Robert Jeffress - The Seventh Commandment - Keep Marriage Holy (Part 1)

June 12, 2026 | 27:29

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - The Seventh Commandment - Keep Marriage Holy (Part 1) | June 12, 2026
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  • From the pulpit of the first baptist church
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  • Of dallas, texas,
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  • This is pathway to victory with dr. robert jeffress.
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  • Hi, i'm robert jeffress
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  • And welcome again to pathway to victory.
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  • Few perils pose a greater threat to marriage than adultery.
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  • What starts off as an innocent conversation
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  • Can end up destroying a perfectly healthy partnership.
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  • So how do we guard ourselves and our families
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  • Against the temptation of moral compromise?
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  • Today, we're going to discover some practical steps
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  • For following the seventh commandment.
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  • My message is titled, "keep marriage holy"
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  • Some time ago,
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  • A man from another church came to visit with me
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  • And to confess that he was involved
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  • In an adulterous relationship.
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  • And trying to be pastoral and empathetic,
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  • I thought i could maybe vocalize what he was feeling.
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  • I said, "i'm sure you're overwhelmed by guilt and grief,
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  • And you've probably never been more miserable in your life
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  • Than you are right now,
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  • But there is a way out."
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  • And he looked at me with a perplexed look and said,
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  • "no, actually i'm happier than i've ever been before."
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  • I learned right then,
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  • Don't try to imagine what other people are feeling.
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  • The truth is,
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  • And you don't hear this often from us preacher types,
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  • The truth is sin is very pleasurable.
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  • It's enticing. it's alluring.
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  • If it wasn't, nobody would sin.
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  • Sin is pleasurable,
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  • Especially sexual sin for a season.
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  • For a season.
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  • Solomon who had his own share of illicit relationships
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  • Wrote in proverbs 9:17,
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  • "stolen water is sweet
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  • And bread eaten in secret is pleasant."
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  • But then he goes on to saying verse 18,
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  • "what was sweet can become sour,
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  • What was delicious decays leading to death."
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  • Or listen to solomon's words again in proverbs 5:3-4,
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  • "for the lips of an adulterous drip honey
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  • And smoother than oil is her speech,
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  • But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
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  • Sharp as a two-edged sword."
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  • Sin is pleasurable but only for a season.
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  • And perhaps no sin leaves a wake of destruction behind it,
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  • Like the sin we're talking about today.
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  • It affects not only those involved but the innocent parties,
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  • It can affect generations to come,
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  • Which is why one of the top 10
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  • On god's list of commandments
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  • Is the seventh commandment found in exodus 20:14,
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  • You shall not commit adultery.
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  • Now, what i want to do today is four things.
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  • I want us to talk about the meaning of adultery.
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  • We're going to look at the progression of adultery,
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  • How it happens.
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  • Third, we're going to look at some biblical steps
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  • For the avoidance of adultery.
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  • And finally, i want to end on a note of hope
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  • Talking about the aftermath of adultery.
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  • First of all, let's talk about why it is
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  • That god talks about adultery
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  • And what is it he's exactly talking about.
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  • And to do this, we need to pull back and get a picture,
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  • An overview of the subject of sex.
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  • You know, the fact is contrary to what most people think,
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  • God is very pro-sex.
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  • Did you know that?
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  • He is pro-sex.
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  • The reason i know that
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  • Is because he dreamed up the idea of sex.
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  • Have you ever really thought about that?
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  • God in heaven thinking up the whole sexual act,
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  • Designing the equipment we need to enjoy that act.
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  • It was all god's idea.
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  • And contrary to what the puritans taught,
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  • Sex was not primarily given by god for procreation.
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  • It was given for pleasure.
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  • The first sex act in the bible
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  • Was between a man and a woman who were married.
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  • There is no hint that there was any child
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  • That came from that first act.
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  • It was given to seal the emotional, physical,
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  • And spiritual unity of two people.
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  • It's amazing that there are really very few
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  • Instructions in the bible about sex.
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  • Basically, god said,
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  • "enjoy it all you want and all you can.
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  • I'm only going to give you one restriction for sex,
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  • And that is it needs to be within a marriage relationship."
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  • That's really the only instruction and restriction.
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  • It needs to be within marriage.
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  • But that says a lot to us today.
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  • Sex is not for single people.
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  • For single people to have sex before marriage
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  • Is what the bible calls fornication.
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  • Sex is not for people of the same sex.
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  • Oh, i know some people say, "well, what if they're married?"
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  • Trust me, they're not married.
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  • No gay person has ever been married.
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  • It's impossible.
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  • God has defined marriage,
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  • Jesus did in matthew 19,
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  • As between one man and one woman.
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  • That's the only kind of marriage god recognizes.
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  • So let's not try to be smarter than god about that.
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  • For two people of the same sex to have sex is immorality,
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  • But a married person who has sex outside the marriage,
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  • That is what adultery is,
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  • And god had a very direct word
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  • About his attitude toward adultery
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  • Found in malachi 2:13-14.
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  • The israelites were whining
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  • About why god didn't answer their prayers.
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  • And so god said, "you want to know the reason?
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  • Here it is.
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  • You cover the altar of the lord with tears,
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  • With weeping, with groaning
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  • Because he no longer regards the offering
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  • Or accepts it with favor from your hand.
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  • Yet you say, 'for what reason?
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  • Why is god angry?'
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  • Because the lord has been a witness between you
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  • And the wife of your youth
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  • Against whom you have dealt treacherously
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  • Though she is your companion and your wife by covenant."
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  • Adultery is to break a covenant,
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  • A promise you've made to your wife or to your husband,
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  • And more importantly to god himself.
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  • And when you commit adultery,
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  • You are breaking that covenant.
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  • That's why god says you are not to commit adultery.
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  • A further explanation of adultery
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  • Is found in 1 corinthians 7:2.
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  • Paul writes, "because of immoralities,
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  • Each man is to have," underline that,
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  • "his own wife,
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  • And each woman is to have,"
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  • Underline it again, "her own husband."
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  • That greek word have, echo, in non-biblical literature
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  • Was used in greek to refer to have somebody sexually.
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  • The idea is to each man is to have his own wife,
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  • Each woman her own husband,
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  • Not somebody else's wife or somebody else's husband.
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  • You know, to go outside of marriage
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  • And have sex with somebody else,
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  • The bible says is like a rich man
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  • Who steals from a poor man,
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  • Not because he needs it,
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  • But just for the thrill of it.
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  • If you have your own mate, you don't need another mate.
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  • By the way, that's exactly the metaphor
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  • That nathan the prophet used
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  • When he accused david of of adultery.
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  • He used the story of a rich man who had plenty of lambs,
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  • But he decided to steal the lamb,
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  • The little ewe lamb of a poor man,
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  • And god condemned him for that.
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  • That's what it is to have sex with somebody
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  • Who is not our mate.
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  • Well, how does it happen?
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  • How does adultery happen?
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  • It doesn't just come out of nowhere.
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  • The progression of adultery,
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  • And for that matter, every sin,
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  • Is found in james 1 beginning with verse 13.
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  • Adultery, first of all, begins in the mind.
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  • Mental adultery.
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  • Look at verse 13 of james 1.
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  • "let no one say he is tempted, i'm being tempted by god;
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  • For god cannot be tempted by evil
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  • And he himself does not tempt anyone."
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  • James was saying there are people
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  • Who right before they plunge into temptation, they said,
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  • "well, this must be god's will
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  • Because he allowed it."
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  • No, don't let anybody say that.
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  • God does not tempt any of us.
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  • Would you say that with me?
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  • God does not tempt any of us.
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  • Satan is the one who tempts us to destroy our faith.
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  • God tests us to strengthen our faith.
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  • Temptation is an enticement to evil.
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  • Testing is an enticement to good.
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  • God doesn't tempt us.
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  • Satan does to destroy us.
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  • So then how does sin come into our life
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  • If god's not doing the tempting?
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  • Look at the equation for sin in verse 14.
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  • "but each person is tempted
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  • When he is carried away
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  • And enticed by his own lust."
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  • That word translated carried away, helkomai,
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  • Means to be drawn with an inward power.
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  • The first ingredient of sin
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  • Is that strong inward draw we all are born with toward it.
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  • But then he said each man is carried away and enticed.
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  • That greek word enticed is a fishing term.
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  • It means to hook.
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  • It's the process by which a fisherman catches a fish.
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  • The fish is drawn by its hunger, it's inward power.
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  • The fisherman knows if he's good
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  • Exactly when to drop the bait and what kind of bait to use.
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  • And that fish so blinded by its inward hunger
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  • Bites at that bait
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  • Not knowing there's a hook in it that will destroy it.
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  • And that's how it works with us.
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  • It's our own inward power drive towards sin
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  • Coupled with an external temptation.
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  • Satan is the master fisherman.
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  • He knows exactly what bait to use and when to use it.
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  • And when inward lust meets outward temptation,
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  • The result is sin.
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  • By the way, james is using a sexual metaphor here.
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  • He's saying just like the egg and the sperm
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  • Come together at just the right time to produce life,
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  • So lust and temptation come exactly together
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  • At the wrong time to produce death.
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  • That's what he's talking about here, that inward lust.
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  • In matthew 5:28, jesus said,
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  • "but i say to you that everybody who looks at a woman
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  • With lust for her
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  • Has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
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  • What does he mean by that?
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  • He's telling us something very important.
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  • He's saying if you think about something long enough,
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  • You'll end up doing it.
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  • And that's what lust is.
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  • It's not just glancing at somebody.
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  • It is staring at somebody.
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  • It involves a mental undressing of that person,
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  • An imaginary sexual encounter with that person.
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  • And when you nurse that experience in your mind
  • 00:11:53.035 --> 00:11:55.638
  • Over and over again,
  • 00:11:55.638 --> 00:11:57.373
  • We're all programmed in such a way
  • 00:11:57.373 --> 00:11:59.074
  • That what we think about often enough we end up doing.
  • 00:11:59.074 --> 00:12:02.411
  • And that leads to the next step
  • 00:12:02.411 --> 00:12:03.879
  • In the progression of adultery.
  • 00:12:03.879 --> 00:12:05.648
  • It goes from mental adultery to physical adultery.
  • 00:12:05.648 --> 00:12:09.084
  • Verse 15, "then when lust has conceived,"
  • 00:12:09.084 --> 00:12:12.288
  • There's that analogy, that metaphor,
  • 00:12:12.288 --> 00:12:14.156
  • "it is conceived, it gives birth,
  • 00:12:14.156 --> 00:12:17.226
  • Not to life but to sin.
  • 00:12:17.226 --> 00:12:19.128
  • And when sin is accomplished, that is fully developed,
  • 00:12:19.128 --> 00:12:23.132
  • It brings forth death."
  • 00:12:23.132 --> 00:12:25.868
  • God says those who commit adultery commit villainy.
  • 00:12:25.868 --> 00:12:30.372
  • In other words, it's something wicked,
  • 00:12:30.372 --> 00:12:32.541
  • Even something criminal.
  • 00:12:32.541 --> 00:12:34.910
  • Have you heard that,
  • 00:12:34.910 --> 00:12:36.045
  • "oh, there's nothing wrong with sex.
  • 00:12:36.045 --> 00:12:37.513
  • It's a victimless crime."
  • 00:12:37.513 --> 00:12:40.082
  • Not at all.
  • 00:12:40.082 --> 00:12:41.350
  • There are many victims, especially in adultery.
  • 00:12:41.350 --> 00:12:44.520
  • And look at the victims that the bible talks about.
  • 00:12:44.520 --> 00:12:47.456
  • Adultery is first of all a crime against our own mate.
  • 00:12:47.456 --> 00:12:52.261
  • When we give to somebody else outside the marriage,
  • 00:12:52.261 --> 00:12:55.397
  • What belongs to our mate?
  • 00:12:55.397 --> 00:12:56.332
  • It's stealing from them.
  • 00:12:56.332 --> 00:12:58.834
  • My friend derek jeter has written about that.
  • 00:12:58.834 --> 00:13:01.537
  • He says, "sexual intercourse
  • 00:13:01.537 --> 00:13:03.739
  • Is not merely the joining of two bodies
  • 00:13:03.739 --> 00:13:06.508
  • For the duration of the sex act.
  • 00:13:06.508 --> 00:13:08.611
  • It entails the whole person, body, soul, and spirit.
  • 00:13:08.611 --> 00:13:12.348
  • It's an investment of emotions and wills.
  • 00:13:12.348 --> 00:13:15.618
  • Sex is the most intimate experience
  • 00:13:15.618 --> 00:13:18.020
  • Two people can engage in with one another.
  • 00:13:18.020 --> 00:13:21.290
  • And that way," he says,
  • 00:13:21.290 --> 00:13:22.258
  • "adultery is a form of theft,
  • 00:13:22.258 --> 00:13:24.894
  • Stealing from their spouses
  • 00:13:24.894 --> 00:13:27.596
  • To whom a spouse's body belongs."
  • 00:13:27.596 --> 00:13:30.332
  • Not only is it a crime against our mate,
  • 00:13:30.332 --> 00:13:33.502
  • Adultery is a crime against our god.
  • 00:13:33.502 --> 00:13:36.772
  • Remember when joseph was alone with potiphar's wife
  • 00:13:36.772 --> 00:13:41.010
  • And mrs. potiphar started to make the moves on him?
  • 00:13:41.010 --> 00:13:44.179
  • What was his response?
  • 00:13:44.179 --> 00:13:46.248
  • He said, "how could i do such an evil thing
  • 00:13:46.248 --> 00:13:49.485
  • And sin against god?
  • 00:13:49.485 --> 00:13:52.488
  • If he had succumbed to that temptation,
  • 00:13:53.355 --> 00:13:55.124
  • It would've been a sin against mrs. potiphar
  • 00:13:55.124 --> 00:13:57.159
  • Or against potiphar himself,
  • 00:13:57.159 --> 00:13:59.061
  • But ultimately he said it would be a sin against god.
  • 00:13:59.061 --> 00:14:03.165
  • David said after he confessed to sin with bathsheba,
  • 00:14:03.165 --> 00:14:07.369
  • Psalm 51:4, "against you, god, and you only have i sinned."
  • 00:14:07.369 --> 00:14:12.975
  • Now, he wasn't discounting the fact
  • 00:14:13.742 --> 00:14:15.344
  • He had sinned against bathsheba and uriah,
  • 00:14:15.344 --> 00:14:18.080
  • But again, all sin is ultimately against god.
  • 00:14:18.080 --> 00:14:22.318
  • In 1 corinthians 6:19-20,
  • 00:14:22.318 --> 00:14:24.520
  • Paul drives that point home when he says,
  • 00:14:24.520 --> 00:14:26.722
  • "do you not know that your body
  • 00:14:26.722 --> 00:14:29.091
  • Is a temple of the holy spirit
  • 00:14:29.091 --> 00:14:31.193
  • Who is in you whom you had from god
  • 00:14:31.193 --> 00:14:33.595
  • And that you are not your own,
  • 00:14:33.595 --> 00:14:35.731
  • For you have been bought with a price,
  • 00:14:35.731 --> 00:14:37.967
  • Therefore glorify god in your body."
  • 00:14:37.967 --> 00:14:41.270
  • Think about this.
  • 00:14:41.270 --> 00:14:42.805
  • If you're a christian indwelt by the holy spirit of god,
  • 00:14:42.805 --> 00:14:45.708
  • When you have sex with somebody who is not your mate,
  • 00:14:45.708 --> 00:14:49.611
  • You are inviting the holy spirit of god
  • 00:14:50.446 --> 00:14:53.382
  • To participate in that sin with you
  • 00:14:53.382 --> 00:14:55.317
  • Because you're indwelt with the holy spirit.
  • 00:14:55.317 --> 00:14:57.619
  • Should the holy spirit participate
  • 00:14:57.619 --> 00:14:59.188
  • In adultery or immorality?
  • 00:14:59.188 --> 00:15:01.857
  • Paul said in verse 15, "me genoito."
  • 00:15:01.857 --> 00:15:04.893
  • May it never be.
  • 00:15:04.893 --> 00:15:06.495
  • Such a thought is unthinkable.
  • 00:15:06.495 --> 00:15:08.797
  • And yet that's what we do when we sin.
  • 00:15:08.797 --> 00:15:11.734
  • And finally, adultery is a crime against ourselves.
  • 00:15:11.734 --> 00:15:17.006
  • We think we're the victor
  • 00:15:17.573 --> 00:15:19.174
  • If we're involved in an adulterous relationship,
  • 00:15:19.174 --> 00:15:22.678
  • But we are a victim.
  • 00:15:22.678 --> 00:15:24.446
  • Listen to verse 18 of 1 corinthians 6,
  • 00:15:24.446 --> 00:15:27.049
  • "flee immorality for every other sin that a man commits
  • 00:15:27.049 --> 00:15:32.321
  • Is outside the body,
  • 00:15:32.788 --> 00:15:34.223
  • But the immoral man sins against his own body."
  • 00:15:34.223 --> 00:15:39.495
  • What does that mean?
  • 00:15:39.962 --> 00:15:41.363
  • What sins are you sinning against your own body?
  • 00:15:41.363 --> 00:15:43.465
  • Again, my friend derek jeter gives some great insight.
  • 00:15:43.465 --> 00:15:46.468
  • He said, "no sin is as directly destructive to the sinner
  • 00:15:46.468 --> 00:15:51.040
  • As is the sin of sexual immorality.
  • 00:15:51.040 --> 00:15:54.009
  • It elicit sexual contact,
  • 00:15:54.009 --> 00:15:55.944
  • Involves the body as the instrument of sin,
  • 00:15:55.944 --> 00:15:59.515
  • And cannot be undone.
  • 00:15:59.515 --> 00:16:02.418
  • Other sins such as gluttony and drunkenness
  • 00:16:02.418 --> 00:16:05.587
  • Encompass morally neutral things such as food or drink.
  • 00:16:05.587 --> 00:16:10.492
  • There's nothing righteous or unrighteous
  • 00:16:10.492 --> 00:16:12.795
  • About food or drink,
  • 00:16:12.795 --> 00:16:14.496
  • In which the body participates,
  • 00:16:14.496 --> 00:16:16.198
  • And though destructive,
  • 00:16:16.198 --> 00:16:18.167
  • Can be corrected through abstinence."
  • 00:16:18.167 --> 00:16:20.569
  • Now get this.
  • 00:16:20.569 --> 00:16:21.870
  • "however, a touch can never be untouched.
  • 00:16:21.870 --> 00:16:26.075
  • A kiss can never be unkissed.
  • 00:16:26.075 --> 00:16:28.744
  • An embrace can never be embraced.
  • 00:16:28.744 --> 00:16:31.947
  • In this sense, all other sins are outside the body,
  • 00:16:31.947 --> 00:16:36.118
  • While sexual sin is against the body,
  • 00:16:36.118 --> 00:16:39.021
  • A body that is become the temple of the holy spirit."
  • 00:16:39.021 --> 00:16:43.892
  • I might add, and it's obvious,
  • 00:16:44.526 --> 00:16:47.529
  • When we commit adultery,
  • 00:16:47.529 --> 00:16:49.064
  • We're also sinning against our sexual partner.
  • 00:16:49.064 --> 00:16:52.734
  • We're forcing them to become an accomplice
  • 00:16:52.734 --> 00:16:56.271
  • To every crime we just talked about.
  • 00:16:56.271 --> 00:16:58.774
  • They're sinning against themselves,
  • 00:16:58.774 --> 00:17:00.809
  • Against their god,
  • 00:17:00.809 --> 00:17:02.111
  • And against their mate if they're married.
  • 00:17:02.111 --> 00:17:04.646
  • It starts with mental adultery,
  • 00:17:05.280 --> 00:17:08.283
  • Then there is physical adultery.
  • 00:17:08.283 --> 00:17:10.452
  • And finally, james says in verse 15,
  • 00:17:10.452 --> 00:17:13.155
  • "there is death.
  • 00:17:13.155 --> 00:17:14.756
  • When sin is accomplished,
  • 00:17:14.756 --> 00:17:16.258
  • It brings forth death."
  • 00:17:16.258 --> 00:17:18.627
  • What does he mean death?
  • 00:17:18.627 --> 00:17:19.828
  • Well, there's a general sense
  • 00:17:19.828 --> 00:17:21.163
  • In which all sin ends up in physical death.
  • 00:17:21.163 --> 00:17:24.533
  • The reason we die is because we've inherited the sin virus.
  • 00:17:24.533 --> 00:17:28.971
  • But i think he's talking about something more here.
  • 00:17:28.971 --> 00:17:31.807
  • Sin destroys everything important to us,
  • 00:17:31.807 --> 00:17:35.477
  • And i can see from my own experience as a pastor
  • 00:17:35.477 --> 00:17:38.614
  • How adultery can destroy a marriage.
  • 00:17:38.614 --> 00:17:41.083
  • It destroys a family.
  • 00:17:41.083 --> 00:17:42.317
  • It destroys a career.
  • 00:17:42.317 --> 00:17:43.252
  • It destroys a reputation.
  • 00:17:43.252 --> 00:17:45.420
  • It can destroy your ministry.
  • 00:17:45.420 --> 00:17:46.955
  • It destroys everything that is valuable to us.
  • 00:17:46.955 --> 00:17:51.126
  • And that's why there's so many warnings about adultery.
  • 00:17:51.126 --> 00:17:54.229
  • Solomon, why he focused on this,
  • 00:17:54.229 --> 00:17:56.899
  • He experienced the effects of adultery
  • 00:17:56.899 --> 00:17:59.835
  • With his dad, king david,
  • 00:17:59.835 --> 00:18:01.904
  • And the heartache it brought to david.
  • 00:18:01.904 --> 00:18:03.872
  • He experienced it in his own life as well.
  • 00:18:03.872 --> 00:18:07.176
  • Just listen to some of these warnings.
  • 00:18:07.176 --> 00:18:08.911
  • Proverbs 6:25-26,
  • 00:18:08.911 --> 00:18:11.880
  • "do not desire her beauty in your heart,
  • 00:18:11.880 --> 00:18:14.683
  • Nor let her capture you with her eyelids,
  • 00:18:14.683 --> 00:18:17.853
  • For on account of a harlot,
  • 00:18:17.853 --> 00:18:20.055
  • One is reduced to a loaf of bread
  • 00:18:20.055 --> 00:18:23.192
  • And an adulterous hunts for the precious life."
  • 00:18:23.192 --> 00:18:26.328
  • If you ever talk to anybody
  • 00:18:26.328 --> 00:18:27.496
  • Having to pay alimony or child support
  • 00:18:27.496 --> 00:18:30.465
  • Or having to divide their household,
  • 00:18:30.465 --> 00:18:33.402
  • They'll tell you what it means
  • 00:18:33.402 --> 00:18:34.536
  • To be reduced to a loaf of bread.
  • 00:18:34.536 --> 00:18:36.972
  • Proverbs 6:27-29,
  • 00:18:36.972 --> 00:18:39.341
  • "can a man take fire to his bosom
  • 00:18:39.341 --> 00:18:41.643
  • And his clothes not be burned?"
  • 00:18:41.643 --> 00:18:43.212
  • This is something you can't play around with.
  • 00:18:43.212 --> 00:18:45.581
  • "can a man walk on hot coals and his feet not be scorched?
  • 00:18:45.581 --> 00:18:49.251
  • So is the one who goes into his neighbor's wife.
  • 00:18:49.251 --> 00:18:52.688
  • Whoever touches her will not go unpunished."
  • 00:18:52.688 --> 00:18:56.458
  • Or here's one that's just as blunt as you can get.
  • 00:18:56.458 --> 00:18:58.727
  • Proverbs 6:32-33,
  • 00:18:58.727 --> 00:19:00.829
  • "the one who commits adultery has no sense.
  • 00:19:00.829 --> 00:19:04.933
  • He who would destroy himself does it,
  • 00:19:04.933 --> 00:19:07.769
  • Disgraces his lot and his shame will never be wiped away."
  • 00:19:07.769 --> 00:19:13.041
  • One more warning and a note of hope.
  • 00:19:13.842 --> 00:19:16.044
  • Ecclesiastes 7:26,
  • 00:19:16.044 --> 00:19:18.480
  • "i discovered more bitter than death
  • 00:19:18.480 --> 00:19:21.583
  • Is the adulterous woman whose heart is snared and is nets
  • 00:19:21.583 --> 00:19:26.855
  • And whose hands are chains,
  • 00:19:27.456 --> 00:19:29.024
  • But one who is pleasing to god will escape from her,
  • 00:19:29.024 --> 00:19:33.829
  • But the sinner will be captured by her."
  • 00:19:33.829 --> 00:19:37.132
  • If you're a believer, adultery isn't inevitable.
  • 00:19:37.132 --> 00:19:41.370
  • There is a way to escape from that sin,
  • 00:19:41.370 --> 00:19:45.841
  • But you have to be intentional to do so.
  • 00:19:45.841 --> 00:19:48.910
  • How do you avoid the devastating sin of adultery?
  • 00:19:48.910 --> 00:19:53.415
  • Solomon said the key is proverbs 4:23.
  • 00:19:53.415 --> 00:19:56.952
  • He wrote, "watch over your heart with all diligence
  • 00:19:56.952 --> 00:20:02.224
  • For out of your heart flow the issues,
  • 00:20:03.058 --> 00:20:05.594
  • The springs of life."
  • 00:20:05.594 --> 00:20:08.030
  • You have to understand, in the hebrew mind,
  • 00:20:08.030 --> 00:20:11.733
  • The heart was not the center of emotion.
  • 00:20:11.733 --> 00:20:15.137
  • It's a feeling that you have,
  • 00:20:15.137 --> 00:20:17.205
  • But that wasn't the way the hebrews thought of it.
  • 00:20:17.205 --> 00:20:19.141
  • To the hebrews, the seed of emotion wasn't the heart,
  • 00:20:19.141 --> 00:20:22.678
  • But the bowels, the intestines.
  • 00:20:22.678 --> 00:20:26.281
  • That's where you felt things deeply.
  • 00:20:26.281 --> 00:20:29.117
  • The heart was the center of thought.
  • 00:20:29.117 --> 00:20:31.553
  • It was the mind.
  • 00:20:31.553 --> 00:20:32.754
  • That's why proverbs says,
  • 00:20:32.754 --> 00:20:34.523
  • As a man thinks in his what, heart.
  • 00:20:34.523 --> 00:20:38.226
  • That's what we think with our heart so is he.
  • 00:20:38.226 --> 00:20:40.796
  • So when solomon says, "watch over your heart,"
  • 00:20:40.796 --> 00:20:43.665
  • He's not just talking about your affections.
  • 00:20:43.665 --> 00:20:45.434
  • He's talking about your mind.
  • 00:20:45.434 --> 00:20:47.502
  • That's where it all starts.
  • 00:20:47.502 --> 00:20:49.971
  • I want to suggest today there are five sentries,
  • 00:20:49.971 --> 00:20:53.909
  • Five soldiers that you ought to employ
  • 00:20:53.909 --> 00:20:56.878
  • To guard your heart, your mind,
  • 00:20:56.878 --> 00:20:59.481
  • To protect you from adultery.
  • 00:20:59.481 --> 00:21:01.416
  • First of all, your eyes.
  • 00:21:01.416 --> 00:21:04.119
  • Make a covenant with your eyes.
  • 00:21:04.119 --> 00:21:08.056
  • You remember in our series, "18 minutes with jesus",
  • 00:21:08.056 --> 00:21:10.926
  • I said that adultery in the bed
  • 00:21:10.926 --> 00:21:13.128
  • Begins with adultery in the head.
  • 00:21:13.128 --> 00:21:15.897
  • But it really goes back farther than that.
  • 00:21:15.897 --> 00:21:17.766
  • It actually begins not in the mind.
  • 00:21:17.766 --> 00:21:19.968
  • It begins with the eyes.
  • 00:21:19.968 --> 00:21:22.070
  • Matthew 5:28, jesus said,
  • 00:21:22.070 --> 00:21:23.872
  • "i say to you that everyone who looks at a woman
  • 00:21:23.872 --> 00:21:26.675
  • With lust for her
  • 00:21:26.675 --> 00:21:28.343
  • Has already committed adultery with her in his heart."
  • 00:21:28.343 --> 00:21:32.614
  • It's not just looking at another person.
  • 00:21:32.614 --> 00:21:35.183
  • It's gazing at another person, staring at another person,
  • 00:21:35.183 --> 00:21:40.055
  • Thinking about them,
  • 00:21:40.055 --> 00:21:41.890
  • Performing a mental undressing of the other person,
  • 00:21:41.890 --> 00:21:45.360
  • An imagined seduction and intercourse.
  • 00:21:45.360 --> 00:21:48.163
  • That's what it means to lust after another person.
  • 00:21:48.163 --> 00:21:51.800
  • And do that long enough and often enough,
  • 00:21:51.800 --> 00:21:54.202
  • It's going to result in a physical act of adultery.
  • 00:21:54.202 --> 00:21:57.539
  • And that's why job said in job 31:1,
  • 00:21:57.539 --> 00:22:01.076
  • "i made a covenant with my eyes
  • 00:22:01.076 --> 00:22:04.212
  • Not to look lustfully at a woman.
  • 00:22:04.212 --> 00:22:06.615
  • Begin with a simple agreement he had.
  • 00:22:06.615 --> 00:22:08.917
  • "i am not going to look lustfully at another person."
  • 00:22:08.917 --> 00:22:12.454
  • He's not saying he's not going to glance at another woman.
  • 00:22:13.622 --> 00:22:15.557
  • You can't not do that.
  • 00:22:15.557 --> 00:22:17.993
  • But you can refuse to gaze
  • 00:22:17.993 --> 00:22:20.695
  • And involved in those lustful thoughts.
  • 00:22:20.695 --> 00:22:23.298
  • And by the way,
  • 00:22:23.298 --> 00:22:24.599
  • The person doesn't have to be there in person.
  • 00:22:24.599 --> 00:22:26.535
  • You can lust after somebody in your imagination.
  • 00:22:26.535 --> 00:22:29.304
  • You can lust after somebody after looking at pornography
  • 00:22:29.304 --> 00:22:33.375
  • Or a movie or television.
  • 00:22:33.375 --> 00:22:35.510
  • He said, "i'm not going to allow my eyes
  • 00:22:35.510 --> 00:22:38.747
  • To look continually at another woman."
  • 00:22:38.747 --> 00:22:41.817
  • The second sentry, guard to place at your mind
  • 00:22:41.817 --> 00:22:45.020
  • Is to avoid compromising company.
  • 00:22:45.020 --> 00:22:49.057
  • Avoid compromising company.
  • 00:22:49.057 --> 00:22:51.760
  • Remember 1 corinthians 15:33,
  • 00:22:51.760 --> 00:22:54.029
  • "do not be deceived,
  • 00:22:54.029 --> 00:22:55.831
  • Bad company corrupts good morals."
  • 00:22:55.831 --> 00:23:00.101
  • Remember that, bad company corrupts good morals.
  • 00:23:00.101 --> 00:23:04.139
  • Do you remember my illustration of that?
  • 00:23:04.139 --> 00:23:06.208
  • I got it from somebody else, but it's a great illustration.
  • 00:23:06.208 --> 00:23:09.911
  • If it's raining outside,
  • 00:23:09.911 --> 00:23:11.179
  • You decide to go out and work in your flower bed
  • 00:23:11.179 --> 00:23:14.115
  • And you put some white gloves on,
  • 00:23:14.115 --> 00:23:16.084
  • What's going to happen?
  • 00:23:16.084 --> 00:23:17.686
  • Your white gloves are going to get muddy, right?
  • 00:23:18.687 --> 00:23:21.723
  • Never in a thousand years
  • 00:23:22.290 --> 00:23:25.227
  • Will the mud become more glove-y.
  • 00:23:25.227 --> 00:23:27.996
  • Doesn't work that way.
  • 00:23:27.996 --> 00:23:29.865
  • The mud doesn't become glove-y,
  • 00:23:29.865 --> 00:23:31.833
  • But the glove becomes muddy.
  • 00:23:31.833 --> 00:23:33.869
  • It's the same way with hanging around sinners.
  • 00:23:33.869 --> 00:23:37.072
  • They rub off on you, especially immoral people.
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  • People who are engaged in adultery or fornication.
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  • People who talk about it, people who joke about it.
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  • I think that's what paul has in mind.
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  • (bright music)
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  • There's more i need to share with you
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  • On this very sensitive topic.
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  • So please be sure to join me again next time
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  • For part two of the message, "keep marriage holy".
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  • Now, in closing,
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  • Most of us grew up seeing the 10 commandments
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  • Posted in our schools and courthouses.
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  • So why don't we seem to follow
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  • Those 10 commandments anymore?
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  • In "the ten",
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  • Dr. robert jeffress shows us these ancient truths
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  • Were not given to us to take away our freedom.
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  • They were given to enhance our happiness
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  • And to invite us into a deeper love relationship with god.
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  • In a culture where moral confusion reigns
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  • For what's right is wrong and what's wrong is right,
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  • We desperately need to get back to the basics of morality,
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  • And that's exactly what the 10 commandments help us do.
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  • Thank you for helping us pierce the darkness
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  • With the light of god's word.
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  • Cheating on a partner never remains a secret.
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  • Eventually, sinful behavior will be brought into the light
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  • And terrible consequences will follow.
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  • So now that we've identified the definition
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  • And the progression of adultery,
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  • How do we avoid it?
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  • Next time, i'm going to suggest five strategies
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  • To guard your heart and mind against adultery.
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  • Stay tuned for a preview of what's coming up next
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  • In our series, "the 10".
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  • Is it possible for a marriage to survive adultery?
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  • The good news is yes.
  • 00:26:46.828 --> 00:26:48.897
  • One biblical writer says,
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  • "marriages torpedoed by affairs need not sink.
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  • They can be towed into dry dock,
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  • Repaired and refitted.
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  • And once refitted,
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  • They will sail farther and faster
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  • Than at any previous time."
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  • Set your dvr and join us next time
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  • For part two of the message, "the seventh commandment:
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  • Keep marriage holy"
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  • Here on pathway to victory.
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  • (bright music fades)
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