Joel Osteen - Living Unoffended

June 15, 2026 | 27:29

Joel and Victoria Osteen's message of unconditional love and unending hope reaches everyone across the world.

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Joel Osteen | Joel Osteen - Living Unoffended | June 15, 2026
  • > joel: god bless you.
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  • > joel: god bless you. it's great to be with you
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  • It's great to be with you today. i hope you'll stay
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  • Today. i hope you'll stay connected with us during
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  • Connected with us during the week, through our
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  • The week, through our daily podcast, our youtube
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  • Daily podcast, our youtube channel, social media. and
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  • Channel, social media. and you can come visit us in
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  • You can come visit us in person. we'd love to have
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  • Person. we'd love to have you be a part of one of
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  • You be a part of one of our services.
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  • Our services. i like to start with
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  • I like to start with something funny. i heard
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  • Something funny. i heard about this man. he was out
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  • About this man. he was out walking through the woods
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  • Walking through the woods with his friend, when they
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  • With his friend, when they suddenly encountered a huge
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  • Suddenly encountered a huge grizzly bear, about twenty
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  • Grizzly bear, about twenty yards in front of them. they
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  • Yards in front of them. they both froze in their tracks.
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  • Both froze in their tracks. as the bear intently stared
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  • As the bear intently stared them down, they contemplated
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  • Them down, they contemplated what they should do. the man
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  • What they should do. the man finally whispered to his
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  • Finally whispered to his friend, “i think we should
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  • Friend, “i think we should run.” his friend said, “are
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  • Run.” his friend said, “are you kidding? we can't outrun
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  • You kidding? we can't outrun a grizzly bear.” the man
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  • A grizzly bear.” the man said, “i know that. i don't
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  • Said, “i know that. i don't have to outrun him. i just
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  • Have to outrun him. i just have to outrun you.”
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  • Have to outrun you.” say it like you mean it. this
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  • Say it like you mean it. this is my bible. i am what it
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  • Is my bible. i am what it says i am. i have what it
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  • Says i am. i have what it says i have. i can do what it
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  • Says i have. i can do what it says i can do. today, i will
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  • Says i can do. today, i will be taught the word of god. i
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  • Be taught the word of god. i boldly confess: my mind is
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  • Boldly confess: my mind is alert. my heart is receptive.
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  • Alert. my heart is receptive. i will never be the same in
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  • I will never be the same in jesus' name. god bless you.
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  • Jesus' name. god bless you. i want to talk to you today
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  • I want to talk to you today about living unoffended. we
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  • About living unoffended. we all have opportunities to get
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  • All have opportunities to get upset and be offended. a
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  • Upset and be offended. a coworker is rude, someone
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  • Coworker is rude, someone cuts you off in traffic, a
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  • Cuts you off in traffic, a friend leaves you out. it's
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  • Friend leaves you out. it's easy to get sour, try to pay
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  • Easy to get sour, try to pay people back, hold a grudge.
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  • People back, hold a grudge. we don't realize that's
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  • We don't realize that's poisoning our life. that
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  • Poisoning our life. that offense is like a toxin. it's
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  • Offense is like a toxin. it's not affecting the other
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  • Not affecting the other person, it's souring our joy.
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  • Person, it's souring our joy. the apostle paul had all
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  • The apostle paul had all kinds of opportunities to be
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  • Kinds of opportunities to be offended. people lied about
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  • Offended. people lied about him, he was misunderstood,
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  • Him, he was misunderstood, not accepted by the religious
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  • Not accepted by the religious leaders. he said in
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  • Leaders. he said in philippians 3, “this one
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  • Philippians 3, “this one thing i do, forgetting what
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  • Thing i do, forgetting what lies behind and reaching
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  • Lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead.”
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  • Forward to what lies ahead.” he was saying, “one thing i'm
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  • He was saying, “one thing i'm good at is letting things go,
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  • Good at is letting things go, not taking the offense, not
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  • Not taking the offense, not dwelling on what happened
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  • Dwelling on what happened yesterday, i put all my
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  • Yesterday, i put all my energies into reaching to
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  • Energies into reaching to what's up ahead.”
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  • What's up ahead.” you have to have this system
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  • You have to have this system of release, where you don't
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  • Of release, where you don't hold on to everything. “they
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  • Hold on to everything. “they said something rude; i'm
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  • Said something rude; i'm letting it go. they hurt my
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  • Letting it go. they hurt my feelings; i didn't like it
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  • Feelings; i didn't like it but i'm letting it go. they
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  • But i'm letting it go. they left me out, it wasn't fair,
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  • Left me out, it wasn't fair, but i'm letting it go.” if
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  • But i'm letting it go.” if you hold on to that offense,
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  • You hold on to that offense, it's not only going to weigh
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  • It's not only going to weigh you down, it's going to keep
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  • You down, it's going to keep you from reaching forward.
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  • You from reaching forward. that's what's stopping some
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  • That's what's stopping some people. they're not seeing
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  • People. they're not seeing new levels, not tapping into
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  • New levels, not tapping into their potential, because
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  • Their potential, because they're living in yesterday.
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  • They're living in yesterday. dwelling on what someone
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  • Dwelling on what someone said, how they were
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  • Said, how they were mistreated. “they did me
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  • Mistreated. “they did me wrong.” you can't stop all
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  • Wrong.” you can't stop all that from happening; how you
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  • That from happening; how you handle the offense is what's
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  • Handle the offense is what's important. forgiveness should
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  • Important. forgiveness should be a continual thing. not one
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  • Be a continual thing. not one and done, we're continually
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  • And done, we're continually releasing, continually
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  • Releasing, continually letting things go.
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  • Letting things go. we need to see the offense as
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  • We need to see the offense as a toxin, as a poison. you're
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  • A toxin, as a poison. you're dealing with something very
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  • Dealing with something very powerful. the offense is like
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  • Powerful. the offense is like a seed. if you keep dwelling
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  • A seed. if you keep dwelling on it, letting it upset you,
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  • On it, letting it upset you, it's going to take root and
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  • It's going to take root and grow. it will begin to
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  • Grow. it will begin to contaminate your life, cause
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  • Contaminate your life, cause you to live sour. “why did
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  • You to live sour. “why did they leave me out? why did
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  • They leave me out? why did they walk away? why were they
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  • They walk away? why were they disrespectful?” you can't
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  • Disrespectful?” you can't control any of that. what you
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  • Control any of that. what you can control is whether or not
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  • Can control is whether or not you take the offense. if
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  • You take the offense. if you'll develop this system of
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  • You'll develop this system of release, of continual
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  • Release, of continual forgiveness, everyday letting
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  • Forgiveness, everyday letting go and reaching forward, then
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  • Go and reaching forward, then that offense won't affect
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  • That offense won't affect you. “they said something
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  • You. “they said something disrespectful, made me look
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  • Disrespectful, made me look bad in front of my
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  • Bad in front of my colleagues, but i know god is
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  • Colleagues, but i know god is my vindicator. he's fighting
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  • My vindicator. he's fighting my battles. i'm going to let
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  • My battles. i'm going to let it go and keep reaching
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  • It go and keep reaching forward.” do you have this
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  • Forward.” do you have this system of release, or are you
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  • System of release, or are you holding on to everything?
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  • Holding on to everything? have you learned the process
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  • Have you learned the process of continual forgiveness or
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  • Of continual forgiveness or are you letting those seeds
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  • Are you letting those seeds take root and contaminate
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  • Take root and contaminate your life?
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  • Your life? in luke 17, jesus was talking
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  • In luke 17, jesus was talking to his disciples, getting
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  • To his disciples, getting them prepared to go out and
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  • Them prepared to go out and do great things. he wasn't
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  • Do great things. he wasn't going to be with them much
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  • Going to be with them much longer. this was an important
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  • Longer. this was an important time. he could have talked to
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  • Time. he could have talked to them about having more faith
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  • Them about having more faith and believing for bigger
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  • And believing for bigger impact. but he said in verse
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  • Impact. but he said in verse one, as you go out, there's
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  • One, as you go out, there's this one more important thing
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  • This one more important thing you need to know, “it is
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  • You need to know, “it is impossible that offenses will
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  • Impossible that offenses will not come.” he was saying as
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  • Not come.” he was saying as you go through life there
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  • You go through life there will be rude people, grouchy
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  • Will be rude people, grouchy coworkers, family members
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  • Coworkers, family members that get on your nerves. it's
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  • That get on your nerves. it's impossible to not have
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  • Impossible to not have offenses. he gave them this
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  • Offenses. he gave them this somber news, then he gave
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  • Somber news, then he gave them the solution. he said,
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  • Them the solution. he said, “if your brother trespasses
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  • “if your brother trespasses against you seven times a
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  • Against you seven times a day, forgive them.” i can
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  • Day, forgive them.” i can understand once a day, maybe
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  • Understand once a day, maybe twice a day, perhaps three
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  • Twice a day, perhaps three times a day, but four times
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  • Times a day, but four times and you're still getting on
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  • And you're still getting on my nerves. five times, you
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  • My nerves. five times, you better go find someone else
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  • Better go find someone else to bother.
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  • To bother. when he said seven times,
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  • When he said seven times, he's talking about continual
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  • He's talking about continual forgiveness. he's saying
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  • Forgiveness. he's saying don't let that poison in and
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  • Don't let that poison in and contaminate your spirit. you
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  • Contaminate your spirit. you have to deal with offenses
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  • Have to deal with offenses quickly. the longer you wait
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  • Quickly. the longer you wait the more difficult it is to
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  • The more difficult it is to release. if you dwell on it
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  • Release. if you dwell on it for a day, think about it for
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  • For a day, think about it for a month, it will get bigger
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  • A month, it will get bigger and become more hurtful.
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  • And become more hurtful. you'll be sour, short with
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  • You'll be sour, short with people, irritable, not enjoy
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  • People, irritable, not enjoy your family. that could have
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  • Your family. that could have all been avoided if you would
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  • All been avoided if you would have forgiven quickly. quit
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  • Have forgiven quickly. quit letting offenses take root.
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  • Letting offenses take root. it's impossible that they're
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  • It's impossible that they're not going to come. let me
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  • Not going to come. let me make it more practical. it's
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  • Make it more practical. it's impossible to live with your
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  • Impossible to live with your family and they not hurt your
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  • Family and they not hurt your feelings, they not get on
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  • Feelings, they not get on your nerves, they not
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  • Your nerves, they not disappoint you, say things
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  • Disappoint you, say things that they shouldn't. they're
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  • That they shouldn't. they're not against you, they're just
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  • Not against you, they're just human. they have flaws.
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  • Human. they have flaws. sometimes people don't mean
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  • Sometimes people don't mean to, other times they do,
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  • To, other times they do, either way you can't let that
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  • Either way you can't let that poison get in you. if you
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  • Poison get in you. if you take that offense, you live
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  • Take that offense, you live sour, revengeful, you are
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  • Sour, revengeful, you are wasting your emotional
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  • Wasting your emotional energy. you only have so much
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  • Energy. you only have so much each day. it's not an
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  • Each day. it's not an unlimited supply. do you know
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  • Unlimited supply. do you know how much emotional energy it
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  • How much emotional energy it takes to hold a grudge, to
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  • Takes to hold a grudge, to live bitter, to think about
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  • Live bitter, to think about what they did. that's energy
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  • What they did. that's energy that you're not going to have
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  • That you're not going to have for your dreams, to love your
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  • For your dreams, to love your children, to enjoy your
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  • Children, to enjoy your spouse.
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  • Spouse. if you'll get in a
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  • If you'll get in a habit of forgiving quickly,
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  • Habit of forgiving quickly, not giving it the time of
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  • Not giving it the time of day, then it won't take root.
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  • Day, then it won't take root. the reason some people are
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  • The reason some people are offensive is they have issues
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  • Offensive is they have issues they haven't dealt with. they
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  • They haven't dealt with. they have toxins, hurts, wounds,
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  • Have toxins, hurts, wounds, and they've become bitter and
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  • And they've become bitter and angry. at times, they'll lash
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  • Angry. at times, they'll lash out at you. they'll be
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  • Out at you. they'll be disrespectful, say things
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  • Disrespectful, say things that hurt your feelings. but
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  • That hurt your feelings. but number one, they don't
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  • Number one, they don't control your destiny. what
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  • Control your destiny. what they say doesn't determine
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  • They say doesn't determine who you are. don't take that
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  • Who you are. don't take that bait and get engaged in a
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  • Bait and get engaged in a battle you're not supposed to
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  • Battle you're not supposed to fight. if you get upset and
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  • Fight. if you get upset and start trying to pay them
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  • Start trying to pay them back, two can play at this
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  • Back, two can play at this game, you're letting their
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  • Game, you're letting their poison get in you. the best
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  • Poison get in you. the best thing you can do is release
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  • Thing you can do is release it. let it go and keep moving
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  • It. let it go and keep moving forward.
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  • Forward. the enemy loves to use
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  • The enemy loves to use offenses as distractions.
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  • Offenses as distractions. he'd love to get you upset,
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  • He'd love to get you upset, trying to prove to people who
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  • Trying to prove to people who you are, trying to pay them
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  • You are, trying to pay them back. even if you accomplish
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  • Back. even if you accomplish all that, you're no further
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  • All that, you're no further down the road. you've just
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  • Down the road. you've just wasted valuable time and
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  • Wasted valuable time and energy fighting a battle that
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  • Energy fighting a battle that doesn't matter. if that
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  • Doesn't matter. if that battle is not between you and
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  • Battle is not between you and your destiny, you're not
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  • Your destiny, you're not supposed to engage. goliath
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  • Supposed to engage. goliath stood between david and his
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  • Stood between david and his purpose. he fought that
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  • Purpose. he fought that battle. a few days earlier,
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  • Battle. a few days earlier, david's older brother, eliab,
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  • David's older brother, eliab, he made fun of david in front
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  • He made fun of david in front of all his colleagues. he
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  • Of all his colleagues. he belittled david, tried to
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  • Belittled david, tried to make him feel small. but it
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  • Make him feel small. but it says in 1 samuel 17, “david
  • 00:08:27.229 --> 00:08:29.599
  • Says in 1 samuel 17, “david turned and walked away.” had
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  • Turned and walked away.” had he gotten distracted, taken
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  • He gotten distracted, taken the offense, tried to prove
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  • The offense, tried to prove to his brother who he was and
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  • To his brother who he was and set him straight, he would
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  • Set him straight, he would have missed fighting goliath.
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  • Have missed fighting goliath. the scripture says he ran
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  • The scripture says he ran toward goliath, but he walked
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  • Toward goliath, but he walked away from eliab. the mark of
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  • Away from eliab. the mark of a champion is knowing what
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  • A champion is knowing what battles to fight and what
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  • Battles to fight and what battles to walk away from.
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  • Battles to walk away from. are you fighting battles that
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  • Are you fighting battles that don't matter, engaged in
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  • Don't matter, engaged in conflict that's petty, just
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  • Conflict that's petty, just trying to prove to people who
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  • Trying to prove to people who you are, set them straight.
  • 00:09:02.632 --> 00:09:04.533
  • You are, set them straight. if you win, what have you
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  • If you win, what have you accomplished? are you closer
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  • Accomplished? are you closer to your destiny or was it a
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  • To your destiny or was it a distraction? there are very
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  • Distraction? there are very few goliaths that we'll face,
  • 00:09:13.175 --> 00:09:15.277
  • Few goliaths that we'll face, but there are many eliab's,
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  • But there are many eliab's, many offenses. when you learn
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  • Many offenses. when you learn to walk away from what
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  • To walk away from what doesn't matter, you'll have
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  • Doesn't matter, you'll have the strength, the favor, the
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  • The strength, the favor, the anointing to defeat the
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  • Anointing to defeat the goliaths, to defeat what does
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  • Goliaths, to defeat what does matter.
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  • Matter. i was at the airport a few
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  • I was at the airport a few years ago, in the security
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  • Years ago, in the security line, putting my bag through
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  • Line, putting my bag through the x-ray machine. this one
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  • The x-ray machine. this one worker was very aggressive,
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  • Worker was very aggressive, very forceful and demanding,
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  • Very forceful and demanding, hollering instructions so
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  • Hollering instructions so loudly, like he was angry.
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  • Loudly, like he was angry. “take off your coats. all
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  • “take off your coats. all electronics in a separate
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  • Electronics in a separate container. no liquids in your
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  • Container. no liquids in your carry ons.” barking all these
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  • Carry ons.” barking all these orders early in the morning.
  • 00:09:52.081 --> 00:09:53.249
  • Orders early in the morning. i put my bag in, it went
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  • I put my bag in, it went through the machine, and it
  • 00:09:54.817 --> 00:09:56.852
  • Through the machine, and it got pulled over to the side.
  • 00:09:56.919 --> 00:09:58.754
  • Got pulled over to the side. he screamed out, “who's bag
  • 00:09:58.821 --> 00:10:00.456
  • He screamed out, “who's bag is this?” i didn't want my
  • 00:10:00.523 --> 00:10:02.925
  • Is this?” i didn't want my bag anymore. i finally said,
  • 00:10:02.992 --> 00:10:05.327
  • Bag anymore. i finally said, “it's mine.” he looked at me
  • 00:10:05.394 --> 00:10:07.129
  • “it's mine.” he looked at me like he was about to explode.
  • 00:10:07.196 --> 00:10:09.165
  • Like he was about to explode. he said, “i told you, no
  • 00:10:09.231 --> 00:10:10.933
  • He said, “i told you, no water in the bag. what are
  • 00:10:11.000 --> 00:10:12.468
  • Water in the bag. what are you doing?” i thought, “i'm
  • 00:10:12.535 --> 00:10:14.737
  • You doing?” i thought, “i'm going on a trip. i'm not in
  • 00:10:14.804 --> 00:10:16.038
  • Going on a trip. i'm not in boot camp.” besides i didn't
  • 00:10:16.105 --> 00:10:17.640
  • Boot camp.” besides i didn't put any water in my bag.
  • 00:10:17.707 --> 00:10:20.643
  • Put any water in my bag. there was a beautiful, blonde
  • 00:10:20.710 --> 00:10:22.211
  • There was a beautiful, blonde haired girl i was traveling
  • 00:10:22.278 --> 00:10:23.245
  • Haired girl i was traveling with. i wanted to say, “it's
  • 00:10:23.312 --> 00:10:25.081
  • With. i wanted to say, “it's her fault.” i just smiled and
  • 00:10:25.147 --> 00:10:27.283
  • Her fault.” i just smiled and said, “sorry about that.” he
  • 00:10:27.349 --> 00:10:28.884
  • Said, “sorry about that.” he put the bag back through the
  • 00:10:28.951 --> 00:10:30.019
  • Put the bag back through the screening. a co-worker came
  • 00:10:30.086 --> 00:10:31.687
  • Screening. a co-worker came over and whispered in his
  • 00:10:31.754 --> 00:10:32.788
  • Over and whispered in his ear, “that's pastor osteen.”
  • 00:10:32.855 --> 00:10:35.324
  • Ear, “that's pastor osteen.” he turned around and said,
  • 00:10:35.391 --> 00:10:36.258
  • He turned around and said, “pastor osteen, how are you,
  • 00:10:36.325 --> 00:10:37.426
  • “pastor osteen, how are you, my friend?” i wanted to say,
  • 00:10:37.493 --> 00:10:40.396
  • My friend?” i wanted to say, “get behind me satan.” he
  • 00:10:40.463 --> 00:10:41.697
  • “get behind me satan.” he said, “i watch you every
  • 00:10:41.764 --> 00:10:43.833
  • Said, “i watch you every week.” i thought, “it's not
  • 00:10:43.899 --> 00:10:47.203
  • Week.” i thought, “it's not working at all.”
  • 00:10:47.269 --> 00:10:51.640
  • Working at all.” my point is life is too short
  • 00:10:51.707 --> 00:10:53.776
  • My point is life is too short to let other people dump
  • 00:10:53.843 --> 00:10:55.811
  • To let other people dump their garbage on you. you
  • 00:10:55.878 --> 00:10:58.247
  • Their garbage on you. you can't stop it from happening,
  • 00:10:58.314 --> 00:10:59.682
  • Can't stop it from happening, but you can release it and
  • 00:10:59.749 --> 00:11:01.283
  • But you can release it and move forward. some people
  • 00:11:01.350 --> 00:11:04.587
  • Move forward. some people have all this hurt, anger,
  • 00:11:04.653 --> 00:11:07.389
  • Have all this hurt, anger, offense, what didn't work
  • 00:11:07.456 --> 00:11:09.125
  • Offense, what didn't work out, who did them wrong.
  • 00:11:09.191 --> 00:11:10.760
  • Out, who did them wrong. because they never let
  • 00:11:10.826 --> 00:11:12.161
  • Because they never let anything go, like a big
  • 00:11:12.228 --> 00:11:14.196
  • Anything go, like a big garbage can, they're carrying
  • 00:11:14.263 --> 00:11:16.298
  • Garbage can, they're carrying around all this trash.
  • 00:11:16.365 --> 00:11:18.200
  • Around all this trash. sometimes they'll try to dump
  • 00:11:18.267 --> 00:11:19.435
  • Sometimes they'll try to dump their garbage on you. you
  • 00:11:19.502 --> 00:11:21.203
  • Their garbage on you. you have to be smart enough to
  • 00:11:21.270 --> 00:11:22.972
  • Have to be smart enough to say, “no thanks. you can dump
  • 00:11:23.038 --> 00:11:24.273
  • Say, “no thanks. you can dump it but i'm not going to take
  • 00:11:24.340 --> 00:11:25.474
  • It but i'm not going to take it. i'm going to stay in
  • 00:11:25.541 --> 00:11:26.609
  • It. i'm going to stay in peace and enjoy this day.”
  • 00:11:26.675 --> 00:11:28.978
  • Peace and enjoy this day.” i've known people that were
  • 00:11:29.044 --> 00:11:30.479
  • I've known people that were talented, they had favor, but
  • 00:11:30.546 --> 00:11:34.650
  • Talented, they had favor, but they got distracted by what
  • 00:11:34.717 --> 00:11:35.718
  • They got distracted by what people were saying, bitter
  • 00:11:35.785 --> 00:11:37.086
  • People were saying, bitter over who did them wrong,
  • 00:11:37.153 --> 00:11:38.354
  • Over who did them wrong, trying to prove to people
  • 00:11:38.420 --> 00:11:39.388
  • Trying to prove to people they were not what was said.
  • 00:11:39.455 --> 00:11:41.557
  • They were not what was said. they became defensive, harsh,
  • 00:11:41.624 --> 00:11:44.160
  • They became defensive, harsh, critical. it was all born out
  • 00:11:44.226 --> 00:11:46.362
  • Critical. it was all born out of an offense that they
  • 00:11:46.428 --> 00:11:47.963
  • Of an offense that they didn't let go of. if you hold
  • 00:11:48.030 --> 00:11:50.332
  • Didn't let go of. if you hold on to offenses, they'll begin
  • 00:11:50.399 --> 00:11:52.001
  • On to offenses, they'll begin to change who you are. but if
  • 00:11:52.067 --> 00:11:54.570
  • To change who you are. but if you'll be a david and walk
  • 00:11:54.637 --> 00:11:56.672
  • You'll be a david and walk away from the eliab's, walk
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  • Away from the eliab's, walk away from the insults, the
  • 00:11:58.507 --> 00:12:00.376
  • Away from the insults, the disrespect, then god can
  • 00:12:00.442 --> 00:12:01.977
  • Disrespect, then god can trust you with more. we have
  • 00:12:02.044 --> 00:12:04.246
  • Trust you with more. we have to pass these tests. when
  • 00:12:04.313 --> 00:12:06.282
  • To pass these tests. when offense comes that's an
  • 00:12:06.348 --> 00:12:07.883
  • Offense comes that's an opportunity to show god what
  • 00:12:07.950 --> 00:12:09.952
  • Opportunity to show god what you're made of. the easy
  • 00:12:10.019 --> 00:12:11.654
  • You're made of. the easy thing is get offended, be
  • 00:12:11.720 --> 00:12:13.856
  • Thing is get offended, be rude to someone that's rude
  • 00:12:13.923 --> 00:12:15.558
  • Rude to someone that's rude back to you, live upset,
  • 00:12:15.624 --> 00:12:17.893
  • Back to you, live upset, bitter, angry. that's the
  • 00:12:17.960 --> 00:12:19.728
  • Bitter, angry. that's the carnal way to handle it, but
  • 00:12:19.795 --> 00:12:21.764
  • Carnal way to handle it, but we're supposed to walk by the
  • 00:12:21.831 --> 00:12:22.765
  • We're supposed to walk by the spirit and not the flesh.
  • 00:12:22.832 --> 00:12:25.801
  • Spirit and not the flesh. when you say, “no thanks, i'm
  • 00:12:25.868 --> 00:12:27.002
  • When you say, “no thanks, i'm not taking the offense. god,
  • 00:12:27.069 --> 00:12:28.971
  • Not taking the offense. god, you're in control. i'm going
  • 00:12:29.038 --> 00:12:30.406
  • You're in control. i'm going to release it and keep moving
  • 00:12:30.472 --> 00:12:31.674
  • To release it and keep moving forward.” that's when god can
  • 00:12:31.740 --> 00:12:33.275
  • Forward.” that's when god can trust you with more.
  • 00:12:33.342 --> 00:12:35.110
  • Trust you with more. he'll never let you face
  • 00:12:35.177 --> 00:12:36.679
  • He'll never let you face situations that are too much
  • 00:12:36.745 --> 00:12:38.681
  • Situations that are too much for you to handle. next time
  • 00:12:38.747 --> 00:12:40.816
  • For you to handle. next time you're tempted to get upset,
  • 00:12:40.883 --> 00:12:43.219
  • You're tempted to get upset, be offended, pay somebody
  • 00:12:43.285 --> 00:12:44.987
  • Be offended, pay somebody back, try a different
  • 00:12:45.054 --> 00:12:46.388
  • Back, try a different approach. “i can handle this.
  • 00:12:46.455 --> 00:12:48.657
  • Approach. “i can handle this. i have the grace for where i
  • 00:12:48.724 --> 00:12:50.159
  • I have the grace for where i am. i'm going to stay cool,
  • 00:12:50.226 --> 00:12:51.694
  • Am. i'm going to stay cool, remain calm and let god fight
  • 00:12:51.760 --> 00:12:54.129
  • Remain calm and let god fight my battles.” that's passing
  • 00:12:54.196 --> 00:12:56.198
  • My battles.” that's passing the test. that's keeping your
  • 00:12:56.265 --> 00:12:58.400
  • The test. that's keeping your heart pure. that's when
  • 00:12:58.467 --> 00:12:59.869
  • Heart pure. that's when you'll see god. you'll see
  • 00:12:59.935 --> 00:13:01.403
  • You'll see god. you'll see his blessing, his favor, his
  • 00:13:01.470 --> 00:13:02.671
  • His blessing, his favor, his goodness on your life in a
  • 00:13:02.738 --> 00:13:04.240
  • Goodness on your life in a new way.”
  • 00:13:04.306 --> 00:13:06.041
  • New way.” in the position i'm in, in
  • 00:13:06.108 --> 00:13:06.976
  • In the position i'm in, in front of a lot of people,
  • 00:13:07.042 --> 00:13:08.878
  • Front of a lot of people, there are many opinions,
  • 00:13:08.944 --> 00:13:10.379
  • There are many opinions, people that don't understand,
  • 00:13:10.446 --> 00:13:11.347
  • People that don't understand, that mischaracterize, say
  • 00:13:11.413 --> 00:13:13.249
  • That mischaracterize, say things that are not true. i
  • 00:13:13.315 --> 00:13:15.484
  • Things that are not true. i do what i'm asking you to do.
  • 00:13:15.551 --> 00:13:17.453
  • Do what i'm asking you to do. i don't pay any attention to
  • 00:13:17.519 --> 00:13:19.088
  • I don't pay any attention to it. i'm not offended. i don't
  • 00:13:19.154 --> 00:13:20.923
  • It. i'm not offended. i don't let that poison get in. life
  • 00:13:20.990 --> 00:13:22.992
  • Let that poison get in. life is good. i'm happy. god has
  • 00:13:23.058 --> 00:13:25.127
  • Is good. i'm happy. god has blessed me more than i can
  • 00:13:25.194 --> 00:13:26.729
  • Blessed me more than i can imagine. your time is too
  • 00:13:26.795 --> 00:13:28.797
  • Imagine. your time is too valuable, god's been too good
  • 00:13:28.864 --> 00:13:31.066
  • Valuable, god's been too good to you to live offended,
  • 00:13:31.133 --> 00:13:33.335
  • To you to live offended, discouraged over what they
  • 00:13:33.402 --> 00:13:34.603
  • Discouraged over what they said, bitter who left you
  • 00:13:34.670 --> 00:13:36.205
  • Said, bitter who left you out. rise above that. people
  • 00:13:36.272 --> 00:13:38.641
  • Out. rise above that. people can say what they want but if
  • 00:13:38.707 --> 00:13:40.476
  • Can say what they want but if you don't let it in, it's
  • 00:13:40.542 --> 00:13:42.044
  • You don't let it in, it's like water off of a duck's
  • 00:13:42.111 --> 00:13:43.279
  • Like water off of a duck's back. it has no effect. don't
  • 00:13:43.345 --> 00:13:45.748
  • Back. it has no effect. don't let the negative chatter,
  • 00:13:45.814 --> 00:13:47.850
  • Let the negative chatter, people that are never going
  • 00:13:47.917 --> 00:13:49.285
  • People that are never going to be for you get you
  • 00:13:49.351 --> 00:13:50.853
  • To be for you get you distracted fighting battles
  • 00:13:50.920 --> 00:13:52.721
  • Distracted fighting battles that don't matter, bitter
  • 00:13:52.788 --> 00:13:54.390
  • That don't matter, bitter over people that are not a
  • 00:13:54.456 --> 00:13:55.925
  • Over people that are not a part of your destiny. worried
  • 00:13:55.991 --> 00:13:57.459
  • Part of your destiny. worried about what someone thinks
  • 00:13:57.526 --> 00:13:59.094
  • About what someone thinks that's never going to
  • 00:13:59.161 --> 00:14:00.029
  • That's never going to understand you. that's the
  • 00:14:00.095 --> 00:14:01.830
  • Understand you. that's the enemy trying to use those
  • 00:14:01.897 --> 00:14:03.565
  • Enemy trying to use those offenses to poison your
  • 00:14:03.632 --> 00:14:05.401
  • Offenses to poison your spirit and deceive you into
  • 00:14:05.467 --> 00:14:07.269
  • Spirit and deceive you into changing who you are. keep
  • 00:14:07.336 --> 00:14:09.571
  • Changing who you are. keep your heart pure. ignore it.
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  • Your heart pure. ignore it. they have issues they haven't
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  • They have issues they haven't dealt with, that's why
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  • Dealt with, that's why they're spewing the poison.
  • 00:14:14.677 --> 00:14:16.245
  • They're spewing the poison. they don't like themselves,
  • 00:14:16.312 --> 00:14:17.579
  • They don't like themselves, how are they going to like
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  • How are they going to like you? release it and move
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  • You? release it and move forward.
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  • Forward. when jesus told his disciples
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  • When jesus told his disciples they were going to have to
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  • They were going to have to forgive an offense seven
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  • Forgive an offense seven times a day. the next thing
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  • Times a day. the next thing they said was, “lord,
  • 00:14:28.757 --> 00:14:29.925
  • They said was, “lord, increase our faith.” they
  • 00:14:29.992 --> 00:14:31.994
  • Increase our faith.” they didn't pray, “god increase
  • 00:14:32.061 --> 00:14:33.729
  • Didn't pray, “god increase our faith so we can do bigger
  • 00:14:33.796 --> 00:14:35.831
  • Our faith so we can do bigger miracles, increase our faith
  • 00:14:35.898 --> 00:14:37.299
  • Miracles, increase our faith so we can have a bigger
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  • So we can have a bigger vision.” they said increase
  • 00:14:38.867 --> 00:14:41.203
  • Vision.” they said increase our faith so we can forgive
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  • Our faith so we can forgive the wrongs, so we can let go
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  • The wrongs, so we can let go of the offenses, so we can
  • 00:14:45.107 --> 00:14:46.508
  • Of the offenses, so we can keep these toxins out.
  • 00:14:46.575 --> 00:14:49.278
  • Keep these toxins out. sometimes, it takes more
  • 00:14:49.345 --> 00:14:50.646
  • Sometimes, it takes more faith to keep your heart pure
  • 00:14:50.713 --> 00:14:52.681
  • Faith to keep your heart pure than it does to accomplish a
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  • Than it does to accomplish a dream. we're praying for
  • 00:14:54.216 --> 00:14:56.151
  • Dream. we're praying for faith for a breakthrough,
  • 00:14:56.218 --> 00:14:57.920
  • Faith for a breakthrough, faith for a new level, that's
  • 00:14:57.987 --> 00:14:59.254
  • Faith for a new level, that's good, i believe in that; but
  • 00:14:59.321 --> 00:15:00.356
  • Good, i believe in that; but like these disciples, have
  • 00:15:00.422 --> 00:15:02.658
  • Like these disciples, have you ever prayed, “god,
  • 00:15:02.725 --> 00:15:03.926
  • You ever prayed, “god, increase my faith so i can
  • 00:15:03.993 --> 00:15:05.928
  • Increase my faith so i can let go of the hurts. increase
  • 00:15:05.995 --> 00:15:08.030
  • Let go of the hurts. increase my faith so i can forgive
  • 00:15:08.097 --> 00:15:09.765
  • My faith so i can forgive this person that betrayed me.
  • 00:15:09.832 --> 00:15:12.201
  • This person that betrayed me. god increase my faith so i
  • 00:15:12.267 --> 00:15:13.569
  • God increase my faith so i can keep my heart pure and
  • 00:15:13.635 --> 00:15:15.204
  • Can keep my heart pure and keep moving forward with my
  • 00:15:15.270 --> 00:15:16.805
  • Keep moving forward with my life.”
  • 00:15:16.872 --> 00:15:18.807
  • Life.” one time my father received a
  • 00:15:18.874 --> 00:15:20.175
  • One time my father received a letter in the mail from a
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  • Letter in the mail from a minister in another country.
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  • Minister in another country. this minister was very
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  • This minister was very prominent and well known. the
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  • Prominent and well known. the letter was very hurtful and
  • 00:15:27.016 --> 00:15:28.684
  • Letter was very hurtful and condemning. my father had
  • 00:15:28.751 --> 00:15:30.619
  • Condemning. my father had been married early in life
  • 00:15:30.686 --> 00:15:32.955
  • Been married early in life and went through a divorce.
  • 00:15:33.022 --> 00:15:34.523
  • And went through a divorce. this minister was telling him
  • 00:15:34.590 --> 00:15:36.058
  • This minister was telling him how he was not qualified and
  • 00:15:36.125 --> 00:15:37.826
  • How he was not qualified and how he shouldn't be
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  • How he shouldn't be pastoring. he accused my
  • 00:15:39.061 --> 00:15:40.763
  • Pastoring. he accused my father of things that weren't
  • 00:15:40.829 --> 00:15:42.297
  • Father of things that weren't true, people just stirring up
  • 00:15:42.364 --> 00:15:43.766
  • True, people just stirring up trouble, spreading rumors. my
  • 00:15:43.832 --> 00:15:46.201
  • Trouble, spreading rumors. my father was very offended. he
  • 00:15:46.268 --> 00:15:48.404
  • Father was very offended. he thought, “this is not right.”
  • 00:15:48.470 --> 00:15:50.005
  • Thought, “this is not right.” so, he wrote the man a letter
  • 00:15:50.072 --> 00:15:51.440
  • So, he wrote the man a letter back that was just as strong
  • 00:15:51.507 --> 00:15:53.442
  • Back that was just as strong and forceful, telling him,
  • 00:15:53.509 --> 00:15:55.411
  • And forceful, telling him, “who do you think you are?
  • 00:15:55.477 --> 00:15:56.979
  • “who do you think you are? you don't even know what
  • 00:15:57.046 --> 00:15:57.913
  • You don't even know what you're talking about. you
  • 00:15:57.980 --> 00:15:59.081
  • You're talking about. you should mind your own
  • 00:15:59.148 --> 00:15:59.915
  • Should mind your own business.” and on and on. my
  • 00:15:59.982 --> 00:16:01.016
  • Business.” and on and on. my father sealed the envelope,
  • 00:16:01.083 --> 00:16:03.285
  • Father sealed the envelope, put the stamp on it and
  • 00:16:03.352 --> 00:16:04.586
  • Put the stamp on it and walked out to the mailbox.
  • 00:16:04.653 --> 00:16:06.889
  • Walked out to the mailbox. when he put it in the mail,
  • 00:16:06.955 --> 00:16:08.157
  • When he put it in the mail, he heard a voice saying, “you
  • 00:16:08.223 --> 00:16:09.591
  • He heard a voice saying, “you got him back didn't you?”
  • 00:16:09.658 --> 00:16:11.827
  • Got him back didn't you?” daddy said, “i sure did.” the
  • 00:16:11.894 --> 00:16:14.129
  • Daddy said, “i sure did.” the voice said, “you set him
  • 00:16:14.196 --> 00:16:15.097
  • Voice said, “you set him straight didn't you?” daddy
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  • Straight didn't you?” daddy said, “yes ,i did.” then the
  • 00:16:16.265 --> 00:16:18.033
  • Said, “yes ,i did.” then the voice said, “you repaid evil
  • 00:16:18.100 --> 00:16:20.135
  • Voice said, “you repaid evil for evil, didn't you?” my
  • 00:16:20.202 --> 00:16:23.605
  • For evil, didn't you?” my father realized that was god
  • 00:16:23.672 --> 00:16:24.706
  • Father realized that was god speaking to him. he felt
  • 00:16:24.773 --> 00:16:26.675
  • Speaking to him. he felt convicted. he was drawn into
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  • Convicted. he was drawn into a battle that he wasn't
  • 00:16:28.744 --> 00:16:30.312
  • A battle that he wasn't supposed to engage in. that
  • 00:16:30.379 --> 00:16:32.514
  • Supposed to engage in. that offense was starting to take
  • 00:16:32.581 --> 00:16:34.049
  • Offense was starting to take root. the scripture says,
  • 00:16:34.116 --> 00:16:35.551
  • Root. the scripture says, “you overcome evil with
  • 00:16:35.617 --> 00:16:37.319
  • “you overcome evil with good.” when you're offended,
  • 00:16:37.386 --> 00:16:40.656
  • Good.” when you're offended, you never win by returning
  • 00:16:40.722 --> 00:16:42.124
  • You never win by returning the offense. all that's doing
  • 00:16:42.191 --> 00:16:44.426
  • The offense. all that's doing is poisoning your spirit. you
  • 00:16:44.493 --> 00:16:47.096
  • Is poisoning your spirit. you overcome offenses by letting
  • 00:16:47.162 --> 00:16:48.030
  • Overcome offenses by letting them go, not responding, not
  • 00:16:48.097 --> 00:16:51.600
  • Them go, not responding, not dwelling on it, not letting
  • 00:16:51.667 --> 00:16:53.202
  • Dwelling on it, not letting that poison in. he walked
  • 00:16:53.268 --> 00:16:54.970
  • That poison in. he walked back to the mailbox and tore
  • 00:16:55.037 --> 00:16:56.605
  • Back to the mailbox and tore the letter up, never sent it.
  • 00:16:56.672 --> 00:16:59.174
  • The letter up, never sent it. sixteen years later, that man
  • 00:16:59.241 --> 00:17:01.076
  • Sixteen years later, that man showed up at lakewood. he
  • 00:17:01.143 --> 00:17:02.578
  • Showed up at lakewood. he said to my father, with big
  • 00:17:02.644 --> 00:17:04.246
  • Said to my father, with big tears running down his
  • 00:17:04.313 --> 00:17:05.347
  • Tears running down his cheeks, “i'm so sorry about
  • 00:17:05.414 --> 00:17:07.216
  • Cheeks, “i'm so sorry about that letter. i was wrong. i
  • 00:17:07.282 --> 00:17:09.718
  • That letter. i was wrong. i had been hurt and in that
  • 00:17:09.785 --> 00:17:11.520
  • Had been hurt and in that anger, i lashed out at you.”
  • 00:17:11.587 --> 00:17:14.256
  • Anger, i lashed out at you.” he asked my father to forgive
  • 00:17:14.323 --> 00:17:15.491
  • He asked my father to forgive him, and their relationship
  • 00:17:15.557 --> 00:17:16.859
  • Him, and their relationship was restored. that was a test
  • 00:17:16.925 --> 00:17:19.294
  • Was restored. that was a test my father had to pass. had he
  • 00:17:19.361 --> 00:17:22.631
  • My father had to pass. had he let that offense take root
  • 00:17:22.698 --> 00:17:24.533
  • Let that offense take root and begin to change. become
  • 00:17:24.600 --> 00:17:27.136
  • And begin to change. become bitter, vindictive, angry,
  • 00:17:27.202 --> 00:17:29.371
  • Bitter, vindictive, angry, he would have never seen
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  • He would have never seen god's favor and blessing like
  • 00:17:31.273 --> 00:17:32.374
  • God's favor and blessing like he did. when an offense
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  • He did. when an offense comes, you're dealing with
  • 00:17:34.910 --> 00:17:36.311
  • Comes, you're dealing with something very powerful. that
  • 00:17:36.378 --> 00:17:38.347
  • Something very powerful. that seed is alive. if you let it
  • 00:17:38.413 --> 00:17:40.682
  • Seed is alive. if you let it get in you, what's ironic is
  • 00:17:40.749 --> 00:17:42.618
  • Get in you, what's ironic is you will become what you
  • 00:17:42.684 --> 00:17:44.720
  • You will become what you don't like. my father would
  • 00:17:44.786 --> 00:17:46.588
  • Don't like. my father would have become like that man,
  • 00:17:46.655 --> 00:17:48.357
  • Have become like that man, harsh, angry, judgmental. you
  • 00:17:48.423 --> 00:17:51.160
  • Harsh, angry, judgmental. you can't take offense lightly.
  • 00:17:51.226 --> 00:17:53.162
  • Can't take offense lightly. that seed can change your
  • 00:17:53.228 --> 00:17:54.363
  • That seed can change your nature, sour your attitude,
  • 00:17:54.429 --> 00:17:56.498
  • Nature, sour your attitude, limit your vision.
  • 00:17:56.565 --> 00:17:59.134
  • Limit your vision. in the book of esther, there
  • 00:17:59.201 --> 00:18:00.435
  • In the book of esther, there was a man named haaman. he
  • 00:18:00.502 --> 00:18:02.337
  • Was a man named haaman. he worked for the king. he was
  • 00:18:02.404 --> 00:18:03.639
  • Worked for the king. he was promoted to prime minister,
  • 00:18:03.705 --> 00:18:05.641
  • Promoted to prime minister, making him the most powerful
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  • Making him the most powerful person in the persian empire
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  • Person in the persian empire next to the king. he had all
  • 00:18:09.278 --> 00:18:12.447
  • Next to the king. he had all this authority, respect and
  • 00:18:12.514 --> 00:18:14.249
  • This authority, respect and honor. he wore a ring that
  • 00:18:14.316 --> 00:18:16.118
  • Honor. he wore a ring that had the king's seal on it.
  • 00:18:16.185 --> 00:18:18.320
  • Had the king's seal on it. when he passed by, people
  • 00:18:18.387 --> 00:18:20.088
  • When he passed by, people would bow down to show their
  • 00:18:20.155 --> 00:18:21.490
  • Would bow down to show their honor. but there was a man
  • 00:18:21.557 --> 00:18:23.926
  • Honor. but there was a man named mordecai that wouldn't
  • 00:18:23.992 --> 00:18:25.594
  • Named mordecai that wouldn't bow down. this made haaman so
  • 00:18:25.661 --> 00:18:27.829
  • Bow down. this made haaman so upset. he was so offended.
  • 00:18:27.896 --> 00:18:30.399
  • Upset. he was so offended. the scripture says, “he was
  • 00:18:30.465 --> 00:18:32.201
  • The scripture says, “he was filled with rage.” he
  • 00:18:32.267 --> 00:18:33.802
  • Filled with rage.” he couldn't sleep at night,
  • 00:18:33.869 --> 00:18:35.604
  • Couldn't sleep at night, couldn't enjoy his family,
  • 00:18:35.671 --> 00:18:36.939
  • Couldn't enjoy his family, didn't appreciate his
  • 00:18:37.005 --> 00:18:38.073
  • Didn't appreciate his position, all because one man
  • 00:18:38.140 --> 00:18:40.976
  • Position, all because one man wouldn't bow down, one man
  • 00:18:41.043 --> 00:18:43.045
  • Wouldn't bow down, one man wouldn't show respect. he
  • 00:18:43.111 --> 00:18:44.846
  • Wouldn't show respect. he could have said, “big deal.
  • 00:18:44.913 --> 00:18:47.082
  • Could have said, “big deal. you won't bow. that doesn't
  • 00:18:47.149 --> 00:18:47.816
  • You won't bow. that doesn't change me. i'm the prime
  • 00:18:47.883 --> 00:18:48.917
  • Change me. i'm the prime minister.” but he said in
  • 00:18:48.984 --> 00:18:51.286
  • Minister.” but he said in chapter 5, “all this honor is
  • 00:18:51.353 --> 00:18:53.722
  • Chapter 5, “all this honor is meaningless, as long as i see
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  • Meaningless, as long as i see mordecai sitting at the
  • 00:18:56.058 --> 00:18:57.326
  • Mordecai sitting at the gate.” he had all the
  • 00:18:57.392 --> 00:18:59.161
  • Gate.” he had all the blessing, favor, he was
  • 00:18:59.228 --> 00:19:00.929
  • Blessing, favor, he was leading the country, but one
  • 00:19:00.996 --> 00:19:02.764
  • Leading the country, but one man wouldn't respect him.
  • 00:19:02.831 --> 00:19:05.234
  • Man wouldn't respect him. instead of ignoring it, not
  • 00:19:05.300 --> 00:19:06.568
  • Instead of ignoring it, not paying it any attention,
  • 00:19:06.635 --> 00:19:08.337
  • Paying it any attention, moving forward, that's all he
  • 00:19:08.403 --> 00:19:10.372
  • Moving forward, that's all he focused on. he ended up
  • 00:19:10.439 --> 00:19:12.241
  • Focused on. he ended up losing his position and
  • 00:19:12.307 --> 00:19:13.709
  • Losing his position and losing his life.
  • 00:19:13.775 --> 00:19:15.811
  • Losing his life. if you allow offense in, it
  • 00:19:15.877 --> 00:19:17.646
  • If you allow offense in, it can cause you to lose
  • 00:19:17.713 --> 00:19:19.081
  • Can cause you to lose perspective, blow things out
  • 00:19:19.147 --> 00:19:20.882
  • Perspective, blow things out of proportion, fight battles
  • 00:19:20.949 --> 00:19:23.085
  • Of proportion, fight battles that don't matter. start
  • 00:19:23.151 --> 00:19:24.720
  • That don't matter. start ignoring disrespect. you
  • 00:19:24.786 --> 00:19:27.389
  • Ignoring disrespect. you can't make people like you,
  • 00:19:27.456 --> 00:19:29.324
  • Can't make people like you, make them change their mind.
  • 00:19:29.391 --> 00:19:30.993
  • Make them change their mind. if you stay focused on the
  • 00:19:31.059 --> 00:19:32.794
  • If you stay focused on the offense, you'll start
  • 00:19:32.861 --> 00:19:34.029
  • Offense, you'll start majoring on the minors, miss
  • 00:19:34.096 --> 00:19:36.131
  • Majoring on the minors, miss all the great things god has
  • 00:19:36.198 --> 00:19:37.766
  • All the great things god has blessed you with. that person
  • 00:19:37.833 --> 00:19:40.002
  • Blessed you with. that person at work doesn't like you.
  • 00:19:40.068 --> 00:19:41.637
  • At work doesn't like you. that's okay. you don't need
  • 00:19:41.703 --> 00:19:42.838
  • That's okay. you don't need them to like you to fulfill
  • 00:19:42.904 --> 00:19:44.406
  • Them to like you to fulfill your destiny. there are
  • 00:19:44.473 --> 00:19:46.041
  • Your destiny. there are plenty of people that do like
  • 00:19:46.108 --> 00:19:47.442
  • Plenty of people that do like you. don't become focused on
  • 00:19:47.509 --> 00:19:49.578
  • You. don't become focused on it. let it go. that's not
  • 00:19:49.645 --> 00:19:52.080
  • It. let it go. that's not your battle. the scripture
  • 00:19:52.147 --> 00:19:53.849
  • Your battle. the scripture says, “it's the little foxes
  • 00:19:53.915 --> 00:19:56.118
  • Says, “it's the little foxes that spoil the vines.” one
  • 00:19:56.184 --> 00:19:58.120
  • That spoil the vines.” one person, out of the whole
  • 00:19:58.186 --> 00:19:59.921
  • Person, out of the whole persian empire wouldn't
  • 00:19:59.988 --> 00:20:01.556
  • Persian empire wouldn't respect him and he was full
  • 00:20:01.623 --> 00:20:03.525
  • Respect him and he was full of rage. look at how out of
  • 00:20:03.592 --> 00:20:05.961
  • Of rage. look at how out of proportion things become when
  • 00:20:06.028 --> 00:20:08.563
  • Proportion things become when we let an offense take root.
  • 00:20:08.630 --> 00:20:10.699
  • We let an offense take root. are there any little foxes
  • 00:20:10.766 --> 00:20:12.434
  • Are there any little foxes that are spoiling your joy?
  • 00:20:12.501 --> 00:20:14.636
  • That are spoiling your joy? those little offenses, if you
  • 00:20:14.703 --> 00:20:16.772
  • Those little offenses, if you allow them to stay, will turn
  • 00:20:16.838 --> 00:20:18.607
  • Allow them to stay, will turn into big issues that can
  • 00:20:18.674 --> 00:20:19.975
  • Into big issues that can limit your life.
  • 00:20:20.042 --> 00:20:22.210
  • Limit your life. when my brother paul was
  • 00:20:22.277 --> 00:20:23.178
  • When my brother paul was seventeen years old, someone
  • 00:20:23.245 --> 00:20:24.680
  • Seventeen years old, someone that was a mentor to him,
  • 00:20:24.746 --> 00:20:26.682
  • That was a mentor to him, someone he looked up to, told
  • 00:20:26.748 --> 00:20:29.418
  • Someone he looked up to, told him that he didn't think paul
  • 00:20:29.484 --> 00:20:31.086
  • Him that he didn't think paul had what it took to become a
  • 00:20:31.153 --> 00:20:32.521
  • Had what it took to become a medical doctor. paul was at
  • 00:20:32.587 --> 00:20:35.057
  • Medical doctor. paul was at this vulnerable stage, very
  • 00:20:35.123 --> 00:20:37.359
  • This vulnerable stage, very impressionable. when you need
  • 00:20:37.426 --> 00:20:39.361
  • Impressionable. when you need people speaking faith over
  • 00:20:39.428 --> 00:20:40.929
  • People speaking faith over you, telling you that you can
  • 00:20:40.996 --> 00:20:42.364
  • You, telling you that you can do great things, it was just
  • 00:20:42.431 --> 00:20:43.732
  • Do great things, it was just the opposite. paul was
  • 00:20:43.799 --> 00:20:45.334
  • The opposite. paul was offended. it hurt his
  • 00:20:45.400 --> 00:20:46.601
  • Offended. it hurt his feelings, wounded his spirit.
  • 00:20:46.668 --> 00:20:49.805
  • Feelings, wounded his spirit. instead of letting it go, not
  • 00:20:49.871 --> 00:20:51.306
  • Instead of letting it go, not paying any attention, the
  • 00:20:51.373 --> 00:20:53.275
  • Paying any attention, the seed began to take root. he
  • 00:20:53.342 --> 00:20:55.377
  • Seed began to take root. he began to have this unhealthy
  • 00:20:55.444 --> 00:20:57.079
  • Began to have this unhealthy competitiveness. this drive
  • 00:20:57.145 --> 00:20:59.481
  • Competitiveness. this drive that said, “i'm going to
  • 00:20:59.548 --> 00:21:00.749
  • That said, “i'm going to prove to you who i am.” it
  • 00:21:00.816 --> 00:21:02.884
  • Prove to you who i am.” it developed into this
  • 00:21:02.951 --> 00:21:04.086
  • Developed into this underlying anger. he became
  • 00:21:04.152 --> 00:21:06.288
  • Underlying anger. he became negative, critical,
  • 00:21:06.355 --> 00:21:07.923
  • Negative, critical, judgmental. he said, “i was
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  • Judgmental. he said, “i was like a boiling furnace. if
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  • Like a boiling furnace. if you got close to me, and i
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  • You got close to me, and i opened those furnace doors,
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  • Opened those furnace doors, you were going to get
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  • You were going to get burned.” twenty years later,
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  • Burned.” twenty years later, he was talking with his
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  • He was talking with his pastor. he said, “paul why do
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  • Pastor. he said, “paul why do you have all this rage in
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  • You have all this rage in you? it's like you're about
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  • You? it's like you're about to explode.” paul's mind went
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  • To explode.” paul's mind went back to when he was seventeen
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  • Back to when he was seventeen years old, when he was told
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  • Years old, when he was told he couldn't become a doctor.
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  • He couldn't become a doctor. now he was a successful
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  • Now he was a successful surgeon. he had proved them
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  • Surgeon. he had proved them wrong, but he wasn't
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  • Wrong, but he wasn't satisfied. he still felt this
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  • Satisfied. he still felt this resentment, this anger. it
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  • Resentment, this anger. it was poisoning his life. here
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  • Was poisoning his life. here he had all these great
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  • He had all these great things, but he couldn't enjoy
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  • Things, but he couldn't enjoy it. that's how powerful
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  • It. that's how powerful offense is. if you let that
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  • Offense is. if you let that seed in, it can grow and
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  • Seed in, it can grow and become a root of bitterness,
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  • Become a root of bitterness, where it's contaminating
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  • Where it's contaminating every area of your life, your
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  • Every area of your life, your attitude, your relationships,
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  • Attitude, your relationships, your vision.
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  • Your vision. paul knew he had to dig up
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  • Paul knew he had to dig up that root. he lived in little
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  • That root. he lived in little rock, but he came to houston
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  • Rock, but he came to houston and went to the exact place
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  • And went to the exact place where that offense took root.
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  • Where that offense took root. he said, “god, today i'm
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  • He said, “god, today i'm forgiving them. i'm letting
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  • Forgiving them. i'm letting it go. i'm getting rid of
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  • It go. i'm getting rid of this offense. i'm going to
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  • This offense. i'm going to live my life free.” that day
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  • Live my life free.” that day was a turning point. he felt
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  • Was a turning point. he felt that anger, resentment begin
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  • That anger, resentment begin lift off of him. chains were
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  • Lift off of him. chains were broken. that's when he
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  • Broken. that's when he started enjoying his success,
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  • Started enjoying his success, enjoying what god blessed him
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  • Enjoying what god blessed him with.
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  • With. the psalmist said in psalm
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  • The psalmist said in psalm 73, “i didn't realize how
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  • 73, “i didn't realize how bitter i had become.” i
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  • Bitter i had become.” i wonder if we're carrying
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  • Wonder if we're carrying around offenses, anger,
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  • Around offenses, anger, resentment, we don't even
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  • Resentment, we don't even realize it. it's poisoning
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  • Realize it. it's poisoning our spirit, keeping us from
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  • Our spirit, keeping us from our dreams, limiting our
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  • Our dreams, limiting our creativity. what's causing
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  • Creativity. what's causing you to be that way? you're
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  • You to be that way? you're supposed to be free, positive
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  • Supposed to be free, positive and joyful. like paul, you
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  • And joyful. like paul, you have to get honest with
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  • Have to get honest with yourself. maybe there are
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  • Yourself. maybe there are some bitter roots you need to
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  • Some bitter roots you need to pull up. you've allowed
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  • Pull up. you've allowed offenses to stay. that's
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  • Offenses to stay. that's okay. today can be the
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  • Okay. today can be the uprooting day. today can be
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  • Uprooting day. today can be the day you let things go.
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  • The day you let things go. you forgive who hurt you, not
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  • You forgive who hurt you, not focus on what they did, not
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  • Focus on what they did, not be obsessed like hamaan, over
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  • Be obsessed like hamaan, over who's not celebrating you,
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  • Who's not celebrating you, living to prove to them who
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  • Living to prove to them who you are. you have nothing to
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  • You are. you have nothing to prove. god is proud of you.
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  • Prove. god is proud of you. god is cheering you on. he's
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  • God is cheering you on. he's going to make up for the
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  • Going to make up for the wrongs. hurts come but god
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  • Wrongs. hurts come but god heals. unfair things happen
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  • Heals. unfair things happen but god pays you back. we all
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  • But god pays you back. we all have some ashes but god gives
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  • Have some ashes but god gives you beauty for the ashes. now
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  • You beauty for the ashes. now do your part and keep the
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  • Do your part and keep the offenses out. develop this
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  • Offenses out. develop this habit of letting go and
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  • Habit of letting go and reaching forward, living in a
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  • Reaching forward, living in a continual state of
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  • Continual state of forgiveness. if you'll do
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  • Forgiveness. if you'll do this, i believe and declare,
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  • This, i believe and declare, things that have hindered you
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  • Things that have hindered you are being broken right now,
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  • Are being broken right now, offenses are being uprooted.
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  • Offenses are being uprooted. freedom is coming. greater
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  • Freedom is coming. greater joy, greater peace, greater
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  • Joy, greater peace, greater favor, the fullness of your
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  • Favor, the fullness of your destiny, in jesus' name. if
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  • Destiny, in jesus' name. if you receive it, can you say
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  • You receive it, can you say amen? (applause)
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  • Depressed, defeated. is it possible
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  • Is it possible to turn these negatives
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  • To turn these negatives into an outlook
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  • Into an outlook filled with purpose,
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  • Filled with purpose, happiness and joy?
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  • Happiness and joy? every day we make choices.
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  • Every day we make choices. how we see ourselves,
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