The 700 Club

February 13, 2026

February 13, 2026 | 52:26

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. >> the following program by
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>> the following program by cbn.
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Cbn. >> coming up this husband
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>> coming up this husband strayed.
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Strayed. >> somebody looked at at me
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>> somebody looked at at me with desire and his wife had
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With desire and his wife had the proof.
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The proof. >> i was ready to pack up and
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>> i was ready to pack up and go.
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Go. why?
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Why? she held on to the evidence.
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She held on to the evidence. >> i feel burdened.
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>> i feel burdened. i feel alone.
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I feel alone. i feel isolated.
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I feel isolated. and what happened when she
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And what happened when she dropped the bomb?
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Dropped the bomb? my thought process was is it
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My thought process was is it over?
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Over? can it be fixed?
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Can it be fixed? coming up on the 700 club.
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Coming up on the 700 club. >> oh, welcome to hundred club.
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>> oh, welcome to hundred club. the world is focused on a
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The world is focused on a possible us strike.
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Possible us strike. at the same time, israel is
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At the same time, israel is preparing for a for a potential
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Preparing for a for a potential attack of its own against hamas
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Attack of its own against hamas in gaza.
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In gaza. >> israel believes hamas cannot
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>> israel believes hamas cannot be disarmed without military
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Be disarmed without military action.
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Action. cbn's paul petty brings us the
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Cbn's paul petty brings us the story from jerusalem.
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Story from jerusalem. >> escorted by the israeli
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>> escorted by the israeli defense forces cbn news visited
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Defense forces cbn news visited an outpost in central gaza just
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An outpost in central gaza just 200 yards from the yellow line
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200 yards from the yellow line dividing gaza between and
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Dividing gaza between and palestinian control.
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Palestinian control. it's a place where our say
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It's a place where our say hamas skirmishes and attacks
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Hamas skirmishes and attacks occur despite the cease fire.
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Occur despite the cease fire. >> in this area specifically
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>> in this area specifically across the line, hamas keeps
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Across the line, hamas keeps passing the yellow a daily
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Passing the yellow a daily basis testing our troops, even
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Basis testing our troops, even carrying out attacks just this
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Carrying out attacks just this this week severely injuring
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This week severely injuring one of our troops.
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One of our troops. >> the objective is for these
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>> the objective is for these israeli soldiers are defending
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Israeli soldiers are defending the yellow line and finding
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The yellow line and finding then dismantling hamas's vast
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Then dismantling hamas's vast tunnel network where more half
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Tunnel network where more half have yet to be discovered.
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Have yet to be discovered. >> this is maybe largest terror
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>> this is maybe largest terror tunnel infrastructure in
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Tunnel infrastructure in history and this is something
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History and this is something is something that's going to
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Is something that's going to take time to find all of it and
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Take time to find all of it and to deal with all of it.
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To deal with all of it. and we're not even even talking
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And we're not even even talking about the tunnels that are
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About the tunnels that are across the m1 and we are not
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Across the m1 and we are not dealing with them right now.
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Dealing with them right now. here in gaza, implementing the
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Here in gaza, implementing the disarmament of hamas has
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Disarmament of hamas has remained unclear with israeli
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Remained unclear with israeli officials increasingly
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Officials increasingly believing they are stripping
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Believing they are stripping the terror group of its weapons
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The terror group of its weapons will be impossible without the
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Will be impossible without the idf taking military action.
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Idf taking military action. one thing is clear they do not
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One thing is clear they do not want to disarm even they are
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Want to disarm even they are committed to it and someone
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Committed to it and someone needs to make them.
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Needs to make them. >> jerusalem prime netanyahu
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>> jerusalem prime netanyahu returned from his seventh
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Returned from his seventh meeting with president trump
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Meeting with president trump saying he's skeptical a good
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Saying he's skeptical a good deal could be worked out with
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Deal could be worked out with with iran.
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With iran. >> emma can you sug if indeed
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>> emma can you sug if indeed an agreement is then it must
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An agreement is then it must include the elements that are
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Include the elements that are very important from from
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Very important from from israel's perspective and in my
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Israel's perspective and in my view not only it is not only
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View not only it is not only the nuclear issue, it is also
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The nuclear issue, it is also the ballistic and also the
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The ballistic and also the iranian proxies.
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Iranian proxies. >> while the groundwork with
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>> while the groundwork with iran continue, the israeli navy
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Iran continue, the israeli navy is conducting drills its
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Is conducting drills its warships.
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Warships. while president trump confirmed
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While president trump confirmed through a post on that a second
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Through a post on that a second aircraft carrier is being
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Aircraft carrier is being deployed east we have to make a
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Deployed east we have to make a deal otherwise it's going to be
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Deal otherwise it's going to be very traumatic, very traumatic.
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Very traumatic, very traumatic. i don't want that to happen but
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I don't want that to happen but we have to have to make a deal.
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We have to have to make a deal. they should have made a deal
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They should have made a deal the first time and they got
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The first time and they got midnight hammer and said the
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Midnight hammer and said the trump administration has denied
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Trump administration has denied stirring protest in iran but
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Stirring protest in iran but did admit it smuggled thousands
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Did admit it smuggled thousands of starlink terminals into the
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Of starlink terminals into the country to counter the internet
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Country to counter the internet blackout imposed by the regime.
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Blackout imposed by the regime. paul petite cbn news jerusalem.
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Paul petite cbn news jerusalem. >> well this is definitely
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>> well this is definitely decision time for the middle
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Decision time for the middle east.
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East. what's going to happen to the
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What's going to happen to the government in iran.
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Government in iran. is there going to be further
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Is there going to be further negotiations?
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Negotiations? is going to be a u.s. strike in
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Is going to be a u.s. strike in my view that they on and the
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My view that they on and the people of iran have have cried
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People of iran have have cried out for freedom.
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Out for freedom. they've attempted five
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They've attempted five different revolutions just in
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Different revolutions just in the past decade.
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The past decade. you look at that and go it's
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You look at that and go it's time for them to be free in
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Time for them to be free in gaza.
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Gaza. >> gaza needs to have no
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>> gaza needs to have no military at all and to say it's
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Military at all and to say it's okay for hamas to to have
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Okay for hamas to to have weapons and for them to rearm,
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Weapons and for them to rearm, we know exactly what they're
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We know exactly what they're going going to do.
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Going going to do. they're going to attack israel
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They're going to attack israel again.
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Again. they changed their thoughts at
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They changed their thoughts at all about israel and and they
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All about israel and and they want to wipe israel off the
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Want to wipe israel off the map.
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Map. they shouldn't ever have any
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They shouldn't ever have any weapons to actually accomplish
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Weapons to actually accomplish that.
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That. >> well, another the department
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>> well, another the department of homeland security is headed
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Of homeland security is headed for a shutdown.
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For a shutdown. from graham has that story.
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From graham has that story. more from the cbn newsroom.
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More from the cbn newsroom. >> gordon the partial shutdown
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>> gordon the partial shutdown appears members of congress
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Appears members of congress left washington for a ten day
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Left washington for a ten day recess a deal.
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Recess a deal. cbn's white house correspondent
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Cbn's white house correspondent kelly wright has a closer look
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Kelly wright has a closer look .
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. >> the political stalemate
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>> the political stalemate democrats bills on thursday
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Democrats bills on thursday they're insisting on strict
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They're insisting on strict reform protocols following two
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Reform protocols following two fatal shootings by federal
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Fatal shootings by federal agents in minneapolis last
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Agents in minneapolis last month.
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Month. >> the americans are tired of
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>> the americans are tired of masked agents conducting
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Masked agents conducting warrantless operations in their
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Warrantless operations in their community as secret police.
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Community as secret police. they're tired of chaos, secrecy
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They're tired of chaos, secrecy and zero accountability.
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And zero accountability. that is not what law and order
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That is not what law and order looks like.
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Looks like. >> democrats want ice agents to
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>> democrats want ice agents to have better to stop wearing
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Have better to stop wearing mask use body cameras of
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Mask use body cameras of judicial warrants.
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Judicial warrants. republicans and president trump
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Republicans and president trump have rejected the democrats
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Have rejected the democrats demands believing conditions
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Demands believing conditions would hinder law enforcement.
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Would hinder law enforcement. on thursday, border czar tom
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On thursday, border czar tom homan announced the ice
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Homan announced the ice operation in minneapolis is
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Operation in minneapolis is over after more than 4000
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Over after more than 4000 arrests.
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Arrests. >> we've had great success with
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>> we've had great success with this operation and we're
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This operation and we're leaving minnesota safer.
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Leaving minnesota safer. the surge is leaving minnesota
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The surge is leaving minnesota safer.
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Safer. minneapolis safer because of
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Minneapolis safer because of the cooperative we got with the
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The cooperative we got with the counties in the state and local
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Counties in the state and local law law enforcer responding to
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Law law enforcer responding to our needs.
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Our needs. i'll say it again it's less of
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I'll say it again it's less of a sanctuary state for
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A sanctuary state for criminals.
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Criminals. >> homeland security secretary
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>> homeland security secretary noem is concerned about the
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Noem is concerned about the impact the shutdown have.
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Impact the shutdown have. >> she thinks it sends the
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>> she thinks it sends the wrong message.
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Wrong message. when you think it every other
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When you think it every other portion of the federal
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Portion of the federal government has been funded
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Government has been funded except homeland security that's
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Except homeland security that's telling the rest of the world
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Telling the rest of the world the democrat party doesn't
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The democrat party doesn't doesn't think that protecting
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Doesn't think that protecting america is safe.
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America is safe. >> if the partial shutdown
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>> if the partial shutdown happens, tsa workers.
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Happens, tsa workers. fema the coast guard
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Fema the coast guard cybersecurity operations.
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Cybersecurity operations. but core ice and customs border
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But core ice and customs border patrol will continue operations
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Patrol will continue operations under separate.
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Under separate. members of congress leaving
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Members of congress leaving town are on strike to to
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Town are on strike to to washington sooner if a deal can
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Washington sooner if a deal can be reached.
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Be reached. >> wright cbn news.
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>> wright cbn news. turning turning now to an issue
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Turning turning now to an issue that's become a hot topic in
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That's become a hot topic in recent years we could see a
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Recent years we could see a major turning point in the
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Major turning point in the controversy over transgender
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Controversy over transgender surgeries for minors.
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Surgeries for minors. a second major medical group
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A second major medical group has changed its position on
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Has changed its position on children going through these
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Children going through these surgeries and now advises
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Surgeries and now advises against it.
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Against it. >> cbn's medical reporter lori
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>> cbn's medical reporter lori johnson has this story.
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Johnson has this story. >> in the us it's estimated
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>> in the us it's estimated that each year a thousand girls
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That each year a thousand girls seeking to become boys have
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Seeking to become boys have their surgically removed.
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Their surgically removed. the number of procedures could
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The number of procedures could see a drop.
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See a drop. now that the group representing
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Now that the group representing over 90% of all plastic
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Over 90% of all plastic surgeons recommends against
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Surgeons recommends against such surgeries, the asps
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Such surgeries, the asps recommends should delay gender
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Recommends should delay gender related chest genital facial
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Related chest genital facial surgery until the patient is 19
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Surgery until the patient is 19 years old, adding a substantial
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Years old, adding a substantial proportion of children
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Proportion of children experience resolution or
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Experience resolution or significant reduction of
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Significant reduction of distress by the time they reach
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Distress by the time they reach adulthood.
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Adulthood. medical or surgical
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Medical or surgical intervention the trump trump
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Intervention the trump trump administration applauded the
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Administration applauded the move, saying future doctors
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Move, saying future doctors will will look back on sex
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Will will look back on sex rejecting procedures for
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Rejecting procedures for minors.
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Minors. the way we look back on
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The way we look back on lobotomies surgeon and
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Lobotomies surgeon and transgender whistleblower dr.
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Transgender whistleblower dr. anton heim agrees.
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Anton heim agrees. >> the form of justice that can
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>> the form of justice that can be done is for the people
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Be done is for the people responsible for this to go to
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Responsible for this to go to prison to have such
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Prison to have such consequences that they spend
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Consequences that they spend the rest of their life in a
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The rest of their life in a cage because what they did to
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Cage because what they did to these children in these
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These children in these vulnerable adults can never be
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Vulnerable adults can never be forgiven.
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Forgiven. they can seek forgiveness from
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They can seek forgiveness from higher power.
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Higher power. but it's our responsibility as
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But it's our responsibility as a civilized society to put
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A civilized society to put these people in the cage for
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These people in the cage for their crimes.
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Their crimes. >> dr. heim could be a
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>> dr. heim could be a watershed moment.
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Watershed moment. >> so it's like it's like the
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>> so it's like it's like the house of cards.
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House of cards. you know, once you start
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You know, once you start pulling out the aces in kings
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Pulling out the aces in kings from the base everything starts
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From the base everything starts falling.
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Falling. the day after the plastic
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The day after the plastic surgeons issued their their
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Surgeons issued their their statement the american medical
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Statement the american medical association stated surgical ill
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Association stated surgical ill interventions on minors should
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Interventions on minors should be generally deferred to
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Be generally deferred to adulthood and granted it was
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Adulthood and granted it was very tepid.
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Very tepid. >> but the fact that they even
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>> but the fact that they even entertained any any type of
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Entertained any any type of skepticism is a monumental
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Skepticism is a monumental victory.
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Victory. >> nevertheless, dr. heim
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>> nevertheless, dr. heim believes the american academy
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Believes the american academy of pediatrics and other groups
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Of pediatrics and other groups will continue to support sex
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Will continue to support sex change interventions on minors
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Change interventions on minors hormones and surgery because
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Hormones and surgery because their guilt is so deep that for
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Their guilt is so deep that for to acknowledge that they did
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To acknowledge that they did something wrong is to admit
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Something wrong is to admit open themselves up for not only
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Open themselves up for not only like this deep sense of moral
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Like this deep sense of moral failure but also a massive
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Failure but also a massive amount legal liability that
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Amount legal liability that could be part of the motivation
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Could be part of the motivation as before the plastic surgeon
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As before the plastic surgeon group issued its statement a
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Group issued its statement a jury handed down new york's
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Jury handed down new york's malpractice verdict against a
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Malpractice verdict against a plastic surgeon and.
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Plastic surgeon and. a jury awarded foxx's variant
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A jury awarded foxx's variant of yorktown heights $2 million
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Of yorktown heights $2 million in damages a double mastectomy
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In damages a double mastectomy she received at 16 then later
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She received at 16 then later regretted.
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Regretted. >> many of these individual are
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>> many of these individual are now irreversibly sterile.
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Now irreversibly sterile. they cannot go back.
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They cannot go back. they'll never children and much
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They'll never children and much of their future was from them.
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Of their future was from them. >> psychologist joseph nicholas
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>> psychologist joseph nicholas says to colleagues talk
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Says to colleagues talk children and their parents into
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Children and their parents into trans.
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Trans. >> the only thing that's going
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>> the only thing that's going to really really change this
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To really really change this around profession is going to
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Around profession is going to be a class where many young
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Be a class where many young people come forward and say i i
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People come forward and say i i was pushed into surgery.
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Was pushed into surgery. i was not told there were any
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I was not told there were any other options.
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Other options. i was given this this label as
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I was given this this label as trans when i was when i was
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Trans when i was when i was very young and this was not
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Very young and this was not fair.
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Fair. >> so while some health care
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>> so while some health care providers still advocate
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Providers still advocate transgender for minors, the
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Transgender for minors, the direction could be changing.
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Direction could be changing. >> lori johnson, cbn news.
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>> lori johnson, cbn news. those lawsuits may very well be
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Those lawsuits may very well be coming.
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Coming. >> gordon.
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>> gordon. well the u.k. led the charge on
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Well the u.k. led the charge on this.
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This. >> there were they were the
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>> there were they were the first medical association that
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First medical association that says well the outcomes you
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Says well the outcomes you antis have paid from performing
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Antis have paid from performing these procedures on minors and
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These procedures on minors and the justification was we need
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The justification was we need to change their mental outlook.
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To change their mental outlook. >> and in that if we have the
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>> and in that if we have the physical change then all these
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Physical change then all these mental health issues are going
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Mental health issues are going to go away.
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To go away. well, it was shown by medical
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Well, it was shown by medical evidence didn't really work.
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Evidence didn't really work. >> and so now we're into well
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>> and so now we're into well have you done you've made us a
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Have you done you've made us a permanent change.
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Permanent change. you're talking about permanent
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You're talking about permanent permanent physical.
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Permanent physical. you're talking about sterility.
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You're talking about sterility. you're talking about them
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You're talking about them children and that future as a
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Children and that future as a parent, a grandparent.
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Parent, a grandparent. >> but don't think think for a
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>> but don't think think for a minute this thing has gone away
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Minute this thing has gone away that there isn't this really
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That there isn't this really strong pressure and i don't
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Strong pressure and i don't understand other than a
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Understand other than a spiritual answer why there's
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Spiritual answer why there's such a strong pressure but it's
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Such a strong pressure but it's just ringing in my ear is
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Just ringing in my ear is one of the leaders of this
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One of the leaders of this gender transition in in the
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Gender transition in in the university of vanderbilt says
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University of vanderbilt says if you don't buy into this
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If you don't buy into this ideology, if you raise
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Ideology, if you raise objections to it, you can't be
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Objections to it, you can't be employed here.
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Employed here. >> so it's it hasn't gone away.
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>> so it's it hasn't gone away. >> the whistleblowers in
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>> the whistleblowers in hospitals disclosing what was
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Hospitals disclosing what was really going on while they lost
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Really going on while they lost their jobs they lost hospital
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Their jobs they lost hospital privileges because of it.
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Privileges because of it. >> here's curious thing that
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>> here's curious thing that it's the trial lawyers who are
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It's the trial lawyers who are the difference that they're
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The difference that they're going to follow file these
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Going to follow file these cases.
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Cases. they're going to win large
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They're going to win large monetary awards.
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Monetary awards. i'm not sure it's going to be a
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I'm not sure it's going to be a class action needed.
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Class action needed. but you know, i remember in law
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But you know, i remember in law school reading all a famous
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School reading all a famous automaker who didn't put a $5
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Automaker who didn't put a $5 rubber insulator in tanks
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Rubber insulator in tanks making those cars subject to
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Making those cars subject to rear end collisions that would
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Rear end collisions that would end up in explosions that would
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End up in explosions that would kill and severely man and burn
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Kill and severely man and burn people all over a $5 rubber
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People all over a $5 rubber lining.
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Lining. they discovered in the records
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They discovered in the records of the of the company that it
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Of the of the company that it was some actual real saying
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Was some actual real saying well we'll make more money if
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Well we'll make more money if we don't have this in the gas
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We don't have this in the gas tank.
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Tank. >> and that led to huge
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>> and that led to huge lawsuits huge recoveries for
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Lawsuits huge recoveries for for the families involved.
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For the families involved. are we going to see that?
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Are we going to see that? but ultimately i think i think
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But ultimately i think i think it's going to come down to
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It's going to come down to health insurance.
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Health insurance. if health insurance say say we
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If health insurance say say we will not provide malpractice
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Will not provide malpractice coverage for this surgery.
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Coverage for this surgery. well, it will stop overnight.
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Well, it will stop overnight. >> terry.
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>> terry. well, up next a match made made
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Well, up next a match made made in heaven.
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In heaven. for nearly 50 years this couple
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For nearly 50 years this couple has been bringing students
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Has been bringing students closer to god.
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Closer to god. see a love story that was born
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See a love story that was born and has blossomed at one of
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And has blossomed at one of america's top christian
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America's top christian universities.
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Universities. plus if you want a marriage
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Plus if you want a marriage that endures to the end you
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That endures to the end you need to learn how to navigate
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Need to learn how to navigate through the long middle
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Through the long middle rebuilding as podcast host dana
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Rebuilding as podcast host dana shea shows you the way later on
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Shea shows you the way later on today's 700 club.
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To keep you connected with your loved ones times.
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Loved ones times. >> book a free test call
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>> book a free test call one 633008.
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One 633008. >> even though i walk through
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>> even though i walk through the valley of of the shadow of
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The valley of of the shadow of death i will fear no evil for
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Death i will fear no evil for you or the lord is my shepherd
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You or the lord is my shepherd david live on stage in branson,
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David live on stage in branson, missouri on monday a 1400
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Missouri on monday a 1400 pounds sprint car.
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Pounds sprint car. you you can feel it in your
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You you can feel it in your chest.
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Chest. >> out of control at 50 miles
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>> out of control at 50 miles an hour.
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An hour. the car was swinging.
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The car was swinging. just crazy and forth and
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Just crazy and forth and heading straight towards this
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Heading straight towards this photographer.
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Photographer. he's the accident.
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He's the accident. this side of my head was
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This side of my head was actually up against the rear
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Actually up against the rear tire and supernatural
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Tire and supernatural protection.
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Protection. only way that could have
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Only way that could have happened is if god turned that
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Happened is if god turned that car monday.
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Car monday. >> 700 club.
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>> 700 club. stay with cbn news all day
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Stay with cbn news all day across our platforms.
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Across our platforms. >> well on the day before
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>> well on the day before valentine's day and this all
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Valentine's day and this all guys learned that we're calling
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Guys learned that we're calling this valentine's day we we have
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This valentine's day we we have a 50 year old love story for
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A 50 year old love story for you.
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You. this couple met on of oral
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This couple met on of oral roberts university together.
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Roberts university together. they dedicated their lives to
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They dedicated their lives to help students reach the world
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Help students reach the world for god.
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For god. the visit of oral roberts
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The visit of oral roberts university is to raise up
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University is to raise up students to hear god's voice to
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Students to hear god's voice to go where his light is dim,
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Go where his light is dim, where his voice is small and
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Where his voice is small and his healing power is not known
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His healing power is not known even to the uttermost bounds of
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Even to the uttermost bounds of the earth.
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The earth. >> that focus has led the
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>> that focus has led the school as one of the country's
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School as one of the country's best colleges.
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Best colleges. >> the wall street journal
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>> the wall street journal journal lists are you in the
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Journal lists are you in the top ten for student experience
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Top ten for student experience includes spiritual integrity,
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Includes spiritual integrity, intellectual pursuit vision.
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Intellectual pursuit vision. something good happens here and
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Something good happens here and and it happened for clarence
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And it happened for clarence and kim boyd, a loving couple
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And kim boyd, a loving couple that have been married nine
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That have been married nine years who met here as students
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Years who met here as students on campus.
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On campus. >> what was it like when you
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>> what was it like when you first met ken?
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First met ken? i was glued.
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I was glued. i was stuck.
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I was stuck. i never you know, i'm looking
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I never you know, i'm looking at sisters and and all of that
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At sisters and and all of that but i just i'm just staring at
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But i just i'm just staring at her and.
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Her and. i'm like wow, there's somebody
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I'm like wow, there's somebody i need.
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I need. >> and kim, what was it like
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>> and kim, what was it like for you?
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For you? i was i you know, i think we
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I was i you know, i think we right away just developed this
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Right away just developed this community.
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Community. and there was there was just
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And there was there was just there was a group of us that
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There was a group of us that just grew to love each other
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Just grew to love each other and care for each other out of
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And care for each other out of that became a friendship that
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That became a friendship that was beyond what we planned
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Was beyond what we planned obviously but what the lord had
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Obviously but what the lord had planned beyond marriage this
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Planned beyond marriage this duo began teaching and
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Duo began teaching and inspiring students and faculty
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Inspiring students and faculty as servant leaders.
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As servant leaders. >> clarence began taking on
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>> clarence began taking on leadership roles.
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Leadership roles. eventually oral roberts
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Eventually oral roberts personally selected him to of
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Personally selected him to of the men's athletic dorm.
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The men's athletic dorm. it moved on on to dean of
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It moved on on to dean of students and now a senior
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Students and now a senior faculty member in the college
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Faculty member in the college of theology.
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Of theology. looking back, he recalls how
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Looking back, he recalls how how the founder would say
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How the founder would say expect a miracle.
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Expect a miracle. even as a freshman and clarence
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Even as a freshman and clarence saw that happen right in front
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Saw that happen right in front of him.
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Of him. what what happened to me at
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What what happened to me at auburn university was i was in
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Auburn university was i was in a chapel and kathryn kuhlman
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A chapel and kathryn kuhlman was a speaker and was doing
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Was a speaker and was doing what she does normally about
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What she does normally about ministry and she said there's a
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Ministry and she said there's a man who has cataracts cataracts
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Man who has cataracts cataracts is going to be in.
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Is going to be in. that man was sitting three
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That man was sitting three seats over one roll back from
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Seats over one roll back from me.
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Me. i saw the cataracts fall out
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I saw the cataracts fall out and i saw it.
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And i saw it. i know i saw it.
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I know i saw it. i could not in reality it
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I could not in reality it because i was not accustomed to
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Because i was not accustomed to that.
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That. but the fact that i saw changedd
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But the fact that i saw changedd my life.
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My life. >> we are all for 30 years.
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>> we are all for 30 years. kim as the dean of the college
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Kim as the dean of the college of education.
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Of education. >> kim remembers her humble
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>> kim remembers her humble pennsylvania beginnings and
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Pennsylvania beginnings and leaving with her best friend to
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Leaving with her best friend to attend to are you not knowing
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Attend to are you not knowing what?
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What? >> although she had her
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>> although she had her mother's prayers to support her
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Mother's prayers to support her mom who had a third grade
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Mom who had a third grade education of her children
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Education of her children before me had gone to college.
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Before me had gone to college. heard about or average
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Heard about or average university.
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University. she liked the rules.
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She liked the rules. he liked that it had a curfew.
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He liked that it had a curfew. she liked that it had a dress
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She liked that it had a dress code.
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Code. she liked that it was a
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She liked that it was a christian.
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Christian. >> during her first year as a
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>> during her first year as a student, kim remembers taking
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Student, kim remembers taking taking a class that would draw
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Taking a class that would draw her into a deeper relationship
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Her into a deeper relationship with christ a class taught by
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With christ a class taught by oral roberts.
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Oral roberts. >> can to this day remember
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>> can to this day remember where in the maybe sinner.
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Where in the maybe sinner. >> when oral roberts holy
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>> when oral roberts holy spirit in the now and he
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Spirit in the now and he started teaching teaching about
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Started teaching teaching about the need to know the holy
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The need to know the holy spirit and and that evidence
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Spirit and and that evidence was speaking in tongues.
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Was speaking in tongues. >> so that was my encounter
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>> so that was my encounter with learning about the holy
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With learning about the holy spirit learning who god was in
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Spirit learning who god was in terms of the spirit and how he
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Terms of the spirit and how he could be there with us all the
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Could be there with us all the time.
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Time. >> throughout their marriage
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>> throughout their marriage say god has been the center of
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Say god has been the center of their joy while showing of
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Their joy while showing of their family.
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Their family. they expressed gratitude for
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They expressed gratitude for having four children all of
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Having four children all of whom graduated from 0ru.
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Whom graduated from 0ru. they're grandparents to nine
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They're grandparents to nine grandchildren as educators.
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Grandchildren as educators. they're dedicated to the
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They're dedicated to the school's mission to develop
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School's mission to develop develop holy spirit empowered
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Develop holy spirit empowered leaders through a whole person
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Leaders through a whole person education, mind and body.
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Education, mind and body. they're preparing students to
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They're preparing students to who hear god's voice and shine
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Who hear god's voice and shine his light is dim.
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His light is dim. >> that's why you're here.
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>> that's why you're here. you must must first become a
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You must must first become a whole person if you're going to
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Whole person if you're going to affect the world in a holistic
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Affect the world in a holistic way way.
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Way way. >> you can't be the problem and
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>> you can't be the problem and then try to fix the problem you
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Then try to fix the problem you are.
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Are. >> the last time i checked god
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>> the last time i checked god was still on the throne.
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Was still on the throne. the last time i checked he is a
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The last time i checked he is a mighty warrior on our behalf.
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Mighty warrior on our behalf. the last time i checked is is
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The last time i checked is is real.
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Real. the last time i checked is here
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The last time i checked is here today.
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Today. >> what do you love about dr.
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>> what do you love about dr. boyd?
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Boyd? i love how she's so sweet.
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I love how she's so sweet. she's so caring.
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She's so caring. she's passionate about students
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She's passionate about students here.
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Here. >> are you and what we can do
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>> are you and what we can do to make the world a better
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To make the world a better place there are wonderful.
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Place there are wonderful. >> they've contributed so much
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>> they've contributed so much to this university and to and
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To this university and to and to our students.
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To our students. i'm very proud of them to be
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I'm very proud of them to be able to say that i know them
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Able to say that i know them they love the lord and it's a
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They love the lord and it's a thrill be able to be involved
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Thrill be able to be involved with them and to serve and in
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With them and to serve and in eau has a reason to sing and
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Eau has a reason to sing and thank the lord for that special
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Thank the lord for that special day.
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Day. he met kim.
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He met kim. since then they have a
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Since then they have a remarkable couple.
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Remarkable couple. >> you could call them truly
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>> you could call them truly made in heaven.
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Made in heaven. >> in tulsa, kelly wright news.
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>> in tulsa, kelly wright news. >> well incredible story day.
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>> well incredible story day. yes and.
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Yes and. today's turbulent world you
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Today's turbulent world you still have anchors and the
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Still have anchors and the anchor of love the anchor of
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Anchor of love the anchor of the marriage covenant wonderful
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The marriage covenant wonderful christian institutions.
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Christian institutions. are you fantastic?
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Are you fantastic? their graduates have gone
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Their graduates have gone around the world of their
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Around the world of their graduates is head of cbn,
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Graduates is head of cbn, indonesia and you see the
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Indonesia and you see the impact you see the fruit that
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Impact you see the fruit that remains.
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Remains. may god bless that wonderful
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May god bless that wonderful university and all they've done
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University and all they've done through the decades.
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Through the decades. their faithfulness to produce
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Their faithfulness to produce christian leaders and instill
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Christian leaders and instill in young yes indeed there's a
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In young yes indeed there's a holy spirit in the here and
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Holy spirit in the here and now.
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Now. >> well speaking of good good
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>> well speaking of good good marriages coming up next
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Marriages coming up next perfect lessons on marriage.
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Perfect lessons on marriage. >> taken from imperfect couples
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>> taken from imperfect couples dana shea shares the tried and
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Dana shea shares the tried and true ways you can avoid the
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True ways you can avoid the most common mistakes in your
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Most common mistakes in your relationship.
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Relationship. >> she joins us live when we
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>> she joins us live when we come back.
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>> amazing. >> to learn more call today or
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>> to learn more call today or go to gentle cure scar.
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Go to gentle cure scar. >> well, we're all familiar
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>> well, we're all familiar with the honeymoon phase.
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With the honeymoon phase. when that spark dies out,
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When that spark dies out, problems can begin a marriage
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Problems can begin a marriage doesn't fall apart in
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Doesn't fall apart in one single moment kind of
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One single moment kind of unravels.
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Unravels. >> and what author dana shea
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>> and what author dana shea calls the long middle.
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Calls the long middle. >> what if struggles in your
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>> what if struggles in your marriage could actually make it
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Marriage could actually make it stronger?
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Stronger? denis shea knows they can as a
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Denis shea knows they can as a keynote speaker, relationship
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Keynote speaker, relationship expert and host us podcast dana
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Expert and host us podcast dana blends humor grace and real
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Blends humor grace and real world advice to help people
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World advice to help people live and love better.
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Live and love better. in her new book tried and true,
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In her new book tried and true, she draws from imperfect
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She draws from imperfect biblical couples offering
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Biblical couples offering guidance for navigate in
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Guidance for navigate in conflict disappointment or
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Conflict disappointment or unmet expectations showing that
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Unmet expectations showing that even the hardest seasons can
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Even the hardest seasons can deepen your connection and
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Deepen your connection and strengthen your covenant.
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Strengthen your covenant. >> is with us now.
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>> is with us now. we welcome you to the 700 club.
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We welcome you to the 700 club. great to have to have you here
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Great to have to have you here today.
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Today. >> thank you so much for having
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>> thank you so much for having me.
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Me. terry is such a pleasure tried
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Terry is such a pleasure tried and true boy you've got 12
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And true boy you've got 12 couples out of the word that
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Couples out of the word that you take at and study here.
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You take at and study here. but one of the things you talk
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But one of the things you talk about is the long in marriage.
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About is the long in marriage. >> what do you mean by that?
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>> what do you mean by that? the long middle is where most
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The long middle is where most couples you know it's where
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Couples you know it's where things are not horrible but
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Things are not horrible but they're not great.
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They're not great. >> the mundane, the everyday
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>> the mundane, the everyday just you know, stressors
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Just you know, stressors stressors of marriage.
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Stressors of marriage. and i think that's where a lot
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And i think that's where a lot of couples get stuck is in that
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Of couples get stuck is in that middle again because it's not
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Middle again because it's not like we're not necessarily
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Like we're not necessarily headed to divorce court but
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Headed to divorce court but we're not thriving in our
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We're not thriving in our marriage either.
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Marriage either. >> we're not enjoying it like
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>> we're not enjoying it like we expected to.
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We expected to. >> exactly.
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>> exactly. talk a little bit about the
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Talk a little bit about the significance call this
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Significance call this reconnection because or
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Reconnection because or disconnection because how does
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Disconnection because how does that happen like it that
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That happen like it that introduction was so true that
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Introduction was so true that it doesn't happen like
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It doesn't happen like overnight.
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Overnight. >> it happens a little bit at a
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>> it happens a little bit at a time.
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Time. >> terri i liken it to if you
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>> terri i liken it to if you imagine like a canoe on a lake,
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Imagine like a canoe on a lake, right?
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Right? if the canoe was just sitting
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If the canoe was just sitting on a and it's not tethered to
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On a and it's not tethered to anything it's not tied to
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Anything it's not tied to anything it doesn't take a
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Anything it doesn't take a hurricane or gale force winds.
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Hurricane or gale force winds. it's just a gentle breeze.
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It's just a gentle breeze. that canoe is going to drift
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That canoe is going to drift off.
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Off. right.
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Right. and that's what happens in is
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And that's what happens in is that our default is actually
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That our default is actually disconnection not connection.
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Disconnection not connection. so if couples are not tethered
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So if couples are not tethered to something or if they're not
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To something or if they're not then they are going to
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Then they are going to experience disconnection over
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Experience disconnection over time.
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Time. if you don't recognize it and
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If you don't recognize it and address it then you you wake up
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Address it then you you wake up and you're like who is this
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And you're like who is this person that i married?
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Person that i married? i fell so far apart from them?
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I fell so far apart from them? >> well intention is the word
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>> well intention is the word that comes to mind as you
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That comes to mind as you describe all of that.
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Describe all of that. >> so how are you in your
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>> so how are you in your marriage?
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Marriage? live?
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Live? >> hmm.
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>> hmm. i think you know, a lot of it
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I think you know, a lot of it is the.
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Is the. the everyday choices that we
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The everyday choices that we make little things that can by
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Make little things that can by like saying please saying thank
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Like saying please saying thank you.
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You. my husband and i've been 27
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My husband and i've been 27 years he opens the car door for
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Years he opens the car door for me.
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Me. i was going to say open the car
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I was going to say open the car door in the car and then i say
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Door in the car and then i say thank you.
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Thank you. >> right.
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>> right. not taking that for granted.
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Not taking that for granted. we kiss each other, you know,
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We kiss each other, you know, even if it might be like a
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Even if it might be like a quick peck real quick, real
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Quick peck real quick, real real right.
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Real right. >> it's like our obligated to
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>> it's like our obligated to our kids but like, you know
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Our kids but like, you know when he's he's coming in when
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When he's he's coming in when i'm going out like just those
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I'm going out like just those little things that that we kind
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Little things that that we kind of miss sometimes those are
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Of miss sometimes those are ways to stay connected and then
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Ways to stay connected and then obviously our spiritual
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Obviously our spiritual connection which is really the
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Connection which is really the reason that i wrote this book
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Reason that i wrote this book because i think if we have a
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Because i think if we have a foundation of spiritual
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Foundation of spiritual connection that's going to take
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Connection that's going to take care many of the things that
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Care many of the things that try to disconnect us.
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Try to disconnect us. >> do you think sometimes the
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>> do you think sometimes the christian are almost more
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Christian are almost more susceptible to having marriage
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Susceptible to having marriage issues because they just assume
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Issues because they just assume they both love the lord,
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They both love the lord, they're both committed each
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They're both committed each other that they're almost not
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Other that they're almost not ready to deal with the.
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Ready to deal with the. >> absolutely.
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>> absolutely. and we have to understand that
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And we have to understand that we have an enemy the enemy
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We have an enemy the enemy hates marriage because marriage
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Hates marriage because marriage human relationship where he
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Human relationship where he reveals his covenant.
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Reveals his covenant. and.
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And. and so because we are in a
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And so because we are in a christian marriage, we are a
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Christian marriage, we are a target for the the enemy and i
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Target for the the enemy and i think a lot of christians have
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Think a lot of christians have no idea they have no idea that
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No idea they have no idea that an enemy who is after them.
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An enemy who is after them. and so what happens is then we
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And so what happens is then we look at each at our spouse as
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Look at each at our spouse as our enemy instead of the real
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Our enemy instead of the real enemy.
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Enemy. .
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. and so that makes us greatly
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And so that makes us greatly susceptible.
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Susceptible. and then i think sometimes you
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And then i think sometimes you we can abuse grace and we can
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We can abuse grace and we can say well, i'm a christian.
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Say well, i'm a christian. you i know what i'm supposed to
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You i know what i'm supposed to do but i've got grace and then
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Do but i've got grace and then we we start to lose some of
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We we start to lose some of that intentionality in our
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That intentionality in our marriages.
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Marriages. >> you just mentioned covenant.
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>> you just mentioned covenant. and i wonder sometimes if we
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And i wonder sometimes if we don't need to teach more in our
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Don't need to teach more in our churches about what covenant is
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Churches about what covenant is and how significant how how and
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And how significant how how and ongoing it is from god's
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Ongoing it is from god's perspective.
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Perspective. you say love is a choice so if
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You say love is a choice so if we're in covenant with someone
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We're in covenant with someone we know what the choice is
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We know what the choice is supposed to be.
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Supposed to be. >> right?
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>> right? that's right.
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That's right. you know and i often say in the
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You know and i often say in the church church tends to idealize
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Church church tends to idealize marriage and the world tends to
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Marriage and the world tends to marriage.
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Marriage. and what we need to do as as
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And what we need to do as as believers is realize i'm not
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Believers is realize i'm not married to my husband because
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Married to my husband because he's the greatest thing in the
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He's the greatest thing in the world.
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World. i mean he's great.
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I mean he's great. you know he's great don't get
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You know he's great don't get me wrong.
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Me wrong. but truthfully can always find
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But truthfully can always find somebody better.
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Somebody better. there's always options.
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There's always options. right.
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Right. and also not married to him
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And also not married to him because of all the things that
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Because of all the things that he can do for me.
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He can do for me. and truth be told, oftentimes
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And truth be told, oftentimes what we call love is really
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What we call love is really just selfish love.
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Just selfish love. >> it's really what can this
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>> it's really what can this person do for me as they're
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Person do for me as they're floating my boat as long as
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Floating my boat as long as they're checking off the boxes
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They're checking off the boxes and performing then all is
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And performing then all is well.
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Well. but the moment that they stop
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But the moment that they stop then i'm out.
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Then i'm out. >> you know i hear women a lot
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>> you know i hear women a lot of christian but women in
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Of christian but women in general talk about the laundry
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General talk about the laundry list they make.
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List they make. i call i call it a laundry list
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I call i call it a laundry list of all the attributes they want
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Of all the attributes they want in their husband and we focus
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In their husband and we focus more on finding the right
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More on finding the right person than being the right
00:28:14.871 --> 00:28:15.405
Person than being the right person like like that's
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Person like like that's significant to say god prepare
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Significant to say god prepare me.
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Me. >> absolutely.
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>> absolutely. i've got a couple of single
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I've got a couple of single girlfriends and you know they
00:28:23.347 --> 00:28:25.749
Girlfriends and you know they want to be married in their
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Want to be married in their forties fifties.
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Forties fifties. they want to be married and so
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They want to be married and so often i will say what what are
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Often i will say what what are you looking for in a man and
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You looking for in a man and the list long i might drop that
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The list long i might drop that list does not exist that man is
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List does not exist that man is not going to be found.
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Not going to be found. you are going to need a chat
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You are going to need a chat but somebody to create that man
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But somebody to create that man that you are trying to create.
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That you are trying to create. but i think that that is human
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But i think that that is human nature that we want what we're
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Nature that we want what we're not even capable of providing.
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Not even capable of providing. yes, it's about what do you
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Yes, it's about what do you bring the person to be when
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Bring the person to be when we're not so work on yourself,
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We're not so work on yourself, you know, become the person
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You know, become the person that would attract such a
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That would attract such a person instead of just looking
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Person instead of just looking at you know this person has to
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At you know this person has to fulfill all of my needs and
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Fulfill all of my needs and desires.
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Desires. mentioned this a little bit
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Mentioned this a little bit earlier about the kiss that
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Earlier about the kiss that comes when it's just the heels
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Comes when it's just the heels of a disagreement.
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Of a disagreement. but every marriage has has
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But every marriage has has disagreements.
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Disagreements. there are always points of
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There are always points of contention that rise now and
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Contention that rise now and again.
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Again. how do you handle those in a
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How do you handle those in a way that doesn't damage the
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Way that doesn't damage the relationship?
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Relationship? >> i look at conflict as an
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>> i look at conflict as an adventure i really do like i am
00:29:20.003 --> 00:29:23.073
Adventure i really do like i am not afraid of conflict.
00:29:23.206 --> 00:29:23.707
Not afraid of conflict. i'm really not i don't love it
00:29:23.840 --> 00:29:26.543
I'm really not i don't love it you know i don't looking for it
00:29:26.676 --> 00:29:27.411
You know i don't looking for it but i think if we're so afraid
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But i think if we're so afraid of of conflict and you know if
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Of of conflict and you know if you grew up in a home where you
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You grew up in a home where you didn't see your practice
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Didn't see your practice conflict well whether they
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Conflict well whether they never fought in in front of you
00:29:34.251 --> 00:29:37.754
Never fought in in front of you because a lot of well-intended
00:29:37.888 --> 00:29:38.488
Because a lot of well-intended parents feel like we can never
00:29:38.622 --> 00:29:39.256
Parents feel like we can never disagree argue in front of our
00:29:39.389 --> 00:29:41.591
Disagree argue in front of our children.
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Children. >> but really you handicap your
00:29:42.092 --> 00:29:42.726
>> but really you handicap your children because you teach them
00:29:42.859 --> 00:29:44.828
Children because you teach them how to resolve conflict well
00:29:44.961 --> 00:29:45.562
How to resolve conflict well and then you grow up you know,
00:29:45.695 --> 00:29:46.329
And then you grow up you know, there's know there's other
00:29:46.463 --> 00:29:48.698
There's know there's other people who grow up like i did
00:29:48.832 --> 00:29:49.433
People who grow up like i did and lots of dysfunction and
00:29:49.566 --> 00:29:50.133
And lots of dysfunction and that's obviously not a good
00:29:50.267 --> 00:29:52.302
That's obviously not a good template either.
00:29:52.436 --> 00:29:52.769
Template either. so i think if we can approach
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So i think if we can approach conflict knowing that this does
00:29:53.637 --> 00:29:54.271
Conflict knowing that this does not have to break us, we can
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Not have to break us, we can learn a lot from conflict and
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Learn a lot from conflict and conflict teaches you about what
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Conflict teaches you about what is really important to the
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Is really important to the other person.
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Other person. what is really important to me.
00:30:01.545 --> 00:30:04.948
What is really important to me. >> so i'm really introspective
00:30:05.082 --> 00:30:05.749
>> so i'm really introspective and when i'm really feeling
00:30:05.882 --> 00:30:08.351
And when i'm really feeling irritated at my husband which
00:30:08.485 --> 00:30:09.086
Irritated at my husband which is often you probably say the
00:30:09.219 --> 00:30:12.389
Is often you probably say the thing about me, you know i'm
00:30:12.522 --> 00:30:15.759
Thing about me, you know i'm okay dana what is really going
00:30:15.892 --> 00:30:16.526
Okay dana what is really going on because it's usually not
00:30:16.660 --> 00:30:17.194
On because it's usually not about the person, it's usually
00:30:17.327 --> 00:30:20.330
About the person, it's usually not about what they're doing.
00:30:20.464 --> 00:30:21.064
Not about what they're doing. it's something deeper.
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It's something deeper. so if we so if we can really
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So if we so if we can really pay attention to that and learn
00:30:24.401 --> 00:30:25.035
Pay attention to that and learn how to ask ourselves better
00:30:25.168 --> 00:30:25.735
How to ask ourselves better questions then we won't be so
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Questions then we won't be so afraid of conflict when it
00:30:28.839 --> 00:30:29.406
Afraid of conflict when it shows up.
00:30:29.539 --> 00:30:29.773
Shows up. >> you have pulled 12 couples
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>> you have pulled 12 couples out of the word and delved into
00:30:31.708 --> 00:30:35.312
Out of the word and delved into their relationships with each
00:30:35.445 --> 00:30:36.046
Their relationships with each other.
00:30:36.179 --> 00:30:36.346
Other. the good, the bad and the ugly
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The good, the bad and the ugly .
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. but you have wisdom about this
00:30:39.516 --> 00:30:40.150
But you have wisdom about this because you've come through
00:30:40.283 --> 00:30:42.853
Because you've come through yourself.
00:30:42.986 --> 00:30:43.220
Yourself. talk about your own marriage
00:30:43.353 --> 00:30:43.920
Talk about your own marriage and how you guys handled some.
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And how you guys handled some. >> yeah.
00:30:47.257 --> 00:30:47.524
>> yeah. so my husband and i got married
00:30:47.657 --> 00:30:48.425
So my husband and i got married super young.
00:30:48.558 --> 00:30:48.859
Super young. we were 18 and 21.
00:30:49.659 --> 00:30:50.460
We were 18 and 21. i do not recommend that by the
00:30:50.594 --> 00:30:51.528
I do not recommend that by the way because you don't know
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Way because you don't know anything about anything.
00:30:54.097 --> 00:30:54.564
Anything about anything. what do you you know what 18
00:30:54.698 --> 00:30:57.067
What do you you know what 18 years old there we are and you
00:30:57.200 --> 00:30:57.834
Years old there we are and you know we've been together very
00:30:57.968 --> 00:30:59.970
Know we've been together very long time but we got married
00:31:00.103 --> 00:31:00.670
Long time but we got married with a lot of the the a lot of
00:31:00.804 --> 00:31:03.907
With a lot of the the a lot of odds just facing us.
00:31:04.040 --> 00:31:04.474
Odds just facing us. we had a six week old son so
00:31:04.608 --> 00:31:05.208
We had a six week old son so there was a teenage pregnancy
00:31:05.342 --> 00:31:07.544
There was a teenage pregnancy in there.
00:31:07.677 --> 00:31:07.911
In there. we just had a lot of things
00:31:08.044 --> 00:31:08.745
We just had a lot of things going against us and very early
00:31:08.879 --> 00:31:11.281
Going against us and very early on in my marriage i had an
00:31:11.414 --> 00:31:12.149
On in my marriage i had an affair and then i found out my
00:31:12.282 --> 00:31:13.016
Affair and then i found out my husband also had an affair and
00:31:13.150 --> 00:31:15.352
Husband also had an affair and it was just a lack of
00:31:15.485 --> 00:31:16.019
It was just a lack of boundaries, a lack of wisdom
00:31:16.153 --> 00:31:18.688
Boundaries, a lack of wisdom make excuses but that's just
00:31:18.822 --> 00:31:19.389
Make excuses but that's just the nature of it.
00:31:19.523 --> 00:31:19.923
The nature of it. my my husband kind of continued
00:31:20.056 --> 00:31:22.893
My my husband kind of continued in cycles of infidelity and he
00:31:23.026 --> 00:31:23.693
In cycles of infidelity and he was my husband.
00:31:23.827 --> 00:31:26.329
Was my husband. >> he's never been like you
00:31:26.463 --> 00:31:27.030
>> he's never been like you know, well this is just who i
00:31:27.164 --> 00:31:27.797
Know, well this is just who i am.
00:31:27.931 --> 00:31:28.064
Am. deal.
00:31:28.198 --> 00:31:29.900
Deal. i mean he was always repentant
00:31:30.033 --> 00:31:30.834
I mean he was always repentant remorse, remorseful i'll say it
00:31:30.967 --> 00:31:31.601
Remorse, remorseful i'll say it that it that way remorseful not
00:31:31.735 --> 00:31:34.004
That it that way remorseful not necessarily repentant and we
00:31:34.137 --> 00:31:34.704
Necessarily repentant and we just dealt with cycles of
00:31:34.838 --> 00:31:37.641
Just dealt with cycles of infidelity through many, many
00:31:37.774 --> 00:31:38.341
Infidelity through many, many years of marriage and
00:31:38.475 --> 00:31:40.944
Years of marriage and throughout that my heart became
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Throughout that my heart became very cold, very bitter lots of
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Very cold, very bitter lots of unforgiveness, lots of shame.
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Unforgiveness, lots of shame. >> it's a very shameful to go
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>> it's a very shameful to go through infidelity and lots of
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Through infidelity and lots of people never talk about it
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People never talk about it because and so i remember early
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Because and so i remember early on we would look to other
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On we would look to other couples to help us.
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Couples to help us. you know, we knew we were in
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You know, we knew we were in trouble.
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Trouble. we would look to other couples
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We would look to other couples to help and unfortunately even
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To help and unfortunately even in the church we we didn't get
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In the church we we didn't get much help.
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Much help. >> so how did you resurrect the
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>> so how did you resurrect the flame?
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Flame? well, it literally the lord
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Well, it literally the lord like i wish that i had like a
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Like i wish that i had like a better a better answer but
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Better a better answer but literally the lord had to work
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Literally the lord had to work on both our hearts similar
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On both our hearts similar similar tenuously.
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Similar tenuously. the lord had to break that icy
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The lord had to break that icy cold heart in me and.
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Cold heart in me and. he had to make my husband
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He had to make my husband repentance.
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Repentance. and so through therapy we went
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And so through therapy we went through therapy, you know,
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Through therapy, you know, committing to our relationship
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Committing to our relationship the lord which is again why i
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The lord which is again why i keep talking about spiritual
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Keep talking about spiritual connection because is the key
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Connection because is the key that's the roots of the healing
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That's the roots of the healing and it's.
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And it's. >> it's a long journey and i
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>> it's a long journey and i tell people, listen, you didn't
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Tell people, listen, you didn't break your marriage overnight.
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Break your marriage overnight. i'm not going to be to be fixed
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I'm not going to be to be fixed overnight but that's the
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Overnight but that's the covenant i love.
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Covenant i love. >> that's right.
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>> that's right. >> love your new book just our
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>> love your new book just our new tried and and true marriage
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New tried and and true marriage marriage advice from 12
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Marriage advice from 12 imperfect biblical couples.
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Imperfect biblical couples. well.
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Well. well, that should free us all.
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Well, that should free us all. there's not going to be any
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There's not going to be any great comparison or judgment in
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Great comparison or judgment in in this but there is going to
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In this but there is going to be great wisdom.
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Be great wisdom. the book is available wherever
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The book is available wherever are sold and we're just excited
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Are sold and we're just excited with the message you bring us.
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With the message you bring us. >> thank you.
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>> thank you. thank you so much.
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Thank you so much. >> yeah.
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>> yeah. so get your book, gordon.
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So get your book, gordon. well well, still ahead a pastor
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Well well, still ahead a pastor has an affair with a woman and
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Has an affair with a woman and his congregation and his wife
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His congregation and his wife is clueless until a dream
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Is clueless until a dream reveals.
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Reveals. watch what happens next.
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Watch what happens next. .
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. >> that's later on today's show
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Help you on your journey preparing this season so that
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Preparing this season so that your soul can flourish at
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Your soul can flourish at easter.
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Easter. >> welcome back to the 700 club
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>> welcome back to the 700 club for the cbn news break.
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For the cbn news break. the environmental protection
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The environmental protection agency has repealed the
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Agency has repealed the endangerment finding from the
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Endangerment finding from the obama administration.
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Obama administration. that measure said greenhouse
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That measure said greenhouse gases were a threat to public
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Gases were a threat to public health and welfare.
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Health and welfare. the finding served as the basis
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The finding served as the basis for climate regulations
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For climate regulations including on fossil fuels and
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Including on fossil fuels and power plants.
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Power plants. president donald trump said the
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President donald trump said the finding quote had no basis in
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Finding quote had no basis in fact whatsoever and it led to
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Fact whatsoever and it led to crippling restrictions
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Crippling restrictions including some that increase
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Including some that increase car.
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Car. he added the move will lower
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He added the move will lower the average cost of a new by
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The average cost of a new by nearly $3,000.
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Nearly $3,000. the administration's action is
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The administration's action is expected to face some legal
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Expected to face some legal challenges.
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Challenges. >> nearly two thousand young
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>> nearly two thousand young people gave their lives to
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People gave their lives to christ or made renewed
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Christ or made renewed commitments of faith.
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Commitments of faith. at a recent large evangelistic
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At a recent large evangelistic event in london, the rally was
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Event in london, the rally was led 819 church, a congregation
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Led 819 church, a congregation based in the united states and
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Based in the united states and atlanta in fact bringing its
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Atlanta in fact bringing its public evangelism focus to the
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Public evangelism focus to the the uk.
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The uk. the gathering drew a
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The gathering drew a predominantly young adult
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Predominantly young adult audience and produced one of
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Audience and produced one of the most significant public
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The most significant public faith responses in london in
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Faith responses in london in recent years with prayer teams
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Recent years with prayer teams and changed lives.
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And changed lives. you can find the full the full
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You can find the full the full story on this amazing event and
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Story on this amazing event and always get the latest from cbn
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It is cbn news.com or an interview back more of today's
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Interview back more of today's 700 club.
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700 club. >> it's coming up right after
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>> it's coming up right after this.
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Health span today. monday a 1400 pounds sprint
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Monday a 1400 pounds sprint car.
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Car. you can feel it in your chest
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You can feel it in your chest out of control at 50 miles an
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Out of control at 50 miles an hour.
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Hour. the car was swinging.
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The car was swinging. just crazy back and forth and
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Just crazy back and forth and heading straight towards this
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Heading straight towards this photographer.
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Photographer. he's not turning the accident
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He's not turning the accident this side of my head actually
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This side of my head actually up against the rear tire and
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Up against the rear tire and supernatural protection may
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Supernatural protection may only way that could have
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Only way that could have happened is if god turned that
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Happened is if god turned that car monday.
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Car monday. >> 700 club.
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>> 700 club. the hot sun beat down on rosa
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The hot sun beat down on rosa and her daughter reward for
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And her daughter reward for hours of backbreaking labor a
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Hours of backbreaking labor a brown and muddy bucket of
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Brown and muddy bucket of water.
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Water. well today, they no longer have
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Well today, they no longer have to make that journey thanks to
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To make that journey thanks to a little miracle right to their
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A little miracle right to their village.
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Village. >> rosa a single parent raising
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>> rosa a single parent raising her children in chiapas, mexico
00:36:50.398 --> 00:36:53.368
Her children in chiapas, mexico every day they face small
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Every day they face small battles that put their health
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Battles that put their health at risk.
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At risk. the biggest one is having clean
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The biggest one is having clean water to drink.
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Water to drink. they walk back from the open
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They walk back from the open beat the well is the hardest.
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Beat the well is the hardest. the buckets are heavy as the
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The buckets are heavy as the sun beats down on us.
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Sun beats down on us. he's brown and muddy.
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He's brown and muddy. sometimes there is no no water
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Sometimes there is no no water at all.
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At all. >> rosa boils and treats the
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>> rosa boils and treats the water she.
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Water she. she does everything she can to
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She does everything she can to make it safe but the kids keep
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Make it safe but the kids keep getting anyway.
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Getting anyway. >> the water here is not clean
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>> the water here is not clean .
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. it smells bad.
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It smells bad. when my children get sick it
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When my children get sick it rips my heart out.
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Rips my heart out. they get stomachaches and
00:37:28.503 --> 00:37:31.906
They get stomachaches and diarrhea.
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Diarrhea. i cannot afford medicine so i
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I cannot afford medicine so i look for for healing plants and
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Look for for healing plants and i pray.
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I pray. >> i pray to god a lot then
00:37:36.411 --> 00:37:39.347
>> i pray to god a lot then thanks to you.
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Thanks to you. >> operation blessing came to
00:37:39.947 --> 00:37:40.548
>> operation blessing came to rosa's and installed a water
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Rosa's and installed a water collection and purification.
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Collection and purification. we also built her a shower and
00:37:46.587 --> 00:37:47.422
We also built her a shower and a bathroom.
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A bathroom. now that we have a water tank i
00:37:50.591 --> 00:37:51.526
Now that we have a water tank i don't have to haul buckets
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Don't have to haul buckets anymore.
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Anymore. there is plenty for our needs.
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There is plenty for our needs. i can now get the housework
00:37:55.430 --> 00:37:58.866
I can now get the housework done and look after my children
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Done and look after my children knowing they're safe.
00:37:59.767 --> 00:38:02.537
Knowing they're safe. now i can drink a lot of water.
00:38:02.670 --> 00:38:03.638
Now i can drink a lot of water. it like a little miracle.
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It like a little miracle. >> thank you so much to who
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>> thank you so much to who gave us this clean water.
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Gave us this clean water. i can't thank.
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I can't thank. >> well, they're in mexico.
00:38:16.751 --> 00:38:17.285
>> well, they're in mexico. they're calling out little and
00:38:17.418 --> 00:38:19.921
They're calling out little and a miracle that you created.
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A miracle that you created. if you're a donor hundred club
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If you're a donor hundred club if you're one of our partners.
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If you're one of our partners. >> thank you you so much.
00:38:24.926 --> 00:38:27.762
>> thank you you so much. thank you.
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Thank you. that little miracle from mexico
00:38:28.296 --> 00:38:28.930
That little miracle from mexico is is because of you.
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Is is because of you. if you're not joined with us, i
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If you're not joined with us, i encourage you pick up up the
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Encourage you pick up up the phone and call and say yes, i
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Phone and call and say yes, i want to be a part of it.
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Want to be a part of it. 707,000 is the number to call.
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707,000 is the number to call. how much is is it to be a
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How much is is it to be a member?
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Member? it's just $20 a month.
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It's just $20 a month. some can join at higher levels
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Some can join at higher levels you can go at 700 club gold
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You can go at 700 club gold dollars a month.
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Dollars a month. >> thousand club is 1000
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>> thousand club is 1000 dollars a year.
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Dollars a year. that that breaks out to $84 a
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That that breaks out to $84 a month at whatever level when
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Month at whatever level when you call join i've got this
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You call join i've got this wonderful premium for you the
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Wonderful premium for you the entire times on locked where
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Entire times on locked where you get streaming access to
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You get streaming access to from theologians our professors
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From theologians our professors right here at university school
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Right here at university school of divinity then there's a
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Of divinity then there's a workbook filled with scriptures
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Workbook filled with scriptures where you can walk through the
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Where you can walk through the scriptures yourself at the end
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Scriptures yourself at the end of 30 days you'll absolutely
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Of 30 days you'll absolutely know and time prophecy what to
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Know and time prophecy what to be looking for, what to be
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Uncovered changes everything. >> shelley was consumed with a
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>> shelley was consumed with a new baby, couldn't even find
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New baby, couldn't even find time for a shower.
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Time for a shower. meanwhile her husband was
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Meanwhile her husband was making time with a woman in
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Making time with a woman in their church.
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Their church. when shelley discovered it
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When shelley discovered it seemed too late to save their
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Seemed too late to save their marriage.
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Marriage. >> to have proof of your
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>> to have proof of your partner being unfaithful is
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Partner being unfaithful is like someone died and your
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Like someone died and your ideology or your thoughts or
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Ideology or your thoughts or your perspective of who you
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Your perspective of who you were or what you guys were made
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Were or what you guys were made of completely crumbles before
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Of completely crumbles before you and it's like oh this will
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You and it's like oh this will never be the same again.
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Never be the same again. noel and shelley rizzio had
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Noel and shelley rizzio had been dating eight years when
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Been dating eight years when they gave their lives to christ
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They gave their lives to christ 2013 shortly after they tied
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2013 shortly after they tied the knot their new faith the
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The knot their new faith the couple poured their hearts into
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Couple poured their hearts into church ministry.
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Church ministry. >> it would lay a foundation
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>> it would lay a foundation for their love.
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For their love. church heaven.
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Church heaven. >> it really felt like an
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>> it really felt like an escape from the street life
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Escape from the street life that i had grew up living.
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That i had grew up living. >> i someone that love god more
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>> i someone that love god more than than he would love me.
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Than than he would love me. >> and i saw all of those
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>> and i saw all of those photos.
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Photos. two years later they had their
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Two years later they had their first child.
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First child. the celebration however was
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The celebration however was short lived as shelley battled
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Short lived as shelley battled postpartum depression in the
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Postpartum depression in the months that followed.
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Months that followed. their marriage began to
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Their marriage began to fracture like my whole world
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Fracture like my whole world flipped upside down.
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Flipped upside down. >> i didn't even know who i was
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>> i didn't even know who i was and was.
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And was. and it's like a shower.
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And it's like a shower. she was colicky so she would
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She was colicky so she would cry a lot.
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Cry a lot. i was sleepless and i had no
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I was sleepless and i had no idea i couldn't even attend to
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Idea i couldn't even attend to my husband or even think about
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My husband or even think about going back to work was a
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Going back to work was a complete nightmare and i felt
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Complete nightmare and i felt very isolated and depressed,
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Very isolated and depressed, felt powerless.
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Felt powerless. i really wanted to help her as
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I really wanted to help her as her as best as i could as a
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Her as best as i could as a husband.
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Husband. i thought that the deeper i
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I thought that the deeper i dived into ministry the closer
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Dived into ministry the closer i got to the solution.
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I got to the solution. i neglected my marital duty.
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I neglected my marital duty. i neglected my duty at home and
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I neglected my duty at home and what i should the energy and
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What i should the energy and the resources that i should
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The resources that i should have used at home.
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Have used at home. i was invested in the ministry
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I was invested in the ministry at the church during this
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At the church during this vulnerable time.
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Vulnerable time. >> a woman expressed her
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>> a woman expressed her attraction to noel offering he
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Attraction to noel offering he craved.
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Craved. >> i started to feel like i i
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>> i started to feel like i i was wanted like somebody looked
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Was wanted like somebody looked at me with desire.
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At me with desire. >> this woman made me feel as
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>> this woman made me feel as if i a champion.
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If i a champion. >> it was then an off and on
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>> it was then an off and on affair.
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Affair. eventually shelley's intuition
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Eventually shelley's intuition sparked by a dream led her to
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Sparked by a dream led her to discover texts between noel and
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Discover texts between noel and the other woman.
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The other woman. >> here i am.
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>> here i am. i feel burdened.
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I feel burdened. i feel alone.
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I feel alone. i feel isolated.
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I feel isolated. part of me felt like it's time
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Part of me felt like it's time to let go up.
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To let go up. and then there was a part of me
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And then there was a part of me that felt like no, you your
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That felt like no, you your marriage.
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Marriage. god is going to restore you
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God is going to restore you guys.
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Guys. initially her discovery a
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Initially her discovery a secret to see where the
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Secret to see where the relationship would would go.
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Relationship would would go. then her depression subsided
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Then her depression subsided and was was replaced by a cold
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And was was replaced by a cold indifference toward noel.
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Indifference toward noel. finally of of humans.
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Finally of of humans. >> after finding the text she
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>> after finding the text she confronted him.
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Confronted him. my thought was is it over?
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My thought was is it over? can it be fixed?
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Can it be fixed? it's to say this but i never
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It's to say this but i never stopped loving my wife even
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Stopped loving my wife even though i was doing all the
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Though i was doing all the things i was doing.
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Things i was doing. i'm already confused.
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I'm already confused. i'm already broken lost.
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I'm already broken lost. and i decided just to step
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And i decided just to step forward and say whatever is
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Forward and say whatever is going to happen is going to
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Going to happen is going to happen.
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Happen. and if i end up leaving, i end
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And if i end up leaving, i end up leaving.
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Up leaving. what's my next step and god
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What's my next step and god told me to be still.
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Told me to be still. he doesn't need you to nag him.
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He doesn't need you to nag him. >> he just needs a friend.
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>> he just needs a friend. the couple began opening their
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The couple began opening their thoughts and feelings.
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Thoughts and feelings. meanwhile the off and on affair
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Meanwhile the off and on affair continued eventually with
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Continued eventually with guilt.
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Guilt. noel left church and went, went
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Noel left church and went, went back to his old ways drinking
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Back to his old ways drinking and doing drugs helped me numb
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And doing drugs helped me numb the pain.
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The pain. the pain brought so much
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The pain brought so much desperation that i could not
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Desperation that i could not process my thoughts.
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Process my thoughts. i was afraid i would lose my
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I was afraid i would lose my family every day of that affair
00:45:37.850 --> 00:45:40.886
Family every day of that affair so many times i was ready.
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So many times i was ready. >> i was ready to pack up and
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>> i was ready to pack up and go.
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Go. i said no more.
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I said no more. >> god you can figure it out
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>> god you can figure it out later if it's your petition but
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Later if it's your petition but i'm getting out of this house
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I'm getting out of this house and that's not i want it for
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And that's not i want it for me.
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Me. >> the sporadic affair had
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>> the sporadic affair had lasted two years before noel
00:45:54.833 --> 00:45:55.401
Lasted two years before noel found the resolve to cut with
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Found the resolve to cut with the woman.
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The woman. >> repenting for his sins he he
00:45:59.572 --> 00:46:02.341
>> repenting for his sins he he recommitted his life and love
00:46:02.474 --> 00:46:03.075
Recommitted his life and love to shelley his family and god.
00:46:03.209 --> 00:46:06.145
To shelley his family and god. when god forgave me i felt like
00:46:06.278 --> 00:46:07.012
When god forgave me i felt like i got my integrity.
00:46:07.146 --> 00:46:09.949
I got my integrity. i felt like i wasn't a broken
00:46:10.082 --> 00:46:11.016
I felt like i wasn't a broken man damaged goods and god
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Man damaged goods and god restored me and forgave me.
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Restored me and forgave me. >> i felt like i could i could
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>> i felt like i could i could finally become whole again.
00:46:17.723 --> 00:46:18.290
Finally become whole again. >> again shelley turned to god
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>> again shelley turned to god this time asking him to help
00:46:21.260 --> 00:46:21.860
This time asking him to help her forgive trust and love her
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Her forgive trust and love her husband once again.
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Husband once again. >> and michael didn't
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>> and michael didn't bitterness and hate and
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Bitterness and hate and resentment for all that he did
00:46:29.301 --> 00:46:30.002
Resentment for all that he did and and god said absolutely.
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And and god said absolutely. >> so i started to take all
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>> so i started to take all these different leaps and
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These different leaps and really like move forward to be
00:46:36.308 --> 00:46:36.942
Really like move forward to be more gentle like having
00:46:37.076 --> 00:46:39.979
More gentle like having physical touch and being
00:46:40.112 --> 00:46:40.579
Physical touch and being present with one another.
00:46:40.713 --> 00:46:41.247
Present with one another. >> we started going on dates.
00:46:41.380 --> 00:46:43.515
>> we started going on dates. we continue our nighttime
00:46:43.649 --> 00:46:44.216
We continue our nighttime conversations and that's where
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Conversations and that's where to get soft again.
00:46:47.453 --> 00:46:47.853
To get soft again. >> the couple rebuild their
00:46:47.987 --> 00:46:48.587
>> the couple rebuild their marriage over over the next two
00:46:48.721 --> 00:46:51.357
Marriage over over the next two years finding strength through
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Years finding strength through their faith in jesus christ.
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Their faith in jesus christ. >> when i saw him restore my
00:46:55.694 --> 00:46:56.428
>> when i saw him restore my marriage i said there is
00:46:56.562 --> 00:46:57.162
Marriage i said there is literally nothing impossible
00:46:57.296 --> 00:46:59.798
Literally nothing impossible for god and part of being a
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For god and part of being a christian is is to forgive and
00:47:00.799 --> 00:47:03.435
Christian is is to forgive and when you encounter that moment
00:47:03.569 --> 00:47:04.169
When you encounter that moment jesus is expecting us just like
00:47:04.303 --> 00:47:07.840
Jesus is expecting us just like he did with us.
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He did with us. so be loving to be merciful to
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So be loving to be merciful to provide for that person.
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Provide for that person. it's in your ability to do so.
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It's in your ability to do so. so to do that for my husband.
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So to do that for my husband. >> i feel like me and my wife
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>> i feel like me and my wife fight against anything.
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Fight against anything. we were in love.
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We were in love. >> we didn't know what our love
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>> we didn't know what our love could handle.
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Could handle. noel and shelley story is a
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Noel and shelley story is a testament to god's power to
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Testament to god's power to heal by surrendering struggles.
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Heal by surrendering struggles. >> they saw ashes turn to
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>> they saw ashes turn to beauty.
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Beauty. we run away from the pain but
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We run away from the pain but god says lean into it so you.
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God says lean into it so you. you can see what i'm going to
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You can see what i'm going to do.
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Do. and that's where you see his
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And that's where you see his miracles happen.
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Miracles happen. that good that he can extend
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That good that he can extend his goodness into into the bad
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His goodness into into the bad and brokenness and still use it
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And brokenness and still use it for good.
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For good. he did it from my marriage he
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He did it from my marriage he can do it for anyone.
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Can do it for anyone. >> want to share two scriptures
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>> want to share two scriptures with you?
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With you? what the enemy meant for evil.
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What the enemy meant for evil. god meant for good.
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God meant for good. he will take it if you'll give
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He will take it if you'll give it to him.
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It to him. >> and then you know the other
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>> and then you know the other is that all things can work
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Is that all things can work together for good good to those
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Together for good good to those who love god and are called
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Who love god and are called according to his purposes the
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According to his purposes the key is in giving it to him.
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Key is in giving it to him. the key is in standing.
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The key is in standing. you've made a commitment to
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You've made a commitment to covenant.
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Covenant. you've taken vows and life
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You've taken vows and life happens.
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Happens. you know have a baby in a
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You know have a baby in a relationship and the whole
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Relationship and the whole world turns upside.
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World turns upside. eventually it's in a pretty
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Eventually it's in a pretty wonderful way but initially you
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Wonderful way but initially you know the woman is so drawn and
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Know the woman is so drawn and attached to the baby the
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Attached to the baby the husband feels she's dealing
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Husband feels she's dealing with hormones flying up and
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With hormones flying up and down and every way and not
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Down and every way and not knowing emotionally where she's
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Knowing emotionally where she's coming from.
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Coming from. you just hang on first to god
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You just hang on first to god and then to each other.
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And then to each other. when we were talking to dana
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When we were talking to dana earlier about her book, one of
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Earlier about her book, one of the things i thought was
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The things i thought was sometimes we'd talking to each
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Sometimes we'd talking to each other we're just dealing
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Other we're just dealing situations and circumstances
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Situations and circumstances and we stopped talking to god
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And we stopped talking to god in the process to, you know,
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In the process to, you know, keeping the of communication
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Keeping the of communication open first and then with each
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Open first and then with each other is key and keeping your
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Other is key and keeping your marriage together.
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Marriage together. but one of the things i love
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But one of the things i love about their story about dana's
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About their story about dana's story that she shared earlier
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Story that she shared earlier is that when it seems like all
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Is that when it seems like all hope is lost when it's gone so
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Hope is lost when it's gone so far away from away from each
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Far away from away from each other you feel like this this
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Other you feel like this this cannot resurrected but that's
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Cannot resurrected but that's not what god says.
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Not what god says. >> give it to him.
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>> give it to him. trust in the lord with all all
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Trust in the lord with all all your heart.
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Your heart. don't lean on your own
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Don't lean on your own understanding in all your
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Understanding in all your acknowledge him and he will
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Acknowledge him and he will direct your path.
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Direct your path. god has a plan and a purpose
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God has a plan and a purpose when you made that commitment
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When you made that commitment to each other you really that
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To each other you really that vow that you take that covenant
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Vow that you take that covenant is not with the government.
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Is not with the government. it's not with the city or the
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It's not with the city or the states you live in.
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States you live in. it's not with the pastor or
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It's not with the pastor or priest who stands before it's
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Priest who stands before it's before god that you say those
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Before god that you say those things to each other.
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Things to each other. so at your deepest point when
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So at your deepest point when you're so far down in the well
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You're so far down in the well you feel like you can't look up
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You feel like you can't look up and see light anymore.
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And see light anymore. there is light.
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There is light. the light is in him.
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The light is in him. first you go to him he changes
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First you go to him he changes things he changes our hearts,
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Things he changes our hearts, he changes our circumstances,
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He changes our circumstances, he changes the other person and
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He changes the other person and there's sometimes there's a
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There's sometimes there's a long middle there you know it
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Long middle there you know it doesn't just happen overnight
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Doesn't just happen overnight as dana said.
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As dana said. you didn't lose you're not
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You didn't lose you're not going to get it back overnight.
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Going to get it back overnight. you have to be intentional
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You have to be intentional about doing what you know is a
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About doing what you know is a commitment what you know have
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Commitment what you know have you do and there is a freedom
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You do and there is a freedom in that as noelle suggested
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In that as noelle suggested when when i came back it was
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When when i came back it was lifted off of me.
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Lifted off of me. i i felt like i had integrity
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I i felt like i had integrity because with jesus you get a
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Because with jesus you get a new beginning, you get a start
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New beginning, you get a start .
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. you get to start over
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You get to start over recognizing the mistakes you
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Recognizing the mistakes you made so you get to go back and
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Made so you get to go back and redo.
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Redo. >> you get to start fresh and
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>> you get to start fresh and you get to do it the right way.
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You get to do it the right way. if your your marriage is
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If your your marriage is falling apart.
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Falling apart. let jesus put it back together
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Let jesus put it back together .
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. >> god's idea was marriage and
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>> god's idea was marriage and family and so he knows how to
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Family and so he knows how to resolve the issues that have
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Resolve the issues that have challenged you know, take it to
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Challenged you know, take it to him in prayer, take it to him
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Him in prayer, take it to him in prayer prayer.
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In prayer prayer. he's waiting.
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He's waiting. prayer is such a you know, we
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Prayer is such a you know, we think of it sometimes as i need
00:51:18.257 --> 00:51:21.326
Think of it sometimes as i need to take time to pray prayers, a
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To take time to pray prayers, a conversation with god just talk
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Conversation with god just talk to him about it.
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To him about it. he's always available always
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He's always available always listening and he always wants
00:51:27.966 --> 00:51:28.634
Listening and he always wants the for us.
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The for us. you know the bible says that
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You know the bible says that god hates divorce.
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God hates divorce. know that i believe but.
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Know that i believe but. but a while ago it was gordon
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But a while ago it was gordon who taught me that the
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Who taught me that the scripture says says why does he
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Scripture says says why does he hate divorce?
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Hate divorce? because he wants righteous
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Because he wants righteous children.
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Children. you know you may think your
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You know you may think your divorce or the potential of
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Divorce or the potential of thinking about doesn't affect
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Thinking about doesn't affect your kids.
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Your kids. oh it will.
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Oh it will. it will.
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It will. so do the right thing with god
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So do the right thing with god and he will do the right thing
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And he will do the right thing in your.
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In your. >> if you need to know more
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>> if you need to know more about what the says about love
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About what the says about love and about marriage, we've got a
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That same number because there's a friend waiting to
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There's a friend waiting to pray with you.
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Pray with you. no judgment, just going
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No judgment, just going together before the lord asking
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Together before the lord asking for his presence makes all the
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For his presence makes all the difference.
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Difference. here's a word from first john
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Here's a word from first john god is love and he abides in
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