Joel Osteen - How To Handle Troublemakers

January 23, 2026 | 27:29

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - How To Handle Troublemakers | January 23, 2026
  • -joel: god bless you. it's
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  • -joel: god bless you. it's great to be with you today.
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  • Great to be with you today. i hope you'll stay connected
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  • I hope you'll stay connected with us during the week,
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  • With us during the week, through our daily podcast,
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  • Through our daily podcast, our youtube channel, social
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  • Our youtube channel, social media. and you can come
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  • Media. and you can come visit us in person. we'd
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  • Visit us in person. we'd love to have you be a part
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  • Love to have you be a part of one of our services.
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  • Of one of our services. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny. it s just a
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  • Something funny. it s just a joke; don t be offended. i
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  • Joke; don t be offended. i heard about this man. he was
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  • Heard about this man. he was sitting in a dark restaurant.
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  • Sitting in a dark restaurant. he said to the lady next to
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  • He said to the lady next to him, would you like to hear
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  • Him, would you like to hear a blonde joke? the lady
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  • A blonde joke? the lady said, well before you tell
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  • Said, well before you tell me, you should know that im
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  • Me, you should know that im blonde, 6 foot tall and a
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  • Blonde, 6 foot tall and a professional body builder.
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  • Professional body builder. the lady next to me is
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  • The lady next to me is blonde, 6 foot 2 and a
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  • Blonde, 6 foot 2 and a professional wrestler. and
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  • Professional wrestler. and the lady next to her is
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  • The lady next to her is blonde, 6 foot 5 and the kick
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  • Blonde, 6 foot 5 and the kick boxing champion of the world.
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  • Boxing champion of the world. now do you still want to tell
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  • Now do you still want to tell me? he thought about it a
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  • Me? he thought about it a moment and said, no, not if
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  • Moment and said, no, not if i m going to have to explain
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  • I m going to have to explain it three times. (laugher)
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  • It three times. (laugher) all right y all, say it like
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  • All right y all, say it like you mean it. this is my
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  • You mean it. this is my bible. i am what it says i
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  • Bible. i am what it says i am. i have what it says i
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  • Am. i have what it says i have. i can do what it says
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  • Have. i can do what it says i can do. today, i will be
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  • I can do. today, i will be taught the word of god. i
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  • Taught the word of god. i boldly confess: my mind is
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  • Boldly confess: my mind is alert. my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert. my heart is receptive. i will never be the same in
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  • I will never be the same in jesus name. god bless you.
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  • Jesus name. god bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about how to handle
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  • About how to handle troublemakers. we all have
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  • Troublemakers. we all have people in life that can get
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  • People in life that can get on our nerves, do things to
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  • On our nerves, do things to aggravate us, say things
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  • Aggravate us, say things behind our back. it may be a
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  • Behind our back. it may be a coworker, a neighbor, a
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  • Coworker, a neighbor, a relative or perhaps you re
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  • Relative or perhaps you re sitting by them. they try to
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  • Sitting by them. they try to make us look bad, stir up
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  • Make us look bad, stir up division. it█s like their
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  • Division. it█s like their calling in life is to cause
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  • Calling in life is to cause us trouble. it█s easy to get
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  • Us trouble. it█s easy to get riled up, this is not right.
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  • Riled up, this is not right. i ve got to straighten them
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  • I ve got to straighten them out. they re not going to get
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  • Out. they re not going to get the best of me. but most of
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  • The best of me. but most of the time, it█s simply a
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  • The time, it█s simply a distraction. that s the enemy
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  • Distraction. that s the enemy trying to bait you into
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  • Trying to bait you into conflict, get you off course,
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  • Conflict, get you off course, spending valuable time and
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  • Spending valuable time and energy on something that
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  • Energy on something that doesn t matter. changing
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  • Doesn t matter. changing their mind about you should
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  • Their mind about you should not be your goal. trying to
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  • Not be your goal. trying to get them to like you is not
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  • Get them to like you is not your job. some people, no
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  • Your job. some people, no matter how nice you are, no
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  • Matter how nice you are, no matter how good you are to
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  • Matter how good you are to them, they█ve not going to be
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  • Them, they█ve not going to be for you. but you don█t need
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  • For you. but you don█t need them to fulfill your destiny.
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  • Them to fulfill your destiny. you don t have to have their
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  • You don t have to have their approval to become who you
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  • Approval to become who you were created to be. don t let
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  • Were created to be. don t let that get on the inside. you
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  • That get on the inside. you have to keep your walls up.
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  • Have to keep your walls up. you can t stop people from
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  • You can t stop people from being rude, offensive,
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  • Being rude, offensive, stirring up trouble, but you
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  • Stirring up trouble, but you don t have to allow it in.
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  • Don t have to allow it in. the scripture says to, guard
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  • The scripture says to, guard your heart. there should be
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  • Your heart. there should be a secret place, down in your
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  • A secret place, down in your spirit that you don t let
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  • Spirit that you don t let offense in. you don t let
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  • Offense in. you don t let bitterness, what wasn t fair,
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  • Bitterness, what wasn t fair, how they treated you, keep
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  • How they treated you, keep that out. well joel, if they
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  • That out. well joel, if they wouldn█t say things that
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  • Wouldn█t say things that weren t true, if they
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  • Weren t true, if they wouldn█t be demeaning, if
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  • Wouldn█t be demeaning, if they wouldn t leave me out.
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  • They wouldn t leave me out. you can t control people. you
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  • You can t control people. you can t make them do what s
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  • Can t make them do what s right. every time you let it
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  • Right. every time you let it upset you, you█re giving them
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  • Upset you, you█re giving them your power. it█s like you re
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  • Your power. it█s like you re putting your thermostat in
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  • Putting your thermostat in their hands. you█re letting
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  • Their hands. you█re letting them set your temperature.
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  • Them set your temperature. let█s make them cold. let█s
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  • Let█s make them cold. let█s make them hot. let█s make
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  • Make them hot. let█s make them uncomfortable. do
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  • Them uncomfortable. do yourself a favor, get your
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  • Yourself a favor, get your thermostat back. quit letting
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  • Thermostat back. quit letting what they say ruin your day.
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  • What they say ruin your day. quit allowing people that
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  • Quit allowing people that have issues, that are angry,
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  • Have issues, that are angry, bitter, insecure determine
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  • Bitter, insecure determine how you re going to live. you
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  • How you re going to live. you are responsible for your own
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  • Are responsible for your own happiness. if you re
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  • Happiness. if you re depending on what other
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  • Depending on what other people do to determine
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  • People do to determine whether or not you█re going
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  • Whether or not you█re going to be happy, you█re going to
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  • To be happy, you█re going to spend a lot of days unhappy.
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  • Spend a lot of days unhappy. why don t you make up your
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  • Why don t you make up your mind, i█m going to enjoy
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  • Mind, i█m going to enjoy this day despite what comes
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  • This day despite what comes against me. joel this
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  • Against me. joel this person at work gets on my
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  • Person at work gets on my nerves. they█re always trying
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  • Nerves. they█re always trying to make me look bad. here█s
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  • To make me look bad. here█s what i█m saying, get them off
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  • What i█m saying, get them off your nerves. they don t
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  • Your nerves. they don t control you. you█re giving
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  • Control you. you█re giving them your joy.
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  • Them your joy. david was seventeen years old
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  • David was seventeen years old when he heard goliath
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  • When he heard goliath taunting the people of
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  • Taunting the people of israel. something rose up in
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  • Israel. something rose up in him. he went out with a sling
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  • Him. he went out with a sling shot, slung that rock, and
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  • Shot, slung that rock, and brought down the giant. some
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  • Brought down the giant. some troublemakers you need to
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  • Troublemakers you need to confront. god will give you
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  • Confront. god will give you the grace to defeat them. but
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  • The grace to defeat them. but most of them are not going to
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  • Most of them are not going to go away that quickly. david
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  • Go away that quickly. david defeated goliath in a few
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  • Defeated goliath in a few minutes, but his real enemy
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  • Minutes, but his real enemy was king saul. he didn█t go
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  • Was king saul. he didn█t go away. he kept pestering david
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  • Away. he kept pestering david for much of his life. david
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  • For much of his life. david went to the palace to serve
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  • Went to the palace to serve king saul. he was his armor
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  • King saul. he was his armor bearer. he would play the
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  • Bearer. he would play the harp when saul was depressed,
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  • Harp when saul was depressed, and it would help bring
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  • And it would help bring healing. but when saul heard
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  • Healing. but when saul heard the people singing about how
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  • The people singing about how he had killed thousands, but
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  • He had killed thousands, but david had killed tens of
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  • David had killed tens of thousands, saul became
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  • Thousands, saul became jealous. he couldn't handle
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  • Jealous. he couldn't handle david being more prominent
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  • David being more prominent and more revered. some people
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  • And more revered. some people are fine as long as you stay
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  • Are fine as long as you stay at their level. but when god
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  • At their level. but when god starts to promote you and
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  • Starts to promote you and give you more honor,
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  • Give you more honor, influence, don█t be surprised
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  • Influence, don█t be surprised if they can t handle it. they
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  • If they can t handle it. they get jealous and start finding
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  • Get jealous and start finding fault, being critical. if you
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  • Fault, being critical. if you let that in, it will poison
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  • Let that in, it will poison your spirit. you█ll become
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  • Your spirit. you█ll become critical of the people that
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  • Critical of the people that are critical of you and it
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  • Are critical of you and it will keep you from rising
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  • Will keep you from rising higher. you have to be mature
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  • Higher. you have to be mature enough to walk away. don█t
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  • Enough to walk away. don█t get drawn in to that battle.
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  • Get drawn in to that battle. it█s a distraction.
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  • It█s a distraction. one day while david was
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  • One day while david was playing the harp, saul threw
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  • Playing the harp, saul threw a spear and tried to kill
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  • A spear and tried to kill david. david ducked. it
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  • David. david ducked. it barely missed him. earlier,
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  • Barely missed him. earlier, when david heard the insults,
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  • When david heard the insults, he ran toward goliath. he
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  • He ran toward goliath. he thought, i m going to fight
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  • Thought, i m going to fight this troublemaker.but this
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  • This troublemaker.but this time, when he was
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  • Time, when he was disrespected, he ducked. he
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  • Disrespected, he ducked. he didn█t confront saul like he
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  • Didn█t confront saul like he did goliath. he knew saul was
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  • Did goliath. he knew saul was anointed by god, and he
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  • Anointed by god, and he wasn█t going touch god█s
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  • Wasn█t going touch god█s anointed. the principle is
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  • Anointed. the principle is you have to know when to
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  • You have to know when to fight and when to walk away.
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  • Fight and when to walk away. you re not supposed to
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  • You re not supposed to confront every troublemaker.
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  • Confront every troublemaker. they may be throwing spears,
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  • They may be throwing spears, disrespectful, trying to make
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  • Disrespectful, trying to make you look bad. most of the
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  • You look bad. most of the time you need to duck. ignore
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  • Time you need to duck. ignore it and move on.
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  • It and move on. david had to flee for his
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  • David had to flee for his life. he spent years on the
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  • Life. he spent years on the run, in the desert, with king
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  • Run, in the desert, with king saul chasing him. it wasn t
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  • Saul chasing him. it wasn t fair. he hadn t done anything
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  • Fair. he hadn t done anything wrong. he could have been
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  • Wrong. he could have been bitter, angry. i m going to
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  • Bitter, angry. i m going to get revenge. i█m going to pay
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  • Get revenge. i█m going to pay him back. but david kept his
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  • Him back. but david kept his walls up. at one point, he
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  • Walls up. at one point, he had the opportunity to kill
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  • Had the opportunity to kill saul. he could have put an
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  • Saul. he could have put an end to this problem, but he
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  • End to this problem, but he wouldn█t do it. he kept
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  • Wouldn█t do it. he kept passing the test. how you
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  • Passing the test. how you handle people that do you
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  • Handle people that do you wrong will determine how high
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  • Wrong will determine how high you can go. if you get upset,
  • 00:07:01.777 --> 00:07:04.647
  • You can go. if you get upset, offended, try to pay everyone
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  • Offended, try to pay everyone back, it█s going to limit
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  • Back, it█s going to limit your growth. but when you do
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  • Your growth. but when you do like david, even when it█s
  • 00:07:10.987 --> 00:07:12.889
  • Like david, even when it█s unfair, you stay on the high
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  • Unfair, you stay on the high road, you keep that offense
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  • Road, you keep that offense out of your spirit, you duck
  • 00:07:16.425 --> 00:07:18.694
  • Out of your spirit, you duck when you could easily fight.
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  • When you could easily fight. you are passing the test.
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  • You are passing the test. before david could take the
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  • Before david could take the throne, he didn t just have
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  • Throne, he didn t just have to defeat goliath, not just
  • 00:07:26.235 --> 00:07:28.337
  • To defeat goliath, not just confront a troublemaker, he
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  • Confront a troublemaker, he had to walk away from a
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  • Had to walk away from a troublemaker. he had to
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  • Troublemaker. he had to ignore the disrespect. to
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  • Ignore the disrespect. to reach your destiny, there
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  • Reach your destiny, there will be saul█s people that
  • 00:07:37.947 --> 00:07:39.815
  • Will be saul█s people that offend, people that are rude,
  • 00:07:39.882 --> 00:07:42.351
  • Offend, people that are rude, that don█t give you credit.
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  • That don█t give you credit. like david, you re doing the
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  • Like david, you re doing the right thing, but they find
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  • Right thing, but they find fault. that s not goliath,
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  • Fault. that s not goliath, that█s saul. ignore it. don t
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  • That█s saul. ignore it. don t let it get in your spirit.
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  • Let it get in your spirit. 1 peter 2 says, follow the
  • 00:07:54.597 --> 00:07:56.432
  • 1 peter 2 says, follow the example of christ. he did not
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  • Example of christ. he did not retaliate when he was
  • 00:07:59.068 --> 00:08:00.836
  • Retaliate when he was insulted. he did not threaten
  • 00:08:00.903 --> 00:08:03.439
  • Insulted. he did not threaten to get even when he was done
  • 00:08:03.506 --> 00:08:05.041
  • To get even when he was done wrong. he left his case in
  • 00:08:05.107 --> 00:08:07.276
  • Wrong. he left his case in the hands of god. how much
  • 00:08:07.343 --> 00:08:09.845
  • The hands of god. how much more peace would we have, if
  • 00:08:09.912 --> 00:08:12.081
  • More peace would we have, if we would start leaving our
  • 00:08:12.148 --> 00:08:13.616
  • We would start leaving our cases in the hands of god.
  • 00:08:13.683 --> 00:08:15.885
  • Cases in the hands of god. how much more would we enjoy
  • 00:08:15.952 --> 00:08:17.353
  • How much more would we enjoy life, if we didn█t retaliate
  • 00:08:17.420 --> 00:08:19.889
  • Life, if we didn█t retaliate when we re insulted, we
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  • When we re insulted, we didn█t live trying to get
  • 00:08:22.124 --> 00:08:23.092
  • Didn█t live trying to get even, we weren█t frustrated
  • 00:08:23.159 --> 00:08:24.794
  • Even, we weren█t frustrated over people at work that are
  • 00:08:24.860 --> 00:08:26.529
  • Over people at work that are stirring up trouble. instead
  • 00:08:26.596 --> 00:08:28.831
  • Stirring up trouble. instead of fighting, we ducked. we
  • 00:08:28.898 --> 00:08:30.766
  • Of fighting, we ducked. we walked away knowing god is
  • 00:08:30.833 --> 00:08:32.201
  • Walked away knowing god is fighting for us. are there
  • 00:08:32.268 --> 00:08:34.637
  • Fighting for us. are there some things you need to leave
  • 00:08:34.704 --> 00:08:37.173
  • Some things you need to leave in the hands of god? people
  • 00:08:37.239 --> 00:08:39.208
  • In the hands of god? people that did you wrong? what
  • 00:08:39.275 --> 00:08:40.843
  • That did you wrong? what somebody said, that spear
  • 00:08:40.910 --> 00:08:43.112
  • Somebody said, that spear they threw that almost took
  • 00:08:43.179 --> 00:08:44.513
  • They threw that almost took you out, that coworker that
  • 00:08:44.580 --> 00:08:46.482
  • You out, that coworker that cost you a promotion. now
  • 00:08:46.549 --> 00:08:48.551
  • Cost you a promotion. now you re all stressed, blood
  • 00:08:48.618 --> 00:08:50.219
  • You re all stressed, blood pressure high, can█t sleep
  • 00:08:50.286 --> 00:08:51.954
  • Pressure high, can█t sleep well. you re trying to solve
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  • Well. you re trying to solve the case, fix the case, prove
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  • The case, fix the case, prove the case. this can save you a
  • 00:08:55.658 --> 00:08:57.827
  • The case. this can save you a lot of heartache. you can
  • 00:08:57.893 --> 00:08:59.528
  • Lot of heartache. you can leave that case in hands of
  • 00:08:59.595 --> 00:09:01.731
  • Leave that case in hands of god. he ll make the wrongs
  • 00:09:01.797 --> 00:09:03.766
  • God. he ll make the wrongs right. he sees the spears
  • 00:09:03.833 --> 00:09:06.235
  • Right. he sees the spears they█ve thrown. he█d heard
  • 00:09:06.302 --> 00:09:08.371
  • They█ve thrown. he█d heard the negative comments, the
  • 00:09:08.437 --> 00:09:10.172
  • The negative comments, the betrayals, the jealousy. none
  • 00:09:10.239 --> 00:09:12.508
  • Betrayals, the jealousy. none of that can keep you from
  • 00:09:12.575 --> 00:09:14.577
  • Of that can keep you from your destiny unless you let
  • 00:09:14.644 --> 00:09:16.779
  • Your destiny unless you let the offense get in you and
  • 00:09:16.846 --> 00:09:18.414
  • The offense get in you and poison your spirit. you get
  • 00:09:18.481 --> 00:09:20.950
  • Poison your spirit. you get distracted in battles you re
  • 00:09:21.017 --> 00:09:22.652
  • Distracted in battles you re not supposed to fight. you
  • 00:09:22.718 --> 00:09:24.320
  • Not supposed to fight. you don t have to retaliate. god
  • 00:09:24.387 --> 00:09:26.856
  • Don t have to retaliate. god will vindicate you better
  • 00:09:26.922 --> 00:09:28.591
  • Will vindicate you better than you can vindicate
  • 00:09:28.658 --> 00:09:29.725
  • Than you can vindicate yourself. this takes all the
  • 00:09:29.792 --> 00:09:31.961
  • Yourself. this takes all the pressure off. it█s very
  • 00:09:32.028 --> 00:09:33.696
  • Pressure off. it█s very freeing when you understand,
  • 00:09:33.763 --> 00:09:35.297
  • Freeing when you understand, you don t have to change
  • 00:09:35.364 --> 00:09:36.565
  • You don t have to change people. you don t have to
  • 00:09:36.632 --> 00:09:38.267
  • People. you don t have to convince them to be for you,
  • 00:09:38.334 --> 00:09:40.036
  • Convince them to be for you, make them like you. just keep
  • 00:09:40.102 --> 00:09:42.004
  • Make them like you. just keep taking the high road,
  • 00:09:42.071 --> 00:09:44.240
  • Taking the high road, honoring god, and he█ll get
  • 00:09:44.306 --> 00:09:45.641
  • Honoring god, and he█ll get you to where you█ve supposed
  • 00:09:45.708 --> 00:09:47.043
  • You to where you█ve supposed to be.
  • 00:09:47.109 --> 00:09:48.277
  • To be. 1 samuel 18 says, “saul
  • 00:09:48.344 --> 00:09:50.680
  • 1 samuel 18 says, “saul remained david's enemy for
  • 00:09:50.746 --> 00:09:52.848
  • Remained david's enemy for the rest of his life.” it's
  • 00:09:52.915 --> 00:09:55.084
  • The rest of his life.” it's interesting that god didn't
  • 00:09:55.151 --> 00:09:56.752
  • Interesting that god didn't change saul. saul didn't
  • 00:09:56.819 --> 00:09:58.721
  • Change saul. saul didn't suddenly decide that he liked
  • 00:09:58.788 --> 00:10:00.890
  • Suddenly decide that he liked david, and he was going to
  • 00:10:00.956 --> 00:10:01.757
  • David, and he was going to quit trying to harm him. i
  • 00:10:01.824 --> 00:10:04.126
  • Quit trying to harm him. i don't mean to depress us but
  • 00:10:04.193 --> 00:10:05.761
  • Don't mean to depress us but some of those troublemakers
  • 00:10:05.828 --> 00:10:07.129
  • Some of those troublemakers may not change. some of the
  • 00:10:07.196 --> 00:10:09.365
  • May not change. some of the people that don't like you,
  • 00:10:09.432 --> 00:10:10.766
  • People that don't like you, that say things that aren't
  • 00:10:10.833 --> 00:10:12.201
  • That say things that aren't true, that won't respect you,
  • 00:10:12.268 --> 00:10:14.870
  • True, that won't respect you, they may be that way their
  • 00:10:14.937 --> 00:10:16.205
  • They may be that way their whole life. the question is,
  • 00:10:16.272 --> 00:10:19.375
  • Whole life. the question is, is your happiness dependent
  • 00:10:19.442 --> 00:10:21.243
  • Is your happiness dependent on whether saul quits
  • 00:10:21.310 --> 00:10:22.311
  • On whether saul quits bothering you, on whether
  • 00:10:22.378 --> 00:10:24.080
  • Bothering you, on whether that relative quits demeaning
  • 00:10:24.146 --> 00:10:25.815
  • That relative quits demeaning you? you█ve putting your
  • 00:10:25.881 --> 00:10:27.683
  • You? you█ve putting your power in their hands. i m
  • 00:10:27.750 --> 00:10:30.486
  • Power in their hands. i m asking you to take your power
  • 00:10:30.553 --> 00:10:32.154
  • Asking you to take your power back. quit giving them your
  • 00:10:32.221 --> 00:10:34.323
  • Back. quit giving them your thermostat. god didn█t
  • 00:10:34.390 --> 00:10:36.459
  • Thermostat. god didn█t promise he█ll going to change
  • 00:10:36.525 --> 00:10:37.827
  • Promise he█ll going to change them, but he did promise,
  • 00:10:37.893 --> 00:10:40.162
  • Them, but he did promise, they cannot keep you from
  • 00:10:40.229 --> 00:10:41.497
  • They cannot keep you from your destiny. what god has
  • 00:10:41.564 --> 00:10:43.566
  • Your destiny. what god has purposed for your life, is
  • 00:10:43.632 --> 00:10:45.601
  • Purposed for your life, is not dependent on whether they
  • 00:10:45.668 --> 00:10:47.403
  • Not dependent on whether they approve you, accept you,
  • 00:10:47.470 --> 00:10:49.572
  • Approve you, accept you, validate you. quit worrying
  • 00:10:49.638 --> 00:10:52.208
  • Validate you. quit worrying about what they think. quit
  • 00:10:52.274 --> 00:10:54.176
  • About what they think. quit spending time and energy
  • 00:10:54.243 --> 00:10:55.845
  • Spending time and energy trying to defend yourself.
  • 00:10:55.911 --> 00:10:58.013
  • Trying to defend yourself. those are distractions.
  • 00:10:58.080 --> 00:10:59.915
  • Those are distractions. you re never going to get rid
  • 00:10:59.982 --> 00:11:01.083
  • You re never going to get rid of all the negative chatter
  • 00:11:01.150 --> 00:11:02.485
  • Of all the negative chatter and relatives saying this,
  • 00:11:02.551 --> 00:11:04.520
  • And relatives saying this, and a coworker stirring
  • 00:11:04.587 --> 00:11:05.654
  • And a coworker stirring things up. you don█t have
  • 00:11:05.721 --> 00:11:07.456
  • Things up. you don█t have time for all that pettiness.
  • 00:11:07.523 --> 00:11:09.358
  • Time for all that pettiness. god has put greatness in you.
  • 00:11:09.425 --> 00:11:11.761
  • God has put greatness in you. he█ll destined you to leave
  • 00:11:11.827 --> 00:11:13.229
  • He█ll destined you to leave your mark, to set a new
  • 00:11:13.295 --> 00:11:15.030
  • Your mark, to set a new standard for your family. if
  • 00:11:15.097 --> 00:11:17.533
  • Standard for your family. if you ll leave it in his hands,
  • 00:11:17.600 --> 00:11:19.335
  • You ll leave it in his hands, he will take care of those
  • 00:11:19.401 --> 00:11:21.070
  • He will take care of those who are trying to stop you.
  • 00:11:21.137 --> 00:11:23.172
  • Who are trying to stop you. david kept doing the right
  • 00:11:23.239 --> 00:11:24.406
  • David kept doing the right thing, year after year. one
  • 00:11:24.473 --> 00:11:26.475
  • Thing, year after year. one day saul was killed in a
  • 00:11:26.542 --> 00:11:28.077
  • Day saul was killed in a battle, and david was made
  • 00:11:28.144 --> 00:11:29.912
  • Battle, and david was made king. it happened suddenly.
  • 00:11:29.979 --> 00:11:32.715
  • King. it happened suddenly. david didn█t see it coming.
  • 00:11:32.782 --> 00:11:33.949
  • David didn█t see it coming. it looked like he d be on the
  • 00:11:34.016 --> 00:11:35.484
  • It looked like he d be on the run for many more years, then
  • 00:11:35.551 --> 00:11:37.520
  • Run for many more years, then word came, saul█s gone and
  • 00:11:37.586 --> 00:11:39.755
  • Word came, saul█s gone and now you re on the throne.
  • 00:11:39.822 --> 00:11:41.891
  • Now you re on the throne. god has some of these sudden
  • 00:11:41.957 --> 00:11:43.559
  • God has some of these sudden turn arounds for you. you ve
  • 00:11:43.626 --> 00:11:45.761
  • Turn arounds for you. you ve taken the high road. you█ve
  • 00:11:45.828 --> 00:11:47.696
  • Taken the high road. you█ve walked away from the
  • 00:11:47.763 --> 00:11:48.631
  • Walked away from the disrespect, you ve been good
  • 00:11:48.697 --> 00:11:50.800
  • Disrespect, you ve been good to people that weren█t good
  • 00:11:50.866 --> 00:11:52.001
  • To people that weren█t good to you. god saw you doing the
  • 00:11:52.067 --> 00:11:54.470
  • To you. god saw you doing the right thing. there█ve about to
  • 00:11:54.537 --> 00:11:56.605
  • Right thing. there█ve about to be shift, where suddenly
  • 00:11:56.672 --> 00:11:58.874
  • Be shift, where suddenly you re promoted, suddenly
  • 00:11:58.941 --> 00:12:00.676
  • You re promoted, suddenly you re vindicated, suddenly
  • 00:12:00.743 --> 00:12:02.511
  • You re vindicated, suddenly that person that caused you
  • 00:12:02.578 --> 00:12:03.679
  • That person that caused you all the heartache is no
  • 00:12:03.746 --> 00:12:05.247
  • All the heartache is no longer there. saul is gone
  • 00:12:05.314 --> 00:12:07.716
  • Longer there. saul is gone and you take the throne. you
  • 00:12:07.783 --> 00:12:09.118
  • And you take the throne. you see favor and blessing that
  • 00:12:09.185 --> 00:12:12.121
  • See favor and blessing that catapults you ahead.
  • 00:12:12.188 --> 00:12:14.523
  • Catapults you ahead. a man i know worked at this
  • 00:12:14.590 --> 00:12:15.724
  • A man i know worked at this company for many years. he
  • 00:12:15.791 --> 00:12:17.760
  • Company for many years. he was very faithful, always
  • 00:12:17.827 --> 00:12:19.762
  • Was very faithful, always doing more than required. but
  • 00:12:19.829 --> 00:12:22.364
  • Doing more than required. but his supervisor was never for
  • 00:12:22.431 --> 00:12:24.200
  • His supervisor was never for him. he was intimidated by
  • 00:12:24.266 --> 00:12:26.335
  • Him. he was intimidated by him. even in meetings, he
  • 00:12:26.402 --> 00:12:28.137
  • Him. even in meetings, he would make demeaning remarks
  • 00:12:28.204 --> 00:12:29.572
  • Would make demeaning remarks about this man. he was passed
  • 00:12:29.638 --> 00:12:31.841
  • About this man. he was passed over for several promotions
  • 00:12:31.907 --> 00:12:33.242
  • Over for several promotions that should have been his. he
  • 00:12:33.309 --> 00:12:35.444
  • That should have been his. he never complained. he didn t
  • 00:12:35.511 --> 00:12:37.279
  • Never complained. he didn t talk about the supervisor. he
  • 00:12:37.346 --> 00:12:39.281
  • Talk about the supervisor. he left his case in in the hands
  • 00:12:39.348 --> 00:12:40.850
  • Left his case in in the hands of god. he knew this was a
  • 00:12:40.916 --> 00:12:43.319
  • Of god. he knew this was a saul. you can t pray away
  • 00:12:43.385 --> 00:12:45.588
  • Saul. you can t pray away saul. you ll defeat a few
  • 00:12:45.654 --> 00:12:47.790
  • Saul. you ll defeat a few giants quickly, but most of
  • 00:12:47.857 --> 00:12:49.925
  • Giants quickly, but most of the people that stir things
  • 00:12:49.992 --> 00:12:51.160
  • The people that stir things up are saul s. they don t go
  • 00:12:51.227 --> 00:12:53.229
  • Up are saul s. they don t go away overnight. these are
  • 00:12:53.295 --> 00:12:55.030
  • Away overnight. these are tests that we have to pass.
  • 00:12:55.097 --> 00:12:57.533
  • Tests that we have to pass. one day the owner of the
  • 00:12:57.600 --> 00:12:58.601
  • One day the owner of the company flew in from another
  • 00:12:58.667 --> 00:13:00.236
  • Company flew in from another state where he lived. the
  • 00:13:00.302 --> 00:13:02.204
  • State where he lived. the supervisor was out of town.
  • 00:13:02.271 --> 00:13:04.473
  • Supervisor was out of town. this man worked with the
  • 00:13:04.540 --> 00:13:05.608
  • This man worked with the owner for the week and gave
  • 00:13:05.674 --> 00:13:07.509
  • Owner for the week and gave him the reports that he
  • 00:13:07.576 --> 00:13:08.477
  • Him the reports that he needed. the owner was so
  • 00:13:08.544 --> 00:13:10.412
  • Needed. the owner was so impressed. a few months
  • 00:13:10.479 --> 00:13:12.214
  • Impressed. a few months later, he decided to
  • 00:13:12.281 --> 00:13:13.549
  • Later, he decided to restructure his staff. he
  • 00:13:13.616 --> 00:13:15.618
  • Restructure his staff. he called this man and the
  • 00:13:15.684 --> 00:13:17.152
  • Called this man and the supervisor in. he said to the
  • 00:13:17.219 --> 00:13:19.321
  • Supervisor in. he said to the man, i m making you my vice
  • 00:13:19.388 --> 00:13:21.657
  • Man, i m making you my vice president. from now on,
  • 00:13:21.724 --> 00:13:23.726
  • President. from now on, you ll run the company and
  • 00:13:23.792 --> 00:13:25.527
  • You ll run the company and report directly to me.he
  • 00:13:25.594 --> 00:13:27.563
  • Report directly to me.he said to the supervisor, from
  • 00:13:27.630 --> 00:13:29.231
  • Said to the supervisor, from now on, you ll report to him.
  • 00:13:29.298 --> 00:13:32.201
  • Now on, you ll report to him. god knows how to vindicate
  • 00:13:32.268 --> 00:13:34.169
  • God knows how to vindicate you. he knows how to make up
  • 00:13:34.236 --> 00:13:37.006
  • You. he knows how to make up for what you█ve been through.
  • 00:13:37.072 --> 00:13:39.041
  • For what you█ve been through. when you█re dealing with a
  • 00:13:39.108 --> 00:13:39.842
  • When you█re dealing with a saul, there s disrespect,
  • 00:13:39.909 --> 00:13:42.711
  • Saul, there s disrespect, people demeaning you,
  • 00:13:42.778 --> 00:13:43.879
  • People demeaning you, stirring up trouble, thoughts
  • 00:13:43.946 --> 00:13:45.547
  • Stirring up trouble, thoughts will whisper, it█s never
  • 00:13:45.614 --> 00:13:46.682
  • Will whisper, it█s never going to change. you better
  • 00:13:46.749 --> 00:13:48.284
  • Going to change. you better get even. this is not fair.
  • 00:13:48.350 --> 00:13:50.552
  • Get even. this is not fair. no leave that case in the
  • 00:13:50.619 --> 00:13:52.087
  • No leave that case in the hands of god. you don t have
  • 00:13:52.154 --> 00:13:54.189
  • Hands of god. you don t have to retaliate. god will make
  • 00:13:54.256 --> 00:13:56.325
  • To retaliate. god will make the wrongs right. promotion
  • 00:13:56.392 --> 00:13:58.227
  • The wrongs right. promotion doesn t come from people; it
  • 00:13:58.294 --> 00:13:59.695
  • Doesn t come from people; it comes from the lord. he lifts
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  • Comes from the lord. he lifts up one and sets down another.
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  • Up one and sets down another. when it s your time, no
  • 00:14:04.800 --> 00:14:06.268
  • When it s your time, no person can stop what god has
  • 00:14:06.335 --> 00:14:08.203
  • Person can stop what god has for you. he will lift you up.
  • 00:14:08.270 --> 00:14:11.006
  • For you. he will lift you up. he will promote you and cause
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  • He will promote you and cause you to go where you could
  • 00:14:12.875 --> 00:14:14.043
  • You to go where you could have never gone.
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  • Have never gone. in 2 samuel 20, david was
  • 00:14:14.877 --> 00:14:17.713
  • In 2 samuel 20, david was doing great, seeing god s
  • 00:14:17.780 --> 00:14:19.248
  • Doing great, seeing god s favor. but verse 1 says, a
  • 00:14:19.315 --> 00:14:21.884
  • Favor. but verse 1 says, a troublemaker named sheba
  • 00:14:21.951 --> 00:14:23.819
  • Troublemaker named sheba showed up and blew a loud
  • 00:14:23.886 --> 00:14:25.921
  • Showed up and blew a loud trumpet and shouted, we
  • 00:14:25.988 --> 00:14:27.957
  • Trumpet and shouted, we have nothing to do with
  • 00:14:28.023 --> 00:14:29.091
  • Have nothing to do with david. we want no part of
  • 00:14:29.158 --> 00:14:31.193
  • David. we want no part of him. come on men of israel,
  • 00:14:31.260 --> 00:14:33.028
  • Him. come on men of israel, let s all go home. all the
  • 00:14:33.095 --> 00:14:35.597
  • Let s all go home. all the israeli men left, went with
  • 00:14:35.664 --> 00:14:37.433
  • Israeli men left, went with sheba. the men of judah
  • 00:14:37.499 --> 00:14:39.268
  • Sheba. the men of judah stayed with david. when you
  • 00:14:39.335 --> 00:14:41.870
  • Stayed with david. when you start to make progress, don t
  • 00:14:41.937 --> 00:14:43.772
  • Start to make progress, don t be surprised if sheba shows
  • 00:14:43.839 --> 00:14:45.607
  • Be surprised if sheba shows up. there s always a
  • 00:14:45.674 --> 00:14:47.242
  • Up. there s always a troublemaker, trying to stir
  • 00:14:47.309 --> 00:14:49.078
  • Troublemaker, trying to stir things up. when david heard
  • 00:14:49.144 --> 00:14:51.013
  • Things up. when david heard about it, he told his men to
  • 00:14:51.080 --> 00:14:52.748
  • About it, he told his men to go find sheba. they came to a
  • 00:14:52.815 --> 00:14:54.950
  • Go find sheba. they came to a city where he was hiding
  • 00:14:55.017 --> 00:14:56.652
  • City where he was hiding behind the walls. an older
  • 00:14:56.719 --> 00:14:58.787
  • Behind the walls. an older woman came out and asked
  • 00:14:58.854 --> 00:15:00.723
  • Woman came out and asked david s men what they were
  • 00:15:00.789 --> 00:15:01.657
  • David s men what they were doing there. they said,
  • 00:15:01.724 --> 00:15:03.158
  • Doing there. they said, we█re looking for a man
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  • We█re looking for a man named sheba. the woman said,
  • 00:15:04.193 --> 00:15:06.161
  • Named sheba. the woman said, stay right here. she came
  • 00:15:06.228 --> 00:15:08.130
  • Stay right here. she came back a little later and gave
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  • Back a little later and gave them the head of sheba. david
  • 00:15:09.865 --> 00:15:12.835
  • Them the head of sheba. david didn█t have to fight. he
  • 00:15:12.901 --> 00:15:14.737
  • Didn█t have to fight. he didn█t have to prove to sheba
  • 00:15:14.803 --> 00:15:16.205
  • Didn█t have to prove to sheba who he was. god took care of
  • 00:15:16.271 --> 00:15:18.507
  • Who he was. god took care of the troublemakers. with saul,
  • 00:15:18.574 --> 00:15:21.510
  • The troublemakers. with saul, with sheba, even with his own
  • 00:15:21.577 --> 00:15:23.846
  • With sheba, even with his own family. absalom, david██s son
  • 00:15:23.912 --> 00:15:26.915
  • Family. absalom, david██s son rose up and tried to take the
  • 00:15:26.982 --> 00:15:28.517
  • Rose up and tried to take the throne, but he was defeated.
  • 00:15:28.584 --> 00:15:31.120
  • Throne, but he was defeated. when david brought the ark of
  • 00:15:31.186 --> 00:15:32.488
  • When david brought the ark of the covenant back home, he
  • 00:15:32.554 --> 00:15:34.156
  • The covenant back home, he was so excited that he danced
  • 00:15:34.223 --> 00:15:36.525
  • Was so excited that he danced with all of his might. his
  • 00:15:36.592 --> 00:15:38.494
  • With all of his might. his wife michal, she was
  • 00:15:38.560 --> 00:15:40.329
  • Wife michal, she was offended. she said to him in
  • 00:15:40.396 --> 00:15:42.231
  • Offended. she said to him in disgust, “look at what a fool
  • 00:15:42.297 --> 00:15:44.199
  • Disgust, “look at what a fool you made of yourself. dancing
  • 00:15:44.266 --> 00:15:46.435
  • You made of yourself. dancing in front of all the people
  • 00:15:46.502 --> 00:15:47.636
  • In front of all the people with your legs showing. you
  • 00:15:47.703 --> 00:15:49.405
  • With your legs showing. you embarrassed yourself.” david
  • 00:15:49.471 --> 00:15:51.774
  • Embarrassed yourself.” david could have been angry,
  • 00:15:51.840 --> 00:15:52.708
  • Could have been angry, offended, but he kept his
  • 00:15:52.775 --> 00:15:54.510
  • Offended, but he kept his walls up. he said, “michal, i
  • 00:15:54.576 --> 00:15:56.445
  • Walls up. he said, “michal, i wasn't dancing unto you. i
  • 00:15:56.512 --> 00:15:59.081
  • Wasn't dancing unto you. i was dancing unto god to show
  • 00:15:59.148 --> 00:16:01.283
  • Was dancing unto god to show my gratitude for what he█s
  • 00:16:01.350 --> 00:16:02.918
  • My gratitude for what he█s done. here s what i█m
  • 00:16:02.985 --> 00:16:05.054
  • Done. here s what i█m saying. some of your family
  • 00:16:05.120 --> 00:16:07.523
  • Saying. some of your family may not understand you. they
  • 00:16:07.589 --> 00:16:09.792
  • May not understand you. they may not ever acknowledge your
  • 00:16:09.858 --> 00:16:11.360
  • May not ever acknowledge your accomplishments or approve
  • 00:16:11.427 --> 00:16:13.328
  • Accomplishments or approve what you feel called to do.
  • 00:16:13.395 --> 00:16:14.897
  • What you feel called to do. like michal, they make these
  • 00:16:14.963 --> 00:16:17.433
  • Like michal, they make these comments that are hurtful,
  • 00:16:17.499 --> 00:16:19.268
  • Comments that are hurtful, offensive. leave that in the
  • 00:16:19.334 --> 00:16:21.537
  • Offensive. leave that in the hands of god. don t let it
  • 00:16:21.603 --> 00:16:23.605
  • Hands of god. don t let it get into your spirit and
  • 00:16:23.672 --> 00:16:25.074
  • Get into your spirit and cause you to live bitter,
  • 00:16:25.140 --> 00:16:26.775
  • Cause you to live bitter, angry, critical.
  • 00:16:26.842 --> 00:16:28.577
  • Angry, critical. i m sure david thought, i
  • 00:16:28.644 --> 00:16:30.112
  • I m sure david thought, i can understand saul not
  • 00:16:30.179 --> 00:16:32.014
  • Can understand saul not treating me right. i can
  • 00:16:32.081 --> 00:16:33.682
  • Treating me right. i can understand sheba causing me
  • 00:16:33.749 --> 00:16:35.484
  • Understand sheba causing me trouble, but my own son
  • 00:16:35.551 --> 00:16:37.753
  • Trouble, but my own son turned against me. my wife
  • 00:16:37.820 --> 00:16:39.855
  • Turned against me. my wife said i looked like a fool.
  • 00:16:39.922 --> 00:16:41.990
  • Said i looked like a fool. when it s from the inside,
  • 00:16:42.057 --> 00:16:44.193
  • When it s from the inside, from those we love, it can be
  • 00:16:44.259 --> 00:16:46.028
  • From those we love, it can be more difficult. its easy to
  • 00:16:46.095 --> 00:16:48.363
  • More difficult. its easy to get at odds with family
  • 00:16:48.430 --> 00:16:49.765
  • Get at odds with family members. they may find fault,
  • 00:16:49.832 --> 00:16:52.401
  • Members. they may find fault, look down on you. but be the
  • 00:16:52.468 --> 00:16:54.536
  • Look down on you. but be the bigger person and rise above
  • 00:16:54.603 --> 00:16:56.238
  • Bigger person and rise above it. don t get drawn into
  • 00:16:56.305 --> 00:16:58.474
  • It. don t get drawn into battles that you█re not
  • 00:16:58.540 --> 00:16:59.575
  • Battles that you█re not supposed to fight. you never
  • 00:16:59.641 --> 00:17:01.810
  • Supposed to fight. you never go wrong by taking the high
  • 00:17:01.877 --> 00:17:03.812
  • Go wrong by taking the high road. god sees you
  • 00:17:03.879 --> 00:17:06.014
  • Road. god sees you overlooking, forgiving, being
  • 00:17:06.081 --> 00:17:08.717
  • Overlooking, forgiving, being merciful, gracious, even when
  • 00:17:08.784 --> 00:17:11.153
  • Merciful, gracious, even when people don█t deserve it. the
  • 00:17:11.220 --> 00:17:13.322
  • People don█t deserve it. the scripture says, avoiding a
  • 00:17:13.388 --> 00:17:15.090
  • Scripture says, avoiding a fight is a mark of honor. we
  • 00:17:15.157 --> 00:17:18.160
  • Fight is a mark of honor. we think winning a fight. let
  • 00:17:18.227 --> 00:17:19.995
  • Think winning a fight. let me straighten them out.
  • 00:17:20.062 --> 00:17:21.697
  • Me straighten them out. they█re being disrespectful.
  • 00:17:21.763 --> 00:17:22.998
  • They█re being disrespectful. two can play at this game.
  • 00:17:23.065 --> 00:17:25.000
  • Two can play at this game. no pass that test. how you
  • 00:17:25.067 --> 00:17:27.636
  • No pass that test. how you handle troublemakers will
  • 00:17:27.703 --> 00:17:29.404
  • Handle troublemakers will determine how high you can
  • 00:17:29.471 --> 00:17:31.240
  • Determine how high you can go. you can t pray them all
  • 00:17:31.306 --> 00:17:33.609
  • Go. you can t pray them all away. they█re going to show
  • 00:17:33.675 --> 00:17:35.477
  • Away. they█re going to show up along life s journey.
  • 00:17:35.544 --> 00:17:38.080
  • Up along life s journey. when i was dating victoria, i
  • 00:17:38.147 --> 00:17:41.316
  • When i was dating victoria, i was driving home from her
  • 00:17:41.383 --> 00:17:42.651
  • Was driving home from her apartment one saturday night.
  • 00:17:42.718 --> 00:17:44.753
  • Apartment one saturday night. it was just passed midnight.
  • 00:17:44.820 --> 00:17:46.655
  • It was just passed midnight. there was hardly anyone on
  • 00:17:46.722 --> 00:17:47.923
  • There was hardly anyone on the road. i was on this
  • 00:17:47.990 --> 00:17:49.491
  • The road. i was on this boulevard. there were two
  • 00:17:49.558 --> 00:17:51.226
  • Boulevard. there were two lanes on our side. i was in
  • 00:17:51.293 --> 00:17:53.295
  • Lanes on our side. i was in the right hand lane driving
  • 00:17:53.362 --> 00:17:55.564
  • The right hand lane driving about thirty miles an hour.
  • 00:17:55.631 --> 00:17:57.566
  • About thirty miles an hour. there was a car stopped at
  • 00:17:57.633 --> 00:17:58.834
  • There was a car stopped at the light in front of me in
  • 00:17:58.901 --> 00:18:00.202
  • The light in front of me in the left lane. as i got
  • 00:18:00.269 --> 00:18:02.037
  • The left lane. as i got close, the light changed. i
  • 00:18:02.104 --> 00:18:04.206
  • Close, the light changed. i kept going through the
  • 00:18:04.273 --> 00:18:05.207
  • Kept going through the intersection, but the man in
  • 00:18:05.274 --> 00:18:07.242
  • Intersection, but the man in the left lane, decided to
  • 00:18:07.309 --> 00:18:09.211
  • The left lane, decided to turn right from the wrong
  • 00:18:09.278 --> 00:18:10.779
  • Turn right from the wrong lane. when he turned, i was
  • 00:18:10.846 --> 00:18:12.948
  • Lane. when he turned, i was there, and boom, we crashed
  • 00:18:13.015 --> 00:18:14.483
  • There, and boom, we crashed into each other. my heart was
  • 00:18:14.550 --> 00:18:16.652
  • Into each other. my heart was beating so fast. i█m never
  • 00:18:16.718 --> 00:18:18.086
  • Beating so fast. i█m never had an accident. i got out of
  • 00:18:18.153 --> 00:18:19.988
  • Had an accident. i got out of my car to look at the damage.
  • 00:18:20.055 --> 00:18:22.658
  • My car to look at the damage. he was across the
  • 00:18:22.724 --> 00:18:23.492
  • He was across the intersection. he got out. he
  • 00:18:23.559 --> 00:18:25.527
  • Intersection. he got out. he was about sixty years old. he
  • 00:18:25.594 --> 00:18:27.729
  • Was about sixty years old. he was as red as could be, so
  • 00:18:27.796 --> 00:18:30.165
  • Was as red as could be, so angry. he looked like he was
  • 00:18:30.232 --> 00:18:32.000
  • Angry. he looked like he was about to explode. he started
  • 00:18:32.067 --> 00:18:34.469
  • About to explode. he started running toward me screaming,
  • 00:18:34.536 --> 00:18:37.005
  • Running toward me screaming, cursing, calling me names. my
  • 00:18:37.072 --> 00:18:40.108
  • Cursing, calling me names. my first thought was, you want
  • 00:18:40.175 --> 00:18:41.476
  • First thought was, you want some of this? when he got
  • 00:18:41.543 --> 00:18:44.379
  • Some of this? when he got closer, i saw how big he was,
  • 00:18:44.446 --> 00:18:46.348
  • Closer, i saw how big he was, and i changed my mind. he
  • 00:18:46.415 --> 00:18:49.084
  • And i changed my mind. he screamed how i was at fault
  • 00:18:49.151 --> 00:18:51.687
  • Screamed how i was at fault and how i needed to learn how
  • 00:18:51.753 --> 00:18:52.955
  • And how i needed to learn how to drive and i was going to
  • 00:18:53.021 --> 00:18:54.556
  • To drive and i was going to have to pay for it all. he
  • 00:18:54.623 --> 00:18:55.724
  • Have to pay for it all. he was spewing all this poison,
  • 00:18:55.791 --> 00:18:58.994
  • Was spewing all this poison, disrespect, anger,
  • 00:18:59.061 --> 00:19:00.529
  • Disrespect, anger, belittling. the truth is it
  • 00:19:00.596 --> 00:19:03.165
  • Belittling. the truth is it no more bothered me. i
  • 00:19:03.232 --> 00:19:05.000
  • No more bothered me. i thought, this is not about
  • 00:19:05.067 --> 00:19:06.168
  • Thought, this is not about me. you don t even know me.
  • 00:19:06.235 --> 00:19:08.070
  • Me. you don t even know me. you re just mad at yourself
  • 00:19:08.136 --> 00:19:09.938
  • You re just mad at yourself because you turned from the
  • 00:19:10.005 --> 00:19:10.839
  • Because you turned from the wrong lane. i didn t give
  • 00:19:10.906 --> 00:19:12.841
  • Wrong lane. i didn t give him my thermostat. i wasn t
  • 00:19:12.908 --> 00:19:15.010
  • Him my thermostat. i wasn t going to let him control my
  • 00:19:15.077 --> 00:19:16.411
  • Going to let him control my temperature. he was about to
  • 00:19:16.478 --> 00:19:17.713
  • Temperature. he was about to blow a gasket.
  • 00:19:17.779 --> 00:19:18.513
  • Blow a gasket. a couple weeks later, my
  • 00:19:18.580 --> 00:19:21.149
  • A couple weeks later, my insurance agent called and
  • 00:19:21.216 --> 00:19:22.818
  • Insurance agent called and said they just talked to the
  • 00:19:22.884 --> 00:19:23.919
  • Said they just talked to the man. the agent asked, was he
  • 00:19:23.986 --> 00:19:25.921
  • Man. the agent asked, was he rude to you that night, and
  • 00:19:25.988 --> 00:19:28.190
  • Rude to you that night, and angry and demeaning and
  • 00:19:28.257 --> 00:19:29.791
  • Angry and demeaning and screaming.i said he was. he
  • 00:19:29.858 --> 00:19:32.227
  • Screaming.i said he was. he said, that█s exactly how he
  • 00:19:32.294 --> 00:19:33.929
  • Said, that█s exactly how he talked to us. some people
  • 00:19:33.996 --> 00:19:36.531
  • Talked to us. some people are full of turmoil on the
  • 00:19:36.598 --> 00:19:38.200
  • Are full of turmoil on the inside. they have offense,
  • 00:19:38.267 --> 00:19:40.869
  • Inside. they have offense, bitterness, unresolved
  • 00:19:40.936 --> 00:19:42.404
  • Bitterness, unresolved issues, all built up. at any
  • 00:19:42.471 --> 00:19:44.840
  • Issues, all built up. at any time, if you don█t keep your
  • 00:19:44.906 --> 00:19:46.441
  • Time, if you don█t keep your walls up, they█ll try to pour
  • 00:19:46.508 --> 00:19:48.410
  • Walls up, they█ll try to pour their trash on you. you can t
  • 00:19:48.477 --> 00:19:50.912
  • Their trash on you. you can t stop the trouble from coming.
  • 00:19:50.979 --> 00:19:53.015
  • Stop the trouble from coming. but you can stop it from
  • 00:19:53.081 --> 00:19:54.516
  • But you can stop it from getting into your spirit.
  • 00:19:54.583 --> 00:19:56.852
  • Getting into your spirit. jesus said, blessed are the
  • 00:19:56.918 --> 00:19:58.587
  • Jesus said, blessed are the meek, for they will inherit
  • 00:19:58.654 --> 00:20:00.489
  • Meek, for they will inherit the earth. meek doesn█t mean
  • 00:20:00.555 --> 00:20:02.691
  • The earth. meek doesn█t mean you re weak and you let
  • 00:20:02.758 --> 00:20:04.126
  • You re weak and you let people walk all over you and
  • 00:20:04.192 --> 00:20:05.794
  • People walk all over you and you re always the doormat.
  • 00:20:05.861 --> 00:20:07.562
  • You re always the doormat. meekness is strength under
  • 00:20:07.629 --> 00:20:09.364
  • Meekness is strength under control. you have the power;
  • 00:20:09.431 --> 00:20:11.800
  • Control. you have the power; you have the fortitude but
  • 00:20:11.867 --> 00:20:13.769
  • You have the fortitude but you know when to use it. you
  • 00:20:13.835 --> 00:20:15.604
  • You know when to use it. you don t waste it getting upset,
  • 00:20:15.671 --> 00:20:17.839
  • Don t waste it getting upset, offended, trying to pay
  • 00:20:17.906 --> 00:20:19.374
  • Offended, trying to pay people back. i knew nothing i
  • 00:20:19.441 --> 00:20:21.710
  • People back. i knew nothing i said that night was going to
  • 00:20:21.777 --> 00:20:23.245
  • Said that night was going to change his mind. i just kept
  • 00:20:23.312 --> 00:20:25.447
  • Change his mind. i just kept my cool and overlooked it
  • 00:20:25.514 --> 00:20:27.482
  • My cool and overlooked it knowing it was going to turn
  • 00:20:27.549 --> 00:20:29.084
  • Knowing it was going to turn out in my favor. usually, the
  • 00:20:29.151 --> 00:20:31.520
  • Out in my favor. usually, the loudest person is the most
  • 00:20:31.586 --> 00:20:33.188
  • Loudest person is the most insecure person. the hot
  • 00:20:33.255 --> 00:20:35.490
  • Insecure person. the hot tempered, the easily upset is
  • 00:20:35.557 --> 00:20:37.492
  • Tempered, the easily upset is a sign of immaturity. the
  • 00:20:37.559 --> 00:20:39.928
  • A sign of immaturity. the meek control their emotions.
  • 00:20:39.995 --> 00:20:42.130
  • Meek control their emotions. the meek don█t try to prove
  • 00:20:42.197 --> 00:20:43.699
  • The meek don█t try to prove and argue and i ll show you.
  • 00:20:43.765 --> 00:20:44.499
  • And argue and i ll show you. they keep their strength
  • 00:20:44.566 --> 00:20:45.734
  • They keep their strength under control.
  • 00:20:45.801 --> 00:20:47.803
  • Under control. the apostle paul had all
  • 00:20:47.869 --> 00:20:49.271
  • The apostle paul had all kinds of people come against
  • 00:20:49.338 --> 00:20:50.639
  • Kinds of people come against him. the scholars he grew up
  • 00:20:50.706 --> 00:20:52.708
  • Him. the scholars he grew up with looked down on him
  • 00:20:52.774 --> 00:20:54.810
  • With looked down on him because he became a follower
  • 00:20:54.876 --> 00:20:56.211
  • Because he became a follower of jesus. the disciples
  • 00:20:56.278 --> 00:20:58.347
  • Of jesus. the disciples wouldn't accept him at first.
  • 00:20:58.413 --> 00:21:00.282
  • Wouldn't accept him at first. he had persecuted the church
  • 00:21:00.349 --> 00:21:01.650
  • He had persecuted the church so greatly. they didn't know
  • 00:21:01.717 --> 00:21:03.285
  • So greatly. they didn't know if he had really changed. he
  • 00:21:03.352 --> 00:21:05.087
  • If he had really changed. he had to deal with criticism,
  • 00:21:05.153 --> 00:21:06.755
  • Had to deal with criticism, judgment and being
  • 00:21:06.822 --> 00:21:07.989
  • Judgment and being misunderstood. he finally got
  • 00:21:08.056 --> 00:21:10.592
  • Misunderstood. he finally got so fed up with it, he said in
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  • So fed up with it, he said in galatians 6, “from
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  • Galatians 6, “from henceforth, i will let no man
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  • Henceforth, i will let no man trouble me.” he came to a
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  • Trouble me.” he came to a point where he said, i ve
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  • Point where he said, i ve made up my mind, from now on,
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  • Made up my mind, from now on, i m not going to let people
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  • I m not going to let people get on my nerves. i m not
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  • Get on my nerves. i m not going to worry about them not
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  • Going to worry about them not accepting me. i█m not going to
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  • Accepting me. i█m not going to lose sleep over who s trying
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  • Lose sleep over who s trying to discredit me. i█mnot
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  • To discredit me. i█mnot going to be bitter over who
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  • Going to be bitter over who doesn t like me. he went on
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  • Doesn t like me. he went on to say, for i bear on my
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  • To say, for i bear on my body the marks of jesus
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  • Body the marks of jesus christ. he was saying, iv█e
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  • Christ. he was saying, iv█e been through too much to let
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  • Been through too much to let any person trouble me. i█ve
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  • Any person trouble me. i█ve been through shipwrecks,
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  • Been through shipwrecks, beatings, been falsely
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  • Beatings, been falsely accused, been ridiculed but
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  • Accused, been ridiculed but by the grace of god i m still
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  • By the grace of god i m still here.
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  • Here. every one of us needs to have
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  • Every one of us needs to have a henceforth moment, where we
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  • A henceforth moment, where we make this decision like paul
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  • Make this decision like paul that, no person is going to
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  • That, no person is going to trouble me anymore. i m not
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  • Trouble me anymore. i m not going to let these coworkers
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  • Going to let these coworkers get on my nerves another day.
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  • Get on my nerves another day. they may leave me out but i m
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  • They may leave me out but i m going to stay in peace. i m
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  • Going to stay in peace. i m not going to let that family
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  • Not going to let that family member that s disrespectful
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  • Member that s disrespectful upset me anymore. i m going
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  • Upset me anymore. i m going to enjoy my life despite what
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  • To enjoy my life despite what they say. i m not going to
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  • They say. i m not going to let this neighbor keep me
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  • Let this neighbor keep me stirred up another day. i m
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  • Stirred up another day. i m taking my thermostat back.
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  • Taking my thermostat back. when you have this henceforth
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  • When you have this henceforth moment, you don t live to win
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  • Moment, you don t live to win people over, hope they
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  • People over, hope they approve you, change their
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  • Approve you, change their mind to like you. all that
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  • Mind to like you. all that pressure is off. you█re free
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  • Pressure is off. you█re free to enjoy your life, to pursue
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  • To enjoy your life, to pursue your dreams, to become who
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  • Your dreams, to become who god created you to be. too
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  • God created you to be. too many of us are letting the
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  • Many of us are letting the saul█s, the sheba█ s, the
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  • Saul█s, the sheba█ s, the angry drivers keep us
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  • Angry drivers keep us frustrated, upset, when are
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  • Frustrated, upset, when are they going to change? no
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  • They going to change? no here█s the whole key, we have
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  • Here█s the whole key, we have to change. we have to have
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  • To change. we have to have that henceforth moment, where
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  • That henceforth moment, where we say, i█m not going to be
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  • We say, i█m not going to be offended, upset, engaged in
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  • Offended, upset, engaged in conflict that doesn t matter.
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  • Conflict that doesn t matter. i m going to stay in peace,
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  • I m going to stay in peace, run my race and let god fight
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  • Run my race and let god fight my battles.
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  • My battles. friends today can be a
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  • Friends today can be a turning point. don█t go the
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  • Turning point. don█t go the next twenty years letting the
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  • Next twenty years letting the same people upset you. start
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  • Same people upset you. start leaving those cases in the
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  • Leaving those cases in the hands of god. keep your walls
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  • Hands of god. keep your walls up. don t let it get on the
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  • Up. don t let it get on the inside. i know many of you
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  • Inside. i know many of you have been doing this. god
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  • Have been doing this. god sees you overlooking the
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  • Sees you overlooking the insult, ignoring the
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  • Insult, ignoring the disrespect, being good to
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  • Disrespect, being good to people that are not good to
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  • People that are not good to you. your time is coming. i
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  • You. your time is coming. i believe and declare, like
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  • Believe and declare, like with david, god is about to
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  • With david, god is about to vindicate you. things are
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  • Vindicate you. things are going to turn around
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  • Going to turn around suddenly. you didn█t see any
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  • Suddenly. you didn█t see any sign of it, but the wrong
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  • Sign of it, but the wrong people moved out, opposition
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  • People moved out, opposition leaving, new doors opening,
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  • Leaving, new doors opening, promotion, restoration, the
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  • Promotion, restoration, the fullness of your destiny, in
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  • Fullness of your destiny, in jesus name. if you receive
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  • Jesus name. if you receive it, can you say amen?
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  • It, can you say amen? (applause)
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  • It's a new year.
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  • It's a new year. time to see the impossible
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  • Time to see the impossible become possible.
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  • Become possible. it's a new year.
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  • It's a new year. life's setbacks are about
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  • Life's setbacks are about to become god's setups
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  • To become god's setups for new opportunity.
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  • For new opportunity. it's a new year.
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  • It's a new year. cherished dreams
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  • Cherished dreams will become unexpected reality.
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  • Will become unexpected reality. the start of the new year
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  • The start of the new year is the perfect time
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  • Is the perfect time to reset your focus,
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  • To reset your focus, release disappointments
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  • Release disappointments of the past,
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  • Of the past, and get ready for
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  • And get ready for the new things
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  • The new things god has in store.
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  • Every january,
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  • Every january, we create
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  • We create a new 365-day
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  • A new 365-day devotional calendar.
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  • Devotional calendar. i'd love to send it to you.
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  • I'd love to send it to you. each day is filled
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  • Each day is filled with inspiration,
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  • With inspiration, scripture, and uplifting
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  • Scripture, and uplifting declarations
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  • Declarations to fuel your faith.
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  • To fuel your faith. when you begin the day thanking
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  • When you begin the day thanking god for what he's done,
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  • God for what he's done, speaking victory
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  • Speaking victory over your future,
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  • Over your future, you're positioning yourself
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  • You're positioning yourself for a blessed,
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  • For a blessed, favor-filled year.
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  • Favor-filled year. amazing things happen
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  • Amazing things happen when you keep god first place.
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  • When you keep god first place. as our way of saying thank you
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  • As our way of saying thank you for your gift of any amount
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  • A copy
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  • Aof our brand new 365-day, 2026
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  • Aof our brand new 365-day, 2026 devotional calendar.
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  • Devotional calendar. do you want to overcome
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  • Do you want to overcome your most pressing
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  • Your most pressing challenges in 2026?
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  • Challenges in 2026? do you want to see your life
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  • Do you want to see your life take off in new directions
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  • Take off in new directions of influence,
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  • Of influence, favor and provision
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  • Favor and provision in the year ahead?
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  • In the year ahead? with this daily encouragement,
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  • With this daily encouragement, you'll not only smile
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  • You'll not only smile at your day,
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  • At your day, you'll be reminded
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  • You'll be reminded that god is smiling
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  • That god is smiling on your entire life.
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  • On your entire life. each day
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  • Each day will be a fresh new day.
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  • Will be a fresh new day. turn discouragement
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  • Turn discouragement to encouragement.
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  • To encouragement. frustration to fulfillment.
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  • Frustration to fulfillment. anxiety to overcoming.
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  • Anxiety to overcoming. using this devotional calendar
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  • Using this devotional calendar is as easy as one, two, three.
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  • Is as easy as one, two, three. one: wake up with an expectancy
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  • One: wake up with an expectancy in your heart.
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  • In your heart. two: reflect
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  • Two: reflect on the daily scripture verse
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  • On the daily scripture verse and devotional from joel.
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  • And devotional from joel. three:
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  • Three: capture the lord's
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  • Capture the lord's promises to you
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  • Promises to you on journaling lines
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  • On journaling lines for writing and reflection.
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  • For writing and reflection. 2026 is going to be
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  • 2026 is going to be one of your best years ever.
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  • One of your best years ever. we're going to help you
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  • We're going to help you stay in faith
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  • So you can see
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  • The goodness of god
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  • The goodness of god in new ways.
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  • In new ways. victoria and i pray for
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  • Victoria and i pray for you and your family every day
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  • You and your family every day and we want to
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  • And we want to thank you for your prayer
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