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          Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - How To Make Wise Decisions | September 15, 2025
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 - ♪♪♪
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 - Male announcer: from the pulpit of the first baptist church of
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 - Dallas, texas, this is "pathway to victory" with
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 - Dr. robert jeffress.
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 - Dr. robert jeffress: hi, i'm robert jeffress, and welcome
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 - Again to "pathway to victory."
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 - Have you ever tried to talk to someone over the noise that's
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 - Blasting from a tv?
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 - It's frustrating to say the least.
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 - Yet many of us expect to hear god's voice over the
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 - Distractions that fill our lives.
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 - Today i'm going to show you how to escape the commotion in order
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 - To hear god's voice.
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 - My message is titled, "the god who speaks," on today's edition
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 - Of "pathway to victory."
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 - ♪♪♪
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 - ♪ when peace like a river, attendeth my way ♪
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 - ♪ when peace like a river, attendeth my way ♪
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 - ♪ when sorrows like sea billows roll ♪
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 - ♪ whatever my lot ♪
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 - ♪ thou hast taught me to say ♪
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 - ♪ it is well, it is well with my soul ♪
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 - ♪ it is well with my soul ♪
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 - ♪ it is well, it is well with my soul ♪
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 - ♪ and lord, haste the day ♪
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 - ♪ when my faith shall be sight ♪
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 - ♪ the clouds be rolled back as a scroll ♪
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 - ♪ the trump shall resound ♪
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 - ♪ and the lord shall descend ♪
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 - ♪ even so, it is well with my soul ♪
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 - ♪ it is well with my soul ♪
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 - ♪ it is well, it is well ♪
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 - ♪ with my soul ♪
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 - ♪ amen ♪♪
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 - Announcer: how do you know which path god wants you to take?
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 - In "how to make wise decisions," trusted author and bible teacher
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 - Dr. robert jeffress cuts through the confusion with time-tested
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 - Biblical wisdom.
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 - Whether you're facing career changes, relationship questions,
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 - Or ministry decisions, this practical guide reveals how god
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 - Speaks to his children today.
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 - Don't let uncertainty paralyze you.
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 - Request your copy of "how to make wise decisions" when you
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 - Give a generous gift to support the ministry of "pathway
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 - To victory."
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 - ♪♪♪
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 - Jeffress: "well, pastor, what sort of things does god want to
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 - Talk to me about?
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 - What kind of things does he communicate?
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 - What desires does he have?"
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 - Let me suggest three, just put them out to the side of
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 - Your outline.
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 - Sometimes god wants to speak to us about sins that we need
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 - To abandon.
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 - Sins that need to be abandoned.
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 - Is there anything in your life displeasing to the lord?
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 - Sometimes he'll want to talk to you about those things.
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 - In psalm 139, verses 23 and 24, david prayed, "search me, o god,
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 - And know my heart; try me and know my anxious thoughts; and
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 - See if there be any hurtful way in me, and lead me in the
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 - Everlasting way."
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 - David was saying, "god, i want you to take the searchlight of
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 - Your holy spirit and i want you to shine that searchlight into
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 - My heart, look into the inner recesses of my heart and see if
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 - There is anything displeasing to you.
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 - And if you will show me what's displeasing to you, i'll
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 - Change it.
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 - Because i want to walk on the everlasting way.
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 - I want to experience your blessing in every area of
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 - My life."
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 - By the way, when you ask god to show you anything in your life
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 - Displeasing to him, that's one prayer he will always
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 - Answer, guaranteed.
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 - If you'll ask him to show you, he'll show you.
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 - Sometimes god wants to speak to us about sins that need to
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 - Be abandoned.
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 - Secondly, sometimes god communicates to us, speaks to
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 - Us, about relationships that need to be mended, relationships
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 - That need to be mended.
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 - Have you ever had this experience?
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 - You're in church, semi-listening to the pastor, or maybe you're
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 - At home trying to pray or reading the bible, when all of a
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 - Sudden the picture of somebody comes into your mind, somebody
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 - You're having a conflict with.
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 - And try as you may, you can't get that person or that conflict
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 - Out of your mind.
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 - I used to think when that happened that was satan trying
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 - To interrupt my worship time, satan trying to distract me from
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 - Worshiping god.
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 - But i realized more and more many times that's the voice of
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 - God speaking to me.
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 - God many times will speak to us about relationships, especially
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 - In the church, that need to be mended.
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 - Jesus had that truth in mind when he said in matthew 5,
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 - Verses 23 and 24: "if therefore you are presenting your offering
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 - At the altar, and there you remember that your brother has
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 - Something against you."
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 - By the way, will you notice, it doesn't say, you remember that
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 - You have something against your brother.
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 - Big difference.
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 - If you're worshiping, if you're driving along in the car and you
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 - Remember you have something against somebody, you know what
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 - You're supposed to do?
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 - Forgive right there on the spot.
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 - Let go of it.
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 - That other person doesn't have to be present.
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 - They don't have to ask for your forgiveness.
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 - You have the ability, jesus said in mark 11, right there while
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 - You're standing to forgive, to let go.
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 - That's not what he's talking about.
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 - He says in matthew 5, verse 23,
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 - "if therefore you are presenting
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 - Your offering at the altar, and you remember that your brother
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 - Has something against you, leave your offering there; go your
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 - Way, first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and
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 - Present your offering."
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 - If there is some damaged relationship in your life,
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 - Especially with another believer, god wants that
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 - Relationship to be mended.
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 - Many times he'll point that out to you.
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 - Number three, sometimes god speaks to us about commands that
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 - We need to obey.
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 - Commands to be obeyed.
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 - And in fact that's what god spoke to abram about in genesis
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 - Chapter 17.
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 - Abram fell before the lord and god began speaking to abram, and
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 - One of the things he said to abram was this.
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 - He said, "abram, i want you to be circumcised, you and all of
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 - Your family."
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 - Now, because there's a mixed crowd here today, and children
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 - In the audience, i won't go into the gory details
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 - Of circumcision.
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 - But let me just say to you: circumcision was a very
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 - Unpleasant experience, especially in the days before
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 - Anesthetics, okay?
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 - Very unpleasant.
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 - And yet god said, "abram, i want you to circumcise yourself and
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 - Then your family."
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 - How did abram respond to that?
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 - Did he look up at god and say, "now god, let me get
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 - This straight.
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 - You want me to take a knife and you want me to do what?
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 - You've got to be crazy."
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 - Or did he say, "god, you want me to do this.
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 - I tell you what, god, let me pray about
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 - That a little bit longer.
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 - I'll be getting back to you."
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 - It's not how he responded.
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 - Look at what he did in verse 26.
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 - It says: "in the very same day that god had spoken, abraham was
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 - Circumcised and ishmael, his son."
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 - Abram obeyed god immediately.
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 - As we'll see in the days ahead, that was one of the keys of
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 - Abraham's success in life: when god spoke, abraham obeyed
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 - Without question.
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 - Sometimes god will speak to us about specific commands in our
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 - Life that he wants us to obey.
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 - God communicates his direction for the dilemmas we face.
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 - He promises to give us his peace when we're facing turmoil.
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 - He promises to communicate his desire for our life, desires by
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 - The way, that are always good and always for our best.
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 - Now how many of you believe everything i just said that god
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 - Will communicate his direction, his peace, and his desires?
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 - How many of you believe that?
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 - Raise your hand.
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 - You really believe that?
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 - Then let me ask you the question: why don't you
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 - Pray more?
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 - Why don't you pray more?
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 - If the sovereign god of the
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 - Universe wants to talk to you
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 - About direction, he wants to give you his peace, he wants to
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 - Show you his good desires for you, why don't we spend more
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 - Time in prayer?
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 - I think author john piper might have the answer to
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 - That question.
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 - He says: "it's not so much that we don't want to pray."
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 - He says: "it's because we don't have a plan to pray."
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 - Listen to what he says.
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 - "unless i'm badly mistaken, one of the main reasons so many of
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 - God's children don't have a significant prayer life is not
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 - So much that we don't want to, we don't plan to.
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 - If you want to take a 4-week vacation, you just don't get up
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 - One summer morning and say, 'hey, let's go today.'
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 - You won't have anything ready.
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 - You won't know where to go.
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 - Nothing has been planned, but that's how many of us
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 - Treat prayer.
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 - We get up day after day and realize that significant times
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 - Of prayer should be a part of our life, but nothing's ever
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 - Ready: no time, no place, no procedure, and we know that the
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 - Opposite of planning is not some wonderful flow of deep
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 - Spontaneous experiences and prayer.
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 - The opposite of planning is the rut.
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 - If you don't plan a vacation, you'll probably stay home and
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 - Watch tv.
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 - The natural unplanned flow of the spiritual life sinks to the
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 - Lowest ebb of vitality.
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 - There is a race to be run and a fight to be fought.
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 - If you want renewal in your prayer life, you must plan
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 - For it."
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 - I want this message to be intensely practical.
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 - And so, let me suggest for you a plan for prayer where you can
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 - Really hear, listen to, the voice of god.
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 - In many ways this resembles a plan for reading the bible, but
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 - I believe there are three essential ingredients if you
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 - Really want to hear from god in your life.
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 - First of all, there has to be a period of time.
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 - A period of time.
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 - Now, the truth is, we ought to pray at all times.
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 - 1 thessalonians 5:17 says: "pray without ceasing."
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 - And you know that phrase "without ceasing" in greek, it's
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 - A word that literally means to pray with the frequency of a
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 - Hacking cough.
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 - You know what a hacking cough is.
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 - I'm listening to some of you with it right now.
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 - You know, you've got this tickle in your throat and you try to
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 - Suppress it as long as you can, but finally you can't help
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 - Yourself, [coughing]
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 - And you clear your throat and you go along for ways with that
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 - And then all of a sudden there it comes again.
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 - [coughing]
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 - As hard as you try, you can't suppress it.
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 - And paul says our prayer life ought to be that way.
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 - Prayer ought to be like a hacking cough, or it ought to be
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 - As natural as breathing.
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 - It ought to be just a natural response for all of us.
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 - When we're driving along, "lord, protect me," or when we're
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 - Stopped at a red light, "lord, please take care of my
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 - Family today."
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 - Or before we go into an important meeting, "god, give me
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 - Direction, give me wisdom."
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 - We ought to pray frequently without ceasing, but there also
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 - Needs to be a period of time every day that we've set aside
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 - Not only to talk to but to listen to god.
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 - For jesus, it was in the early morning hours while it was
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 - Still dark.
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 - For some people it might be over the noon hour.
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 - For some people it might be at night, but there needs to be a
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 - Time that we set aside as holy, sacred, to listen
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 - To the voice of god.
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 - We need a period.
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 - Secondly, we need a place.
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 - We need a place.
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 - There needs to be a place that we meet with god to listen
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 - To god.
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 - A week ago friday night, i was driving to one of our sunday
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 - School parties and amy was at home working on her talk for the
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 - Women's meeting the next day and so i took my two daughters with
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 - Me, julia and dorothy, and we were driving to richardson and
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 - We were going down belt line road
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 - And i pointed out on the left our high school,
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 - Richardson high school, where her--their mother
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 - And i went to school, and they couldn't have cared less, but
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 - Then i pointed out over on the right, i said to them, "see this
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 - Park over here?
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 - Cottonwood park."
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 - And i said, "when i was in high school, the 4 years i was in
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 - High school, just about every morning of the week, i would
 - 00:15:09.031 --> 00:15:13.902
 - Ride my bicycle, then later drive my little volkswagen
 - 00:15:13.902 --> 00:15:17.406
 - Beetle down to that park, 7:30 in the morning, and i would sit
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 - On that park bench.
 - 00:15:22.544 --> 00:15:23.946
 - I would open up my old green living bible," remember those?
 - 00:15:23.946 --> 00:15:28.350
 - "and i would read from it and then i would pray and listen
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 - To god."
 - 00:15:31.420 --> 00:15:32.788
 - I told my daughters it was in that park on that bench that god
 - 00:15:32.788 --> 00:15:37.159
 - Spoke to me about some of the most important issues in
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 - My life.
 - 00:15:40.095 --> 00:15:41.563
 - The choice of a mate, about the ministry god wanted to give me,
 - 00:15:41.563 --> 00:15:46.168
 - And a dozen other things.
 - 00:15:46.168 --> 00:15:49.271
 - That place is a very special place to me.
 - 00:15:49.271 --> 00:15:52.541
 - And over the years, the place has changed, but the principle
 - 00:15:52.541 --> 00:15:56.545
 - Has remained.
 - 00:15:56.545 --> 00:15:58.013
 - There are places that i go to, to meet with god.
 - 00:15:58.013 --> 00:16:01.450
 - And i would want to just suggest to you that you find a place
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 - Right now that you can meet with god.
 - 00:16:04.753 --> 00:16:07.389
 - You know, for jesus at the beginning of his ministry, that
 - 00:16:07.389 --> 00:16:09.792
 - Place was out in the wilderness where he went for 40 days of
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 - Spiritual testing.
 - 00:16:13.429 --> 00:16:15.230
 - Later we saw in mark 1, he had some place, we don't know where
 - 00:16:15.230 --> 00:16:17.866
 - It was, it was that solitary place that he went in the early
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 - Morning hours.
 - 00:16:21.036 --> 00:16:22.704
 - Even as he faced the greatest trial of his life, he had a
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 - Place he went to, gethsemane.
 - 00:16:26.475 --> 00:16:28.077
 - Many of us have been there before.
 - 00:16:28.077 --> 00:16:29.845
 - By the way, i don't think that was the first time he went to
 - 00:16:29.845 --> 00:16:31.713
 - Gethsemane that night.
 - 00:16:31.713 --> 00:16:33.048
 - It was a special place for him.
 - 00:16:33.048 --> 00:16:36.085
 - If we're gonna be serious about listening to god, we need to
 - 00:16:36.085 --> 00:16:40.022
 - Have a pre-arranged place that we're gonna meet god at a
 - 00:16:40.022 --> 00:16:43.759
 - Certain period.
 - 00:16:43.759 --> 00:16:45.427
 - And then third, for an effective prayer life, we need a pad.
 - 00:16:45.427 --> 00:16:51.333
 - And by that, i'm talking about a sheet of paper and a pencil
 - 00:16:51.333 --> 00:16:56.205
 - Or pen.
 - 00:16:56.205 --> 00:16:58.006
 - In fact, i've become more convinced that this is the
 - 00:16:58.006 --> 00:17:00.909
 - Greatest essential to an effective prayer life than
 - 00:17:00.909 --> 00:17:03.645
 - Anything else.
 - 00:17:03.645 --> 00:17:05.380
 - What do i mean by a pencil and pad?
 - 00:17:05.380 --> 00:17:07.015
 - Well, first of all, i mean a place where you can write down
 - 00:17:07.015 --> 00:17:09.585
 - The things you're talking to god about, your prayer request.
 - 00:17:09.585 --> 00:17:12.721
 - I started this practice a long time ago, maybe you've done it
 - 00:17:12.721 --> 00:17:15.624
 - As well, where i'll take a legal pad.
 - 00:17:15.624 --> 00:17:17.893
 - I'll draw a line right down the middle and at the top of the
 - 00:17:17.893 --> 00:17:21.763
 - Page on the left-hand side, i'll write, "my requests."
 - 00:17:21.763 --> 00:17:25.501
 - And then on the other side i put, "god's answer," and i'll
 - 00:17:25.501 --> 00:17:29.371
 - Make a list of the different things i'm talking to god about,
 - 00:17:29.371 --> 00:17:32.341
 - The things i'm asking him to do and i'll date it.
 - 00:17:32.341 --> 00:17:35.444
 - And as god answers those requests, yes or no, i'll write
 - 00:17:35.444 --> 00:17:38.580
 - The answer out beside it on the right-hand side.
 - 00:17:38.580 --> 00:17:42.017
 - I've got dozens and dozens of pages i can go back and look at
 - 00:17:42.017 --> 00:17:46.288
 - Through the years of requests that god has answered, sometimes
 - 00:17:46.288 --> 00:17:49.858
 - Yes, sometimes no.
 - 00:17:49.858 --> 00:17:54.730
 - The older i get, i'm more grateful sometimes for the no
 - 00:17:54.730 --> 00:17:58.734
 - Answers than i am the yes answers.
 - 00:17:58.734 --> 00:18:01.970
 - But it's a record of of god's faithfulness.
 - 00:18:01.970 --> 00:18:06.108
 - And i think it's important to keep that as a way of being
 - 00:18:06.108 --> 00:18:10.312
 - Effective and focused when you pray and talk to god.
 - 00:18:10.312 --> 00:18:14.049
 - But a pad and a pen are also important for listening to god,
 - 00:18:14.049 --> 00:18:18.887
 - Not only talking to god, but listening to god and recording
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 - What god says to you.
 - 00:18:22.291 --> 00:18:25.561
 - Those of you who have employees, you've probably had
 - 00:18:25.561 --> 00:18:28.230
 - This experience.
 - 00:18:28.230 --> 00:18:29.565
 - You ask one of your employees to do something.
 - 00:18:29.565 --> 00:18:31.133
 - They kind of have that blank stare.
 - 00:18:31.133 --> 00:18:33.001
 - "mm-mm, okay, yeah, mhm."
 - 00:18:33.001 --> 00:18:35.804
 - And you know the chances of that getting done are about slim
 - 00:18:35.804 --> 00:18:38.307
 - To none.
 - 00:18:38.307 --> 00:18:39.708
 - But when that employee will take out a pencil and write down what
 - 00:18:39.708 --> 00:18:42.844
 - You're asking him or her to do, you know they have an intent.
 - 00:18:42.844 --> 00:18:46.448
 - They're gonna be serious about that.
 - 00:18:46.448 --> 00:18:47.983
 - They're taking your words seriously.
 - 00:18:47.983 --> 00:18:51.253
 - I think it's important for us to let god know we're paying
 - 00:18:51.253 --> 00:18:53.956
 - Attention when he talks to us.
 - 00:18:53.956 --> 00:18:56.258
 - And when we write down the lessons he's teaching us, it's a
 - 00:18:56.258 --> 00:18:59.895
 - Way of saying, god, we're really listening.
 - 00:18:59.895 --> 00:19:02.664
 - And that's why one of the things i encourage you to do with a pen
 - 00:19:02.664 --> 00:19:05.234
 - And a pad is to keep a spiritual journal.
 - 00:19:05.234 --> 00:19:09.304
 - Now, a spiritual journal is simply a record of how god's
 - 00:19:09.304 --> 00:19:11.840
 - Dealing in your life.
 - 00:19:11.840 --> 00:19:13.809
 - It's not like a diary that you keep every day.
 - 00:19:13.809 --> 00:19:16.645
 - You write, you know, "today, february 3rd, bowl of bran
 - 00:19:16.645 --> 00:19:19.815
 - Flakes for breakfast," you know, and that kind of stuff.
 - 00:19:19.815 --> 00:19:23.185
 - No, no, a spiritual journal is simply a way of recording the
 - 00:19:23.185 --> 00:19:26.922
 - Things god's teaching you, the way he's working in your life.
 - 00:19:26.922 --> 00:19:29.725
 - You may not write in it every day, you may just write in it
 - 00:19:29.725 --> 00:19:31.893
 - Once or twice a week, but as you write those lessons down, it
 - 00:19:31.893 --> 00:19:35.864
 - Will amaze you, as you go back over the months and years, to
 - 00:19:35.864 --> 00:19:41.103
 - See the lessons god has taught you and the way he has dealt in
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 - Your life.
 - 00:19:44.673 --> 00:19:46.275
 - I believe a pad and a pencil are essential for listening, hearing
 - 00:19:46.275 --> 00:19:51.947
 - The voice of god in your life.
 - 00:19:51.947 --> 00:19:55.617
 - Friday night, this past friday night, i was finishing up some
 - 00:19:55.617 --> 00:19:59.288
 - Things in the office and i felt so relieved the desk was finally
 - 00:19:59.288 --> 00:20:04.893
 - Cleared, at least till monday morning it was clear.
 - 00:20:04.893 --> 00:20:08.363
 - So i had some time just sitting there and thinking about
 - 00:20:08.363 --> 00:20:13.235
 - Our church.
 - 00:20:13.235 --> 00:20:15.237
 - And i'm excited about our church.
 - 00:20:15.237 --> 00:20:20.008
 - I'm excited about what god's doing in our congregation.
 - 00:20:20.008 --> 00:20:23.278
 - I'm even more excited about what i believe he's going to do.
 - 00:20:23.278 --> 00:20:29.184
 - But to be honest with you, for a moment while i sat there, i
 - 00:20:29.184 --> 00:20:32.654
 - Started to feel overwhelmed as i thought about all that was ahead
 - 00:20:32.654 --> 00:20:38.994
 - Of me, and all that was ahead of us as a church--not discouraged,
 - 00:20:38.994 --> 00:20:43.899
 - But just kind of overwhelmed by the task.
 - 00:20:43.899 --> 00:20:48.670
 - And so i went and i pulled out some of my spiritual journals
 - 00:20:48.670 --> 00:20:53.709
 - From 20, 25 years ago.
 - 00:20:53.709 --> 00:20:57.346
 - And i opened them up and just started reading.
 - 00:20:57.346 --> 00:21:01.550
 - And i smiled at some of the things i read.
 - 00:21:01.550 --> 00:21:06.321
 - 'cause some of those things that seemed such a big deal 10
 - 00:21:06.321 --> 00:21:09.491
 - Or 20 years ago, i mean, when i look at them now, i laugh.
 - 00:21:09.491 --> 00:21:13.261
 - They weren't a big deal at all.
 - 00:21:13.261 --> 00:21:14.596
 - God took care of them so quickly.
 - 00:21:14.596 --> 00:21:18.133
 - But then i read about some of the things i had prayed about.
 - 00:21:18.133 --> 00:21:21.970
 - I read about god who was doing exceeding abundantly beyond
 - 00:21:21.970 --> 00:21:25.607
 - Anything i could have asked or thought, and tears started to
 - 00:21:25.607 --> 00:21:30.912
 - Flow down my face as i saw once again the faithfulness of god in
 - 00:21:30.912 --> 00:21:37.085
 - My life.
 - 00:21:37.085 --> 00:21:38.453
 - And i wasn't planning to do it.
 - 00:21:38.453 --> 00:21:40.389
 - I just fell on my knees right there at my chair and i started
 - 00:21:40.389 --> 00:21:45.260
 - Praising god, saying, "god, thank you.
 - 00:21:45.260 --> 00:21:48.663
 - Thank you for your faithfulness over these years."
 - 00:21:48.663 --> 00:21:53.001
 - And it was as if god started speaking to me, and he said,
 - 00:21:53.001 --> 00:21:56.805
 - "robert, don't worry about these things.
 - 00:21:56.805 --> 00:21:59.708
 - Just as i have taken care of you in the past, just as i have
 - 00:21:59.708 --> 00:22:03.812
 - Blessed the other churches you served, i am gonna take care of
 - 00:22:03.812 --> 00:22:07.582
 - You now, and i'm gonna bless this church beyond anything you
 - 00:22:07.582 --> 00:22:11.787
 - Can imagine."
 - 00:22:11.787 --> 00:22:15.023
 - And the peace of god just flooded over myself.
 - 00:22:15.023 --> 00:22:19.861
 - I got up, turned out the lights, went home with that assurance
 - 00:22:19.861 --> 00:22:24.633
 - That god is in control.
 - 00:22:24.633 --> 00:22:29.337
 - Francis schaeffer wrote a book years ago: "he is there and he
 - 00:22:29.337 --> 00:22:35.844
 - Is not silent."
 - 00:22:35.844 --> 00:22:38.814
 - God really is there.
 - 00:22:38.814 --> 00:22:41.383
 - And he's not silent, he's speaking to you.
 - 00:22:41.383 --> 00:22:45.620
 - The question is are you making time to listen?
 - 00:22:45.620 --> 00:22:51.860
 - Jeffress: whether you're facing a big decision or a small one,
 - 00:22:56.064 --> 00:22:59.301
 - God is standing by to navigate your way.
 - 00:22:59.301 --> 00:23:02.604
 - Now, before our time is up for today, i'd like to thank you for
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 - Your ongoing commitment to the ministry of "pathway
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 - To victory."
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 - Like carmen in pennsylvania.
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 - She wrote: "thank you for all the great work you're doing for
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 - For people like me, with limited financial resources.
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 - God bless you all for this ministry!"
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 - And thank you, friends, of "pathway to victory," for
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 - Touching lives like carmen's and countless others as well.
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 - Now stay right there.
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 - I'll be back with more "pathway to victory" in just a moment.
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 - Jeffress: one of the most frequently asked questions i
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 - Jeffress: too often we assume that prayer is merely a channel
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 - Helped you see prayer is a conversation in which we take
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 - Time to listen as well.
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 - Well, when we're struggling to hear god's voice, it's tempting
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 - Do it, why not ask god for a supernatural sign?
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 - After all, you look through the bible, god does reveal himself
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 - Through supernatural signs sometimes.
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 - Why not use a sign to determine god's will?
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 - That's the line of reasoning i used some years ago with very
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 - Disappointing results, i might add.
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