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Creflo Dollar | Taffi Dollar - When You Feel Unequipped (Part 1) | March 17, 2026
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- Announcer: coming up next on "changing your world."
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- Taffi dollar: there may be people watching today that the
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- Spirit of the lord is gonna come on you and equip you to do
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- Things so you don't have to feel like you have to lean upon your
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- Own natural strength.
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- And so, don't run from your insecurities, take them to
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- God today.
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- They're indicators of where you may be weak, but he wants to
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- Show himself strong.
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- So, invite, as andrea and i are saying, invite his grace into
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- Your life.
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- Andrea crayton: absolutely.
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- Taffi: hello and welcome to "changing your world" broadcast.
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- I am so excited about you tuning in today.
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- Today's special, and it will really be a place where you can
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- Feel empowered and just sense a mark being made in your spirit
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- That i believe can never be erased.
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- And so, if this is your very first time we wanna welcome you
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- And wanna share some things about this message for today.
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- So, i'm so excited about our guest who is joining us today
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- And i wanna be sure to introduce her properly.
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- And so, today we are honored to have on the "changing your
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- World" broadcast someone who only carries god's presence, but
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- Also walks in wisdom and her presence is just so memorable
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- And shifts atmospheres and all the great things in the boldness
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- And the grace upon her life.
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- She has a wonderful book that's been out in the marketplace, and
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- I'm just blessed to hear her every time that she comes to
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- Minister to our ladies and at our church.
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- And so, please "change your world" family, welcome andrea.
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- I wanna welcome you today.
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- Andrea: thank you pastor taffi for having me.
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- I'm really excited about being here.
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- Taffi: oh my goodness.
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- Oh this is just a special special time because i know that
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- God has done so many wonderful things that i believe our
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- Viewers will be able to relate to.
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- And so, we wanna spend some time just talking about grace when we
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- Feel unequipped.
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- Andrea: it's so vital.
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- Yes, yes, yes, i'm excited about this conversation.
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- Taffi: yes, so in 2 corinthians chapter 12, verse 9 it talks
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- About how, you know, that scripture in and of itself the
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- Apostle paul says that my grace--his grace is sufficient
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- For us.
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- And i think so many times we forget about the grace of god
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- Making us sufficient, making us secure, enabling us to be able
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- To do the things when we feel inequipped,
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- Unequipped, incapable.
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- Andrea: absolutely.
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- I remember reading that scripture and what i thought it
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- Meant was just like i gotta muster up this strength because
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- His strength has to appear when i'm weak, and it's just gonna
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- Bubble up some type of way.
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- And when he really gave me the revelation on that scripture it
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- Was like what i got was it's okay to be weak.
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- Like you don't have to quickly get out of weakness in order to
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- Experience my strength.
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- And i think like people need to hear that because weakness
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- Is--we just try to avoid it at all costs.
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- "i'm weak, something's wrong, something's not right.
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- God, please just let the strength bubble up," instead of
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- Just saying, "no, it's okay.
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- As a matter of fact, not it's just okay, but i need to get to
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- The end of myself so that you can now begin a mighty work."
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- And if we never understand that, we're always just trying to
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- Bubble something up and come on, come on, come on strength, come
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- On, i need the strength of god right now.
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- Well, it's there and it's in there in magnitude when you get
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- To the end of yourself and most people never get to the mercy
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- Of, "i cannot do this unless you do it through me."
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- Taffi: oh my goodness.
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- That's a level of vulnerability we see that like in the old
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- Testament, right, with david and moses and gideon and just a lot
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- Of the people who really were at a place where they didn't feel
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- Equipped for the task that--i know i didn't feel equipped.
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- Andrea: i didn't either.
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- Taffi: for, you know, going on 40 years now and i look back and
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- I think, "wow, that is so amazing that now i'm learning
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- More about his grace and recognizing that it's not about,
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- You know, just trying to cover up weaknesses, cover up areas
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- Where you feel like you're falling short or you're
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- Incapable in, you know, but to lean into it."
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- The apostle paul said, "i boast in my--."
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- Andrea: "i boast in my weakness."
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- Taffi: and we have to kind of make that shift in our minds
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- That it's okay to even express it and to take it to god in our
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- Intimate moments to express that vulnerability, express that
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- Insecurity so that we can realize that he wants to be
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- Invited in and he wants to be able to intervene in every area
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- Of our lives.
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- Andrea: yes ma'am.
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- You know what i found out is the biggest obstacle to that is
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- People pleasing because it's not that--i don't even think that we
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- Struggle with saying, "i just need help," or realizing or
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- Acknowledging, "i need help.
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- I can't do this," it's what we now think other people think
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- About us.
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- And so, people pleasing and needing that type of validation
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- From others in, you know, intense moments, it brings so
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- Much anxiety.
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- They say, "i don't wanna be weak.
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- I don't wanna be weak in the eyes of other people.
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- So lord, give me the strength right now," instead of just
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- Saying, "hey, i'm--guys, i don't care what you think about me,
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- You're gonna have a thought anyway.
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- I don't know this, i can't do this, i can't," you know.
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- And it's a privilege to get to the end of what we know, the end
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- Of what we've been accustomed to or learned or experienced.
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- It's a privilege to get to the end so that he gets to
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- The beginning.
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- It's a privilege.
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- And if we don't renew our mind to that, we really get like
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- Really frustrated or flustered in those moments.
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- "i'm weak.
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- Lord help me," and it's just like calm down, chill, you're at
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- The end, so something powerful is about to happen.
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- You're out of the way.
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- And we don't get--we just never get to that place enough.
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- I don't think we get to that place enough where our back is
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- Against the wall and say, "all right, there's only a plan a.
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- There's not a plan a, b, c, d, e," and, you know, many times we
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- Have so many options.
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- We are so self-reliant because it helps us to maintain control.
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- We keep control and what we can control is always gonna be done
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- In the flesh.
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- But when you let go and say, "all right lord, what--like
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- What's your plan in what i say and what i do?"
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- It is beautiful.
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- It's like, "i would've never thought of this way, i would've
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- Never said it this way."
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- But it's getting comfortable being uncomfortable.
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- Taffi: tell me a little bit about what that was like for you
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- Just as a young woman stepping out in ministry and just
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- Answering the call that we all see now, but where others your
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- Age who maybe aren't as inclined to make those decisions.
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- Andrea: it was very intimidating, very intimidating.
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- And i've always been like a duck where smooth on top, but i am
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- Frantically, you know, rowing.
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- Those feet are paddling underneath.
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- Nobody else would know, but that's--but the internal battle
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- Was really impacting me and affecting me.
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- And i said, "god, there has to be a different way and a
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- Different approach.
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- This can't be the way you want me to do it."
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- So, if i had an opportunity to speak somewhere or i mean, it's
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- Like, "why do y'all keep inviting me?
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- Like this is taking me through the wringer just preparing."
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- And he took me to this scripture, the lord led me to
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- This scripture and it's in--i wanna say that's in--gosh it may
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- Be matthew 13:11, but it says, "you need not worry and prepare
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- And premeditate what you're going to say.
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- The holy spirit is on the inside of you and he will give you what
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- To say when you need to say it."
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- So, i was like, "oh wait a minute."
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- So, i had to get outside of this performance driven,
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- Performative, "okay, i just gotta do--i have to cross every
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- T and dot every i so i can be perfect."
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- And it was just causing so much intimidation, so much anxiety as
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- It pertains to what i believe god was calling me into.
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- So, he's like, "i'm calling you into it, but the way you're
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- Going about it is wrong.
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- You're a vessel, i'm the voice.
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- You don't need to premeditate and worry about all of that.
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- I'll speak through you.
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- So, if you get familiar with my voice, you know it's me,
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- Then speak."
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- And so, it took the pressure.
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- So, that took the pressure off of it and then the other thing
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- Was he gave me a lane.
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- Like--so about three years ago at this point, he said, "andrea,
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- I've called you to be a mobilizer."
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- "what's a mobilizer?"
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- So, i just researched it and this was one that prepares the
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- Troops, one that makes one active and ready.
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- So, he would--and so, he began to speak into that, speak into
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- My heart.
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- He said, "you'll--there will be a stirring, there will be a
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- Fire, there will be an anointing to stir people up to the--and
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- Raise them up to the place that they're supposed to be in."
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- So, i was like, "okay, good."
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- So now no matter where i go, you can't tell me what you want me
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- To do.
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- Nope, i already have an assignment.
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- I have a lane, you know.
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- I can go, and it's 15 other people.
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- Hey, praise god for your gift and what he's called you to do.
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- I can receive from it, but this is what he's called me to do.
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- So, it took away all of the anxiety and intimidation, and i
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- Can appreciate other people and still be who he called me to be
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- And still do what he called me to do.
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- Taffi: wow that is so good because so many times we feel,
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- Like you said in the beginning, you feel unequipped.
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- I know i can totally relate to that just particularly as far as
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- Like our temperament because i'm more of a laid back.
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- I can totally understand exactly what you were saying.
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- And so, when i started seeing just our ministry grow and
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- Things start changing, i've always had a passion and an
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- Interest in women's ministry and just getting out, but other than
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- That, not so much.
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- Just being in public and just always been a very
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- Private person.
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- And so, when i--even when god started sharing about prestige
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- And going out and ministering to women and i'm thinking, "lord, i
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- Feel so unequipped.
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- Why me of all people?"
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- You know.
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- There are people who want to be used in that capacity or can
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- Relate so much more.
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- But one thing i'm learning is that he doesn't call the
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- Equipped, he equips those who've been called.
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- Andrea: that's so good.
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- That's so good because there's so many people that need to hear
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- What you just said because i wonder how many people are
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- Sitting at home and stuck and not moving forward because
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- They're just waiting to feel equipped instead of just hearing
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- The voice and obeying and taking the step, just walking in it
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- Because the thing about it, there may be people that are
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- Better prepared, but they can't be trusted because it's like,
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- "you--i know that you'll go into that space and you'll take the
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- Credit for it.
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- I just need a vessel.
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- I need someone i can trust as a vessel to say, 'hey, this is not
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- Me, this is him.'"
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- I remember pastor taffi, i was back in alabama and a school
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- Called me, and i think their violence rate was like at 96%
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- Rate with--and it was--they're females.
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- And they said, "we need you to come in and mentor them."
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- And i'm like, "i have like the cleanest background.
- 00:13:00.993 --> 00:13:03.796
- Like they're gonna look at me and say, 'like why her?'"
- 00:13:03.796 --> 00:13:08.267
- Like--and so, it was so many other people.
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- I said, "well, have you called this person?
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- I can get you connected here.
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- Like why me?
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- They're gonna look at me and laugh."
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- And within two months, it was over 150 girls from that high
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- School that just came to a mentor session.
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- So, i had to rethink and re-strategize, but i wonder the
- 00:13:25.684 --> 00:13:28.954
- Opportunity to touch lives i would've missed that.
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- You see what i'm saying saying, "oh, i just don't feel
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- Equipped," because the truth of the matter is just because you
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- Feel something doesn't mean you are or you aren't because
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- Feelings are fickle, and they change, and they're not a proper
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- Measurement of the truth.
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- They're just feelings.
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- And so, sometimes you have to tell your feelings, "okay, i
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- Recognize you, you're there, but this is what he's called me to
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- Do, and i'm gonna go anyway."
- 00:13:53.612 --> 00:13:56.515
- So, i mean, that was just an example.
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- I mean, i tried to talk myself out of that like, "please pick
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- Somebody else."
- 00:14:01.153 --> 00:14:03.255
- Taffi: i remember talking to my mom one time and i said, "mom,
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- You know it's so many other people who want to preach, who
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- Want to be on the platform, who want to--who have a word,
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- You know."
- 00:14:16.936 --> 00:14:18.304
- And she said, "no, no, baby.
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- That's okay, you can do it."
- 00:14:21.440 --> 00:14:22.942
- And yeah, just continuously and, you know, it just
- 00:14:22.942 --> 00:14:30.115
- Never happened.
- 00:14:30.115 --> 00:14:31.550
- But it's just like you said, you just have to rely and depend on
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- Him and he helps us.
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- And i'm so thankful that we're not alone.
- 00:14:40.526 --> 00:14:44.196
- Once we take that step, he really does show up and you feel
- 00:14:44.196 --> 00:14:52.805
- The confidence because he comes alongside and he girds you up
- 00:14:52.805 --> 00:14:59.144
- And he makes it so much easier as opposed to us trying to do
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- Things in our natural strength, you know.
- 00:15:04.550 --> 00:15:07.953
- Natural strength can only go so far.
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- Andrea: so far. so far.
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- Taffi: and i'm reminded of elijah how when he was, i think,
- 00:15:12.858 --> 00:15:18.731
- Running with the chariot and how he only was able to go so far,
- 00:15:18.731 --> 00:15:23.535
- But when the spirit of might came on him, how he outran
- 00:15:23.535 --> 00:15:28.774
- The chariot.
- 00:15:28.774 --> 00:15:30.109
- And i just believe that there may be people watching today
- 00:15:30.109 --> 00:15:34.013
- That the spirit of the lord is gonna come on you and equip you
- 00:15:34.013 --> 00:15:36.949
- To do things so you don't have to feel like you have to lean
- 00:15:36.949 --> 00:15:40.486
- Upon your own natural strength.
- 00:15:40.486 --> 00:15:42.721
- And so, don't run from your insecurities, take them to
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- God today.
- 00:15:45.491 --> 00:15:46.825
- They're indicators of where you may be weak, but he wants to
- 00:15:46.825 --> 00:15:50.763
- Show himself strong.
- 00:15:50.763 --> 00:15:52.097
- So, invite, as andrea and i are saying, invite his grace into
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- Your life.
- 00:15:56.835 --> 00:15:58.771
- Not as performance, not to perform in your own perfected
- 00:15:58.771 --> 00:16:06.412
- Image or facade of what you think is success or that pleases
- 00:16:06.412 --> 00:16:11.483
- People to validate them, to get their approval.
- 00:16:11.483 --> 00:16:15.821
- It's not about that.
- 00:16:15.821 --> 00:16:17.623
- We have to really get to a point where we're free from people.
- 00:16:17.623 --> 00:16:22.294
- And even if we're flawed and talk about our flaws, and talk
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- About our insecurities, that it's okay.
- 00:16:26.298 --> 00:16:28.400
- Andrea: it's okay. it's okay.
- 00:16:28.400 --> 00:16:31.103
- You're still usable.
- 00:16:31.103 --> 00:16:32.805
- You're not damaged goods.
- 00:16:32.805 --> 00:16:34.740
- He can use that.
- 00:16:34.740 --> 00:16:36.108
- He wants to use that.
- 00:16:36.108 --> 00:16:37.476
- You know, sometimes i think even when we talk about like
- 00:16:37.476 --> 00:16:39.678
- Presenting to god, we--sometimes we wanna present our best, but
- 00:16:39.678 --> 00:16:43.148
- We forget about even presenting our worst to him is still a
- 00:16:43.148 --> 00:16:46.151
- Jewel and a treasure.
- 00:16:46.151 --> 00:16:48.654
- And i started imagining that because sometimes it's like this
- 00:16:48.654 --> 00:16:51.490
- Shame will flush you that, "i have to present this to god.
- 00:16:51.490 --> 00:16:54.626
- I gotta talk to god about this because it's ugly and it's nasty
- 00:16:54.626 --> 00:16:58.097
- And, you know, i know better than this."
- 00:16:58.097 --> 00:17:01.767
- But i want people that are watching to renew your mind to
- 00:17:01.767 --> 00:17:05.938
- Say no, everything you present to your father that's good and
- 00:17:05.938 --> 00:17:09.041
- Who loves you is a treasure to him because he wants to take
- 00:17:09.041 --> 00:17:14.613
- That and then put his super on your natural.
- 00:17:14.613 --> 00:17:17.883
- Taffi: almost like the beauty for ashes, right?
- 00:17:17.883 --> 00:17:19.351
- Andrea: he wants to give you beauty for those ashes.
- 00:17:19.351 --> 00:17:21.420
- Taffi: because we can only bring our flawed self, our insecure
- 00:17:21.420 --> 00:17:25.824
- Self, and he knows us, he loves us just as we are.
- 00:17:25.824 --> 00:17:30.362
- And we don't have to cover ourselves up like adam and eve
- 00:17:30.362 --> 00:17:32.764
- Did, we don't have to say, "well, you know, as a mom, i
- 00:17:32.764 --> 00:17:36.702
- Don't know how to parent this child.
- 00:17:36.702 --> 00:17:39.004
- As a wife, i don't know how to love my husband or honor or
- 00:17:39.004 --> 00:17:43.909
- Submit as christ does for the church.
- 00:17:43.909 --> 00:17:46.445
- I don't--"
- 00:17:46.445 --> 00:17:47.813
- Andrea: i don't know.
- 00:17:47.813 --> 00:17:49.148
- Taffi: in my limited experience of knowledge and my background,
- 00:17:49.148 --> 00:17:52.784
- It's only so much that we know.
- 00:17:52.784 --> 00:17:54.586
- Andrea: and it's okay. it's okay.
- 00:17:54.586 --> 00:17:56.989
- That's where the self awareness comes in though.
- 00:17:56.989 --> 00:17:58.924
- That's where self-awareness where you have to dig deep and
- 00:17:58.924 --> 00:18:02.194
- Say, "okay, this is what i recognize and i'm not trying to
- 00:18:02.194 --> 00:18:06.064
- Fix it up so that i present it and it's perfect before you.
- 00:18:06.064 --> 00:18:09.401
- I am here bringing it to you.
- 00:18:09.401 --> 00:18:11.270
- Hey, god, this, this, this," and be real.
- 00:18:11.270 --> 00:18:14.873
- Taffi: yeah, it's ugly. andrea: it's ugly.
- 00:18:14.873 --> 00:18:16.742
- Taffi: it's not pretty. andrea: that's right.
- 00:18:16.742 --> 00:18:19.344
- Taffi: but he takes it.
- 00:18:19.344 --> 00:18:20.779
- Andrea: he--and he loves to take it because he's like, "wow.
- 00:18:20.779 --> 00:18:22.548
- Okay, you can't, but i can.
- 00:18:22.548 --> 00:18:25.717
- And not that i can, i want to.
- 00:18:25.717 --> 00:18:29.555
- I want to."
- 00:18:29.555 --> 00:18:30.889
- It brings him joy because some people's like, "oh, the joy that
- 00:18:30.889 --> 00:18:33.559
- Was set before him."
- 00:18:33.559 --> 00:18:34.927
- It gives him joy for you to be able to trust him in that manner
- 00:18:34.927 --> 00:18:38.330
- To say, "here are the things that i don't want anybody to
- 00:18:38.330 --> 00:18:41.767
- See, i don't want anybody to know, and i trust you enough to
- 00:18:41.767 --> 00:18:45.137
- Bring them to you."
- 00:18:45.137 --> 00:18:46.471
- He's like, "i can't wait to make a masterpiece out of this.
- 00:18:46.471 --> 00:18:50.175
- Thank you."
- 00:18:50.175 --> 00:18:51.543
- Taffi: he's not gonna reject us either.
- 00:18:51.543 --> 00:18:53.078
- Andrea: no, no.
- 00:18:53.078 --> 00:18:54.446
- Taffi: that's not a means to turn us away.
- 00:18:54.446 --> 00:18:57.416
- He just says, "okay, i knew it was there before you brought it
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- To me.
- 00:19:00.519 --> 00:19:01.920
- I made you.
- 00:19:01.920 --> 00:19:03.288
- I know all your ins and outs and you don't have to try to cover
- 00:19:03.288 --> 00:19:05.924
- It up, put a band-aid on it, or pretend like it's not there.
- 00:19:05.924 --> 00:19:12.030
- Just bring it to me.
- 00:19:12.030 --> 00:19:13.665
- I'll fix it up, i'll make it beautiful and it'll be far
- 00:19:13.665 --> 00:19:17.502
- Better than what you could ever imagine."
- 00:19:17.502 --> 00:19:19.671
- Andrea: i sense freedom.
- 00:19:19.671 --> 00:19:21.340
- I sense freedom from those that will be watching this episode
- 00:19:21.340 --> 00:19:24.610
- That are watching this episode.
- 00:19:24.610 --> 00:19:26.411
- There will be so much freedom just in hearing this and
- 00:19:26.411 --> 00:19:29.915
- Understand--like there's a light bulb that's coming on as
- 00:19:29.915 --> 00:19:32.651
- They're watching.
- 00:19:32.651 --> 00:19:34.152
- This is your day of freedom right here.
- 00:19:34.152 --> 00:19:36.655
- You've already been made free, but sometimes we hold on and
- 00:19:36.655 --> 00:19:39.157
- We've been so bogged down with all of this stuff that we're
- 00:19:39.157 --> 00:19:42.327
- Trying to hide from other people because we care about what
- 00:19:42.327 --> 00:19:45.264
- People's opinions are, but today is the day of freedom.
- 00:19:45.264 --> 00:19:48.233
- Taffi: today is the day of freedom.
- 00:19:48.233 --> 00:19:49.635
- So, we are going to close out on that note and i mean, don't feel
- 00:19:49.635 --> 00:19:54.239
- As if you gotta put more stuff in the closet, you gotta hide,
- 00:19:54.239 --> 00:19:58.477
- You gotta make it all pretty, put a bow on it.
- 00:19:58.477 --> 00:20:01.546
- Just take it to god.
- 00:20:01.546 --> 00:20:02.914
- As andrea just said, just give it to him and let him make it
- 00:20:02.914 --> 00:20:07.386
- Into something beautiful.
- 00:20:07.386 --> 00:20:09.021
- And so, thank you for tuning in today.
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- We are so grateful and we pray that you were blessed.
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- Personal savior and you'd like to have a relationship with him,
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- Repeat this prayer after me right now, "heavenly father,
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- Come into my life, save me.
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- Of god the father.
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- In jesus's name, amen."
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- All right, just that simple.
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- God bless you.
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- Thank you for tuning in today.
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- Announcer: join us tomorrow as taffi dollar continues her
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- Conversation with andrea crayton.
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- Taffi: i remember just immersing myself, andrea, when i dealt
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- With fear, feeling unsafe all the time.
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- Just stuff that triggers back from childhood.
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- And as a result, nightmares and all kinds of waking up in hot,
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- Just sweating, and i said, "you know, enough is enough."
- 00:24:44.563 --> 00:24:50.268
- And at some point you have to just be fed up.
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- Andrea: yes.
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- Why do i end up with the same person with a different face in
- 00:24:56.174 --> 00:24:59.344
- The same situation?
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- And he said, "there's a hole in your soul."
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- He said, "your spirit is complete.
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- It's all the truth you need, but when you have holes in your
- 00:25:06.651 --> 00:25:09.821
- Soul, the truth is being filtered through that."
- 00:25:09.821 --> 00:25:12.490
- I never felt good enough.
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- I always felt like they're gonna find out who i really am and i'm
- 00:25:14.893 --> 00:25:18.763
- Not gonna measure up to what they want.
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- I used to say--i used to do this thing where whatever the guy was
- 00:25:21.032 --> 00:25:24.669
- Or presented as, i would just adjust to that.
- 00:25:24.669 --> 00:25:27.472
- That's how insecure--so let's say he is into sports.
- 00:25:27.472 --> 00:25:29.908
- Okay, now i'm wearing jay's.
- 00:25:29.908 --> 00:25:31.610
- You know, let's say he's an intellectual, so now i have
- 00:25:31.610 --> 00:25:34.179
- Glasses and now i'm really interested in books and, you
- 00:25:34.179 --> 00:25:37.882
- Know, documentaries.
- 00:25:37.882 --> 00:25:39.250
- And i'm like, "why do i--why does my identity keep shifting
- 00:25:39.250 --> 00:25:42.754
- With different people that i'm dating?"
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- Taffi: and i would deal with that a lot of times just in
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- Marriage and observing myself and my response, my reactions
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- And just the fear and fear of being taken advantage of, fear
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- Of being hurt or whatever the case may be.
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- And so, i would find myself being on defense and it's just
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- Like, "okay, put the--take the boxing gloves off.
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- You don't have to be defensive.
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- It's okay.
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- You're safe."
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- Andrea: run to the throne and not the phone, you know.
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- And it sounds so churchy, but it's so true because sometimes
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- Our phone call that we make, it can either dismantle those
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- Feelings or validate them.
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- You're so far away from the power and the authority that you
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- Have to speak into this fact to change it and now you're just in
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- Your feelings, and now you've wasted a day, and now that
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- Day--and then i couldn't rest the night and the next i'm
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- So tired.
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- "oh i've been in spiritual warfare."
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- No, you've just been on the phone.
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