Dr. Robert Jeffress

Robert Jeffress - How To Choose A Mate

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - How To Choose A Mate | September 22, 2025

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Male announcer: from the pulpit of the first baptist church of
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Dallas, texas, this is "pathway to victory" with dr.
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Robert jeffress.
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Dr. robert jeffress: hi, i'm robert jeffress, and welcome
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Again to "pathway to victory."
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Choosing to marry is one of the biggest decisions a person can
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Make, but many couples jump into a lifelong commitment without
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Ever really counting the cost.
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Today we're going to look at what the bible says about
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Choosing a mate.
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Whether you or somebody you know is contemplating marriage, this
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Wisdom from scripture will help you understand god's design
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For couples.
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My message is titled "how to choose a mate," on today's
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Edition of "pathway to victory."
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Dr. robert jeffress cuts through the confusion with time-tested
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Biblical wisdom.
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Whether you're facing career changes, relationship questions,
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Speaks to his children today.
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Jeffress: well, it was former house speaker tip o'neill who
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Used to say, "all politics are local."
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And by that he meant most people are not nearly as interested in
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Political philosophy as they are in "how does this policy
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Affect me?"
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When people go to the ballot box, they want to know how the
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Choice of this candidate or that candidate is going to affect
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Their everyday life.
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You know, the same is true when it comes to biblical truth.
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I have found as a pastor, most people are not nearly as
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Interested in the philosophical as they are the practical.
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They wanna know whatever biblical truth is being taught
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Exactly how does that relate to me in everyday life?
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And that certainly is true when it comes to the issue of knowing
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God's will for your life.
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Over these past several months, we've been looking at the
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Various ways that god communicates direction in
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Our lives.
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We've seen that sometimes he speaks through the bible, other
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Times he speaks through prayer.
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Sometimes he'll speak through the counsel of other people.
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Occasionally, he might use supernatural revelation
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Or circumstances.
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Last time we saw that one of the primary ways he speaks is
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Through the desires he places in our heart.
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But how does all of that apply to me?
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How do we move it from the philosophical to the practical?
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Well, i thought it might be interesting over the next two
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Weeks to take all of these principles that we have learned
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And apply them to the two areas of life for which most people
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Want to know god's will: the choice of a mate and the choice
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Of a vocation.
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And so today, we're going to look and see what the bible says
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About how to discover the right mate, and next week how to find
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The perfect job.
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Amy leaned over to me during the choir orchestra and she saw the
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Title, "how to choose a mate."
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She said, "i'm gonna be real interested in today's message."
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Now some of you probably are thinking the same thing.
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You're thinking, "wait a minute, pastor, these two areas, they
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Just don't apply to me where i am in life right now.
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After all, i'm already stuck with, i mean, i'm blessed with a
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Mate and can't do much about that.
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And for better or worse, i've chosen my job or i'm even
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Retired from my job.
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How in the world does this apply to me?"
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Well, first of all, it's very possible that your life
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Situation could change.
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Just because all of those issues are settled right now doesn't
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Mean they're settled forever.
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Life has a way of having a lot of surprises in it, doesn't it?
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Secondly, i'm just gonna take a poll.
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How many of you have children or grandchildren?
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Would you raise your hands?
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Almost everyone here.
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These principles that we're going to learn today are gonna
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Be very helpful for you to pass along to your children and
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Grandchildren as they search for the right mate and the
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Perfect job.
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And then third and most importantly, these principles
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We're gonna talk about today in choosing a mate can actually
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Apply to whatever decision you're confronting in life.
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And so today for our passage, i want us to turn to the old
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Testament book of genesis chapter 24 as we talk about how
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To find a mate.
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Genesis chapter 24.
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Now we made an allusion to this passage a few weeks ago, but
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Today we're going to look at it in depth.
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It's the story of abraham searching for a wife for his
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Son isaac.
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You remember what had happened.
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Abraham was now advanced in years.
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Concerned about the offspring that god had promised, the
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Children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren, he knew it
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Was time for his son isaac to find a bride to produce those
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Grandchildren that would be the fulfillment of god's promise.
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And so he calls his servant eliezer in and he says,
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"eliezer, i want you to leave canaan where we are right now,
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And i want you to go back to nahor and i want you to find a
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Bride for my son isaac."
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And the resulting story is a perfect illustration of how to
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Find god's will for your life.
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And i want you to notice today the five principles, and i have
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Them on your outline, that eliezer exercised in finding the
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Right mate for isaac.
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These principles can help you, they can help your children,
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Grandchildren, not only in finding a mate, but in knowing
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God's will for any area of life.
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Look at verse 3 of genesis chapter 24: abraham said to
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Eliezer: "i will make you swear by the lord, the god of heaven,
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That the god of--and the god of earth, that you shall not take a
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Wife for my son from the daughters of the canaanites,
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Among whom i live."
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And that leads us to the first principle for knowing god's will
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For your life, and that is, number one, know
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God's principles.
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Know what his word says about whatever choice it is that
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You're confronting.
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Now when it comes to choosing a mate, god's word is very clear.
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The predominant principle in finding a mate is this: you are
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To only marry a believer.
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You're to only marry a believer.
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Abraham understood that principle.
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I want you to imagine two carpenters trying to work
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Together to build the same home.
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The only problem is they have two different set of blueprints
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From which they're working.
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One carpenter has a set of blueprints that says it's to be
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A one-story home.
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The next carpenter has a set of blueprints that says it's to be
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A two-story home.
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One set of blueprints says it's supposed to be a
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Slab foundation.
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The other blueprints say no, it's to be a pier and
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Beam foundation.
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Can you imagine the arguments, the friction, between those two
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Workmen as they try to construct a home from two different set
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Of blueprints?
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You'd have arguments, you'd have friction, and ultimately you
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Would have one mess of a house that was constructed.
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The same thing is true when you're trying to build a home.
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It's important that the husband and the wife be working from the
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Same set of blueprints, god's word, and that they have the
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Same foundation, a commitment to jesus christ.
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When you're choosing a mate or making any decision in life,
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Number one, know the principles.
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What does god's word say?
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But that's not enough.
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I mean, the fact is there are a lot of growing christians
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Out there.
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How do i know which one is for me or for my son or daughter?
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Or out of all of the options i'm faced with in making this
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Decision, how do i know which is the right option?
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Well, that brings us to the second principle, and that is
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Rely on prayer.
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Whenever you face numerous opportunities, rely on prayer.
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Look at verse 11 of genesis 24.
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Eliezer makes the 500-mile journey to nahor, verse 11, "and
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He made the camels kneel down outside the city by the well of
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Water at evening time, the time when women go out to
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Draw water."
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Now eliezer was one smart cookie, okay?
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He knew if he was gonna find a woman for isaac, he needed to go
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To where all the hot single women of nahor were.
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And guess where they all went?
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They all went to the local watering hole.
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Every evening they went there about 5 o'clock.
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It was happy hour at the well there and they went there, and
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They congregated.
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Of course, they were performing their chores, bringing the water
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Back to the house, and so that is where eliezer went.
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By the way, if you're looking for a mate, go to where those
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Prospective mates are.
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Where are the single men and women?
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Where is the best place to find them?
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The best place to find them is at the local watering hole, and
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I'm not talking about the bar.
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I'm talking about the spiritual watering hole, the church, where
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The water of life is poured out.
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There's no better place to look for a mate than in the church.
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That's where you're gonna find committed believers.
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That's where you ought to go to to find that mate that god has
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For you.
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Well, that's what eliezer did.
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Now the only problem was when he went to the--when he went to
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The well, there wasn't just one lone woman there, it was teeming
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With women.
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So how in the world was he to know which woman was the one
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Who would make a bride for isaac?
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I want you to notice what he did in verse 12.
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He prayed about it.
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Look at verse 12: "he said, 'o lord, the god of my master
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Abraham, please grant me success today, and show loving kindness
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To my master abraham.
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Behold, i'm standing by the spring, and the daughters of the
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Men of the city are coming out to draw water; now may it be
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That the girl to whom i say, "please let down your jar so
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That i might drink," and who answers, "drink, and i will
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Water your camels also"--may she be the one whom thou has
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Appointed for thy servant isaac.'"
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Will you underline that phrase, "the one whom thou has appointed
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For thy servant isaac"?
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You see, eliezer bought into this one man for one
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Woman theory.
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He believed god really did have one person and one person only
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Who would be his choice for a bride for isaac.
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Now that goes against conventional christian
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Thinking today.
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There are a lot of christian books out there that say more
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Important than finding the right mate is being the right kind
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Of mate.
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And as long as you meet these basic requirements of marrying a
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Growing christian, you can just marry whoever you want to.
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God really isn't interested in finding that one right person.
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But is that what the bible says?
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Eliezer said, "god, i believe there is one whom you have
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Appointed to be isaac's wife."
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Now, some old testament commentators i read about this,
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They said, "well, this was peculiar to this situation,
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-- there was only one person, because after all, god was
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Interested in abraham and the abrahamic line and so forth.
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So he was particularly interested that the one right
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Person be chosen here."
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I don't know about you, but i think god's interest in people
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Extends beyond the boundaries of israel.
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I think god's not only interested in jews, he's
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Interested in the jews, but he's interested in us as well.
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He's interested in all of his children.
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For example, i mean, do you think god had an interest in the
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Parents that brought forth martin luther or john calvin or
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John wesley?
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Do you think god cared who the parents of a billy graham were?
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Of course he did.
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He had a plan to bring two people together that would
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Produce those wonderful men of god.
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And i believe his interest extends beyond them to you
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And me.
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If god has numbered the hairs on our head, don't you think he has
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An interest in our gene pool, the people that come together to
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Produce us, if every part of us has been planned in his book
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Before we ever drew our first breath?
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Yes, god has a plan for us.
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There's not many people out there.
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There's one person.
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If god has chosen you to be married, if your--if god's plan
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For you, your life, is to be married, he has somebody he has
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Ordained to be your husband or wife.
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Now that shouldn't make us panic.
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It didn't drive eliezer to panic to find that needle in a
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Haystack, but it did drive him to pray.
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And i just want to encourage you today whether it's looking for a
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Mate or trying to make any decision in life, spend time
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Praying about it.
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It's like one person said, "there are many things we can do
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To find god's will after we have prayed, but there's nothing more
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Important we can do until we have prayed."
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James 1:5: "if anyone lacks wisdom, let him ask of god."
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Is there some area of your life you're seeking god's will for?
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Are you concerned enough about god's will that you would be
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Willing to devote just 5 minutes a day praying for
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God's direction?
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Rely on prayer.
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There's a third principle, and that is exercise practicality.
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When you're trying to find a mate or make any decision,
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Exercise practicality.
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And we kind of alluded to this a couple of weeks ago in verses 12
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Through 14.
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Remember, eliezer prayed, "now, lord, whichever woman says, 'i'm
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Willing to not only give you water, but water your camels as
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Well,' she's the one."
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Now, i personally don't believe he was so much as asking for a
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Supernatural sign as he was being practical.
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After all, whatever woman made that offer, first of all,
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Displayed the graciousness necessary to make a good wife,
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But she would also have the physical stamina to make that
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500-mile journey from nahor back to canaan.
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After all, that was 200 gallons of water she was gonna have to
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Lug up there to water those camels.
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Eliezer was being practical and i think in the same way when
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We're looking for a mate, we need to exercise practicality.
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For example, ladies, if you're a single adult woman and you enjoy
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And you're having a great career, you probably don't want
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To marry somebody who wants you to stay home and stay with the
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Children all day every day.
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I mean, there's some women who are called to do that.
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That's fine.
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There's nothing wrong and everything right with that, but
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It's also okay for women to have a career, if god wants them to
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Have a career.
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If you wanna have a career and your husband wants you to stay
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Home, that's probably not somebody you want to be linked
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Up with.
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Or on the other hand, if you feel called to the mission field
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To serve god in the jungles of africa, you may want to rethink
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Marrying somebody whose idea of roughing it is staying in
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Holiday inn for a night, okay?
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It may not make sense to do that.
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Or perhaps you're somebody who says, "i can't be happy unless i
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Have a house filled with pets."
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You might want to rethink marrying somebody who's allergic
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To animals, okay?
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I mean, just be practical, exercise practicality.
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Principle number four: consider your preference.
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Consider your preference.
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Occasionally somebody has come to me and said, "pastor, i'm
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Really in love with this guy.
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I mean, he seems to be the perfect potential husband.
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He's a growing christian, he's ambitious.
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My parents like him.
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The only problem is i just don't feel that spark inside.
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I just don't have that spark."
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And i'm gonna confess to you, over the years i've given some
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Terrible advice to people.
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I'm so bad at counseling, i wouldn't even go to myself
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For counseling.
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Yeah, hopefully i've gotten a little bit better, but i
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Remember i used to sometimes say to people, "well, you know,
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Romantic love, that's a kind of a western civilization kind of
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Deal and the important thing is to be committed to one another
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And the feelings will come later on if you don't feel that spark
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Right away."
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I've since changed.
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I realize that having that strong physical and emotional
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Attraction isn't necessary for two people to stay together, but
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It is absolutely vital in getting two people together to
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Begin with.
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I mean, if you don't have that spark in your heart toward that
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Other person, if you don't blush when you just hear their name,
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If you don't have the sensation, i can't live without him or her,
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You need to keep looking for god's will for your life,
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Because one way god speaks to you is through those desires
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That he puts in your heart.
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Philippians 2:13, remember, "it is god who's at work within you,
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Giving you both the power and the desire to do his will."
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And by the way, you see that emphasis on personal desire
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Preference in the story of eliezer.
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Look at verses 57 to 58.
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Eliezer finds rebekah.
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She offers to water the camels, you know, and so eliezer says,
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"well, i wanna go back and talk to your parents and relate to
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Them exactly what happened."
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Verse 57, after eliezer tells them how god had worked all of
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These circumstances out, verse 57: "and the parents said, 'we
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Will call the girl and consult her wishes.'
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And so then they called rebekah and said to her, 'will you go
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With this man?'"
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Now what i want you to see is eliezer relied on the principles
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From god's word, only marry a believer.
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He prayed, he tried to be practical.
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But how did rebekah know if this was god's will?
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It was by consulting her preference.
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You see, she had never met isaac before, never laid eyes on him,
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But when she heard this story about what god had done, about
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The miraculous way in which he worked, something was stirred
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Inside of her.
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In verse 58, she answered and she said, "i will go."
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The parents said, "we're gonna consult her desires."
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She said, "i will go" and, sight unseen, she got on the back of a
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Donkey and traveled 500 miles to meet this man isaac, with whom
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She fell in love.
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What i want you to see is god does work through
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Our preference.
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Let me say it again, while the absence of a strong physical or
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Emotional desire is no reason to end a marriage, it's a great
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Reason for not beginning a marriage or a new job or a move
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To another city or any other option you're facing.
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God is going to work through your preferences.
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And that leads to the fifth principle, and that is trust in
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Providence, trust in god's sovereignty.
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After eliezer had made this 500-mile trek, after he'd gone
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Through all of this exercise, what if when the parents said,
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"do you want to go?"
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What if rebekah had said, "no, that's not my desire," what
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Should eliezer do then?
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Actually, he had anticipated such a possibility before he set
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Out on the journey.
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Turn back to chapter 24, verse 5: "and eliezer said to abraham,
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'suppose the woman will not be willing to follow me to this
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Land; should i take your son back to the land from where
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You came?'"
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What am i to do, abraham, if she says no?
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Look at verse 8: "abraham answered, 'if the woman is not
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Willing to follow you, then you will be free from this my oath;
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Only do not take my son back there.'"
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Abraham was saying, "eliezer, as far as i can determine, this is
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God's will.
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But if for some reason god shuts this door, i believe he will
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Provide a bride for isaac another way."
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What a great demonstration of faith.
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You see, there's a lot of misunderstanding about what
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Faith is.
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Some people say, well, faith is just a hope that god's gonna do
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What i want him to do.
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And people think, you know, if i can just conjure up these
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Positive images and believe that god's gonna do what i want him
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To do, if i can believe it hard enough and long enough, god will
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Ultimately do it.
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I always compare it to that story, "the little engine
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That could."
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You remember the story, you know, "i think i can, i think i
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Can, i think i can, i think i--" a lot of people think that's
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What faith is.
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They think if they can just visualize, god will do it.
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I think god will.
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If they'll just say that often enough, loud enough, and
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Forcefully enough, somehow that's gonna make god do what we
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Want him to do.
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That's not faith.
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You know what real faith is?
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It is the assurance that god is going to do what he wants to do
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In his way and his time.
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True biblical faith is saying, "god, this is what i desire,
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This is what i want, but i am leaving the results to you
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Because i trust in your goodness and i trust in your wisdom."
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That was the faith of abraham.
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He said, as far as i know, this is the best way to find a bride
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For isaac, but if the woman, whoever she is, says no, god
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Will provide in his way and in his time.
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I remember reading a book years ago, had one of the best titles
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I've ever seen.
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The title of the book was, "all you can do is all you can do."
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You know, that's true when it comes to knowing god's will.
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After you have acquainted yourself with the principles
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From god's word, after you've prayed faithfully, after you've
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Tried to be practical, after you've tried to consider your
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Own preferences, ultimately you have to make a decision and then
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Trust in the goodness and the sovereignty of god.
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And he has a great promise for us when we do that: "trust in
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The lord with all of your heart and lean not into your
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Own understandings.
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In all your ways acknowledge him,
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And he will direct your path."
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Jeffress: it's possible you're in the throes of making a
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Decision about marriage today or you know somebody who is.
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Some are wondering whether or not to marry whatsoever, and
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Others are trying to counsel friends and family about
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Choosing a life partner.
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Whatever your situation, i hope today's message has opened your
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Eyes to god's plan for marriage.
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Now, in closing, i want to share a note i received from letha
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In arkansas.
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Away for so long.
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I thank you for allowing god to work through your teaching!"
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Well, the bible teaching letha hears on "pathway to victory"
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In "how to make wise decisions," trusted author and bible teacher
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Dr. robert jeffress offers you practical advice on how you can
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Know with certainty the will of god in any situation.
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Jeffress: one of the most frequently asked questions i
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Receive as a pastor is, "how can i know god's will for my life?"
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Too many believers are paralyzed by fear of making the wrong
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Choice, but god hasn't left us guessing.
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In my book, i reveal the biblical principles for
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Recognizing god's voice and discerning god's will.
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Jeffress: the five principles that eliezer exercised in
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Finding the right mate for isaac are still helpful today.
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They can help you, your children, or your grandchildren
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Not only find a mate but know god's will for any area of life.
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Well, let me ask you a very direct question.
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Do you feel satisfied by the work you do, or has your job
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Become a daily grind?
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Next time i want to show you what the bible says about
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Discovering and pursuing a vocation that brings genuine
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Satisfaction and purpose.
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Stay tuned for a preview of what's coming up next in our
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Series "how to make wise decisions."
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Jeffress: your job is important to god.
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I've discovered, ladies and gentlemen, that many christians
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Have a perverted view of work.
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A perverted view that unfortunately comes from the
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Church itself.
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And so today i want to share with you three erroneous views
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Of work and then what i believe is the biblical view of work,
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How god looks at your job.
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Robert Jeffress - How To Choose A Mate

September 22, 2025 | 27:31

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