Joel Osteen - Let Them Walk

April 10, 2026 | 27:29

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Let Them Walk | April 10, 2026
  • Joel: god bless you. it's
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  • Joel: god bless you. it's great to be with you today.
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  • Great to be with you today. i hope you'll stay connected
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  • I hope you'll stay connected with us during the week,
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  • With us during the week, through our daily podcast,
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  • Through our daily podcast, our youtube channel, social
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  • Our youtube channel, social media. and you can come visit
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  • Media. and you can come visit us in person. we'd love to
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  • Us in person. we'd love to have you be a part of one of
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  • Have you be a part of one of our services.
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  • Our services. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny. i heard
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  • Something funny. i heard about this young man. he was
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  • About this young man. he was a huge football fan. he
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  • A huge football fan. he bought two tickets to the
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  • Bought two tickets to the super bowl months ahead of
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  • Super bowl months ahead of time, not realizing it was
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  • Time, not realizing it was going to be on the same day
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  • Going to be on the same day as his wedding. he paid a
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  • As his wedding. he paid a couple thousand dollars for
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  • Couple thousand dollars for each of the tickets, so he
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  • Each of the tickets, so he put an ad on facebook seeing
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  • Put an ad on facebook seeing if anyone wanted to go in his
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  • If anyone wanted to go in his place. he said, “it will be
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  • Place. he said, “it will be at 3 o'clock at first baptist
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  • At 3 o'clock at first baptist church and her name is
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  • Church and her name is tiffany.” (laughter) no,
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  • Tiffany.” (laughter) no, don't do that y'all.
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  • Don't do that y'all. this is my bible. i am what
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  • This is my bible. i am what it says i am. i have what it
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  • It says i am. i have what it says i have. i can do what it
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  • Says i have. i can do what it says i can do. today, i will
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  • Says i can do. today, i will be taught the word of god. i
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  • Be taught the word of god. i boldly confess: my mind is
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  • Boldly confess: my mind is alert. my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert. my heart is receptive. i will never be the same in
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  • I will never be the same in jesus' name. god bless you.
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  • Jesus' name. god bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about let them walk. we all
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  • About let them walk. we all have people that god brings
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  • Have people that god brings across our path that are
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  • Across our path that are there for a lifetime. our
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  • There for a lifetime. our spouse, children, friends
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  • Spouse, children, friends that we cherish. they're
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  • That we cherish. they're loyal, stick with us through
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  • Loyal, stick with us through thick and thin. but not every
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  • Thick and thin. but not every relationship is designed to
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  • Relationship is designed to last forever. there are
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  • Last forever. there are seasons. sometimes a good
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  • Seasons. sometimes a good season will come to an end.
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  • Season will come to an end. who you needed to raise your
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  • Who you needed to raise your children may not be the same
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  • Children may not be the same ones you need when they're
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  • Ones you need when they're grown and gone. other times
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  • Grown and gone. other times god's taking you higher.
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  • God's taking you higher. you're growing. the people
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  • You're growing. the people that have been with you can't
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  • That have been with you can't go where you're going, so
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  • Go where you're going, so doors will close. one of the
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  • Doors will close. one of the hardest things for us is to
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  • Hardest things for us is to let people go. you have to
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  • Let people go. you have to recognize when their part in
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  • Recognize when their part in your story is over. it
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  • Your story is over. it doesn't mean you can't still
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  • Doesn't mean you can't still be friends, but it's not
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  • Be friends, but it's not going to be the same. if not,
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  • Going to be the same. if not, we try to hold on to things
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  • We try to hold on to things that god is finished with.
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  • That god is finished with. when that season is over,
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  • When that season is over, there's no grace for it.
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  • There's no grace for it. there's this tension. they
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  • There's this tension. they want to leave, but we don't
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  • Want to leave, but we don't want them to go. now it's a
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  • Want them to go. now it's a struggle, a strain, trying to
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  • Struggle, a strain, trying to force it to work. but when
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  • Force it to work. but when someone wants to walk away,
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  • Someone wants to walk away, you have to learn to let them
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  • You have to learn to let them walk. we spend too much time
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  • Walk. we spend too much time trying to convince people to
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  • Trying to convince people to stay.
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  • Stay. we have to play up to them,
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  • We have to play up to them, try to manipulate, “why
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  • Try to manipulate, “why aren't they calling? am i not
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  • Aren't they calling? am i not good enough? i hope they come
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  • Good enough? i hope they come by.” do yourself a favor,
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  • By.” do yourself a favor, move on with your life. don't
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  • Move on with your life. don't waste another minute trying
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  • Waste another minute trying to convince someone to love
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  • To convince someone to love you, call you, come see you.
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  • You, call you, come see you. you are a gift. you are a
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  • You are a gift. you are a treasure, a prized
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  • Treasure, a prized possession. if someone
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  • Possession. if someone doesn't recognize your value,
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  • Doesn't recognize your value, if they don't treat you like
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  • If they don't treat you like the masterpiece that you are,
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  • The masterpiece that you are, with respect, with honor,
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  • With respect, with honor, that's a sign that season has
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  • That's a sign that season has changed. you have to move
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  • Changed. you have to move forward. god has already
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  • Forward. god has already ordained divine connections
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  • Ordained divine connections for you. people that can't
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  • For you. people that can't live without you. people that
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  • Live without you. people that love being with you, can't
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  • Love being with you, can't wait to see you.
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  • Wait to see you. solomon said, “unless the
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  • Solomon said, “unless the lord builds the house, we
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  • Lord builds the house, we labor in vain.” if you'll
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  • Labor in vain.” if you'll let god bring your
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  • Let god bring your relationships, trust him with
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  • Relationships, trust him with who comes into your life,
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  • Who comes into your life, then it's not a struggle. you
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  • Then it's not a struggle. you can be who you are. you don't
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  • Can be who you are. you don't live trying to force people
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  • Live trying to force people to like you, lower your
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  • To like you, lower your standards to be accepted. if
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  • Standards to be accepted. if someone doesn't want to be in
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  • Someone doesn't want to be in your life, it's no big deal.
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  • Your life, it's no big deal. you let them go. it doesn't
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  • You let them go. it doesn't mean they're a bad person,
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  • Mean they're a bad person, something's wrong with them.
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  • Something's wrong with them. they're just not right for
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  • They're just not right for you at this time. maybe they
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  • You at this time. maybe they were fine for a season, but
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  • Were fine for a season, but this is a new season. the
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  • This is a new season. the scripture talks about how god
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  • Scripture talks about how god is our doorkeeper. he opens
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  • Is our doorkeeper. he opens and closes doors in our life.
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  • And closes doors in our life. when god closes a door,
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  • When god closes a door, there's nothing you can do to
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  • There's nothing you can do to keep that door open. you can
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  • Keep that door open. you can strive and strain, and try to
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  • Strive and strain, and try to talk people into staying,
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  • Talk people into staying, perform better. that's
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  • Perform better. that's laboring in vain. all that's
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  • Laboring in vain. all that's going to do is wear you out,
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  • Going to do is wear you out, frustrate you, cause you to
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  • Frustrate you, cause you to get bitter. try a new
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  • Get bitter. try a new approach and let them go. if
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  • Approach and let them go. if people can walk away from
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  • People can walk away from you, they're not a part of
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  • You, they're not a part of your destiny. don't take it
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  • Your destiny. don't take it personally. don't get
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  • Personally. don't get offended, be critical. god is
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  • Offended, be critical. god is ordering your steps. the
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  • Ordering your steps. the people he's ordained to be in
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  • People he's ordained to be in your life cannot leave. you
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  • Your life cannot leave. you can't get rid of them. they
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  • Can't get rid of them. they love you no matter what. they
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  • Love you no matter what. they accept you with no makeup, no
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  • Accept you with no makeup, no coffee. they come when you
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  • Coffee. they come when you don't call. they show up when
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  • Don't call. they show up when you didn't ask. they laugh
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  • You didn't ask. they laugh with you, cry with you. they
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  • With you, cry with you. they don't judge you. you never
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  • Don't judge you. you never have to think about
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  • Have to think about performing, manipulating,
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  • Performing, manipulating, hoping they like you. they're
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  • Hoping they like you. they're a divine connection. god
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  • A divine connection. god ordained them to be there.
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  • Ordained them to be there. just the opposite is true.
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  • Just the opposite is true. the people that are not
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  • The people that are not supposed to be in your life,
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  • Supposed to be in your life, cannot stay. it's not up to
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  • Cannot stay. it's not up to them, god has closed that
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  • Them, god has closed that door. no matter how hard you
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  • Door. no matter how hard you try, how much you serve,
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  • Try, how much you serve, give, play up to, it's not
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  • Give, play up to, it's not going to change. take the
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  • Going to change. take the pressure off. quit trying to
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  • Pressure off. quit trying to win someone over that's not
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  • Win someone over that's not supposed to be there.
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  • Supposed to be there. jesus told his disciples,
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  • Jesus told his disciples, when you go into a city, if
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  • When you go into a city, if they don't accept the message
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  • They don't accept the message of the good news, they're not
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  • Of the good news, they're not for you, they don't want you
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  • For you, they don't want you to be there, he didn't say,
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  • To be there, he didn't say, man, you got to work harder,
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  • Man, you got to work harder, spend more time, try to
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  • Spend more time, try to convince them. no, he said,
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  • Convince them. no, he said, “shake the dust off your feet
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  • “shake the dust off your feet and go on to the next city.”
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  • And go on to the next city.” he was saying don't waste
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  • He was saying don't waste your time trying to win
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  • Your time trying to win people over that are not a
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  • People over that are not a part of your destiny. if
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  • Part of your destiny. if someone doesn't want to be
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  • Someone doesn't want to be with you, they don't like
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  • With you, they don't like you, they don't validate you,
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  • You, they don't validate you, shake the dust off and move
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  • Shake the dust off and move on. accept that they're not a
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  • On. accept that they're not a part of your story. if they
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  • Part of your story. if they can walk away, you have to
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  • Can walk away, you have to let them walk. if you try to
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  • Let them walk. if you try to convince them, it's going to
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  • Convince them, it's going to be a constant source of
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  • Be a constant source of frustration. yes, god can
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  • Frustration. yes, god can change their mind. if they're
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  • Change their mind. if they're supposed to be there, he'll
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  • Supposed to be there, he'll turn things around. but
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  • Turn things around. but you're not supposed to live
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  • You're not supposed to live trying to talk people into
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  • Trying to talk people into liking you, being your
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  • Liking you, being your friend, hoping they call. god
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  • Friend, hoping they call. god created you in his own image.
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  • Created you in his own image. you have royal blood flowing
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  • You have royal blood flowing through your veins. he's
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  • Through your veins. he's already lined up people that
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  • Already lined up people that recognize your value, people
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  • Recognize your value, people that love being with you.
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  • That love being with you. there's a lady in the
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  • There's a lady in the scripture named naomi. her
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  • Scripture named naomi. her husband passed away and she
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  • Husband passed away and she became a widow at a young
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  • Became a widow at a young age. ten years later, both of
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  • Age. ten years later, both of her grown sons were killed.
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  • Her grown sons were killed. she was so heartbroken, she
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  • She was so heartbroken, she decided to move back to her
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  • Decided to move back to her hometown of bethlehem. she
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  • Hometown of bethlehem. she told her two daughters in
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  • Told her two daughters in law, ruth and orpah, that
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  • Law, ruth and orpah, that they should move back to
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  • They should move back to their homes as well and go on
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  • Their homes as well and go on with their lives. the three
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  • With their lives. the three of them packed up their
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  • Of them packed up their belongings and headed out on
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  • Belongings and headed out on the road toward judah. they
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  • The road toward judah. they came to an intersection and
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  • Came to an intersection and stopped. naomi said, “this is
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  • Stopped. naomi said, “this is where we part ways. you both
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  • Where we part ways. you both go that way and i'm going on
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  • Go that way and i'm going on to bethlehem.” the scripture
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  • To bethlehem.” the scripture says, orpah kissed naomi
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  • Says, orpah kissed naomi goodbye and headed down the
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  • Goodbye and headed down the road. orpah was a good
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  • Road. orpah was a good person, she loved naomi but
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  • Person, she loved naomi but now she was leaving. naomi
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  • Now she was leaving. naomi could have been upset,
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  • Could have been upset, thought, “after all i did for
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  • Thought, “after all i did for her, she's leaving in my
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  • Her, she's leaving in my darkest time, when i need her
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  • Darkest time, when i need her the most.” no, naomi
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  • The most.” no, naomi understood this was a new
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  • Understood this was a new season, that things had
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  • Season, that things had changed, that it was okay for
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  • Changed, that it was okay for her to walk away. she was at
  • 00:08:08.544 --> 00:08:10.446
  • Her to walk away. she was at peace with who left. she
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  • Peace with who left. she accepted orpah not being a
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  • Accepted orpah not being a part of her life in the same
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  • Part of her life in the same way without being critical,
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  • Way without being critical, and bitter toward her. we
  • 00:08:18.988 --> 00:08:21.424
  • And bitter toward her. we like to hold on to people.
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  • Like to hold on to people. stay here, meet my needs,
  • 00:08:23.159 --> 00:08:24.927
  • Stay here, meet my needs, keep it the same. it's a mark
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  • Keep it the same. it's a mark of maturity to let people
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  • Of maturity to let people walk away. it takes trust.
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  • Walk away. it takes trust. you're saying, “god, i know
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  • You're saying, “god, i know you're my doorkeeper. you're
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  • You're my doorkeeper. you're opening and closing the doors
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  • Opening and closing the doors of relationships in my life.”
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  • Of relationships in my life.” the other daughter-in-law
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  • The other daughter-in-law ruth, was just the opposite.
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  • Ruth, was just the opposite. naomi tried to get her to
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  • Naomi tried to get her to leave. she said, “ruth
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  • Leave. she said, “ruth there's no future going with
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  • There's no future going with me. nothing in bethlehem for
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  • Me. nothing in bethlehem for you. you deserve more for
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  • You. you deserve more for your life.” she gave her best
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  • Your life.” she gave her best speech, every opportunity to
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  • Speech, every opportunity to leave, with no guilt. but
  • 00:08:57.593 --> 00:08:59.662
  • Leave, with no guilt. but ruth said in verse 16,
  • 00:08:59.729 --> 00:09:01.530
  • Ruth said in verse 16, “naomi. i can't leave. i will
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  • “naomi. i can't leave. i will go wherever you go, live
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  • Go wherever you go, live wherever you live. your
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  • Wherever you live. your people will be my people, and
  • 00:09:09.238 --> 00:09:11.073
  • People will be my people, and your god will be my god. may
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  • Your god will be my god. may the lord punish me if i allow
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  • The lord punish me if i allow anything to separate us.” how
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  • Anything to separate us.” how could one daughter-in-law
  • 00:09:18.914 --> 00:09:20.449
  • Could one daughter-in-law leave so easily, and the
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  • Leave so easily, and the other want to stay. they both
  • 00:09:22.351 --> 00:09:24.587
  • Other want to stay. they both loved their mother-in-law,
  • 00:09:24.654 --> 00:09:26.489
  • Loved their mother-in-law, but ruth sensed that her
  • 00:09:26.555 --> 00:09:27.957
  • But ruth sensed that her destiny was tied to naomi.
  • 00:09:28.024 --> 00:09:31.327
  • Destiny was tied to naomi. she felt this connection that
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  • She felt this connection that was stronger than her own
  • 00:09:32.928 --> 00:09:34.597
  • Was stronger than her own family. she watched her
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  • Family. she watched her sister-in-law orpah walk
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  • Sister-in-law orpah walk away, but something in her
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  • Away, but something in her said, “you have to stay.” in
  • 00:09:39.969 --> 00:09:41.904
  • Said, “you have to stay.” in life, you'll have a lot of
  • 00:09:41.971 --> 00:09:44.674
  • Life, you'll have a lot of orpah's, people that leave.
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  • Orpah's, people that leave. they're good people, but the
  • 00:09:46.542 --> 00:09:48.210
  • They're good people, but the season is over. things
  • 00:09:48.277 --> 00:09:50.212
  • Season is over. things change. they're busy. they're
  • 00:09:50.279 --> 00:09:52.314
  • Change. they're busy. they're distracted. you have to let
  • 00:09:52.381 --> 00:09:54.483
  • Distracted. you have to let them go. be at peace with who
  • 00:09:54.550 --> 00:09:57.086
  • Them go. be at peace with who left. don't fault them. don't
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  • Left. don't fault them. don't get critical. god is closing
  • 00:09:59.955 --> 00:10:02.124
  • Get critical. god is closing the door. they're an orpah.
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  • The door. they're an orpah. they were instrumental in
  • 00:10:04.593 --> 00:10:05.961
  • They were instrumental in your life for a season. they
  • 00:10:06.028 --> 00:10:07.830
  • Your life for a season. they were necessary, but now their
  • 00:10:07.897 --> 00:10:10.266
  • Were necessary, but now their part in your story is over.
  • 00:10:10.332 --> 00:10:12.835
  • Part in your story is over. the good news is god will
  • 00:10:12.902 --> 00:10:14.770
  • The good news is god will always give you a ruth.
  • 00:10:14.837 --> 00:10:16.872
  • Always give you a ruth. someone you can't get rid of.
  • 00:10:16.939 --> 00:10:19.141
  • Someone you can't get rid of. they stick with you through
  • 00:10:19.208 --> 00:10:20.109
  • They stick with you through thick and thin. they know
  • 00:10:20.176 --> 00:10:22.011
  • Thick and thin. they know their destiny is tied to you.
  • 00:10:22.078 --> 00:10:24.947
  • Their destiny is tied to you. but sometimes we try to
  • 00:10:25.014 --> 00:10:26.449
  • But sometimes we try to convince the orpah's to stay.
  • 00:10:26.515 --> 00:10:28.851
  • Convince the orpah's to stay. spending time, energy, got to
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  • Spending time, energy, got to manipulate, perform. orpah
  • 00:10:31.287 --> 00:10:34.123
  • Manipulate, perform. orpah loved naomi but she left.
  • 00:10:34.190 --> 00:10:37.560
  • Loved naomi but she left. people can love you and
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  • People can love you and leave. if they walk away,
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  • Leave. if they walk away, they're not a bad person. god
  • 00:10:41.797 --> 00:10:43.432
  • They're not a bad person. god shut the door. that season
  • 00:10:43.499 --> 00:10:45.801
  • Shut the door. that season ended. but when it's a ruth,
  • 00:10:45.868 --> 00:10:48.104
  • Ended. but when it's a ruth, there's nothing you can do to
  • 00:10:48.170 --> 00:10:49.805
  • There's nothing you can do to convince them to go. when you
  • 00:10:49.872 --> 00:10:52.508
  • Convince them to go. when you understand this, it takes the
  • 00:10:52.575 --> 00:10:54.076
  • Understand this, it takes the pressure off. you're not
  • 00:10:54.143 --> 00:10:56.011
  • Pressure off. you're not frustrated over who left,
  • 00:10:56.078 --> 00:10:58.347
  • Frustrated over who left, bitter over this person that
  • 00:10:58.414 --> 00:10:59.715
  • Bitter over this person that ghosted you, striving to get
  • 00:10:59.782 --> 00:11:01.951
  • Ghosted you, striving to get that coworker to accept you.
  • 00:11:02.017 --> 00:11:04.353
  • That coworker to accept you. that's laboring in vain. let
  • 00:11:04.420 --> 00:11:06.756
  • That's laboring in vain. let god bring your relationships.
  • 00:11:06.822 --> 00:11:08.958
  • God bring your relationships. trust him with your open and
  • 00:11:09.024 --> 00:11:11.260
  • Trust him with your open and closed doors. if someone
  • 00:11:11.327 --> 00:11:13.062
  • Closed doors. if someone leaves, do like naomi, kiss
  • 00:11:13.129 --> 00:11:14.797
  • Leaves, do like naomi, kiss them goodbye. not bitter,
  • 00:11:14.864 --> 00:11:17.600
  • Them goodbye. not bitter, angry. “they never call me
  • 00:11:17.666 --> 00:11:19.468
  • Angry. “they never call me back. why won't they invite
  • 00:11:19.535 --> 00:11:21.437
  • Back. why won't they invite me to their group?” you're
  • 00:11:21.504 --> 00:11:23.439
  • Me to their group?” you're not supposed to be there. you
  • 00:11:23.506 --> 00:11:25.608
  • Not supposed to be there. you can't open a door that god
  • 00:11:25.674 --> 00:11:27.042
  • Can't open a door that god has closed. and you can't
  • 00:11:27.109 --> 00:11:28.944
  • Has closed. and you can't close a door that god has
  • 00:11:29.011 --> 00:11:30.746
  • Close a door that god has opened. they can't leave when
  • 00:11:30.813 --> 00:11:33.249
  • Opened. they can't leave when god has purposed it. if they
  • 00:11:33.315 --> 00:11:35.785
  • God has purposed it. if they walked away, they were
  • 00:11:35.851 --> 00:11:37.486
  • Walked away, they were supposed to go. if they
  • 00:11:37.553 --> 00:11:39.321
  • Supposed to go. if they didn't stay, you didn't need
  • 00:11:39.388 --> 00:11:41.357
  • Didn't stay, you didn't need them. kiss them goodbye and
  • 00:11:41.423 --> 00:11:43.392
  • Them. kiss them goodbye and move on.
  • 00:11:43.459 --> 00:11:45.127
  • Move on. the mistake we make sometimes
  • 00:11:45.194 --> 00:11:47.196
  • The mistake we make sometimes is instead of kissing them
  • 00:11:47.263 --> 00:11:48.464
  • Is instead of kissing them goodbye, we kick them
  • 00:11:48.531 --> 00:11:50.166
  • Goodbye, we kick them goodbye. “good riddance. get
  • 00:11:50.232 --> 00:11:52.968
  • Goodbye. “good riddance. get out of here. i didn't like
  • 00:11:53.035 --> 00:11:54.036
  • Out of here. i didn't like you anyway.” talk bad,
  • 00:11:54.103 --> 00:11:56.272
  • You anyway.” talk bad, critical, live offended. they
  • 00:11:56.338 --> 00:11:59.275
  • Critical, live offended. they may have done you wrong,
  • 00:11:59.341 --> 00:12:00.810
  • May have done you wrong, betrayed you, left you out,
  • 00:12:00.876 --> 00:12:02.478
  • Betrayed you, left you out, but god is your vindicator.
  • 00:12:02.545 --> 00:12:04.880
  • But god is your vindicator. he'll take care of who hurt
  • 00:12:04.947 --> 00:12:06.682
  • He'll take care of who hurt you. but if you let that
  • 00:12:06.749 --> 00:12:08.551
  • You. but if you let that bitterness get on the inside,
  • 00:12:08.617 --> 00:12:10.820
  • Bitterness get on the inside, it's going to poison the next
  • 00:12:10.886 --> 00:12:12.354
  • It's going to poison the next relationship. you have to be
  • 00:12:12.421 --> 00:12:14.757
  • Relationship. you have to be at peace with who left. you
  • 00:12:14.824 --> 00:12:16.826
  • At peace with who left. you have to accept who walked
  • 00:12:16.892 --> 00:12:18.561
  • Have to accept who walked away as a part of god's plan.
  • 00:12:18.627 --> 00:12:21.363
  • Away as a part of god's plan. yes, it was painful. it
  • 00:12:21.430 --> 00:12:22.798
  • Yes, it was painful. it wasn't fair, but god wouldn't
  • 00:12:22.865 --> 00:12:24.800
  • Wasn't fair, but god wouldn't have allowed it if it wasn't
  • 00:12:24.867 --> 00:12:26.635
  • Have allowed it if it wasn't moving you toward your
  • 00:12:26.702 --> 00:12:27.837
  • Moving you toward your destiny. sometimes he closes
  • 00:12:27.903 --> 00:12:31.006
  • Destiny. sometimes he closes doors we don't understand. he
  • 00:12:31.073 --> 00:12:33.309
  • Doors we don't understand. he takes the orpah's out of our
  • 00:12:33.375 --> 00:12:34.844
  • Takes the orpah's out of our life, people we were counting
  • 00:12:34.910 --> 00:12:36.846
  • Life, people we were counting on, friends we were used to.
  • 00:12:36.912 --> 00:12:39.315
  • On, friends we were used to. but he always has a ruth. he
  • 00:12:39.381 --> 00:12:41.717
  • But he always has a ruth. he always has the right people,
  • 00:12:41.784 --> 00:12:43.886
  • Always has the right people, destiny connections.
  • 00:12:43.953 --> 00:12:45.221
  • Destiny connections. in the late 1950's, my father
  • 00:12:45.287 --> 00:12:48.424
  • In the late 1950's, my father was pastoring a successful
  • 00:12:48.490 --> 00:12:50.125
  • Was pastoring a successful church. they had just built a
  • 00:12:50.192 --> 00:12:51.594
  • Church. they had just built a beautiful new sanctuary. the
  • 00:12:51.660 --> 00:12:53.529
  • Beautiful new sanctuary. the future looked so bright. but
  • 00:12:53.596 --> 00:12:55.431
  • Future looked so bright. but my sister was born with
  • 00:12:55.497 --> 00:12:56.966
  • My sister was born with something like cerebral
  • 00:12:57.032 --> 00:12:57.867
  • Something like cerebral palsy. the doctors told my
  • 00:12:57.933 --> 00:13:00.002
  • Palsy. the doctors told my parents that she would
  • 00:13:00.069 --> 00:13:00.970
  • Parents that she would probably never be able to
  • 00:13:01.036 --> 00:13:02.471
  • Probably never be able to walk or feed herself. my
  • 00:13:02.538 --> 00:13:04.907
  • Walk or feed herself. my father went away for a few
  • 00:13:04.974 --> 00:13:06.242
  • Father went away for a few days to read the scripture
  • 00:13:06.308 --> 00:13:08.611
  • Days to read the scripture like he had never read it
  • 00:13:08.677 --> 00:13:09.845
  • Like he had never read it before. he saw how jesus went
  • 00:13:09.912 --> 00:13:12.381
  • Before. he saw how jesus went around healing people and
  • 00:13:12.448 --> 00:13:14.316
  • Around healing people and doing miracles, and how when
  • 00:13:14.383 --> 00:13:16.051
  • Doing miracles, and how when you believe, all things are
  • 00:13:16.118 --> 00:13:18.354
  • You believe, all things are possible. he was taught in
  • 00:13:18.420 --> 00:13:19.755
  • Possible. he was taught in seminary back then that
  • 00:13:19.822 --> 00:13:21.357
  • Seminary back then that miracles only happened in
  • 00:13:21.423 --> 00:13:22.892
  • Miracles only happened in bible days. he came back to
  • 00:13:22.958 --> 00:13:25.227
  • Bible days. he came back to his church with a new fire,
  • 00:13:25.294 --> 00:13:26.662
  • His church with a new fire, and he shared this message of
  • 00:13:26.729 --> 00:13:28.197
  • And he shared this message of faith and victory. he thought
  • 00:13:28.264 --> 00:13:30.466
  • Faith and victory. he thought everyone would be excited,
  • 00:13:30.532 --> 00:13:32.501
  • Everyone would be excited, but it was just the opposite.
  • 00:13:32.568 --> 00:13:34.303
  • But it was just the opposite. it didn't fit into their
  • 00:13:34.370 --> 00:13:35.604
  • It didn't fit into their tradition. things got so
  • 00:13:35.671 --> 00:13:37.673
  • Tradition. things got so contentious and so divisive
  • 00:13:37.740 --> 00:13:40.276
  • Contentious and so divisive that my parents were forced
  • 00:13:40.342 --> 00:13:42.077
  • That my parents were forced out of the church. they had
  • 00:13:42.144 --> 00:13:43.679
  • Out of the church. they had to resign.
  • 00:13:43.746 --> 00:13:45.281
  • To resign. my mother was twenty-six
  • 00:13:45.347 --> 00:13:46.515
  • My mother was twenty-six years old. she had lifelong
  • 00:13:46.582 --> 00:13:48.717
  • Years old. she had lifelong friends that never spoke to
  • 00:13:48.784 --> 00:13:50.586
  • Friends that never spoke to her again. people she had
  • 00:13:50.653 --> 00:13:52.621
  • Her again. people she had known for years, gone to
  • 00:13:52.688 --> 00:13:54.156
  • Known for years, gone to school with, raised children
  • 00:13:54.223 --> 00:13:56.158
  • School with, raised children with, done life together and
  • 00:13:56.225 --> 00:13:58.193
  • With, done life together and now they walked away,
  • 00:13:58.260 --> 00:13:59.962
  • Now they walked away, wouldn't have anything to do
  • 00:14:00.029 --> 00:14:00.996
  • Wouldn't have anything to do with her. mother is about to
  • 00:14:01.063 --> 00:14:03.198
  • With her. mother is about to be ninety-one years old. i
  • 00:14:03.265 --> 00:14:05.401
  • Be ninety-one years old. i have never heard her say one
  • 00:14:05.467 --> 00:14:07.369
  • Have never heard her say one negative thing about those
  • 00:14:07.436 --> 00:14:09.004
  • Negative thing about those people. never heard her
  • 00:14:09.071 --> 00:14:10.639
  • People. never heard her complain about them, belittle
  • 00:14:10.706 --> 00:14:12.708
  • Complain about them, belittle them. sure, it was hurtful.
  • 00:14:12.775 --> 00:14:15.511
  • Them. sure, it was hurtful. she felt the sting of
  • 00:14:15.577 --> 00:14:16.545
  • She felt the sting of rejection, being
  • 00:14:16.612 --> 00:14:17.479
  • Rejection, being misunderstood. some of them
  • 00:14:17.546 --> 00:14:19.315
  • Misunderstood. some of them talked about her and my
  • 00:14:19.381 --> 00:14:20.349
  • Talked about her and my father. she could have tried
  • 00:14:20.416 --> 00:14:22.351
  • Father. she could have tried to defend herself, convince
  • 00:14:22.418 --> 00:14:24.753
  • To defend herself, convince them to change their mind,
  • 00:14:24.820 --> 00:14:26.789
  • Them to change their mind, keep them on her side, but
  • 00:14:26.855 --> 00:14:28.757
  • Keep them on her side, but she understood this
  • 00:14:28.824 --> 00:14:29.625
  • She understood this principle. if people can walk
  • 00:14:29.692 --> 00:14:31.860
  • Principle. if people can walk away, you have to let them
  • 00:14:31.927 --> 00:14:33.662
  • Away, you have to let them walk. if they leave you,
  • 00:14:33.729 --> 00:14:35.831
  • Walk. if they leave you, accept it as a part of your
  • 00:14:35.898 --> 00:14:37.800
  • Accept it as a part of your destiny. don't spend your
  • 00:14:37.866 --> 00:14:40.035
  • Destiny. don't spend your life trying to change
  • 00:14:40.102 --> 00:14:41.236
  • Life trying to change people's minds, win them
  • 00:14:41.303 --> 00:14:42.838
  • People's minds, win them over, convince them to
  • 00:14:42.905 --> 00:14:44.606
  • Over, convince them to approve you. like naomi, you
  • 00:14:44.673 --> 00:14:47.543
  • Approve you. like naomi, you have to kiss them goodbye.
  • 00:14:47.609 --> 00:14:49.945
  • Have to kiss them goodbye. not bitter, “i'll show you,
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  • Not bitter, “i'll show you, i'll make you look bad.”
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  • I'll make you look bad.” leave it in god's hands. when
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  • Leave it in god's hands. when you're at peace with who
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  • You're at peace with who walked away, you're passing
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  • Walked away, you're passing the test. that's when you'll
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  • The test. that's when you'll see the new things god is
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  • See the new things god is doing.
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  • Doing. my parents went out and
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  • My parents went out and started lakewood on mother's
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  • Started lakewood on mother's day in 1959 with ninety
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  • Day in 1959 with ninety people. the critics said it
  • 00:15:09.198 --> 00:15:10.766
  • People. the critics said it would never last, but here we
  • 00:15:10.833 --> 00:15:12.368
  • Would never last, but here we are today, sixty-five years
  • 00:15:12.434 --> 00:15:14.036
  • Are today, sixty-five years later, and still going
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  • Later, and still going strong. the fact is my
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  • Strong. the fact is my parents couldn't have
  • 00:15:18.674 --> 00:15:19.675
  • Parents couldn't have fulfilled their destiny at
  • 00:15:19.742 --> 00:15:21.477
  • Fulfilled their destiny at that church. it was a limited
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  • That church. it was a limited environment. orpah had to
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  • Environment. orpah had to walk away. those people had
  • 00:15:26.181 --> 00:15:28.317
  • Walk away. those people had to misunderstand my parents.
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  • To misunderstand my parents. they had to reject them. it
  • 00:15:30.519 --> 00:15:32.321
  • They had to reject them. it was painful, but it was god
  • 00:15:32.388 --> 00:15:34.089
  • Was painful, but it was god closing the door. you're not
  • 00:15:34.156 --> 00:15:36.225
  • Closing the door. you're not always going to understand
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  • Always going to understand what god is doing, why this
  • 00:15:38.060 --> 00:15:40.329
  • What god is doing, why this person treated you this way.
  • 00:15:40.396 --> 00:15:42.231
  • Person treated you this way. you've been good to them, but
  • 00:15:42.297 --> 00:15:43.599
  • You've been good to them, but they left you out, and said
  • 00:15:43.665 --> 00:15:45.234
  • They left you out, and said things that weren't true.
  • 00:15:45.300 --> 00:15:46.835
  • Things that weren't true. leave it in god's hands.
  • 00:15:46.902 --> 00:15:48.971
  • Leave it in god's hands. don't spend all your energy
  • 00:15:49.038 --> 00:15:50.806
  • Don't spend all your energy trying to convince people to
  • 00:15:50.873 --> 00:15:52.141
  • Trying to convince people to stay that don't want to stay.
  • 00:15:52.207 --> 00:15:54.676
  • Stay that don't want to stay. some people no matter what
  • 00:15:54.743 --> 00:15:56.245
  • Some people no matter what you do, how hard you try, how
  • 00:15:56.311 --> 00:15:58.747
  • You do, how hard you try, how good you are to them, they're
  • 00:15:58.814 --> 00:16:00.482
  • Good you are to them, they're going to find fault,
  • 00:16:00.549 --> 00:16:01.950
  • Going to find fault, misunderstand, want to leave.
  • 00:16:02.017 --> 00:16:04.520
  • Misunderstand, want to leave. best thing you can do is let
  • 00:16:04.586 --> 00:16:06.088
  • Best thing you can do is let them go. there's something
  • 00:16:06.155 --> 00:16:08.157
  • Them go. there's something called the gift of goodbye.
  • 00:16:08.223 --> 00:16:11.026
  • Called the gift of goodbye. we see it as a disappointment
  • 00:16:11.093 --> 00:16:12.661
  • We see it as a disappointment but really, they're doing you
  • 00:16:12.728 --> 00:16:13.996
  • But really, they're doing you a favor. they had to leave so
  • 00:16:14.063 --> 00:16:16.565
  • A favor. they had to leave so you can see the greater
  • 00:16:16.632 --> 00:16:17.566
  • You can see the greater things, the levels you
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  • Things, the levels you couldn't reach with those
  • 00:16:19.268 --> 00:16:20.569
  • Couldn't reach with those same people. it doesn't mean
  • 00:16:20.636 --> 00:16:22.504
  • Same people. it doesn't mean they're bad, it's just a new
  • 00:16:22.571 --> 00:16:24.006
  • They're bad, it's just a new season. god is doing a new
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  • Season. god is doing a new thing so orpah has to go but
  • 00:16:26.308 --> 00:16:29.411
  • Thing so orpah has to go but ruth will always be there.
  • 00:16:29.478 --> 00:16:31.713
  • Ruth will always be there. god is controlling the doors
  • 00:16:31.780 --> 00:16:33.649
  • God is controlling the doors in your life. who comes in
  • 00:16:33.715 --> 00:16:35.384
  • In your life. who comes in and out of relationships.
  • 00:16:35.451 --> 00:16:38.720
  • And out of relationships. if ruth had walked away, said
  • 00:16:38.787 --> 00:16:40.756
  • If ruth had walked away, said like orpah, “i'm out of here.
  • 00:16:40.823 --> 00:16:43.025
  • Like orpah, “i'm out of here. i'm going to greener
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  • I'm going to greener pastures; i'm not staying
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  • Pastures; i'm not staying with this old woman.” if she
  • 00:16:45.260 --> 00:16:47.196
  • With this old woman.” if she had not stuck with naomi, she
  • 00:16:47.262 --> 00:16:49.598
  • Had not stuck with naomi, she would have never married boaz
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  • Would have never married boaz and become the great
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  • And become the great grandmother of king david.
  • 00:16:52.768 --> 00:16:55.437
  • Grandmother of king david. now we understand why she
  • 00:16:55.504 --> 00:16:57.506
  • Now we understand why she said, “i cannot leave.” not,
  • 00:16:57.573 --> 00:17:00.242
  • Said, “i cannot leave.” not, “maybe i'll come with you
  • 00:17:00.309 --> 00:17:01.243
  • “maybe i'll come with you naomi. or maybe i'll go home
  • 00:17:01.310 --> 00:17:03.345
  • Naomi. or maybe i'll go home for a few months and then
  • 00:17:03.412 --> 00:17:04.346
  • For a few months and then come back to see you.” the
  • 00:17:04.413 --> 00:17:05.747
  • Come back to see you.” the people god has ordained for
  • 00:17:05.814 --> 00:17:07.583
  • People god has ordained for you cannot walk away. listen
  • 00:17:07.649 --> 00:17:10.519
  • You cannot walk away. listen to ruth's language, “may the
  • 00:17:10.586 --> 00:17:11.887
  • To ruth's language, “may the lord punish me if i allow
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  • Lord punish me if i allow anything to separate us.” god
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  • Anything to separate us.” god will put such a strong desire
  • 00:17:17.192 --> 00:17:19.661
  • Will put such a strong desire in those who are supposed to
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  • In those who are supposed to stay that they can't leave.
  • 00:17:21.063 --> 00:17:23.799
  • Stay that they can't leave. now quit worrying about the
  • 00:17:23.866 --> 00:17:24.900
  • Now quit worrying about the orpah's, “why didn't they
  • 00:17:24.967 --> 00:17:26.168
  • Orpah's, “why didn't they stay?” or thinking you have
  • 00:17:26.235 --> 00:17:28.170
  • Stay?” or thinking you have to work harder, perform
  • 00:17:28.237 --> 00:17:30.005
  • To work harder, perform better, convince them to not
  • 00:17:30.072 --> 00:17:31.640
  • Better, convince them to not leave. that's not your job.
  • 00:17:31.707 --> 00:17:34.243
  • Leave. that's not your job. take the pressure off. you
  • 00:17:34.309 --> 00:17:35.711
  • Take the pressure off. you have a doorkeeper. a god who
  • 00:17:35.777 --> 00:17:38.147
  • Have a doorkeeper. a god who opens and closes doors. a god
  • 00:17:38.213 --> 00:17:40.916
  • Opens and closes doors. a god who moves people out on
  • 00:17:40.983 --> 00:17:42.518
  • Who moves people out on purpose, and a god who causes
  • 00:17:42.584 --> 00:17:44.786
  • Purpose, and a god who causes people to not be able to walk
  • 00:17:44.853 --> 00:17:46.922
  • People to not be able to walk away. your part, my part, is
  • 00:17:46.989 --> 00:17:49.925
  • Away. your part, my part, is to honor god. treat people
  • 00:17:49.992 --> 00:17:52.194
  • To honor god. treat people with respect. be kind, be
  • 00:17:52.261 --> 00:17:54.663
  • With respect. be kind, be loving but you don't have to
  • 00:17:54.730 --> 00:17:56.965
  • Loving but you don't have to beg people to stay. you don't
  • 00:17:57.032 --> 00:17:59.434
  • Beg people to stay. you don't have to play up to that
  • 00:17:59.501 --> 00:18:00.636
  • Have to play up to that friend, hoping they'll give
  • 00:18:00.702 --> 00:18:02.571
  • Friend, hoping they'll give you the time of day. let that
  • 00:18:02.638 --> 00:18:04.940
  • You the time of day. let that coworker manipulate, talk
  • 00:18:05.007 --> 00:18:07.142
  • Coworker manipulate, talk down, belittle you. if not,
  • 00:18:07.209 --> 00:18:08.844
  • Down, belittle you. if not, they won't accept you. you
  • 00:18:08.911 --> 00:18:10.612
  • They won't accept you. you don't need them. the sooner
  • 00:18:10.679 --> 00:18:12.848
  • Don't need them. the sooner you let them walk away, the
  • 00:18:12.915 --> 00:18:14.583
  • You let them walk away, the better off you're gonna be.
  • 00:18:14.650 --> 00:18:16.718
  • Better off you're gonna be. i'm not saying be mean and
  • 00:18:16.785 --> 00:18:18.220
  • I'm not saying be mean and rude and treat them the same
  • 00:18:18.287 --> 00:18:19.955
  • Rude and treat them the same way, i'm just saying, quit
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  • Way, i'm just saying, quit depending on them for your
  • 00:18:22.224 --> 00:18:23.425
  • Depending on them for your value. thinking you have to
  • 00:18:23.492 --> 00:18:25.761
  • Value. thinking you have to have them to reach your
  • 00:18:25.827 --> 00:18:26.828
  • Have them to reach your destiny. you don't need them
  • 00:18:26.895 --> 00:18:28.997
  • Destiny. you don't need them to feel good about who you
  • 00:18:29.064 --> 00:18:30.199
  • To feel good about who you are. let them walk away and
  • 00:18:30.265 --> 00:18:32.868
  • Are. let them walk away and god will bring people into
  • 00:18:32.935 --> 00:18:34.269
  • God will bring people into your life that see you as a
  • 00:18:34.336 --> 00:18:35.971
  • Your life that see you as a masterpiece, people that
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  • Masterpiece, people that celebrate who you are, that
  • 00:18:37.906 --> 00:18:39.841
  • Celebrate who you are, that love spending time with you.
  • 00:18:39.908 --> 00:18:42.144
  • Love spending time with you. i know when someone leaves,
  • 00:18:42.211 --> 00:18:43.445
  • I know when someone leaves, it's hard. to be looked down
  • 00:18:43.512 --> 00:18:45.314
  • It's hard. to be looked down on, betrayed, rejected. but
  • 00:18:45.380 --> 00:18:48.517
  • On, betrayed, rejected. but what if you knew, like my
  • 00:18:48.584 --> 00:18:49.985
  • What if you knew, like my parents, that it had to
  • 00:18:50.052 --> 00:18:51.720
  • Parents, that it had to happen, so you could see your
  • 00:18:51.787 --> 00:18:53.689
  • Happen, so you could see your lakewood. what if you knew
  • 00:18:53.755 --> 00:18:55.824
  • Lakewood. what if you knew god closing the door was to
  • 00:18:55.891 --> 00:18:58.427
  • God closing the door was to take you to greater levels.
  • 00:18:58.493 --> 00:19:00.596
  • Take you to greater levels. it was a disappointment, but
  • 00:19:00.662 --> 00:19:02.364
  • It was a disappointment, but in fact, them walking away
  • 00:19:02.431 --> 00:19:04.533
  • In fact, them walking away is a present. they gave you
  • 00:19:04.600 --> 00:19:06.635
  • Is a present. they gave you the gift of goodbye.
  • 00:19:06.702 --> 00:19:08.704
  • The gift of goodbye. it's very freeing when you
  • 00:19:08.770 --> 00:19:09.972
  • It's very freeing when you realize god is your
  • 00:19:10.038 --> 00:19:11.440
  • Realize god is your doorkeeper. he's going to
  • 00:19:11.506 --> 00:19:13.408
  • Doorkeeper. he's going to have the right people for
  • 00:19:13.475 --> 00:19:15.244
  • Have the right people for each season of your life. it
  • 00:19:15.310 --> 00:19:17.346
  • Each season of your life. it may not be who it's always
  • 00:19:17.412 --> 00:19:18.880
  • May not be who it's always been. i don't mean your
  • 00:19:18.947 --> 00:19:20.382
  • Been. i don't mean your spouse, your children;
  • 00:19:20.449 --> 00:19:21.350
  • Spouse, your children; they're with you. i'm talking
  • 00:19:21.416 --> 00:19:22.451
  • They're with you. i'm talking about friends, coworkers,
  • 00:19:22.517 --> 00:19:24.353
  • About friends, coworkers, people you grew up with. some
  • 00:19:24.419 --> 00:19:26.989
  • People you grew up with. some are long term, but some may
  • 00:19:27.055 --> 00:19:29.024
  • Are long term, but some may walk away. you have to be at
  • 00:19:29.091 --> 00:19:31.360
  • Walk away. you have to be at peace with who leaves. some
  • 00:19:31.426 --> 00:19:33.462
  • Peace with who leaves. some people have been playing up
  • 00:19:33.528 --> 00:19:34.963
  • People have been playing up to people for years, letting
  • 00:19:35.030 --> 00:19:36.965
  • To people for years, letting them control them,
  • 00:19:37.032 --> 00:19:38.300
  • Them control them, manipulate, live under so
  • 00:19:38.367 --> 00:19:40.369
  • Manipulate, live under so much pressure. all because
  • 00:19:40.435 --> 00:19:42.604
  • Much pressure. all because they're afraid, if they don't
  • 00:19:42.671 --> 00:19:44.172
  • They're afraid, if they don't perform, this person may
  • 00:19:44.239 --> 00:19:45.540
  • Perform, this person may leave, may not call, may not
  • 00:19:45.607 --> 00:19:47.609
  • Leave, may not call, may not approve. this can save you a
  • 00:19:47.676 --> 00:19:49.678
  • Approve. this can save you a lot of heartache. let them
  • 00:19:49.745 --> 00:19:51.546
  • Lot of heartache. let them walk. if they don't want to
  • 00:19:51.613 --> 00:19:53.181
  • Walk. if they don't want to be your friend, it's their
  • 00:19:53.248 --> 00:19:54.683
  • Be your friend, it's their loss, not yours. if they
  • 00:19:54.750 --> 00:19:56.718
  • Loss, not yours. if they don't call, shake the dust
  • 00:19:56.785 --> 00:19:58.186
  • Don't call, shake the dust off and move on. if they
  • 00:19:58.253 --> 00:20:00.155
  • Off and move on. if they ghost you, take it as the
  • 00:20:00.222 --> 00:20:01.556
  • Ghost you, take it as the holy ghost shutting that
  • 00:20:01.623 --> 00:20:02.758
  • Holy ghost shutting that door, keeping you from that
  • 00:20:02.824 --> 00:20:04.559
  • Door, keeping you from that jerk, i mean that person.
  • 00:20:04.626 --> 00:20:05.861
  • Jerk, i mean that person. a few years after my father
  • 00:20:05.927 --> 00:20:08.196
  • A few years after my father passed, the church was really
  • 00:20:08.263 --> 00:20:09.998
  • Passed, the church was really growing. we needed a larger
  • 00:20:10.065 --> 00:20:11.900
  • Growing. we needed a larger auditorium. my father always
  • 00:20:11.967 --> 00:20:14.269
  • Auditorium. my father always said that he would never move
  • 00:20:14.336 --> 00:20:15.804
  • Said that he would never move the church. i was young. i
  • 00:20:15.871 --> 00:20:18.273
  • The church. i was young. i didn't want to rock the boat,
  • 00:20:18.340 --> 00:20:19.441
  • Didn't want to rock the boat, but when we got word that the
  • 00:20:19.508 --> 00:20:21.276
  • But when we got word that the compaq center became
  • 00:20:21.343 --> 00:20:22.744
  • Compaq center became available, i knew it was
  • 00:20:22.811 --> 00:20:24.279
  • Available, i knew it was supposed to be ours. i didn't
  • 00:20:24.346 --> 00:20:26.448
  • Supposed to be ours. i didn't announce it, but it came out
  • 00:20:26.515 --> 00:20:28.250
  • Announce it, but it came out in the news. ninety-nine
  • 00:20:28.317 --> 00:20:30.319
  • In the news. ninety-nine percent of the congregation
  • 00:20:30.385 --> 00:20:31.753
  • Percent of the congregation was completely for it.
  • 00:20:31.820 --> 00:20:33.355
  • Was completely for it. everyone was so excited. but
  • 00:20:33.422 --> 00:20:35.590
  • Everyone was so excited. but there was this one man, he
  • 00:20:35.657 --> 00:20:37.626
  • There was this one man, he would find me after every
  • 00:20:37.693 --> 00:20:38.994
  • Would find me after every service, “joel, you know,
  • 00:20:39.061 --> 00:20:41.596
  • Service, “joel, you know, your dad said he wouldn't
  • 00:20:41.663 --> 00:20:42.731
  • Your dad said he wouldn't move the church. it's not
  • 00:20:42.798 --> 00:20:44.433
  • Move the church. it's not right to go to that other
  • 00:20:44.499 --> 00:20:45.400
  • Right to go to that other location. and if you go, i'm
  • 00:20:45.467 --> 00:20:47.903
  • Location. and if you go, i'm not going to come.” my
  • 00:20:47.969 --> 00:20:50.205
  • Not going to come.” my personality is to want
  • 00:20:50.272 --> 00:20:52.407
  • Personality is to want everybody to be for it. “well
  • 00:20:52.474 --> 00:20:54.142
  • Everybody to be for it. “well let's just pray, let's just
  • 00:20:54.209 --> 00:20:55.477
  • Let's just pray, let's just wait; let's just see what
  • 00:20:55.544 --> 00:20:56.678
  • Wait; let's just see what happens.” hoping to change
  • 00:20:56.745 --> 00:20:58.513
  • Happens.” hoping to change his mind, convince him to get
  • 00:20:58.580 --> 00:21:00.315
  • His mind, convince him to get on board. but after about the
  • 00:21:00.382 --> 00:21:02.517
  • On board. but after about the fortieth time of him telling
  • 00:21:02.584 --> 00:21:04.953
  • Fortieth time of him telling me it wasn't right and he
  • 00:21:05.020 --> 00:21:06.621
  • Me it wasn't right and he wasn't going to come,
  • 00:21:06.688 --> 00:21:07.889
  • Wasn't going to come, something shifted in my
  • 00:21:07.956 --> 00:21:09.157
  • Something shifted in my spirit. i didn't say it, but
  • 00:21:09.224 --> 00:21:11.326
  • Spirit. i didn't say it, but i thought to myself. “i hope
  • 00:21:11.393 --> 00:21:12.994
  • I thought to myself. “i hope you don't come. in fact,
  • 00:21:13.061 --> 00:21:15.330
  • You don't come. in fact, you're not even invited.” a
  • 00:21:15.397 --> 00:21:18.433
  • You're not even invited.” a stronghold was broken in my
  • 00:21:18.500 --> 00:21:20.469
  • Stronghold was broken in my mind, thinking that if he
  • 00:21:20.535 --> 00:21:22.704
  • Mind, thinking that if he leaves, the world is going to
  • 00:21:22.771 --> 00:21:24.172
  • Leaves, the world is going to fall apart. you can't
  • 00:21:24.239 --> 00:21:26.241
  • Fall apart. you can't accomplish your dreams
  • 00:21:26.308 --> 00:21:28.110
  • Accomplish your dreams worried about who's going to
  • 00:21:28.176 --> 00:21:29.077
  • Worried about who's going to walk away. who's going to
  • 00:21:29.144 --> 00:21:30.746
  • Walk away. who's going to accept you. “i've got to
  • 00:21:30.812 --> 00:21:31.680
  • Accept you. “i've got to perform, and play up to them,
  • 00:21:31.747 --> 00:21:33.281
  • Perform, and play up to them, make them like me.” that's no
  • 00:21:33.348 --> 00:21:35.050
  • Make them like me.” that's no way to live. some people
  • 00:21:35.117 --> 00:21:37.085
  • Way to live. some people can't go where god is taking
  • 00:21:37.152 --> 00:21:39.087
  • Can't go where god is taking you. they're good people.
  • 00:21:39.154 --> 00:21:41.223
  • You. they're good people. they were great for a season,
  • 00:21:41.289 --> 00:21:42.958
  • They were great for a season, but god has ordained you to
  • 00:21:43.024 --> 00:21:44.326
  • But god has ordained you to go higher. it's going to take
  • 00:21:44.393 --> 00:21:46.328
  • Go higher. it's going to take greater commitment, greater
  • 00:21:46.395 --> 00:21:47.763
  • Greater commitment, greater faith, greater consecration.
  • 00:21:47.829 --> 00:21:50.065
  • Faith, greater consecration. so, he'll remove certain
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  • So, he'll remove certain people that would limit you,
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  • People that would limit you, so you can fulfill your
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  • So you can fulfill your purpose.
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  • Purpose. in john 6, jesus was teaching
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  • In john 6, jesus was teaching his disciples about
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  • His disciples about commitment and what it meant
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  • Commitment and what it meant to be a follower of christ.
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  • To be a follower of christ. some of them didn't
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  • Some of them didn't understand. verse 66 says,
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  • Understand. verse 66 says, “at that point, many of his
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  • “at that point, many of his disciples turned away and
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  • Disciples turned away and deserted him.” here jesus had
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  • Deserted him.” here jesus had given his life for them. they
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  • Given his life for them. they had seen him do great
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  • Had seen him do great miracles, traveled with him,
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  • Miracles, traveled with him, eaten together, laughed
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  • Eaten together, laughed together, but they walked
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  • Together, but they walked away. jesus looked at the
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  • Away. jesus looked at the twelve disciples and said,
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  • Twelve disciples and said, “are you going to leave too?
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  • “are you going to leave too? peter said, “jesus, where
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  • Peter said, “jesus, where would we go. you have eternal
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  • Would we go. you have eternal life. we believe you are the
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  • Life. we believe you are the son of god.” he couldn't get
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  • Son of god.” he couldn't get rid of the twelve. but what's
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  • Rid of the twelve. but what's interesting is you never read
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  • Interesting is you never read where jesus went chasing
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  • Where jesus went chasing after the many disciples that
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  • After the many disciples that left that day. he chased
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  • Left that day. he chased after that one lost sheep
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  • After that one lost sheep that got off course. but he
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  • That got off course. but he didn't go chasing after
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  • Didn't go chasing after people that didn't want to
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  • People that didn't want to stay.
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  • Stay. your destiny is not tied to
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  • Your destiny is not tied to those that left you. god
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  • Those that left you. god doesn't need anything you
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  • Doesn't need anything you lost to bless you. those that
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  • Lost to bless you. those that walked away, that didn't
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  • Walked away, that didn't understand, that betrayed,
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  • Understand, that betrayed, they didn't stop what god has
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  • They didn't stop what god has for you. let it go. quit
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  • For you. let it go. quit dwelling on it, reliving the
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  • Dwelling on it, reliving the hurt, hoping that you can pay
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  • Hurt, hoping that you can pay them back, or hoping to
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  • Them back, or hoping to change their mind. god closed
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  • Change their mind. god closed that door. i'm asking you to
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  • That door. i'm asking you to be at peace with those that
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  • Be at peace with those that have walked away. quit trying
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  • Have walked away. quit trying to hold on to people that
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  • To hold on to people that don't want to be there.
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  • Don't want to be there. you're not supposed to chase
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  • You're not supposed to chase people to love you, and
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  • People to love you, and accept you, and believe in
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  • Accept you, and believe in you. you don't need them.
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  • You. you don't need them. this takes the pressure off.
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  • This takes the pressure off. no more striving and
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  • No more striving and straining, trying to convince
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  • Straining, trying to convince people to be for you. that's
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  • People to be for you. that's laboring in vain. trust god
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  • Laboring in vain. trust god to be your doorkeeper. trust
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  • To be your doorkeeper. trust him with your relationships.
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  • Him with your relationships. if you'll do this, i believe
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  • If you'll do this, i believe and declare, god will bring
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  • And declare, god will bring you divine connections, the
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  • You divine connections, the right people for every
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  • Right people for every season. orpah may have left,
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  • Season. orpah may have left, but god has some ruth's
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  • But god has some ruth's coming for you, people that
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  • Coming for you, people that cannot leave, in jesus' name.
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  • Cannot leave, in jesus' name. if you receive it, can you
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  • If you receive it, can you say amen? (applause)
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