Joel Osteen - Healed Through Humility

April 29, 2025 | S25:E119

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Healed Through Humility | April 29, 2025
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  • >> joel osteen: well, god
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  • >> joel osteen: well, god bless you.
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  • Bless you. it's a joy to come into your
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  • It's a joy to come into your homes, and if you're ever in
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  • Homes, and if you're ever in our area, please stop by and
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  • Our area, please stop by and be a part of one of our
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  • Be a part of one of our services.
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  • Services. i promise you we'll make you
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  • I promise you we'll make you feel right at home.
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  • Feel right at home. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny, and i heard
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  • Something funny, and i heard about these three men: a
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  • About these three men: a baptist, a catholic, and a
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  • Baptist, a catholic, and a charismatic.
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  • Charismatic. they died on the same day and
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  • They died on the same day and went to heaven.
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  • Went to heaven. saint peter met them at the
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  • Saint peter met them at the pearly gates and said, "i'm
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  • Pearly gates and said, "i'm sorry, men, your rooms are
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  • Sorry, men, your rooms are not available yet."
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  • Not available yet." didn't know what to do with
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  • Didn't know what to do with them.
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  • Them. he decided to ask satan if he
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  • He decided to ask satan if he would keep them for a little
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  • Would keep them for a little while, and satan reluctantly
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  • While, and satan reluctantly agreed.
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  • Agreed. a few hours later, satan
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  • A few hours later, satan called back to peter: "you've
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  • Called back to peter: "you've got to come get these guys.
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  • Got to come get these guys. the baptist man is saving
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  • The baptist man is saving everyone.
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  • Everyone. the catholic man is forgiving
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  • The catholic man is forgiving everyone, and the charismatic
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  • Everyone, and the charismatic has already raised enough
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  • Has already raised enough money for air-conditioning.
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  • Say it like you mean it:
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  • Say it like you mean it: "this is my bible.
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  • "this is my bible. i am what it says i am.
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  • I am what it says i am. i have what it says i have.
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  • I have what it says i have. i can do what it says i can
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  • I can do what it says i can do.
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  • Do. today i will be taught the
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  • Today i will be taught the word of god.
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  • Word of god. i boldly confess my mind is
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  • I boldly confess my mind is alert, my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert, my heart is receptive. i will never be the same, in
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  • I will never be the same, in jesus' name."
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  • Jesus' name." god bless you.
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  • God bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about "healed through
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  • About "healed through humility."
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  • Humility." we all have times where we
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  • We all have times where we know we're supposed to do
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  • Know we're supposed to do something, but it doesn't
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  • Something, but it doesn't seem fair to forgive that
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  • Seem fair to forgive that person that did you wrong, be
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  • Person that did you wrong, be kind to a neighbor that's not
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  • Kind to a neighbor that's not treating you right, volunteer
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  • Treating you right, volunteer at the hospital even though
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  • At the hospital even though nobody is saying, "thank
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  • Nobody is saying, "thank you."
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  • You." everything on the inside will
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  • Everything on the inside will say, "i'm not forgiving them.
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  • Say, "i'm not forgiving them. it was their fault.
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  • It was their fault. they need to ask me for
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  • They need to ask me for forgiveness.
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  • Forgiveness. i'm not working on that small
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  • I'm not working on that small project, serving in the
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  • Project, serving in the nursery.
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  • Nursery. i'm more qualified than
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  • I'm more qualified than that."
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  • That." but if you're going to reach
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  • But if you're going to reach your highest potential, you
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  • Your highest potential, you have to humble yourself and
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  • Have to humble yourself and do things you may not
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  • Do things you may not understand.
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  • Understand. we see this in the scripture
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  • We see this in the scripture with peter.
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  • With peter. he'd been out fishing all
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  • He'd been out fishing all night and caught nothing.
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  • Night and caught nothing. early the next morning, as he
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  • Early the next morning, as he was coming in, about to put
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  • Was coming in, about to put his boat away, jesus said to
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  • His boat away, jesus said to him, "launch out into the
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  • Him, "launch out into the deep, and you will catch a
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  • Deep, and you will catch a great haul of fish."
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  • Great haul of fish." peter could've said, "jesus,
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  • Peter could've said, "jesus, i love you, but you're a
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  • I love you, but you're a teacher.
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  • Teacher. you need to stick with your
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  • You need to stick with your profession.
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  • Profession. i'm a fisherman.
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  • I'm a fisherman. i have years of training."
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  • I have years of training." he could've let pride talk
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  • He could've let pride talk him out of it, thought, "i'm
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  • Him out of it, thought, "i'm an expert.
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  • An expert. i know what i'm doing."
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  • I know what i'm doing." instead, he humbled himself
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  • Instead, he humbled himself and said, "jesus, if you say,
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  • And said, "jesus, if you say, 'launch out,' it doesn't make
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  • 'launch out,' it doesn't make sense to me, but i trust you.
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  • Sense to me, but i trust you. you know what's best, so i'm
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  • You know what's best, so i'm going to take this step of
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  • Going to take this step of faith."
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  • Faith." when he did, he caught so
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  • When he did, he caught so many fish that his net began
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  • Many fish that his net began to break.
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  • To break. his promotion was in his
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  • His promotion was in his humility.
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  • Humility. when you swallow your pride
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  • When you swallow your pride and say, "this may not make
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  • And say, "this may not make sense, but i'm going to do
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  • Sense, but i'm going to do what god's asking me to do,"
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  • What god's asking me to do," "i'm going to humble myself
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  • "i'm going to humble myself and be good to this person
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  • And be good to this person that did me wrong," "i'm
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  • That did me wrong," "i'm going to be my best at work,
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  • Going to be my best at work, even though nobody's giving
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  • Even though nobody's giving me credit," when you walk in
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  • Me credit," when you walk in humility, you will see the
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  • Humility, you will see the great haul of fish.
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  • Great haul of fish. like peter, your promotion,
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  • Like peter, your promotion, your healing, your
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  • Your healing, your breakthrough, it's in your
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  • Breakthrough, it's in your humility.
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  • Humility. the scripture says, "jesus
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  • The scripture says, "jesus humbled himself and became
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  • Humbled himself and became obedient."
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  • Obedient." it doesn't say he was
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  • It doesn't say he was obedient because he was so
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  • Obedient because he was so strong-willed, so righteous
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  • Strong-willed, so righteous that he always did the right
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  • That he always did the right thing.
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  • Thing. even jesus had to humble
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  • Even jesus had to humble himself.
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  • Himself. it takes humility to walk in
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  • It takes humility to walk in obedience.
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  • Obedience. when victoria and i were
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  • When victoria and i were first married, she didn't
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  • First married, she didn't like me to go into the
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  • Like me to go into the kitchen while she was cooking
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  • Kitchen while she was cooking after i worked out and washed
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  • After i worked out and washed my hands.
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  • My hands. she didn't want my sweat to
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  • She didn't want my sweat to be around the food.
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  • Be around the food. the problem was, when i came
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  • The problem was, when i came in from the outside, the
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  • In from the outside, the kitchen sink was the most
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  • Kitchen sink was the most convenient sink.
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  • Convenient sink. it was right there in my
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  • It was right there in my path.
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  • Path. i didn't want to walk to the
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  • I didn't want to walk to the back.
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  • Back. this was too easy.
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  • This was too easy. for a long time, i'd run in
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  • For a long time, i'd run in there and wash my hands real
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  • There and wash my hands real quickly and hope that she
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  • Quickly and hope that she didn't see me, and she never
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  • Didn't see me, and she never harped on me, but i knew she
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  • Harped on me, but i knew she didn't like it.
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  • Didn't like it. i reasoned it out, thought,
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  • I reasoned it out, thought, "it's not hurting anything.
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  • "it's not hurting anything. i'm careful not to drip
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  • I'm careful not to drip anywhere, and besides, this
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  • Anywhere, and besides, this is my house too.
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  • Is my house too. i don't feel like walking to
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  • I don't feel like walking to the back."
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  • The back." here, i just played 90
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  • Here, i just played 90 minutes of basketball,
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  • Minutes of basketball, running up and down the
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  • Running up and down the court, and i came home and
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  • Court, and i came home and didn't want to walk 30 more
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  • Didn't want to walk 30 more feet to the back.
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  • Feet to the back. pride causes us to make lame
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  • Pride causes us to make lame excuses, to be stubborn, only
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  • Excuses, to be stubborn, only see things our way.
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  • See things our way. one day, i went in there to
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  • One day, i went in there to wash my hands, and i heard
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  • Wash my hands, and i heard something down in here say,
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  • Something down in here say, "joel, when are you going to
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  • "joel, when are you going to start honoring your wife by
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  • Start honoring your wife by doing what she's asking you
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  • Doing what she's asking you to do?"
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  • To do?" i thought, "that couldn't be
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  • I thought, "that couldn't be god."
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  • God." it's never god when we don't
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  • It's never god when we don't like it.
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  • Like it. but there may be things that
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  • But there may be things that you don't feel like are
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  • You don't feel like are right.
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  • Right. you don't think you should
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  • You don't think you should have to do them.
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  • Have to do them. one way you can honor god is
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  • One way you can honor god is by honoring the people in
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  • By honoring the people in your life.
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  • Your life. "i shouldn't have to walk to
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  • "i shouldn't have to walk to the back."
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  • The back." "i shouldn't have to clean up
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  • "i shouldn't have to clean up the mess they made."
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  • The mess they made." "i shouldn't have to sit in
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  • "i shouldn't have to sit in this section where the ushers
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  • This section where the ushers asked me to sit."
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  • Asked me to sit." god is saying, "will you do
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  • God is saying, "will you do it for me?
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  • It for me? will you walk to the back for
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  • Will you walk to the back for me?
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  • Me? will you clean the mess up
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  • Will you clean the mess up for me?
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  • For me? will you overlook the offense
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  • Will you overlook the offense for me?"
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  • For me?" do it unto god.
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  • Do it unto god. when you honor god, he will
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  • When you honor god, he will always honor you.
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  • Always honor you. a few years later, we built a
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  • A few years later, we built a new house.
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  • New house. i put a sink right at my back
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  • I put a sink right at my back door.
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  • Door. the first time victoria went
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  • The first time victoria went in there to wash her hands, i
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  • In there to wash her hands, i said, "don't even think about
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  • Said, "don't even think about using my sink."
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  • Using my sink." but i wonder how much better
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  • But i wonder how much better our relationships would be if
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  • Our relationships would be if we'd start walking in
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  • We'd start walking in humility, honoring the other
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  • Humility, honoring the other person, lettering them have
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  • Person, lettering them have their way, not always having
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  • Their way, not always having to be right.
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  • To be right. "well, joel, when he starts
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  • "well, joel, when he starts treating me better, then i'll
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  • Treating me better, then i'll treat him better."
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  • Treat him better." you have to make the first
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  • You have to make the first move.
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  • Move. your humility can start the
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  • Your humility can start the healing.
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  • Healing. when they see you taking the
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  • When they see you taking the high road, not being
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  • High road, not being stubborn, not being offended,
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  • Stubborn, not being offended, not having to have your way,
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  • Not having to have your way, that's when things will begin
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  • That's when things will begin to change.
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  • To change. the scriptures says, "it's
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  • The scriptures says, "it's the little foxes that spoil
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  • The little foxes that spoil the vines."
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  • The vines." if i would've kept washing my
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  • If i would've kept washing my hands in the kitchen sink,
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  • Hands in the kitchen sink, year after year, that
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  • Year after year, that disrespect would've grown.
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  • Disrespect would've grown. the dishonor would've become
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  • The dishonor would've become bigger.
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  • Bigger. before long, these little
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  • Before long, these little things are tearing families
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  • Things are tearing families apart.
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  • Apart. i'm asking you to swallow
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  • I'm asking you to swallow your pride and start walking
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  • Your pride and start walking in humility.
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  • In humility. what can you do to get along
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  • What can you do to get along better with people?
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  • Better with people? what can you do to strengthen
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  • What can you do to strengthen your relationships?
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  • Your relationships? not what can somebody else
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  • Not what can somebody else do.
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  • Do. you can't make them change,
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  • You can't make them change, but if you'll change, if
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  • But if you'll change, if you'll start treating them
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  • You'll start treating them with respect, doing what you
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  • With respect, doing what you can to honor them, being
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  • Can to honor them, being kind, serving them, those
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  • Kind, serving them, those seeds you're sowing, they'll
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  • Seeds you're sowing, they'll come back to you.
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  • Come back to you. just as little foxes can
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  • Just as little foxes can spoil the vine, little acts
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  • Spoil the vine, little acts of kindness can make a big
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  • Of kindness can make a big difference.
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  • Difference. when victoria saw me start
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  • When victoria saw me start going to the back to wash my
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  • Going to the back to wash my hands, she had to check the
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  • Hands, she had to check the kitchen sink to make sure
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  • Kitchen sink to make sure something wasn't wrong.
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  • Something wasn't wrong. when she realized i was doing
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  • When she realized i was doing it just to honor her just
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  • It just to honor her just because she asked, our
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  • Because she asked, our relationship went to a new
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  • Relationship went to a new level.
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  • Level. she started cooking me better
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  • She started cooking me better tv dinners.
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  • Tv dinners. little things can make a big
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  • Little things can make a big difference.
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  • Difference. that didn't help my
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  • That didn't help my relationship at all but--the
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  • Relationship at all but--the first 15 years, or so, of our
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  • First 15 years, or so, of our marriage, before we had help,
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  • Marriage, before we had help, victoria never filled her car
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  • Victoria never filled her car up with gas.
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  • Up with gas. anytime that i saw it was
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  • Anytime that i saw it was low, i'd make sure to take it
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  • Low, i'd make sure to take it up and fill it up for her.
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  • Up and fill it up for her. little acts of kindness help
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  • Little acts of kindness help hold things together.
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  • Hold things together. how much better would our
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  • How much better would our relationships be if we put
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  • Relationships be if we put down our pride, not have to
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  • Down our pride, not have to be right all the time, not
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  • Be right all the time, not keeping score, "if you do
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  • Keeping score, "if you do this, i'm going to do that,"
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  • This, i'm going to do that," trying to one-up each other.
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  • Trying to one-up each other. instead, what if we spent
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  • Instead, what if we spent that same energy honoring
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  • That same energy honoring each other, believing the
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  • Each other, believing the best, overlooking offenses?
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  • Best, overlooking offenses? the healing is in your
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  • The healing is in your humility, not in having your
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  • Humility, not in having your way, not in getting even, not
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  • Way, not in getting even, not in holding a grudge.
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  • In holding a grudge. i have a friend.
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  • I have a friend. when he was in his 20s, he
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  • When he was in his 20s, he had a disagreement with his
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  • Had a disagreement with his father.
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  • Father. turned into a big argument.
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  • Turned into a big argument. he left the house very angry
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  • He left the house very angry and didn't speak to his
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  • And didn't speak to his father for over 30 years.
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  • Father for over 30 years. wouldn't have anything to do
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  • Wouldn't have anything to do with him.
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  • With him. this young man's life was a
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  • This young man's life was a constant struggle.
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  • Constant struggle. he couldn't get ahead, never
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  • He couldn't get ahead, never got any good breaks, lived in
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  • Got any good breaks, lived in a small apartment with his
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  • A small apartment with his family.
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  • Family. one day, he learned through
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  • One day, he learned through his sister that his father
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  • His sister that his father was in the hospital.
  • 00:09:12.908 --> 00:09:14.610
  • Was in the hospital. he knew he had to make things
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  • He knew he had to make things right.
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  • Right. he put his pride down and
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  • He put his pride down and drove 4 hours to the
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  • Drove 4 hours to the hospital.
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  • Hospital. he went in to see his father
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  • He went in to see his father for the first time in years.
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  • For the first time in years. they both wept and wept.
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  • They both wept and wept. he said, "dad, i'm sorry.
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  • He said, "dad, i'm sorry. it was my fault.
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  • It was my fault. please forgive me."
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  • Please forgive me." he started honoring his
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  • He started honoring his father.
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  • Father. it wasn't long after that,
  • 00:09:34.130 --> 00:09:35.564
  • It wasn't long after that, that this young man received
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  • That this young man received a promotion at work that he
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  • A promotion at work that he had been trying to get for
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  • Had been trying to get for over 10 years.
  • 00:09:40.736 --> 00:09:42.238
  • Over 10 years. he didn't know how he could
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  • He didn't know how he could send his child to college,
  • 00:09:43.773 --> 00:09:45.808
  • Send his child to college, but this child unexpectedly
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  • But this child unexpectedly received a full scholarship.
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  • Received a full scholarship. after years of living in a
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  • After years of living in a small apartment, they were
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  • Small apartment, they were able to purchase their first
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  • Able to purchase their first home.
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  • Home. one thing after another began
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  • One thing after another began to fall into place.
  • 00:09:58.054 --> 00:09:59.855
  • To fall into place. what am i saying?
  • 00:09:59.922 --> 00:10:01.157
  • What am i saying? the promotion was in his
  • 00:10:01.223 --> 00:10:03.225
  • The promotion was in his humility.
  • 00:10:03.292 --> 00:10:04.794
  • Humility. when he made the decision to
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  • When he made the decision to humble himself, to forgive
  • 00:10:06.729 --> 00:10:08.664
  • Humble himself, to forgive his father, to let go of the
  • 00:10:08.731 --> 00:10:10.466
  • His father, to let go of the wrongs, that's when the favor
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  • Wrongs, that's when the favor came on his life.
  • 00:10:12.468 --> 00:10:14.336
  • Came on his life. pride keeps us from rising
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  • Pride keeps us from rising higher.
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  • Higher. even though his father was
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  • Even though his father was wrong, when you walk in
  • 00:10:19.141 --> 00:10:21.110
  • Wrong, when you walk in humility, you can be the
  • 00:10:21.177 --> 00:10:23.345
  • Humility, you can be the bigger person.
  • 00:10:23.412 --> 00:10:24.947
  • Bigger person. you can forgive people.
  • 00:10:25.014 --> 00:10:26.682
  • You can forgive people. you can show them mercy.
  • 00:10:26.749 --> 00:10:28.084
  • You can show them mercy. you can start the healing.
  • 00:10:28.150 --> 00:10:29.785
  • You can start the healing. when you humble yourself,
  • 00:10:29.852 --> 00:10:31.587
  • When you humble yourself, that's what gives you the
  • 00:10:31.654 --> 00:10:33.355
  • That's what gives you the power to become obedient, but
  • 00:10:33.422 --> 00:10:37.259
  • Power to become obedient, but as long as we allow pride in,
  • 00:10:37.326 --> 00:10:39.061
  • As long as we allow pride in, we make excuses: "it's not
  • 00:10:39.128 --> 00:10:40.730
  • We make excuses: "it's not right," "they hurt me," "it
  • 00:10:40.796 --> 00:10:42.531
  • Right," "they hurt me," "it was their fault."
  • 00:10:42.598 --> 00:10:43.966
  • Was their fault." that all may be true, but
  • 00:10:44.033 --> 00:10:45.768
  • That all may be true, but holding onto it is not going
  • 00:10:45.835 --> 00:10:47.636
  • Holding onto it is not going to make it better.
  • 00:10:47.703 --> 00:10:49.205
  • To make it better. if you'll let it go and move
  • 00:10:49.271 --> 00:10:51.273
  • If you'll let it go and move forward, god will make it up
  • 00:10:51.340 --> 00:10:53.042
  • Forward, god will make it up to you.
  • 00:10:53.109 --> 00:10:54.243
  • To you. you'll see his favor in new
  • 00:10:54.310 --> 00:10:55.745
  • You'll see his favor in new ways.
  • 00:10:55.811 --> 00:10:57.146
  • Ways. 2 kings chapter 5, there was
  • 00:10:57.213 --> 00:10:59.715
  • 2 kings chapter 5, there was a captain in the syrian army,
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  • A captain in the syrian army, named naaman.
  • 00:11:02.251 --> 00:11:03.586
  • Named naaman. he was a very powerful man,
  • 00:11:03.652 --> 00:11:05.521
  • He was a very powerful man, influential, well respected.
  • 00:11:05.588 --> 00:11:08.390
  • Influential, well respected. he had just helped the
  • 00:11:08.457 --> 00:11:09.658
  • He had just helped the syrians defeat the
  • 00:11:09.725 --> 00:11:11.060
  • Syrians defeat the israelites.
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  • Israelites. everything was going great
  • 00:11:12.361 --> 00:11:13.763
  • Everything was going great except he had leprosy.
  • 00:11:13.829 --> 00:11:16.966
  • Except he had leprosy. he had captured a young lady
  • 00:11:17.032 --> 00:11:18.968
  • He had captured a young lady from israel and brought her
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  • From israel and brought her back as his maid.
  • 00:11:21.036 --> 00:11:22.705
  • Back as his maid. i can imagine everyone didn't
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  • I can imagine everyone didn't know that he had leprosy.
  • 00:11:24.740 --> 00:11:27.109
  • Know that he had leprosy. he would keep his armor on,
  • 00:11:27.176 --> 00:11:28.778
  • He would keep his armor on, try to hide it from people,
  • 00:11:28.844 --> 00:11:30.513
  • Try to hide it from people, but this young maid lived in
  • 00:11:30.579 --> 00:11:32.214
  • But this young maid lived in his house, and when she saw
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  • His house, and when she saw how devastating the leprosy
  • 00:11:34.216 --> 00:11:35.985
  • How devastating the leprosy was, she was very concerned.
  • 00:11:36.051 --> 00:11:38.654
  • Was, she was very concerned. she finally got her nerve up
  • 00:11:38.721 --> 00:11:40.256
  • She finally got her nerve up and said, "sir, there's a
  • 00:11:40.322 --> 00:11:42.458
  • And said, "sir, there's a prophet in israel, where i'm
  • 00:11:42.525 --> 00:11:44.693
  • Prophet in israel, where i'm from, named elisha.
  • 00:11:44.760 --> 00:11:47.163
  • From, named elisha. if you'll go see him, he'll
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  • If you'll go see him, he'll pray for you, and i know our
  • 00:11:49.265 --> 00:11:51.367
  • Pray for you, and i know our god will heal you."
  • 00:11:51.433 --> 00:11:54.370
  • God will heal you." naaman could've thought, "who
  • 00:11:54.436 --> 00:11:56.839
  • Naaman could've thought, "who are you to tell me what to
  • 00:11:56.906 --> 00:11:58.541
  • Are you to tell me what to do?
  • 00:11:58.607 --> 00:11:59.675
  • Do? i'm a captain.
  • 00:11:59.742 --> 00:12:01.076
  • I'm a captain. i answer to the king in my
  • 00:12:01.143 --> 00:12:02.778
  • I answer to the king in my country, and now, you, a
  • 00:12:02.845 --> 00:12:04.914
  • Country, and now, you, a slave, a teenager, a woman,
  • 00:12:04.980 --> 00:12:07.783
  • Slave, a teenager, a woman, you're telling me to go back
  • 00:12:07.850 --> 00:12:09.985
  • You're telling me to go back to the nation i just defeated
  • 00:12:10.052 --> 00:12:12.154
  • To the nation i just defeated and ask them for help?
  • 00:12:12.221 --> 00:12:13.689
  • And ask them for help? i don't think so."
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  • I don't think so." naaman could've been
  • 00:12:15.357 --> 00:12:16.458
  • Naaman could've been offended.
  • 00:12:16.525 --> 00:12:17.693
  • Offended. he could've dismissed it,
  • 00:12:17.760 --> 00:12:19.195
  • He could've dismissed it, turned her away, but
  • 00:12:19.261 --> 00:12:20.930
  • Turned her away, but something down in here said,
  • 00:12:20.996 --> 00:12:22.798
  • Something down in here said, "she knows what she's talking
  • 00:12:22.865 --> 00:12:24.033
  • "she knows what she's talking about."
  • 00:12:24.099 --> 00:12:25.167
  • About." naaman told the king of syria
  • 00:12:25.234 --> 00:12:27.736
  • Naaman told the king of syria what the maid said.
  • 00:12:27.803 --> 00:12:29.672
  • What the maid said. the king wrote a letter to
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  • The king wrote a letter to the king of israel on
  • 00:12:30.873 --> 00:12:32.541
  • The king of israel on naaman's behalf.
  • 00:12:32.608 --> 00:12:34.143
  • Naaman's behalf. naaman headed out toward
  • 00:12:34.210 --> 00:12:35.778
  • Naaman headed out toward israel, the land he had just
  • 00:12:35.845 --> 00:12:37.880
  • Israel, the land he had just conquered.
  • 00:12:37.947 --> 00:12:39.014
  • Conquered. think of the humility this
  • 00:12:39.081 --> 00:12:40.349
  • Think of the humility this took.
  • 00:12:40.416 --> 00:12:41.383
  • Took. he had to take the advice
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  • He had to take the advice from a maid and be willing to
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  • From a maid and be willing to go to another country and
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  • Go to another country and admit he needed help.
  • 00:12:47.189 --> 00:12:49.525
  • Admit he needed help. if he had been too proud, he
  • 00:12:49.592 --> 00:12:51.460
  • If he had been too proud, he would've stayed at home.
  • 00:12:51.527 --> 00:12:53.529
  • Would've stayed at home. sometime, your answer won't
  • 00:12:53.596 --> 00:12:56.398
  • Sometime, your answer won't come from people that look
  • 00:12:56.465 --> 00:12:57.967
  • Come from people that look like you, people that come
  • 00:12:58.033 --> 00:13:00.002
  • Like you, people that come from your same culture,
  • 00:13:00.069 --> 00:13:01.704
  • From your same culture, people that you're used to.
  • 00:13:01.770 --> 00:13:03.472
  • People that you're used to. you're going to have to do
  • 00:13:03.539 --> 00:13:04.773
  • You're going to have to do like naaman and get out of
  • 00:13:04.840 --> 00:13:06.542
  • Like naaman and get out of your comfort zone and be
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  • Your comfort zone and be willing to listen to
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  • Willing to listen to somebody, maybe like this
  • 00:13:09.712 --> 00:13:11.180
  • Somebody, maybe like this maid that's under you, that
  • 00:13:11.247 --> 00:13:13.716
  • Maid that's under you, that doesn't have the training,
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  • Doesn't have the training, the experience.
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  • The experience. the key is to treat everyone
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  • The key is to treat everyone with respect, value every
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  • With respect, value every person's opinion.
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  • Person's opinion. if naaman would've dismissed
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  • If naaman would've dismissed his maid, he would've missed
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  • His maid, he would've missed his miracle.
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  • His miracle. don't judge the people god
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  • Don't judge the people god put in your life, by the
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  • Put in your life, by the outside, by titles, by
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  • Outside, by titles, by position, by wealth, deciding
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  • Position, by wealth, deciding who's important, who you're
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  • Who's important, who you're going to listen to.
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  • Going to listen to. god uses everyone.
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  • God uses everyone. naaman arrived in israel with
  • 00:13:40.609 --> 00:13:43.012
  • Naaman arrived in israel with his horses, his chariots.
  • 00:13:43.078 --> 00:13:45.381
  • His horses, his chariots. was a huge entourage, a big
  • 00:13:45.447 --> 00:13:47.082
  • Was a huge entourage, a big deal.
  • 00:13:47.149 --> 00:13:48.150
  • Deal. he handed the letter to the
  • 00:13:48.217 --> 00:13:49.618
  • He handed the letter to the king of israel.
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  • King of israel. the king was upset.
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  • The king was upset. he said, "am i god?
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  • He said, "am i god? do you think i can heal you?
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  • Do you think i can heal you? why are you asking me for
  • 00:13:56.792 --> 00:13:57.826
  • Why are you asking me for help?"
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  • Help?" the prophet elisha heard
  • 00:13:59.094 --> 00:14:00.396
  • The prophet elisha heard about it and said, "send him
  • 00:14:00.462 --> 00:14:01.864
  • About it and said, "send him to me."
  • 00:14:01.931 --> 00:14:02.865
  • To me." naaman traveled to elisha's
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  • Naaman traveled to elisha's house, a great distance,
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  • House, a great distance, knocked on the door, and the
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  • Knocked on the door, and the assistant answered.
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  • Assistant answered. he said, "i'm naaman.
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  • He said, "i'm naaman. i'm here to see elisha."
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  • I'm here to see elisha." the assistant said, "yes, i
  • 00:14:13.976 --> 00:14:15.344
  • The assistant said, "yes, i know, but he's busy, so he
  • 00:14:15.411 --> 00:14:17.646
  • Know, but he's busy, so he sent me."
  • 00:14:17.713 --> 00:14:19.181
  • Sent me." naaman was used to dealing
  • 00:14:19.248 --> 00:14:21.050
  • Naaman was used to dealing with heads of nations.
  • 00:14:21.116 --> 00:14:23.218
  • With heads of nations. he gave advice to the king of
  • 00:14:23.285 --> 00:14:24.486
  • He gave advice to the king of syria.
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  • Syria. i'm sure he thought, "does
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  • I'm sure he thought, "does elisha know who i am?
  • 00:14:27.723 --> 00:14:29.725
  • Elisha know who i am? does he realize how far i've
  • 00:14:29.792 --> 00:14:30.926
  • Does he realize how far i've traveled?"
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  • Traveled?" the assistant told him,
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  • The assistant told him, "elisha said, 'if you'll go
  • 00:14:34.229 --> 00:14:36.732
  • "elisha said, 'if you'll go wash in the jordan river
  • 00:14:36.799 --> 00:14:38.734
  • Wash in the jordan river seven times, you'll be
  • 00:14:38.801 --> 00:14:40.269
  • Seven times, you'll be healed.'"
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  • Healed.'" look at all these times
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  • Look at all these times naaman had to put down his
  • 00:14:43.405 --> 00:14:44.873
  • Naaman had to put down his pride.
  • 00:14:44.940 --> 00:14:46.175
  • Pride. a young maid told him what to
  • 00:14:46.241 --> 00:14:47.776
  • A young maid told him what to do.
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  • Do. the king wouldn't see him.
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  • The king wouldn't see him. elisha was too busy.
  • 00:14:50.279 --> 00:14:51.880
  • Elisha was too busy. now he has to wash in a dirty
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  • Now he has to wash in a dirty river.
  • 00:14:54.583 --> 00:14:55.818
  • River. these were tests.
  • 00:14:55.884 --> 00:14:57.152
  • These were tests. on the way to your miracle,
  • 00:14:57.219 --> 00:14:59.288
  • On the way to your miracle, there will be plenty of
  • 00:14:59.355 --> 00:15:00.656
  • There will be plenty of opportunities to let pride
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  • Opportunities to let pride talk you out of it.
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  • Talk you out of it. it may not happen the way you
  • 00:15:04.460 --> 00:15:06.028
  • It may not happen the way you think through the people you
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  • Think through the people you think.
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  • Think. stay open.
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  • Stay open. don't put god in a box.
  • 00:15:10.532 --> 00:15:12.368
  • Don't put god in a box. don't start writing people
  • 00:15:12.434 --> 00:15:13.535
  • Don't start writing people off because they don't look
  • 00:15:13.602 --> 00:15:14.903
  • Off because they don't look like you, they don't live in
  • 00:15:14.970 --> 00:15:16.572
  • Like you, they don't live in your neighborhood, they don't
  • 00:15:16.638 --> 00:15:17.973
  • Your neighborhood, they don't attend your church.
  • 00:15:18.040 --> 00:15:19.108
  • Attend your church. god likes to do unusual
  • 00:15:19.174 --> 00:15:20.976
  • God likes to do unusual things.
  • 00:15:21.043 --> 00:15:22.411
  • Things. naaman almost talked himself
  • 00:15:22.478 --> 00:15:24.446
  • Naaman almost talked himself out of it.
  • 00:15:24.513 --> 00:15:25.514
  • Out of it. he'd done well up to this
  • 00:15:25.581 --> 00:15:26.849
  • He'd done well up to this point, but when he was told,
  • 00:15:26.915 --> 00:15:28.684
  • Point, but when he was told, "go wash in the jordan
  • 00:15:28.751 --> 00:15:29.952
  • "go wash in the jordan river," that was the straw
  • 00:15:30.019 --> 00:15:31.520
  • River," that was the straw that broke the camel's back.
  • 00:15:31.587 --> 00:15:33.422
  • That broke the camel's back. he said, "no way, that's a
  • 00:15:33.489 --> 00:15:34.556
  • He said, "no way, that's a dirty river.
  • 00:15:34.623 --> 00:15:36.158
  • Dirty river. there are much better rivers
  • 00:15:36.225 --> 00:15:37.593
  • There are much better rivers over in syria.
  • 00:15:37.659 --> 00:15:38.994
  • Over in syria. let's go back home."
  • 00:15:39.061 --> 00:15:40.829
  • Let's go back home." he turned to leave when the
  • 00:15:40.896 --> 00:15:42.698
  • He turned to leave when the scripture says his servant
  • 00:15:42.765 --> 00:15:45.100
  • Scripture says his servant spoke up.
  • 00:15:45.167 --> 00:15:46.702
  • Spoke up. notice again, not a peer, not
  • 00:15:46.769 --> 00:15:48.604
  • Notice again, not a peer, not the prophet, not the
  • 00:15:48.670 --> 00:15:49.905
  • The prophet, not the king--another underling,
  • 00:15:49.972 --> 00:15:52.441
  • King--another underling, somebody he normally wouldn't
  • 00:15:52.508 --> 00:15:53.776
  • Somebody he normally wouldn't pay attention to.
  • 00:15:53.842 --> 00:15:55.644
  • Pay attention to. the servant said, "naaman, if
  • 00:15:55.711 --> 00:15:57.312
  • The servant said, "naaman, if he would've asked you to do
  • 00:15:57.379 --> 00:15:58.647
  • He would've asked you to do something hard, you would do
  • 00:15:58.714 --> 00:16:00.082
  • Something hard, you would do it.
  • 00:16:00.149 --> 00:16:00.883
  • It. why don't you do this easy
  • 00:16:00.949 --> 00:16:02.084
  • Why don't you do this easy thing?"
  • 00:16:02.151 --> 00:16:03.285
  • Thing?" naaman went to the river,
  • 00:16:03.352 --> 00:16:05.220
  • Naaman went to the river, washed one time, nothing
  • 00:16:05.287 --> 00:16:06.688
  • Washed one time, nothing happened; twice, nothing;
  • 00:16:06.755 --> 00:16:08.791
  • Happened; twice, nothing; three times, nothing.
  • 00:16:08.857 --> 00:16:10.559
  • Three times, nothing. he looked at his skin and
  • 00:16:10.626 --> 00:16:11.627
  • He looked at his skin and thought, "if it was going to
  • 00:16:11.693 --> 00:16:13.028
  • Thought, "if it was going to work, surely i'd be getting
  • 00:16:13.095 --> 00:16:14.997
  • Work, surely i'd be getting better by now."
  • 00:16:15.064 --> 00:16:16.732
  • Better by now." he was tempted to get
  • 00:16:16.799 --> 00:16:17.900
  • He was tempted to get discouraged, but he just kept
  • 00:16:17.966 --> 00:16:19.268
  • Discouraged, but he just kept washing: five times, nothing;
  • 00:16:19.334 --> 00:16:21.370
  • Washing: five times, nothing; six times, nothing.
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  • Six times, nothing. imagine the humility, washing
  • 00:16:23.205 --> 00:16:26.041
  • Imagine the humility, washing in your enemy's dirty river,
  • 00:16:26.108 --> 00:16:28.210
  • In your enemy's dirty river, again and again.
  • 00:16:28.277 --> 00:16:30.245
  • Again and again. every voice said, "naaman,
  • 00:16:30.312 --> 00:16:31.713
  • Every voice said, "naaman, you look like a fool,"
  • 00:16:31.780 --> 00:16:33.715
  • You look like a fool," "you're wasting your time,"
  • 00:16:33.782 --> 00:16:35.784
  • "you're wasting your time," but on the seventh time, when
  • 00:16:35.851 --> 00:16:37.886
  • But on the seventh time, when he came up out of that water,
  • 00:16:37.953 --> 00:16:39.721
  • He came up out of that water, his skin was as clear as a
  • 00:16:39.788 --> 00:16:41.590
  • His skin was as clear as a baby.
  • 00:16:41.657 --> 00:16:42.324
  • Baby. he was completely healed.
  • 00:16:42.391 --> 00:16:44.860
  • He was completely healed. god was showing us the
  • 00:16:44.927 --> 00:16:47.029
  • God was showing us the healing was in the humility.
  • 00:16:47.096 --> 00:16:50.332
  • Healing was in the humility. when you humble yourself and
  • 00:16:50.399 --> 00:16:52.468
  • When you humble yourself and do what god's asking you to
  • 00:16:52.534 --> 00:16:54.069
  • Do what god's asking you to do, even when it doesn't make
  • 00:16:54.136 --> 00:16:56.038
  • Do, even when it doesn't make sense--forgive the person
  • 00:16:56.105 --> 00:16:58.006
  • Sense--forgive the person that did you wrong, be kind
  • 00:16:58.073 --> 00:16:59.875
  • That did you wrong, be kind to the co-worker that
  • 00:16:59.942 --> 00:17:01.210
  • To the co-worker that betrayed you, take advice
  • 00:17:01.276 --> 00:17:02.978
  • Betrayed you, take advice from someone that's not on
  • 00:17:03.045 --> 00:17:04.646
  • From someone that's not on your normal circles--as you
  • 00:17:04.713 --> 00:17:06.715
  • Your normal circles--as you pass these tests, things will
  • 00:17:06.782 --> 00:17:08.717
  • Pass these tests, things will begin to change.
  • 00:17:08.784 --> 00:17:10.185
  • Begin to change. the blessing is in the
  • 00:17:10.252 --> 00:17:12.187
  • The blessing is in the obedience.
  • 00:17:12.254 --> 00:17:13.522
  • Obedience. the way to be obedient is to
  • 00:17:13.589 --> 00:17:15.824
  • The way to be obedient is to walk in humility because
  • 00:17:15.891 --> 00:17:18.127
  • Walk in humility because without humility, we'll make
  • 00:17:18.193 --> 00:17:20.262
  • Without humility, we'll make excuses: "i'm not going to
  • 00:17:20.329 --> 00:17:22.097
  • Excuses: "i'm not going to listen to the maid.
  • 00:17:22.164 --> 00:17:23.699
  • Listen to the maid. what does she know?
  • 00:17:23.765 --> 00:17:25.067
  • What does she know? i'm not going to do this
  • 00:17:25.134 --> 00:17:26.001
  • I'm not going to do this simple thing, wash in a
  • 00:17:26.068 --> 00:17:27.402
  • Simple thing, wash in a river."
  • 00:17:27.469 --> 00:17:28.370
  • River." "serve in the children's
  • 00:17:28.437 --> 00:17:29.538
  • "serve in the children's ministry?
  • 00:17:29.605 --> 00:17:30.372
  • Ministry? i want to be on the
  • 00:17:30.439 --> 00:17:31.173
  • I want to be on the platform."
  • 00:17:31.240 --> 00:17:32.074
  • Platform." no, do what god is asking you
  • 00:17:32.141 --> 00:17:33.909
  • No, do what god is asking you to do.
  • 00:17:33.976 --> 00:17:35.110
  • To do. don't overanalyze it.
  • 00:17:35.177 --> 00:17:36.445
  • Don't overanalyze it. don't reason it out.
  • 00:17:36.512 --> 00:17:38.113
  • Don't reason it out. just do it.
  • 00:17:38.180 --> 00:17:39.548
  • Just do it. "well, joel, i've been doing
  • 00:17:39.615 --> 00:17:40.883
  • "well, joel, i've been doing it for a long time, but
  • 00:17:40.949 --> 00:17:42.551
  • It for a long time, but nothing is changing."
  • 00:17:42.618 --> 00:17:44.153
  • Nothing is changing." you're right where naaman
  • 00:17:44.219 --> 00:17:45.654
  • You're right where naaman was.
  • 00:17:45.721 --> 00:17:46.788
  • Was. the first six times, nothing
  • 00:17:46.855 --> 00:17:48.390
  • The first six times, nothing happened, but that didn't
  • 00:17:48.457 --> 00:17:50.025
  • Happened, but that didn't mean something was wrong.
  • 00:17:50.092 --> 00:17:52.628
  • Mean something was wrong. you're right on schedule.
  • 00:17:52.694 --> 00:17:54.463
  • You're right on schedule. the good news is you're about
  • 00:17:54.530 --> 00:17:56.064
  • The good news is you're about to come up from your seventh
  • 00:17:56.131 --> 00:17:57.666
  • To come up from your seventh dip, where suddenly healing
  • 00:17:57.733 --> 00:17:59.768
  • Dip, where suddenly healing comes, suddenly you're
  • 00:17:59.835 --> 00:18:01.203
  • Comes, suddenly you're promoted, suddenly you'll see
  • 00:18:01.270 --> 00:18:03.005
  • Promoted, suddenly you'll see that breakthrough.
  • 00:18:03.071 --> 00:18:05.040
  • That breakthrough. keep doing the right thing.
  • 00:18:05.107 --> 00:18:07.209
  • Keep doing the right thing. you're close to your seventh
  • 00:18:07.276 --> 00:18:08.477
  • You're close to your seventh time.
  • 00:18:08.544 --> 00:18:09.711
  • Time. this is what my father did.
  • 00:18:09.778 --> 00:18:11.580
  • This is what my father did. he'd been pastoring a
  • 00:18:11.647 --> 00:18:12.948
  • He'd been pastoring a denominational church for
  • 00:18:13.015 --> 00:18:14.216
  • Denominational church for many years.
  • 00:18:14.283 --> 00:18:15.517
  • Many years. he was very successful.
  • 00:18:15.584 --> 00:18:17.052
  • He was very successful. they had seen great growth
  • 00:18:17.119 --> 00:18:18.754
  • They had seen great growth and just built a beautiful
  • 00:18:18.820 --> 00:18:20.189
  • And just built a beautiful new auditorium, but in 1959,
  • 00:18:20.255 --> 00:18:23.992
  • New auditorium, but in 1959, he felt something stirring on
  • 00:18:24.059 --> 00:18:25.360
  • He felt something stirring on the inside.
  • 00:18:25.427 --> 00:18:27.196
  • The inside. he knew he was supposed to
  • 00:18:27.262 --> 00:18:28.564
  • He knew he was supposed to leave that church and launch
  • 00:18:28.630 --> 00:18:30.499
  • Leave that church and launch out on his own, but the only
  • 00:18:30.566 --> 00:18:32.834
  • Out on his own, but the only building he could find was an
  • 00:18:32.901 --> 00:18:35.170
  • Building he could find was an abandoned feed store.
  • 00:18:35.237 --> 00:18:37.372
  • Abandoned feed store. he could've thought, "god,
  • 00:18:37.439 --> 00:18:38.674
  • He could've thought, "god, you had me leave my big,
  • 00:18:38.740 --> 00:18:40.909
  • You had me leave my big, prestigious church to come
  • 00:18:40.976 --> 00:18:43.111
  • Prestigious church to come down to this old feed store?
  • 00:18:43.178 --> 00:18:45.280
  • Down to this old feed store? i had thousands of members,
  • 00:18:45.347 --> 00:18:47.216
  • I had thousands of members, and now i have 90 members.
  • 00:18:47.282 --> 00:18:49.618
  • And now i have 90 members. that doesn't make sense."
  • 00:18:49.685 --> 00:18:51.220
  • That doesn't make sense." but god's ways are not our
  • 00:18:51.286 --> 00:18:53.055
  • But god's ways are not our ways.
  • 00:18:53.121 --> 00:18:54.323
  • Ways. my father had to put his
  • 00:18:54.389 --> 00:18:55.490
  • My father had to put his pride down.
  • 00:18:55.557 --> 00:18:57.192
  • Pride down. for 13 years, lakewood hardly
  • 00:18:57.259 --> 00:18:59.795
  • For 13 years, lakewood hardly grew, had less than 200
  • 00:18:59.861 --> 00:19:01.897
  • Grew, had less than 200 members, a fraction of what
  • 00:19:01.964 --> 00:19:03.966
  • Members, a fraction of what my father had before.
  • 00:19:04.032 --> 00:19:06.134
  • My father had before. friends would come by: "john,
  • 00:19:06.201 --> 00:19:07.836
  • Friends would come by: "john, what are you doing still
  • 00:19:07.903 --> 00:19:08.837
  • What are you doing still pastoring this small
  • 00:19:08.904 --> 00:19:10.072
  • Pastoring this small church?"
  • 00:19:10.138 --> 00:19:11.173
  • Church?" my dad didn't get
  • 00:19:11.240 --> 00:19:12.274
  • My dad didn't get discouraged.
  • 00:19:12.341 --> 00:19:13.175
  • Discouraged. he kept being his best,
  • 00:19:13.242 --> 00:19:14.843
  • He kept being his best, serving those 90 people,
  • 00:19:14.910 --> 00:19:16.478
  • Serving those 90 people, doing what he knew god put in
  • 00:19:16.545 --> 00:19:18.347
  • Doing what he knew god put in his heart.
  • 00:19:18.413 --> 00:19:19.982
  • His heart. the scripture says, "when you
  • 00:19:20.048 --> 00:19:21.783
  • The scripture says, "when you humble yourself under the
  • 00:19:21.850 --> 00:19:23.885
  • Humble yourself under the mighty hand of god, in due
  • 00:19:23.952 --> 00:19:26.288
  • Mighty hand of god, in due time, he will exalt you."
  • 00:19:26.355 --> 00:19:29.424
  • Time, he will exalt you." when you walk in humility,
  • 00:19:29.491 --> 00:19:31.727
  • When you walk in humility, there is a due time god has
  • 00:19:31.793 --> 00:19:34.429
  • There is a due time god has already established where he
  • 00:19:34.496 --> 00:19:36.098
  • Already established where he will catapult you ahead, a
  • 00:19:36.164 --> 00:19:38.166
  • Will catapult you ahead, a due time where he will thrust
  • 00:19:38.233 --> 00:19:40.068
  • Due time where he will thrust you to the next level.
  • 00:19:40.135 --> 00:19:42.104
  • You to the next level. when you come up out of your
  • 00:19:42.170 --> 00:19:43.438
  • When you come up out of your seventh dip, when it's your
  • 00:19:43.505 --> 00:19:45.507
  • Seventh dip, when it's your due time, all the forces of
  • 00:19:45.574 --> 00:19:47.509
  • Due time, all the forces of darkness cannot stop you.
  • 00:19:47.576 --> 00:19:49.611
  • Darkness cannot stop you. when god is ready to exalt
  • 00:19:49.678 --> 00:19:51.280
  • When god is ready to exalt you, you'll be exalted.
  • 00:19:51.346 --> 00:19:53.949
  • You, you'll be exalted. in 1972, 13 years after my
  • 00:19:54.016 --> 00:19:57.252
  • In 1972, 13 years after my father started lakewood, he
  • 00:19:57.319 --> 00:19:59.488
  • Father started lakewood, he came in to his due time.
  • 00:19:59.554 --> 00:20:01.890
  • Came in to his due time. it was like somebody opened
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  • It was like somebody opened the faucet.
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  • The faucet. people started coming from
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  • People started coming from all over the city.
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  • All over the city. lakewood grew to a church of
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  • Lakewood grew to a church of thousands.
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  • Thousands. if my father was here, he
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  • If my father was here, he would tell you, "the
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  • Would tell you, "the promotion was in the
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  • Promotion was in the humility."
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  • Humility." he had to be willing to do
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  • He had to be willing to do things that didn't make
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  • Things that didn't make sense, to pastor 90 people
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  • Sense, to pastor 90 people for years when he had been
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  • For years when he had been pastoring thousands.
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  • Pastoring thousands. god knows what he's doing.
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  • God knows what he's doing. he knows how to get you to
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  • He knows how to get you to the next level.
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  • The next level. like naaman, he knows how to
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  • Like naaman, he knows how to cure the leprosy, but it may
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  • Cure the leprosy, but it may not be the way you thought,
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  • Not be the way you thought, with the people you thought,
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  • With the people you thought, on the timetable you thought,
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  • On the timetable you thought, but if you'll keep walking in
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  • But if you'll keep walking in humility, being obedient,
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  • Humility, being obedient, like my father, you will come
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  • Like my father, you will come in to your due time where god
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  • In to your due time where god does more than you can ask or
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  • Does more than you can ask or think.
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  • Think. in the story of the prodigal
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  • In the story of the prodigal son, the young man left home
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  • Son, the young man left home and wasted his inheritance
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  • And wasted his inheritance living wild, partying, making
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  • Living wild, partying, making poor choices.
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  • Poor choices. he finally ran out of money,
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  • He finally ran out of money, ended up working in a hog
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  • Ended up working in a hog pen, feeding hogs.
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  • Pen, feeding hogs. but the scripture says,
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  • But the scripture says, "when he came to himself, he
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  • "when he came to himself, he said, 'i will arise and go
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  • Said, 'i will arise and go back to my father's house.'"
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  • Back to my father's house.'" he came to the point where he
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  • He came to the point where he humbled himself.
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  • Humbled himself. he was willing to admit,
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  • He was willing to admit, "i've made a mistake.
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  • "i've made a mistake. i've done wrong."
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  • I've done wrong." he put his pride down and
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  • He put his pride down and headed toward his house.
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  • Headed toward his house. his father was watching for
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  • His father was watching for him, came running out, gave
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  • Him, came running out, gave him a hug and said, "kill the
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  • Him a hug and said, "kill the fatted calf.
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  • Fatted calf. my son has come back home."
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  • My son has come back home." are you letting pride keep
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  • Are you letting pride keep you out of the father's
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  • You out of the father's house, worried about what
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  • House, worried about what people will think, your
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  • People will think, your image?
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  • Image? can i tell you, we've all
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  • Can i tell you, we've all blown it.
  • 00:21:45.460 --> 00:21:46.828
  • Blown it. we've all made mistakes,
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  • We've all made mistakes, gotten off course.
  • 00:21:48.430 --> 00:21:49.631
  • Gotten off course. don't let pride hold you
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  • Don't let pride hold you back.
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  • Back. the new beginning is in your
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  • The new beginning is in your humility.
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  • Humility. when you do like this young
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  • When you do like this young man and say, "god, i admit
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  • Man and say, "god, i admit i've done wrong," "i'm not
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  • I've done wrong," "i'm not where i should be, but i'm
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  • Where i should be, but i'm ready to come back home," god
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  • Ready to come back home," god will receive you with open
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  • Will receive you with open arms.
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  • Arms. that is the first step to
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  • That is the first step to getting out of the hog pen.
  • 00:22:09.785 --> 00:22:11.920
  • Getting out of the hog pen. you don't have to be perfect.
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  • You don't have to be perfect. god is not looking at your
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  • God is not looking at your performance.
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  • Performance. he's looking at your heart.
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  • He's looking at your heart. "well, joel, i don't have it
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  • "well, joel, i don't have it all together."
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  • All together." none of us do.
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  • None of us do. it's in our weaknesses, god's
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  • It's in our weaknesses, god's power shows up the greatest.
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  • Power shows up the greatest. when you come to god with
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  • When you come to god with humility and ask for help,
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  • Humility and ask for help, he'll not only receive you,
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  • He'll not only receive you, but like he did for the
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  • But like he did for the prodigal son, he'll put a
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  • Prodigal son, he'll put a ring on your finger,
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  • Ring on your finger, signifying your authority.
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  • Signifying your authority. he'll give you a royal robe,
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  • He'll give you a royal robe, signifying his favor, and
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  • Signifying his favor, and he'll say, "let's have a
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  • He'll say, "let's have a party."
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  • Party." he'll celebrate you and take
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  • He'll celebrate you and take you further than you've ever
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  • You further than you've ever imagined.
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  • Imagined. friends, the new beginning,
  • 00:22:49.024 --> 00:22:50.425
  • Friends, the new beginning, the promotion, the healing,
  • 00:22:50.492 --> 00:22:51.993
  • The promotion, the healing, it's in your humility.
  • 00:22:52.060 --> 00:22:53.628
  • It's in your humility. i'm asking us to put our
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  • I'm asking us to put our pride down and start doing
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  • Pride down and start doing what god is asking you to do.
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  • What god is asking you to do. maybe he's asking you to
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  • Maybe he's asking you to forgive or to treat people
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  • Forgive or to treat people better, or like my father, to
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  • Better, or like my father, to take a step of faith.
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  • Take a step of faith. whatever it is, don't talk
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  • Whatever it is, don't talk yourself out of it.
  • 00:23:07.275 --> 00:23:08.643
  • Yourself out of it. may not seem fair.
  • 00:23:08.710 --> 00:23:10.045
  • May not seem fair. you may not understand it,
  • 00:23:10.111 --> 00:23:11.446
  • You may not understand it, but if you'll put your pride
  • 00:23:11.513 --> 00:23:12.714
  • But if you'll put your pride down and do it anyway, you
  • 00:23:12.781 --> 00:23:14.716
  • Down and do it anyway, you are setting yourself up for a
  • 00:23:14.783 --> 00:23:16.718
  • Are setting yourself up for a due time.
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  • Due time. i believe and declare,
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  • I believe and declare, because you're humbling
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  • Because you're humbling yourself, god is about to
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  • Yourself, god is about to exalt you.
  • 00:23:23.291 --> 00:23:24.626
  • Exalt you. like naaman, you're going to
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  • Like naaman, you're going to come up out of your seventh
  • 00:23:26.161 --> 00:23:27.429
  • Come up out of your seventh dip, where suddenly healing
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  • Dip, where suddenly healing comes, promotion,
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  • Comes, promotion, vindication, freedom,
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  • Vindication, freedom, abundance, the fullness of
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  • Abundance, the fullness of your destiny, in jesus' name,
  • 00:23:34.436 --> 00:23:37.305
  • Your destiny, in jesus' name, and if you receive it, can
  • 00:23:37.372 --> 00:23:38.440
  • And if you receive it, can you say, "amen," today?
  • 00:23:38.507 --> 00:23:41.443
  • I'd like to give you an
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  • I'd like to give you an opportunity to make jesus the
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  • Opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
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  • Lord of your life. would you pray with me?
  • 00:23:46.214 --> 00:23:47.749
  • Would you pray with me? just say, "lord jesus, i
  • 00:23:47.816 --> 00:23:50.585
  • Just say, "lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
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  • Repent of my sins. come into my heart.
  • 00:23:52.821 --> 00:23:55.423
  • Come into my heart. i make you my lord and
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  • I make you my lord and savior."
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  • Savior." friends, if you prayed that
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  • Friends, if you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you
  • 00:23:59.561 --> 00:24:00.896
  • Simple prayer, we believe you got born again.
  • 00:24:00.962 --> 00:24:02.564
  • Got born again. get in a good bible-based
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  • Get in a good bible-based church, and keep god first
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  • Church, and keep god first place.
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  • Place. victoria and i will be right
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  • Victoria and i will be right back to speak a blessing over
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  • Back to speak a blessing over you.
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  • When we
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  • When we face challenges, it's easy
  • 00:24:10.672 --> 00:24:12.307
  • Face challenges, it's easy to feel like god
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  • To feel like god has forgotten about us.
  • 00:24:13.174 --> 00:24:14.709
  • Has forgotten about us. we don't see
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  • We don't see anything happening,
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  • Anything happening, and thoughts tell us
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  • And thoughts tell us it's not going to work out.
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  • It's not going to work out. but god is not called the great
  • 00:24:19.047 --> 00:24:20.649
  • But god is not called the great i was or the great i will be.
  • 00:24:20.715 --> 00:24:23.084
  • I was or the great i will be. he's called the great i am.
  • 00:24:23.151 --> 00:24:25.253
  • He's called the great i am. in my new book,
  • 00:24:25.320 --> 00:24:26.321
  • In my new book, he is i am,
  • 00:24:26.388 --> 00:24:27.956
  • He is i am, you'll discover
  • 00:24:28.023 --> 00:24:28.757
  • You'll discover that god is with you
  • 00:24:28.823 --> 00:24:29.691
  • That god is with you in every area of your life.
  • 00:24:29.758 --> 00:24:31.960
  • I am is always in the present,
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  • I am is always in the present, not at a later time.
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  • Not at a later time. god is working
  • 00:24:35.997 --> 00:24:36.798
  • God is working in your life right now.
  • 00:24:36.865 --> 00:24:38.700
  • In your life right now. i am means i am your healer.
  • 00:24:38.767 --> 00:24:40.669
  • I am means i am your healer. i am your provider.
  • 00:24:40.735 --> 00:24:42.203
  • I am your provider. i am your waymaker.
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  • I am your waymaker. whether you're
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  • Whether you're facing a challenge
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  • Facing a challenge or pursuing your dreams,
  • 00:24:45.740 --> 00:24:47.242
  • Or pursuing your dreams, stay in faith.
  • 00:24:47.309 --> 00:24:48.343
  • Stay in faith. the great i am
  • 00:24:48.410 --> 00:24:49.444
  • The great i am is right there with you.
  • 00:24:49.511 --> 00:24:51.613
  • Is right there with you. as our way of saying thank you
  • 00:24:51.680 --> 00:24:53.315
  • As our way of saying thank you for your gift of any amount
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  • For your gift of any amount this month,
  • 00:24:54.883 --> 00:24:55.483
  • This month, we would like to send you
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  • We would like to send you a copy of joel's book,
  • 00:24:56.718 --> 00:24:58.486
  • A copy of joel's book, he is i am:
  • 00:24:58.553 --> 00:25:00.188
  • He is i am: god is for you here and now.
  • 00:25:00.255 --> 00:25:03.091
  • God is for you here and now. are you in need of protection
  • 00:25:03.158 --> 00:25:04.626
  • Are you in need of protection or provision today?
  • 00:25:04.693 --> 00:25:05.961
  • Or provision today? jesus assures us,
  • 00:25:06.027 --> 00:25:07.395
  • Jesus assures us, "i am
  • 00:25:07.462 --> 00:25:08.029
  • "i am the good shepherd."
  • 00:25:08.096 --> 00:25:09.431
  • The good shepherd." does the path ahead
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  • Does the path ahead seem uncertain or dark?
  • 00:25:10.599 --> 00:25:12.601
  • Seem uncertain or dark? jesus declares,
  • 00:25:12.667 --> 00:25:13.802
  • Jesus declares, "i am the light of the world."
  • 00:25:13.868 --> 00:25:16.304
  • "i am the light of the world." do you feel like your career,
  • 00:25:16.371 --> 00:25:17.872
  • Do you feel like your career, calling, or marriage
  • 00:25:17.939 --> 00:25:19.207
  • Calling, or marriage is beyond hope?
  • 00:25:19.274 --> 00:25:20.609
  • Is beyond hope? jesus promises,
  • 00:25:20.675 --> 00:25:21.977
  • Jesus promises, "i am the resurrection
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  • "i am the resurrection and the life."
  • 00:25:23.612 --> 00:25:24.813
  • And the life." with every i am statement,
  • 00:25:24.879 --> 00:25:26.948
  • With every i am statement, you'll discover
  • 00:25:27.015 --> 00:25:27.649
  • You'll discover more about who god is
  • 00:25:27.716 --> 00:25:29.417
  • More about who god is and what he has made
  • 00:25:29.484 --> 00:25:30.452
  • And what he has made available for you.
  • 00:25:30.518 --> 00:25:31.620
  • Available for you. not someday, but today.
  • 00:25:31.686 --> 00:25:33.855
  • Not someday, but today. request your copy today
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  • Request your copy today and watch god's promise
  • 00:25:35.690 --> 00:25:37.058
  • And watch god's promise come alive.
  • 00:25:37.125 --> 00:25:38.360
  • Come alive. no matter what you face,
  • 00:25:38.426 --> 00:25:39.995
  • No matter what you face, he is here and now for you.
  • 00:25:40.061 --> 00:25:42.764
  • He is here and now for you. be sure to request your copy of
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  • Be sure to request your copy of he is i am:
  • 00:25:44.666 --> 00:25:46.167
  • He is i am: god is for you here and now
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  • God is for you here and now today.
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  • Today. visit joelosteen.com
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  • Visit joelosteen.com or call 888-567-joel.
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  • You're never alone.
  • 00:25:55.210 --> 00:25:56.344
  • You're never alone. the great
  • 00:25:56.411 --> 00:25:56.845
  • The great i am is behind the scenes
  • 00:25:56.911 --> 00:25:58.747
  • I am is behind the scenes making ways, opening doors,
  • 00:25:58.813 --> 00:26:01.016
  • Making ways, opening doors, turning things in your favor.
  • 00:26:01.082 --> 00:26:03.385
  • Turning things in your favor. victoria
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  • Victoria and i want you to know
  • 00:26:03.752 --> 00:26:04.419
  • And i want you to know we love you
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  • We love you and we pray for you every day.
  • 00:26:05.120 --> 00:26:07.188
  • And we pray for you every day. thanks for your prayer
  • 00:26:07.255 --> 00:26:08.323
  • Thanks for your prayer and support of the ministry.
  • 00:26:08.390 --> 00:26:10.025
  • And support of the ministry. your generosity
  • 00:26:10.091 --> 00:26:11.126
  • Your generosity is making a difference
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  • Is making a difference in people's lives
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  • In people's lives around the world.
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  • Around the world. a special
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  • A special thank you to our champion
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  • Thank you to our champion of hope partners
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  • Of hope partners for your monthly support.
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  • For your monthly support. if you're not a partner,
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  • If you're not a partner, i hope you'll consider
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  • I hope you'll consider becoming one.
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