Robert Jeffress - Good Grace Marriages (Part A)

April 22, 2026 | 27:29

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Good Grace Marriages (Part A) | April 22, 2026
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  • From the pulpit
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  • Of the first baptist church of dallas, texas,
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  • This is "pathway to victory" with dr. robert jeffress.
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  • Hi, i am robert jeffress
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  • And welcome again to "pathway to victory."
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  • God holds his children to a higher standard
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  • Than the rest of the world,
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  • But sadly, too many christians behave
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  • Just like their non-christian neighbors,
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  • Especially when it comes to marriage.
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  • Today i'm going to share with you three misconceptions
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  • About marriage that stem from a misunderstanding of grace.
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  • My message is titled,
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  • Good grace marriages,
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  • On today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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  • Some christians use grace
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  • As a spiritual get out of jail free card.
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  • Others pile on so many rules,
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  • They have no grace for themselves or others.
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  • In "grace gone wild" dr. robert jeffress shows you
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  • What biblical grace actually looks like
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  • And how practicing it leads to true freedom and lasting joy.
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  • Discover how grace can transform your marriage,
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  • Your relationships, and your walk with god.
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  • For the past 50 years,
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  • Biblical teaching about marriage and the family
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  • Has occupied more print space,
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  • More radio and television airtime
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  • Than perhaps any doctrine in the christian faith.
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  • And while i'm certainly as a husband, father, grandfather,
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  • Grateful for any help i can get
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  • On how to have a more blessed family,
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  • I do question how much good
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  • All of this information has done.
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  • I mean, especially when you look at the statistics,
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  • Some of the statistics i've seen recently suggest
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  • That those who claim
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  • To be born again christians actually divorce more frequently
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  • Than unbelievers.
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  • And when you delve down into the figure
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  • At the top of the list of born again christians
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  • Who tend to divorce the most often it's those who identify
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  • As fundamentalist christians.
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  • There's something fundamentally wrong about that,
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  • Don't you think?
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  • I mean people who say they believe the truth of god's word
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  • And yet ignore it without any thought whatsoever,
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  • How do you explain that?
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  • Why do christians so wantingly
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  • And blatantly violate god's teachings about marriage?
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  • Two words, bad grace.
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  • Christians have taken the doctrine
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  • Of grace and perverted it, especially in the area
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  • Of marriage and the family.
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  • A lot of christians tend to take
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  • The biblical commands about the family.
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  • Well, kind of like they do the instructions
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  • In their owner's manual
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  • About how to operate their automobile.
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  • They think, you know, it's kind of like a suggestion.
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  • We tend to take instructions about marriage the same way.
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  • We say, oh yeah, in an ideal situation,
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  • Christians should only marry christians.
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  • You shouldn't have an affair, you shouldn't get divorced.
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  • But you know, if you do those things, no lasting damage,
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  • Grace is like god's magic wand.
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  • He can wave over all of those acts of disobedience
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  • And that magic wand will call all consequences,
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  • All the hurt and emotional pain
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  • Of spiritually mixed marriages,
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  • Sexual immorality, divorce to disappear instantly
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  • And everything will be perfect again.
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  • That's what you call bad grace.
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  • Good grace recognizes that while every violation
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  • Of god's commands, even in the area of marriage,
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  • While those violations are forgivable,
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  • They still have consequences to them.
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  • And nowhere in scripture do you see the relationship
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  • Between obedience to god's commands
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  • And god's blessing,
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  • That in the passage we just read a few moments ago
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  • From deuteronomy 11:26-28.
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  • Remember the children of israel
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  • Were standing on the precipice of entering
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  • Into the promised land,
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  • And moses warned them about a choice they needed to make.
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  • He said, "see, i'm setting before you today a blessing
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  • And a curse.
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  • The blessing if you listen to the commandments
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  • Of the lord your god, which i'm commanding you today,
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  • And the curse if you do not listen to the commandments
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  • Of the lord your god,
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  • But you turn aside from the way
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  • That i'm commanding you today."
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  • It's very simple,
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  • If you obey, you experience god's blessing.
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  • If you disobey, you experience god's curses.
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  • And know where is that corollary between obedience
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  • And blessing seen more clearly
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  • Than when it comes to the family.
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  • Today and next time, this is such an important topic.
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  • I'm going to devote two weeks to it.
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  • Today and next week we're going to expose
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  • The three lies about marriage that bad grace promotes.
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  • There are lies about the formation,
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  • About fidelity
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  • And about the finality of marriage.
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  • Today we're going to look at the first two
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  • Of those three lies.
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  • Lie number one has to do with the formation of a marriage.
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  • And line number one says,
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  • Grace means i can marry whomever i want.
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  • Grace means i can marry whomever want.
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  • Whenever i'm invited to speak to high school students
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  • Or college students,
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  • I don't even have to pray about the topic
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  • I'm going to talk about.
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  • I know exactly what they want to hear about.
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  • How do you find a mate?
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  • I mean the greatest fear among single people
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  • Is that they will remain single and won't find a mate
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  • Or find the right mate.
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  • So i like to talk about that topic
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  • And expand it to a broader topic
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  • Of how to discover god's will for your life.
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  • But when i talk about finding a mate,
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  • I always go back to genesis 24.
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  • You remember the story,
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  • Abraham was advanced in age.
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  • God had promised to make him the father of a great nation.
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  • He had said the promise would go through his son isaac.
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  • The only problem was, you know, isaac was still at home.
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  • He didn't have a bride yet.
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  • So abraham said, look, time is getting short.
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  • We need to find a wife for isaac.
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  • So he send his servant eliezer back in deccan
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  • And to find a wife for isaac.
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  • And i always explain to teenagers
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  • That in those days in the middle eastern custom,
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  • Parents were the ones
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  • Who chose your marriage partner for you,
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  • It was an arranged marriage.
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  • And you can hear the collected, ew, you've got to be kidding.
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  • They'd rather remain single
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  • Than have their parents pick out their maid for them.
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  • Of course today we don't do that.
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  • But you know, you still wonder,
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  • Could things be any worse
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  • If we had parents still picking out mates
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  • For their children?
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  • We're not doing so well
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  • When we allow people to pick their own.
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  • But that's another sermon for another topic.
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  • And this day, eliezer, the servant,
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  • Went to pick the bride for isaac.
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  • And abraham gave him some instructions
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  • About the kind of wife that he needed to look for.
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  • There were boundaries about the person that could be chosen.
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  • It wasn't anybody eliezer chose,
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  • There were some requirements.
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  • And the same thing is true today.
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  • Good grace understands that we have to follow god's commands
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  • About whom to marry.
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  • And specifically god gives two boundaries
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  • About the formation of a marriage,
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  • The selection of a marriage partner.
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  • Write these down.
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  • Number one, good grace recognizes
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  • That marriage must be with a member
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  • Of the opposite sex.
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  • First requirement,
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  • They have to be a member of the opposite sex.
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  • Now you may be thinking what my teenage girls used to say
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  • When they were at home,
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  • Thank you captain obvious.
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  • (congregation laughing)
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  • You know, such a statement wouldn't have even needed
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  • To be of made several years ago.
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  • But now would the preponderance of same sex marriage
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  • And the ruling in 2015 by the supreme court,
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  • That's expanded the definition of marriage
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  • To include homosexual marriage, we need to say that.
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  • We need to say clearly.
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  • Look, the supreme court is the highest court in the land,
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  • But there is a court that is higher than the supreme court,
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  • It's the court of all heaven.
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  • And the judge of all the universe said, i beg to differ.
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  • No, marriage is not whatever you want it to be.
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  • Marriage is between a man and a woman.
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  • And the reason god can say that is god is the one
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  • Who designed marriage, it was his idea.
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  • When you say pastor, where do you find that?
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  • Where do you find that in the bible?
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  • God never condemned homosexual marriages.
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  • Oh, yes he did.
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  • Jesus did.
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  • Have you ever heard jesus never talked about homosexuality?
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  • Of course he did.
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  • Turn over to matthew 19.
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  • Matthew 19.
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  • Now we're going to look at matthew 19 in more depth next week
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  • When we discuss the issue of divorce.
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  • 'cause everything you've ever wanted to know
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  • About divorce and remarriage is found in matthew 19.
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  • The pharisees were trying to trick jesus like they did.
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  • So they got involved in a controversial topic
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  • Which happened to be divorced,
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  • And they said, jesus, is it lawful for a man to divorce
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  • His wife for any reason at all as moses taught?
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  • Well, moses didn't teach that, but that's another story.
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  • But jesus said, hey, everything you want to know about divorce
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  • Is answered when you go back
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  • To god's original plan for marriage.
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  • Look at verse four.
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  • "and he answered the pharisees and said,
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  • Have you not read that he who created them
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  • From the beginning made them male and female."
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  • Now i want to stop there
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  • And again point out something
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  • That should be obvious to everybody.
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  • There is not one sex, one gender, there are two.
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  • And god is the one who created genders.
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  • God is the one who made people male or female.
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  • You don't get to choose your gender.
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  • God has chosen it for you.
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  • Isn't it interesting
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  • That these people who go around talking about,
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  • Oh, we need to be people of science,
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  • We need to be people of science.
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  • Deny the most basic scientific proof of all,
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  • Our gender is not a matter of our choice,
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  • It's a matter of chromosomes,
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  • It's a matter of science.
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  • You're either male or female
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  • And god is the one who determines that.
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  • And yet today, in the gender fluidity culture,
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  • We're told, well, you can't impose gender on somebody else.
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  • They get to choose.
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  • You know, the fact is gender fluidity,
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  • People who are confused about their gender,
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  • I'll say it again,
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  • They need to be treated compassionately,
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  • But they must be treated.
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  • It's an emotional disorder.
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  • To be confused about your gender.
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  • Just suppose your teenage son came into you parents
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  • And said, you know, i've been thinking about this.
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  • I've decided that i'm not a boy, i'm a kumquat.
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  • (congregation laughing)
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  • And i'm going to identify as a kumquat from this point on.
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  • What would you do?
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  • Would you say, oh, well honey,
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  • Let me start dressing you like a kumquat
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  • If that's what you want to be.
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  • Or what if he said to you, you know, as a kumquat,
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  • I don't feel comfortable going to the bathroom
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  • And sharing a bathroom with other boys.
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  • I want my own restroom to go to a kumquat restroom.
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  • What would you do?
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  • You would get that child to the psychologist
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  • As soon as you possibly could.
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  • They need help, they need therapy.
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  • It's the same way with people who are confused
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  • About their gender.
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  • You know when you say, i am not going to identify any longer
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  • With the gender that god made me,
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  • That is the ultimate rebellion against your creator,
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  • To say, you don't get to choose god,
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  • I'm going to choose.
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  • And you know, romans 1 tells us,
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  • That whenever we harden our heart against god,
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  • We reject whatever truth god has given us,
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  • That leads to mental confusion.
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  • They became darkened in their understanding.
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  • Paul said, because they did not receive
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  • The knowledge of the truth.
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  • We need to have a clear word as god's people
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  • In this decadent culture today,
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  • That god is the one who has made us.
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  • He has made us either male or female.
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  • That's the basic teaching.
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  • God made them male and female.
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  • What does that have to do with marriage?
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  • Verse five.
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  • "and god said, for this reason, a man shall leave his father
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  • And mother and be joined to his wife,
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  • And the two shall become one flesh."
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  • Jesus is reiterating what every plumber knows.
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  • Sex is to be between opposites,
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  • Not two people who are the same.
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  • Between male and female.
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  • In genesis 2:18, before god made eve,
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  • Remember what he said to adam?
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  • He said, adam, i'm getting ready
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  • To make a helper suitable for you.
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  • That word suitable and he literally means opposite you.
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  • God didn't intend your spouse to be a duplicate of you.
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  • God made your spouse to be an opposite
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  • So that man or woman could compliment
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  • E&t fit together with you to make a more powerful union.
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  • Now, there's one area that a husband
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  • And wife need to be the same in,
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  • But quit trying to force your husband and wife
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  • To be like you in every way.
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  • God meant you're made to be opposite you,
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  • To shore up the weaknesses, to be opposite in every way,
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  • Including in your gender.
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  • Theologian john piper explains it this way.
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  • He said, by creating a person like adam,
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  • Yet very unlike adam,
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  • God provided the possibility of a profound unity
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  • That would otherwise have been impossible.
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  • Talking about the creation of eve.
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  • A different kind of unity is enjoyed by joining
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  • Of diverse counterparts
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  • Than it is joined by joining together two things
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  • That are alike.
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  • When we all sing the same melody line, it's called unison,
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  • Which means one sound.
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  • But when we unite the verse lines
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  • Of soprano and alto and tenor and bass, and call it harmony,
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  • And everyone who has an ear to hear knows
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  • That something is touched in us more deeply
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  • By great harmony than by unison.
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  • So god made a woman and not another man,
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  • He created heterosexuality, not homosexuality.
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  • God's first institution was marriage,
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  • Not a fraternity.
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  • That's god's plan.
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  • God's boundaries for marriage begins with, first of all,
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  • We must choose a mate who is a member of the opposite sex.
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  • Secondly, good grace recognizes
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  • That our mate must be a believer.
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  • Are you free to marry anybody you want to?
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  • No, according to god's word,
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  • A member of the opposite sex.
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  • Secondly, they have to be a believer.
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  • That's your requirement by the way you find in both the old
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  • And the new testaments.
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  • Again, going back to the book of deuteronomy 7,
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  • Moses told these israelites before they went into canaan,
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  • To take the promised land,
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  • You're going to be tempted to marry these pagan women,
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  • The canaanites, don't do it.
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  • Why?
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  • Look at verses three and four of deuteronomy 7.
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  • "furthermore, you shall not intermarry with them.
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  • You shall not give your daughters to their sons,
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  • Nor shall you take their daughters for your sons,
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  • For they will turn your sons away from following me
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  • To serve other gods.
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  • Then the anger of the lord will be kindled against you
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  • And he will quickly destroy you."
  • 00:16:59.741 --> 00:17:02.778
  • Now, will you notice the prohibition here
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  • Is not against marrying somebody of another race.
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  • Let's say this clearly.
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  • There is nothing in the bible
  • 00:17:12.588 --> 00:17:15.457
  • That prohibits intermarriage between races.
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  • That's not what this is about.
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  • The prohibition was not because the canaanites
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  • Were of a different race,
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  • It's because they were of a different religion.
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  • They were of a different faith.
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  • If you're a christian, it doesn't matter what the skin color
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  • Of your mate is, as long as they're a christian as well,
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  • That has nothing to do with it.
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  • What god cares is about the faith
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  • That's worth applauding.
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  • We need to say that
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  • Because we have misapplied scripture in this area.
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  • What matters is the faith of that other person.
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  • We're the only marry believers, why?
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  • First of all, to marry an unbeliever,
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  • Moses said, will damage your relationship with god.
  • 00:18:01.603 --> 00:18:05.841
  • Notice verse four,
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  • "they will turn your sons away from following me
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  • To serve other gods."
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  • May i tell you something, from my experience,
  • 00:18:12.981 --> 00:18:15.784
  • I've been doing this a long time?
  • 00:18:15.784 --> 00:18:18.120
  • In 40 plus years of observing couples and marrying couples,
  • 00:18:19.321 --> 00:18:24.259
  • Whenever a christian marries a non-christian,
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  • Maybe one time out of 100,
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  • That christian will lead his non-christian mate
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  • To faith in christ.
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  • One time in 100,
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  • 99 times out of a 100,
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  • That non-believing mate will bring down that believing mate.
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  • Just bring him down or her down.
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  • There'll be such bickering in the marriage over things
  • 00:18:52.621 --> 00:18:55.591
  • Like church attendance or how you're going to rear the children
  • 00:18:55.591 --> 00:18:58.727
  • Or giving to god's work.
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  • There'll be such bickering and friction
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  • That the believer who's the mate will just say,
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  • I'm tired of all this turmoil.
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  • I can't put up with it.
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  • I'll give in.
  • 00:19:10.272 --> 00:19:11.640
  • That happens 99 times out of a 100.
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  • You may think as a christian,
  • 00:19:14.309 --> 00:19:16.078
  • You're going to bring
  • 00:19:16.078 --> 00:19:17.779
  • That non-christian mate up to where you are
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  • In your relationship with god.
  • 00:19:19.715 --> 00:19:21.216
  • Most of the time they will tear you down
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  • And bring you to down to where they are.
  • 00:19:23.518 --> 00:19:25.854
  • That's why we're not to marry an unbeliever.
  • 00:19:25.854 --> 00:19:30.058
  • But not only does it damage your relationship with god,
  • 00:19:30.058 --> 00:19:32.928
  • It disrupts your relationship with your own mate.
  • 00:19:32.928 --> 00:19:35.597
  • It's impossible to have true unity
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  • When you have a spiritually mixed marriage.
  • 00:19:38.000 --> 00:19:40.636
  • Paul alluded to that in 2 corinthians 6:14.
  • 00:19:40.636 --> 00:19:43.605
  • He said, "do not be bound together with unbelievers
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  • For what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness
  • 00:19:47.376 --> 00:19:51.079
  • Or what fellowship has light with darkness."
  • 00:19:51.079 --> 00:19:54.750
  • That phrase, don't be bound together,
  • 00:19:54.750 --> 00:19:57.319
  • Literally means don't harness together
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  • With an unbeliever.
  • 00:20:00.656 --> 00:20:02.190
  • In paul's day in agricultural society,
  • 00:20:02.190 --> 00:20:05.093
  • Farmers would take a harness with two holes in it
  • 00:20:05.093 --> 00:20:08.664
  • And they would put two animals to work together
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  • To accomplish a task.
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  • Maybe the plowing of a field, for example.
  • 00:20:13.935 --> 00:20:16.672
  • But you never mixed animals.
  • 00:20:16.672 --> 00:20:18.307
  • You didn't put a mule and a donkey
  • 00:20:18.307 --> 00:20:20.942
  • Or a mule and an oxen under the same harness
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  • Because what happened would be the animals
  • 00:20:24.846 --> 00:20:26.915
  • Would go in opposite directions.
  • 00:20:26.915 --> 00:20:28.884
  • They weren't used to working together.
  • 00:20:28.884 --> 00:20:31.353
  • You want animals that are the same
  • 00:20:31.353 --> 00:20:34.790
  • That will go in the same direction together.
  • 00:20:34.790 --> 00:20:37.659
  • And paul is saying here,
  • 00:20:37.659 --> 00:20:39.795
  • Whenever you mix a marriage, it's like putting an ox
  • 00:20:39.795 --> 00:20:43.732
  • And a mule in the same harness.
  • 00:20:43.732 --> 00:20:46.902
  • Somebody asked me this week,
  • 00:20:46.902 --> 00:20:49.438
  • Pastor, do you believe our nation will finally have unity?
  • 00:20:49.438 --> 00:20:54.242
  • Everybody's talking about unity right now.
  • 00:20:54.242 --> 00:20:56.812
  • Can we have unity as a nation?
  • 00:20:56.812 --> 00:20:59.114
  • I said, i wish we could, but the answer is probably not.
  • 00:20:59.114 --> 00:21:02.818
  • Well, why do you say such a thing?
  • 00:21:02.818 --> 00:21:04.386
  • I said, you know, you can take the tails of a cat and a dog
  • 00:21:04.386 --> 00:21:08.657
  • And tie those tails together.
  • 00:21:08.657 --> 00:21:11.093
  • Those animals will be united, but they won't be unified.
  • 00:21:11.093 --> 00:21:15.197
  • There's a big difference.
  • 00:21:15.197 --> 00:21:17.165
  • To be unified means to be going in the same direction.
  • 00:21:17.165 --> 00:21:21.069
  • And god said to the prophet amos,
  • 00:21:21.069 --> 00:21:23.305
  • How can two people walk together lest they be agreed?
  • 00:21:23.305 --> 00:21:28.110
  • How can they go together
  • 00:21:28.110 --> 00:21:30.045
  • If they're headed in different directions?
  • 00:21:30.045 --> 00:21:32.547
  • Christians and non-christians
  • 00:21:32.547 --> 00:21:34.383
  • Are headed in different directions.
  • 00:21:34.383 --> 00:21:36.685
  • They have a whole different frame of reference about life
  • 00:21:36.685 --> 00:21:39.821
  • That affects how they plan their marriage,
  • 00:21:39.821 --> 00:21:41.857
  • How they spend their money, how they rear their children.
  • 00:21:41.857 --> 00:21:45.093
  • And whenever you are married together with an unbeliever,
  • 00:21:45.093 --> 00:21:48.397
  • You have a different foundation
  • 00:21:48.397 --> 00:21:50.332
  • That you're building your life and your family on.
  • 00:21:50.332 --> 00:21:53.268
  • Remember the psalmist, "unless the lord builds a house,
  • 00:21:53.268 --> 00:21:56.505
  • Those who labor, labor in vain."
  • 00:21:56.505 --> 00:21:59.040
  • Unless you have a common foundation,
  • 00:21:59.040 --> 00:22:01.510
  • God can never build a unified house on your marriage.
  • 00:22:01.510 --> 00:22:04.813
  • And that's why we're not to marry unbelievers.
  • 00:22:04.813 --> 00:22:08.617
  • Now, i know what you're thinking.
  • 00:22:08.617 --> 00:22:10.318
  • Some of you watching right now are thinking, well pastor,
  • 00:22:10.318 --> 00:22:13.255
  • I already made that mistake.
  • 00:22:13.255 --> 00:22:15.390
  • Either i didn't know better
  • 00:22:15.390 --> 00:22:17.259
  • Or i chose to disregard god's word.
  • 00:22:17.259 --> 00:22:19.828
  • I'm married to an unbeliever.
  • 00:22:19.828 --> 00:22:21.696
  • What am i supposed to do right now?
  • 00:22:21.696 --> 00:22:24.099
  • Should i divorce my mate
  • 00:22:24.099 --> 00:22:26.034
  • And go look for a christian to marry?
  • 00:22:26.034 --> 00:22:28.336
  • Fortunately, god's word has a clear answer on that,
  • 00:22:29.371 --> 00:22:32.541
  • Not on your life.
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  • 1 corinthians 7 says.
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  • 00:22:36.178 --> 00:22:40.015
  • Well, a proper understanding of grace
  • 00:22:40.816 --> 00:22:42.751
  • Has just as much to say about faithfulness inside
  • 00:22:42.751 --> 00:22:46.054
  • The marriage, as it does about choosing the right partner.
  • 00:22:46.054 --> 00:22:49.658
  • And i'll continue addressing
  • 00:22:49.658 --> 00:22:51.226
  • This deeply personal topic next time.
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  • So make plans to join us again.
  • 00:22:54.062 --> 00:22:56.965
  • In the time remaining today,
  • 00:22:56.965 --> 00:22:58.667
  • Let me affirm that god is using "pathway to victory"
  • 00:22:58.667 --> 00:23:01.436
  • To touch the hearts of men and women
  • 00:23:01.436 --> 00:23:03.505
  • All across america and around our world.
  • 00:23:03.505 --> 00:23:06.675
  • We have ample evidence of that.
  • 00:23:06.675 --> 00:23:08.844
  • In fact, we've heard from newlyweds, single moms, widows,
  • 00:23:08.844 --> 00:23:12.981
  • And people from all walks of life
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  • Who have discovered god's grace
  • 00:23:15.183 --> 00:23:17.319
  • Through "pathway to victory."
  • 00:23:17.319 --> 00:23:19.087
  • And it's only possible because of pathway partners
  • 00:23:19.087 --> 00:23:21.990
  • And others who believe in this ministry
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  • And give generously to keep it on the air.
  • 00:23:24.693 --> 00:23:27.429
  • Every gift, large or small,
  • 00:23:27.429 --> 00:23:29.464
  • Helps us proclaim god's truth to someone
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  • Who desperately needs to hear it.
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  • On their behalf,
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  • Thank you for making this program possible.
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  • Together we are piercing the darkness
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  • With the light of god's word.
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  • Now please stay right there,
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  • I'll be back with more "pathway to victory"
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  • In just a moment.
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  • The bible tells us we're saved by grace,
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  • But do you allow yourself to receive grace?
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  • Do you practice grace?
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  • Do you abuse god's grace.
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  • In "grace gone wild,"
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  • Dr. robert jeffress clears up the confusion
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  • And shows you how grace leads to joy, not guilt.
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  • Christians fall into one of two traps
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  • When it comes to grace.
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  • Some believe grace means
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  • There are no boundaries in living,
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  • Others pile on so many rules
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  • That christianity feels like a burden instead of a blessing.
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  • In my book, "grace gone wild,"
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  • I'll show you that true grace leads to a deeper,
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  • More joy filled relationship with god.
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  • Discover how understanding grace
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  • Can transform your marriage, your relationships,
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  • And every decision you make.
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  • Request your copy of "grace gone wild"
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  • When you give a generous gift to "pathway to victory."
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  • And when your ministry gift is $75 or more,
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  • We'll also send you the "grace gone wild" teaching series
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  • On both cd and dvd along with the application guide.
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  • There are too many christians today
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  • Who have taken this marvelous gift of grace
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  • And perverted it.
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  • They are robbing themselves of the joy that comes
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  • From obedience to god.
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  • Thank you for your generous support
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  • Of "pathway to victory."
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  • Your gift helps us bring bold,
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  • Biblical teaching around the world.
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  • Together we are piercing the darkness
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  • With the light of god's word.
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  • Choosing the right marriage partner
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  • Is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make.
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  • And as we've seen today,
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  • Good grace doesn't give us a free pass
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  • To ignore god's boundaries.
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  • Good grace calls us to take those boundaries seriously.
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  • But what happens after the vows are spoken?
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  • Next time we're going to look at what good grace
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  • And bad grace have to say
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  • About faithfulness inside the marriage.
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  • Stay tuned for a preview of what's coming up next
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  • In our series, "grace gone wild."
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  • If i have to still experience consequences for my sin,
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  • What use is god's forgiveness?
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  • It seems kind of useless if i have to suffer consequences.
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  • Oh, no, no.
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  • Grace means instead of spending 30
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  • Or 40 years of suffering consequences,
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  • You don't have to suffer 30 billion years
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  • Of the consequences of your sin.
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  • Set your dvr and join us next time
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  • For part two of the message, good grace marriages,
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  • Here on "pathway to victory."
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