Joel Osteen - It's All Good

August 7, 2025 | 30:0

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - It's All Good | August 7, 2025
  • >> joel osteen: well, god
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  • >> joel osteen: well, god bless you.
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  • Bless you. it's a joy to come into your
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  • It's a joy to come into your homes and if you're ever in
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  • Homes and if you're ever in our area. please stop by and
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  • Our area. please stop by and be a part of one our
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  • Be a part of one our services.
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  • Services. i promise you we'll make you
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  • I promise you we'll make you feel right at home.
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  • Feel right at home. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny and i heard
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  • Something funny and i heard about this airplane that was
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  • About this airplane that was about to crash.
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  • About to crash. there were four passengers
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  • There were four passengers but only three parachutes.
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  • The first passenger said,
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  • The first passenger said, "i'm a leading heart surgeon.
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  • "i'm a leading heart surgeon. my patients need me."
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  • My patients need me." he took the first parachute
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  • He took the first parachute and jumped.
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  • And jumped. second passenger said, "i'm a
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  • Second passenger said, "i'm a rocket scientist, one of the
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  • Rocket scientist, one of the smartest men alive. my
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  • Smartest men alive. my country needs me."
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  • Country needs me." took the second parachute and
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  • Took the second parachute and jumped.
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  • Jumped. the third passenger was pope
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  • The third passenger was pope john paul.
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  • John paul. he said to the fourth
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  • He said to the fourth passenger, a ten-year-old boy
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  • Passenger, a ten-year-old boy scout, "son, i'm old and
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  • Scout, "son, i'm old and frail. i don't have much time
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  • Frail. i don't have much time left. you can have the last
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  • Left. you can have the last parachute."
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  • Parachute." the boy scout said, "don't
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  • The boy scout said, "don't worry about it, sir. there's
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  • Worry about it, sir. there's still two parachutes left.
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  • Still two parachutes left. you see the smartest man
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  • You see the smartest man alive, he just jumped out
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  • Alive, he just jumped out with my backpack."
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  • Say it like you mean it,
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  • Say it like you mean it, "this is my bible. i am what
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  • "this is my bible. i am what it says i am. i have what it
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  • It says i am. i have what it says i have. i can do what it
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  • Says i have. i can do what it says i can do. today, i will
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  • Says i can do. today, i will be taught the word of god. i
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  • Be taught the word of god. i boldly confess, my mind is
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  • Boldly confess, my mind is alert. my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert. my heart is receptive. i will never be the same, in
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  • I will never be the same, in jesus name."
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  • Jesus name." god bless you.
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  • God bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about it's all good.
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  • About it's all good. life is full of things that
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  • Life is full of things that we don't like:
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  • We don't like: disappointments, a friend
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  • Disappointments, a friend betrayed us, we didn't get
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  • Betrayed us, we didn't get the promotion.
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  • The promotion. we see these things as being
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  • We see these things as being negative, thinking that was
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  • Negative, thinking that was bad, didn't work out.
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  • Bad, didn't work out. my prayers weren't answered.
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  • My prayers weren't answered. but god won't allow a
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  • But god won't allow a difficulty unless he's going
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  • Difficulty unless he's going to somehow use it for our
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  • To somehow use it for our good.
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  • Good. this means everything that
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  • This means everything that happens in life, we may not
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  • Happens in life, we may not understand it, but if you'll
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  • Understand it, but if you'll keep the right attitude it'll
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  • Keep the right attitude it'll push you further into your
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  • Push you further into your destiny.
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  • Destiny. every closed doors, the
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  • Every closed doors, the delays, the person that did
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  • Delays, the person that did you wrong, the loan that
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  • You wrong, the loan that didn't go through.
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  • Didn't go through. god says, "it's all good. i'm
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  • God says, "it's all good. i'm in control. it may not feel
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  • In control. it may not feel good but trust me and i'll
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  • Good but trust me and i'll use it for your good."
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  • Use it for your good." and when you understand this
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  • And when you understand this principle, life is much more
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  • Principle, life is much more freeing.
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  • Freeing. you don't get upset because a
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  • You don't get upset because a co-worker is playing
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  • Co-worker is playing politics, trying to keep you
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  • Politics, trying to keep you down.
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  • Down. you know it's all good.
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  • You know it's all good. god allowed it and he's going
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  • God allowed it and he's going to use it.
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  • To use it. you tried, but the business
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  • You tried, but the business didn't make it.
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  • Didn't make it. you don't give up on your
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  • You don't give up on your dreams.
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  • Dreams. you know it's all good.
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  • You know it's all good. it's a part of the process.
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  • It's a part of the process. even simple things, you get
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  • Even simple things, you get stuck in traffic, you don't
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  • Stuck in traffic, you don't let it frustrate you, ruin
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  • Let it frustrate you, ruin the rest of your day.
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  • The rest of your day. you know god is directing
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  • You know god is directing your steps.
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  • Your steps. he may be keeping you from an
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  • He may be keeping you from an accident or he may be
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  • Accident or he may be developing patience in you.
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  • Developing patience in you. whatever it is, keep the
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  • Whatever it is, keep the right perspective: it's all
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  • Right perspective: it's all good.
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  • Good. this boils down to trusting
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  • This boils down to trusting god.
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  • God. we're never going to
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  • We're never going to understand everything that
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  • Understand everything that happens in life.
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  • Happens in life. if you try to figure it all
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  • If you try to figure it all out, you'll be frustrated.
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  • Out, you'll be frustrated. god has an advantage.
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  • God has an advantage. he can see the big picture
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  • He can see the big picture for our lives.
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  • For our lives. he knows where the dead ends
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  • He knows where the dead ends are, where the shortcuts are,
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  • Are, where the shortcuts are, where the bumpy roads are.
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  • Where the bumpy roads are. and sometimes, he'll close a
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  • And sometimes, he'll close a door that we're asking him to
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  • Door that we're asking him to open because he knows it
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  • Open because he knows it would be a waste of time.
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  • Would be a waste of time. when you're a mature person,
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  • When you're a mature person, instead of getting bitter,
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  • Instead of getting bitter, you say, "god, i trust you.
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  • You say, "god, i trust you. i may not like it, but i
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  • I may not like it, but i believe you know what's best
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  • Believe you know what's best for me."
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  • For me." some of the things that god
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  • Some of the things that god has in your future, if he
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  • Has in your future, if he gave them to you right now,
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  • Gave them to you right now, you couldn't handle it.
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  • You couldn't handle it. he loves you too much to let
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  • He loves you too much to let it happen.
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  • It happen. he's developing your
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  • He's developing your character, growing you up.
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  • Character, growing you up. that boss that gets on your
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  • That boss that gets on your nerves, doesn't treat you
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  • Nerves, doesn't treat you right, you keep trying to
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  • Right, you keep trying to pray him away.
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  • Pray him away. the reason he's not going
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  • The reason he's not going anywhere is because god's
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  • Anywhere is because god's using him like sandpaper to
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  • Using him like sandpaper to rub the rough edges off of
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  • Rub the rough edges off of you.
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  • You. now, as you keep doing the
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  • Now, as you keep doing the right thing, keeping your
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  • Right thing, keeping your mouth closed, being
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  • Mouth closed, being respectful, that's doing a
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  • Respectful, that's doing a work in you.
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  • Work in you. you couldn't develop your
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  • You couldn't develop your character without him.
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  • Character without him. you may not like it, but it's
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  • You may not like it, but it's good.
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  • Good. it's getting your prepared
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  • It's getting your prepared for the next level.
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  • For the next level. god is asking us, "do you
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  • God is asking us, "do you trust me with your closed
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  • Trust me with your closed doors? do you trust me with
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  • Doors? do you trust me with your unanswered questions?
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  • Your unanswered questions? with the things you don't
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  • With the things you don't understand?"
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  • Understand?" instead of fighting
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  • Instead of fighting everything you don't like,
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  • Everything you don't like, why don't you have this new
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  • Why don't you have this new perspective, "it's all good"?
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  • Perspective, "it's all good"? this grouchy boss, i can't
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  • This grouchy boss, i can't stand him, but i know he's
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  • Stand him, but i know he's good for me.
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  • Good for me. this child that's hard to
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  • This child that's hard to raise, this sickness i'm
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  • Raise, this sickness i'm dealing with, this dream
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  • Dealing with, this dream that's taking forever, i
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  • That's taking forever, i don't like it, but i'm not
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  • Don't like it, but i'm not going to live bitter.
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  • Going to live bitter. i know god is on the throne.
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  • I know god is on the throne. he's in control of my life.
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  • He's in control of my life. it may have been meant for my
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  • It may have been meant for my harm but he's promised he
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  • Harm but he's promised he will use it to my advantage.
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  • Will use it to my advantage. that's what paul said in
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  • That's what paul said in romans, "all things work
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  • Romans, "all things work together for good to those
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  • Together for good to those that the love the lord."
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  • That the love the lord." not some things but all
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  • Not some things but all things.
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  • Things. they may not be good at the
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  • They may not be good at the time.
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  • Time. it's painful to go through a
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  • It's painful to go through a loss.
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  • Loss. it's discouraging when a
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  • It's discouraging when a dream doesn't work out.
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  • By itself, that may not be
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  • By itself, that may not be good, but god has promised
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  • Good, but god has promised he's going to bring it all
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  • He's going to bring it all together.
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  • Together. one day, you'll look back and
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  • One day, you'll look back and say, "that was good."
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  • Say, "that was good." "well, joel, i'm discourage
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  • "well, joel, i'm discourage because i lost a loved one.
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  • Because i lost a loved one. i'm bitter because a business
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  • I'm bitter because a business partner cheated me. that
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  • Partner cheated me. that wasn't good."
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  • Wasn't good." the problem is you're
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  • The problem is you're isolating that one incident.
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  • Isolating that one incident. god hasn't brought it all
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  • God hasn't brought it all together yet.
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  • Together yet. if that difficulty was going
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  • If that difficulty was going to keep you from your
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  • To keep you from your destiny, god would've never
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  • Destiny, god would've never permitted it.
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  • Permitted it. that setback was really a
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  • That setback was really a set-up for god to show out in
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  • Set-up for god to show out in your life.
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  • Your life. you have to get rid of a
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  • You have to get rid of a victim mentality and have a
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  • Victim mentality and have a victor mentality.
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  • Victor mentality. when you have this attitude
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  • When you have this attitude that it's all good, you don't
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  • That it's all good, you don't go around with a chip on your
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  • Go around with a chip on your shoulder because you had some
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  • Shoulder because you had some bad breaks.
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  • Bad breaks. you know no weapon formed
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  • You know no weapon formed against you will prosper.
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  • Against you will prosper. you know weeping endures for
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  • You know weeping endures for a night but joy is coming in
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  • A night but joy is coming in the morning.
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  • The morning. you know it's just a matter
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  • You know it's just a matter of time before god brings it
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  • Of time before god brings it all together.
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  • All together. we celebrated good friday
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  • We celebrated good friday recently.
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  • Recently. we call it good today, but
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  • We call it good today, but 2,000 years ago when jesus
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  • 2,000 years ago when jesus was crucified, didn't look
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  • Was crucified, didn't look like a good friday.
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  • Like a good friday. the disciples thought it was
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  • The disciples thought it was the worst day of their lives.
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  • The worst day of their lives. their dreams were shattered.
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  • Their dreams were shattered. the man they had given their
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  • The man they had given their lives to was gone.
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  • Lives to was gone. doubts filled their mind,
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  • Doubts filled their mind, "maybe he wasn't who he said
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  • "maybe he wasn't who he said he was. maybe he tricked us
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  • He was. maybe he tricked us and we wasted all this time."
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  • And we wasted all this time." i can imagine mary, the
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  • I can imagine mary, the mother of christ, weeping and
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  • Mother of christ, weeping and weeping as she sees her son
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  • Weeping as she sees her son on the cross.
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  • On the cross. she's heartbroken, in so much
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  • She's heartbroken, in so much pain.
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  • Pain. if someone would've
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  • If someone would've suggested, "mary, this is a
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  • Suggested, "mary, this is a good friday."
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  • Good friday." she'd have thought, "what are
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  • She'd have thought, "what are you talking about? good?
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  • You talking about? good? look what's happening."
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  • Look what's happening." but we all face these times
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  • But we all face these times when life doesn't make sense.
  • 00:07:20.229 --> 00:07:22.365
  • When life doesn't make sense. a dream dies.
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  • A dream dies. a relationship comes to an
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  • A relationship comes to an end or we come down with an
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  • End or we come down with an illness.
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  • Illness. nothing about the situation
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  • Nothing about the situation seems good.
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  • Seems good. good would've been the last
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  • Good would've been the last word we would've used to
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  • Word we would've used to describe this friday.
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  • Describe this friday. better description would've
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  • Better description would've been tragic friday, lonely
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  • Been tragic friday, lonely friday, betrayed friday.
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  • Friday, betrayed friday. in the heat of the battle
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  • In the heat of the battle it's easy to get discouraged.
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  • It's easy to get discouraged. the disciples could've said,
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  • The disciples could've said, "god, why did you let judas
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  • "god, why did you let judas betray him? why did you let
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  • Betray him? why did you let the soldiers crucify him?
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  • The soldiers crucify him? god, why'd you abandon your
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  • God, why'd you abandon your son in his time of greatest
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  • Son in his time of greatest need?"
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  • Need?" but a few days later, after
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  • But a few days later, after he arose from the grave, and
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  • He arose from the grave, and cooked them breakfast on the
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  • Cooked them breakfast on the beach, appeared to them in
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  • Beach, appeared to them in the upper room, they realized
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  • The upper room, they realized he was who he said he was.
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  • He was who he said he was. they looked back on that
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  • They looked back on that friday and said, "it wasn't
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  • Friday and said, "it wasn't what we thought. it wasn't
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  • What we thought. it wasn't depressing friday. it wasn't
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  • Depressing friday. it wasn't tragic friday. it was all a
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  • Tragic friday. it was all a part of his plan. it was good
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  • Part of his plan. it was good friday."
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  • Friday." they looked back on what they
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  • They looked back on what they thought was the darkest day
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  • Thought was the darkest day of their lives and they
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  • Of their lives and they called it good.
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  • Called it good. what am i saying?
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  • What am i saying? it's all good.
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  • It's all good. it may not be good right now.
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  • It may not be good right now. it may not make sense on its
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  • It may not make sense on its own, but god knows how to
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  • Own, but god knows how to bring it all together.
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  • Bring it all together. and what you think is going
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  • And what you think is going to stop you; hold you back.
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  • To stop you; hold you back. can i tell you?
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  • Can i tell you? if you will stay in faith,
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  • If you will stay in faith, one day you will look back
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  • One day you will look back and say that it was good.
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  • And say that it was good. if judas had not betrayed
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  • If judas had not betrayed jesus, we wouldn't have
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  • Jesus, we wouldn't have salvation.
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  • Salvation. god used the betrayal to move
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  • God used the betrayal to move jesus toward his destiny.
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  • Jesus toward his destiny. the betrayal at the time
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  • The betrayal at the time didn't seem good.
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  • Didn't seem good. it hurts when somebody does
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  • It hurts when somebody does you wrong, walks out on you,
  • 00:09:05.668 --> 00:09:08.137
  • You wrong, walks out on you, breaks your heart.
  • 00:09:08.204 --> 00:09:09.739
  • Breaks your heart. you may not see it at the
  • 00:09:09.805 --> 00:09:10.973
  • You may not see it at the time, but without that
  • 00:09:11.040 --> 00:09:12.875
  • Time, but without that betrayal, like jesus, you
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  • Betrayal, like jesus, you couldn't become who you were
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  • Couldn't become who you were created to be.
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  • Created to be. if they left you, you didn't
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  • Need them.
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  • Need them. if they walked away, they
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  • If they walked away, they weren't a part of your
  • 00:09:23.886 --> 00:09:24.587
  • Weren't a part of your destiny.
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  • Destiny. it may be painful friday
  • 00:09:26.022 --> 00:09:27.523
  • It may be painful friday right now, but keep moving
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  • Right now, but keep moving forward.
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  • Forward. sunday is coming.
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  • Sunday is coming. new beginnings are on the
  • 00:09:30.860 --> 00:09:31.961
  • New beginnings are on the way.
  • 00:09:32.028 --> 00:09:32.595
  • Way. a resurrection is in your
  • 00:09:32.662 --> 00:09:35.765
  • A resurrection is in your future.
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  • Future. when god brings it all
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  • When god brings it all together, when you meet that
  • 00:09:38.267 --> 00:09:40.403
  • Together, when you meet that person of your dreams,
  • 00:09:40.469 --> 00:09:41.804
  • Person of your dreams, somebody better than you ever
  • 00:09:41.871 --> 00:09:43.406
  • Somebody better than you ever imagined, you'll look back
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  • Imagined, you'll look back and say with a smile, "it was
  • 00:09:45.508 --> 00:09:47.176
  • And say with a smile, "it was a good friday when that old
  • 00:09:47.243 --> 00:09:49.045
  • A good friday when that old goat left. i mean when that
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  • Goat left. i mean when that man left."
  • 00:09:50.112 --> 00:09:51.280
  • Man left." that supervisor that's tried
  • 00:09:51.347 --> 00:09:53.883
  • That supervisor that's tried to keep you down for years,
  • 00:09:53.949 --> 00:09:56.252
  • To keep you down for years, you didn't realize it, but
  • 00:09:56.318 --> 00:09:57.753
  • You didn't realize it, but staying there with a good
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  • Staying there with a good attitude, giving it your
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  • Attitude, giving it your best, doing the right thing
  • 00:10:00.856 --> 00:10:02.725
  • Best, doing the right thing when the wrong thing was
  • 00:10:02.792 --> 00:10:03.926
  • When the wrong thing was happening, that was
  • 00:10:03.993 --> 00:10:05.161
  • Happening, that was developing your character,
  • 00:10:05.227 --> 00:10:07.163
  • Developing your character, getting you prepared for the
  • 00:10:07.229 --> 00:10:08.431
  • Getting you prepared for the next level.
  • 00:10:08.497 --> 00:10:09.398
  • Next level. you wouldn't be who you are
  • 00:10:09.465 --> 00:10:10.933
  • You wouldn't be who you are today without that
  • 00:10:11.000 --> 00:10:12.401
  • Today without that difficulty.
  • 00:10:12.468 --> 00:10:13.636
  • Difficulty. you may not have liked it, but
  • 00:10:13.703 --> 00:10:15.071
  • You may not have liked it, but you can look back and say,
  • 00:10:15.137 --> 00:10:16.605
  • You can look back and say, "that was a good friday."
  • 00:10:16.672 --> 00:10:19.008
  • "that was a good friday." that's what happened to us.
  • 00:10:19.075 --> 00:10:20.276
  • That's what happened to us. twice we tried to buy
  • 00:10:20.342 --> 00:10:21.811
  • Twice we tried to buy property to build a new
  • 00:10:21.877 --> 00:10:23.479
  • Property to build a new sanctuary on.
  • 00:10:23.546 --> 00:10:24.947
  • Sanctuary on. both times the property was
  • 00:10:25.014 --> 00:10:27.216
  • Both times the property was sold out from under us.
  • 00:10:27.283 --> 00:10:29.085
  • Sold out from under us. the first one, we had worked
  • 00:10:29.151 --> 00:10:30.686
  • The first one, we had worked for six months doing soil
  • 00:10:30.753 --> 00:10:32.855
  • For six months doing soil samples, preliminary
  • 00:10:32.922 --> 00:10:34.123
  • Samples, preliminary drawings.
  • 00:10:34.190 --> 00:10:35.124
  • Drawings. we went to close on the
  • 00:10:35.191 --> 00:10:36.125
  • We went to close on the property real early in the
  • 00:10:36.192 --> 00:10:37.393
  • Property real early in the morning.
  • 00:10:37.460 --> 00:10:38.094
  • Morning. the secretary came out, said,
  • 00:10:38.160 --> 00:10:39.695
  • The secretary came out, said, "i'm sorry. the owner sold
  • 00:10:39.762 --> 00:10:41.797
  • "i'm sorry. the owner sold the property last night to
  • 00:10:41.864 --> 00:10:43.566
  • The property last night to someone else."
  • 00:10:43.632 --> 00:10:45.267
  • Someone else." it had been on the market for
  • 00:10:45.334 --> 00:10:46.569
  • It had been on the market for 20 years.
  • 00:10:46.635 --> 00:10:48.137
  • 20 years. we were so disappointed.
  • 00:10:48.204 --> 00:10:49.572
  • We were so disappointed. i went home, told victoria,
  • 00:10:49.638 --> 00:10:50.673
  • I went home, told victoria, "there's no place to build a
  • 00:10:50.740 --> 00:10:52.208
  • "there's no place to build a new sanctuary."
  • 00:10:52.274 --> 00:10:53.843
  • New sanctuary." there didn't seem like
  • 00:10:53.909 --> 00:10:54.910
  • There didn't seem like anything good about that
  • 00:10:54.977 --> 00:10:57.079
  • Anything good about that owner not keeping his word,
  • 00:10:57.146 --> 00:10:59.048
  • Owner not keeping his word, not selling us that property.
  • 00:10:59.115 --> 00:11:00.683
  • Not selling us that property. if you would've told me, "it
  • 00:11:00.750 --> 00:11:01.884
  • If you would've told me, "it was a good friday."
  • 00:11:01.951 --> 00:11:03.686
  • Was a good friday." i'd have told you, "go jump
  • 00:11:03.753 --> 00:11:05.054
  • I'd have told you, "go jump in a lake."
  • 00:11:05.121 --> 00:11:07.123
  • In a lake." a few months later we found
  • 00:11:07.189 --> 00:11:08.924
  • A few months later we found another 100-acre tract of
  • 00:11:08.991 --> 00:11:11.694
  • Another 100-acre tract of land.
  • 00:11:11.761 --> 00:11:12.361
  • Land. i thought, "boy, this is even
  • 00:11:12.428 --> 00:11:13.629
  • I thought, "boy, this is even better."
  • 00:11:13.696 --> 00:11:14.330
  • Better." i prayed more fervently,
  • 00:11:14.396 --> 00:11:15.564
  • I prayed more fervently, "lord, thank you for your
  • 00:11:15.631 --> 00:11:16.499
  • "lord, thank you for your favor. thank you for opening
  • 00:11:16.565 --> 00:11:17.733
  • Favor. thank you for opening this door."
  • 00:11:17.800 --> 00:11:18.601
  • This door." same thing.
  • 00:11:18.667 --> 00:11:20.002
  • Same thing. they sold it out from under
  • 00:11:20.069 --> 00:11:21.470
  • They sold it out from under us.
  • 00:11:21.537 --> 00:11:22.404
  • Us. didn't make sense to me.
  • 00:11:22.471 --> 00:11:24.473
  • Didn't make sense to me. i've learned god's ways are
  • 00:11:24.540 --> 00:11:27.042
  • I've learned god's ways are better than our ways.
  • 00:11:27.109 --> 00:11:28.911
  • Better than our ways. the right way to pray is,
  • 00:11:28.978 --> 00:11:31.247
  • The right way to pray is, "god, this is what i want.
  • 00:11:31.313 --> 00:11:34.150
  • "god, this is what i want. this is what i'm believing
  • 00:11:34.216 --> 00:11:35.451
  • This is what i'm believing for but god, you know what's
  • 00:11:35.518 --> 00:11:37.686
  • For but god, you know what's best for me. i trust you."
  • 00:11:37.753 --> 00:11:40.523
  • Best for me. i trust you." if you're only going to be
  • 00:11:40.589 --> 00:11:41.724
  • If you're only going to be happy if god does it your
  • 00:11:41.791 --> 00:11:43.659
  • Happy if god does it your way, that's not really
  • 00:11:43.726 --> 00:11:45.161
  • Way, that's not really trusting.
  • 00:11:45.227 --> 00:11:46.562
  • Trusting. that's not praying.
  • 00:11:46.629 --> 00:11:47.763
  • That's not praying. that's giving god orders.
  • 00:11:47.830 --> 00:11:49.565
  • That's giving god orders. "god, here's what i want you
  • 00:11:49.632 --> 00:11:50.432
  • "god, here's what i want you to do, when to do it, where
  • 00:11:50.499 --> 00:11:51.567
  • To do, when to do it, where to do it. here's the--who
  • 00:11:51.634 --> 00:11:52.601
  • To do it. here's the--who to use."
  • 00:11:52.668 --> 00:11:53.235
  • To use." i found god doesn't take
  • 00:11:53.302 --> 00:11:54.737
  • I found god doesn't take orders, but this is one of the
  • 00:11:54.804 --> 00:11:56.939
  • Orders, but this is one of the main reasons we get
  • 00:11:57.006 --> 00:11:58.040
  • Main reasons we get frustrated, discouraged,
  • 00:11:58.107 --> 00:11:59.241
  • Frustrated, discouraged, because it's not happening in
  • 00:11:59.308 --> 00:12:00.242
  • Because it's not happening in our way.
  • 00:12:00.309 --> 00:12:01.477
  • Our way. but when you develop this
  • 00:12:01.544 --> 00:12:02.845
  • But when you develop this trust, you let god do it his
  • 00:12:02.912 --> 00:12:05.214
  • Trust, you let god do it his way.
  • 00:12:05.281 --> 00:12:06.215
  • Way. you know it's all good.
  • 00:12:06.282 --> 00:12:08.517
  • You know it's all good. if the door opens, you thank
  • 00:12:08.584 --> 00:12:10.286
  • If the door opens, you thank god.
  • 00:12:10.352 --> 00:12:10.953
  • God. if it doesn't open, you still
  • 00:12:11.020 --> 00:12:12.454
  • If it doesn't open, you still thank him.
  • 00:12:12.521 --> 00:12:13.956
  • Thank him. about six months after that
  • 00:12:14.023 --> 00:12:15.758
  • About six months after that last property sold, we
  • 00:12:15.825 --> 00:12:17.893
  • Last property sold, we received word that this place
  • 00:12:17.960 --> 00:12:19.728
  • Received word that this place was coming available, the
  • 00:12:19.795 --> 00:12:21.130
  • Was coming available, the former compact center.
  • 00:12:21.197 --> 00:12:22.364
  • Former compact center. i realize now the reason god
  • 00:12:22.431 --> 00:12:25.668
  • I realize now the reason god closed those doors is because
  • 00:12:25.734 --> 00:12:27.870
  • Closed those doors is because he had something much better
  • 00:12:27.937 --> 00:12:29.605
  • He had something much better in store.
  • 00:12:29.672 --> 00:12:31.373
  • In store. god can see things that we
  • 00:12:31.440 --> 00:12:33.275
  • God can see things that we can't see.
  • 00:12:33.342 --> 00:12:34.710
  • Can't see. now, i thank him for those
  • 00:12:34.777 --> 00:12:36.378
  • Now, i thank him for those closed doors.
  • 00:12:36.445 --> 00:12:37.813
  • Closed doors. i look back and say, "that
  • 00:12:37.880 --> 00:12:39.448
  • I look back and say, "that wasn't a defeated friday
  • 00:12:39.515 --> 00:12:41.116
  • Wasn't a defeated friday after all. that was a good
  • 00:12:41.183 --> 00:12:42.818
  • After all. that was a good friday."
  • 00:12:42.885 --> 00:12:43.652
  • Friday." that was god keeping me from
  • 00:12:43.719 --> 00:12:45.321
  • That was god keeping me from less than what he had in
  • 00:12:45.387 --> 00:12:47.089
  • Less than what he had in mind.
  • 00:12:47.156 --> 00:12:48.524
  • Mind. sometimes god will close a
  • 00:12:48.591 --> 00:12:50.326
  • Sometimes god will close a door because we're believing
  • 00:12:50.392 --> 00:12:52.394
  • Door because we're believing too small.
  • 00:12:52.461 --> 00:12:54.029
  • Too small. you may have dreams that
  • 00:12:54.096 --> 00:12:55.130
  • You may have dreams that haven't worked out yet.
  • 00:12:55.197 --> 00:12:57.032
  • Haven't worked out yet. you too have had some
  • 00:12:57.099 --> 00:12:58.200
  • You too have had some disappointed fridays.
  • 00:12:58.267 --> 00:13:00.035
  • Disappointed fridays. don't get discouraged.
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  • Don't get discouraged. god knows what he's doing.
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  • God knows what he's doing. keep honoring him.
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  • Keep honoring him. your sunday is coming.
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  • Your sunday is coming. he's going to open doors
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  • He's going to open doors bigger, better than you ever
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  • Bigger, better than you ever imagined.
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  • Imagined. my father went through a
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  • My father went through a great disappointment.
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  • Great disappointment. he had pastored this church
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  • He had pastored this church for many years and given his
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  • For many years and given his life to the people.
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  • Life to the people. and they just built a new
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  • And they just built a new sanctuary, the church was
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  • Sanctuary, the church was growing.
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  • Growing. he was on the state board for
  • 00:13:21.657 --> 00:13:22.992
  • He was on the state board for his denomination.
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  • His denomination. on his way up.
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  • On his way up. his future looked very bright.
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  • His future looked very bright. but my sister lisa was born
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  • But my sister lisa was born with something like cerebral
  • 00:13:30.199 --> 00:13:31.400
  • With something like cerebral palsy.
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  • Palsy. my dad began to search the
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  • My dad began to search the scriptures with a new set of
  • 00:13:34.270 --> 00:13:36.372
  • Scriptures with a new set of eyes, fresh eyes.
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  • Eyes, fresh eyes. he saw how jesus went about
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  • He saw how jesus went about healing people and how we're
  • 00:13:40.542 --> 00:13:42.311
  • Healing people and how we're supposed to live in abundant,
  • 00:13:42.378 --> 00:13:43.879
  • Supposed to live in abundant, overcoming, victorious life.
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  • Overcoming, victorious life. he went back and shared this
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  • He went back and shared this with his congregation
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  • With his congregation thinking that they would be
  • 00:13:50.486 --> 00:13:51.320
  • Thinking that they would be excited too.
  • 00:13:51.387 --> 00:13:52.721
  • Excited too. it was just the opposite.
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  • It was just the opposite. they didn't like his new
  • 00:13:54.590 --> 00:13:55.758
  • They didn't like his new message.
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  • Message. it didn't fit in with their
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  • It didn't fit in with their denominational teaching.
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  • Denominational teaching. he ended up having to leave
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  • He ended up having to leave that church.
  • 00:14:02.231 --> 00:14:03.599
  • That church. my mother had lifelong
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  • My mother had lifelong friends that never spoke to
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  • Friends that never spoke to her again.
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  • Her again. they felt betrayed,
  • 00:14:08.404 --> 00:14:09.738
  • They felt betrayed, discouraged.
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  • Discouraged. nothing seemed good about
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  • Nothing seemed good about having to leave a position
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  • Having to leave a position you'd worked so hard for.
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  • You'd worked so hard for. and leave people that you'd
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  • And leave people that you'd grown to love.
  • 00:14:17.746 --> 00:14:19.448
  • Grown to love. seemed like a dark friday, a
  • 00:14:19.515 --> 00:14:21.550
  • Seemed like a dark friday, a lonely friday, a betrayed
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  • Lonely friday, a betrayed friday.
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  • Friday. but just as god opens doors,
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  • But just as god opens doors, god closes doors.
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  • God closes doors. and god knew my father would
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  • And god knew my father would never become who he was
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  • Never become who he was created to be in that limited
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  • Created to be in that limited environment.
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  • Environment. we love the open doors.
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  • We love the open doors. we celebrate god's favor, but
  • 00:14:37.633 --> 00:14:39.935
  • We celebrate god's favor, but when the door closes, it takes
  • 00:14:40.002 --> 00:14:42.404
  • When the door closes, it takes maturity to say, "i don't
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  • Maturity to say, "i don't understand it, but i'm not
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  • Understand it, but i'm not going to fight it. i'm not
  • 00:14:46.508 --> 00:14:48.210
  • Going to fight it. i'm not going to get bitter. god,
  • 00:14:48.277 --> 00:14:49.645
  • Going to get bitter. god, i trust you."
  • 00:14:49.712 --> 00:14:50.646
  • I trust you." my parents, instead of
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  • My parents, instead of sitting around in self-pity
  • 00:14:52.481 --> 00:14:54.450
  • Sitting around in self-pity thinking about what they had
  • 00:14:54.516 --> 00:14:55.117
  • Thinking about what they had lost, they went out and
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  • Lost, they went out and started lakewood church in an
  • 00:14:57.286 --> 00:14:59.288
  • Started lakewood church in an abandoned feed store with 90
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  • Abandoned feed store with 90 people.
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  • People. it grew and grew to a church
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  • It grew and grew to a church of thousands.
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  • Of thousands. we're still going strong
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  • We're still going strong today.
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  • Today. looking back years later, my
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  • Looking back years later, my father would tell you that
  • 00:15:08.831 --> 00:15:10.399
  • Father would tell you that betrayal, getting pushed out,
  • 00:15:10.466 --> 00:15:12.968
  • Betrayal, getting pushed out, that was a good friday in his
  • 00:15:13.035 --> 00:15:14.737
  • That was a good friday in his life.
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  • Life. that pushed him into the
  • 00:15:15.604 --> 00:15:16.939
  • That pushed him into the fullness of his destiny.
  • 00:15:17.006 --> 00:15:19.241
  • Fullness of his destiny. at the time it didn't seem
  • 00:15:19.308 --> 00:15:20.642
  • At the time it didn't seem good.
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  • Good. when you're hurting,
  • 00:15:21.710 --> 00:15:22.878
  • When you're hurting, disappointed, every thought
  • 00:15:22.945 --> 00:15:24.480
  • Disappointed, every thought will tell you, "this isn't
  • 00:15:24.546 --> 00:15:25.614
  • Will tell you, "this isn't fair. god, why did you let
  • 00:15:25.681 --> 00:15:27.516
  • Fair. god, why did you let this happen to me?"
  • 00:15:27.583 --> 00:15:29.018
  • This happen to me?" i'm asking you to trust him.
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  • I'm asking you to trust him. god knows what he's doing.
  • 00:15:31.754 --> 00:15:33.722
  • God knows what he's doing. it may not seem good, but when
  • 00:15:33.789 --> 00:15:35.924
  • It may not seem good, but when he brings it all together,
  • 00:15:35.991 --> 00:15:38.127
  • He brings it all together, you'll look back and say it
  • 00:15:38.193 --> 00:15:39.595
  • You'll look back and say it was a good friday.
  • 00:15:39.661 --> 00:15:41.163
  • Was a good friday. i couldn't see it at the time,
  • 00:15:41.230 --> 00:15:43.165
  • I couldn't see it at the time, but it was good that they
  • 00:15:43.232 --> 00:15:44.600
  • But it was good that they sold the property out from
  • 00:15:44.666 --> 00:15:46.335
  • Sold the property out from under us.
  • 00:15:46.402 --> 00:15:47.002
  • Under us. jesus would tell you, "it was
  • 00:15:47.069 --> 00:15:48.771
  • Jesus would tell you, "it was good that judas betrayed me."
  • 00:15:48.837 --> 00:15:51.240
  • Good that judas betrayed me." my father would tell you, "it
  • 00:15:51.306 --> 00:15:52.641
  • My father would tell you, "it was good that i got pushed
  • 00:15:52.708 --> 00:15:54.376
  • Was good that i got pushed out of that position."
  • 00:15:54.443 --> 00:15:56.478
  • Out of that position." see, sometimes, your enemies
  • 00:15:56.545 --> 00:15:58.947
  • See, sometimes, your enemies will do to promote you than
  • 00:15:59.014 --> 00:16:00.883
  • Will do to promote you than your friends.
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  • Your friends. if my critics had not been so
  • 00:16:02.818 --> 00:16:05.154
  • If my critics had not been so vocal, i would've never
  • 00:16:05.220 --> 00:16:07.056
  • Vocal, i would've never learned to pray like i pray.
  • 00:16:07.122 --> 00:16:09.324
  • Learned to pray like i pray. when my dad went to be with
  • 00:16:09.391 --> 00:16:10.492
  • When my dad went to be with the lord, if i had not
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  • The lord, if i had not overheard people saying, "he
  • 00:16:11.760 --> 00:16:13.495
  • Overheard people saying, "he can't do it. the church is
  • 00:16:13.562 --> 00:16:15.164
  • Can't do it. the church is never going to last."
  • 00:16:15.230 --> 00:16:16.398
  • Never going to last." i would've never had so much
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  • I would've never had so much determination.
  • 00:16:18.033 --> 00:16:19.601
  • Determination. some of my critics, i need to
  • 00:16:19.668 --> 00:16:20.803
  • Some of my critics, i need to write them a check.
  • 00:16:20.869 --> 00:16:22.037
  • Write them a check. they thought they were going
  • 00:16:22.104 --> 00:16:23.405
  • They thought they were going to stop me, discourage me,
  • 00:16:23.472 --> 00:16:24.973
  • To stop me, discourage me, intimidate me.
  • 00:16:25.040 --> 00:16:26.175
  • Intimidate me. they don't realize god used
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  • They don't realize god used them to light a fire on the
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  • Them to light a fire on the inside.
  • 00:16:32.314 --> 00:16:32.915
  • Inside. they helped me learn how to
  • 00:16:32.981 --> 00:16:35.617
  • They helped me learn how to pray bold prayers; how to
  • 00:16:35.684 --> 00:16:37.653
  • Pray bold prayers; how to declare god's favor; how to
  • 00:16:37.719 --> 00:16:39.521
  • Declare god's favor; how to be a victor and not a victim;
  • 00:16:39.588 --> 00:16:41.523
  • Be a victor and not a victim; how to stand strong and fight
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  • How to stand strong and fight the good fight of faith.
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  • The good fight of faith. they meant it for harm, god
  • 00:16:44.493 --> 00:16:46.228
  • They meant it for harm, god used it to my advantage.
  • 00:16:46.295 --> 00:16:47.296
  • Used it to my advantage. what am i saying?
  • 00:16:47.362 --> 00:16:49.932
  • What am i saying? it's all good, even your
  • 00:16:49.998 --> 00:16:53.202
  • It's all good, even your enemies.
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  • Enemies. quit complaining about the
  • 00:16:54.036 --> 00:16:55.204
  • Quit complaining about the opposition, the people trying
  • 00:16:55.270 --> 00:16:57.139
  • Opposition, the people trying to push you down, make you
  • 00:16:57.206 --> 00:16:58.307
  • To push you down, make you look bad.
  • 00:16:58.373 --> 00:16:59.208
  • Look bad. they don't control your
  • 00:16:59.274 --> 00:17:00.175
  • They don't control your destiny, god does.
  • 00:17:00.242 --> 00:17:02.911
  • Destiny, god does. you may be in a friday today.
  • 00:17:02.978 --> 00:17:05.514
  • You may be in a friday today. nothing in your life seems
  • 00:17:05.581 --> 00:17:06.882
  • Nothing in your life seems good.
  • 00:17:06.949 --> 00:17:07.816
  • Good. dealing with an illness,
  • 00:17:07.883 --> 00:17:09.218
  • Dealing with an illness, struggling in a relationship,
  • 00:17:09.284 --> 00:17:10.652
  • Struggling in a relationship, you have people coming
  • 00:17:10.719 --> 00:17:11.587
  • You have people coming against you, seems dark,
  • 00:17:11.653 --> 00:17:12.955
  • Against you, seems dark, lonely, discouraging.
  • 00:17:13.021 --> 00:17:14.723
  • Lonely, discouraging. you don't see how it could
  • 00:17:14.790 --> 00:17:15.524
  • You don't see how it could ever work out.
  • 00:17:15.591 --> 00:17:16.692
  • Ever work out. stay in faith.
  • 00:17:16.758 --> 00:17:18.160
  • Stay in faith. god wouldn't have allowed
  • 00:17:18.227 --> 00:17:19.695
  • God wouldn't have allowed that if it wasn't going to
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  • That if it wasn't going to move you towards your
  • 00:17:21.163 --> 00:17:22.498
  • Move you towards your destiny.
  • 00:17:22.564 --> 00:17:23.899
  • Destiny. you're in friday.
  • 00:17:23.966 --> 00:17:24.833
  • You're in friday. the good news?
  • 00:17:24.900 --> 00:17:25.801
  • The good news? sunday is coming.
  • 00:17:25.868 --> 00:17:27.035
  • Sunday is coming. and when you see your
  • 00:17:27.102 --> 00:17:28.804
  • And when you see your resurrection, when god
  • 00:17:28.871 --> 00:17:30.606
  • Resurrection, when god vindicates you, promotes you,
  • 00:17:30.672 --> 00:17:32.508
  • Vindicates you, promotes you, healed you, restores you.
  • 00:17:32.574 --> 00:17:34.309
  • Healed you, restores you. when he pays you back double
  • 00:17:34.376 --> 00:17:36.245
  • When he pays you back double for that unfair situation,
  • 00:17:36.311 --> 00:17:38.313
  • For that unfair situation, that's what turns defeated
  • 00:17:38.380 --> 00:17:40.215
  • That's what turns defeated friday into good friday.
  • 00:17:40.282 --> 00:17:42.284
  • Friday into good friday. no more betrayed friday.
  • 00:17:42.351 --> 00:17:44.286
  • No more betrayed friday. no more disappointed friday.
  • 00:17:44.353 --> 00:17:46.355
  • No more disappointed friday. no, it's blessed friday.
  • 00:17:46.421 --> 00:17:48.323
  • No, it's blessed friday. it's joyful friday.
  • 00:17:48.390 --> 00:17:49.858
  • It's joyful friday. it's victorious friday.
  • 00:17:49.925 --> 00:17:51.093
  • It's victorious friday. a friend of mine told about
  • 00:17:51.160 --> 00:17:52.961
  • A friend of mine told about this couple.
  • 00:17:53.028 --> 00:17:53.962
  • This couple. they would go up to the
  • 00:17:54.029 --> 00:17:54.730
  • They would go up to the hospital every week to visit
  • 00:17:54.796 --> 00:17:56.398
  • Hospital every week to visit people and encourage them.
  • 00:17:56.465 --> 00:17:57.766
  • People and encourage them. and one day the man had just
  • 00:17:57.833 --> 00:17:59.234
  • And one day the man had just parked his car and he was
  • 00:17:59.301 --> 00:18:00.936
  • Parked his car and he was walking across the street to
  • 00:18:01.003 --> 00:18:03.005
  • Walking across the street to the main entrance.
  • 00:18:03.071 --> 00:18:04.373
  • The main entrance. this car came around the
  • 00:18:04.439 --> 00:18:05.574
  • This car came around the corner very fast, almost out
  • 00:18:05.641 --> 00:18:08.210
  • Corner very fast, almost out of control, and hit the man.
  • 00:18:08.277 --> 00:18:10.612
  • Of control, and hit the man. knocked him up on the hood,
  • 00:18:10.679 --> 00:18:12.114
  • Knocked him up on the hood, over the car, and down to the
  • 00:18:12.181 --> 00:18:13.682
  • Over the car, and down to the pavement.
  • 00:18:13.749 --> 00:18:14.850
  • Pavement. he was rushed to the
  • 00:18:14.917 --> 00:18:15.684
  • He was rushed to the emergency room where they
  • 00:18:15.751 --> 00:18:17.419
  • Emergency room where they discovered that he had
  • 00:18:17.486 --> 00:18:18.587
  • Discovered that he had bleeding on his brain.
  • 00:18:18.654 --> 00:18:20.722
  • Bleeding on his brain. they had to take a full body
  • 00:18:20.789 --> 00:18:22.257
  • They had to take a full body scan to see if there were any
  • 00:18:22.324 --> 00:18:24.259
  • Scan to see if there were any more injuries.
  • 00:18:24.326 --> 00:18:25.761
  • More injuries. they were looking, of course,
  • 00:18:25.827 --> 00:18:26.762
  • They were looking, of course, for broken bones, for any
  • 00:18:26.828 --> 00:18:28.163
  • For broken bones, for any more bleeding.
  • 00:18:28.230 --> 00:18:29.097
  • More bleeding. that was all fine.
  • 00:18:29.164 --> 00:18:30.699
  • That was all fine. but they did find a tumor on
  • 00:18:30.766 --> 00:18:32.801
  • But they did find a tumor on his kidney.
  • 00:18:32.868 --> 00:18:34.236
  • His kidney. they did a biopsy and found
  • 00:18:34.303 --> 00:18:35.837
  • They did a biopsy and found out that it was cancer.
  • 00:18:35.904 --> 00:18:37.606
  • Out that it was cancer. a few days after the swelling
  • 00:18:37.673 --> 00:18:39.641
  • A few days after the swelling went down, he had surgery to
  • 00:18:39.708 --> 00:18:42.110
  • Went down, he had surgery to remove the kidney.
  • 00:18:42.177 --> 00:18:43.612
  • Remove the kidney. today, he's cancer free.
  • 00:18:43.679 --> 00:18:45.480
  • Today, he's cancer free. the surgeon told him if they
  • 00:18:45.547 --> 00:18:47.416
  • The surgeon told him if they had not found that cancer, it
  • 00:18:47.482 --> 00:18:49.518
  • Had not found that cancer, it was the type that spread very
  • 00:18:49.585 --> 00:18:50.953
  • Was the type that spread very quickly, most likely would've
  • 00:18:51.019 --> 00:18:53.155
  • Quickly, most likely would've taken his life.
  • 00:18:53.222 --> 00:18:54.856
  • Taken his life. my point is it's all good.
  • 00:18:54.923 --> 00:18:56.792
  • My point is it's all good. even things that at the time
  • 00:18:56.858 --> 00:18:58.760
  • Even things that at the time seem bad.
  • 00:18:58.827 --> 00:19:00.495
  • Seem bad. going to the hospital to
  • 00:19:00.562 --> 00:19:01.763
  • Going to the hospital to volunteer and you get hit by
  • 00:19:01.830 --> 00:19:03.365
  • Volunteer and you get hit by a car?
  • 00:19:03.432 --> 00:19:04.233
  • A car? man, it seemed like you've
  • 00:19:04.299 --> 00:19:05.033
  • Man, it seemed like you've got bad luck.
  • 00:19:05.100 --> 00:19:06.201
  • Got bad luck. nothing good happened for
  • 00:19:06.268 --> 00:19:07.236
  • Nothing good happened for you.
  • 00:19:07.302 --> 00:19:07.936
  • You. no, god wouldn't have allowed
  • 00:19:08.003 --> 00:19:09.805
  • No, god wouldn't have allowed it if he wasn't going to use
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  • It if he wasn't going to use it for good.
  • 00:19:11.673 --> 00:19:12.908
  • It for good. we may not always see it.
  • 00:19:12.975 --> 00:19:14.276
  • We may not always see it. "nah, joel, i don't believe
  • 00:19:14.343 --> 00:19:15.377
  • "nah, joel, i don't believe this because i've had things
  • 00:19:15.444 --> 00:19:16.511
  • This because i've had things happen and it did nothing but
  • 00:19:16.578 --> 00:19:18.146
  • Happen and it did nothing but pull me down."
  • 00:19:18.213 --> 00:19:19.448
  • Pull me down." you don't know what god was
  • 00:19:19.514 --> 00:19:20.682
  • You don't know what god was doing behind the scenes.
  • 00:19:20.749 --> 00:19:22.150
  • Doing behind the scenes. or maybe god hasn't brought
  • 00:19:22.217 --> 00:19:23.752
  • Or maybe god hasn't brought it all together yet.
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  • It all together yet. this is what faith is all
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  • This is what faith is all about, when things happen
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  • About, when things happen that we don't like,
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  • That we don't like, disappointments, bad breaks,
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  • Disappointments, bad breaks, betrayals.
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  • Betrayals. we can get negative, live
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  • We can get negative, live bitter, or we can say, "god,
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  • Bitter, or we can say, "god, i trust you. i don't
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  • I trust you. i don't understand it, but i believe
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  • Understand it, but i believe when you bring it together
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  • When you bring it together it's going to work for me and
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  • It's going to work for me and not against me."
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  • Not against me." this is what joseph did in
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  • This is what joseph did in the scripture.
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  • The scripture. nobody had more bad breaks
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  • Nobody had more bad breaks than him.
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  • Than him. as a teenager, his brothers
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  • As a teenager, his brothers betrayed him, threw him into
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  • Betrayed him, threw him into a pit.
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  • A pit. they ended up selling him
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  • They ended up selling him into slavery.
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  • Into slavery. he was lied about, falsely
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  • He was lied about, falsely accused.
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  • Accused. he spent years in prison for
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  • He spent years in prison for something that he didn't do.
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  • Something that he didn't do. it was one bad break after
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  • It was one bad break after another.
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  • Another. he could've lived negative,
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  • He could've lived negative, bitter, but he understood
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  • Bitter, but he understood this principle that even
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  • This principle that even though it may look bad, feel
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  • Though it may look bad, feel bad, be unfair, when it comes
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  • Bad, be unfair, when it comes together, god's going to use
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  • Together, god's going to use it for our good.
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  • It for our good. after 13 years of trouble,
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  • After 13 years of trouble, god not only vindicated
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  • God not only vindicated joseph, but he promoted him.
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  • Joseph, but he promoted him. he was put second in command
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  • He was put second in command of the whole nation.
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  • Of the whole nation. looking back, joseph would
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  • Looking back, joseph would tell you that whole time that
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  • Tell you that whole time that god was directing his steps.
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  • God was directing his steps. all those bad breaks were
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  • All those bad breaks were a part of god's plan to get
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  • A part of god's plan to get him to where he was supposed
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  • Him to where he was supposed to be.
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  • To be. the betrayal felt bad, but the
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  • The betrayal felt bad, but the truth is it was good.
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  • Truth is it was good. it was another step toward
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  • It was another step toward his destiny.
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  • His destiny. being sold into slavery, that
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  • Being sold into slavery, that was unfair, that was wrong.
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  • Was unfair, that was wrong. he didn't like it, but he
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  • He didn't like it, but he wouldn't change it.
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  • Wouldn't change it. without that disappointment
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  • Without that disappointment he would've never become who
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  • He would've never become who god created him to be.
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  • God created him to be. my friends, craig and
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  • My friends, craig and samantha, had two healthy
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  • Samantha, had two healthy children when little connor
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  • Children when little connor was born.
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  • Was born. they soon realized that
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  • They soon realized that connor wasn't developing like
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  • Connor wasn't developing like the other children.
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  • The other children. he wouldn't talk to them and
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  • He wouldn't talk to them and interact very much.
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  • Interact very much. connor was diagnosed with
  • 00:21:16.798 --> 00:21:18.333
  • Connor was diagnosed with autism.
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  • Autism. craig, at that time, was the
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  • Craig, at that time, was the head of our children's
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  • Head of our children's ministry.
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  • Ministry. he and samantha are strong
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  • He and samantha are strong believers.
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  • Believers. they love the lord, but this
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  • They love the lord, but this was difficult on them.
  • 00:21:26.875 --> 00:21:28.643
  • Was difficult on them. one day craig was very
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  • One day craig was very discouraged.
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  • Discouraged. he said, "god, i don't
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  • He said, "god, i don't understand it. why was my son
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  • Understand it. why was my son born with autism? why did
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  • Born with autism? why did this happen to me?"
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  • This happen to me?" he heard god say four words,
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  • He heard god say four words, "do you trust me?"
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  • "do you trust me?" that moment, craig did what
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  • That moment, craig did what we all must do when we face
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  • We all must do when we face things we don't understand.
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  • Things we don't understand. he quit seeing it as being
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  • He quit seeing it as being negative and he embraced it
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  • Negative and he embraced it as a part of god's plan for
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  • As a part of god's plan for his life.
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  • His life. god will never give you
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  • God will never give you something that you cannot
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  • Something that you cannot handle.
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  • Handle. when he made this shift in
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  • When he made this shift in his thinking from, "i'm a
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  • His thinking from, "i'm a victim.
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  • Victim. i've had these bad breaks;"
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  • I've had these bad breaks;" to "god is in control of my
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  • To "god is in control of my life. he's entrusted me with
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  • Life. he's entrusted me with this situation."
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  • This situation." that's when things begin to
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  • That's when things begin to change.
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  • Change. not only did little connor
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  • Not only did little connor begin to defy the odds, and
  • 00:22:16.958 --> 00:22:18.693
  • Begin to defy the odds, and begin to talk, and interact
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  • Begin to talk, and interact more than expected.
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  • More than expected. craig started a ministry to
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  • Craig started a ministry to help children with special
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  • Help children with special needs called the champion's
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  • Needs called the champion's club.
  • 00:22:27.602 --> 00:22:28.203
  • Club. there are 30 champion's clubs
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  • There are 30 champion's clubs around the world.
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  • Around the world. plus, craig and his associate
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  • Plus, craig and his associate have written the first ever
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  • Have written the first ever faith-based curriculum for
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  • Faith-based curriculum for special needs children.
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  • Special needs children. looking back, craig would
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  • Looking back, craig would tell you the same thing
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  • Tell you the same thing joseph said, that difficulty
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  • Joseph said, that difficulty looked like a setback, but
  • 00:22:45.954 --> 00:22:48.390
  • Looked like a setback, but really it was a set-up to
  • 00:22:48.457 --> 00:22:50.492
  • Really it was a set-up to push him into his destiny.
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  • Push him into his destiny. he would tell you that, "it's
  • 00:22:52.994 --> 00:22:54.196
  • He would tell you that, "it's all good."
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  • All good." you may not see it at the
  • 00:22:55.564 --> 00:22:56.631
  • You may not see it at the time but the closed doors are
  • 00:22:56.698 --> 00:22:58.266
  • Time but the closed doors are good.
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  • Good. the disappointments are good.
  • 00:22:59.401 --> 00:23:00.535
  • The disappointments are good. the bad breaks, they may be
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  • The bad breaks, they may be uncomfortable, but when god
  • 00:23:02.270 --> 00:23:04.406
  • Uncomfortable, but when god brings it all together, it's
  • 00:23:04.473 --> 00:23:06.308
  • Brings it all together, it's not going to work against
  • 00:23:06.374 --> 00:23:07.476
  • Not going to work against you.
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  • You. it's going to work for you.
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  • It's going to work for you. i'm asking you to trust him.
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  • I'm asking you to trust him. it may be friday in your
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  • It may be friday in your life.
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  • Life. you don't see anything good.
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  • You don't see anything good. don't worry.
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  • Don't worry. sunday is coming.
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  • Sunday is coming. god is in control.
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  • God is in control. and i believe and declare
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  • And i believe and declare everything that was meant to
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  • Everything that was meant to stop you, god is going to use
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  • Stop you, god is going to use it to push you forward.
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  • It to push you forward. he's bringing it all together
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  • He's bringing it all together right now.
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  • Right now. you're coming into good
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  • You're coming into good friday, blessed friday,
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  • Friday, blessed friday, healthy friday, victorious
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  • Healthy friday, victorious friday, in jesus name.
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  • Friday, in jesus name. if you receive it, can you
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  • If you receive it, can you say amen today?
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  • Say amen today? we never like to close our
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  • An opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
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  • Just say, "lord jesus, i repent of my sins. come into
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  • Repent of my sins. come into my heart. i make you my lord
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  • My heart. i make you my lord and savior."
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