Sheila Walsh: Why Is Life So Hard? | 5 Minutes With Jesus

June 30, 2026 | 5:55

5 Minutes with Jesus is a daily devotional series for people in the midst of real life, whether facing anxiety, grief, questions of purpose, or simply needing encouragement and connection. Hosted by Sheila Walsh, each five-minute episode offers Biblical truth, honest reflections on faith and emotions, and closes with a moment of prayer.

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| Sheila Walsh: Why Is Life So Hard? | 5 Minutes With Jesus | June 30, 2026
  • One of the greatest truths of our faith is that
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  • Christ has promised that he will never leave us,
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  • Never forsake us.
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  • Before jesus ascended his father,
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  • He told his closest friends this and be sure of this
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  • I am with you always, even to the end of the age.
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  • Whatever you're facing right now,
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  • Remember that you're not alone.
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  • You're not helpless. you are held.
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  • Life may be hard for a time, but god is in control.
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  • He loves you and he is faithful.
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  • I know you know this, but life can be hard.
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  • I mean, really tough.
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  • And our first question is why do you ever struggle to
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  • Understand why life can be so hard when we know
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  • That god is so good and so powerful?
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  • Like, if you're in a hard place right now and you've asked
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  • God to get you out of it and he hasn't.
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  • What do you do with that?
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  • I remember where our son was, a little boy.
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  • He came into the kitchen to tell me that a bird
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  • Was caught in the string of his kite.
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  • Well, i ran into the backyard and saw that a terrified bluejay
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  • Had one of its legs caught.
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  • It was struggling against a string
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  • Wrapped around a fence post, and it couldn't free itself.
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  • So i approached the bird carefully and as gently as i
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  • Could, took its leg and my hand began to unwind the string.
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  • Obviously it was scared.
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  • The bird pecked my hand,
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  • But finally it was free and it took to the sky.
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  • For weeks after that, every time we were in the yard
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  • And we heard a bird cry,
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  • Christian would look up and say, you're welcome.
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  • Assuming the bird or one of its relatives come back to say
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  • Thank you for the something about that picture.
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  • Picture of that bird caught in the kite
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  • String that stayed with me.
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  • I wonder at times if this is how we see god.
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  • Are we poor little birds trying to free ourselves.
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  • The places where we're held captive?
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  • Pecking at god's hand and filled with terror.
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  • You know,
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  • That's how the great writer dietrich bonhoeffer felt,
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  • And his final days in prison
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  • Before he was martyred
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  • For his faith, he poured out the fears of his soul.
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  • And in his diary he wrote.
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  • Restless and longing and sick like a bird in a cage,
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  • Struggling for breath
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  • As though hands were compressing my throat, yearning
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  • For colors, for flowers, for the voices of birds.
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  • Thirsting for words of kindness.
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  • So why doesn't god just cut us free and let us fly?
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  • Is the struggle supposed to make us stronger?
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  • There are three things i know for sure.
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  • One, we are living in a fallen world.
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  • Life in a fallen world is hard.
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  • When sin entered the world.
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  • So, dick. pain and suffering.
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  • And jesus told us
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  • It was going to be that way on the night
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  • When he was betrayed, he told his closest friends.
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  • I've told you all this so that you may have peace in me
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  • Here on earth.
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  • You will have many trials and sorrows,
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  • But take heart, because i've overcome the world.
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  • Number two, christ said he has overcome the world.
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  • This tells us that pain and suffering have a shelf life.
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  • It will not always be this way.
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  • At times
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  • It can feel harder to watch
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  • A loved one suffer than to suffer ourselves.
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  • I remember my darling friend jennifer
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  • Rothschild, who's completely blind, telling me that there's
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  • A difference between spectator grace and participant grace.
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  • There's a grace
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  • That's given to us at the moment when we need it
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  • Most, that those watching might not experience.
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  • And number three, we get to tell god the whole truth.
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  • We're not asked to pretend that
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  • Everything is fine when our hearts are broken.
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  • I find great comfort, honesty and hope in the psalms.
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  • Like in psalm 13, we read, o lord,
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  • How long will you forget me?
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  • Forever.
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  • How long will you look the other way?
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  • How long must i struggle
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  • With anguish in my soul, with sorrow in my heart.
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  • Every day.
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  • How long will my enemy have the upper hand?
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  • Turn and answer me, o lord my god.
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  • Restore the sparkle to my eyes or i will die.
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  • Don't let my enemies gloat saying we have defeated him.
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  • Don't let them rejoice, am i downfall?
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  • Well, having poured out his pain and his questions,
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  • David turns his face and his heart upwards.
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  • And he says this.
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  • But i trust in your unfailing love.
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  • I will rejoice because you are rescued. me.
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  • I will sing to the lord because he is good to me.
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  • Number four we are never abandoned.
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  • God is good.
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  • One of the greatest truths of
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  • Our faith is that
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  • Christ has promised that he will never leave us,
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  • Never forsake us.
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  • Before jesus ascended his father,
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  • He told his closest friends this and be sure of this
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  • I am with you always, even to the end of the age.
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  • Whatever you're facing right now,
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  • Remember that you're not alone.
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  • You're not helpless. you are held.
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  • Life may be hard for a time, but god is in control.
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  • He loves you and he is faithful.
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  • Let's pray.
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  • What?
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  • I want to thank you
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  • That we are not like helpless birds caught in a string,
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  • But that we are being held in the arms of a loving father.
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  • And so often, lord, when we look back,
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  • We see how you spared us from things,
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  • How you delivered us from things that were hard to see
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  • At the time.
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  • But we just want to pause and acknowledge
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  • That you are good and that we trust you.
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  • In jesus name, amen.
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