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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Satan's Four Favorite Lies (Part 2) | October 17, 2025
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- Male announcer: from the pulpit of the first baptist church of
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- Dallas, texas, this is "pathway to victory" with
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- Dr. robert jeffress.
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- Dr. robert jeffress: hi, i'm robert jeffress and welcome
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- Again to "pathway to victory."
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- Satan has been deceiving humanity since the very
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- Beginning of time.
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- It began in the garden of eden when he convinced eve to doubt
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- God's word and disobey god's commands.
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- And this master deceiver has developed certain lies that are
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- So effective, he continues to use them against
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- Every generation.
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- Today i want to reveal the specific falsehoods that satan
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- Whispers into our minds to steal our joy, destroy our peace, and
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- Damage our relationships with god and others.
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- My message is titled "satan's four favorite lies" on today's
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- Jeffress: when we fall for that lie, god is not giving you what
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- You need to be happy, we're ready to fall for his next lie,
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- And it's built around pride.
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- You're in control of your destiny.
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- If god can't be depended upon to give us what we need, then we
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- Better start looking out for number one.
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- Nobody else is gonna look out for you.
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- You better look out for yourself.
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- You must control your destiny and you can control
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- Your destiny.
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- That's the essence of pride.
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- You see that in the garden.
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- Remember what satan said to eve?
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- He said, "don't eat from this tree because," verse 5, "god
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- Knows that in the day you eat from it, your eyes will be
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- Opened and you will be like god, knowing good and evil."
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- I want you to see the connection here between discontent and
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- Pride, which leads to independence and,
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- Ultimately, fear.
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- Go back to the very first sin in the universe.
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- It occurred in heaven when lucifer decided he was no longer
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- Content with being the second banana.
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- He wasn't content with having the second chair in the
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- Heavenly boardroom.
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- He wasn't content being the chief angel.
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- He wanted to be the big banana himself.
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- He wanted to be number one.
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- He wanted the first chair in the heavenly boardroom.
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- What is it that led satan to believe he was even capable of
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- Running the universe?
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- At the heart of it was pride.
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- Remember what god said to lucifer before he cast him out
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- Of heaven?
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- Ezekiel 28:17, "your heart was lifted up because of your
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- Beauty; you corrupted your wisdom by reason
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- Of your splendor."
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- Now here's the jeffress paraphrase of that verse.
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- You became intoxicated with your god-given beauty, and you
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- Allowed your thinking to be messed up by your
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- God-given gifts.
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- Psychologists have a term for that: delusional.
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- Satan forgot he was a creature and thought he was the creator.
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- And we make the same mistake today.
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- It's no wonder that lucifer, after he was banished from
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- Heaven because of his pride, tried to plant the same seeds of
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- Discontent he felt in eve's heart.
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- You don't have what you need to be truly happy, but guess
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- What, eve?
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- You don't have to settle for what god gives you or doesn't
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- Give you.
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- You can be like god himself.
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- You don't have to be satisfied with being a creature.
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- You can be like the creator.
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- And ever since that time you and i have been tempted with the
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- Idea, the thought that, as one positive-thinking preacher said,
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- If it's going to be, it's up to me.
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- I control my destiny.
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- I'm the one who decides what happens with my life.
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- You see it everywhere, that spirit of independence.
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- Discontent, i'm not happy with what god's doing in my life
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- Leads to what?
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- Pride and independence from god, and we celebrate
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- That independence.
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- How many of you have ever been to a graduation ceremony before
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- Of any kind?
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- We've all had to sit through--i mean, we've gotten to experience
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- The joy with others of those.
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- Probably somewhere in one of those you heard
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- The famous words that are often quoted at graduation
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- Time called, "invictus."
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- Remember how it goes?
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- "out of the night that covers me, black from the pit from pole
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- To pole, i thank whatever gods may be for my
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- Unconquerable soul.
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- It matters not how straight the gate, how charged with
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- Punishments the scroll, i am the master of my fate, i am the
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- Captain of my soul."
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- No, no, no, a thousand times no.
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- We are not the masters of our fate.
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- We're not the captains of anything.
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- Psalm 100 and verse 3 says, "for the lord himself is god, it is
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- He who made us and not we ourselves.
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- We are his people and we are the sheep of his pasture."
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- We think we control our destiny.
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- We think the choices we make are so important, and to an extent
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- They can be important, but they don't have the final word in
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- Our destiny.
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- We're like passengers on an ocean liner on a long journey.
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- Those passengers think they have all kinds of choices: what to
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- Eat, what time to eat, go to play shuffleboard or cards or
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- Take a nap.
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- They think they can make all of these choices, but at all the
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- Time they're exercising their free will.
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- They're in a ship where the captain is determining the
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- Ultimate destination, and so it is with us.
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- We have a master of our soul, a captain of our faith, and it is
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- God himself.
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- That's what pride is.
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- The idea i can control my destiny.
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- And that thought, that belief leads to a third lie that we're
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- Susceptible to, and that is one that is based in fear.
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- That is, you are all alone.
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- Now, here's the great irony of all of this.
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- We think pride and sovereignty over our choices, we think pride
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- And independence produces confidence in people.
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- It gives people great confidence.
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- It doesn't.
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- It gives people fear.
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- People are filled with fear when they are unshackled from the
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- Truth that there is a god controlling their destiny.
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- You know why that is?
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- It's because once somebody decides that there is no god and
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- He has no power over their lives, then it makes people
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- Victims of random events or random circumstances in
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- Their life.
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- It doesn't take long living on this planet to realize you're
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- Not in control of your circumstances.
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- A disloyal mate, a maverick cancer cell, an unexpected
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- Accident or illness suddenly makes you realize: you're not in
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- Control of the situation.
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- That's what happens and that's why people are so filled
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- With fear.
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- It doesn't produce confidence in people to think that
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- Circumstances or other people are free to do to them whatever
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- They desire to do.
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- Does that give you any confidence?
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- No, we need to know there is a god who is bigger than the
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- Circumstances, bigger than the enemies in our life, but
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- Independence always produces fear.
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- I think it's interesting, the very first negative emotion in
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- The bible isn't jealousy, it's not bitterness, it's not greed,
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- It's not lust, it's fear.
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- Did you know that?
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- The very first negative emotion in the bible is fear.
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- After adam and eve disobeyed god, they went and hid from god,
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- And remember god came looking for them, and verse 10, "i heard
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- The sound of you in the garden, and i was afraid because i was
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- Naked; so i hid myself."
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- That's always the result of acting independently from god.
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- When we act independently from god, when we unshackle ourselves
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- From the responsibility we have to obey god, we're filled not
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- With confidence, but with fear.
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- Are you familiar with the author named michael crichton?
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- If you don't know his name, you know his books and movies.
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- He's deceased now, but he was the author of, "jurassic park,"
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- "the andromeda strain," and i remember years ago he wrote an
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- Article that i clipped and put in my permanent file because it
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- Made such an impression upon me.
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- The article was titled, "let's stop scaring ourselves."
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- And in that article he listed all the numerous things human
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- Beings have come up to be scared by and how those things have
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- Changed through the years.
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- Listen to some of these fears that have seized control of our
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- Culture over the last 60 or so years.
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- In 1975, "newsweek" magazine warned that global temperatures
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- Were falling and could result in a worldwide famine.
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- Ten years later, scientists were warning of a rise in global
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- Temperatures that threatened the survival of our planet.
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- In the 1960s, we were warned of the dangers of overpopulation,
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- With one global think tank predicting that by 2030, the
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- World's population would be 14 billion people.
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- By the end of the 20th century, fertility rates had fallen to
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- Half of what they were in the 1950s.
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- We once were worried that power lines cause cancer.
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- Remember that?
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- After $25 billion was spent in relocating power lines or the
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- People living near them, it was discovered that not only are
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- Power lines not harmful, but the magnetic fields that they we
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- Feared to be carcinogenic can actually be helpful in some
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- Medical treatments.
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- Killer bees, cancer-inducing deodorants, swine flu epidemics,
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- Economic collapses, giant asteroids, and the anticipated
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- Meltdown from y2k are just some of the other manufactured fears
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- In the last 60 years that have plagued society.
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- The more we teach people in our schools, teach our children
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- There is no god, things are simply random, the more fear
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- That grips our hearts.
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- If there is no god, all we're left to do is to calculate how
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- Many different things could go wrong in our lives and on
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- Our planet.
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- Now, discontent leads to independence, independence leads
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- To fear, and fear ultimately leads to bitterness.
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- And that's the fourth lie satan loves to convince us of, and
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- That is you have been mistreated by god or by other people.
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- Satan, he cannot accept the fact that he's the one responsible
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- For his banishment from heaven.
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- He wanted to blame somebody else for his predicament, he happened
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- To blame god.
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- And his unwillingness to accept blame for his rebellious heart
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- Not only kept him from salvation and forgiveness, but it also
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- Sowed the seeds of this cosmic battle that we're all a part of.
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- Think about it, every problem you have in your life right now
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- Can be traced back to the spiritual war that began with
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- Satan's resentment, bitterness toward god.
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- That's the fruit of bitterness.
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- It shouldn't be any surprise to us that one of satan's favorite
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- Mind games is to get us to believe all of our problems are
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- The result of what other people or what god has done to us,
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- Whether it's the situation at work we're experiencing, whether
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- It's our financial struggles, whether it's our marital
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- Problems, we wanna blame somebody else except instead of
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- Receiving that blame and receiving god's forgiveness in
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- Our life.
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- Look, listen to this, bitterness, bitterness is a
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- Blindfold that keeps you from receiving god's forgiveness in
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- Your life and it also keeps you from making the necessary
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- Changes you need to make for a better life.
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- It should be no surprise that that's what satan did to eve.
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- He tried to get her to blame somebody else for the
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- Predicament she was in.
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- It's interesting in genesis 3:12, when satan confronts this
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- First couple, he goes to the man first and says, "adam, what have
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- You done?"
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- And remember adam's reply in verse 12, "the woman you gave
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- Me," she's the one who is responsible.
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- She gave it to me.
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- "she gave me from the tree and i ate."
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- "oh, god, everything was great between you and me.
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- We were having a wonderful relationship together.
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- Untainted by sin, and then you came up with this brilliant idea
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- To create a woman, and now look what has happened."
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- He blamed the woman.
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- And so god said, "okay, what do you have to say for
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- Yourself, eve?"
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- In verse 13, "what is this thing you have done?
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- And the woman said, 'that serpent,'" that you created,
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- "'that serpent, he's the one who deceived me, and i ate.'"
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- And so the pattern continues.
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- When we are guilty, we have to shift the guilt somewhere and so
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- We shift it and transform it into blame.
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- And that blame, that refusal to acknowledge our responsibility,
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- Keeps us from receiving god's forgiveness, and it keeps us
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- From making necessary changes in our life.
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- Now, let me say quickly.
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- Obviously, there are times that other people wrong us.
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- There are other times that people really are to blame for
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- What has happened in our life.
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- Have you ever discovered that you can't control what other
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- People do to you?
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- One of the most liberating things to realize is you are not
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- Responsible for what other people do to you.
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- You can't control what other people do to you, but you can
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- Control your responses to what other people do.
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- And when somebody wrongs us, and live more than five minutes on
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- This planet and somebody's gonna wrong you, you'll
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- Experience that.
- 00:15:45.534 --> 00:15:46.902
- When people wrong you, you've got one of two choices.
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- You can either hold on to, you can grip that offense.
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- You can turn it over and over in your mind and relive that hurt
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- Over and over again until that bitterness becomes a tumor, a
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- Spiritual tumor, and destroys everything good in your life and
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- In the life of those around you.
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- You can hold on to that bitterness or you can choose to
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- Release, let go of that bitterness.
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- I'm not talking about rationalizing what the other
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- Person did or denying what they did.
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- To forgive, though, means literally to let go.
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- When you forgive, you let go of your right to hurt that person
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- For hurting you.
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- When you forgive, you're basically saying, god, you take
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- This person and you settle the score.
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- You do what's right, but i wanna be free to get on with my life.
- 00:16:36.618 --> 00:16:42.057
- That's what satan never wants you to do.
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- He wants you to hold on to that bitterness, turn that offense
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- Over and over again in your mind.
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- Demand your pound of flesh from that other person who has
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- Wronged you, because satan knows as long as he can keep you
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- Gripping your bitterness, you will never be free to serve god.
- 00:16:58.474 --> 00:17:03.812
- You know, i remember reading one time an interesting article
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- About how africans caught wild monkeys.
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- You know how they do it?
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- They take a coconut and they clean it out and it's a hollowed
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- Out coconut in which they place peanuts, and when the wild
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- Monkeys come, they sniff those peanuts and they stick their
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- Hand in the opening of that coconut and they grab hold of
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- Those peanuts.
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- But a strange thing, once they grab hold, they've created a
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- Fist that keeps them from being able to extricate their hand
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- From the coconut.
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- They're caught.
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- And what is their response?
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- They just hold on to those peanuts tighter and tighter
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- And tighter.
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- You say, "what stupid monkeys.
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- I'm glad i'm not as stupid as those monkeys are."
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- Don't say that because you and i do the same thing.
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- When somebody wrongs us, what do we wanna do?
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- We wanna hold on to them.
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- We wanna hold on to that offense.
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- We wanna remember every painful emotion we had and we wanna
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- Visualize what it's gonna be like to get even with that
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- Person and we hold on and on and on and grip that person in
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- Their offense.
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- And all the time we don't realize we're
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- Enslaving ourselves.
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- The only way to experience freedom is by letting go.
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- Letting go.
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- How do i do that?
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- How do i defeat the lies of satan that comes into my mind?
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- God hasn't given me what i really need to be happy.
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- I'm gonna control the destiny of my life.
- 00:18:45.480 --> 00:18:49.818
- I'm fearful because i'm all alone in the world.
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- I'm bitter because i think god has forsaken me and mistreated
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- Me or others have mistreated me.
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- I'm bitter and unforgiving.
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- How do i conquer those lies?
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- Well, ephesians 6 holds the answer because in ephesians 6,
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- God gives us the resources for the spiritual war that we're
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- All fighting.
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- And of the six strategies, paul calls them weapons that god has
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- Given us.
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- The very first one deals with the mind.
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- Replacing satan's thoughts with god's thoughts.
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- Paul calls it putting on the belt of truth.
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- And next time, we're gonna look at how to do just that.
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- Jeffress: satan's lies are masterfully crafted to trap us
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- In cycles of discontent, pride, fear, and bitterness.
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- The key is learning to identify these deceptions so we can
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- Reject them and cling to god's truth instead.
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- Now, as we close today's program, i wanna share a
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- Powerful testimony from ken in louisiana.
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- Ken wrote, "i really wanna thank you for the way you present the
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- I believe this is exactly what jesus christ would have wanted.
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- Jeffress: laura, thank you for that question.
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- It's one we're receiving more and more frequently here at
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- "pathway to victory."
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- You know, the apostle john said, "i have no greater joy than
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- This, than to know that my children walk in the truth."
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- Conversely, the greatest pain we parents have is when we see our
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- Children not walking in the truth, and especially when
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- They're overcome with gender confusion or
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- Homosexual relationships.
- 00:23:02.571 --> 00:23:05.507
- What do we say to a child who's living a lifestyle that is
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- Contrary to what scripture says?
- 00:23:09.678 --> 00:23:12.247
- As parents, we have the obligation to speak the truth
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- But to speak it in love.
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- We should never hesitate in affirming what the bible says
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- About sin, but at the same time i think it is very important
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- That we do everything we can to keep that bridge of
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- Communication open with our children.
- 00:23:29.231 --> 00:23:33.034
- I don't believe what some parents believe, that we need to
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- Turn our back on our children until they repent.
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- I don't find that anywhere in scripture.
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- Now, i'm not saying if you have gay children that if they,
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- Quote, "get married," you need to attend the ceremony.
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- I would never do that.
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- That's condoning something god has condemned, but it doesn't
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- Mean you cease relationship with your children.
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- You continue to pray for them, to make them know your door is
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- Always open to talk with them and help them.
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- You know, one of the greatest illustrations of that is in the
- 00:24:04.766 --> 00:24:07.736
- Story of the prodigal son.
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- You remember the son said basically to his father, "i wish
- 00:24:09.604 --> 00:24:13.275
- You were dead, but since you're not dead yet, i want my portion
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- Of the estate," and he got his money and went to the
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- Far country.
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- And the bible says when he hit a low point, that son said, "you
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- Know, my father's servants have more than i have.
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- I shall get up and go back to my father."
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- And the bible says when the father looked out on the horizon
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- And he saw his son walking toward him, the father ran to
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- Embrace his son.
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- He hugged him and he kissed him, and the son began that speech,
- 00:24:40.268 --> 00:24:43.972
- "father, i've been wrong and," and he cut him off.
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- He didn't need to hear any more speeches.
- 00:24:47.242 --> 00:24:49.578
- His son was home and that's all he needed to know.
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- You know, i've often wondered how is it that that father just
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- Happened to be on the front porch looking out when his son
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- Appeared on the horizon?
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- I don't think that was an accident.
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- I think the father sat on that front porch every day starting
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- Early in the morning waiting till late at night looking for
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- Some sign of his son's return, hoping this may be the day,
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- Perhaps this is the day my son will return.
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- And i think that ought to be our attitude toward our children who
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- Are living apart from god.
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- We keep looking, we keep hoping, we keep praying for the return.
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- And when they do return, we rejoice in it.
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- So my best advice to you, laura, is don't give up hope don't give
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- Up praying and always keep the communication lines open with
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- Your child because very possibly that day will come when
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- They return.
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- Jeffress: satan's four favorite lies all work together to
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- Destroy our relationship with god, but god's truth sets us
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- Free from every one of these deceptions.
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- Well, messages about the end times often focus on war,
- 00:26:00.982 --> 00:26:05.186
- Famine, and economic turmoil rather than on the one who is
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- Revealed in those events.
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- So next time i wanna share why prophecies about the last days
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- Should fill us with amazement for our great god and hope in
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- The return of our savior jesus christ.
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- Stay tuned for a preview of our upcoming series "jesus revealed
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- In the end times."
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- Jeffress: when you understand who jesus will be when he comes
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- In the end, that is the answer to the most basic questions we
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- Have in life.
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- Questions like, what is my purpose?
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- How can i have a relationship with god?
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- And what does the future hold for me?
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- Announcer: set your dvr and join us next time for the message,
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- "jesus: the subject of prophecy" here on "pathway to victory."
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