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Allen Jackson Ministries | Allen Jackson - Let's Eat - Family Restoration (Part 2) | March 1, 2026
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- Allen: the other side of this equation is hospitality.
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- That's when you open your table.
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- If your--if your home is not as crowded as it once was, maybe
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- You're single.
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- This is very much for single people.
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- It's for empty nesters, it's for widowers and widows.
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- Hospitality, the responsibility for that doesn't evaporate
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- Because of your life season.
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- Well, it's just me now, so i can be selfish, oh.
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- This is my time, hm.
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- I'm retired, this is just our time, mm, good.
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- If you told the lord that, i'll be interested in his response.
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- I gave you a couple more verses, acts 2:46: "every day," this is
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- The believers in jerusalem.
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- Jesus just left in acts chapter 1, they're trying to figure out
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- What to do and, "every day they continued to meet together in
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- The temple courts.
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- And they broke bread in their homes and they ate together with
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- Glad and sincere hearts, praising god and enjoying the
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- Favor of all the people."
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- They met together every day, so you're getting off easy.
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- We just do it three times a week.
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- And they broke bread in their homes.
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- 1 peter 4:9 says, "offer hospitality to one another
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- Without grumbling."
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- I've said it to you before in the new testament, to qualify
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- For leadership, you have to practice hospitality.
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- To qualify--if you're a widow, to qualify for any help from the
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- Believing community, you have to practice hospitality.
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- Please don't think of this simply in terms of families with
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- Young children.
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- I assure you, the concept is equally important for those of
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- You who are single, those married without children, those
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- Empty nesters, widows, widowers.
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- Every season of our life requires an intentional
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- Cultivation of a response to god.
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- We want to establish the spiritual authority of our home.
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- If you ask me for a first priority, it's about
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- Intentionality, being purposeful with this.
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- Build a pattern that reinforces biblical principles.
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- Simple things like character formation, being--having
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- Character is more important than being a character.
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- You can get more clicks if you'll act a character.
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- Forming character is not always celebrated so much.
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- Forming a godly character anyway.
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- Encourage the people that you have an opportunity to speak to
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- Do so.
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- Discipline is a self-discipline is one of the fruit of
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- The spirit.
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- The courage to be different.
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- Christ followers are intended to be different in the world.
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- See, the kitchen table is an expression of authority in
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- Your home.
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- May i ask you another question?
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- What role does your kitchen table display?
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- I had a snapshot of your table right now, what's it look like?
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- This one is kind of a mishmash.
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- It has some important things, cheez doodles.
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- And although there's some place settings on the table,
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- There--there's also the accumulated stuff that goes with
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- Our lives.
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- So, my question, again, in your kitchen table today, what role
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- Does it play if we had a snapshot?
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- Is it a collection place for odds and ends?
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- Is it filled with backpacks and unread mail, or maybe a
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- Computer workstation?
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- Is your kitchen table a repository of relics to remind
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- You of another season of life?
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- Is it a museum piece?
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- You know what i mean?
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- It's nicely decorated and perfectly set, but god forbid it
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- Should get messed up with people.
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- Or is it really the center of nourishment in your home, both
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- Physically and spiritually?
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- Do the people who live in your home understand it that way?
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- Do the people that visit your home understand it that way?
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- What is the spiritual authority of your table?
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- Remember jezebel and king david?
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- Two tables.
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- Both provided food and sustenance and nourishment for
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- The people who gathered around them, but two very different
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- Places, very different allegiances, very different sets
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- Of objectives.
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- Intentional faith. intentional faith.
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- You know, at the table, if your family's there, it's
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- A family gathering.
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- If you've expanded it beyond your family--and you can do that
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- With your children, please practice hospitality while your
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- Children are there.
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- Let them learn the sacrifice it means to include somebody other
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- Than their best friends to dinner.
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- Inviting your kids's friends is not hospitality.
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- It's a clever means of maintaining the tribe.
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- In mark chapter 8 in verse 38, i think there's a component to
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- Faith at our table, jesus said: "if anyone is ashamed of me and
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- My words in this adulterous and sinful generation, the son of
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- Man will be ashamed of him when he comes in his father's glory
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- With the holy angels."
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- How many times do you gather at a table and you don't let your
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- Advocacy for jesus be a part of that meal?
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- And if so, how come?
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- Why would you not go to any table setting?
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- And i'm not saying you have to say a blessing or stand on the
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- Table and recite your psalm of the day.
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- But surely, somewhere in that interaction, a conversation
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- About the lord would would leak out of us.
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- We'll talk about the weather and our favorite sports teams.
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- Our work flow and our family, all the things, which is fine.
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- But jesus is pretty clear, "if you're ashamed of me, in my
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- Words, in the midst of an adulterous and sinful--"
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- He don't talk about talking to fellow believers and people that
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- Are already high up the faith scale.
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- He's in the midst of a sinful and adulterous generation, he
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- Said, "please don't be ashamed of me."
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- Those are the harder places.
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- See, tables are expressions of authority.
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- They're--they're relational.
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- They're--it's community building.
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- We want to use them on purpose.
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- Certainly, we want to eat the right things and help us
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- Be healthy.
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- I'm all for that.
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- Mostly.
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- I've been--i've been making lists of experiences at
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- The table.
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- It's like pulling a thread.
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- I pulled one and i start to remember something years ago.
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- Kathy and i, we were in another state, so don't try to figure
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- Out where--who or where.
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- And another couple who were friends of ours had traveled
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- With us.
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- It's around a wedding, and we were invited to dinner with
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- A very influential family, and we were at their table and
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- Everything was just lovely and delightful.
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- Very proper, i hadn't really embarrassed myself.
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- I--i was doing okay.
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- About midway through dinner, i don't remember what prompted it,
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- But the person who was our host, you know, there's a--there is an
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- Authority structure around if you're invited as a guest into
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- Someone's home, there's some respect that appropriately comes
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- With that.
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- And the conversation turned and our host began to explain, in
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- Very plain language, why he hated the jewish people.
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- He didn't know me, but kathy did, and the couple who were
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- With us did.
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- And i was very aware that they weren't watching our host at
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- All, they were sitting there staring at me.
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- And it wasn't like a throwaway line or two, i mean, it was
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- A--there was a lot to vent.
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- And so, i had a linen napkin and i began to fold it into ever
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- Little smaller, little quadrants, until it was almost
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- Compressed into like a linen cube.
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- I don't know how long it was, it seemed to me forever, and
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- Finally i just couldn't take it anymore.
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- Rules of the table or not, i had an opinion.
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- And to their credit, they didn't call the police.
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- I wasn't invited back, but there are times and places we don't
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- Have to be obnoxious or mean.
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- I did my best to be respectful and kind, but it was something
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- That i felt like was important.
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- Sometimes it's not so important, sometimes it's just fun.
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- We were invited to another dinner.
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- This was out of state too.
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- Nobody in town, and the purpose of this series is not to wrangle
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- An invitation from you.
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- I very much appreciate your kindness and your hospitality.
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- But i would look like jabba the hutt if i accepted them all, so,
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- Thank you, invite one another.
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- But we--we've been invited to this dinner, we were in florida,
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- And it started a little later in the evening than it would
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- Have been my choice.
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- So, by the time we got there, everybody that--the people that
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- We were seated with, were pretty well lubricated.
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- They were relaxed.
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- And we were--there were several tables set, and we were at a
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- Table and the couple who we were seated with were across from us.
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- I didn't know them very well.
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- We knew who they were and the very successful businessman and
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- One of the largest dealers of diesel trucks.
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- And we sat down and i don't think they were happy that they
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- Got seated with the preacher.
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- So, about as soon as we sat down and i put my napkin in my lap,
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- He said, "so, preacher, what makes you think you knew more
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- About god than i do?"
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- And he wasn't my host, i just got put at the table with him,
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- So i got a little attitude on the--and i said, well, i'm not
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- Sure, what makes you think you know more about trucks
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- Than i do? [congregation applauding]
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- And he sat and looked at me for a minute.
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- I really wasn't sure what was gonna happen.
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- And he kind of grunted and he said, "hm, okay."
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- And we had a pretty good dinner. [congregation laughing]
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- But you see, we go in the name of the lord, for what is the
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- Authority at the table where you sit?
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- You can't hardly engage me in an argument over scripture.
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- If you want to argue, if you have an opinion that differs,
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- I'm happy for you.
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- People say to me frequently, often at the front, "well, don't
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- You wanna argue?"
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- No.
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- I'll share my opinion.
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- You're entitled to yours.
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- "well, i think i'm right."
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- Okay, i'm happy for you.
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- I'm not asking you to be argumentative, or belligerent,
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- Or obnoxious, or condemning.
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- I'm asking you to be an advocate for jesus.
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- Now, the hardest place in the world to do that is in your
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- Home, because those people know you the best.
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- They've seen you in your ungodly state.
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- They probably have pictures or a video when your temperature is
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- Too high and your voice is too, whatever, you know, i mean, it's
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- Just kind of how it happens these days.
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- They probably posted it.
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- And so, when you say, "in those settings, i want to honor the
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- Lord," there's some humility involved.
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- Because they're probably rolling their eyes thinking, "yeah,
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- I bet you do."
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- But the objective is to say, "lord, you are welcome here."
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- You are welcome here.
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- You see, we have to let our faith become so real, so
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- Vibrant, so vital.
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- So fundamental that it becomes imprinted on the young lives
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- That are around our tables.
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- That when they venture beyond the walls of your home, that
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- It's galvanized enough that they can withstand their encounters
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- With a secular, godless culture.
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- You know, i'm happy for christian schools.
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- I think a truly christian school can be a good thing, but putting
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- Your children in a christian school to help them hide from
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- What's inevitable is not the ultimate solution, and that
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- School will not galvanize what i'm talking to you about the
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- Same way your table will.
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- Do not give the authority of your table up to voices outside
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- Your home.
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- I'm not saying you have to withdraw, not engage in the
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- Activities of our world.
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- I think you have to, it's important, but don't surrender
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- That authority.
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- It's not prudent, it's not helpful.
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- If your kids are gone and you didn't do that well, i didn't
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- Come with guilt and condemnation.
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- God is a god restorer, remember where we started?
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- The prodigal father's track record wasn't great.
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- Two boys and they both got some issues, but god knew how to
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- Restore and he still does.
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- ♪♪♪
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- Allen: we have partnered with our friends tim and david barton
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- To make available to you a two-volume set on
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- It's "the american story", and it focuses on the part of
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- American history that's been lost in much of our public
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- Education these days.
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- It's god's engagement with this nation and how he brought the
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- American story forward.
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- Our nation is more than politics or republicans and democrats.
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- It's god working in the lives of people to shape a nation that
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- Had brought forth his purposes in the world.
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- Allen: there's another at the table, little window in john 12:
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- "six days before the passover, jesus arrives in bethany, where
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- Lazarus lived."
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- This is the home of lazarus, and mary, and martha, "whom jesus
- 00:16:25.267 --> 00:16:27.836
- Had raised from the dead.
- 00:16:27.836 --> 00:16:29.204
- And a dinner was given in jesus's honor.
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- And martha served, while lazarus was reclining at the table."
- 00:16:31.974 --> 00:16:36.045
- It's a photo op now because lazarus was the one who was dead
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- And now he's alive and it's gotten a lot of buzz around the
- 00:16:39.181 --> 00:16:41.817
- City of jerusalem.
- 00:16:41.817 --> 00:16:43.218
- But i love the language in that, the imagery of that, that
- 00:16:43.218 --> 00:16:46.488
- A dinner was given in jesus's honor.
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- I'm gonna let you borrow that, when you convene a meal at your
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- Table, imagine you're doing it in jesus's honor.
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- If it's your family, if it's an expression of hospitality, if
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- You're invited to a meal.
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- Imagine you're going, you're accepting those invitations or
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- Extending those invitations to give honor to jesus.
- 00:17:05.808 --> 00:17:10.079
- See, what i love about it, it's available to all of us.
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- We can all do this.
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- You don't have to spell mephibosheth.
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- Hallelujah.
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- But we all understand how to eat, and most of us are willing
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- To accept those invitations, and occasionally, even to
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- Extend them.
- 00:17:27.196 --> 00:17:28.530
- And if we would simply exchange our own agenda, and our own
- 00:17:28.530 --> 00:17:32.301
- Personal objectives, and all the things, and begin to say, "no,
- 00:17:32.301 --> 00:17:35.337
- I'm gonna at least acknowledge the lord as a part of this
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- Interaction because i don't wanna put my feet under a table
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- Where his authority is not recognized."
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- We can do this.
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- We can change our homes and i don't know how we've got to this
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- Point in the 21st century where we don't like it in our homes,
- 00:17:50.919 --> 00:17:54.356
- We don't even like to do it as people.
- 00:17:54.356 --> 00:17:57.860
- We'd rather have a sterile room in a building with a door, and a
- 00:17:57.860 --> 00:18:00.629
- Television set, and a table so we can have a conference and
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- A study.
- 00:18:03.365 --> 00:18:04.700
- It's not as powerful as a home.
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- I'm not suggesting it's an either or choice, but there is
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- Something profound in the authority around your home.
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- So many of the lessons that still influenced my life, i
- 00:18:15.010 --> 00:18:17.346
- Learned at a kitchen table.
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- And i was not a great student, i certainly didn't go to the table
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- Thinking, oh, i hope i can learn how to be more godly.
- 00:18:25.787 --> 00:18:29.191
- And i promise you i didn't go hoping i could learn better
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- Table manners.
- 00:18:32.461 --> 00:18:34.930
- I was just hungry and i had two brothers, and you better eat
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- Fast because it's hard to have enough food when there's three
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- Boys at the table.
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- The lessons that shaped my life today, lessons about hospitality
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- And service.
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- My parents were determined to invite people to dinner, and
- 00:18:50.746 --> 00:18:54.249
- They never ask our opinions.
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- And they often didn't ask people that we wanted to eat with.
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- And we would complain.
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- And they were completely unfazed, or if they were phased,
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- They didn't let us know it.
- 00:19:07.496 --> 00:19:09.198
- In fact, i arrived at the conclusion that if we
- 00:19:09.198 --> 00:19:11.366
- Complained, they'd get--they would invite them
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- More frequently.
- 00:19:12.935 --> 00:19:16.004
- So, we at least learned to kind of throttle that back and go
- 00:19:16.004 --> 00:19:19.107
- Along with the flow.
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- We also learned that when that happened, we were participants
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- And not just attenders.
- 00:19:24.913 --> 00:19:26.281
- It wasn't about just us being fed, there were expectations
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- That we would be a part of the hospitality team.
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- I didn't volunteer for that.
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- You want to invite somebody to your table?
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- That's on your head.
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- That was not the way it rolled.
- 00:19:35.290 --> 00:19:38.260
- We learned to be present and prepared.
- 00:19:38.260 --> 00:19:40.796
- We get recruited to help set the table.
- 00:19:40.796 --> 00:19:44.032
- They'd say these crazy things like it's important for you
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- To know.
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- I didn't think it was important for me to know.
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- So, we learned to set a table, my brothers and i.
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- Mother--like my--i remember
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- She--my mother would say, "don't you wanna help
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- Me fill the glasses?"
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- What's the answer?
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- No, there's a ball game on.
- 00:20:04.786 --> 00:20:08.790
- So, we'd fill the glasses.
- 00:20:08.790 --> 00:20:12.294
- "wouldn't you like to help me get the food on the table?"
- 00:20:12.294 --> 00:20:16.431
- No, not really.
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- I filled the glasses aren't i good for another month?
- 00:20:17.799 --> 00:20:21.837
- So, we would help get the food on the table.
- 00:20:21.837 --> 00:20:25.540
- "why don't you go tell our guest that dinner's ready."
- 00:20:25.540 --> 00:20:31.680
- I don't even know them.
- 00:20:31.680 --> 00:20:36.585
- Then we'd be at the table and somebody's glass would be
- 00:20:36.585 --> 00:20:39.388
- Empty and--
- 00:20:39.388 --> 00:20:41.523
- We caught on eventually.
- 00:20:41.523 --> 00:20:44.326
- And i didn't want my mother getting up 14 times during the
- 00:20:44.326 --> 00:20:46.495
- Meal, so one of us would get up and go refill the glasses.
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- Maybe we'd replenish a bowl that was empty.
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- We participated in the process.
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- We'd helped clear the dishes or serve dessert or whatever and
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- Went with it.
- 00:20:59.341 --> 00:21:00.709
- We understood it wasn't just being served.
- 00:21:00.709 --> 00:21:03.679
- It changed my life.
- 00:21:03.679 --> 00:21:06.715
- As much as any course in theology i can remember.
- 00:21:06.715 --> 00:21:11.486
- Because jesus said if you wanna be significant in his kingdom,
- 00:21:11.486 --> 00:21:14.256
- You have to be a servant.
- 00:21:14.256 --> 00:21:16.858
- And that's not a servant in fancy places with people who are
- 00:21:16.858 --> 00:21:20.162
- Noticing, that's a servant in those places where you and your
- 00:21:20.162 --> 00:21:23.598
- Brothers are like slapping one another when nobody's looking.
- 00:21:23.598 --> 00:21:29.504
- And i'm most grateful for the lessons that i took away from
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- That table because some of the most remarkable people of faith
- 00:21:32.040 --> 00:21:35.644
- I've ever known, we had the opportunity to sit at
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- A table with.
- 00:21:39.848 --> 00:21:41.450
- And i wouldn't have had that opportunity if my parents hadn't
- 00:21:41.450 --> 00:21:43.652
- Been willing to practice hospitality.
- 00:21:43.652 --> 00:21:46.688
- And they weren't famous people or celebrated people, they
- 00:21:46.688 --> 00:21:49.591
- Weren't people with great followings oftentimes, but they
- 00:21:49.591 --> 00:21:52.928
- Were people that knew the lord in a remarkable way.
- 00:21:52.928 --> 00:21:55.397
- And inevitably at the table, those conversations
- 00:21:55.397 --> 00:21:57.599
- Would percolate.
- 00:21:57.599 --> 00:22:00.969
- I wasn't always the greatest participant.
- 00:22:00.969 --> 00:22:02.971
- I was often chafing.
- 00:22:02.971 --> 00:22:04.306
- I had things i wanted to do and things that i
- 00:22:04.306 --> 00:22:05.807
- Thought were important.
- 00:22:05.807 --> 00:22:08.877
- But you see, your table is about an investment in people.
- 00:22:08.877 --> 00:22:12.614
- It's an expression of kindness, it's a welcome.
- 00:22:12.614 --> 00:22:17.119
- There's a couple of components to this, and i think they're
- 00:22:17.119 --> 00:22:19.321
- Worth identifying.
- 00:22:19.321 --> 00:22:21.623
- You know, the priorities and who we allow to establish them in
- 00:22:21.623 --> 00:22:24.693
- Our home.
- 00:22:24.693 --> 00:22:27.262
- Again, if you're too busy for a meal once a week, if you're too
- 00:22:27.262 --> 00:22:29.765
- Busy to ever extend hospitality, just who's driving
- 00:22:29.765 --> 00:22:32.734
- The priorities?
- 00:22:32.734 --> 00:22:37.072
- And then there's this enormous thing, and i don't want to
- 00:22:37.072 --> 00:22:38.707
- Unpack this in this session, i don't have time.
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- The roles in our families.
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- Who's gonna do the work?
- 00:22:44.012 --> 00:22:46.481
- Who's going to make the effort?
- 00:22:46.481 --> 00:22:49.718
- We are.
- 00:22:49.718 --> 00:22:54.723
- You know, when we got to the point where doctors are
- 00:22:54.723 --> 00:22:56.858
- Mutilating minors in our country.
- 00:22:56.858 --> 00:22:59.995
- Because decades ago we started transitioning in our homes away
- 00:22:59.995 --> 00:23:02.864
- From biblical roles.
- 00:23:02.864 --> 00:23:05.567
- We don't wanna be confined by them, we don't wanna be defined
- 00:23:05.567 --> 00:23:07.969
- By them.
- 00:23:07.969 --> 00:23:10.305
- We don't want to yield to that biblical authority, and we began
- 00:23:10.305 --> 00:23:12.874
- Transitioning away from that to the point that we arrived at
- 00:23:12.874 --> 00:23:15.444
- This absurd place where they were mutilating our children.
- 00:23:15.444 --> 00:23:19.414
- And we didn't have the moral authority to say anything.
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- I wanna ask you to activate your kitchen table.
- 00:23:23.018 --> 00:23:27.022
- If you haven't done it in a while, it's gonna feel awkward,
- 00:23:27.022 --> 00:23:28.623
- It's like using a muscle you haven't worked in a long time.
- 00:23:28.623 --> 00:23:31.860
- It will feel awful the first time you do it, and you'll be
- 00:23:31.860 --> 00:23:35.664
- Sore afterwards.
- 00:23:35.664 --> 00:23:39.034
- If it's an invitation in your own family system, it's hard to
- 00:23:39.034 --> 00:23:41.403
- Establish a new habit.
- 00:23:41.403 --> 00:23:43.572
- It's hard to get a new pattern.
- 00:23:43.572 --> 00:23:46.341
- There'll be eye rolls or complaints or a lack of
- 00:23:46.341 --> 00:23:49.744
- Availability, there'd be a lot of things.
- 00:23:49.744 --> 00:23:52.113
- If it's about hospitality, it's kind of a scary thing.
- 00:23:52.113 --> 00:23:54.282
- Don't start with a dinner for 40.
- 00:23:54.282 --> 00:23:58.019
- Start with two or one.
- 00:23:58.019 --> 00:24:01.690
- If you're single, invite a couple of friends and determine
- 00:24:01.690 --> 00:24:05.393
- To make it a godly thing.
- 00:24:05.393 --> 00:24:09.231
- Whatever season of life you're in, don't use the seasons as an
- 00:24:09.231 --> 00:24:12.334
- Excuse for selfishness, and carnality, and ungodliness.
- 00:24:12.334 --> 00:24:17.138
- Let's be certain that we establish god as the authority
- 00:24:17.138 --> 00:24:20.308
- Of our homes, and i believe we can change the destiny of
- 00:24:20.308 --> 00:24:24.279
- A nation.
- 00:24:24.279 --> 00:24:26.381
- I truly do.
- 00:24:26.381 --> 00:24:28.517
- You're not powerless, your voice is not too small, you're
- 00:24:28.517 --> 00:24:33.021
- Not insignificant.
- 00:24:33.021 --> 00:24:35.323
- I brought you a beautiful case study on a city that was
- 00:24:35.323 --> 00:24:38.560
- Transformed by the power of god, and we'll do it another time.
- 00:24:38.560 --> 00:24:43.932
- Well, i was like, we get more opportunities, god willing.
- 00:24:43.932 --> 00:24:48.036
- But i brought you a prayer, it's a very simple prayer.
- 00:24:48.036 --> 00:24:51.907
- It's really a statement of intent.
- 00:24:51.907 --> 00:24:55.610
- You know, prayers fall into two or three categories, general
- 00:24:55.610 --> 00:24:57.946
- Categories, sometimes they're expressions of thanksgiving
- 00:24:57.946 --> 00:25:00.682
- Or praise.
- 00:25:00.682 --> 00:25:02.551
- Sometimes they're requests, sometimes there are declarations
- 00:25:02.551 --> 00:25:06.421
- Of intent.
- 00:25:06.421 --> 00:25:07.756
- Sometimes we pray the scripture and we wanna say over our lives
- 00:25:07.756 --> 00:25:10.191
- What the scripture says, but i think it's very important to say
- 00:25:10.191 --> 00:25:13.562
- To the lord when you mean it, i find that god takes me at
- 00:25:13.562 --> 00:25:16.631
- My word.
- 00:25:16.631 --> 00:25:18.700
- I don't know if you found that to be true in your life or not,
- 00:25:18.700 --> 00:25:20.869
- But i do not make statements to the lord casually because i have
- 00:25:20.869 --> 00:25:26.608
- Found him to be very willing to take me at my word.
- 00:25:26.608 --> 00:25:30.612
- So, i have learned that i want to make declarations of intent
- 00:25:30.612 --> 00:25:34.082
- To the lord and then ask him to help me, and that's what i
- 00:25:34.082 --> 00:25:37.586
- Brought you with this session.
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- If you'll stand with me.
- 00:25:38.920 --> 00:25:47.529
- Can we pray this together?
- 00:25:47.529 --> 00:25:48.863
- If you're at home you can pray this with us.
- 00:25:48.863 --> 00:25:51.199
- You surely finished dinner by now.
- 00:25:51.199 --> 00:25:56.171
- Let's read it together.
- 00:25:56.171 --> 00:25:57.739
- "heavenly father, help us to establish our lives under
- 00:25:57.739 --> 00:26:01.910
- Your authority.
- 00:26:01.910 --> 00:26:03.511
- May our homes be strengthened by your presence and our children
- 00:26:03.511 --> 00:26:07.549
- Rooted in a living hope.
- 00:26:07.549 --> 00:26:09.851
- Teach us to honor you in every situation in jesus's
- 00:26:09.851 --> 00:26:13.922
- Name, amen."
- 00:26:13.922 --> 00:26:16.191
- Hallelujah.
- 00:26:16.191 --> 00:26:17.525
- God bless you.
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- ♪♪♪
- 00:26:19.894 --> 00:26:26.801
- Allen: this is the 250th anniversary of our nation.
- 00:26:26.868 --> 00:26:29.604
- It's a big deal.
- 00:26:29.604 --> 00:26:31.106
- Now, i know a lot of us don't care a whole lot about history.
- 00:26:31.106 --> 00:26:33.575
- We didn't have great experiences in school.
- 00:26:33.575 --> 00:26:35.510
- I understand that, but here's the reality if they can steal
- 00:26:35.510 --> 00:26:38.680
- Our history, they'll rob us of our future.
- 00:26:38.680 --> 00:26:41.016
- So history really does matter.
- 00:26:41.016 --> 00:26:43.018
- Well, because of that, we have partnered with some good friends
- 00:26:43.018 --> 00:26:45.420
- Of our ministries, wall builders, david and tim barton.
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- They have the best of the best on this topic.
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- It's a two-volume set on "the american story."
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- And it helps us learn american history with a faith component
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- With a god perspective, how god has been engaged in the
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- Unfolding narrative of our american story.
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- That matters because we need god to be involved in the future of
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- The american story.
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- That affects our lives, our families, our communities, and
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- Ultimately, our nation.
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- The books will be a blessing to you, but more than that,
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- I believe they'll open your life to the imagination that god is
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- Moving in the earth and we can participate with him in the next
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- Chapters of american history.
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- ♪♪♪
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