Allen Jackson - God's Plan For You (Part 2)

February 22, 2026 | 27:29

Pastor Allen Jackson's mission is to help people become fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ.

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  • Allen jackson: you know, around the world people are searching
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  • For truth and together we're doing our very best to help them
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  • Find it.
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  • Audiences, and to take the hope of jesus to people who may never
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  • Have heard the gospel otherwise.
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  • Together we can stand firm in our faith and make god's truth
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  • Known right here at home and around the earth wherever god
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  • Opens the door.
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  • Let's keep gathering his people and building his church until
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  • The day our king returns.
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  • You can find more about becoming a ministry partner
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  • At allenjackson.com/partner.
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  • Allen: and i love to play ball, basketball.
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  • I started playing when i was young and i played through
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  • School and, back then, we still prayed before we'd go out on the
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  • Floor to play a game.
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  • And the last game i played in high school was the first time
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  • They asked me to pray.
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  • Now some of those guys i had played with for 6 years or more.
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  • And i prayed that day and one of the guys looked over at me when
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  • I said amen and he said, "i didn't know you knew how
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  • To pray."
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  • That's not a compliment.
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  • So if you praying at a table with your family gives you pause
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  • Because of what they'll say, get on with it.
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  • You don't have to sound like a preacher.
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  • Don't use words you can't spell.
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  • Don't pray long.
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  • In fact, if that is intimidating, go back and see
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  • "let's pray."
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  • You can do it in a sentence.
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  • But that kitchen table event, that we matter enough that we're
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  • Going to pause and gather together.
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  • We're not going to eat on the fly, we're not going to eat en
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  • Route to something else.
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  • It's not about just a distraction.
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  • There's so much that is gained.
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  • There's so much that's learned.
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  • You learn that it's about more than just you, that you're
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  • Actually a part of something.
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  • That you're not just isolated, that food is more than
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  • Just fuel.
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  • And the time when you consume it is more than just a time of
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  • Establishing what's next for you.
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  • That once a week at the table establishes a life pattern in
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  • Seeking god.
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  • And no one is left out of this invitation.
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  • Somebody sent me a photograph last week of a table.
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  • It's a kitchen table.
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  • It's a friend of mine.
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  • And they said, this is the table where i used to--where i used
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  • To sit with my family.
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  • And now i eat alone.
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  • I mean, different season of life.
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  • I get that.
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  • And i think when we think about a family at a table, we
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  • Typically think about the family with the small children and the
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  • Challenge that is to get everybody at the table and not
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  • Lose the love of jesus, for the whole meal.
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  • Or maybe you've got teenagers and you think it would take an
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  • Act of god to get everybody in the same zip code.
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  • It'll take a different establishment of priorities
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  • For certain.
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  • But if you're not in that season with your family, maybe
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  • You're single.
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  • Maybe you have an empty nest.
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  • Maybe you're a widow or you're a widower.
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  • I think there's another way of understanding that.
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  • It isn't just about your family at the table.
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  • The biblical word for that is hospitality.
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  • That your table becomes a gathering place.
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  • And i think the invitation is still important.
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  • That on a regular basis you gather with people.
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  • Same things hold true.
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  • It's a wellness check.
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  • It's an update on victories and challenges.
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  • I've spent some time with this, and i can tell you that the
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  • Reality i've come to is that over hundreds of years, across
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  • Cultures and languages and nationalities and all the
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  • Upheavals that come to our lives, the kitchen table has
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  • Been constant.
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  • You can walk through the lobby and you can see that our
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  • Transportation's changed dramatically from the '60s until
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  • Today, or our communication.
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  • I mean, we used to have--the first telephone i ever paid for
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  • Was a black rotary dial phone, $6 a month.
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  • I was connected.
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  • Do you know how frustrating it is to try to hurry and dial a
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  • Rotary phone?
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  • Oh, that'll make the preacher cuss.
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  • And i wasn't a preacher.
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  • And if you're hurrying, you know what you'll do, right?
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  • You'll mess up a digit.
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  • Gotta start all over again.
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  • I mean, our styles of communications, there's
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  • Televisions out there across-- how we consume information.
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  • So much has changed, but that kitchen table as an organizing
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  • Premise, as a gathering point, hasn't.
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  • What the tables look like, the food we eat has changed, how we
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  • Prepare the food we eat has changed.
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  • But that gathering point--until you get to the 21st century, at
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  • Least in the culture where we live.
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  • And that central organizing principle is dissipating quicker
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  • Than our respect for authority.
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  • I want to invite you back to it.
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  • I think it matters.
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  • I think with a little bit of thought and reflection, you'll
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  • Find that that kitchen table and memories and meals are a part of
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  • Your journey.
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  • I was reminded of this recently in my own life.
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  • You know, my mom went to heaven a year and a half ago.
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  • And that was a loss for our family because my mom in the
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  • Kitchen was a force.
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  • And there's some--we're still scrambling for her recipes and
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  • Who knows how to make this?
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  • Because i found out those of you that are like good cooks, you
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  • Don't put it all on paper.
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  • That's me.
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  • You know, does anybody know how to make this?
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  • And it's kind of amongst us all, we're a weak facsimile.
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  • Well, i know how to do this kind of, and i can do a little bit
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  • Of this.
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  • Well, one of the things that we--my mom did was she would
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  • Make cinnamon rolls with a caramel topping, fat-free,
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  • Calorie-free, muscle building.
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  • And some, i don't really know, it didn't begin this way in my
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  • Memory, but it eventually emerged that cinnamon rolls were
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  • What we did if there was snow.
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  • Maybe we were out of school and she didn't fix them
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  • For breakfast.
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  • She fixed them late in the afternoon, you know, the dough
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  • Had to rise twice and she'd do them late in the afternoon and i
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  • Didn't, i wasn't clever enough to know the time, but it was our
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  • Evening meal.
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  • She didn't have to feed the three rats again, so.
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  • Well, somehow i--that recipe got to me.
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  • Maybe i left for college and i'd get homesick and i wanted to
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  • Make cinnamon rolls.
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  • And so when would i make them?
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  • When it snowed, because that's the only time the dough
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  • Will rise.
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  • Well, last weekend, we didn't get the 17 inches, but i came
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  • Home one afternoon and i had gone to the store and bought the
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  • Things i needed and when i got home, kathy had been to the
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  • Store to buy the things i needed.
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  • So we had cinnamon roll ingredients for days.
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  • So we called--we gathered the gang that was available on
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  • Saturday afternoon for cinnamon rolls.
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  • My niece hadn't--didn't know the recipe, so she was
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  • In training.
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  • She was taking a picture of the recipe, but it wasn't all on
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  • Paper, so she was making notes.
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  • But the--maybe my favorite part of the day when it was about
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  • Time to eat and we had a fire in the fireplace.
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  • It was cold and a ballgame on the television and everybody had
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  • Been sitting around the fire watching the ballgame and they
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  • Said, "well, where are we going to sit to eat?"
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  • Somebody said, "well, we're gonna sit around the
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  • Fireplace, cold."
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  • And nobody said anything else, but when everybody began to fill
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  • Their plate and get all the stuff arranged just as it
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  • Had been.
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  • They went and sat at the kitchen table.
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  • We didn't have enough chairs, but they pulled chairs up and
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  • Nobody said a word, but for those of us that grew up eating
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  • Cinnamon rolls, you sat at the table.
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  • And it was like swallows returning to capistrano.
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  • And it just reminded me of the value and the stability that
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  • Comes from knowing you're not alone, that there's something
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  • That binds you together that's more powerful than dna.
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  • I want to invite you to consider making the effort to on
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  • A weekly basis.
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  • If you still have family available, i mean, in your home.
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  • I'm not trying to get you to gather them from
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  • A six-county area.
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  • That's a different discussion.
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  • We'll talk about holiday day tables another time.
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  • But just under your roof.
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  • Once a week at the table together and if your family
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  • System is different these days, the practice of hospitality.
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  • If you're single, you're not left out.
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  • Open your heart and open your home.
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  • Allen: i brought you a couple of passages of scripture that i
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  • Think will put it in context.
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  • In the book of acts, in acts chapter 1, i think most notably,
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  • Jesus ascends, jesus goes back to heaven.
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  • So they got to figure it out now.
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  • They've lost the--they've lost the lord.
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  • They've lost the one that spoke to the wind and the waves,
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  • The one that overcame death.
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  • They've lost their best friend.
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  • They have an assignment: "go into all the world," and you
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  • Feel that.
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  • They're trying to get their balance.
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  • They're trying to get their equilibrium.
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  • And in acts chapter 1, it says: "they joined together constantly
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  • In prayer, along with the women and mary the mother of jesus,
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  • And his brothers."
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  • Acts chapter 2, we got another note.
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  • It says: "they devoted themselves to the apostles'
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  • Teaching and to the fellowship, and to the breaking of bread and
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  • To prayer."
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  • They're still praying, but now they're at the table.
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  • "and everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and
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  • Miraculous signs were done by the apostles."
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  • Why are they in awe?
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  • 'cause they knew jesus could do it, but he's not here anymore,
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  • And it's still happening.
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  • But they're centered around a table.
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  • In acts, same chapter, verse 46: "every day they continued to
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  • Meet together in the temple courts."
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  • You thought church once a week was a lift.
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  • I'm not inviting you every day, don't worry, but it says: "every
  • 00:13:05.568 --> 00:13:09.305
  • Day they met together, and they broke bread in their homes and
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  • They ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising god and
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  • Enjoying the favor of all the people.
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  • And god added to their number daily those who were
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  • Being saved."
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  • We're not living in that yet.
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  • Remember the bigger context: we're seeking the lord, we wanna
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  • Know god better.
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  • What does that look like?
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  • Is it some other, is it an extraordinary bible study?
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  • Is it--no, i think it can be as simple as beginning to order
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  • Your life around the priority that god gives us.
  • 00:13:41.604 --> 00:13:46.108
  • Inviting him into those routine places, doing it with people
  • 00:13:46.108 --> 00:13:49.044
  • That understand that's a priority in your life.
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  • I understand it's a readjustment.
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  • I get it.
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  • Hospitality is a part of this.
  • 00:13:56.652 --> 00:13:58.420
  • 1 peter 4:9: "offer hospitality to one another
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  • Without grumbling."
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  • I'm gonna confess, i'll confess my sin.
  • 00:14:03.993 --> 00:14:05.561
  • I won't confess my brother's, but i'm gonna suggest.
  • 00:14:05.561 --> 00:14:10.833
  • We didn't always agree with my parents when they
  • 00:14:10.833 --> 00:14:13.269
  • Practiced hospitality.
  • 00:14:13.269 --> 00:14:16.438
  • They didn't ask for a vote.
  • 00:14:16.438 --> 00:14:19.708
  • They had a bible study in their home, a small group for a
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  • Dozen years.
  • 00:14:22.645 --> 00:14:24.013
  • We were the childcare.
  • 00:14:24.013 --> 00:14:26.282
  • We did not like it.
  • 00:14:26.282 --> 00:14:29.551
  • We didn't like the bible study.
  • 00:14:29.551 --> 00:14:31.186
  • They had the bible study in the room where the television was.
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  • Yeah, see?
  • 00:14:35.724 --> 00:14:38.193
  • It explains a lot, doesn't it?
  • 00:14:38.193 --> 00:14:41.697
  • I'm sure there's counseling available, but--
  • 00:14:41.697 --> 00:14:47.903
  • "practice hospitality without grumbling."
  • 00:14:47.903 --> 00:14:52.942
  • We've almost lost this.
  • 00:14:52.942 --> 00:14:55.978
  • "well, i can't have people in my home.
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  • My home's not perfect.
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  • My home is simple.
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  • My home is humble.
  • 00:15:00.616 --> 00:15:01.984
  • My home is whatever or somebody--" no, it didn't say
  • 00:15:01.984 --> 00:15:04.954
  • Practice hospitality if martha stewart has checked off at
  • 00:15:04.954 --> 00:15:07.356
  • Your home.
  • 00:15:07.356 --> 00:15:09.692
  • If you got one of those makeovers by whichever the hgtv
  • 00:15:09.692 --> 00:15:12.795
  • Show of the month is.
  • 00:15:12.795 --> 00:15:16.265
  • Those shows are awful.
  • 00:15:16.265 --> 00:15:23.772
  • I mean, you talk about false expectations.
  • 00:15:23.772 --> 00:15:27.810
  • They show you a house that rodents wouldn't live in.
  • 00:15:27.810 --> 00:15:33.148
  • And in 30 minutes...
  • 00:15:33.148 --> 00:15:40.856
  • Never mind, i'm way off track.
  • 00:15:40.856 --> 00:15:43.359
  • "offer hospitality to one another without grumbling."
  • 00:15:43.359 --> 00:15:45.794
  • Hebrews 13: "do not forget to entertain strangers, for by
  • 00:15:45.794 --> 00:15:50.432
  • Doing so some people have entertained angels without
  • 00:15:50.432 --> 00:15:52.801
  • Knowing it."
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  • You wanna include some people in your sphere that aren't people
  • 00:15:55.037 --> 00:15:58.474
  • That you know their full story, because it creates
  • 00:15:58.474 --> 00:16:01.443
  • God opportunities.
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  • That's the bible.
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  • That's not allen.
  • 00:16:04.146 --> 00:16:06.382
  • Again, remember the context.
  • 00:16:06.382 --> 00:16:08.784
  • God is taking us from somewhere to somewhere and i
  • 00:16:08.784 --> 00:16:12.287
  • Wanna cooperate.
  • 00:16:12.287 --> 00:16:14.823
  • I want to create a target-rich environment for whatever god
  • 00:16:14.823 --> 00:16:18.761
  • Might do.
  • 00:16:18.761 --> 00:16:21.030
  • I don't wanna limit his points of connection.
  • 00:16:21.030 --> 00:16:23.198
  • I don't wanna be--i don't wanna have a limited set
  • 00:16:23.198 --> 00:16:25.534
  • Of opportunities.
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  • I wanna create all the opportunities for the lord in my
  • 00:16:26.869 --> 00:16:29.171
  • Life that i know how to create.
  • 00:16:29.171 --> 00:16:32.541
  • I'm not talking about work-related whatever.
  • 00:16:32.541 --> 00:16:34.777
  • I'm talking about it's an attitude in my heart.
  • 00:16:34.777 --> 00:16:41.216
  • In 1 timothy 5, paul's giving timothy, a young man that he's
  • 00:16:41.216 --> 00:16:44.653
  • Mentoring, some instructions on how to help widows.
  • 00:16:44.653 --> 00:16:47.756
  • How many of you know the verse that says: "pure religion and
  • 00:16:47.756 --> 00:16:49.958
  • Undefiled is helping orphans and widows"?
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  • Most of us have heard that.
  • 00:16:52.795 --> 00:16:54.163
  • It's legitimate.
  • 00:16:54.163 --> 00:16:55.531
  • I'm not opposed to it, but you need to, you know, and you
  • 00:16:55.531 --> 00:16:57.266
  • Can prove anything you want to with your bible if you take
  • 00:16:57.266 --> 00:16:59.334
  • One verse out of context.
  • 00:16:59.334 --> 00:17:01.904
  • You know the story about the man that said, "god,
  • 00:17:01.904 --> 00:17:03.472
  • I need direction.
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  • I need your help, so i don't know what to do.
  • 00:17:04.807 --> 00:17:06.275
  • Show me what to do.
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  • I'm just, i'll do whatever you tell me."
  • 00:17:07.609 --> 00:17:08.944
  • And he opened his bible and he put his finger down and he read,
  • 00:17:08.944 --> 00:17:10.813
  • And it said, "and judas went and hanged himself."
  • 00:17:10.813 --> 00:17:15.651
  • He said, "oh god, i know that's not you.
  • 00:17:15.651 --> 00:17:18.053
  • Give me another verse."
  • 00:17:18.053 --> 00:17:19.388
  • He opened his bible and he put his finger down and it said,
  • 00:17:19.388 --> 00:17:21.123
  • "go thou and do likewise."
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  • The text without a context is the pretext, so i believe we
  • 00:17:25.627 --> 00:17:28.764
  • Have an assignment to help widows and orphans.
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  • Please don't misunderstand me.
  • 00:17:30.632 --> 00:17:33.235
  • But we get a little bit more of the information in 1 timothy 5:
  • 00:17:33.235 --> 00:17:37.039
  • Paul said to timothy, "no widow may be put on the list of widows
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  • Unless she's over sixty."
  • 00:17:39.775 --> 00:17:45.280
  • But he's not done.
  • 00:17:45.280 --> 00:17:46.615
  • "she's been faithful to her husband, and is well known for
  • 00:17:46.615 --> 00:17:49.852
  • Her good deeds, such as bringing up children and showing
  • 00:17:49.852 --> 00:17:54.323
  • Hospitality, washing the feet of the saints, helping those in
  • 00:17:54.323 --> 00:17:58.894
  • Trouble and devoting herself to all kinds of good deeds."
  • 00:17:58.894 --> 00:18:01.530
  • He said they don't even qualify unless they practice
  • 00:18:01.530 --> 00:18:05.467
  • Hospitality, wow.
  • 00:18:05.467 --> 00:18:15.077
  • When they're--when he's giving him the criteria for being
  • 00:18:15.077 --> 00:18:17.346
  • A leader amongst the people of god.
  • 00:18:17.346 --> 00:18:19.781
  • And it's not a singular passage.
  • 00:18:19.781 --> 00:18:21.450
  • There's--it's given in multiple places.
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  • I gave you one because your notes were limited.
  • 00:18:23.352 --> 00:18:26.555
  • Titus 1:8 says to be a leader in the--amongst the people of god,
  • 00:18:26.555 --> 00:18:31.026
  • They "have to be hospitable, someone who loves good."
  • 00:18:31.026 --> 00:18:34.763
  • See, i'm not really--again, the conversation is seeking god.
  • 00:18:34.763 --> 00:18:37.900
  • I'm not trying to add to your workload.
  • 00:18:37.900 --> 00:18:41.003
  • I'm asking you to think about how you're ordering your life.
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  • Do you make space?
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  • Is there--is it visible to someone who isn't
  • 00:18:47.843 --> 00:18:50.779
  • A christ follower?
  • 00:18:50.779 --> 00:18:52.414
  • Are your priorities ordered in such a way that the
  • 00:18:52.414 --> 00:18:55.350
  • Distinctiveness from the people who don't know the lord is
  • 00:18:55.350 --> 00:19:00.055
  • Derived from scripture?
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  • Practice hospitality.
  • 00:19:02.824 --> 00:19:05.460
  • It doesn't have to be elaborate.
  • 00:19:05.460 --> 00:19:08.130
  • The truth is we're gonna talk a lot more about it.
  • 00:19:08.130 --> 00:19:09.998
  • So if you're not convinced after this, just hang on.
  • 00:19:09.998 --> 00:19:12.601
  • Let's see.
  • 00:19:12.601 --> 00:19:14.503
  • I'll give you one more passage in john chapter 12: "six days
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  • Before passover."
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  • What was the last meal jesus had with his disciples before
  • 00:19:22.010 --> 00:19:24.413
  • His passion?
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  • It's passover.
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  • So we're a week in front of that.
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  • "six days before passover, jesus arrived at bethany."
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  • Bethany's a little village on the mount of olives on the side
  • 00:19:34.890 --> 00:19:38.827
  • Opposite the city of jerusalem.
  • 00:19:38.827 --> 00:19:42.331
  • And it's an arab village today and it's called el-aizariya,
  • 00:19:42.331 --> 00:19:46.134
  • After lazarus because it was in bethany where lazarus lived with
  • 00:19:46.134 --> 00:19:49.972
  • His sisters mary and martha.
  • 00:19:49.972 --> 00:19:52.641
  • "six days before the passover, jesus arrived at bethany, where
  • 00:19:52.641 --> 00:19:55.344
  • Lazarus lived, whom jesus had raised from the dead."
  • 00:19:55.344 --> 00:19:58.146
  • How'd you like that in your bio?
  • 00:19:58.146 --> 00:20:02.384
  • "oh yeah, i was the guy that was dead for 4 days.
  • 00:20:02.384 --> 00:20:06.088
  • My nickname's stinky."
  • 00:20:06.088 --> 00:20:10.025
  • In verse 2: "here a dinner was given in jesus's honor.
  • 00:20:10.025 --> 00:20:15.864
  • Martha served, while lazarus was among those reclining at the
  • 00:20:15.864 --> 00:20:18.867
  • Table with him.
  • 00:20:18.867 --> 00:20:21.203
  • And mary took a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; and
  • 00:20:21.203 --> 00:20:24.306
  • She poured it on jesus's feet.
  • 00:20:24.306 --> 00:20:26.808
  • She wiped his feet with her hair.
  • 00:20:26.808 --> 00:20:29.411
  • And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.
  • 00:20:29.411 --> 00:20:33.415
  • But one of his disciples, judas, who was later to betray
  • 00:20:33.415 --> 00:20:35.884
  • Him, objected."
  • 00:20:35.884 --> 00:20:39.655
  • It's a pretty full-formed picture here.
  • 00:20:39.655 --> 00:20:42.991
  • The line that is, to me, the introduction is that there was
  • 00:20:42.991 --> 00:20:46.928
  • A dinner given in jesus's honor.
  • 00:20:46.928 --> 00:20:49.631
  • It changes how i think about hospitality.
  • 00:20:49.631 --> 00:20:53.235
  • Kathy and i open our home, we're gonna do it to honor jesus.
  • 00:20:53.235 --> 00:20:57.372
  • Not because we're lonely.
  • 00:20:57.372 --> 00:21:00.776
  • Not because we need to spend more words.
  • 00:21:00.776 --> 00:21:03.945
  • When we open our home, we want to honor jesus.
  • 00:21:03.945 --> 00:21:06.715
  • He's changed our lives.
  • 00:21:06.715 --> 00:21:08.050
  • I knew my parents bc.
  • 00:21:08.050 --> 00:21:10.652
  • And i'm here to tell you, when they opened their homes after
  • 00:21:10.652 --> 00:21:12.621
  • They met jesus, it was to honor him.
  • 00:21:12.621 --> 00:21:19.528
  • Hospitality is an option that is ignored, doesn't make sense.
  • 00:21:19.528 --> 00:21:26.435
  • We open our homes to honor jesus.
  • 00:21:26.435 --> 00:21:28.837
  • It's expressed in service.
  • 00:21:28.837 --> 00:21:32.040
  • Martha is serving.
  • 00:21:32.040 --> 00:21:33.709
  • We're going to look at mary and martha and lazarus in some more
  • 00:21:33.709 --> 00:21:35.744
  • Detail in another session, but mary with a remarkable
  • 00:21:35.744 --> 00:21:40.716
  • Expression of humility, pours some expensive perfume on
  • 00:21:40.716 --> 00:21:45.921
  • Jesus's feet and wipes them with her hair.
  • 00:21:45.921 --> 00:21:47.956
  • There's no way to craft that that isn't humbling.
  • 00:21:47.956 --> 00:21:53.528
  • And then there's a voice chirping, judas: "there was a
  • 00:21:53.528 --> 00:21:59.735
  • Better use of the funds."
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  • I'm pretty sure when you determine in your heart to seek
  • 00:22:03.672 --> 00:22:05.807
  • The lord or to serve the lord or to honor the lord, there'll be
  • 00:22:05.807 --> 00:22:10.812
  • A voice chirping.
  • 00:22:10.812 --> 00:22:14.416
  • Everybody won't cheer, folks.
  • 00:22:14.416 --> 00:22:17.285
  • Everybody won't cheer.
  • 00:22:17.285 --> 00:22:20.622
  • If you have teenagers, eye rolling is an olympic sport.
  • 00:22:20.622 --> 00:22:22.991
  • Don't be deterred.
  • 00:22:22.991 --> 00:22:29.898
  • The hardest place in the world to serve the lord is in your
  • 00:22:29.898 --> 00:22:32.300
  • Home with the people you live with.
  • 00:22:32.300 --> 00:22:34.736
  • Because they really know you.
  • 00:22:34.736 --> 00:22:38.573
  • It makes this step towards hospitality more challenging.
  • 00:22:38.573 --> 00:22:43.745
  • But the integrity of this, the authenticity of this, there's
  • 00:22:43.745 --> 00:22:49.551
  • Always gonna be critics, some misguided disciple, in this case
  • 00:22:49.551 --> 00:22:53.955
  • Some masquerading disciple.
  • 00:22:53.955 --> 00:23:00.095
  • Once a week at the table with your family.
  • 00:23:00.095 --> 00:23:05.700
  • If that's not available to you or if that doesn't really define
  • 00:23:05.700 --> 00:23:09.738
  • A re-centering, if that's a routine, then include
  • 00:23:09.738 --> 00:23:12.541
  • Hospitality in that.
  • 00:23:12.541 --> 00:23:15.343
  • And begin to practice hospitality in your home,
  • 00:23:15.343 --> 00:23:18.947
  • In your life.
  • 00:23:18.947 --> 00:23:21.082
  • I believe god will honor it and he will meet you.
  • 00:23:21.082 --> 00:23:23.251
  • I have lived through it.
  • 00:23:23.251 --> 00:23:24.586
  • I have seen it.
  • 00:23:24.586 --> 00:23:26.154
  • I have seen the transformation in my own heart.
  • 00:23:26.154 --> 00:23:28.190
  • I've seen the transformation in the lives of others.
  • 00:23:28.190 --> 00:23:32.561
  • I know there's a battle in our mind.
  • 00:23:32.561 --> 00:23:34.196
  • Well, i don't--i'm not good at that.
  • 00:23:34.196 --> 00:23:37.165
  • What will they say?
  • 00:23:37.165 --> 00:23:42.571
  • If i'm pleasing the lord and it may be, you know, i'm--full
  • 00:23:42.571 --> 00:23:49.945
  • Confession, that part of it, the appearance of it and the
  • 00:23:49.945 --> 00:23:53.248
  • Presentation would not be my defining characteristic.
  • 00:23:53.248 --> 00:23:57.919
  • I used to have a bible study in my home before i was married to
  • 00:23:57.919 --> 00:24:00.522
  • Kathy and my home was under repair.
  • 00:24:00.522 --> 00:24:02.257
  • I had a big hole in front of the front door.
  • 00:24:02.257 --> 00:24:05.894
  • I mean you could see the dirt.
  • 00:24:05.894 --> 00:24:08.997
  • I was so suave, i just opened the door and said, "you need to
  • 00:24:08.997 --> 00:24:11.666
  • Step over the hole."
  • 00:24:11.666 --> 00:24:16.805
  • That would not work at my house today.
  • 00:24:16.805 --> 00:24:19.841
  • We have higher standards.
  • 00:24:19.841 --> 00:24:23.345
  • Thank god.
  • 00:24:23.345 --> 00:24:26.982
  • God is moving in the earth.
  • 00:24:26.982 --> 00:24:29.684
  • There's a desperate need for the church to be the church.
  • 00:24:29.684 --> 00:24:34.656
  • I want to know the lord.
  • 00:24:34.656 --> 00:24:36.758
  • I'm very conscious, he may not have taken me from the pasture
  • 00:24:36.758 --> 00:24:39.294
  • Behind the sheep, but god took me from a place and gave me an
  • 00:24:39.294 --> 00:24:42.564
  • Invitation to walk with him.
  • 00:24:42.564 --> 00:24:45.066
  • And i intend to cooperate.
  • 00:24:45.066 --> 00:24:48.136
  • And if something as simple as how i take a meal, or with whom
  • 00:24:48.136 --> 00:24:51.740
  • I would share it becomes a part of that occasion, watch me make
  • 00:24:51.740 --> 00:24:56.945
  • A change.
  • 00:24:56.945 --> 00:24:59.047
  • I want to give you the invitation.
  • 00:24:59.047 --> 00:25:00.415
  • Let's eat.
  • 00:25:00.415 --> 00:25:02.517
  • Look at the tables through the building.
  • 00:25:02.517 --> 00:25:04.753
  • Everything around the tables are different.
  • 00:25:04.753 --> 00:25:06.087
  • What the tables look like are different.
  • 00:25:06.087 --> 00:25:07.455
  • The--how the tables are set are different, but the principle
  • 00:25:07.455 --> 00:25:12.327
  • Remains the same.
  • 00:25:12.327 --> 00:25:16.765
  • I brought you a prayer.
  • 00:25:16.765 --> 00:25:18.400
  • Why don't you stand with me.
  • 00:25:18.400 --> 00:25:22.804
  • I'm hungry now.
  • 00:25:22.804 --> 00:25:24.139
  • Let's eat.
  • 00:25:24.139 --> 00:25:25.974
  • It's a simple prayer.
  • 00:25:25.974 --> 00:25:31.346
  • It's really a declaration of intent.
  • 00:25:31.346 --> 00:25:35.483
  • And i think god listens.
  • 00:25:35.483 --> 00:25:36.818
  • He pays attention.
  • 00:25:36.818 --> 00:25:38.186
  • He knows our hearts.
  • 00:25:38.186 --> 00:25:40.021
  • And so i think when we in humility come to him and tell
  • 00:25:40.021 --> 00:25:42.624
  • Him the truth, it's so significant.
  • 00:25:42.624 --> 00:25:45.794
  • Let's just say this prayer together.
  • 00:25:45.794 --> 00:25:47.796
  • "heavenly father, lead me in paths of righteousness; i choose
  • 00:25:47.796 --> 00:25:52.300
  • To walk uprightly before you.
  • 00:25:52.300 --> 00:25:54.903
  • Awaken me from the slumber of deception.
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  • I don't want to waste my days or forfeit the opportunities you
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  • Have prepared for me.
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  • Deliver me from evil, keep me from temptation.
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  • May your goodness and mercy follow me all the days of my
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  • Life, in jesus's name, amen."
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  • God bless you.
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  • Stay warm.
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  • Allen: this is the 250th anniversary of our nation.
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  • It's a big deal.
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  • Now i know a lot of us don't care a whole lot about history.
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  • We didn't have great experiences in school.
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  • I understand that, but here's the reality.
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  • If they can steal our history, they'll rob us of our future.
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  • So history really does matter.
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  • Well, because of that, we have partnered with some good friends
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  • Of our ministries, wallbuilders, david and tim barton.
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  • They have the best of the best on this topic.
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  • It's a two-volume set on "the american story."
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  • And it helps us learn american history with a faith component,
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  • With a god perspective, how god has been engaged in the
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  • Unfolding narrative of our american story.
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  • That matters because we need god to be involved in the future of
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  • The american story.
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  • That affects our lives, our families, our communities, and
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  • Ultimately our nation.
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  • The books will be a blessing to you, but more than that, i
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  • Believe they'll open your life to the imagination that god is
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  • Moving in the earth and we can participate with him in the next
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  • Chapters of american history.
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