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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Straight Talk About Your Relationships | October 9, 2025
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- From the pulpit of the first baptist church
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- Of dallas, texas, this is "pathway to victory"
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- With dr. robert jeffress.
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- Hi, i am robert jeffress
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- And welcome again to "pathway to victory."
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- Nobody enjoys dealing with difficult people.
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- Negative neighbors, coworkers, and even our own family
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- Can spoil an otherwise very good day.
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- Well, jesus certainly recognized
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- The need to cultivate healthy relationships,
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- And we'll see today he addressed it
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- In his famous sermon on the mount.
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- My message is titled
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- "straight talk about your relationships"
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- On today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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- Jesus, the master teacher, delivered very short sermons.
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- Did you realize his renowned sermon on the mount
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- Was only 18 minutes long?
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- Yes, his sermons were short, but they were revolutionary.
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- In "18 minutes with jesus," dr. robert jeffress breaks down
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- The radical teachings that jesus packed
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- Into just 18 minutes about happiness, faith,
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- Relationships, prayer, money, eternity and more.
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- Ruth graham, the wife of evangelist billy graham,
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- Was one time asked about her marriage
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- To the great evangelist,
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- The reporter said, "mrs. graham, has there ever been a time
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- During your marriage in which you thought about divorce?"
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- With a twinkle in her eye, she said,
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- "divorce? no. murder? yes."
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- (audience laughing)
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- It's a funny reply, but it's interesting
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- That some people actually use a standard like that
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- To measure their own righteousness,
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- They think as long as they don't actually run away
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- With somebody else's maid,
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- As long as they don't actually kill the mate
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- They're thinking about murdering,
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- Well, maybe they're good enough to get into heaven,
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- But as we're going to see today,
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- God has a far higher standard than our standard,
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- And understanding that standard is not only necessary
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- To make it into the kingdom of god,
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- But it's necessary for us to live with the benefits
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- Of the kingdom of god right now,
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- And that's what we're going to talk about today
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- As we continue our series "18 minutes with jesus"
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- Looking at the sermon on the mount,
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- Turn to matthew chapter five,
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- And remember in matthew chapter five,
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- Jesus began this most famous of all sermons
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- By outlining the benefits
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- Of living according to his standards,
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- We call those benefits the beatitudes,
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- He talked also last time we saw about
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- When we live according to jesus' standard
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- Where the salt and light he commanded us to be,
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- But now we're ready to get into the application,
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- How does understanding and applying jesus' standard apply,
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- First of all, to our relationships?
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- And that's what he begins with in verse 17, jesus said,
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- "do not think that i came
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- To abolish the law or the prophets.
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- I did not come to abolish, but to fulfill."
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- That phrase, law and prophets, refers to the old testament,
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- That was the phrase for the old testament,
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- Which is all the scripture that they had.
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- The rumor was already going on
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- At this beginning point in jesus' ministry
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- That he was disobeying the old testament law,
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- There was an incident in mark 2
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- When he didn't obey the law about the sabbath,
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- And so they said,
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- "this rabble-rouser is trying to negate the old testament!"
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- He said, "oh, far from it,
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- I came to actually fulfill the requirements of the law,"
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- In fact, verse 18, "for truly i say to you
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- That until heaven and earth pass away,
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- Not the smallest letter or stroke shall pass from the law
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- Until it's all accomplished."
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- Now, i'd be guilty of pastoral negligence here
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- If i didn't stop and point out jesus' attitude
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- Toward the scripture, his high view of scripture,
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- And again, remember, the scripture at that time
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- Was just the old testament,
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- Later it would be expanded to the new testament.
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- Have you ever heard somebody say,
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- "well, i believe the ideas of the bible are inspired,
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- Maybe not the individual words,
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- There may be some errors in the bible,
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- It's the thoughts of the bible that are inspired,"
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- Have you heard that before? jesus said,
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- "no, it's not just the ideas that are inspired,
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- It's the words that make up those ideas that are inspired,
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- Breathed by god," and he doesn't stop there,
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- He says it's not only the words that are inspired,
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- But the letters that are inspired,
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- And it's not only the letters that make up the words
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- That make up the ideas,
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- It's any stroke on an individual letter in a word
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- That makes up the thoughts that is inspired by god,
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- The smallest letter or stroke is inspired by god.
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- In hebrew, the smallest letter was the yod,
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- It looked like an apostrophe,
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- But the stroke, king james calls it a tittle,
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- A jotter tittle, a stroke was occurred on some letters
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- That one stroke could change the letter
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- And the letter could change the word.
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- Dr. charles ryrie
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- Who was my theology professor in seminary,
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- Used to use this illustration with us.
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- In the english language, he said,
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- "you know, it only takes one stroke on a letter
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- To change a word,"
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- For example, the only difference between a p and an r
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- Is that one stroke, a p can be changed into an r.
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- What difference does that make?
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- Well, it can make the difference between the word "pun,"
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- P-u-n, or "run," r-u-n.
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- You say, "well, so what?"
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- Well, that can make a difference.
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- If you're reading an obituary,
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- It makes a difference whether john smith died from running
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- Or john smith died from punning.
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- We didn't know punning
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- Could be lethal to your health, did you?
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- But somebody could make a mistake
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- And change the entire meaning of a thought
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- With one stroke of a letter,
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- Now, jesus applies that to scripture,
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- Every part of the bible,
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- Even the smallest letter and stroke is inspired by god,
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- But jesus' main purpose in saying this
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- Was not to talk about the inerrancy of the scripture,
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- Which is a fact, his main topic is righteousness,
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- Look at verse 20,
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- "for i say to you that unless your righteousness
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- Surpasses that of the scribes and pharisees,
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- You will not enter the kingdom of heaven."
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- We had a friend in a former church
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- Who was a dentist by profession,
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- He was a pole vaulter by hobby,
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- And i remember he told me one time,
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- He said, "robert, there are two ways you can succeed
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- At pole-vaulting, either learn to jump higher
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- Or lower the bar, you get there either way,"
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- Well, you know, that lowering the bar
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- I think explains people's view of righteousness,
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- It's why only 4% of americans,
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- According to the latest polls, only 4% of americans think
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- There's even a chance they will end up in hell one day.
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- You know why they are so confident
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- In their self-righteousness?
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- They have lowered the bar of what god expects from us.
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- The average person on the street today
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- Or that you talk to believes that,
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- "just as long as i have a little more righteousness
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- Than charles manson, adolf hitler or vladimir putin,
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- As long as i'm a little bit better,
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- That gives me the opportunity to cross the bar,"
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- So to speak, "to make it into heaven,"
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- They've got the wrong standard of righteousness.
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- That's what jesus' audience had,
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- They had a wrong standard of righteousness,
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- Jesus said, "no, you have to exceed the bars
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- Set by the pharisees," well, the audience gasped at that.
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- "you have to be better than the pharisees?"
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- Remember, they thought the pharisees
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- Were the holiest of all god's people.
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- Let me show you why.
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- The pharisees were strict adherents
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- Of the old testament law,
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- The old testament law had 245 commandments
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- And 365 prohibitions, almost...
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- More than 600 rules about what to do and what not to do,
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- And if that weren't enough, the pharisees added to it.
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- They added thousands of regulations
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- About what kind of work exactly
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- You could not do on the sabbath,
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- They made it impossible for anybody to obey those standards,
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- And yet, jesus said even that standard
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- Of the pharisees isn't enough.
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- Jesus said the real standard of righteousness
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- Is not only your external behavior
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- But your internal feelings,
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- The attitude that fuels your outward behavior.
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- That was the problem with the pharisees,
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- They had manufactured
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- This external standard of righteousness,
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- Which they were fairly good at keeping, not perfect,
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- But jesus said they were nothing more
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- Than dishes that are clean on the outside
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- And dirty on the inside.
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- Jesus has a completely different standard.
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- Now, to help you understand this
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- And to remind you of the difference
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- Between judicial righteousness and ethical righteousness,
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- Let me change metaphors for a moment,
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- Let's get out of the world of pole-vaulting,
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- Which probably nobody can really identify with,
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- And let's go to a painful experience
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- We are facing every week now,
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- And that is filling up our gas tank.
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- It's becoming increasingly painful, isn't it, to do that?
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- Now, i want you to imagine there are two drivers.
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- There's the first driver, he is a non-christian,
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- And he goes to fill up his spiritual gas tank
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- And he puts the nozzle in the tank,
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- And he starts pumping the gas,
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- And he watches how much it's costing him and so forth,
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- And then, that little sensor
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- Automatically cuts off the pump,
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- It says, "your tank is full," in a sense, but is it full?
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- No, there's always room for more gasoline,
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- You have to pump more gasoline in manually
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- To make sure that pump is full,
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- The sensor doesn't have it right,
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- Now, here is a non-christian
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- And his goal is to have enough spiritual righteousness
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- To make it all the way into heaven,
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- And so, he has this internal sensor
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- That tells him when he's done enough,
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- "as long as i haven't dealt drugs or molested children,
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- I'm probably okay, i've got enough,"
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- But his internal sensor is faulty, that's not enough,
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- In fact, the amount of righteousness
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- It takes in your spiritual gas tank
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- To make it into heaven is so expensive
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- None of us can afford it.
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- Now, you may have more gas in your tank,
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- More righteousness than i have,
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- And i may have more than vlad has in his, but you know what?
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- It doesn't matter, none of us has enough,
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- That's why the bible says, "for all have sinned
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- And fallen short of the glory of god,"
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- What i've just described to you
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- Is what the bible terms "judicial righteousness,"
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- A right standing with god,
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- But the good news is jesus christ
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- Has more than enough spiritual righteousness,
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- And when we trust in him to be our savior,
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- He pours his righteousness into our spiritual gas tank
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- And that's enough to get us into heaven,
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- That's what our judicial righteousness is,
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- Is it's our right standing with god
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- And that comes as a gift from jesus christ.
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- Now, driver number two is a christian.
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- His concern in life is not so much getting to heaven,
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- He already knows he's got enough righteousness to do that,
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- But he has a different destination in mind.
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- He wants to drive to a place in this life
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- That is characterized by freedom from anxiety,
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- Contentment with your circumstances,
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- A fulfilled marriage, satisfying relationships,
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- He wants to experience the kingdom of god now.
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- He needs a different kind of righteousness,
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- Ethical righteousness,
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- That's our right acting before god,
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- That's what ethical righteousness is,
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- And it's what the sermon on the mount is all about.
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- It's about how to experience the kingdom of god now.
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- Remember the theme?
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- Those who modeled the attitudes,
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- Affections and actions of jesus christ
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- Are guaranteed genuine joy in this life
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- And unending happiness in the next life,
- 00:13:04.974 --> 00:13:08.444
- So here's a christian
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- And he's trying to fill up his ethical gas tank
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- With ethical righteousness.
- 00:13:14.216 --> 00:13:16.652
- We've got the wrong standard.
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- People, again, think as long as they don't murder anybody
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- Or sleep with somebody else's mate,
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- That's enough, that's all it takes,
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- Jesus says, "no, my standard is far higher than that
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- If you want to get to where you really want to go in this life,"
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- And that's what he's talking about,
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- Righteousness in this passage,
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- Now, let's see how that applies to our relationships,
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- Here was the old testament standard,
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- Matthew 5:21, jesus said,
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- "now, you have heard that the ancients were said,"
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- That's another way of saying,
- 00:13:49.551 --> 00:13:50.953
- "you have read in the bible, the old testament,
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- You shall not commit murder,
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- And whoever commits murder shall be liable to the court."
- 00:13:55.691 --> 00:13:59.795
- Now, let's hand it to the pharisees, they got it right.
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- They were teaching right,
- 00:14:02.698 --> 00:14:04.166
- The old testament standard was don't murder anybody.
- 00:14:04.166 --> 00:14:08.771
- That was the minimum standard, don't murder anybody,
- 00:14:08.771 --> 00:14:12.508
- But jesus adds to that standard, look at verse 22,
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- "but i say to you, not in contradiction of the old testament
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- But in addition to it,
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- That everyone who is angry with his brother
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- Shall be guilty before the court,
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- And whoever says to his brother, 'you good-for-nothing,'
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- Shall be guilty before the supreme court,
- 00:14:28.724 --> 00:14:31.360
- And whoever says, 'you fool,'
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- Shall be guilty enough to go into the fiery hell,"
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- Jesus is addressing the attitudes
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- Behind the action of murder,
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- And this is his foundational teaching about relationships.
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- Yes, murder is the extreme, the ultimate way
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- Of severing your relationship with another person,
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- But there are other ways to fracture
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- An important relationship.
- 00:14:54.917 --> 00:14:57.086
- For example, it's possible to murder somebody
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- Through infuriation, that is, with your anger,
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- That's what jesus says here,
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- Everyone who is angry is guilty,
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- Does that mean anger is always wrong?
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- No, anger is not always wrong.
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- If you'll remember in our series on proverbs,
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- The solomon secrets, i defined anger as a natural physical
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- And emotional reaction to perceived injustice.
- 00:15:24.213 --> 00:15:29.151
- It's natural for us to be angry. you know why we get angry?
- 00:15:29.151 --> 00:15:34.423
- It's not because we're sinful.
- 00:15:35.057 --> 00:15:36.525
- It's because we are made in the image of god,
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- Who gets angry.
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- We are made in god's image,
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- God is angered over injustice, wrongdoing.
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- Did you know the word "anger" in the old testament
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- Is used 455 times?
- 00:15:48.570 --> 00:15:51.473
- 375 of those times, it refers to the anger of god.
- 00:15:51.473 --> 00:15:56.779
- The reason we get angry is because god gets angry,
- 00:15:57.780 --> 00:16:00.816
- And that's not just an old testament concept,
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- In john 2, jesus was angry when he saw
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- The money-changers in the temple and he drove 'em out,
- 00:16:05.788 --> 00:16:08.590
- Jesus was angry at the pharisees, who were hypocrites,
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- Who tried to make others carry out responsibilities
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- They didn't carry out.
- 00:16:14.430 --> 00:16:16.465
- No, anger is natural, and it's okay
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- As long as it's dealt with correctly and quickly,
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- Emphasize that word, quickly,
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- That's why paul wrote in ephesians 4, verses 26 and 27,
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- "be angry, and yet, do not sin,"
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- Isn't that an interesting command?
- 00:16:36.585 --> 00:16:38.587
- "be angry, and yet, do not sin."
- 00:16:38.587 --> 00:16:41.523
- If anger in and of itself were wrong,
- 00:16:41.523 --> 00:16:44.093
- He never would've said, "be angry,"
- 00:16:44.093 --> 00:16:46.261
- Is there any other verse in the bible that says,
- 00:16:46.261 --> 00:16:48.097
- "be lustful and do not sin?"
- 00:16:48.097 --> 00:16:51.900
- "be a drunkard, be drunk, but don't sin?"
- 00:16:51.900 --> 00:16:55.838
- "be a thief, but don't sin?"
- 00:16:55.838 --> 00:16:58.240
- No, it's, "be angry, yet don't sin,"
- 00:16:58.240 --> 00:17:01.376
- And here's how to deal with it correctly,
- 00:17:01.376 --> 00:17:03.479
- Don't let the sun go down on your anger
- 00:17:03.479 --> 00:17:06.915
- And don't give the devil an opportunity.
- 00:17:06.915 --> 00:17:10.052
- Deal with anger quickly.
- 00:17:10.552 --> 00:17:13.422
- One way we destroy another person
- 00:17:14.156 --> 00:17:17.292
- Is by our anger, murder by infuriation,
- 00:17:17.292 --> 00:17:21.230
- But there's a second way to destroy your relationship,
- 00:17:21.230 --> 00:17:24.666
- Murder by devaluation, devaluation,
- 00:17:24.666 --> 00:17:28.237
- Look at verse 22, he went on to say,
- 00:17:28.237 --> 00:17:30.139
- "whoever says to his brother, 'you good-for-nothing,'
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- Shall be guilty before the supreme court,"
- 00:17:33.942 --> 00:17:37.279
- That phrase, "good-for-nothing," is the aramaic word "raca."
- 00:17:37.279 --> 00:17:41.817
- It literally means "empty-headed."
- 00:17:41.817 --> 00:17:45.053
- When you say, "you are empty-headed,"
- 00:17:45.053 --> 00:17:48.257
- You are devaluing another person,
- 00:17:48.257 --> 00:17:50.826
- That's why james 3, 8-to-10 says,
- 00:17:50.826 --> 00:17:53.529
- "but no one can tame the tongue,
- 00:17:53.529 --> 00:17:55.330
- It's a restless evil and full of deadly poison,
- 00:17:55.330 --> 00:17:58.200
- With it, we bless our lord and father,
- 00:17:58.200 --> 00:18:00.602
- And with it, we curse men
- 00:18:00.602 --> 00:18:02.104
- Who have been made in the likeness of god.
- 00:18:02.104 --> 00:18:05.274
- From the same mouth come both blessing and cursing,
- 00:18:05.274 --> 00:18:08.410
- My brethren, these things ought not to be this way."
- 00:18:08.410 --> 00:18:12.247
- Whenever you devalue somebody, you call them empty,
- 00:18:12.247 --> 00:18:16.385
- You are speaking out against the god who created them
- 00:18:16.385 --> 00:18:20.389
- And that's wrong.
- 00:18:20.389 --> 00:18:22.024
- Don't be guilty by a murder by devaluation,
- 00:18:22.024 --> 00:18:26.528
- And thirdly, we can destroy your relationship,
- 00:18:26.528 --> 00:18:28.997
- We can murder somebody by defamation,
- 00:18:28.997 --> 00:18:32.668
- This is a nuanced difference,
- 00:18:32.668 --> 00:18:34.770
- But it's still important to understand, verse 22,
- 00:18:34.770 --> 00:18:37.773
- "whoever says, 'you fool,' shall be guilty enough
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- To go into the fiery hell."
- 00:18:41.343 --> 00:18:44.079
- "you fool," the greek word jesus used here is "moros,"
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- We get our word "moron" from it.
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- Now, in our language,
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- We think of a moron as a stupid person,
- 00:18:52.688 --> 00:18:55.724
- But that's not what jesus had in mind here,
- 00:18:55.724 --> 00:18:59.661
- That would've been the previous word, "empty-headed."
- 00:18:59.661 --> 00:19:03.599
- Here, it means a moral reprobate.
- 00:19:03.599 --> 00:19:07.169
- To call somebody a moron was to defame their character,
- 00:19:07.169 --> 00:19:12.507
- To engage in character assassination.
- 00:19:13.308 --> 00:19:15.978
- Proverbs 11:9 says, "with his mouth,
- 00:19:16.778 --> 00:19:19.114
- The godless man destroys his neighbor,
- 00:19:19.114 --> 00:19:22.684
- But through knowledge, the righteous will be delivered,"
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- Don't be guilty of destroying somebody
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- By devaluing them or by defaming them.
- 00:19:30.058 --> 00:19:34.296
- Jesus realized that all of us fall short,
- 00:19:35.197 --> 00:19:39.201
- Let me be the first to say i fall short of that,
- 00:19:39.201 --> 00:19:42.070
- We all fall short of god's standard for righteousness,
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- So how do we repair relationships
- 00:19:45.140 --> 00:19:48.377
- That may have been severed?
- 00:19:48.377 --> 00:19:50.312
- I want you to notice in verses 23-to-26,
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- He gives us two important principles
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- For repairing damaged relationships.
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- The first principle
- 00:19:58.820 --> 00:20:00.222
- Is reconciliation is more powerful than revenge.
- 00:20:00.222 --> 00:20:04.126
- Remember that reconciliation is more powerful than revenge.
- 00:20:04.126 --> 00:20:07.929
- Usually, our natural instinct if somebody wrongs us
- 00:20:07.929 --> 00:20:11.667
- Is to wrong them, to hurt them,
- 00:20:11.667 --> 00:20:15.871
- And thus begins an escalation in hostility
- 00:20:15.871 --> 00:20:19.641
- That ends up many times
- 00:20:19.641 --> 00:20:21.476
- In a mutual destruction of both parties,
- 00:20:21.476 --> 00:20:24.346
- Remember romans 12:18?
- 00:20:24.346 --> 00:20:26.348
- "if possible, as far as it depends upon you,
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- Be at peace with all men."
- 00:20:30.919 --> 00:20:33.388
- Jesus said in a fractured relationship,
- 00:20:33.388 --> 00:20:35.891
- First of all, reconciliation is more powerful than revenge,
- 00:20:35.891 --> 00:20:39.628
- Secondly, reconcile today rather than tomorrow,
- 00:20:39.628 --> 00:20:44.933
- That's the second principle, look at verses 25-to-26,
- 00:20:45.967 --> 00:20:48.470
- Jesus said, "make friends quickly with your opponent at law
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- While you are with him on the way
- 00:20:53.275 --> 00:20:56.078
- So that your opponent may not hand you over to the judge,
- 00:20:56.078 --> 00:20:59.147
- And the judge to the officer, and you be thrown into prison.
- 00:20:59.147 --> 00:21:02.351
- Truly, i say to you, you will not come out of there
- 00:21:02.351 --> 00:21:06.154
- Until you've paid up the last cent."
- 00:21:06.154 --> 00:21:08.490
- How does that relate to our relationships?
- 00:21:08.490 --> 00:21:11.626
- Reconcile today rather than tomorrow.
- 00:21:11.626 --> 00:21:15.030
- Let me be real practical with this.
- 00:21:15.030 --> 00:21:17.499
- Amy and i rarely argue, but when we do
- 00:21:18.333 --> 00:21:23.205
- And if it's my fault, which it usually is,
- 00:21:23.205 --> 00:21:26.408
- I've learned the hard way after 45 years of marriage,
- 00:21:27.509 --> 00:21:31.580
- It's much better if i ask her forgiveness today than wait,
- 00:21:31.580 --> 00:21:36.852
- Because the longer i wait,
- 00:21:37.419 --> 00:21:39.688
- The more my debt increases day by day by day,
- 00:21:39.688 --> 00:21:45.093
- And frankly, the bigger the debt becomes,
- 00:21:45.961 --> 00:21:48.830
- The less likely i'm to ask forgiveness, the longer it goes,
- 00:21:48.830 --> 00:21:52.534
- The less likely she is to grant forgiveness.
- 00:21:52.534 --> 00:21:55.904
- Settle it today, and that's what jesus is saying.
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- He's saying that reconciliation
- 00:22:00.242 --> 00:22:01.877
- Is more powerful than revenge,
- 00:22:01.877 --> 00:22:04.579
- And he's saying reconciling today
- 00:22:04.579 --> 00:22:06.548
- Is wiser than reconciling tomorrow.
- 00:22:06.548 --> 00:22:10.185
- What does jesus have to say about relationships?
- 00:22:11.119 --> 00:22:13.955
- Here's the jesus standard for righteousness.
- 00:22:13.955 --> 00:22:16.925
- Keep a check, keep a watch on your anger and your words,
- 00:22:18.059 --> 00:22:22.898
- And if either gets out of hand,
- 00:22:23.532 --> 00:22:25.901
- Work for reconciliation and do it quickly.
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- Cultivating healthy relationships between flawed people,
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- You can't play with sexual immorality
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- It's very easy to neglect weeds
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- That grow up in our marriage,
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- But no weed is more destructive
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