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Robert Jeffress - Good Grace Relationships (Part 2)

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Good Grace Relationships (Part 2) | April 17, 2026

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From the pulpit of the first baptist church
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Of dallas, texas,
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This is "pathway to victory"
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With dr. robert jeffress.
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Hi, i'm robert jeffress,
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And welcome again to "pathway to victory."
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The bible clearly instructs us
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To forgive those who wrong us,
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Just as god has forgiven us.
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But what exactly does forgiveness entail?
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Are we just supposed to brush off any and all wrongdoing?
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And what are the next steps once forgiveness takes place?
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Today, i'm going to show you what it looks like
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To apply good grace
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To the area of forgiveness and reconciliation.
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My message is titled "good grace relationships"
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On today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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Some christians use grace
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As a spiritual get-out-of-jail-free card.
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Others pile on so many rules,
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They have no grace for themselves or others.
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In "grace gone wild,"
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Dr. robert jeffress shows you
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What biblical grace actually looks like
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And how practicing it leads to true freedom and lasting joy.
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And it's the same way when we forgive somebody,
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We can release our right to seek vengeance from them.
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But what we can't do is relieve them
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Of the punishment they may face from others.
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For example, when laura said,
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"janet, i forgive you for embezzling the money,"
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What she was doing is she was letting go of her right
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To demand repayment for the funds,
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To sue janet in court for the funds.
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She was giving up the right to continually remind her
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Of the mistakes she had made.
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But what laura couldn't do
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Through her forgiveness was relieve janet
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Of the guilt she may have felt.
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She couldn't relieve her of the wrath of her husband
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That janet may face.
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She couldn't even relieve her of the legal action
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That the bank might take against her
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For writing a hot check.
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There's a difference
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Between vengeance and justice.
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The fact is, just vengeance,
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And i want you to write this down, a great definition,
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Vengeance is the desire to make others suffer
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For the wrongs they've committed against us.
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Vengeance is the desire to make others suffer
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For the wrongs they've committed against us.
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And the bible says we're to give up vengeance.
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In romans 12, beginning with verse 17,
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Paul says, "never pay back evil for evil to anyone.
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Respect what is right in the sight of all men.
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If possible, so far as it depends on you,
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Be at peace with all men.
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Never take your own revenge, beloved,
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But leave room for the wrath of god,"
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In other words, let god settle the score for you,
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"for it is written,
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'vengeance is mine, i will repay,' says the lord."
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When you forgive somebody, you're giving up your right,
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Your desire for vengeance
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To see them suffer for what they've done to you.
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We're to give up vengeance,
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But we can never give up justice,
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Our desire for justice.
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What is justice?
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Write it down.
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Justice is the payment that god or others might seek
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From our offender.
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Psalm 37:28 says, "god loves justice."
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Somebody has to make things right.
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Somebody does have to settle the score.
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It just can't be us,
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The ones who have been offended.
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We have to let somebody else do it.
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Genesis 9:6 says,
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"whoever sheds man's blood,
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By man his blood shall also be shed."
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The bible demands that somebody settle the score.
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It can't be the victim,
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But it can be god
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Or, in god's place, government.
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That's the difference between vengeance and justice.
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You know, you see a great illustration of that difference
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Between vengeance and justice
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In the old testament story of david.
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Remember later in david's reign,
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There is a man who just dealt him misery
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Until the time he died.
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He was a man named shimei.
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And every time shimei would see king david,
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He would hurl rocks at him,
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Both literal rocks and verbal rocks.
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But he was always slinging rocks at david.
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And while he was doing it,
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He was reminding david of all of the mistakes he made.
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"david, remember that night with bathsheba
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That everybody found out about?"
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Or he would remind him about his own son, absalom,
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Who had led a rebellion against him.
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What a hurtful experience in david's life.
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He was continually reminding him of all of his failures
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While he threw the rocks at david.
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And one day, david's friend had had enough.
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He said, "david, let me handle this for you.
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If it's okay with you,
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I'm going to separate his head from the rest of his body."
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(congregation laughing)
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Now, if i were david,
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I would say, "go at it."
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But david's response was remarkable.
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In 2 samuel 16:11,
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He said to his friend abishai,
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"leave shimei alone and let him curse,
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For the lord has told him."
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What do you mean the lord has told him?
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David believed that god had allowed this persecutor
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In his life to remind him of his failures
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So that he would never be tempted to stray again.
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And yet,
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After that gracious response,
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When david was on his deathbed,
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You know what he told his son solomon to do?
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"first executive order you need to issue
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When you ascend the throne is get rid of shimei.
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Put him to death."
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What made david change his mind?
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Was he overwhelmed with a new case of bitterness?
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No.
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He knew that if shimei were allowed to continue,
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It would hurt the kingdom of god.
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He needed to be dealt with,
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But he needed to be dealt with by another person.
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David knew if he dealt with shimei,
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It would be bitterness, it would be vengeance.
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But if somebody else dealt with him,
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It would be justice.
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The bible says that when we forgive somebody,
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We give up our right for vengeance,
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But we never give up our desire for justice.
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Number three, and this is so key,
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The most important principle about good grace, forgiveness,
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Good grace understands
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That while forgiveness can be granted,
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Reconciliation must be earned.
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In our study we did with barna research,
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The most pervasive myth about forgiveness
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Is perhaps one you're holding onto as well,
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And that is,
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We can only forgive those people
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Who are willing to ask for forgiveness.
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This myth says it's impossible
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To forgive somebody who doesn't show repentance
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Or somebody who doesn't ask for forgiveness.
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The problem with that is,
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If you make your forgiveness
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Dependent upon what another person does or doesn't do,
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You remain a prisoner of bitterness
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Until they choose to ask.
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You know, jesus had a word about that in mark 11:25-26.
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He talked about whether or not it's possible
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To unconditionally forgive somebody
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Who never asked for your forgiveness.
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Look at verse 25 of mark 11.
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"whenever you stand praying, forgive,
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If you have anything against anyone,
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So that your father who is in heaven
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Will also forgive you your transgressions.
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But if you do not forgive,
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Neither will your father who is in heaven
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Forgive your transgressions."
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Now, here's the situation jesus has in mind.
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You're sitting there,
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You're watching online right now,
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You're listening to the message,
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And all of a sudden god brings to your mind,
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Or you bring to your own mind somebody who hurt you,
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Somebody who wronged you.
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Maybe it was your boss last week
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Who made an unkind comment about your work.
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Maybe the person who comes to your mind is a mate,
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A former mate who betrayed you, cheated on you,
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And the result was a divorce.
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Maybe the person who comes to your mind is a parent
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Who many years ago abused you in some way as a child.
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Now, what are you supposed to do with that hurt?
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That employer who offended you,
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He's not sitting next to you
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To ask you for your forgiveness.
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That mate from whom you're divorced,
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You don't even know where they are.
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They can't or won't ask you for forgiveness.
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And that parent who abused you in some way,
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They're dead, they're at the cemetery right now,
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They can't ask for forgiveness.
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So are you going to be a prisoner
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Of bitterness the rest of your life?
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What are you to do with that offense?
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Jesus said, right there,
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While you're in your pew or watching this service,
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What are you to do?
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Forgive.
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You've got the ability right where you are right now
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To let go of that offense.
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Why should you do that?
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Well, jesus commanded it.
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He linked it to god's forgiveness of you.
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But beyond the spiritual obligation we have to forgive,
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There's a practical benefit to forgiving.
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When you refuse to forgive,
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You hold onto resentment.
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That word resent means to feel again.
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That is, when you refuse to let go of that offense,
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You remain tied to the person who wronged you.
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And as you relive that offense,
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You experience it all over again and again.
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The only thing worse
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Than being hurt one time is being hurt multiple times
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By the same person.
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And yet when you turn over that offense,
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That's exactly what happens.
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I remember when i was in high school,
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I went with my good friend david dunlap
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To go see a movie.
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It was one of those b movies,
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It was called "the incredible 2-headed man."
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Did you ever see "the incredible 2-headed man"?
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It was a terrible movie.
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It was about this guy,
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Well, i won't go into all the details,
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But it was a guy with two heads.
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And the two actors,
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Who were definitely at the bottom of their career in this,
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Ray milland and rosey grier,
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And ray milland was the good guy,
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And rosey grier had his head right on him
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And he was the bad guy.
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And rosey grier was always tormenting the good guy,
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Ray milland, with taunts and sarcastic comments
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And so forth.
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But i thought,
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As bad as that movie is,
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It is a perfect example of what it is
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To remain emotionally bound to the person
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Who wants to hurt you over and over again.
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But when you forgive somebody,
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You are surgically removing yourself, if you will,
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From that other person.
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When you forgive somebody,
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What you're saying is,
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If not to them, at least to yourself,
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"what this person did was wrong.
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They deserve to pay for what they've done to me.
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But i'm not going to remain bound to them any longer.
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I'm going to separate myself from them
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And let god settle the score."
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That's what forgiveness is.
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When you refuse to do that,
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It's like somebody said,
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"drinking rat poison and waiting for the rat to die."
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Bitterness hurts you much more
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Than it does the other person.
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While you're turning that offense over and over
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In your mind again,
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They have no idea that you're doing that.
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They're free to go on and do whatever they want to do.
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S.i. mcmillen in his book "none of these diseases"
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Describes the scenario perfectly when he says,
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"the moment i start hating a man, i become his slave.
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He even controls my thoughts.
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I can't escape his tyrannical grasp on my mind.
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When the waiter serves me steak,
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It might as well be stale bread and water.
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The man i hate will not permit me to enjoy it."
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That's why the bible says if somebody wrongs you,
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You've got the ability to forgive right now, to let go,
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Regardless of what your offender does or doesn't do.
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Forgiveness is unconditional,
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It can be granted,
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But reconciliation is a completely different story.
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Reconciliation has to be earned
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By the person who has wronged you.
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Forgiveness has no strings attached to it.
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Reconciliation has a number of strings attached to it.
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Remember in romans 12:18, paul said,
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"if possible, so far as it depends upon you,
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Be at peace with all men."
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But it doesn't always just depend upon you.
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Sometimes being in unity with those who've wronged you
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Depends upon them as well.
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Let me mention three of the strings
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On which reconciliation depends.
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First of all,
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Reconciliation demands repentance.
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In our little scenario at the beginning of the message,
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Laura could forgive janet for embezzling the funds.
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But for them to go back into business together, if ever,
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Janet would have to certainly repent of what she had done.
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That means admit that what she did was wrong,
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Demonstrate remorse for it.
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And if she's unwilling to do that,
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Not only can their business probably not be saved,
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Their friendship won't be saved either.
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Do you remember in amos 3:3,
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The prophet said,
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"how can two people walk together lest they be agreed?"
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Now, that verse originally referred to israel
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And god walking hand in hand.
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They were not having fellowship.
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Their fellowship had been broken
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Because israel was continuing to sin,
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Saying, "we haven't sinned."
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And god said, "oh, yes, you have sinned."
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And the prophet's saying,
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"if israel and god can't agree on this,
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About israel's sin,
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They can't have fellowship together."
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It's the same way in a relationship
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With somebody who's wronged you.
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If a family member,
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If a friend has hurt you and hurt you deeply,
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And yet they're unwilling to admit that,
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You aren't agreed on that,
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It's going to break fellowship.
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A reconciliation begins with a need for repentance.
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You can forgive them,
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But you can't be reconciled to them.
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Secondly, reconciliation sometimes demands restitution.
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Again, back to laura and janet.
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Laura can forgive her,
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Janet can be repentant of what she did,
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But laura has every right to ask,
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"what about the $1,500?
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I mean, before we go back into business again,
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There needs to be some restitution here."
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Not before forgiveness is granted,
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But before reconciliation can be earned.
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Remember zacchaeus, luke 19?
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He was a tax collector
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Who cheated people every way he could
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And he met jesus.
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And what was his first instinct
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As soon as jesus forgave him?
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Zacchaeus stood up and said,
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"i will repay everyone i have cheated
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Four times the amount i have taken from them."
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Don't ever confuse revenge with restitution.
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Revenge is my desire to see my offender suffer
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For what he's done,
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But restitution is what my offender wants to do
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To make repayment for the wrong he has committed.
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If you're going to be reconciled to somebody,
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They have to be willing to make restitution.
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And thirdly,
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Reconciliation demands rebuilding trust.
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For example, a woman being physically abused by her husband.
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She has not only the right,
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I think she has the responsibility
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To move out of that situation,
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Move her children out of that situation.
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We believe in the sanctity of life.
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That's just not for babies in the womb,
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That's for everybody.
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Life is holy,
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It's a gift from god,
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And it needs to be protected
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-at all costs, -(congregation clapping)
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And that's a very important principle.
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A woman can forgive her husband,
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She must forgive her husband,
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But it doesn't mean she has to live
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Under the same roof with him.
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She can move out.
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And before she's willing to reconcile,
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She can demand several things of her husband.
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First of all, her husband must show repentance.
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He has to be willing to make restitution.
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In this case, not money,
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But perhaps going to counseling
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And making some needed changes in his life.
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And thirdly,
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There has to be a rebuilding of trust.
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Reconciliation necessitates the rebuilding of trust,
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And that takes time,
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Especially after a deep hurt of some kind.
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The offender has no right
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To demand immediate reconciliation.
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He doesn't have a right to demand anything.
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All he can do is request forgiveness
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And give his victim, the one he has hurt, time to heal.
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And that leads to the basic difference
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Between bad grace and good grace
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When it comes to the issue of those who have wronged us.
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Listen to this.
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Bad grace equates forgiveness with reconciliation.
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They're not the same thing.
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Bad grace underestimates the serious
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And long-lasting consequences of sin.
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Bad grace places all the burden for reconciliation
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On the offended party
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And little responsibility on the offender.
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There are a lot of churches
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That are purveyors of bad grace on this issue.
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Good grace, on the other hand,
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Understands that forgiveness depends upon me,
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But reconciliation depends upon us.
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Good grace teaches that forgiveness has no strings attached,
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But reconciliation has several strings attached.
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Good grace recognizes
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That although reconciliation is always preferable,
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It's not always possible.
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Remember paul's words,
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"but as far as it depends upon you,
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Be at peace with all men."
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But please don't misunderstand what i'm saying.
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Reconciliation is always the preferred outcome
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For christians, always.
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The psalm that's said in psalm 133:1,
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"how good, how pleasant it is
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For brothers to dwell in unity."
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♪ music ♪
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Aren't you glad the bible offers this kind of wisdom
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About relationships?
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Grace is a wonderful gift from god
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When it's applied the way he designed it.
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Now, in closing today,
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I want to share a remarkable story i heard
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About a friend named helene.
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After a serious car accident,
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Helene found "pathway to victory"
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While borrowing a car from a friend.
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When she turned on the radio,
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"pathway to victory" was playing.
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And rather than turn the dial,
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She began to listen.
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After listening to several programs,
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She invited christ into her life.
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Shortly after,
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She decided to be baptized on her 80th birthday.
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Now she's attending bible studies every week
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To learn more about her faith in christ.
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Friends, stories like this one
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Are the reason "pathway to victory" exists.
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It doesn't matter your age or stage of life,
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No one is outside the reach of god's amazing grace.
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And i hope helene's story encourages you just as much
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As it encouraged me.
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Thank you to all of you who partner
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With "pathway to victory"
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As we pierce the darkness with the light of god's word.
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Now, please stay right there,
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I'll be back with more "pathway to victory"
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In just a moment.
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The bible tells us we're saved by grace.
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But do you allow yourself to receive grace?
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Do you practice grace?
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Do you abuse god's grace?
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In "grace gone wild,"
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Dr. robert jeffress clears up the confusion
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And shows you how grace leads to joy, not guilt.
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Christians fall into one of two traps
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When it comes to grace.
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Some believe grace means there are no boundaries in living.
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Others pile on so many rules
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That christianity feels like a burden instead of a blessing.
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In my book "grace gone wild,"
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I'll show you that true grace leads to a deeper,
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More joy-filled relationship with god.
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Discover how understanding grace
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Your relationships, and every decision you make.
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Request your copy of "grace gone wild"
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Who have taken this marvelous gift of grace
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And perverted it.
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They are robbing themselves of the joy
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That comes from obedience to god.
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With the light of god's word.
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♪ music ♪
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Forgiveness is unconditional,
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But reconciliation is a completely different story.
00:25:10.332 --> 00:25:14.135
Reconciliation has to be earned
00:25:14.135 --> 00:25:16.338
By the person who has wronged you.
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And i hope today's lesson has helped you understand
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What the bible really says
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About healing broken relationships.
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Well, the latest polls reveal
00:25:26.047 --> 00:25:27.649
That more and more christians are treating the church
00:25:27.649 --> 00:25:30.151
With disdain and indifference.
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And next time,
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I'll describe how grace should impact our attitude
00:25:34.022 --> 00:25:36.625
Toward the body of christ.
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Stay tuned for a preview of what's coming up next
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In our series, "grace gone wild."
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Polls tell us,
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For an increasing number of christians,
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They view membership in the church as optional.
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Their attendance is sporadic,
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Their giving is minimal,
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And they view any kind of service as burdensome.
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How do you explain that?
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How do you explain the growing indifference people have
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Toward the church today?
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Especially when the founder of the church,
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Jesus christ,
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Is said to have loved the church
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Robert Jeffress - Good Grace Relationships (Part 2)

April 17, 2026 | 27:29

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