Joel Osteen - Living Joyful

June 23, 2026 | 27:29

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Living Joyful | June 23, 2026
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  • [congregation applauding] >> joel osteen: well, god
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  • >> joel osteen: well, god bless you.
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  • Bless you. it's a joy to come into your
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  • It's a joy to come into your homes and, if you're ever in
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  • Homes and, if you're ever in our area, please stop by and
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  • Our area, please stop by and be a part of one of our
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  • Be a part of one of our services.
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  • Services. i promise you, we'll make you
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  • I promise you, we'll make you feel right at home.
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  • Feel right at home. and i like to start with
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  • And i like to start with something funny and heard
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  • Something funny and heard about this man.
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  • About this man. he was walking up to a
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  • He was walking up to a country store and there was
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  • Country store and there was this little boy sitting on
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  • This little boy sitting on the front porch with a huge
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  • The front porch with a huge dog next to him.
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  • Dog next to him. he said, "son, does your dog
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  • He said, "son, does your dog bite?"
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  • Bite?" the boy said, "no, sir.
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  • The boy said, "no, sir. my dog doesn't bite."
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  • My dog doesn't bite." the man reached out to pet
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  • The man reached out to pet him.
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  • Him. the dog took about half of
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  • The dog took about half of his arm off.
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  • His arm off. he said, "son, i thought you
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  • He said, "son, i thought you said your dog didn't bite?"
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  • Said your dog didn't bite?" the little boy said, "that's
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  • The little boy said, "that's not my dog."
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  • Not my dog." say it like you mean it.
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  • Say it like you mean it. "this is my bible.
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  • "this is my bible. i am what it says i am.
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  • I am what it says i am. i have what it says i have.
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  • I have what it says i have. i can do what it says i can
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  • I can do what it says i can do.
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  • Do. today i will be taught the
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  • Today i will be taught the word of god.
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  • Word of god. i boldly confess my mind is
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  • I boldly confess my mind is alert, my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert, my heart is receptive. i will never be the same, in
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  • I will never be the same, in jesus' name."
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  • Jesus' name." god bless you.
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  • God bless you. i wanna talk to you today
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  • I wanna talk to you today about "living joyful."
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  • About "living joyful." it's easy to let the
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  • It's easy to let the pressures of life weigh us
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  • Pressures of life weigh us down.
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  • Down. we have traffic to deal with,
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  • We have traffic to deal with, bills to pay, people that are
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  • Bills to pay, people that are rude.
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  • Rude. if we're not careful, we'll
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  • If we're not careful, we'll look up and we don't smile as
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  • Look up and we don't smile as much, we're not as friendly.
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  • Much, we're not as friendly. we never laugh.
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  • We never laugh. never have fun anymore.
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  • Never have fun anymore. we have too much pressure,
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  • We have too much pressure, too much responsibility, to
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  • Too much responsibility, to enjoy life.
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  • Enjoy life. but god didn't create you to
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  • But god didn't create you to live with a heaviness.
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  • Live with a heaviness. you're not supposed to go
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  • You're not supposed to go around solemn, serious all
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  • Around solemn, serious all the time, burdened down by
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  • The time, burdened down by problems.
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  • Problems. taking time to laugh, to have
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  • Taking time to laugh, to have fun, that re-energizes you.
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  • Fun, that re-energizes you. it helps keep you in balance.
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  • It helps keep you in balance. if it's all work, all stress,
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  • If it's all work, all stress, all dealing with problems,
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  • All dealing with problems, that's going to weigh you
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  • That's going to weigh you down.
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  • Down. and you can get so busy
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  • And you can get so busy raising your children,
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  • Raising your children, changing diapers, getting
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  • Changing diapers, getting them to school, making sure
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  • Them to school, making sure their homework is done, that
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  • Their homework is done, that you don't enjoy your
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  • You don't enjoy your children.
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  • Children. it's all work.
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  • It's all work. no time for play.
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  • No time for play. and sometimes, we think we
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  • And sometimes, we think we have to be serious to show
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  • Have to be serious to show that we're responsible.
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  • That we're responsible. but you can be responsible
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  • But you can be responsible and good natured at the same
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  • And good natured at the same time.
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  • Time. god created you with a sense
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  • God created you with a sense of humor.
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  • Of humor. you were made to laugh, made
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  • You were made to laugh, made to have fun.
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  • To have fun. have you let the pressures of
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  • Have you let the pressures of life weigh you down?
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  • Life weigh you down? are you always solemn, always
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  • Are you always solemn, always serious?
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  • Serious? if you don't make this
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  • If you don't make this adjustment, not only will you
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  • Adjustment, not only will you not enjoy your life to the
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  • Not enjoy your life to the full, but you won't have good
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  • Full, but you won't have good relationships.
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  • Relationships. nobody wants to be around a
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  • Nobody wants to be around a grumpy sour person.
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  • Grumpy sour person. that pushes people away.
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  • That pushes people away. and we represent christ here
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  • And we represent christ here on this earth.
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  • On this earth. if you're a believer, you
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  • If you're a believer, you need to notify your face.
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  • Need to notify your face. put a smile on, be good
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  • Put a smile on, be good natured, be friendly.
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  • Natured, be friendly. learn to laugh.
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  • Learn to laugh. the scripture says: "a merry
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  • The scripture says: "a merry heart is like taking a good
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  • Heart is like taking a good medicine."
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  • Medicine." every day you need to take
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  • Every day you need to take your medicine.
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  • Your medicine. find something that makes you
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  • Find something that makes you laugh.
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  • Laugh. see the humor in life.
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  • See the humor in life. it's one thing i love about
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  • It's one thing i love about victoria.
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  • Victoria. she laughs all through the
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  • She laughs all through the day.
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  • Day. i can be in another part of
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  • I can be in another part of the house and i'll hear her
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  • The house and i'll hear her laughing.
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  • Laughing. it echoes through the whole
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  • It echoes through the whole house.
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  • House. sometimes i'll go in to find
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  • Sometimes i'll go in to find out what it was.
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  • Out what it was. it wasn't even funny.
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  • It wasn't even funny. it was just something small,
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  • It was just something small, most people would have
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  • Most people would have ignored it.
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  • Ignored it. not victoria.
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  • Not victoria. she's looking for
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  • She's looking for opportunities to laugh.
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  • Opportunities to laugh. she loves to have fun.
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  • She loves to have fun. she keeps a joyful atmosphere
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  • She keeps a joyful atmosphere in our home.
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  • In our home. a while back, we were
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  • A while back, we were standing on the front row
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  • Standing on the front row during worship.
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  • During worship. i had my eyes closed, my
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  • I had my eyes closed, my hands folded, thinking about
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  • Hands folded, thinking about what i was going to say next.
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  • What i was going to say next. and victoria is much more
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  • And victoria is much more outgoing.
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  • Outgoing. she had both hands in the
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  • She had both hands in the air, very expressive.
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  • Air, very expressive. and all of the sudden, as i
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  • And all of the sudden, as i was contemplating, in deep
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  • Was contemplating, in deep thought, victoria threw her
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  • Thought, victoria threw her hip into mine and about
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  • Hip into mine and about knocked me over.
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  • Knocked me over. i looked at her.
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  • I looked at her. she said, "c'mon, stiffie.
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  • She said, "c'mon, stiffie. lighten up."
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  • Lighten up." she calls me stiff.
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  • She calls me stiff. i tell her the right word is
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  • I tell her the right word is dignified.
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  • Dignified. a few years ago, i was
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  • A few years ago, i was preparing a message along
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  • Preparing a message along these lines and victoria came
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  • These lines and victoria came in my office at home and
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  • In my office at home and asked me what i was gonna
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  • Asked me what i was gonna speak on that week.
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  • Speak on that week. i said, "i'm going to speak
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  • I said, "i'm going to speak on staying full of joy and
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  • On staying full of joy and seeing the humor in life."
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  • Seeing the humor in life." she put both hands in the air
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  • She put both hands in the air and said, "woo-hoo, i don't
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  • And said, "woo-hoo, i don't need that but you sure do."
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  • Need that but you sure do." we've been married
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  • We've been married going on 30 years now
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  • Going on 30 years now and people ask me--
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  • And people ask me-- [congregation laughing]
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  • [congregation laughing] they're clapping for me,
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  • They're clapping for me, victoria.
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  • Victoria. people ask me--people ask me
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  • People ask me--people ask me all the time what is the
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  • All the time what is the secret of a good marriage?
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  • Secret of a good marriage? i always tell them: "treat
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  • I always tell them: "treat each other with respect and
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  • Each other with respect and keep laughter in the
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  • Keep laughter in the relationship."
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  • Relationship." the family that laughs
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  • The family that laughs together will stay together.
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  • Together will stay together. but too often, we used to
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  • But too often, we used to laugh when we were dating.
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  • Laugh when we were dating. we used to have fun.
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  • We used to have fun. we used to enjoy each other.
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  • We used to enjoy each other. but now, we've let the
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  • But now, we've let the pressures of life cause us to
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  • Pressures of life cause us to become more solemn.
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  • Become more solemn. we don't have time to laugh,
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  • We don't have time to laugh, we have bills to pay, we have
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  • We have bills to pay, we have children to raise.
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  • Children to raise. we're dealing with problems.
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  • We're dealing with problems. we don't see eye to eye on
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  • We don't see eye to eye on every situation.
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  • Every situation. but the joy is what's going
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  • But the joy is what's going to help you get through the
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  • To help you get through the tough times.
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  • Tough times. laughing together, having
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  • Laughing together, having fun, that's going to help
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  • Fun, that's going to help keep you together.
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  • Keep you together. i know a couple that was
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  • I know a couple that was having difficulties in their
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  • Having difficulties in their marriage.
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  • Marriage. they're good people.
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  • They're good people. they just let the pressures
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  • They just let the pressures that come with everyday life
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  • That come with everyday life drive them apart.
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  • Drive them apart. and they were about to
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  • And they were about to separate but they decided to
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  • Separate but they decided to try something for a few
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  • Try something for a few months.
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  • Months. and once a week, they rented
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  • And once a week, they rented a funny movie and watched it
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  • A funny movie and watched it together.
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  • Together. they would sit there and
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  • They would sit there and laugh and laugh.
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  • Laugh and laugh. and they told how that one
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  • And they told how that one simple thing helped change
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  • Simple thing helped change their perspective, it helped
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  • Their perspective, it helped heal the wounds.
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  • Heal the wounds. they fell back in love.
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  • They fell back in love. today, they're happily
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  • Today, they're happily married.
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  • Married. maybe you would see your
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  • Maybe you would see your relationship go to a new
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  • Relationship go to a new level if you would get more
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  • Level if you would get more joy in the home.
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  • Joy in the home. living with pressure, stress,
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  • Living with pressure, stress, tension, division, that's
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  • Tension, division, that's going to drive you apart.
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  • Going to drive you apart. if you'll take time to laugh
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  • If you'll take time to laugh again, have fun together,
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  • Again, have fun together, enjoy each other, that's
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  • Enjoy each other, that's going to breathe new life,
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  • Going to breathe new life, freshness, into your
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  • Freshness, into your relationship.
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  • Relationship. how long has it been since
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  • How long has it been since there was laughter in your
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  • There was laughter in your home?
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  • Home? the enemy can't stand to hear
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  • The enemy can't stand to hear you laugh.
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  • You laugh. he can't stand to hear you
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  • He can't stand to hear you having fun, laughing with
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  • Having fun, laughing with your children, laughing with
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  • Your children, laughing with your spouse, enjoying each
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  • Your spouse, enjoying each other.
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  • Other. he wants there to be tension,
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  • He wants there to be tension, pressure, strife.
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  • Pressure, strife. why don't you get on the
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  • Why don't you get on the offensive and start laughing
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  • Offensive and start laughing more often?
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  • More often? laughter is spiritual
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  • Laughter is spiritual warfare.
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  • Warfare. laughter brings down walls.
  • 00:07:04.580 --> 00:07:06.849
  • Laughter brings down walls. laughter will help your
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  • Laughter will help your family stay together.
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  • Family stay together. and yes, we all have to deal
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  • And yes, we all have to deal with tension and stress but
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  • With tension and stress but you need to create a joyful
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  • You need to create a joyful atmosphere in your home.
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  • Atmosphere in your home. don't bring in pressures from
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  • Don't bring in pressures from work, stress from school,
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  • Work, stress from school, offense from what somebody
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  • Offense from what somebody said.
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  • Said. your home needs to be a
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  • Your home needs to be a retreat from the negative
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  • Things you have to deal with
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  • Things you have to deal with during the day.
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  • During the day. i heard about this man.
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  • I heard about this man. he had a tree in a pot next
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  • He had a tree in a pot next to his back door at home.
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  • To his back door at home. he was walking into the house
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  • He was walking into the house with a friend.
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  • With a friend. he stopped and he touched the
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  • He stopped and he touched the tree.
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  • Tree. his friend asked him what he
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  • His friend asked him what he was doing.
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  • Was doing. he said, "this is my trouble
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  • He said, "this is my trouble tree.
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  • Tree. i leave all my troubles on
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  • I leave all my troubles on this plant.
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  • This plant. i don't take any worry
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  • I don't take any worry inside.
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  • Inside. i don't take any problems,
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  • I don't take any problems, any disappointments, any
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  • Any disappointments, any offense.
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  • Offense. i leave it at the door."
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  • I leave it at the door." we all need a trouble tree.
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  • We all need a trouble tree. your home should be a
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  • Your home should be a cheerful place.
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  • Cheerful place. if you're bringing in stress
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  • If you're bringing in stress and pressure and strife,
  • 00:08:07.977 --> 00:08:09.645
  • And pressure and strife, that's going to weigh you
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  • That's going to weigh you down.
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  • Down. leave the negative outside.
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  • Leave the negative outside. keep a joyful atmosphere in
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  • Keep a joyful atmosphere in your home.
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  • Your home. there was a hospital that did
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  • There was a hospital that did an experiment with patients
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  • An experiment with patients that had been sick for a long
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  • That had been sick for a long time and they weren't getting
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  • Time and they weren't getting well.
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  • Well. they started taking them out
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  • They started taking them out to the park several hours a
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  • To the park several hours a day to watch the children
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  • Day to watch the children playing.
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  • Playing. they discovered when they
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  • They discovered when they heard the children laughing
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  • Heard the children laughing over and over, the sound of
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  • Over and over, the sound of laughter stimulated the
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  • Laughter stimulated the body's natural healing
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  • Body's natural healing process.
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  • Process. it not only affected the
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  • It not only affected the patient's outlook but
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  • Patient's outlook but research showed, they'd begin
  • 00:08:45.414 --> 00:08:47.216
  • Research showed, they'd begin to recover faster.
  • 00:08:47.283 --> 00:08:49.819
  • To recover faster. just hearing other people
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  • Just hearing other people laugh, helped bring healing.
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  • Laugh, helped bring healing. imagine what happens on the
  • 00:08:54.390 --> 00:08:55.725
  • Imagine what happens on the inside of us when we live
  • 00:08:55.791 --> 00:08:57.326
  • Inside of us when we live joyfully, we take time to
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  • Joyfully, we take time to laugh every day.
  • 00:08:59.662 --> 00:09:01.764
  • Laugh every day. it not only affects us
  • 00:09:01.831 --> 00:09:02.832
  • It not only affects us mentally--our attitude, our
  • 00:09:02.898 --> 00:09:04.934
  • Mentally--our attitude, our moods--it affects us
  • 00:09:05.001 --> 00:09:06.035
  • Moods--it affects us physically.
  • 00:09:06.102 --> 00:09:07.770
  • Physically. laughter will help you stay
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  • Laughter will help you stay younger.
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  • Younger. every time you laugh, what's
  • 00:09:10.640 --> 00:09:12.041
  • Every time you laugh, what's known as the youth hormone
  • 00:09:12.108 --> 00:09:14.610
  • Known as the youth hormone increases 87%.
  • 00:09:14.677 --> 00:09:17.213
  • Increases 87%. that's the hormone that slows
  • 00:09:17.279 --> 00:09:18.814
  • That's the hormone that slows down the aging process, helps
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  • Down the aging process, helps you stay younger and fresher.
  • 00:09:21.150 --> 00:09:23.953
  • You stay younger and fresher. you've seen people that have
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  • You've seen people that have been through a difficult time
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  • Been through a difficult time in life.
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  • In life. they were under stress and
  • 00:09:27.990 --> 00:09:28.991
  • They were under stress and pressure.
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  • Pressure. you see them 2 years later.
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  • You see them 2 years later. it looks like they've aged 20
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  • It looks like they've aged 20 years.
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  • Years. why is that?
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  • Why is that? when we don't laugh, we're
  • 00:09:36.198 --> 00:09:37.466
  • When we don't laugh, we're not releasing the healing
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  • Not releasing the healing that god put on the inside.
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  • That god put on the inside. when we live stressed,
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  • When we live stressed, somber, discouraged, those
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  • Somber, discouraged, those chemicals god designed to
  • 00:09:45.107 --> 00:09:47.309
  • Chemicals god designed to keep us younger are sitting
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  • Keep us younger are sitting there inactive, ineffective.
  • 00:09:49.045 --> 00:09:52.081
  • There inactive, ineffective. "well, joel, that's just not
  • 00:09:52.148 --> 00:09:53.249
  • "well, joel, that's just not my personality.
  • 00:09:53.315 --> 00:09:54.850
  • My personality. i'm a more solemn, serious
  • 00:09:54.917 --> 00:09:56.285
  • I'm a more solemn, serious person."
  • 00:09:56.352 --> 00:09:57.787
  • Person." i realize god made us all
  • 00:09:57.853 --> 00:09:59.121
  • I realize god made us all different.
  • 00:09:59.188 --> 00:10:00.356
  • Different. my earliest baby pictures,
  • 00:10:00.423 --> 00:10:01.557
  • My earliest baby pictures, i'm smiling from ear to ear.
  • 00:10:01.624 --> 00:10:03.659
  • I'm smiling from ear to ear. we have different demeanors
  • 00:10:03.726 --> 00:10:05.327
  • We have different demeanors but most of the time what's
  • 00:10:05.394 --> 00:10:06.595
  • But most of the time what's happened is we've forgotten
  • 00:10:06.662 --> 00:10:08.397
  • Happened is we've forgotten how to laugh.
  • 00:10:08.464 --> 00:10:10.166
  • How to laugh. the average child laughs 150
  • 00:10:10.232 --> 00:10:12.868
  • The average child laughs 150 times a day.
  • 00:10:12.935 --> 00:10:14.570
  • Times a day. the average adult laughs
  • 00:10:14.637 --> 00:10:16.038
  • The average adult laughs three times a day.
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  • Three times a day. and some people haven't
  • 00:10:18.107 --> 00:10:19.041
  • And some people haven't laughed in so long their
  • 00:10:19.108 --> 00:10:20.643
  • Laughed in so long their laughter has gotten rusty.
  • 00:10:20.710 --> 00:10:22.845
  • Laughter has gotten rusty. and you need to get that
  • 00:10:22.912 --> 00:10:23.779
  • And you need to get that thing out, dust it off.
  • 00:10:23.846 --> 00:10:25.047
  • Thing out, dust it off. every day, find some reason
  • 00:10:25.114 --> 00:10:26.816
  • Every day, find some reason to laugh.
  • 00:10:26.882 --> 00:10:28.150
  • To laugh. start taking your medicine.
  • 00:10:28.217 --> 00:10:30.753
  • Start taking your medicine. i read where a common
  • 00:10:30.820 --> 00:10:31.921
  • I read where a common ingredient in people that
  • 00:10:31.987 --> 00:10:33.389
  • Ingredient in people that live way up into their 90s
  • 00:10:33.456 --> 00:10:35.491
  • Live way up into their 90s wasn't their diet, wasn't
  • 00:10:35.558 --> 00:10:36.992
  • Wasn't their diet, wasn't their exercise routine.
  • 00:10:37.059 --> 00:10:38.828
  • Their exercise routine. it was the fact that they are
  • 00:10:38.894 --> 00:10:40.429
  • It was the fact that they are extremely joyful people.
  • 00:10:40.496 --> 00:10:43.365
  • Extremely joyful people. they never forgot how to
  • 00:10:43.432 --> 00:10:44.366
  • They never forgot how to laugh.
  • 00:10:44.433 --> 00:10:45.267
  • Laugh. they don't take everything so
  • 00:10:45.334 --> 00:10:46.435
  • They don't take everything so seriously.
  • 00:10:46.502 --> 00:10:48.604
  • Seriously. i met a man after the service
  • 00:10:48.671 --> 00:10:50.372
  • I met a man after the service a few years ago that was 106
  • 00:10:50.439 --> 00:10:53.209
  • A few years ago that was 106 years old.
  • 00:10:53.275 --> 00:10:54.643
  • Years old. he looked 40 years younger.
  • 00:10:54.710 --> 00:10:57.046
  • He looked 40 years younger. he was so happy.
  • 00:10:57.113 --> 00:10:58.481
  • He was so happy. his mind was sharp.
  • 00:10:58.547 --> 00:11:00.316
  • His mind was sharp. he stood in line 40 minutes
  • 00:11:00.382 --> 00:11:01.917
  • He stood in line 40 minutes waiting to visit.
  • 00:11:01.984 --> 00:11:03.619
  • Waiting to visit. i said, "we could have gotten
  • 00:11:03.686 --> 00:11:04.653
  • I said, "we could have gotten you a chair.
  • 00:11:04.720 --> 00:11:05.521
  • You a chair. you could have sat down."
  • 00:11:05.588 --> 00:11:06.922
  • You could have sat down." he said, "i don't need to sit
  • 00:11:06.989 --> 00:11:07.890
  • He said, "i don't need to sit down.
  • 00:11:07.957 --> 00:11:08.724
  • Down. when i get old, i'll sit
  • 00:11:08.791 --> 00:11:09.725
  • When i get old, i'll sit down."
  • 00:11:09.792 --> 00:11:11.761
  • Down." he was a black man, as
  • 00:11:11.827 --> 00:11:13.763
  • He was a black man, as handsome as can be.
  • 00:11:13.829 --> 00:11:15.364
  • Handsome as can be. he didn't have one wrinkle on
  • 00:11:15.431 --> 00:11:16.966
  • He didn't have one wrinkle on his face.
  • 00:11:17.032 --> 00:11:18.601
  • His face. i said, "i can't believe that
  • 00:11:18.667 --> 00:11:20.002
  • I said, "i can't believe that you're 106.
  • 00:11:20.069 --> 00:11:21.403
  • You're 106. you look like you could be
  • 00:11:21.470 --> 00:11:22.338
  • You look like you could be 70."
  • 00:11:22.404 --> 00:11:23.606
  • 70." he put his arm on my shoulder
  • 00:11:23.672 --> 00:11:25.241
  • He put his arm on my shoulder and said, "joel, black don't
  • 00:11:25.307 --> 00:11:27.009
  • And said, "joel, black don't crack."
  • 00:11:27.076 --> 00:11:28.177
  • Crack." [congregation laughing]
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  • [congregation laughing] we laughed and laughed.
  • 00:11:30.946 --> 00:11:32.848
  • We laughed and laughed. when he went to walk away, he
  • 00:11:32.915 --> 00:11:34.483
  • When he went to walk away, he turned around and said to the
  • 00:11:34.550 --> 00:11:35.451
  • Turned around and said to the whole group, "i'll see you
  • 00:11:35.518 --> 00:11:36.752
  • Whole group, "i'll see you next year."
  • 00:11:36.819 --> 00:11:38.921
  • Next year." i thought about, "no wonder
  • 00:11:38.988 --> 00:11:40.523
  • I thought about, "no wonder he's so healthy.
  • 00:11:40.589 --> 00:11:42.324
  • He's so healthy. he's full of joy.
  • 00:11:42.391 --> 00:11:44.126
  • He's full of joy. he still has his sense of
  • 00:11:44.193 --> 00:11:44.994
  • He still has his sense of humor.
  • 00:11:45.060 --> 00:11:46.195
  • Humor. he loves to laugh."
  • 00:11:46.262 --> 00:11:47.630
  • He loves to laugh." think about all those years
  • 00:11:47.696 --> 00:11:48.831
  • Think about all those years healing was flowing on the
  • 00:11:48.898 --> 00:11:50.199
  • Healing was flowing on the inside.
  • 00:11:50.266 --> 00:11:51.801
  • Inside. and i realize we're all going
  • 00:11:51.867 --> 00:11:53.002
  • And i realize we're all going to get old.
  • 00:11:53.068 --> 00:11:54.403
  • To get old. eventually, we're all going
  • 00:11:54.470 --> 00:11:55.538
  • Eventually, we're all going to die but i've made up my
  • 00:11:55.604 --> 00:11:57.006
  • To die but i've made up my mind, i'm not going to turn
  • 00:11:57.072 --> 00:11:58.707
  • Mind, i'm not going to turn into a grumpy old man.
  • 00:11:58.774 --> 00:12:01.477
  • Into a grumpy old man. i'm not gonna get more and
  • 00:12:01.544 --> 00:12:02.578
  • I'm not gonna get more and more sour the older i get,
  • 00:12:02.645 --> 00:12:05.247
  • More sour the older i get, the more responsibility i
  • 00:12:05.314 --> 00:12:06.115
  • The more responsibility i have.
  • 00:12:06.182 --> 00:12:07.883
  • Have. i'm going to stay full of
  • 00:12:07.950 --> 00:12:08.884
  • I'm going to stay full of joy.
  • 00:12:08.951 --> 00:12:10.286
  • Joy. when it's my time to go, i'm
  • 00:12:10.352 --> 00:12:11.520
  • When it's my time to go, i'm gonna go like him: happy,
  • 00:12:11.587 --> 00:12:13.322
  • Gonna go like him: happy, friendly, good natured.
  • 00:12:13.389 --> 00:12:15.457
  • Friendly, good natured. when i'm in my 90s, i'm still
  • 00:12:15.524 --> 00:12:16.659
  • When i'm in my 90s, i'm still going to have a smile, still
  • 00:12:16.725 --> 00:12:18.727
  • Going to have a smile, still be telling my jokes, still
  • 00:12:18.794 --> 00:12:20.396
  • Be telling my jokes, still have my hair.
  • 00:12:20.462 --> 00:12:22.097
  • Have my hair. may not be real but i'm gonna
  • 00:12:22.164 --> 00:12:23.032
  • May not be real but i'm gonna have some.
  • 00:12:23.098 --> 00:12:24.466
  • Have some. [congregation laughing]
  • 00:12:24.533 --> 00:12:26.635
  • [congregation laughing] but sometimes, we think the
  • 00:12:26.702 --> 00:12:28.737
  • But sometimes, we think the older we get, the more solemn
  • 00:12:28.804 --> 00:12:31.640
  • Older we get, the more solemn we're supposed to be, the
  • 00:12:31.707 --> 00:12:33.275
  • We're supposed to be, the less fun we're supposed to
  • 00:12:33.342 --> 00:12:34.476
  • Less fun we're supposed to have.
  • 00:12:34.543 --> 00:12:35.578
  • Have. that's not god's way.
  • 00:12:35.644 --> 00:12:37.313
  • That's not god's way. the scripture says we are to
  • 00:12:37.379 --> 00:12:38.881
  • The scripture says we are to finish our course with joy.
  • 00:12:38.948 --> 00:12:42.017
  • Finish our course with joy. and if you don't have joy, if
  • 00:12:42.084 --> 00:12:43.719
  • And if you don't have joy, if you don't take time to laugh
  • 00:12:43.786 --> 00:12:44.954
  • You don't take time to laugh regularly, if you're not good
  • 00:12:45.020 --> 00:12:46.388
  • Regularly, if you're not good natured, you're not going to
  • 00:12:46.455 --> 00:12:47.756
  • Natured, you're not going to finish your course the way
  • 00:12:47.823 --> 00:12:49.525
  • Finish your course the way god wants you to.
  • 00:12:49.592 --> 00:12:51.293
  • God wants you to. and i've learned, old is all
  • 00:12:51.360 --> 00:12:52.995
  • And i've learned, old is all in our mind.
  • 00:12:53.062 --> 00:12:54.830
  • In our mind. just because our physical
  • 00:12:54.897 --> 00:12:55.931
  • Just because our physical body ages, doesn't mean our
  • 00:12:55.998 --> 00:12:57.967
  • Body ages, doesn't mean our attitude and our thoughts
  • 00:12:58.033 --> 00:12:59.602
  • Attitude and our thoughts have to get old.
  • 00:12:59.668 --> 00:13:01.470
  • Have to get old. i knew a man at the gym that
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  • I knew a man at the gym that was 83.
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  • Was 83. he was as happy and fun to be
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  • He was as happy and fun to be around as can be.
  • 00:13:06.175 --> 00:13:08.043
  • Around as can be. he acted like he was my age.
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  • He acted like he was my age. and i asked him how he stayed
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  • And i asked him how he stayed so young.
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  • So young. he said, "joel, i don't think
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  • He said, "joel, i don't think old thoughts.
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  • Old thoughts. i don't think of myself as an
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  • I don't think of myself as an old man.
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  • Old man. i think of myself as in my
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  • I think of myself as in my 20s."
  • 00:13:20.389 --> 00:13:22.157
  • 20s." see, your spirit person, the
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  • See, your spirit person, the real you that lives on the
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  • Real you that lives on the inside, is ageless.
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  • Inside, is ageless. it's going to live forever.
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  • It's going to live forever. sometimes, we talk ourselves
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  • Sometimes, we talk ourselves into being old and sour and
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  • Into being old and sour and solemn.
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  • Solemn. when my father was 75, we'd
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  • When my father was 75, we'd be walking by a group of
  • 00:13:37.473 --> 00:13:38.641
  • Be walking by a group of people and he would see
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  • People and he would see somebody maybe in their 60s.
  • 00:13:40.643 --> 00:13:42.244
  • Somebody maybe in their 60s. without thinking, he'd say,
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  • Without thinking, he'd say, "joel, look at that old man."
  • 00:13:43.846 --> 00:13:46.115
  • "joel, look at that old man." i would think, "daddy, he's
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  • I would think, "daddy, he's 20 years younger than you."
  • 00:13:47.283 --> 00:13:49.084
  • 20 years younger than you." but in my father's mind, he
  • 00:13:49.151 --> 00:13:50.686
  • But in my father's mind, he was still young.
  • 00:13:50.753 --> 00:13:52.721
  • Was still young. my father was a respected
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  • My father was a respected pastor.
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  • Pastor. he was serious about his
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  • He was serious about his relationship with god.
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  • Relationship with god. he was a responsible person
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  • He was a responsible person but he still loved to have
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  • But he still loved to have fun.
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  • Fun. one time, we were in mexico.
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  • One time, we were in mexico. i was a little boy and these
  • 00:14:05.868 --> 00:14:07.202
  • I was a little boy and these american tourists came up to
  • 00:14:07.269 --> 00:14:08.737
  • American tourists came up to my father.
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  • My father. they were looking for the
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  • They were looking for the post office.
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  • Post office. they couldn't find anybody
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  • They couldn't find anybody that spoke english.
  • 00:14:13.509 --> 00:14:14.843
  • That spoke english. they said to my father, "post
  • 00:14:14.910 --> 00:14:16.445
  • They said to my father, "post office.
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  • Office. mail a letter."
  • 00:14:17.780 --> 00:14:19.481
  • Mail a letter." my father looked at them kind
  • 00:14:19.548 --> 00:14:20.749
  • My father looked at them kind of confused and said, "no
  • 00:14:20.816 --> 00:14:22.484
  • Of confused and said, "no comprende espanol."
  • 00:14:22.551 --> 00:14:26.722
  • Comprende espanol." they said it even more
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  • They said it even more dramatic: "post office.
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  • Dramatic: "post office. mail a letter."
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  • Mail a letter." daddy said, "oh, post
  • 00:14:31.627 --> 00:14:32.761
  • Daddy said, "oh, post off-eese?"
  • 00:14:32.828 --> 00:14:34.563
  • Off-eese?" they got real excited, "yes!
  • 00:14:34.630 --> 00:14:35.631
  • They got real excited, "yes! yes!
  • 00:14:35.698 --> 00:14:36.398
  • Yes! post off-eese."
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  • Post off-eese." daddy said, "you're looking
  • 00:14:37.633 --> 00:14:38.467
  • Daddy said, "you're looking for the post office, it's
  • 00:14:38.534 --> 00:14:39.201
  • For the post office, it's right around the corner."
  • 00:14:39.268 --> 00:14:41.570
  • Right around the corner." that man looked at my father
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  • That man looked at my father and said, "boy, i oughta whip
  • 00:14:42.738 --> 00:14:44.039
  • And said, "boy, i oughta whip you."
  • 00:14:44.106 --> 00:14:46.041
  • You." don't ever lose the child on
  • 00:14:46.108 --> 00:14:48.010
  • Don't ever lose the child on the inside.
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  • The inside. look for opportunities to
  • 00:14:49.712 --> 00:14:51.113
  • Look for opportunities to laugh.
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  • Laugh. you may have to retrain
  • 00:14:52.381 --> 00:14:53.749
  • You may have to retrain yourself to have fun, retrain
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  • Yourself to have fun, retrain yourself to see the humor.
  • 00:14:56.085 --> 00:14:58.187
  • Yourself to see the humor. sometimes if we're not
  • 00:14:58.253 --> 00:14:59.288
  • Sometimes if we're not working, we feel guilty.
  • 00:14:59.355 --> 00:15:01.557
  • Working, we feel guilty. we're stressed out, thinking
  • 00:15:01.623 --> 00:15:02.591
  • We're stressed out, thinking about what we should be
  • 00:15:02.658 --> 00:15:03.792
  • About what we should be doing.
  • 00:15:03.859 --> 00:15:04.793
  • Doing. but all work and no play is
  • 00:15:04.860 --> 00:15:06.996
  • But all work and no play is out of balance.
  • 00:15:07.062 --> 00:15:08.597
  • Out of balance. give yourself permission to
  • 00:15:08.664 --> 00:15:10.032
  • Give yourself permission to enjoy your life.
  • 00:15:10.099 --> 00:15:12.434
  • Enjoy your life. start taking your medicine,
  • 00:15:12.501 --> 00:15:14.203
  • Start taking your medicine, not once a month, not once a
  • 00:15:14.269 --> 00:15:15.404
  • Not once a month, not once a week, but every day.
  • 00:15:15.471 --> 00:15:17.806
  • Week, but every day. and you may have a serious
  • 00:15:17.873 --> 00:15:19.008
  • And you may have a serious position like my father but
  • 00:15:19.074 --> 00:15:20.509
  • Position like my father but you can still have a
  • 00:15:20.576 --> 00:15:22.211
  • You can still have a light-hearted spirit.
  • 00:15:22.277 --> 00:15:24.546
  • Light-hearted spirit. during a sunday service, i
  • 00:15:24.613 --> 00:15:26.148
  • During a sunday service, i was about to come up to
  • 00:15:26.215 --> 00:15:27.016
  • Was about to come up to minister and victoria told me
  • 00:15:27.082 --> 00:15:29.084
  • Minister and victoria told me that my hair was sticking up
  • 00:15:29.151 --> 00:15:31.186
  • That my hair was sticking up and i needed to go in the
  • 00:15:31.253 --> 00:15:32.121
  • And i needed to go in the back and spray it.
  • 00:15:32.187 --> 00:15:33.989
  • Back and spray it. and i asked where the
  • 00:15:34.056 --> 00:15:34.857
  • And i asked where the hairspray was and she said,
  • 00:15:34.923 --> 00:15:36.058
  • Hairspray was and she said, "it's in the bathroom on the
  • 00:15:36.125 --> 00:15:37.326
  • "it's in the bathroom on the counter in a big red can."
  • 00:15:37.393 --> 00:15:40.229
  • Counter in a big red can." i went in, found the can,
  • 00:15:40.295 --> 00:15:41.430
  • I went in, found the can, sprayed my hair, but it
  • 00:15:41.497 --> 00:15:42.498
  • Sprayed my hair, but it wouldn't keep it down.
  • 00:15:42.564 --> 00:15:44.233
  • Wouldn't keep it down. so i sprayed and sprayed and
  • 00:15:44.299 --> 00:15:45.434
  • So i sprayed and sprayed and sprayed.
  • 00:15:45.501 --> 00:15:46.268
  • Sprayed. still wouldn't keep it down.
  • 00:15:46.335 --> 00:15:47.803
  • Still wouldn't keep it down. after the service, victoria
  • 00:15:47.870 --> 00:15:49.204
  • After the service, victoria said, "joel, why didn't you
  • 00:15:49.271 --> 00:15:50.606
  • Said, "joel, why didn't you spray your hair?
  • 00:15:50.672 --> 00:15:51.707
  • Spray your hair? it was still sticking up."
  • 00:15:51.774 --> 00:15:53.108
  • It was still sticking up." i said, "i did but your
  • 00:15:53.175 --> 00:15:54.276
  • I said, "i did but your hairspray doesn't work."
  • 00:15:54.343 --> 00:15:56.445
  • Hairspray doesn't work." she said, "show me what you
  • 00:15:56.512 --> 00:15:57.246
  • She said, "show me what you used."
  • 00:15:57.312 --> 00:15:58.080
  • Used." and i brought it to her.
  • 00:15:58.147 --> 00:15:59.148
  • And i brought it to her. she said, "joel, this is not
  • 00:15:59.214 --> 00:16:00.115
  • She said, "joel, this is not hairspray.
  • 00:16:00.182 --> 00:16:01.417
  • Hairspray. this is air freshener."
  • 00:16:01.483 --> 00:16:04.286
  • This is air freshener." ha, ha, ha.
  • 00:16:04.353 --> 00:16:05.921
  • Ha, ha, ha. i smiled and said, "at least
  • 00:16:05.988 --> 00:16:07.189
  • I smiled and said, "at least i have the best-smelling hair
  • 00:16:07.256 --> 00:16:08.323
  • I have the best-smelling hair around."
  • 00:16:08.390 --> 00:16:10.592
  • Around." when you're secure, you can
  • 00:16:10.659 --> 00:16:12.561
  • When you're secure, you can even laugh at yourself.
  • 00:16:12.628 --> 00:16:14.763
  • Even laugh at yourself. getting upset wasn't going to
  • 00:16:14.830 --> 00:16:16.231
  • Getting upset wasn't going to make it any better.
  • 00:16:16.298 --> 00:16:18.400
  • Make it any better. if you can't change it, it's
  • 00:16:18.467 --> 00:16:19.935
  • If you can't change it, it's no reason to lose your joy.
  • 00:16:20.002 --> 00:16:22.571
  • No reason to lose your joy. these days, people are very
  • 00:16:22.638 --> 00:16:23.539
  • These days, people are very uptight, on edge.
  • 00:16:23.605 --> 00:16:26.375
  • Uptight, on edge. there's so much divisiveness
  • 00:16:26.442 --> 00:16:27.709
  • There's so much divisiveness in our society.
  • 00:16:27.776 --> 00:16:29.645
  • In our society. if we're not careful, we'll
  • 00:16:29.711 --> 00:16:30.612
  • If we're not careful, we'll think, "this is no time to
  • 00:16:30.679 --> 00:16:31.814
  • Think, "this is no time to enjoy life.
  • 00:16:31.880 --> 00:16:33.549
  • Enjoy life. no time to laugh, no time to
  • 00:16:33.615 --> 00:16:34.750
  • No time to laugh, no time to see the humor."
  • 00:16:34.817 --> 00:16:36.085
  • See the humor." but just the opposite is
  • 00:16:36.151 --> 00:16:37.453
  • But just the opposite is true.
  • 00:16:37.519 --> 00:16:38.554
  • True. more than ever, this is the
  • 00:16:38.620 --> 00:16:40.355
  • More than ever, this is the time to live joyfully.
  • 00:16:40.422 --> 00:16:43.125
  • Time to live joyfully. be a part of the solution.
  • 00:16:43.192 --> 00:16:45.160
  • Be a part of the solution. bring some cheer to the
  • 00:16:45.227 --> 00:16:46.195
  • Bring some cheer to the people around you.
  • 00:16:46.261 --> 00:16:47.996
  • People around you. put a smile on your face.
  • 00:16:48.063 --> 00:16:50.399
  • Put a smile on your face. there's too much sadness in
  • 00:16:50.466 --> 00:16:51.834
  • There's too much sadness in our world.
  • 00:16:51.900 --> 00:16:53.602
  • Our world. every person deals with hurt,
  • 00:16:53.669 --> 00:16:55.437
  • Every person deals with hurt, disappointments.
  • 00:16:55.504 --> 00:16:56.972
  • Disappointments. we all have stress and
  • 00:16:57.039 --> 00:16:58.207
  • We all have stress and tension.
  • 00:16:58.273 --> 00:16:59.675
  • Tension. don't let that deceive you
  • 00:16:59.741 --> 00:17:01.610
  • Don't let that deceive you into living with a heaviness,
  • 00:17:01.677 --> 00:17:03.979
  • Into living with a heaviness, discouraged, solemn.
  • 00:17:04.046 --> 00:17:06.548
  • Discouraged, solemn. "well, joel, i have a good
  • 00:17:06.615 --> 00:17:07.483
  • "well, joel, i have a good excuse.
  • 00:17:07.549 --> 00:17:08.150
  • Excuse. i've had a lot of bad
  • 00:17:08.217 --> 00:17:09.118
  • I've had a lot of bad breaks."
  • 00:17:09.184 --> 00:17:10.018
  • Breaks." jesus said, "in life, you
  • 00:17:10.085 --> 00:17:12.521
  • Jesus said, "in life, you will have difficulties."
  • 00:17:12.588 --> 00:17:14.690
  • Will have difficulties." he acknowledged that we're
  • 00:17:14.756 --> 00:17:15.691
  • He acknowledged that we're going to have challenges.
  • 00:17:15.757 --> 00:17:17.192
  • Going to have challenges. everything's not going to be
  • 00:17:17.259 --> 00:17:18.160
  • Everything's not going to be perfect.
  • 00:17:18.227 --> 00:17:19.194
  • Perfect. he went on to say, "i have
  • 00:17:19.261 --> 00:17:20.395
  • He went on to say, "i have the solution.
  • 00:17:20.462 --> 00:17:21.763
  • The solution. be of good cheer."
  • 00:17:21.830 --> 00:17:24.333
  • Be of good cheer." he didn't say, "be
  • 00:17:24.399 --> 00:17:25.200
  • He didn't say, "be discouraged.
  • 00:17:25.267 --> 00:17:26.602
  • Discouraged. be sad.
  • 00:17:26.668 --> 00:17:27.669
  • Be sad. be offended."
  • 00:17:27.736 --> 00:17:29.204
  • Be offended." in the tough times, you need
  • 00:17:29.271 --> 00:17:30.806
  • In the tough times, you need your joy.
  • 00:17:30.873 --> 00:17:32.441
  • Your joy. joy is what gives you
  • 00:17:32.508 --> 00:17:33.575
  • Joy is what gives you strength.
  • 00:17:33.642 --> 00:17:35.077
  • Strength. but if the enemy can deceive
  • 00:17:35.144 --> 00:17:36.445
  • But if the enemy can deceive you into living with a
  • 00:17:36.512 --> 00:17:37.946
  • You into living with a heaviness, discouraged,
  • 00:17:38.013 --> 00:17:40.215
  • Heaviness, discouraged, solemn, he'll be able to
  • 00:17:40.282 --> 00:17:41.650
  • Solemn, he'll be able to defeat you at every turn.
  • 00:17:41.717 --> 00:17:44.286
  • Defeat you at every turn. don't fall into that trap.
  • 00:17:44.353 --> 00:17:45.854
  • Don't fall into that trap. your circumstances may not
  • 00:17:45.921 --> 00:17:47.122
  • Your circumstances may not change but you can change.
  • 00:17:47.189 --> 00:17:50.058
  • Change but you can change. quit letting everything
  • 00:17:50.125 --> 00:17:51.160
  • Quit letting everything burden you down.
  • 00:17:51.226 --> 00:17:53.095
  • Burden you down. make a decision right in the
  • 00:17:53.162 --> 00:17:54.096
  • Make a decision right in the midst of the difficulty,
  • 00:17:54.163 --> 00:17:56.532
  • Midst of the difficulty, you're going to be of good
  • 00:17:56.598 --> 00:17:58.033
  • You're going to be of good cheer.
  • 00:17:58.100 --> 00:17:59.334
  • Cheer. studies show that living
  • 00:17:59.401 --> 00:18:00.435
  • Studies show that living joyfully boosts our immune
  • 00:18:00.502 --> 00:18:02.804
  • Joyfully boosts our immune system, it lowers our blood
  • 00:18:02.871 --> 00:18:05.040
  • System, it lowers our blood pressure.
  • 00:18:05.107 --> 00:18:06.475
  • Pressure. people that laugh regularly
  • 00:18:06.542 --> 00:18:08.243
  • People that laugh regularly are 40% less likely to have a
  • 00:18:08.310 --> 00:18:10.412
  • Are 40% less likely to have a heart attack.
  • 00:18:10.479 --> 00:18:12.114
  • Heart attack. laughter releases the body's
  • 00:18:12.181 --> 00:18:13.849
  • Laughter releases the body's natural tranquilizers that
  • 00:18:13.916 --> 00:18:16.218
  • Natural tranquilizers that cause us to calm down and
  • 00:18:16.285 --> 00:18:17.953
  • Cause us to calm down and sleep better.
  • 00:18:18.020 --> 00:18:19.755
  • Sleep better. the united states represents
  • 00:18:19.821 --> 00:18:21.156
  • The united states represents 6% of the world's population
  • 00:18:21.223 --> 00:18:24.293
  • 6% of the world's population but we take 90% of the
  • 00:18:24.359 --> 00:18:26.328
  • But we take 90% of the world's tranquilizers.
  • 00:18:26.395 --> 00:18:28.530
  • World's tranquilizers. we're too uptight.
  • 00:18:28.597 --> 00:18:29.965
  • We're too uptight. you're not supposed to live
  • 00:18:30.032 --> 00:18:30.966
  • You're not supposed to live stressed out, always thinking
  • 00:18:31.033 --> 00:18:33.835
  • Stressed out, always thinking about your problems.
  • 00:18:33.902 --> 00:18:36.004
  • About your problems. your mind needs a break.
  • 00:18:36.071 --> 00:18:38.840
  • Your mind needs a break. sometimes we give our body a
  • 00:18:38.907 --> 00:18:40.375
  • Sometimes we give our body a vacation, but our mind never
  • 00:18:40.442 --> 00:18:42.477
  • Vacation, but our mind never gets a day off.
  • 00:18:42.544 --> 00:18:44.513
  • You can go to the beach,
  • 00:18:44.680 --> 00:18:45.480
  • You can go to the beach, watch the sunset and still be
  • 00:18:45.547 --> 00:18:47.015
  • Watch the sunset and still be worried about your health,
  • 00:18:47.082 --> 00:18:48.817
  • Worried about your health, stressed out over your
  • 00:18:48.884 --> 00:18:49.818
  • Stressed out over your finances, thinking about what
  • 00:18:49.885 --> 00:18:51.019
  • Finances, thinking about what you should be doing.
  • 00:18:51.086 --> 00:18:52.754
  • You should be doing. you need to give your mind a
  • 00:18:52.821 --> 00:18:54.122
  • You need to give your mind a break.
  • 00:18:54.189 --> 00:18:55.324
  • Break. the scripture says: "in god's
  • 00:18:55.390 --> 00:18:57.092
  • The scripture says: "in god's presence is fullness of joy."
  • 00:18:57.159 --> 00:19:00.329
  • Presence is fullness of joy." if you don't have joy, you've
  • 00:19:00.395 --> 00:19:02.364
  • If you don't have joy, you've disconnected yourself from
  • 00:19:02.431 --> 00:19:03.765
  • Disconnected yourself from god's presence.
  • 00:19:03.832 --> 00:19:05.867
  • God's presence. if you go through the day
  • 00:19:05.934 --> 00:19:06.868
  • If you go through the day worried, stressed, somber,
  • 00:19:06.935 --> 00:19:09.404
  • Worried, stressed, somber, you are separating yourself
  • 00:19:09.471 --> 00:19:11.640
  • You are separating yourself from the blessing, the favor,
  • 00:19:11.707 --> 00:19:13.242
  • From the blessing, the favor, the strength that you need.
  • 00:19:13.308 --> 00:19:15.210
  • The strength that you need. and i realize every day we're
  • 00:19:15.277 --> 00:19:17.579
  • And i realize every day we're not going to be jumping up
  • 00:19:17.646 --> 00:19:18.880
  • Not going to be jumping up and down, laughing all the
  • 00:19:18.947 --> 00:19:20.249
  • And down, laughing all the time.
  • 00:19:20.315 --> 00:19:21.750
  • Time. we have real issues to deal
  • 00:19:21.817 --> 00:19:23.318
  • We have real issues to deal with, loved ones that have
  • 00:19:23.385 --> 00:19:25.153
  • With, loved ones that have illnesses, situations in our
  • 00:19:25.220 --> 00:19:26.989
  • Illnesses, situations in our health, in our marriage.
  • 00:19:27.055 --> 00:19:29.258
  • Health, in our marriage. what i'm saying is don't let
  • 00:19:29.324 --> 00:19:31.093
  • What i'm saying is don't let those problems weigh you down
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  • Those problems weigh you down to where you live with a
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  • To where you live with a heaviness.
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  • Heaviness. "you can't have fun, you
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  • "you can't have fun, you can't laugh, you're dealing
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  • Can't laugh, you're dealing with serious issues."
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  • With serious issues." you have to have times where
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  • You have to have times where you can still be
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  • You can still be lighthearted.
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  • Lighthearted. that's what helps you to get
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  • That's what helps you to get through those times.
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  • Through those times. i've been to several
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  • I've been to several funerals.
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  • Funerals. it can be very sad, very
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  • It can be very sad, very heavy, but i've noticed when
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  • Heavy, but i've noticed when someone gets up and starts
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  • Someone gets up and starts telling funny stories about
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  • Telling funny stories about the person, and the audience
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  • The person, and the audience goes from crying to laughing,
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  • Goes from crying to laughing, you can feel the atmosphere
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  • You can feel the atmosphere change.
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  • Change. it's like healing is taking
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  • It's like healing is taking place.
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  • Place. the whole room is being
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  • The whole room is being lifted.
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  • Lifted. god didn't create you to live
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  • God didn't create you to live with a heaviness, to go
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  • With a heaviness, to go around overwhelmed.
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  • Around overwhelmed. you have to get some joy in
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  • You have to get some joy in your life, some fun, some
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  • Your life, some fun, some laughter.
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  • Laughter. that's what helps balance out
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  • That's what helps balance out the difficulties that we have
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  • The difficulties that we have to face.
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  • To face. i read about a lady that
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  • I read about a lady that hadn't slept well in years.
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  • Hadn't slept well in years. she was constantly taking
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  • She was constantly taking tranquilizers.
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  • Tranquilizers. she'd been on them so long
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  • She'd been on them so long they hardly had any effect on
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  • They hardly had any effect on her.
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  • Her. she'd tried everything:
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  • She'd tried everything: different diets, different
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  • Different diets, different medications, different
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  • Medications, different doctors.
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  • Doctors. nothing helped.
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  • Nothing helped. she went to a new doctor.
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  • She went to a new doctor. he gave her an unusual
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  • He gave her an unusual prescription.
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  • Prescription. he told her every night
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  • He told her every night before she went to bed she
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  • Before she went to bed she was to watch something funny.
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  • Was to watch something funny. funny movie, a funny comedy.
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  • Funny movie, a funny comedy. something to make her laugh.
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  • Something to make her laugh. she started doing this night
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  • She started doing this night after night.
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  • After night. she began sleeping better and
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  • She began sleeping better and better.
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  • Better. today, she's off of all that
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  • Today, she's off of all that medicine.
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  • Medicine. she can sleep like a baby.
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  • What was the problem?
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  • What was the problem? she was having to take
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  • She was having to take manmade tranquilizers because
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  • Manmade tranquilizers because she wasn't releasing the
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  • She wasn't releasing the natural tranquilizers that
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  • Natural tranquilizers that god put in us.
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  • God put in us. could it be that you would
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  • Could it be that you would receive the healing you've
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  • Receive the healing you've been longing for; the
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  • Been longing for; the headaches, the chronic pain,
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  • Headaches, the chronic pain, the depression, the insomnia
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  • The depression, the insomnia would go away if you would
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  • Would go away if you would just lighten up and learn to
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  • Just lighten up and learn to laugh more often?
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  • Laugh more often? in the old testament, one way
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  • In the old testament, one way an army would overtake a city
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  • An army would overtake a city is they would clog up the
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  • Is they would clog up the wells that provided water to
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  • Wells that provided water to that city.
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  • That city. they would fill it full of
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  • They would fill it full of stones.
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  • Stones. before long, people didn't
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  • Before long, people didn't have anything to drink and
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  • Have anything to drink and they would have to come out
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  • They would have to come out from beyond the protected
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  • From beyond the protected walls and the army would
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  • Walls and the army would attack.
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  • Attack. in the same way, all of us
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  • In the same way, all of us have a well of joy on the
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  • Have a well of joy on the inside.
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  • Inside. when we were children, it
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  • When we were children, it flowed freely.
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  • Flowed freely. we laughed, we had fun, we
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  • We laughed, we had fun, we were good natured.
  • 00:22:01.977 --> 00:22:03.445
  • Were good natured. but too often, our well has
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  • But too often, our well has gotten clogged up with stones
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  • Gotten clogged up with stones of worry, stones of stress,
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  • Of worry, stones of stress, stones of pressure.
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  • Stones of pressure. now, the water doesn't flow
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  • Now, the water doesn't flow like god created it to.
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  • Like god created it to. genesis 26 says: "isaac redug
  • 00:22:15.390 --> 00:22:18.760
  • Genesis 26 says: "isaac redug the wells that the
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  • The wells that the philistines had clogged up."
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  • Philistines had clogged up." i think it's interesting,
  • 00:22:23.198 --> 00:22:24.633
  • I think it's interesting, isaac's name means laughter.
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  • Isaac's name means laughter. it's significant that isaac
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  • It's significant that isaac was the one that redug the
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  • Was the one that redug the well.
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  • Well. god is saying, "if you wanna
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  • God is saying, "if you wanna get your well unclogged," if
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  • Get your well unclogged," if you wanna see his goodness
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  • You wanna see his goodness flow in new ways, "you have
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  • Flow in new ways, "you have to get your joy back."
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  • To get your joy back." and laughter is one of the
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  • And laughter is one of the best ways to unclog your
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  • Best ways to unclog your well.
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  • Well. i'm asking you to develop a
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  • I'm asking you to develop a lifestyle where you see the
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  • Lifestyle where you see the humor in everyday life,
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  • Humor in everyday life, laughing with your children,
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  • Laughing with your children, laughing with your family,
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  • Laughing with your family, being good natured.
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  • Being good natured. the scripture says in job:
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  • The scripture says in job: "god will fill your mouth
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  • "god will fill your mouth with laughter."
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  • With laughter." that's god's dream that your
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  • That's god's dream that your life would be full of
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  • Life would be full of laughter.
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  • Laughter. are you living stressed,
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  • Are you living stressed, somber, worried?
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  • Somber, worried? make a change today.
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  • Make a change today. get your well unclogged.
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  • Get your well unclogged. take time everyday to laugh.
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  • Take time everyday to laugh. keep a joyful atmosphere in
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  • Keep a joyful atmosphere in your home.
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  • Your home. if you will make this
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  • If you will make this decision to have a merry
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  • Decision to have a merry heart, i believe and declare
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  • Heart, i believe and declare you're going to see chronic
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  • You're going to see chronic pain and illnesses go away.
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  • You're going to have better
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  • You're going to have better relationships, you're going
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  • Relationships, you're going to feel younger, stronger,
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  • To feel younger, stronger, fresher, and you will finish
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  • Fresher, and you will finish your course with joy, in
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  • Your course with joy, in jesus' name.
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  • Jesus' name. if you receive it, can you
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  • If you receive it, can you say, "amen" today?
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  • Say, "amen" today? i'd like to give you an
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  • I'd like to give you an opportunity to make jesus the
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  • Opportunity to make jesus the lord of your life.
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  • Lord of your life. would you pray with me?
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  • Would you pray with me? just say, "lord jesus, i
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  • Just say, "lord jesus, i repent of my sins.
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  • Repent of my sins. come into my heart.
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  • Come into my heart. i make you my lord and
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  • I make you my lord and savior."
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  • Savior." if you prayed that simple
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  • If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got
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  • Prayer, we believe you got born again.
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  • Church and keep god first place.
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  • Victoria and i will be right back to speak
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  • Is it possible to turn these negatives
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  • To turn these negatives into an outlook
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  • Into an outlook filled with purpose,
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  • Filled with purpose, happiness and joy?
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  • Happiness and joy? every day we make choices.
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  • How we respond to challenges, how we approach
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