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Robert Jeffress - Detours That Destroy (Part 1)

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With dr. robert jeffress.
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Hi, i'm robert jeffress
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And welcome again to "pathway to victory."
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The writer of hebrews compares the christian life
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To a race and if you've ever run a marathon,
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Then you know how tempting shortcuts can look.
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Today i'm going to give you a warning.
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While we run the race that god has planned for us,
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There are two dangerous detours that we must avoid
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Because they're guaranteed to distract us
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From the finish line.
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My message is titled, "detours that destroy"
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On today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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A few years ago,
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Our nation was shocked when three florida teenagers
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Brutally murdered three individuals.
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They didn't use guns or knives,
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There were no blood stains on their clothes
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After the murder.
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In fact, they weren't even present
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When their victims were killed, but they were responsible.
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As a prank, these teenagers had removed the stop signs
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From a four-way intersection
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And the result was the motorist accelerated
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When they should have stopped.
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The result was a fiery collision
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That claimed the lives of three innocent people.
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You know today we have people in our world
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Who are trying to remove the stop signs
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That god has put into effect for our protection,
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And they really don't mean any harm by it.
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They're just trying to have fun.
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But whenever you go forward,
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When god says, stop,
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Whenever you say yes to the things god has said no to,
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The results can be just as catastrophic
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As a fiery automobile crash.
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And today we're going to look at two stop signs
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God has put into effect to protect us physically,
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Emotionally, and spiritually.
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If you have your bibles,
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I want you to turn to hebrews 13
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As we talk about detours that destroy.
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Now we're coming to the close
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Of our study in hebrews next week,
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But as we do so, let me remind you,
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Especially to understand these verses
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Of the context of this passage.
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Remember this letter to the hebrews
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Was written to a group of new christians.
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They were jewish christians
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Who were coming under persecution for their faith in christ,
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And as a result,
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They were considering giving up their christian faith
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And going back into judaism
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And the writer says,
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"why in the world would you ever want to do that?
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Jesus christ is the superior priest
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Who's offered a superior sacrifice
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To obtain a superior salvation.
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Why would you ever give that up?"
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That's the theme of the book.
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And for the first really 11 chapters of hebrews,
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The writer is explaining why jesus is superior
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To every element of judaism.
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The first 11 chapters are doctrinal in their theme,
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But when we come to chapter 12,
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We come to the big pivot in the book of hebrews.
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It begins with that word "therefore,"
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And that word therefore links us
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Into the practical application
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That we find in chapters 12 and 13.
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"therefore," the writer says,
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"since we have so great a cloud of witnesses surrounding us,
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Let us lay aside every encumbrance or wait
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And let us lay aside the sin what so easily entangles us
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And let us run with endurance the race
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That is set before us fixing our eyes on jesus,
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The author, the finisher of our faith."
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The image here is of a race.
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You're in a race and you don't stop.
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You keep your eyes on the finish line.
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You keep your eyes on jesus christ
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Who will reward you one day for your faithfulness.
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That's the image he's using here.
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Now let's continue that metaphor,
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That imagery for just a moment more.
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Let's imagine you're in a foot race.
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The stadium is packed with people cheering you on.
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It's a hot july day in dallas, 115 degrees.
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You're exhausted as you round the bend
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For the final lap of that race,
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You're hot, you're fatigued,
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And as you have your eyes on the finish line,
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You can't help but look over to the side
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And you see a person on the side of the track
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Who's motioning for you with one hand,
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While in the other hand
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He has lifted up a pitcher of iced tea.
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You're tempted, you are thinking about going off the track
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To satisfy your thirst.
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Your coach sees what's about to happen.
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He yells, "no, no, no."
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So what do you do?
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Do you obey your coach or do you follow your desires?
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Now that's the image of what we're going to look at
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In chapter 13.
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The writer says, as you run this race the christian life,
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There are two detours that will get you off track
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In your relationship with god
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And will disqualify you from the race.
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What are those two detours
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That will destroy your relationship with god?
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Detour number one is immorality.
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Immorality.
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You know, to talk about the rising divorce statistics
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In our country, it seems trite,
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But you know we see those statistics walking around us
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Everywhere we look,
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Even in the hallways of first baptist church in dallas.
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Let me tell you what i see as a pastor,
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And the reason this concerns me
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Is our church is no stronger
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Than the families that make up our church.
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Let me tell you what i see from my perspective as pastor.
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I see single adults who profess to be christians
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Completely disregarding god's commands for purity
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And living together without any thought about it whatsoever.
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I see men and women married
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Who are engaging in immoral adulterous relationships
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As if god has blinders on
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And he can't see or doesn't care about what they're doing.
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I see couples in our church who are divorcing
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Just about as the same rate as unbelievers do.
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The reason, there's no biblical reason for the divorce,
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They're not happy, they're not happy,
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As if god is more concerned about their happiness
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Than he is about their obedience to him.
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The ironic result is when they disobey god,
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It doesn't lead to happiness,
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It leads to despair, it leads to loneliness,
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Leads even sometimes to suicide.
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The same attack on the family that is going on
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In the 21st century was going on in the first century
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In the church of the first century
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And that's why the writer of hebrews says,
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Be careful of immorality.
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Verse four of hebrews 13, he says,
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"marriage is to be held in honor among all,
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And the marriage bed is to be undefiled.
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For fornicators and adulterers,
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God will judge."
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In this simple but profound verse,
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I see three secrets for saying no to immorality
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That detours you in your relationship with god.
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Notice the three commands here.
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First of all, revere the concept of marriage.
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Revere the concept of marriage.
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He says, "marriage should be held in honor."
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You know, amazingly in the first century like today,
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There are some people who either felt like
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Marriage was too good for them
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Or they felt like they were too good for marriage
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And say, what are you talking about?
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Well, in the first century there was a group of people
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Called the ascetics who were teaching that really
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If you're going to be holy in your relationship with god,
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You shouldn't marry, you shouldn't satisfy that desire
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To be married, that somehow going unmarried
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Will make you more holy before god.
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And paul addressed that in 1 timothy 4:3
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When he talked about false teachers who forbid marriage
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And advocate abstaining from certain foods,
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Which in fact god has created to be joyfully received
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By those who know and believe the truth.
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Anytime you see teachers who talk about abstaining
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From things that god has approved of,
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You need to stay away from that kind of teaching.
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It was going on in the first century,
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It's going on today.
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There's certain cults, even christian cults who say,
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Well, you know, if you really want to be holy,
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You know, marriage probably isn't the right thing to do.
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You need to remain single.
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No, god's the one who created the idea of marriage
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And that's why marriage ought to be held in honor.
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What is god's concept of marriage?
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Turn over to matthew 19 4:6,
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Matthew 19 4:6.
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Jesus said the whole question of divorce
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Can be settled when you go back
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To god's original plan for marriage.
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And in verse four, he goes back to genesis two
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Where it all started and said, have you not read
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That he who created them from the beginning
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Made them male and female.
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By the way, the whole question of gender identity
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Is answered right here.
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God made them male or female,
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He didn't make them male or female or question mark.
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We do not choose our gender.
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God chose it for us.
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He's the one who has made us male or female
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And it's just so interesting to me.
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People on the left who accuse us christians
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As being antiscience when it comes to gender,
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They're the ones who are antiscience.
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A person's gender is not a matter of his feelings,
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It's a matter of his chromosomes.
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Your gender is assigned to you by god,
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But that's not the reason jesus said this.
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The real key to this is look back at the beginning.
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When god created the first man and first woman,
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He created one man, adam and one woman, eve.
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There was no steve or jennifer or anybody else.
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It was one man and one woman.
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The key here is the singular nature
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Of this male and female,
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And he said, for this reason,
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A man shall leave his father and mother
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And then the two shall become one flesh.
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Listen, god says, i'm giving you the gift of sex,
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But here's how it's to be operated.
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It is between a man and a woman
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In the security of the marriage relationship.
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That's what god designed.
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One man, one woman in a lifetime relationship.
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And any question you have about divorce
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Or adultery or homosexuality,
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All you have to do is go back
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And look at what god's original plan was.
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I hear all the time, i used to debate people
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On tv about this all the time.
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It doesn't come up much anymore,
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But it used to about homosexuality.
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They said, "well, you know,
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Jesus never talked about homosexuality."
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Yes, he did.
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He's talked about it right here.
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Now we try to change the definition of marriage.
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In 2015, the supreme court said,
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"hey, we don't like that restriction.
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We don't like that stop sign.
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We're going to expand marriage.
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We're going to say marriage is basically whatever you want
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It to be.
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Two men, two women, that's fine.
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That can be marriage."
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Listen, the highest court in the land,
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The supreme court may try to change
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The definition of marriage,
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But guess what the judge of all the universe has said no.
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He said marriage is between a man and a woman,
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And as the psalm has said,
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"thy word is settled in heaven forever.
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Oh god, we dare not bless what god has condemned."
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Any deviation from that pattern is against god's word.
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We need to revere the concept of marriage.
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Secondly, if you're going to stay away from immorality,
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Renew your commitment to your own marriage,
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He says, "let the marriage bed be undefiled."
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Now that word undefiled literally means
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Free from contamination.
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What does that mean?
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Your marriage bed free from contamination?
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Well, the next phrase gives us a clue.
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"for fornicators and adulterers,
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The lord will judge."
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Here are the two possible ways
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That you can defile the marriage bed.
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One is through fornication.
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That is you come to the marriage relationship
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Already contaminated, defiled.
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That's what fornication refers to.
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Fornication in the bible refers to sex before marriage,
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Sex before marriage.
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Follow what god says.
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He's put that stop sign no sex outside of marriage,
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Not for his benefit, but for your benefit.
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He's not trying to restrict you from happiness.
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He's trying to enhance your happiness.
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So he says, don't engage in fornication.
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That's one way you defile the marriage bed.
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There's another way though that you do it,
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And that is through adultery after you're married,
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By engaging in other extramarital relationships,
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And the bible says, don't do that.
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Don't get involved in sex outside
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The marriage relationship,
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And that means you have to continually,
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Continually renew your commitment to your mate
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And a sexual purity inside marriage.
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You know there's an old arabian proverb that says,
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Marriage begins with a prince, kissing an angel
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And ends with an old baldheaded man
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Looking across the table at a fat lady.
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Don't write me about that.
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That's the arabs who came up with it.
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That's an arab proverb, not my proverb,
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But the truth is, it takes more than sexual passion
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And romance to keep a marriage together.
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Those things are important, yes,
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But they're not always enough.
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It takes commitment.
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Commitment to your marriage vows and to your mate.
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I remember performing the funeral service for a woman
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Who had been married to the same man for 58 years.
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During the last 10 years of her life, she wore a colostomy.
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For the final five years of her life,
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She was in a nursing home and her husband watched over her
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And took care of her five hours every day.
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What is it that kept that marriage together?
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It wasn't sexual passion,
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It wasn't romance in the end,
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It was the bedrock commitment
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They had made to one another.
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And i remember at her memorial service,
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A man was with me, another pastor
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Participating in the service.
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I'll never forget what he said,
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He said, "in my life,
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I've been to many promise keepers men's conferences
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Where i've heard man after man stand up
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And talk about remaining faithful to his wife,
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But watching this husband take care of his wife
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For 10 years is the best promise keepers conference
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I've ever attended.
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The bible says, if you're going to say no to immorality,
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You need to renew your commitment to your mate
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And to sexual purity.
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Thirdly, how do you stay sexually pure?
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How do you avoid the trap of immorality?
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Thirdly, realize the consequences of immorality.
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Realize the consequences of immorality
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For fornicators and adulterers, god will judge.
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Remember, there are consequences for immorality.
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God will judge.
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Now, he's not talking about the hell
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And fire brimstone kind of judgment.
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That's a real judgment for non-christians,
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But he's talking about there's a judgment for christians
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Who fall into fornication
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Or into any other type of immorality.
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You know, today the non-christian says,
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"oh, there's nothing wrong with sex.
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It's just a natural bodily function
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That needs to be satisfied,
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Like getting thirsty or getting hungry."
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In fact, one unbeliever wrote quote,
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"sex is a function of the body,
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A drive which man shares with animals,
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Like eating, drinking, and sleeping.
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It's a physical demand that must be satisfied.
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If you don't satisfy it, you will have all sorts
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Of neuroses and repressive psychoses."
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The writer of hebrews and god himself says,
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Sex is more than just a physical act.
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It is an emotional, it is a spiritual act,
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And that's why paul said in 1 corinthians 6:18,
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"flee immorality for every other sin
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That a man commits is outside the body,
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But an immoral man sins against his own body."
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Listen, all sin is sin.
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I understand that,
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But some sins have greater consequences
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Than other sins do.
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And when you join yourself to somebody
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You're not married to,
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You're not just joining your bodies together,
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You're joining your souls and your spirit together as well,
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And it can have devastating consequences.
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Back in 1992, i was reading charles swindoll's newsletter
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To his church congregation in fullerton, california.
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I used to read it every week
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He would write a pastor's pen like i do,
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And there's one of those issues
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That really caught my attention.
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He was talking about the consequences
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Of sexual immorality
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And it made such an impression on me,
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I clipped it out and kept it in my file
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All of these years.
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I'm talking to some of you
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In this congregation right now,
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Some of you watching or listening to this message.
00:20:29.384 --> 00:20:32.087
Right now, you're involved a secret,
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Immoral relationship, or maybe you're just on the edge
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About to fall into such a relationship.
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Before you go any further, i want you to listen carefully
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To the very real potential consequences
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Of that immorality.
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Number one, the total devastation
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That will bring to your children, their growth, innocence,
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Trust, and healthy outlook on life
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Will be permanently damaged.
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The embarrassment of facing other christians
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Who once appreciated you,
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Respected you, and trusted you will be overwhelming.
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If you are engaged in the lord's work,
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You will suffer the immediate loss of your job
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And the support of those with whom you work.
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The dark shadow will accompany you
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Everywhere and forever.
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Disillusionment and anger will spread rapidly
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Among those to whom you once ministered.
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Your fall will give others license to do the same.
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Your mate will immediately be isolated
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By most of those who once stood near.
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Guilt, shame, and rejection,
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He or she is sure to feel,
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Will accompany the anguish of loneliness.
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The inner peace you once enjoyed will be gone forever.
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You will set in motion a generational chain reaction.
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You won't be able to stop it
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No matter how hard you try.
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The heartache you will cause to your parents, your family,
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Your peers, your mentors,
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And your disciples will be indescribable.
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You will never be able to erase your fall
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From your or other people's mind.
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As solomon wrote, your reproach will not be blotted out.
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This will indelibly remain etched on your life's record.
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The name of jesus christ whom you once honored
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Will be tarnished,
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Giving the enemies of the faith
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Further reason to sneer and jeer.
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Your mate will feel betrayed
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And can never again say that you are a model of fidelity.
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Suspicions will rob her or him of trust.
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Your escapades will introduce to your life
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And your mate's life,
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The very real probability of sexually transmitted disease.
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And then swindoll closes his article with these words.
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"solomon was right.
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The way of the transgressor is hard.
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Forgiveness may come, the affair may end.
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Restoration to fellowship may occur,
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But these consequences will never go away."
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Avoid the detour of immorality.
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♪ music ♪
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God provides these clear cut guidelines
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So that his children don't get hurt.
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He loves us and i hope you'll tune in again tomorrow
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Because there's much more i want to show you
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In this 13th chapter of hebrews.
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The sins of immorality and materialism
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Have taken down many christians over the years
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And many more will succumb.
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But scripture clearly lays out a plan for success
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In avoiding these dangerous traps.
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Today we looked at three secrets
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For saying no to immorality,
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And next time we'll look at three commands
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For avoiding the detour of materialism.
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Stay tuned for a preview of what's coming up next
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In our series "spiritual fitness."
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A content person is one who is self-contained.
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That is his happiness in life,
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His joy, his satisfaction
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Is not tied to the dow jones industrial average.
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It's not tied to the square footage of his home.
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It's not tied or dependent upon
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The kind of car he drives.
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He's not looking to external things to fill him up.
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Set your dvr and join us next time
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For part two of the message "detours that destroy,"
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Here on "pathway to victory."
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Robert Jeffress - Detours That Destroy (Part 1)

May 19, 2026 | 27:29

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