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Robert Jeffress - Choosing Repentance Over Guilt (Part 1)

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Choosing Repentance Over Guilt (Part 1) | January 9, 2026

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Male announcer: from the pulpit of the
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First baptist church of dallas, texas,
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This is "pathway to victory" with dr. robert jeffress.
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Dr. robert jeffress: hi, i'm robert jeffress,
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And welcome again to "pathway to victory".
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Romans 3:23 says, "for all have sinned
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And fall short of the glory of god."
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And because of our sinful nature,
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It's not a matter of if we're going to mess up,
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But only when we're going to mess up.
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So, whenever we experience moments of failure,
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We have a choice to make.
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Are we going to deny our roles or will we fess up and repent?
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You'll never regret coming clean with god.
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My message is titled, "choosing repentance over guilt,"
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On today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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Jeffress: the internal revenue service received
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An anonymous envelope.
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Inside the envelope was a note and ten $1000 bills.
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The note read, "dear sirs, for several months i've been unable
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To sleep due to the guilt i felt over cheating on my income tax
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Last year.
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Enclosed, you will find $10,000.
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If i still can't sleep, i'll send you the rest
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Of what i owe you."
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You know, in our series, "choose your attitudes,
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Change your life," we're saying that an attitude is our response
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To the circumstances of life.
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We can't choose our circumstances, but we can choose
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How we respond to those circumstances.
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You know, sometimes we try to cover over our failure,
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Our failure to meet god's standard.
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Sometimes we rationalize it.
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Sometimes we did what this guy did and make a half hearted
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Attempt at restitution.
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But one of the biggest decisions we have to make in life is,
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Are we going to deny our failure or are we going to choose
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To repent of our failure?
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And that's what we're going to talk about today.
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We're going to talk about choosing repentance over guilt.
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That choice not only affects our life right now, but it affects
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Our eternal destiny.
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Now, you know, when we talk about repentance,
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People sometimes have a funny idea of what repentance means.
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They picture some scraggly street preacher
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Out on the sidewalk with a sandwich board saying,
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"repent, the end of the world is at hand."
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It's true.
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Repentance is important for non-christians to receive
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Salvation, but, interestingly, in the bible, repentance is
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Something more for christians than for non-christians.
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In fact, when martin luther nailed his, "ninety-five theses"
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To the door in wittenberg, the very first of those theses
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Was this, "when our lord and master jesus christ
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Said, 'repent,' he willed that the entire life
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Of believers be one of repentance."
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Repentance is not just a one time action to receive
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Salvation, it is the lifestyle, it is the attitude,
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Of believers.
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Now, what do we mean by repentance?
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Contrary to popular thinking, repentance is not primarily
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An emotion.
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We think it's weeping and convulsing over your failure.
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That can be a part of it, but that's not what the word
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Repentance means.
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The word repentance in greek is metanoeó.
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Two words, two root words.
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Meta, change.
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Noeó, the mind.
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Metanoeó, a change of mind.
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That's literally what it means to repent, to have a change
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Of mind.
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For a christian, repentance, and write this down, is a change
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Of mind that leads to a change of direction in our life.
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A change of mind that leads to a change of direction in our life.
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You probably had this experience before, especially if you've
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Driven around downtown dallas.
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Have you ever had the experience of driving down one of these
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Roads and seeing all of the traffic heading toward you and
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You look around and you notice all of the street signs are
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Backwards and you realize you're going the wrong way
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On a one way street.
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At that moment, you have a decision to make.
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You can decide that "i'm right and they're wrong and i'm gonna
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Stay and go in the direction i'm going" or you can acknowledge
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That, in fact, you're mistaken.
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Now, just acknowledging that isn't enough to keep from
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A crash.
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You have to do more than acknowledge it.
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You actually have to do what?
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Turn around.
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Turn around.
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Repentance and turning around are inseparably linked
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With one another.
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A change of mind that leads to a change of direction.
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If you don't believe that, listen to god's word
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Through the prophet ezekiel and ezekiel 33:11 to 12.
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I love how the living bible paraphrases this.
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God said, "'as surely as i live, says, the lord god, i have
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No pleasure in the death of the wicked; but i desire
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That the wicked turn from his evil ways and live.
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Turn, turn from your wickedness, for why will you die?
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For the good works of a righteous man will not save him
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If he turns to sin; and the sins of an evil man will not destroy
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Him if he repents and turns from his sins.'"
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Do you see the relationship?
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To repent is to turn around, a change of mind, that leads
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To a change of direction.
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Well, what is the result of not making that choice?
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What is the result of not repenting of our sin?
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In a word, guilt.
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Before we look at how to develop an attitude of repentance
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In our lives, let's talk about the opposite of repentance,
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And that is guilt.
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Guilt is one of the most debilitating of all human
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Emotions and one of the best illustrations of the damage
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Guilt does in our life is in the familiar story of king david
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Found in 2 samuel chapters 11 to 12.
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You remember the story.
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David was, by far, the most successful king
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In israel's history.
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He had reached the zenith of his power.
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The nation had never been more successful in conquering
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Its enemies.
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He had accumulated great wealth.
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And yet, at the high point of his career, he traded all
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Of that for a few moments of passion with somebody else's
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Wife, a wife named bathsheba.
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By the way, that is when you are most vulnerable to sin.
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Remember what paul says?
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"therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall."
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It is in those times of great success in your life that many
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Times you're most vulnerable to satan's temptations.
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This temptation came about one evening while david was looking
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Out from his balcony at a building residence
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Across the street, and on the rooftop this woman, bathsheba,
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Was bathing, was going through the rites of purification.
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The 2 samuel 11 says that it occurred at a time when david
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Should have been out fighting with his men.
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But, instead, the king said, "you know what?
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I'm so successful, i don't have to do that stuff anymore.
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Let the underlings do that.
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I'm going to enjoy the fruit of my success.
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I'm going to go into a time of relaxation."
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Could i say an aside here to those of you here
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Or are watching this broadcast?
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There are some people i have counseled with, some christian
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Businessmen, who have said, "you know, i built a successful
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Company and i've gotten a tremendous offer on my company.
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I think i'm gonna sell it so that i can just spend
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The rest of my life doing what i wanna do.
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To retire, to travel, not to keep a grueling schedule
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Any longer.
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I want to be free to do what i want to do."
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That is a prescription for spiritual disaster in your life.
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Now, listen to me.
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God never intended for us to spend the last 20 or 30 of years
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Of our life doing nothing but entertaining ourselves.
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That was never god's plan.
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God wants us to be industrious and productive, and especially
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For his kingdom, until the day we die.
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Now, i don't mean you work at the same job you've always had.
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You may retire from that job, but if you retire from that job,
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Find something else to do.
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Find something else to invest your life in.
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When you have a life of leisure, you are setting yourself up
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For satan's temptation in your life.
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That's exactly what happened to david.
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He had too much time on his hands.
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He should have been out fighting, but he saw bathsheba,
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They had relations that evening, and, soon, bathsheba reported
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To him that she had become pregnant.
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Now, immediately, david had a choice.
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He could have acknowledged his sin, asked for god's
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Forgiveness, made restitution, but, instead, he chose to cover
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Over his sin.
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In a cover up scheme that rivaled watergate, he decided
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That he was gonna hide his failure from the kingdom.
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Here was plan a.
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He was gonna call for bathsheba's husband, uriah,
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Who was out fighting, to come back home for a weekend
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Of relaxation with his wife.
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And he thought if he could get uriah to come home with
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Bathsheba, surely he would sleep with bathsheba and then david
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And bathsheba could say, "oh, well, the child belongs
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To uriah."
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So uriah comes back, but he doesn't sleep with his wife,
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The bible says.
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Not because he didn't want to, but because he said, "how could
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I indulge in this pleasure when my fellow soldiers are out
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Deprived of this pleasure?"
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He had more integrity than the king did.
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And so, he abstained.
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So david thought, well, that didn't work.
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Go to plan b.
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Plan b, he sent a letter to uriah's commander
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And said, "put uriah on the front lines of battle and then
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Withdraw the other soldiers," and that's exactly what happened
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And uriah was killed in battle and david now was charged,
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Not only with adultery, but also with murder.
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Again, how did he respond?
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He didn't repent.
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He didn't acknowledge his sin.
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Instead, he kept silent about his sin.
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What happened?
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What did god do to him?
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Absolutely nothing.
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For a while, anyway.
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Days passed.
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Weeks passed.
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David took bathsheba to be his own wife after uriah's funeral
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And nothing happened.
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And david began to think to himself, maybe i have a special
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Relationship with god and i don't have to live
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By the same standards of other people.
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Or maybe god really doesn't care that much about murder
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Or adultery.
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Maybe there are other sins he's more concerned with.
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Maybe god doesn't even exist and that's why he hasn't
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Punished me.
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David's son, solomon, years later wrote these insightful
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Words in ecclesiastes 8:11, "because the sentence against
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An evil deed is not executed quickly, therefore the hearts
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Of the sons of men among them are given fully to do evil."
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Do you hear what he's saying?
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We tend to think, because god doesn't zap us the moment
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We sin, that he doesn't care about it, that we're getting
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Away with something.
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Hear me this morning.
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Do not confuse god's tolerance with god's mercy.
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Don't confuse god's tolerance for sin with his mercy.
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Don't think, because god hasn't punished you yet, he does not
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Care about your sin.
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The only reason he's delayed his discipline in your life is
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To give you another chance to repent.
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But there is a day god's mercy comes to an end.
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There is a day there is no further opportunity to repent.
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David was confusing god's mercy with god's tolerance for sin.
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And yet, even though there was no visible sign of god's
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Judgment or discipline, there was inner turmoil david
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Was experiencing during that six months up to a year
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That he refused to acknowledge his sin.
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He writes about that period in psalm 32, verses 3 to 4.
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He said, "when i kept silent about my sin, my body
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Wasted away through my groanings all day long.
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For day and night thy hand was heavy upon me; and my vitality
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Was drained away as with the fever heat of summer."
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Will you notice, first of all, the physical effects of guilt.
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Guilt actually affects our bodies physically.
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He talks about, "my body wasting away.
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My vitality being drained."
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In his book, "head first: the biology of hope," norman cousins
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Explains, "doctors recognize that awareness of wrongdoing
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Often produces prolonged feelings of remorse
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And self-condemnation that can actually have damaging effects
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On the bodily systems and open our bodies to disease."
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I remember reading about one of the engineers involved
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In the space shuttle challenger disaster.
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Remember the space shuttle that exploded shortly after takeoff
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In january of 1986.
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One of those engineers had actually sensed something
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Was wrong and tried to have the mission aborted,
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But nobody listened to him.
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Nevertheless, he felt guilt for months and years afterwards.
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He said, "i have headaches.
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I cry.
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I have bad dreams.
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I go into a hypnotic trance almost daily."
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That's just some of the physical effects that accompany guilt
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We don't repent of, but there are emotional effects of guilt
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As well.
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It affects us emotionally.
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One of the most common side effects of guilt is depression.
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That's what david talks about when he says, "my groaning
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All day long."
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Most psychiatrists agree that there are certainly times
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That our guilt and the resulting depression aren't justified.
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Some psychiatrists talk about false guilt, and i think there's
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Some legitimacy to that.
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Many times, we have false guilt over standards we set that are
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Not really found in scripture, unrealistic standards.
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A salesman, for example, sets an unrealistically high quota for
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Sales for a month and he doesn't need that quota and he feels
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Guilty and he feels depressed over that.
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Or a mother with several preschool children at home and
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Feels guilty that her living room doesn't look like the cover
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Of, "better homes and gardens," all the time.
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Those are unrealistic standards that can cause guilt and
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The accompanying depression.
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But most of our guilt is real guilt, and christian
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Psychiatrist, paul meier, and the late frank minirth write,
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"in our experience as psychiatrists, when people have
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Told us they feel guilty, it has usually been
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Because they are guilty."
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Isn't that interesting?
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They feel guilty because they are guilty.
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"and straightening out the wrong they are doing is sometimes all
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That is needed to straighten out their feelings of depression."
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And again, not all depression is the result of guilt.
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There are chemical explanations for depression.
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There are other issues related to depression.
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But some depression, as david experienced, is the result
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Of unresolved guilt.
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By the way, it's very important to note that depression over
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Your sin is not the same as repentance from your sin.
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You can feel horrible inside about something you've done,
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That does not equate with depression.
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Repentance is not just feeling sorry about your sin.
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It's feeling sorry enough to change.
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A lot of people aren't willing to go to that next step.
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I'll never forget, in my first church,
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Just this unforgettable story.
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A man came to tell me he was married and he was having
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An affair with a single girl and she became pregnant as a result
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Of the affair.
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And the man was telling me that he had a life threatening
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Disease that he was fearful was passed on to the baby
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And to the baby's mother.
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And not only that, his girlfriend had now just left him
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And married another man.
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I mean, his life was a mess.
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And i asked him what changes he was willing to make in his life.
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He said, "none."
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He wasn't thinking about any changes.
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He was devastated, he was sorry about his circumstances,
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But he wasn't sorry enough to change.
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That that's exactly what the apostle paul is talking about
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In that passage we read a few moments ago, 2 corinthians 7,
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Verse 10.
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He said, "for the sorrow that is according to the will of god
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Produces a repentance without regret."
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When you're involved in sin, god sends sorrow into your life
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In order to lead you to repentance.
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And when you make that change, that repentance in your life,
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It leads to a life of no regrets.
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That's how you know if the conviction you feel
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Is coming from god.
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God's conviction always leads you to make a change that leads
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To a regret free life.
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But there is another kind of sorrow of the world
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That produces death.
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Do you know people like that?
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They wallow in their circumstances.
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They feel terrible about their circumstances,
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But they never make the changes.
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Yes, some of the emotional effects of guilt result
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In depression.
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Another common side effect of guilt is anxiety.
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We talk about that in our message, "choosing faith
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Over worry."
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For six months to a year, david experienced fear that one day
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He would open the "jerusalem times" and right there
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On the front page would be the exposé of his guilt.
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He was scared to death that was going to happen.
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And then one morning he got up and, on a day that began
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Like any other day, something was about to change.
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He went into the palace, asked his secretary for the schedule,
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The daily schedule, and he saw, oh, the prophet nathan is coming
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To see you today.
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Fine, he liked nathan.
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He always liked a good sermon.
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So he welcomed nathan in to see him.
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"nathan, what is going on?"
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Nathan said, "oh, king.
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I came to inform you of something terrible that is
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Going on in your kingdom."
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David said, "well, what is that?"
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He said, "well, there is this very poor man living
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Here in jerusalem.
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He is so poor that he had only one ewe, one little lamb,
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In his possession.
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And then a wealthy man came and he stole that one lamb that
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That poor man had."
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David stood up.
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He was outraged.
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He said, "i cannot have this going on in my kingdom.
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I demand to know who is that man who did such a thing?"
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Nathan pointed his bony finger in the face of david and said,
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"you are the man," and immediately david knew
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Everyone knew.
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And listen to what nathan went on to say, 2 samuel chapter 12.
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"thus says the lord god of israel, 'it is i who anointed
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You, david, as king over israel and it is i who delivered you
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From the hand of saul.'
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Thus says the lord, 'behold, i will raise up evil against you
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From your own household; ...
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Indeed you did it secretly, but i will do this thing before
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All israel, and under the sun.'"
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There are, finally, spiritual effects to guilt.
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Not just physical, not just emotional, depression, anxiety,
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But there are spiritual effects of guilt.
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He says in psalm 32, verse 4, "for day and night, god,
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Your hand was heavy upon me."
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Jeffress: if you feel an emotional distance
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From your creator, it isn't god who has moved away.
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He's never left your side.
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And my hope is that today's teaching from god's word will
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Cause you to move closer to him.
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Now, in closing, i wanna share a note i received from
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Ron in missouri.
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He wrote, "the moral decay in america has become overwhelming.
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Thank you for all you're doing to awaken our beloved country
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To the truth."
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And then ron told me how he and his wife were using
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Our materials in their church to push back against the tide
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Of evil in america.
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This is such an encouragement to me, ron.
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Piercing the darkness with the light of god's word.
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Everyone makes mistakes."
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That's when guilt begins to eat away at our soul.
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God's design for repentance has a wonderful function and that's
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To make his children completely free of guilt and shame.
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Well, there's much more teaching i wanna share with you
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On this pressing topic, and next time we'll revisit the bible,
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Our final authority, to see more about what god's word says
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About choosing repentance over guilt.
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Jeffress: if god has forgiven me,
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Why am i still going through the breakup of a marriage,
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The loss of a child, or business?
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Listen, when god forgives us, he removes
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The eternal consequences of our sin, not necessarily
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The temporary consequences.
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Robert Jeffress - Choosing Repentance Over Guilt (Part 1)

January 9, 2026 | 27:29

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