Joel Osteen - Dealing With Ugly Situations

May 22, 2026 | 27:29

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Dealing With Ugly Situations | May 22, 2026
  • Joel: god bless you. it's
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  • Joel: god bless you. it's great to be with you today.
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  • Great to be with you today. i hope you'll stay connected
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  • I hope you'll stay connected with us during the week,
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  • With us during the week, through our daily podcast,
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  • Through our daily podcast, our youtube channel, social
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  • Our youtube channel, social media. and you can come visit
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  • Media. and you can come visit us in person. we'd love to
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  • Us in person. we'd love to have you be a part of one
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  • Have you be a part of one of our services.
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  • Of our services. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny. i heard
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  • Something funny. i heard about this man; he was the
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  • About this man; he was the only protestant in a large
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  • Only protestant in a large catholic neighborhood. every
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  • Catholic neighborhood. every friday during lent, while his
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  • Friday during lent, while his neighbors were eating cold
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  • Neighbors were eating cold fish, he was grilling a steak
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  • Fish, he was grilling a steak in his backyard. they
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  • In his backyard. they couldn't stand the temptation
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  • Couldn't stand the temptation and decided to try to convert
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  • And decided to try to convert him to catholicism. he
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  • Him to catholicism. he finally agreed. a priest came
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  • Finally agreed. a priest came over, sprinkled water on him,
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  • Over, sprinkled water on him, said, "you were born a
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  • Said, "you were born a baptist, you were raised a
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  • Baptist, you were raised a baptist, but now you're a
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  • Baptist, but now you're a catholic." the next year on
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  • Catholic." the next year on the first friday of lent,
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  • The first friday of lent, they smelled the same smell.
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  • They smelled the same smell. they rushed to his house. he
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  • They rushed to his house. he was in the backyard
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  • Was in the backyard sprinkling water over his
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  • Sprinkling water over his steak, saying, "you were born
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  • Steak, saying, "you were born a cow, you were raised a cow,
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  • A cow, you were raised a cow, but now you're a fish."
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  • But now you're a fish." all right, y'all. say it like
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  • All right, y'all. say it like you mean it. this is my
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  • You mean it. this is my bible. i am what it says i
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  • Bible. i am what it says i am. i have what it says i
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  • Am. i have what it says i have. i can do what it says i
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  • Have. i can do what it says i can do. today, i will be
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  • Can do. today, i will be taught the word of god. i
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  • Taught the word of god. i boldly confess: my mind is
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  • Boldly confess: my mind is alert. my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert. my heart is receptive. i will never be the same in
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  • I will never be the same in jesus' name. god bless you.
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  • Jesus' name. god bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about dealing with ugly
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  • About dealing with ugly situations. in life, we all
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  • Situations. in life, we all face the good, the bad and
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  • Face the good, the bad and the ugly. we love the good
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  • The ugly. we love the good times, where we're seeing
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  • Times, where we're seeing god's favor, doors are
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  • God's favor, doors are opening. we can handle the
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  • Opening. we can handle the bad. we didn't get the
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  • Bad. we didn't get the contract; a neighbor is
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  • Contract; a neighbor is talking about us. that's just
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  • Talking about us. that's just life happening. but there are
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  • Life happening. but there are some situations, the only way
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  • Some situations, the only way to describe them is ugly. an
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  • To describe them is ugly. an ugly medical report, we never
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  • Ugly medical report, we never thought we'd be facing this.
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  • Thought we'd be facing this. an ugly breakup, a person we
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  • An ugly breakup, a person we counted on walked away. an
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  • Counted on walked away. an ugly addiction. it's easy to
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  • Ugly addiction. it's easy to get discouraged and say, "god
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  • Get discouraged and say, "god where were you?" but god
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  • Where were you?" but god won't allow a difficulty if
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  • Won't allow a difficulty if he's not going to use it for
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  • He's not going to use it for your purpose. the scripture
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  • Your purpose. the scripture says, "everything is serving
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  • Says, "everything is serving his plan." not just the good
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  • His plan." not just the good times, the promotion, the
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  • Times, the promotion, the blessings, but even the ugly
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  • Blessings, but even the ugly times, when it's not fair,
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  • Times, when it's not fair, life throws us a curve. if
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  • Life throws us a curve. if you'll go through the
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  • You'll go through the suffering with the right
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  • Suffering with the right attitude, through that
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  • Attitude, through that hardship trusting that god's
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  • Hardship trusting that god's in control, then god will
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  • In control, then god will make something beautiful out
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  • Make something beautiful out of the ugly. you will go to
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  • Of the ugly. you will go to levels of your destiny that
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  • Levels of your destiny that you could have never reached
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  • You could have never reached by just living in the good
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  • By just living in the good times. these ugly seasons are
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  • Times. these ugly seasons are uncomfortable. we'd prefer to
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  • Uncomfortable. we'd prefer to never have to deal with it,
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  • Never have to deal with it, but they are necessary to
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  • But they are necessary to become all you were created
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  • Become all you were created to be.
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  • To be. you don't grow as much in the
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  • You don't grow as much in the good times. it's in the
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  • Good times. it's in the difficult times, you're
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  • Difficult times, you're stretched, your faith can
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  • Stretched, your faith can increase, your trust, your
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  • Increase, your trust, your endurance. david said, "god,
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  • Endurance. david said, "god, you enlarged me in my
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  • You enlarged me in my distress." not enlarged me
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  • Distress." not enlarged me when i was comfortable, when
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  • When i was comfortable, when everyone was celebrating me.
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  • Everyone was celebrating me. but you enlarged me when i
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  • But you enlarged me when i was chased by saul through
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  • Was chased by saul through the desert and i had done
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  • The desert and i had done nothing wrong. you enlarged
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  • Nothing wrong. you enlarged me when my own father didn't
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  • Me when my own father didn't think i would amount to
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  • Think i would amount to anything. you enlarged me
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  • Anything. you enlarged me when people i had been good
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  • When people i had been good to were slandering me, trying
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  • To were slandering me, trying to ruin my reputation. none
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  • To ruin my reputation. none of us like the ugly seasons,
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  • Of us like the ugly seasons, but that's when god does some
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  • But that's when god does some of his greatest work,
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  • Of his greatest work, preparing you for something
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  • Preparing you for something that you've never seen.
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  • That you've never seen. that's what happened with
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  • That's what happened with jacob. he had just moved to a
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  • Jacob. he had just moved to a new city and was working for
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  • New city and was working for his uncle, a man named laban.
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  • His uncle, a man named laban. laban had two daughters,
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  • Laban had two daughters, rachel and leah. rachel was
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  • Rachel and leah. rachel was extremely attractive. she was
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  • Extremely attractive. she was stunning. the scripture says,
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  • Stunning. the scripture says, "she was beautiful in every
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  • "she was beautiful in every way, with a lovely face and a
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  • Way, with a lovely face and a shapely figure." everyone
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  • Shapely figure." everyone admired her beauty. she was a
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  • Admired her beauty. she was a knockout. but her older
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  • Knockout. but her older sister leah, not so much.
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  • Sister leah, not so much. verse 17 says, "leah had weak
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  • Verse 17 says, "leah had weak eyes." one translation says
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  • Eyes." one translation says leah was dull looking. rachel
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  • Leah was dull looking. rachel got all this physical beauty,
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  • Got all this physical beauty, but leah was unattractive.
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  • But leah was unattractive. it's not often that the
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  • It's not often that the scripture describes someone's
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  • Scripture describes someone's physical appearance. this has
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  • Physical appearance. this has a deeper meaning. because
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  • A deeper meaning. because every person is a
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  • Every person is a masterpiece, made in the
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  • Masterpiece, made in the image of god. but the
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  • Image of god. but the symbolism here is rachel is
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  • Symbolism here is rachel is beautiful, and leah is ugly.
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  • Beautiful, and leah is ugly. well, when jacob saw rachel,
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  • Well, when jacob saw rachel, he didn't think twice. it was
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  • He didn't think twice. it was love at first sight. he
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  • Love at first sight. he thought, "i'm going to marry
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  • Thought, "i'm going to marry this girl." in those days,
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  • This girl." in those days, women were treated almost
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  • Women were treated almost like property. you had to buy
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  • Like property. you had to buy them. jacob went to laban and
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  • Them. jacob went to laban and said, "i'll make a deal with
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  • Said, "i'll make a deal with you. i'll work for you seven
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  • You. i'll work for you seven years, if you'll let me marry
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  • Years, if you'll let me marry rachel." laban shook his hand
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  • Rachel." laban shook his hand and said, "you have a deal.
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  • And said, "you have a deal. seven years and she's yours."
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  • Seven years and she's yours." jacob was so in love; he
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  • Jacob was so in love; he couldn't wait for the seven
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  • Couldn't wait for the seven years to pass. he worked
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  • Years to pass. he worked hard, was faithful. he
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  • Hard, was faithful. he increased laban's flocks.
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  • Increased laban's flocks. because of jacob, laban
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  • Because of jacob, laban became a wealthy man. jacob
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  • Became a wealthy man. jacob was glad to do it. he knew
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  • Was glad to do it. he knew something better was coming in
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  • Something better was coming in return. this beautiful rachel
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  • Return. this beautiful rachel was about to become his wife.
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  • Was about to become his wife. the seven years came to an
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  • The seven years came to an end. laban had this big
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  • End. laban had this big wedding. all the family and
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  • Wedding. all the family and friends. back then, the bride
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  • Friends. back then, the bride wore a very thick veil. you
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  • Wore a very thick veil. you couldn't see who it was.
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  • Couldn't see who it was. after the ceremony, they had
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  • After the ceremony, they had all this dancing, all the
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  • All this dancing, all the partying. finally, the night
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  • Partying. finally, the night ended, jacob went home a
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  • Ended, jacob went home a married man. he woke up the
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  • Married man. he woke up the next morning, looked over in
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  • Next morning, looked over in bed, but it wasn't rachel, it
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  • Bed, but it wasn't rachel, it was leah. he nearly passed
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  • Was leah. he nearly passed out. he didn't see the
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  • Out. he didn't see the beautiful face he dreamed
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  • Beautiful face he dreamed about; he saw weak eyes
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  • About; he saw weak eyes staring at him. no offense,
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  • Staring at him. no offense, but he didn't work that hard,
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  • But he didn't work that hard, that long, for something that
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  • That long, for something that dull. he went straight to
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  • Dull. he went straight to laban and said, "this is not
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  • Laban and said, "this is not what we agreed to. i didn't
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  • What we agreed to. i didn't ask for the unattractive one,
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  • Ask for the unattractive one, i asked for the beautiful
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  • I asked for the beautiful one." how many times have we
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  • One." how many times have we prayed for rachel, but we got
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  • Prayed for rachel, but we got leah. like jacob, we worked
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  • Leah. like jacob, we worked hard. we did the right thing,
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  • Hard. we did the right thing, we were expecting rachel,
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  • We were expecting rachel, favor, promotion, good
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  • Favor, promotion, good breaks, but leah showed up.
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  • Breaks, but leah showed up. something unfair, that we
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  • Something unfair, that we didn't see coming.
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  • Didn't see coming. laban was dishonest. he
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  • Laban was dishonest. he didn't keep his word. but in
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  • Didn't keep his word. but in his defense, in those days,
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  • His defense, in those days, the father was responsible
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  • The father was responsible for giving the oldest
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  • For giving the oldest daughter in marriage first.
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  • Daughter in marriage first. that was the tradition. that
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  • That was the tradition. that was being an honorable
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  • Was being an honorable father, not overlooking the
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  • Father, not overlooking the older. laban said to jacob,
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  • Older. laban said to jacob, "if you'll work for me
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  • "if you'll work for me another seven years, then
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  • Another seven years, then i'll give you rachel." jacob
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  • I'll give you rachel." jacob wasn't happy about it, but he
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  • Wasn't happy about it, but he agreed. he worked seven more
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  • Agreed. he worked seven more years in an unfair situation.
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  • Years in an unfair situation. he was taken advantage of. it
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  • He was taken advantage of. it might have been protocol, but
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  • Might have been protocol, but laban should have told him,
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  • Laban should have told him, and not tricked him. but
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  • And not tricked him. but here's the key, jacob didn't
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  • Here's the key, jacob didn't complain. he wasn't
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  • Complain. he wasn't disrespectful to leah. she
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  • Disrespectful to leah. she wasn't his choice, but he
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  • Wasn't his choice, but he didn't blame her. "why are
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  • Didn't blame her. "why are you unattractive? you're not
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  • You unattractive? you're not who i wanted." he did the
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  • Who i wanted." he did the right thing when it was hard.
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  • Right thing when it was hard. he kept being his best in an
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  • He kept being his best in an ugly situation. at the end of
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  • Ugly situation. at the end of the seven years, he married
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  • The seven years, he married rachel, he saw that promise
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  • Rachel, he saw that promise come to pass.
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  • Come to pass. rachel represents what we're
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  • Rachel represents what we're believing for, our dreams,
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  • Believing for, our dreams, good health, joy, peace,
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  • Good health, joy, peace, abundance. we all want
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  • Abundance. we all want rachel, but often leah shows
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  • Rachel, but often leah shows up first. something that we
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  • Up first. something that we didn't want, what's
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  • Didn't want, what's unattractive. what you do in
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  • Unattractive. what you do in the ugly situations will
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  • The ugly situations will determine whether you get
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  • Determine whether you get stuck there, or you come into
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  • Stuck there, or you come into the beautiful things god has
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  • The beautiful things god has for you. you may be in one of
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  • For you. you may be in one of those ugly times now, things
  • 00:08:12.481 --> 00:08:14.717
  • Those ugly times now, things haven't turned out the way
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  • Haven't turned out the way you had planned. you can get
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  • You had planned. you can get bitter, give up on your
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  • Bitter, give up on your dreams, or you can do like
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  • Dreams, or you can do like jacob and do the right thing
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  • Jacob and do the right thing when it's unfair. keep being
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  • When it's unfair. keep being your best when life throws
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  • Your best when life throws you a curve. rachel is
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  • You a curve. rachel is coming. what god promised you
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  • Coming. what god promised you is still in route. leah is a
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  • Is still in route. leah is a test. the ugly situation is
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  • Test. the ugly situation is where you have to prove to
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  • Where you have to prove to god what you're made of.
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  • God what you're made of. genesis 49, jacob was an old
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  • Genesis 49, jacob was an old man and about to pass. he
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  • Man and about to pass. he called his children in and
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  • Called his children in and spoke blessings. he gathered
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  • Spoke blessings. he gathered his loved ones around and
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  • His loved ones around and gave them one final
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  • Gave them one final instruction. he said in verse
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  • Instruction. he said in verse 29, "soon i'm going to die.
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  • 29, "soon i'm going to die. bury me in the cave of
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  • Bury me in the cave of machpelah, where my
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  • Machpelah, where my grandfather and father are
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  • Grandfather and father are buried. for there i buried
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  • Buried. for there i buried leah." in those days, it was
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  • Leah." in those days, it was very important where you were
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  • Very important where you were laid to rest. it wasn't an
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  • Laid to rest. it wasn't an afterthought. you would have
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  • Afterthought. you would have put much time and effort into
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  • Put much time and effort into it. it had great meaning and
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  • It. it had great meaning and significance. isn't it
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  • Significance. isn't it interesting that jacob didn't
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  • Interesting that jacob didn't say, "bury me next to rachel.
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  • Say, "bury me next to rachel. make sure i'm beside that
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  • Make sure i'm beside that woman that was so beautiful,
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  • Woman that was so beautiful, that i loved and admired." no
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  • That i loved and admired." no jacob said, "bury me next to
  • 00:09:27.757 --> 00:09:29.925
  • Jacob said, "bury me next to leah." he was saying in
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  • Leah." he was saying in effect, "when i look back
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  • Effect, "when i look back over my life, i realize leah
  • 00:09:33.763 --> 00:09:36.632
  • Over my life, i realize leah was necessary. i was
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  • Was necessary. i was uncomfortable, i didn't
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  • Uncomfortable, i didn't choose it, it's not what i
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  • Choose it, it's not what i expected. but i wouldn't have
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  • Expected. but i wouldn't have become who i am without leah."
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  • Become who i am without leah." when we come to the end of
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  • When we come to the end of life, we're going to realize
  • 00:09:48.711 --> 00:09:50.212
  • Life, we're going to realize it wasn't just the good
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  • It wasn't just the good breaks that got us to where
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  • Breaks that got us to where we are, the open doors, the
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  • We are, the open doors, the happy times, it was the
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  • Happy times, it was the leah's. the things we didn't
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  • Leah's. the things we didn't like, that weren't fair.
  • 00:09:58.721 --> 00:10:00.856
  • Like, that weren't fair. these ugly moments where we
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  • These ugly moments where we did the right thing. we
  • 00:10:03.192 --> 00:10:04.960
  • Did the right thing. we stayed faithful. we trusted
  • 00:10:05.027 --> 00:10:07.496
  • Stayed faithful. we trusted even though it didn't make
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  • Even though it didn't make sense. that's where we grew,
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  • Sense. that's where we grew, that's where our faith got
  • 00:10:11.200 --> 00:10:12.334
  • That's where our faith got stronger. you may be dealing
  • 00:10:12.401 --> 00:10:14.837
  • Stronger. you may be dealing with a leah now, something
  • 00:10:14.904 --> 00:10:17.006
  • With a leah now, something you don't understand. have
  • 00:10:17.073 --> 00:10:18.641
  • You don't understand. have the right perspective, it's
  • 00:10:18.708 --> 00:10:20.509
  • The right perspective, it's necessary. you couldn't
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  • Necessary. you couldn't become who you were created
  • 00:10:22.578 --> 00:10:24.246
  • Become who you were created to be without it. don't fight
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  • To be without it. don't fight it. embrace it. it's not
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  • It. embrace it. it's not stopping you; it's preparing
  • 00:10:28.951 --> 00:10:30.786
  • Stopping you; it's preparing you. god wouldn't have
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  • You. god wouldn't have allowed that leah, that ugly
  • 00:10:32.455 --> 00:10:34.924
  • Allowed that leah, that ugly situation, if he didn't have
  • 00:10:34.990 --> 00:10:37.093
  • Situation, if he didn't have something beautiful coming.
  • 00:10:37.159 --> 00:10:39.395
  • Something beautiful coming. judah came out of leah. god
  • 00:10:39.462 --> 00:10:41.897
  • Judah came out of leah. god chose to bring his only son
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  • Chose to bring his only son through an ugly situation.
  • 00:10:43.799 --> 00:10:45.868
  • Through an ugly situation. through the lineage of leah.
  • 00:10:45.935 --> 00:10:48.571
  • Through the lineage of leah. your situation may be far
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  • Your situation may be far from beautiful. you were
  • 00:10:50.239 --> 00:10:51.841
  • From beautiful. you were promised rachel, but you've
  • 00:10:51.907 --> 00:10:53.442
  • Promised rachel, but you've got leah. you don't know what
  • 00:10:53.509 --> 00:10:55.311
  • Got leah. you don't know what god is up to. trust him when
  • 00:10:55.377 --> 00:10:58.280
  • God is up to. trust him when you don't understand. being
  • 00:10:58.347 --> 00:11:00.416
  • You don't understand. being in an ugly situation doesn't
  • 00:11:00.483 --> 00:11:02.518
  • In an ugly situation doesn't mean god is not working. we
  • 00:11:02.585 --> 00:11:04.987
  • Mean god is not working. we wouldn't have the messiah if
  • 00:11:05.054 --> 00:11:06.722
  • Wouldn't have the messiah if it wasn't for leah. without
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  • It wasn't for leah. without that difficulty, you couldn't
  • 00:11:09.024 --> 00:11:10.593
  • That difficulty, you couldn't become who you were created
  • 00:11:10.659 --> 00:11:12.394
  • Become who you were created to be. i'm not saying it's
  • 00:11:12.461 --> 00:11:14.396
  • To be. i'm not saying it's going to be easy. you're
  • 00:11:14.463 --> 00:11:15.564
  • Going to be easy. you're going to feel like having a
  • 00:11:15.631 --> 00:11:16.966
  • Going to feel like having a good attitude, and being good
  • 00:11:17.032 --> 00:11:19.001
  • Good attitude, and being good to people that haven't been
  • 00:11:19.068 --> 00:11:20.536
  • To people that haven't been good to you, staying in faith
  • 00:11:20.603 --> 00:11:22.004
  • Good to you, staying in faith when the medical report is
  • 00:11:22.071 --> 00:11:23.205
  • When the medical report is not improving. if it was easy
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  • Not improving. if it was easy everyone would do it. but the
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  • Everyone would do it. but the people that come out of the
  • 00:11:28.310 --> 00:11:29.445
  • People that come out of the ugly into the beautiful, are
  • 00:11:29.512 --> 00:11:31.847
  • Ugly into the beautiful, are people that have a made-up
  • 00:11:31.914 --> 00:11:33.649
  • People that have a made-up mind, people that say, "i'm
  • 00:11:33.716 --> 00:11:35.317
  • Mind, people that say, "i'm not moved by who did me
  • 00:11:35.384 --> 00:11:36.819
  • Not moved by who did me wrong, what didn't work out,
  • 00:11:36.886 --> 00:11:39.321
  • Wrong, what didn't work out, what wasn't fair. i know this
  • 00:11:39.388 --> 00:11:41.891
  • What wasn't fair. i know this ugly situation is a sign that
  • 00:11:41.957 --> 00:11:44.894
  • Ugly situation is a sign that something beautiful is
  • 00:11:44.960 --> 00:11:45.928
  • Something beautiful is coming."
  • 00:11:45.995 --> 00:11:47.363
  • Coming." jesus said in matthew, "take
  • 00:11:47.429 --> 00:11:49.165
  • Jesus said in matthew, "take up your cross and follow me."
  • 00:11:49.231 --> 00:11:52.001
  • Up your cross and follow me." we pray for blessings, favor,
  • 00:11:52.067 --> 00:11:54.236
  • We pray for blessings, favor, health. that's good, but none
  • 00:11:54.303 --> 00:11:56.238
  • Health. that's good, but none of us pray for a cross. we
  • 00:11:56.305 --> 00:11:58.474
  • Of us pray for a cross. we want rachel, not leah. but
  • 00:11:58.541 --> 00:12:01.310
  • Want rachel, not leah. but there are levels of your
  • 00:12:01.377 --> 00:12:02.511
  • There are levels of your destiny you cannot reach
  • 00:12:02.578 --> 00:12:04.747
  • Destiny you cannot reach without taking up your cross.
  • 00:12:04.814 --> 00:12:06.949
  • Without taking up your cross. you won't see rachel until
  • 00:12:07.016 --> 00:12:09.084
  • You won't see rachel until you've encountered leah.
  • 00:12:09.151 --> 00:12:11.353
  • You've encountered leah. taking up your cross is not
  • 00:12:11.420 --> 00:12:12.922
  • Taking up your cross is not some sad, defeated, suffering
  • 00:12:12.988 --> 00:12:15.925
  • Some sad, defeated, suffering life. we're supposed to live
  • 00:12:15.991 --> 00:12:17.760
  • Life. we're supposed to live an abundant, joyful,
  • 00:12:17.827 --> 00:12:19.562
  • An abundant, joyful, victorious life. but sure
  • 00:12:19.628 --> 00:12:21.931
  • Victorious life. but sure there will be crosses,
  • 00:12:21.997 --> 00:12:23.532
  • There will be crosses, betrayals, unfair situations,
  • 00:12:23.599 --> 00:12:26.602
  • Betrayals, unfair situations, dealing with an addiction,
  • 00:12:26.669 --> 00:12:28.404
  • Dealing with an addiction, leah will show up. we don't
  • 00:12:28.470 --> 00:12:30.239
  • Leah will show up. we don't like it. we're uncomfortable.
  • 00:12:30.306 --> 00:12:32.875
  • Like it. we're uncomfortable. you have to do like jacob,
  • 00:12:32.942 --> 00:12:34.243
  • You have to do like jacob, don't get bitter. keep doing
  • 00:12:34.310 --> 00:12:37.112
  • Don't get bitter. keep doing the right thing when it's
  • 00:12:37.179 --> 00:12:38.214
  • The right thing when it's hard. endure when you feel
  • 00:12:38.280 --> 00:12:40.716
  • Hard. endure when you feel like giving up. stay in peace
  • 00:12:40.783 --> 00:12:43.052
  • Like giving up. stay in peace when you could be worried.
  • 00:12:43.118 --> 00:12:44.553
  • When you could be worried. that's what it means to take
  • 00:12:44.620 --> 00:12:45.955
  • That's what it means to take up your cross. you're in an
  • 00:12:46.021 --> 00:12:47.890
  • Up your cross. you're in an ugly situation but you're not
  • 00:12:47.957 --> 00:12:49.792
  • Ugly situation but you're not moved. you know it's all
  • 00:12:49.859 --> 00:12:51.527
  • Moved. you know it's all working for your good. we
  • 00:12:51.594 --> 00:12:53.963
  • Working for your good. we hear a lot about the
  • 00:12:54.029 --> 00:12:55.097
  • Hear a lot about the suffering, the burden, the
  • 00:12:55.164 --> 00:12:56.765
  • Suffering, the burden, the pain. but you have to
  • 00:12:56.832 --> 00:12:58.434
  • Pain. but you have to realize, the cross is not the
  • 00:12:58.500 --> 00:13:00.569
  • Realize, the cross is not the end of your story, there's a
  • 00:13:00.636 --> 00:13:02.204
  • End of your story, there's a resurrection coming. when you
  • 00:13:02.271 --> 00:13:04.406
  • Resurrection coming. when you take up your cross, it's
  • 00:13:04.473 --> 00:13:06.041
  • Take up your cross, it's leading to blessing, favor,
  • 00:13:06.108 --> 00:13:08.477
  • Leading to blessing, favor, health, levels of your
  • 00:13:08.544 --> 00:13:10.479
  • Health, levels of your destiny you could have never
  • 00:13:10.546 --> 00:13:12.481
  • Destiny you could have never reached without the
  • 00:13:12.548 --> 00:13:13.883
  • Reached without the adversity. leah had to
  • 00:13:13.949 --> 00:13:16.018
  • Adversity. leah had to happen. leah was necessary
  • 00:13:16.085 --> 00:13:18.287
  • Happen. leah was necessary for your purpose. don't fight
  • 00:13:18.354 --> 00:13:19.922
  • For your purpose. don't fight it, complain, "joel, why did
  • 00:13:19.989 --> 00:13:22.758
  • It, complain, "joel, why did these people cheat me. i'm
  • 00:13:22.825 --> 00:13:24.927
  • These people cheat me. i'm dealing with this illness.
  • 00:13:24.994 --> 00:13:26.228
  • Dealing with this illness. these coworkers, they're
  • 00:13:26.295 --> 00:13:27.696
  • These coworkers, they're always trying to discredit
  • 00:13:27.763 --> 00:13:29.131
  • Always trying to discredit me." we're all going to have
  • 00:13:29.198 --> 00:13:30.933
  • Me." we're all going to have leah, but remember, the
  • 00:13:31.000 --> 00:13:32.801
  • Leah, but remember, the messiah came through leah,
  • 00:13:32.868 --> 00:13:35.237
  • Messiah came through leah, through an ugly situation.
  • 00:13:35.304 --> 00:13:37.406
  • Through an ugly situation. through something that was
  • 00:13:37.473 --> 00:13:38.307
  • Through something that was unfair. there's purpose in
  • 00:13:38.374 --> 00:13:40.876
  • Unfair. there's purpose in the pain. favor is going to
  • 00:13:40.943 --> 00:13:42.978
  • The pain. favor is going to come out of the frustration.
  • 00:13:43.045 --> 00:13:44.747
  • Come out of the frustration. promotion out of that loss.
  • 00:13:44.813 --> 00:13:47.683
  • Promotion out of that loss. for seventeen years, i worked
  • 00:13:47.750 --> 00:13:49.351
  • For seventeen years, i worked behind the scenes here at
  • 00:13:49.418 --> 00:13:50.452
  • Behind the scenes here at lakewood doing the television
  • 00:13:50.519 --> 00:13:52.354
  • Lakewood doing the television production. i enjoyed making
  • 00:13:52.421 --> 00:13:54.857
  • Production. i enjoyed making my father look good. i
  • 00:13:54.924 --> 00:13:56.692
  • My father look good. i thought that's what i would
  • 00:13:56.759 --> 00:13:57.559
  • Thought that's what i would do the rest of my life. my
  • 00:13:57.626 --> 00:13:59.428
  • Do the rest of my life. my father and i were the best of
  • 00:13:59.495 --> 00:14:00.629
  • Father and i were the best of friends. i had a beautiful
  • 00:14:00.696 --> 00:14:02.498
  • Friends. i had a beautiful wife, two young children.
  • 00:14:02.564 --> 00:14:04.466
  • Wife, two young children. life was good, then leah
  • 00:14:04.533 --> 00:14:06.568
  • Life was good, then leah showed up. my father had a
  • 00:14:06.635 --> 00:14:08.604
  • Showed up. my father had a heart attack and suddenly
  • 00:14:08.671 --> 00:14:10.339
  • Heart attack and suddenly went to be with the lord. i
  • 00:14:10.406 --> 00:14:12.007
  • Went to be with the lord. i didn't see that coming. i
  • 00:14:12.074 --> 00:14:13.709
  • Didn't see that coming. i thought daddy would be here
  • 00:14:13.776 --> 00:14:15.277
  • Thought daddy would be here another twenty years, but
  • 00:14:15.344 --> 00:14:17.246
  • Another twenty years, but unexpectedly he was gone. i
  • 00:14:17.313 --> 00:14:20.482
  • Unexpectedly he was gone. i found myself in an ugly
  • 00:14:20.549 --> 00:14:22.151
  • Found myself in an ugly situation. it was painful.
  • 00:14:22.217 --> 00:14:24.486
  • Situation. it was painful. there was so much
  • 00:14:24.553 --> 00:14:25.521
  • There was so much uncertainty. what's going to
  • 00:14:25.587 --> 00:14:26.789
  • Uncertainty. what's going to happen to lakewood. i knew i
  • 00:14:26.855 --> 00:14:29.124
  • Happen to lakewood. i knew i was supposed to step up and
  • 00:14:29.191 --> 00:14:30.526
  • Was supposed to step up and pastor, but i was afraid. i
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  • Pastor, but i was afraid. i didn't feel qualified. plus,
  • 00:14:33.295 --> 00:14:35.130
  • Didn't feel qualified. plus, i was dealing with the loss
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  • I was dealing with the loss of my father. i liked the way
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  • Of my father. i liked the way it was before, with rachel,
  • 00:14:38.500 --> 00:14:41.170
  • It was before, with rachel, everything beautiful. but
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  • Everything beautiful. but sometimes god will send leah
  • 00:14:43.272 --> 00:14:45.641
  • Sometimes god will send leah to push you into your purpose.
  • 00:14:45.708 --> 00:14:48.177
  • To push you into your purpose. if my father was still here,
  • 00:14:48.243 --> 00:14:50.079
  • If my father was still here, i would have never stepped
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  • I would have never stepped up. i was comfortable where i
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  • Up. i was comfortable where i was. but you know what
  • 00:14:53.482 --> 00:14:55.050
  • Was. but you know what brought the gifts out that i
  • 00:14:55.117 --> 00:14:56.485
  • Brought the gifts out that i never knew i had, not rachel,
  • 00:14:56.552 --> 00:14:58.988
  • Never knew i had, not rachel, not the good times, but leah.
  • 00:14:59.054 --> 00:15:01.957
  • Not the good times, but leah. i thought losing my father
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  • I thought losing my father would be my darkest hour, but
  • 00:15:03.726 --> 00:15:05.728
  • Would be my darkest hour, but in fact, it launched me into
  • 00:15:05.794 --> 00:15:07.730
  • In fact, it launched me into my brightest hour. god was
  • 00:15:07.796 --> 00:15:10.199
  • My brightest hour. god was working in the loss, in the
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  • Working in the loss, in the pain, in the trouble. he was
  • 00:15:12.067 --> 00:15:14.803
  • Pain, in the trouble. he was using leah to get me to
  • 00:15:14.870 --> 00:15:17.039
  • Using leah to get me to rachel, to a level of my
  • 00:15:17.106 --> 00:15:19.208
  • Rachel, to a level of my destiny i would have never
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  • Destiny i would have never seen without that ugly
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  • Seen without that ugly situation. when i come to the
  • 00:15:22.711 --> 00:15:25.280
  • Situation. when i come to the end of life, i can say with
  • 00:15:25.347 --> 00:15:27.116
  • End of life, i can say with jacob, "bury me next to
  • 00:15:27.182 --> 00:15:29.218
  • Jacob, "bury me next to leah." because if i hadn't
  • 00:15:29.284 --> 00:15:31.320
  • Leah." because if i hadn't had that loss, i would have
  • 00:15:31.387 --> 00:15:32.888
  • Had that loss, i would have never stepped up to who i was
  • 00:15:32.955 --> 00:15:34.923
  • Never stepped up to who i was created to be. without leah,
  • 00:15:34.990 --> 00:15:37.793
  • Created to be. without leah, i would have never become a
  • 00:15:37.860 --> 00:15:38.727
  • I would have never become a pastor, never had the compaq
  • 00:15:38.794 --> 00:15:40.963
  • Pastor, never had the compaq center, never written a book.
  • 00:15:41.030 --> 00:15:43.098
  • Center, never written a book. what am i saying? don't
  • 00:15:43.165 --> 00:15:44.633
  • What am i saying? don't complain about leah, what was
  • 00:15:44.700 --> 00:15:47.069
  • Complain about leah, what was unfair, the loss, the
  • 00:15:47.136 --> 00:15:48.437
  • Unfair, the loss, the breakup. that ugly situation
  • 00:15:48.504 --> 00:15:51.473
  • Breakup. that ugly situation is leading to something
  • 00:15:51.540 --> 00:15:52.608
  • Is leading to something beautiful. out of leah's
  • 00:15:52.674 --> 00:15:54.843
  • Beautiful. out of leah's lineage came the messiah. out
  • 00:15:54.910 --> 00:15:57.446
  • Lineage came the messiah. out of your ugly seasons, you're
  • 00:15:57.513 --> 00:15:59.348
  • Of your ugly seasons, you're going to give birth to
  • 00:15:59.415 --> 00:16:00.416
  • Going to give birth to amazing things, talent,
  • 00:16:00.482 --> 00:16:02.518
  • Amazing things, talent, favor, opportunity, that
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  • Favor, opportunity, that you've never dreamed.
  • 00:16:04.787 --> 00:16:06.722
  • You've never dreamed. we see this in the scripture
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  • We see this in the scripture with joseph. as a teenager,
  • 00:16:08.757 --> 00:16:11.427
  • With joseph. as a teenager, god gave him a dream that he
  • 00:16:11.493 --> 00:16:13.028
  • God gave him a dream that he would be in leadership,
  • 00:16:13.095 --> 00:16:14.530
  • Would be in leadership, people would bow down before
  • 00:16:14.596 --> 00:16:15.964
  • People would bow down before him. like jacob, he had this
  • 00:16:16.031 --> 00:16:18.400
  • Him. like jacob, he had this promise, that rachel is
  • 00:16:18.467 --> 00:16:19.768
  • Promise, that rachel is coming, something beautiful.
  • 00:16:19.835 --> 00:16:22.204
  • Coming, something beautiful. joseph was being his best,
  • 00:16:22.271 --> 00:16:24.073
  • Joseph was being his best, honoring god, then leah
  • 00:16:24.139 --> 00:16:26.208
  • Honoring god, then leah showed up. his brothers were
  • 00:16:26.275 --> 00:16:28.210
  • Showed up. his brothers were jealous. they threw him into
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  • Jealous. they threw him into a pit and were going to leave
  • 00:16:30.379 --> 00:16:32.014
  • A pit and were going to leave him there. but they ended up
  • 00:16:32.081 --> 00:16:33.849
  • Him there. but they ended up selling him as a slave in
  • 00:16:33.916 --> 00:16:35.551
  • Selling him as a slave in egypt. i'm sure joseph
  • 00:16:35.617 --> 00:16:37.853
  • Egypt. i'm sure joseph thought, "god, you gave me
  • 00:16:37.920 --> 00:16:39.388
  • Thought, "god, you gave me this dream. you promised me
  • 00:16:39.455 --> 00:16:41.490
  • This dream. you promised me rachel, but now i'm a slave,
  • 00:16:41.557 --> 00:16:43.926
  • Rachel, but now i'm a slave, in a foreign country." he
  • 00:16:43.992 --> 00:16:45.994
  • In a foreign country." he dreamed of something
  • 00:16:46.061 --> 00:16:47.162
  • Dreamed of something beautiful, but he was facing
  • 00:16:47.229 --> 00:16:49.531
  • Beautiful, but he was facing something ugly. before you
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  • Something ugly. before you see rachel, often you'll have
  • 00:16:52.067 --> 00:16:54.203
  • See rachel, often you'll have to deal with leah. how you
  • 00:16:54.269 --> 00:16:56.472
  • To deal with leah. how you handle the betrayals, the
  • 00:16:56.538 --> 00:16:58.173
  • Handle the betrayals, the loss, the delays, that will
  • 00:16:58.240 --> 00:17:00.409
  • Loss, the delays, that will determine whether you see
  • 00:17:00.476 --> 00:17:01.643
  • Determine whether you see rachel. it's easy to get
  • 00:17:01.710 --> 00:17:03.645
  • Rachel. it's easy to get sour, live with a chip on
  • 00:17:03.712 --> 00:17:05.848
  • Sour, live with a chip on your shoulder. "god, you
  • 00:17:05.914 --> 00:17:07.282
  • Your shoulder. "god, you healed my mother, why didn't
  • 00:17:07.349 --> 00:17:08.484
  • Healed my mother, why didn't you heal my father." or
  • 00:17:08.550 --> 00:17:10.452
  • You heal my father." or david, "god, my own family
  • 00:17:10.519 --> 00:17:12.554
  • David, "god, my own family has turned on me." those ugly
  • 00:17:12.621 --> 00:17:15.157
  • Has turned on me." those ugly times are not random, that's
  • 00:17:15.224 --> 00:17:17.392
  • Times are not random, that's not happenstance, that's a
  • 00:17:17.459 --> 00:17:19.128
  • Not happenstance, that's a sign god is up to something.
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  • Sign god is up to something. god knows what he promised
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  • God knows what he promised you, and he knows what he put
  • 00:17:23.899 --> 00:17:26.034
  • You, and he knows what he put in you that you don't even
  • 00:17:26.101 --> 00:17:27.803
  • In you that you don't even realize. it's all working for
  • 00:17:27.870 --> 00:17:29.605
  • Realize. it's all working for your good.
  • 00:17:29.671 --> 00:17:31.273
  • Your good. joseph kept being his best,
  • 00:17:31.340 --> 00:17:33.242
  • Joseph kept being his best, doing the right thing. he was
  • 00:17:33.308 --> 00:17:35.244
  • Doing the right thing. he was falsely accused and put in
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  • Falsely accused and put in prison. one day the pharaoh
  • 00:17:37.079 --> 00:17:39.548
  • Prison. one day the pharaoh had a dream that he couldn't
  • 00:17:39.615 --> 00:17:41.416
  • Had a dream that he couldn't interpret. they told him
  • 00:17:41.483 --> 00:17:43.719
  • Interpret. they told him about a slave, a foreigner in
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  • About a slave, a foreigner in prison, a man named joseph,
  • 00:17:45.988 --> 00:17:48.490
  • Prison, a man named joseph, how he could interpret
  • 00:17:48.557 --> 00:17:49.558
  • How he could interpret dreams. joseph was brought
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  • Dreams. joseph was brought before the pharaoh, the
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  • Before the pharaoh, the leader of the country. he
  • 00:17:53.462 --> 00:17:55.097
  • Leader of the country. he interpreted his dream. the
  • 00:17:55.164 --> 00:17:56.899
  • Interpreted his dream. the pharaoh was so impressed that
  • 00:17:56.965 --> 00:17:58.767
  • Pharaoh was so impressed that he made joseph the prime
  • 00:17:58.834 --> 00:18:00.269
  • He made joseph the prime minister of egypt. joseph saw
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  • Minister of egypt. joseph saw his dream come to pass, in
  • 00:18:02.671 --> 00:18:04.640
  • His dream come to pass, in leadership, with people
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  • Leadership, with people bowing down before him. if
  • 00:18:06.308 --> 00:18:08.810
  • Bowing down before him. if joseph were here today, he
  • 00:18:08.877 --> 00:18:10.479
  • Joseph were here today, he would tell you, my brothers
  • 00:18:10.546 --> 00:18:12.447
  • Would tell you, my brothers being jealous was necessary.
  • 00:18:12.514 --> 00:18:15.150
  • Being jealous was necessary. the betrayal was necessary.
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  • The betrayal was necessary. being falsely accused was
  • 00:18:17.519 --> 00:18:19.288
  • Being falsely accused was necessary. leah had to
  • 00:18:19.354 --> 00:18:21.523
  • Necessary. leah had to happen. without the ugly
  • 00:18:21.590 --> 00:18:23.492
  • Happen. without the ugly situation, he would have
  • 00:18:23.559 --> 00:18:24.927
  • Situation, he would have never seen rachel. it was all
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  • Never seen rachel. it was all a part of god's plan.
  • 00:18:27.095 --> 00:18:29.431
  • A part of god's plan. i know you can trust god, but
  • 00:18:29.498 --> 00:18:32.034
  • I know you can trust god, but my question is, can he trust
  • 00:18:32.100 --> 00:18:34.436
  • My question is, can he trust you? can god count on you to
  • 00:18:34.503 --> 00:18:37.206
  • You? can god count on you to do the right thing in the
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  • Do the right thing in the ugly situations, things that
  • 00:18:38.907 --> 00:18:41.043
  • Ugly situations, things that are not fair, when you pray
  • 00:18:41.109 --> 00:18:43.045
  • Are not fair, when you pray for rachel, but leah shows
  • 00:18:43.111 --> 00:18:44.880
  • For rachel, but leah shows up. will you be like joseph
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  • Up. will you be like joseph and keep being your best?
  • 00:18:47.482 --> 00:18:49.451
  • And keep being your best? that's passing the test. i
  • 00:18:49.518 --> 00:18:51.853
  • That's passing the test. i can't promise you that if you
  • 00:18:51.920 --> 00:18:53.455
  • Can't promise you that if you stay in faith, you'll always
  • 00:18:53.522 --> 00:18:55.123
  • Stay in faith, you'll always see rachel, blessings, favor,
  • 00:18:55.190 --> 00:18:57.526
  • See rachel, blessings, favor, beautiful, attractive. you
  • 00:18:57.593 --> 00:18:59.628
  • Beautiful, attractive. you can't reach your destiny
  • 00:18:59.695 --> 00:19:01.163
  • Can't reach your destiny without leah. but i can
  • 00:19:01.230 --> 00:19:03.165
  • Without leah. but i can promise you, that if you'll
  • 00:19:03.232 --> 00:19:04.933
  • Promise you, that if you'll endure with a good attitude,
  • 00:19:05.000 --> 00:19:07.469
  • Endure with a good attitude, go through the suffering with
  • 00:19:07.536 --> 00:19:08.837
  • Go through the suffering with a smile, praising instead of
  • 00:19:08.904 --> 00:19:11.240
  • A smile, praising instead of complaining, then all those
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  • Complaining, then all those things that looked like they
  • 00:19:13.709 --> 00:19:14.977
  • Things that looked like they would stop you, will end up
  • 00:19:15.043 --> 00:19:17.179
  • Would stop you, will end up thrusting you into your
  • 00:19:17.246 --> 00:19:18.480
  • Thrusting you into your purpose. you'll be able to
  • 00:19:18.547 --> 00:19:20.549
  • Purpose. you'll be able to say like jacob, "bury me next
  • 00:19:20.616 --> 00:19:23.151
  • Say like jacob, "bury me next to leah. i couldn't have
  • 00:19:23.218 --> 00:19:25.087
  • To leah. i couldn't have become who i was created to
  • 00:19:25.153 --> 00:19:26.855
  • Become who i was created to be without the ugly
  • 00:19:26.922 --> 00:19:28.490
  • Be without the ugly situation." the things you
  • 00:19:28.557 --> 00:19:30.659
  • Situation." the things you didn't like, but you passed
  • 00:19:30.726 --> 00:19:32.527
  • Didn't like, but you passed the test. you did the right
  • 00:19:32.594 --> 00:19:34.496
  • The test. you did the right thing when it was hard, and
  • 00:19:34.563 --> 00:19:36.198
  • Thing when it was hard, and you gave birth to your judah.
  • 00:19:36.265 --> 00:19:37.633
  • You gave birth to your judah. to something greater than
  • 00:19:37.699 --> 00:19:39.568
  • To something greater than you've imagined.
  • 00:19:39.635 --> 00:19:41.370
  • You've imagined. back in the late 1950's, my
  • 00:19:41.436 --> 00:19:42.070
  • Back in the late 1950's, my father was the pastor of a
  • 00:19:42.137 --> 00:19:45.007
  • Father was the pastor of a successful church. they had
  • 00:19:45.073 --> 00:19:47.209
  • Successful church. they had just built a new sanctuary
  • 00:19:47.276 --> 00:19:48.677
  • Just built a new sanctuary that held a thousand people.
  • 00:19:48.744 --> 00:19:50.712
  • That held a thousand people. that was uncommon for back
  • 00:19:50.779 --> 00:19:52.414
  • That was uncommon for back then. he was on the state
  • 00:19:52.481 --> 00:19:54.283
  • Then. he was on the state board for his denomination,
  • 00:19:54.349 --> 00:19:56.084
  • Board for his denomination, on his way up. the future
  • 00:19:56.151 --> 00:19:57.919
  • On his way up. the future looked so bright, then leah
  • 00:19:57.986 --> 00:20:00.055
  • Looked so bright, then leah showed up. my sister was born
  • 00:20:00.122 --> 00:20:02.991
  • Showed up. my sister was born with a birth injury,
  • 00:20:03.058 --> 00:20:04.526
  • With a birth injury, something like cerebral
  • 00:20:04.593 --> 00:20:05.594
  • Something like cerebral palsy. the doctors told my
  • 00:20:05.661 --> 00:20:07.729
  • Palsy. the doctors told my parents she would never be
  • 00:20:07.796 --> 00:20:09.598
  • Parents she would never be able to walk or feed herself.
  • 00:20:09.665 --> 00:20:12.167
  • Able to walk or feed herself. they were devastated. my
  • 00:20:12.234 --> 00:20:14.069
  • They were devastated. my father began to read the
  • 00:20:14.136 --> 00:20:15.404
  • Father began to read the scriptures in a new light. he
  • 00:20:15.470 --> 00:20:18.106
  • Scriptures in a new light. he was taught that god doesn't
  • 00:20:18.173 --> 00:20:19.675
  • Was taught that god doesn't heal today, you just have to
  • 00:20:19.741 --> 00:20:21.843
  • Heal today, you just have to accept it as his will. that
  • 00:20:21.910 --> 00:20:23.912
  • Accept it as his will. that miracles and healing were
  • 00:20:23.979 --> 00:20:25.614
  • Miracles and healing were only for bible days. but he
  • 00:20:25.681 --> 00:20:28.116
  • Only for bible days. but he read in hebrews where jesus
  • 00:20:28.183 --> 00:20:31.153
  • Read in hebrews where jesus christ is the same yesterday,
  • 00:20:31.219 --> 00:20:33.722
  • Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever. that lit a
  • 00:20:33.789 --> 00:20:36.258
  • Today and forever. that lit a new fire on the inside. he
  • 00:20:36.325 --> 00:20:38.927
  • New fire on the inside. he came back to his church with
  • 00:20:38.994 --> 00:20:40.362
  • Came back to his church with this new message of faith,
  • 00:20:40.429 --> 00:20:42.364
  • This new message of faith, victory, and how when we
  • 00:20:42.431 --> 00:20:44.099
  • Victory, and how when we believe all things are
  • 00:20:44.166 --> 00:20:45.467
  • Believe all things are possible. he thought everyone
  • 00:20:45.534 --> 00:20:47.636
  • Possible. he thought everyone would be so excited, but it
  • 00:20:47.703 --> 00:20:49.037
  • Would be so excited, but it was just the opposite. some
  • 00:20:49.104 --> 00:20:51.173
  • Was just the opposite. some people didn't like it. it
  • 00:20:51.239 --> 00:20:53.075
  • People didn't like it. it didn't fit their tradition.
  • 00:20:53.141 --> 00:20:55.210
  • Didn't fit their tradition. there was so much contention
  • 00:20:55.277 --> 00:20:56.678
  • There was so much contention and strife, that my parents
  • 00:20:56.745 --> 00:20:58.680
  • And strife, that my parents had to resign. they left that
  • 00:20:58.747 --> 00:21:00.949
  • Had to resign. they left that church that they had spent
  • 00:21:01.016 --> 00:21:02.050
  • Church that they had spent years pouring their heart and
  • 00:21:02.117 --> 00:21:03.819
  • Years pouring their heart and soul into. they never saw
  • 00:21:03.885 --> 00:21:05.887
  • Soul into. they never saw that coming. life was so
  • 00:21:05.954 --> 00:21:07.723
  • That coming. life was so good, then their whole world
  • 00:21:07.789 --> 00:21:10.192
  • Good, then their whole world was turned upside down.
  • 00:21:10.258 --> 00:21:12.427
  • Was turned upside down. they could have been
  • 00:21:12.494 --> 00:21:13.128
  • They could have been discouraged, "god we don't
  • 00:21:13.195 --> 00:21:15.097
  • Discouraged, "god we don't understand." but like jacob,
  • 00:21:15.163 --> 00:21:18.166
  • Understand." but like jacob, they did the right thing when
  • 00:21:18.233 --> 00:21:19.601
  • They did the right thing when it was not fair. they didn't
  • 00:21:19.668 --> 00:21:21.870
  • It was not fair. they didn't get bitter. they didn't talk
  • 00:21:21.937 --> 00:21:23.872
  • Get bitter. they didn't talk badly about the people. they
  • 00:21:23.939 --> 00:21:25.974
  • Badly about the people. they went out and started lakewood
  • 00:21:26.041 --> 00:21:27.976
  • Went out and started lakewood with ninety people in a
  • 00:21:28.043 --> 00:21:29.978
  • With ninety people in a rundown feed store. it was
  • 00:21:30.045 --> 00:21:31.913
  • Rundown feed store. it was just a fraction of the amount
  • 00:21:31.980 --> 00:21:34.049
  • Just a fraction of the amount they had before. but they
  • 00:21:34.116 --> 00:21:36.284
  • They had before. but they just kept loving those
  • 00:21:36.351 --> 00:21:37.419
  • Just kept loving those people, caring for them.
  • 00:21:37.486 --> 00:21:39.721
  • People, caring for them. faithful when it didn't make
  • 00:21:39.788 --> 00:21:41.356
  • Faithful when it didn't make sense. at nine months old, my
  • 00:21:41.423 --> 00:21:44.159
  • Sense. at nine months old, my sister lisa lifted her head
  • 00:21:44.226 --> 00:21:46.595
  • Sister lisa lifted her head off the bed for the first
  • 00:21:46.661 --> 00:21:48.096
  • Off the bed for the first time, something my parents
  • 00:21:48.163 --> 00:21:49.765
  • Time, something my parents were told she would never be
  • 00:21:49.831 --> 00:21:51.233
  • Were told she would never be able to do. little by little,
  • 00:21:51.299 --> 00:21:53.034
  • Able to do. little by little, she got better and better. of
  • 00:21:53.101 --> 00:21:54.403
  • She got better and better. of course, you know today lisa's
  • 00:21:54.469 --> 00:21:55.537
  • Course, you know today lisa's perfectly healthy, one of our
  • 00:21:55.604 --> 00:21:57.205
  • Perfectly healthy, one of our leaders on staff, one of our
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  • Leaders on staff, one of our pastors. the critics said
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  • Pastors. the critics said lakewood would never make it.
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  • Lakewood would never make it. but sixty-five years later,
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  • But sixty-five years later, we're still going strong. but
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  • We're still going strong. but here's my point, there never
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  • Here's my point, there never would have been a lakewood
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  • Would have been a lakewood without a leah, an ugly
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  • Without a leah, an ugly situation. my parents didn't
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  • Situation. my parents didn't like it, but leah was
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  • Like it, but leah was necessary. without my
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  • Necessary. without my sister's birth injury, my
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  • Sister's birth injury, my father would have never
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  • Father would have never discovered the fullness of
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  • Discovered the fullness of the spirit. that's what
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  • The spirit. that's what launched him into who we are
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  • Launched him into who we are today. god doesn't send the
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  • Today. god doesn't send the trouble. he doesn't send the
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  • Trouble. he doesn't send the sickness, but if he allows
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  • You may be facing a leah today, something you don't
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  • Today, something you don't understand. you know god
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  • Understand. you know god promised you rachel, but
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  • Promised you rachel, but things haven't turned out the
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  • Things haven't turned out the way you thought. it looks
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  • Way you thought. it looks like god didn't keep his
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  • Like god didn't keep his word. can i encourage you;
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  • Word. can i encourage you; rachel is still coming. god
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  • Rachel is still coming. god is working behind the scenes.
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  • Is working behind the scenes. this is a test. this is when
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  • This is a test. this is when you have to prove to god that
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  • You have to prove to god that you're not going to get
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  • You're not going to get discouraged and give up. what
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  • Discouraged and give up. what if you knew it had to happen.
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  • If you knew it had to happen. that you couldn't reach your
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  • That you couldn't reach your destiny without leah. i know
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  • Destiny without leah. i know we love rachel, the
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  • We love rachel, the beautiful, the comfortable,
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  • Beautiful, the comfortable, but without leah, you won't
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  • But without leah, you won't see the greater things god
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  • See the greater things god has for you. it was through
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  • Has for you. it was through leah's lineage, through her
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  • Leah's lineage, through her son judah, that we have the
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  • Son judah, that we have the messiah. god knows how to
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  • Messiah. god knows how to bring beautiful things out of
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  • Bring beautiful things out of ugly situations. i'm asking
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  • Ugly situations. i'm asking you to trust him when you
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  • You to trust him when you don't understand. do the
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  • Don't understand. do the right thing when you're
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  • Right thing when you're uncomfortable. one day you'll
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  • Uncomfortable. one day you'll look back and say like jacob,
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  • Look back and say like jacob, "bury me next to leah." all
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  • "bury me next to leah." all those things you didn't like,
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  • Those things you didn't like, you had to endure, suffer
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  • You had to endure, suffer through, you realize they
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  • Through, you realize they made you into who you are. if
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  • Made you into who you are. if you'll do this i believe and
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  • You'll do this i believe and declare, like god did for
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  • Declare, like god did for jacob, you're not only going
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  • Jacob, you're not only going to see your rachel's, the
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  • To see your rachel's, the blessings, favor, healing,
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  • Blessings, favor, healing, but god is going to take
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  • In jesus' name. if you receive it, can you say amen?
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