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Bobby Chandler: Authentic Church | Bobby Chandler - When God Says Move (Part 1) | August 25, 2025
- And that assignment is to spread the gospel all over the world.
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- So today we get to celebrate jesus.
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- Again, god sends people, visitors, the devil.
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- And there have been times that we have experienced
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- Such warfare that i've come home to see my wife out in the yard
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- With the brand new olive oil that we just bought, like pour
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- And dump.
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- That was a nice bottle of olive oil. yeah.
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- Hey, guys,
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- This is pastor bobby chandler, and today
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- We're talking about believing god for the impossible.
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- Because when you believe god for the impossible,
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- Authentic faith will always lead to impossible stories.
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- And so today, we have an incredible guest.
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- We're so honored to have him
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- In hickory, north carolina at authentic church church.
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- Matt tuning is in the building today.
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- Hey yo yo, he is an amazing father.
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- He is an amazing, husband.
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- And he is also the lead pastor of netcast church
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- All the way in the boston area.
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- And he has made it to us today.
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- So i wish we had, like a little sound club.
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- Yeah, we. do right here. here you go.
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- Are here.
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- Man, we're so honored to have you here today.
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- How are you feeling? i'm feeling great, bro.
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- So i'm going to be here with you, man.
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- I've had such a good time this weekend. so awesome, man.
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- How was your experience yesterday?
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- Well, you have a great church, bro.
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- Thank you. you really do.
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- You're almost seven years old.
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- You do not have enough room.
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- You're not?
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- There are too many people.
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- Yeah, not enough chairs.
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- For sure.
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- You need a bigger building. as we do. yeah.
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- So if you like to pray and give towards the church
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- To help us get into a building, you should pray.
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- You should give towards.
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- We need you guys doing here.
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- Yeah. no, but seriously, it was awesome.
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- People are. the people were the best.
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- They were attentive. they love the word.
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- That's what's important to me, honestly.
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- And you,
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- They love the word.
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- And they were dialed in, and so. yeah, it's just awesome.
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- It's got good people. they love one another.
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- Well, you know that.
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- I mean, jesus is pretty clear on that.
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- That's how you recognize disciples, right?
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- It's like how they love one. look at the fruit man.
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- Look at the fruit. and so that's special.
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- We've been really blessed and really honored.
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- God has brought in all these people from the area,
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- But also outside of the area to.
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- Grow your platform outside of hickory, north
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- Carolina is larger than the city of hickory north.
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- It's pretty.
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- Crazy.
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- It's wild.
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- And, you know, it's
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- We talk about believe the impossible too.
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- And i think a lot of people think
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- You have to have all the expensive things
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- To bring in people.
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- Like you have to have the big fancy building
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- And all the tech and all these things.
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- And so it's cool to me because it's just like,
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- Like a david story, you know what i mean?
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- Like something small seems insignificant.
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- God uses it to bring people in.
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- Yeah, and reach the world.
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- And i think that's so encouraging, too.
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- You know? i mean, pleasure studying.
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- Not having to be like you,
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- You know, on the court and everything and more.
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- We'll see.
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- I won't look like it stood there, but, but, man.
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- Okay, let's let's hear your story.
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- I want to hear, you know, you you started,
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- Church planning from scratch.
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- Yeah. and so what was that like?
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- How did you get there?
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- Like, what's the origin story there?
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- All right, so, so i became believer when i was in college.
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- And, i had never met a christian up until i got to college.
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- I never thought i would ever be in ministry at all.
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- That was never a part of, like, the the plan.
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- Even after i became a believer, i thought i would just.
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- I was going to graduate with a business
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- Degree, climb the corporate ladder.
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- My dad,
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- That was his journey.
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- I always thought that i've kind of following those footsteps.
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- And so,
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- But when,
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- We had moved from boston to north carolina
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- For only only five years.
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- And so,
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- It was in that period of time where i felt like the lord began
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- Because it started with dreams.
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- You know,
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- I had never really experienced anything like this,
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- But we started i started having the same dream,
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- And i had it five nights in a row.
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- Really? yeah.
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- And, we were in the boston area because boston was my territory
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- When i was in sales back living out there. and so,
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- Yeah, i mean, we had the same dream five nights in a row.
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- I said to my wife on the fifth night, like, babe,
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- If we were going to start a church
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- Somewhere, where would it be?
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- Because,
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- You know, she needs to be all bought in.
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- And even at that time, though, it wasn't even like a thing.
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- It was just a dream.
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- And not like a desired dream. but five nights in a row.
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- Five nights was weird.
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- Yeah, yeah.
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- And so she said it probably.
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- Boston rolled her eyes and i was like, crap,
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- I gotta tell you about these dreams.
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- And so, so, so like, yeah, she knew.
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- Like she knew,
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- You know, the the landscape in boston is different.
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- You know, it's one of the least rich regions.
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- The united states of all time.
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- We got more witches,
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- In my neighborhood than we probably do christians.
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- Right next to salem, massachusetts.
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- And so we bought her salem and.
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- Yeah, that's witch city.
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- And so it's really, really different, dude, the the
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- The demonic headquarters
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- Or satanic headquarters of america right over there.
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- Yeah. it's like three miles from our home.
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- So we're just like. it's just different, bro.
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- What does that look like?
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- The actual building.
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- Like when you when you drive through that area, like,
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- You see things like dc, which is on the street like.
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- Yeah. so it's like like regular people.
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- Like regular people, bro. yeah.
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- I mean like, yes, it's weird.
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- So when you're actually in salem.
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- So the potter. yeah.
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- Yeah a little bit, a little bit.
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- If you drive through salem,
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- You're going to get a lot of witch like, lots of,
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- Like, skeletons and antichrist and like, things like that.
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- It's all in windows.
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- It's marketable. right.
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- And that's like what they're known for. okay.
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- So you're going to get a lot of that,
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- And then you have a lot of people who practice wiccan.
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- Right?
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- It's kind of like voodoo in haiti or new orleans
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- And stuff like that.
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- And so, yeah,
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- That's kind of the that's kind of the mindset in that area.
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- Now, i also would say it's interesting where i live,
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- You know, new england, it's almost like god fearing jews.
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- You know, when you read the scriptures
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- Where it's like people who believe in god,
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- They have an understanding and a belief system
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- That there's something more than just, nothing out there.
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- But they don't know how to relate to the lord,
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- And they don't know who jesus is, right?
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- I mean, we've had people.
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- I had a guy come up to me one time was we were doing baptisms.
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- Yeah.
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- And, and,
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- I can't remember why.
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- No, it wasn't baptism. i'm sorry.
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- We were doing baby dedications, is what it was.
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- Okay, we're doing baby dedications one sunday,
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- And so we were given all these families.
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- The jesus storybook bible had a guy come up to me
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- After service and was like, yo,
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- Dude, can i get one of those books?
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- And i was like, bro, you're 40 years old.
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- And, he's like, no, not, not like the one
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- That you were given to the kids,
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- But like the, the real one, the one that you read from.
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- And i was like, yeah bro.
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- Are you talking about the bible.
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- Bible, the bible wrote. can i have that?
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- Yeah. can i? yeah.
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- Go get you. bro. here, take this one.
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- You know, like.
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- Yeah, but that is our that that's our context, dude.
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- It's it's way different.
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- I didn't know it was that wild before i moved there.
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- Yeah.
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- You know, even having lived in new jersey
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- And new york growing up,
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- I didn't really have missionary eyes.
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- Yeah. when?
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- When i was living out there and living in boston, even,
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- In college, i didn't see the world
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- Through the lens of, like, missions.
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- And so going back with, you know,
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- Contextualize to understand my context was wild.
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- When we went back to plant.
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- And so. yeah.
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- So so you have these dreams. yeah.
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- Five nights in a row.
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- Talk to your wife. she says boston. yeah.
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- So we went, you know,
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- We were a part of a really good church at that time.
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- I submitted that that idea.
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- I wouldn't even call it a calling it at that point.
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- Yeah, okay, i submitted that idea.
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- I'm a big believer in, kind of the best position to be in is a
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- Position of submission.
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- And i think that there's a lot of power in that,
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- Where, you know, there's a council of many
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- There's a lot of wisdom in there.
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- And so we just kind of submitted that call,
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- That idea to some people.
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- And, my pastor, an associate pastor, my father
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- In law, who was also, a pastor for a long time.
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- Okay.
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- And also, who, oh, my, a college pastor of mine. so.
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- So your wife said there is ministry.
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- Yeah. so, yeah, she grew up in the.
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- Her dad was a nazarene pastor in quincy.
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- Okay. i'm sorry.
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- No, no, in, in it was warwick, new york.
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- I was i heard that, and he was there for a long time.
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- He was a pastor for, like, 28 years. good man.
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- Wow. okay. like good dude, you know, like,
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- And so having, you know, it different, right?
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- Nazarene theology is very different.
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- Their, their practice and their philosophy of ministry
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- Is different.
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- He was a little bit of a maverick
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- Within the nazarene denomination, right?
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- So he didn't always follow all those rules and all that, but.
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- Yeah, but a good dude nonetheless.
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- And, and having him in our corner was helpful, but.
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- Yeah, but i also submitted that call to them
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- And was like, listen, we don't ever want to do this.
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- I mean, at that point, i was i was 23 years old, 24,
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- You know. yeah, about 24 years old.
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- You know, i probably had
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- I was already making like six figures,
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- Bought a house, had the car like a couple cars, you.
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- Know, like. building a family that like, it was like, great.
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- We did not want to move.
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- It wasn't like it wasn't out of ambition.
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- I did not want a pastor. i did not want a plant.
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- That was not a desire of ours at all. like at all.
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- I cannot overemphasize that.
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- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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- And so it was clearly the lord let us as a matter of fact we
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- After feeling
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- After kind of being released by some of those men,
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- We connected with, we were trying to figure out
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- What should we do next.
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- And at that point in time, this was back in 2000, in
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- Probably 2008,
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- 2007, 2008, and so back then, like the up and coming networks
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- Within the church planting world was you had yet acts 29 yeah.
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- You also had, what's the one at a highlands?
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- And i was doing my train of thought.
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- Art. yeah. yeah. arts. yeah.
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- I thought. yeah.
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- Thank you.
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- So, back then, back then the back then you had
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- At 29, you had ark
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- You had the exponential conference.
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- And other than that,
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- You really didn't have many networks
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- That were really helping you.
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- You had the north american mission board
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- That was doing some stuff out of the sbc. but
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- But we wanted somebody to tell us
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- No, that we weren't qualified. and so.
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- We. were like, we were looking for a no, seriously.
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- Tell me to go back home. yeah.
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- And so we hooked up.
- 00:10:06.630 --> 00:10:07.665
- So back then, you know, ark was willing.
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- I did an interview with ark, and ark was willing to send us
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- And basically pull us into their fold, give us money.
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- But a lot of their questions, were different than acts 29
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- Ark was looking at, like,
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- Not necessarily like biblical literacy.
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- I'm not trying to say that they didn't
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- Care about any of that or theology.
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- All that they did, it was just their
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- Their emphasis was different, right?
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- They were, you know, can you preach and teach the word?
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- Do you you know, obviously love people?
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- Yeah.
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- It was just, it was just different, bro.
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- But acts 29, dude. yeah.
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- What was that like?
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- Bro, i feel like i know, you know, especially then
- 00:10:43.634 --> 00:10:48.072
- I had to be a brutal process yet also, like,
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- It's going to mature you.
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- It was the sanctifying process.
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- Hard core in a good way.
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- You know, most.
- 00:10:57.648 --> 00:10:58.882
- Sanctifying process of like season of life probably i've,
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- I've ever had or one of really. yeah.
- 00:11:02.219 --> 00:11:04.588
- I mean they get into the nitty gritty of everything.
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- So you obviously you, you almost feel like
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- You have to test
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- Out theologically, which was good
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- Because i hadn't gone to seminary
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- And i didn't want to be a heretic.
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- So i really value that. that was important to me. yeah.
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- So i wanted to make sure,
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- You know, that i, i knew i knew the scriptures.
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- A guy by the name of josh patterson years ago who's,
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- One of the pastors over at the village church,
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- He had told me years before we were even moving to plant,
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- He was like,
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- If you're going to go plant a church in boston,
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- You need to know what you believe
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- And why you believe it.
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- I mean, for some reason that haunted me.
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- I wanted to know
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- Not just what to believe, but why i believe what i believe.
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- Yeah.
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- And having not gone to seminary
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- And and been, like, theologically trained
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- In a formal setting, i was nervous about that. so,
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- So anyway, so acts 29 seemed like the best bet for us.
- 00:11:49.466 --> 00:11:52.703
- That process, bro, was like almost three years long.
- 00:11:52.703 --> 00:11:55.606
- So it was you do a year's worth of like,
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- Kind of remote assessment where you're, like, filling out
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- Paperwork and getting them all the information that they want,
- 00:12:01.912 --> 00:12:04.114
- Their check out references, they're doing all that stuff.
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- And then it's like, and then you go
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- And you do a year's worth of, like in-person stuff.
- 00:12:07.785 --> 00:12:12.089
- So you meet with people
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- And then you go to this boot camp,
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- And he's down at this boot camp, and you meet with some people
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- And bro.
- 00:12:17.027 --> 00:12:17.561
- But i'm telling you,
- 00:12:17.561 --> 00:12:18.529
- They get into everything they want to know.
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- I mean, uncomfortable stuff.
- 00:12:20.564 --> 00:12:21.865
- Every dollar you spent, they wanted to know
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- How we handle our income.
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- They wanted to know how we how we handle generosity.
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- They wanted to know about our sex life
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- And in our marriage and
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- And like, is there enjoyment and freedom in your sex life?
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- I'm like, bro, like, this is like,
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- This is this is like you said.
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- Yeah. like, yeah.
- 00:12:36.480 --> 00:12:37.514
- This is like super intense and but nonetheless,
- 00:12:37.514 --> 00:12:41.385
- Coming out of that process they had given us
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- Then from there, about a year's worth of,
- 00:12:43.554 --> 00:12:46.523
- They give us, i think, like a yellow light.
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- And the one of the things that was interesting
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- That they said to me was you could go and plant a church
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- In the greater boston area, and it will be successful
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- And it'll be the worst thing for you.
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- Think about.
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- That. okay. what is it that.
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- I think that there was some arrogance.
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- I think that there they, they were aware of some
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- Father issues.
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- I didn't,
- 00:13:09.713 --> 00:13:10.681
- I didn't realize i have like mother issues
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- That i didn't realize i had marital issues, i didn't
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- We didn't really recognize that we had.
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- Yeah.
- 00:13:18.055 --> 00:13:19.323
- Theologically, i remember they said, you understand
- 00:13:19.323 --> 00:13:22.726
- The gospel for salvation, but not sanctification.
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- And so they wanted me to
- 00:13:25.963 --> 00:13:27.598
- Kind of lean into how the gospel doesn't just impact,
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- You know, yes, i'm saved, but every day i need to come
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- To the cross and recognize who i am in light of his grace.
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- Yeah.
- 00:13:38.208 --> 00:13:39.109
- And like, see the gospel transform me.
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- And it's not just hard work and it's not just discipline.
- 00:13:41.478 --> 00:13:44.114
- And so, you know, they were they were very honest and raw.
- 00:13:44.114 --> 00:13:47.651
- And so we took a year, a year, bro, that was hard.
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- But we had already said, regardless what they say,
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- We're going to believe that
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- The lord is going to speak through them.
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- And so we're going to trust,
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- You know, you have to make a decision sometimes,
- 00:14:00.631 --> 00:14:02.599
- You know, the best decision you make are pre decisions, right?
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- Yeah.
- 00:14:04.635 --> 00:14:05.469
- You're deciding to make a hard decision
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- Before that hard decision needs to be made.
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- And so i think we made that hard decision beforehand.
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- Yeah.
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- And so we said lord whatever you speak through them
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- We're going to believe that is your voice.
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- You know, we're going to submit to it.
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- And so it was really hard.
- 00:14:16.947 --> 00:14:18.348
- We disagreed with some stuff, to be honest.
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- Yeah.
- 00:14:20.217 --> 00:14:20.784
- You know, there was the
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- You know, it's like, i don't know if like i properly
- 00:14:21.885 --> 00:14:24.388
- Like represented myself, you know what i'm saying.
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- Yeah. yeah, yeah.
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- And like an interview i mean.
- 00:14:27.724 --> 00:14:29.493
- Yeah it is to a degree.
- 00:14:29.493 --> 00:14:31.028
- But you also
- 00:14:31.028 --> 00:14:32.329
- You got to be battling in your head like,
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- This is what god told me to do.
- 00:14:33.931 --> 00:14:35.866
- Yes. what god showed me is yes.
- 00:14:35.866 --> 00:14:38.068
- Like, was there a little bit of struggle,
- 00:14:38.068 --> 00:14:41.004
- Internal struggle of like, don't tell me not to do this.
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- Don't tell me to wait,
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- Because god's already given me the green light.
- 00:14:46.043 --> 00:14:48.278
- Yes, it's a great question. agree.
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- I would say.
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- I wonder what my wife would say, to be honest,
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- Because i would say no.
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- And here's why. okay.
- 00:15:00.324 --> 00:15:03.360
- We were pretty content in planting a church.
- 00:15:03.360 --> 00:15:06.830
- Wasn't something that we felt like we had to do,
- 00:15:06.830 --> 00:15:08.865
- Although we did believe god was calling us to it.
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- We weren't afraid of a no.
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- We were.
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- We would have been a little disappointed.
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- But i also
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- I also believe
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- That there was still a lot of work that
- 00:15:19.810 --> 00:15:21.645
- God needed to do in my own life.
- 00:15:21.645 --> 00:15:23.113
- I just didn't know necessarily what it was.
- 00:15:23.113 --> 00:15:24.481
- You know, we walk around blind, bro.
- 00:15:24.481 --> 00:15:26.183
- Like, there's stuff in your life.
- 00:15:26.183 --> 00:15:27.217
- In my life right now. yeah, bro, we are unaware of.
- 00:15:27.217 --> 00:15:29.886
- Exactly.
- 00:15:29.886 --> 00:15:30.721
- And it's so, so scary to think about
- 00:15:30.721 --> 00:15:34.291
- It is my wife mentioned this last night.
- 00:15:34.291 --> 00:15:35.993
- We were having dinner and she was like, i wonder
- 00:15:35.993 --> 00:15:39.162
- What i'm unaware of right now
- 00:15:39.162 --> 00:15:40.664
- When it comes to like, our relationship.
- 00:15:40.664 --> 00:15:42.366
- Like things that bother me, but i don't realize it
- 00:15:42.366 --> 00:15:44.568
- Bothers me and i don't speak it yet.
- 00:15:44.568 --> 00:15:46.203
- Like there's all that stuff is in us.
- 00:15:46.203 --> 00:15:47.771
- Yeah. and so.
- 00:15:47.771 --> 00:15:49.573
- So. yeah. so i don't know.
- 00:15:49.573 --> 00:15:50.640
- Yeah. that was a weird it was a weird season.
- 00:15:50.640 --> 00:15:52.609
- And you know, a lot of people don't realize this.
- 00:15:52.609 --> 00:15:55.479
- And i've at least i've seen it in my whole life.
- 00:15:55.479 --> 00:15:57.180
- It's like you're unaware
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- Of those things in your life until it comes.
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- Nobody wants a trial.
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- Yeah.
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- Sometimes
- 00:16:02.552 --> 00:16:03.787
- The trial is grace from god because it allows you to see.
- 00:16:03.787 --> 00:16:06.056
- Okay, that's where my faith really is.
- 00:16:06.056 --> 00:16:07.791
- Yeah. it squeezes you like i thought it was good. yeah.
- 00:16:07.791 --> 00:16:10.260
- It was praising jesus on sunday mornings.
- 00:16:10.260 --> 00:16:12.629
- But now when you're talking about giving up my money
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- And you're talking about me moving.
- 00:16:15.432 --> 00:16:17.300
- Yeah, sacrificing,
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- Dealing with people. and maybe you're thinking,
- 00:16:18.702 --> 00:16:20.437
- I don't even like people that much.
- 00:16:20.437 --> 00:16:22.606
- Like. like i hate god, you know?
- 00:16:22.606 --> 00:16:24.875
- And it's it's hard. yeah. and that's.
- 00:16:24.875 --> 00:16:26.710
- So god will show you where your faith is.
- 00:16:26.710 --> 00:16:29.613
- And i think for a lot of people right now, like
- 00:16:29.613 --> 00:16:32.082
- They hear the dream from god
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- And they think it's going to be tomorrow,
- 00:16:33.550 --> 00:16:35.385
- They think it's going to be next month.
- 00:16:35.385 --> 00:16:36.887
- You know, like, god forbid, it's going to be a year.
- 00:16:36.887 --> 00:16:38.922
- That's that's a long time. maybe i can do that.
- 00:16:38.922 --> 00:16:41.691
- But some people don't know, like, god may give you a dream
- 00:16:41.691 --> 00:16:44.127
- And it may be like seven years later. yeah.
- 00:16:44.127 --> 00:16:46.563
- Before it even starts.
- 00:16:46.563 --> 00:16:48.598
- And are you humble enough to obey the lord
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- And serve with that humility?
- 00:16:51.935 --> 00:16:53.270
- So, man, i give you props on that
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- Because, you know,
- 00:16:54.738 --> 00:16:55.972
- I know when god speaks, it's like you want to go
- 00:16:55.972 --> 00:16:58.208
- And i know what type of person i get excited.
- 00:16:58.208 --> 00:17:00.010
- Like sometimes i have learned from past mistakes
- 00:17:00.010 --> 00:17:04.347
- And our staff as well.
- 00:17:04.347 --> 00:17:05.582
- Like, i gotta be careful
- 00:17:05.582 --> 00:17:06.983
- The things that i say out loud just because i'm excited
- 00:17:06.983 --> 00:17:09.286
- Because i don't know everything coming yet.
- 00:17:09.286 --> 00:17:11.755
- Yeah, sometimes to the people around
- 00:17:11.755 --> 00:17:13.223
- You can't discern what is.
- 00:17:13.223 --> 00:17:15.258
- You envisioning something
- 00:17:15.258 --> 00:17:16.560
- And just
- 00:17:16.560 --> 00:17:17.527
- Speaking and dreaming versus what is reality
- 00:17:17.527 --> 00:17:19.529
- That needs to be implemented now.
- 00:17:19.529 --> 00:17:20.831
- So it's really hard, especially when you got a team.
- 00:17:20.831 --> 00:17:22.666
- You lead a team, right? yeah. yeah.
- 00:17:22.666 --> 00:17:23.900
- Because they don't know.
- 00:17:23.900 --> 00:17:25.102
- They're like, okay, pastor bobby wants me to go do that.
- 00:17:25.102 --> 00:17:26.536
- And you're like, no, bro, that was just an idea.
- 00:17:26.536 --> 00:17:28.371
- It was just an idea. you know, saying.
- 00:17:28.371 --> 00:17:30.507
- Yeah to like, look at joseph like that.
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- Everybody's going to be for you.
- 00:17:32.142 --> 00:17:33.610
- Like you have the dream.
- 00:17:33.610 --> 00:17:34.711
- But you know, people may think you're cocky
- 00:17:34.711 --> 00:17:36.580
- Because of the dream or like, you had to put that.
- 00:17:36.580 --> 00:17:38.648
- Did you put you in it?
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- Did a mom
- 00:17:40.016 --> 00:17:41.084
- Put you down there and try to kill you, you know, and
- 00:17:41.084 --> 00:17:43.587
- And so you gotta trust the lord. so. okay.
- 00:17:43.587 --> 00:17:45.055
- So after that process. yeah. what happens from there?
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- Okay.
- 00:17:47.791 --> 00:17:48.024
- So we,
- 00:17:48.024 --> 00:17:49.059
- We wanted one of the things
- 00:17:49.059 --> 00:17:50.227
- That x 129 came back and asked us to
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- Do was to, was to leave the church that we were at.
- 00:17:51.862 --> 00:17:55.832
- Which was so hard because that's where
- 00:17:55.832 --> 00:17:57.667
- We had so many relationships.
- 00:17:57.667 --> 00:17:59.503
- And it wasn't that that was a bad church at all.
- 00:17:59.503 --> 00:18:01.438
- But i remember they asked me
- 00:18:01.438 --> 00:18:02.572
- The question, they said when you moved to greater boston
- 00:18:02.572 --> 00:18:06.409
- To start something from nothing, how are you going to do it?
- 00:18:06.409 --> 00:18:09.880
- And i didn't really have an answer.
- 00:18:10.680 --> 00:18:12.149
- Right, because i was going to a church
- 00:18:12.149 --> 00:18:13.383
- That was pretty attraction.
- 00:18:13.383 --> 00:18:15.585
- You know, lights and sound and, you know, they,
- 00:18:15.585 --> 00:18:19.189
- They had a building, they had all those things. and,
- 00:18:19.189 --> 00:18:22.626
- I didn't really know how to reach people yet.
- 00:18:23.560 --> 00:18:26.763
- And so,
- 00:18:26.763 --> 00:18:28.465
- So they encouraged us to move, not move like,
- 00:18:28.465 --> 00:18:30.967
- But not literally physically move like our home,
- 00:18:30.967 --> 00:18:33.770
- But like to move to a different church.
- 00:18:33.770 --> 00:18:35.205
- That was actually a church plant.
- 00:18:35.205 --> 00:18:36.273
- So we,
- 00:18:36.273 --> 00:18:37.274
- We started going to this church plant somewhere
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- In winston-salem, north carolina.
- 00:18:39.075 --> 00:18:40.644
- We were there for about a year.
- 00:18:40.644 --> 00:18:42.045
- They called me in turn by and do anything for me
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- Except like, come on sundays as well. yeah, yeah.
- 00:18:44.047 --> 00:18:46.716
- And that experience was interesting too.
- 00:18:46.716 --> 00:18:49.186
- The thing that i opened up
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- My eyes to, though, was the value of community
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- Missional living.
- 00:18:54.124 --> 00:18:56.159
- You know, solid theology. yeah.
- 00:18:56.159 --> 00:18:58.361
- And it was really a good experience.
- 00:18:59.129 --> 00:19:01.998
- And so when we moved to plant netcast about a year after that,
- 00:19:01.998 --> 00:19:05.435
- I think that we moved with a solid balance
- 00:19:06.336 --> 00:19:08.505
- Where i was like, man, do we want to be
- 00:19:08.505 --> 00:19:10.574
- Like the opposite of attraction as an attraction?
- 00:19:10.574 --> 00:19:13.276
- Right.
- 00:19:13.276 --> 00:19:14.144
- And there was this big, big
- 00:19:14.144 --> 00:19:15.278
- Like all this talk about ten years ago
- 00:19:15.278 --> 00:19:17.447
- About missional or attraction or missional or attraction
- 00:19:17.447 --> 00:19:19.816
- Or missional communities, attraction or church like sunday
- 00:19:19.816 --> 00:19:23.220
- Or during the week.
- 00:19:23.220 --> 00:19:23.920
- There was all this
- 00:19:23.920 --> 00:19:24.988
- And it was like, yeah, i think both are important.
- 00:19:24.988 --> 00:19:26.723
- They're like two wings to a plane.
- 00:19:26.723 --> 00:19:28.058
- You need both of them, right? you need both.
- 00:19:28.058 --> 00:19:29.693
- Yeah. let's go.
- 00:19:29.693 --> 00:19:31.394
- You can't just have one.
- 00:19:31.394 --> 00:19:32.195
- And so
- 00:19:32.195 --> 00:19:33.330
- And so we kind of came and moved to the boston area
- 00:19:33.330 --> 00:19:35.498
- With some what we believe was some balance.
- 00:19:35.498 --> 00:19:38.101
- And we also move with the mindset, dude, when we,
- 00:19:38.101 --> 00:19:41.771
- When we were trying to plant the church,
- 00:19:41.771 --> 00:19:43.373
- It was not really planting a church.
- 00:19:43.373 --> 00:19:45.075
- We saw ourselves as missionaries.
- 00:19:45.075 --> 00:19:46.610
- It was like, plant the gospel.
- 00:19:46.610 --> 00:19:47.911
- Yeah.
- 00:19:47.911 --> 00:19:48.912
- Like, you know, just tell everybody about jesus
- 00:19:48.912 --> 00:19:50.347
- And connect them to yourself for each other.
- 00:19:50.347 --> 00:19:52.382
- That was like it.
- 00:19:52.382 --> 00:19:53.483
- Did you know how bad it would be out there like before?
- 00:19:53.483 --> 00:19:55.518
- You even know? i mean, i wasn't really
- 00:19:55.518 --> 00:19:59.122
- Know, but we went there with the intention
- 00:19:59.990 --> 00:20:02.125
- Of like, learning this context. right?
- 00:20:02.125 --> 00:20:04.628
- And so i remember i sat down when we first got out there,
- 00:20:04.628 --> 00:20:07.430
- I had to try to figure out what are these people believe.
- 00:20:07.430 --> 00:20:09.799
- And so i had set up, i had set up
- 00:20:09.799 --> 00:20:11.935
- Facebook was like a big deal back then.
- 00:20:11.935 --> 00:20:13.637
- Instagram hadn't come out.
- 00:20:13.637 --> 00:20:14.704
- There wasn't all these apps, right.
- 00:20:14.704 --> 00:20:15.805
- But the facebook was where it was at.
- 00:20:15.805 --> 00:20:17.173
- Yeah.
- 00:20:17.173 --> 00:20:18.008
- And facebook would have these like
- 00:20:18.008 --> 00:20:20.377
- It's like they would have like these city pages, right.
- 00:20:20.377 --> 00:20:23.880
- And you would think it always look like somebody
- 00:20:23.880 --> 00:20:26.182
- From the city, like the mayor's office runs this page.
- 00:20:26.182 --> 00:20:28.551
- It wasn't due to some, like, you know, oversize
- 00:20:28.551 --> 00:20:30.620
- Dude in his underwear during the week.
- 00:20:30.620 --> 00:20:31.788
- You know what i'm saying? just doing his thing.
- 00:20:31.788 --> 00:20:33.857
- And so i started.
- 00:20:33.857 --> 00:20:35.191
- Yeah, bro.
- 00:20:35.191 --> 00:20:35.825
- I started spam and started
- 00:20:35.825 --> 00:20:37.127
- Spamming these pages about, like, i'm doing this project.
- 00:20:37.127 --> 00:20:39.796
- And i always
- 00:20:39.796 --> 00:20:40.764
- I looked at that time, i looked super young.
- 00:20:40.764 --> 00:20:42.032
- I don't look as young as i, i wa
- 00:20:42.032 --> 00:20:44.934
- And so i was doing this project and i had questions.
- 00:20:45.969 --> 00:20:49.005
- And can you help me with this project? i'll buy you lunch.
- 00:20:49.005 --> 00:20:51.641
- And anybody who would respond to it would be like, yeah,
- 00:20:51.641 --> 00:20:54.744
- I was saying i needed to interview
- 00:20:54.744 --> 00:20:56.513
- Some people about things
- 00:20:56.513 --> 00:20:57.614
- That revolved around like spirituality and religion,
- 00:20:57.614 --> 00:21:00.617
- And i'll buy you a coffee if you sit down and help me
- 00:21:00.617 --> 00:21:02.952
- With this project. i'm doing it. so yeah. so bro.
- 00:21:02.952 --> 00:21:05.322
- And so for hours a day i would sit in a coffee shop
- 00:21:05.322 --> 00:21:09.826
- Or buy coffee and i would ask three questions.
- 00:21:09.826 --> 00:21:12.862
- What do you believe?
- 00:21:12.862 --> 00:21:14.597
- Why do you believe it?
- 00:21:14.597 --> 00:21:16.199
- And how is that belief system
- 00:21:16.199 --> 00:21:17.467
- Change your life whatsoever at all?
- 00:21:17.467 --> 00:21:19.336
- Like how.
- 00:21:19.336 --> 00:21:20.103
- Yeah.
- 00:21:20.103 --> 00:21:21.137
- And to hear people stumble over their beliefs.
- 00:21:21.137 --> 00:21:24.974
- Yeah. was mind blowing to me.
- 00:21:24.974 --> 00:21:28.578
- The contradictions in the
- 00:21:29.145 --> 00:21:30.947
- Things that they believe just overly emphasized
- 00:21:30.947 --> 00:21:33.149
- The fact that they have no idea what they believe.
- 00:21:33.149 --> 00:21:34.918
- They never think about it.
- 00:21:34.918 --> 00:21:36.219
- Well, and that's why i call them like god fearing jews.
- 00:21:36.219 --> 00:21:40.156
- A lot of people believe in god, believe in spirituality,
- 00:21:40.156 --> 00:21:45.362
- But are anti-religion or yeah, they believe in a higher power.
- 00:21:45.362 --> 00:21:51.401
- And if something's. there, yeah.
- 00:21:52.035 --> 00:21:53.870
- They just don't know.
- 00:21:53.870 --> 00:21:55.372
- They don't know god, they don't know who he is.
- 00:21:55.372 --> 00:21:56.940
- They don't know the lord. right.
- 00:21:56.940 --> 00:21:58.508
- And so when you the more
- 00:21:58.508 --> 00:22:00.043
- You would ask questions like, well, why do you believe that?
- 00:22:00.043 --> 00:22:03.380
- The more you would see people like, unwind,
- 00:22:04.247 --> 00:22:07.984
- And not really be able to put language to why
- 00:22:07.984 --> 00:22:10.553
- They believe the things that they believe?
- 00:22:10.553 --> 00:22:12.389
- Yeah. and man.
- 00:22:12.389 --> 00:22:14.090
- But it just opened up my eyes.
- 00:22:14.090 --> 00:22:17.160
- Yeah.
- 00:22:17.160 --> 00:22:18.027
- I'm getting chills thinking about it
- 00:22:18.027 --> 00:22:19.028
- Even right now, because my context is so broken
- 00:22:19.028 --> 00:22:22.198
- And and lost.
- 00:22:22.198 --> 00:22:23.600
- And i use the word loss intentionally.
- 00:22:23.600 --> 00:22:25.435
- Not bad.
- 00:22:25.435 --> 00:22:27.170
- Not evil lost.
- 00:22:27.170 --> 00:22:30.106
- Yeah. they don't.
- 00:22:30.106 --> 00:22:31.875
- They don't know the lord.
- 00:22:31.875 --> 00:22:34.277
- They want purpose.
- 00:22:34.277 --> 00:22:36.146
- They want understanding.
- 00:22:36.146 --> 00:22:37.580
- But the world has told them a lot of lies
- 00:22:38.481 --> 00:22:40.049
- That they believe in. yeah, they don't know where they are.
- 00:22:40.049 --> 00:22:42.051
- And i think,
- 00:22:42.051 --> 00:22:43.119
- You know, and you don't have to go into
- 00:22:43.119 --> 00:22:44.354
- Every detail, but you can relate to that
- 00:22:44.354 --> 00:22:46.356
- From your own for sure. and and story too.
- 00:22:46.356 --> 00:22:48.725
- So does that mean a lot to you like hearing their,
- 00:22:48.725 --> 00:22:51.161
- Their questions and kind of feeling loss.
- 00:22:51.161 --> 00:22:52.996
- And maybe you're thinking on the inside like i like to yeah.
- 00:22:52.996 --> 00:22:56.499
- I mean like i get emotional thinking about it
- 00:22:56.499 --> 00:22:58.635
- Because that's my own story, right?
- 00:22:58.635 --> 00:22:59.803
- It's like i had how do you go 17 years living in jersey
- 00:22:59.803 --> 00:23:05.708
- And not have one interaction with a christian at all, like
- 00:23:05.708 --> 00:23:09.312
- Never one time.
- 00:23:09.312 --> 00:23:10.447
- Do i have any memory at all of anybody?
- 00:23:10.447 --> 00:23:13.917
- It's not a single soul sharing the good news of christ with me.
- 00:23:13.917 --> 00:23:18.521
- Like, yeah,
- 00:23:18.855 --> 00:23:20.156
- It's it's it's not like i was around
- 00:23:20.156 --> 00:23:22.192
- Church or spirituality or all these things.
- 00:23:22.192 --> 00:23:24.461
- And it finally clicked.
- 00:23:24.461 --> 00:23:25.562
- It was like never.
- 00:23:25.562 --> 00:23:27.497
- And and yet,
- 00:23:27.497 --> 00:23:29.566
- You know, from my youngest years, i always believed that
- 00:23:29.566 --> 00:23:32.802
- There was a god out there.
- 00:23:32.802 --> 00:23:33.970
- I always believed that there was a moral,
- 00:23:33.970 --> 00:23:36.439
- Like a like a morality that i should abide by,
- 00:23:36.439 --> 00:23:39.075
- Whether or not that and that wasn't taught to me.
- 00:23:39.075 --> 00:23:41.444
- You know, the lord puts that in your heart from,
- 00:23:41.444 --> 00:23:43.980
- From the beginning.
- 00:23:43.980 --> 00:23:44.948
- And so, you know, my faith is like has,
- 00:23:44.948 --> 00:23:48.885
- Has like made sense now, you know, like,
- 00:23:48.885 --> 00:23:51.955
- Now i'm 25 years walking with jesus and i look back
- 00:23:52.989 --> 00:23:55.825
- At like those early years of growing up and it's like,
- 00:23:55.825 --> 00:23:59.262
- And they're like, god had probably had his hand on me.
- 00:23:59.262 --> 00:24:02.098
- Yeah, yeah.
- 00:24:02.098 --> 00:24:03.399
- Since before i was in my mother's womb.
- 00:24:03.399 --> 00:24:05.602
- There's something he placed in you.
- 00:24:05.602 --> 00:24:07.203
- Yeah.
- 00:24:07.203 --> 00:24:07.537
- Like,
- 00:24:07.537 --> 00:24:08.738
- You know, because we we kind of had conversations already
- 00:24:08.738 --> 00:24:11.508
- And in even my wife's
- 00:24:11.508 --> 00:24:12.876
- Story, like, she didn't grow up in church,
- 00:24:12.876 --> 00:24:15.278
- But she always had a desire to know god.
- 00:24:15.278 --> 00:24:17.847
- She always believed that he was real.
- 00:24:17.847 --> 00:24:19.415
- And so, you know, it was a process.
- 00:24:19.415 --> 00:24:21.017
- And it took time to see who god truly is, right?
- 00:24:21.017 --> 00:24:24.420
- Give her life over to jesus completely right.
- 00:24:24.420 --> 00:24:27.056
- But i know as a pastor, too,
- 00:24:27.056 --> 00:24:28.324
- Because i remember when the lord was changing my heart
- 00:24:28.324 --> 00:24:30.960
- Like i had been running from god for a long time.
- 00:24:30.960 --> 00:24:33.363
- And so reading the bible,
- 00:24:33.363 --> 00:24:35.098
- I didn't understand any of it, you know.
- 00:24:35.098 --> 00:24:37.033
- When was this? how old?
- 00:24:37.033 --> 00:24:38.401
- I gotta say, the 21. okay, really?
- 00:24:38.401 --> 00:24:40.069
- That's when i really gave my life. but wait, hold on.
- 00:24:40.069 --> 00:24:42.105
- I want to get comfortable now, and i want. every now.
- 00:24:42.105 --> 00:24:44.340
- And now i'm interviewing him. i'm liking this.
- 00:24:44.340 --> 00:24:46.576
- Oh, goodness. here we go. yeah. 21 man.
- 00:24:46.576 --> 00:24:48.878
- It was it was a hard, hard age.
- 00:24:48.878 --> 00:24:51.147
- Like,
- 00:24:51.147 --> 00:24:52.382
- We've had some conversations and you know i love my family
- 00:24:52.382 --> 00:24:55.318
- And they they've been great to me.
- 00:24:55.318 --> 00:24:56.653
- And but one of the things we struggle with,
- 00:24:56.653 --> 00:24:58.154
- My brother had an addiction, alcoholic addiction
- 00:24:58.154 --> 00:25:01.124
- That was really, devastating to my family.
- 00:25:01.124 --> 00:25:05.128
- And so and i was always a good kid, but just, you know,
- 00:25:05.128 --> 00:25:08.431
- I just went to church
- 00:25:08.431 --> 00:25:09.499
- To go to church for girls and the wrong things.
- 00:25:09.499 --> 00:25:11.534
- And yeah, most people go to church.
- 00:25:11.534 --> 00:25:13.770
- Well, when you're in your teens.
- 00:25:13.770 --> 00:25:14.771
- And so when i got to college, i completely
- 00:25:14.771 --> 00:25:17.040
- Got away from church.
- 00:25:17.040 --> 00:25:18.508
- And so it was the party lifestyle.
- 00:25:18.508 --> 00:25:20.577
- And i was failing college.
- 00:25:20.577 --> 00:25:21.778
- I didn't know who i was going to be.
- 00:25:21.778 --> 00:25:23.079
- I wanted to work out
- 00:25:23.079 --> 00:25:24.147
- And so i was skipping classes to go work out
- 00:25:24.147 --> 00:25:26.416
- And just doing all the wrong things.
- 00:25:26.416 --> 00:25:28.051
- And i remember like one night,
- 00:25:28.051 --> 00:25:30.119
- I had a lot of people over.
- 00:25:30.720 --> 00:25:31.888
- And so there's, there's beer
- 00:25:31.888 --> 00:25:33.423
- And kegs and everything, and my parents
- 00:25:33.423 --> 00:25:35.825
- Show up the next morning.
- 00:25:35.825 --> 00:25:37.160
- Surprise, you know, like, and i'm like, oh.
- 00:25:37.160 --> 00:25:39.529
- And just the disappointment, you know, is it still stings
- 00:25:39.529 --> 00:25:43.733
- Because i could see my mom's face,
- 00:25:43.733 --> 00:25:45.768
- You know, when it came to that.
- 00:25:45.768 --> 00:25:47.136
- And it was deeper than just like, oh, my son's in college.
- 00:25:47.136 --> 00:25:49.906
- And yeah, no party, like it was deeper.
- 00:25:49.906 --> 00:25:52.275
- Like, this is tormented our family.
- 00:25:52.275 --> 00:25:55.144
- You know, this is tormented your brother. and,
- 00:25:55.144 --> 00:25:58.514
- I remember him
- 00:25:58.848 --> 00:26:00.283
- Getting on my knees at night and praying to god like,
- 00:26:00.283 --> 00:26:02.552
- You got to save me because i'm going nowhere.
- 00:26:02.552 --> 00:26:04.520
- Like i was really going nowhere.
- 00:26:04.520 --> 00:26:06.556
- Yeah, i thought i was too stupid
- 00:26:06.556 --> 00:26:08.091
- To get a degree in anything that might be used.
- 00:26:08.091 --> 00:26:11.194
- And of course, at that time, i didn't even know
- 00:26:11.194 --> 00:26:13.830
- Really what god wanted to do with me.
- 00:26:13.830 --> 00:26:15.298
- And so it was a process.
- 00:26:15.298 --> 00:26:16.733
- And so later on, when i met, you know, my wife,
- 00:26:16.733 --> 00:26:21.270
- Now, of course, we just met at the time in college,
- 00:26:21.270 --> 00:26:24.207
- I was under pressure reading the bible and like, yeah.
- 00:26:24.207 --> 00:26:27.143
- So i'm like, all right.
- 00:26:27.143 --> 00:26:28.011
- Because she wanted to get closer to god.
- 00:26:28.011 --> 00:26:29.178
- I'm like, i grew up in church. i couldn't read, you know.
- 00:26:29.178 --> 00:26:31.981
- If getting closer to god, i guess which one you.
- 00:26:31.981 --> 00:26:33.549
- I'm in, i'm in. oh come on. yeah.
- 00:26:33.549 --> 00:26:35.952
- But as i read it and like, my mind started changing, like,
- 00:26:35.952 --> 00:26:39.522
- I remember going to work and, like,
- 00:26:39.522 --> 00:26:41.457
- Hearing the same conversations that i always hear.
- 00:26:41.457 --> 00:26:44.060
- And also i wanted to cry for these people.
- 00:26:44.060 --> 00:26:45.995
- Yeah. i'm like, god, i don't cry.
- 00:26:45.995 --> 00:26:47.664
- Like, that's not me.
- 00:26:47.664 --> 00:26:48.698
- I don't want to like, what are you doing to me?
- 00:26:48.698 --> 00:26:50.867
- And so i really relate to your story because i feel like
- 00:26:50.867 --> 00:26:54.303
- It had to be a pivotal moment for you.
- 00:26:54.303 --> 00:26:56.472
- Like you're hearing these people talk
- 00:26:56.472 --> 00:26:59.842
- The way you used to feel 100%.
- 00:26:59.842 --> 00:27:01.944
- And i think people's
- 00:27:01.944 --> 00:27:03.046
- Perception of pastors is this you've never suffered.
- 00:27:03.046 --> 00:27:06.983
- You've never doubted your faith.
- 00:27:06.983 --> 00:27:08.885
- You grew up in a christian home. you've had it all.
- 00:27:08.885 --> 00:27:11.487
- And that's not the story
- 00:27:11.487 --> 00:27:12.555
- Of many pastors that god is using today.
- 00:27:12.555 --> 00:27:14.757
- Like, you have no idea.
- 00:27:14.757 --> 00:27:16.392
- The trials and the dysfunction
- 00:27:16.392 --> 00:27:18.161
- In the family and stuff like that.
- 00:27:18.161 --> 00:27:19.729
- And it's not that
- 00:27:19.729 --> 00:27:20.596
- We suffered back then or doubted back
- 00:27:20.596 --> 00:27:22.298
- Then, like there's still days today.
- 00:27:22.298 --> 00:27:24.167
- Yeah.
- 00:27:24.167 --> 00:27:24.834
- Where you're having to walk
- 00:27:24.834 --> 00:27:26.035
- Through really, really difficult things
- 00:27:26.035 --> 00:27:28.004
- And you're wondering where the lord is,
- 00:27:28.004 --> 00:27:30.573
- And you're looking at the stars and you're asking
- 00:27:30.573 --> 00:27:32.308
- The question, like, did this accidentally happen?
- 00:27:32.308 --> 00:27:34.944
- Or did
- 00:27:34.944 --> 00:27:35.812
- He really place his finger on things
- 00:27:35.812 --> 00:27:37.380
- And just speaking into existence, like,
- 00:27:37.380 --> 00:27:39.348
- Those are normal. things, normal things.
- 00:27:39.348 --> 00:27:41.384
- For regular christians
- 00:27:41.384 --> 00:27:43.419
- And normal christians and pastors to at times wonder.
- 00:27:43.419 --> 00:27:47.290
- Oh, he goes away.
- 00:27:47.290 --> 00:27:48.424
- No, like i think i'll be, let's say
- 00:27:48.424 --> 00:27:51.227
- 80s, still preaching by the grace of god.
- 00:27:51.227 --> 00:27:54.430
- And i still think i'll feel unqualified.
- 00:27:54.430 --> 00:27:57.233
- Yes, like god.
- 00:27:57.233 --> 00:27:58.735
- How can you use somebody like me?
- 00:27:58.735 --> 00:28:00.136
- Not smart enough. there's no.
- 00:28:00.136 --> 00:28:01.904
- There's too many guys that could do this better than me.
- 00:28:01.904 --> 00:28:04.140
- They can recite things
- 00:28:04.140 --> 00:28:05.241
- That i'll never remember, you know what i mean?
- 00:28:05.241 --> 00:28:07.176
- And guys like, no, no, it shows you.
- 00:28:07.176 --> 00:28:09.612
- Yeah, it shows you.
- 00:28:09.612 --> 00:28:10.446
- And i think too,
- 00:28:10.446 --> 00:28:12.415
- You know, especially
- 00:28:12.415 --> 00:28:13.616
- With the social media world that we see now, we compare,
- 00:28:13.616 --> 00:28:16.486
- Or at least i do.
- 00:28:16.486 --> 00:28:17.286
- I'll compare sometimes like, man,
- 00:28:17.286 --> 00:28:19.288
- They had the personality to do that.
- 00:28:19.288 --> 00:28:20.890
- And i wish i had that.
- 00:28:20.890 --> 00:28:22.358
- And god reminds me like, no, no, no.
- 00:28:22.358 --> 00:28:24.961
- Your personality is for a specific group of people
- 00:28:24.961 --> 00:28:27.797
- That you need to reach. yeah.
- 00:28:27.797 --> 00:28:29.398
- So i love like hearing you yesterday
- 00:28:29.398 --> 00:28:31.300
- Preach to our church was so impactful.
- 00:28:31.300 --> 00:28:33.903
- I told you yesterday there are some similarities
- 00:28:33.903 --> 00:28:36.072
- Between me and you, but at the same time,
- 00:28:36.072 --> 00:28:38.107
- You bring something different.
- 00:28:38.107 --> 00:28:39.675
- You know, you bring you bring matt to the pulpit
- 00:28:39.675 --> 00:28:42.178
- And that's how god called you to be.
- 00:28:42.178 --> 00:28:44.147
- And you're able to connect with people
- 00:28:44.147 --> 00:28:45.414
- On a different level,
- 00:28:45.414 --> 00:28:46.549
- Like people needed to hear the things that you said.
- 00:28:46.549 --> 00:28:49.452
- And because you walk through it, you know, and so
- 00:28:49.452 --> 00:28:51.721
- And that's a struggle.
- 00:28:51.721 --> 00:28:52.622
- I wish i wish more people knew
- 00:28:52.622 --> 00:28:53.890
- Like moving by faith is not easy.
- 00:28:53.890 --> 00:28:56.959
- It doesn't mean it's going to happen tomorrow, doesn't mean
- 00:28:56.959 --> 00:28:58.694
- That you're going to have it all figured out.
- 00:28:58.694 --> 00:28:59.829
- You're not going to have answers to anything.
- 00:28:59.829 --> 00:29:01.397
- Are you going to have is jesus and you going to follow him.
- 00:29:01.397 --> 00:29:04.934
- That's it.
- 00:29:05.234 --> 00:29:06.402
- Because literally you you he had to wait three years.
- 00:29:06.402 --> 00:29:08.137
- You get trained. yeah. boot camp.
- 00:29:08.137 --> 00:29:10.540
- And god places you in an area full of witches.
- 00:29:10.540 --> 00:29:13.442
- It's wild.
- 00:29:13.442 --> 00:29:14.443
- Yeah, bro.
- 00:29:14.443 --> 00:29:15.578
- You having coffee. without having coffee, which. is.
- 00:29:15.578 --> 00:29:17.180
- And then three questions.
- 00:29:17.180 --> 00:29:18.314
- Like, like what do you believe.
- 00:29:18.314 --> 00:29:20.616
- Harry potter? okay.
- 00:29:20.616 --> 00:29:22.351
- So where does it go from there then?
- 00:29:22.351 --> 00:29:23.920
- Yeah. so we,
- 00:29:23.920 --> 00:29:25.521
- Yeah.
- 00:29:25.755 --> 00:29:26.956
- That's crazy.
- 00:29:26.956 --> 00:29:28.424
- So we we wound up starting really fast, like, very fast.
- 00:29:28.424 --> 00:29:32.728
- So, you know, we had this, like, 18 month plan of,
- 00:29:32.728 --> 00:29:35.765
- Like, building groups and all this stuff, and,
- 00:29:35.765 --> 00:29:39.168
- And we started
- 00:29:39.502 --> 00:29:40.703
- We did this vision night, and we thought maybe a people
- 00:29:40.703 --> 00:29:43.239
- Would come over to the house, and it was all in our home.
- 00:29:43.239 --> 00:29:45.274
- Yeah.
- 00:29:45.274 --> 00:29:45.942
- And like, 30 people showed up.
- 00:29:45.942 --> 00:29:47.043
- So one of the things that we did
- 00:29:47.043 --> 00:29:48.110
- Before social media was popular.
- 00:29:48.110 --> 00:29:49.979
- Yeah. yeah.
- 00:29:49.979 --> 00:29:51.147
- We actually had put together these like series of videos,
- 00:29:51.147 --> 00:29:55.117
- This series of videos that was asking big questions
- 00:29:55.117 --> 00:30:00.089
- That people might be asking about christianity.
- 00:30:00.089 --> 00:30:03.526
- And i would just it was like three, four minute clips, okay.
- 00:30:03.526 --> 00:30:06.762
- And i was young and bald headed and i was like,
- 00:30:06.762 --> 00:30:10.867
- Literally like, i like i look back
- 00:30:10.867 --> 00:30:12.635
- At those videos, i'm like, yeah, dude.
- 00:30:12.635 --> 00:30:14.036
- I was like, what am i like, what's going on with all that?
- 00:30:14.036 --> 00:30:16.806
- You know?
- 00:30:16.806 --> 00:30:17.173
- Yeah.
- 00:30:17.173 --> 00:30:18.307
- And but dude, like and that's what i started spamming
- 00:30:18.307 --> 00:30:20.910
- These facebook pages with right after,
- 00:30:20.910 --> 00:30:24.614
- You know, before we even moved out there.
- 00:30:24.614 --> 00:30:27.016
- And so what i didn't know is that there was this following.
- 00:30:27.016 --> 00:30:30.152
- I mean, you've experienced
- 00:30:30.152 --> 00:30:31.187
- A lot of that in, in what you're doing now, right?
- 00:30:31.187 --> 00:30:33.356
- But this was like back in oh eight, oh nine.
- 00:30:33.356 --> 00:30:36.659
- So like.
- 00:30:36.659 --> 00:30:37.193
- 2010 like.
- 00:30:37.193 --> 00:30:38.761
- Yes, dude.
- 00:30:38.761 --> 00:30:39.729
- And so we were putting these videos out there.
- 00:30:39.729 --> 00:30:41.564
- And so when we moved to, to like plant.
- 00:30:41.564 --> 00:30:44.767
- A lot of people had come,
- 00:30:45.334 --> 00:30:46.569
- Had heard of us that we had no idea heard of us
- 00:30:46.569 --> 00:30:49.472
- Like we had no communication with them.
- 00:30:49.472 --> 00:30:50.940
- We didn't they weren't following us.
- 00:30:50.940 --> 00:30:52.241
- They just knew that a church was going to be started.
- 00:30:52.241 --> 00:30:54.176
- We had a website, whatever.
- 00:30:54.176 --> 00:30:55.378
- Okay, because it's so funny how technology has advanced
- 00:30:55.378 --> 00:30:58.314
- Since then. yeah, i feel it make
- 00:30:58.314 --> 00:31:01.751
- But yeah bro.
- 00:31:02.118 --> 00:31:02.685
- And so
- 00:31:02.685 --> 00:31:03.753
- So we had all these people show up
- 00:31:03.753 --> 00:31:05.154
- And i didn't know
- 00:31:05.154 --> 00:31:06.255
- What to do with them because i would just thought,
- 00:31:06.255 --> 00:31:07.723
- We're going to have a big dinner,
- 00:31:07.723 --> 00:31:08.658
- But you can't have a big dinner.
- 00:31:08.658 --> 00:31:09.892
- We didn't even have enough food for 30 people. were you scared?
- 00:31:09.892 --> 00:31:12.361
- Like i was terrified people might show up.
- 00:31:12.361 --> 00:31:14.597
- And then you're seeing 30 people show up to you?
- 00:31:14.597 --> 00:31:16.065
- I was terrified because you're like, what.
- 00:31:16.065 --> 00:31:17.466
- Do you do? these strangers have your address.
- 00:31:17.466 --> 00:31:19.302
- You know, they got my address. they're in my home.
- 00:31:19.302 --> 00:31:21.804
- They're like, why, bro?
- 00:31:21.804 --> 00:31:22.905
- I went up.
- 00:31:22.905 --> 00:31:23.472
- So funny story.
- 00:31:23.472 --> 00:31:24.407
- I went upstairs and i was like, babe,
- 00:31:24.407 --> 00:31:26.475
- I'm going to go upstairs and just get my bible.
- 00:31:26.475 --> 00:31:27.910
- And i think i'm just going to like,
- 00:31:27.910 --> 00:31:28.711
- Read the bible or something, like,
- 00:31:28.711 --> 00:31:29.745
- I don't know, to them i don't know.
- 00:31:29.745 --> 00:31:31.047
- And so i went upstairs to go get my bible.
- 00:31:31.047 --> 00:31:33.015
- Like the warfare was weird.
- 00:31:33.015 --> 00:31:34.350
- I went upstairs
- 00:31:34.350 --> 00:31:35.484
- And literally felt as if i could not come back down.
- 00:31:35.484 --> 00:31:38.287
- Now, while like i sat down on the ground
- 00:31:39.121 --> 00:31:41.924
- And i'm the extrovert bumper wife is an introvert.
- 00:31:41.924 --> 00:31:44.193
- She's down there with like 30 people.
- 00:31:44.193 --> 00:31:46.228
- Like, where the heck is my husband, you know?
- 00:31:46.228 --> 00:31:49.365
- So she. came upstairs.
- 00:31:49.365 --> 00:31:50.266
- She was like, what are you doing?
- 00:31:50.266 --> 00:31:51.600
- She sees me like, on,
- 00:31:51.600 --> 00:31:52.735
- Like, sitting on the ground with a bible in my hand.
- 00:31:52.735 --> 00:31:55.404
- She's like,
- 00:31:55.404 --> 00:31:56.238
- What are you doing? and i was like,
- 00:31:56.238 --> 00:31:57.807
- I don't i don't think i could go downstairs.
- 00:31:57.807 --> 00:32:00.977
- She's like, you're going downstairs.
- 00:32:00.977 --> 00:32:02.645
- I was like, she's like, i'm a pieces for god, right?
- 00:32:02.645 --> 00:32:05.348
- Right. that.
- 00:32:05.348 --> 00:32:06.549
- So she laid hands on me, bro prayed over me and sent me out
- 00:32:06.549 --> 00:32:08.884
- That room.
- 00:32:08.884 --> 00:32:09.752
- And i went downstairs and i was like,
- 00:32:09.752 --> 00:32:11.020
- Hey, you know, yo, welcome, everybody.
- 00:32:11.020 --> 00:32:13.022
- And i was like, we're going to be in acts 17 today.
- 00:32:13.022 --> 00:32:14.857
- The people are like, what's acts 17?
- 00:32:14.857 --> 00:32:16.525
- I was like, yeah, we're going to open up the bible.
- 00:32:16.525 --> 00:32:18.227
- And so i opened up the bible.
- 00:32:18.227 --> 00:32:19.295
- And acts 17 is like one of my favorite areas
- 00:32:19.295 --> 00:32:21.497
- Of all of scripture.
- 00:32:21.497 --> 00:32:22.198
- And so and i just talked about,
- 00:32:22.198 --> 00:32:24.600
- You know, the paul in athens and,
- 00:32:24.600 --> 00:32:27.670
- And how the lord says, god ordains
- 00:32:27.670 --> 00:32:29.505
- Where we would live in when we would live there
- 00:32:29.505 --> 00:32:30.940
- So that men would seek him and find him
- 00:32:30.940 --> 00:32:32.408
- Because he's not far from any one of us.
- 00:32:32.408 --> 00:32:33.843
- And, and i said, you know, the lord sent us here
- 00:32:33.843 --> 00:32:37.847
- At this period of time
- 00:32:37.847 --> 00:32:38.814
- Because i feel like
- 00:32:38.814 --> 00:32:40.049
- We are going to be a means in which people
- 00:32:40.049 --> 00:32:41.951
- Will come to know god because he's not far.
- 00:32:41.951 --> 00:32:43.519
- And i shared that with them, and people seemed interested.
- 00:32:43.519 --> 00:32:45.888
- Okay. and then it was over.
- 00:32:45.888 --> 00:32:47.857
- And what do you do, dude? laying there.
- 00:32:47.857 --> 00:32:49.725
- I don't know.
- 00:32:49.725 --> 00:32:50.459
- So i told people to go home.
- 00:32:50.459 --> 00:32:52.194
- And like.
- 00:32:52.194 --> 00:32:52.728
- No, i said, go home.
- 00:32:52.728 --> 00:32:54.430
- I said, get out of my house.
- 00:32:54.430 --> 00:32:55.965
- I'll hit you up later. yeah.
- 00:32:55.965 --> 00:32:57.800
- You know, and then i, i don't know, dude.
- 00:32:57.800 --> 00:33:00.136
- I'm like, i live there. at that point.
- 00:33:00.136 --> 00:33:01.737
- I lived it for 30 days. i lived there and that's it.
- 00:33:01.737 --> 00:33:04.173
- Yeah. and i'm. and i'm not even fully unpacked.
- 00:33:04.173 --> 00:33:06.742
- So i'm like, get out of my house.
- 00:33:06.742 --> 00:33:08.144
- And i read the bible to you.
- 00:33:08.144 --> 00:33:09.678
- There's power in the word.
- 00:33:09.678 --> 00:33:10.846
- It won't return void. get out. and so then,
- 00:33:10.846 --> 00:33:14.350
- I hit everybody back, and i
- 00:33:14.950 --> 00:33:16.118
- Think a month later, we did it again. okay.
- 00:33:16.118 --> 00:33:18.254
- And at that point, we had,
- 00:33:18.254 --> 00:33:20.389
- I started, you know, i started, like, thinking about
- 00:33:20.389 --> 00:33:22.191
- What does it look like to start a church.
- 00:33:22.191 --> 00:33:23.926
- Yeah, because i didn't know,
- 00:33:23.926 --> 00:33:25.628
- You know, the difference between acts 29 and arc is acts 29.
- 00:33:25.628 --> 00:33:29.665
- We'll say, okay, we feel like you're qualified now and ready.
- 00:33:29.665 --> 00:33:32.668
- We want to greenlight you to go
- 00:33:32.668 --> 00:33:33.736
- Be a missionary and plant a church. okay?
- 00:33:33.736 --> 00:33:36.238
- You're like, well, how come they don't tell you?
- 00:33:36.238 --> 00:33:39.241
- Arc okay.
- 00:33:39.241 --> 00:33:40.209
- It's like, you seem great.
- 00:33:40.209 --> 00:33:41.710
- Let me tell you how to. do it a blueprint. yeah.
- 00:33:41.710 --> 00:33:43.746
- And they give you the they give you the script.
- 00:33:43.746 --> 00:33:45.347
- Yeah, i have a script.
- 00:33:45.347 --> 00:33:46.782
- So i just moved. yeah.
- 00:33:46.782 --> 00:33:48.050
- And my wife,
- 00:33:48.050 --> 00:33:49.118
- I said to my wife, before we move, i said, babe,
- 00:33:49.118 --> 00:33:50.986
- How do you start a church from nothing? she looked at me.
- 00:33:50.986 --> 00:33:53.322
- She said, don't you ever ask me a question again.
- 00:33:53.322 --> 00:33:55.357
- You better figure this out.
- 00:33:55.357 --> 00:33:56.625
- Right? you're dragging me all the way.
- 00:33:56.625 --> 00:33:58.094
- All the way out here to start a church.
- 00:33:58.094 --> 00:33:59.662
- The time, you know.
- 00:33:59.662 --> 00:34:00.596
- Don't ask me where it was the day before.
- 00:34:00.596 --> 00:34:01.997
- Removing the pesky trump is packed, bro.
- 00:34:01.997 --> 00:34:04.300
- We are ready to go. we're laying down on a mattress.
- 00:34:04.300 --> 00:34:06.502
- No furniture in the house.
- 00:34:06.502 --> 00:34:07.536
- And i go, have you started church for another?
- 00:34:07.536 --> 00:34:09.105
- She's like, no, do not ask that question.
- 00:34:09.105 --> 00:34:11.173
- I'm like, the lord will do it.
- 00:34:11.173 --> 00:34:13.409
- You figure it out. i was like, all right, let's go.
- 00:34:13.409 --> 00:34:15.478
- Yeah, you know.
- 00:34:15.478 --> 00:34:16.545
- So anyway, so we yeah broke it out.
- 00:34:16.545 --> 00:34:18.614
- But that's it, right? yeah.
- 00:34:18.614 --> 00:34:19.582
- Yeah. that's all of pastoring.
- 00:34:19.582 --> 00:34:21.250
- Oh yeah.
- 00:34:21.250 --> 00:34:21.717
- You know
- 00:34:21.717 --> 00:34:22.651
- My wife and i were talking about this today,
- 00:34:22.651 --> 00:34:24.253
- You know, walking around with you guys.
- 00:34:24.253 --> 00:34:26.288
- I don't know how much i'm allowed to share
- 00:34:26.288 --> 00:34:27.289
- In this podcast. but, like, whatever. yeah.
- 00:34:27.289 --> 00:34:28.924
- Like walking around with you guys,
- 00:34:28.924 --> 00:34:30.292
- All guys doing it in your church and through your through
- 00:34:30.292 --> 00:34:33.195
- Through your platform online
- 00:34:33.195 --> 00:34:34.597
- And also through the idea of like growth and
- 00:34:34.597 --> 00:34:37.032
- And and and a building and land and all these things.
- 00:34:37.032 --> 00:34:39.435
- And i'm asking you questions like, well,
- 00:34:39.435 --> 00:34:40.870
- How are you going to do it?
- 00:34:40.870 --> 00:34:41.837
- And the money and i know you're like, bro,
- 00:34:41.837 --> 00:34:42.938
- I don't know, i don't know.
- 00:34:42.938 --> 00:34:43.906
- We're just going to like figure it out.
- 00:34:43.906 --> 00:34:45.307
- And here i am back in boston.
- 00:34:45.307 --> 00:34:46.809
- It's really scary because as your church matures
- 00:34:46.809 --> 00:34:49.845
- And grows and gets older,
- 00:34:49.845 --> 00:34:51.680
- It's really easy to get caught up
- 00:34:51.680 --> 00:34:53.349
- In what we call the matrix of the church,
- 00:34:53.349 --> 00:34:55.251
- Which is like, you're it's this all.
- 00:34:55.251 --> 00:34:57.286
- It's this other world.
- 00:34:57.286 --> 00:34:59.088
- That kind of says, this is how you do it.
- 00:34:59.088 --> 00:35:01.457
- Yes, this box is your box and this is how you do it.
- 00:35:01.457 --> 00:35:04.560
- And man, we have tried to fight that.
- 00:35:04.560 --> 00:35:06.428
- But i feel the tension. right. it's like.
- 00:35:06.428 --> 00:35:08.531
- And you want to be wise and use wisdom.
- 00:35:08.531 --> 00:35:10.666
- Yeah. yeah.
- 00:35:10.666 --> 00:35:11.066
- You know
- 00:35:11.066 --> 00:35:12.268
- And but man, sometimes it's like you just figure it out.
- 00:35:12.268 --> 00:35:15.604
- You just got to figure it out.
- 00:35:15.604 --> 00:35:16.805
- You're just going to believe that the lord's hand is in it.
- 00:35:16.805 --> 00:35:19.175
- Are you going to figure it out? you don't.
- 00:35:19.175 --> 00:35:20.476
- I do not need to have all of my phases
- 00:35:20.476 --> 00:35:22.411
- Planned out before i move. right. what?
- 00:35:22.411 --> 00:35:24.647
- This is exactly the story of abraham raised like, go where?
- 00:35:24.647 --> 00:35:27.917
- I said, just go homeland. right.
- 00:35:27.917 --> 00:35:29.852
- And so pagan side of your family too.
- 00:35:29.852 --> 00:35:32.254
- And everything is just 100% for you 100%.
- 00:35:32.254 --> 00:35:35.257
- And i think,
- 00:35:35.257 --> 00:35:36.492
- You know, that's so important because god has the answers.
- 00:35:36.492 --> 00:35:38.961
- He's already in the future.
- 00:35:38.961 --> 00:35:40.462
- He designed the created the future.
- 00:35:40.462 --> 00:35:42.464
- He's already written out your plan. right?
- 00:35:42.464 --> 00:35:44.500
- So it's like, you know, don't be anxious.
- 00:35:44.500 --> 00:35:46.035
- And you know, a lot about jesus tells us,
- 00:35:46.035 --> 00:35:48.137
- Don't be anxious about anything. just pray. yeah.
- 00:35:48.137 --> 00:35:50.639
- And yes, it's the bible answer and that's what we need to know.
- 00:35:50.639 --> 00:35:53.742
- But at the same time, be like the god and god.
- 00:35:53.742 --> 00:35:55.711
- People are asking me questions. yeah.
- 00:35:55.711 --> 00:35:57.646
- And they keep asking me.
- 00:35:57.646 --> 00:35:58.847
- And we're talking about a lot of money right now.
- 00:35:58.847 --> 00:36:00.683
- And i've never seen an em
- 00:36:00.683 --> 00:36:01.951
- In any of my bank accounts ever, ever in my life.
- 00:36:01.951 --> 00:36:04.253
- So, you know, helped me through this situation.
- 00:36:04.253 --> 00:36:07.189
- But that's the
- 00:36:07.189 --> 00:36:09.091
- That is the great thing about following god, though.
- 00:36:09.091 --> 00:36:11.627
- Like, you almost get to a point where, like,
- 00:36:11.627 --> 00:36:14.296
- All right, i've seen god show up before.
- 00:36:14.296 --> 00:36:16.632
- He showed up again and again and again.
- 00:36:16.632 --> 00:36:19.034
- So, you know, this time
- 00:36:19.034 --> 00:36:20.836
- There's always going to be nerves that doesn't go away.
- 00:36:20.836 --> 00:36:23.339
- There's always going to be some
- 00:36:23.339 --> 00:36:24.506
- I think you should have a little bit of stress
- 00:36:24.506 --> 00:36:26.508
- Because it's a burden.
- 00:36:26.508 --> 00:36:27.610
- It's a burden for people.
- 00:36:27.610 --> 00:36:28.577
- It's a burden for god's kingdom.
- 00:36:28.577 --> 00:36:30.746
- But you give that burden
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- Over to the lord and he will bring confirmation.
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- Yeah. and just show you the right path.
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- You want to. it's interesting.
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- I was reading this the other day.
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- It's in matthew five.
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- Where or is matthew six
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- Where jesus talks about do not be anxious.
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- Says do not be anxious about
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- Tomorrow because there's enough anxiety for today.
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- Yeah.
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- And it's like,
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- Even with my kids, i'm trying to teach my kids, my
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- My oldest son,
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- You know, he wants to have all of his ducks in a row.
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- He wants to have it all planned out.
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- And he's like, always.
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- Were you know, he always feels like he's behind. and i'm like,
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- The lord is pretty.
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- Clearly it's okay to to have some anxiety.
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- Like, you can't not
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- You can't tell your body to not be anxious.
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- Yeah. yeah. right. and that would be nice.
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- But you don't need to be anxious about tomorrow.
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- What do you have to do today?
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- What does it look like for you to be faithful today,
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- In this moment, with these people,
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- With this money, with this vision today?
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- And be anxious about being faithful today?
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- Yeah. period. yeah.
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- And then tomorrow
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- Will be tomorrow, and tomorrow will be today.
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- Tomorrow.
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- Yeah. be anxious then for that day. yeah.
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- I just think we need to do a better job of living like that.
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- We do as believers be anxious about being faithful today.
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- And and so that's been our church story bro.
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- All right guys that's all the time we have for today.
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- But i pray that today's message bless your life.
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- There is a reason you heard this word today.
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- It's not by mistake.
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- You're here for a reason and god has a plan for you.
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- And listen, if you love this church
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- And thinking about giving to this church, all you have to do
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- Is visit our website at bobby chandler ministries.com.
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- You're helping change lives because of your faithful giving.
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- So that they know the love of god.
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