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Robert Jeffress - Fireproofing Your Speech

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Fireproofing Your Speech | September 20, 2025

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From the pulpit of the first baptist church
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Of dallas, texas,
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This is "pathway to victory" with dr. robert jeffress.
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Hi, i am robert jeffress
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And welcome again to "pathway to victory."
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We've all been there before.
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We've said something we immediately regretted,
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Something that slipped out before we could catch it.
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Once those words left our mouths,
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We wished we could take them back,
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But it was too late.
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The damage was already done.
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Well, the bible has a lot to say
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About the importance of controlling our speech.
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Today i'm going to share with you
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Some practical principles for keeping destructive words
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From destroying your relationships.
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My message is titled fireproofing your speech
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On today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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Where there's genuine faith,
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There will always be visible fruit.
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In his brand new book,
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"how to know if you're really saved,"
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Dr. robert jeffress helps you take stock
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Of the evidence of your faith,
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The spiritual fruit in your daily life.
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This outstanding verse-by-verse walk
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Through the book of james
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Will help you cultivate the spiritual fruit
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That reflects genuine faith.
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Request "how to know if you're really saved"
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When you give a generous gift
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Speech therapists have a way
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Of helping people who have lisps
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And they have them engage in an exercise very simple.
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They tell them to take their tongues
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And see how long they can keep their tongues
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From touching the roof of their mouths or their teeth.
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Now you may think that's simple.
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Try doing it.
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Try swallowing without touching the roof
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Of your mouth or your teeth.
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It's not an easy exercise.
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But the truth is,
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The difficulty in controlling our tongue's movement
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Goes far beyond a mere speech exercise
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And extends to every word we speak.
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It was the greek sage publilius who said,
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"i've often regretted my speech,
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But never my silence."
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I am right now reading a brand new book out.
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It's a biography of the late talk show host johnny carson.
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Now for those of you under 60,
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You may have no idea who johnny carson is,
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But just trust me.
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Before jimmy fallon,
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Before jay leno or david letterman,
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The king of late night talk was johnny carson.
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He was one time asked
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If he had any regrets in his life at all.
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This is what he said after thinking for a few moments.
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He said, "i suppose one regret i have
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Is some of the things i said on the air.
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I hadn't planned to say them.
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They just slipped out.
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I would give anything
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If i could retrieve some of those words."
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Sounds like james, the half brother of jesus,
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Who wrote something similar.
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He said in james 3, "no one can tame the tongue
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For it is full of deadly poison."
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And yet in this very same letter of james,
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James tells us we have a responsibility
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To control our speech.
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In fact, in chapter 1 verse 26, he says,
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"if anyone thinks himself to be religious
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And yet does not bridle his tongue,
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He deceives his own heart;
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This man's religion is worthless."
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Controlling our speech is not optional, it's essential,
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It is a proof of whether we're really saved or not.
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And that's the thing with the book of james,
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How to know if you're really saved?
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If you have genuine faith,
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There's going to be genuine fruit in your life
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And part of that fruit is the ability to control our speech.
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If you have your bibles,
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Turn to james chapter 3
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As we look at some helpful tips
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For fireproofing our speech.
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As you're turning to james 3, i might mention
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This is the longest section anywhere in the bible
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On the topic of controlling our speech.
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And james begins the discussion in chapter 3 verse 1
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By a seemingly totally unrelated topic.
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Now, sometimes i'll chase a rabbit trail.
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It sounds like james is doing this here,
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But he's not as you'll see in a moment.
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Look at the warning he gives in verse 1.
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"let not many of you become teachers, my brethren,
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Knowing that as such we shall incur a stricter judgment."
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The moffatt translation says,
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"do not swell the ranks of teacher."
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Another translation says,
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"stop clamoring for the office of teacher."
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Jesus warned matthew 12:37,
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"be careful about being anxious to speak
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Because for your words, you will be justified,
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And by your words you will be condemned."
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Why are teachers subject to a stricter judgment?
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I've given you three reasons on your outlines.
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First of all, teachers are responsible
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For speaking the truth.
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When somebody stands in the pulpit
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Or stands up before a group at a bible study,
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Their job is not to share their opinions
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Or the opinions of others.
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Their job is to say, "thus sayeth the lord."
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We are to make sure we're speaking accurately
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The word of god from the bible.
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And if we don't, we shall incur judgment.
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Secondly, teachers are responsible for the lives of others.
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Now, i can't make you apply god's word.
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God's not going to hold me accountable
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For whether you apply the word or not.
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But i am responsible to make sure my interpretation
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Is correct of the scripture,
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So not to lead you astray.
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And then thirdly, teachers are responsible
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For living the truth.
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We are going to be judged by what we say,
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What we're telling other people to do are we doing.
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When there's any daylight
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Between what a teacher of god's word says
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And how he lives, it's called hypocrisy,
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And people are quick to smell
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And ferret out hypocrisy.
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In romans 2, paul said, beginning with verse 1,
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"therefore, you have no excuse,
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Every one of you who passes judgment,
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For in that which you judge another,
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You condemn yourself;
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For you who judge, practice the same things.
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And we know that the judgment of god
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Rightly falls upon those who practice such things."
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Remember jesus' words about judging?
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He said, "be careful how you judge other people
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Because by the same standard you judge others,
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You will be judged."
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You have to be mature to be able
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To keep from stumbling in your speech.
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We're all going to do it,
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But that's not an excuse.
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We are responsible for controlling our tongue.
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Now, james begins in verse 3
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By talking about the difficulty of controlling our tongue,
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The power of the tongue.
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And notice james says,
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The tongue's power can be seen in two ways.
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First of all, in relationship to its size,
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And he gives two illustrations.
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Look at verse 3.
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"now, if we put the bits into the horse's mouths
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So that they will only obey us,
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We direct the entire body as well."
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The tongue is powerful, especially in relationship
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To its size, but secondly in relationship to its effects.
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Look at verse 5.
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"so also the tongue is a small part of the body
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And yet it boast of great things.
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See how great a forest is set aflame
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By such a small fire."
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Our words have eternal consequences.
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In matthew 12 verses 36 to 37, listen to this:
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Jesus said, "i tell you
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That every careless word that people speak,
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They shall give an accounting for in the day of judgment.
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For by your words, you shall be justified,
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And by your words you will be condemned."
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Isn't that an amazing comment by jesus?
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We are going to be judged one day by every word we speak.
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How is such a thing even possible?
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The tongue reveals what is really in our heart
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And that's the point of verses 8 through 11,
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But nobody contained the tongue.
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It's a restless evil and full of deadly poison.
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With it, we bless our lord and father;
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And with it we curse men who have been made
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In the likeness of god from the same mouth
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Come blessing and cursing.
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"my brethren, these things ought not to be this way.
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Does a fountain send out from the same opening
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Both fresh and bitter water?"
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You will never change a person's speech.
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We can never change our speech until we change our heart.
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Our tongue reveals what is really in our heart.
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You know, this is a message that cries for application.
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How do we go about fireproofing our speech?
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How do we make sure our speech
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Doesn't cause a destructive fire
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That destroys everyone and everything around it?
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Let me suggest four principles
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For fireproofing your speech,
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Four commitments you and i need to make.
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First of all, to realize i am responsible
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For the words that i speak, i'm responsible.
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Yes, it's difficult to control our speech,
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But we are nevertheless responsible.
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Remember, matthew 12:36 to 37,
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"i tell you every careless word that people speak,
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They shall give an accounting for in the day of judgment;
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For by your words you will be justified
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And by your words you will be condemned."
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Second principle: my speech is a daily reminder
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Of the need to purify my heart.
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Our tongue, our speech, our stumbles in our speech
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Should be a reminder that we need
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To daily meditate on god's word.
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And james 4:8, we'll look at next time,
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James says, "draw near to god and he will draw near to you.
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Cleanse your hands, you sinners,
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And purify your hearts, you double-minded."
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If the problems of our speech come from our heart,
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Then it only stands to reason
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The solution to our speech lies in the heart as well.
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We need a daily cleansing of our heart
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That comes from god's word.
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Number three: i will refuse to criticize another person
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Until i've confronted him privately.
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That's a way to fireproof your speech.
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I am not going to criticize anyone
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That i've not confronted privately.
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And james 4:11 to 12.
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"do not speak against one another, brethren,
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For he who speaks against a brother
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Or judges his brother,
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Speaks against the law and judges the law.
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But if you judge the law,
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You are a doer of the law, but a judge of it.
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There is only one law giver and judge,
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The one who is able to save and to destroy.
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But who are you to judge your neighbor?"
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But pastor, you don't understand.
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I'm not judging, i'm trying to help that other person
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By publicly denouncing them.
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James said, "oh, you're trying to help somebody?
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You're trying to help them around
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And get on the right path? congratulations."
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In james 5 verses 19 to 20,
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James says, "my brethren, if any among you,
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Strays from the truth and one turns him back,
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Let him know that he who turns a sinner
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From the error of his way will save his soul from death
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And will cover a multitude of sins."
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It's a wonderful thing to try to turn somebody around
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Who's on the path of sin.
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But if that's your real motivation,
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Then you'll deal with that person as privately as possible,
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Not as publicly as possible.
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In fact, in matthew 18,
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Jesus gives us the directions for how to do that.
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In verse 15, "if your brother sins,
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Go and show him his fault in private.
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If he doesn't respond,
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Take two or three with you," jesus says.
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"if they don't respond still,
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Go and take the leaders of the church with you."
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But the idea is keep the circle of knowledge about his sin
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As small as possible.
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Now there's one exception to that.
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There may be more,
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But there's one exception, very clear,
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And that is when a crime is taking place,
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When there's the sexual abuse of a child.
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Here in our church, we don't keep that private.
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Our staff knows that if there's suspected abuse going on,
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They are immediately to contact law enforcement
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And to report that.
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There's zero tolerance here at our church
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For the abuse in any way of children.
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But having said that,
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Other sins that a person is involved in,
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If you're really trying to restore them,
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You deal with it privately.
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Proverbs 6:19 says, "of the seven things god hates most,
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One of those seven is those who spread strife
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Among the brethren."
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And that strife is often kindled
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And ignited by criticism.
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Number four, how do you fireproof your speech?
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Make this commitment.
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I will ask forgiveness
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From those i've offended with my speech.
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Some of the hardest things i've ever had to do
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Is go and apologize to somebody
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For something i said about them.
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Every time, it was so painful to do that.
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I swore i would never make that mistake again.
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But that commitment's important
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If we're going to keep the unity of spirit
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And the bond of peace.
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In matthew 5, verses 23 to 24, jesus said,
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"if you are presenting your offering at the altar
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And you remember that your brother
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Has something against you,
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Leave your offering there before the altar and go,
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And first be reconciled to your brother,
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And then come and present your offering."
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You know what that verse is saying?
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God is more interested in the unity of his body
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Than he is in sacrifices.
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Sacrifices are great,
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But if you realize you have disunity with another believer
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Because of something you've done,
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You're to go and make things right,
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And that includes offending somebody by your speech.
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I found it's a lot easier to fireproof something
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Before the fire begins than wait
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Until you're in the middle of a damaging all out blaze.
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And that's true about our speech as well.
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You know, i will never forget
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The night of july 19, 2024.
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A few of us were standing on patterson street
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While millions of people were tuned in
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On television or the internet
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Watching that massive fire
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That destroyed our historic sanctuary.
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It was an unbelievable scene.
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Four alarm fire, 130 firefighters trying to put it out.
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They did a great job,
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But they weren't able to save the old sanctuary.
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It destroyed everything.
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Did well over 100 million dollars worth of damage.
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People ask me everywhere i go,
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Did they ever determine what caused the fire?
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And the official report is it's undetermined.
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They don't know what caused it.
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But here's what we know for sure.
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Somewhere that night,
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There was a single spark that ignited a flame
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That produced a devastating fire and destroyed everything.
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Now the good news is we're recovering from that.
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We are going to recover from that.
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We're going to rebuild that historic sanctuary.
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That's going to happen.
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But there's another kind of fire
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That can happen in a church
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That the church will never recover from.
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And we can all point to churches like it around the country,
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A church that is destroyed of one spark,
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One act of immorality on the part of a leader,
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One spark, one act of financial dishonesty,
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Or one spark of gossip or slander
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That becomes a raging fire and destroys the witness,
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The unity of the church.
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Church never recovers from that.
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So realizing that possibility
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And loving this church just like you love this church,
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I'm going to do something to close the service today.
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I'm going to deputize each one of you
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To be assistant firefighters in the church.
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You're willing to take on the responsibility?
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It's real simple.
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All you need to do is as you move in and out of the church
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And around different groups and individuals in the church.
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Be on guard for any spark of slander, gossip, criticism.
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Quench it, put it out as soon as you can.
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How do you do that?
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How do you quench slander and gossip and criticism?
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Here's some questions.
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These are real quenchers, if you will.
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Number one, ask the person or say,
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"you know, i have a hard time believing that's true.
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Are you sure?
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Do you have facts, evidence about what you're saying?"
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Or ask the question,
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"have you gone to that individual yourself
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And talked with them privately about your concern?"
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Or the real good one, number three,
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-"may i quote you on that?" -(congregation laughing)
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If we refuse to listen to the gossip of others,
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They would die for lack of an audience.
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We have a responsibility
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To make sure we're not causing the sparks,
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But to extinguish those sparks wherever we see them.
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You know, i can't believe i've almost been here 18 years.
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And in those 18 years,
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I've never been more excited
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About the future of our church than i am right now.
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But as your pastor, your friend, i need to warn you
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About what could devastate our congregation.
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And at the top of the list is unguarded speech.
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Let's be diligent to preserve the unity of spirit
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And the bond of peace by fireproofing our speech.
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Our words have the power to build up or tear down,
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To heal or to hurt.
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And i hope today's message has equipped you
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With the tools you need to fireproof your speech
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Before destructive words cause irreparable damage.
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What we say matters more than we realize.
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And the key to controlling our speech
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Isn't found in external techniques,
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But in the condition of our heart.
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When we purify our hearts through god's word,
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Our speech naturally follows.
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Of living a godly life.
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That will help you evaluate your spiritual growth.
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"how to know if you're really saved."
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"do you want to be a person
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Of great wisdom and understanding?"
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"then here's how to do it.
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And the gentleness of wisdom.
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If you're really wise,
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Robert Jeffress - Fireproofing Your Speech

September 20, 2025 | 29:0

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