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Tim and Brelyn Bowman Jr.

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October 16, 2017
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Living by Faith with Mike & DeeDee Freeman

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Tim and Brelyn Bowman Jr.

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  • - What a joy it is to be able to share with you
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  • from this broadcast platform.
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  • I'm Mike Freeman, the senior pastor
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  • of Spirit of Faith Christian Center
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  • in the D-M-V.
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  • And we're here on the Hillsong Channel
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  • to share with you the living word of God.
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  • I am certain that your life will forever be changed.
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  • You know years ago I decided to make Jesus
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  • the head of my life.
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  • I receive Holy Spirit as my helper
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  • and they both live in my heart.
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  • And it's my desire to have your heart his home
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  • and that you will grow through the living word of God.
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  • Call some people, tell them that Mike Freeman
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  • is on Living By Faith right now.
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  • It's gonna bless your life.
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  • I promise you're going to enjoy every bit of it.
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  • - Ladies and Gentleman, I believe
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  • it's a greater sin to not get back up and fight again.
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  • That's what God wants you to do.
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  • When you fall, he says rise up and go forward.
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  • (clapping)
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  • - We don't just survive things,
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  • we overcome in every area of our lives.
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  • - God has some design the human mechanism,
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  • the spirit, soul, and body
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  • that your life begins to move in the direction
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  • of what you see.
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  • - You got to visualize.
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  • You gotta verbalize.
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  • You gotta internalize until it materializes.
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  • - If you see health, your body will move in that direction.
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  • - Whew.
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  • - All right, today's broadcast
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  • is just exciting to me personally.
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  • It's exciting for me--
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  • - For both of us.
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  • - In so many different ways.
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  • But I need you to watch this first
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  • and then we'll get right back to ya
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  • and let you know who our special guest are.
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  • - Glory to God, we're gonna bring up Minister Brelin
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  • And Minister Tim, we want this union
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  • to be exulted and lifted up, why?
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  • Because they did it right, they did it
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  • according to the word of God, and
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  • we want to command the attention of the world.
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  • - Our phones blew up! - Boop boop boop boop
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  • And we just looked at each other.
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  • - We want youth from all over to see the blessing of God
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  • on their lives and how God has to honor them
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  • as they've honored Him, we want to pray for the ministry
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  • that's on their life, that God will lift it up
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  • as a trophy in his hand to show this is what I'll do
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  • when you do it right, we decree and declare it
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  • out of their bellies shall flow rivers
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  • of life giving water, to every stale and stagnated
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  • place that they'll go into when they open their mouth
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  • to minister, the refreshing of the Lord shall fall afresh
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  • on all that will hear their ministry.
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  • And just like Saul said for David, I decree and declare
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  • that invitations are coming and they will come
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  • and represent the sound of the Lord.
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  • And we're thinking they shall be received and
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  • they shall be heard and bondage shall be destroyed
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  • and the standard of the Lord shall be raised up
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  • in the earth like never before.
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  • If you agree with this, say Amen. Hallelujah, glory be.
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  • And without further ado, hashtag.
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  • - [Both] Meet the Bowman's.
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  • - [DeeDee and Bri] Hey. - [Mike] Guys.
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  • - [Mike] What's happening?
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  • Mr. and Mrs. Bowman.
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  • - Yes.
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  • - That's something, I'm first of all
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  • getting adjusted to.
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  • Are you adjusting to?
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  • - I am too.
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  • - You are, 'cause I am too.
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  • I am too, but I'm so excited so.
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  • - This story is an exciting story.
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  • I'm really.
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  • It's a surreal kind of deal you know,
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  • at age 13 you decide
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  • to take me up on something
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  • that I've proposed and presented to you
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  • as I've done, of course,
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  • with your sister.
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  • You watched that whole episode.
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  • Then you had an opportunity to watch her life.
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  • Now you're 13,
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  • and you signed the covenant commitment.
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  • - Right.
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  • - What are your thoughts like back then?
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  • Let's try to go back.
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  • - Well it's funny that you ask
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  • because I found a paper of a speech
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  • that I wrote before I actually signed the paper
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  • at my 13th birthday party.
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  • I said, "I'm not just doing this out of formality
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  • "or just because I saw it."
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  • But because this is a decision
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  • that I wanted to make for my own self.
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  • - Wait a minute, make sure I'm clear.
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  • You wrote yourself a letter?
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  • - No, I was making a speech at the covenant ceremony.
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  • - Oh you went back to review.
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  • - Right I went back over it.
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  • - The video footage.
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  • I haven't seen that.
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  • - Yeah, it was a paper we kept.
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  • - Yeah, I keep all of those kind of papers.
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  • I'm real sentimental.
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  • - So to see that now when I'm married
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  • to go back to 13 and say,
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  • "Okay, yeah, it was something that was
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  • "really in my heart that I wanted to do."
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  • And not just because my sister did it.
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  • Or because my father said do it,
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  • but because something I knew that God commanded us to do.
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  • - Well certainly your sister helped you.
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  • - Absolutely, absolutely.
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  • - In wanting to see the same thing.
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  • First of all, let's back up.
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  • Let's back up.
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  • How did you feel at her wedding day
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  • when she presented that?
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  • 'Cause at that particular time
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  • you're much further along in the process,
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  • you've made the commitment for a few years now.
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  • She hands a certificate to me.
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  • That doesn't go and do anything near
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  • the response you all--
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  • - Well it did for me.
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  • - Ha ya ya ya ya ya ya.
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  • - It did for me, it gave me a second wind.
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  • You know, in the sense of really say,
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  • okay if she did it, she made it to the finish line,
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  • there's no way I cannot do it.
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  • So for me it went viral in my life.
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  • You know, so that's - [DeeDee] That's good.
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  • what I love the most about it. - [Mike] Chaka Khan.
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  • - [Bre] Because now my life, - [Mike] My, my, my, my
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  • can be an example - [Mike] that's good.
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  • - [Bre] just as hers was to me.
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  • - Yeah, and so if we had more
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  • big sisters participating in that capacity.
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  • Imagine the impact.
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  • You compare that with something
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  • so magnificent and massive.
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  • It went viral in your spirit.
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  • The same capacity that it took on
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  • in the earth, it happened in your spirit.
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  • - [Bre] Absolutely.
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  • - Now well your husband is here.
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  • You know, we can't prove that, you understand?
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  • We're gonna put him on the Maury show
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  • and hook him up to a lie detector or something.
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  • Ladies and gentlemen, Tim Bowman.
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  • Tim Bowman Junior. - [Tim] Junior.
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  • - I love your family.
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  • I love you.
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  • I'm just grateful to God
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  • about this whole thing.
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  • This whole connection.
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  • We, DeeDee and I,
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  • since this girl was
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  • two, three years old.
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  • Put on our board, praying for her husband.
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  • We had no idea,
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  • that it would be a funny looking cat.
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  • (everyone laughs)
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  • - With so much swag.
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  • - With so much swag.
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  • So in the interim now,
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  • you are making a personal
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  • commitment yourself with God.
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  • - Absolutely.
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  • - Tell us about your story.
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  • - Mines is a little less glamorous
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  • than my beautiful wife's. - [Mike] Okay, alright.
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  • - [Tim] But it is a commitment and a covenant nonetheless.
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  • Basically, I didn't make one with my parents.
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  • But what they instilled in me
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  • much like what you guys instilled in her.
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  • - Yeah.
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  • - I decided to honor God.
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  • And what the Bible tells us we should
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  • do with our bodies prior to marriage.
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  • - I mean,
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  • how involved.
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  • Of course you were raised in the church.
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  • - Right, church kid.
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  • - Church kid.
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  • - People say I've been 60 years old since I've been 14.
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  • And I have a very old soul.
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  • - Yeah this is true.
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  • - I love going to church.
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  • We are the church.
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  • - We are the church, we understand that.
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  • - But you know,
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  • just being with the people. - [DeeDee] Fellowship
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  • - [DeeDee] and the worship.
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  • - The whole church scene.
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  • - Love it.
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  • - And all this about.
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  • We were in a church, not too long ago.
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  • A week or so ago.
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  • And the pastor said the same thing.
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  • He said, "I just love church."
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  • And she turned to me and said,
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  • "That's what Tim was talking about right there."
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  • - There's nothing like it.
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  • - There's nothing like church.
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  • But you're growing up.
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  • And it's having the effect and the impact.
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  • And you're saying, unlike most young men
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  • who are even in church.
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  • - Yeah, because it's not that common.
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  • It should be.
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  • - But at the same time
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  • as we have prayed for her,
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  • she has been praying the whole time.
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  • God if I'm going to preserve myself.
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  • - To save myself as they say.
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  • - Right.
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  • Why can't I believe you
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  • for someone who's doing the same thing right now?
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  • - Absolutely, and it felt so good.
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  • 'Cause when me and Brelyn decided to date,
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  • I had so much respect for her.
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  • So when she told me that
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  • it was so important for her to
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  • be with somebody who had saved themselves.
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  • To be able to stand in that situation
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  • and in that moment,
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  • and know that you've saved yourself,
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  • it felt so good.
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  • - Were you praying for the similar kind of outcome or?
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  • - Not at all.
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  • - You wasn't thinking along that?
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  • - You weren't?
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  • - I weren't.
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  • I wasn't, I wasn't praying I want a virgin.
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  • - Obviously y'all never had this kind of discussion.
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  • - Yeah, I wasn't praying for it.
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  • It's just something that.
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  • I'm real diligent.
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  • I'm a real diligent person,
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  • so it wasn't about anybody else doing it.
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  • It was about what I needed to do
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  • in the commitment that I made.
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  • So I'm really not saying that you praying for it.
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  • But it was just something for me.
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  • Yeah, but I didn't pray for it.
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  • - Well we gotta go to break.
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  • But I wanna find out,
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  • what you would tell another young man.
  • 00:11:12.040 --> 00:11:16.080
  • Because we need more young men like you.
  • 00:11:16.080 --> 00:11:18.270
  • And then secondly, I would like for you
  • 00:11:18.270 --> 00:11:21.060
  • to explain this whole purity piece.
  • 00:11:21.060 --> 00:11:24.080
  • Because purity is not just abstaining from the sexual act.
  • 00:11:24.080 --> 00:11:28.040
  • 'Cause you can have all kind of
  • 00:11:28.040 --> 00:11:30.020
  • perverted things going on in your soul.
  • 00:11:30.020 --> 00:11:32.250
  • And that will disqualify you
  • 00:11:32.250 --> 00:11:35.160
  • as for being pure.
  • 00:11:35.160 --> 00:11:37.100
  • And so when we come back,
  • 00:11:37.100 --> 00:11:39.200
  • with the Bowman's, we're gonna have
  • 00:11:40.210 --> 00:11:42.290
  • those questions answered.
  • 00:11:42.290 --> 00:11:45.060
  • Stay tuned.
  • 00:11:45.060 --> 00:11:46.130
  • - Hola!
  • 00:11:54.020 --> 00:11:54.270
  • Boom, boom, boom, boom!
  • 00:11:56.060 --> 00:11:58.030
  • Babe, let's go.
  • 00:11:59.030 --> 00:12:00.120
  • We're going to get our marriage license today.
  • 00:12:01.230 --> 00:12:04.000
  • Whoop, whoop, whoop!
  • 00:12:04.000 --> 00:12:05.210
  • - Turn up, turn up, turn up
  • 00:12:05.210 --> 00:12:07.090
  • - You look cute!
  • 00:12:07.090 --> 00:12:09.040
  • So, we're excited.
  • 00:12:09.040 --> 00:12:11.060
  • I'm a little nervous because
  • 00:12:11.060 --> 00:12:12.150
  • (clears throat)
  • 00:12:12.150 --> 00:12:13.210
  • - What are you nervous for?
  • 00:12:13.210 --> 00:12:14.160
  • - Signing my life away.
  • 00:12:14.160 --> 00:12:15.160
  • (laughs)
  • 00:12:15.160 --> 00:12:16.110
  • - No, no, no.
  • 00:12:16.110 --> 00:12:17.120
  • - I'm not nervous at all because
  • 00:12:17.120 --> 00:12:18.180
  • I've never been sure of anything else
  • 00:12:18.180 --> 00:12:21.080
  • as I am sure of marrying this beautiful woman, right here.
  • 00:12:21.080 --> 00:12:25.150
  • - Oh, he's just trying to be sweet.
  • 00:12:25.150 --> 00:12:28.100
  • - Well we are on our way to the courthouse
  • 00:12:36.260 --> 00:12:39.160
  • to get our marriage license.
  • 00:12:39.160 --> 00:12:41.260
  • This is a big day, a big step.
  • 00:12:42.230 --> 00:12:45.080
  • It makes the whole process feel so much more real.
  • 00:12:46.240 --> 00:12:50.290
  • And I don't know what
  • 00:12:52.110 --> 00:12:54.230
  • what's in store.
  • 00:12:54.230 --> 00:12:56.090
  • Did I bring all the things I was supposed to bring?
  • 00:12:56.090 --> 00:13:00.050
  • No, yes?
  • 00:13:00.050 --> 00:13:01.000
  • You was supposed to make sure
  • 00:13:02.150 --> 00:13:03.140
  • - Did you?
  • 00:13:03.140 --> 00:13:04.200
  • - I guess, but yeah, I'm excited.
  • 00:13:04.200 --> 00:13:06.190
  • - I am thrilled.
  • 00:13:06.190 --> 00:13:07.290
  • I am overjoyed.
  • 00:13:09.220 --> 00:13:10.290
  • I'm overwhelmed.
  • 00:13:12.200 --> 00:13:14.000
  • I feel so many different ways I can keep going,
  • 00:13:15.270 --> 00:13:19.110
  • but I am excited about today.
  • 00:13:19.110 --> 00:13:22.000
  • It's one step closer.
  • 00:13:22.000 --> 00:13:23.220
  • We are officially 12 days away.
  • 00:13:25.010 --> 00:13:27.180
  • And it couldn't get here quick enough.
  • 00:13:28.290 --> 00:13:32.040
  • - Ya'll are looking at the marriage license
  • 00:13:35.000 --> 00:13:37.120
  • for Timothy Bowman Jr, and Brelyn Freeman.
  • 00:13:37.120 --> 00:13:40.210
  • Ya'll, we are so excited,
  • 00:13:40.210 --> 00:13:42.010
  • we got a chance to just come into the chapel
  • 00:13:42.010 --> 00:13:44.130
  • where people will come and get married
  • 00:13:44.130 --> 00:13:46.070
  • if they want to get married at the courthouse.
  • 00:13:46.070 --> 00:13:48.130
  • But, we are just overjoyed.
  • 00:13:48.130 --> 00:13:50.010
  • God has been so good to us, and we're so grateful.
  • 00:13:50.010 --> 00:13:52.100
  • And He's just so mindful.
  • 00:13:52.100 --> 00:13:54.120
  • He knew what I wanted in a wife and He gave it to me.
  • 00:13:54.120 --> 00:13:58.000
  • - Likewise.
  • 00:13:58.000 --> 00:13:59.090
  • - And we're just excited, man.
  • 00:13:59.090 --> 00:14:01.050
  • We don't take any of this for granted
  • 00:14:01.050 --> 00:14:03.040
  • We don't take
  • 00:14:03.040 --> 00:14:04.030
  • And I believe that God is also
  • 00:14:04.030 --> 00:14:06.110
  • honoring the sacrifice and commitment
  • 00:14:06.110 --> 00:14:09.020
  • that we made to Him, and to each other.
  • 00:14:09.020 --> 00:14:11.080
  • We have not had sex.
  • 00:14:11.080 --> 00:14:13.090
  • We're not ashamed of it.
  • 00:14:13.090 --> 00:14:14.280
  • And I believe it's going to
  • 00:14:14.280 --> 00:14:16.130
  • - or with anyone
  • 00:14:16.130 --> 00:14:17.080
  • - with anyone
  • 00:14:17.080 --> 00:14:18.030
  • - we're virgins
  • 00:14:18.030 --> 00:14:18.280
  • - virgins and
  • 00:14:18.280 --> 00:14:19.230
  • - to be clear
  • 00:14:19.230 --> 00:14:21.060
  • - We're just excited, man.
  • 00:14:21.060 --> 00:14:22.000
  • So we're back with hashtag meet the Bowman's.
  • 00:14:37.100 --> 00:14:40.190
  • And you need to go on that website
  • 00:14:40.190 --> 00:14:42.220
  • and find out all of the information that they have.
  • 00:14:42.220 --> 00:14:46.000
  • They have product, everything that will bless your life.
  • 00:14:46.000 --> 00:14:48.220
  • - [DeeDee] The purity certificate.
  • 00:14:48.220 --> 00:14:50.010
  • - Put your child on the right path.
  • 00:14:50.010 --> 00:14:52.070
  • And even if in fact you're still single
  • 00:14:52.070 --> 00:14:54.210
  • and considering that,
  • 00:14:54.210 --> 00:14:56.150
  • then that will be a great place to start.
  • 00:14:56.150 --> 00:14:59.000
  • So, watch this.
  • 00:14:59.000 --> 00:15:00.210
  • Tim, before we went to our break,
  • 00:15:00.210 --> 00:15:04.050
  • you were going to share with
  • 00:15:04.050 --> 00:15:06.250
  • other young men, how they can position themself.
  • 00:15:06.250 --> 00:15:11.100
  • I know Brelyn just mentioned
  • 00:15:11.100 --> 00:15:13.180
  • this thing has to go viral in you.
  • 00:15:13.180 --> 00:15:16.200
  • How would you suggest or recommend
  • 00:15:16.200 --> 00:15:20.220
  • a young men just keep that kind of focus throughout?
  • 00:15:20.220 --> 00:15:24.050
  • - Well, I think it's two things.
  • 00:15:24.050 --> 00:15:26.040
  • I think it's very rare for people in this generation--
  • 00:15:26.040 --> 00:15:30.030
  • - It is.
  • 00:15:30.030 --> 00:15:31.060
  • - To make that commitment and keep it.
  • 00:15:31.060 --> 00:15:32.200
  • But it's more rare, I would say for a man to do it.
  • 00:15:32.200 --> 00:15:35.130
  • - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
  • 00:15:35.130 --> 00:15:36.200
  • - And there's this big misconception--
  • 00:15:36.200 --> 00:15:39.060
  • - 'Cause Tim I would have done it
  • 00:15:39.060 --> 00:15:40.170
  • if DeeDee wouldn't have been pressuring
  • 00:15:40.170 --> 00:15:43.240
  • me so much. - [DeeDee] I was all on you!
  • 00:15:43.240 --> 00:15:45.290
  • - Stop it, stop.
  • 00:15:45.290 --> 00:15:48.160
  • That is not true at all.
  • 00:15:48.160 --> 00:15:50.170
  • It was just the opposite actually.
  • 00:15:50.170 --> 00:15:53.120
  • Okay, so talk to me, I apologize.
  • 00:15:53.120 --> 00:15:55.290
  • - No, no, no, no, no, no.
  • 00:15:55.290 --> 00:15:57.140
  • But it's this misconception that you come off as weak,
  • 00:15:57.140 --> 00:16:00.200
  • and you know you wack. - [Mike] Lame.
  • 00:16:00.200 --> 00:16:02.130
  • - [Tim] Yeah all that stuff.
  • 00:16:02.130 --> 00:16:04.100
  • - Less than a man.
  • 00:16:05.090 --> 00:16:06.080
  • - Less than a man.
  • 00:16:06.080 --> 00:16:07.230
  • - Did you hear all of that?
  • 00:16:08.250 --> 00:16:10.010
  • Did you hear?
  • 00:16:10.010 --> 00:16:10.290
  • - No--
  • 00:16:10.290 --> 00:16:11.270
  • - Or were you as public with it
  • 00:16:11.270 --> 00:16:13.210
  • or you kept it on the.
  • 00:16:13.210 --> 00:16:15.140
  • - I really was public, but I don't have a
  • 00:16:15.140 --> 00:16:19.010
  • self-confidence problem.
  • 00:16:19.010 --> 00:16:20.270
  • You always tell me that.
  • 00:16:22.210 --> 00:16:24.040
  • (hissess)
  • 00:16:24.040 --> 00:16:25.260
  • Just come down just a little bit.
  • 00:16:25.260 --> 00:16:27.040
  • He calls me four much.
  • 00:16:27.040 --> 00:16:29.040
  • I'm not two much I'm four much.
  • 00:16:29.040 --> 00:16:30.180
  • But no, I think it's my motto through this whole thing.
  • 00:16:30.180 --> 00:16:34.170
  • And I keep saying it.
  • 00:16:34.170 --> 00:16:36.020
  • Is we feel like we need sex to boost up our swag.
  • 00:16:36.020 --> 00:16:39.270
  • And I always have been saying,
  • 00:16:39.270 --> 00:16:42.020
  • that if you need sex for your swag,
  • 00:16:42.020 --> 00:16:44.210
  • you didn't have much swag in the first place.
  • 00:16:44.210 --> 00:16:46.220
  • - Come on, come on.
  • 00:16:46.220 --> 00:16:47.270
  • - Now I'm just saying that because,
  • 00:16:47.270 --> 00:16:50.010
  • you think you have this swag.
  • 00:16:50.010 --> 00:16:51.250
  • And you sweed and you walking around on all these things.
  • 00:16:51.250 --> 00:16:55.080
  • But if you really care that much about
  • 00:16:55.080 --> 00:16:57.170
  • what people think about you.
  • 00:16:57.170 --> 00:16:59.080
  • Like what is that?
  • 00:16:59.080 --> 00:17:00.130
  • All that stuff is superficial.
  • 00:17:00.130 --> 00:17:02.050
  • So first, for me, it was finding out who I was.
  • 00:17:02.050 --> 00:17:05.230
  • - Where was your focus?
  • 00:17:05.230 --> 00:17:07.080
  • I mean was your focus that you have one individual?
  • 00:17:07.080 --> 00:17:10.130
  • Did you have your pastor?
  • 00:17:10.130 --> 00:17:12.170
  • Who guided you?
  • 00:17:12.170 --> 00:17:14.230
  • Who was the mentor?
  • 00:17:14.230 --> 00:17:16.290
  • How do you do that?
  • 00:17:16.290 --> 00:17:19.100
  • I mean, how do you abstain?
  • 00:17:19.100 --> 00:17:21.220
  • I really want you to--
  • 00:17:21.220 --> 00:17:23.160
  • - Yeah, was that something your
  • 00:17:23.160 --> 00:17:24.140
  • parents preached to you or what?
  • 00:17:24.140 --> 00:17:26.130
  • - It's good.
  • 00:17:26.130 --> 00:17:27.200
  • Finding something that was more pleasurable
  • 00:17:27.200 --> 00:17:30.220
  • than the act itself.
  • 00:17:30.220 --> 00:17:32.140
  • So the whole reason why people have
  • 00:17:32.140 --> 00:17:34.200
  • sex before marriage and ruin that commitment
  • 00:17:34.200 --> 00:17:36.250
  • is to experience that pleasure.
  • 00:17:36.250 --> 00:17:38.090
  • - Yeah.
  • 00:17:38.090 --> 00:17:39.070
  • - So for me, and like I said,
  • 00:17:39.070 --> 00:17:41.150
  • people have been saying I was 60
  • 00:17:41.150 --> 00:17:42.250
  • since I was 14 years old.
  • 00:17:42.250 --> 00:17:44.180
  • But for me, breaking that commitment to God
  • 00:17:44.180 --> 00:17:47.080
  • was so much more important.
  • 00:17:47.080 --> 00:17:49.040
  • - See that's what I'm saying.
  • 00:17:49.040 --> 00:17:50.020
  • So you had something higher
  • 00:17:50.020 --> 00:17:52.110
  • than that particular pleasure
  • 00:17:52.110 --> 00:17:55.040
  • that helped you to abstain over that time.
  • 00:17:55.040 --> 00:17:58.260
  • - And that principle that was put into me
  • 00:17:58.260 --> 00:18:01.150
  • pertaining to sex has carried
  • 00:18:01.150 --> 00:18:03.200
  • on in my life to other things.
  • 00:18:03.200 --> 00:18:06.130
  • - And so what was the deal with you
  • 00:18:06.130 --> 00:18:08.080
  • with respect to that Bre?
  • 00:18:08.080 --> 00:18:09.230
  • - Well mine was just being involved,
  • 00:18:09.230 --> 00:18:12.060
  • or my upcoming, upbringing with you all.
  • 00:18:12.060 --> 00:18:15.040
  • Knowing what the word was.
  • 00:18:15.040 --> 00:18:17.020
  • And I always say that parents are the representations
  • 00:18:17.020 --> 00:18:19.200
  • of Christ in the earth.
  • 00:18:19.200 --> 00:18:21.010
  • So your word to me was gold.
  • 00:18:21.010 --> 00:18:23.160
  • It was like, that's what I'm gonna do.
  • 00:18:23.160 --> 00:18:25.260
  • But as I got older I gained a relationship
  • 00:18:25.260 --> 00:18:28.150
  • with God for myself.
  • 00:18:28.150 --> 00:18:30.020
  • And I gained a relationship with the word.
  • 00:18:30.020 --> 00:18:31.230
  • So I knew this was right and this was what I wanna do.
  • 00:18:31.230 --> 00:18:34.150
  • So that kept me on track.
  • 00:18:34.150 --> 00:18:35.280
  • And then having people around me
  • 00:18:35.280 --> 00:18:38.130
  • who had the same like mind.
  • 00:18:38.130 --> 00:18:40.030
  • I think Tim's upbringing. - [Mike] That's my motto.
  • 00:18:40.030 --> 00:18:42.050
  • - Yeah, right, hang with those who have your answer,
  • 00:18:42.050 --> 00:18:44.140
  • get away from those who have your problem.
  • 00:18:44.140 --> 00:18:45.260
  • - Come on, preach it.
  • 00:18:45.260 --> 00:18:47.010
  • - And that is huge, because if Tim
  • 00:18:47.010 --> 00:18:49.250
  • even as a guy like he said.
  • 00:18:49.250 --> 00:18:52.260
  • Just putting up something that's higher
  • 00:18:52.260 --> 00:18:56.020
  • than the pleasure of sex.
  • 00:18:56.020 --> 00:18:58.030
  • Is like, for him that was his way,
  • 00:18:58.030 --> 00:18:59.260
  • and a lot of people don't have that upbringing
  • 00:18:59.260 --> 00:19:02.070
  • or people they know who wanna abstain.
  • 00:19:02.070 --> 00:19:05.050
  • But if they just say, okay, this is what
  • 00:19:05.050 --> 00:19:07.030
  • God wants for me.
  • 00:19:07.030 --> 00:19:08.180
  • And then when you honor God's word, He'll honor you.
  • 00:19:08.180 --> 00:19:11.070
  • And that's when you--
  • 00:19:11.070 --> 00:19:12.100
  • - We've seen the fruit.
  • 00:19:12.100 --> 00:19:13.260
  • It's like we could sit here right now.
  • 00:19:13.260 --> 00:19:16.070
  • Last week was our 10 month anniversary.
  • 00:19:17.080 --> 00:19:19.250
  • - [Bree and Mike] Three month.
  • 00:19:19.250 --> 00:19:21.020
  • - Three month, why am I saying 10?
  • 00:19:21.020 --> 00:19:23.010
  • - I heard three.
  • 00:19:23.010 --> 00:19:24.080
  • - 10 is on my head for some reason.
  • 00:19:24.080 --> 00:19:25.170
  • - Yeah, yeah, you were married the 10th day.
  • 00:19:25.170 --> 00:19:27.010
  • - God has start a word in me.
  • 00:19:27.010 --> 00:19:28.150
  • We'll reveal it later on.
  • 00:19:28.150 --> 00:19:30.120
  • He's dealing with Tim, He's dealing with Tim.
  • 00:19:30.120 --> 00:19:33.120
  • Anyway, it was our three month anniversary
  • 00:19:33.120 --> 00:19:35.270
  • and we can sit here and say that
  • 00:19:35.270 --> 00:19:37.180
  • we have experienced the fruit
  • 00:19:37.180 --> 00:19:40.060
  • of the decisions that we have made so.
  • 00:19:40.060 --> 00:19:42.090
  • - Yeah, I think that's what I love most
  • 00:19:42.090 --> 00:19:43.210
  • about our story.
  • 00:19:43.210 --> 00:19:45.060
  • Because you see a lot of people talk.
  • 00:19:45.060 --> 00:19:46.220
  • I've been abstaining for 50 years,
  • 00:19:46.220 --> 00:19:49.060
  • which is not a put down or anything bad,
  • 00:19:49.060 --> 00:19:51.080
  • but God really allowed our story to go viral
  • 00:19:51.080 --> 00:19:54.010
  • when we had the fruit.
  • 00:19:54.010 --> 00:19:55.190
  • So it's like, we're not just talking.
  • 00:19:55.190 --> 00:19:57.280
  • Like, we not just talking, we did this.
  • 00:19:57.280 --> 00:20:00.100
  • So we have the fruit of it.
  • 00:20:00.100 --> 00:20:01.260
  • That's what I love about it 'cause we can
  • 00:20:01.260 --> 00:20:03.180
  • share with people it is possible
  • 00:20:03.180 --> 00:20:05.070
  • and we did do it.
  • 00:20:05.070 --> 00:20:06.120
  • And this is the fruit of what we did.
  • 00:20:06.120 --> 00:20:07.270
  • - Okay, backtrack.
  • 00:20:07.270 --> 00:20:09.020
  • 'Cause we saw a little highlight of it.
  • 00:20:09.020 --> 00:20:10.220
  • We're at the reception, you call me up,
  • 00:20:10.220 --> 00:20:13.090
  • just like you saw your sister do it.
  • 00:20:13.090 --> 00:20:15.170
  • I was used to that, because she did it.
  • 00:20:15.170 --> 00:20:18.010
  • And now this is my moment to receive the certificate.
  • 00:20:18.010 --> 00:20:22.040
  • You give me the certificate--
  • 00:20:22.040 --> 00:20:23.100
  • - But was that required?
  • 00:20:23.100 --> 00:20:24.120
  • - Yeah, you darn tooting it was.
  • 00:20:24.120 --> 00:20:26.030
  • No (pastor laughs).
  • 00:20:26.030 --> 00:20:28.200
  • It was not required.
  • 00:20:28.200 --> 00:20:30.070
  • - That's what the issue has been.
  • 00:20:30.070 --> 00:20:31.230
  • - That was one of the issues yeah.
  • 00:20:31.230 --> 00:20:32.270
  • - You know, this whole time.
  • 00:20:32.270 --> 00:20:34.040
  • - Yeah, I was a jerk.
  • 00:20:34.040 --> 00:20:35.110
  • I was just some kind of--
  • 00:20:35.110 --> 00:20:36.250
  • - You were just everything.
  • 00:20:36.250 --> 00:20:38.060
  • Creep everything. - [Mike] Everything, so yeah.
  • 00:20:38.060 --> 00:20:39.070
  • - [Mike] But look at the fruit.
  • 00:20:39.070 --> 00:20:40.090
  • Get this, so you're now married,
  • 00:20:41.200 --> 00:20:45.090
  • you're at the reception, I get this certificate.
  • 00:20:45.090 --> 00:20:47.230
  • You leave, you're on your way to Dubai, your honeymoon spot.
  • 00:20:47.230 --> 00:20:51.050
  • Or the Maldives.
  • 00:20:51.050 --> 00:20:52.270
  • The plane lands, you turn on your phone and?
  • 00:20:53.290 --> 00:20:57.240
  • - Kaboom.
  • 00:20:57.240 --> 00:20:59.090
  • - Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
  • 00:20:59.090 --> 00:21:01.080
  • Like it went crazy.
  • 00:21:01.080 --> 00:21:03.020
  • Because really I was just doing highlights of the wedding.
  • 00:21:03.020 --> 00:21:06.060
  • And because I've been sharing my story
  • 00:21:06.060 --> 00:21:07.280
  • and my commitment to God so long ago
  • 00:21:07.280 --> 00:21:10.110
  • it wasn't something different for me
  • 00:21:10.110 --> 00:21:12.100
  • to post about my commitment or what I did.
  • 00:21:12.100 --> 00:21:15.010
  • So the highlights are just,
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  • me and Tim dancing.
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  • And then I say okay, "Hey I presented my father
  • 00:21:18.060 --> 00:21:20.180
  • "with this purity certificate stating that I was a virgin."
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  • Got my doctor's signature, everything on that.
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  • And then that, it just was like crazy.
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  • So I think in the moment,
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  • Tim really just said, "Hey look.
  • 00:21:32.050 --> 00:21:34.190
  • "This could be bad or this could be good."
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  • Tim is very calm in situations.
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  • I could be the one that's like (fake screams).
  • 00:21:39.010 --> 00:21:41.030
  • - Well let's deduce it down to what it is.
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  • Okay we looking at it, and let's figure it out.
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  • All this extra.
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  • Because people had a lot of negative things to say.
  • 00:21:48.110 --> 00:21:50.150
  • - It started off really negative.
  • 00:21:50.150 --> 00:21:53.050
  • 'Cause the Shade Room posted it.
  • 00:21:53.050 --> 00:21:55.100
  • - I remember your calling home and like "Dad."
  • 00:21:55.100 --> 00:21:58.130
  • - And it was like "The Shade Room posted it!"
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  • People were saying da da da.
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  • - I'm not familiar with the Shade Room like that.
  • 00:22:01.120 --> 00:22:03.010
  • - They throw shade.
  • 00:22:03.010 --> 00:22:04.010
  • - That's all they do.
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  • - That's all you need to know.
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  • - A room of shade.
  • 00:22:05.270 --> 00:22:06.270
  • - [Bre and Mike] A room of shade.
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  • - [Mike] And you felt like clapping back.
  • 00:22:08.140 --> 00:22:10.050
  • I learned that. - [Tim] Yes.
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  • - But it was great, because he allowed me
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  • to see it as, "Okay this is an opportunity
  • 00:22:16.190 --> 00:22:18.280
  • "to share your story.
  • 00:22:18.280 --> 00:22:20.100
  • "And God is now giving you another platform
  • 00:22:20.100 --> 00:22:22.200
  • "to share your testimony and encourage others to wait."
  • 00:22:22.200 --> 00:22:26.120
  • - And that's what we're gonna talk about.
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  • The platform, the books, the products.
  • 00:22:28.010 --> 00:22:32.040
  • I mean you're gonna be so amazed
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  • at what the Lord has done
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  • through their testimony and story.
  • 00:22:38.090 --> 00:22:40.170
  • And I am elated to be able to say that's my baby girl.
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  • Stay tuned, don't go anywhere,
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  • we'll be right back.
  • 00:22:46.230 --> 00:22:48.060
  • So, we at the rehearsal dinner,
  • 00:22:51.130 --> 00:22:53.060
  • we just got done with the rehearsal.
  • 00:22:53.060 --> 00:22:56.160
  • It's still feeling surreal.
  • 00:22:56.160 --> 00:22:58.230
  • I'm so excited.
  • 00:22:58.230 --> 00:23:00.020
  • I can't even explain the feeling that I have.
  • 00:23:00.020 --> 00:23:03.160
  • It's like I waited my entire life
  • 00:23:03.160 --> 00:23:05.040
  • to find the woman of my dreams.
  • 00:23:05.040 --> 00:23:06.260
  • And I found her and she's amazing.
  • 00:23:06.260 --> 00:23:09.020
  • She came here tonight looking so good.
  • 00:23:09.020 --> 00:23:12.060
  • And, I'm just overwhelmed, man.
  • 00:23:12.060 --> 00:23:14.240
  • As I said, you know, during the times of all this talking,
  • 00:23:16.100 --> 00:23:20.140
  • it's like really hitting me, man.
  • 00:23:20.140 --> 00:23:22.250
  • I'm getting ready to go in a covenant with someone
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  • I'm going to spend the rest of my life with.
  • 00:23:26.040 --> 00:23:28.280
  • - I've been to this moment, I think a thousand,
  • 00:23:28.280 --> 00:23:31.210
  • if not more, times in my head.
  • 00:23:31.210 --> 00:23:33.280
  • And the way there's a will.
  • 00:23:33.280 --> 00:23:36.050
  • so tomorrow I will be so excited to actually see
  • 00:23:36.050 --> 00:23:39.090
  • everything that we have planned.
  • 00:23:39.090 --> 00:23:42.010
  • Everything come to where it's supposed to be and we're just
  • 00:23:42.010 --> 00:23:46.020
  • so, so, so excited,
  • 00:23:46.020 --> 00:23:47.190
  • about everything that's happening tomorrow
  • 00:23:49.160 --> 00:23:52.160
  • and I'm not going to get emotional,
  • 00:23:52.160 --> 00:23:54.290
  • cause I feel like I can cry right now.
  • 00:23:54.290 --> 00:23:56.290
  • But I'm not going to cry.
  • 00:23:56.290 --> 00:23:58.240
  • Cause I'm practicing,
  • 00:23:58.240 --> 00:24:00.110
  • I'm practicing that I'm not going to cry tomorrow.
  • 00:24:00.110 --> 00:24:04.090
  • So, if I can do it now,
  • 00:24:04.090 --> 00:24:05.190
  • I won't do it tomorrow.
  • 00:24:05.190 --> 00:24:07.010
  • - We got friends and family here, good food
  • 00:24:07.010 --> 00:24:10.160
  • - All this, I'm excited Tim is a great, great guy
  • 00:24:10.160 --> 00:24:15.020
  • and I think he's going to sing tomorrow
  • 00:24:15.020 --> 00:24:17.010
  • I think he's trying to surprise me,
  • 00:24:17.010 --> 00:24:18.080
  • but I know he gonna sing.
  • 00:24:18.080 --> 00:24:20.050
  • You can't come to a wedding and marry an artist
  • 00:24:20.050 --> 00:24:23.040
  • and he doesn't sing,
  • 00:24:23.040 --> 00:24:25.100
  • So, just pray that I make it through the song that he sings.
  • 00:24:25.100 --> 00:24:29.000
  • If you see me and I'm like,
  • 00:24:29.000 --> 00:24:31.080
  • just pray for me, just pray.
  • 00:24:33.060 --> 00:24:34.250
  • (laughs)
  • 00:24:34.250 --> 00:24:36.190
  • But, it's okay, we're gonna be good.
  • 00:24:36.190 --> 00:24:38.160
  • We're having a good time.
  • 00:24:38.160 --> 00:24:39.170
  • I'll see you later, or tomorrow.
  • 00:24:39.170 --> 00:24:39.190
  • Well, we're out of time for right now.
  • 00:24:42.150 --> 00:24:44.120
  • It's been a great show.
  • 00:24:44.120 --> 00:24:45.260
  • We'll be back on our next broadcast with you
  • 00:24:45.260 --> 00:24:48.130
  • to continue with the Bowman's.
  • 00:24:48.130 --> 00:24:50.160
  • But always remember that life is better
  • 00:24:50.160 --> 00:24:53.130
  • - [DeeDee and Mike] when you're living by faith.
  • 00:24:53.130 --> 00:24:55.110
  • - [Mike] We'll see you.
  • 00:24:55.110 --> 00:24:56.100
  • - [Voiceover] Hello.
  • 00:25:02.100 --> 00:25:03.000
  • - Mom.
  • 00:25:03.000 --> 00:25:04.020
  • - [Voiceover] Hey.
  • 00:25:04.020 --> 00:25:05.100
  • - Brittany has to come now, like we
  • 00:25:05.100 --> 00:25:06.260
  • - [Voiceover] It's all out. They went , oh, the dresses,
  • 00:25:06.260 --> 00:25:09.130
  • please go with them.
  • 00:25:09.130 --> 00:25:10.200
  • She gone.
  • 00:25:10.200 --> 00:25:11.270
  • - The girls, no, they're not gone.
  • 00:25:11.270 --> 00:25:13.250
  • - I know what you got.
  • 00:25:13.250 --> 00:25:14.230
  • Getting ready to leave so.
  • 00:25:14.230 --> 00:25:16.250
  • - I made a commitment that I would keep myself to myself
  • 00:25:19.020 --> 00:25:21.130
  • up until I was married.
  • 00:25:21.130 --> 00:25:22.080
  • And today is 10/10/15.
  • 00:25:22.080 --> 00:25:24.240
  • And I'm signing my covenant letter back to my dad.
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  • As far as I can see,
  • 00:25:28.290 --> 00:25:32.060
  • Brelyn, you know that you will always be
  • 00:25:33.100 --> 00:25:36.210
  • be the one, na, na, na, na, na, na.
  • 00:25:38.090 --> 00:25:41.090
  • You'll always be number one for me.
  • 00:25:44.210 --> 00:25:47.180
  • - Here's another tip that you can consider
  • 00:25:52.230 --> 00:25:54.120
  • to making your marriage easy.
  • 00:25:54.120 --> 00:25:56.210
  • Marriage is very easy.
  • 00:25:56.210 --> 00:25:58.180
  • One of the things you can literally
  • 00:25:58.180 --> 00:26:00.190
  • stop saying is that it's hard.
  • 00:26:00.190 --> 00:26:02.290
  • - It's hard.
  • 00:26:02.290 --> 00:26:04.060
  • - You have what you say and there's a law
  • 00:26:04.060 --> 00:26:06.010
  • that you are putting into motion
  • 00:26:06.010 --> 00:26:08.020
  • every time you make that confession.
  • 00:26:08.020 --> 00:26:11.110
  • "Marriage is so hard. Marriage is so hard.
  • 00:26:11.110 --> 00:26:13.230
  • "We can't talk. We can't get along."
  • 00:26:13.230 --> 00:26:16.020
  • Listen to your words.
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  • If you'll do that, listen to your words,
  • 00:26:17.210 --> 00:26:20.110
  • and begin to monitor them and say the right things
  • 00:26:20.110 --> 00:26:24.000
  • and respond the right way, you will always have
  • 00:26:24.000 --> 00:26:28.060
  • that direction, everything going in that direction
  • 00:26:28.060 --> 00:26:31.270
  • when you put your words in this proper place.
  • 00:26:31.270 --> 00:26:34.100
  • - Because they really don't want to say
  • 00:26:34.100 --> 00:26:35.270
  • that it's hard or they can't communicate.
  • 00:26:35.270 --> 00:26:38.100
  • They really want to say, "I want to be understood
  • 00:26:38.100 --> 00:26:41.120
  • "and I'm not being understood."
  • 00:26:41.120 --> 00:26:42.290
  • We have to say the right words to get the right answers.
  • 00:26:42.290 --> 00:26:45.250
  • - That is a fantastic tip for you
  • 00:26:45.250 --> 00:26:49.060
  • to start implementing today.
  • 00:26:49.060 --> 00:26:52.070
  • - Ladies and Gentleman, I believe
  • 00:26:59.240 --> 00:27:01.110
  • it's a greater sin to not get back up and fight again.
  • 00:27:01.110 --> 00:27:05.120
  • That's what God wants you to do.
  • 00:27:06.190 --> 00:27:08.010
  • When you fall, he says rise up and go forward.
  • 00:27:08.010 --> 00:27:11.170
  • (clapping)
  • 00:27:11.170 --> 00:27:13.090
  • - We don't just survive things,
  • 00:27:13.090 --> 00:27:15.290
  • we overcome in every area of our lives.
  • 00:27:15.290 --> 00:27:19.060
  • - God has some design the human mechanism,
  • 00:27:21.200 --> 00:27:25.000
  • the spirit, soul, and body
  • 00:27:25.000 --> 00:27:26.190
  • that your life begins to move in the direction
  • 00:27:26.190 --> 00:27:30.170
  • of what you see.
  • 00:27:30.170 --> 00:27:32.100
  • - You got to visualize.
  • 00:27:32.100 --> 00:27:34.010
  • You gotta verbalize.
  • 00:27:34.010 --> 00:27:35.250
  • You gotta internalize until it materializes.
  • 00:27:35.250 --> 00:27:39.160
  • - If you see health, your body will move in that direction.
  • 00:27:42.210 --> 00:27:47.170
  • - Whew.
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