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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Choosing Relaxation Over Stress | January 25, 2026
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- From the pulpit
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- Of the first baptist church of dallas, texas,
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- This is "pathway to victory with dr. robert jefferess."
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- Hi, i am robert jeffress,
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- And welcome again to "pathway to victory."
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- Jesus said in this world, we will have tribulation,
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- But our response to personal trials determines
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- Whether or not we experience the abundant life
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- That jesus also promised.
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- Are you ready to exchange your worries
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- For something much better?
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- Well, today, i'm going to identify five causes
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- Of unnecessary tension along with five biblical solutions
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- For choosing relief.
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- My message is titled choosing relaxation over stress
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- On today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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- We all want to live a life of meaning and significance,
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- In 1964, supreme court justice potter stewart
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- Was asked to define obscenity.
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- And he famously said,
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- "i'm not able to define it, but i know it when i see it."
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- You know, the same thing could be said about stress.
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- You may not be able to define stress,
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- Give a dictionary definition of stress,
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- But we know it when we see it.
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- Or more accurately, we know it when we feel it, don't we?
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- Migraines,
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- High blood pressure,
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- Certain strokes, even cancer,
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- Are just some of the symptoms of a stressed out society.
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- It's no accident that among the top selling drugs
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- In our country right now are the ulcer medication, tagamet,
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- The hypertension medicine, inderal,
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- And the tranquilizer, valium.
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- And don't make the mistake of thinking stress
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- Is something that christians are exempt from.
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- A famous television teacher-preacher
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- Asked his electronic congregation to send in
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- The number one problem they were dealing with in life,
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- And at the top of the list was stress.
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- Even though christians are not exempt from stress,
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- Jesus offers us this word of promise that we read
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- From matthew 11 just a few moments ago.
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- Beginning in verse 28, jesus said,
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- "come to me, all you who are weary and heavy laden,
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- And i will give you rest.
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- Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,
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- For i am gentle and humble in heart,
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- And you shall find rest for your souls.
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- My yoke is easy and my load is light."
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- Now, please don't misunderstand.
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- Jesus is not saying because you're a christian,
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- You're exempt from stress, you're exempt from problems.
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- Nothing could be further from the truth.
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- Any teacher, any preacher who tells you
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- That christianity is an exemption from problems,
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- You turn them off immediately.
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- Walk out.
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- They don't know what they're talking about.
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- Jesus promised you're going to have problems in the world.
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- In john 16:33, he said,
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- "these things, i have spoken to you that in me,
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- You may have peace.
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- In the world, you have tribulation."
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- The greek word tribulation literally means to press.
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- In this world, you're going to have pressure.
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- You're going to have stress.
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- But he goes on to say,
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- "take courage, i have overcome the world."
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- Jesus is not saying we can live in this world
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- Without problems, but he said,
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- "there is a way to live above your problems."
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- And that's what we're going to talk about today
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- As we continue our series,
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- Choose your attitudes, change your life.
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- A certain amount of stress can actually strengthen us.
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- For example, studies have shown that short burst of stress
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- Can actually affect our pituitary gland
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- And release a substance called beta-endorphin.
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- We've known for a long time that beta-endorphin
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- Is key to blocking the perception of pain in our brain,
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- But we've also discovered recently
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- That beta-endorphins can also help our immune system.
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- What are the hazards of prolonged or ignored stress?
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- Well, there're physical results of that.
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- For example, we all know the relationship
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- Between stress and high blood pressure,
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- But new studies are demonstrating that stress
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- That's not dealt with can actually raise our cholesterol
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- That not only causes heart disease,
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- But actually weakens our immune system
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- And can lead to cancer.
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- There are emotional effects of stress.
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- Prolonged stress raises our level of cortisol in our bodies
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- That can lead to chronic depression,
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- But there are also spiritual effects of stress.
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- Now, again, some stress
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- Can actually be spiritually beneficial to us.
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- I think that's what james has in mind
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- When in james 1:2-4, he writes,
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- "consider it all joy, my brethren,
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- When you encounter various trials,
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- Knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.
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- And let endurance have its perfect result
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- That you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
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- Just as a certain amount of stress can strengthen a metal,
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- A certain amount of stress can strengthen us spiritually."
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- In verse three, that word testing.
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- The testing of your faith.
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- That word in greek is dokimion.
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- It's a word that referred to a piece of pottery
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- That after being shaped was placed into a firing oven
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- In order that it might be strengthened.
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- And if that piece of pottery formed by clay
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- Survived the firing oven without cracking,
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- The potter would take it out, and in the bottom,
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- He would write the word dokimazo.
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- Tested, approved.
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- But if it broke in that firing oven, if it cracked,
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- It was discarded upon a heap of trash.
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- It's the same way with us.
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- God allows tests in our life, stress not to destroy us,
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- But to strengthen us.
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- It can have a positive benefit in our life
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- As long as it drives us toward god and not away from god.
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- Let me mention six causes of unnecessary stress in our life.
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- First of all, stress caused by lack of purpose.
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- A stress caused by lack of purpose.
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- The french philosopher, nicola belay, said,
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- "he is most fatigued, who knows not what to do."
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- There's gold in that.
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- He is most fatigued, who knows not what to do.
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- You know, we have in our minds,
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- It's those goal-oriented people,
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- Those hard driving individuals,
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- Who are just stressed out and prone to a heart attack.
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- That's really not true.
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- The people who are most stressed out in life
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- Are those who don't know what they're supposed to be doing.
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- Let me illustrate that for you.
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- Have you ever been headed someplace in your car?
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- You knew exactly where you wanted to go
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- And yet you get lost?
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- What happens?
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- What's your emotion when you get lost?
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- Don't you immediately start feeling stressed out?
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- You don't know which way to turn, which way to go.
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- That produces stress.
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- It's the same way in life.
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- When you don't have a clear purpose in life,
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- It can produce stress.
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- Secondly, stress caused by unrealistic goals.
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- Much of the stress we have
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- Is when we instill unrealistic goals
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- That have no basis in scripture at all.
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- We're just imposing these unrealistic goals on ourself.
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- I remember many years ago when i got my first contract
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- For my first book, i was so excited about that first book.
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- And the publisher said, "now you have six months
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- To do this book, to turn in the manuscript."
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- But in a fit of insanity,
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- I decided i would do it in three months.
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- I was going to push myself
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- And finish this book in three months.
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- The only problem was julia had just been born,
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- So that caused a little difference in our household.
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- Things were going on at the church
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- And i ended up putting undue stress,
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- Not only on myself and amy and poor julia,
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- But on my church as well as,
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- And it was just all unnecessary
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- Because of an unrealistic expectation.
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- We bring to our vacations unrealistic goals
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- That end up stressing us out.
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- Writer tim hansel gives a great description of that.
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- He says, "since they've waited 50 weeks for this vacation,
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- Some people try to cram a year's worth
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- Of living into two weeks."
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- They wind up pushing harder
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- And spending longer hours than they do on the job,
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- Rushing from one place to the next, hurrying up to be happy.
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- It's no wonder that peace eludes them."
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- Related to this image that vacation is a reward
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- For hard work is the notion that, therefore,
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- We are supposed to enjoy this time.
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- And if we don't, we feel anxious.
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- We carry so many bionic images of leisure into the vacation
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- That nothing could ever match it.
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- And then we wonder why we're so unhappy.
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- Much stress is caused by unrealistic expectations.
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- Thirdly, stress caused by unresolved anger.
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- Unresolved anger.
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- You know, anger is a negative emotion we feel
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- When our expectations are not met.
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- In fact, i want you to think
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- About the last time you got really angry.
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- I bet you can trace that anger to some expectation you had
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- That was not fulfilled by another person or a circumstance.
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- Think about it.
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- We get angry when the stoplight doesn't turn
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- From red to green as quickly as we think it should.
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- Much of the anger we have is caused by unmet expectations.
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- And that's why it's important that we learn
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- How to deal with that stress caused by unresolved anger.
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- The word of god commands in james 1:19.
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- "everyone be quick to hear, slow to speak,
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- And slow to anger."
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- Then the greek language, there are two words for anger.
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- One word for anger means a violent, explosive,
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- Volcanic outburst of anger.
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- We've seen that.
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- We've done that before.
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- But the word here, anger, orge,
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- Refers to a smoldering, persistent anger
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- Rather than a temporary outburst.
- 00:14:18.947 --> 00:14:21.649
- And it's that anger james writes about
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- In verse 20 when he says, "for the anger of man
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- Does not achieve the righteousness of god."
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- Is anger always wrong?
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- Not necessarily.
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- Anger, sometimes, is like a headache.
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- It's a symptom that something else is wrong
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- That needs to be dealt with.
- 00:14:39.400 --> 00:14:41.002
- And that's why paul said in ephesians 4:26 and 27,
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- "be angry and yet do not sin.
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- Do not let the sun go down on your anger,
- 00:14:48.409 --> 00:14:51.379
- And don't give the devil an opportunity."
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- When anger arises, deal with it.
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- Deal with it before the sun sets.
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- Don't allow it to smolder and destroy your life.
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- A fourth source of unnecessary stress.
- 00:15:03.558 --> 00:15:05.760
- Stress caused by comparison to other people.
- 00:15:05.760 --> 00:15:13.267
- My late mentor, howard hendricks, used to call comparison
- 00:15:10.231 --> 00:15:17.705
- The favorite indoor sport of christians.
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- He was right.
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- Christians absolutely loved to compare themselves
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- With one another.
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- We compare our houses, our clothes, our cars,
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- Our jobs, our bank accounts, our children.
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- But listen to what the word of god says about comparison.
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- I love the way the living bible paraphrases this
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- In 2 corinthians 10:12.
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- "their trouble is that they are only comparing themselves
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- With each other and measuring themselves
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- Against their own little ideas.
- 00:15:53.808 --> 00:15:57.111
- What stupidity."
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- The bible says, "it is stupid to compare yourself
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- To anybody else."
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- Next, some stress is caused by materialism.
- 00:16:07.021 --> 00:16:11.726
- Building our affections around money
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- Or the things that money buys.
- 00:16:14.128 --> 00:16:16.330
- Remember the story that jesus told in luke 12,
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- The parable about the rich man who suffered from insomnia?
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- He couldn't sleep at nights
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- Because he was so caught up with his possessions.
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- What am i going to do with all the excess income
- 00:16:28.409 --> 00:16:31.112
- And produce i have?
- 00:16:31.112 --> 00:16:32.580
- Where am i going to invest it?
- 00:16:32.580 --> 00:16:34.182
- And he says to himself, he said, "this is what i will do.
- 00:16:34.182 --> 00:16:36.984
- I'm going to build larger barns."
- 00:16:36.984 --> 00:16:38.820
- I'm going to do this, i'm going to do this, i'm going to do this,
- 00:16:38.820 --> 00:16:42.056
- And then i'm going to store up so much money,
- 00:16:42.056 --> 00:16:44.125
- I'm going to take off the rest of my life and say,
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- "soul, take ease, for you have enough now.
- 00:16:46.627 --> 00:16:50.364
- Eat, drink, and be merry."
- 00:16:50.364 --> 00:16:53.000
- And god came to him that very night and said,
- 00:16:53.000 --> 00:16:55.303
- "you fool, tonight, your soul is required of you
- 00:16:55.303 --> 00:17:00.575
- And who now will own what you have left?"
- 00:17:01.442 --> 00:17:04.712
- That word required is a banking term.
- 00:17:05.513 --> 00:17:07.915
- It means to call in a loan.
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- There's a day coming for all of us
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- When god's going to call in our loan.
- 00:17:12.286 --> 00:17:14.622
- He's going to say, "you've had enough time here on earth.
- 00:17:14.622 --> 00:17:17.692
- It's time for you to come and stand before me."
- 00:17:17.692 --> 00:17:21.395
- That's why it's so foolish to build your life
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- Around the material.
- 00:17:23.431 --> 00:17:25.133
- In fact, people who have a lot of money,
- 00:17:26.000 --> 00:17:28.202
- Experience a lot of stress.
- 00:17:28.202 --> 00:17:29.770
- Ecclesiastes 5:12 says, "the abundance of a rich man
- 00:17:29.770 --> 00:17:34.075
- Permits him no sleep."
- 00:17:34.075 --> 00:17:36.677
- That was true of this rich man.
- 00:17:36.677 --> 00:17:39.180
- But you know, materialism isn't a problem
- 00:17:39.180 --> 00:17:42.049
- Just for the wealthy.
- 00:17:42.049 --> 00:17:43.584
- Materialism is an attitude that says money
- 00:17:43.584 --> 00:17:47.221
- Or the things that money buys
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- Can really solve my deepest longings.
- 00:17:48.689 --> 00:17:51.893
- Poor people can be materialistic as well.
- 00:17:51.893 --> 00:17:55.363
- Sixth, some unnecessary stress is stress caused
- 00:17:55.363 --> 00:17:58.499
- By physical fatigue.
- 00:17:58.499 --> 00:18:01.002
- Stress caused by physical fatigue.
- 00:18:01.002 --> 00:18:03.604
- Because we've talked about this before,
- 00:18:03.604 --> 00:18:05.139
- I'm not going to camp here long.
- 00:18:05.139 --> 00:18:06.507
- But the great story, the great illustration of that
- 00:18:06.507 --> 00:18:09.377
- Is the story of elijah, the prophet of god.
- 00:18:09.377 --> 00:18:13.347
- Isn't it interesting?
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- 850 angry prophets on top of mount carmel
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- Didn't face the prophet of god,,
- 00:18:18.786 --> 00:18:21.789
- But one angry female sent him on the run.
- 00:18:21.789 --> 00:18:26.327
- And he ran and he ran and he ran,
- 00:18:27.061 --> 00:18:30.965
- And then he sits down under the tree and say,
- 00:18:30.965 --> 00:18:32.733
- "it's enough, lord, i'm ready to go.
- 00:18:32.733 --> 00:18:34.402
- Just take me home.
- 00:18:34.402 --> 00:18:36.137
- I'm ready to go."
- 00:18:36.137 --> 00:18:37.338
- Now, if he had really wanted to die,
- 00:18:37.338 --> 00:18:39.140
- He could have stayed with jezebel.
- 00:18:39.140 --> 00:18:40.975
- She would've taken care of things for him.
- 00:18:40.975 --> 00:18:43.878
- Why did he say that?
- 00:18:43.878 --> 00:18:44.912
- Why was he ready to end his life?
- 00:18:44.912 --> 00:18:47.582
- He was worn out.
- 00:18:47.582 --> 00:18:50.318
- He was worn out spiritually
- 00:18:50.318 --> 00:18:52.019
- From that great victory on mount carmel.
- 00:18:52.019 --> 00:18:54.956
- He was tired after running 120 miles.
- 00:18:54.956 --> 00:18:58.059
- Who wouldn't be?
- 00:18:58.059 --> 00:18:59.961
- And he had a distorted perspective of reality.
- 00:18:59.961 --> 00:19:02.830
- You know, i think of vince lombardi's famous quote.
- 00:19:02.830 --> 00:19:06.367
- "fatigue makes cowards of us all."
- 00:19:06.367 --> 00:19:11.038
- There's something about just being physically tired
- 00:19:11.038 --> 00:19:13.874
- That distorts your perception of yourself,
- 00:19:13.874 --> 00:19:16.777
- Your circumstances, and your god.
- 00:19:16.777 --> 00:19:19.680
- And that's why, again, to quote howard hendricks,
- 00:19:19.680 --> 00:19:22.016
- "sometimes, the most spiritual thing you can do
- 00:19:22.016 --> 00:19:26.354
- Is take a nap."
- 00:19:26.354 --> 00:19:28.456
- Just take a nap, rest.
- 00:19:28.456 --> 00:19:30.458
- It restores your proper perspective.
- 00:19:30.458 --> 00:19:34.061
- Now, we've talked about some stress
- 00:19:34.061 --> 00:19:36.664
- That is unnecessary and can be removed,
- 00:19:36.664 --> 00:19:39.834
- But other stress is unavoidable and has to be dealt with.
- 00:19:39.834 --> 00:19:44.739
- How do you keep stress from paralyzing you?
- 00:19:44.739 --> 00:19:48.476
- You know, in my own life,
- 00:19:48.476 --> 00:19:49.944
- I've discovered how i begin my day
- 00:19:49.944 --> 00:19:53.014
- And how i end my day governs my stress level
- 00:19:53.914 --> 00:19:58.986
- Throughout the day.
- 00:19:59.453 --> 00:20:01.489
- You know, i woke up this morning,
- 00:20:02.156 --> 00:20:04.992
- I was about to bound out of bed,
- 00:20:04.992 --> 00:20:06.861
- Well, crawl out of bed to start the day.
- 00:20:06.861 --> 00:20:10.364
- And i thought, you know, "there's something i need
- 00:20:10.364 --> 00:20:12.833
- To talk to god about."
- 00:20:12.833 --> 00:20:14.802
- So i made myself stay in bed
- 00:20:14.802 --> 00:20:17.538
- Until i talked with the lord about that.
- 00:20:17.538 --> 00:20:20.274
- And just doing that, i mean,
- 00:20:20.274 --> 00:20:21.575
- It just has energized the rest of my day.
- 00:20:21.575 --> 00:20:24.478
- How you start, how you end determines
- 00:20:25.279 --> 00:20:27.081
- The stress you feel throughout the day.
- 00:20:27.081 --> 00:20:28.683
- Years ago, i came across a plan
- 00:20:28.683 --> 00:20:30.885
- By the late pastor lloyd ogilvie
- 00:20:30.885 --> 00:20:34.155
- That i try to follow a personal devotional plan.
- 00:20:34.155 --> 00:20:36.857
- It's called 15 minutes to freedom.
- 00:20:36.857 --> 00:20:40.661
- And this pastor simply says,
- 00:20:40.661 --> 00:20:42.363
- "start your day spending 15 minutes with god,
- 00:20:42.363 --> 00:20:46.467
- Reading the bible, praying, maybe writing something down
- 00:20:46.467 --> 00:20:50.204
- In your spiritual journal.
- 00:20:50.204 --> 00:20:51.605
- Not an hour, not 30 minutes, 15 minutes a day,
- 00:20:51.605 --> 00:20:55.309
- And then end your day doing the very same thing."
- 00:20:55.309 --> 00:20:58.479
- And when you have those bookends in your life,
- 00:20:58.479 --> 00:21:00.448
- It tremendously affects the rest of your day.
- 00:21:00.448 --> 00:21:03.317
- You know, in john 16:33, again, jesus said,
- 00:21:03.317 --> 00:21:07.488
- "in the world, you have tribulation,
- 00:21:07.488 --> 00:21:09.390
- But be of good cheer, for i have overcome the world."
- 00:21:09.390 --> 00:21:13.227
- I think this was jesus' primary secret
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- For dealing with the stress he felt
- 00:21:16.630 --> 00:21:19.100
- With the assignment that he had in the world
- 00:21:19.100 --> 00:21:22.236
- To be the savior of the world.
- 00:21:22.236 --> 00:21:23.337
- How did he deal with that?
- 00:21:23.337 --> 00:21:24.705
- With the disciples, who didn't always do
- 00:21:24.705 --> 00:21:26.774
- What they were supposed to do.
- 00:21:26.774 --> 00:21:28.075
- With his enemies, how did he deal with it?
- 00:21:28.075 --> 00:21:31.011
- I think the secret was he stayed connected
- 00:21:31.011 --> 00:21:33.381
- To his heavenly father.
- 00:21:33.381 --> 00:21:35.383
- I find one of the most fascinating verses
- 00:21:35.383 --> 00:21:37.451
- About jesus' life comes from mark 1:35.
- 00:21:37.451 --> 00:21:40.855
- It says, "and in the early morning,
- 00:21:40.855 --> 00:21:44.058
- While it was still dark, jesus arose and he went out,
- 00:21:44.058 --> 00:21:48.262
- And departed to a lonely place and he was praying there."
- 00:21:48.262 --> 00:21:53.200
- Now when you look at mark 1,
- 00:21:53.801 --> 00:21:55.336
- You'll discover that this morning that they talk about
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- Was the day after the single busiest recorded day
- 00:21:59.473 --> 00:22:03.844
- In jesus' entire ministry.
- 00:22:03.844 --> 00:22:05.880
- He had started early,
- 00:22:05.880 --> 00:22:07.214
- Teaching and preaching and healing people,
- 00:22:07.214 --> 00:22:09.617
- And gone late into night.
- 00:22:09.617 --> 00:22:11.352
- But then the next morning,
- 00:22:11.352 --> 00:22:13.487
- When he certainly had every excuse for sleeping in,
- 00:22:13.487 --> 00:22:16.190
- The bible says, "no, he got up.
- 00:22:16.190 --> 00:22:19.660
- He went to a lonely place
- 00:22:19.660 --> 00:22:21.829
- While it was still dark outside, and he prayed."
- 00:22:21.829 --> 00:22:25.966
- You see, for jesus, time spent with god
- 00:22:25.966 --> 00:22:29.103
- Was not just some legalistic spiritual requirement
- 00:22:29.103 --> 00:22:32.506
- To be checked off.
- 00:22:32.506 --> 00:22:34.442
- Jesus' time spent with god was the secret of his strength,
- 00:22:35.609 --> 00:22:40.247
- The source of his peace.
- 00:22:40.748 --> 00:22:43.017
- And he offers us the same strength,
- 00:22:43.751 --> 00:22:47.755
- The same peace if we'll spend time with him.
- 00:22:47.755 --> 00:22:51.292
- God said it this way through the prophet isaiah.
- 00:22:51.292 --> 00:22:54.128
- Isaiah 40:29-31, "god gives strength to the weary,
- 00:22:54.128 --> 00:22:59.567
- And to him who lacks might, he increases power.
- 00:23:00.534 --> 00:23:03.404
- Though youths grow weary and tired
- 00:23:03.404 --> 00:23:05.606
- And vigorous young men stumble badly,
- 00:23:05.606 --> 00:23:08.609
- Yet those who wait for the lord will gain new strength.
- 00:23:08.609 --> 00:23:13.347
- They will mount up with wings like eagles.
- 00:23:13.347 --> 00:23:16.150
- They will run and not get tired.
- 00:23:16.150 --> 00:23:18.586
- They will walk and not become weary."
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- That's the foundation for choosing relaxation over stress.
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- ♪ music ♪
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- God's message through isaiah brings comfort
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- To those who are running ragged today.
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- The chaos in our world reminds us
- 00:23:38.873 --> 00:23:41.141
- That apart from god's intervention,
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- We have every reason to be stressed out.
- 00:23:43.244 --> 00:23:46.247
- But when we keep our eyes fixed on the source of peace,
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- We can remain calm and even relax.
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- Well, before our time is up today,
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- Let me say a word of thanks to those of you,
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- Maybe you've been watching today
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- Perhaps you've begun to realize
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- That your stress is self-manufactured.
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- Isn't it time to quit churning
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- About things you cannot change?
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- Remember, jesus said,
- 00:25:25.980 --> 00:25:27.481
- "in this world, you will have tribulation,
- 00:25:27.481 --> 00:25:30.417
- But be of good cheer, for i have overcome the world."
- 00:25:30.417 --> 00:25:34.521
- Well, many people believe that happiness comes
- 00:25:34.521 --> 00:25:37.057
- From things like money, good health, and comfort.
- 00:25:37.057 --> 00:25:40.461
- But scripture shows us that contentment
- 00:25:40.461 --> 00:25:42.863
- Has nothing to do with what we have or don't have.
- 00:25:42.863 --> 00:25:45.799
- It all comes down to how we think.
- 00:25:45.799 --> 00:25:48.535
- Stay tuned for a preview
- 00:25:48.535 --> 00:25:49.803
- Of what's coming up next in our series,
- 00:25:49.803 --> 00:25:52.006
- Choose your attitudes, change your life.
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- And it's interesting that the climactic command
- 00:25:56.176 --> 00:25:59.947
- Of the 10 commandments in exodus 20,
- 00:25:59.947 --> 00:26:02.650
- "thou shall not covet."
- 00:26:03.150 --> 00:26:05.886
- You know why that's the final climactic commandment?
- 00:26:05.886 --> 00:26:09.490
- Because every other sin flows out of that sin.
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