Joel Osteen - Finding The Lost You

December 28, 2025 | 29:0

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Finding The Lost You | December 28, 2025
  • > joel: god bless you. it's
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  • > joel: god bless you. it's great to be with you today.
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  • Great to be with you today. i hope you'll stay connected
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  • I hope you'll stay connected with us during the week,
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  • With us during the week, through our daily podcast,
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  • Through our daily podcast, our youtube channel, social
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  • Our youtube channel, social media. and you can come visit
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  • Media. and you can come visit us in person. we'd love to
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  • Us in person. we'd love to have you be a part of one
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  • Have you be a part of one of our services.
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  • I like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny. i heard
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  • Something funny. i heard about this couple; they were
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  • About this couple; they were driving down the road when
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  • Driving down the road when they saw a sign that said,
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  • They saw a sign that said, "nacogdoches 40 miles ahead."
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  • "nacogdoches 40 miles ahead." they began to argue over how
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  • They began to argue over how to correctly pronounce the
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  • To correctly pronounce the name nacogdoches. the husband
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  • Name nacogdoches. the husband got so upset, he told his
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  • Got so upset, he told his wife that when they got into
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  • Wife that when they got into town he was going to stop and
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  • Town he was going to stop and prove to her she was wrong.
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  • Prove to her she was wrong. they drove silently the next
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  • They drove silently the next thirty minutes. when he
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  • Thirty minutes. when he arrived in town, he pulled
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  • Arrived in town, he pulled into the first fast food
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  • Into the first fast food restaurant; they both marched
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  • Restaurant; they both marched up to the counter. he said to
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  • Up to the counter. he said to the young lady working behind
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  • The young lady working behind it, "my wife and i have been
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  • It, "my wife and i have been arguing the last thirty
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  • Arguing the last thirty minutes. would you please
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  • Minutes. would you please tell us very slowly and very
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  • Tell us very slowly and very clearly how to pronounce the
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  • Clearly how to pronounce the name of this place." the
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  • Name of this place." the young girl's eyes got real
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  • Young girl's eyes got real big, she leaned over the
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  • Big, she leaned over the counter and said, "bur-ger
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  • Counter and said, "bur-ger king." (laughter)
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  • King." (laughter) all right y'all, say it like
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  • All right y'all, say it like you mean it. this is my
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  • You mean it. this is my bible. i am what it says i
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  • Bible. i am what it says i am. i have what it says i
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  • Am. i have what it says i have. i can do what it says i
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  • Have. i can do what it says i can do. today, i will be
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  • Can do. today, i will be taught the word of god. i
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  • Taught the word of god. i boldly confess: my mind is
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  • Boldly confess: my mind is alert. my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert. my heart is receptive. i will never be the same in
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  • I will never be the same in jesus' name. god bless you.
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  • Jesus' name. god bless you. i want to talk to you to
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  • I want to talk to you to today about finding the lost
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  • Today about finding the lost you. life has a way of
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  • You. life has a way of changing us. at one time we
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  • Changing us. at one time we were outgoing, excited about
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  • Were outgoing, excited about our dreams, grateful for our
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  • Our dreams, grateful for our family. we saw the best in
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  • Family. we saw the best in people, excelled at work,
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  • People, excelled at work, positive, hopeful. then life
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  • Positive, hopeful. then life happens. we go through a
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  • Happens. we go through a disappointment, and we lose a
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  • Disappointment, and we lose a little joy. we make mistakes
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  • Little joy. we make mistakes and lose a little sense of
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  • And lose a little sense of value. people do us wrong,
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  • Value. people do us wrong, and we lose a little passion.
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  • And we lose a little passion. we look up and wonder where
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  • We look up and wonder where that other person went. a man
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  • That other person went. a man said to me last week, “joel,
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  • Said to me last week, “joel, i've lost myself. i used to
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  • I've lost myself. i used to be so passionate, so caring,
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  • Be so passionate, so caring, but i don't know what
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  • But i don't know what happened. i don't even
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  • Happened. i don't even recognize who i am.” he'd
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  • Recognize who i am.” he'd been through a loss. things
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  • Been through a loss. things hadn't turned out the way he
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  • Hadn't turned out the way he thought. now he was a
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  • Thought. now he was a fraction of what he used to
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  • Fraction of what he used to be. but god didn't create us
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  • Be. but god didn't create us to start off excited about
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  • To start off excited about life, joyful, believing for
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  • Life, joyful, believing for our dreams, and then end up
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  • Our dreams, and then end up defeated, insecure, lonely.
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  • Defeated, insecure, lonely. that's life trying to change
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  • That's life trying to change who you are. you may have
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  • Who you are. you may have lost yourself; the good news
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  • Lost yourself; the good news is you can find yourself. you
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  • Is you can find yourself. you can go back to who god made
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  • Can go back to who god made you to be. the real you is
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  • You to be. the real you is still there. the joyful you,
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  • Still there. the joyful you, the passionate you, the
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  • The passionate you, the confident you, the victorious
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  • Confident you, the victorious you.
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  • You. one reason jesus came was to
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  • One reason jesus came was to recover what was lost, to
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  • Recover what was lost, to restore what was stolen, to
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  • Restore what was stolen, to heal what was broken, to give
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  • Heal what was broken, to give you beauty for ashes, joy for
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  • You beauty for ashes, joy for mourning. what you've lost is
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  • Mourning. what you've lost is coming back. god is about to
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  • Coming back. god is about to do a new thing. he's not
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  • Do a new thing. he's not going to leave you at a
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  • Going to leave you at a deficit. he sees what you've
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  • Deficit. he sees what you've been through and he's going
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  • Been through and he's going to make up for it. he's going
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  • To make up for it. he's going to breathe new life, new
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  • To breathe new life, new passion, new opportunities,
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  • Passion, new opportunities, new vision. you haven't seen
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  • New vision. you haven't seen the best version of you yet.
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  • The best version of you yet. it's still in front of you.
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  • It's still in front of you. but there is something you
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  • But there is something you have to do. you can't sit on
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  • Have to do. you can't sit on the sidelines, feeling sorry
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  • The sidelines, feeling sorry for yourself, thinking you're
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  • For yourself, thinking you're washed up. “i've made so many
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  • Washed up. “i've made so many mistakes, why did these
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  • Mistakes, why did these people do me wrong?” as long
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  • People do me wrong?” as long as we have that defeated
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  • As we have that defeated mentality, we're going to
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  • Mentality, we're going to get stuck. you have to get
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  • Get stuck. you have to get back in the game. stir your
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  • Back in the game. stir your faith up. start believing
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  • Faith up. start believing again. start dreaming again.
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  • Again. start dreaming again. start hoping again.
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  • Start hoping again. in the book of genesis, adam
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  • In the book of genesis, adam and eve were in the garden of
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  • And eve were in the garden of eden. they had this
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  • Eden. they had this magnificent place to live.
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  • Magnificent place to live. god would come out at night
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  • God would come out at night and talk with them. they were
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  • And talk with them. they were so happy, confident, secure.
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  • So happy, confident, secure. they woke up excited about
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  • They woke up excited about the day, grateful for what
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  • The day, grateful for what god had given them, then life
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  • God had given them, then life happened. god told them not
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  • Happened. god told them not to eat the fruit from a
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  • To eat the fruit from a certain tree, but they got
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  • Certain tree, but they got deceived and did it anyway.
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  • Deceived and did it anyway. when they did, immediately
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  • When they did, immediately they felt guilty. they knew
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  • They felt guilty. they knew they had done wrong. their
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  • They had done wrong. their conscience came to life. they
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  • Conscience came to life. they recognized they were naked.
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  • Recognized they were naked. they weren't wearing any
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  • They weren't wearing any clothes. they were ashamed,
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  • Clothes. they were ashamed, embarrassed. so, they ran and
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  • Embarrassed. so, they ran and hid. they put on some fig
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  • Hid. they put on some fig leaves to cover up. they got
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  • Leaves to cover up. they got under some bushes, behind
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  • Under some bushes, behind some trees to make sure they
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  • Some trees to make sure they weren't visible.
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  • Weren't visible. when god came to visit that
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  • When god came to visit that evening, he said, “adam where
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  • Evening, he said, “adam where are you?” god wasn't asking
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  • Are you?” god wasn't asking this question to find an
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  • This question to find an answer. he already knew where
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  • Answer. he already knew where they were. he was asking to
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  • They were. he was asking to make adam think. “where are
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  • Make adam think. “where are you?” not just physically. he
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  • You?” not just physically. he was talking about his state
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  • Was talking about his state of mind, his attitude, how he
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  • Of mind, his attitude, how he saw himself. he was saying,
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  • Saw himself. he was saying, “adam where is the real you.
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  • “adam where is the real you. where is the you i created?
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  • Where is the you i created? the joyful you, the confident
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  • The joyful you, the confident you, the valuable you, the
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  • You, the valuable you, the peaceful you. where has that
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  • Peaceful you. where has that person gone?” god is asking
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  • Person gone?” god is asking us, where are you? where is
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  • Us, where are you? where is the you before you went
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  • The you before you went through the disappointment,
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  • Through the disappointment, the you before the breakup,
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  • The you before the breakup, the you before the mistake.
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  • The you before the mistake. where is the passionate you?
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  • Where is the passionate you? the friendly you? the kind
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  • The friendly you? the kind you? the positive, hopeful,
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  • You? the positive, hopeful, generous you? that's who god
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  • Generous you? that's who god made you to be.
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  • But too often, like adam,
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  • But too often, like adam, because of mistakes,
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  • Because of mistakes, disappointments, we lose that
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  • Disappointments, we lose that person. we can look back and
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  • Person. we can look back and think, “i used to be so
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  • Think, “i used to be so passionate about life. i used
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  • Passionate about life. i used to have big dreams. i used to
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  • To have big dreams. i used to feel valuable and secure. i
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  • Don't know what happened to
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  • Don't know what happened to me.” you may have lost who
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  • Me.” you may have lost who you are, but god is going to
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  • You are, but god is going to bring that person back.
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  • Bring that person back. nothing that's happened to
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  • Nothing that's happened to you has taken the real you.
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  • You has taken the real you. adam said god, “when i heard
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  • Adam said god, “when i heard your voice, i was afraid, so
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  • Your voice, i was afraid, so i went and hid.” how many of
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  • I went and hid.” how many of us are hiding? because of
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  • Us are hiding? because of things we've gone through,
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  • Things we've gone through, hiding our potential, hiding
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  • Hiding our potential, hiding our personality, hiding our
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  • Our personality, hiding our smile. you have so much to
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  • Smile. you have so much to offer, but the way many
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  • Offer, but the way many people handle hurts,
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  • People handle hurts, failures, disappointments is
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  • Failures, disappointments is to isolate. to disengage.
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  • To isolate. to disengage. turn their feelings off, push
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  • Turn their feelings off, push down any emotions, not pursue
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  • Down any emotions, not pursue any dreams. they show up at
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  • Work but they're not really
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  • Work but they're not really there. they have great ideas,
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  • There. they have great ideas, but they never share them.
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  • But they never share them. they're in the house
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  • They're in the house physically with their family
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  • Physically with their family but they've checked out
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  • But they've checked out emotionally. the pressure,
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  • Emotionally. the pressure, the hurts, the mistakes have
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  • The hurts, the mistakes have caused them to go into a
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  • Caused them to go into a defense mode. where they
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  • Defense mode. where they don't participate. they don't
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  • Answer the phone, they don't
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  • Answer the phone, they don't interact with friends, they
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  • Interact with friends, they don't share their feelings.
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  • Don't share their feelings. the enemy would love for you
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  • The enemy would love for you to live disengaged,
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  • To live disengaged, unplugged, hiding your gifts,
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  • Unplugged, hiding your gifts, hiding your creativity,
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  • Hiding your creativity, hiding your feelings. god is
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  • Hiding your feelings. god is saying, “where are you? i
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  • Saying, “where are you? i created you to bloom, to
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  • Created you to bloom, to blossom, to shine, to enjoy
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  • Blossom, to shine, to enjoy life, to be a blessing, to
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  • Life, to be a blessing, to love, to laugh, to
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  • Love, to laugh, to accomplish.” but it will
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  • Accomplish.” but it will never happen if you're
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  • Never happen if you're hiding. hiding behind
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  • Hiding. hiding behind mistakes, hiding behind
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  • Mistakes, hiding behind hurts, hiding behind
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  • Hurts, hiding behind injustice.
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  • Injustice. “i wasn't treated right joel.
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  • “i wasn't treated right joel. that's why i'm bitter. i went
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  • That's why i'm bitter. i went through a breakup. they hurt
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  • Through a breakup. they hurt me. that's why i'm not
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  • Me. that's why i'm not passionate anymore. my spouse
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  • Passionate anymore. my spouse and i we don't get along. she
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  • And i we don't get along. she doesn't respect me. that's
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  • Doesn't respect me. that's why i've checked out.” the
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  • Why i've checked out.” the enemy is using that to keep
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  • Enemy is using that to keep you in hiding, feeling
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  • You in hiding, feeling ashamed, insecure, no
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  • Ashamed, insecure, no enthusiasm. but here's a key,
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  • Enthusiasm. but here's a key, god can't heal what's hidden.
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  • God can't heal what's hidden. he's asking you to come out,
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  • He's asking you to come out, to get back engaged, but he's
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  • To get back engaged, but he's not going to force you. you
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  • Not going to force you. you have to make that choice to
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  • Have to make that choice to come out of isolation, come
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  • Come out of isolation, come out of fear, come out of
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  • Out of fear, come out of shame, come out of regrets,
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  • Shame, come out of regrets, and get back in the game.
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  • And get back in the game. that part of you that you
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  • That part of you that you lost, can i encourage you,
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  • Lost, can i encourage you, it's looking for you right
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  • It's looking for you right now. the joy, the talent, the
  • 00:07:46.122 --> 00:07:48.558
  • Now. the joy, the talent, the favor, the confidence, it's
  • 00:07:48.624 --> 00:07:49.992
  • Favor, the confidence, it's knocking on your door. the
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  • Knocking on your door. the creative you, the outgoing
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  • Creative you, the outgoing you, the compassionate you,
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  • You, the compassionate you, the generous you. he's been
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  • The generous you. he's been gone long enough. now you
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  • Gone long enough. now you have to do your part and get
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  • Have to do your part and get your fire back. start taking
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  • Your fire back. start taking some risks. “well, joel, if i
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  • Some risks. “well, joel, if i get involved in this new
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  • Get involved in this new relationship, i may get hurt
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  • Relationship, i may get hurt again. if i take this new
  • 00:08:08.077 --> 00:08:10.079
  • Again. if i take this new opportunity, they may not
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  • Opportunity, they may not treat me right or i may not
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  • Treat me right or i may not be any good at it.” yes, it's
  • 00:08:13.482 --> 00:08:15.318
  • Be any good at it.” yes, it's easier to stay in hiding. if
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  • Easier to stay in hiding. if you unplug, disengage, you
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  • You unplug, disengage, you might not experience as much
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  • Might not experience as much hurt, pain, or possible
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  • Hurt, pain, or possible disappointment. but you'll
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  • Disappointment. but you'll also never experience the
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  • Also never experience the joy, the love, the favor, the
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  • Joy, the love, the favor, the victory that makes life so
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  • Victory that makes life so rewarding and so fulfilling.
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  • Rewarding and so fulfilling. the enemy doesn't want you
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  • The enemy doesn't want you engaged, motivated,
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  • Engaged, motivated, passionate, feeling anything.
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  • Passionate, feeling anything. he'd love for you to go
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  • He'd love for you to go through life numb, never
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  • Through life numb, never showing this world who god
  • 00:08:42.578 --> 00:08:44.180
  • Showing this world who god made you to be. don't fall
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  • Made you to be. don't fall into that trap. you may get
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  • Into that trap. you may get knocked down, but don't go
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  • Knocked down, but don't go into hiding. that
  • 00:08:49.318 --> 00:08:50.753
  • Into hiding. that disappointment is not final.
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  • Disappointment is not final. get back up again. you made a
  • 00:08:52.388 --> 00:08:54.790
  • Get back up again. you made a mistake. don't beat yourself
  • 00:08:54.857 --> 00:08:56.726
  • Mistake. don't beat yourself up for five years, live in
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  • Up for five years, live in regrets. ask for forgiveness
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  • Regrets. ask for forgiveness and move forward. god doesn't
  • 00:09:00.830 --> 00:09:02.798
  • And move forward. god doesn't remember your mistakes, why
  • 00:09:02.865 --> 00:09:04.500
  • Remember your mistakes, why are you remembering them.
  • 00:09:04.567 --> 00:09:06.235
  • Are you remembering them. those are forces trying to
  • 00:09:06.302 --> 00:09:07.536
  • Those are forces trying to get you to unplug, disengage,
  • 00:09:07.603 --> 00:09:10.673
  • Get you to unplug, disengage, so you don't fulfill your
  • 00:09:10.740 --> 00:09:11.941
  • So you don't fulfill your purpose.
  • 00:09:12.008 --> 00:09:13.142
  • Purpose. maybe your dream didn't work
  • 00:09:13.209 --> 00:09:14.577
  • Maybe your dream didn't work out. you put a lot of effort
  • 00:09:14.644 --> 00:09:16.545
  • Out. you put a lot of effort into it, but the business
  • 00:09:16.612 --> 00:09:18.080
  • Into it, but the business failed. it didn't make it.
  • 00:09:18.147 --> 00:09:20.016
  • Failed. it didn't make it. failure is an event, not a
  • 00:09:20.082 --> 00:09:21.784
  • Failure is an event, not a person. you don't have to go
  • 00:09:21.851 --> 00:09:23.753
  • Person. you don't have to go into hiding. it's not who you
  • 00:09:23.819 --> 00:09:24.954
  • Into hiding. it's not who you are. you're not a failure.
  • 00:09:25.021 --> 00:09:26.322
  • Are. you're not a failure. you're a child of the most
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  • You're a child of the most high god. any person that's
  • 00:09:27.823 --> 00:09:29.925
  • High god. any person that's ever done anything
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  • Ever done anything significant has had some
  • 00:09:30.960 --> 00:09:32.695
  • Significant has had some failures, disappointments,
  • 00:09:32.762 --> 00:09:34.330
  • Failures, disappointments, and setbacks. or perhaps,
  • 00:09:34.397 --> 00:09:36.365
  • And setbacks. or perhaps, people have hurt you. they
  • 00:09:36.432 --> 00:09:37.933
  • People have hurt you. they put you at a disadvantage.
  • 00:09:38.000 --> 00:09:39.902
  • Put you at a disadvantage. thoughts will try to convince
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  • Thoughts will try to convince you that you're lacking,
  • 00:09:41.070 --> 00:09:42.538
  • You that you're lacking, you're not up to par. “if you
  • 00:09:42.605 --> 00:09:44.440
  • You're not up to par. “if you were more attractive, if you
  • 00:09:44.507 --> 00:09:46.175
  • Were more attractive, if you had a better personality, if
  • 00:09:46.242 --> 00:09:47.943
  • Had a better personality, if you were more talented, this
  • 00:09:48.010 --> 00:09:49.211
  • You were more talented, this wouldn't have happened.” it's
  • 00:09:49.278 --> 00:09:50.379
  • Wouldn't have happened.” it's easy to go into hiding, live
  • 00:09:50.446 --> 00:09:52.381
  • Easy to go into hiding, live insecure, feeling not
  • 00:09:52.448 --> 00:09:53.916
  • Insecure, feeling not valuable. don't believe those
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  • Valuable. don't believe those lies. you're made in the
  • 00:09:56.085 --> 00:09:57.720
  • Lies. you're made in the image of almighty god. people
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  • Image of almighty god. people can't make you feel inferior
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  • Can't make you feel inferior unless you give them
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  • Unless you give them permission. they don't
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  • Permission. they don't determine your worth and
  • 00:10:04.894 --> 00:10:06.028
  • Determine your worth and value. what they say, how
  • 00:10:06.095 --> 00:10:08.297
  • Value. what they say, how they treat you, doesn't
  • 00:10:08.364 --> 00:10:09.765
  • They treat you, doesn't change who god made you to
  • 00:10:09.832 --> 00:10:11.300
  • Change who god made you to be. quit giving them
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  • Be. quit giving them permission.
  • 00:10:13.102 --> 00:10:14.704
  • Permission. when i was in junior high, i
  • 00:10:14.770 --> 00:10:16.272
  • When i was in junior high, i was very outgoing. i had a
  • 00:10:16.338 --> 00:10:17.707
  • Was very outgoing. i had a lot of friends. we played
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  • Lot of friends. we played sports. i was confident,
  • 00:10:19.241 --> 00:10:20.976
  • Sports. i was confident, secure, i was always making
  • 00:10:21.043 --> 00:10:22.712
  • Secure, i was always making people laugh. but when i got
  • 00:10:22.778 --> 00:10:24.647
  • People laugh. but when i got into high school, all my
  • 00:10:24.714 --> 00:10:26.115
  • Into high school, all my friends kept growing taller,
  • 00:10:26.182 --> 00:10:27.717
  • Friends kept growing taller, but i didn't. i went into my
  • 00:10:27.783 --> 00:10:29.819
  • But i didn't. i went into my freshmen year at four feet
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  • Freshmen year at four feet nine inches tall. people
  • 00:10:31.554 --> 00:10:32.988
  • Nine inches tall. people called me peanut. those
  • 00:10:33.055 --> 00:10:34.890
  • Called me peanut. those thoughts started coming,
  • 00:10:34.957 --> 00:10:36.192
  • Thoughts started coming, “you're too short, you're at
  • 00:10:36.258 --> 00:10:37.727
  • “you're too short, you're at a disadvantage, people are
  • 00:10:37.793 --> 00:10:39.095
  • A disadvantage, people are making fun of you.” i let
  • 00:10:39.161 --> 00:10:40.830
  • Making fun of you.” i let that insecurity in, and it
  • 00:10:40.896 --> 00:10:42.765
  • That insecurity in, and it started to affect my
  • 00:10:42.832 --> 00:10:43.733
  • Started to affect my confidence. now i wasn't as
  • 00:10:43.799 --> 00:10:45.534
  • Confidence. now i wasn't as outgoing. i started to hide
  • 00:10:45.601 --> 00:10:47.670
  • Outgoing. i started to hide my personality, became more
  • 00:10:47.737 --> 00:10:49.438
  • My personality, became more quiet and reserved. i tried
  • 00:10:49.505 --> 00:10:51.741
  • Quiet and reserved. i tried out for the baseball team. in
  • 00:10:51.807 --> 00:10:53.676
  • Out for the baseball team. in little league, i was always
  • 00:10:53.743 --> 00:10:55.044
  • Little league, i was always one of the best players. i
  • 00:10:55.111 --> 00:10:56.712
  • One of the best players. i made the all-star team every
  • 00:10:56.779 --> 00:10:57.980
  • Made the all-star team every year. but now in high school,
  • 00:10:58.047 --> 00:11:00.282
  • Year. but now in high school, people were so much bigger
  • 00:11:00.349 --> 00:11:01.484
  • People were so much bigger and stronger. we were all in
  • 00:11:01.550 --> 00:11:03.552
  • And stronger. we were all in the gym, waiting to see who
  • 00:11:03.619 --> 00:11:05.287
  • The gym, waiting to see who made the team. the coach
  • 00:11:05.354 --> 00:11:06.756
  • Made the team. the coach called out the names one by
  • 00:11:06.822 --> 00:11:08.290
  • Called out the names one by one. this friend made it,
  • 00:11:08.357 --> 00:11:09.892
  • One. this friend made it, then another and another and
  • 00:11:09.959 --> 00:11:11.160
  • Then another and another and another. they all made the
  • 00:11:11.227 --> 00:11:12.328
  • Another. they all made the team. i waited and waited,
  • 00:11:12.394 --> 00:11:14.530
  • Team. i waited and waited, thinking surely my name was
  • 00:11:14.597 --> 00:11:15.798
  • Thinking surely my name was going to be next, but i
  • 00:11:15.865 --> 00:11:17.099
  • Going to be next, but i didn't make it. the coach
  • 00:11:17.166 --> 00:11:18.801
  • Didn't make it. the coach called me in afterwards and
  • 00:11:18.868 --> 00:11:19.735
  • Called me in afterwards and said, “joel, you're a good
  • 00:11:19.802 --> 00:11:20.669
  • Said, “joel, you're a good player. you're just too small
  • 00:11:20.736 --> 00:11:22.838
  • Player. you're just too small to play at this level.”
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  • That was the last thing i
  • 00:11:24.640 --> 00:11:25.708
  • That was the last thing i needed to hear. for years i
  • 00:11:25.775 --> 00:11:27.476
  • Needed to hear. for years i let that affect my
  • 00:11:27.543 --> 00:11:28.410
  • Let that affect my self-image, my confidence. i
  • 00:11:28.477 --> 00:11:31.447
  • Self-image, my confidence. i dealt with it the way many of
  • 00:11:31.514 --> 00:11:33.149
  • Dealt with it the way many of us do, i went into hiding. i
  • 00:11:33.215 --> 00:11:35.451
  • Us do, i went into hiding. i wasn't as outgoing. when
  • 00:11:35.518 --> 00:11:37.253
  • Wasn't as outgoing. when certain opportunities came, i
  • 00:11:37.319 --> 00:11:38.954
  • Certain opportunities came, i would shrink back, unsure of
  • 00:11:39.021 --> 00:11:40.823
  • Would shrink back, unsure of myself, wondering what people
  • 00:11:40.890 --> 00:11:42.258
  • Myself, wondering what people would think. but i could hear
  • 00:11:42.324 --> 00:11:43.826
  • Would think. but i could hear god whispering, deep down in
  • 00:11:43.893 --> 00:11:45.661
  • God whispering, deep down in my spirit, “joel, where are
  • 00:11:45.728 --> 00:11:47.663
  • My spirit, “joel, where are you? where is that person i
  • 00:11:47.730 --> 00:11:49.698
  • You? where is that person i created, strong, confident,
  • 00:11:49.765 --> 00:11:52.034
  • Created, strong, confident, fun, outgoing. why are you
  • 00:11:52.101 --> 00:11:54.737
  • Shrinking back, letting
  • 00:11:54.837 --> 00:11:56.038
  • Shrinking back, letting someone else determine your
  • 00:11:56.105 --> 00:11:57.506
  • Someone else determine your value, when you have so much
  • 00:11:57.573 --> 00:11:59.408
  • Value, when you have so much more to offer.” i had to make
  • 00:11:59.475 --> 00:12:01.744
  • More to offer.” i had to make that decision to come out of
  • 00:12:01.811 --> 00:12:03.412
  • That decision to come out of hiding. to not worry about
  • 00:12:03.479 --> 00:12:05.447
  • Hiding. to not worry about what other people think, not
  • 00:12:05.514 --> 00:12:07.116
  • What other people think, not let disappointments take my
  • 00:12:07.183 --> 00:12:08.717
  • Let disappointments take my passion. if i had not done
  • 00:12:08.784 --> 00:12:10.653
  • Passion. if i had not done that, i wouldn't be up here
  • 00:12:10.719 --> 00:12:12.188
  • That, i wouldn't be up here today. is there some area you
  • 00:12:12.254 --> 00:12:15.157
  • Today. is there some area you need to come out of hiding?
  • 00:12:15.224 --> 00:12:16.992
  • Need to come out of hiding? you've let what didn't work
  • 00:12:17.059 --> 00:12:18.227
  • You've let what didn't work out, what someone said, how
  • 00:12:18.294 --> 00:12:20.062
  • Out, what someone said, how you were raised, cause you
  • 00:12:20.129 --> 00:12:21.864
  • You were raised, cause you shrink back, unplug, now
  • 00:12:21.931 --> 00:12:24.333
  • Shrink back, unplug, now we're not seeing the best of
  • 00:12:24.400 --> 00:12:25.668
  • We're not seeing the best of you.
  • 00:12:25.734 --> 00:12:26.769
  • You. when adam made that mistake,
  • 00:12:26.836 --> 00:12:28.304
  • When adam made that mistake, he went into hiding. he tried
  • 00:12:28.370 --> 00:12:30.005
  • He went into hiding. he tried to check out but notice how
  • 00:12:30.072 --> 00:12:32.374
  • To check out but notice how god came looking for him. god
  • 00:12:32.441 --> 00:12:34.777
  • God came looking for him. god could have said, “too bad
  • 00:12:34.844 --> 00:12:35.644
  • Could have said, “too bad adam. you blew it. you had
  • 00:12:35.711 --> 00:12:37.379
  • Adam. you blew it. you had your chance.” god never gives
  • 00:12:37.446 --> 00:12:39.381
  • Your chance.” god never gives up on us. even when we hide,
  • 00:12:39.448 --> 00:12:42.384
  • Up on us. even when we hide, even when we lose the person
  • 00:12:42.451 --> 00:12:43.953
  • Even when we lose the person he made us to be, he keeps
  • 00:12:44.019 --> 00:12:45.654
  • He made us to be, he keeps coming after us saying,
  • 00:12:45.721 --> 00:12:47.389
  • Coming after us saying, “where are you? i miss you. i
  • 00:12:47.456 --> 00:12:49.859
  • “where are you? i miss you. i need you. i can restore you.”
  • 00:12:49.925 --> 00:12:52.795
  • Need you. i can restore you.” like i did, maybe you've let
  • 00:12:52.862 --> 00:12:54.563
  • Like i did, maybe you've let a disappointment, or you've
  • 00:12:54.630 --> 00:12:56.031
  • A disappointment, or you've let a mistake cause you to
  • 00:12:56.098 --> 00:12:57.933
  • Let a mistake cause you to hide your personality, hide
  • 00:12:58.000 --> 00:13:00.035
  • Hide your personality, hide your smile, hide your
  • 00:13:00.102 --> 00:13:01.337
  • Your smile, hide your passion. you used to have big
  • 00:13:01.403 --> 00:13:03.405
  • Passion. you used to have big dreams, you used to fight for
  • 00:13:03.472 --> 00:13:05.274
  • Dreams, you used to fight for your family, you used to be
  • 00:13:05.341 --> 00:13:07.009
  • Your family, you used to be passionate about your walk
  • 00:13:07.076 --> 00:13:08.644
  • Passionate about your walk with god, but you kind of
  • 00:13:08.711 --> 00:13:10.212
  • With god, but you kind of disengaged, you've checked
  • 00:13:10.279 --> 00:13:11.580
  • Disengaged, you've checked out thinking it's not worth
  • 00:13:11.647 --> 00:13:12.748
  • Out thinking it's not worth it. can i tell you? god is
  • 00:13:12.815 --> 00:13:15.184
  • It. can i tell you? god is looking for you. not the
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  • Looking for you. not the partial you, not the shrunk
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  • Partial you, not the shrunk back version, not the
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  • Back version, not the intimidated you. where is the
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  • Intimidated you. where is the confident you, where is the
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  • Confident you, where is the outgoing you, where is the
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  • Outgoing you, where is the talented you? where is the
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  • Talented you? where is the you before the coach told you
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  • You before the coach told you you're too small. where is
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  • You're too small. where is the you before you ate the
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  • The you before you ate the forbidden fruit? that's who
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  • Forbidden fruit? that's who god's looking for. the true
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  • God's looking for. the true you, not the watered down
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  • You, not the watered down you. the you that dreamed
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  • You. the you that dreamed big, the you that knew all
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  • Big, the you that knew all things are possible. the you
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  • Things are possible. the you that took steps of faith, the
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  • That took steps of faith, the you that was determined to
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  • You that was determined to set new standards. the you
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  • Set new standards. the you that didn't let doubt and
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  • That didn't let doubt and fear and negativity talk you
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  • Fear and negativity talk you out of your goals. that's who
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  • Out of your goals. that's who god is looking for. i believe
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  • God is looking for. i believe today that part of you that
  • 00:13:55.190 --> 00:13:56.825
  • Today that part of you that you lost, is coming back. god
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  • You lost, is coming back. god is restoring dreams,
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  • Is restoring dreams, restoring passion, restoring
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  • Restoring passion, restoring confidence, restoring value,
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  • Confidence, restoring value, vision, creativity, goals,
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  • Vision, creativity, goals, joy. this is a new day. the
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  • Joy. this is a new day. the full you is coming back.
  • 00:14:10.606 --> 00:14:13.108
  • Full you is coming back. adam told god he was hiding
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  • Adam told god he was hiding because he was naked. he felt
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  • Because he was naked. he felt ashamed and embarrassed. the
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  • Ashamed and embarrassed. the second question god asked in
  • 00:14:19.114 --> 00:14:20.783
  • Second question god asked in the bible was, “adam, who
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  • The bible was, “adam, who told you that you were
  • 00:14:23.118 --> 00:14:23.953
  • Told you that you were naked.” again, god wasn't
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  • Naked.” again, god wasn't asking to get information. he
  • 00:14:26.388 --> 00:14:28.324
  • Asking to get information. he wanted adam to see where that
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  • Wanted adam to see where that thought came from. that it
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  • Thought came from. that it was the enemy deceiving him.
  • 00:14:31.560 --> 00:14:33.829
  • Was the enemy deceiving him. it's no different today, the
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  • It's no different today, the enemy will whisper his lies,
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  • Enemy will whisper his lies, trying to deceive us into
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  • Trying to deceive us into hiding. “you're not talented
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  • Hiding. “you're not talented enough. you've made too many
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  • Enough. you've made too many mistakes. you'll never be
  • 00:14:42.237 --> 00:14:43.772
  • Mistakes. you'll never be successful. you come from the
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  • Successful. you come from the wrong family.” you need to
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  • Wrong family.” you need to ask yourself, where are these
  • 00:14:47.176 --> 00:14:48.644
  • Ask yourself, where are these thoughts coming from. if
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  • Thoughts coming from. if they're negative,
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  • They're negative, discouraging, pushing you
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  • Discouraging, pushing you down, making you feel
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  • Down, making you feel unworthy, you can be certain,
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  • Unworthy, you can be certain, they are not from god. don't
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  • They are not from god. don't give them the time of day.
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  • Give them the time of day. let them go in one ear and
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  • Let them go in one ear and out the other.
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  • When i didn't make the
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  • When i didn't make the baseball team, that coach was
  • 00:15:04.326 --> 00:15:06.261
  • Baseball team, that coach was just doing his job, judging
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  • Just doing his job, judging by the natural, the physical.
  • 00:15:07.830 --> 00:15:09.832
  • By the natural, the physical. but people don't determine
  • 00:15:09.898 --> 00:15:11.066
  • But people don't determine our value. i could hear god
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  • Our value. i could hear god saying, “joel who told you
  • 00:15:13.369 --> 00:15:14.970
  • Saying, “joel who told you you're too small? who told
  • 00:15:15.037 --> 00:15:16.872
  • You're too small? who told you you're not up to par? i
  • 00:15:16.939 --> 00:15:18.374
  • You you're not up to par? i created you in my own image.
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  • Created you in my own image. you were fearfully and
  • 00:15:20.609 --> 00:15:21.643
  • You were fearfully and wonderfully made. i called
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  • Wonderfully made. i called you a masterpiece. i put a
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  • You a masterpiece. i put a crown of favor on your head.”
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  • You need to listen to what
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  • You need to listen to what god says about you and not
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  • God says about you and not all the negative chatter. you
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  • All the negative chatter. you may have made poor choices,
  • 00:15:32.821 --> 00:15:34.356
  • May have made poor choices, gotten off course. who told
  • 00:15:34.423 --> 00:15:36.191
  • Gotten off course. who told you that mistake stopped your
  • 00:15:36.258 --> 00:15:37.793
  • You that mistake stopped your purpose? who told you that
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  • Purpose? who told you that you're washed up, unworthy,
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  • You're washed up, unworthy, just sit on the sidelines?
  • 00:15:41.764 --> 00:15:43.832
  • Just sit on the sidelines? that's the accuser trying to
  • 00:15:43.899 --> 00:15:45.601
  • That's the accuser trying to keep you in hiding, feeling
  • 00:15:45.667 --> 00:15:47.569
  • Keep you in hiding, feeling guilty, unworthy, so you
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  • Guilty, unworthy, so you won't pursue your dreams, you
  • 00:15:49.605 --> 00:15:51.473
  • Won't pursue your dreams, you won't accomplish your
  • 00:15:51.540 --> 00:15:52.307
  • Won't accomplish your assignment. don't believe
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  • Assignment. don't believe those lies. god's mercy is
  • 00:15:54.176 --> 00:15:56.278
  • Those lies. god's mercy is bigger than any mistake
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  • Bigger than any mistake you've made. he already took
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  • You've made. he already took into account every failure,
  • 00:16:00.115 --> 00:16:02.051
  • Into account every failure, every wrong turn, every
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  • Every wrong turn, every compromise. he has mercy,
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  • Compromise. he has mercy, restoration, new beginnings
  • 00:16:06.355 --> 00:16:08.424
  • Restoration, new beginnings already lined up. his calling
  • 00:16:08.490 --> 00:16:11.093
  • Already lined up. his calling on your life is irrevocable.
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  • On your life is irrevocable. he doesn't change his mind.
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  • He doesn't change his mind. what he started he will
  • 00:16:15.798 --> 00:16:17.699
  • What he started he will finish, but you have to do
  • 00:16:17.766 --> 00:16:19.334
  • Finish, but you have to do your part, come out of
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  • Your part, come out of hiding. come out of shame.
  • 00:16:20.836 --> 00:16:22.738
  • Hiding. come out of shame. come out of guilt. get back
  • 00:16:22.805 --> 00:16:24.673
  • Come out of guilt. get back in the game. we need you.
  • 00:16:24.740 --> 00:16:27.643
  • In the game. we need you. your family needs you, fully
  • 00:16:27.709 --> 00:16:29.545
  • Your family needs you, fully engaged. your children need
  • 00:16:29.611 --> 00:16:31.747
  • Engaged. your children need you, healthy and whole. your
  • 00:16:31.814 --> 00:16:34.049
  • You, healthy and whole. your friends need you, not the
  • 00:16:34.116 --> 00:16:35.884
  • Friends need you, not the partial you but the full you,
  • 00:16:35.951 --> 00:16:38.320
  • Partial you but the full you, the outgoing you, the loving
  • 00:16:38.387 --> 00:16:40.022
  • The outgoing you, the loving you, the friendly you.
  • 00:16:40.089 --> 00:16:42.724
  • You, the friendly you. maybe you went through a
  • 00:16:42.791 --> 00:16:43.358
  • Maybe you went through a breakup, you had a divorce.
  • 00:16:43.425 --> 00:16:45.894
  • Breakup, you had a divorce. who told you that you'll
  • 00:16:45.961 --> 00:16:47.429
  • Who told you that you'll never be happy again? who
  • 00:16:47.496 --> 00:16:49.331
  • Never be happy again? who told you that disappointment
  • 00:16:49.398 --> 00:16:51.033
  • Told you that disappointment has ruined your future, that
  • 00:16:51.100 --> 00:16:52.734
  • Has ruined your future, that you'll never meet anyone? the
  • 00:16:52.801 --> 00:16:54.770
  • You'll never meet anyone? the enemy wouldn't be telling you
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  • Enemy wouldn't be telling you that if he didn't know it was
  • 00:16:56.071 --> 00:16:57.706
  • That if he didn't know it was going to happen. that's why
  • 00:16:57.773 --> 00:16:59.508
  • Going to happen. that's why he's trying to deceive you
  • 00:16:59.575 --> 00:17:00.709
  • He's trying to deceive you into living negative,
  • 00:17:00.776 --> 00:17:02.144
  • Into living negative, doubting, thinking you've
  • 00:17:02.211 --> 00:17:03.512
  • Doubting, thinking you've missed your chance. tune that
  • 00:17:03.579 --> 00:17:05.414
  • Missed your chance. tune that out. god has beauty for the
  • 00:17:05.481 --> 00:17:07.182
  • Out. god has beauty for the ashes. the right person, a
  • 00:17:07.249 --> 00:17:09.451
  • Ashes. the right person, a divine connection is already
  • 00:17:09.518 --> 00:17:11.587
  • Divine connection is already in route. your latter days
  • 00:17:11.653 --> 00:17:13.689
  • In route. your latter days will be better than your
  • 00:17:13.755 --> 00:17:14.656
  • Will be better than your former days. or how about
  • 00:17:14.723 --> 00:17:16.692
  • Former days. or how about this: who told you that
  • 00:17:16.758 --> 00:17:18.127
  • This: who told you that you're not talented enough?
  • 00:17:18.193 --> 00:17:19.595
  • You're not talented enough? that all you can make in
  • 00:17:19.661 --> 00:17:20.529
  • That all you can make in school are c's and not a's.
  • 00:17:20.596 --> 00:17:22.764
  • School are c's and not a's. that's the enemy doing what
  • 00:17:22.831 --> 00:17:24.566
  • That's the enemy doing what he did in the garden of eden,
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  • He did in the garden of eden, trying to deceive you into
  • 00:17:26.768 --> 00:17:28.036
  • Trying to deceive you into hiding your gifts, hiding
  • 00:17:28.103 --> 00:17:29.838
  • Hiding your gifts, hiding your talents. don't believe
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  • Your talents. don't believe his lies. god has put
  • 00:17:31.874 --> 00:17:33.542
  • His lies. god has put greatness in you. there are
  • 00:17:33.609 --> 00:17:35.444
  • Greatness in you. there are ideas, creativity,
  • 00:17:35.511 --> 00:17:37.312
  • Ideas, creativity, businesses. he's created you
  • 00:17:37.379 --> 00:17:39.481
  • Businesses. he's created you to bloom, to blossom, to go
  • 00:17:39.548 --> 00:17:42.017
  • To bloom, to blossom, to go where no one in your family
  • 00:17:42.084 --> 00:17:43.385
  • Where no one in your family has gone. that's why the
  • 00:17:43.452 --> 00:17:45.120
  • Has gone. that's why the enemy fights so hard to keep
  • 00:17:45.187 --> 00:17:47.356
  • Enemy fights so hard to keep you pushed down, feeling
  • 00:17:47.422 --> 00:17:49.324
  • You pushed down, feeling inadequate, where you have a
  • 00:17:49.391 --> 00:17:50.292
  • Inadequate, where you have a limited vision. no come out
  • 00:17:50.359 --> 00:17:52.327
  • Limited vision. no come out of hiding. god is about to
  • 00:17:52.394 --> 00:17:54.363
  • Of hiding. god is about to enlarge your territory. he's
  • 00:17:54.429 --> 00:17:56.398
  • Enlarge your territory. he's about to expand your
  • 00:17:56.465 --> 00:17:57.599
  • About to expand your influence. he's about to
  • 00:17:57.666 --> 00:17:59.034
  • Influence. he's about to increase your resources. you
  • 00:17:59.101 --> 00:18:00.936
  • Increase your resources. you haven't seen, heard or
  • 00:18:01.003 --> 00:18:02.738
  • Haven't seen, heard or imagined what he has in
  • 00:18:02.804 --> 00:18:04.306
  • Imagined what he has in store. he's just waiting for
  • 00:18:04.373 --> 00:18:06.175
  • Store. he's just waiting for you to come back to who you
  • 00:18:06.241 --> 00:18:08.210
  • You to come back to who you are. where is the bold you,
  • 00:18:08.277 --> 00:18:10.879
  • Are. where is the bold you, the confident you, the faith
  • 00:18:10.946 --> 00:18:12.514
  • The confident you, the faith filled you, the dreaming you,
  • 00:18:12.581 --> 00:18:14.283
  • Filled you, the dreaming you, the mighty hero you.
  • 00:18:14.349 --> 00:18:16.585
  • The mighty hero you. i saw a video about this
  • 00:18:16.652 --> 00:18:17.953
  • I saw a video about this stray dog. he was about a
  • 00:18:18.020 --> 00:18:19.988
  • Stray dog. he was about a year old. he lived in this
  • 00:18:20.055 --> 00:18:21.790
  • Year old. he lived in this busy downtown area, in an
  • 00:18:21.857 --> 00:18:23.892
  • Busy downtown area, in an alleyway behind this big
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  • Alleyway behind this big dumpster. one cold, rainy
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  • Dumpster. one cold, rainy night, this couple was
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  • Night, this couple was throwing away some trash and
  • 00:18:29.298 --> 00:18:30.866
  • Throwing away some trash and noticed the dog. he was
  • 00:18:30.933 --> 00:18:32.568
  • Noticed the dog. he was curled up in the corner,
  • 00:18:32.634 --> 00:18:34.269
  • Curled up in the corner, shaking, all shriveled up. he
  • 00:18:34.336 --> 00:18:35.938
  • Shaking, all shriveled up. he was very thin, lost most of
  • 00:18:36.004 --> 00:18:37.773
  • Was very thin, lost most of his hair. the girl felt sorry
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  • His hair. the girl felt sorry and went over to help it, but
  • 00:18:39.875 --> 00:18:41.343
  • And went over to help it, but the dog was very angry. he
  • 00:18:41.410 --> 00:18:43.278
  • The dog was very angry. he growled and showed his teeth.
  • 00:18:43.345 --> 00:18:45.214
  • Growled and showed his teeth. had both paws out. this girl
  • 00:18:45.280 --> 00:18:47.382
  • Had both paws out. this girl wouldn't give up. she went
  • 00:18:47.449 --> 00:18:48.750
  • Wouldn't give up. she went home and got some food and
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  • Home and got some food and blankets. this time she got
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  • Blankets. this time she got down on her knees to be more
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  • Down on her knees to be more at the dog's level. she put
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  • At the dog's level. she put some food out, talked very
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  • Some food out, talked very gently and softly. little by
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  • Gently and softly. little by little, the dog began to let
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  • Little, the dog began to let down his defenses. she was
  • 00:19:01.196 --> 00:19:02.998
  • Down his defenses. she was able to get close enough to
  • 00:19:03.065 --> 00:19:04.032
  • Able to get close enough to pet the dog. after about an
  • 00:19:04.099 --> 00:19:05.801
  • Pet the dog. after about an hour, she gained the dog's
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  • Hour, she gained the dog's trust enough, to pick it up.
  • 00:19:07.502 --> 00:19:09.338
  • Trust enough, to pick it up. she and her husband took the
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  • She and her husband took the dog home. in her house, the
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  • Dog home. in her house, the dog went to the corner, would
  • 00:19:13.141 --> 00:19:14.710
  • Dog went to the corner, would never put his head up. it
  • 00:19:14.776 --> 00:19:16.378
  • Never put his head up. it just hung down, so afraid and
  • 00:19:16.445 --> 00:19:18.313
  • Just hung down, so afraid and uncertain. this girl just
  • 00:19:18.380 --> 00:19:20.182
  • Uncertain. this girl just kept loving it, giving it
  • 00:19:20.249 --> 00:19:21.817
  • Kept loving it, giving it food. doing her best to win
  • 00:19:21.883 --> 00:19:23.051
  • Food. doing her best to win it over. then the video fast
  • 00:19:23.118 --> 00:19:25.354
  • It over. then the video fast forwarded to a year ahead.
  • 00:19:25.420 --> 00:19:27.589
  • Forwarded to a year ahead. you wouldn't believe it was
  • 00:19:27.656 --> 00:19:28.790
  • You wouldn't believe it was the same dog. this dog was so
  • 00:19:28.857 --> 00:19:30.659
  • The same dog. this dog was so playful and fun. he was
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  • Playful and fun. he was jumping up on them. he would
  • 00:19:32.694 --> 00:19:34.229
  • Jumping up on them. he would spin around in circles so
  • 00:19:34.296 --> 00:19:35.697
  • Spin around in circles so happy. run fetch things in
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  • Happy. run fetch things in the backyard.
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  • The backyard. that playful, healthy, loving
  • 00:19:39.468 --> 00:19:41.903
  • That playful, healthy, loving dog was in there this whole
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  • Dog was in there this whole time. but when you go through
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  • Time. but when you go through hurts, mistreatment, bad
  • 00:19:45.607 --> 00:19:48.343
  • Hurts, mistreatment, bad breaks, there's a natural
  • 00:19:48.410 --> 00:19:49.911
  • Breaks, there's a natural tendency to isolate,
  • 00:19:49.978 --> 00:19:51.913
  • Tendency to isolate, disengage and become angry.
  • 00:19:51.980 --> 00:19:54.616
  • Disengage and become angry. we put up these defenses and
  • 00:19:54.683 --> 00:19:56.051
  • We put up these defenses and think, “this is just who i
  • 00:19:56.118 --> 00:19:57.552
  • Think, “this is just who i am. i'm bitter because of a
  • 00:19:57.619 --> 00:19:59.588
  • Am. i'm bitter because of a bad childhood. i'm angry
  • 00:19:59.655 --> 00:20:01.657
  • Bad childhood. i'm angry because the company did me
  • 00:20:01.723 --> 00:20:02.691
  • Because the company did me wrong. i've given up on my
  • 00:20:02.758 --> 00:20:04.393
  • Wrong. i've given up on my dreams because i made so many
  • 00:20:04.459 --> 00:20:05.661
  • Dreams because i made so many bad decisions. look at where
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  • Bad decisions. look at where i am, joel.” like that little
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  • I am, joel.” like that little dog, there is so much more in
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  • Dog, there is so much more in you. you're just letting that
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  • You. you're just letting that defense mechanism cause you
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  • Defense mechanism cause you to isolate, and push away,
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  • To isolate, and push away, thinking that staying in
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  • Thinking that staying in hiding is the way to deal
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  • Hiding is the way to deal with it. but that is not the
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  • With it. but that is not the best option. god has seen
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  • Best option. god has seen everything you've been
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  • Everything you've been through, who hurt you, who
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  • Through, who hurt you, who didn't keep their word, he's
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  • Didn't keep their word, he's seen the mistakes you've
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  • Seen the mistakes you've made, the times you took the
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  • Made, the times you took the wrong turn. now you're in
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  • Wrong turn. now you're in that corner, not wanting
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  • That corner, not wanting anyone to help. like that
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  • Anyone to help. like that young woman went with
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  • Young woman went with compassion and rescued the
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  • Compassion and rescued the dog, god is coming to you.
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  • Dog, god is coming to you. he's calling your name. if
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  • He's calling your name. if you'll come out of hiding, if
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  • You'll come out of hiding, if you'll let down your defenses
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  • You'll let down your defenses and give it another chance,
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  • And give it another chance, you'll discover a life
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  • You'll discover a life greater than you ever
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  • Greater than you ever dreamed. god is not finished
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  • Dreamed. god is not finished with you. he didn't create
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  • With you. he didn't create you and then decide to walk
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  • You and then decide to walk away because of mistakes,
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  • Away because of mistakes, neglect, or bad breaks. he's
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  • Neglect, or bad breaks. he's a god who restores, a god who
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  • A god who restores, a god who has new beginnings. he's
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  • Has new beginnings. he's saying, “where are you? let
  • 00:21:06.855 --> 00:21:09.558
  • Saying, “where are you? let me turn things around. let me
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  • Me turn things around. let me love you back into wholeness.
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  • Love you back into wholeness. let me pay you back for the
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  • Let me pay you back for the unfair things.”
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  • It's not always something
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  • It's not always something big. it may be just hiding a
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  • Big. it may be just hiding a part of your personality,
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  • Part of your personality, letting insecurity, what
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  • Letting insecurity, what other people think, keep you
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  • Other people think, keep you from blossoming into who you
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  • From blossoming into who you were created to be. or
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  • Were created to be. or letting mistakes convince you
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  • Letting mistakes convince you to feel unworthy. you know
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  • To feel unworthy. you know you have so much more in you.
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  • You have so much more in you. you can feel god calling you
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  • You can feel god calling you to step up, to get out of
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  • To step up, to get out of your comfort zone, but it's
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  • Much easier to stay in
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  • Much easier to stay in hiding. not having to
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  • Hiding. not having to stretch. yes, it's easier but
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  • Stretch. yes, it's easier but you'll never be fulfilled
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  • You'll never be fulfilled settling for less than what
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  • Settling for less than what god put in you. there will
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  • God put in you. there will always be a subtle unrest, a
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  • Always be a subtle unrest, a slight uneasiness. that's god
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  • Slight uneasiness. that's god saying step into my purpose
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  • Saying step into my purpose for your life.
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  • For your life. in the book of 1 kings, the
  • 00:21:56.405 --> 00:21:59.474
  • In the book of 1 kings, the prophet elijah had just
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  • Prophet elijah had just called down fire from heaven
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  • Called down fire from heaven and destroyed 450 false
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  • And destroyed 450 false prophets. he had just prayed
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  • Prophets. he had just prayed and saw a
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  • And saw a three-and-a-half-year drought
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  • Three-and-a-half-year drought come to an end. he had just
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  • Come to an end. he had just outrun a chariot for twenty
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  • Outrun a chariot for twenty miles. you would think he
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  • Miles. you would think he would never have a down
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  • Would never have a down moment. he was so powerful
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  • Moment. he was so powerful and anointed, but at one
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  • And anointed, but at one point he was so depressed he
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  • Point he was so depressed he wanted to die. when the
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  • Wanted to die. when the king's wife heard about the
  • 00:22:22.164 --> 00:22:23.465
  • King's wife heard about the prophets he had destroyed,
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  • Prophets he had destroyed, she sent word saying, “i'm
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  • She sent word saying, “i'm going to kill you by this
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  • Going to kill you by this time tomorrow.” elijah got so
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  • Afraid, so panicked, that heo
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  • Afraid, so panicked, that heo took off running for his
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  • Took off running for his life. you can be devoted,
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  • Life. you can be devoted, faithful, anointed, and still
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  • Faithful, anointed, and still have times where you lose who
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  • Have times where you lose who you are. elijah ended up
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  • You are. elijah ended up hiding in a cave. he went
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  • Hiding in a cave. he went into isolation, didn't want
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  • Into isolation, didn't want to talk to anyone. his
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  • To talk to anyone. his attitude was, “i'm done. this
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  • Attitude was, “i'm done. this is the end of my life.” god
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  • Is the end of my life.” god came to him in the cave and
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  • Came to him in the cave and said, “elijah, what are you
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  • Said, “elijah, what are you doing here?” he was saying,
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  • “this is not who i made you
  • 00:22:58.300 --> 00:22:59.367
  • “this is not who i made you to be, afraid, intimidated,
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  • To be, afraid, intimidated, defeated. you've lost who you
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  • Defeated. you've lost who you are, bold, confident, faith
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  • Are, bold, confident, faith filled.” elijah said, “god
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  • Filled.” elijah said, “god these people are after me and
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  • These people are after me and i'm the only one serving god.
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  • I'm the only one serving god. everyone else has turned
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  • Everyone else has turned away.”
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  • Away.” god told him to go stand
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  • God told him to go stand outside the cave. after a
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  • Outside the cave. after a mighty windstorm, rain and
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  • Mighty windstorm, rain and fire, god spoke to him again.
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  • Fire, god spoke to him again. i can imagine elijah leaning
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  • I can imagine elijah leaning in, listening so intently.
  • 00:23:24.459 --> 00:23:26.361
  • In, listening so intently. “what is god going to tell me
  • 00:23:26.428 --> 00:23:27.362
  • “what is god going to tell me this time?” god said it
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  • This time?” god said it again, “what are you doing
  • 00:23:29.130 --> 00:23:30.765
  • Again, “what are you doing here?” as powerful as elijah
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  • Here?” as powerful as elijah was, he lost part of himself.
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  • He got distracted and forgot.
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  • He got distracted and forgot. who he was. god didn't say,
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  • Who he was. god didn't say, “elijah, i feel sorry for
  • 00:23:39.841 --> 00:23:41.409
  • “elijah, i feel sorry for you. man, it's been rough.
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  • You. man, it's been rough. just settle here in the
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  • Just settle here in the cave.” no god said in verse
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  • Cave.” no god said in verse 15, “elijah, go back the way
  • 00:23:46.381 --> 00:23:49.084
  • 15, “elijah, go back the way you came.” god was saying,
  • 00:23:49.150 --> 00:23:51.253
  • You came.” god was saying, “come out of hiding and go
  • 00:23:51.319 --> 00:23:52.921
  • “come out of hiding and go back to who i say you are,
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  • Back to who i say you are, powerful, anointed, favored,
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  • Powerful, anointed, favored, victorious.” maybe today like
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  • Elijah, you're committed,
  • 00:23:59.995 --> 00:24:01.930
  • Elijah, you're committed, you're faithful, you're
  • 00:24:01.997 --> 00:24:02.931
  • You're faithful, you're blessed, but you've lost part
  • 00:24:02.998 --> 00:24:04.933
  • Blessed, but you've lost part of yourself. things have
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  • Of yourself. things have happened that have taken your
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  • Happened that have taken your joy, limited your vision,
  • 00:24:07.769 --> 00:24:10.038
  • Joy, limited your vision, stopped your creativity. now
  • 00:24:10.105 --> 00:24:11.907
  • Stopped your creativity. now you've settled in that area,
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  • You've settled in that area, not pursuing dreams, not
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  • Not pursuing dreams, not enjoying your family, not
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  • Enjoying your family, not passionate about life. god is
  • 00:24:17.245 --> 00:24:19.447
  • Passionate about life. god is saying, “come out of hiding
  • 00:24:19.514 --> 00:24:21.316
  • Saying, “come out of hiding and go back to who i created
  • 00:24:21.383 --> 00:24:22.984
  • And go back to who i created you to be.” get your fire
  • 00:24:23.051 --> 00:24:24.352
  • You to be.” get your fire back. get your dream back. no
  • 00:24:24.419 --> 00:24:26.821
  • Back. get your dream back. no more isolating, checking out,
  • 00:24:26.888 --> 00:24:29.357
  • More isolating, checking out, being there but not engaging.
  • 00:24:29.424 --> 00:24:31.860
  • Being there but not engaging. yes, i know things can happen
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  • Yes, i know things can happen that are not fair, you don't
  • 00:24:33.395 --> 00:24:34.896
  • That are not fair, you don't understand, but god sees it.
  • 00:24:34.963 --> 00:24:37.399
  • Understand, but god sees it. that's not how your story
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  • That's not how your story ends. this is a new day. i
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  • Ends. this is a new day. i believe and declare, that
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  • Believe and declare, that part of you that you lost is
  • 00:24:42.837 --> 00:24:44.439
  • Part of you that you lost is coming back. the confident
  • 00:24:44.506 --> 00:24:46.341
  • Coming back. the confident you, the joyful you, the
  • 00:24:46.408 --> 00:24:48.410
  • You, the joyful you, the passionate you, the valuable
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  • Passionate you, the valuable you, the successful you, the
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  • You, the successful you, the victorious you in jesus'
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  • Victorious you in jesus' name. if you receive it, can
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  • Name. if you receive it, can you say amen? (applause)
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  • And every decision you made became a pathway
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  • Became a pathway to see god move in your life?
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  • To see god move in your life? we all have hopes and dreams;
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  • We all have hopes and dreams; things we're believing for.
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  • Things we're believing for. when you start the year
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  • In faith, expecting god's goodness,
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  • Expecting god's goodness, you are setting the tone
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  • You are setting the tone for a blessed new year.
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  • No matter what's happening around you,
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  • Around you, faith can rise up in you.
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  • Faith can rise up in you. keep believing
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  • Keep believing and expecting a blessed 2026.
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  • And expecting a blessed 2026. victoria and i pray for
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  • Victoria and i pray for you and your family every day.
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  • You and your family every day. thank you so much
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  • Thank you so much for your prayer and support.
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  • For your prayer and support. your generosity
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  • Your generosity is helping people
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  • Is helping people around the world.
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  • Around the world. as we finish this year,
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  • As we finish this year, i hope you'll consider
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  • I hope you'll consider making a special year-end gift
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  • Making a special year-end gift to help
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  • To help keep the ministry strong.
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  • Keep the ministry strong. we so appreciate
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  • We so appreciate all the champion
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  • All the champion of hope partners
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  • Of hope partners for your monthly support.
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  • For your monthly support. we wish you and your family
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  • We wish you and your family a very merry christmas.
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  • A very merry christmas. till we see you next time,
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  • Till we see you next time, may the lord bless
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  • May the lord bless you and keep you.
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  • You and keep you. request your copy of the 2026
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  • Request your copy of the 2026 faith for today planner today.
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