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Allen Jackson - Our Heavenly Father (Part 2)

July 12, 2026 | 27:29

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Allen Jackson Ministries | Allen Jackson - Our Heavenly Father (Part 2) | July 12, 2026

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Allen jackson: we have a new resource for you.
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I'm really excited about this.
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It's a book; it's a booklet; it's a small book called "your
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Identity in christ."
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It was derived from years of teaching and leading in the
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Context of the church.
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We're walking through a season, folks, when there's so much
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Confusion about our identity.
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We put this together to help you understand who you are in
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Christ, not just about your salvation, but so that you can
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Lead a triumphant, victorious, overcoming life.
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We built it for an individual read.
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It's great for a small group.
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It's a great resource for your kitchen table time as a family
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With children or grandchildren.
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If you know who you are in christ, it changes everything
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About the landscape of your life.
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I'm righteous in the sight of god.
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I can stand before god without fear, guilt, or condemnation.
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Those are such important foundational principles to get
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Secure in your heart, around your table with the people you
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Care about, in your small groups, with your friends.
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"your identity in christ," it's a game changer.
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I believe it will add momentum to your spiritual growth
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In this season.
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♪♪♪
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Allen: well, what brings excitement to you?
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What brings enthusiasm?
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What do you look forward to?
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You've got a little free time.
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And you can invest some energy
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Or some thought or some effort, or you can gather some people
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Around you that share a common interest, to what extent does
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God make his way into that?
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I'm not--i don't mean that in a condemning way.
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It's a diagnostic tool because, if the answer isn't where you
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Would like it to be, sitting in this environment, begin to talk
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To the lord about it, and say, "lord, you know, the reality is,
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I mean, i tolerate you.
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I mean, i don't want to, like, exclude you.
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I don't want to get voted off the island.
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But i don't want you to be at the top of my to do list."
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Begin to tell him the truth.
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Stop the hustle, seek god.
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I mean, i have, pretty consistently, this desire for
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Change, cultural change.
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Folks, cultural change starts with change in our hearts.
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We have to have the intent to become more godly.
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Fellas, seek god.
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And the diagnostic part of that is really the first step.
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To what extent do you have a desire to please him?
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Or is he annoying?
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I brought you a little checklist.
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It's by no means inclusive.
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It's--if i made the list next week, i'd probably have a
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Different list, but the components will help you.
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Read your bible.
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Like, aren't you glad you came to church for that deep nugget?
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Read your bible.
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And, if you want to multiply the impact of that, not in an over
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The top way, not in a self-righteous way, read it with
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Enough frequency that the people you live with know you read it.
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One of the things that changed my life, truthfully, when it
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Came time for me to leave home-- i'd been a christian because
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That was kind of the rule of the house.
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But, when it was time for me to leave home, it wasn't clear
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Inside of me what i was gonna do next.
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I knew it was my turn to decide what my life was gonna be about,
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But i had this impression that, when nobody was watching, my
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Parents, my dad, they actually, like, read their bibles.
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Like, when i was watching ballgames, he'd go, like, read
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His bible.
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He wouldn't tell me to; he'd just go, like, read his--
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I thought he was weird.
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And my dad had many strengths and many gifts, but one of them
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Is not small talk.
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I don't think, when i--when he was a pagan, i don't think he
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Cared what people thought, and jesus didn't fix that.
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Aren't you grateful your son doesn't get a microphone?
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But i'd watch him read his bible when nobody was watching.
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And i thought, "that matters to him."
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Read your bibles.
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The second thing i would suggest is be a part of a community
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Of faith.
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Plain language, go to church.
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I know, we don't as much anymore.
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We've changed; we use multiple churches.
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That's like using multiple doctors, so you don't have to
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Tell any one doctor your whole story.
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It's like a smorgasbord.
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And i get it. i understand.
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I'm not really arguing that we go back to another time
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And place.
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I'm suggesting that you need community.
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You need to be known in community, and the community
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Needs to know you.
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You don't need to know everybody there.
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Your dance card's filled with a dozen or so people.
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It's all the room you got for.
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You can't process 400 birthdays and anniversaries and
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Celebrations and people who are sick.
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You--but you need a group of people who know you, and you
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Know them you know, if you're helping your kids learn to be
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Proficient in athletics, you know that reps matter,
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Repetitions matter.
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If they only get to participate in the sport of their choice
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Every once in a while, their level of excellence is not going
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To be high.
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And, if your engagement in community is when it's
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Convenient, you've misunderstood the value of community.
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And i know some of you are watching from places where you
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Can't be in this congregation, but you need a group
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Of believers.
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You need a -- group of like-minded people to help
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You navigate.
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We live in very deceptive days.
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Number 3, integrate your faith.
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You can't have a set of church friends, and another set of
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Friends, and one set of stories you tell with one set, and
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Another set you tell with another set; it won't work.
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You're gonna have to integrate your faith across your life,
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Across the--and that's a lifetime commitment.
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That won't happen in a week.
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That won't happen because you wake up in the morning and go,
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"i wanna be skinny."
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I can't hold that idea til lunch.
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And integrating your faith is a day by day.
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"i want to please you today, lord.
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In the environment i'm going in today, i want to please you in
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That environment."
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Doesn't mean we do it perfectly; we'll do it in all of
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Our brokenness.
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But the trajectory of our lives should be the evidence that we
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Have a desire to be pleasing to the god across all the aspects
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Of who we are as people.
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Seek the lord, that's the conversation.
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And then fourth piece i'll give you is pray.
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I know you're surprised i would say that.
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Pray: pray at home; pray with your friends.
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Pray for the purposes of god to break forth in the earth.
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If you get together with friends, say a prayer.
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Say, "before we go, let's just say a prayer.
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God, thank you for my friends.
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Amen, good night, i'm going."
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Don't wait and look at them and go, "would you like me to pray
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Some more?"
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Don't be creepy.
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Creepy doesn't make you godly, just means you're creepy.
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I've known too many creepy christians.
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Don't say stupid things and say you're spiritual.
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"well, you know, i'm out of gas, but i didn't know what the lord
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Wanted me to do."
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Unless you think he's been telling you to walk more, he
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Wants you to put some gas in the car.
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You don't need direction; you need cash and access to a
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Filling station.
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Pray, but i'm not telling you to pray weird.
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You don't have to pray loud.
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If you're--if praying in your place of employment is not
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Received too well, begin to pray quietly.
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Begin to pray that god will give you somebody else there to
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Pray with.
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Bow your head and bless your food.
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Bow your head and pray over your computer before you start
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Your day.
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Don't stand up on the desk and swing a goat and say, "i'm
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Praying now."
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If you do, don't mention this place
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'cause i don't know you.
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Seek god; fellas, you can do this.
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You can do this.
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Let the primary defining characteristic of who you are as
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A person be your passion for the lord.
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You can do that if you're a butcher, a baker, or a
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Candlestick maker.
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It's a lifelong commitment; it's a lifelong commitment.
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You learn more about god from people who know him just a
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Little bit better than you.
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I'll go anywhere in the world that the lord gives me an
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Opportunity to be with somebody that has a true heart for
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The lord.
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I don't wanna do anything.
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I just wanna be in their proximity.
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It's a gift. seek the lord.
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And we've got a few minutes left.
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I want to pick up this biblical commandment we have.
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It's ephesians--it's picked up in the new testament.
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So it's not just old testament.
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Ephesians 6, paul's writing the church at ephesus, "honor your
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Father and mother--" it's the first commandment with a
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Promise--"that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy
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Long life on earth."
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Anybody not want long life?
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Anybody looking for, like, early exits?
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'cause, i mean, if you are, this might be something you could,
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Like, think, "well, i've got an off-ramp here."
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"fathers, don't exasperate your children; instead, bring them up
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In the training and the instruction of the" internet;
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I'm sorry, "in the training and instruction of the lord."
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Here's the reality.
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All of us--this isn't about father's day, this is all of
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Us now.
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God gave all of us an earthly father, and the biblical
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Commandment--not suggestion, not prompt, not urge, not a good
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Idea, commandment--is to honor your father and mother.
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In some of our lives, our fathers were great gifts.
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In some of our lives, they've been significant obstacles.
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I understand that, but it doesn't change the commandment.
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We all have fathers, and they've all parented us with varying
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Degrees of effectiveness.
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Many components feed into that.
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But biblically we're called to honor them.
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How we respond to our earthly fathers has bearing on how we
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Respond to our heavenly father.
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I'll add one more idea to it.
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God chose our parents.
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Now, our parents make choices, so we can't blame all of our
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Parental behavior on god because he gives each of us a free will.
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But i'll tell you this, you can honor someone without approving
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Of everything that they do.
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Now, you know that's true because, across the arena of
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Your life, i suspect there are persons to whom you have given
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Honor, or you have great respect for them, because of some
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Accomplishment or achievement or ability, but you're not saying
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That you think everything about them is honorable, whether it's
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An athlete or a politician, or whomever it may be.
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You can honor your father without saying every choice that
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They made was honorable.
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It doesn't mean you get back in line for further mistreatment,
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If that was a part of the relationship.
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It does mean you can choose to cooperate with
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God's instruction.
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And i think we would be remiss if we came to father's day and
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We didn't practice that.
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I have no--my goal is not, on a regular basis, to present
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Biblical lectures.
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If i wanted to do that, i would have stayed in the university.
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The hours were better, and,
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Once i had tenure...
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The goal, as i understand it, of studying our bibles and
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Unpacking it together is that we can be changed, and my intent on
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A regular basis is to give you invitations.
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From time to time people will stop me and ask me why we don't
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Do an altar call at every service, and the answer is
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Pretty simple: because there are other invitations that we are
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Making on a regular basis.
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We do, on a regular basis, give people opportunities to make a
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Profession of faith.
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But, on a very regular basis, we want to give you invitations to
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Continue changing and growing in the lord.
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♪♪♪
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Allen: hey, i wanna ask you a question.
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How do you identify?
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Male, female, southerner, educated, housewife?
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How do you identify?
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Well, i wanna suggest knowing your identity in christ is the
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Most significant component of your person for both time
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And eternity.
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We put together a resource; it's a new booklet.
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It'll help you understand who you are in christ, "your
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Identity in the kingdom of god" and what the implications of
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That are for your life today.
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It's a game changer.
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I believe it'll be a blessing to you and to your family.
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Announcer: every day the world tries to define who we are, what
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We should believe, and whether we're enough.
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But god's word tells a different story.
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In pastor allen's new book, "your identity in christ: 12
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Truths about who you are," he shares biblical truths that will
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Help you recognize who you are in christ.
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Allen: and so, i want to take a moment with this, and we're
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Going to look at more than one prayer, honestly.
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We're gonna start with a prayer of forgiveness for our fathers.
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None of us had perfect dads.
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We may have had great dads, dads that loved us and we loved them,
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And they were a great blessing in our lives, but they
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Weren't perfect.
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There's only been one of us that was perfect, and he put so much
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Pressure on us, we killed him.
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So the notion that our fathers are worthy of forgiveness is a
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Very biblical principle because we recognize that we have a need
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To be forgiven as well.
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So, if you come from a family system where you say, "you know,
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Pastor, it's really hard for me to imagine god as my father
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Because my earthly father wasn't great," i'm gonna ask you if
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You'd be willing to forgive your earthly dad.
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Again, not to say that everything they did was right or
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That they did their best.
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I'm not saying they did.
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I'm saying you can't afford the luxury of resentment
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And bitterness.
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It will rob you of much of what god would do in your life.
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Now, forgiveness is a decision.
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It starts with our will; it's a choice we make, and our emotions
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Have to catch up.
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In fact, most of the expressions of discipline in your life start
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With the choice of your will and your emotions catch up.
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When i decide i'm gonna eat a little cleaner, and somebody
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Asks me if i would like ice cream and cookies, and i say no.
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I lie because i would very much like ice cream and cookies.
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I'll trade you all of my broccoli for your ice cream
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And cookies.
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But, if i'm in one of those weird seasons where i'm trying
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To eat a little cleaner, "no, i don't choose any ice cream and
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Cookies right now, thank you."
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But, if i will stay with it, even my emotions will catch up.
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And the same is true with forgiveness.
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So i brought you--i brought you a prayer.
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It's a prayer of forgiveness for our fathers, and it may need to
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Be adapted a bit for your circumstance.
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But this isn't just about men.
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We all have fathers, right?
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I don't think anybody's here without one of those.
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And, whether they're alive or not is not overly relevant
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To this.
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You can be angry at people, embittered towards people that
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You no longer have availability to.
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And there'll be great freedom come to you if you'll choose
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Obedience to the lord.
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So let's just read this prayer together, "god, i need
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Your help.
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There's a hurt that i cannot outrun or ignore.
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In obedience to your word, i forgive my father.
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I thank you for his life.
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I choose to bless him today.
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Thank you now for your freedom in my life, for your peace and
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Loving care, in jesus's name, amen."
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Now, if in your life that has been a hurtful place, you might
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Want to take that prayer and make it a part of your devotion
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For a bit.
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But, if you will continue to reinforce that choice, you will
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Find a freedom.
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God is faithful to his word.
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I'm gonna add to that another prayer.
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If none of us are perfect, and we're not, and god has entrusted
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You with children--you know, children are a sacred trust
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From god.
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We call them ours, but they're really his.
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And, you know, we'll give an account to him for what we do
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With them.
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Again, not a threat it; it's really like a promise, a
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Good promise.
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Like, there's incredible blessings if you will shepherd
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Children in the things of god.
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On the other hand, jesus said, "look, if you cause one of these
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Little ones to have a problem, i suggest you find a big rock, a
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Piece of rope, get connected, and then look for deep water.
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Because that's the better day than when you see me."
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So, given the nature of our lack of perfection, a prayer that we
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Should pray on a regular basis is, "god forgive me when i
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Haven't been what i might have been."
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And hopefully that's a--there's a trajectory to that.
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I'm learning; i'm improving, every season of life.
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You know, children are the ultimate train and
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Release program.
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You grow them up so you can turn them loose, that's the idea.
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I mean, it's biblical.
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"a man shall leave his father and mother," you've heard
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That, right?
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It's, like, in the book.
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So you prepare them; you give them a presentation of
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Godliness; you instruct them in the things of god; you show them
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What it looks like to seek god; and then you turn them loose to
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Carry that forward into another generation.
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We're reading through the books of moses right now.
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That is the story of the books of moses, a generation that
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Rejected god's invitation, and joshua and caleb and moses hands
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Off the baton and says, "now, go finish this assignment.
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I don't get to go."
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But that's true in every generation.
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We hand that baton off and say, "you know, what we're handing
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You is imperfect.
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But before you're filled with anger and
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Bitterness and criticism, you begin to seek a god so that you
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Can lead to a better place in your generation."
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So it's an appropriate prayer on a regular basis; say, "lord,
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Help me be a better father; help me be a better parent; help me
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Be a better brother or sister in christ."
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We need god's help, folks.
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We've been so dialed in to, "i'm born again" and "i got these
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Gifts" and "look at what i know," and i'm great, i'm happy
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With all of that stuff.
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But we live this out in the midst of people and community,
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And that is messy stuff, heart-rending stuff.
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It isn't easy.
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It isn't easy to know.
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You know, the only relational issues that are easy are the
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Ones that aren't yours.
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I mean, don't you know what everybody else should do?
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How many of you have like twenty-twenty discernment about
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Other people?
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"well, i know what their problem is.
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Wish they'd ask, i'd tell them."
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It's understanding my own heart that is so challenging.
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So i brought you a prayer.
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It's a request for forgiveness as fathers.
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If you're not a father, probably an appropriate prayer in a
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Little slightly different context.
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You can adopt it--adapt it.
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But let's read it together, fellas, "god, you have given me
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An assignment.
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Help me to complete it well.
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Forgive me for my failures.
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I need your wisdom and courage as a man, a husband, and
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A father.
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I believe that what you called me to, you can enable me
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To fulfill.
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I am not a failure.
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In christ jesus, i am victorious, amen."
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I know one thing for certain; the devil will accuse you.
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He reminds you of your shortcomings and your failures
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And what you didn't do and when you did the wrong thing.
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You know, i have discovered something in my own behavior,
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That, if there's some aspect of my family life that i wasn't
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Thrilled about, it seems to me those are the parts of behavior
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That stick in me.
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Now i wanna tell you a story about that; you're like, "well,
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Give us the gossip."
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I'll give you one.
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When i was a kid, we had a pony, a little cart that pulled behind
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It, and we used to drive it all around.
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If you've ever worked with horses, some--it rained one
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Afternoon; we were out in the pony--with the pony in
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The cart.
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There was a water puddle in the street where it rained, and the
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Pony didn't want to go through the puddle, which would be
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Normal behavior for a pony, or a big horse for that matter.
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My father, being a trainer of animals and sons, wanted the
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Pony to go through the puddle.
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And they had a discussion in the street.
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If the pony had asked us, my brothers and i would have said,
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"it would be better for you just to go through the puddle on the
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First invitation because you will go through the puddle."
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So i remember standing there on the edge of the street watching
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My dad talk to the pony, thinking, "i will never act
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Like that."
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I mean, i was probably, what, 10?
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Scroll forward, i don't know, a dozen years.
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I'm working in a microbiology lab during the day and teaching
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Horses their manners at night.
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And i've worked all day, and it's late at night, and i've got
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A string of horses that i'm working.
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And i get out this one yearling.
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And it has rained, and there's a water puddle, and my colt
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Doesn't want to go through the water puddle, and i think
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He should.
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So we engage in a conversation.
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And, after a few minutes of conversation, i'm dripping with
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Sweat, and he's not happy, and the puddle's still untouched.
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And i guess it was god's mercy, i remembered that picture of me
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As a kid, standing beside that road.
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And i started laughing.
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And i looked at the colt, and i said, "it's your lucky day.
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Let's go to the barn."
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And i took him to the barn, and rubbed him down, and fed him
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Extra, and made sure his water bucket was full, and i thought,
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"you know, i may not have learned all the lessons, but i'm
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Working on one."
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Well, that did'n't--that's not worthy of applause.
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But, you know, god will help you one step at a time, one day at
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A time.
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If you will yield to him, he will walk you towards a
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Better place.
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Fatherhood matters.
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But i brought us all a prayer.
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When jesus's disciples wanted to learn to pray, jesus started--
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Can you believe this?--with, "our father."
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Some of you are offended because the catholics call it the our
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Father, stop.
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Whatever you call it, when jesus taught us to pray, he started
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With, "our heavenly father."
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So it seemed like an appropriate place for us to conclude this.
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Why don't you stand with me?
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Can we pray it together?
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Everybody, if you're at home, pray with us; we can hear you.
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Google lets us hear through your phones.
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I lied, we can't really, but it's a good idea;
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Google's listening.
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Let's pray, "our father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name.
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Your kingdom come, your will be done on earth, as it is
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In heaven.
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Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our
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Trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.
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And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil, for
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Yours is the kingdom and the glory forever and ever, amen."
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Hallelujah, god bless you.
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♪♪♪
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Allen: hey, i'm really excited about our newest publication.
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It's called "your identity in christ."
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It's a booklet, small book, intended to help you understand
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Who you are in christ.
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Straightforward, grounded in scripture, but i help people
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Take steps toward spiritual freedom.
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The most essential component is helping them understand who they
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Are in christ.
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You know, we're walking through a season where there's
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Tremendous cultural confusion, so much dialogue about how
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We identify.
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Folks, understanding who you are in christ, the price that was
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Paid to give you status in the kingdom of god, it will write a
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Future for you that is not dependent upon your family of
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Origin, your life circumstance, the expressions of evil that
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You've had to overcome.
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In christ jesus we are triumphant both in time
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And for all eternity.
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We put this little booklet together; it'll help you.
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You can read it.
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You can do it as a small group.
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It's easy to share the message
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With children or grandchildren.
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Make this a part of this season in your life, and in your home,
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And with your friends.
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It's a game changer.
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♪♪♪
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Allen Jackson - Our Heavenly Father (Part 2)

July 12, 2026 | 27:29

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