't get it twisted,
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  • now if we do have to go to blows we can go to blows,
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  • but we not gonna get ugly like that because it's not gonna
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  • help, it's not gonna prove anything to this baby.
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  • - Tam you a thug, ya'll didn't know Tamela Mann's a thug.
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  • - I was raised in the hood.
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  • I look like this now but I didn't look like this then.
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  • - No she was a gansta.
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  • - Hallelujah.
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  • She got tattoos on her neck and everything.
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  • - Be encouraged my brother, be encouraged.
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  • Be encouraged, you can make it, you and your wife and your
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  • family can make it, just keep pleading the blood,
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  • but some oil on her on the sly.
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  • (congregation laughs)
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  • - Send the baby over there with oil in her hair
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  • or something.
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  • - Yeah put some on the baby and say, "Hug your mama."
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  • and just put it right on, rub in on her.
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  • But hey with God all things are possible.
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  • - [Mike] All things are possible.
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  • - Yes sir.
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  • - [Mike] We're just gonna take these two that's next.
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  • - [Tamela] I'm having fun, I'm having a good time.
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  • - See this is a passion of ours so we don't get tired ya'll.
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  • We love this and we really, really, really honored.
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  • - We appreciate, it shows.
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  • It's authentic.
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  • - See ya'll have to tell us to get off 'cause I ain't
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  • got to go nowhere.
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  • (congregation laughs)
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  • I'm going back to a hotel so I'm cool.
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  • - Yes sir.
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  • - The craziest thing is that I wanted to say to him first
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  • was don't think you're going through that alone because
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  • I can promise you that my situation is identical.
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  • I have the scar to show it when she tried to kill me
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  • two weeks ago.
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  • But God.
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  • - [David and Tamela] But God.
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  • - See what I'm sayin' so be encouraged.
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  • - [David] Did you get a retraining order?
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  • - They denied it, said I was the one that started it
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  • which I wasn't.
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  • - [David] Stay away.
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  • - I do.
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  • - [David] Now I'm serious 'cause I do not deal with.
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  • - I do, I don't.
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  • - That stuff is, stay away and that keeps you safe
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  • and her safe.
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  • - You may have to get somebody to be the mediator like
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  • for instance if you don't have custody of the babies.
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  • - [Glasses Man] Oh I do.
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  • - You do?
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  • - [Glasses Man] I do, I have custody of the children
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  • and she wants to take them from me
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  • and it's like, and it's like I tell my parents
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  • and all my friends, divorce is not an option,
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  • giving up on my children is not an option either.
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  • - Yes sir. - Yeah.
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  • - [Glasses Man] I'm fighting the exact same battle.
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  • - So this is your ex-wife?
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  • - [Glasses Man] My ex-wife, right.
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  • But that's not, my question was that I just wanted to let
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  • him know that I'm going - He's not alone.
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  • through the same thing, right.
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  • But you know I just put it in God's hand 'cause he's
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  • undefeated.
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  • - Always.
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  • - We always win, with Jesus we always win.
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  • God we win, you winning, the Devil think he got you
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  • but you gonna win.
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  • - Right, my question was that,
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  • me and my wife's situation was like we been so low,
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  • we've dealt through a whole lot.
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  • And we've been reading your book "The Marriage Made Easy",
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  • which has been a great help to us.
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  • We're on the part where we've wrote our five year plan
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  • and one of our goals in the five year plan was
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  • to be better off financially and bring our families together
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  • but we wanted to look into starting our own,
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  • not our own but getting involved in a marriage ministry
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  • to help couples that our younger, our age.
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  • And you know people that are coming up to see that
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  • marriage is not always great, there is some tough times
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  • to build to a great marriage so I just wanted advice
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  • on what you would give to someone looking to start
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  • a marriage ministry or get involved with one?
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  • So what advice would you have a couple like that?
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  • - That's you guys.
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  • - I think he was asking you guys.
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  • - I would think that is, excuse me, a tremendous thing
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  • to do, anytime you make your self accountable
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  • or available to minister to other couples there's a
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  • silent demand inside of that when you're ministering to
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  • other's that you're gonna have to walk the walk yourselves.
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  • So it's important like doing this as a ministry
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  • it literally forces me to walk out what I'm talking.
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  • - [Dee Dee] Yes Sir.
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  • - You following what I'm saying?
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  • So if that's, if it's an assignment I don't subscribe
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  • to your going in this without God's hand and his permission.
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  • - [Glasses Man] Right.
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  • - See we know this is a part of why we are here.
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  • We're not just products of our parents passion but we are
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  • products of the purpose of God, part of my purpose is
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  • to literally teach other couples in this covenant called
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  • marriage but inside of that there's a demand that's placed
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  • on the both of us.
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  • We've been talking this so long how dare we now even
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  • think about we're going to be splitting up.
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  • So it's, but I would never advise anyone to get involved
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  • in this without the hand of God because when you start
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  • talking, Tamela you mentioned that, when you start
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  • talking that divorce is no option, Satan is gonna make
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  • you prove it.
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  • - [Glasses Man] Right.
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  • - Because we know that with every new level
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  • there's a new Devil and he's going to test with you.
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  • - [David] And a bigger Devil.
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  • - Huh?
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  • - It's a bigger Devil.
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  • - It's a bigger Devil.
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  • - Bigger.
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  • - So if in fact it is of God I would literally submit
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  • myself to someone whose doing it well because every
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  • leader needs a leader.
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  • - [Glasses Man] Okay.
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  • - I would submit myself to someone that's doing it well,
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  • follow their instructions, it's the order or God.
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  • - [Glasses Man] Like a mentor.
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  • - And then just watch, yeah a mentor and your marriage
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  • ministry where you can literally follow their instructions,
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  • grow up in this thing and bless the world
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  • with your marriage.
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  • - [Glasses Man] Thank you.
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  • - Yeah because it's truly God's desire to take all of
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  • our marriages and lift it up in his hand as a trophy
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  • that shows the world what he intended for marriage to be
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  • like from the beginning.
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  • And we hold and posses the privilege of showing the world
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  • how Jesus loves the church.
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  • That's the only picture that he's given to the earth
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  • of how he loves the church through your marriage.
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  • - [David] Yes.
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  • - And we can't botch that up.
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  • So we got three more we're gonna entertain, yes sir.
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  • - Okay my question was about like the blended families,
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  • like have you ever had to deal with like the other parents
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  • not wanting or you know not wanting their children to be
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  • around like someone else or having a problem with the
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  • other parents disciplining their children?
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  • And if you have how did you handle that?
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  • - That's one thing I had to do, 'cause I got that call,
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  • I got call, "Well she told me that Tamela was disciplining
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  • "her 'cause something bout the room", I said, "Hold on,
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  • "first let me let you speak with her and then we gonna
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  • "talk together." and you have to be on one accord.
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  • And that's the key to this all, is for everybody to be
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  • on one accord.
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  • Now unfortunately that's not the way it's gonna always be
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  • but adults have to sit down and be adults
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  • and just like I said earlier, it's not about you.
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  • And we have to realize it's not about how we feel about
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  • each other and what we've done, we have to know and I have
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  • to trust and believe that you want what's best for the kid
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  • and you have to trust and believe that I want what's
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  • best for the kid.
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  • And once we both realize that and we get out of the way
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  • we can raise our future leaders, that's what we need to do,
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  • we can raise our future leaders.
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  • - [Mike] Absolutely.
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  • - What if the other person like is not in, like they can't
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  • have that sit down, they're like okay, I was in a
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  • relationship with you, we had a baby together even though
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  • we're not together, this person wasn't there when it
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  • happened so why they shouldn't.
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  • - 'Cause they haven't realized that there is no more us.
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  • - [Mike] Yes.
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  • - 'Cause sometime we hang on to, there's still a chance
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  • ain't it, see and you have to make sure when you go over
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  • there, 'cause see I would go over there to drop my daughter
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  • off, "Thank you, God bless you, goodnight."
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  • I wouldn't sit down, let's sit down and have some tea or
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  • nothing, no because I don't want to even entertain.
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  • - [Mike] Come on.
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  • - No.
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  • - Absolutely.
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  • - I wouldn't even entertain none of that so she has to
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  • know and maybe you and your wife and her and her spouse,
  • 00:11:16.180 --> 00:11:20.150
  • everybody has to sit down and have an adult conversation
  • 00:11:20.150 --> 00:11:24.200
  • to get an understanding.
  • 00:11:25.260 --> 00:11:27.150
  • - You may have to meet somewhere, you know like a
  • 00:11:27.150 --> 00:11:29.070
  • restaurant, public place, where ya'll would probably keep
  • 00:11:29.070 --> 00:11:32.110
  • it you know, so it wouldn't get all out of hand.
  • 00:11:32.110 --> 00:11:35.030
  • - 'Cause you know we tend to know how to act when we
  • 00:11:35.030 --> 00:11:37.230
  • in public.
  • 00:11:37.230 --> 00:11:39.070
  • - Understand you know, just an understanding of,
  • 00:11:39.070 --> 00:11:40.280
  • let's just make this about the babies.
  • 00:11:40.280 --> 00:11:43.190
  • - [Mike] Absolutely.
  • 00:11:43.190 --> 00:11:45.050
  • - I mean it's almost, I would say pray, ask the Lord to give
  • 00:11:45.050 --> 00:11:49.230
  • you how to say whatever it is that you need to say
  • 00:11:49.230 --> 00:11:53.030
  • so ya'll, like he was sayin' earlier, get an understanding.
  • 00:11:53.030 --> 00:11:56.070
  • 'Cause it doesn't matter if we do a whole bunch of talkin'
  • 00:11:56.070 --> 00:11:58.250
  • and we don't get resolved.
  • 00:11:58.250 --> 00:12:00.150
  • - [David] Leave with no understanding.
  • 00:12:00.150 --> 00:12:02.060
  • - You know we don't get it resolved we in the same place
  • 00:12:02.060 --> 00:12:04.110
  • so you pray both of ya'll, you and your wife,
  • 00:12:04.110 --> 00:12:06.050
  • when ya'll go meet with the mama and I believe in God
  • 00:12:06.050 --> 00:12:10.070
  • with you that things are gonna work out
  • 00:12:10.070 --> 00:12:12.270
  • and it's gonna smooth over because we need these babies
  • 00:12:12.270 --> 00:12:16.130
  • to see order and you know, where we can raise them
  • 00:12:16.130 --> 00:12:19.190
  • in they understand what we're dealing with in this world.
  • 00:12:19.190 --> 00:12:22.230
  • I mean them seeing us fight is not gonna help.
  • 00:12:22.230 --> 00:12:25.240
  • - And you as the head, you have to make, everybody
  • 00:12:25.240 --> 00:12:28.190
  • has to know where they stand with you.
  • 00:12:28.190 --> 00:12:31.120
  • The baby mama has to know.
  • 00:12:31.120 --> 00:12:33.050
  • - And the babies.
  • 00:12:33.050 --> 00:12:34.080
  • - Ain't no more.
  • 00:12:34.080 --> 00:12:35.130
  • - She say's she knows.
  • 00:12:35.130 --> 00:12:37.050
  • - Yeah has to know for sure.
  • 00:12:37.050 --> 00:12:39.060
  • - [Stripped Shirt Man] She might not be happy with it
  • 00:12:39.060 --> 00:12:40.110
  • but she knows.
  • 00:12:40.110 --> 00:12:41.250
  • - But it has to be consistent and everybody has to know
  • 00:12:41.250 --> 00:12:44.080
  • where you as the head, where you stand.
  • 00:12:44.080 --> 00:12:46.270
  • You have to let your wife know it's me and you
  • 00:12:46.270 --> 00:12:49.170
  • against the world.
  • 00:12:49.170 --> 00:12:51.150
  • - And she has to, the wife, we have to be calm as the wife
  • 00:12:51.150 --> 00:12:55.180
  • so we don't walk in because I got you on my arm.
  • 00:12:55.180 --> 00:12:59.030
  • Let's not come in with that swag, you know like,
  • 00:12:59.030 --> 00:13:03.050
  • cockiness of he mine.
  • 00:13:05.010 --> 00:13:06.270
  • You know we have to come in humble, not to say she does
  • 00:13:06.270 --> 00:13:10.160
  • that or whoever, I'm not saying you do that it's like,
  • 00:13:10.160 --> 00:13:14.250
  • you have to come in with a peace.
  • 00:13:14.250 --> 00:13:18.060
  • - [Mike] That's the wisdom of God.
  • 00:13:18.060 --> 00:13:20.270
  • - I'm coming in, hey with my white flag,
  • 00:13:20.270 --> 00:13:24.000
  • we coming in for peace.
  • 00:13:24.000 --> 00:13:26.130
  • - So tell your wife don't come in with her shortest skirt
  • 00:13:26.130 --> 00:13:28.190
  • and her longest hair and high heels on looking up at yah
  • 00:13:28.190 --> 00:13:31.000
  • 'cause somebody gonna get mad.
  • 00:13:31.000 --> 00:13:33.000
  • - [Mike] Is she here?
  • 00:13:33.000 --> 00:13:34.000
  • Your wife is here tonight?
  • 00:13:34.000 --> 00:13:35.270
  • - [Stripped Shirt Man] My fiancee, yes.
  • 00:13:35.270 --> 00:13:37.290
  • - [Mike] Oh your fiancee.
  • 00:13:37.290 --> 00:13:39.050
  • - Your fiancee, I'm praying for you
  • 00:13:39.050 --> 00:13:41.110
  • but you got to be up for the task if you taking on the torch
  • 00:13:41.110 --> 00:13:43.290
  • wherever you are.
  • 00:13:43.290 --> 00:13:45.090
  • - If you're taking him on you're taking on everything
  • 00:13:46.250 --> 00:13:48.020
  • that comes with him,
  • 00:13:48.020 --> 00:13:49.180
  • whether it's good credit, bad credit, mother in law,
  • 00:13:49.180 --> 00:13:52.160
  • father in law, it all comes with him.
  • 00:13:52.160 --> 00:13:56.050
  • - But like they mentioned, keep the main thing the main
  • 00:13:56.050 --> 00:14:00.020
  • thing and that's the child.
  • 00:14:00.020 --> 00:14:01.280
  • - Yes.
  • 00:14:01.280 --> 00:14:03.120
  • - If your interest is central, relative or remain to the
  • 00:14:03.120 --> 00:14:06.180
  • child then you can get the results that you want.
  • 00:14:06.180 --> 00:14:10.260
  • - And it may take time, just know that it may not happen
  • 00:14:10.260 --> 00:14:14.080
  • overnight, it may take time, amen.
  • 00:14:14.080 --> 00:14:17.240
  • - Don't give up.
  • 00:14:17.240 --> 00:14:18.230
  • - Yes sir, how we doing champ?
  • 00:14:18.230 --> 00:14:21.270
  • - How you doing tonight?
  • 00:14:21.270 --> 00:14:22.290
  • - Good, good evening.
  • 00:14:22.290 --> 00:14:24.140
  • First and foremost I just want to thank you for being
  • 00:14:24.140 --> 00:14:26.200
  • so open and honest with all of us tonight, it's really
  • 00:14:26.200 --> 00:14:30.250
  • been, definitely feeding in.
  • 00:14:32.210 --> 00:14:35.100
  • One question I'd like to ask you specifically
  • 00:14:35.100 --> 00:14:37.240
  • because you sound like you have a very busy lifestyle,
  • 00:14:37.240 --> 00:14:41.170
  • being celebrity, the whole nine yards I get it.
  • 00:14:41.170 --> 00:14:44.080
  • I myself live in a corporate world and also have a very
  • 00:14:44.080 --> 00:14:48.030
  • busy lifestyle and I struggle with time management
  • 00:14:48.030 --> 00:14:52.080
  • and it's one thing, you made a comment about your
  • 00:14:53.210 --> 00:14:56.030
  • kids know your weaknesses and they attack you right there,
  • 00:14:56.030 --> 00:14:59.070
  • so does the enemy.
  • 00:14:59.070 --> 00:15:00.250
  • And you know, I've only been saved a couple years for me
  • 00:15:00.250 --> 00:15:04.250
  • it's kind of like a game of frogger, I turned around
  • 00:15:06.070 --> 00:15:08.020
  • and all this traffic is just hitting me.
  • 00:15:08.020 --> 00:15:10.190
  • Just trying those little places to jump where I can kinda
  • 00:15:10.190 --> 00:15:12.290
  • ride along and learn something.
  • 00:15:12.290 --> 00:15:15.040
  • But one of the things that I've also heard a lot since
  • 00:15:15.040 --> 00:15:19.170
  • I've been saved is God's already given us all the tools
  • 00:15:19.170 --> 00:15:23.040
  • so I'd like to kinda know what kind of tools you use
  • 00:15:23.040 --> 00:15:27.090
  • to bring God into the center of your marriage
  • 00:15:28.230 --> 00:15:31.120
  • but also what kind tools that he gave you to maintain
  • 00:15:31.120 --> 00:15:33.130
  • your individual relationship with him so you could
  • 00:15:33.130 --> 00:15:35.280
  • strengthen everything.
  • 00:15:35.280 --> 00:15:37.170
  • - With your marriage or just?
  • 00:15:37.170 --> 00:15:40.150
  • - [White Man] I'm sorry?
  • 00:15:40.150 --> 00:15:41.270
  • - With our marriage?
  • 00:15:41.270 --> 00:15:44.020
  • - [White Man] How did you bring God to the center of
  • 00:15:44.020 --> 00:15:46.070
  • your marriage and how did you also maintain your own
  • 00:15:46.070 --> 00:15:48.190
  • individual relationship with him?
  • 00:15:48.190 --> 00:15:51.120
  • - Ohh, pastor that may be a pastoral question,
  • 00:15:51.120 --> 00:15:54.230
  • that was deep.
  • 00:15:54.230 --> 00:15:55.280
  • - You know personally, personally.
  • 00:15:57.210 --> 00:16:00.080
  • - That's a David Mann question.
  • 00:16:00.080 --> 00:16:03.080
  • - For myself, kinda like first lady was sayin' earlier
  • 00:16:03.080 --> 00:16:07.040
  • I had to realize first it's you and God.
  • 00:16:07.040 --> 00:16:10.040
  • - Right.
  • 00:16:10.040 --> 00:16:11.200
  • - So it's like when I get up, you know I'm like Lord
  • 00:16:11.200 --> 00:16:13.120
  • thank you for this day, it's like I'm talkin' to him
  • 00:16:13.120 --> 00:16:15.280
  • even though he may be in the bed beside me
  • 00:16:15.280 --> 00:16:19.030
  • but it's like I'm talking to him.
  • 00:16:19.030 --> 00:16:20.270
  • It's like a one on one with the relationship
  • 00:16:20.270 --> 00:16:23.050
  • that I look at it, it's like, it's like a every moment
  • 00:16:23.050 --> 00:16:27.030
  • thing I'm making sure that God knows that he's number one.
  • 00:16:27.030 --> 00:16:31.160
  • - [Mike] Come on.
  • 00:16:31.160 --> 00:16:32.230
  • - And that comes through your daily devotion,
  • 00:16:32.230 --> 00:16:35.100
  • we have to make time, we can get so busy in life that we
  • 00:16:35.100 --> 00:16:38.210
  • kind of put God as what's left over in our lives.
  • 00:16:38.210 --> 00:16:42.220
  • That comes with their daily prayer life, a daily devotion,
  • 00:16:42.220 --> 00:16:46.050
  • some time where it's just him and you and he get's your
  • 00:16:46.050 --> 00:16:49.220
  • undivided attention and that's the same way in your
  • 00:16:49.220 --> 00:16:52.200
  • marriage and your relationship.
  • 00:16:52.200 --> 00:16:54.150
  • Your marriage is like, there are times when it's just
  • 00:16:54.150 --> 00:16:58.140
  • she get's my undivided.
  • 00:16:58.140 --> 00:17:00.190
  • - 'Cause I'll tell him I don't want nobody over here,
  • 00:17:00.190 --> 00:17:03.070
  • I just want to be me and you.
  • 00:17:03.070 --> 00:17:04.220
  • - Us.
  • 00:17:04.220 --> 00:17:06.060
  • - And early on in our marriage he didn't understand that,
  • 00:17:06.060 --> 00:17:09.110
  • like sometimes, and this sounds really harsh.
  • 00:17:09.110 --> 00:17:11.230
  • - I know what I'm about to say.
  • 00:17:11.230 --> 00:17:13.130
  • - Sometime like his mama would call and say I'm coming over,
  • 00:17:13.130 --> 00:17:16.170
  • I was like no.
  • 00:17:16.170 --> 00:17:17.170
  • (congregation laughs)
  • 00:17:17.170 --> 00:17:20.120
  • - Not today.
  • 00:17:20.120 --> 00:17:21.160
  • - No not today.
  • 00:17:21.160 --> 00:17:22.180
  • - [Mike] Not his mama.
  • 00:17:22.180 --> 00:17:24.020
  • - Well I did pastor, I'm being honest, that's the reason
  • 00:17:24.020 --> 00:17:26.050
  • why I say I'm being honest is because you know how
  • 00:17:26.050 --> 00:17:28.280
  • sometime people come to your house and you really don't
  • 00:17:28.280 --> 00:17:31.190
  • feel like it?
  • 00:17:31.190 --> 00:17:32.220
  • So you don't feel like it shows that you don't feel like it.
  • 00:17:34.060 --> 00:17:38.140
  • It's like, kinda like, I just want to be in my pjs
  • 00:17:38.140 --> 00:17:42.050
  • and in my room and in my bed, not in the living room
  • 00:17:42.050 --> 00:17:45.110
  • and saying chit chit chit.
  • 00:17:45.110 --> 00:17:47.160
  • You know talking to everybody.
  • 00:17:47.160 --> 00:17:49.140
  • I mean I feel like when I need one on one with him,
  • 00:17:49.140 --> 00:17:53.200
  • just like I tell my kids I going out to eat
  • 00:17:53.200 --> 00:17:55.240
  • just like I tell my kids I going out to eat
  • 00:17:55.240 --> 00:17:56.030
  • with my boyfriend.
  • 00:17:56.090 --> 00:17:57.100
  • - [Mike] I know that's true.
  • 00:17:57.100 --> 00:17:58.240
  • - So it's like I have to make that special and by me
  • 00:17:58.240 --> 00:18:01.160
  • standing and asking for it makes him feel special
  • 00:18:01.160 --> 00:18:04.230
  • that I just want him to myself.
  • 00:18:04.230 --> 00:18:06.260
  • that I just want him to myself.
  • 00:18:06.260 --> 00:18:07.080
  • - And you know some of the things, and you said tools
  • 00:18:08.000 --> 00:18:09.110
  • that we do, sometimes we'll get in the car with no set
  • 00:18:09.110 --> 00:18:12.230
  • destination and just drive and just ride.
  • 00:18:12.230 --> 00:18:16.060
  • We'll pack a bag and we'll just ride and what that forces
  • 00:18:17.180 --> 00:18:20.160
  • you to do, unless ya'll don't like each other and don't
  • 00:18:20.160 --> 00:18:23.160
  • talk, that forces you to talk and it forces you to have
  • 00:18:23.160 --> 00:18:27.000
  • conversation and communicate 'cause if you're riding
  • 00:18:27.000 --> 00:18:29.290
  • four or five hours ya'll gonna have some communication.
  • 00:18:29.290 --> 00:18:32.260
  • And so you gotta do things like that where you have
  • 00:18:32.260 --> 00:18:35.170
  • undivided attention whether it's from work, whether it's
  • 00:18:35.170 --> 00:18:38.250
  • from whatever.
  • 00:18:38.250 --> 00:18:40.120
  • I have to learn to turn my phone off because my phone
  • 00:18:40.120 --> 00:18:43.060
  • rings 24/7 so I have to just like.
  • 00:18:43.060 --> 00:18:46.270
  • - At the dinner table.
  • 00:18:47.220 --> 00:18:49.060
  • - At the dinner table, it does, but when I'm giving her
  • 00:18:49.060 --> 00:18:52.170
  • my undivided, oh Lord, hallelujah.
  • 00:18:52.170 --> 00:18:55.120
  • No I'm just sayin', it turns out to be that way.
  • 00:18:57.270 --> 00:19:01.170
  • - Every time it's not.
  • 00:19:01.170 --> 00:19:03.020
  • - I'm sorry.
  • 00:19:03.020 --> 00:19:04.020
  • - It's not that every time because we want affection
  • 00:19:05.160 --> 00:19:08.110
  • from ya'll, it's not always having sex.
  • 00:19:08.110 --> 00:19:11.130
  • (congregation applauds)
  • 00:19:11.130 --> 00:19:14.210
  • And he know that, he know that.
  • 00:19:14.210 --> 00:19:16.120
  • - [David] No and that's something we teach,
  • 00:19:16.120 --> 00:19:18.290
  • we teach a lot about affection.
  • 00:19:18.290 --> 00:19:20.140
  • - He does but it's like now I like for him,
  • 00:19:20.140 --> 00:19:22.270
  • that's part of affection that I like, when he just be
  • 00:19:22.270 --> 00:19:25.210
  • touching me, that's oh.
  • 00:19:25.210 --> 00:19:27.270
  • - [David] I'm sorry did we answer your question?
  • 00:19:27.270 --> 00:19:30.000
  • (congregation laughs)
  • 00:19:30.000 --> 00:19:31.140
  • We did, okay thank you so much.
  • 00:19:31.140 --> 00:19:33.180
  • - We done went left field on you.
  • 00:19:33.180 --> 00:19:35.050
  • - I'm sorry.
  • 00:19:35.050 --> 00:19:36.030
  • - You led me into it though.
  • 00:19:36.030 --> 00:19:37.150
  • - Yeah.
  • 00:19:37.150 --> 00:19:38.290
  • - But you have to take that time with your wife,
  • 00:19:38.290 --> 00:19:41.040
  • with your family, like when you do come home,
  • 00:19:41.040 --> 00:19:43.060
  • this is one thing we used to have to say with our kids
  • 00:19:43.060 --> 00:19:45.180
  • 'cause we travel so much.
  • 00:19:45.180 --> 00:19:47.000
  • When we came home we focused on us and our kids.
  • 00:19:47.000 --> 00:19:50.110
  • - [Mike] Absolutely.
  • 00:19:50.110 --> 00:19:51.260
  • - Like nobody else and if there was something going on
  • 00:19:51.260 --> 00:19:53.220
  • that was big, if our kids couldn't go we wasn't coming.
  • 00:19:53.220 --> 00:19:57.200
  • - We wasn't going.
  • 00:19:57.200 --> 00:19:59.050
  • - Because I felt like I've already been gone for weeks
  • 00:19:59.050 --> 00:20:01.000
  • or month or so, I have to devote all my time to my kids
  • 00:20:01.000 --> 00:20:05.090
  • at that time so that's kind of how dealt with it.
  • 00:20:05.090 --> 00:20:08.130
  • I hope we answered you.
  • 00:20:08.130 --> 00:20:10.000
  • - Time management piece is your scheduling, designated
  • 00:20:10.000 --> 00:20:14.050
  • time for your family and wife.
  • 00:20:15.250 --> 00:20:18.210
  • Now whatever you make first you will always have time for.
  • 00:20:18.210 --> 00:20:23.000
  • - [Tamela] That's good.
  • 00:20:23.000 --> 00:20:25.030
  • - If you're trying to fit them into something then you're
  • 00:20:25.030 --> 00:20:29.240
  • not conveying the priority that they should have.
  • 00:20:29.240 --> 00:20:33.270
  • And so in making sure that your wife, I think the both of
  • 00:20:35.090 --> 00:20:39.000
  • you are, should sit down, talk about specifically what
  • 00:20:40.160 --> 00:20:44.110
  • days will be just for family and share in different kind
  • 00:20:44.110 --> 00:20:48.150
  • of activities, whether it's spiritual or whether it's
  • 00:20:49.280 --> 00:20:52.180
  • physical recreation or whatever the case may be.
  • 00:20:52.180 --> 00:20:56.180
  • You are dedicating that time to just my family so you're
  • 00:20:58.020 --> 00:21:01.240
  • conveying to them that they are first.
  • 00:21:03.070 --> 00:21:05.270
  • One thing about my ministry my family always knew who
  • 00:21:05.270 --> 00:21:10.020
  • was first, if this church needed something and Dee Dee or
  • 00:21:11.130 --> 00:21:15.250
  • my family needed something this church would have to wait.
  • 00:21:15.250 --> 00:21:19.270
  • So I don't know and care how corporate you are don't you
  • 00:21:19.270 --> 00:21:23.250
  • ever let anything replace what's first place.
  • 00:21:23.250 --> 00:21:27.180
  • You got it?
  • 00:21:29.080 --> 00:21:30.220
  • And if you keep them first place the way they reciprocate
  • 00:21:30.220 --> 00:21:34.260
  • that and knowing that dad and husband is gonna make
  • 00:21:34.260 --> 00:21:39.250
  • us first, whenever you want to come alongside of that
  • 00:21:39.250 --> 00:21:44.060
  • is gonna be fulfilled, I promise you that.
  • 00:21:44.060 --> 00:21:47.270
  • - [Tamela] That's good.
  • 00:21:47.270 --> 00:21:49.210
  • - Got it?
  • 00:21:49.210 --> 00:21:50.210
  • Love you.
  • 00:21:50.210 --> 00:21:51.190
  • - That's why you the pastor.
  • 00:21:51.190 --> 00:21:53.060
  • (congregation laughs)
  • 00:21:53.060 --> 00:21:55.080
  • That's real good.
  • 00:21:55.080 --> 00:21:56.140
  • - No no no no.
  • 00:21:56.140 --> 00:21:57.230
  • Yes ma'am last question.
  • 00:21:57.230 --> 00:21:59.170
  • - Good evening, mine is more of a statement and an
  • 00:21:59.170 --> 00:22:03.040
  • acknowledge you and I just wanted to thank you guys
  • 00:22:03.040 --> 00:22:05.160
  • for talking about what we're doing in here and why
  • 00:22:05.160 --> 00:22:09.030
  • we're here and for the marriages that, as you said,
  • 00:22:09.030 --> 00:22:13.190
  • everybody thinks everything looks good because you're
  • 00:22:13.190 --> 00:22:15.250
  • smiling and you're happy.
  • 00:22:15.250 --> 00:22:17.020
  • - [Mike] Absolutely.
  • 00:22:17.020 --> 00:22:18.150
  • - You're right, it takes work and year three was hell,
  • 00:22:18.150 --> 00:22:22.130
  • as far as blended families go but I love what you said
  • 00:22:22.130 --> 00:22:25.270
  • because we had to make that same commitment,
  • 00:22:25.270 --> 00:22:28.080
  • divorce is not an option.
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  • But what's also important is to know there are so many
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  • people counting on our marriages to work.
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  • - [Mike] Absolutely.
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  • - We have no idea whose counting on that
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  • or whose watching until we disappear and you get that
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  • strange call, I notice you guys, you're not posting about
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  • this, you're not posting about that.
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  • Are you guys okay?
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  • Oh yeah, we're in school now, so that's all
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  • but thank you so much.
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  • - [Mike] I think one of the most selfish things you can do
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  • is divorce.
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  • - That's interesting because it effects more than just
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  • that family.
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  • - If there's some biblical grounds and there's
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  • some biblical grounds then of course I get that
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  • but what happens, the scripture say's God only allowed it
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  • because Moses said their hearts were hard
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  • and divorce was permitted because people get hard hearts.
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  • There's no such thing for a believer as irreconcilable
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  • differences and so we literally put ourselves in the place
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  • where the focus becomes simply us.
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  • It would direct the body of Christ in many ways if word
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  • got out Dee Dee and I were not together so I place something
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  • higher then just what I want.
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  • - [Dee Dee] That's right.
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  • - [Woman] Absolutely.
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  • - You know what I'm saying, there's something governs
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  • my feelings when I want something and one of the ways that
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  • God proved to me that I was following him was by how I
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  • deny myself.
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  • He said if you desire to follow me deny yourself,
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  • take up your cross and then we can go places.
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  • So with respect to that you can't get into this thing about,
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  • you know it's my time, I've been giving people all my life
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  • and now nobody's been giving me anything and I'm just tired
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  • and I'm outta here, that is so selfish.
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  • Because so many relationships that you aren't even aware
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  • of are depending on your staying together.
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  • - Absolutely, that's so true, thank you so much.
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  • - [Mike] Thank you, God bless you.
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  • - [Tamela] God bless you.
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  • - Give it up for the Manns!
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  • (audience cheers and applauds)
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  • Voiceover: If you are ever in the Washington
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  • - I sure hope that Bishop T.D. Jakes doesn't mind me
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  • using a page out of his book, and tell you
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  • to get ready, get ready, get ready,
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  • because God's Glamorous Girls, GGG, is coming in July,
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  • July 11th, at the Baltimore Convention Center.
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  • My wife is preparing for you ladies all over the world.
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  • Ya gotta be there.
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  • One of the most exciting woman's conferences
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  • in this entire world.
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  • You won't want to miss it.
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  • There are exciting speakers.
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  • I can just tell ya one.
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  • I don't think she has let the cat out of the bag about this,
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  • but Lady Jakes is one of the speakers.
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  • She is a phenomenal woman, just a woman of God
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  • who is a mother in Zion, who can just share with you
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  • principles that have the kind of ministry
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  • and the kind of home and the kind of a relationship
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  • that a lot of you women are looking for.
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  • It's gonna bless your life.
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  • In addition, men, hear me, hear me good,
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  • I'm meeting with all of the men
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  • while the ladies are doing their thing.
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  • I want to share with you, all of the pastors,
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  • come along with your wife.
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  • You didn't think there was anything for you,
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  • but there're some things that I am feverishly
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  • planning at this particular time
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  • to make sure I can speak to you.
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  • It's a very laid back setting.
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  • You won't have to dress up or be
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  • prepared as we would for conferences.
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  • I just want to sit there with you,
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  • share some things that I've learned over the years,
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  • to cause your ministry to have
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  • the excitement that we have here at
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  • Spirit of Faith Christian Center.
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  • But GGG, you won't want to miss it, I promise you.
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  • Don't be like one of those who were saying after the fact,
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  • "Man, I knew I should have been there."
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  • Be there.
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  • (dramatic orchestral music)
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  • - Draw nigh unto him, and he'll draw nigh unto you.
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  • Jesus is calling.
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  • Jesus is calling me.
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  • - We believe God.
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  • He's the one that delivers us.
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  • He's the one that keeps his word.
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  • - [Announcer] Coming to the Baltimore Convention Center
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  • July 11th through the 13th, The Fellowship presents
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  • featuring DeeDee Freeman, Serita Jakes, Shun Strickland,
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  • of inspiration and transformation, with performances
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  • It's going to be epic.
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