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Creflo Dollar | Creflo Dollar - The Origin Of Self-Deception | August 7, 2025
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- Those excuses, all of the rationalizing that you're doing
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- Becomes a sign of self deception.
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- You're having to convince yourself through the story you
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- Tell yourself that all of these reasons are why i couldn't be
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- True to what i thought was right.
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- Creflo: you have your bibles, go with me this morning to the book
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- Of james chapter 4, and verse 17.
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- Last week we started a new series dealing
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- With self deception.
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- If there's one thing that is abundant in the world today,
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- It's this issue of self deception because the problem
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- With self deception is you don't know you're deceived.
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- And so, i thought it's really time to really dig into
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- This thing.
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- And last week we talked about defining self deception so we'll
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- Know what it's all about.
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- But this morning, i wanna start teaching on the origin of
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- Self deception.
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- Not only the origin of self deception, but what are some of
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- The areas that self deception comes from.
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- And i'm telling you, taffi and i had a great talk yesterday and
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- One of the things we realized is that a lot of self deception was
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- Coming from the pulpits of america, coming from the pulpits
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- Of the world.
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- And, you know, there's some deception that comes from social
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- Media, comes from everywhere.
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- Everybody in here, including myself, we've all been in
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- Situations where we were deceived.
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- And the prayer is, "lord, help me not to be deceived, or at
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- Least lord, help me to see when i am being deceived."
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- You don't realize the progress you make when you realize,
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- "whoa, i'm deceived."
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- But what happens when people don't realize the importance of
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- Getting free from self deception?
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- I mean, it's a playground for the enemy and he just plays with
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- You and with confidence you carry your life on in
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- Self deception and can't nobody tell you nothing because you,
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- You know, that's what deception means is you think you're right
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- But you're wrong, but you think you're right and you can't see
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- That self deception.
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- Then you get older and then you get old and now you're the new
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- Old people and you didn't realize you spent 30 years of
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- Your life in self deception.
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- So, let's begin in james chapter 4, and verse 17 and pray that a
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- Strong teaching anointing will come on me.
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- I wanna sow this on the inside of you.
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- And those of you who are at home and you didn't make it this
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- Morning, move all the distractions out of the way so
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- You can hear this because all of us know when we listen to the
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- Word at home there are a whole bunch of distractions, the
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- Phone, you know, the kids.
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- Get yourself in a place to hear this because this is gonna be a
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- Blessing to your life.
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- James chapter 4, and verse 17.
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- I'm gonna read it in the king james and nlt.
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- He says, "therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and then he
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- Doeth it not," he said, "to him it's sin," because he knows to
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- Do good but he didn't do it.
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- Look at this in the nlt.
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- And in the nlt he says, "remember, it is sin to know
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- What you ought to do," you know what you ought to do, "and then
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- You don't do it."
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- I know what's good for me to do, but i don't do it.
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- Now i want to start off with this illustration and see if i
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- Can paint this picture.
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- Think of the last time you felt it was right to do something and
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- You refused to do it.
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- The last time you thought it was right to do something, but you
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- Refused to do it.
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- And i mean it could be something like read a bedtime story to my
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- Five year old or visit someone in the hospital or showing up at
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- A wedding or a funeral.
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- You felt like that was something right for you to do, but you
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- Didn't do it.
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- Now, let me say this, we are free moral agents, which means
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- We have a right to decide to do whatever we're gonna decide
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- To do.
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- And as a free moral agent, you are capable of living true or
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- False to your sense of what is right.
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- So, you have a sense of what is right, but you're a free
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- Moral agent.
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- And you have the right to choose whether you're gonna be true to
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- What you believe is right or whether you're gonna be false to
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- What you believe is right.
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- So, if you are true to what you believe is right, then you do
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- These things without a second thought.
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- There's no explanation, there's no second thought.
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- I mean, you go in there, you read the baby the story.
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- There's nothing behind that.
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- There's no story.
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- You do it.
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- You show up at the wedding, you do what you believe is right
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- Because you're true to what you believe is right.
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- Everybody on the bus?
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- However, if we do not do these good things that we think are
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- Right, or we do them resentfully, now, there's a
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- Story to tell.
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- There wasn't a story to tell when we were true to what was
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- Right, but now, when we didn't do it, there's a story to tell.
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- There's a story to tell.
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- All of a sudden, you know, we decided not to go to the funeral
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- And we came up with all the reasons why or we decided not to
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- Read the five year old the story because i mean, after all, you
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- Know, i got extra work to do, you know, i didn't sleep well
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- Last night and we come up with all of these things and you're
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- Not being true to what you believe is right.
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- Now you're having a lot of rationalizing and a lot
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- Of excuses.
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- There's a story you have to tell and an explanation that you have
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- To say because you decided not to do what you felt was right.
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- And so now, there's a story.
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- So, the heart of the story is in our refusal to do as we believe.
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- Had we been true to our sense of what was right, it would not
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- Occur to us to have to explain ourselves because we were just
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- True to what we thought was right to do and we did it.
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- But when we are false to our beliefs, there's a whole lot of
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- Things to explain.
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- When we're false to our belief of what is right, then my
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- Excuses become an attempt to make the wrong we are doing
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- Appear to be right, or at least make the wrong that we're doing,
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- Try to make it seem like it's not wrong.
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- Everybody follow me?
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- So, now here's the problem here.
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- The excuses become the evidence of more than mere ignorance
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- And more than being blind by the demands or the pressures
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- Of life.
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- The excuses become a sign of self deception.
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- The small foxes spoil the vine.
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- Those excuses, all of the rationalizing that you're doing,
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- Becomes a sign of self deception.
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- You're having to convince yourself through the story you
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- Tell yourself that all of these reasons are why i couldn't be
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- True to what i thought was right.
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- But we don't see that.
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- And it's okay because it's built in to the norms and values of
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- The world.
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- I used to have this saying as a young minister, holding down the
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- Position of ceo and minister, "why is irrelevant."
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- You remember that?
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- And i would challenge all my leaders, "why is irrelevant."
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- Why you didn't do something is irrelevant.
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- The fact of the matter is the window of opportunity has passed
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- And it didn't happen.
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- And so, you spend time trying to tell yourself it--why it's okay
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- That it didn't happen because of boom, boom, boom, boom.
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- Those are signals that self deception is working its
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- Way into our lives.
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- Now notice again in james chapter 4, and verse 17.
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- Remember, he said it is sin to know what you ought to do and
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- Then not do it.
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- There's something that happens, there's a disturbance that goes
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- On when you know what you ought to do, but don't do it.
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- But we can't take pieces of our lives and say, "well, it's
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- All right for me to do this here, but not all right for me
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- To do this there," because all the enemy is looking for is an
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- Open door opportunity to come in and to increase
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- That self deception.
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- Self deception, let's look at it again by definition.
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- It's more than a term that describes someone who does not
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- See the truth.
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- It is a concept that accounts for how it is possible to be
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- Blind to the truth.
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- How is it possible to be blind to the truth?
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- To be self-deceived is to participate in an act that
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- Produces a false view of your circumstances.
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- To be self-deceived is to be blind to the truth of
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- A situation.
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- I'm self-deceived and i'm blind to the truth of the situation.
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- Whether it's the truth of the situation in your marriage, or
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- Truth in the situation in your--on your job.
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- You know, i honestly used to think and remember praying this
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- Way, "lord, the reason why we're having problems is because
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- Of taffi."
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- And the holy ghost said, "no, i'm all right with her,
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- It's you."
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- Let me tell you something, we've got to understand what this
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- Deception is all about.
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- The blindness includes two features.
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- Let me show you the two players that are in this blind act.
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- Number one, seeing the truth falsely or seeing the truth
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- As untruth.
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- And so, in self deception, you see the truth as untruth.
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- And so, that's why you gotta make up this thing that says,
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- "well, that--i got my truth."
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- No, no, no, no, you're seeing the truth as falsely, you're
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- Seeing it as untruth.
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- And along with that, number two, being blind to the fact that
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- Your own actions, your own wrong that you're doing has produced
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- This false view.
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- It's what you're doing that's produced this false view.
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- In other words, if you're doing something and then you come to a
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- Teaching like this and you hear it, then you're gonna do
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- Everything you can to protect what you're doing.
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- And there's a reason why you have this false view because
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- You're doing opposite of it.
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- "well, i don't think lying to profit is wrong."
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- No, lying wrong, period.
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- But whatever you're doing, maybe it had a lot to produce the
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- False view that you have.
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- What are you doing?
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- And how are you viewing what you're doing?
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- Because the norms and values of this whole world, they're
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- Feeding you with the deception of what you're doing is okay,
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- Forget the truth.
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- What she's doing is fine, forget the truth.
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- And now, your view of the truth has been messed up because
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- You've been trying to support what you're doing.
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- Might have quieted the church this morning.
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- So, given this kind of blindness, and this is just
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- An introduction.
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- Given this kind of blindness, it seems that if i am
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- Self-deceived, i cannot access the knowledge that would set me
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- Free so i can escape because i'm self-deceived.
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- So, i can't escape it because i'm self-deceived.
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- And because you can't escape it because you're self-deceived,
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- Now you decide this is just how it is and it's okay because this
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- Is what some people have to have.
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- Also, since i don't know i'm deceived and i don't know that i
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- Have produced the deception, i don't know, i'm deceived.
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- I just said something.
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- I need to say that again.
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- I don't know i'm deceived and i don't know i produced
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- The deception.
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- Wow.
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- We all have to understand, we produce the deception.
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- I'm deceived, i produced the deception, i can't escape.
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- And so, what happens is, i'm gonna reject the attempt for
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- Somebody to come and enlighten me.
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- I'll reject the attempt for someone who knows the truth.
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- I'll reject that and i'll just--i'll term it as you just
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- Been meddling, you're just meddling, you're just messy
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- Because you can't see.
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- So, i'm rejecting what's true because i'm deceived and i
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- Produced the deception.
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- And the deception is protecting that deception that i'm
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- Walking in.
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- So, to take the idea of self deception seriously, it
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- Might seem impossible to the person that's deceived.
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- A person that's deceived is not going to take seriously what
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- I'm teaching.
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- The person that's deceived is not gonna take anything serious
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- About them being deceived.
- 00:16:16.522 --> 00:16:18.924
- And here's what they'll do, "that might have been the way
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- Y'all did it in your day, but in our day, this is okay."
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- And that's one thing about truth, it doesn't change from
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- Generation to generation.
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- It doesn't.
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- What was true in our day is still gonna be the truth in your
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- Day and in your children's day and in your grandchildren's day.
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- It's still gonna be the same.
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- Now, let's look at james chapter 1, and 8.
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- I'll get real practical with you for a moment, but i wanna give
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- You something to meditate on.
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- I want you to get this series and i want you to listen to it
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- Over and over and over again until something clicks.
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- Now there are two guys that really knew
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- About self deception.
- 00:17:06.105 --> 00:17:07.473
- James is one of them and john was the other.
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- And so, we'll be studying out of their book to see what they had
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- To say about self deception.
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- In james chapter 1, verse 8, he says, "a double minded man is
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- Unstable in two of his ways only."
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- A double minded man is unstable in what?
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- Everything he does.
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- Everything he does is going to be impacted by his
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- Double-mindedness, by his self deception.
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- There's gonna be instability in his life.
- 00:17:38.704 --> 00:17:42.875
- And that instability, according to james, it comes from the
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- Double-minded and the willfully--the willful refusal
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- To live that which you know to be true.
- 00:17:55.120 --> 00:17:59.525
- Wow.
- 00:17:59.525 --> 00:18:00.859
- But we don't wanna live--nobody is doing something crazy without
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- First of all knowing it's crazy.
- 00:18:05.230 --> 00:18:06.832
- You know it was crazy when you started.
- 00:18:06.832 --> 00:18:08.500
- What happened is if you just keep doing it long enough, you
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- Become calloused or hardened to it and you've convinced yourself
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- This is okay.
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- That is okay for me to go and see different women and
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- I'm married.
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- As long as we ain't in the bed, but jesus knows that whatever is
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- In your heart eventually is gonna flow out, and you're gonna
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- Go to bed.
- 00:18:36.228 --> 00:18:40.465
- But you gotta go and convince yourself that it's all right for
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- Me to go see different women so that once you get into bed,
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- That'll be fine too.
- 00:18:46.471 --> 00:18:49.208
- And you'll wake up one day and realize, "i have been
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- So deceived."
- 00:18:53.679 --> 00:18:56.548
- Taffi is working on a series where she's talking about
- 00:18:56.548 --> 00:18:59.484
- Showing us the deception in the church.
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- Lots of different deceptions that are going on in the church.
- 00:19:02.254 --> 00:19:06.024
- You know this deception where, you know, if you don't treat me
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- Right as the man of god, then you can't get my blessing.
- 00:19:09.061 --> 00:19:11.663
- Well, under the new testament, it ain't about my blessing, it's
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- Jesus's blessing.
- 00:19:14.066 --> 00:19:17.569
- You're blessed because of jesus.
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- "i'll tell you what, if you don't do this for me, then
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- You're not gonna get my blessing."
- 00:19:21.473 --> 00:19:22.808
- I don't want your blessing.
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- I want jesus's blessing.
- 00:19:24.176 --> 00:19:27.879
- There's a lot of deception that's coming from the pulpit.
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- A lot of deception is coming from the pulpit.
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- Deception is about--what do they call those roles?
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- Taffi, what--help me with that.
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- What--roles or gender roles.
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- That's a worldly thing.
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- That came from the world.
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- Jesus was very clear on how we treat one another and it's
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- Amazing to me how i see people who talk about marriage and
- 00:19:50.068 --> 00:19:52.471
- They're saying stuff that's not located nowhere in the bible.
- 00:19:52.471 --> 00:19:56.141
- And we get used to that.
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- We slide stuff in that ain't even in the bible.
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- This is what the man is supposed to do and this is what the woman
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- Is supposed to do and we're not paying attention to what
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- Jesus said.
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- We have bought on to, you know, let's assign something to the
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- Marriage that's gonna make me feel better about what i do.
- 00:20:08.954 --> 00:20:12.758
- And not biblical equality.
- 00:20:12.758 --> 00:20:14.526
- You ain't looking for no biblical equality.
- 00:20:14.526 --> 00:20:16.261
- You're looking for this is what the man is supposed to do, this
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- Is what the woman is supposed to do.
- 00:20:18.730 --> 00:20:20.165
- I ain't talking about no biblical equality.
- 00:20:20.165 --> 00:20:21.800
- And so, what happened is inequality in the gender roles
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- That you assign.
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- And all of a sudden, the man looked like he got the best part
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- Of everything.
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- Woman is supposed to cook, she's supposed to clean, and she's
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- Supposed to work to help you pay the bills.
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- Boy, please.
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- If you was a woman, would you do that?
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- I wouldn't.
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- I'm like, person, please.
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- And somewhere you know it is right to have equality in
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- A marriage.
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- You know it's right that everything shouldn't fall on
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- One person.
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- You know it's right that that corporation that you formed at
- 00:20:57.369 --> 00:20:59.838
- The altar that there will be--there should be some
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- Equality in that corporation.
- 00:21:02.207 --> 00:21:04.509
- While you do respect the anointing areas where you're
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- Anointed and that person, you--there's an equality
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- That's there.
- 00:21:10.749 --> 00:21:12.084
- Jesus came so that there can be equality in marriage.
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- But we go talking about, "well, you know, the bible say that the
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- Man ought to be the one dominating."
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- See, this is another problem.
- 00:21:24.796 --> 00:21:26.398
- Another problem is you don't know how to rightly divide
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- The bible.
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- The new testament is a new contract, which means you don't
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- Consider the old testament, which is the old contract.
- 00:21:32.938 --> 00:21:37.008
- The old contract was a shadow of the new that was to come.
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- For example, in the book--in the old covenant, it talks about the
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- Sabbath being a day, but in the new testament, it talks about
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- Jesus is our sabbath.
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- So, the old testament gives you a glimpse and a shadow of what
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- Is to come, but it hadn't came yet.
- 00:21:53.191 --> 00:21:55.694
- And so, when he delivered you from the old covenant of the law
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- And into the new covenant of grace, you still, when you see
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- Something in the new covenant you don't like, then you wanna
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- Go and steal something from the old covenant to make it all
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- Right and use it as an excuse to form self deception.
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- Here's an example. here's an example.
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- Male dominating females is a result of the curse.
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- You remember in genesis when adam and eve did their thing and
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- He was announcing, "so here's what happens.
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- Since you guys got so deceived in the garden, here's what's
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- Going on, dude.
- 00:22:35.033 --> 00:22:36.368
- There's gonna be male domination over females."
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- That was true under that situation where male dominance
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- Was a part of the curse.
- 00:22:45.544 --> 00:22:47.913
- There's nothing blessed by a marriage that's being dominated
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- By a man who is now automatically bringing a curse
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- Of that marriage by pure fact that he's trying to dominate
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- His wife.
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- Jesus came and he showed up to end the curse of the law, which
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- Would include male domination.
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- Male announcer: we cannot live in self deception if we want to
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