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Robert Jeffress - Choosing Humility Over Pride (Part 2)

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Choosing Humility Over Pride (Part 2) | January 28, 2026

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Male announcer: from the pulpit of the first baptist church of
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Dallas, texas, this is "pathway to victory," with
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Dr. robert jeffress.
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Dr. robert jeffress: hi, i'm robert jeffress, and welcome
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Again, to "pathway to victory."
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Some of the most successful people i know are humble.
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Their modesty always surprises me a bit because you'd think
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That those who reach the peak of their profession would deserve
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To swagger a bit.
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I mean, their success comes with bragging rights, don't
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You think?
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Well, today we're going to discover that success doesn't
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Entitle us to become proud and arrogant, far from it.
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My message is titled, "choosing humility over pride," on today's
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Edition of "pathway to victory."
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♪♪♪
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♪ power or prestige it's about a simple message and whether ♪
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♪ we believe, it's still the cross it's still the blood ♪
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♪ of calvary that cleanses sins and sets the captives ♪
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♪ free it's still the name, the name of jesus that has power ♪
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♪ to save the lost, it's still the cross though some may ♪
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♪ say it's man's religion or ancient history, the cross of ♪
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♪ jesus still remains the price for sin that sets us ♪
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♪ free it's still the cross, it's still the blood of ♪
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♪ calvary that cleanses sins and sets the captives free ♪
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♪ it's still the name ♪
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♪ the name of jesus that has power ♪
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♪ to save the lost ♪
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♪ it's still the cross ♪
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♪ thank god ♪
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♪ it's still the cross ♪♪
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[congregation applauding]
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Announcer: we all want to live a life of meaning and
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Significance, but we often dream too small.
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Motion for the future.
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Heavenward and set in motion a legacy of eternal significance.
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Jeffress: jesus wasn't this casper, milquetoast guy who, you
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Know, walked around in sandals, chewing on bird seed, saying
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Nice things to people all the time.
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That wasn't jesus.
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He could be tough, really tough at times.
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But his harshest, his toughest words were spoken not to
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Murderers or adulterers, but it was to the religious hypocrites
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Of his day, the pharisees and the sadducees who had an
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Inflated view of their own righteousness and looked down
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Upon others with contempt.
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Probably the greatest illustration of the intolerance
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Of the religious hypocrites is found in one of the parables
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Jesus told, luke 18, verses 9 to 14.
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This shows how pride leads to a hatred of other people.
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Listen to this, luke 18, beginning with verse 9, "and
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Jesus also told this parable to certain ones who trusted in
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Themselves, that they were righteous, and viewed others
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With contempt."
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You know what "self-righteousness" means?
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It means looking to yourself for your own righteousness, your
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Right standing with god.
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It means believing you're good enough to get into heaven and
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Earn god's approval.
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So, jesus told a story to those who felt that way about
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Themselves, and whenever you feel like you're righteous by
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Your own good works, you're gonna naturally view other
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People with contempt.
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So, he told the story, verse 10: "two men went up into the temple
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To pray, one was a pharisee; the other a tax gatherer.
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The pharisee stood and was praying thus to himself."
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I love that.
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He thought he was talking to god.
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His prayer didn't make it above the roof of the temple.
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He was really praying to himself.
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But this is what he said to god, "god, i thank thee that i'm not
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Like other people: swindlers, unjust, adulterers, or even like
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This tax gatherer over here.
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I fast twice a week. i pay tithes of all that i get."
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But notice verse 13, "but the tax gatherer, standing some
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Distance away," he felt so unholy and unworthy.
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He backed up as far as he could from the holy place.
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And he simply looked up and he said, "god, be merciful to me,
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The sinner."
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Look at what jesus says in verse 14, "but i tell you this, it is
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This man, the tax gatherer, who went down to his house justified
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Rather than the pharisee."
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There were gasp in the audience when jesus said that, "this man,
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The tax gatherer?
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You're telling me their sinner is the one who god is justified
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And not the religious person?"
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We can't believe that god, we can't accept that.
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But jesus added, "for everyone who exalts himself shall be
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Humbled, but he who humbles himself shall be exalted."
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Pride, an inflated view of our own righteousness, leads to
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Intolerance toward others.
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And finally, fourth, the result of pride is an inability to
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Accept god's grace.
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This is perhaps the most damning of all of the consequences of
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Pride, an inability to accept god's grace.
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You know, in luke, chapter 18, verse 17, we find an intriguing
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Verse by jesus.
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He said, "truly, i say to you, whoever does not receive the
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Kingdom of god, like a child, shall not enter it at all."
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You know, i love so many things about first baptist dallas, but
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One of the things i love most is the great children's and student
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Ministry we have here.
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We don't just babysit kids here, we teach them the scriptures,
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And regularly, throughout any year, we give our children and
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Teenagers a chance to trust in christ as savior.
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One of those times we do it, is at vacation bible school
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Every summer.
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When i give the invitation for kids who want to trust in jesus
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To come forward.
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I mean, hundreds of them come sometimes, and, you know, every
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Now and then, there are a few adults standing at the back like
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This, kind of watching all of it, and you can kinda tell
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They're not sure what they think about that.
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They won't say it to me, but they'll say to some other
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People, "you know, i think the pastor made it too easy.
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Do those children really know what they're doing?
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Don't they need to be older?"
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Well, we don't do it with the youngest children, but we do it
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When they're old enough.
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But people say, "well, don't they need to be older before
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They can be saved?"
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What did jesus say?
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He didn't say, "children need to become like adults in order to
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Enter the kingdom of god."
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He said, "adults need to become like children to enter the
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Kingdom of god."
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There's a reason 80% of christians are saved before the
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Age of 15.
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You know why that is?
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It's a lot easier for a child to be saved than an adult.
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A child doesn't have all that baggage with him that keeps him
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Or her from entering in the kingdom of god.
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A child isn't filled with all this pride that makes it
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Difficult for him to acknowledge that he is a sinner, and that he
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Does need a savior.
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That's why we need to become like children, but when we are
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Filled with pride, that pride is the baggage that keeps us from
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Being able to experience and accept god's grace.
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This is why god hates pride, not because of what it does to him,
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But because of what it does for us, ultimately robbing us of
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Eternal life.
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Now, look, pride is an attitude that credits us for our
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Successes and blames others for our failures.
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Humility is an attitude that causes us to view both of our
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Successes and failures from god's point of view.
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It helps us to see clearly the truth about ourselves.
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Now, i admit, seeing clearly can be painful at times.
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I just thought of this this morning.
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I thought about the story of the snake that went to the
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Optometrist for a new pair of glasses.
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The optometrist said, "i can't put glasses on you.
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You don't have a nose or ears on which to hang them.
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How about contacts?"
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Snake said, "okay, i'll try the contacts."
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So he fitted him for two contacts.
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He slithered out of the office.
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About two weeks later, he came in for a checkup.
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The optometrist said, "how are your contacts working out?
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Can you see clearly?"
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He said, "oh, yeah, i can see.
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I've got 2020 vision, but i've been so depressed the last
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Two weeks."
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The optometrist said, "well, why have you been depressed?"
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He said, "i discovered after all these years i've been living
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With a water hose."
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Oh, i'm sorry, i couldn't help myself.
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Clear vision can be painful, that is the point of that story.
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But that's what humility is, seeing yourself and others as
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God sees them.
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How do you know what genuine humility looks like in the
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Closing minutes today, let me just share with you four
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Characteristics of genuine humility.
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Number one: humility is willing to credit others for
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Our successes.
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Remember 1 corinthians 4:7, "what is it that you did
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Not receive?
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But if you did not receive it, why do you boast as if you
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Didn't receive it?"
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I mean, a truly humble person doesn't have problems
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Acknowledging that good things have come into his life from
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Other people, and he doesn't have problems acknowledging the
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Contributions others have made.
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You know, i'll never forget the first time i went into
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The oval office.
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It was when ronald reagan was president, but it was much
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Different back then because amy and i went at midnight one
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Night, with a small little group that was taking a tour, and
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Reagan wasn't in the white--in the oval office, he was
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Upstairs asleep.
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But i remember a little plaque that was on his desk.
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I wrote it down after i got back to the hotel because it made
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Such an impression on me.
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He had a little plaque he kept on his desk the eight years he
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Was president, that said, "there is no limit to what a man can
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Do, or where he can go, if he doesn't mind who gets
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The credit."
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In fact, that made such an impression on me when we were
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Last year at the reagan library, they had a replica of that
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Plaque and i bought it, and put it on my desk as a reminder that
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Humility means not caring who gets the credit.
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Let me change that saying a little bit, "there's no limit to
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What a church can do and what it can accomplish if it's not hung
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Up on who gets the credit."
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Truly, a humble spirit means willing to credit others for
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Our successes.
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Number two: humility generates genuine interest in
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Other people.
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You know, a truly humble person sees people as opportunities to
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Meet needs, rather than opportunities to be used.
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You know, i think about jesus, in matthew 20:28, when he gave
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His purpose statement, his reason for living, for coming
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To earth.
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He said, "for the son of man did not come to be served, but to
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Serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."
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You know, we've read that so many times, i think we've lost
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The majesty of that verse.
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I mean, it is an unbelievable thought when you think that
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Jesus christ, co-equal with god, the father, the one who created
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Everything we see, according to colossians 1, that jesus was
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Willing to leave heaven, give up the perks and privileges of
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Being the co-equal to god, the father.
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He came to earth for one reason, not to meet his need, but to
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Meet your greatest need, my greatest need, the need
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For salvation.
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That is unbelievable to think he was willing to do that.
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And that's why jesus said in matthew 20, verse 26, if we're
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Really his followers, we're gonna have that same attitude,
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"whoever wishes to become great among you shall be
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Your servant."
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You know, that's hard to take in today's culture.
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Books like, you know, "looking out for number one" or "winning
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Through intimidation," that's kind of the spirit of our age,
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See people as opportunities to use, to help you get where you
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Wanna go.
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But no, jesus said a true disciple is one who views other
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People as opportunities to demonstrate service.
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Have you ever been in this situation before?
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You've been at some gathering a party or something?
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And people are standing around mingling, and there's somebody
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Who's talking to you, but they're looking past you over
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Your shoulder, looking around to see if there's anybody more
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Important they ought to be talking to.
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Have you ever had that happen to you before?
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You know, you're not somebody they're really interested in,
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You're just a placeholder till somebody more interesting
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Comes along.
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That's the opposite of humility.
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You know, when i look back, i think of two great christian
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Leaders i've known.
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One was the late cliff barrows, who was the song leader for
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Billy graham for so many years.
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The other is charles stanley, who's the great pastor of first
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Baptist atlanta.
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The reason i think of those two men is they're the very same in
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This way, whenever they talk to you, they look you straight in
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The eye, they are locked in on you.
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The president of the united states could walk by and their
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Eyes wouldn't move at all.
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They're not only listening, they're asking questions about
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You, and what's going on in your life, and your ministry and
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Your family.
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It's not fake.
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They don't have anything to gain from that.
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It's because they genuinely understand what it means to
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Be humble.
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That's what genuine humility does, it demonstrates an
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Interest in other people.
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A third quality of humility is humility resists the need to
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Always be right.
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Resists the need to always be right.
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Chuck swindoll tells a story about this scandinavian couple
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Sven and holda, who had been married for 50 years.
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They were dedicated christians.
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Sven taught in sunday school.
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Holda sang in the church choir.
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They were wonderful christians, except for one thing, they
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Couldn't get along with one another.
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They just fought like cats and dogs throughout their marriage.
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They both felt badly about it, and they would pray together
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Every night, and then they'd start fighting again.
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So, one night after their prayer time, holda said to her husband
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Sven, "sven, i think i have the answer to our
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Difficult situation.
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I think we should both pray that the lord would call one of
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Us home.
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Then i can go and live with my sister."
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That's pride, the inability to even fathom the possibility that
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You might be wrong instead of the other person.
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You know, whenever you are in an argument with a child, or
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A parent, or a friend, or maybe, an employer, do you really
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Listen to what the other person is saying?
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Or, you so busy formulating your next sentence, your next
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Argument, that you never really hear them out?
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There was an old preacher one time who was speaking to a group
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Of younger ministers about tips for the ministry, and he said,
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"men, i've learned to eat crow every way you could prepare it,
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Baked, broiled, fried and roasted; and i don't care how
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You eat it, it never tastes good."
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But crow is an item on the menu of those who are truly humble.
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They don't mind admitting they were wrong.
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1 peter 5:5 and 6, "you younger men, likewise, be subject to
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Your elders; and all of you, clothe yourselves with humility
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Toward one another, for god is opposed to the proud, but he
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Gives grace to the humble.
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Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of god,
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That he may exalt you at the proper time."
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Finally, humility views life's accomplishments and failures
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From god's perspective.
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You know, we tend to go to one of two extremes when we try to
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Evaluate ourselves.
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One extreme is i'm so wonderful.
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How could god and the world ever get along without me?
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The other extreme is i'm nothing but a worm.
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I can't do anything.
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Neither is a right, proper assessment.
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For those who tend to think too highly of themselves, paul has
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A sobering word in romans 12:3.
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He says, "for through the grace given to me i say to every man
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Among you not to think more highly of himself than he ought
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To think; but to think so as to have sound judgment."
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And then paul launches into a discussion of spiritual gifts.
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The fact that we are all members of the body of christ, and each
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One of us has an important function, and no one function is
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More important than the other one.
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We are christ's body and, individually, members of it.
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But the other extreme is equally wrong, to think, "i'm nothing
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But a lowly worm.
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I can't do anything."
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It's true.
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Jesus said, "apart from me, you can do nothing."
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But if you're a christian this morning, you're not apart from
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Christ; christ is in you, the holy spirit is in you.
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And 2 corinthians 5:17 says, "if any man is in christ, he is
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A new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things
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Have come."
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And that's why paul said, with confidence, "i can do all things
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Through christ who strengthens me."
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Humility views life's accomplishments and failures
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From god's perspective.
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I was reading yesterday about the great italian conductor,
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Arturo toscanini, of the new york philharmonic orchestra.
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And in one of toscanini's final performances, he and the
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Orchestra performed beethoven's "ninth symphony."
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It was a performance like he had never given before.
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And when they finished with the great finale, the crowd stood up
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And applauded wildly.
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And unlike any other time, the orchestra themselves stood up,
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And started applauding the great conductor who had led them.
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The applause went on and on, and finally toscanini took his baton
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And beat it against the stand trying to get their attention,
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But they wouldn't stop.
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He kept beating that baton against the stand and finally
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They stopped, and he said to the orchestra, "gentlemen,
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Gentlemen, it is not me.
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It's beethoven."
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That's what a truly humble christian says.
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It is not me.
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It is christ in me.
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Jeffress: when it feels like our world is spinning out of
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Control, rest assured, god is still the one who orchestrates
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Every facet of our lives.
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This truth keeps us humble, doesn't it?
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Because it forces us to recognize that god is the
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Ultimate conductor of our lives.
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Well, in closing today, let me say a brief word of thanks to
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Of peter to any circumstance that comes our way.
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Peter wrote, "clothe yourselves with humility toward
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One another.
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For god is opposed to the proud, but he gives grace to
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The humble."
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Well, when tragedy comes our way, there's a natural tendency
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To withdraw from public view, taking time to heal in the
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Privacy and comfort of our own space.
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So, at what point does isolation become unhealthy
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And counterproductive?
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Stay tuned for a preview of what's coming up next in our
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Jeffress: we think of loneliness as a state of being.
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I'm lonely because i feel isolated from others or i'm
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Separated from others, but loneliness is not just a state
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Of being.
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I wanna suggest to you, today, that loneliness is a choice.
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Robert Jeffress - Choosing Humility Over Pride (Part 2)

January 28, 2026 | 27:29

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