Christian Cain - The Key to an Abundant Life (Part 1)

January 1, 2025 | S25:E1

Christine Caine travels the world teaching the Gospel and inspiring her audience to reach their God-given purpose and potential.

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Christine Caine | Christian Cain - The Key to an Abundant Life (Part 1) | January 1, 2025
  • I want to remind each and every one of us today
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  • That jesus christ came to give us life and
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  • Life more abundantly.
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  • We read this in john 10:10.
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  • The bible teaches us that every good and perfect
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  • Gift is from above, coming down from the
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  • Father of lights with whom there is no
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  • Variation or shadow due to change.
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  • Hi, it's so good to see you.
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  • I'm chris caine and i want to welcome you to today's
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  • Episode of equip and empower.
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  • A lot has changed since jesus walked on this earth.
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  • For one thing, we've got selfies.
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  • We're a culture that's consumed with taking
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  • Pictures of ourselves, and i'm going to talk
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  • A lot more about that in today's message.
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  • But first, let me point out one thing that hasn't
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  • Changed and that's that we all are following jesus.
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  • It's a daily commitment, not a one and done thing.
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  • It affects every area of our lives and we're going
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  • To discover today the keys god has given us to
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  • Follow him wholeheartedly and to walk out the
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  • Abundant life that jesus died to give us.
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  • I am so excited about this teaching.
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  • Let's dive in and get started right now.
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  • ♪♪
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  • I am so grateful that you have joined me today.
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  • I know that god has a word for you.
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  • I'm believing god that this is going to speak
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  • Straight to your spirit.
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  • Today we are talking about the key to
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  • Abundant life.
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  • In john 10:10, jesus says that the enemy comes to
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  • Steal, kill and destroy, but i have come that you
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  • Might have life, and i love this, and life
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  • More abundantly.
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  • So who doesn't want to know how to live the
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  • Abundant life that jesus has called each and every
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  • One of us to live?
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  • Now, i'm wondering whether there's anyone on
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  • The other side of the screen, anyone else
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  • Beside me that has almost killed yourself taking a
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  • Selfie, literally just standing on a cliff's
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  • Edge, taking a selfie.
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  • I've been doing so much hiking and hiking various
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  • Mountains over this last year of my life and i was
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  • Hiking up bishop pass trail in the
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  • Eastern sierras.
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  • If you've never gone, you've got to go.
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  • It is so beautiful.
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  • But anyway, i stopped on a ledge as we were hiking
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  • Up to the summit as you would, and i was obsessed
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  • With getting the right angle, making sure that i
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  • Had the mountains behind me and having it that
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  • What i didn't realize was literally i almost felt
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  • Off the ledge and just because i was more
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  • Worried about the selfie and they're like grabbing
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  • Me, pulling me in. i am the worst selfie taker
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  • On earth.
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  • It's like i stand there and i'm like, my arms are
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  • So short that nobody can fit in the picture.
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  • And everyone's like, chris is not taking
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  • The selfie.
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  • Anyone with the longest arms is, and i always
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  • Have to ask someone else to take the picture.
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  • My kids are mortified.
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  • They think like, mom, how can you do what you do
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  • And not be able to take selfies?
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  • And there is no doubt that selfies are an
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  • Obsession in our generation.
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  • Truly millions, multiplied millions of selfies are
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  • Uploaded every day on the different social media
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  • Platforms and we're obsessed with it.
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  • We truly are.
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  • And we say, look, i want this to be an authentic,
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  • Spontaneous, just really true selfie, but we've
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  • Got to get outside.
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  • We've got to get the right light angle.
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  • We've got to edit them the right way.
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  • We've got to crop them the right way.
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  • We've got to put the right filter and just go
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  • Hashtag spontaneous most authentic me, and then we
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  • Make sure that it's got enough likes and if it
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  • Doesn't get them quick enough, we get it down
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  • And we put up another one that's even quicker.
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  • So it cracks me up because it's not
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  • Authentic and it's not spontaneous, but the
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  • Reality is that the psychological impact of
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  • Selfies leaves basically selfie users feeling
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  • More anxious. all the studies are out.
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  • It is stunning to me what the studies show more
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  • Anxious and less confident and less
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  • Physically attractive.
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  • Posting selfies actually results in a worsened
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  • Mood and worsened body image.
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  • This kind of obsession with curating a beautiful
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  • Public profile and placing ourselves in the
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  • Middle of everything is actually not really
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  • Working for us.
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  • The data is in and it shows that this doesn't
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  • Lead to greater fulfillment or greater
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  • Peace or greater joy or happiness or
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  • Significance purpose.
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  • We might get a bit of a dopamine rush for a
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  • Second as we see those likes come in, but then
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  • We have to come up with a better selfie than the
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  • Last one so that we can get that rush
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  • All over again.
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  • If we don't get the instant feedback that we
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  • Are desperately craving, we get in and we take
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  • That selfie again and again, and it's said that
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  • This selfie generation is the most prominent
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  • Phenomena of the 21st century.
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  • I was reading an article in the new yorker and
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  • They actually posted an entire series on why
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  • Millennials especially are drawn to the
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  • Selfie culture.
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  • So this obsession with trying to prove that
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  • We're awesome, that we're special, that we're
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  • Perfect, it's literally leading to
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  • Mental health issues.
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  • There is something that is not working, the
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  • Selfie is not delivering in the 21st century, and
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  • Today we're going to turn to the most important
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  • Scripture i believe, on discipleship in the whole
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  • Of the new testament. at a time in our world when we
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  • Are encouraged to find ourselves, to be
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  • Self-fulfilled, to be self-actualized, to
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  • Protect our self-image, to boost our self-esteem,
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  • To be self-assured, to be self-confident, to be
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  • Self-determined,
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  • I am actually going to speak about the benefits
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  • Of dying to self. in mark chapter eight,
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  • I love this,
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  • In verse 34 to 38, this is literally a turning
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  • Point of jesus's story.
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  • In this chapter, jesus has been so busy, he's
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  • Fed 4,000 people.
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  • He had a confrontation with the pharisees.
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  • He healed a blind man at bethsaida.
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  • He listened to peter confess him as the
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  • Messiah, and then peter actually rebukes jesus
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  • After jesus tells them about the suffering and
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  • Death that he must go through, and jesus tells
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  • Peter to get behind me, satan.
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  • I mean, it is all happening.
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  • And now jesus teaches what it really, really
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  • Means to follow him and to be his disciples.
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  • He says...
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  • Powerful. in this passage, jesus says that
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  • If anyone is going to follow him, there's a
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  • Particular way to follow him.
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  • The term follow
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  • I know is very skewed in our world today,
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  • Mostly because i think of what associations we draw
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  • With it because of social media.
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  • We just follow and unfollow people with one
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  • Click all the time.
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  • And the fact of the matter is to follow
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  • Someone in biblical times,
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  • To be a disciple was actually to be a learner.
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  • It meant a life of commitment, a life of
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  • Dedication and a life of devotion.
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  • You were all in, you had skin in the game.
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  • You didn't just unfollow.
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  • Jesus says that there are two things that we must
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  • Do if we're going to follow him.
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  • Firstly, we must deny ourselves, and secondly,
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  • We must take up our cross.
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  • Now, the order is really important here.
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  • First, we must empty ourselves of something.
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  • That's self. and then once we've emptied
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  • Ourselves, we must put on something else
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  • And that's the cross.
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  • You see, you cannot carry both the cross
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  • And the self.
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  • In fact, in the original greek, these steps are
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  • Stated in the present continuous tense.
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  • That means keep on denying yourself and keep
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  • On taking up your cross and keep on following me.
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  • This is not the decision of a moment follow,
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  • Unfollow, but for a lifetime to be repeated
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  • Again and again and again.
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  • I'm not sure there could be a more
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  • Counter-cultural message to our generation than
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  • This one right here in the gospel of mark, but
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  • The truth is this actually would've been
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  • Just as challenging to these followers of jesus
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  • As it is to us today.
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  • Every single jesus follower comes to a place
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  • Where we must decide to step over the threshold
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  • From being a spectator at christian events, to
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  • Becoming a participator in the journey where we
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  • Go from being a part of the crowd to becoming a
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  • Accomplish anything, anything significant in
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  • Any sphere of life, we have to exercise a degree
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  • Of self denial.
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  • I remember back in the year 2000, nick and i had
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  • The opportunity to go to some events at the
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  • Sydney olympics.
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  • Now, standing in that sydney olympic stadium
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  • Was amazing.
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  • There were 116,000 spectators in the
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  • Stunning purpose-built grandstand, but as we
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  • Were there for the a hundred meter final,
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  • There were only eight runners in the the
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  • Hundred meter final.
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  • Now, everyone could watch the race, but only those
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  • That had paid a price in training could actually
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  • Run in that race.
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  • We know that those athletes, those eight
  • 00:13:11.347 --> 00:13:13.349
  • Athletes, man, they made enormous sacrifices to even
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  • Just get to the olympics, let alone to win a medal.
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  • We know that they denied themselves a normal life
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  • Because they decided something mattered
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  • More to them.
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  • We expect people to deny themselves certain things.
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  • When it comes to excelling in sports or in
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  • Academic study or in pursuing a career or in
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  • Establishing a business, we know that in order to
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  • Choose one thing that is most important to us, we
  • 00:13:43.045 --> 00:13:47.750
  • Have to not choose a whole lot of other
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  • Things, and jesus says that to follow him, we
  • 00:13:51.186 --> 00:13:56.659
  • Must deny ourselves.
  • 00:13:56.659 --> 00:13:59.929
  • The question is, what does it really mean to
  • 00:13:59.929 --> 00:14:03.265
  • Deny yourself in the 21st century?
  • 00:14:03.265 --> 00:14:07.136
  • What does this mean?
  • 00:14:07.136 --> 00:14:08.804
  • I grew up in a very strict kind of greek
  • 00:14:08.804 --> 00:14:11.807
  • Orthodox culture, so when i hear that phrase like
  • 00:14:11.807 --> 00:14:15.144
  • Deny yourself, i get triggered.
  • 00:14:15.144 --> 00:14:17.680
  • I can break out in hives because i'm immediately
  • 00:14:17.680 --> 00:14:20.950
  • Imagining a particular form of asceticism.
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  • I'm thinking of the monks on mount athos or maybe
  • 00:14:25.387 --> 00:14:28.490
  • Gandhi or mother teresa and i ask myself, look,
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  • Are we supposed to give up all earthly
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  • Possessions, disconnect from the internet, don't
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  • Eat certain foods, don't do anything that we
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  • Enjoy, wear clothes that are not in fashion, live
  • 00:14:42.271 --> 00:14:46.275
  • In some sort of extreme simplicity and basically
  • 00:14:46.275 --> 00:14:50.112
  • Ignore the world into which jesus has sent us
  • 00:14:50.112 --> 00:14:54.516
  • To go and make disciples?
  • 00:14:54.516 --> 00:14:57.553
  • You see, it could be so confusing and profoundly
  • 00:14:57.553 --> 00:15:00.589
  • Guilt inducing, especially if we've got
  • 00:15:00.589 --> 00:15:03.826
  • Families that would be drastically affected by
  • 00:15:03.826 --> 00:15:07.162
  • This kind of self denial.
  • 00:15:07.162 --> 00:15:09.098
  • After all, most of us have got bills and most
  • 00:15:09.098 --> 00:15:11.500
  • Of us have got mortgages and student loans, and
  • 00:15:11.500 --> 00:15:14.203
  • People would probably come after us if we
  • 00:15:14.203 --> 00:15:16.438
  • Moved to a commune.
  • 00:15:16.438 --> 00:15:18.140
  • See, this concept of self denial can be
  • 00:15:18.140 --> 00:15:21.944
  • Profoundly daunting.
  • 00:15:21.944 --> 00:15:24.179
  • So i want to say up front in this series that i
  • 00:15:24.179 --> 00:15:27.616
  • Don't believe jesus is asking us to ever, ever
  • 00:15:27.616 --> 00:15:33.355
  • Deny our humanity or our personhood when he
  • 00:15:33.355 --> 00:15:37.593
  • Invites us to deny ourselves.
  • 00:15:37.593 --> 00:15:41.096
  • Denying yourself is not hating yourself.
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  • It's not minimizing yourself.
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  • It's not rejecting yourself or
  • 00:15:49.004 --> 00:15:50.706
  • Neglecting yourself.
  • 00:15:50.706 --> 00:15:53.042
  • What we must deny is our self-trust and our
  • 00:15:53.042 --> 00:15:56.478
  • Self-sufficiency and our self will because it's by
  • 00:15:56.478 --> 00:16:00.949
  • Doing that, that we will actually actually have
  • 00:16:00.949 --> 00:16:04.286
  • The life that we are so deeply longing for.
  • 00:16:04.286 --> 00:16:08.657
  • Jesus has so much more for us than what our self
  • 00:16:08.657 --> 00:16:13.495
  • Promises to give us.
  • 00:16:13.495 --> 00:16:16.198
  • I think what jesus is saying in this text is
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  • That if we are going to follow him, we must learn
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  • To say no to ourselves and yes to god, mostly
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  • Within the context of our normal everyday lives,
  • 00:16:29.211 --> 00:16:32.047
  • Our normal everyday choices, and our normal
  • 00:16:32.047 --> 00:16:34.850
  • Everyday decisions within the sphere of influence
  • 00:16:34.850 --> 00:16:38.854
  • That he has placed us.
  • 00:16:38.854 --> 00:16:41.056
  • When it comes to what we do with our time and will
  • 00:16:41.056 --> 00:16:46.395
  • We say no to ourselves and yes to god, when it comes
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  • To what we do with our talent, will we say no to
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  • Ourselves and yes to god,
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  • When it comes to what we do with our resources,
  • 00:16:55.838 --> 00:17:00.409
  • Are we willing to say no to ourselves and yes to god?
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  • When it comes to what we do with our desires, are
  • 00:17:02.244 --> 00:17:06.215
  • We willing to sacrifice what is good for us to do
  • 00:17:06.215 --> 00:17:09.451
  • For what is good for all?
  • 00:17:09.451 --> 00:17:13.255
  • Are we willing to prioritize other people
  • 00:17:13.255 --> 00:17:16.125
  • Above ourselves?
  • 00:17:16.125 --> 00:17:17.593
  • Are we willing to deny ourselves some short-term
  • 00:17:17.593 --> 00:17:21.697
  • Gratification in order to honor god?
  • 00:17:21.697 --> 00:17:25.734
  • Are we willing to love others instead of hate?
  • 00:17:25.734 --> 00:17:29.972
  • Are we willing to offer forgiveness instead
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  • Of judgment?
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  • Are we willing to choose generosity over greed or
  • 00:17:34.276 --> 00:17:38.080
  • Peace over chaos?
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  • Are we willing to choose kindness over revenge?
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  • Are we willing to treat our material and
  • 00:17:44.219 --> 00:17:47.055
  • Financial resources as gifts to be shared rather
  • 00:17:47.055 --> 00:17:49.992
  • Than possessions to be hoarded?
  • 00:17:49.992 --> 00:17:52.895
  • Are we willing to give our time to serve others
  • 00:17:52.895 --> 00:17:55.297
  • Rather than ourselves?
  • 00:17:55.297 --> 00:17:57.032
  • Are we willing to see every other human being
  • 00:17:57.032 --> 00:18:00.869
  • As a fellow image bearer and honor them as such?
  • 00:18:00.869 --> 00:18:04.606
  • Are we willing to live our lives for the glory
  • 00:18:04.606 --> 00:18:06.975
  • Of god and not for our own?
  • 00:18:06.975 --> 00:18:09.378
  • Are we willing to fight against injustice and not
  • 00:18:09.378 --> 00:18:12.114
  • To turn a blind eye to what is happening
  • 00:18:12.114 --> 00:18:15.017
  • On the earth?
  • 00:18:15.017 --> 00:18:17.085
  • See, this is not a one time big noble heroic act
  • 00:18:17.085 --> 00:18:23.458
  • That jesus is inviting us into. when he invites us
  • 00:18:23.458 --> 00:18:26.428
  • To deny ourselves,
  • 00:18:26.428 --> 00:18:28.864
  • It's actually in a thousand small ways
  • 00:18:28.864 --> 00:18:31.700
  • Every single day.
  • 00:18:31.700 --> 00:18:33.302
  • Sometimes i find it easier to deny myself to
  • 00:18:33.302 --> 00:18:36.205
  • Help rescue the victims of human trafficking
  • 00:18:36.205 --> 00:18:39.208
  • Through all the work we do with a21, that's
  • 00:18:39.208 --> 00:18:41.476
  • Easier than to be patient with my husband or my kids.
  • 00:18:41.476 --> 00:18:46.081
  • The challenge of denying myself and following the
  • 00:18:46.081 --> 00:18:49.952
  • Ways of jesus in my normal everyday life is
  • 00:18:49.952 --> 00:18:53.322
  • Often much harder, and yet this is the
  • 00:18:53.322 --> 00:18:57.426
  • Invitation that jesus offers me.
  • 00:18:57.426 --> 00:18:59.628
  • So the absolute truth is that we will not
  • 00:18:59.628 --> 00:19:05.467
  • Consistently choose to deny ourselves if we
  • 00:19:05.467 --> 00:19:08.737
  • Don't truly believe that what god has for us and
  • 00:19:08.737 --> 00:19:13.041
  • Given to us is not more satisfying and fulfilling
  • 00:19:13.041 --> 00:19:17.746
  • Than what we can get and do for ourselves.
  • 00:19:17.746 --> 00:19:21.550
  • I want to remind each and every one of us today
  • 00:19:21.550 --> 00:19:23.852
  • That jesus christ came to give us life and life
  • 00:19:23.852 --> 00:19:27.155
  • More abundantly.
  • 00:19:27.155 --> 00:19:28.924
  • We read this in john 10:10.
  • 00:19:28.924 --> 00:19:30.559
  • The bible teaches us that every good and perfect
  • 00:19:30.559 --> 00:19:33.929
  • Gift is from above coming down from the father of
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  • Lights with whom there is no variation or shadow
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  • Due to change.
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  • James 1:17 in psalm 84:11, we read, the psalmist
  • 00:19:41.903 --> 00:19:45.340
  • Reminds us that no good thing does he withhold
  • 00:19:45.340 --> 00:19:48.744
  • From those who walk uprightly.
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  • We often think we're going to find joy or
  • 00:19:51.613 --> 00:19:53.915
  • Peace or hope or value or significance or security
  • 00:19:53.915 --> 00:19:58.020
  • And fulfillment by doing what we want, how we want
  • 00:19:58.020 --> 00:20:01.623
  • Whenever we want, but our deepest longings are only
  • 00:20:01.623 --> 00:20:06.728
  • Ever going to be ultimately met in jesus.
  • 00:20:06.728 --> 00:20:10.532
  • Psalm 16:11 says, in him is the fullness of joy.
  • 00:20:10.532 --> 00:20:15.270
  • Ephesians 2:14 says, he himself is our peace.
  • 00:20:15.270 --> 00:20:17.773
  • He loves and accepts us in a way that no other person
  • 00:20:17.773 --> 00:20:22.077
  • Ever can and no other person ever will.
  • 00:20:22.077 --> 00:20:25.013
  • Denying ourselves is not so much about restricting
  • 00:20:25.013 --> 00:20:28.617
  • Us, but rather protecting us from following a path
  • 00:20:28.617 --> 00:20:32.754
  • That does not lead to abundant life.
  • 00:20:32.754 --> 00:20:36.725
  • True hope, true significance, true
  • 00:20:36.725 --> 00:20:39.494
  • Security, true purpose, true flourishing, true
  • 00:20:39.494 --> 00:20:43.665
  • Peace and true joy come from jesus alone.
  • 00:20:43.665 --> 00:20:50.072
  • And so when he invites us to deny ourselves, i know
  • 00:20:50.072 --> 00:20:56.044
  • The message sounds so counter-cultural because
  • 00:20:56.044 --> 00:21:01.149
  • Everything in society, everything in culture,
  • 00:21:01.149 --> 00:21:04.553
  • Everything in media is built around this one thing,
  • 00:21:04.553 --> 00:21:09.424
  • Fulfill yourself.
  • 00:21:09.424 --> 00:21:11.059
  • Satisfy yourself, gratify yourself.
  • 00:21:11.059 --> 00:21:14.363
  • Find yourself, know yourself, and the fact of
  • 00:21:14.363 --> 00:21:19.301
  • The matter is jesus says, i'm actually inviting you
  • 00:21:19.301 --> 00:21:23.972
  • Into a higher way of life.
  • 00:21:23.972 --> 00:21:26.141
  • I'm inviting you to greater fulfillment.
  • 00:21:26.141 --> 00:21:28.510
  • I'm inviting you to greater flourishing.
  • 00:21:28.510 --> 00:21:31.113
  • I'm inviting you to greater joy.
  • 00:21:31.113 --> 00:21:33.014
  • I'm inviting you to greater peace.
  • 00:21:33.014 --> 00:21:35.384
  • I'm actually the one that can help you be the best
  • 00:21:35.384 --> 00:21:39.187
  • Version of you.
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  • And the best version of you is the you that
  • 00:21:41.156 --> 00:21:43.358
  • Denies your self.
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  • I know it's not a popular message in our world.
  • 00:21:45.794 --> 00:21:49.431
  • I know it's not the thing that we all want to hear.
  • 00:21:49.431 --> 00:21:53.235
  • In a world of self-actualization and
  • 00:21:53.235 --> 00:21:55.270
  • Self-fulfillment and self gratification, jesus is
  • 00:21:55.270 --> 00:21:59.107
  • Saying actually that's the wrong way to go about
  • 00:21:59.107 --> 00:22:01.910
  • What you think you need. what you think you need
  • 00:22:01.910 --> 00:22:04.212
  • You are only ultimately going to find in me, and
  • 00:22:04.212 --> 00:22:06.348
  • I love you so much and i value you so much,
  • 00:22:06.348 --> 00:22:08.950
  • And you are created in my image and you are
  • 00:22:08.950 --> 00:22:12.788
  • Created for my glory and you created to fulfill
  • 00:22:12.788 --> 00:22:17.125
  • The good works that i put you on this earth
  • 00:22:17.125 --> 00:22:18.860
  • To fulfill.
  • 00:22:18.860 --> 00:22:20.729
  • And the best way that you can do that is to
  • 00:22:20.729 --> 00:22:22.931
  • Deny yourself,
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  • Take up your cross and follow me because if you
  • 00:22:24.366 --> 00:22:28.270
  • Lose your life, you're going to find it.
  • 00:22:28.270 --> 00:22:31.339
  • But if you try to save your life, try to do
  • 00:22:31.339 --> 00:22:33.842
  • Things your own way, try to do things the world's
  • 00:22:33.842 --> 00:22:37.379
  • Way, try to gratify your flesh, it actually is
  • 00:22:37.379 --> 00:22:40.649
  • Going to take you down a road that seems right
  • 00:22:40.649 --> 00:22:44.586
  • Proverb says, but in the end, it leads to death
  • 00:22:44.586 --> 00:22:47.889
  • And destruction.
  • 00:22:47.889 --> 00:22:49.124
  • It will not bring the joy you're looking for.
  • 00:22:49.124 --> 00:22:50.926
  • It will not bring the peace you're looking for.
  • 00:22:50.926 --> 00:22:52.394
  • It will not bring the hope you're looking for.
  • 00:22:52.394 --> 00:22:54.129
  • It will not bring the security you're
  • 00:22:54.129 --> 00:22:55.864
  • Looking for.
  • 00:22:55.864 --> 00:22:56.865
  • It will not bring the significance you're
  • 00:22:56.865 --> 00:22:57.732
  • Looking for.
  • 00:22:57.732 --> 00:22:58.834
  • True life alone can only be found in jesus christ.
  • 00:22:58.834 --> 00:23:02.938
  • You are created by god for a relationship with
  • 00:23:02.938 --> 00:23:04.973
  • God, and it's jesus that connects us to god and
  • 00:23:04.973 --> 00:23:08.143
  • It's jesus that connects us to the grace of god.
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  • If anyone would follow me, let him deny himself,
  • 00:23:12.380 --> 00:23:15.650
  • Take up his cross and follow me.
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  • ♪ ohhh, i live for days like these...
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  • Hallelujah. grace is amazing.
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  • We're in prime time.
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  • So good for my ears to hear. and i hope you love it too.
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  • I'm so excited,
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  • I can't hardly hold it back.
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  • ♪♪
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  • God gave us laughter.
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  • Welcome to praise.
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  • There is a revolution happening.
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  • We need another spiritual awakening.
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  • Go into all the world and make disciples.
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  • No one can deny the goodness of god.
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  • My commandment to you is this.
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  • You love one another as i have lived to you.
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  • Be honest and truthful, move forward.
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  • All of his promises are yes and amen.
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  • I was always heartened by the fact that there's
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  • Something bigger.
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  • Welcome to the klove fan awards.
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  • Jesus christ is lord. best days are ahead.
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  • ♪♪
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  • Do you realize that when we get to heaven, we're
  • 00:24:20.181 --> 00:24:22.417
  • All going to sound like you?
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  • I want to have that scotland accent.
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  • That's going on the highlight reel.
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  • Everyone is called.
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  • Everyone has something that you were born to do.
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  • Belief in jesus yeah, belief. i believe.
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  • I am more excited about what we're
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  • Getting ready to launch.
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  • Welcome to the rosenberg report.
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  • There is a hunger for the gospel.
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  • It was amazing to see how the lord was working.
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  • There's still so much to be thankful for.
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  • How did this happen?
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  • Let's get serious for a minute.
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  • It's god. in christ,
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  • We have all that we need.
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  • I've got some big stories to
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  • Share with you today.
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  • There is a single thread that runs through
  • 00:25:01.823 --> 00:25:04.259
  • All the scripture.
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  • It all points to messiah jesus.
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  • I just want your heart.
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  • God, this is in your hands.
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  • God has got a great future planned for you.
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  • One thing i believe is you got to keep going.
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  • That was an awesome plug.
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  • I want to remind you that jesus christ did not come
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  • To earth, die on a cross, be buried and rise again
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  • From the dead, just so that we can simply exist
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  • And tread water on the earth until we die and
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  • Then go to heaven.
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  • He came that we might have life and life
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  • More abundant.
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