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Robert Jeffress - Survival Tip #9: Help Others (Part 2)

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Dr. Robert Jeffress | Robert Jeffress - Survival Tip #9: Help Others (Part 2) | May 28, 2026

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Dr. robert jeffress.
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Jeffress: hi, i'm robert jeffress, and welcome again to
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"pathway to victory."
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When you're in a dangerous situation, every instinct tells
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You to focus on yourself, but time and again we find that the
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People who stopped to help others are the ones who make
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It out.
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Today i want to show you why selfless living, even in the
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Midst of a crisis, is one of the most powerful things you can do
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For your own survival.
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My message is titled "survival tip #9, help others," on
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Today's edition of "pathway to victory."
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♪♪♪
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♪ there was a holy hush all over ♪
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♪ as i walked into the room ♪
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♪ and i stood before him face to face. ♪
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♪ i was gloriously made new. ♪
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♪ there was a great and awesome presence ♪
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♪ and a light as bright as day. ♪
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♪ and when i bowed to kneel with the angel, ♪
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♪ i heard the spirit say. ♪
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♪ all rise, all rise ♪
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♪ to stand before the throne ♪
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♪ in the presence of the holy one. ♪
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♪ all rise, all rise. ♪
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♪ all rise, all rise, ♪
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♪ to stand before his glory ♪
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♪ in the presence of the holy one. ♪
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♪ all rise, all rise ♪
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♪ as we worship the messiah. ♪
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After today's message.
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Jeffress: when people saw barnabas, they yelled out,
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"there comes that son of encouragement."
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That's a better nickname to have, soe, son of encouragement.
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That was barnabas.
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In fact, you look at that word encouragement, it's the greek
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Word "paraclete."
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It means to come alongside and encourage somebody.
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It's the same word that is used to describe the holy spirit.
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The holy spirit is the paraclete, the one who comes
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Alongside of us to encourage us.
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Well, that was barnabas, he was the one who came alongside and
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Encouraged people.
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I want you to notice in the book of acts three ways he encouraged
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People, through his money, through his mentoring, and
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Through his own ministry.
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We see barnabas the philanthropist beginning in
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Verses 32 of acts 4.
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Look at this, "and the congregation of
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Those who believed were of one heart and one soul."
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I mean, we're talking about within weeks of pentecost, the
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Beginning of the church.
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"and not one of them claimed that anything belonging to him
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Was his own, but all things were common property to them.
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And with great power the apostles were giving witness to
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The resurrection of the lord jesus, and abundant grace was
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Upon them all.
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For there was not a needy person among them, for all who were
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Owners of land and houses would sell them and bring the proceeds
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Of the sales and laid them at the apostles' feet, and they
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Would be distributed to each if any had need.
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And joseph, a levite of cyprian birth, who was also called
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Barnabas by the apostles (which means son of encouragement), who
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Owned a tract of land, he sold it and he brought the money and
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He laid it at the apostles' feet."
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And again, some people read this passage, and they try to read
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Something into it that isn't there.
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I've actually heard people use this passage to say, well, you
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See, god really wants us to be socialist.
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He wants us to be communist because that's what the early
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Church was.
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They were socialists.
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They were communists.
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Nobody owned anything.
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Everybody put it in a common fund.
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They didn't have any personal ownership of property.
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They sold everything, put it in a fund, and people just took as
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They needed.
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No, the bible does not advocate socialism.
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You know, winston churchill defined socialism as the equal
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Sharing of miseries.
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Somebody else said, very well, socialism works until you run
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Out of other people's money.
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I mean, the fact is you can only sell everything you have,
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Liquidate it, one time, and then you're out of funds.
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Socialism, communism is based on government confiscating what
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Belongs to us.
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The bible never advocates that.
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These people in the early church voluntarily released a portion
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Of what they owned in order to meet the needs of other people.
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There's a big difference.
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And at the head of the list of people who did that
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Was barnabas.
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Apparently, because luke notes it, he must have been a man
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Of means.
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He sold a large tract of land and he gave it to the church to
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Meet the needs of other people.
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The inference is other people followed barnabas's example.
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And they were encouraged by barnabas's encouragement.
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As the momentum picked up, people said, "we wanna be a part
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Of that.
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We can do that too."
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It all started with people who wanted to be an encouragement
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To others.
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That was barnabas.
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He not only, though, encouraged people through his money by
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Being a philanthropist, he encouraged people by his
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Mentoring of other people, coming alongside individuals and
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Encouraging them.
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You know, the church was only a few weeks old when
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Persecution began.
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First, the imprisonment of peter and john, and then the stoning
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Of stephen, and then a guy named saul from tarsus beginning
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Breathing threats against the church, arresting christians,
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Having them tortured, throwing them into prison.
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And you remember saul of tarsus was on the way to damascus to
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Arrest more christians when he encountered jesus christ.
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And paul the persecutor became paul, the greatest evangelist
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The world has ever known.
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But after that encounter, he was blind.
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And for three days, during his blindness, he prayed and fasted.
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And remember, god told ananias to go and minister to paul,
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Which he did.
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Ananias showed great courage in his willingness to do that.
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He didn't know for sure what had happened to saul, but he wanted
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To obey the lord.
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And then came time for saul to meet the apostles in jerusalem.
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Now, here was a guy who was known for killing christians.
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How did they know this wasn't a ruse, that this wasn't some
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Attempt to trick them?
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They were naturally hesitant about embracing saul, but look
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At acts 9:27 and 28, "but barnabas took hold of him and
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Brought him to the apostles and described to them how he had
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Seen the lord on the road, and that he had talked to him, and
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How at damascus he had spoken out boldly in the name of jesus.
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And he was with them, moving about freely in jerusalem,
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Speaking out boldly in the name of the lord."
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Barnabas was willing to take a chance on this new convert,
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Come alongside of him and encourage him.
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You know, in fact, when you look through the book of acts, when
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Anybody needed encouragement, it seems like barnabas was
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Always there.
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Remember, barnabas and paul were gonna go on their first
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Missionary journey together and they were gonna take barnabas's
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Cousin with them, a guy named john mark.
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We know him as the author of the gospel of mark, but he was
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Barnabas's cousin, colossians tells us.
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And so they went on this missionary journey and about
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Halfway through, john mark got fed up with the walking and with
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The sleeping out in open places and the insect bites and
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Everything that went along with that.
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And so in acts 13:13, the bible says he left them, he deserted
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Them and returned to jerusalem.
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Fast forward, it's time for the second missionary journey.
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Paul and barnabas are getting ready for the journey.
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Barnabas says, "now, where should i have john mark
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Meet us?"
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Paul said, "john mark, i'm not about to take that snotty-nosed
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Kid with us again.
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Look at what he did.
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He deserted us!"
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Barnabas said, "that's right.
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But we need to show him grace, paul, just like god showed you
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Grace one time."
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And they had a bitter disagreement.
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They ended up parting ways, and paul instead took silas up
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North, and barnabas took john mark, his cousin, south.
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And yet john mark, because of barnabas's encouragement, grew
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In his faith, so much so that when the apostle paul was in
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Prison in rome facing his execution, he sent this word
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To timothy.
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He said, "please pick up john mark and bring him with you, for
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He is useful to me for service."
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How do you see other people?
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Do you define other people by their failures or by
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Their potential?
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Barnabas was a mentor who saw people for their potential in
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God's service.
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He encouraged people through his money, through his mentoring,
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And finally, through his ministry.
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Look at acts chapter 11, verses 23 and 24.
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When word came to the apostles in jerusalem that gentiles, of
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All people, were being saved in antioch, they decided to send
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Barnabas down to check things out.
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Verse 23 says, "when he," barnabas, "had come and
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Witnessed the grace of god, he rejoiced and began to encourage
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All with resolute heart to remain true to the lord; for he
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Was a good man, and full of the holy spirit and of faith.
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And considerable numbers were brought to the lord."
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You know, when i read that, i was thinking, you know, barnabas
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Could have said, well, i know there's that need down there in
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Antioch for somebody to go and preach the word and minister,
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But that's just not my thing.
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You know, i'm more of a one-on-one person, or i like to
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Give money, but i'm not too sure about that ministry thing.
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That wasn't barnabas.
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He was on the front lines of ministry.
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That was barnabas.
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In fact, when he went to antioch, god gave him such
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Success in his ministry, the church began to grow so
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Furiously that he asked for help, and he asked that new
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Convert saul, now paul, to come and minister with him.
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And for a while, the scripture talks about barnabas and paul.
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Barnabas and paul.
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But pretty soon things flipped, and it was paul and barnabas.
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He decreased as paul increased, but barnabas didn't care because
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His job, his ministry was to help others.
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You know, as i think about this principle of helping others, it
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Begs a question.
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Are there people who have been a help to you in your life, that
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Have helped make the way a little smoother for you in
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Your life?
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You know, we all need a barnabas, don't we?
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If we're gonna survive this hostile world.
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Somebody who will come alongside of us and encourage us.
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Somebody who's willing to take a chance on us.
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I encourage you to thank those people who have done that for
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You in your business, in your christian faith, as a friend,
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Who've been willing to take a chance on you when nobody
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Else would.
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You know, when i think about that truth, i'm grateful to so
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Many people, but i'm certainly grateful to dr. criswell, who
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Was for 50 years the pastor of this great church.
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When i was 22 years old, he invited me to come on the staff
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And to be an intern here.
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And i was an intern for exactly four weeks.
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And after four weeks, the youth minister here left.
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And so dr. criswell called me and said, "you're the youth
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Minister now."
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And so i was planning to do that.
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A few days later, he called me back and he said, "well, robert,
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We've got some trouble.
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Some of those youth leaders aren't sure they want you to be
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The youth minister, so this is what we're going to do."
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I was just 22 years old.
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He said, "this is what we're gonna do.
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You meet me wednesday night up on the second floor of the
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Christian education building, and we're gonna have a meeting
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With them."
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So i met dr. criswell out in the alcove of that assembly room.
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All the youth leaders were inside and i was standing out
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There, and so he said, "you wait right here and i'm gonna go in
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And talk to them."
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So he goes in and talks to them.
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I have my ear up against the door listening to every word
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They were saying.
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And they were saying--said, "we love robert, he's a
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Wonderful person.
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But, dr. criswell, he is so young, he's 22.
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He doesn't have any experience," which was absolutely true.
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And so they were giving their complaints, dr. criswell
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Listening to them.
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When dr. criswell goes into this diatribe, he starts describing
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Me like i'm the apostle paul.
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I didn't even know who he was talking about.
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And so he goes through that.
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They said, "yes, but he's so young and he is inexperienced."
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Dr. criswell said, "that's fine.
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If you don't want robert, i'm not gonna force him down your
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Throat at all.
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That is fine.
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That is perfect.
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That is wonderful.
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If you don't want robert, because if you don't take him,
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I'm gonna hire him as my number one associate to run this
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Entire church."
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And all of a sudden the people start speaking up and they said,
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"wait a minute, wait a minute!
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If you think that much of him, yes, we want him, we want him!"
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He said, "all right, it's settled."
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He walks out the room, i'm standing outside paralyzed.
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I couldn't believe it.
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He puts his hand on my shoulder, he said, "son, it's all yours,
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Just don't let me down."
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I am so grateful to somebody like that, who took a chance on
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Me for no reason whatsoever.
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I bet you've got somebody like that in your life.
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Thank god for the mentors he has placed in your life.
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But also recognize your responsibility to be somebody
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Else's mentor, to be somebody else's encourager.
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Who around you needs help, needs encouragement?
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You know, i get calls all the time from pastors who are
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Struggling in their church and having a problem or have
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A question or wanna talk about things.
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And sometimes i'll be in the heat of trying to get through
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The day and meet this appointment and that
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Appointment, and carolyn will say, "there's a pastor on the
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Phone who needs to talk to you," and for a nanosecond, i'm
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Tempted to think, oh, i'm so busy, i just can't do that.
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That--it only lasts a second, till god brings back to my mind
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All the people who helped me when i needed help, people who
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Spent time with me.
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W. a. criswell, howie hendricks, paige patterson, others who have
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Come alongside during crucial times in my life.
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Make sure you're an encourager to somebody else.
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How do you do that?
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Final thoughts here, three things.
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First of all, value other people.
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Truly value other people.
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See them as god sees them.
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You know, there's a running joke among pastors, oh, ministry
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Would be great if it just weren't for the people.
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Well, that's what ministry is about.
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It's about people, and everybody is important to god.
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You know, i love the words of c.s. lewis when he said, "there
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Are no ordinary people.
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You have never talked to a mere mortal.
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Nations, cultures, civilizations--these are mortal,
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Their life is to ours like the life of a gnat.
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But it is the immortals whom every day we joke with, work
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With, marry, snub, exploit."
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Think about that.
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Everybody you encounter every day is an immortal soul who will
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Last forever.
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That makes you look at other people differently, value
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Other people.
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Secondly, champion the underdog, champion the underdog.
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You may remember the kid on the playground at elementary school
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Who was always the last to be picked for a team.
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Maybe you were that kid.
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Maybe you know what the pain is of loneliness or rejection.
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Champion the underdog because god does.
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I mean, when you think about it, god so many times would choose
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The younger person, like abel or joseph or david, instead of the
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Older son to bless.
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God took that little, nothing, small nation of israel, chose
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That nation to be his chosen nation, rather than a great
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Empire like assyria, babylon, or egypt.
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I agree with philip yancey, who said, "as i read the birth
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Stories about jesus, i cannot help but conclude that though
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The world may be tilted toward the rich and the powerful, god
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Is tilted toward the underdog."
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And finally, offer second chances to people.
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People are gonna fail you, they're gonna disappoint you,
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But people deserve your grace.
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Because you and i are the recipients of god's grace, offer
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Second chances to people when they fail.
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The late christian psychiatrist karl menninger was asked one
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Time a fascinating question.
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"dr. menninger, if you were on the verge of a nervous
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Breakdown, what would you do?"
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Without a pause, he said, "i would go out and find somebody
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In need and help them."
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That's good advice.
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Whenever we're going through a difficult time, we need to
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Remember to help others, just like jesus.
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Just like barnabas.
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Just like oskar schindler, who discovered that by saving
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Others, he was saving himself.
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Jeffress: selflessness doesn't come naturally, we're wired to
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Look out for number one.
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But the characters we've studied today show us what it looks like
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To put others first.
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Now, before we go today, i want to say a word of thanks to our
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Pathway partners and everyone who supports this ministry.
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Across our nation people are hungry for the truth, they're
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Searching for something real, and god is opening doors to
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Reach them like never before.
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Your generosity is putting god's word in front of people who need
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To hear it, and i'm grateful for every one of you who partners
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With us.
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Now please stay right there, i'll be back with more "pathway
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To victory" in just a moment.
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Jeffress: christians today are living in hostile territory.
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The attacks are real,
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The opposition is fierce, and the stakes couldn't be higher.
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That's why i wrote "courageous," to give you the biblical tools
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You need not just to survive, but to stand strong and thrive.
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Announcer: in "courageous," you'll find ten biblical
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Survival strategies drawn straight from scripture that
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Will give you fresh fire and real hope, no matter what
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You're facing.
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Jeffress: survivors have two things in common, a different
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Response to trouble and a different perspective on life.
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In "courageous," i'll give you ten biblical strategies to
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Develop both and come out stronger on the other side.
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Jeffress: as christians, we're living in a
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Threatening environment.
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We have an adversary, the devil, who is intent on destroying
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Everything important to us.
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Announcer: thank you for partnering with "pathway
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Jeffress: gary, that's a great question.
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Fortunately, the bible doesn't stutter in answering
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That question.
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In 1 corinthians 12:13, paul was writing to a group of carnal
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Christians, backslidden, who were involved in immorality.
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They were terrible excuses and examples of christians.
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And yet paul said in 1 corinthians 12:13, "for by one
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Spirit we were all baptized into one body."
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The baptism with the holy spirit is not just reserved for
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A special group of superior christians.
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The baptism with the holy spirit is a part of the basic package
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That each one of us receives when we trust in christ
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As savior.
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The baptism with the holy spirit is that act of god by which god
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Connects us to the head of the body of christ, jesus christ,
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And to other members of the body, the church.
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We receive that the moment we trust in god.
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There's no command ever to be baptized with the spirit.
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That's something god does, it's not something we do.
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But what the bible does command in relationship to the
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Holy spirit is to be filled with the holy spirit, ephesians 5:18.
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What is the filling of the holy spirit?
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It means to be controlled by the holy spirit of god.
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It's a greek word "pleroo," that was used to describe the wind
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Filling up the mast of a ship and driving that ship in
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A particular direction.
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To be filled with the spirit means to be controlled by the
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Spirit of god, and that's a continual process.
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Think of it this way.
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The moment you're saved, you receive all the holy--of the
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Holy spirit of god.
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There's no more to receive.
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You are baptized with the holy spirit.
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So the question is no longer do we have all of the holy spirit,
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The question is does the holy spirit have all of us?
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And that's what being filled with the spirit talks about.
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So if you're a christian today, you've been baptized with the
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Holy spirit of god, and there is no greater gift.
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Jeffress: helping others isn't just a noble impulse, it's
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Essential to surviving in our hostile world.
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And next time i'll close out this series with "survival tip
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#10, do the next right thing."
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You may not be able to change your circumstances, but you can
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Always take that next faithful step, and i'll show you why that
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Commitment could make all the difference in your life.
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Stay tuned for a preview of what's coming up in this final
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Message of our series "courageous."
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Jeffress: you know, you may not be in a literal prison.
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But perhaps some of you this morning listening to this
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Message, you're in a prison of regret over something you've
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Done from the past, or the regret of a missed opportunity.
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What can you do in that kind of situation?
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You may not be able to change your situation, but you can
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Always do the next right thing.
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Announcer: set your dvr and join us next time for "survival tip
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#10, do the next right thing," here on "pathway
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To victory."
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Robert Jeffress - Survival Tip #9: Help Others (Part 2)

May 28, 2026 | 27:29

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