A marketing executive tries to find Mr. Right on a Christian dating website. When impressing her dream guy ends in disaster, Gwyneth gets in touch with her spiritual side.
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| Christian Mingle | Positiv Movies | May 6, 2025
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- - [gwyneth] we all have stories to tell,
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- Our own paths to faith in christ.
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- Some are kookier than others like finding jesus
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- In a piece of drift wood,
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- Yeah more on that in a second,
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- But for me, i didn't see it coming.
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- I thought i was looking for a guy
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- To stick a ring on my finger, my mr. right.
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- And along the way something wonderful happened.
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- I found him.
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- That's him with a capital h.
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- ♪ rain drops
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- ♪ rolling off my brim ♪
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- ♪ street light got that perfect glistening ♪
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- ♪ touchdown ♪
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- ♪ i fall into your arms ♪
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- ♪ right where i belong ♪
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- ♪ your everlasting arms ♪
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- ♪ and where would i be without you ♪
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- ♪ i'd be packing my bags
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- ♪ when i need to stay ♪
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- ♪ i'd be chasing every breeze ♪
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- ♪ that blows my way ♪
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- ♪ i'd be building my kingdom ♪
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- ♪ just to watch it fade away ♪
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- ♪ it's true ♪
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- ♪ that's me without you ♪
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- ♪ don't know where i'd be without you ♪
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- ♪ that's me without you
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- ♪ that's me without you ♪
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- ♪ that's me without ♪
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- ♪ that's me without you ♪
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- ♪ don't know where i'd be without you ♪
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- ♪ that's me without you ♪
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- ♪ don't know where i'd be without you ♪
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- - [ryan] yeah?
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- It's real good.
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- - i actually took a trip to france
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- A couple years ago.
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- Oh, the wine!
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- Have you ever been to france?
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- Ryan?
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- - oh, sorry.
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- Yeah, france.
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- No, i haven't been.
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- But i hear it's great.
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- Love the accents.
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- - it is better than great.
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- I don't know how but you can eat anything
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- You want there and not gain a pound.
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- That is my kind of country.
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- And the wine is just to die for,
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- Even the cheap stuff.
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- Oh, and the fromage of course.
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- - that cheese right?
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- I love stinky cheese, it clogs the pipes but still.
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- (laughing)
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- - you know they say the best cheese comes from
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- Between french framers toes.
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- Yup.
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- That's probably why it's so stinky.
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- (speaking foreign language)
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- - that sounds great.
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- Listen gwinny, a friend of mine just walked in.
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- I'm just going to go say hi real quick.
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- Okay?
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- This is great.
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- I'll be right back.
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- - sure.
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- - okay, hold on.
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- - sounds good.
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- And it's gwyneth not gwinny.
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- (sighing)
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- (light orchestral music)
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- It's so rude.
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- The guy couldn't keep eye contact with me for 10 secon.
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- Is it me?
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- - no sweetie, it's just dumb, stupid guys.
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- - ryan is definitely not stupid.
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- He's a leading gastroenterologist.
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- - which is why he is so full of--
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- - gwyneth he just texted me.
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- He said he's sorry.
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- It was his high school sweetheart.
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- He hasn't seen her in years.
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- - high school sweetheart.
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- Is that the one that's half his age
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- And half his weight?
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- - we're running out of guys.
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- Our husbands are running out of guys.
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- - babe, if you're not careful
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- You're going to be the last one standing.
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- - no, ann marie will be the last one standing guaranteed.
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- I am losing here, you guys.
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- I feel like it's one of those movies where
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- The guy in a little boat just drifts off
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- Into the horizon and then he just disappears.
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- Poof!
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- I don't want to spend another christmas
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- Under the mistletoe alone.
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- I just want to meet a guy
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- That will look at me for 10 seconds and smile.
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- Sold.
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- (sighing)
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- - let's go.
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- - [woman] dad.
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- - [man] i'll be in the car.
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- - [man] hey, speedy.
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- - what?
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- Are you going to eat all this in one day?
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- Now you can get it in one.
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- - stop it!
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- Stop being poor!
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- Now buy my book and join the 1%.
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- - cheesy.
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- - one minute workout,
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- One minute a day, a new you.
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- Check out these results.
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- One minute a day.
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- - it's not even the same girl.
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- - [woman] a new you.
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- - this is our first christmas as husband and wife.
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- We met on christianmingle.com.
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- - from our family at christian mingle,
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- We'd like to wish you a merry christmas
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- And a happy new year.
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- - yeah right.
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- - [woman] joining is easy and free.
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- Joining christian--
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- (sighing)
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- - no, no, no.
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- Ann marie will be the last one standing, guaranteed.
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- You've got to be kidding me.
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- 30 years old and only a couple lousy short
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- Term relationships under my belt.
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- Pathetic.
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- But it wasn't for a lack of trying.
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- I dated.
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- Boy, did i date.
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- But most of the time i was thinking,
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- Get me out of here before
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- The appetizers arrive.
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- And i don't know.
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- Maybe it was me.
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- Either way, i was convinced
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- That it was now or never.
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- Seriously.
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- And you know what,
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- I lied.
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- I didn't just want guy to look at me and smile.
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- I wanted more than that.
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- I, i wanted a genuinely decent guy.
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- And i knew he was out there.
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- But if i was going to find him,
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- I'd have to do something different.
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- Totally different.
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- - happy new year, ms. hayden.
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- - hey, gwen.
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- - you look terrible.
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- - i'm done.
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- New year, new me.
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- I'm buying a dog or joining a monastery,
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- Or both if they'll let me bring a puppy.
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- (light orchestral music)
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- - ladies, everyone on the bridge in five minutes.
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- Got big news.
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- Big, big, big news.
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- Pamela, the coffee has that foul taste again, dish water.
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- Not the day for stinky joe.
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- I want you to fix it asap.
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- Please, pretty please.
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- - rodger that, admiral.
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- - oh, and happy new year everybody.
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- - not today, i cannot play battleship with him today.
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- - you ever think if it's the guy
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- You're picking to go out with?
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- Maybe you're knocking on one door hoping another will open.
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- - oh, thank you oprah.
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- - don't call me oprah.
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- - have either of you heard of donny de bona?
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- - is that really a name?
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- - he is the biggest name in direct response for male beauty.
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- - oh, you're talking about the infomercial guy
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- With, with the weird goatee.
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- - [pamela] oh.
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- - i am talking about the infomercial king,
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- And he is coming here today on his private jet.
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- He is coming in at o-1100 hours
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- To meet with us, to discuss if he wants us
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- To single-handedly market his newest product.
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- Hair.
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- - as in wigs?
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- Transplant?
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- - hair.
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- Hair!
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- The real thing.
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- He has found a cure for baldness.
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- He found a secret solution
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- And he puts it in a little capsule.
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- - this is ridiculous.
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- There's no secret solution.
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- - you take that back.
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- I mean it.
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- - okay, fine,
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- I take it back but--
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- - no buts.
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- This is the real thing.
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- I've done my research.
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- I'm not an idiot.
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- We are done here.
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- I want you to assemble the troops.
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- Clear the decks.
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- I want a reception fit for a president.
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- Now hurry up!
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- Dismissed.
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- - i can take almost anything,
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- Spin it into gold and fool some of
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- The people some of the time.
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- But i don't care how you brand it, package it, or sell it.
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- If god didn't give you hair, you ain't getting hair.
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- End of story.
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- (door clicking)
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- - ladies and gentlemen.
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- Mr. donny de bona.
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- (all clapping)
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- I'm sure you don't need any introduction to mr. de bona.
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- You know him as the man who has
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- Revolutionized the way modern men live their daily lives.
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- Now mr. de bona is at it again,
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- Bigger and better than ever.
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- And from what i understand,
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- He's here for a few days to kick our tires
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- And if we pass the test,
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- We will be the lucky firm to brand
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- And market mr. de bona's newest product
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- And if that day comes,
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- Then you, me, we, all of us will be a part of history.
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- The story.
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- A man.
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- (all clapping)
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- Let's meet the troops.
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- They're all yours.
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- - let's chat.
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- Good to see you, rex.
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- - donny.
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- - [donny] hello there, donny de bona.
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- - [gwyneth voiceover] okay, let's review.
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- So no mr. right and now i've gotta make bald guys
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- Believe some magical potion
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- They buy on tv is gonna solve all their problems.
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- At this point i'm like,
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- God, if you are out there,
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- This is gwyneth hayden calling and uh, help.
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- - [announcer] you're single.
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- You're christian and you're looking for
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- A meaningful relationship.
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- Find god's match for you at christianmingle.com.
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- The leading site for christian dating.
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- It's the largest community both nationally
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- And where you live of like-minded christians
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- Seeking a partner for their spiritual journey.
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- It's easy and it's free.
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- In minutes you can start browsing millions
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- Of profiles and discover easy, low-pressure
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- Ways to start meeting other christian singles.
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- (light pop music)
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- (vocalizing)
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- ♪ to anyone walking down a hard road ♪
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- ♪ worn out with blisters on your feet ♪
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- ♪ to anyone with a heart that's shattered ♪
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- ♪ doing your best to hold it together ♪
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- ♪ with no prayer to pray ♪
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- ♪ and no song left to sing ♪
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- ♪ whatever pain you're dealing with ♪
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- ♪ let me offer this
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- ♪ come however you are ♪
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- ♪ come with all your heartbreak ♪
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- ♪ come with all the mistakes you've made ♪
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- ♪ lay them down at the cross ♪
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- ♪ give them to the god who loves you ♪
- 00:13:10.145 --> 00:13:14.016
- ♪ hurt, scared, falling apart ♪
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- ♪ come however you are
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- (vocalizing)
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- ♪ to the girl who never had a father ♪
- 00:13:28.030 --> 00:13:33.235
- ♪ to the guy who thinks he'll never amount to ♪
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- ♪ much of anything ♪
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- ♪ to those of us who feel unwanted, unneeded ♪
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- ♪ unloved and desperately incomplete ♪
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- ♪ come however you are
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- ♪ come with all your heartbreak ♪
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- ♪ come with all the mistakes you've made ♪
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- ♪ lay them down at the cross ♪
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- ♪ give them to the god who loves you ♪
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- ♪ hurt, scared, falling apart ♪
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- (sighing)
- 00:14:18.280 --> 00:14:18.881
- - am i bad?
- 00:14:18.881 --> 00:14:19.915
- You're right this is wrong.
- 00:14:19.915 --> 00:14:20.883
- This is wrong.
- 00:14:20.883 --> 00:14:22.551
- - what's wrong?
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- - hi, i'm sorry.
- 00:14:24.420 --> 00:14:26.722
- - no, no i'm sorry.
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- I'm sorry that i'm late.
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- Hi, i'm, i'm paul wood.
- 00:14:32.127 --> 00:14:35.297
- - gwyneth hayden.
- 00:14:35.731 --> 00:14:36.999
- Hi. - i wish that i had an excuse
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- For you but honestly,
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- I'm just terrible with time management.
- 00:14:40.602 --> 00:14:43.072
- I mean papa warned me it would be my undoing.
- 00:14:43.072 --> 00:14:46.075
- - papa?
- 00:14:46.075 --> 00:14:47.509
- - oh, my dad.
- 00:14:47.509 --> 00:14:49.244
- - oh.
- 00:14:49.478 --> 00:14:52.381
- - should we?
- 00:14:52.715 --> 00:14:53.749
- - yeah, sure.
- 00:14:53.749 --> 00:15:04.093
- What?
- 00:15:04.326 --> 00:15:05.527
- - nothing.
- 00:15:05.527 --> 00:15:06.562
- - it's the photo, isn't it?
- 00:15:06.562 --> 00:15:07.963
- Yeah, i don't really look like my picture.
- 00:15:07.963 --> 00:15:10.032
- I kind of cheated on that part.
- 00:15:10.032 --> 00:15:11.700
- - who doesn't?
- 00:15:11.700 --> 00:15:13.002
- - mine was from like, 10 years ago.
- 00:15:13.002 --> 00:15:14.870
- I was on my way to rock stardom.
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- (laughing)
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- Yeah!
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- - you, you were going to be a rock star?
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- - well, you know, an entertainer.
- 00:15:25.114 --> 00:15:29.218
- - oh, an entertainer.
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- That's interesting.
- 00:15:31.220 --> 00:15:35.424
- - this is weird, isn't it?
- 00:15:35.991 --> 00:15:37.526
- It's a weird way to meet somebody.
- 00:15:37.526 --> 00:15:40.195
- What a strange new world.
- 00:15:40.195 --> 00:15:42.031
- - it is.
- 00:15:42.031 --> 00:15:43.332
- It's like click, meet, marry, die, done.
- 00:15:43.332 --> 00:15:45.901
- It's a very strange new world.
- 00:15:45.901 --> 00:15:47.436
- - but the stuff between never really changes.
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- Family, joy,
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- A love for the lord.
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- - yeah.
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- Gotta love him.
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- The lord.
- 00:15:58.881 --> 00:16:00.015
- - well, hey, do you want something to drink?
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- Hey, how about a cookie?
- 00:16:03.118 --> 00:16:05.120
- - oh, no.
- 00:16:05.120 --> 00:16:06.021
- I don't do cookies.
- 00:16:06.021 --> 00:16:07.589
- It's a double chin coming quicker than a freight train.
- 00:16:07.589 --> 00:16:09.024
- - how about a cookie?
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- (laughing)
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- - sold.
- 00:16:14.430 --> 00:16:15.898
- - what?
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- - nothing.
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- You're great.
- 00:16:18.834 --> 00:16:20.069
- - yeah, well, you're awesome.
- 00:16:20.069 --> 00:16:21.437
- - i would've been okay with okay.
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- (laughing)
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- Coffee would be great though.
- 00:16:26.008 --> 00:16:27.810
- Black, no sugar.
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- - uncomplicated and a believer.
- 00:16:29.178 --> 00:16:31.747
- - that's me.
- 00:16:31.747 --> 00:16:33.248
- - i like that.
- 00:16:33.248 --> 00:16:35.317
- - believer or not.
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- (light acoustic guitar music)
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- (light acoustic guitar music)
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- Thank you.
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- Dear, lord.
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- Yes.
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- We just want to thank you
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- For the coffee and the cookie,
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- And really most of all the coffee
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- And the talent of the baristas that prepared it.
- 00:17:06.854 --> 00:17:10.691
- Although i am just drinking
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- Black so i guess that really doesn't take
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- A lot of barista-ing.
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- But, um,
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- We also just want to say a huge,
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- Super huge thanks for bringing paul and i together
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- Because he is just, he's very cool and
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- You really did good, thank you.
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- And i just want to say thank you for old photos.
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- Yes.
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- Amen.
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- - amen.
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- I have never prayed over coffee before.
- 00:17:37.651 --> 00:17:40.587
- - i mean you can't pray enough in
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- This click, meet, marry world.
- 00:17:41.955 --> 00:17:44.091
- - that's it?
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- You're stopping there now?
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- No more die and done?
- 00:17:46.160 --> 00:17:48.495
- - no, i might wanna, i don't know, have a few laughs
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- Or something before that.
- 00:17:51.298 --> 00:17:53.767
- - sounds good to me.
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- (laughing)
- 00:17:54.935 --> 00:17:59.406
- So what do people call you?
- 00:18:00.007 --> 00:18:02.042
- Gwinny?
- 00:18:02.042 --> 00:18:03.277
- - not if you want to see tomorrow.
- 00:18:04.044 --> 00:18:06.446
- Sixth grade summer camp didn't end well.
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- You can just call me gwyneth.
- 00:18:10.017 --> 00:18:11.919
- - gwyneth it is.
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- I like you.
- 00:18:15.822 --> 00:18:17.257
- You got spunk.
- 00:18:17.624 --> 00:18:19.560
- - spunk?
- 00:18:19.826 --> 00:18:21.395
- It's a little brady bunch but i don't know.
- 00:18:22.262 --> 00:18:26.633
- It might grow on me.
- 00:18:26.633 --> 00:18:29.203
- - this is a guy you met online!
- 00:18:29.836 --> 00:18:31.171
- - i know, but it's not like that.
- 00:18:31.171 --> 00:18:32.606
- It's, it's a very popular and legit dating website,
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- Not to mention it's christian.
- 00:18:35.175 --> 00:18:36.743
- - which brings us to problem number two.
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- You're not--
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- - christian?
- 00:18:39.646 --> 00:18:40.547
- Says who?
- 00:18:40.547 --> 00:18:41.481
- I believe in god and stuff.
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- I mean i was baptized.
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- I went to sunday school.
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- I read the bible when i was a kid.
- 00:18:46.453 --> 00:18:47.854
- You know, the one with all the pretty pictures?
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- I go to church sometimes.
- 00:18:50.424 --> 00:18:53.026
- - when?
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- When is the last time you stepped into a church?
- 00:18:54.461 --> 00:18:58.131
- - last month.
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- - you went to church last month?
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- - i did.
- 00:19:01.568 --> 00:19:02.469
- - mm-hmm.
- 00:19:02.469 --> 00:19:03.971
- And?
- 00:19:03.971 --> 00:19:05.372
- - okay, so it was a wedding.
- 00:19:05.372 --> 00:19:06.173
- - whose wedding?
- 00:19:06.173 --> 00:19:07.541
- - i don't know, but it was so beautiful.
- 00:19:07.541 --> 00:19:09.076
- - oh, you crashed a wedding.
- 00:19:09.076 --> 00:19:10.677
- - no!
- 00:19:10.677 --> 00:19:11.678
- I just peaked inside.
- 00:19:11.678 --> 00:19:12.813
- It's not like i followed them to
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- The reception and chowed down on free shrimp.
- 00:19:14.181 --> 00:19:17.050
- - and that was the last time you were in a church?
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- Peaking in a wedding?
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- - yeah.
- 00:19:20.887 --> 00:19:21.788
- It was so beautiful.
- 00:19:21.788 --> 00:19:23.056
- (sighing)
- 00:19:23.056 --> 00:19:23.924
- - this is so sad.
- 00:19:23.924 --> 00:19:24.858
- Okay, that doesn't count.
- 00:19:24.858 --> 00:19:27.027
- You're not christian or whatever
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- This guy thinks you are.
- 00:19:28.662 --> 00:19:30.097
- That website is for real christians
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- Looking for other real christians.
- 00:19:32.199 --> 00:19:35.302
- Do you see the problem here?
- 00:19:35.302 --> 00:19:37.337
- - okay, you are making this a much heavier
- 00:19:37.337 --> 00:19:39.139
- Religious issue than it needs to be.
- 00:19:39.139 --> 00:19:40.707
- And besides, i think i'm at least 50%
- 00:19:40.707 --> 00:19:45.112
- That kind of christian anyway.
- 00:19:45.112 --> 00:19:46.613
- - i'm pretty sure it's either or,
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- Not just a slice of the pie.
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- (knocking on door)
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- - ladies.
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- Gwyneth, you are up.
- 00:19:54.421 --> 00:19:56.356
- - well, she's all yours.
- 00:19:56.356 --> 00:19:58.959
- God help her.
- 00:19:58.959 --> 00:20:00.427
- - actually, i'd like a few minutes alone with
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- Ms. hayden if i might.
- 00:20:02.229 --> 00:20:03.764
- - well then, i'll just leave you two to it.
- 00:20:03.764 --> 00:20:10.337
- - you don't bite, do you?
- 00:20:10.904 --> 00:20:12.239
- - nah.
- 00:20:12.239 --> 00:20:13.307
- - what do we have here?
- 00:20:13.307 --> 00:20:15.776
- Gwyneth hayden, bp,
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- Brand management.
- 00:20:18.312 --> 00:20:19.613
- - that's me.
- 00:20:19.613 --> 00:20:20.847
- - what's brand management, in your own words?
- 00:20:20.847 --> 00:20:24.584
- - well, i think i take the story,
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- The good, the bad and the ugly of it all.
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- I mix it in a bowl,
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- I add some sugar and i make it taste good.
- 00:20:32.526 --> 00:20:36.496
- - and you're good at that?
- 00:20:37.064 --> 00:20:38.865
- - i think i am.
- 00:20:38.865 --> 00:20:40.701
- - you're not a believer, are you?
- 00:20:40.701 --> 00:20:43.403
- - uh, i'm sorry, what?
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- - you don't believe that i can grow hair.
- 00:20:46.573 --> 00:20:50.510
- - oh.
- 00:20:50.510 --> 00:20:51.511
- Oh, that.
- 00:20:51.511 --> 00:20:52.713
- Um, i just,
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- You mean with these?
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- - well, i can.
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- I can, and i can prove it to you.
- 00:21:02.055 --> 00:21:07.894
- Before and after.
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- Before,
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- After.
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- Pictures don't lie.
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- Scout's honor.
- 00:21:23.009 --> 00:21:24.945
- - scout's honor then.
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- I'm good.
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- - and it's all right there.
- 00:21:30.183 --> 00:21:35.589
- Before
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- And after.
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- (light orchestral music)
- 00:21:41.528 --> 00:21:43.397
- - yes, we're going on a second date.
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- I mean he's a little like out of
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- "leave it to beaver"
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- But you guys, he was so charming.
- 00:21:47.968 --> 00:21:49.536
- - oh honey, switch the channel.
- 00:21:49.536 --> 00:21:51.171
- This can only end badly.
- 00:21:51.171 --> 00:21:52.606
- - end?
- 00:21:52.606 --> 00:21:53.273
- What do you mean?
- 00:21:53.273 --> 00:21:54.174
- It's just beginning.
- 00:21:54.174 --> 00:21:55.275
- - sweetie, you're desperate and
- 00:21:55.275 --> 00:21:56.276
- You're grasping at straws.
- 00:21:56.276 --> 00:21:57.878
- - you guys, no, stop.
- 00:21:57.878 --> 00:21:58.879
- He is fantastic.
- 00:21:58.879 --> 00:22:00.280
- I mean isn't this what we've been trying to do?
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- Get me a fella and get me hitched?
- 00:22:02.549 --> 00:22:04.451
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:22:04.451 --> 00:22:07.387
- - my family has been in the
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- Construction business for generations.
- 00:22:08.655 --> 00:22:10.524
- Papa's papa, he was a big development guy so
- 00:22:10.524 --> 00:22:12.993
- He sort of turned it into a bigger deal.
- 00:22:12.993 --> 00:22:15.095
- Now papa has taken it to a whole 'nother level.
- 00:22:15.095 --> 00:22:18.131
- - [gwyneth] so do you work a lot with your hands?
- 00:22:18.131 --> 00:22:21.334
- - oh no, gosh, i wish.
- 00:22:21.334 --> 00:22:22.736
- No, i'm kind of stuck in the office.
- 00:22:22.736 --> 00:22:25.105
- - oh, really?
- 00:22:25.105 --> 00:22:26.039
- Doing what?
- 00:22:26.039 --> 00:22:27.073
- - analysis, mostly.
- 00:22:27.073 --> 00:22:28.842
- Feasibility reports on potential projects.
- 00:22:28.842 --> 00:22:31.678
- - oh, so you basically sniff out the stinkers.
- 00:22:31.678 --> 00:22:36.817
- - yeah.
- 00:22:37.050 --> 00:22:38.285
- I guess that's one way to put it.
- 00:22:38.285 --> 00:22:41.588
- - [chef] sushi up.
- 00:22:42.022 --> 00:22:43.256
- - oh, thank you.
- 00:22:43.256 --> 00:22:45.492
- Looks delicious.
- 00:22:45.859 --> 00:22:47.027
- - okay.
- 00:22:47.027 --> 00:22:48.795
- - dig in.
- 00:22:49.095 --> 00:22:53.867
- You're not really a fan of sushi, are you?
- 00:22:54.768 --> 00:22:58.371
- - is it that obvious?
- 00:22:58.371 --> 00:23:00.307
- - yeah.
- 00:23:00.307 --> 00:23:01.842
- You know that funny thing you're doing with your nose,
- 00:23:01.842 --> 00:23:03.210
- Your stinker detector?
- 00:23:03.210 --> 00:23:04.478
- It's kind of a dead giveaway.
- 00:23:04.478 --> 00:23:06.046
- I mean you look like you just smelled dog poop.
- 00:23:06.046 --> 00:23:08.982
- - not really helping the situation here.
- 00:23:08.982 --> 00:23:11.952
- - well, why didn't you just tell me that?
- 00:23:11.952 --> 00:23:13.453
- - because i kind of wanted to try it.
- 00:23:13.453 --> 00:23:14.821
- You know, it's the in thing, right?
- 00:23:14.821 --> 00:23:18.492
- - okay, look.
- 00:23:18.859 --> 00:23:19.693
- This red one here, this is tuna,
- 00:23:19.693 --> 00:23:21.094
- And this here, the yellow one, is yellowtail,
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- Which is technically a different kind of tuna.
- 00:23:24.130 --> 00:23:25.966
- The brown one is eel, and then this orangey,
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- Mushy-looking one is uni, which is sea urchin.
- 00:23:28.134 --> 00:23:31.938
- It is delicious.
- 00:23:31.938 --> 00:23:32.806
- It's my favorite.
- 00:23:32.806 --> 00:23:34.574
- - well, maybe i'll try that one.
- 00:23:34.574 --> 00:23:36.176
- Looks interesting.
- 00:23:36.176 --> 00:23:38.645
- - you know what?
- 00:23:39.012 --> 00:23:39.946
- On second thought, no.
- 00:23:39.946 --> 00:23:40.647
- Let's pass on that.
- 00:23:40.647 --> 00:23:41.715
- Sea urchin is not gateway sushi.
- 00:23:41.715 --> 00:23:43.750
- Just take your chopsticks,
- 00:23:43.750 --> 00:23:45.819
- Right, and let's just start right here.
- 00:23:45.819 --> 00:23:58.532
- Okay, that'll work.
- 00:23:58.999 --> 00:24:02.702
- Here, you can dip it in the soy and,
- 00:24:03.470 --> 00:24:06.907
- Uh-huh.
- 00:24:06.907 --> 00:24:08.508
- - here it goes.
- 00:24:08.875 --> 00:24:16.550
- Mmm.
- 00:24:16.750 --> 00:24:34.868
- - you are gonna actually have to swallow at some point.
- 00:24:36.002 --> 00:24:40.040
- - it's coming.
- 00:24:40.040 --> 00:24:44.778
- Mm-hmm.
- 00:24:45.011 --> 00:24:46.279
- Here it goes.
- 00:24:46.279 --> 00:24:52.218
- Oh!
- 00:24:52.419 --> 00:24:53.620
- Whooo, not exactly sure what just happened.
- 00:24:54.487 --> 00:24:58.491
- - you just chewed that poor tuna
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- To death is what happened.
- 00:25:00.427 --> 00:25:03.196
- - i guess i'm just more of a chili cheese dog kind of guy.
- 00:25:04.364 --> 00:25:08.602
- - someone's gonna get hurt.
- 00:25:09.202 --> 00:25:10.005
- - someone's gonna get hurt.
- 00:25:10.005 --> 00:25:10.600
- - do you have any idea what happened at a bible study?
- 00:25:11.634 --> 00:25:14.136
- - what?
- 00:25:14.136 --> 00:25:15.137
- (upbeat pop music)
- 00:25:15.137 --> 00:25:20.409
- ♪ i jumped in the car say i'm going to gas ♪
- 00:25:21.377 --> 00:25:23.512
- ♪ got to get away from here fast ♪
- 00:25:23.512 --> 00:25:25.715
- ♪ enemies breathing down my neck and trying to ♪
- 00:25:25.715 --> 00:25:28.985
- ♪ grab a hold and make me wreck ♪
- 00:25:28.985 --> 00:25:31.120
- ♪ hot on my tail trying to make me fail ♪
- 00:25:31.120 --> 00:25:32.955
- ♪ and trying to take the wind up out of my sail ♪
- 00:25:32.955 --> 00:25:35.791
- ♪ trying to roll me off this road ♪
- 00:25:35.791 --> 00:25:42.231
- ♪ falling
- 00:25:42.565 --> 00:25:46.302
- ♪ don't look at what's behind ♪
- 00:25:46.302 --> 00:25:49.805
- - there you are.
- 00:25:49.805 --> 00:25:50.806
- Thought you got lost.
- 00:25:50.806 --> 00:25:51.674
- - no, no, no.
- 00:25:51.674 --> 00:25:52.541
- Here i am.
- 00:25:52.541 --> 00:25:53.209
- - you look great.
- 00:25:53.209 --> 00:25:54.076
- Come in, come in.
- 00:25:54.076 --> 00:25:54.944
- Meet everybody.
- 00:25:54.944 --> 00:25:56.412
- Everyone, this is gwyneth,
- 00:25:56.412 --> 00:25:58.781
- And whatever you do, don't call her gwinny.
- 00:25:58.781 --> 00:26:00.683
- (chuckling)
- 00:26:00.683 --> 00:26:01.784
- Okay, let's see.
- 00:26:01.784 --> 00:26:03.119
- First that's jimmy and jessie mckenzie.
- 00:26:03.119 --> 00:26:04.720
- They're happy newlyweds.
- 00:26:04.720 --> 00:26:05.655
- Met on mingle.
- 00:26:05.655 --> 00:26:06.856
- Turned me onto it, praise the lord.
- 00:26:06.856 --> 00:26:07.723
- - praise the lord.
- 00:26:07.723 --> 00:26:09.025
- - and this is their beautiful home.
- 00:26:09.025 --> 00:26:09.959
- - aw.
- 00:26:09.959 --> 00:26:11.661
- - and that's tommy and gabby huntley, who are having a baby.
- 00:26:11.661 --> 00:26:14.563
- - my belly!
- 00:26:14.563 --> 00:26:15.665
- - praise the lord.
- 00:26:15.665 --> 00:26:16.866
- - indeed.
- 00:26:16.866 --> 00:26:17.767
- And that's kel-kel.
- 00:26:17.767 --> 00:26:18.668
- - hi.
- 00:26:18.668 --> 00:26:19.402
- - kelly.
- 00:26:19.402 --> 00:26:20.703
- Heck, you want to talk about summer camp stories,
- 00:26:20.703 --> 00:26:22.738
- We got a few of our own.
- 00:26:22.738 --> 00:26:23.873
- (chuckling)
- 00:26:23.873 --> 00:26:25.241
- - bible camp.
- 00:26:25.241 --> 00:26:26.909
- Believe me, it's nothing.
- 00:26:26.909 --> 00:26:30.746
- - okay, let me see if i have it.
- 00:26:31.380 --> 00:26:32.648
- We have jimmy and jessie mckenzie,
- 00:26:32.648 --> 00:26:34.817
- Tommy and gabby huntley,
- 00:26:34.817 --> 00:26:36.052
- Who are having a baby in your belly,
- 00:26:36.052 --> 00:26:37.319
- And summer camp kelly.
- 00:26:37.319 --> 00:26:38.587
- So you should just call me gwinny.
- 00:26:38.587 --> 00:26:40.923
- - gwinny.
- 00:26:40.923 --> 00:26:42.591
- - really?
- 00:26:42.591 --> 00:26:43.993
- - sure.
- 00:26:43.993 --> 00:26:45.127
- - this, this place is great.
- 00:26:45.127 --> 00:26:50.199
- It's all so inspirational and marriage,
- 00:26:51.067 --> 00:26:55.371
- Marriage that's just, i mean,
- 00:26:56.005 --> 00:26:58.774
- It actually reminds me of one of my favorites.
- 00:26:58.774 --> 00:27:01.143
- Yeah, i think the passage is from galatians.
- 00:27:01.143 --> 00:27:05.214
- Because of the temptation to sexual immorality,
- 00:27:06.215 --> 00:27:08.350
- Each man should have his own wife
- 00:27:08.350 --> 00:27:10.786
- And each woman should have her own husband.
- 00:27:10.786 --> 00:27:18.994
- You know what, my bad.
- 00:27:19.495 --> 00:27:20.629
- I think that was corinthians.
- 00:27:20.629 --> 00:27:22.098
- Yep, that was corinthians.
- 00:27:22.098 --> 00:27:23.933
- So sorry.
- 00:27:23.933 --> 00:27:25.568
- Do you have any water?
- 00:27:26.068 --> 00:27:27.837
- - [gabby] sure.
- 00:27:27.837 --> 00:27:29.972
- - thank you.
- 00:27:30.306 --> 00:27:31.173
- - [gabby] c'mon.
- 00:27:31.173 --> 00:27:32.808
- - hey, how ya doing, buddy?
- 00:27:33.409 --> 00:27:36.078
- - i'm sorry, i'm not really good with you people.
- 00:27:37.079 --> 00:27:39.515
- - well, you seem pretty good with pauly.
- 00:27:39.515 --> 00:27:41.450
- - he's just so different.
- 00:27:41.450 --> 00:27:43.652
- - he's the last of the good ones,
- 00:27:43.652 --> 00:27:45.721
- That's for sure.
- 00:27:45.721 --> 00:27:47.890
- I hope things work out.
- 00:27:48.390 --> 00:27:50.860
- I haven't seen him this happy in a while.
- 00:27:50.860 --> 00:27:53.028
- - really?
- 00:27:53.028 --> 00:27:54.130
- Well, i must be doing something right then.
- 00:27:55.064 --> 00:27:58.834
- - so great to have everybody back.
- 00:27:59.602 --> 00:28:02.071
- Jessie, jimmy,
- 00:28:02.071 --> 00:28:03.606
- Thank you guys so much for your hospitality again,
- 00:28:03.606 --> 00:28:05.775
- Once again.
- 00:28:05.775 --> 00:28:06.742
- And gwinny, it's just awesome to have you with us.
- 00:28:07.777 --> 00:28:11.781
- So uh, let's pick up where we left off last week.
- 00:28:11.781 --> 00:28:15.985
- Romans seven.
- 00:28:15.985 --> 00:28:18.788
- We were uh, verse 14.
- 00:28:19.288 --> 00:28:21.991
- Now everybody's familiar with the story of
- 00:28:22.825 --> 00:28:25.161
- Dr. jekyll and mr. hyde.
- 00:28:25.161 --> 00:28:26.896
- - you know what i think?
- 00:28:26.896 --> 00:28:28.397
- - no, what do you think?
- 00:28:28.397 --> 00:28:30.432
- - you should stick to gwyneth.
- 00:28:30.432 --> 00:28:33.736
- Just be you.
- 00:28:34.069 --> 00:28:35.838
- - whoever that is.
- 00:28:35.838 --> 00:28:37.706
- Pauly.
- 00:28:37.706 --> 00:28:38.374
- (laughing)
- 00:28:38.374 --> 00:28:40.976
- - "the trouble is with me for
- 00:28:40.976 --> 00:28:43.445
- "i am all too human, a slave to sin."
- 00:28:43.445 --> 00:28:46.682
- ♪ don't take your eyes off the prize ♪
- 00:28:46.682 --> 00:28:51.320
- ♪ well the pressure's bleeding in ♪
- 00:28:51.320 --> 00:28:53.389
- ♪ giving me some blurry vision ♪
- 00:28:53.389 --> 00:28:56.058
- ♪ fogging up my intellect ♪
- 00:28:56.058 --> 00:28:57.993
- ♪ where love and hate they intersect ♪
- 00:28:57.993 --> 00:29:00.629
- ♪ keep the path of the mission ♪
- 00:29:00.629 --> 00:29:02.998
- ♪ never going to lose my ambition ♪
- 00:29:02.998 --> 00:29:05.668
- ♪ got my eyes up on the prize ♪
- 00:29:05.668 --> 00:29:11.207
- ♪ eyes forward
- 00:29:11.574 --> 00:29:16.178
- ♪ don't look at what's behind
- 00:29:16.846 --> 00:29:20.449
- ♪ eyes forward ♪
- 00:29:20.449 --> 00:29:25.788
- ♪ don't take your eyes off the prize ♪
- 00:29:26.622 --> 00:29:34.196
- - i told mom about that raw fish.
- 00:29:34.930 --> 00:29:36.298
- (laughing)
- 00:29:36.298 --> 00:29:37.132
- - oh, you did?
- 00:29:37.132 --> 00:29:38.467
- - boy, did she get a kick out of that.
- 00:29:38.467 --> 00:29:40.169
- (laughing)
- 00:29:40.169 --> 00:29:43.806
- - so what's the deal with kel-kel?
- 00:29:44.573 --> 00:29:47.943
- - who?
- 00:29:47.943 --> 00:29:49.311
- - kelly from bible study.
- 00:29:49.311 --> 00:29:52.081
- - oh, that?
- 00:29:52.414 --> 00:29:53.282
- Oh, no, nothing.
- 00:29:53.282 --> 00:29:55.818
- Honestly.
- 00:29:56.118 --> 00:29:57.419
- We, she's practically like a sister.
- 00:29:57.419 --> 00:30:00.456
- We grew up together, our families.
- 00:30:00.456 --> 00:30:02.791
- Although if mama had her way--
- 00:30:02.791 --> 00:30:04.827
- - you and kelly would be about three kids
- 00:30:04.827 --> 00:30:07.162
- And two dogs deep right now?
- 00:30:07.162 --> 00:30:08.430
- - the barking kind.
- 00:30:08.430 --> 00:30:10.399
- Oh, the next stop, the delicious train.
- 00:30:11.233 --> 00:30:14.136
- (laughing)
- 00:30:14.136 --> 00:30:15.604
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:30:15.604 --> 00:30:20.175
- I like it around here.
- 00:30:20.676 --> 00:30:22.211
- It's funky.
- 00:30:22.211 --> 00:30:23.245
- - [gwyneth] funky spunky.
- 00:30:23.245 --> 00:30:24.713
- - okay, so i told you i wanted to be a rock star.
- 00:30:24.713 --> 00:30:28.050
- So what about you?
- 00:30:28.050 --> 00:30:29.285
- Did you have any other dreams?
- 00:30:29.285 --> 00:30:30.886
- - um, yeah, i always actually wanted to be a teacher.
- 00:30:30.886 --> 00:30:34.757
- - wow.
- 00:30:34.757 --> 00:30:35.424
- That's noble.
- 00:30:35.424 --> 00:30:36.225
- What happened?
- 00:30:36.225 --> 00:30:37.493
- - well, i went to school and graduated
- 00:30:37.493 --> 00:30:39.061
- And needed a job and looked for a meaningful job
- 00:30:39.061 --> 00:30:43.732
- And there just wasn't one so i kind of faked
- 00:30:43.732 --> 00:30:46.402
- My way to a living until i, funny enough,
- 00:30:46.402 --> 00:30:48.971
- Ended up in a line of work where faking it
- 00:30:48.971 --> 00:30:52.541
- Is actually part of the job description.
- 00:30:52.541 --> 00:30:56.712
- - so how long have you been a believer?
- 00:30:57.546 --> 00:31:00.983
- - you know, it's, it's just such a long and,
- 00:31:00.983 --> 00:31:06.655
- You know, personal story.
- 00:31:07.222 --> 00:31:08.657
- Maybe it's for another time if that's okay.
- 00:31:08.657 --> 00:31:11.226
- - oh, yeah.
- 00:31:11.226 --> 00:31:12.094
- Absolutely.
- 00:31:12.094 --> 00:31:13.595
- Though you have peaked my curiosity.
- 00:31:13.595 --> 00:31:15.898
- - you know what they say about curiosity and the cat.
- 00:31:15.898 --> 00:31:19.601
- What about you though, if you don't mind me asking?
- 00:31:19.601 --> 00:31:21.603
- - no, no, not at all.
- 00:31:21.603 --> 00:31:23.772
- I was kind of born into it, i guess.
- 00:31:23.772 --> 00:31:26.408
- All the men on mama,
- 00:31:26.408 --> 00:31:27.977
- My mother's side were pastors going back forever.
- 00:31:27.977 --> 00:31:31.580
- So, my papa's, my dad's side, different story.
- 00:31:31.580 --> 00:31:36.118
- He was a crazy kid, my dad.
- 00:31:36.719 --> 00:31:39.455
- Growing up in the '60s and all.
- 00:31:39.455 --> 00:31:40.723
- Drifting through life.
- 00:31:40.723 --> 00:31:42.558
- Then as the story goes he was walking on a beach one day
- 00:31:42.558 --> 00:31:46.128
- And he came across this piece of driftwood
- 00:31:46.128 --> 00:31:48.731
- And he saw something in it.
- 00:31:48.731 --> 00:31:49.999
- So he took it home and he studied it
- 00:31:49.999 --> 00:31:52.735
- And he studied it, and he ended up carving a statue
- 00:31:52.735 --> 00:31:55.504
- Of jesus out of it.
- 00:31:55.504 --> 00:31:57.706
- Next thing you know, spirit fills him,
- 00:31:57.706 --> 00:31:59.575
- Changes his life forever.
- 00:31:59.575 --> 00:32:01.543
- Just like that.
- 00:32:01.543 --> 00:32:02.478
- Lights off, lights on.
- 00:32:02.478 --> 00:32:03.979
- Flick of the switch.
- 00:32:03.979 --> 00:32:05.114
- - let me get this straight.
- 00:32:05.114 --> 00:32:06.482
- You're telling me your dad,
- 00:32:06.482 --> 00:32:07.916
- Who was a drifter as you say,
- 00:32:07.916 --> 00:32:10.486
- And whose last name happens to be wood
- 00:32:10.486 --> 00:32:13.055
- Finds a piece of driftwood on the beach
- 00:32:13.055 --> 00:32:15.524
- And finds jesus in it and bam, he's born again?
- 00:32:15.524 --> 00:32:21.030
- - wow, i've never seen that angle before.
- 00:32:21.897 --> 00:32:25.634
- - are you kidding me?
- 00:32:25.634 --> 00:32:26.635
- It was laying right there.
- 00:32:26.635 --> 00:32:28.070
- - no seriously!
- 00:32:28.070 --> 00:32:29.838
- Snap!
- 00:32:29.838 --> 00:32:30.539
- That is so creative.
- 00:32:30.539 --> 00:32:32.007
- How do you just come up with that all so quickly?
- 00:32:32.007 --> 00:32:36.178
- - it's kind of what i do.
- 00:32:36.178 --> 00:32:40.182
- - well, anyway, my driftwood moment
- 00:32:40.916 --> 00:32:43.619
- Actually happened when i was 13.
- 00:32:43.619 --> 00:32:45.888
- I entered the science fair at school
- 00:32:45.888 --> 00:32:48.090
- And i built this maze for mice to run through.
- 00:32:48.090 --> 00:32:51.293
- I had them in two cages, the mice.
- 00:32:51.293 --> 00:32:52.995
- In one cage, i had flashing red lights
- 00:32:52.995 --> 00:32:55.798
- And head banging music going 24/7
- 00:32:55.798 --> 00:32:58.133
- And in the other one i had a soft blue light
- 00:32:58.133 --> 00:33:01.203
- And classical music.
- 00:33:01.203 --> 00:33:02.971
- My hypothesis was that, the mice in the
- 00:33:03.839 --> 00:33:06.241
- Tripped out cage would run the maze faster
- 00:33:06.241 --> 00:33:08.243
- Because they're all hyped up
- 00:33:08.243 --> 00:33:09.645
- And the mellow mice would just wander through
- 00:33:09.645 --> 00:33:11.680
- Without really caring.
- 00:33:11.680 --> 00:33:14.683
- And then right before every run
- 00:33:15.317 --> 00:33:16.718
- I would give each mouse a sniff of
- 00:33:16.718 --> 00:33:18.687
- This big chunk of swiss cheese that i had
- 00:33:18.687 --> 00:33:20.789
- At the end of the maze, their prize.
- 00:33:20.789 --> 00:33:25.060
- - this is actually me,
- 00:33:25.561 --> 00:33:27.062
- But i'm fascinated.
- 00:33:27.062 --> 00:33:28.163
- I want to hear more.
- 00:33:28.163 --> 00:33:29.331
- - oh, okay.
- 00:33:29.331 --> 00:33:30.732
- It was somewhere in the middle of it all,
- 00:33:30.732 --> 00:33:34.536
- None of that mattered anymore
- 00:33:34.536 --> 00:33:36.805
- Because i got so fixated on the notion of the cheese.
- 00:33:36.805 --> 00:33:41.643
- That prize that both sets of
- 00:33:41.643 --> 00:33:44.113
- Mice had a scent of and ultimately were drawn to.
- 00:33:44.113 --> 00:33:49.184
- Each had their own path,
- 00:33:49.184 --> 00:33:50.886
- But the goal was the same.
- 00:33:50.886 --> 00:33:53.789
- - don't tell me you saw jesus in the cheese.
- 00:33:53.789 --> 00:33:57.092
- - no.
- 00:33:57.092 --> 00:33:57.960
- (laughing)
- 00:33:57.960 --> 00:33:58.594
- No.
- 00:33:58.594 --> 00:34:00.062
- Um, but it reminded me, like, so much of what
- 00:34:00.062 --> 00:34:02.231
- I had been doing as a kid.
- 00:34:02.231 --> 00:34:03.866
- Searching for something that i had a sense of
- 00:34:03.866 --> 00:34:07.069
- But couldn't quite put my finger on.
- 00:34:07.069 --> 00:34:10.539
- Suddenly it all clicked.
- 00:34:10.539 --> 00:34:14.243
- The cheese.
- 00:34:14.576 --> 00:34:15.711
- Jesus' love was waiting for me.
- 00:34:15.711 --> 00:34:19.715
- So that weekend i won the science fair,
- 00:34:20.582 --> 00:34:25.187
- And found my prize.
- 00:34:25.654 --> 00:34:27.756
- A love in christ.
- 00:34:28.190 --> 00:34:30.859
- - well, sweet cheesus.
- 00:34:31.360 --> 00:34:33.428
- - sweet cheese!
- 00:34:33.428 --> 00:34:35.297
- - sweet cheesus.
- 00:34:35.297 --> 00:34:36.365
- (laughing)
- 00:34:36.365 --> 00:34:39.034
- - you find the funny in everything, don't you?
- 00:34:39.034 --> 00:34:41.003
- - i'm sorry.
- 00:34:41.003 --> 00:34:41.904
- - no, i like funny.
- 00:34:41.904 --> 00:34:44.239
- The world could definitely use a little funny right now.
- 00:34:44.239 --> 00:34:49.678
- - are you happy?
- 00:34:50.045 --> 00:34:52.281
- You know, are you content?
- 00:34:52.848 --> 00:34:57.352
- - yeah, i think so.
- 00:34:57.819 --> 00:35:01.023
- Wow.
- 00:35:01.223 --> 00:35:02.224
- Big question.
- 00:35:02.224 --> 00:35:04.660
- I'm happier now that i've met you, that's for sure.
- 00:35:05.727 --> 00:35:10.132
- - aw, flatterer.
- 00:35:10.132 --> 00:35:11.266
- (laughing)
- 00:35:11.266 --> 00:35:12.634
- You working overtime for that goodnight kiss?
- 00:35:12.634 --> 00:35:15.037
- - no.
- 00:35:15.037 --> 00:35:16.805
- - well then, no kiss.
- 00:35:17.306 --> 00:35:20.475
- - okay.
- 00:35:20.709 --> 00:35:22.311
- - are you serious?
- 00:35:22.744 --> 00:35:23.812
- - absolutely.
- 00:35:23.812 --> 00:35:24.813
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:35:24.813 --> 00:35:41.163
- ♪ to anyone walking down a hard road ♪
- 00:35:42.030 --> 00:35:46.935
- ♪ worn out with blisters on your feet ♪
- 00:35:46.935 --> 00:35:49.738
- (laughing)
- 00:35:49.738 --> 00:35:50.606
- - you're a meanie.
- 00:35:50.606 --> 00:35:52.107
- ♪ to anyone with a heart that shattered ♪
- 00:35:52.107 --> 00:35:54.776
- ♪ doing your best to hold it together ♪
- 00:35:54.776 --> 00:35:57.512
- ♪ with no prayer to pray ♪
- 00:35:57.512 --> 00:35:59.998
- ♪ with no prayer to pray ♪
- 00:35:59.998 --> 00:36:00.250
- - you're not going back to 1950s, sweetie.
- 00:36:01.084 --> 00:36:03.486
- You're going to church.
- 00:36:03.486 --> 00:36:05.188
- - you know, i want to scare his parents
- 00:36:05.188 --> 00:36:06.889
- Right out of the gate.
- 00:36:06.889 --> 00:36:08.191
- - keep shopping.
- 00:36:08.191 --> 00:36:09.993
- - oh, i think i can make this work.
- 00:36:09.993 --> 00:36:12.929
- - yeah, if you're playing margaret thatcher.
- 00:36:12.929 --> 00:36:14.964
- - aren't you a little worried about all this pretending?
- 00:36:14.964 --> 00:36:17.000
- - i'm not pretending.
- 00:36:17.000 --> 00:36:18.268
- I genuinely like him.
- 00:36:18.268 --> 00:36:20.003
- I do and you know what?
- 00:36:20.003 --> 00:36:22.405
- That is so cute.
- 00:36:22.405 --> 00:36:23.473
- I just want to be respectful.
- 00:36:23.473 --> 00:36:24.974
- - and dressing like julia child is being respectful?
- 00:36:24.974 --> 00:36:27.110
- - or apparently any other character recently
- 00:36:27.110 --> 00:36:28.811
- Played by meryl streep.
- 00:36:28.811 --> 00:36:29.679
- - thank you.
- 00:36:29.679 --> 00:36:30.546
- That is so sweet.
- 00:36:30.546 --> 00:36:32.715
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:36:32.715 --> 00:36:36.519
- (sighing)
- 00:36:36.519 --> 00:36:39.789
- Nice to meet you.
- 00:36:40.223 --> 00:36:42.158
- What am i doing?
- 00:36:42.525 --> 00:36:43.860
- ♪ what are you waiting for ♪
- 00:36:43.860 --> 00:36:48.564
- ♪ standing at an open door ♪
- 00:36:48.564 --> 00:36:55.371
- ♪ this is your life
- 00:36:55.872 --> 00:36:57.006
- ♪ never live twice ♪
- 00:36:57.006 --> 00:36:58.741
- ♪ step through to the other side ♪
- 00:36:58.741 --> 00:37:01.344
- ♪ so much more ♪
- 00:37:01.344 --> 00:37:05.882
- - [paul] gwyneth.
- 00:37:06.316 --> 00:37:07.517
- - oh, i'm sorry.
- 00:37:07.517 --> 00:37:08.951
- - how do you feel about that?
- 00:37:08.951 --> 00:37:11.321
- - it's just so big.
- 00:37:11.321 --> 00:37:12.855
- - 127 by 45 and 63 feet closer to the other shore.
- 00:37:12.855 --> 00:37:17.327
- - steak and cake.
- 00:37:17.327 --> 00:37:19.295
- - i'm sorry, what?
- 00:37:19.295 --> 00:37:20.596
- - how do you feel about steak and cake?
- 00:37:20.596 --> 00:37:21.731
- We're all going there.
- 00:37:21.731 --> 00:37:23.166
- Don't tell me you've never had steak and cake.
- 00:37:23.166 --> 00:37:25.535
- - oh, are you in for a treat.
- 00:37:25.535 --> 00:37:27.236
- - [bill] amen.
- 00:37:27.236 --> 00:37:28.037
- - have you met our kelly?
- 00:37:28.037 --> 00:37:30.173
- - i have.
- 00:37:30.173 --> 00:37:30.973
- Hi, nice to see you again.
- 00:37:30.973 --> 00:37:32.608
- - well, alrighty then.
- 00:37:32.608 --> 00:37:33.776
- Let's steak and cake it.
- 00:37:33.776 --> 00:37:36.179
- - your mother doesn't like me.
- 00:37:36.813 --> 00:37:38.614
- - what are you talking about?
- 00:37:38.614 --> 00:37:39.549
- Of course she does.
- 00:37:39.549 --> 00:37:40.883
- She doesn't even know you,
- 00:37:40.883 --> 00:37:42.418
- And speaking of which, is it just me,
- 00:37:42.418 --> 00:37:44.253
- Or have you always dressed like my grandma?
- 00:37:44.253 --> 00:37:46.556
- - i just didn't want to stick out 'cause sometimes--
- 00:37:46.556 --> 00:37:48.558
- - she likes you.
- 00:37:48.558 --> 00:37:49.992
- I promise you are reading way too much into it.
- 00:37:49.992 --> 00:37:52.428
- - paul.
- 00:37:52.428 --> 00:37:53.563
- - coming.
- 00:37:53.563 --> 00:37:56.232
- - gwyneth, we would all be so honored
- 00:37:57.033 --> 00:37:58.801
- If you would say grace.
- 00:37:58.801 --> 00:38:01.571
- - of course.
- 00:38:01.571 --> 00:38:04.674
- Dear lord, thanks a bunch for new friends.
- 00:38:05.575 --> 00:38:08.845
- It's really not often in life
- 00:38:08.845 --> 00:38:10.446
- That we get such a gift.
- 00:38:10.446 --> 00:38:12.415
- People that are just kind and generous,
- 00:38:12.415 --> 00:38:15.284
- And so thank you.
- 00:38:15.284 --> 00:38:22.191
- And, and for this food.
- 00:38:22.692 --> 00:38:24.527
- Golly, i mean, steak and cake.
- 00:38:24.527 --> 00:38:26.162
- It's kind of hard to know which to eat first.
- 00:38:26.162 --> 00:38:28.965
- But i guess it's all going
- 00:38:28.965 --> 00:38:30.600
- To the same place so we are just very thankful for that.
- 00:38:30.600 --> 00:38:38.207
- And we thank you for the
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- Abundance of all of it.
- 00:38:43.012 --> 00:38:45.481
- There is just so much
- 00:38:45.982 --> 00:38:48.050
- And we thank you for
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- The cows who are willing
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- To give up themselves.
- 00:38:51.020 --> 00:38:52.622
- And that this food is going to nourish our bodies,
- 00:38:52.622 --> 00:38:55.191
- And we really just sit in awesomeness,
- 00:38:55.191 --> 00:39:01.464
- And really i have a great amount of gratitude.
- 00:39:02.432 --> 00:39:06.469
- So yes.
- 00:39:06.469 --> 00:39:07.370
- Amen.
- 00:39:07.370 --> 00:39:08.137
- - in jesus' name, amen.
- 00:39:08.137 --> 00:39:10.907
- - oh, yes, in jesus' name.
- 00:39:10.907 --> 00:39:12.442
- I mean all of that of course was in jesus' name.
- 00:39:12.442 --> 00:39:16.045
- - [bill] alrighty to the almighty.
- 00:39:16.045 --> 00:39:17.847
- Let's dig in.
- 00:39:17.847 --> 00:39:19.182
- - paul, have you told gwyneth about our mission trip?
- 00:39:20.249 --> 00:39:25.388
- - yeah, we're just all so blessed and excited.
- 00:39:26.289 --> 00:39:30.526
- Last year when we were vacationing on the mayan riviera--
- 00:39:31.727 --> 00:39:35.431
- - the yucatan peninsula.
- 00:39:35.431 --> 00:39:36.866
- The caribbean side.
- 00:39:36.866 --> 00:39:38.267
- - right.
- 00:39:38.267 --> 00:39:39.502
- Well, we took this fantastic day trip to see
- 00:39:39.502 --> 00:39:41.370
- Some of the ancient sites, the mayan pyramids and all.
- 00:39:41.370 --> 00:39:45.174
- We came across this beautiful little town
- 00:39:45.174 --> 00:39:46.943
- Called san luis de piscopo.
- 00:39:46.943 --> 00:39:48.578
- - oh, just a stone's throw from where we were staying.
- 00:39:48.578 --> 00:39:50.780
- A stone's throw.
- 00:39:50.780 --> 00:39:52.248
- - yeah, well, the town is almost in ruins.
- 00:39:52.248 --> 00:39:54.817
- Evidently they haven't really recovered
- 00:39:54.817 --> 00:39:56.118
- Since hurricane wilma struck there.
- 00:39:56.118 --> 00:39:57.453
- - three years ago.
- 00:39:57.453 --> 00:39:58.988
- Category five just blew this little place to bits.
- 00:39:58.988 --> 00:40:02.024
- - grace, let the boy finish.
- 00:40:02.024 --> 00:40:04.627
- - sorry.
- 00:40:04.627 --> 00:40:05.661
- - well, really. - go on.
- 00:40:05.661 --> 00:40:07.330
- - really, that's it, i mean most of the people just left.
- 00:40:07.330 --> 00:40:10.299
- You know, abandoned the place.
- 00:40:10.299 --> 00:40:11.901
- Sort of just lost their way, gave up.
- 00:40:11.901 --> 00:40:13.936
- - faith an all.
- 00:40:13.936 --> 00:40:15.037
- - [paul] that's right.
- 00:40:15.037 --> 00:40:16.072
- - door to door we shall restore.
- 00:40:16.072 --> 00:40:21.077
- - bill, who needs to hush now?
- 00:40:21.711 --> 00:40:25.548
- - door to door was real good,
- 00:40:26.182 --> 00:40:27.717
- Take a note of that.
- 00:40:27.717 --> 00:40:28.651
- - anyway, right there,
- 00:40:28.651 --> 00:40:30.052
- Smack in the middle of it their church, crumbling.
- 00:40:30.052 --> 00:40:32.889
- It's symbolic.
- 00:40:32.889 --> 00:40:34.156
- They haven't opened their door since.
- 00:40:34.156 --> 00:40:35.992
- - the bell literally fell to the ground
- 00:40:35.992 --> 00:40:37.994
- And that's where it sits.
- 00:40:37.994 --> 00:40:39.362
- - so tragic.
- 00:40:39.362 --> 00:40:40.530
- - but with the help of papa's company
- 00:40:40.530 --> 00:40:42.231
- And the good lord's grace,
- 00:40:42.231 --> 00:40:43.799
- We're gonna fix it.
- 00:40:43.799 --> 00:40:45.801
- - door to door, we shall restore.
- 00:40:46.569 --> 00:40:49.705
- Oh yeah.
- 00:40:49.705 --> 00:40:51.107
- - so, i'm, i'm just curious.
- 00:40:51.107 --> 00:40:52.642
- Exactly how long does it take to re-hang a bell?
- 00:40:52.642 --> 00:40:55.945
- - long as it takes.
- 00:40:55.945 --> 00:40:57.213
- We will be there till she rings.
- 00:40:57.213 --> 00:40:59.815
- Not a ding or a dong sooner.
- 00:40:59.815 --> 00:41:01.517
- - papa's got it all pretty keyed in down there.
- 00:41:01.517 --> 00:41:03.619
- So we're thinking maybe a month at most.
- 00:41:03.619 --> 00:41:08.624
- - or until the bell rings.
- 00:41:09.191 --> 00:41:11.494
- It's cake time.
- 00:41:11.494 --> 00:41:12.395
- I want chaco latto, please.
- 00:41:12.395 --> 00:41:15.097
- - wait.
- 00:41:15.097 --> 00:41:16.566
- A month?
- 00:41:16.566 --> 00:41:17.099
- I'm sorry.
- 00:41:17.099 --> 00:41:18.401
- You're going to mexico for a month?
- 00:41:18.401 --> 00:41:19.802
- - uh--
- 00:41:19.802 --> 00:41:21.070
- - mm-hmm.
- 00:41:21.070 --> 00:41:22.071
- It's gonna be awesome.
- 00:41:22.071 --> 00:41:28.411
- - so when do you leave?
- 00:41:28.911 --> 00:41:32.481
- - like, tomorrow night.
- 00:41:32.982 --> 00:41:36.619
- - praise the lord.
- 00:41:37.053 --> 00:41:41.390
- I'm sorry but i, i thought
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- You would have told her.
- 00:41:43.759 --> 00:41:45.094
- - i was going to and i should have but,
- 00:41:45.094 --> 00:41:46.963
- You know we just met
- 00:41:46.963 --> 00:41:48.464
- And to say that i was leaving for so long,
- 00:41:48.464 --> 00:41:51.100
- I, i just--
- 00:41:51.100 --> 00:41:52.768
- - i understand.
- 00:41:53.135 --> 00:41:54.537
- I understand, really and honestly i'm sorry
- 00:41:54.537 --> 00:41:57.273
- That i made things difficult for you.
- 00:41:57.273 --> 00:41:58.774
- But i did think that you would have talked to her.
- 00:41:58.774 --> 00:42:04.413
- Paul, you know i only want what's best for you.
- 00:42:05.414 --> 00:42:11.120
- - of course.
- 00:42:11.454 --> 00:42:13.022
- - well, don't you think there's something
- 00:42:13.022 --> 00:42:16.492
- Just a little off about her?
- 00:42:16.492 --> 00:42:19.595
- - off?
- 00:42:19.595 --> 00:42:20.696
- - out of place, peculiar.
- 00:42:20.696 --> 00:42:24.634
- I mean don't get me wrong.
- 00:42:25.201 --> 00:42:26.268
- I'm sure she's a sweet girl
- 00:42:26.268 --> 00:42:27.536
- And, and i'm sure she means well but--
- 00:42:27.536 --> 00:42:30.106
- - but what?
- 00:42:30.106 --> 00:42:31.907
- - forgive me, but there is something
- 00:42:32.675 --> 00:42:37.480
- Not genuine going on there.
- 00:42:38.080 --> 00:42:39.882
- All right, now there.
- 00:42:39.882 --> 00:42:41.217
- I said it.
- 00:42:41.217 --> 00:42:42.084
- - how so?
- 00:42:42.084 --> 00:42:43.853
- - you really don't see it?
- 00:42:44.420 --> 00:42:46.088
- - see what?
- 00:42:46.088 --> 00:42:47.356
- - oh sweetie, you are just being blinded by love.
- 00:42:48.357 --> 00:42:51.994
- - i'm really not following here.
- 00:42:51.994 --> 00:42:54.797
- - paul, she is hiding something.
- 00:42:54.797 --> 00:43:00.670
- - no, she isn't.
- 00:43:01.037 --> 00:43:02.705
- You know what i think?
- 00:43:03.205 --> 00:43:04.106
- I think this is you,
- 00:43:04.106 --> 00:43:05.608
- With all due respect, mom, it's stepping in the way.
- 00:43:05.608 --> 00:43:07.243
- You like to trying to control the situation.
- 00:43:07.243 --> 00:43:10.813
- Please don't do that.
- 00:43:10.813 --> 00:43:11.947
- Not here.
- 00:43:11.947 --> 00:43:12.815
- Not this time.
- 00:43:12.815 --> 00:43:14.684
- I like gwyneth.
- 00:43:15.051 --> 00:43:16.285
- I really, really like her
- 00:43:16.285 --> 00:43:17.820
- And i think she's awesome.
- 00:43:17.820 --> 00:43:20.523
- Admit it, she is a little different,
- 00:43:20.523 --> 00:43:23.426
- But that's what i like about her.
- 00:43:23.426 --> 00:43:25.594
- I think she does mean well and she is genuine,
- 00:43:25.594 --> 00:43:28.297
- And i'm going to prove it to you.
- 00:43:28.297 --> 00:43:30.166
- - how is that?
- 00:43:30.166 --> 00:43:32.768
- - i don't know, but i will.
- 00:43:33.369 --> 00:43:36.472
- (grunting)
- 00:43:36.772 --> 00:43:38.107
- - i'm buying a dog.
- 00:43:38.107 --> 00:43:40.176
- (grunting)
- 00:43:40.176 --> 00:43:41.544
- Oh well, i mean he was a really nice guy.
- 00:43:41.544 --> 00:43:43.546
- He was but he was kind of goofy.
- 00:43:43.546 --> 00:43:45.614
- And between his mama and his papa,
- 00:43:45.614 --> 00:43:47.450
- It probably wouldn't work anyway.
- 00:43:47.450 --> 00:43:49.452
- What about a bulldog?
- 00:43:49.452 --> 00:43:50.953
- - onward and upward.
- 00:43:50.953 --> 00:43:53.322
- - onward anyway.
- 00:43:53.322 --> 00:43:54.290
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:43:54.290 --> 00:43:55.925
- (sighing)
- 00:43:55.925 --> 00:43:57.493
- You know, i just wish he would have given me a heads up.
- 00:43:57.493 --> 00:44:00.096
- It's so unfair.
- 00:44:00.096 --> 00:44:01.130
- - has he tried calling?
- 00:44:01.130 --> 00:44:02.164
- - yeah, about 100 times
- 00:44:02.164 --> 00:44:03.399
- But i am not answering.
- 00:44:03.399 --> 00:44:04.500
- I'm gonna let him sweat it out.
- 00:44:04.500 --> 00:44:06.102
- - and they say romance is dead.
- 00:44:06.102 --> 00:44:09.672
- - there was something about it all though, i gotta say.
- 00:44:10.740 --> 00:44:15.244
- Everyone just seemed so happy.
- 00:44:15.244 --> 00:44:21.650
- - surprise inspection.
- 00:44:22.151 --> 00:44:24.253
- De bona is here.
- 00:44:24.253 --> 00:44:25.521
- He wants to see some ideas now.
- 00:44:25.521 --> 00:44:27.723
- I guess he's keeping us on our toes.
- 00:44:27.723 --> 00:44:29.892
- - but, i--
- 00:44:29.892 --> 00:44:30.760
- - no buts!
- 00:44:30.760 --> 00:44:31.627
- Just genius.
- 00:44:31.627 --> 00:44:32.895
- Pamela, cup of joe.
- 00:44:32.895 --> 00:44:34.930
- Quick.
- 00:44:34.930 --> 00:44:38.834
- (door clicking)
- 00:44:39.201 --> 00:44:41.005
- (door clicking)
- 00:44:41.005 --> 00:44:42.881
- - thank you.
- 00:44:43.214 --> 00:44:44.616
- I don't know.
- 00:44:44.983 --> 00:44:46.084
- Maybe i should start with them,
- 00:44:46.084 --> 00:44:47.452
- Or, oh no, this one.
- 00:44:47.452 --> 00:44:49.320
- Yeah, this one right here for sure.
- 00:44:49.320 --> 00:44:51.356
- Okay so this is gonna be a little out there.
- 00:44:51.356 --> 00:44:54.526
- So if you kinda just go with me.
- 00:44:54.526 --> 00:44:57.862
- Hang on.
- 00:44:57.862 --> 00:44:59.297
- All right, so.
- 00:44:59.297 --> 00:45:00.198
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:45:00.198 --> 00:45:02.100
- We are going to kill baldness
- 00:45:02.100 --> 00:45:04.936
- With the blue bullet.
- 00:45:05.436 --> 00:45:07.739
- Most men i know,
- 00:45:08.106 --> 00:45:09.307
- View their follicly-challenged head
- 00:45:09.307 --> 00:45:11.409
- As a life-long nemesis.
- 00:45:11.409 --> 00:45:14.045
- And men being men,
- 00:45:14.045 --> 00:45:15.380
- They want to destroy the enemy, right?
- 00:45:15.380 --> 00:45:17.916
- So how are we gonna do that?
- 00:45:17.916 --> 00:45:19.951
- We are going to kill it.
- 00:45:19.951 --> 00:45:22.020
- (clicking tongue)
- 00:45:22.020 --> 00:45:22.854
- That's right.
- 00:45:22.854 --> 00:45:23.755
- With a blue bullet.
- 00:45:23.755 --> 00:45:25.056
- Right?
- 00:45:25.056 --> 00:45:26.291
- Do you see where i'm going with this?
- 00:45:26.291 --> 00:45:27.292
- You know we can even have,
- 00:45:27.292 --> 00:45:28.893
- A little dispenser, that's actually shaped like a gun?
- 00:45:28.893 --> 00:45:30.328
- You know?
- 00:45:30.328 --> 00:45:31.496
- Shoots out the blue bullets,
- 00:45:31.496 --> 00:45:32.831
- Or we could call it the bald bullet, even better.
- 00:45:32.831 --> 00:45:33.865
- Or just bullet.
- 00:45:33.865 --> 00:45:35.300
- You know, we could get a really good looking,
- 00:45:35.300 --> 00:45:36.601
- Bald steve mcqueen-type male model.
- 00:45:36.601 --> 00:45:39.904
- You know, "bullet"?
- 00:45:39.904 --> 00:45:42.640
- The movie?
- 00:45:42.941 --> 00:45:44.242
- No?
- 00:45:44.242 --> 00:45:49.647
- - i'm gonna pass on that.
- 00:45:50.215 --> 00:45:51.983
- That's mixed messages and in this current environment.
- 00:45:51.983 --> 00:45:55.653
- And with all the gun issues right now.
- 00:45:55.653 --> 00:45:57.455
- It's, it's toxic.
- 00:45:57.455 --> 00:46:00.358
- Next.
- 00:46:00.592 --> 00:46:01.359
- (whistling)
- 00:46:01.359 --> 00:46:03.061
- - toxic.
- 00:46:03.061 --> 00:46:03.928
- Yeah, toxic.
- 00:46:03.928 --> 00:46:04.929
- Okay.
- 00:46:04.929 --> 00:46:05.730
- You know what?
- 00:46:05.730 --> 00:46:06.497
- Absolutely.
- 00:46:06.497 --> 00:46:07.632
- We are just gonna, shifting gears here.
- 00:46:07.632 --> 00:46:09.234
- Going in a whole new, different direction.
- 00:46:09.234 --> 00:46:10.935
- Ah, literally.
- 00:46:10.935 --> 00:46:12.470
- Everyone wants someone
- 00:46:12.470 --> 00:46:13.972
- To blame for their deficiencies, especially men.
- 00:46:13.972 --> 00:46:16.374
- All due respect.
- 00:46:16.374 --> 00:46:17.308
- So sorry.
- 00:46:17.308 --> 00:46:18.776
- When men look in the mirror, and you know what?
- 00:46:18.776 --> 00:46:19.744
- Also women.
- 00:46:19.744 --> 00:46:20.812
- We cannot forget that there are plenty
- 00:46:20.812 --> 00:46:22.146
- Of bald women out there.
- 00:46:22.146 --> 00:46:23.214
- - boy you can say that again.
- 00:46:23.214 --> 00:46:25.516
- My mother was bald.
- 00:46:25.516 --> 00:46:27.652
- Mamma debona had alopecia.
- 00:46:27.652 --> 00:46:31.122
- Bald as a baby's butt.
- 00:46:31.623 --> 00:46:34.459
- Very tragic, very tragic.
- 00:46:35.026 --> 00:46:40.698
- Go on.
- 00:46:40.932 --> 00:46:43.067
- - sorry about that.
- 00:46:43.534 --> 00:46:44.402
- Okay.
- 00:46:44.402 --> 00:46:46.104
- Yeah, so, when we look in the mirror,
- 00:46:46.905 --> 00:46:49.908
- I mean when we really see who we are.
- 00:46:49.908 --> 00:46:51.943
- Who we really are.
- 00:46:51.943 --> 00:46:53.578
- Sometimes we just don't take responsibility for it.
- 00:46:54.646 --> 00:46:57.181
- So we want someone to blame, right?
- 00:46:57.181 --> 00:46:59.550
- And who are we going to blame for our baldness?
- 00:46:59.550 --> 00:47:03.855
- I think naturally we blame the thing that created us.
- 00:47:03.855 --> 00:47:09.060
- That's right.
- 00:47:09.427 --> 00:47:10.228
- We're going to blame god.
- 00:47:10.228 --> 00:47:11.062
- Right up there.
- 00:47:11.062 --> 00:47:11.696
- God.
- 00:47:11.696 --> 00:47:12.263
- Blaming god.
- 00:47:12.263 --> 00:47:13.564
- Looking at god going, you know what?
- 00:47:13.564 --> 00:47:14.966
- Why me?
- 00:47:14.966 --> 00:47:16.301
- Why me, god?
- 00:47:16.301 --> 00:47:17.302
- Why me?
- 00:47:17.302 --> 00:47:18.569
- Why can't you just help me god?
- 00:47:18.569 --> 00:47:22.073
- (sighing)
- 00:47:22.073 --> 00:47:27.478
- You know what?
- 00:47:27.845 --> 00:47:29.414
- God hears your cries.
- 00:47:29.914 --> 00:47:31.816
- He hears your cries of desperation.
- 00:47:32.617 --> 00:47:35.586
- And he has mercy because he is a loving god,
- 00:47:35.586 --> 00:47:39.824
- And he has given us heaven's rain.
- 00:47:40.591 --> 00:47:45.196
- - heaven's rain?
- 00:47:45.563 --> 00:47:47.198
- - mm-hmm.
- 00:47:47.198 --> 00:47:48.466
- - yes, he made it.
- 00:47:48.466 --> 00:47:50.702
- And with a little faith and heaven's rain,
- 00:47:51.536 --> 00:47:56.441
- He can re-make it
- 00:47:56.874 --> 00:48:06.284
- Better.
- 00:48:06.517 --> 00:48:13.157
- - wow.
- 00:48:13.391 --> 00:48:46.090
- (phone dinging)
- 00:48:46.457 --> 00:48:49.193
- (sighing)
- 00:48:49.193 --> 00:48:51.662
- You know what?
- 00:48:51.662 --> 00:48:54.565
- Can't you take a hint?
- 00:48:55.066 --> 00:48:57.268
- (sighing)
- 00:48:57.268 --> 00:49:03.274
- All right.
- 00:49:03.574 --> 00:49:04.675
- (phone beeping)
- 00:49:04.675 --> 00:49:07.512
- (line ringing)
- 00:49:07.512 --> 00:49:12.216
- - [paul] hey.
- 00:49:12.583 --> 00:49:13.651
- - i'm trying to be mad at you.
- 00:49:13.651 --> 00:49:15.019
- - i think, i think i owe you an apology.
- 00:49:15.019 --> 00:49:17.422
- - no, you don't.
- 00:49:17.422 --> 00:49:18.890
- - no, that wasn't the coolest way to tell you
- 00:49:18.890 --> 00:49:20.625
- I was leaving for a while.
- 00:49:20.625 --> 00:49:22.326
- - paul, listen.
- 00:49:22.326 --> 00:49:24.228
- This is hard to say,
- 00:49:24.228 --> 00:49:25.496
- But i just don't know if we're really,
- 00:49:25.496 --> 00:49:28.032
- I mean you are such a sweet guy, you really are, but--
- 00:49:28.032 --> 00:49:31.169
- - you should come down here.
- 00:49:31.169 --> 00:49:34.005
- - what?
- 00:49:34.005 --> 00:49:34.872
- - mexico!
- 00:49:34.872 --> 00:49:35.540
- Come on down.
- 00:49:35.540 --> 00:49:41.846
- Gwyneth?
- 00:49:42.113 --> 00:49:43.481
- - yeah, i'm here.
- 00:49:43.481 --> 00:49:45.116
- I just, wow.
- 00:49:45.116 --> 00:49:46.617
- That's, i mean, i mean, when?
- 00:49:46.617 --> 00:49:50.221
- - now.
- 00:49:50.455 --> 00:49:51.923
- - i can't.
- 00:49:52.223 --> 00:49:53.057
- I really can't.
- 00:49:53.057 --> 00:49:54.425
- I mean we're in the middle of something
- 00:49:54.425 --> 00:49:55.660
- Really huge here at work.
- 00:49:55.660 --> 00:49:56.627
- Oh, one second please?
- 00:49:56.627 --> 00:49:59.097
- (glass shattering)
- 00:49:59.530 --> 00:50:03.267
- - heaven's rain!
- 00:50:03.634 --> 00:50:05.336
- Heaven's rain!
- 00:50:05.336 --> 00:50:06.170
- God!
- 00:50:06.170 --> 00:50:07.271
- Little blue bullets from a gun?
- 00:50:07.271 --> 00:50:08.339
- What planet are you living on?
- 00:50:08.339 --> 00:50:10.708
- Voodoo guru?
- 00:50:10.708 --> 00:50:11.909
- Listen, you'd better shape up
- 00:50:11.909 --> 00:50:13.411
- Or ship out, missy.
- 00:50:13.411 --> 00:50:14.545
- I told you not to blow this!
- 00:50:14.545 --> 00:50:19.617
- I'll pay for that.
- 00:50:20.051 --> 00:50:26.591
- (sighing)
- 00:50:26.891 --> 00:50:28.526
- - are you still there?
- 00:50:28.526 --> 00:50:31.863
- - you're on.
- 00:50:32.196 --> 00:50:33.965
- (mariachi music)
- 00:50:33.965 --> 00:51:05.963
- Wait, please.
- 00:51:06.330 --> 00:51:07.431
- Where are you taking my stuff?
- 00:51:07.431 --> 00:51:08.799
- - it's all good, it's all good.
- 00:51:08.799 --> 00:51:09.934
- - [gwyneth] that's my stuff.
- 00:51:09.934 --> 00:51:10.768
- - hey, it's okay.
- 00:51:10.768 --> 00:51:11.636
- Welcome to mexico.
- 00:51:11.636 --> 00:51:12.637
- It's all good.
- 00:51:12.637 --> 00:51:13.571
- (light mariachi music)
- 00:51:13.571 --> 00:51:47.438
- - buenos dias, stranger!
- 00:51:47.939 --> 00:51:50.241
- - hey!
- 00:51:50.241 --> 00:51:52.076
- - ha, ha, there she is!
- 00:51:52.577 --> 00:51:54.745
- Listen, you want something for the trots, just let me know.
- 00:51:55.913 --> 00:51:58.382
- I got something for ya.
- 00:51:58.382 --> 00:52:00.351
- - great.
- 00:52:00.351 --> 00:52:02.920
- - so what do you think?
- 00:52:03.421 --> 00:52:05.223
- - it's--
- 00:52:05.223 --> 00:52:06.791
- (imitating a donkey)
- 00:52:07.258 --> 00:52:09.193
- - buenos dias, senorita!
- 00:52:09.193 --> 00:52:10.728
- (donkey braying)
- 00:52:10.728 --> 00:52:12.196
- (laughing)
- 00:52:12.196 --> 00:52:15.233
- - it's awesome.
- 00:52:15.600 --> 00:52:17.401
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:52:17.401 --> 00:52:32.850
- I kinda packed more beach,
- 00:52:33.417 --> 00:52:35.753
- Sand and surf-ish.
- 00:52:35.753 --> 00:52:38.022
- - you're fine.
- 00:52:38.389 --> 00:52:39.590
- - that works!
- 00:52:39.590 --> 00:52:42.460
- - don't worry.
- 00:52:42.827 --> 00:52:44.495
- You look pretty.
- 00:52:44.495 --> 00:52:57.108
- - well, i'll just take some vacation time.
- 00:52:58.009 --> 00:53:00.878
- I mean i have three years worth.
- 00:53:00.878 --> 00:53:02.513
- I have worked through
- 00:53:02.513 --> 00:53:03.981
- Every holiday known to man to make these deadlines.
- 00:53:03.981 --> 00:53:05.383
- He owes me.
- 00:53:05.383 --> 00:53:06.284
- - you're in mexico?
- 00:53:06.284 --> 00:53:07.385
- On a mission trip?
- 00:53:07.385 --> 00:53:08.953
- - it's not like i'm not doing something good down here.
- 00:53:08.953 --> 00:53:10.855
- I mean we're all wearing
- 00:53:10.855 --> 00:53:12.189
- The same shirt and making a difference.
- 00:53:12.189 --> 00:53:14.425
- I'm going to knock these sticks together,
- 00:53:14.425 --> 00:53:15.926
- Bang bang bang, slap on some paint,
- 00:53:15.926 --> 00:53:17.528
- Brush, brush, brush.
- 00:53:17.528 --> 00:53:18.929
- Then paul and i can head to the mayan riviera.
- 00:53:18.929 --> 00:53:20.631
- Where we can have margaritas
- 00:53:20.631 --> 00:53:21.832
- And gulp and gulp and gulp
- 00:53:21.832 --> 00:53:23.301
- And watch the sun set into the caribbean.
- 00:53:23.301 --> 00:53:26.170
- It's a win win for everyone.
- 00:53:26.170 --> 00:53:27.838
- - except for the poor suckers who paid a ton
- 00:53:27.838 --> 00:53:29.273
- To watch the sun sink into the pacific,
- 00:53:29.273 --> 00:53:31.509
- Which is what it normally does.
- 00:53:31.509 --> 00:53:33.477
- - oh, okay, so sue me, pam.
- 00:53:33.477 --> 00:53:34.812
- I'm bad at geography.
- 00:53:34.812 --> 00:53:36.280
- I don't care, listen, i am so sick of normal.
- 00:53:36.280 --> 00:53:38.582
- I just want paradise.
- 00:53:38.582 --> 00:53:39.917
- His version of paradise.
- 00:53:39.917 --> 00:53:41.686
- And if the sweet lord is my ticket to that, then so be it.
- 00:53:41.686 --> 00:53:44.722
- All the better.
- 00:53:44.722 --> 00:53:46.090
- I mean i'm here two weeks, life goes on.
- 00:53:46.090 --> 00:53:47.858
- - [paul] there you are.
- 00:53:47.858 --> 00:53:49.193
- - uh, uh, uh.
- 00:53:49.193 --> 00:53:49.860
- I'm losing you!
- 00:53:49.860 --> 00:53:51.295
- (imitating static)
- 00:53:51.295 --> 00:53:51.829
- - no, no.
- 00:53:51.829 --> 00:53:52.930
- - it's a really bad connection.
- 00:53:52.930 --> 00:53:54.131
- - i know that's you, no, come on.
- 00:53:54.131 --> 00:53:55.433
- - i'm sorry, thank you.
- 00:53:55.433 --> 00:53:56.801
- - everything okay?
- 00:53:56.801 --> 00:53:58.336
- - yeah, just checking in.
- 00:53:58.336 --> 00:54:00.104
- - she did not just hang up on me.
- 00:54:00.104 --> 00:54:01.672
- Oh my god.
- 00:54:01.672 --> 00:54:02.807
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:54:02.807 --> 00:54:23.961
- (donkey braying)
- 00:54:24.328 --> 00:54:28.199
- ♪ i shall not bear the cross through yon city ♪
- 00:54:29.200 --> 00:54:35.139
- ♪ when the burdens of life are all laid down ♪
- 00:54:36.073 --> 00:54:44.081
- ♪ when i knock on the portals to heaven ♪
- 00:54:44.982 --> 00:54:52.356
- ♪ i will trade the old cross for a crown ♪
- 00:54:53.290 --> 00:55:01.165
- ♪ though the cross often times has been heavy ♪
- 00:55:02.166 --> 00:55:10.341
- ♪ when the fortunes on me begin to frown ♪
- 00:55:11.275 --> 00:55:21.419
- - [paul] holding up the wall?
- 00:55:22.052 --> 00:55:27.158
- - your dad has a beautiful voice.
- 00:55:27.825 --> 00:55:29.527
- - yeah, he does.
- 00:55:29.527 --> 00:55:31.762
- - i see where you got your dreams of being a rock star.
- 00:55:32.863 --> 00:55:39.270
- It's amazing.
- 00:55:39.637 --> 00:55:41.705
- - what's that?
- 00:55:42.072 --> 00:55:43.441
- - just given everything that's happened.
- 00:55:43.441 --> 00:55:46.310
- The devastation.
- 00:55:46.310 --> 00:55:47.812
- Everyone just seems, so okay, so just happy.
- 00:55:48.679 --> 00:55:54.385
- - when your peace comes from god,
- 00:55:55.152 --> 00:55:56.687
- No storm can take it.
- 00:55:56.687 --> 00:55:58.989
- - yeah, i spill a drop of wine on my carpet
- 00:55:58.989 --> 00:56:00.658
- And i have a heart attack.
- 00:56:00.658 --> 00:56:01.959
- Go bonkers.
- 00:56:01.959 --> 00:56:03.527
- - okay.
- 00:56:03.527 --> 00:56:09.433
- The temperature really drops here at night, huh?
- 00:56:10.434 --> 00:56:13.404
- - yeah.
- 00:56:13.404 --> 00:56:14.472
- ♪ each time 'cause i carry for my savior ♪
- 00:56:15.406 --> 00:56:22.246
- ♪ will at last one day when he calls me lay down ♪
- 00:56:23.314 --> 00:56:31.007
- (rooster calling) (light orchestral music)
- 00:56:31.389 --> 00:56:39.564
- (all chattering)
- 00:56:39.931 --> 00:57:05.690
- (donkey braying)
- 00:57:06.057 --> 00:57:15.567
- - good morning, everybody.
- 00:57:16.134 --> 00:57:19.771
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:57:20.272 --> 00:57:40.525
- (dog barking)
- 00:57:40.892 --> 00:57:43.295
- - let us love one another,
- 00:57:43.295 --> 00:57:44.963
- For love comes from god.
- 00:57:44.963 --> 00:57:47.065
- (speaking foreign language)
- 00:57:47.065 --> 00:57:50.168
- Everyone who loves has been born
- 00:57:50.168 --> 00:57:52.170
- Of god and knows god.
- 00:57:52.170 --> 00:57:54.673
- (speaking foreign language)
- 00:57:54.673 --> 00:57:57.475
- Whoever does not love does not know god,
- 00:57:57.475 --> 00:58:00.912
- (speaking foreign language)
- 00:58:00.912 --> 00:58:03.748
- Because god is love.
- 00:58:03.748 --> 00:58:06.084
- Anyone who does not love does not know god
- 00:58:06.084 --> 00:58:08.853
- Because god is love.
- 00:58:08.853 --> 00:58:10.956
- First john four, seven through eight.
- 00:58:10.956 --> 00:58:14.793
- Would anybody like to say anything about that?
- 00:58:15.694 --> 00:58:19.898
- Maria.
- 00:58:19.898 --> 00:58:20.932
- (speaking foreign language)
- 00:58:20.932 --> 00:58:27.839
- - that's a very good question, maria.
- 00:58:28.640 --> 00:58:32.644
- Gwyneth.
- 00:58:32.644 --> 00:58:33.545
- - hmm?
- 00:58:33.545 --> 00:58:34.813
- - would you like to take a crack at it?
- 00:58:34.813 --> 00:58:38.984
- - i'm, i'm sorry, i just, my spanish,
- 00:58:38.984 --> 00:58:41.720
- I don't, i don't think i understood the question.
- 00:58:41.720 --> 00:58:45.357
- - maria wanted to know why,
- 00:58:45.357 --> 00:58:47.025
- If god loves us so much,
- 00:58:47.025 --> 00:58:48.727
- He let happen to their village what happened.
- 00:58:48.727 --> 00:58:51.262
- If god is love, why did he let this happen?
- 00:58:51.262 --> 00:58:55.166
- - well, that is a very good question, maria.
- 00:58:56.101 --> 00:58:59.371
- And not an easy one to answer.
- 00:58:59.371 --> 00:59:02.607
- But i know there are many wonderful answers in here.
- 00:59:02.607 --> 00:59:08.513
- Let me see.
- 00:59:08.847 --> 00:59:11.549
- How about james one verses seven through eight?
- 00:59:12.484 --> 00:59:16.721
- I think that addresses it beautifully, don't you?
- 00:59:17.756 --> 00:59:19.991
- - yes.
- 00:59:19.991 --> 00:59:21.292
- That is exactly what i was thinking.
- 00:59:21.292 --> 00:59:22.927
- You are exactly right.
- 00:59:22.927 --> 00:59:24.029
- Mm-hmm.
- 00:59:24.029 --> 00:59:25.497
- Let's see.
- 00:59:25.497 --> 00:59:26.464
- (speaking foreign language)
- 00:59:27.065 --> 00:59:32.537
- (light orchestral music)
- 00:59:33.038 --> 00:59:47.852
- - [gwyneth voiceover] and that was the end of the road.
- 00:59:48.987 --> 00:59:51.890
- They knew.
- 00:59:51.890 --> 00:59:52.991
- I knew they knew.
- 00:59:52.991 --> 00:59:54.092
- And they knew i knew they knew.
- 00:59:54.092 --> 00:59:55.960
- Perfect.
- 00:59:55.960 --> 00:59:57.062
- Now the only question was how i was gonna
- 00:59:57.962 --> 00:59:59.764
- Get out of there with any trace of dignity?
- 00:59:59.764 --> 01:00:14.512
- - hey.
- 01:00:14.746 --> 01:00:16.948
- - hey.
- 01:00:17.182 --> 01:00:18.283
- - i was just hunkering down with the men folk
- 01:00:19.217 --> 01:00:21.286
- About tomorrow.
- 01:00:21.286 --> 01:00:22.821
- - lots to get done?
- 01:00:22.821 --> 01:00:24.155
- - yeah.
- 01:00:24.155 --> 01:00:25.123
- But we will get 'er done.
- 01:00:25.123 --> 01:00:26.257
- - i'm sure you will.
- 01:00:26.257 --> 01:00:28.226
- I mean, god willing, of course.
- 01:00:28.226 --> 01:00:31.096
- - god willing, right?
- 01:00:31.096 --> 01:00:33.732
- You hungry?
- 01:00:33.732 --> 01:00:35.166
- - not really, no.
- 01:00:35.600 --> 01:00:40.305
- - can i talk to you a minute?
- 01:00:40.939 --> 01:00:51.349
- You're not enjoying this, are you?
- 01:00:52.117 --> 01:00:53.918
- - what?
- 01:00:53.918 --> 01:00:55.754
- - you seem lost.
- 01:00:56.121 --> 01:00:58.389
- Are you lost?
- 01:00:58.757 --> 01:01:00.325
- - i don't, kind of.
- 01:01:00.792 --> 01:01:04.996
- - you know what i think?
- 01:01:05.497 --> 01:01:08.032
- Straight up.
- 01:01:08.366 --> 01:01:10.535
- You're pretending.
- 01:01:10.969 --> 01:01:13.138
- Pretending to be something you're not.
- 01:01:13.138 --> 01:01:15.273
- - why would you say that?
- 01:01:15.273 --> 01:01:18.143
- - just a hunch.
- 01:01:18.143 --> 01:01:20.011
- Am i right?
- 01:01:20.345 --> 01:01:22.480
- - not, completely but--
- 01:01:22.981 --> 01:01:25.850
- - you're not really a believer, are you?
- 01:01:26.718 --> 01:01:29.754
- (sighing)
- 01:01:29.754 --> 01:01:32.423
- - there's that word again.
- 01:01:32.423 --> 01:01:34.793
- - wow.
- 01:01:34.793 --> 01:01:38.797
- I guess i'm confused.
- 01:01:39.297 --> 01:01:41.399
- - i like you a lot.
- 01:01:41.399 --> 01:01:43.334
- There's nothing confusing about that.
- 01:01:44.135 --> 01:01:46.204
- - and i like you.
- 01:01:46.204 --> 01:01:48.473
- A lot.
- 01:01:48.706 --> 01:01:52.377
- - so?
- 01:01:52.610 --> 01:01:55.280
- Being a believer.
- 01:01:55.713 --> 01:01:56.581
- What does that even mean?
- 01:01:56.581 --> 01:01:59.484
- I'm christian, i believe in god,
- 01:01:59.484 --> 01:02:00.819
- I was baptized, all of that stuff.
- 01:02:00.819 --> 01:02:03.521
- Are we really that different?
- 01:02:03.521 --> 01:02:05.890
- - you gonna figure all that out with this?
- 01:02:05.890 --> 01:02:10.161
- - where did you find that?
- 01:02:10.161 --> 01:02:11.262
- Did someone go through my stuff?
- 01:02:11.262 --> 01:02:12.230
- Because that's so not--
- 01:02:12.230 --> 01:02:13.832
- - one of the kids found it when they were cleaning out
- 01:02:13.832 --> 01:02:14.899
- The bunk house.
- 01:02:14.899 --> 01:02:16.034
- It was under your cot.
- 01:02:16.034 --> 01:02:17.302
- They gave it to my mom,
- 01:02:17.302 --> 01:02:18.303
- And she gave it to me.
- 01:02:18.303 --> 01:02:23.975
- Tell me if this sounds about right.
- 01:02:24.776 --> 01:02:27.545
- All your life you've done some searching for something.
- 01:02:27.545 --> 01:02:31.249
- Something bigger.
- 01:02:31.249 --> 01:02:32.750
- Every now and again maybe you can call yourself a christian.
- 01:02:33.952 --> 01:02:37.188
- Why not?
- 01:02:37.188 --> 01:02:38.523
- It's easy, gives it a name.
- 01:02:38.523 --> 01:02:41.292
- So you say, i believe in god.
- 01:02:41.926 --> 01:02:45.396
- And for the most part it works.
- 01:02:46.030 --> 01:02:47.799
- Covers the bases, satisfies that underlying
- 01:02:47.799 --> 01:02:50.602
- Need to understand it deeper.
- 01:02:50.602 --> 01:02:53.538
- You kinda go with the common flow.
- 01:02:54.305 --> 01:02:57.308
- And then something bad happens
- 01:02:57.942 --> 01:02:59.310
- And you look around see all the terrible
- 01:02:59.310 --> 01:03:01.012
- Things in the world.
- 01:03:01.012 --> 01:03:03.514
- Compound that with the general negative
- 01:03:04.349 --> 01:03:06.117
- Spin on religion and you just get turned off to it.
- 01:03:06.117 --> 01:03:11.155
- God, faith, all of it.
- 01:03:11.155 --> 01:03:14.425
- So you toss it all out.
- 01:03:14.926 --> 01:03:16.961
- Back and forth, accept it, reject it.
- 01:03:17.762 --> 01:03:21.799
- How's that sounding?
- 01:03:22.267 --> 01:03:24.836
- - about right.
- 01:03:25.203 --> 01:03:26.804
- - honestly, some of the stuff out there,
- 01:03:27.672 --> 01:03:30.842
- You would not be human if you didn't question it.
- 01:03:30.842 --> 01:03:36.648
- So help me out here.
- 01:03:37.115 --> 01:03:39.450
- When you went online, christian mingle,
- 01:03:39.450 --> 01:03:43.421
- What exactly were you expecting?
- 01:03:44.055 --> 01:03:47.025
- - honestly, i don't know.
- 01:03:47.592 --> 01:03:53.564
- I just saw the website and
- 01:03:54.132 --> 01:03:56.801
- All of these happy people.
- 01:03:57.368 --> 01:03:59.070
- And the guys just seemed,
- 01:03:59.070 --> 01:04:02.874
- I don't know.
- 01:04:03.241 --> 01:04:04.275
- All of the guys that i have,
- 01:04:04.275 --> 01:04:05.843
- I have been dating were just so full of themselves.
- 01:04:05.843 --> 01:04:08.212
- And i saw your picture.
- 01:04:08.212 --> 01:04:10.615
- And your smile and you just seemed like a genuine guy.
- 01:04:11.649 --> 01:04:16.888
- - but then you lied about yourself.
- 01:04:17.689 --> 01:04:21.559
- Why?
- 01:04:21.759 --> 01:04:22.560
- - well, isn't it obvious?
- 01:04:22.560 --> 01:04:24.829
- Because if i hadn't then, then you,
- 01:04:24.829 --> 01:04:27.999
- What does it matter because in the end, we did meet.
- 01:04:29.067 --> 01:04:32.203
- And paul, i really like you,
- 01:04:32.203 --> 01:04:34.806
- And according to you, you really like me a lot.
- 01:04:35.807 --> 01:04:38.009
- So-- - i do like you.
- 01:04:38.009 --> 01:04:39.844
- But whoever i am with,
- 01:04:40.345 --> 01:04:41.713
- I gotta feel totally comfortable sharing
- 01:04:41.713 --> 01:04:43.147
- What's important to me.
- 01:04:43.147 --> 01:04:44.549
- And having a relationship with christ
- 01:04:44.549 --> 01:04:46.250
- Through the good and the bad,
- 01:04:46.250 --> 01:04:47.819
- That is, that is more important to me than anything.
- 01:04:47.819 --> 01:04:51.022
- And i, i can't, i can't share that with you.
- 01:04:51.022 --> 01:04:53.458
- Not if it's not true for you.
- 01:04:53.458 --> 01:04:56.194
- That's who i was looking for.
- 01:04:56.194 --> 01:04:58.196
- - so what are you saying?
- 01:04:58.196 --> 01:05:00.298
- - i'm not sure, i'm, i mean, i'm confused myself.
- 01:05:00.298 --> 01:05:04.736
- Because i do like you.
- 01:05:04.736 --> 01:05:07.505
- I really like you.
- 01:05:07.939 --> 01:05:09.507
- - well, okay.
- 01:05:09.507 --> 01:05:11.042
- Then unless you are under some contractual obligation
- 01:05:11.042 --> 01:05:13.978
- To please your mother by being with a gal
- 01:05:13.978 --> 01:05:16.047
- That she thinks you should be with,
- 01:05:16.047 --> 01:05:18.549
- I.e., kel-kel, which is not me.
- 01:05:18.549 --> 01:05:23.221
- Then maybe you could slowly help me get to a
- 01:05:24.088 --> 01:05:27.625
- Place that works for you.
- 01:05:27.625 --> 01:05:29.827
- That works for both of us.
- 01:05:29.827 --> 01:05:32.363
- I would like that!
- 01:05:32.363 --> 01:05:33.765
- Maybe you could help show me my driftwood.
- 01:05:33.765 --> 01:05:39.137
- - i don't think it works like that.
- 01:05:39.871 --> 01:05:42.607
- Not for me anyway.
- 01:05:42.607 --> 01:05:47.078
- I just wished that you hadn't lied.
- 01:05:47.812 --> 01:05:51.149
- Maybe if you didn't,
- 01:05:51.149 --> 01:05:55.787
- I don't know, i don't know.
- 01:05:56.387 --> 01:05:59.524
- - so should i just leave?
- 01:06:00.091 --> 01:06:05.563
- (dramatic orchestral music)
- 01:06:06.164 --> 01:06:16.674
- I like you so much.
- 01:06:17.141 --> 01:06:23.214
- I'm really sorry.
- 01:06:23.648 --> 01:06:26.084
- - yeah.
- 01:06:26.317 --> 01:06:27.452
- Me too.
- 01:06:27.452 --> 01:06:30.922
- Me too.
- 01:06:31.155 --> 01:06:54.278
- - [gwyneth] that was just about one of the worst moments
- 01:06:55.379 --> 01:06:57.281
- Of my life.
- 01:06:57.281 --> 01:06:58.749
- But things were exactly as they were meant to be.
- 01:06:58.749 --> 01:07:01.786
- I think it's called grace.
- 01:07:01.786 --> 01:07:05.007
- I think it's called grace.
- 01:07:05.007 --> 01:07:05.153
- - don't say i didn't tell you.
- 01:07:05.787 --> 01:07:07.956
- - yeah.
- 01:07:07.956 --> 01:07:09.290
- - christians looking for other christians.
- 01:07:09.290 --> 01:07:13.361
- - i really liked him.
- 01:07:13.361 --> 01:07:16.030
- - i know.
- 01:07:16.331 --> 01:07:17.665
- (knocking on door)
- 01:07:18.099 --> 01:07:19.334
- - yes, come in.
- 01:07:19.334 --> 01:07:21.069
- - hey, hey.
- 01:07:21.402 --> 01:07:22.737
- Um, how you doing?
- 01:07:22.737 --> 01:07:24.405
- I'm glad you are back.
- 01:07:24.405 --> 01:07:25.540
- That was pretty fast.
- 01:07:25.540 --> 01:07:26.741
- You, are, are you feeling better?
- 01:07:26.741 --> 01:07:29.077
- - ah, what?
- 01:07:29.077 --> 01:07:30.578
- - i know you wanted to keep it between us, but...
- 01:07:30.578 --> 01:07:34.983
- The strep throat.
- 01:07:35.416 --> 01:07:36.551
- - oh, oh yeah.
- 01:07:36.551 --> 01:07:38.052
- The strep throat,
- 01:07:38.052 --> 01:07:38.987
- (coughing)
- 01:07:38.987 --> 01:07:40.688
- Yeah, it's a little scratchy
- 01:07:40.688 --> 01:07:43.091
- But you know what?
- 01:07:43.091 --> 01:07:43.958
- I am doing so much better.
- 01:07:43.958 --> 01:07:45.193
- Thank you!
- 01:07:45.193 --> 01:07:45.994
- - that's good.
- 01:07:45.994 --> 01:07:47.195
- That's good and, and so you're back at it?
- 01:07:47.195 --> 01:07:50.732
- With, with the de bona thing?
- 01:07:50.732 --> 01:07:53.067
- - yes, yes.
- 01:07:53.067 --> 01:07:54.636
- - that's splendid, splendid.
- 01:07:54.636 --> 01:07:56.271
- Well then, as you were.
- 01:07:56.271 --> 01:07:58.606
- - mm-hmm.
- 01:07:58.606 --> 01:08:00.808
- Thank you.
- 01:08:01.109 --> 01:08:02.477
- (laughing)
- 01:08:02.477 --> 01:08:05.180
- Thank you.
- 01:08:05.180 --> 01:08:06.447
- But strep throat, really?
- 01:08:06.447 --> 01:08:08.149
- You could of just said the a cold or the flu.
- 01:08:08.149 --> 01:08:09.851
- You had to go all dramatic with strep throat?
- 01:08:09.851 --> 01:08:12.120
- - hey, you said a couple of weeks
- 01:08:12.120 --> 01:08:13.821
- So that's what i bought ya.
- 01:08:13.821 --> 01:08:16.691
- (light piano music)
- 01:08:17.158 --> 01:08:46.854
- ♪ keep the debt of the mission and no news lie admission ♪
- 01:08:48.056 --> 01:08:51.693
- ♪ i got my eyes on the path ♪
- 01:08:51.693 --> 01:08:56.698
- ♪ my eyes on the path ♪
- 01:08:56.698 --> 01:09:02.003
- ♪ don't take your eyes off the prize ♪
- 01:09:02.837 --> 01:09:09.777
- - we're in here!
- 01:09:10.144 --> 01:09:11.279
- We're in here!
- 01:09:11.279 --> 01:09:12.880
- - oh, i used to love this program.
- 01:09:12.880 --> 01:09:15.250
- Never missed a day of it.
- 01:09:15.250 --> 01:09:16.718
- I keep it on for her.
- 01:09:16.718 --> 01:09:19.254
- Okay, it's a little catchy.
- 01:09:19.854 --> 01:09:22.390
- - you know, these people never seem to leave town.
- 01:09:23.424 --> 01:09:25.426
- - or get older, evidently.
- 01:09:25.426 --> 01:09:26.861
- All right gwen.
- 01:09:26.861 --> 01:09:27.795
- What's going on here?
- 01:09:27.795 --> 01:09:28.663
- Is it chain again?
- 01:09:28.663 --> 01:09:29.530
- - yeah, it clinks.
- 01:09:29.530 --> 01:09:30.298
- - clinks?
- 01:09:30.298 --> 01:09:31.332
- - or maybe it's more of a clunk.
- 01:09:31.332 --> 01:09:32.267
- - sure it's not a clank?
- 01:09:32.267 --> 01:09:33.101
- Like last time?
- 01:09:33.101 --> 01:09:34.168
- - no, it's definitely a clink.
- 01:09:34.168 --> 01:09:35.503
- It's, like, clink, clink, clink, clink.
- 01:09:35.503 --> 01:09:36.371
- - i got, i got it.
- 01:09:36.371 --> 01:09:37.672
- I got it.
- 01:09:37.672 --> 01:09:38.840
- - thanks, matt.
- 01:09:38.840 --> 01:09:39.674
- - yeah.
- 01:09:39.674 --> 01:09:41.276
- - [announcer] you're christian and you are looking for
- 01:09:41.276 --> 01:09:42.477
- A meaningful relationship.
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- 01:09:44.145 --> 01:09:47.815
- - oh, it's a different day, huh?
- 01:09:47.815 --> 01:09:49.784
- - yeah.
- 01:09:49.784 --> 01:09:50.818
- - i meet my wife in high school.
- 01:09:50.818 --> 01:09:51.886
- I married her right afterward
- 01:09:51.886 --> 01:09:53.388
- And loved her till the day she passed and oh, no.
- 01:09:53.388 --> 01:09:55.857
- 11 years ago.
- 01:09:55.857 --> 01:09:58.393
- - you ever think about getting back out there?
- 01:09:59.294 --> 01:10:02.297
- You know, dating?
- 01:10:02.297 --> 01:10:03.631
- - dating?
- 01:10:03.631 --> 01:10:04.399
- Me?
- 01:10:04.399 --> 01:10:05.366
- No, no, no, no, no, no.
- 01:10:05.366 --> 01:10:07.602
- She was my one and only.
- 01:10:07.602 --> 01:10:09.971
- - [announcer] member agree, christianmingle.com
- 01:10:09.971 --> 01:10:11.873
- Is the ideal--
- 01:10:11.873 --> 01:10:13.274
- - i think i got your coin figured out here.
- 01:10:13.274 --> 01:10:14.409
- Just give me a minute.
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- 01:10:25.653 --> 01:10:28.423
- Sometimes we wait for god to make the next move
- 01:10:28.423 --> 01:10:31.059
- When god is saying, it's your time to act.
- 01:10:31.059 --> 01:10:35.196
- (light orchestral music)
- 01:10:35.697 --> 01:10:37.932
- - we've had a lot of opportunity
- 01:10:37.932 --> 01:10:39.100
- Walk through our door.
- 01:10:39.100 --> 01:10:41.269
- Some better, some worse and 99%
- 01:10:41.269 --> 01:10:44.038
- Of the time, i have been able to doll it up.
- 01:10:44.038 --> 01:10:46.507
- Give it a makeover, and make it the queen of the ball.
- 01:10:46.507 --> 01:10:50.611
- Correct or incorrect?
- 01:10:50.611 --> 01:10:52.947
- - i would say that's a fair evaluation.
- 01:10:52.947 --> 01:10:56.250
- - but that's not 100%, is it?
- 01:10:56.250 --> 01:10:59.687
- Douglas, i have to have an ounce of belief in something.
- 01:11:00.822 --> 01:11:06.794
- A half an ounce.
- 01:11:07.161 --> 01:11:08.229
- Just a drop of it to do what i do.
- 01:11:08.229 --> 01:11:11.632
- To find the angle, the magic.
- 01:11:11.632 --> 01:11:15.069
- This de bona stuff, all of it, it's just--
- 01:11:15.970 --> 01:11:20.174
- - stop!
- 01:11:20.174 --> 01:11:20.942
- Don't say that word.
- 01:11:20.942 --> 01:11:22.243
- If you say it, it becomes truth and you
- 01:11:22.243 --> 01:11:24.011
- Can't go back on it.
- 01:11:24.011 --> 01:11:25.346
- You're the one who made that rule!
- 01:11:25.346 --> 01:11:27.515
- - i can't do it.
- 01:11:27.515 --> 01:11:28.750
- It's false.
- 01:11:28.750 --> 01:11:32.286
- - look, gwyneth,
- 01:11:32.653 --> 01:11:34.389
- This isn't the first time you've had to make the leap.
- 01:11:35.456 --> 01:11:38.059
- - but i can't do it this time.
- 01:11:38.059 --> 01:11:39.627
- That's what this is about.
- 01:11:39.627 --> 01:11:41.095
- - on the record, i want to say that i think
- 01:11:41.095 --> 01:11:44.132
- This hair thing is the real deal and i think
- 01:11:44.132 --> 01:11:47.602
- It is going to grow hair,
- 01:11:47.602 --> 01:11:50.271
- Not just because i want it to.
- 01:11:50.271 --> 01:11:53.608
- - i'm sorry douglas, but i just can't do it.
- 01:11:54.475 --> 01:11:58.780
- Not this time.
- 01:11:58.780 --> 01:12:00.615
- Not with this.
- 01:12:00.982 --> 01:12:02.183
- Not with any of it anymore.
- 01:12:02.183 --> 01:12:06.487
- I think i've just pushed the boundary so far,
- 01:12:07.355 --> 01:12:10.825
- And bought into the dung for so long.
- 01:12:10.825 --> 01:12:14.562
- And suspended a sense of belief,
- 01:12:15.196 --> 01:12:17.999
- And what we do here.
- 01:12:17.999 --> 01:12:20.401
- And in, my life that i don't even know
- 01:12:21.202 --> 01:12:24.272
- What's true or real anymore.
- 01:12:24.272 --> 01:12:29.177
- I've gotta believe.
- 01:12:29.644 --> 01:12:41.656
- (door clicking)
- 01:12:42.023 --> 01:12:52.633
- I just needed to start at the beginning.
- 01:12:53.468 --> 01:13:02.143
- (upbeat gospel music)
- 01:13:02.643 --> 01:13:10.251
- Everyone welcome?
- 01:13:10.685 --> 01:13:16.691
- Pam was right.
- 01:13:17.058 --> 01:13:18.926
- I had been knocking on one door hoping another would open.
- 01:13:18.926 --> 01:13:27.401
- ♪ give it all back to me
- 01:13:27.969 --> 01:13:29.837
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:13:29.837 --> 01:13:31.806
- ♪ what i've done for you ♪
- 01:13:31.806 --> 01:13:32.874
- ♪ what i do through you ♪
- 01:13:32.874 --> 01:13:33.975
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:13:33.975 --> 01:13:37.078
- ♪ that's what the lord said ♪
- 01:13:35.843 --> 01:13:38.179
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:13:38.179 --> 01:13:39.280
- ♪ what i've done for you ♪
- 01:13:39.280 --> 01:13:41.616
- ♪ what i do through you ♪
- 01:13:40.581 --> 01:13:42.717
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:13:42.717 --> 01:13:44.652
- ♪ give it all back ♪
- 01:13:44.652 --> 01:13:45.953
- ♪ everything ♪
- 01:13:45.953 --> 01:13:46.988
- ♪ give it all back ♪
- 01:13:46.988 --> 01:13:47.889
- ♪ everything ♪
- 01:13:47.889 --> 01:13:49.056
- ♪ what i've done for you ♪
- 01:13:49.056 --> 01:13:50.124
- ♪ what i do through you ♪
- 01:13:50.124 --> 01:13:51.392
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:13:51.392 --> 01:13:53.261
- ♪ give it all back ♪
- 01:13:53.261 --> 01:13:54.395
- ♪ everything you've got ♪
- 01:13:54.395 --> 01:13:55.730
- ♪ give it all back, everything ♪
- 01:13:55.730 --> 01:13:58.232
- ♪ what i've done for you ♪
- 01:13:58.232 --> 01:13:59.267
- ♪ what i do through you ♪
- 01:13:59.267 --> 01:14:00.368
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:14:00.368 --> 01:14:01.936
- ♪ i won't share my glory ♪
- 01:14:01.936 --> 01:14:05.940
- ♪ with no one else ♪
- 01:14:05.940 --> 01:14:07.575
- ♪ i won't share with no one else so don't you try ♪
- 01:14:07.575 --> 01:14:11.579
- ♪ don't you try to keep it for yourself ♪
- 01:14:11.579 --> 01:14:18.753
- ♪ don't you ever take the credit ♪
- 01:14:19.554 --> 01:14:21.856
- ♪ you didn't earn it ♪
- 01:14:21.856 --> 01:14:22.890
- ♪ you shouldn't get it ♪
- 01:14:22.890 --> 01:14:24.058
- ♪ don't you know that pride ♪
- 01:14:24.058 --> 01:14:25.793
- ♪ comes before every fall ♪
- 01:14:25.793 --> 01:14:28.429
- ♪ give it back, back, back ♪
- 01:14:28.429 --> 01:14:30.698
- ♪ all back ♪
- 01:14:30.698 --> 01:14:32.400
- ♪ give the glory back ♪
- 01:14:32.400 --> 01:14:34.502
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:14:34.502 --> 01:14:39.140
- ♪ what i've done for you ♪
- 01:14:37.371 --> 01:14:40.775
- - god bless you.
- 01:14:40.775 --> 01:14:42.510
- ♪ what i do through you
- 01:14:43.044 --> 01:14:44.145
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:14:44.145 --> 01:14:50.217
- ♪ what i've done for you ♪
- 01:14:46.213 --> 01:14:51.252
- ♪ what i do through you ♪
- 01:14:51.252 --> 01:14:52.386
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:14:52.386 --> 01:14:54.755
- ♪ give it all back ♪
- 01:14:54.755 --> 01:14:57.024
- ♪ everything you've got ♪
- 01:14:57.024 --> 01:14:58.025
- ♪ give it all back ♪
- 01:14:58.025 --> 01:14:59.327
- ♪ what i've done for you ♪
- 01:14:59.327 --> 01:15:01.262
- ♪ what i do through you ♪
- 01:15:00.361 --> 01:15:02.363
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:15:02.363 --> 01:15:03.364
- ♪ give it all back ♪
- 01:15:03.364 --> 01:15:05.399
- ♪ everything you've got ♪
- 01:15:05.399 --> 01:15:06.934
- ♪ give it all back ♪
- 01:15:06.934 --> 01:15:08.102
- ♪ what i've done for you ♪
- 01:15:08.102 --> 01:15:09.470
- ♪ what i do through you ♪
- 01:15:09.470 --> 01:15:10.771
- ♪ give it all back to me ♪
- 01:15:10.771 --> 01:15:11.606
- - it is so clear.
- 01:15:11.606 --> 01:15:12.239
- I am so clear
- 01:15:12.239 --> 01:15:14.308
- And there's no going back.
- 01:15:14.875 --> 01:15:15.910
- No more.
- 01:15:15.910 --> 01:15:17.545
- I need truth.
- 01:15:17.545 --> 01:15:18.679
- - okay, and how exactly did you
- 01:15:19.313 --> 01:15:21.749
- Come to this sudden epiphany?
- 01:15:21.749 --> 01:15:23.584
- - i think it was my driftwood jesus.
- 01:15:23.584 --> 01:15:25.119
- - say what?
- 01:15:25.119 --> 01:15:26.554
- - it's a long story but for the first time,
- 01:15:26.554 --> 01:15:29.790
- In a long time in my life, it just felt true.
- 01:15:29.790 --> 01:15:33.761
- True feels good.
- 01:15:33.761 --> 01:15:34.929
- It feels really good.
- 01:15:34.929 --> 01:15:36.397
- And i don't know where this is gonna go.
- 01:15:36.397 --> 01:15:38.599
- But i know i just have to go with it,
- 01:15:38.599 --> 01:15:40.501
- Whether it takes me there or not.
- 01:15:40.501 --> 01:15:42.203
- But it's not about the cheese,
- 01:15:42.203 --> 01:15:43.771
- It's about the journey to it.
- 01:15:43.771 --> 01:15:49.410
- - "for everyone who asks receives and the one
- 01:15:50.277 --> 01:15:52.647
- "who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks--"
- 01:15:52.647 --> 01:15:55.650
- - "it will be opened."
- 01:15:55.650 --> 01:15:56.684
- Matthew--
- 01:15:56.684 --> 01:15:57.585
- - seven-eight.
- 01:15:57.585 --> 01:15:59.253
- - wait, you?
- 01:15:59.587 --> 01:16:00.955
- - right under your nose huh?
- 01:16:00.955 --> 01:16:02.757
- - what?
- 01:16:02.757 --> 01:16:04.158
- Pam, i've known you for years.
- 01:16:04.792 --> 01:16:06.260
- How did i miss that?
- 01:16:06.260 --> 01:16:07.828
- And why didn't you say anything through all of this?
- 01:16:07.828 --> 01:16:09.764
- - oh no, it's not my style.
- 01:16:09.764 --> 01:16:11.365
- - you don't wear a cross or anything?
- 01:16:11.365 --> 01:16:12.433
- - really not my style.
- 01:16:12.433 --> 01:16:14.802
- - huh.
- 01:16:14.802 --> 01:16:15.703
- But you seemed like you were so against the
- 01:16:16.570 --> 01:16:17.838
- Whole mingle thing.
- 01:16:17.838 --> 01:16:18.873
- - i wasn't against anything.
- 01:16:18.873 --> 01:16:20.107
- I told you it was for christians
- 01:16:20.107 --> 01:16:21.275
- Looking for other christians,
- 01:16:21.275 --> 01:16:22.710
- Who wanted to share a true love for christ.
- 01:16:22.710 --> 01:16:25.613
- And no matter what you may think,
- 01:16:25.613 --> 01:16:27.982
- You're not quite there yet.
- 01:16:27.982 --> 01:16:30.918
- - hmmm.
- 01:16:31.152 --> 01:16:32.586
- (light orchestral music)
- 01:16:33.087 --> 01:16:36.023
- Yeah.
- 01:16:36.023 --> 01:16:37.291
- I've got a lot of work to do, but
- 01:16:38.059 --> 01:16:41.195
- I want to do it.
- 01:16:41.195 --> 01:16:43.030
- And not for paul.
- 01:16:43.030 --> 01:16:44.532
- I mean, if he were a part of the deal, that would be fine.
- 01:16:45.700 --> 01:16:50.171
- But i want to do this for me.
- 01:16:50.171 --> 01:16:53.808
- I want a relationship with him.
- 01:16:54.442 --> 01:16:55.976
- I, i want him in my life.
- 01:16:55.976 --> 01:16:59.814
- - who?
- 01:17:00.047 --> 01:17:01.549
- - him.
- 01:17:01.782 --> 01:17:03.951
- - who?
- 01:17:04.185 --> 01:17:05.920
- - him.
- 01:17:06.153 --> 01:17:07.521
- - i didn't hear you.
- 01:17:07.988 --> 01:17:08.823
- - jesus.
- 01:17:08.823 --> 01:17:10.091
- - i couldn't hear you, what'd you say?
- 01:17:10.091 --> 01:17:11.192
- - i want jesus in my life.
- 01:17:11.192 --> 01:17:12.126
- There we go, i said.
- 01:17:12.126 --> 01:17:13.027
- - can you say it louder?
- 01:17:13.027 --> 01:17:14.028
- - i want jesus in my life!
- 01:17:14.028 --> 01:17:15.129
- - there you go.
- 01:17:15.129 --> 01:17:17.498
- (laughing)
- 01:17:17.798 --> 01:17:19.003
- (laughing)
- 01:17:19.003 --> 01:17:37.417
- (line ringing)
- 01:17:37.784 --> 01:17:42.956
- (phone beeping)
- 01:17:43.323 --> 01:17:44.390
- - [paul] hey, it's paul here.
- 01:17:44.390 --> 01:17:45.358
- I'm back from old mexico.
- 01:17:45.358 --> 01:17:46.960
- Leave me a message and i will get back to you.
- 01:17:46.960 --> 01:18:06.379
- (all chattering)
- 01:18:06.746 --> 01:18:14.654
- - knock, knock.
- 01:18:15.021 --> 01:18:17.357
- - oh, wow!
- 01:18:17.657 --> 01:18:20.894
- This is a surprise.
- 01:18:21.361 --> 01:18:23.129
- (laughing)
- 01:18:23.129 --> 01:18:26.766
- Let me catch up with you guys.
- 01:18:27.400 --> 01:18:32.605
- Do you want to come in here?
- 01:18:33.206 --> 01:18:35.875
- - that'd be great.
- 01:18:35.875 --> 01:18:40.613
- Knock, knock.
- 01:18:40.980 --> 01:18:42.015
- You never said who's there.
- 01:18:42.015 --> 01:18:43.817
- - okay, who's there?
- 01:18:43.817 --> 01:18:45.919
- - heaven.
- 01:18:46.219 --> 01:18:47.954
- - heaven who?
- 01:18:47.954 --> 01:18:48.955
- - heaven you missed me?
- 01:18:48.955 --> 01:18:50.390
- (laughing)
- 01:18:50.390 --> 01:18:52.892
- - cute.
- 01:18:52.892 --> 01:18:53.927
- - it's really dumb, i know.
- 01:18:53.927 --> 01:18:57.730
- I really wanted to tell you i'm sorry.
- 01:18:58.565 --> 01:19:01.100
- I'm so sorry, for everything i did.
- 01:19:01.100 --> 01:19:03.903
- Lying to you and deceiving you which by
- 01:19:03.903 --> 01:19:07.273
- Definition is the same thing.
- 01:19:07.273 --> 01:19:10.410
- I'm sorry.
- 01:19:10.410 --> 01:19:11.978
- And i hope with all of my heart that you can
- 01:19:12.912 --> 01:19:14.781
- Forgive me someday, no strings attached.
- 01:19:14.781 --> 01:19:19.085
- I just wanted to say that.
- 01:19:19.652 --> 01:19:22.088
- - gosh, of course.
- 01:19:22.088 --> 01:19:24.791
- Forgiven.
- 01:19:25.091 --> 01:19:27.660
- That is really thoughtful and, and very sweet.
- 01:19:28.628 --> 01:19:31.197
- I appreciate it.
- 01:19:31.197 --> 01:19:32.899
- - and i, also wanted to say thank you, for opening my eyes.
- 01:19:32.899 --> 01:19:37.303
- And my heart to all of this.
- 01:19:37.303 --> 01:19:40.974
- You woke something up in me that had just been,
- 01:19:41.908 --> 01:19:44.744
- I guess it had been there all along.
- 01:19:44.744 --> 01:19:46.446
- But i don't know.
- 01:19:46.446 --> 01:19:48.481
- Maybe that was his plan.
- 01:19:48.481 --> 01:19:49.582
- Maybe that's the reason we met.
- 01:19:49.582 --> 01:19:52.018
- Nothing more.
- 01:19:52.018 --> 01:19:54.687
- - right.
- 01:19:54.954 --> 01:19:56.222
- - i don't know where it's going but
- 01:19:56.222 --> 01:19:58.124
- For the first time i just,
- 01:19:58.124 --> 01:20:00.493
- I have this sense of purpose in my life.
- 01:20:00.493 --> 01:20:03.363
- - that's awesome.
- 01:20:03.363 --> 01:20:04.764
- - "the heart of a man plans his way,
- 01:20:04.764 --> 01:20:06.299
- "but the lord establishes his steps."
- 01:20:06.299 --> 01:20:08.935
- - wow, you have been doing your homework.
- 01:20:08.935 --> 01:20:12.605
- - [gwyneth] yes, i have.
- 01:20:12.605 --> 01:20:15.875
- - do you mind us coming in?
- 01:20:16.476 --> 01:20:18.244
- Oh gwyneth, what a lovely surprise.
- 01:20:18.244 --> 01:20:21.748
- (light orchestral music)
- 01:20:22.248 --> 01:20:23.950
- - hi gwinny.
- 01:20:23.950 --> 01:20:26.853
- - hi.
- 01:20:27.086 --> 01:20:28.454
- - gwyneth was just telling me about this
- 01:20:28.454 --> 01:20:30.556
- Amazing journey she's on.
- 01:20:30.556 --> 01:20:32.759
- - oh?
- 01:20:32.759 --> 01:20:33.426
- That's wonderful.
- 01:20:33.426 --> 01:20:35.094
- - yeah, you know, it's kind of more of a weekend getaway.
- 01:20:35.094 --> 01:20:39.198
- Really, i wouldn't actually call it a journey yet.
- 01:20:39.198 --> 01:20:41.401
- I'm just kind of cutting that baby path
- 01:20:41.401 --> 01:20:44.003
- Through the jungle to jesus, you know?
- 01:20:44.003 --> 01:20:46.673
- But just my, my sights are on the lord,
- 01:20:46.673 --> 01:20:49.075
- And just, yep that good ol' pathway to heaven.
- 01:20:49.075 --> 01:20:54.614
- Right there.
- 01:20:54.948 --> 01:20:55.748
- That's where i'm going.
- 01:20:55.748 --> 01:20:58.217
- Okay, bye.
- 01:20:58.217 --> 01:21:07.560
- (light orchestral music)
- 01:21:08.061 --> 01:21:20.606
- (sighing)
- 01:21:20.907 --> 01:21:23.743
- (phone whooshing)
- 01:21:24.177 --> 01:21:31.951
- (phone chiming)
- 01:21:32.318 --> 01:21:46.499
- - gabby had her baby.
- 01:21:47.000 --> 01:21:48.434
- - did she?
- 01:21:48.434 --> 01:21:49.268
- Down in mexico?
- 01:21:49.268 --> 01:21:50.303
- - right there in the square.
- 01:21:50.303 --> 01:21:51.571
- Just like she wanted, without a hitch.
- 01:21:51.571 --> 01:21:53.306
- - that's awesome, and so public.
- 01:21:53.306 --> 01:21:56.542
- (chuckling)
- 01:21:56.542 --> 01:21:58.678
- - yeah, it's a beautiful, healthy baby boy.
- 01:21:58.678 --> 01:22:01.414
- Praise god.
- 01:22:01.414 --> 01:22:05.952
- All right, you look like you're chomping
- 01:22:06.819 --> 01:22:08.221
- At the bit to say something,
- 01:22:08.221 --> 01:22:09.589
- So go on just say it.
- 01:22:09.589 --> 01:22:12.759
- - you think you can handle it?
- 01:22:13.393 --> 01:22:14.861
- - we'll see.
- 01:22:14.861 --> 01:22:19.132
- - okay.
- 01:22:19.365 --> 01:22:20.633
- On one hand, i'm really happy for you.
- 01:22:20.633 --> 01:22:23.102
- I am, just like i said.
- 01:22:23.102 --> 01:22:25.038
- But on the other hand, i'm kind of disappointed in you too.
- 01:22:25.038 --> 01:22:30.510
- - you're disappointed?
- 01:22:31.010 --> 01:22:32.378
- - okay, look, i know i messed up.
- 01:22:32.378 --> 01:22:33.613
- I wasn't truthful with you,
- 01:22:33.613 --> 01:22:34.914
- And i am paying the price for that.
- 01:22:34.914 --> 01:22:36.749
- But, i'm kind of wondering
- 01:22:36.749 --> 01:22:38.885
- What your deception is costing you.
- 01:22:38.885 --> 01:22:42.021
- - kelly?
- 01:22:42.021 --> 01:22:42.955
- - if you're really happy,
- 01:22:42.955 --> 01:22:44.424
- I'm happy, but isn't it just a little obvious?
- 01:22:44.424 --> 01:22:48.027
- - actually, i think it's pretty amazing
- 01:22:48.027 --> 01:22:49.562
- That we practically grew up together,
- 01:22:49.562 --> 01:22:51.931
- And then one day i turn around
- 01:22:51.931 --> 01:22:53.599
- And there she is.
- 01:22:53.599 --> 01:22:56.069
- - it's like driftwood.
- 01:22:56.569 --> 01:22:59.639
- You're not your dad.
- 01:23:00.106 --> 01:23:01.240
- You are not your mom.
- 01:23:01.240 --> 01:23:02.642
- You're you, and kelly's a great girl and,
- 01:23:02.642 --> 01:23:05.945
- You know what, god is probably gonna like
- 01:23:05.945 --> 01:23:07.880
- Unload about 40 days and 40 nights of rain
- 01:23:07.880 --> 01:23:09.515
- On me for saying all of this.
- 01:23:09.515 --> 01:23:11.284
- But i just feel like you are,
- 01:23:11.284 --> 01:23:14.454
- You play it so safe.
- 01:23:14.454 --> 01:23:16.522
- When does paul get to just be paul?
- 01:23:16.522 --> 01:23:23.362
- Like this church i've been going to.
- 01:23:24.130 --> 01:23:25.832
- Totally chill and laid back.
- 01:23:25.832 --> 01:23:27.867
- Does that make it any less christian than the one you go to?
- 01:23:27.867 --> 01:23:29.969
- No, it can't.
- 01:23:29.969 --> 01:23:31.471
- But it does make it more me,
- 01:23:31.471 --> 01:23:33.539
- And it doesn't make it right or wrong
- 01:23:33.539 --> 01:23:35.141
- But it's the way i can relate to god.
- 01:23:35.141 --> 01:23:38.845
- - chill and laid back.
- 01:23:39.345 --> 01:23:41.013
- Not exactly how i would describe you, but go ahead.
- 01:23:41.013 --> 01:23:48.988
- - i don't know if kelly is on your path.
- 01:23:49.822 --> 01:23:54.127
- She may be,
- 01:23:54.127 --> 01:23:56.262
- But it's like your life has been planned
- 01:23:57.130 --> 01:23:59.899
- And laid out for you,
- 01:23:59.899 --> 01:24:02.635
- By everyone but you.
- 01:24:03.102 --> 01:24:05.404
- Just locked, stock and jesus.
- 01:24:06.038 --> 01:24:09.075
- It's your turn, paul.
- 01:24:09.575 --> 01:24:12.078
- Take some chances.
- 01:24:12.078 --> 01:24:13.713
- Give safe a break and be your own man.
- 01:24:13.713 --> 01:24:19.685
- Just be you.
- 01:24:20.019 --> 01:24:24.323
- - you finished?
- 01:24:24.690 --> 01:24:27.160
- - yeah.
- 01:24:27.393 --> 01:24:29.061
- Yeah i guess, i guess i am.
- 01:24:29.662 --> 01:24:31.497
- - good.
- 01:24:31.497 --> 01:24:33.933
- I don't think it's a good idea
- 01:24:34.567 --> 01:24:35.668
- That we see each other anymore.
- 01:24:35.668 --> 01:24:38.804
- I'll pray for you, i will.
- 01:24:38.804 --> 01:24:40.773
- But you are so off base here.
- 01:24:40.773 --> 01:24:43.276
- Starting with kelly.
- 01:24:43.276 --> 01:24:44.744
- - no, i wasn't trying to be rude about kelly.
- 01:24:44.744 --> 01:24:46.812
- - you spend five minutes carving your way
- 01:24:46.812 --> 01:24:48.447
- Through your jungle to jesus,
- 01:24:48.447 --> 01:24:49.849
- And you think that you have it all figured out.
- 01:24:49.849 --> 01:24:53.019
- I like you gwyneth and i'm not gonna lie about that
- 01:24:53.019 --> 01:24:57.657
- And you are definitely one of a kind,
- 01:24:58.457 --> 01:25:02.395
- And i have no doubt of the incredible journey
- 01:25:03.329 --> 01:25:05.531
- That you're on.
- 01:25:05.531 --> 01:25:07.133
- Or that jesus is waiting for you with open arms.
- 01:25:07.133 --> 01:25:11.404
- But i,
- 01:25:11.404 --> 01:25:15.174
- Like i said, i'll pray for you but beyond that...
- 01:25:16.175 --> 01:25:23.316
- (dramatic orchestral music)
- 01:25:23.916 --> 01:25:32.058
- (thunder booming)
- 01:25:32.491 --> 01:25:38.164
- (thunder crashing)
- 01:25:38.598 --> 01:25:46.005
- - i was kidding about the 40 days.
- 01:25:46.772 --> 01:25:51.777
- You don't even have a sense of humor.
- 01:25:52.578 --> 01:25:54.247
- (thunder crashing)
- 01:25:54.247 --> 01:26:00.019
- Okay.
- 01:26:00.253 --> 01:26:01.187
- That was wrong of me.
- 01:26:01.187 --> 01:26:04.156
- I'm sorry.
- 01:26:04.457 --> 01:26:10.029
- (sobbing)
- 01:26:10.329 --> 01:26:48.401
- Please hear me.
- 01:26:48.768 --> 01:26:52.999
- Please hear me.
- 01:26:52.999 --> 01:26:53.139
- I realized it wasn't enough to talk about god.
- 01:26:54.106 --> 01:26:58.044
- I needed to know god personally.
- 01:26:58.044 --> 01:27:04.116
- So we started a conversation.
- 01:27:04.750 --> 01:27:11.157
- Leave me alone!
- 01:27:11.524 --> 01:27:15.895
- Really?
- 01:27:16.128 --> 01:27:17.263
- You're so obvious.
- 01:27:17.263 --> 01:27:29.875
- Really?
- 01:27:30.109 --> 01:27:31.944
- I remembered at my church the preacher
- 01:27:32.778 --> 01:27:34.180
- Saying that jesus died for my sin on the cross,
- 01:27:34.180 --> 01:27:37.216
- And he told me if i'd turn from my sin
- 01:27:37.216 --> 01:27:39.151
- And ask jesus into my life, he would come in.
- 01:27:39.151 --> 01:27:42.688
- I know, a little heavy,
- 01:27:42.688 --> 01:27:44.890
- But through all my tears that night
- 01:27:44.890 --> 01:27:48.127
- I finally understood what that meant.
- 01:27:48.127 --> 01:27:51.964
- - maybe you're knocking on one door
- 01:27:51.964 --> 01:27:53.132
- Hoping another will open.
- 01:27:53.132 --> 01:27:54.700
- - [gwyneth] i knocked on one more door, his door,
- 01:27:54.700 --> 01:27:57.903
- And boy did it open.
- 01:27:57.903 --> 01:27:59.939
- - you're 3e, right?
- 01:27:59.939 --> 01:28:00.740
- Hayden?
- 01:28:00.740 --> 01:28:01.807
- I've got your mail right here.
- 01:28:01.807 --> 01:28:42.248
- - [maria voiceover] dear senorita,
- 01:28:43.015 --> 01:28:44.483
- Me sorry for my english not so good.
- 01:28:44.483 --> 01:28:47.553
- I want to say hi and thank you very much
- 01:28:47.553 --> 01:28:50.189
- For coming to san luis.
- 01:28:50.189 --> 01:28:52.191
- My village, it looks so pretty again,
- 01:28:52.191 --> 01:28:55.194
- Almost like it was before.
- 01:28:55.194 --> 01:28:57.563
- It is like what you taught us in school.
- 01:28:57.563 --> 01:29:00.099
- When bad things happened, god made us stronger.
- 01:29:00.099 --> 01:29:03.602
- Just like you made our new church stronger.
- 01:29:03.602 --> 01:29:06.839
- I made a photograph of it for you.
- 01:29:06.839 --> 01:29:09.742
- It look beautiful.
- 01:29:09.742 --> 01:29:11.710
- It is beautiful.
- 01:29:11.710 --> 01:29:13.579
- Sorry again for my english.
- 01:29:13.579 --> 01:29:15.981
- I hope you like the photograph.
- 01:29:15.981 --> 01:29:18.551
- God bless you, maria.
- 01:29:18.551 --> 01:29:20.786
- (grand orchestral music)
- 01:29:20.786 --> 01:29:51.350
- (bell ringing)
- 01:29:51.717 --> 01:29:55.221
- (mariachi music)
- 01:29:55.588 --> 01:30:12.571
- I want to visit many places.
- 01:30:13.172 --> 01:30:15.941
- I would like to see snow
- 01:30:15.941 --> 01:30:18.310
- And make a snow angel from heaven.
- 01:30:19.078 --> 01:30:25.217
- I think the world is a beautiful place.
- 01:30:26.051 --> 01:30:32.258
- But the most beautiful is here
- 01:30:32.892 --> 01:30:37.263
- Because i live here
- 01:30:37.730 --> 01:30:40.332
- And it is my home.
- 01:30:40.766 --> 01:30:43.369
- And my family is here with me.
- 01:30:44.003 --> 01:30:48.574
- The end.
- 01:30:48.841 --> 01:30:50.776
- - that was excellent, maria.
- 01:30:51.377 --> 01:30:53.612
- And there is so much for you all to see and do
- 01:30:53.612 --> 01:30:57.316
- And i'm sure you'll all get a chance to.
- 01:30:57.316 --> 01:30:59.251
- - senorita, senorita!
- 01:30:59.251 --> 01:31:01.387
- (speaking foreign language)
- 01:31:01.987 --> 01:31:05.257
- - english, please, eduardo.
- 01:31:05.257 --> 01:31:07.293
- And slow down, por favor.
- 01:31:07.293 --> 01:31:08.861
- - you need to go to the church.
- 01:31:08.861 --> 01:31:10.663
- It's very important.
- 01:31:10.663 --> 01:31:12.498
- You must go now.
- 01:31:12.498 --> 01:31:14.567
- Hurry, hurry!
- 01:31:14.567 --> 01:31:16.068
- (grand orchestral music)
- 01:31:16.569 --> 01:31:47.600
- - [gwyneth] jose, llama para me.
- 01:31:48.233 --> 01:31:50.035
- Did someone call me?
- 01:31:50.035 --> 01:31:51.203
- - no se, no se.
- 01:31:51.203 --> 01:31:57.376
- - i did.
- 01:31:57.643 --> 01:32:00.713
- - paul?
- 01:32:00.946 --> 01:32:02.615
- Wow, look at you.
- 01:32:03.048 --> 01:32:04.016
- You look great!
- 01:32:04.016 --> 01:32:05.250
- What are you doing here?
- 01:32:05.250 --> 01:32:07.620
- - truth?
- 01:32:07.620 --> 01:32:08.320
- I'm not really sure.
- 01:32:08.320 --> 01:32:13.392
- If you're looking for kelly
- 01:32:13.993 --> 01:32:14.994
- She's not here with me.
- 01:32:14.994 --> 01:32:16.829
- Not here or here.
- 01:32:16.829 --> 01:32:21.300
- There's only one thing more difficult than
- 01:32:22.201 --> 01:32:25.604
- Playing it safe.
- 01:32:25.604 --> 01:32:27.139
- You know what that is?
- 01:32:27.139 --> 01:32:29.441
- Admitting you're wrong.
- 01:32:29.942 --> 01:32:32.177
- And i was so wrong to let you go, gwyneth.
- 01:32:33.078 --> 01:32:36.882
- I came here to tell you that.
- 01:32:36.882 --> 01:32:40.419
- - we get good cell service here.
- 01:32:41.053 --> 01:32:43.322
- I mean, a text message would've been cheaper.
- 01:32:43.322 --> 01:32:47.426
- - but you can't do this with a text.
- 01:32:47.426 --> 01:32:53.699
- - so you maybe still like me then?
- 01:32:54.466 --> 01:32:58.237
- - truth is i never stopped.
- 01:32:58.837 --> 01:33:01.740
- - me neither.
- 01:33:01.740 --> 01:33:03.876
- (grand orchestral music)
- 01:33:04.376 --> 01:33:10.716
- - [paul] i think we're being watched.
- 01:33:11.517 --> 01:33:13.018
- (laughing)
- 01:33:13.018 --> 01:33:18.824
- - do you want to meet my kids?
- 01:33:19.458 --> 01:33:21.960
- - i like the sound of that.
- 01:33:21.960 --> 01:33:24.129
- - come on.
- 01:33:24.129 --> 01:33:25.197
- (light acoustic guitar music)
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- So your papa,
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- I've gotten to know him on a
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- Little on his visits down here.
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- And he is just an awesome guy.
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- And your momma, well,
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- We're going to have to work on her a little.
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- - she's definitely an acquired taste.
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- Speaking of which, i don't suppose we can
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- Score some sushi around here?
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- - don't even try it.
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- (laughing)
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- - you got me.
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- - [gwyneth] hi!
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- You guys, wanna say hi to paul?
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- - [paul] hey!
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- - [kids] hey!
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- - hey, you wanna show him around?
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- (all chattering)
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- - [paul] show me the hamster!
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- Yeah!
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- (laughing)
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- (donkey braying)
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- ♪ you show me
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- ♪ the love of god ♪
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- ♪ and love is never blind ♪
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- ♪ you see all the wrongs
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- ♪ i've tried to hide ♪
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- ♪ but you stay right by my side ♪
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- ♪ when all the world does not
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- ♪ you're the one safe soul i've got ♪
- 01:34:39.671 --> 01:34:46.879
- ♪ man's greatest fear is being alone ♪
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- ♪ and his second greatest is being alone ♪
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- - [gwyneth] you'll still love me
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- When i start getting old and wrinkly, right?
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- - as long as you love me if i start going bald, right?
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- - start?
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- (laughing)
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- - really?
- 01:35:07.599 --> 01:35:11.136
- - [gwyneth voiceover] i used to think i knew it all.
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- I had all the answers and i could spin a lie
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- With the best of 'em.
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- Now i'm pretty sure i don't know anything,
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- Except jesus is there for us.
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- All we have to do is call his name.
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- And mr. right?
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- He's there too.
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- You just have to reach into your heart
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- And discover what's true.
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- (upbeat pop music)
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- ♪ this is not another song
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- ♪ about all we've done wrong ♪
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- ♪ we already know ♪
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- ♪ i think it's time for us to ♪
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- ♪ find the freedom and the trust of letting go ♪
- 01:35:58.851 --> 01:36:04.223
- ♪ let's take some time to thank him for the blessings ♪
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- ♪ let's go big tonight
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- ♪ with all our hearts adore him ♪
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- ♪ with joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ let's get on our feet ♪
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- ♪ movin' to the beat ♪
- 01:36:21.974 --> 01:36:23.675
- ♪ wave our hands high in the air ♪
- 01:36:23.675 --> 01:36:27.546
- ♪ celebrate his love ♪
- 01:36:27.546 --> 01:36:29.348
- ♪ grace that is enough ♪
- 01:36:29.348 --> 01:36:31.383
- ♪ give him all of our cares ♪
- 01:36:31.383 --> 01:36:34.620
- ♪ with joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ let's raise our voices to the one because he is worthy of ♪
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- ♪ all of our praise
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- ♪ he's given us a second chance ♪
- 01:36:50.302 --> 01:36:52.337
- ♪ turned our sadness into dance ♪
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- ♪ we have been changed ♪
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- ♪ let's take this time to thank him for the blessings ♪
- 01:36:57.743 --> 01:37:04.016
- ♪ let's go big tonight with all our hearts ♪
- 01:37:04.983 --> 01:37:09.454
- ♪ adore him with joy unspeakable ♪
- 01:37:09.454 --> 01:37:14.192
- ♪ let's get on our feet movin' to the beat ♪
- 01:37:14.192 --> 01:37:17.229
- ♪ wave my hands high in the air, air, air ♪
- 01:37:17.229 --> 01:37:21.533
- ♪ celebrate his love ♪
- 01:37:21.533 --> 01:37:23.135
- ♪ grace that is enough ♪
- 01:37:23.135 --> 01:37:24.870
- ♪ give him all of our cares ♪
- 01:37:24.870 --> 01:37:28.373
- ♪ with joy unspeakable ♪
- 01:37:28.373 --> 01:37:32.778
- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
- 01:37:32.778 --> 01:37:36.248
- ♪ with joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
- 01:37:40.185 --> 01:37:44.589
- ♪ you and i were made for more ♪
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- ♪ can't imagine what's in store ♪
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- ♪ we were meant to soar like an eagle ♪
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- ♪ leave religion at the door ♪
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- ♪ raise the roof ♪
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- ♪ and shake the floor ♪
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- ♪ let's get loud and let's explore ♪
- 01:37:55.867 --> 01:37:58.070
- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
- 01:38:13.318 --> 01:38:15.387
- ♪ let's get on our feet ♪
- 01:38:15.387 --> 01:38:16.822
- ♪ moving to the beat ♪
- 01:38:16.822 --> 01:38:18.623
- ♪ wave our hands high in the air ♪
- 01:38:18.623 --> 01:38:23.095
- ♪ celebrate his love ♪
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- ♪ grace that is enough ♪
- 01:38:24.429 --> 01:38:26.565
- ♪ give him all of our cares ♪
- 01:38:26.565 --> 01:38:28.734
- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ we've got to celebrate ♪
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- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
- 01:38:47.786 --> 01:38:53.792
- ♪ we've got to celebrate ♪
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- ♪ joy unspeakable ♪
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- ♪ hey, hey, hey ♪
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