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Touching Lives with James Merritt | James Merritt - Prayer 201 | January 19, 2025
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- Male announcer: welcome to the international broadcast ministry
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- Of "touching lives" with dr. james merritt.
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- Here at "touching lives," our mission is to touch the lives of
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- The lost and enrich the faith of the found.
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- And now, here is pastor, author, and speaker dr. james merritt.
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- James merritt: i wanna begin by showing you a picture of a wall
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- That you may recognize.
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- James: it is--it's an ancient wall.
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- It dates back about 2,000 years.
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- It's the most famous wall, the most visited wall, in the world.
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- Matter of fact, it's kind of strange to think that people go
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- Visit a wall.
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- I don't know why they would do that, but, anyway, you do.
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- It's called the western wall or the wailing wall.
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- And it's fascinating to see devout jewish people go to
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- That wall.
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- They'll stand right up against it.
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- I've seen it, i've been to that wall, i don't
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- Know, 27, 28 times.
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- How many of you ever been to israel?
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- How many of you have been to israel?
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- If you've never been to israel, if you get a chance as a
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- Believer, you need to go one time before you die.
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- It is--there--you can go to hawaii, you can go to the
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- Bahamas--there's a lot of places that won't change
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- Your life.
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- This trip will change your life.
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- And i've been to that wall many times, and you watch these real
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- Devout jews, and they stand at the wall, and they rock back and
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- Forth, back and forth.
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- And they'll stand there for an hour, sometimes two hours.
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- And they're praying, back and forth, back--just praying,
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- Praying, praying.
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- And i prayed at that wall myself.
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- But i have to tell you that every time i go to that wall,
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- Every time, i can't help but remember a story i heard years
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- Ago about a reporter that was doing a story, and it was about
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- A man that prayed at this wall.
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- He'd been going to this wall for over 50 years and never missed a
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- Day in over 50 years.
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- He went every day--rain, shine, snow, sleet, hail.
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- Every day, he would go pray at this wall.
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- And when she heard about it, she said, "that'd make a great
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- Newspaper story."
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- So she goes to the wall and she finds this guy, and she said,
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- "sir, is it true that you've been coming to the wailing wall
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- And you've been praying for over 50 years?"
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- And he said, "well, yes, it is.
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- Matter of fact, i have never missed a day."
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- She said, "well, what do you pray for?"
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- He said, "i always pray for three things.
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- Number one, i pray for peace between jews and arabs.
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- Number two, i pray for our children grow up in safety--
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- Never hear bombs go off or guns fired."
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- And then he said, "i pray thirdly that israel will never
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- Have any more enemies in all the world."
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- She said, "well, how do you feel after praying that for
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- 50 years?"
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- He said, "like i'm talking to a wall."
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- Now, be honest: have you ever felt like when you pray, you're
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- Talking to a wall?
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- Have you ever felt like when you pray, your--it's like rubber
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- Balls bouncing off a ceiling?
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- Do you ever feel like when you pray that your prayers maybe get
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- Up to the clouds, but they don't get any further at all?
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- Well, prayerfully, no pun intended, i'm really praying
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- That the next two messages we preach on prayer will make a
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- Total difference in your prayer life.
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- So if you're one of those people who would say, "you know,
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- Pastor, i just don't really know how to pray real well," or if
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- You're one of those people that you say, "well, pastor, i try to
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- Pray, but i just don't always feel like my prayers are
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- Real effective.
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- I just don't feel like i've really got a handle on how to
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- Pray," here's the good news: today and the next message i
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- Preach, you're not gonna be listening to me.
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- You're gonna be listening at the feet of the master teacher
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- On prayer.
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- You're gonna be listening and learning from the greatest
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- Professor on prayer we could ever have.
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- You're gonna be sitting at the feet of the one who not only
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- Could pray better than anybody's ever prayed, he's actually the
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- One that we pray to.
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- So over the next couple of messages, we're gonna have the
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- Joy of taking what i call prayer 201, and jesus is going to be
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- The professor.
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- Now, if you're a guest of ours today, we're in a series on the
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- Sermon on the mount we've been calling, "get used
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- To different."
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- And you talk about different, jesus was so radically different
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- When he was talking about prayers.
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- As a matter of fact, let me tell you how different he was.
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- His prayers were so different, his prayers were so unique, his
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- Prayers were so never heard from before, never heard about
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- Before, that when the disciples heard jesus pray, they snapped
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- Their heads, opened their eyes, and when he got through, they
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- Literally said, "we have never heard anybody pray like
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- That, ever.
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- Would you teach us how to pray like that?
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- We don't know how to pray like that.
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- Would you teach us how to pray?"
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- And that's exactly what jesus is going to do.
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- So last week, if you were here, we took prayer 101.
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- If you don't remember that or you weren't here, in prayer 101,
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- What jesus does is he doesn't tell us how to pray.
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- First, he starts off and tells us how not to pray.
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- So he says--if you remember what i said last week, he said,
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- "look, when you pray, do your most serious praying in private,
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- Not in public."
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- And when you pray, don't come to god with the same old prayers
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- Over and over over.
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- You're not even really thinking about what you're saying.
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- "give me, bless me, help me."
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- When you pray, really put thought into your prayer, really
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- Being sincere in what you pray.
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- Don't pray like the pagans do.
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- Really pray like you mean business.
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- So that's kinda setting up prayer 201.
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- And now he gets to the nitty-gritty by saying this:
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- "this, then, is how you should pray."
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- Now, when jesus said, "okay, this is how you should pray,"
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- Let me tell you what the disciples did.
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- They stopped everything they were doing, they got out their
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- Notepad, they got out their pen, they sat down, they said--i
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- Mean, they were really leaning in because they know that jesus
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- Is going to tell them something seismic.
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- Jesus is gonna tell them something that is
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- Gonna change their life.
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- He's going to lay down the perfect pattern of prayer.
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- "he's finally gonna give us the key that we know unlocks the
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- Door to the throne room of heaven.
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- We're all ears, we're all in, tell us how to pray."
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- Now, before i get into the prayer that we know is the
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- Lord's prayer, i want you to understand something: jesus did
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- Not give us this prayer just to pray it mechanically.
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- You know, you'll see football players sometime after a
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- Football game or basketball players, and they'll kneel down
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- After a game and pray the lord's prayer.
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- Nothing wrong with that.
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- Nothing wrong with saying it just word for word.
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- That is not why jesus gave it.
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- This is not a mechanical prayer.
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- It is a model prayer, okay?
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- So let me give you an example.
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- Patty, you work in real estate, so you can relate to this.
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- So--my brother works in real estate.
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- So if you work in real estate, you know that sometimes they'll
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- Build this subdivision.
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- And when you go to that subdivision, you wanna check
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- Out--you wanna live in one of those homes, the very first home
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- In that neighborhood is unoccupied.
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- It's furnished, but nobody lives in it.
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- Why is that?
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- Well, it's called a model home.
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- And they want you to go into that home first.
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- And the purpose of that home is so you can go in and see, okay,
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- If you move into this neighborhood, this is what it's
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- Gonna feel like.
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- This is what it's going to look like.
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- This is what it's gonna be like to live in a house in
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- This neighborhood.
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- It is a model home, all right?
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- This is a model prayer.
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- And so jesus is not saying, "this is what you should pray."
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- Jesus is saying, "this is how you should pray.
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- This is the pattern."
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- Now, here's what makes this prayer so different.
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- This is what makes the disciple's mouth drop to the
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- Floor when he prayed this prayer, when he gave them this
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- Prayer: it is unlike any other prayer you will ever find in all
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- Of the old testament.
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- Go all the way back to genesis.
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- There are so many prayers in the old testament, you couldn't
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- Count 'em with a computer.
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- Everybody's praying all the time, but there's no prayer like
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- This prayer because it's unlike any other prayer that any person
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- Ever prayed before jesus came to planet earth.
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- I want you to think about that.
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- Abraham never prayed like this.
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- Joseph never prayed like this.
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- Moses never prayed like this.
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- David never prayed like this.
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- Solomon never prayed like this.
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- Isaiah, jeremiah, ezekiel, the great prophets of the old
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- Testament--nobody ever prayed like this.
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- It is the key to all prayer, and the key is found in one word.
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- I'm gonna give you a clue to what it is.
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- If you go back to the old testament, there's all kinds of
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- Names for god.
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- There's yahweh.
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- There's elohim.
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- There's el shaddai.
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- There's jehovah jireh.
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- There's jehovah shalom.
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- There's jehovah tsidkenu.
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- There's all kinds of names, and they used all kinds of names
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- Whenever they would pray to god.
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- But, here's the question.
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- It's a pop-quiz question.
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- You ready?
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- What is the singular distinctive name christians use for god
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- That's in the lord's prayer?
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- What's that one word?
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- Can anybody tell me?
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- Father. father.
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- Every time god was called on prayer in the old testament--go
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- Back and check it--nobody ever called him, "father."
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- So when jesus said, "okay, this is how you pray," and the
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- Disciples are ready, "okay, how do we pray," he says two words:
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- "our father," and they dropped their pen.
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- They jerked up.
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- They opened their eyes.
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- "what?"
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- "yeah, this is how you pray: 'our father.'"
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- Jesus said, "that's the key that unlocks the door.
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- That's the word that will get you into heaven every single
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- Time when you understand you're praying to a father."
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- One of my favorite authors is j.i. packer.
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- You probably never heard of that name.
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- He's in heaven now.
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- But there's a book that every christian
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- Should read before they go to heaven.
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- It's one of my five top books i've ever read.
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- It's called "knowing god" by j. i. packer.
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- If you like to read, go get that book.
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- I'm telling you, everybody ought to read j. i. packer,
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- "knowing god."
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- In that book, dr. packer said something--i read this when i
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- Was in seminary--and it radically changed my whole
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- Attitude about being a believer.
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- Here's what dr. packer said: "if you want to judge how well a
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- Person understands christianity, find out how much he makes of
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- The thought of being god's child, and having god as
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- His father.
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- If this is not the thought that prompts and controls his worship
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- And prayers and his whole outlook on life, it means he
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- Does not understand christianity very well at all.
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- For everything that christ taught, everything that makes
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- The new testament new, and better than the old, everything
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- That is distinctively christian as opposed to merely jewish, is
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- Summed up in the knowledge of the fatherhood of god."
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- So he says, "if you don't understand what it really means
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- That god is father, and if you don't understand what it means
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- To have the privilege of calling god as your father, you really
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- Don't know about god what you ought to know."
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- So i'm gonna tell you today in four words the key to all
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- Effective prayer.
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- If you wanna say--if you would say to me right now, "pastor, i
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- Wanna know how to pray.
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- I wanna know how to get into it.
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- I wanna know how to pray and know the first words i say, i
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- Know god's going to hear me,
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- I know god's going to answer me,
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- I know that i'm on praying ground."
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- You say, "yep, that's me," all right, then here's the four
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- Words you need to remember: in prayer, you focus on the father.
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- That's the key.
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- You focus on the father.
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- So, prayer 201, okay?
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- How do you get into prayer?
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- Two steps we're gonna take.
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- Number one, first thing you gotta do: you show the
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- Father worship.
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- That's the first thing he wants you to do.
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- When you come to him in prayer, you show the father worship.
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- A lot of times, people will say,
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- "i just don't know how to get into it.
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- I just don't even--i don't even know how to start.
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- I don't even know where to begin."
- 00:12:27.061 --> 00:12:29.130
- So jesus said, "okay, here's the first thing you need to do when
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- You go to pray: remember who you're talking to."
- 00:12:32.133 --> 00:12:35.804
- Well, who are you talking to?
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- Here's what he says.
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- He says, "this, then, is how you should pray: 'our father in
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- Heaven, hallowed be your name.'"
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- That's where your focus ought to be from the get-go.
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- It ought to be on the father.
- 00:12:49.484 --> 00:12:52.287
- So here's our problem: 99.99% of the time when you and i go to
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- God in prayer, what pronoun do we use?
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- We use first person.
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- I, we, me, us.
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- It's always starting with us.
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- So what do we do?
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- "i want you to give me this.
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- I need you to bless me in this way.
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- I'm asking you to do this for my family."
- 00:13:23.384 --> 00:13:26.688
- And so jesus says, "okay, boys, first thing we gotta do, we
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- Gotta--we need a grammar lesson.
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- You gotta get rid of the first-person pronoun."
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- You gotta go, really, to the second-person pronoun.
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- Your prayer is not about you.
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- Your prayer is about him.
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- So when you start with you, you're already getting off on
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- The wrong ground.
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- You're not even getting the plane off the ground.
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- And the reason why this is so important is this.
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- I want you to listen to this: the more time you spend
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- Recognizing who you're talking to and where he is and what he
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- Wants, the less concerned you'll be about who you are, where you
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- Are, and what you want.
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- See, real prayer--this is why prayer's so great.
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- You know what you do when you pray right?
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- When you're praying right, you're putting god in his place,
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- And you're putting you in your place.
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- You're putting god where he belongs, you're putting you
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- Where you belong.
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- He is the father, you are the child.
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- 'cause there's only two persons in this prayer: a child and
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- His father.
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- So we're to come to god and speak to god as our father.
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- And the reason why that's so important is because powerful
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- Prayer is really personal prayer.
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- Powerful prayer is when you walk--when you get alone and
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- You realize you're not talking as a subject to a king, you're
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- Not talking as a citizen to a president.
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- You're talking as a child to a father.
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- That's why jesus says we're to pray, "our father."
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- Who is the "our?"
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- The "our" is us.
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- The "our" is the church.
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- The "our" is the family of god.
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- Prayer is a distinctly family privilege.
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- Buddhists don't understand that.
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- Muslims don't understand that.
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- Hindus don't understand that.
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- Jews don't understand that.
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- One of the great things about being a christian is we get to
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- Pray in a way we know god hears us because the father listens to
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- His children.
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- And here's what's amazing: you go all the way back to the old
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- Testament, 14 times god is referred to as father.
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- Fourteen times.
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- But never in a second-person way.
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- It's always used by the nation of israel.
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- It's always used in a third-person way.
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- They never ever called god as father.
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- I mean, they never ever did that.
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- Fourteen times, always used, but never in reference to prayer.
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- You won't find one time where anybody, nobody, not one
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- Individual, no prophet, no patriarch--nobody ever said,
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- "our father," not one time in the old testament.
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- Jesus comes on the scene, and guess what he does?
- 00:16:07.482 --> 00:16:10.852
- The only way he ever addresses god is "father."
- 00:16:10.852 --> 00:16:14.055
- It's an amazing thing.
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- He never calls god any other thing except father.
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- As a matter of fact, he called god his father 170 times.
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- Now, think about that.
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- Fourteen times in the old testament, 170 times--and oh,
- 00:16:27.435 --> 00:16:31.139
- By the way, how many of you saw the
- 00:16:31.139 --> 00:16:34.075
- Movie, "the passion of the christ?"
- 00:16:34.075 --> 00:16:35.410
- How many of you saw that movie? a lot of you did.
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- If you remember, it was in aramaic.
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- Do you remember why it was in aramaic?
- 00:16:41.749 --> 00:16:43.317
- Because jesus and the disciples really didn't speak greek.
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- That was not their primary language.
- 00:16:45.920 --> 00:16:47.422
- Jesus's primary language was aramaic.
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- So when jesus prayed, "our father," he didn't use the greek
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- Word, which is pater or pater.
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- He used the word abba.
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- You know what the word abba means?
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- It means papa.
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- It means daddy.
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- It was the most intimate term that a toddler would use for
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- His dad.
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- He literally would say, "i want you to pray this: 'our papa.
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- Our daddy.'
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- I want you to be on that kind of intimate terms with him."
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- You--when you look at the life of jesus, the first sentence we
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- Know jesus ever spoke--the very first sentence he ever said as a
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- 12-year-old boy he said to his parents.
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- Here's what he said: "'why were you searching for me?'
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- He asked.
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- 'didn't you know that i had to be in my father's house?'"
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- And joseph and mary, when he said that, almost probably said,
- 00:17:38.139 --> 00:17:42.810
- "you mean god's temple.
- 00:17:42.810 --> 00:17:46.047
- What do you mean calling god, 'father?'"
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- That's the first thing he ever said.
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- When jesus was dying on the cross, he said this: "father,
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- Forgive them, for they do not know what they were doing."
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- The last words jesus ever spoke as a human being were these
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- Words: "father, into your hands, i commit my spirit."
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- And that one word makes all the difference between the old
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- Testament and the new testament.
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- So think about it, the word father is used 14 times in 39
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- Books in the old testament.
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- The word father is used 170 times in four books of the
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- New testament.
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- You say, "okay, so what happened between the old testament and
- 00:18:26.020 --> 00:18:29.490
- The new testament?"
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- I can tell you in one word: jesus happened.
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- Jesus came.
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- And jesus said, "because of what i'm about to do for you, you're
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- Going to be allowed to call god your father."
- 00:18:39.867 --> 00:18:42.770
- So here's how jesus tells us to pray: "our father," but then he
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- Doesn't go--he doesn't stop there.
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- He says two more words that when you first read it, you go, "why
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- Did you even have to say that?"
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- He says, "i want you to pray, 'our father in heaven.'"
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- Now, they're--these guys are jewish.
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- They grew up in a jewish home.
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- They knew god was in heaven. they knew that.
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- Why do you think--why would he even add
- 00:19:04.759 --> 00:19:06.093
- Those two words, "our father?"
- 00:19:06.093 --> 00:19:07.428
- Why would he tell them what they already knew?
- 00:19:07.428 --> 00:19:09.830
- "our father in heaven."
- 00:19:09.830 --> 00:19:12.300
- You know why he did that?
- 00:19:12.300 --> 00:19:13.634
- Again, he wants to remind them where god belongs, and he wants
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- To remind them where they belong.
- 00:19:17.104 --> 00:19:19.340
- Because when you pray, and you pray right, you put god where he
- 00:19:19.340 --> 00:19:22.843
- Belongs, you put you where you belong.
- 00:19:22.843 --> 00:19:24.812
- So let me just make it real plain, okay?
- 00:19:24.812 --> 00:19:26.447
- So who are we praying to?
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- He's in heaven, we're on earth.
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- He is god, we're not.
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- He is over us, we are under him.
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- We're not in control, he is.
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- Is the number one priority of your life--can you say this and
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- Mean it?
- 00:19:49.003 --> 00:19:51.505
- Is the number one priority of your life is the one thing
- 00:19:51.505 --> 00:19:57.078
- That's more important to you than anything else in your life
- 00:19:57.078 --> 00:20:01.782
- Is to be completely, unreservedly, unequivocally,
- 00:20:01.782 --> 00:20:05.686
- Unconditionally surrendered to the will of god for your life?
- 00:20:05.686 --> 00:20:11.259
- Now, don't say it too quick.
- 00:20:11.259 --> 00:20:15.963
- So do your finances say that?
- 00:20:15.963 --> 00:20:21.836
- When it comes to your money, when it comes to what you give
- 00:20:21.836 --> 00:20:23.971
- Versus what you buy and what you pull
- 00:20:23.971 --> 00:20:25.539
- And what you pay for and what you owe, are you really
- 00:20:25.539 --> 00:20:29.610
- Surrendered to the will of god for your life?
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- In this--in the last two weeks, i've dealt with two married
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- Couples on the verge of divorce.
- 00:20:39.754 --> 00:20:48.296
- I've done everything i know to do.
- 00:20:48.296 --> 00:20:51.332
- I've said everything i know to say.
- 00:20:51.332 --> 00:20:55.202
- And it's just--you--i cannot even tell you how frustrating
- 00:20:55.202 --> 00:20:59.440
- It is.
- 00:20:59.440 --> 00:21:01.575
- When you say--look, i'm not minimizing the problems you have
- 00:21:01.575 --> 00:21:04.145
- In a marriage, everybody's got 'em.
- 00:21:04.145 --> 00:21:07.281
- I can only tell you what i know is god's will for your life.
- 00:21:07.281 --> 00:21:11.085
- It's god's will for this marriage to work out.
- 00:21:11.085 --> 00:21:14.155
- It's god's will for you to partner with him and work out
- 00:21:14.155 --> 00:21:16.557
- Your marriage.
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- I know that's god's will.
- 00:21:17.892 --> 00:21:19.293
- And then you find out the next week they're going to
- 00:21:19.293 --> 00:21:22.029
- Divorce court.
- 00:21:22.029 --> 00:21:23.664
- They're going to a divorce mediator.
- 00:21:23.664 --> 00:21:25.933
- It's just frustrating.
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- I'm not trying to be too harsh, but it's just hard.
- 00:21:27.935 --> 00:21:32.807
- So i just want to leave you with this truth, and we'll say amen,
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- And we'll be ready to go home.
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- Let me tell you why this week is so important.
- 00:21:39.413 --> 00:21:44.285
- Let me tell you why this week changed everything.
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- Because even though we're sinners, and even though we
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- Don't deserve to even look at the house of god, much less go
- 00:21:53.861 --> 00:21:57.398
- Into the throne room, even though god has every right to
- 00:21:57.398 --> 00:22:03.270
- Put a no trespassing sign on heaven, because god sent his son
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- To become like us, and he dies on the cross, and he comes back
- 00:22:12.713 --> 00:22:20.121
- From the grave, because of that, you and i can become children
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- Of god.
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- Because of jesus, we can call god our father.
- 00:22:29.263 --> 00:22:34.201
- Because of jesus, we're somebody.
- 00:22:34.201 --> 00:22:38.839
- We're a child of the king.
- 00:22:38.839 --> 00:22:41.542
- But when we go to the king, yes, we bow in reverence.
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- Yes, we give him the respect and the homage and the praise that
- 00:22:45.980 --> 00:22:49.383
- He deserves, yes.
- 00:22:49.383 --> 00:22:53.854
- But at the end of the day, you and i can come to the creator of
- 00:22:53.854 --> 00:22:59.193
- This universe and sit in his lap and put our arm around his neck
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- And say, "father, i just love you.
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- Thank you for making me one of your children.
- 00:23:12.840 --> 00:23:16.043
- Thank you for making me a part of your family.
- 00:23:16.043 --> 00:23:19.246
- Thank you that you have a plan for my life.
- 00:23:19.246 --> 00:23:22.216
- Thank you that you've got a will for me that's so much better
- 00:23:22.216 --> 00:23:25.186
- Than what my will would have been for me."
- 00:23:25.186 --> 00:23:27.855
- All of that because of a cross.
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- All of that because of an empty tomb.
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- So, as his child, we have the privilege, we have the honor, we
- 00:23:35.296 --> 00:23:42.436
- Have the joy, of seeking his will and surrendering to his
- 00:23:42.436 --> 00:23:46.774
- Will, knowing his will is always best for the entire world.
- 00:23:46.774 --> 00:23:51.412
- So i'll leave you with this: in the front of a bible that i have
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- At home, i wrote these--i came across these words that i found
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- In a book, and i wrote them down.
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- And sometimes, i'll just open it, and i'll just say it
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- To myself.
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- "lord, i'm willing.
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- I'm willing to receive what you give.
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- I'm willing to lack what you withhold.
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- I'm willing to relinquish what you take.
- 00:24:14.134 --> 00:24:17.071
- I'm willing to suffer what you require."
- 00:24:17.071 --> 00:24:20.641
- And that is the prayer of everybody that passes
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- Prayer 201.
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- You show the father worship, you surrender to the father's will,
- 00:24:24.545 --> 00:24:27.915
- And i promise you, you will be able to pray like you have never
- 00:24:27.915 --> 00:24:31.886
- Prayed before.
- 00:24:31.886 --> 00:24:35.422
- So what are you gonna do with that jesus who came on
- 00:24:35.422 --> 00:24:39.927
- Palm sunday?
- 00:24:39.927 --> 00:24:41.395
- What are you gonna do with that jesus that was nailed to that
- 00:24:41.395 --> 00:24:43.397
- Cross on friday?
- 00:24:43.397 --> 00:24:44.765
- What are you gonna do about that jesus that came out of that tomb
- 00:24:44.765 --> 00:24:46.634
- On sunday?
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- What are you gonna do?
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- I know what the father's will is for you to do.
- 00:24:49.336 --> 00:24:51.038
- If you've never given your life to jesus, you're watching me
- 00:24:51.038 --> 00:24:53.274
- Right now, you're in this room, you've never trusted jesus as
- 00:24:53.274 --> 00:24:55.843
- Your lord and savior, i know what the father's will is.
- 00:24:55.843 --> 00:24:58.412
- The bible says, "it is not the will of god that anybody should
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- Perish, but that everybody be saved and come to jesus."
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- That's the will of god for your life.
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- And right now, for the first time, some of you could say, "i
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- Need to get in on god's will for my life."
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- All right, well here's where you start.
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- If you've never trusted jesus, here's where you start: you pray
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- This prayer, and some of you may wanna pray this with me
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- Right now.
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- Tv, internet, computer, in this room, you might wanna pray this
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- In your heart right now: "lord jesus, i'm a sinner.
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- I need a savior.
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- I can't save myself.
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- But i believe you died for my sins.
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- I believe god raised you from the dead.
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- I believe you're alive right now.
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- Come into my heart.
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- Save me.
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- Become my lord.
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- Become my savior.
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- I lay down my sword.
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- I wave the white flag.
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- I give everything i am to everything that you are."
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- When you make that decision, you don't just become saved.
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- You don't just get eternal life.
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- You become a child of the father.
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