Sheila Walsh: Struggling to Pray? | 5 Minutes with Jesus

June 11, 2026 | 5:12

5 Minutes with Jesus is a daily devotional series for people in the midst of real life, whether facing anxiety, grief, questions of purpose, or simply needing encouragement and connection. Hosted by Sheila Walsh, each five-minute episode offers Biblical truth, honest reflections on faith and emotions, and closes with a moment of prayer.

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| Sheila Walsh: Struggling to Pray? | 5 Minutes with Jesus | June 11, 2026
  • Reading through
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  • God's word, one thing is crystal clear that while everyone else
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  • In our life may look at what's on the surface, god looks
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  • At the heart to any of us of absolutely pure motives.
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  • Probably not.
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  • But we can make that a matter of prayer.
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  • One we ask the holy spirit to unveil and purifies.
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  • Number two,
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  • We can ask god for his will to be done in our lives.
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  • Number three, we can trust the author
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  • And finisher of our faith to keep working in us.
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  • Number four, we can repent and ask god to guide us forward.
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  • That's a great place to start.
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  • Barry and i love when christian was playing
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  • Football or soccer as a little boy.
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  • I mean, it was so much fun to sit
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  • With the other moms and dads and cheer on their efforts
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  • For that. they were working or not.
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  • I remember on one occasion christian saying to me, mom,
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  • We have a problem.
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  • I asked him what the problem was,
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  • And he informed me that there was a boy
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  • On the other team who was also a christian.
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  • I asked him why was that a problem?
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  • And he said, we are both praying to win.
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  • Which one is god going to listen to?
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  • And this question, but a good one,
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  • And actually one that i think follows us through life.
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  • Why did god answer her prayer for child and not mine?
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  • Why did he get the promotion?
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  • But god knows i have worked hard.
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  • I prayed about it and i deserved it. why?
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  • Why so many why questions?
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  • Prayer can be a problem for us at times.
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  • So i have a question for you.
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  • How do we know when we are praying with pure motives?
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  • There's a verse in the book of james
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  • That makes it clear that when we're praying
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  • From selfish, ungodly motives, our prayers are not answered.
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  • Let's look at the context.
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  • This is james chapter four, verses one through three.
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  • What is causing the quarrels and fights among you?
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  • Don't they come from the evil desires at war within you?
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  • You want what you don't have.
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  • So you scheme and kill to get it.
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  • You're jealous of what others have, but you can't get it.
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  • So you fight and wage war to take it away from them.
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  • Yet you don't have what you want
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  • Because you don't ask god for it.
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  • And even when you ask,
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  • You don't get it because your motives are all wrong.
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  • You want only what will give you pleasure.
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  • So here are two issues.
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  • Number one,
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  • He's telling the people that they're looking
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  • In all the wrong places to fill them up.
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  • Instead of asking god.
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  • And number two, even when they do ask god,
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  • Their motives are all wrong and not coming from a pure place.
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  • James is dealing with a very basic human condition self.
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  • What makes us happy?
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  • Jealousy. comparison.
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  • Earlier in his letter, he reminds the people
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  • That someone who is wise seeks peace.
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  • So his question is why is there so much division among you?
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  • I don't think he's saying that people
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  • Are literally killing each other,
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  • But the division is tearing people apart.
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  • It was true in the early church and it's true today.
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  • Just check out your social media.
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  • Jesus told his closest friends that the way the world
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  • Would know that we are his is by the way we love each other.
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  • But when we let petty jealousy and division take over,
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  • We ruin our witness.
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  • And you know, it's so easy to join in a conversation
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  • About how difficult someone else in our church is,
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  • Or our small group, our workplace of our family.
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  • What james is asking is what's your motive?
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  • Because he goes on to say that even when we do turn to god,
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  • Our prayers aren't answered
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  • Because we're asking for all the wrong reasons.
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  • You know, like, lord, get her, lord, teach him a lesson.
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  • Defend me.
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  • Reading through god's word, one thing is crystal clear
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  • That while
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  • Everyone else in our life may look at what's on the surface,
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  • God looks at the heart to any of us of absolutely pure motives.
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  • Probably not.
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  • But we can make that a matter of prayer.
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  • One we ask the holy spirit to unveil and purifies.
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  • Number two,
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  • We can ask god for his will to be done in our lives.
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  • Number three, we can trust the author
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  • And finisher of our faith to keep working in us.
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  • Number four, we can repent and ask god to guide us forward.
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  • That's a great place to start.
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  • Let's pray.
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  • Lord, thank you
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  • So much that you care about our hearts.
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  • When other people look, they maybe
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  • Just see what's on the surface.
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  • But you look directly into our hearts.
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  • So, lord, would you teach us
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  • How to be more honest and transparent with you?
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  • And holy spirit, would you help us?
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  • Would you purify our motives so that when we pray, we pray
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  • According to your will
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  • And not just for the things that make us happy?
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  • Because we want to honor jesus.
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  • And we ask in his name, amen.
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