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Allen Jackson Ministries | Allen Jackson - Lessons In Spiritual Authority (Part 1) | February 25, 2026
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- Allen: we're working through a series under the general theme
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- Of "let's eat."
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- Amen.
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- Somebody brought me a new series, but i'm gonna wait and
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- Tell you about that one later.
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- But it's a bit of a parallel with our "let's pray" idea, that
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- We wanted prayer to move beyond formal worship services or even
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- Church buildings.
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- We wanted prayer to become a part of the routine of our lives
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- And our interaction with one another and our friends and
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- Our--the people we encounter through the course of our day.
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- Well, "let's eat" takes that same idea.
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- For hundreds of years across multiple cultures, the kitchen
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- Table was an organizing principle in our homes and our
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- Families and has been an essential expression of faith in
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- Our homes; and at the beginning of the 21st century that idea
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- Has begun to dissipate, and i don't believe it's helpful to
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- Our spiritual formation and i don't believe it's helpful to
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- Our families and to the well-being of our lives and our
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- Communities of faith.
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- And so that's really the motivation behind this little
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- Study we're doing together.
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- It's not in your notes, but 1 peter 4:9 says, "offer
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- Hospitality to one another without grumbling."
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- He wouldn't have put the "without grumbling" in there if
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- There weren't a lot of grumblers when somebody said you need to
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- Be more hospitable.
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- I learned that pri--it's a principle of
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- Biblical interpretation.
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- If the bible tells you what to do when your ox gores your
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- Neighbor, it's because oxes kept goring neighbors.
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- It's not theoretical.
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- And if peter is writing to the believers and says offer
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- Hospitality to one another without grumbling, he put
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- "without grumbling" in there 'cause there was a lot of
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- Grumbling when he said offer hospitality.
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- We haven't changed a lot.
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- So what i've been encouraging you to do is to have a meal a
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- Week as a family at the kitchen table with no devices.
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- Now, how you get there and what you eat, i'm gonna leave to you.
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- You can doordash it.
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- You can have pizza.
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- Some lament that it's not a more fully-formed meal.
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- I think that will come if we will replace--if we will put
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- Back in place that habit of gathering around our table.
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- It's a wellness check.
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- It's an opportunity to hear and listen to one another.
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- It's a wonderful training opportunity.
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- If there's still children in the home, let them help set
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- The table.
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- Let them help plate the food.
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- Engage them in the process.
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- Let them understand they're a part of something, and it's not
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- Just there--they're not just there to be served.
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- I think it is an inordinately destructive habit to allow
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- Children to imagine they are the center of the home.
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- Let them be a part of what's happening at that table.
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- Listen to what the victories of the week have been.
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- Listen to what the challenges--the imagined
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- Perceived challenges are, and maybe before you leave the table
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- You have a short prayer that addresses those things.
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- Let faith begin to come back to that kitchen table at the center
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- Of your home once a week.
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- Part of the heart of that is regaining authority over
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- Your calendar.
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- There are so many voices outside our families that are demanding
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- Authority in our homes, and you better be careful.
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- If you don't guard that, you will give up the spiritual
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- Authority of your home to some outsider, interloper.
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- Doesn't mean they're wicked, but you don't want them to be the
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- Spiritual authority in your home.
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- But i wanna go back to what peter said 'cause this isn't
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- Just for families with small children.
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- If your children are grown, your table still represents an
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- Expression of faith, and that engagement is
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- Called hospitality.
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- So with what frequency are you using your home as an expression
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- Of your faith?
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- We have almost completely walked away from this.
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- It wasn't very long ago it was the center of the expressions of
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- Our faith.
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- In the lobbies of the building, we've got some displays set up
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- From the '50s and '60s and the '70s and '80s and the '90s; and
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- They're really intended to be pictures of homes centered
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- Around a kitchen table, and we can see how much our lives
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- Have changed.
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- But for all the technological improvements and all the things
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- That make us more efficient and more effective and more
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- Connected, we've lost an essential expression of
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- Our faith.
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- Over the hundreds of years, i'm gonna say it again, from the
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- Roman empire to the present day, the kitchen table was an
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- Organizing principle for families and relationships.
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- And i don't say that to add to your shame or to promote guilt,
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- I want you to know the--how important it is.
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- In the new testament, hospitality is presented as a
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- Necessary requirement, a character trait that was
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- Essential to qualify for leadership amongst the people
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- Of faith.
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- You couldn't be considered for a role of influence if you weren't
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- Noted for practicing hospitality.
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- We've moved a long way away from that.
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- So "let's eat" is an invitation to recognize again the
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- Significance of that table and the opportunity it represents.
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- Thank you for your great enthusiasm for that.
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- It's really--it's overwhelming.
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- I read that a third of jesus's teaching was done in the context
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- Of being seated at a table, which is really staggering.
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- I've been pulling the passages and the places where jesus's
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- Messaging was centered around a table experience because it's a
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- Scenario that's very familiar to us.
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- And i'm gonna carry that forward with you this evening, but i'll
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- Start in luke chapter 22 because the language to me is
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- So powerful.
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- Jesus is just about to begin his suffering, and he's having a
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- Meal with his disciples.
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- "when the hour came, jesus and his apostles reclined at
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- The table.
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- And he said to them, 'i have eagerly desired to eat this
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- Passover with you before i suffer.
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- For i tell you, i'll not eat it again until it finds fulfillment
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- In the kingdom of god.'"
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- Now, i know it's in the bible and it's jesus talking, so you
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- Go, "that makes perfect sense."
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- But it seems to me that's pretty weird.
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- Jesus is at the passover meal with his closest friends, and he
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- Said, "i have eagerly desired."
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- That's translated in some different ways.
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- "i have longed."
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- He's--there's--"i've been anxious.
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- I have been--it's been important for me.
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- I've been looking forward.
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- It was marked on my calendar to have this passover meal
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- With you."
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- Again, i think we read that and go, "well, yeah."
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- No, i don't think so.
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- I don't think i would schedule a dinner party with friends the
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- Night before i was gonna be arrested and tortured to death.
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- I don't, and i like people.
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- But i'm pretty much thinking, "no, i don't think i'm gonna use
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- My last night of freedom."
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- And then if i were gonna do it, i'm pretty certain i wouldn't
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- Invite my friends that i knew were about to abandon me; that
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- When i needed a friend, they weren't gonna stand.
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- And i'm absolutely certain that i would have--not have included
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- The friend who has betrayed me for money.
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- Is that fair?
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- And yet jesus said, "i have really been looking forward to
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- This meal with you."
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- Well, there's a significance in there.
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- It doesn't line up with my own priorities.
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- So i'm not throwing rocks at you, i'm telling you we have
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- Undervalued something that is in our homes and the significance
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- It holds for the unfolding purposes of god for your family
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- And their spiritual formation and for the expression of your
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- Faith beyond just your family.
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- "amen, pastor.
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- We agree with you.
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- That is wonderful news.
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- Thank you for sharing it with us."
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- Luke 13.
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- Same author.
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- It's not centered in a table, but it has the same sense of
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- Longing and it--in my own heart, at least, it's a parallel.
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- Jesus is entering jerusalem.
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- It's the triumphal entry.
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- And he pauses on the mount of olives and he said, "jerusalem,
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- You who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how
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- Often i've longed to gather your children together."
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- Very similar phrasing to what jesus said to the disciples:
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- "i've longed to have this meal with you."
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- And now he's making a pronouncement as a prophet over
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- The whole city.
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- He said, "how i have longed to gather your children together as
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- A hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were
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- Not willing!"
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- Now, i think this is relevant to our table discussion.
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- May i ask you a question?
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- Are there god opportunities that you could imagine god has for us
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- That we're not willing to embrace?
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- What jesus is saying over the city of jerusalem is, "there's
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- An intense longing in me to gather you together to watch
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- Over you, to protect you, to care for you, to shepherd you,
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- To guide you, but you're not interested.
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- You're busy.
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- You got plans and agendas and objectives and dreams and
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- Aspirations, and you're not interested."
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- He's got my attention now.
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- The disciples at that last supper, they were not on the
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- Same page with jesus.
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- They're arguing about who's gonna be the greatest.
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- They're trying to process all this stuff.
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- I mean, they're out of sync.
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- They're out of sorts, and jesus has got a laser kind of focus.
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- And then luke gives us this second scenario where jesus is
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- Coming into the city in the midst of this triumphant
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- Procession and he begins to weep and he said, "i have so much
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- Wanted to watch over you, but you weren't interested."
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- So here's the premise as we start to unpack this.
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- Are we willing to imagine that god would do something in our
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- Lives that we haven't made room for?
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- You see, the audience in luke's gospel right there, they think
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- They've got it covered.
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- They're doing the passover meal.
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- They're the right group of people having the right holiday,
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- Eating the right food, prepared in the right way, in the
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- Right place.
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- They got all the boxes checked, and they're clueless.
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- So is it possible?
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- It's just a--it's a worthwhile question.
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- "lord, where is it?
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- I've been so focused on checking the boxes that i haven't been
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- Listening to your invitations.
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- Because i don't wanna miss your invitations."
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- Allen: i wanna take the balance of our time.
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- We're gonna stay in the gospel of luke and look at however--the
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- Much time allows.
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- There are some specific instructions around
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- Table manners.
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- You know, i got two brothers.
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- And when we were all at home together, it was an assignment
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- That my mother leaned into to try to tre--teach three young
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- Sons table manners.
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- There was a compounding factor in that.
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- We--my parents operated a small business.
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- My father was a veterinarian, and that practice ran through
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- Our home and it was very common during dinner that the phone
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- Would ring and if it's--we had to answer it.
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- And so in the middle of multiple dinners my father is describing
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- A one-sided conversation about some symptoms of a cow
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- Struggling to deliver a calf or some such thing.
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- Well, you can imagine with three boys at varying ages and
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- They--and my mother is trying to teach us table manners.
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- "you can see a leg?
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- Have you pulled on it?"
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- And one of us picks it up, and my mother is still trying to
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- Engage and hold the line and--it took courage and determination.
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- Table manners, there's more to it than just which fork to use
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- And not to chew your ice; and jesus is gonna give us some
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- Lessons in table manners, if we can listen.
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- We'll start in luke chapter 7 and verse 36.
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- "one of the pharisees invited jesus to have dinner with him,
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- So he went to the pharisee's house and reclined at
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- The table."
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- Now, the pharisees are not jesus's greatest supporters.
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- In fact, they really embody probably his greatest
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- Antagonists, and he's been invited to dinner by
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- An antagonist.
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- It's a little bit like the psalm we read the other day where
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- They--it said the lord prepares a table before us in the
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- Presence of our enemies.
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- So jesus has gone to the pharisee's house.
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- And a woman who had led a sinful life in that town learned that
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- Jesus was eating at the pharisee's house, and she
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- Brought an alabaster jar of perfume and she stood behind him
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- At his feet weeping.
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- And she began to wet his feet with her tears, and she wiped
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- Them with her hair, and she kissed them and poured perfume
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- On them.
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- Now, i know that's in the gospel of luke, which makes it a part
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- Of our bible, and it involves our lord, but this is awkward.
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- I mean, it's awkward 2,000 years later, and i don't know a set of
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- Cultural norms from the 1st century that would make it
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- Less awkward.
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- And it's picked up by the host in verse 39.
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- "when the pharisee who had invited jesus saw this, he said
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- To himself, 'if this man were a prophet, he would know who is
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- Touching him and what kind of woman she is--that she's
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- A sinner.'"
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- What a happy, happy table.
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- It's pretty clear luke is giving us a little window the--jesus's
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- Host is just looking for reasons to discount or to
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- Discredit jesus.
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- He is not in the posture of a learner.
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- He hasn't invited jesus into his home because he's grateful for
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- Jesus's ministry or he's appreciative of jesus's
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- Expressions of the power of god or he's recognized his wisdom.
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- He's looking for a chink, a weakness, something for which he
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- Can discredit him or criticize him.
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- I would submit to you that the seat of the skeptic is not a
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- Fruitful location to occupy.
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- And i'm not certain why, but it seems to be a popular seat
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- Amongst those of us who are christian.
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- It's almost as if we have a chip on our shoulder.
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- "you know, you almost got me to believe.
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- That was such a good message.
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- You know, it was such a good book.
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- I--that testimony was so--you almost had me, al--you almost."
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- And it's as if we're boasting.
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- "no, i'm--you know, i managed to get control of myself and i got
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- My skeptical, unbelieving self back in control of things."
- 00:17:52.788 --> 00:17:58.627
- And that seems to be the scenario here.
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- "if this man was truly godly, he would know what's going on here.
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- I don't have anything to learn at this table.
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- I know all the things that i need to know, but my guest
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- Obv--his ignorance is on display."
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- And jesus engages.
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- "jesus answered him, 'simon, i have something to tell you.'"
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- And simon said, "well, tell me, teacher."
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- "'two men owed money to a certain moneylender.
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- One owed him five hundred denarii, and the other fifty.
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- Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he canceled the
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- Debts of both.
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- Now which of them will love him more?'
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- And simon replied, 'well, i suppose the one who had the
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- Bigger debt canceled.'"
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- And jesus said, "you've judged correctly."
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- Now, this isn't just a two-person dinner.
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- There's a whole host of guests that have joined them.
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- You'll see it in a moment.
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- And when jesus says to the pharisee, to simon that, "you've
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- Answered correctly," you can almost see him--if you look
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- Carefully--see him swelling up.
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- "yes, i did answer correctly, didn't i?"
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- Right?
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- You know somebody like that.
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- And then jesus turned towards the woman and said to simon, "do
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- You see her?"
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- The implication is he really hadn't.
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- "i came into your house and you didn't give me any water for my
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- Feet," which would have been the custom.
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- It would have been an expression of kindness or respect for
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- A friend.
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- "but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with
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- Her hair.
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- You didn't give me a kiss."
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- Again, it would have been the custom of welcome or greeting
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- Or respect.
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- "but this woman, from the time i entered, has not stopped kissing
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- My feet.
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- You didn't put oil on my head," again respect and welcome, "but
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- She's poured perfume on my feet.
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- Therefore, i tell you, her many sins have been forgiven--for she
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- Loved much."
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- What's implied about simon's sins?
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- They're still his.
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- The sinful woman that the whole town knows is a sinful woman,
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- She's been forgiven.
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- "but he who's been forgiven little loves little."
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- And jesus said to her, "your sins are forgiven."
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- You know, that's an interesting--i don't believe
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- What jesus is saying to simon is that it's the little he needs to
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- Be forgiven for because all of us need much forgiveness.
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- I believe what jesus is saying to simon is, "in your
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- Imagination, in your self-evaluation you don't need
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- Much forgiveness.
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- You just think you need a little.
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- You're not a really sinful person like this woman.
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- You think she needs enormous forgiveness and your perception
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- Is you just need a bit.
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- He who is been forgiven little loves little, simon."
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- It would help us a lot to understand, no matter what our
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- Pedigree as christ followers or how many times we've read our
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- Bible or what our service pens look like for children's
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- Ministry or whatever, that all of us need the grace and the
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- Mercy of almighty god.
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- It will change our responses.
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- It'll change our attitudes towards our tables.
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- We'll become far more hospitable because we need god's
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- Hospitality towards us.
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- You see, when we close our hearts and our homes and our
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- Lives, it's because we think we need little.
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- Jesus isn't quite done.
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- "'your sins are forgiven.'
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- The other guests began to say among themselves, 'well, who is
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- This who even forgives sins?'
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- And jesus said to the woman--" jesus stays focused on this
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- Woman and what's happening with her.
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- "your faith has saved you;
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- Now go in peace."
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- Jesus's response to simon is very direct even in front of
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- His guests.
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- You know, we have this notion that lives amongst us that jesus
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- Was always misty-eyed and handing out hugs, and i'm
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- Suggesting to you that there are many, many places both in public
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- And in private where jesus's words are very--if not
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- Confrontational, they are certainly intended to redirect
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- Behaviors and attitudes.
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- That's an awkward conversation to have at any table, and we are
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- Very reluctant to have awkward conversations because we've been
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- Told that to be christ-like means we are always unifiers.
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- Now, i'm for unity.
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- There's a place--there's a high value on that in scripture.
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- But jesus also said, "i came to bring division within families,"
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- He said.
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- You cannot unify around ungodliness and think we are
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- Pleasing the lord.
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- You can't do that.
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- That's not unity, that's capitulation--
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- That we don't have to be angry, we don't have to be belittling,
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- You know, we don't need to be all those destructive things,
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- But you cannot embrace ungodliness and wrap it in
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- Family or friendship and imagine we've honored the lord.
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- Luke 14, "one sabbath, jesus went to eat in the house of a
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- Prominent pharisee, and he was being carefully watched."
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- This isn't just a pharisee, this is a fancy pharisee.
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- Big dog.
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- Living bible.
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- "and there in front of him was a man suffering from dropsy.
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- And jesus asked the pharisee and the experts in the law, 'is it
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- Lawful to heal on the sabbath or not?'
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- And they remained silent."
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- So jesus took hold of the man.
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- He healed him and sent him away.
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- Well, isn't that a unifier?
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- He's in the home of a prominent pharisee, a man with an illness
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- Presents, and jesus turns to those that are gathered with him
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- And he said, "is it lawful to heal on the sabbath?"
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- And they will not answer him.
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- It isn't that they don't have an opinion.
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- They're not interested in the man or helping the man.
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- They would rather be perceived as right.
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- See, we have a challenge.
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- And when we pick up some of these topics and try to engage
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- In new behaviors and to build new habits, it means we have to
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- Deconstruct some things.
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- We have to come with the humility and say, "you know,
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- Maybe i could do something that would welcome the lord into my
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- Home more fully."
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- I'm not challenging your salvation.
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- I'm not challenging the legitimacy of your love for
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- The lord.
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- I'm simply saying is there something we could do that would
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- Say, "god, you are welcome in my home.
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- I wanna engage you in my life more fully"?
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- I don't wanna just sit there with a stony silence.
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- Jesus healed that man right in front of them in the face of
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- Their silence.
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- They refused to answer jesus.
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- They preferred to find fault with him rather than help
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- That man.
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- I don't wanna be that way with the lord.
- 00:25:50.265 --> 00:25:53.735
- I know i can have that tendency, but i don't wanna be that way.
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- The man was of very little concern to those
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- Guests gathered.
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- They were determined to maintain their position of authority even
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- In the face of the supernatural power of god.
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- Allen: hey, this is not just the beginning of another year, this
- 00:26:15.490 --> 00:26:18.259
- Is the beginning of the 250th anniversary of our nation.
- 00:26:18.259 --> 00:26:21.830
- This is a very special year.
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- It's a god's story.
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- This isn't about national politics or economics
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- Or chest-thumping.
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- This is an acknowledgement that god works in the history of
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- People and nations.
- 00:26:32.574 --> 00:26:34.476
- Well, most of us don't care a lot about history so we
- 00:26:34.476 --> 00:26:36.378
- Partnered with some of our good friends, wallbuilders tim and
- 00:26:36.378 --> 00:26:39.180
- David barton.
- 00:26:39.180 --> 00:26:40.548
- They have the best on this topic.
- 00:26:40.548 --> 00:26:41.883
- It's a two-volume set on the american story.
- 00:26:41.883 --> 00:26:44.352
- It'll help us understand god's engagement in american history.
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- We've lost most of this in our public schools and certainly in
- 00:26:48.923 --> 00:26:51.559
- Higher education.
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- We gotta start back with our families around the kitchen
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- Table, learning how god has been engaged with us so we can
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- Imagine a future that includes god.
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- Let's pray and ask for his help.
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- Father, i thank you.
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- I believe you have blessed our nation and caused us to
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- Flourish, and i pray that this year you would open our hearts
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- To what you have still ahead of us, that we might invite you
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- Into our homes, our communities, and into this nation's future.
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- In jesus's name, amen.
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