Sheila: Knowing God as Father | 5 Minutes with Jesus

March 16, 2026 | 6:55

5 Minutes with Jesus is a daily devotional series for people in the midst of real life, whether facing anxiety, grief, questions of purpose, or simply needing encouragement and connection. Hosted by Sheila Walsh, each five-minute episode offers Biblical truth, honest reflections on faith and emotions, and closes with a moment of prayer.

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| Sheila: Knowing God as Father | 5 Minutes with Jesus | March 16, 2026
  • I don't think that until we're finally home
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  • With jesus, we'll ever begin to grasp
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  • What the holiness of god is like,
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  • Or why jesus had to come and pay for our sin
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  • To give us a way back to our father.
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  • But i read an interesting quote that contrasted
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  • The picture of god as a harsh father
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  • With a picture that christ painted for us.
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  • Religion says, i've messed up.
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  • I dad's going to kill me.
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  • Christianity says i've messed up.
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  • I need to call my dad.
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  • I read a story online about a chaplain
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  • In a federal prison who came up with the idea of helping
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  • Prisoners honor their mothers on mother's day.
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  • A greeting card company furnished mother's day cards
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  • For the inmates, and all they had to do
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  • Was pick up a card and mail it to their mother.
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  • Almost all of the prisoners responded to the opportunity.
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  • I think more than 500 inmates requested
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  • And mailed the free mother's day cards.
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  • Well, inspired by the success of that project,
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  • The chaplain decided to do the same thing for father's day.
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  • Again, same company furnished the cards and the prisoners
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  • Only had to ask for them and mail them.
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  • But the result was shockingly different.
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  • Not one inmate requested a father's day card for his dad.
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  • I find that heartbreaking.
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  • Obviously, not
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  • Everyone who had a bad relationship
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  • With their dad ends up in prison.
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  • But it made me think about the impact of a father's life
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  • On his children.
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  • Not only that, but what impact does
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  • That have on how we view our heavenly father?
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  • If you had a good relationship with your dad growing up,
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  • It seems to be much easier to embrace the idea
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  • Of a loving heavenly father.
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  • But if that relationship was bad or broken,
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  • It would seem that we identify more with
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  • How we perceive god in the old testament.
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  • Someone who disapproves,
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  • Who punishes, who is angry and distant.
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  • One of the greatest gifts of jesus christ coming to us in
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  • Human flesh was to show us who the father really is.
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  • Every time christ reached out and touched a broken life,
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  • He was saying, this is what my father is like.
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  • I find it very moving.
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  • Then when christ knelt in the garden of gethsemane
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  • And absolute agony of soul and mind, he addressed
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  • His father in the most intimate and personal way.
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  • Abba, father.
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  • That's actually a phrase you can hear in the marketplace
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  • In israel, as children call out to their fathers.
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  • I don't think that until we're finally home
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  • With jesus, we'll ever begin to grasp
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  • What the holiness of god is like,
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  • Or why jesus had to come and pay for our sin
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  • To give us a way back to our father.
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  • But i read an interesting quote that contrasted
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  • The picture of god as a harsh father
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  • With a picture that christ painted for us.
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  • Religion says, i've messed up.
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  • I dad's going to kill me.
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  • Christianity says i've messed up.
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  • I need to call my dad.
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  • I love that.
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  • I have a picture on my wall at home of our son.
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  • He's about five years old
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  • And his face is covered in chocolate frosting.
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  • I'll never forget the evening that that photograph was taken.
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  • I was speaking at a large event in an arena,
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  • And i remember i had on a cream colored suit.
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  • I remember because i never wore again.
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  • It was our sound engineer's
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  • Birthday, and we'd had a party for him
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  • Backstage before the event began.
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  • Well, christian
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  • Managed to get frosting all over his face, in his hair
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  • And on his clothes,
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  • And i thought that my mother in law
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  • Had taken christian
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  • Back to the hotel to get him bathed and to bed.
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  • But just before i was due to speak,
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  • I heard a little voice behind me.
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  • Call it mom, and it realized
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  • He wanted just one more hug before he went to bed.
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  • So i knelt down through open my arms,
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  • Even though i knew exactly what was going to happen.
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  • That night i had frosting on my jacket
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  • And my hair, but it was intentional.
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  • It's also why i like working with women.
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  • They get the frosting on your jacket thing.
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  • But the message i wanted to convey to my son is
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  • You don't clean yourself up to come to your mom,
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  • Because i wanted him to understand you.
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  • Don't clean yourself up to come to your heavenly father.
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  • You come just as you are.
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  • If you
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  • Struggle with relating to god as a loving father.
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  • Let me share a
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  • Few scriptures with you that you can meditate on.
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  • Psalm 103 verse 13 says,
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  • The lord is like a father to his children, tender
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  • And compassionate to those who fear him.
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  • For he knows how weak we are.
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  • He remembers we are only dust.
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  • I love this promise in psalm 27 verse ten, even if my father
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  • And mother abandoned me, the lord will hold me close.
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  • In first john chapter three, verse one,
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  • We read, see how very much our father loves
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  • Us, for he calls us his children.
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  • And that is what we are.
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  • You are loved.
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  • You are loved.
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  • You know, if you struggle with the idea of god
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  • As a father who loves and accepts you, and you see him
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  • More as a god who punishes you, i really encourage you
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  • To find a couple of scriptures like that and meditate on them.
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  • Spend time.
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  • Ask the holy spirit to help you understand
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  • Who your heavenly father is.
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  • You are seen.
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  • You are known and you are loved.
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  • Let me pray for you.
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  • Father god, what a
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  • Joy it is to call you father.
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  • Thank you that you are a perfect father,
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  • Compassionate and kind and loving.
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  • Thank you that we get to come to you as we are,
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  • Not as we wish we were, and that you welcome us.
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  • Lord, i pray for anyone right now who is struggling
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  • With the concept of seeing you as a loving father.
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  • Holy spirit, will you bring your healing to those wounds
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  • So that we can see our
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  • Our father in heaven with clear eyes of love?
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  • I ask that we would remember
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  • Everything that jesus has shown us, that when he saw someone
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  • Who was broken or rejected or tossed aside,
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  • He touched them with love and said,
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  • This is who your father is, and we thank you in his name.
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  • Amen.
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