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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Joy In The Journey | November 3, 2025
- > joel: god bless you.
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- > joel: god bless you. it's great to be with you
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- It's great to be with you today. i hope you'll stay
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- Today. i hope you'll stay connected with us during
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- Connected with us during the week, through our daily
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- The week, through our daily podcast, our youtube
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- Podcast, our youtube channel, social media.
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- Channel, social media. and you can come visit us
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- And you can come visit us in person. we'd love to
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- In person. we'd love to have you be a part of one
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- Have you be a part of one of our services.
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- Of our services. i like to start with
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- I like to start with something funny.
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- Something funny. i heard about this man
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- I heard about this man named bubba. he lived
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- Named bubba. he lived way out in the country.
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- Way out in the country. there was a stray dog that
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- There was a stray dog that kept showing up at his
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- Kept showing up at his house. his wife said,
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- House. his wife said, “bubba you have to put
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- “bubba you have to put the dog in your truck,
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- The dog in your truck, take him out in the woods
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- Take him out in the woods and drop him off. that's
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- And drop him off. that's where he lives.”
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- Where he lives.” bubba drove him a mile down
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- Bubba drove him a mile down road, dropped him off.
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- Road, dropped him off. when he came home, the dog
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- When he came home, the dog was walking up the
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- Was walking up the driveway, practically beat
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- Driveway, practically beat him back. this happened
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- Him back. this happened again and again. his wife
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- Again and again. his wife said, “bubba, you have to
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- Said, “bubba, you have to take him way out, drive him
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- Take him way out, drive him around in circles, get him
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- Around in circles, get him mixed up.” bubba drove him
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- Mixed up.” bubba drove him an hour away, crisscrossed
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- An hour away, crisscrossed roads he'd never driven
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- Roads he'd never driven before and dropped him off.
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- Before and dropped him off. two hours later, he called
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- Two hours later, he called his wife from the truck and
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- His wife from the truck and said, “did the dog come
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- Said, “did the dog come back?” she said, “yeah,
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- Back?” she said, “yeah, he's walking up the
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- He's walking up the driveway now.” bubba said,
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- Driveway now.” bubba said, “do me a favor, put him on
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- “do me a favor, put him on the line, i need
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- The line, i need directions.”
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- Directions.” say it like you mean it.
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- Say it like you mean it. this is my bible. i am
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- This is my bible. i am what it says i am. i have
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- What it says i am. i have what it says i have. i can
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- What it says i have. i can do what it says i can do.
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- Do what it says i can do. today, i will be taught
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- Today, i will be taught the word of god.
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- The word of god. i boldly confess: my mind
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- I boldly confess: my mind is alert. my heart is
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- Is alert. my heart is receptive. i will never
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- Receptive. i will never be the same in jesus' name.
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- Be the same in jesus' name. god bless you.
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- God bless you. i want to talk to you today
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- I want to talk to you today about joy in the journey.
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- About joy in the journey. too often we're going to
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- Too often we're going to enjoy life when we
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- Enjoy life when we accomplish a goal, when the
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- Accomplish a goal, when the kids are raised, when we
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- Kids are raised, when we get the promotion.
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- Get the promotion. “joel, when i lose ten
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- “joel, when i lose ten pounds, when i get through
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- Pounds, when i get through this problem, then i'll be
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- This problem, then i'll be happy.” our joy is always
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- Happy.” our joy is always in the future when we cross
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- In the future when we cross the finish line.
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- The finish line. the problem with that
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- The problem with that approach is there's always
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- Approach is there's always some reason we can't be
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- Some reason we can't be happy.
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- Happy. something's going on that's
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- Something's going on that's causing us to be stressed,
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- Causing us to be stressed, uptight.
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- Uptight. but the key is to find joy
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- But the key is to find joy in the journey.
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- In the journey. you're not there yet,
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- You're not there yet, you're still waiting for
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- You're still waiting for things to improve, still
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- Things to improve, still believing for the promise,
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- Believing for the promise, but in the meantime, you're
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- But in the meantime, you're enjoying where you are
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- Enjoying where you are while you're on the way
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- While you're on the way to where you're going.
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- To where you're going. if you're so focused on the
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- If you're so focused on the finish line, what's not
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- Finish line, what's not working out, this trouble
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- Working out, this trouble at the office, then you'll
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- At the office, then you'll miss the beauty of this day.
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- Miss the beauty of this day. you won't laugh at the
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- You won't laugh at the funny thing your child does.
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- Funny thing your child does. you're too busy.
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- You're too busy. got to get them dressed,
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- Got to get them dressed, feed them breakfast, get
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- Feed them breakfast, get them to school.
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- Them to school. you won't enjoy your spouse.
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- You won't enjoy your spouse. you're too busy trying to
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- You're too busy trying to fix them, focused on their
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- Fix them, focused on their flaws. when they improve,
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- Flaws. when they improve, then you'll have fun
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- Then you'll have fun together. i know people
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- Together. i know people that hurry through the
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- That hurry through the week. they don't like
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- Week. they don't like going to work, dread
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- Going to work, dread driving in the traffic,
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- Driving in the traffic, have to put up with this
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- Have to put up with this cranky coworker. they
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- Cranky coworker. they can't wait till the weekend
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- Can't wait till the weekend gets here. how much of your
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- Gets here. how much of your life are you missing trying
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- Life are you missing trying to get to the next thing?
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- To get to the next thing? what you think is better,
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- What you think is better, then you can be happy.
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- Then you can be happy. try a different approach.
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- Try a different approach. instead of rushing through
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- Instead of rushing through what you don't like, trying
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- What you don't like, trying to get to the next goal,
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- To get to the next goal, slow down and find joy in
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- Slow down and find joy in the journey.
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- The journey. look at all the good things
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- Look at all the good things in your life right now.
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- In your life right now. don't take for granted the
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- Don't take for granted the people god's given you to
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- People god's given you to love.
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- Love. they may not be perfect,
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- They may not be perfect, but neither are you.
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- But neither are you. “joel, this husband, he
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- “joel, this husband, he gets on my nerves.” i bet
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- Gets on my nerves.” i bet you get on his nerves too.
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- You get on his nerves too. some people would love to
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- Some people would love to have your husband.
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- Have your husband. they'd give anything to
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- They'd give anything to have that man.
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- Have that man. i see a lady holding up her
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- I see a lady holding up her husband's phone number.
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- Husband's phone number. that's how she's going to
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- That's how she's going to get joy.
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- Get joy. “these children, they're so
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- “these children, they're so much work.
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- Much work. all i do is cook and clean
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- All i do is cook and clean and run them places.” do
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- And run them places.” do you know how many people
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- You know how many people are not able to have
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- Are not able to have children?
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- Children? they would do anything to
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- They would do anything to have those kids.
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- Have those kids. what you see as common is
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- What you see as common is really uncommon.
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- Really uncommon. what we think is ordinary
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- What we think is ordinary is really extraordinary.
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- Is really extraordinary. “well, it's monday, i have
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- “well, it's monday, i have to go to work.” try a
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- To go to work.” try a different approach.
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- Different approach. “i get to go to work.
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- “i get to go to work. i have a job.
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- I have a job. i have income, i have
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- I have income, i have resources.” “i can't stand
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- Resources.” “i can't stand driving in this traffic.
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- Driving in this traffic. it's so stressful.” how
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- It's so stressful.” how about, “i get to drive in
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- About, “i get to drive in traffic.
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- Traffic. i have a car.
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- I have a car. i have opportunity.” “i've
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- I have opportunity.” “i've got to clean the house
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- Got to clean the house again today.
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- Again today. that's the story of my
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- That's the story of my life.” no, “i get to clean
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- Life.” no, “i get to clean the house.
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- The house. god's blessed me with a
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- God's blessed me with a place to live.” if you'll
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- Place to live.” if you'll have the right perspective,
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- Have the right perspective, you'll find joy in the
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- You'll find joy in the journey.
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- Journey. “i'm not in my dream house
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- “i'm not in my dream house yet, but lord i'm grateful
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- Yet, but lord i'm grateful for this apartment.
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- For this apartment. i haven't met the right
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- I haven't met the right person yet, but lord i'm
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- Person yet, but lord i'm grateful being single.
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- Grateful being single. this place i'm working is
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- This place i'm working is not where i want to end up,
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- Not where i want to end up, but lord i'm grateful that
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- But lord i'm grateful that i'm employed.” the enemy
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- I'm employed.” the enemy would love to deceive us
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- Would love to deceive us into enduring life and not
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- Into enduring life and not enjoying life.
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- Enjoying life. having children but not
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- Having children but not enjoying them. being
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- Enjoying them. being married but not enjoying it.
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- Married but not enjoying it. having a house, a job,
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- Having a house, a job, opportunity but always some
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- Opportunity but always some reason we're not happy.
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- Reason we're not happy. we've got to get to that
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- We've got to get to that next thing, then we'll
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- Next thing, then we'll enjoy life.
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- Enjoy life. no, you have to learn this
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- No, you have to learn this principle.
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- Principle. there is joy in your
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- There is joy in your journey.
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- Journey. there are things in your
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- There are things in your life right now that you can
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- Life right now that you can enjoy if you'll have the
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- Enjoy if you'll have the right perspective.
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- Right perspective. paul said in philippians,
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- Paul said in philippians, “whatever things are
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- “whatever things are wholesome, good, pure, if
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- Wholesome, good, pure, if there be any virtue, if
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- There be any virtue, if there be any praise, think
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- There be any praise, think on these things.” it's
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- On these things.” it's significant that he used
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- Significant that he used the word ‘if'.
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- The word ‘if'. if there be any virtue.
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- If there be any virtue. he was saying you have to
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- He was saying you have to look for the good.
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- Look for the good. in your family, look for
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- In your family, look for the good.
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- The good. in your spouse, yes you can
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- In your spouse, yes you can point out twenty-three
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- Point out twenty-three flaws.
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- Flaws. how about looking for the
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- How about looking for the good?
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- Good? in that challenge, maybe a
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- In that challenge, maybe a lot is coming against you,
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- Lot is coming against you, look for the good.
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- Look for the good. god is sustaining you.
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- God is sustaining you. people are encouraging you.
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- People are encouraging you. this one area has improved.
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- This one area has improved. if you're going to find joy
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- If you're going to find joy in the journey, you have to
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- In the journey, you have to look past all the wrongs
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- Look past all the wrongs and see the rights.
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- And see the rights. sometimes, it's just the
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- Sometimes, it's just the fact that you shouldn't
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- Fact that you shouldn't still be here.
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- Still be here. the opposition should have
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- The opposition should have taken you out.
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- Taken you out. the sickness should have
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- The sickness should have defeated you.
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- Defeated you. how you were raised should
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- How you were raised should have held you back.
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- Have held you back. but you can say, “lord,
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- But you can say, “lord, thank you that i'm still
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- Thank you that i'm still standing.
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- Standing. thank you that i still have
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- Thank you that i still have air to breathe.
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- Air to breathe. thank you that you're still
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- Thank you that you're still for me.”
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- For me.” in luke 24, jesus had been
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- In luke 24, jesus had been crucified on a friday.
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- Crucified on a friday. that sunday, two of his
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- That sunday, two of his disciples were walking from
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- Disciples were walking from jerusalem to a city called
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- Jerusalem to a city called emmaus.
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- Emmaus. you can imagine how
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- You can imagine how discouraged they were.
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- Discouraged they were. the man they had followed
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- The man they had followed and given their life to was
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- And given their life to was now gone.
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- Now gone. as they were on this
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- As they were on this journey, talking about
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- Journey, talking about everything that had
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- Everything that had happened, the wrongs, the
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- Happened, the wrongs, the betrayals, the heartache,
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- Betrayals, the heartache, jesus came up and started
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- Jesus came up and started walking with them, but they
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- Walking with them, but they didn't recognize who he was.
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- Didn't recognize who he was. he was in a different form.
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- He was in a different form. jesus asked what they were
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- Jesus asked what they were discussing and why they
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- Discussing and why they were so concerned.
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- Were so concerned. they said in effect, “where
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- They said in effect, “where have you been?
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- Have you been? haven't you heard?
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- Haven't you heard? they've taken our messiah,
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- They've taken our messiah, crucified him, now we're
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- Crucified him, now we're without a leader.” jesus
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- Without a leader.” jesus began to talk to them about
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- Began to talk to them about what the prophets had
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- What the prophets had predicted.
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- Predicted. how he had to come and be
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- How he had to come and be crucified, that he would be
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- Crucified, that he would be raised on the third day.
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- Raised on the third day. verse 27 says, “he
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- Verse 27 says, “he explained what the
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- Explained what the scripture said about him.”
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- Scripture said about him.” what an incredible moment
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- What an incredible moment this was.
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- This was. they're walking with jesus,
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- They're walking with jesus, who's just risen from the
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- Who's just risen from the dead, whose helping them to
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- Dead, whose helping them to understand passages from
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- Understand passages from the old testament, that
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- The old testament, that prophesied what would
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- Prophesied what would happen, how this was all a
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- Happen, how this was all a part of god's plan.
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- Part of god's plan. it was a seven mile walk
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- It was a seven mile walk from jerusalem. they were
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- From jerusalem. they were about to arrive in emmaus.
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- About to arrive in emmaus. it was late at night.
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- It was late at night. they asked jesus to stay
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- They asked jesus to stay with them. as they were
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- With them. as they were eating dinner, jesus broke
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- Eating dinner, jesus broke the bread, and their eyes
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- The bread, and their eyes were opened.
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- Were opened. they recognized who he was.
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- They recognized who he was. jesus suddenly disappeared.
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- Jesus suddenly disappeared. think about that long walk
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- Think about that long walk with jesus.
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- With jesus. they were so focused on
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- They were so focused on what didn't work out, this
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- What didn't work out, this great disappointment, their
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- Great disappointment, their leader is gone, that they
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- Leader is gone, that they didn't recognize the
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- Didn't recognize the miracle in the moment.
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- Miracle in the moment. all they knew was life was
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- All they knew was life was unfair.
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- Unfair. this wasn't right.
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- This wasn't right. they were discouraged, yet
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- They were discouraged, yet that whole time the risen
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- That whole time the risen savior was in their midst.
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- Savior was in their midst. how many times on our
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- How many times on our journey are we not
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- Journey are we not recognizing what god is
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- Recognizing what god is doing.
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- Doing. we're so caught up in the
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- We're so caught up in the stress of the day, dealing
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- Stress of the day, dealing with this problem, had a
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- With this problem, had a setback in our finances,
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- Setback in our finances, that we don't see all the
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- That we don't see all the good things.
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- Good things. how god is sustaining us,
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- How god is sustaining us, favoring us, guiding us.
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- Favoring us, guiding us. we've been through
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- We've been through challenges but in the
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- Challenges but in the midst, our children are
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- Midst, our children are still healthy, we have
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- Still healthy, we have opportunity, the right
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- Opportunity, the right person showed up when we
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- Person showed up when we needed them. don't get so
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- Needed them. don't get so focused on what's wrong
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- Focused on what's wrong that you don't recognize
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- That you don't recognize what's right.
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- It's interesting that these
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- It's interesting that these disciples were on a journey
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- Disciples were on a journey with jesus.
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- With jesus. one principle it shows us,
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- One principle it shows us, is there was joy in the
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- Is there was joy in the journey, but they didn't
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- Journey, but they didn't recognize it.
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- Recognize it. how many of us are seeing
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- How many of us are seeing the joy in the journey?
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- The joy in the journey? we see the traffic.
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- We see the traffic. we see the struggle.
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- We see the struggle. “these children are a lot
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- “these children are a lot of work.” but are you
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- Of work.” but are you seeing the joy?
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- Seeing the joy? could it be like these
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- Could it be like these disciples that god is doing
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- Disciples that god is doing great things, but you don't
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- Great things, but you don't see it.
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- The scripture says god
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- The scripture says god opened their eyes and
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- Opened their eyes and suddenly they recognized
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- Suddenly they recognized jesus.
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- Jesus. my prayer is, “god open our
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- My prayer is, “god open our eyes.
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- Eyes. help us on the journey of
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- Help us on the journey of life to not miss the
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- Life to not miss the miracles of the moment.
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- Miracles of the moment. to recognize your goodness,
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- To recognize your goodness, to be aware that you're at
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- To be aware that you're at work.” i don't want us to
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- Work.” i don't want us to come to the end of life and
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- Come to the end of life and think, “man, i didn't enjoy
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- Think, “man, i didn't enjoy my twenties, i was so
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- My twenties, i was so stressed raising kids.
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- Stressed raising kids. i didn't enjoy my thirties;
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- I didn't enjoy my thirties; the pressures of work were
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- The pressures of work were so bad.
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- So bad. i didn't enjoy my forties,
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- I didn't enjoy my forties, i had financial
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- I had financial difficulties.
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- Difficulties. my fifties, i had that
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- My fifties, i had that health issue.
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- Health issue. my sixties, we had
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- My sixties, we had inflation, the pandemic,
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- Inflation, the pandemic, the texans couldn't win.”
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- The texans couldn't win.” we look up and our life is
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- We look up and our life is passed but we didn't enjoy
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- Passed but we didn't enjoy it.
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- It. there was always something,
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- There was always something, some problem, some person,
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- Some problem, some person, some delay.
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- Some delay. you could be in a great
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- You could be in a great moment right now, but like
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- Moment right now, but like these disciples, you're
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- Letting what went wrong, so
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- Letting what went wrong, so focused on where you're
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- Focused on where you're trying to go, that you're
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- Trying to go, that you're missing all the good things.
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- Missing all the good things. they looked back and
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- They looked back and thought, “jesus was walking
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- Thought, “jesus was walking with us.
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- With us. he was explaining the
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- He was explaining the scriptures.
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- Scriptures. we were right there in his
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- We were right there in his presence.
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- Presence. we should have stopped,
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- We should have stopped, taken it all in, and
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- Taken it all in, and enjoyed it.” instead, they
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- Enjoyed it.” instead, they were just trying to get to
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- Were just trying to get to emmaus.
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- Emmaus. trying to get past the
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- Trying to get past the disappointment.
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- Disappointment. i'm not saying that we
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- I'm not saying that we don't have difficulties;
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- Don't have difficulties; there's pressure, stress.
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- There's pressure, stress. what i'm saying is there is
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- What i'm saying is there is good in every season.
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- Good in every season. you have to find joy in the
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- You have to find joy in the journey.
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- Journey. sometimes, like these
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- Sometimes, like these disciples, we don't see it
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- Disciples, we don't see it till it's gone.
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- Till it's gone. in the moment we don't
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- In the moment we don't recognize it, but later we
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- Recognize it, but later we look back and think, that
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- Look back and think, that was a great time.
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- Was a great time. we talk about the good old
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- We talk about the good old days.
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- Days. can i tell you; you are
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- Can i tell you; you are living in the good old days.
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- Living in the good old days. there are great things
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- There are great things happening right now, great
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- Happening right now, great memories, great people,
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- Memories, great people, great opportunities.
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- Great opportunities. don't do like them and miss
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- Don't do like them and miss it.
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- A few years before my
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- A few years before my father passed, three of my
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- Father passed, three of my sisters along with their
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- Sisters along with their spouses, their husbands,
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- Spouses, their husbands, they worked on staff with
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- They worked on staff with us here at lakewood.
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- Us here at lakewood. that was four of the five
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- That was four of the five children.
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- Children. my brother paul hadn't come
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- My brother paul hadn't come to join us yet.
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- To join us yet. on sunday nights, during
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- On sunday nights, during church, i would look down
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- Church, i would look down the row and see lisa and
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- The row and see lisa and her husband, tamara and her
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- Her husband, tamara and her husband, april and her
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- Husband, april and her husband.
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- Husband. then victoria and myself.
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- Then victoria and myself. i would tell victoria
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- I would tell victoria often, “we are living in
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- Often, “we are living in the good old days.
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- The good old days. this is an amazing time
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- This is an amazing time where we're all here
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- Where we're all here together.” somehow, i knew
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- Together.” somehow, i knew not to take it for granted.
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- Not to take it for granted. “oh, it's just my family.
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- “oh, it's just my family. no big deal.” i recognized
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- No big deal.” i recognized that it was unusual.
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- That it was unusual. we made the most of that
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- We made the most of that time.
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- Time. over the years, people
- 00:12:09.084 --> 00:12:10.519
- Over the years, people moved on, started churches,
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- Moved on, started churches, fulfilling their calling.
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- Fulfilling their calling. the people in your life are
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- The people in your life are not always going to be
- 00:12:16.959 --> 00:12:18.027
- Not always going to be there.
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- There. don't take them for granted.
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- Don't take them for granted. i like to accomplish
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- I like to accomplish dreams, achieve goals, go
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- Dreams, achieve goals, go fast. i have to remind
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- Fast. i have to remind myself what i'm telling
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- Myself what i'm telling you, slow down and enjoy
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- You, slow down and enjoy the journey.
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- The journey. it's easy to live busy,
- 00:12:30.472 --> 00:12:33.008
- It's easy to live busy, stressed, upset but today
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- Stressed, upset but today is a gift from god.
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- Is a gift from god. don't just endure it, enjoy
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- Don't just endure it, enjoy it.
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- It. twenty years from now,
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- Twenty years from now, you're going to look back
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- You're going to look back with fond memories of today.
- 00:12:42.785 --> 00:12:44.553
- With fond memories of today. you're going to think,
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- You're going to think, “those were the good old
- 00:12:46.021 --> 00:12:47.256
- “those were the good old days, raising my children,
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- Days, raising my children, working for that company,
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- Working for that company, going to lakewood.” but i
- 00:12:51.026 --> 00:12:53.162
- Going to lakewood.” but i wonder if you're living in
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- Wonder if you're living in the good old days, and you
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- The good old days, and you don't recognize it.
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- Don't recognize it. you're uptight, focused on
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- You're uptight, focused on what's wrong, trying to
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- What's wrong, trying to achieve those dreams. no,
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- Achieve those dreams. no, start finding joy in the
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- Start finding joy in the journey.
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- Journey. when our son jonathan was
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- When our son jonathan was seven years old, we were
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- Seven years old, we were about to leave for church.
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- About to leave for church. i was in the garage putting
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- I was in the garage putting things in the car and i
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- Things in the car and i said, “come on, jonathan,
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- Said, “come on, jonathan, let's go.” he had one of
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- Let's go.” he had one of those label makers that we
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- Those label makers that we used to use.
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- Used to use. you hold it in your hand,
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- You hold it in your hand, select the letter on the
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- Select the letter on the dial.
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- Dial. you click it and you can
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- You click it and you can make labels.
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- Make labels. he was so focused on what
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- He was so focused on what he was doing.
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- He was doing. i said, “jonathan, we're
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- I said, “jonathan, we're going to be late.
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- Going to be late. we have to go.” he said,
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- We have to go.” he said, “okay, dad, just give me a
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- “okay, dad, just give me a second.” i said, “we don't
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- Second.” i said, “we don't have a second.” he kept
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- Have a second.” he kept working and working as fast
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- Working and working as fast as he could.
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- As he could. i was getting more and more
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- I was getting more and more uptight.
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- Uptight. he finally finished, pulled
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- He finally finished, pulled the label out and ran over
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- The label out and ran over and handed it to me.
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- And handed it to me. it read, “best dad in the
- 00:13:45.714 --> 00:13:47.549
- It read, “best dad in the world.” i thought, “oh, we
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- World.” i thought, “oh, we have a little more time.
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- Have a little more time. let's make a few more of
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- Let's make a few more of these.” somehow, i wasn't
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- These.” somehow, i wasn't in a hurry anymore.
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- In a hurry anymore. many times, it's the small
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- Many times, it's the small things in life that give it
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- Things in life that give it real meaning.
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- Real meaning. yes, it's great to
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- Yes, it's great to accomplish the big goals,
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- Accomplish the big goals, get married, have a child,
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- Get married, have a child, move in to the new house.
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- Move in to the new house. those are the mountaintop
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- Those are the mountaintop moments.
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- Moments. some people live for them.
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- Some people live for them. that's when they're going
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- That's when they're going to be happy.
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- To be happy. but those are few and far
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- But those are few and far between.
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- Between. even the heroes of faith.
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- Even the heroes of faith. moses parted the red sea,
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- Moses parted the red sea, delivered the israelites
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- Delivered the israelites out of slavery.
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- Out of slavery. that was amazing, but what
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- That was amazing, but what was it?
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- Was it? about a month of his life?
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- About a month of his life? what about the other
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- What about the other hundred and twenty years?
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- Hundred and twenty years? you have to learn to enjoy
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- You have to learn to enjoy the journey, while the red
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- The journey, while the red seas aren't parting, while
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- Seas aren't parting, while you're waiting for the next
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- You're waiting for the next big thing, you're enjoying
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- Big thing, you're enjoying the small things.
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- The small things. you're finding good in your
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- You're finding good in your everyday life.
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- Everyday life. taking time to laugh with
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- Taking time to laugh with your children, taking a
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- Your children, taking a walk with your spouse,
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- Walk with your spouse, seeing the sunrise in the
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- Seeing the sunrise in the morning, hearing the birds
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- Morning, hearing the birds sing.
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- Sing. not too busy, not too
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- Not too busy, not too stressed to enjoy the
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- Stressed to enjoy the simple things in life.
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- Simple things in life. i learned a lot of this
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- I learned a lot of this from victoria's side of the
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- From victoria's side of the family.
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- Family. they love to laugh.
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- They love to laugh. they take time to enjoy
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- They take time to enjoy each other.
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- Each other. we were having lunch one
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- We were having lunch one sunday a while back after
- 00:15:05.227 --> 00:15:06.962
- Sunday a while back after church at our house.
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- Church at our house. victoria's mother was
- 00:15:08.697 --> 00:15:09.565
- Victoria's mother was there, georgine, victoria's
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- There, georgine, victoria's brother and all their
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- Brother and all their family, a whole bunch of us.
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- Family, a whole bunch of us. we sat down together,
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- We sat down together, thirty minutes later i was
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- Thirty minutes later i was finished eating.
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- Finished eating. i got up and went to the
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- I got up and went to the back to watch the ballgame.
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- Back to watch the ballgame. three hours later, i
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- Three hours later, i watched the whole game, i
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- Watched the whole game, i came back, and they were
- 00:15:24.747 --> 00:15:25.881
- Came back, and they were still sitting at the table,
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- Still sitting at the table, in the same seats.
- 00:15:27.783 --> 00:15:29.485
- In the same seats. i said, “are y'all eating
- 00:15:29.551 --> 00:15:30.319
- I said, “are y'all eating dinner now?” victoria said,
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- Dinner now?” victoria said, “no, we're still sitting
- 00:15:32.121 --> 00:15:33.489
- “no, we're still sitting here from lunch.” i looked
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- Here from lunch.” i looked at her like kind of puzzled.
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- At her like kind of puzzled. she said, “joel, we're just
- 00:15:36.258 --> 00:15:37.559
- She said, “joel, we're just enjoying each other.” i
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- Enjoying each other.” i thought, “man, i can enjoy
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- Thought, “man, i can enjoy my brother paul in a couple
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- My brother paul in a couple of minutes.” you know what
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- Of minutes.” you know what they were doing?
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- They were doing? finding joy in the journey.
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- Finding joy in the journey. it wasn't a mountaintop
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- It wasn't a mountaintop moment.
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- Moment. they weren't celebrating a
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- They weren't celebrating a birthday.
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- Birthday. sure, they had challenges,
- 00:15:51.707 --> 00:15:52.975
- Sure, they had challenges, difficulties but they took
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- Difficulties but they took time to see the good, to
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- Time to see the good, to enjoy what god had given
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- Enjoy what god had given them. sometimes we're
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- Them. sometimes we're waiting for these big
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- Waiting for these big miracles, but there are
- 00:16:01.817 --> 00:16:03.085
- Miracles, but there are miracles in the mundane.
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- Miracles in the mundane. the fact that you're alive
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- The fact that you're alive is a miracle.
- 00:16:06.989 --> 00:16:08.157
- Is a miracle. you have people in your
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- You have people in your life to love, that's a
- 00:16:09.158 --> 00:16:09.958
- Life to love, that's a miracle.
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- Miracle. you have your health, a
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- You have your health, a sound mind, opportunity.
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- Sound mind, opportunity. let's not be like those
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- Let's not be like those disciples and miss the
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- Disciples and miss the moment because it looks
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- Moment because it looks common, “oh, it's just my
- 00:16:18.667 --> 00:16:21.036
- Common, “oh, it's just my family, joel.” we see it as
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- Family, joel.” we see it as just another ordinary day,
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- Just another ordinary day, but the fact is there are
- 00:16:25.274 --> 00:16:26.842
- But the fact is there are no ordinary days.
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- No ordinary days. each day is a gift from god.
- 00:16:28.911 --> 00:16:32.047
- Each day is a gift from god. in 2007, a major newspaper
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- In 2007, a major newspaper did an experiment to see
- 00:16:35.584 --> 00:16:37.553
- Did an experiment to see how people perceived the
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- How people perceived the uncommon in a common
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- Uncommon in a common environment.
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- Environment. would they recognize talent
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- Would they recognize talent out of context, would they
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- Out of context, would they appreciate music not in a
- 00:16:45.828 --> 00:16:47.529
- Appreciate music not in a concert hall.
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- Concert hall. they took this
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- They took this world-renowned violinist, a
- 00:16:49.998 --> 00:16:52.067
- World-renowned violinist, a former child prodigy and
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- Former child prodigy and one of the most amazing
- 00:16:54.069 --> 00:16:55.337
- One of the most amazing violin players in the world.
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- Violin players in the world. people had spent hundreds
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- People had spent hundreds of dollars for a ticket to
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- Of dollars for a ticket to hear him play in some of
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- Hear him play in some of the most distinguished
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- The most distinguished venues.
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- Venues. his violin was worth 4
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- His violin was worth 4 million dollars, a
- 00:17:06.148 --> 00:17:07.483
- Million dollars, a seventeenth century
- 00:17:07.549 --> 00:17:08.884
- Seventeenth century stradivarius.
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- Stradivarius. early one monday morning,
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- Early one monday morning, he went to the subway
- 00:17:12.521 --> 00:17:13.455
- He went to the subway station during rush hour.
- 00:17:13.522 --> 00:17:15.357
- Station during rush hour. he had a ball cap on,
- 00:17:15.424 --> 00:17:17.059
- He had a ball cap on, jeans, tennis shoes; looked
- 00:17:17.126 --> 00:17:18.494
- Jeans, tennis shoes; looked very ordinary.
- 00:17:18.560 --> 00:17:19.328
- Very ordinary. he stood over by the wall
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- He stood over by the wall and began to play.
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- And began to play. he performed six of the
- 00:17:23.198 --> 00:17:24.533
- He performed six of the most well-known classical
- 00:17:24.600 --> 00:17:26.135
- Most well-known classical pieces.
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- Pieces. in forty-three minutes,
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- In forty-three minutes, eleven hundred people
- 00:17:28.937 --> 00:17:30.038
- Eleven hundred people passed by, only seven
- 00:17:30.105 --> 00:17:32.307
- Passed by, only seven paused to listen.
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- Paused to listen. most just went about their
- 00:17:34.243 --> 00:17:35.277
- Most just went about their day, busy, preoccupied.
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- Day, busy, preoccupied. they heard the music, but
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- They heard the music, but it seemed common.
- 00:17:39.948 --> 00:17:41.316
- It seemed common. people play out there all
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- People play out there all the time.
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- The time. the researchers came to
- 00:17:43.986 --> 00:17:45.053
- The researchers came to different conclusions.
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- Different conclusions. one being, when something
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- One being, when something uncommon is in a common
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- Uncommon is in a common place, we don't recognize
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- Place, we don't recognize it.
- 00:17:52.661 --> 00:17:53.795
- It. maybe the people were too
- 00:17:53.862 --> 00:17:55.164
- Maybe the people were too busy, in a hurry, focused
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- Busy, in a hurry, focused on other things.
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- On other things. but it begs the question,
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- But it begs the question, if we're in such a hurry
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- If we're in such a hurry that we don't recognize one
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- That we don't recognize one of the best pieces of music
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- Of the best pieces of music ever written, by one of the
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- Ever written, by one of the best players in the world,
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- Best players in the world, on one of the finest
- 00:18:09.444 --> 00:18:10.479
- On one of the finest instruments ever created,
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- Instruments ever created, what else are we missing.
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- What else are we missing. what else are we rushing
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- What else are we rushing by, not appreciating.
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- By, not appreciating. there are things in your
- 00:18:17.986 --> 00:18:19.054
- There are things in your life that may seem common.
- 00:18:19.121 --> 00:18:21.557
- Life that may seem common. it's in an ordinary
- 00:18:21.623 --> 00:18:22.758
- It's in an ordinary environment, but there's
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- Environment, but there's nothing ordinary about your
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- Nothing ordinary about your children.
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- Children. nothing common about being
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- Nothing common about being able to breathe, the gifts
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- Able to breathe, the gifts god's given you, the doors
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- God's given you, the doors he's opened.
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- He's opened. when jesus showed up and
- 00:18:33.902 --> 00:18:35.370
- When jesus showed up and walked with the disciples,
- 00:18:35.437 --> 00:18:36.672
- Walked with the disciples, he seemed common.
- 00:18:36.738 --> 00:18:38.040
- He seemed common. just another man joining us.
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- Just another man joining us. it wasn't till later, they
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- It wasn't till later, they said, “we knew there was
- 00:18:41.577 --> 00:18:43.278
- Said, “we knew there was something special about
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- Something special about him.” don't wait till later
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- Him.” don't wait till later to recognize the uncommon
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- To recognize the uncommon in your life.
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- In your life. this is where the
- 00:18:50.219 --> 00:18:50.852
- This is where the israelites missed it.
- 00:18:50.919 --> 00:18:52.154
- Israelites missed it. god brought them out of
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- God brought them out of slavery, defeated pharaoh
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- Slavery, defeated pharaoh and his army, now they were
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- And his army, now they were headed to the promised land.
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- Headed to the promised land. they were out in the desert
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- On this journey.
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- On this journey. there were no hotels, no
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- There were no hotels, no grocery stores, no
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- Grocery stores, no pharmacy, water towers, yet
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- Pharmacy, water towers, yet god provided for them day
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- God provided for them day after day.
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- After day. the scripture says, “their
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- The scripture says, “their clothes and shoes didn't
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- Clothes and shoes didn't wear out for forty years.”
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- Wear out for forty years.” you would think they would
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- You would think they would be grateful.
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- Be grateful. they would see the hand of
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- They would see the hand of god, but all they saw was
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- God, but all they saw was what was wrong.
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- What was wrong. “we're not in the promised
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- “we're not in the promised land.
- 00:19:23.885 --> 00:19:24.753
- Land. where are those huge
- 00:19:24.820 --> 00:19:25.654
- Where are those huge clusters of grapes?
- 00:19:25.721 --> 00:19:27.256
- Clusters of grapes? where are those houses that
- 00:19:27.322 --> 00:19:28.590
- Where are those houses that we didn't build that were
- 00:19:28.657 --> 00:19:29.558
- We didn't build that were promised us?” if you don't
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- Promised us?” if you don't find the joy in the
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- Find the joy in the journey, you'll find all
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- Journey, you'll find all the negative.
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- The negative. you'll start complaining.
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- You'll start complaining. they didn't recognize how
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- They didn't recognize how god was sustaining them,
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- God was sustaining them, how he was giving them
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- How he was giving them provision.
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- Provision. it seemed common.
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- It seemed common. “we have this manna every
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- “we have this manna every day.
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- Day. no big deal.” god was in
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- No big deal.” god was in their presence, but they
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- Their presence, but they didn't see him.
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- Didn't see him. they complained so much
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- They complained so much that god finally told them
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- That god finally told them that they were never going
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- That they were never going to make it in, only their
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- To make it in, only their children would go into to
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- Children would go into to the promised land.
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- The promised land. like with them, much of our
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- Like with them, much of our life is spent waiting.
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- Life is spent waiting. waiting for the promise,
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- Waiting for the promise, waiting for our health to
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- Waiting for our health to improve, waiting to meet
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- Improve, waiting to meet the right person.
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- The right person. we see the destination, we
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- We see the destination, we know what god put in our
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- Know what god put in our heart, now we're on the
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- Heart, now we're on the journey.
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- Journey. the key is what are you
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- The key is what are you seeing on the journey?
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- Seeing on the journey? what's wrong, how long it's
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- What's wrong, how long it's taking, why did they leave
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- Taking, why did they leave me?
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- Me? if you do like them and
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- If you do like them and focus on all the negative,
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- Focus on all the negative, doubt will come.
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- Doubt will come. you'll start complaining
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- You'll start complaining and miss god's best. what
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- And miss god's best. what you may not recognize is
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- You may not recognize is god is on that journey with
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- God is on that journey with you.
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- You. all along the way he's
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- All along the way he's doing things, sustaining
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- Doing things, sustaining you, protecting you,
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- You, protecting you, providing for you, ordering
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- Providing for you, ordering your steps.
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- Your steps. don't do like them and not
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- Don't do like them and not recognize his goodness.
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- Recognize his goodness. take time every day to
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- Take time every day to thank him for what he's
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- Thank him for what he's doing.
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- Doing. “lord, thank you that
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- “lord, thank you that you've brought me this far.
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- You've brought me this far. thank you that you're
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- Thank you that you're making my crooked places
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- Making my crooked places straight.
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- Straight. thank you for fighting my
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- Thank you for fighting my battles.” you can complain
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- Battles.” you can complain or you can praise but you
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- Or you can praise but you can't do both.
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- Can't do both. if you complain, you're
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- If you complain, you're going to remain. if you
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- Going to remain. if you praise, you're going to be
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- Praise, you're going to be raised.
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- Raised. a young lady i know is one
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- A young lady i know is one of the kindest, most
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- Of the kindest, most friendly people you'll ever
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- Friendly people you'll ever meet.
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- Meet. any time you're with her,
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- Any time you're with her, she always brightens your
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- She always brightens your day.
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- Day. a few years back, she was
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- A few years back, she was diagnosed with cancer.
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- Diagnosed with cancer. it was very serious.
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- It was very serious. she began taking the
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- She began taking the treatment, going through
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- Treatment, going through all the tests.
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- All the tests. there were major ups and
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- There were major ups and major downs but every time
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- Major downs but every time i would see her, she was
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- I would see her, she was the same.
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- The same. visiting her in the
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- Visiting her in the hospital, victoria and i
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- Hospital, victoria and i would walk in and she'd
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- Would walk in and she'd have that big smile, that
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- Have that big smile, that joyful laugh.
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- Joyful laugh. we'd leave there encouraged.
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- We'd leave there encouraged. there was an older woman
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- There was an older woman that was a patient where
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- That was a patient where they both took treatment.
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- They both took treatment. every monday, wednesday and
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- Every monday, wednesday and friday, she asked the nurse
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- Friday, she asked the nurse to leave the door open so
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- To leave the door open so she could see out into the
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- She could see out into the hall.
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- Hall. the nurse asked why.
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- The nurse asked why. she said, “because that
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- She said, “because that young pretty girl is going
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- Young pretty girl is going to come by and wave at me.
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- To come by and wave at me. her smile is what keeps me
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- Her smile is what keeps me going.” even in my friend's
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- Going.” even in my friend's most challenging hour, she
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- Most challenging hour, she was still joyful, being a
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- Was still joyful, being a blessing, recognizing each
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- Blessing, recognizing each day is a gift. sure, she
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- Day is a gift. sure, she could have been bitter,
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- Could have been bitter, depressed, “when i get
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- Depressed, “when i get well, then i'll be happy.”
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- Well, then i'll be happy.” she found joy in the
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- She found joy in the journey.
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- Journey. she saw the goodness of god
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- She saw the goodness of god in the midst of the
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- In the midst of the adversity.
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- Adversity. a hundred years from now,
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- A hundred years from now, we're all going to be gone.
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- We're all going to be gone. don't live another day
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- Don't live another day defeated, discouraged.
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- Defeated, discouraged. get your joy back.
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- Get your joy back. i've heard it said, “it's
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- I've heard it said, “it's not that life is so short,
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- Not that life is so short, it's that we wait so long
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- It's that we wait so long to begin.” we're waiting
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- To begin.” we're waiting for this challenge to be
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- For this challenge to be over, waiting to raise the
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- Over, waiting to raise the kids, waiting to for the
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- Kids, waiting to for the promotion, waiting for
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- Promotion, waiting for retirement.
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- Retirement. my prayer is god open our
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- My prayer is god open our eyes, help us to see the
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- Eyes, help us to see the uncommon in everyday life,
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- Uncommon in everyday life, to appreciate the people
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- To appreciate the people you've given us, to value
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- You've given us, to value the simple things.
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- The simple things. it's very powerful when we
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- It's very powerful when we can look back and say, “i
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- Can look back and say, “i enjoyed my twenties, i
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- Enjoyed my twenties, i enjoyed my thirties, i
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- Enjoyed my thirties, i enjoyed my forties.
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- Enjoyed my forties. i didn't endure life, i
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- I didn't endure life, i enjoyed it.” let's not be
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- Like those disciples and
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- Like those disciples and have god in our midst and
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- Have god in our midst and not recognize it.
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- Not recognize it. right now, he's sustaining
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- Right now, he's sustaining you, providing for you,
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- You, providing for you, giving you breath to
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- Giving you breath to breathe.
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- Breathe. now do your part and find
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- Now do your part and find joy in the journey.
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- Joy in the journey. if you'll do this, i
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- If you'll do this, i believe and declare, you're
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- Believe and declare, you're going to live happier, have
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- Going to live happier, have better relationships, see
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- Better relationships, see more favor, those negative
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- More favor, those negative situations will turn around
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- Situations will turn around and you'll reach the
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- And you'll reach the fullness of your destiny,
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- Fullness of your destiny, in jesus' name.
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- In jesus' name. if you receive it, can you
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- If you receive it, can you say amen?
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- Say amen? i'd like to give you an
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- I'd like to give you an opportunity to make jesus
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- Opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
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- The lord of your life. would you pray with me?
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- Would you pray with me? just say, “lord jesus, i
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- Just say, “lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
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- Repent of my sins. come into my heart. i make
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- Come into my heart. i make you my lord and savior.”
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- You my lord and savior.” if you prayed that simple
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- If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got
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- Prayer, we believe you got born again. i encourage you
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- Born again. i encourage you to get into a good
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- To get into a good bible-based church and keep
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- Bible-based church and keep god first place.
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- God first place. victoria and i will be
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- Victoria and i will be right back to speak a
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- Right back to speak a blessing over you.
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- Fear can be a powerful force
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- Fear can be a powerful force and will try to make you feel
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- And will try to make you feel alone, stuck, without hope.
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- Alone, stuck, without hope. but fear doesn't
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- But fear doesn't have to get the final say.
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- Have to get the final say. there is a way out.
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- There is a way out. fear is a powerful force,
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- Fear is a powerful force, but so is faith.
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- But so is faith. what we focus on shapes
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- What we focus on shapes our reality.
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- In my new book, no more fear:
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- In my new book, no more fear: you have the mind of christ,
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- You have the mind of christ, i'll show you how
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- I'll show you how to silence fear and live boldly
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- To silence fear and live boldly in faith and confidence.
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- In faith and confidence. just like david said, "though
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- Just like david said, "though i walk through the valley,
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- I walk through the valley, i will not fear,"
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- I will not fear," you too can walk through
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- You too can walk through life's challenges
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- Life's challenges without being paralyzed
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- Without being paralyzed by fear.
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- By fear. i can't promise you
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- I can't promise you you'll never feel fear,
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- You'll never feel fear, but i can teach you
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- But i can teach you how to rise above it
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- How to rise above it by dwelling on what god says,
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- By dwelling on what god says, learning to replace
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- Learning to replace the anxious thoughts
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- The anxious thoughts with faith-filled ones.
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- With faith-filled ones. you can live
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- You can live from a place of peace,
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- From a place of peace, power, and purpose.
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- Power, and purpose. as our way of saying thank you
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- As our way of saying thank you for your gift of any amount
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- For your gift of any amount this month,
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- This month, we would like to send you
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- We would like to send you a copy of joel's book,
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- A copy of joel's book, no more fear:
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- No more fear: you have the mind of christ.
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- You have the mind of christ. the bible proclaims,
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- The bible proclaims, "the lord is my light
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- "the lord is my light and my salvation;
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- And my salvation; whom shall i fear?"
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- Whom shall i fear?" this powerful
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- This powerful and practical book
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- And practical book will help you silence doubt,
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- Will help you silence doubt, overcome anxiety,
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- Overcome anxiety, and step boldly into god's
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- And step boldly into god's overcoming power.
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- Overcoming power. when fear whispers,
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- When fear whispers, "you can't,"
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- "you can't," this devotional will stir
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- This devotional will stir your faith
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- Your faith to declare, "god will."
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- To declare, "god will." each page
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- Each page reminds you
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- Reminds you that you weren't
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- That you weren't created to live in fear
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- Created to live in fear or despair.
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- Or despair. you were created to live
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- You were created to live with passion,
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- With passion, purpose, and confidence
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- Purpose, and confidence in god's plans for your life.
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- In god's plans for your life. let god's word
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- Let god's word equip you to rise above fear
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- Equip you to rise above fear and walk in victory.
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- And walk in victory. fear doesn't have
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- Fear doesn't have the final say, god does.
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- The final say, god does. be bold,
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- Be bold, be strong, and step up to who
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- Be strong, and step up to who he made you to be.
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- He made you to be. victoria and i want you to know
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- Victoria and i want you to know we're praying for
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- We're praying for you and your family,
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- You and your family, believing for god's very best.
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- Believing for god's very best. thank you so much
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- Thank you so much for your prayer and support.
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- For your prayer and support. your generosity
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- Your generosity is helping people
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- Is helping people around the world.
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- Around the world. as we finish this year,
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